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Speaker 1: My husband is furious that I went on a date

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Speaker 2: I don't know who to be mad at yet.

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Speaker 1: I thirty female, come from a family with lots and

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Speaker 1: lots of divorces and messy breakups. However, as little girl,

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Speaker 1: I grew up with a loving mom, dad and baby sister.

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Speaker 1: I think your term is nuclear family. By the way,

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Speaker 1: this comes from Creative Sky ten forty nine on the

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Speaker 2: So I wrote it.

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Speaker 1: So when I turned fifteen, my mom had an affair

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Speaker 1: with another man and was in love with the feeling

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Speaker 2: In love with being in love is rough. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: pretty much.

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Speaker 1: It's just this is being addicted to the beginning parts

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Speaker 1: I was dumb struck. I didn't believe in love anymore,

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Speaker 1: and with all the crap that happened after, I had

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Speaker 1: a hard time seeing myself in a relationship fair enough. Nonetheless,

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Speaker 1: I dated and found that a semi open relationship worked

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Speaker 1: best for me. This will be important later on. Now

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Speaker 1: to the real story of me being an a hole.

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Speaker 1: I met my now ex husband when I was nineteen

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Speaker 1: he was twenty nine. I was attracted him in his stability, morals, personality,

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Speaker 1: and work ethic. He wasn't a supermodel by looks, but

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Speaker 1: a lots. As we got more serious, I had to

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Speaker 1: talk with him and told him about my take on relationships.

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Speaker 2: He was okay with it. Okay, we would.

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Speaker 1: Respect each other, tell each other everything, and the other

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Speaker 1: could always say no to a potential date outside our relationship.

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Speaker 2: And everything was fine.

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Speaker 1: We soon moved in together at his place, and as

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Speaker 1: we grew closer, we started talking about having a family.

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Speaker 1: I eventually got pregnant after one and a half years,

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Speaker 1: and we had the talk. I guess about the family grown.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to change our relationship, and he again

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Speaker 1: was okay with that.

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Speaker 2: Everything was okay. So his seal of approval is firmly stamped.

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Speaker 1: It's stamped each time on this range. Well, my bump

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Speaker 1: started to show. He started withdrawing himself. He didn't want

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Speaker 1: and they stopped complimenting me. M I had a lot

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Speaker 1: going on in my pregnancy, so I shrugged it off.

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Speaker 1: As him not wanting to hurt me. Now for contexts, I've.

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Speaker 2: Always been slim, fit, small, boobyed, and had wide hips.

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Speaker 2: Out of all the ways you could have done that,

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Speaker 2: you show.

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Speaker 3: Immature way to do it, which.

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Speaker 2: Small milkers.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry, small chested, small bazankas. Actually you let to

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Speaker 1: go shooting yourself in the alright, anyway I had, I

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Speaker 1: had small sandbags.

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Speaker 3: Just say breasts at this point, for God's sakes, small brosion.

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, I didn't catch that reference.

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Speaker 1: You haven't seen the movie. I'm not in stories, and

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Speaker 1: had wide hips. I gained a lot of weight due

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Speaker 1: and I, however, lost much of the weight gained in

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Speaker 1: the first year of motherhood.

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Speaker 2: My sister got bizonka. Hell yeah, that actually, my that's appropriate.

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Speaker 3: When you're talking about implants, you call them bozongas well.

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Speaker 1: I was pregnant and I was happy for her. I

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Speaker 1: see you, I see you. Oh no, oh no. She

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Speaker 1: always wanted it and I supported her. This will matter

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Speaker 1: later the story. No, as I lost extra weight and

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Speaker 3: No, not the right use of bozonga. You don't use

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Speaker 3: it when it's about breastfeeding, or just say breastfeeding, not

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Speaker 3: a woga feeding.

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Speaker 2: Just say it. Say it with me ready, like.

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Speaker 4: The cartoonaga read the storyy, I lost a lot of

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Speaker 4: my temporary volume in my bizoga.

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Speaker 2: That one just said chest.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm literally dealing with children right now, basoga.

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Speaker 1: I never had big before, so I didn't think anything

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Speaker 2: Did Big basketballs Now?

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Speaker 1: My partner and father of my baby boy, however, noticed

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Speaker 1: and instead of saying something indirect to me, he now

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Speaker 3: And I like how you flipped up the vowels there too,

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Speaker 3: like tight and looking into the cost of such an operation.

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Speaker 1: I never wanted implants, mind you. He still didn't spend

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Speaker 1: He felt he couldn't be attracted to me since my

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Speaker 2: Boo this manoo.

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Speaker 1: A few years later, he popped the question. It was awkward,

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Speaker 1: but that's another story, I said, guess because even though

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Speaker 1: make things work. We then again had the talk. We

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Speaker 3: But you just had the talk where you weren't going

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Speaker 2: He got more attentive and loving. Oh oh, he started

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Speaker 2: complimenting me and suddenly wanted to have another baby. Okay,

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Speaker 1: We got married, and the next summer we had a big,

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Speaker 1: Everything seemed perfect. Though after a mother being married, he

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Speaker 1: goes back to his old ways and starts ignoring me,

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Speaker 1: and worst of all, he ignores his son. What what

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Speaker 1: he needs time off?

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Speaker 2: But what is this guy? Who is this guy who

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Speaker 2: wants her own son?

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Speaker 1: Throughout our whole relationship, we've been able to chat and

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Speaker 1: flirt with others without worry. If one of us wanted

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Speaker 1: to go on a date with someone, we should consult

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Speaker 1: each other first. I've never felt the need to go

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Speaker 1: He even liked it. Oh wow. I've never read his

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Speaker 2: I just trusted him.

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Speaker 1: When he started ignoring me and my son, I felt

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Speaker 2: No longer happy in my life. Of course you would.

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Speaker 1: I tried to talk to my husband about it, but

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Speaker 1: he didn't care. If I wanted attention, I could find

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Speaker 2: Get It's like, oh yeah, it's.

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Speaker 3: Just like a weird, gross thing to lay on someone

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Speaker 3: to be like you have to do this'.

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Speaker 2: I just don't see myself being with you.

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Speaker 1: It's like Nicole Ah says, if he wants implants so much,

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Speaker 2: Own good idea.

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Speaker 3: Is that why you wanted to get back like he

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Speaker 3: wanted her to have another baby. I think because he

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Speaker 3: wanted to, like have he wanted to test drive again? Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he's like, he's like, the first time a round, I

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Speaker 3: didn't get a good. Sure, I want to get you

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Speaker 2: Those what boobs I want? Oh oh a waste? Oh god,

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Speaker 2: that I was loud, go I don't know on the floor, look.

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Speaker 3: At oh oh Jesus Christ Siam, thank god the French

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Speaker 2: Everybody. Sam gets back from Mexico and goes, where did

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Speaker 5: You're just adding more time now, so.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so much time. We'll look for that later. Remindus, Chap,

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Speaker 1: I'll remember. Don't worry, all right.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it's so sad. Jesus, Oh no, there's no way.

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Speaker 3: You almost chipped your twos on a gummy worm and

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Speaker 3: then tried to just lock back in like that lock

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Speaker 1: Simultaneously, I now twenty five. Wow, like she's young.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh.

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Speaker 1: Get a new colleague, male forty two who appreciates my

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Speaker 1: input and intellect. We start having friendly conversations. He one

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 1: I worked in production and had only male colleagues. I

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Speaker 1: thank you. After a few months with his new friendship,

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Speaker 1: I started to feel attracted to him, oh oh, oh baby,

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Speaker 2: It begins.

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Speaker 1: I talked to my husband about it, and he okayed it.

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Speaker 1: Just wanted to keep just wanted to be kept in

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Speaker 3: That's such a weird as I gotta talk to my

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Speaker 3: that's completely reasonable.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, my husband again says fine. I go on

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Speaker 1: I feel attractive, sexy. Appreciate it. He tells me all

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Speaker 3: He tells her, like your bajingas just the right sish

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Speaker 2: We'll bigive a little fuck old whoa, whoa.

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Speaker 3: It's too far on the first date, even though I'm

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Speaker 3: in an open marriage.

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Speaker 2: Take it slow. I gotta ask my husband if you

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Speaker 2: can do that. Hey, Kean, don't look at me like that. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I tell my colleagues that I don't want to

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Speaker 1: like it's gonna be.

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Speaker 2: This is gonna be exactly what she wants. Oh yeah.

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Speaker 1: He's very kind in understanding and tells me he's always

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Speaker 1: to see if I would actually go what. He continues

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Speaker 1: to insult me and tells me I can only date

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Speaker 2: What don't know if that's true. That's also not is

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Speaker 2: this guy. I don't know if that's true. This guy's

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Speaker 2: got the brain of a twelve year old.

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Speaker 1: You said you said you were down with the open marriage.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure about that logic since I am by

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Speaker 1: and therefore attracted to both.

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Speaker 2: Men and women.

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Speaker 1: Over the next month, he ends up kicking me out

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Speaker 1: of the apartment, filing for divorce, calling all of my family,

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Speaker 1: suing me for costing for suing me for the cost

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Speaker 1: of our son, and asking my sister to take revenge

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Speaker 1: on me.

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Speaker 2: By sleeping with him. No way, all because you went

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Speaker 2: on a date. Dude, I think you just wanted to

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Speaker 3: It might be that's that's the conspiracy theory. Now he.

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Speaker 2: Regrets all of this and wants me back. He wanted

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Speaker 2: I mean a lot of people might hate me for

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Speaker 3: That's how we talk, all right, That's our Swedish love guys.

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Speaker 2: It's like, let's bring it to video games, right.

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Speaker 3: It's like you want to make it like a relationship

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Speaker 2: Put it on me. You can edit, you can edit

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Dakota is putting up his hand by the way

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Speaker 1: for everyone. Visual humor Dakota. But that's where the story ends.

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Speaker 1: Should we read some donuts before we sign off?

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Speaker 2: I have to read one that was it didn't go through.

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Speaker 2: Should we just do another story for fun Cindy's Nuts.

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Speaker 2: we do love you. Mix Alyssa Monday, Thanks for the

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Speaker 1: Testicles, good night, Chesticles is great. See you tomorrow. I

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Speaker 1: Brianna from Australia. I thanks for the eight Australian dollars.

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Speaker 1: Key on cracking the whip, trying to keep Dakota and

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Speaker 1: Salmon Lye. It's literally like parenting. So such a good job.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I like doing the fun Banterer. I want to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know how hard it is to be the

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Speaker 1: I mean, we could just we could just have uh,

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Speaker 2: Tell Can you guys, Can you guys go on Discord

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Speaker 1: Curvy Girl All the Flame, thanks for being a member

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Speaker 1: Uh and Curvy Girl All the Flame, thanks for the

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Speaker 2: We appreciate you. Keep growing babies, and yeah, I will

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Speaker 5: It's with a blast watching you all, especially during the

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Speaker 5: the most traumatizing thing if you are Filipino. Ballute is

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Speaker 2: We're back. We're back on track, guys, we're reading more

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Speaker 2: What the heck? Wow? And that where did you come from?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god?

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Speaker 3: Back double back to back, back to back like bang bang.

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Speaker 2: Bang bang name night we had a net, but we

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Speaker 2: Like to edge us. Yeah, because because literally, yeah, they're

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Speaker 2: like little Edgers, little edges, little edging Ton's Edging. That's

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Speaker 3: Wait, we had one more donation though. Somebody gifted twenty

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Speaker 2: Okay, storytime memberships.

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Speaker 1: My god, y'all, family so much throwing family growing, the love,

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Speaker 2: Stops and the love it grows. Right now, can you

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Speaker 3: Yes? Uh, but you just put the timer at thirty

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Speaker 5: Honestly, no, I mean we can just keep going. I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay. That bathroom I don't it. It wasn't working.

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Speaker 5: That bathroom that they didn't flush, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I will talk about that later, but

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Speaker 5: I know, it's a delicacy, and people love ballute and

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Speaker 5: people talk it up balute. Yeah, what's ballute? It's the

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Speaker 5: duck embryo. It's a Filipino delicacy. It's a Yeah, it's

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Speaker 5: but it's apparently it's really good. Well I eat it?

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Speaker 2: No, what if you took that and you bury that

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Speaker 2: Have you eat? You haven't eaten it?

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Speaker 5: I haven't eat my mom has.

442
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: I think we should both eat that on stream? No?

443
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 2: Why I will not eat baute? Why it's just not

444
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 2: my thing?

445
00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 3: Duh, it's not my thing either, dude. It's literally a

446
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 3: bird embryo. But that's why we would.

447
00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 2: Eat it on stream. Not me. This man into eating

448
00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 2: a bird embryol. Oh we.

449
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:11,320
Speaker 5: No, Yeah, that's the first thing. Second one, I'm gonna

450
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:11,880
Speaker 5: pull up this.

451
00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 2: Where is it? Yeah?

452
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:21,040
Speaker 3: Keon the chat is is going ballistic on you right now. Yeah,

453
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 3: they're okay for not pausing the counter. The counter has

454
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:26,800
Speaker 3: to be at thirty when we start the next story.

455
00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:31,359
Speaker 3: I maintain that we should do that. It's only it's.

456
00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:34,800
Speaker 2: Only Fairy would never Well, Riley's not here right now. Yeah,

457
00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 2: he's going to for Ibo and.

458
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,959
Speaker 3: Riley's not here. Riley's too busy to be here right

459
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 3: Riley's too busy and cool. He's going to costco Oh,

460
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:44,880
Speaker 3: Kirby girl, La La Flame, thank you for the ten

461
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 3: gifted memberships. My god, you're you're all goats in the

462
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 3: stream today.

463
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,440
Speaker 2: My good. Oh wait, keon, you need a runway walk

464
00:24:53,560 --> 00:24:55,159
Speaker 2: at the end of the stream. But you need a

465
00:24:55,240 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 2: runway walk.

466
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Speaker 5: Oh, I see a rebellion. I see a rebel looks

467
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 5: sick to be right there. Oh, I have a tattooed

468
00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:01,800
Speaker 5: on me.

469
00:25:01,920 --> 00:25:02,600
Speaker 2: What did that say?

470
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:06,359
Speaker 3: Stand strong and don't eat duck embryos strong and don't

471
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 3: don't eat grossness.

472
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:09,399
Speaker 2: Don't eat the grossness. Yeah, I might eat it.

473
00:25:09,440 --> 00:25:14,600
Speaker 3: I had to respect that because you had the rebel insignia, which, honestly, guys,

474
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 3: I don't know if you guys are ready to hear this.

475
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,679
Speaker 2: They're kind of war criminals. No, we're not doing this.

476
00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 3: Don't somewhat a little bit jazz this splash of war

477
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 3: crimes done by the rebel alliance. They're not worse than

478
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 3: the Empire. Of course they're not the Empire, or I'm not.

479
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:37,640
Speaker 5: Gonna forget that they're terrible. Let me read this donation.

480
00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 5: This donation was actually from the other day. I don't

481
00:25:41,119 --> 00:25:43,479
Speaker 5: know if Danay is still here, but if someone can

482
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,640
Speaker 5: tag Dnay and maybe we'll do it on discord as well.

483
00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 5: But Dnay Law I think she donated two Australian dollars.

484
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 5: I posted this in the scored off topic. It's Lego,

485
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:53,560
Speaker 5: that's it. I love Lego.

486
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 2: Who doesn't love Lego? You don't love Lego? You're just missing.

487
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 3: There's a peace a Lego piece missing in your life.

488
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 3: I guess they call them bricks.

489
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:06,679
Speaker 2: Don't they.

490
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:10,800
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's a brick missing legs.

491
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 2: And it's not our bricks. You need to get your

492
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:15,760
Speaker 2: own bricks.

493
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,439
Speaker 5: All right, we're gonna conside you to the next story.

494
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 2: What what do you see this title?

495
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 3: Ah?

496
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:31,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, let's get it. Hey sounds about right.

497
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:36,040
Speaker 5: Someone asks where my mom is from. She's from more

498
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 5: so towards the North illocal Sir so San Juan i Loko,

499
00:26:40,680 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 5: Sir Norte, that's the Baranghai.

500
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:48,080
Speaker 2: Yep. We're like about an hour away from Vegan, maybe

501
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 2: like forty five to an hour thirty from Vegon, depending

502
00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 2: on the traffic. And you know how bad that traffic is.

503
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 2: Oh begone, Oh my god, Oh my god, Oh my

504
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 2: censor that editor. There's someone with Look at the every

505
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 2: now and again, don't judge. And do you see the

506
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 2: exit of the newest comment? All right, no, it's gone.

507
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:18,680
Speaker 3: Everybody just commented at the same time. My god, they're

508
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:19,679
Speaker 3: all saying they're bricked up.

509
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,680
Speaker 5: You can get light kids for legos.

510
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 2: Sophia says, y'all should make a PayPal link. Hmmm do

511
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 2: we not have this? I have no idea that we'll

512
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,280
Speaker 2: find it after the stream. I've been to the Philippines, yes,

513
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 2: many times.

514
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 5: I love Jolly b that's gonna be a free sponsor,

515
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 5: Peach mango pie every day, and hollow Hollow is one

516
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 5: of my favorite desserts. Enough about me though, and the

517
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 5: Philippines More about me.

518
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 2: Huh what is that? Oh? It's like every time I

519
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,840
Speaker 2: feel joy, click it, Oh.

520
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 5: A joy counter, Sam, Do I add more time to

521
00:27:58,480 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 5: the time?

522
00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 2: Yes? Put it back to thirty. Do you want Uh?

523
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,080
Speaker 2: When did you when did you get nut? Do you

524
00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 2: want to put six minutes?

525
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 5: Uh?

526
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 2: Add three?

527
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 5: Okay we'll meet in the middle. Guys, we'll add three.

528
00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 5: How about that? That's fair?

529
00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, that's fair, Harriet Spaghetti. Sam is such a

530
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 1: fuck boy with his intimate one. What does that mean?

531
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,159
Speaker 2: Okay, Sam got caught out?

532
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 3: Oh well, you're gonna have to add more time now, keon, ill,

533
00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,160
Speaker 3: don't you put it up to fifty six.

534
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 2: I was supposed to go, Yeah, I was supposed to

535
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: go climbing. Today looks like looks like this is not

536
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 2: gonna happen.

537
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 5: I was supposed to go to like an actual like

538
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 5: closed off bar because someone wanted to take me. It

539
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 5: was like there plus one.

540
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:57,040
Speaker 2: And Rally's going to dinner. Uh, Sophia, maybe possibly say

541
00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: until seven. I'll stay until seven. Keon, what.

542
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 3: You're chained to that desk until further notice? For fifty

543
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 3: six minutes? M You're gonna go somewhere without me?

544
00:29:11,280 --> 00:29:13,880
Speaker 2: I literally invited you, Mike. I thought that I thought

545
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 2: that you were invited me. Literally.

546
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 5: No, that was the that was the first one. The

547
00:29:17,160 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 5: other one was after I didn't hear that I gotta

548
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:21,680
Speaker 5: wear my hex Girl shirt.

549
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:27,080
Speaker 2: I have a hex Girl shirt. Well, I'll well, I'm.

550
00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 3: Hey, thanks stream, I can't I just try to make

551
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 3: you all feel guilty.

552
00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:33,120
Speaker 2: Everyone boo this man?

553
00:29:33,160 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 3: What the heck? No, First, we gotta shut out Kristin

554
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 3: CHRISTI foil hat, Kristin foyle hat. Thank you for the

555
00:29:41,560 --> 00:29:43,280
Speaker 3: twenty gifted zobs.

556
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:47,000
Speaker 2: My god, oh my goodness. How do we get another hour?

557
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 5: We literally were at zero and y'all y'all are like

558
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:55,120
Speaker 5: you know what they're They're like edgin y'all, y'all love it.

559
00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:57,240
Speaker 2: I just crushed this. Let's go all right, hold on,

560
00:29:57,280 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 2: hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on

561
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 2: to who? Hold on to what? Hold on? I get

562
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 2: a hug, hold on to win. Oh now, they're all

563
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:15,200
Speaker 2: booing you. I'm staying. I'm not going anywhere. I'm saying.

564
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 2: I am stating that I'm staying. All right, he's staying.

565
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 2: Let's go read it. My husband never shows me affection,

566
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 2: so I.

567
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 3: Cheated on him only right. This the gold standard. It's

568
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 3: a long read, and I apologize in advance. However, since

569
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 3: I'm Indian and not a lot of people here are,

570
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 3: I thought context might help. I thirty eight female, was

571
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 3: married for seven years to my college sweetheart who's also

572
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 3: thirty eight. Where both Indian and divorces are still uncommon here,

573
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 3: people believe that you have to quote compromise to make

574
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:55,160
Speaker 3: a marriage work, even when it's struggling.

575
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 2: That is true. Compromises do make marriages work. It's it that. Yeah,

576
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 2: you're not wrong, you're not rocket.

577
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,239
Speaker 3: My ex husband and I were the first in our

578
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:06,719
Speaker 3: families to divorce, which made this especially difficult. And by

579
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,440
Speaker 3: the way, this comes from user wasted painter sixty seven

580
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 3: on the r slash Okay story time subreddit. So a

581
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 3: bit about our relationship and marriage background. We met in

582
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 3: college and shared common interests, and we're quite progressive in

583
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:24,720
Speaker 3: our values. It was an interstate marriage with differences in customs, food,

584
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:27,880
Speaker 3: and family culture, but we were deeply in love and

585
00:31:27,960 --> 00:31:29,680
Speaker 3: I felt we'd figure it out.

586
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: Sounds like a Romeo and Juliette story. Yeah, two star

587
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 1: cross lovers across northern and southern India. Yeah, that's my guess.

588
00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 1: You know, two Indian states. I feel like you would states.

589
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 3: No, I don't. I want to say no, I don't. Well,

590
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:53,600
Speaker 3: gotta fix that. We were very physically intimated in college

591
00:31:53,720 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 3: and after, so I never expected physical affection to become

592
00:31:57,840 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 3: an issue.

593
00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,360
Speaker 1: I mean, if you have a long relationship, it's gonna wayne,

594
00:32:01,400 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 1: it's got a wax and Wayne. But the most important

595
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 1: thing is that your friends.

596
00:32:04,400 --> 00:32:09,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, you gotta stay friends. Things changed drastically after marriage.

597
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 3: My husband completely avoided intimacy after the wedding he didn't

598
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,000
Speaker 3: want to consummate the marriage, and on our honeymoon and

599
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,560
Speaker 3: in the months afterward, he avoided all physical closeness.

600
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,680
Speaker 2: Dude, he something's up. He's he's cheating. He's cheating, He's

601
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 2: doing something. I don't know. In our first three years,

602
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 2: we were intimate only twice. In three years. Were those

603
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:37,720
Speaker 2: like two times? Great? Though? It must have lasted a

604
00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 2: long time, my god, maybe not at all like two pumps.

605
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:46,800
Speaker 2: Hey hey, hey.

606
00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:52,600
Speaker 3: Uh not only not only.

607
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, you wouldn't Jesus man, that guy goes forever.

608
00:32:57,160 --> 00:33:01,440
Speaker 3: Sorry wait wait wait, wait wait wait, who's mad? Now?

609
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 2: Who's let's read the story instead talking about our pumps?

610
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:14,000
Speaker 2: Kion cover that pump, put your pump cover on. Ugh,

611
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 2: read the story anyway. Please.

612
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 3: In our first three years, we were intimate only twice,

613
00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 3: and each time I had to practically beg for it.

614
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 3: He would just say I don't feel like it. When

615
00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 3: we went to the doctor, there were no health issues,

616
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 3: and the doctor even suggestioned medication to help with his libido.

617
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 3: My husband tried it once and then never again, saying

618
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 3: that it gave him a headache. He refused to follow

619
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 3: up for other solutions. We were living in a joint

620
00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 3: family with seven people under one roof, so I thought

621
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 3: maybe the lack of privacy was affecting him. I had

622
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:57,960
Speaker 3: people under a lot, seven people. You can't bump uglies

623
00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 3: with seven people listening.

624
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,040
Speaker 1: I don't know people are bumping uglies in this house,

625
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 1: and there's there's a lot of people in.

626
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 2: This house anyway. Wait, what is what do you mean

627
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 2: by that? What do you mean people are bumping like.

628
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 3: We moved to another city.

629
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,799
Speaker 2: Oh look, who's getting all serious now? Guys, isn't a

630
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:20,399
Speaker 2: funny look at him? I'll be the funny guy. Now.

631
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,960
Speaker 2: I'm playing four dimensional chess right now. You guys don't

632
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 2: even know.

633
00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm playing elder You guys don't even know. So,

634
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:37,120
Speaker 3: husband said, via gives him a headache. He refused to

635
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 3: follow up for other solutions. We're living in a joint

636
00:34:39,760 --> 00:34:42,000
Speaker 3: family with seven people under one roof thought maybe the

637
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,760
Speaker 3: lack of privacy was affecting him. We moved to another

638
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,240
Speaker 3: city and took up jobs there, hoping that a fresh

639
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:50,200
Speaker 3: start might change things. But the problem remained, and I

640
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 3: continued to feel alone and frustrated.

641
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 2: The pressure is for a baby. Well, doesn't sound like

642
00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,239
Speaker 2: they're gonna have a baby anytime soon.

643
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 3: As with most Indian marriages, soon the question about kids began.

644
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,440
Speaker 3: I brought up our intimate intimacy issues again, and after

645
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:09,959
Speaker 3: a lot of back and forth, he agreed to see

646
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 3: an infertility doctor.

647
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 1: But you haven't even that's not the infertile, it's that

648
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:20,080
Speaker 1: you haven't bumped Dougley's enough.

649
00:35:20,239 --> 00:35:22,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, do you see what everyone's saying in the chat though?

650
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 5: What everyone's like? He he likes the opposite gender.

651
00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 3: No, but they had they had a gay conspiracy.

652
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:41,200
Speaker 2: But they but they had But is that not accurate?

653
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 2: That was just what you said. It looked like your

654
00:35:46,800 --> 00:35:48,879
Speaker 2: chest conspiracy.

655
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 1: Cot me off, car anyway, the code is gay conspiracy. Aside,

656
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 1: they had they had a bunch of spicy sleep beforehand.

657
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 2: That was super passion. So yeah, before the marriage, before

658
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 2: they got married. Yeah, so it's like he he was

659
00:36:04,760 --> 00:36:07,440
Speaker 2: into it beforehand. He tried the other thing, and then

660
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,319
Speaker 2: he was like, oh I like that better. Oh you

661
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 2: think he like? He like he tasted the forbidden fruit.

662
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 2: And it's like secret gag conspiracy ready go ahead? Uh oh,

663
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 2: I was good at DEVND never what no go key on? Please?

664
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 2: I mean encourage you go? No, I got nothing. I

665
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:33,160
Speaker 2: doubt it anyway. Yeah, he agreed to see an infertility doctor.

666
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 3: This was where I learned that with treatments like i

667
00:36:36,719 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 3: UI or IVF, we could try for a child without

668
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:41,880
Speaker 3: needing regular intimacy.

669
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 2: My husband latched onto this idea.

670
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 3: He was willing to have the spicy sleep only when

671
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 3: I was ovulating, with no other intimacy.

672
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 2: I felt extremely torn.

673
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:54,840
Speaker 3: But I also wanted to be a mother, and I

674
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 3: was emotionally worn out. So I agreed, and I went

675
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,799
Speaker 3: through several I UI psych which I don't know what

676
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:06,400
Speaker 3: that means. What is i UI infertility uterus insertion?

677
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:10,479
Speaker 5: Yeah, dealing with a bunch of children? Here, guys, I'll

678
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 5: just look it up because the internet's right next to me.

679
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,320
Speaker 5: You keep reading, Okay.

680
00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,440
Speaker 3: I agreed and went through several cycles of I U

681
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 3: I which either failed or resulted in miscarriages.

682
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 2: No, that's the.

683
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 3: Toll on my mental health. Yeah, that's it would take

684
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:27,160
Speaker 3: a toll on anyone's mental health.

685
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 5: It stands for intraterine insemination.

686
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: You mean intrauterine.

687
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 3: Okay, guy doesn't even know how to talk doctor, intrauterine.

688
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:50,439
Speaker 2: You're great, it's all right, Okay, never do it. Oh stop.

689
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 3: Everybody loves okay, everybody. Everybody shower with praise. Everybody gave

690
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 3: key on intri uterine praise.

691
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 5: I don't need you patronizing me because I couldn't read.

692
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,879
Speaker 5: I didn't, right, I'm just.

693
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:10,320
Speaker 2: Showing you how much we love. There's things I can't read. Look,

694
00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:15,879
Speaker 2: you're giving you hearts, purple hearts. How the chat has

695
00:38:15,960 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 2: gone from flames to hearts and matters of second Yeah?

696
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 2: Oh an explanation.

697
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 3: Duchess Cassandra says, they inject the sperm straight into the womb.

698
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 2: There you go. All right, let's let's hit this.

699
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:32,360
Speaker 3: Direct injection like anxiety for a diesel engine. Okay, read,

700
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 3: my self esteem plummeted. I developed depression, anxiety, and severe

701
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 3: and a severe body image complex, feeling like my appearance

702
00:38:41,160 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 3: was somehow the issue.

703
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:43,479
Speaker 2: I used to be a.

704
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:47,000
Speaker 3: Confident, healthy person, but with my husband constantly rejecting me,

705
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 3: I started to see myself as unattractive.

706
00:38:49,640 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 2: Despite multiple suggestions.

707
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 3: From doctors, he refused therapy, saying it wasn't real medicine.

708
00:38:57,320 --> 00:39:02,520
Speaker 3: What a classic, big strong man take on therapy when

709
00:39:02,560 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 3: he clearly needs some kind of therapy.

710
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:05,279
Speaker 2: I don't know what it is.

711
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 3: COVID in isolation with an indifferent partner. In our sixth year,

712
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 3: my husband got a job in his hometown, so we

713
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 3: moved back and got our own place. When COVID hit,

714
00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,319
Speaker 3: we were stuck in lockdown together, but I felt more

715
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 3: isolated than ever. I had checked out emotionally and we

716
00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 3: were basically just friendly roommates.

717
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: Around this time, I grew close to a co worker.

718
00:39:27,800 --> 00:39:31,160
Speaker 3: We were working on a lot of projects together and

719
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:37,360
Speaker 3: he was a divorced man. Struggles found a nice little

720
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 3: divorced man at work.

721
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:43,360
Speaker 2: We started connecting daily through calls and video chats.

722
00:39:43,480 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 3: Oh, this is all long distance because it's it's it's COVID, COVID,

723
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:48,800
Speaker 3: COVID cheat.

724
00:39:49,200 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: I feel like that makes the relationship even better because

725
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:55,839
Speaker 1: it's not like hot and bothered necessarily. It's like they're

726
00:39:55,840 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: becoming friends.

727
00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a slow burn, slow boil. Uh.

728
00:40:00,960 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 3: We started connecting daily through calls and video chats, and

729
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 3: he genuinely listened and made me feel valued. One thing

730
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 3: led to another, and we began a romantic relationship online.

731
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 3: I know it's wrong too emotionally and physically cheap, but

732
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 3: for the first time in years, I felt truly wanted

733
00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 3: and loved. We never met in person, but that doesn't

734
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 3: change the fact that I was in a relationship outside

735
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:25,400
Speaker 3: of my marriage. And normally I'd be like, that's not

736
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 3: very cool. But given everything.

737
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 2: That I've read, I fully support this.

738
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:34,280
Speaker 1: I don't support it still, I think like you should.

739
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:38,680
Speaker 1: I don't think it's ever good to live in general,

740
00:40:38,760 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 1: like unless it's, like you know, for safety reasons and

741
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:46,400
Speaker 1: so I think you should divorce this person first and

742
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:47,080
Speaker 1: then pursue this.

743
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 2: But they can't. It's like a length. There's like a

744
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 2: whole process that they got to go through to do

745
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 2: the divorce. Is there in India you have to you

746
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 2: have to do a whole process anywhere, well, I guess,

747
00:40:58,360 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 2: but this is also in the middle of COVID, so

748
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 2: they can't separate. Probably it's all separate.

749
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 3: Given the fact that this dude you were married for

750
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 3: three years and you were only intimate twice.

751
00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, this guy doesn't even.

752
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 3: Like you, so to be clear, so why should he

753
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 3: even care if she's cheating on him?

754
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:20,520
Speaker 2: He clearly doesn't even like her. So I I I

755
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:26,360
Speaker 2: think communication is always important, and so I think she

756
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 2: should just communicate, like, hey, like, I'm not getting any

757
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:34,399
Speaker 2: intimacy for you. I want to explore other people see

758
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 2: what he says, and he just goes no. Then it's

759
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 2: like I want a divorce and he goes no.

760
00:41:41,520 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 3: H And then you run and you can't and the

761
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:46,279
Speaker 3: entire country's locked down.

762
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 2: Then you run in place. She why I'm supporting this woman.

763
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 2: It's all right. We can have a different opinion. It's okay.

764
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 2: That makes the world a beautiful place. You know what.

765
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:57,840
Speaker 2: You know what, I actually have a question for chat

766
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 2: hot or not? Poll cheat or not? What like would

767
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 2: they cheat in that? Would you? Or? Actually?

768
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: Is op the a hole for cheating? We already know

769
00:42:08,160 --> 00:42:10,560
Speaker 1: the husband's a hole for sure? Is OPD a hole

770
00:42:10,560 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 1: for cheating? Let us know yes or no for cheating?

771
00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 1: So just like one is going to be yes.

772
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, actually no? Yeah? Should she cheat? Yes? Or no? Wait?

773
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 2: They got kids?

774
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:22,359
Speaker 1: Should she cheat? Yes or no, don't. Don't roll your back.

775
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 1: Don't roll your ship back right now.

776
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 3: I forgot. I wasn't thinking about the kids. If there's

777
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:29,480
Speaker 3: kids involved, then that makes you got to think of

778
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 3: the children. You don't want to provide that archetype for

779
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 3: your kids. If there weren't kids, I would be like,

780
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,920
Speaker 3: this makes sense, But there are kids, so you can't

781
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:40,359
Speaker 3: do this.

782
00:42:41,560 --> 00:42:42,080
Speaker 2: Which sucks.

783
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,000
Speaker 5: I haven't been touched, I haven't been loved. What's going

784
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:45,439
Speaker 5: on here?

785
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 2: I agree, that's not I agree, like you know, not

786
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 2: being touched, not having.

787
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 3: Somebody asked a really good question, will I don't mean

788
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:54,800
Speaker 3: to cut you of I think it was Ellie said,

789
00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 3: is it cheating if your partner isn't even acting like

790
00:42:57,719 --> 00:42:58,280
Speaker 3: your partner?

791
00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 2: Yes, it's still cheating. That's still cheating. That's still it's

792
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 2: and it's not.

793
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: It's not saying that this partner isn't doing anything wrong,

794
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 1: because one hundred percent he is. He's not communicating how

795
00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:13,279
Speaker 1: he's feeling. But the the the thing, and this is like,

796
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,319
Speaker 1: if there is one thing that you learn from this show,

797
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: it's communicate early and often right unless your safety is

798
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: at is at uh is at is in jeopardy, which

799
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: I don't think is is true. I think uh, and

800
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 1: and it's like, just because someone else cheats doesn't mean

801
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: you cheat, right, just because someone else has done something

802
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,919
Speaker 1: wrong doesn't mean you violate the integrity your integrity, because really,

803
00:43:39,920 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 1: what what what you're doing is you're you're you're you're

804
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 1: hurting yourself by acting out of integrity with maybe what

805
00:43:46,360 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 1: you think you should do in a relationship.

806
00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 2: That's true.

807
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: So I think that she should communicate as much as

808
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:57,560
Speaker 1: possible if her safety is not in jeopardy. Totally different

809
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: scenario if if it is, so, if it's like India,

810
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: you know, he can I don't know, make or do

811
00:44:05,120 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 1: whatever she wants or COVID something blah blah blah. Like

812
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:11,879
Speaker 1: if safety is in jeopardy, you know, yeah, maybe chuck

813
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:12,720
Speaker 1: that one in the pocket.

814
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's all look, if safety is jeopardy, say

815
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:20,879
Speaker 3: that I outright support cheating, because I don't. I never

816
00:44:20,920 --> 00:44:25,719
Speaker 3: would do that. Ever, I would never would write supports

817
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 3: the more. This might be the only context I've ever

818
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 3: read it yet where it's like I'm actually like, oh,

819
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:35,800
Speaker 3: I I don't even really feel any negative emotions about

820
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 3: that after I read it.

821
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:38,799
Speaker 2: I don't feel negative about it.

822
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: Chat is fairly split right now, right, so forty percent

823
00:44:42,160 --> 00:44:44,720
Speaker 1: of chat is saying yes, you go, girl, you cheat

824
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: on your your husband, and sixty percent is saying no.

825
00:44:47,760 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: And that's that's a pretty that's a pretty even split.

826
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, and I do agree it just leave.

827
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,959
Speaker 3: But given the context surrounding what's happening right now, where

828
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 3: they're at, like everything going on, it just doesn't sound

829
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 3: like that's even like remotely possible.

830
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 2: And anyway, let's get back into it. Sounds like you

831
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 2: support cheat only for this one woman. She gets I

832
00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:16,800
Speaker 2: can't support women now, Okay.

833
00:45:17,080 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 3: Uh, the discovery and fallout, all right, so here's here

834
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 3: comes the consequences of your ass.

835
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 2: Okay, here comes really quick.

836
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: If she's if she her, if her, if she's in

837
00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,600
Speaker 1: jeopardy in terms of her safety, then she definitely shouldn't cheat,

838
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,400
Speaker 1: because then that would.

839
00:45:35,680 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 2: Even I guess you're right. I guess you're right.

840
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, discovery and fall out. My husband eventually became

841
00:45:43,480 --> 00:45:45,720
Speaker 3: suspicious and found messages on my phone.

842
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,480
Speaker 2: He confronted me, gave me an ultimatum to.

843
00:45:48,520 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 3: Quit my job and stop all contact with my coworker,

844
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 3: or get a divorce. I chose divorce without hesitation easy.

845
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 3: As I'd felt trapped and broken in the marriage for

846
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:03,760
Speaker 3: you years. My husband, who had been indifferent for so long,

847
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:07,239
Speaker 3: suddenly became emotional, telling me that he loved me and

848
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 3: that I was destroying our marriage.

849
00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 2: I think you've already destroyed it.

850
00:46:14,719 --> 00:46:18,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, buddy, you destroyed the marriage by not destroying something

851
00:46:18,840 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 3: else more than twice a year, actually twice in three years,

852
00:46:22,719 --> 00:46:23,600
Speaker 3: which is insane.

853
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:32,240
Speaker 2: Yeah. High five to me because I was smoothest. Heck ah.

854
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 3: He even convinced friends and family that I was irrational.

855
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:39,399
Speaker 3: When I mentioned the lack of physical intimacy and how

856
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:41,840
Speaker 3: many times I'd asked him to work on it, people

857
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 3: said things.

858
00:46:42,520 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 2: Like, but he's caring. He never hit you, so why

859
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:47,160
Speaker 2: ruin the marriage?

860
00:46:47,560 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 3: Bro False equivalency, Yeah, being like, I know that you

861
00:46:52,760 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 3: guys are never intimate, but he doesn't hit you.

862
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 1: But I mean if he is, he is good in

863
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:01,360
Speaker 1: other like he is like a good is he a

864
00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: good friend? I mean he wasn't He wasn't supportive in

865
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:05,799
Speaker 1: other ways, right, besides intimacy.

866
00:47:06,320 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 3: I think what happened was everything everything was kind of

867
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 3: going well until they got married, and then he did

868
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:14,920
Speaker 3: a complete one eighties Yeah, he stopped caring about her,

869
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 3: He stopped showing any kind of affection whatsoever it was

870
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:18,560
Speaker 3: being intimate affection.

871
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,319
Speaker 1: It was like it was like there was no there

872
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:25,920
Speaker 1: was no intimacy of any kind, and like right, it

873
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 1: was like not just physical, like they're like weird roommates. Yeah,

874
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: isn't which isn't a marriage now?

875
00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:32,960
Speaker 2: Zero percent?

876
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:38,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, But they also said, you've invested seven years in

877
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 3: this marriage. I mean, it can't be that bad. Or

878
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:43,640
Speaker 3: if you had a problem, why didn't.

879
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:47,400
Speaker 2: You bring it up earlier? Which because you were trying

880
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 2: to work?

881
00:47:48,239 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, because you're trying to fix the marriage, which is

882
00:47:50,640 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 3: what I think everyone wanted them to do.

883
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 2: Anyway.

884
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:58,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, Guilt and conflicting emotions. I feel conflicted. I did cheat,

885
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 3: and I know that hurt my husban. I also know

886
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:06,640
Speaker 3: that cheating is bad in any and every scenario. I've

887
00:48:06,680 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 3: really lost any leg I had to stand on.

888
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,319
Speaker 2: But she's like, I shouldn't have done this. Even she

889
00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 2: was like, I know what I did was wrong. Are

890
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,840
Speaker 2: you sure about that? You get the code of pass? Yeah,

891
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 2: are you sure about that?

892
00:48:21,600 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 3: But I also feel that I was denied love, intimacy,

893
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 3: and affection for years. I did everything I could to

894
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 3: make the marriage work, but I had needs, desires, and

895
00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:37,880
Speaker 3: basic emotional needs that were all completely neglected. The silent

896
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:40,879
Speaker 3: treatment I received every time I raised the issue made

897
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 3: me feel small, guilty, and even crazy. I wasn't allowed

898
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 3: to talk to my friends or family about it, as

899
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 3: he said it would be shameful. I went through invasive

900
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:54,600
Speaker 3: IUI and IVF treatments, practically pleading for any kind of intimacy,

901
00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:56,880
Speaker 3: but my husband wouldn't even try.

902
00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 2: Sidal pressure was humongous.

903
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:04,719
Speaker 3: Divorce is looked down upon, and spicy sleep is not

904
00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:09,239
Speaker 3: discussed openly. Women are supposed to adjust and compromise. I

905
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 3: eventually had to take a stand and estrange my family

906
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,719
Speaker 3: and a lot of well wishers to push through the

907
00:49:15,800 --> 00:49:21,799
Speaker 3: divorce and finally break free. By the way, I don't

908
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 3: want you to have a break free of joining our

909
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:27,439
Speaker 3: live every weekday at three pm PST. All you gotta

910
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 3: do is tab our profile.

911
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: I want people to cheat. Also doesn't want you to

912
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:33,040
Speaker 1: break free.

913
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,279
Speaker 3: I want to break free, but I don't want you

914
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 3: to break free of our stream anytime soon.

915
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 2: Please stay, yeah, please, Okay.

916
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 3: I will, yes, and we do have a little bit

917
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 3: more of this story, but let's discuss.

918
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 2: I guess I have some things.

919
00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:59,200
Speaker 3: I am sorry, am I apologize?

920
00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 2: Here we go.

921
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna formally say that cheating is never okay, right,

922
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:08,719
Speaker 3: It's always the wrong thing to do. But out of

923
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,279
Speaker 3: every situation I've heard so far, that one was like,

924
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:12,000
Speaker 3: I mean.

925
00:50:12,440 --> 00:50:14,399
Speaker 2: He basically pushed you to do it.

926
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:19,120
Speaker 3: He basically forced you until there was no other option

927
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 3: left for you to find like feel like a worthwhile human.

928
00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:32,960
Speaker 2: Affection from another person. No one forces you to cheat.

929
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like she she felt so low after this,

930
00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:39,280
Speaker 3: like years eight years.

931
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:43,840
Speaker 1: Of complete underneglectable. It's complete neglect. It's understandable why she

932
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 1: did for sure. Like it's like I think we.

933
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 2: Can and that's where I'll leave. I think understandable.

934
00:50:48,520 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 1: I think we can understand why someone makes a bad decision,

935
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:56,359
Speaker 1: but still ensure that we say, like, hey, there wasn't

936
00:50:56,360 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 1: communication here. This is like not a good thing. But Dakota,

937
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:04,080
Speaker 1: I love cheating.

938
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 2: That's me. I just said it. Look, it's understandable.

939
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:12,720
Speaker 3: That's why I will leave it at it was completely understandable,

940
00:51:13,600 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 3: and I like it.

941
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 2: That I was not shocked at. I love it and

942
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 2: I love it, and I personally.

943
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 3: I think that he doesn't, you know, he didn't know

944
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:26,959
Speaker 3: what he was missing anyway, So eating is working back.

945
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,960
Speaker 3: I wanted to say cheating is bad and wrong.

946
00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 1: Yes, Michelle Taylor says, I still would never cheat on

947
00:51:37,200 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: my husband. Loney says understandable, ass holary. I think that's

948
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 1: that's pretty good and that nicely apology.

949
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 3: Ever, she wasn't allowed to talk to anybody about any

950
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:47,600
Speaker 3: of this either.

951
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: Says Sam Guilt Trippy Dakota about supporting cheators. Also, Sam,

952
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 1: you should always cheat. Sam's old Rules twenty twenty four.

953
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 1: I never said that.

954
00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 5: Did he say that someone put on the discord?

955
00:51:59,200 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 2: No?

956
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:03,319
Speaker 3: No, Yeah, someone posts evidence is find me saying that

957
00:52:03,400 --> 00:52:08,160
Speaker 3: I dare you. So she said that I wasn't allowed

958
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 3: to talk to my friends or family about it either,

959
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:15,720
Speaker 3: which adds another layer of just isolation and insulation. Yeah,

960
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,880
Speaker 3: she has all this stuff that she can't talk to

961
00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:21,880
Speaker 3: anybody about because it's like, it's shameful, it's taboo, it's like,

962
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 3: so she had no outlet for any of this stuff

963
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 3: and what she can't divorce because it's culturally unacceptable, like

964
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 3: and she feels like garbage because her husband gives her

965
00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 3: no attention and if he does give her attention. It's

966
00:52:35,680 --> 00:52:39,120
Speaker 3: probably just attention being like, please stop, I don't want

967
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,480
Speaker 3: to get around you. Yeah, get away from me. That's

968
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 3: the only attention she gets. Ye, get away from Yeah.

969
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 3: I mean super understandable, but still not good. And then

970
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 3: he's like, I mean, if you don't stop talking to

971
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:50,120
Speaker 3: this guy, we're gonna get a divorce.

972
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 2: And she goes, yeah, yes please Brittany, I see you. Lynn.

973
00:52:53,360 --> 00:52:55,880
Speaker 2: What about the four year rule? Sam? That is a

974
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:59,799
Speaker 2: prediction tool, to be clear. Uh, oh, there's a four

975
00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 2: you're a rule.

976
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 1: It's like every four every four years that a couple

977
00:53:04,600 --> 00:53:05,280
Speaker 1: stays together.

978
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 2: I'm familiar with it. They are more they.

979
00:53:08,360 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 1: Are more likely to stay together past an instance of cheating,

980
00:53:14,080 --> 00:53:17,680
Speaker 1: and so like every four years, you basically like there,

981
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: if there's one instance cheating, they'll probably stay together.

982
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 5: It sounds like I'm sound Sam and I don't support cheating.

983
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:26,720
Speaker 2: Wow, And I support this message.

984
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 5: And I support this message, and I approve this message.

985
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 5: And intra uterine, So.

986
00:53:31,840 --> 00:53:34,280
Speaker 1: Sam and and a child, if you get a child,

987
00:53:34,600 --> 00:53:37,320
Speaker 1: you're also more likely to stay and you get another

988
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: instance of cheating.

989
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:40,000
Speaker 2: Oh so child comes with a free house, so you're

990
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,399
Speaker 2: Sam Hall passed Don it's it's not a hall pass.

991
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 2: It's a predictive tool. It's a predictive tool. It sounds

992
00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:47,600
Speaker 2: like it's a hall past. Speaking of this hall past,

993
00:53:47,640 --> 00:53:50,160
Speaker 2: you should pass. Okay, Yeah, yeah, let's let's go.

994
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:54,719
Speaker 3: Let's pass this story into the already read category because

995
00:53:54,719 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 3: we're gonna finish it.

996
00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:58,560
Speaker 2: Oh God.

997
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,480
Speaker 3: After the divorce, I focused on my mental health, became

998
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:06,439
Speaker 3: financially independent and started working out regularly. I lost thirty

999
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:08,879
Speaker 3: five kills in a healthy way and found a new

1000
00:54:08,920 --> 00:54:13,720
Speaker 3: confidence in myself. My current Parker partner, the co worker,

1001
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:17,520
Speaker 3: has been my rock, supporting me and helping me rebuild

1002
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:18,280
Speaker 3: my self worth.

1003
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,400
Speaker 2: So they got, they got together, they got booed up.

1004
00:54:21,480 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 2: Sounded like it worked out.

1005
00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 3: Not saying I support cheating, but it sounds like it

1006
00:54:25,800 --> 00:54:27,359
Speaker 3: worked out perfectly for you.

1007
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 2: After you cheated, everything kind of phone.

1008
00:54:30,880 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 3: Like after you cheated, your whole life got a lot better.

1009
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:36,919
Speaker 3: In this one particular instance.

1010
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,280
Speaker 5: I just say I support you being with your best partner.

1011
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 5: That you deserve the love you know you want, and

1012
00:54:42,480 --> 00:54:45,880
Speaker 5: you deserve the best in who you're dating and who

1013
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 5: you're with.

1014
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you do, And I agree with that. And the

1015
00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:50,440
Speaker 2: only way to do that.

1016
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:55,239
Speaker 3: Is jeez, I guess you won't know until you know

1017
00:54:55,560 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 3: in this one circumstance that.

1018
00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:59,600
Speaker 2: We are not saying you should cheat on your partner.

1019
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 2: Be clear, we're not, because we're just saying it's understandable.

1020
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:09,360
Speaker 2: Usually it will like make your relationship worse.

1021
00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 3: Yes, cheating will ninety nine percent of the time make

1022
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 3: your life more miserable.

1023
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, but every once in a while we found the

1024
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 2: one percent right there.

1025
00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:21,839
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, you know they're done on this hill.

1026
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:24,400
Speaker 5: Just read the story before you you want.

1027
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,279
Speaker 2: To find out if you're the one percent. Maybe you

1028
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:30,920
Speaker 2: shouldn't just story. It's because st nine percent of the

1029
00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 2: time easy to break up. It's alry, just it.

1030
00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 3: It's sorry, I want none, nothing anymore. But it was

1031
00:55:37,239 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 3: not enormously not I just had to get that out. Story, okay,

1032
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 3: story story. The cowork my my new partner who's the coworker,

1033
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: has been my rock, supporting me and helping me rebuild

1034
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:52,400
Speaker 3: my self worth. My family has also come to terms

1035
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 3: with the divorce and has slowly but gradually seeing why

1036
00:55:55,920 --> 00:55:59,320
Speaker 3: I did what I did. Still, I sometimes feel guilty

1037
00:55:59,360 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 3: for the way things ended with my husband, and I'm

1038
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 3: haunted by thoughts of being the bad guy for leaving

1039
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 3: and seeking love elsewhere? Am I the a hole for

1040
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 3: seeking affection outside of a marriage that I felt I

1041
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 3: had no way to fix.

1042
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:20,520
Speaker 2: M No, no, no, I say no.

1043
00:56:21,080 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 3: I say no. There's no kids. By the way, I

1044
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:24,920
Speaker 3: thought there was a kid chatting for me.

1045
00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 2: That there's not. There's no kids. If there were kids,

1046
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:28,919
Speaker 2: I would say yes.

1047
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:32,359
Speaker 3: If there were children in the equation here, I would

1048
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,520
Speaker 3: say you were the a hole for providing a blueprint

1049
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:36,320
Speaker 3: of like trauma.

1050
00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: Basically, I think I think everyone's the A hole because

1051
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 1: like I disagree. I think everyone's the a whole. I

1052
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:48,640
Speaker 1: think he's more the a hole. But I think I think, uh,

1053
00:56:49,800 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: I think you.

1054
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 2: Know it's in everyone sucks to situation.

1055
00:56:54,800 --> 00:57:01,360
Speaker 1: You cheating is ruining your own integrity, so you shouldn't

1056
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: do it.

1057
00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 2: That's funny.

1058
00:57:08,920 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: We should make a drinking game if we take a

1059
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 1: shot every time Kean says, read, but.

1060
00:57:13,760 --> 00:57:17,600
Speaker 3: That is that is the That is the end of

1061
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 3: that story and the end of that episode, and that

1062
00:57:20,360 --> 00:57:22,320
Speaker 3: means we're going to the next episode.

1063
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 2: Yeah cool, let's do that. One second