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Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the

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Speaker 1: Rough with myself Teddy Mellencamp.

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'm Erica Jane.

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Speaker 1: Erica Jane. How's it going?

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Speaker 2: Well? No, I want to ask you something because I

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Speaker 2: before it was on tmz Okay, our good friend Kyle

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Speaker 2: sent me this video of you Jen and Kyle like

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Speaker 2: with kind of confronting this or this woman that was

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Speaker 2: mistreating her dogs. That looked that way on the video.

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Speaker 2: But I just want to say, Kyle's like videoing and

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Speaker 2: jumping in the back and you are calm. I just

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Speaker 2: so cool, standing there like unfazed. What was the wildest thing?

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Speaker 2: And then I'm scrolling on the TikTok at nighttime and

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Speaker 2: I see that it's on tmz.

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Speaker 1: Well this is the part that kills me. So I

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Speaker 1: get a toe from So this is now? So this

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Speaker 1: what day? Did I see you last week? Wednesday?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Because we did the pod and then I saw

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Speaker 2: you that night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I see you Wednesday night. This whole situation

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Speaker 1: happens on Thursday. And then Friday morning, I get a

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Speaker 1: text message from my publicist. Did you and Kyle happened

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Speaker 1: to get in a brawl on Ventura boulevard.

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Speaker 2: It looked like it was about to be a ball.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this morning. And I said, no, no, we didn't.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, you didn't.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean no, I didn't technically know. And then

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Speaker 1: she goes weird because maybe you could check out this

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Speaker 1: TMZ right here, and I said, well, that was yesterday, Sue.

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Speaker 1: If you want to know the details, you need to

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Speaker 1: ask the right questions. This was yesterday.

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Speaker 2: And so what I got another brawl today?

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Speaker 1: I'm looking for one today. But so what happened was

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Speaker 1: we were walking to my doctor's appointment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it looked like you guys were on a regular.

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Speaker 1: Like we had done like a walk walk. Then we

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Speaker 1: had gone to eat, and then my doctor, the one

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Speaker 1: that's nearby here, was like, oh, I can see her

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Speaker 1: for a blood work whatever. So we're walking on this

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Speaker 1: she is, I mean, it's clear she's like mistreating her dog.

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Speaker 1: She's like dragging them on the ground and like badly,

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Speaker 1: and they're like, you know, like all they can, and Kyle,

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Speaker 1: in a polite way, says, can you please treat your

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Speaker 1: dogs a little nice? And then the woman went frickin' rogue.

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Speaker 1: But then I thought, Okay, this is where it's gonna end.

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Speaker 1: But then the woman. The woman crossed the street, and

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Speaker 1: then Kyle crossed the street, and I'm like, hold up,

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Speaker 1: why are we crossing the street. It's already on like

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Speaker 1: the beware to go to the next side of the street.

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Speaker 1: So Jin looks at me and she's like, we need

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Speaker 1: to get over there, and I'm like, I'm not sure

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Speaker 1: I'm the best one in the fight right now.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say, like, this is all you need

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Speaker 2: is some brawl on and Dura Boulevard.

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Speaker 1: So then we get over there and.

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Speaker 2: Already had the hat on.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I want to warn a better outfit

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Speaker 1: if I knew we were getting in a paparazzi brawl,

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Speaker 1: like I.

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Speaker 3: Was in all beige.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even put a wig on underneath my hat,

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Speaker 1: can I tell you? And so then there's they're fighting.

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Speaker 1: Then the other woman's like screaming, like acting like she's

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Speaker 1: gonna fight Kyle. Kyle's got the phone out, and I

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Speaker 1: just walked in front of her just it was genius.

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Speaker 2: I'm watching everybody's body language and you're just calmly walking

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Speaker 2: in front of every.

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Speaker 1: Probably but I don't even know better.

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Speaker 2: Well, I just think that you're at that place where

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Speaker 2: it's like yeah, and I mean, you're just very.

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Speaker 1: I'm like what, I'm like, what are you gonna do

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Speaker 1: to hurt me? It would be impossible? What and you

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Speaker 1: know how I am? I focus on two little things

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Speaker 1: and all I could focus on was that she had

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Speaker 1: poop in her pants. I know, not not poop, but

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Speaker 1: I saw the poop. But then it turns into a

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Speaker 1: whole thing. Everybody else from Nture Boulevard comes down.

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Speaker 2: How did it resolve? Were the dogs taken away from her?

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Speaker 1: No? We kept calling animals. Yeah, we called nine one.

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Speaker 1: The woman just pulled the dogs away and that was

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Speaker 1: the end. But like nothing, but yeah, that was the

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Speaker 1: no I saw it. But I was really just a

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Speaker 2: Well, Kyle's like, this is how my morning went, and

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Speaker 2: sent me the video and I go, you gotta be

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Speaker 1: But the video, this is what I'm confused about. The

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Speaker 2: Is someone else from across the street.

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Speaker 1: It is someone else's video, and there's no noise, so

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Speaker 2: You know. The video I got was really like okay,

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Speaker 2: this and the trenches yeah yeah, and you just like

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Speaker 2: standing there like what's going on. I'm like literally was

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Speaker 2: like I only my friend.

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Speaker 1: Group, only us, Like you know, no, no, we're not

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Speaker 1: I follow you. Can you go stand over there? And

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Speaker 1: I was like yes, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Oh she was concerned for you. Thank you one lady,

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Speaker 2: because I was concerned for you in the video. I

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Speaker 2: was like, I don't know the should be doing this

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Speaker 2: right now, and you're the most sane one out of everybody.

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Speaker 3: But then all I.

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Speaker 1: Kept thinking was my appointments in seven minutes. We got

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Speaker 1: to get this and they have to walk me to

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Speaker 1: the place I can't be on my own, chased by

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Speaker 1: and now that we've caused a scene. But either way,

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Speaker 1: I mean, the woman was completely inappropriate to her dogs.

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Speaker 1: It was scary. I knew it was gonna set Kyle

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Speaker 1: off because Kyle has a heart. I haven't seen mine

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Speaker 1: in a while, but I think.

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Speaker 2: It's there, still there.

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Speaker 1: It's I felt a.

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Speaker 2: Pump limited engagement only only.

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Speaker 1: When I'm really annoyed, like when cruise came in at

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Speaker 2: What do you do?

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Speaker 1: He was checking my sister's here, and he goes he

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Speaker 1: was checking to see if you were a breathing mom,

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh my gosh. But then I'm like, gross,

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Speaker 1: thank you for checking on me, but you need to

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Speaker 2: He looks so handsome in his baseball Oh.

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Speaker 1: My gosh, that's what's his first game? And he's like,

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Speaker 2: It's great.

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Speaker 1: But baseball is like that sport. It's a long sport

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Speaker 2: It's a long sport, but it's the one that pays

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Speaker 1: There's no boys look the hottest.

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Speaker 2: They're great. I mean, if you, like, you know, play

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Speaker 2: pro baseball. I'm not saying that he is, but he

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Speaker 2: a great way. It's much better than the other pro

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Speaker 2: sports except me be golf. Golf you make a lot

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Speaker 1: Tiger's gotten hurt multiple times. I mean, maybe he hasn't

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Speaker 2: But that's an exception to the rule. Most of them

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Speaker 2: are in pretty good shape. You're not getting hit?

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Speaker 1: Are you just saying this because you're a better golfer

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Speaker 2: It's not the only sport I can see.

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Speaker 1: Oh one other sports singing, dancing, Yes.

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Speaker 2: I can sing, I can dance. I can I can

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Speaker 2: swing a baseball that.

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Speaker 1: Oh see, I can't swing a baseball that. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: not good with clubs.

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Speaker 2: Club Yeah, good with clubs.

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Speaker 1: Clubs are not my strong suit. Yeah, but I'm pretty

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Speaker 1: good at racing. Why was now at this point, I'm

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Speaker 2: I may okay, I may beat you out there, because

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Speaker 2: I'm really I'm really good at sitting and watching things.

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Speaker 2: These days, all I do is I go home. I

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Speaker 2: told you. All I do is put on all these

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Speaker 2: positive meditations because you know why, if I don't, it's

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Speaker 2: going to end up on a crime show.

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Speaker 1: Well that's where I end up.

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Speaker 2: Oh are you watching the true crime?

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Speaker 1: Now? Yeah? I'm watching tons of true crime. And I

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Speaker 1: also watched Adolescents, which is so do you like that?

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Speaker 2: How was that?

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Speaker 1: It's so?

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Speaker 2: It was masterful? But it is a depressing set.

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Speaker 1: It's really depressing. And this I don't want to ruin

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Speaker 1: this for anybody, but like I like a clean cut ending.

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Speaker 2: Oh and there wasn't one. Kind of like life, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Kind of like our lives. Yeah, I don't know. Well,

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Speaker 1: which is the strange thing is we asked all of

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Speaker 2: No more sex.

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Speaker 1: I'm shocked they didn't want to hear every.

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Speaker 2: Jet, the jets. When you're a jet, you're a jet

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Speaker 1: When you're a jet, you're a jet. So they said,

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Speaker 1: we want you guys to discuss the female friendships, especially

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Speaker 2: Okay, let's talk about it.

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Speaker 1: We can talk about it. So the first question is,

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Speaker 1: can you talk about how you didn't hit it off

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Speaker 1: at first and now have a beautiful friendship. What made

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Speaker 1: you go from I don't know about her? All right?

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Speaker 1: This girl is for me.

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Speaker 2: Now? Can I speak first?

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Speaker 1: Yes, and then I'll come back.

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Speaker 2: So I think that when a new person enters the shows,

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Speaker 2: because we obviously met on the show, that sometimes you

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Speaker 2: we didn't hit it off right away, but I gained

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Speaker 2: did the right thing regarding the dog and Dewy and

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Speaker 2: all that. I was like, this woman has balls and

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Speaker 2: this woman is someone and I like that because you

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Speaker 2: were like, I'm not doing this and all of you

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Speaker 2: think you know the whole story. You don't, but I do.

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Speaker 2: And that right there made me think there's really substance

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Speaker 2: that's bold and I liked that, and I.

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Speaker 1: Felt that I felt the shift then too with you

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Speaker 1: guys and pretty much everybody, because I mean it was

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Speaker 1: we sat at that hot table in the Bahamas for

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Speaker 1: a very long time, very long time for me to get.

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Speaker 2: Those balls, but it doesn't matter. You got the balls

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Speaker 2: and you did it. And then I was like, oh shit, yeah,

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Speaker 2: And from then on I was like, cool, we're good.

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Speaker 1: Well for me, it was a little different. I feel

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Speaker 2: You look beautiful like this. I have a nice shaped head.

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Speaker 1: She's just my sister. She looks like we took that

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Speaker 2: I like them. That's a good thing to take because

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Speaker 2: we can work this out, Like that's all right. Other

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Speaker 2: You don't, I'm no, you're not.

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00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:34,440
Speaker 1: You're not, And I think you're the same way.

441
00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:36,439
Speaker 2: No, I'm not saying it. And I won't do if

442
00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:39,399
Speaker 2: somebody comes and asks me to say something or do

443
00:20:39,440 --> 00:20:41,440
Speaker 2: something that I don't agree with, I will not do it.

444
00:20:41,960 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 2: Like no, like to hurt someone else, or to expose

445
00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:48,080
Speaker 2: someone else, or to make someone feel. Now I may

446
00:20:48,119 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 2: do it myself say fuck you, like you know whatever, But.

447
00:20:50,600 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 1: I mean I have done it to people before in

448
00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 1: the past. But I feel like I've learned my lesson

449
00:20:54,359 --> 00:20:57,080
Speaker 1: in that way. I would have. I wish the way

450
00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,960
Speaker 1: that like my gut on my like my little beating heart,

451
00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:04,359
Speaker 1: my little the grand true stool Christmas heart would have

452
00:21:04,560 --> 00:21:08,920
Speaker 1: handled things was like just always gone directly to the person. Yeah,

453
00:21:09,520 --> 00:21:12,200
Speaker 1: but sometimes I would maybe have a stop on the way.

454
00:21:12,080 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 2: And stop always got you in trouble.

455
00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:16,920
Speaker 1: The stop wasn't the stop was.

456
00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,760
Speaker 2: Not the best, not the best idea.

457
00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:23,359
Speaker 1: Do you believe in having one best friend or do

458
00:21:23,440 --> 00:21:26,080
Speaker 1: you think different friends serve different roles.

459
00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,840
Speaker 2: I believe different friends serve different roles. Now I'll tell

460
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 2: you why. Because there are certain people I connect with,

461
00:21:34,480 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 2: let's just say being a mom. Certain people I connect

462
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:41,120
Speaker 2: with with. You know they and and I'm talking about

463
00:21:41,160 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 2: me going to other people. For like, when I share things,

464
00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 2: I share certain things that I feel very comfortable. Somebody

465
00:21:48,359 --> 00:21:51,720
Speaker 2: would know, you know, what do I do with this situation?

466
00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:54,320
Speaker 2: So I feel like I have a lot of My

467
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,760
Speaker 2: friend group is small, but I definitely don't believe in

468
00:21:57,880 --> 00:22:01,920
Speaker 2: one single friend. I like different strengths than people.

469
00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:04,399
Speaker 1: And I think it's I mean, I think if we

470
00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 1: saw all of my friends and you know, my sister

471
00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:11,199
Speaker 1: and everybody combined in one room, which I did in

472
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,840
Speaker 1: the hospital, it was like, I do like a certain type.

473
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,160
Speaker 2: I like a strong will you like people to tell

474
00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:17,840
Speaker 2: it how to? Yeah?

475
00:22:17,880 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 1: I like strong people who are funny, yeah, And so

476
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 1: for me that's key. But when it comes to like

477
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:27,199
Speaker 1: a best friend, like I forgot who my it was?

478
00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 1: Maybe even Justice said who do you think your best

479
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,480
Speaker 1: friend is? And I said, I can't answer who my

480
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 1: best friend is. No, I can answer who. Like my

481
00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:38,200
Speaker 1: core ten people have been.

482
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,520
Speaker 2: Not a lot of people to hunt. But I still

483
00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:44,040
Speaker 2: have high school See that's impressive. I used to have

484
00:22:44,080 --> 00:22:46,440
Speaker 2: high school friends. But you know, I think sometimes my

485
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 2: circle is very small, you know, and I have no

486
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:50,160
Speaker 2: problem like.

487
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:53,120
Speaker 1: But also question, did Tom make your circle smaller?

488
00:22:53,240 --> 00:22:56,399
Speaker 2: I was always small, but yes, I was very wrapped

489
00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 2: up and lived behind gates and was very much involved

490
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,199
Speaker 2: in his life. So I had maybe two or three friends.

491
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 2: But you know who's good. I would go to Lisa

492
00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 2: Renna to say, to ask her a question, and Lisa

493
00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 2: Arena has this very very skilled way of saying, you

494
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:15,160
Speaker 2: know who you should go talk to about that? Go

495
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,280
Speaker 2: talk to this one about that, because I know that

496
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:20,040
Speaker 2: they have experience in that area. Lisa is very good

497
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 2: like that. She'll say, I don't really know much about it,

498
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,399
Speaker 2: but I know that that person does. Go talk to

499
00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,000
Speaker 2: that person, and she's been right on many times, and

500
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 2: I think.

501
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,160
Speaker 1: That that's key. But I also think we have different

502
00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: friends for different seasons in our life. It's not that

503
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:37,199
Speaker 1: I'm not friends with certain people, but like sometimes I'm

504
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:41,520
Speaker 1: really close with someone going through something together. Yeah, and

505
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 1: it feels the same. And then or there are people

506
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: that I was close with and then I had a

507
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: bunch of kids, and then I was like, what am

508
00:23:49,040 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 1: I gonna do every Saturday? I'd be like, you want

509
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: to come hang at the pool with me and my

510
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: forty two kids? No, no, they don't.

511
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: I'm not that girl. No, but I'd rather sit here

512
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 2: and do this with you.

513
00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, but like, we'll figure it out. And I have

514
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,400
Speaker 1: to say the other night when we were at Kyle's

515
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:05,159
Speaker 1: there was a friend that you hadn't metaphrs before, and

516
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 1: after you left, she was like, I am obsessed with Erica.

517
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:13,679
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she was like, she just may lays it

518
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: all out. So it's so effortless to understand. There's no

519
00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:19,480
Speaker 1: like sifting through the mind. And that's the thing. When

520
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:22,080
Speaker 1: you live in Los Angeles, a lot of people feed.

521
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 2: You a lot of bullshit, a lot of bullshit, and

522
00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 2: this is not the place with a time like, you know,

523
00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:30,920
Speaker 2: especially at Kyle's house with you and Jen celebrating Jen,

524
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 2: like that was just not I don't want to do

525
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:35,760
Speaker 2: that at this age, you know, maybe fifty four in

526
00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:38,160
Speaker 2: a few months and I was thinking about that. It's

527
00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 2: just I want to be going to four our birthdays.

528
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,720
Speaker 1: Should we go do something big for shit? Because you're

529
00:24:45,720 --> 00:24:47,119
Speaker 1: going to be fifty four and I'm going to be

530
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 1: forty five. Oh, it's got to mean something.

531
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 2: It's got to be so let's do something. Should we

532
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,400
Speaker 2: get our other cancer girlfriends together to Yes, let's do it.

533
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,000
Speaker 2: That would be fun actually because we all our birthdays

534
00:24:59,040 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 2: are in a row.

535
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,399
Speaker 1: And we've never all been able to do it before

536
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 1: because the last time you were in another country for

537
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: my fortieth, so you couldn't come to that shit show

538
00:25:07,640 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: of my birthday.

539
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,159
Speaker 2: But it was this time. We really need to have

540
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 2: a good time.

541
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:11,919
Speaker 1: We're going to do it.

542
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 2: Let's do it.

543
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,879
Speaker 1: Do you believe the quality of friends over quantity is

544
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:16,480
Speaker 1: more important?

545
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 2: Yes, for sure, quality over quantity every.

546
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: Time, every time.

547
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 2: And I think also too when you're going I know

548
00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 2: us being on this show for a long time, and.

549
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:27,680
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know that I was on it

550
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: for a long time.

551
00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:31,639
Speaker 2: No, I'm talking about like in this like but your

552
00:25:31,680 --> 00:25:34,679
Speaker 2: other shows as well, like in your public life, the

553
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,360
Speaker 2: quality of your friends, because there are only certain people

554
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 2: that you trust in this circle because not everybody has

555
00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 2: the best intentions here.

556
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 1: No, And somebody said that to me, even with my

557
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:47,960
Speaker 1: cancer stuff.

558
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I was going to say the same thing, like there,

559
00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: I'm sure there are lots of people that are trying

560
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 2: to get close to you for all the wrong reasons.

561
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: Well, someone said to me, and this is somebody I

562
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 1: ride horses with. She was like, be careful for the

563
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,320
Speaker 1: friends that you all a sudden have that be your

564
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:04,320
Speaker 1: friends before that you had cancer. And I was like,

565
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: why would anyone? And then I realized it's like everything

566
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: that they post or everything that they do hits gets

567
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:17,280
Speaker 1: the more social media followers. That it's really wild, wild

568
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 1: to think about because I I actually, for me, it's

569
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 1: if I don't like you, I don't like you, I

570
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: don't want to spend.

571
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,680
Speaker 2: Time with You've never and you've always been I don't

572
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 2: like that. No, I don't like that.

573
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:29,959
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, yeah, And if I don't like it,

574
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,399
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna you're not doing it.

575
00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 2: No, you don't fake it.

576
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 1: And I think that's also the power of no, which

577
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 1: goes into like the same thing as like having quantity

578
00:26:37,840 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 1: over quality friends, Like if I don't want to do something,

579
00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: you're not doing it like I don't care what event

580
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,720
Speaker 1: it is. Like there's been times where all the girls

581
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,360
Speaker 1: are like you guys, went to a dinner one night

582
00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 1: and the Fox fours five did and they messaged me

583
00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:55,640
Speaker 1: and they're like them and they're like it starts at eight.

584
00:26:55,880 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm not going love you guys.

585
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 2: We actually had to arrange our lunches and our dinners

586
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 2: around your schedule.

587
00:27:03,840 --> 00:27:05,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, because I don't like to do shit late.

588
00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,959
Speaker 2: Well this was even before, like this has been years,

589
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,080
Speaker 2: you know, not just recently.

590
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I was right, it's better to do things early.

591
00:27:13,640 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 2: No, I look, I'm with you. We like the other night,

592
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,359
Speaker 2: I know, we were over at kyle'son home by nine.

593
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,040
Speaker 1: Oh guys, you didn't even get to see my tattoo. Okay,

594
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:26,719
Speaker 1: So always I've wanted this tattoo and I never got it. Also,

595
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,440
Speaker 1: before everybody has a full mental break.

596
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 2: She was allowed ID to get the tattoo, So don't

597
00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 2: get crazy.

598
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:37,159
Speaker 1: So my entire family and I have talked at all

599
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:39,679
Speaker 1: these holidays about wanting to get this little knife. I

600
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:41,840
Speaker 1: don't know if you can see it, but and also

601
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:43,719
Speaker 1: don't mind that my nails that I've bitten off as

602
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 1: I show you this, but because I want to whenever

603
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:50,280
Speaker 1: I'm annoyed, just be able to go. And then anyone

604
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: that knows me knows we're done with this conversation.

605
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 2: We're not going any further.

606
00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 1: Plus, Justice reminded me we had a song that went

607
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: with it, and we'd go, I think, God, this little knife.

608
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,479
Speaker 2: Oh well there you go.

609
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:05,359
Speaker 1: Do you remember I think I like this little life.

610
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: That was the most obnoxious song ever. Will you know

611
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 1: what we've now taken it for the little knife?

612
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 2: I like it. I wish I could have gotten a knife,

613
00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 2: but I look kind of you know, that's all I

614
00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 2: need for my rebuild.

615
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: You know, Eric has gotten a night back.

616
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 2: We always know she was terrible. Relax, it's not that deep. Um,

617
00:28:26,440 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 2: let me live.

618
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: Okay. What do you think the secret is to keeping

619
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:34,640
Speaker 1: a strong friendship going communication?

620
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 2: And it doesn't always have to be if you were

621
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 2: friends with somebody, I can pick up with you. Like

622
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 2: let's say I have friends, I don't speak to them

623
00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 2: for months, a couple months, but when I do, it's

624
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: like we never be left. And that to me is

625
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 2: the signal of a real friendship.

626
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: Me too, It's a lot, a lot that are needy

627
00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: and all pain in the ass, and like I texted you,

628
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: but I didn't hear right back from you. Yeah, I

629
00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: just had fucking brain cancer.

630
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's I've been busy.

631
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: I can't see my text message. And the last thing

632
00:29:04,200 --> 00:29:09,719
Speaker 1: that I'm gonna do is my eyes. Yeah, and listen,

633
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: if you want me to call you right back, tell

634
00:29:11,600 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: me you got some gossip.

635
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: You better be worth it at this point.

636
00:29:15,400 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 1: If you're just checking in on me, this is what

637
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: I also learned. If you're just checking in on somebody,

638
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 1: say hey, I'm just checking in on me. You don't

639
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,760
Speaker 1: need to write me back, no, but just sending.

640
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,440
Speaker 2: Love, just sending hugs.

641
00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's great. Then I don't have to worry about it.

642
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:30,240
Speaker 2: I don't worry about it.

643
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: And then is there's such a thing as too much

644
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: honesty and a friendship?

645
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:42,560
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I think that for me, if something does

646
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:48,840
Speaker 2: not help or something or is Look, I think a

647
00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 2: lot of people have put this. I'm unfiltered. I say

648
00:29:51,800 --> 00:29:54,920
Speaker 2: it the way it is. That's great. Yeah, but if

649
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 2: it hurts, hold on, Like if it's not something critical,

650
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: if I knew something that was drastically going to change

651
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 2: something for you, I'd listen I've got to tell you

652
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 2: this is not going to be easy. But I got

653
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:09,960
Speaker 2: to tell you this, which is like my fucking opinion.

654
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:11,320
Speaker 2: Who cares?

655
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 1: You know, It's like, but I also think, I mean,

656
00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:17,680
Speaker 1: I was in a situation the other day where I mean,

657
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: this was with somebody of the male gender, So it

658
00:30:20,800 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 1: was different because I think sometimes they miss social cues

659
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: a lot. And it's nobody that I had a relationship

660
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,600
Speaker 1: with or anything. But they were like, hey, you know,

661
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 1: the next time that you're irritated about, it's somebody I

662
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 1: work with, the next time, will you pull me aside

663
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 1: and tell me and tell me and not in front

664
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,040
Speaker 1: of a group. And I was like, well, I don't

665
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,479
Speaker 1: consider two people a group and we all work together.

666
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 2: Oh like.

667
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,280
Speaker 1: But then I found myself getting crazy, Like then I

668
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: was like trying to prove myself.

669
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 2: Well, you're competitive.

670
00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: Well then I was like, well, did you make a

671
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: mistake or did you not?

672
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:57,959
Speaker 2: Well? See competitive, this is who she is.

673
00:30:58,440 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: But then I found myself going, why couldn't you have

674
00:31:00,960 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: just gone.

675
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,320
Speaker 2: Oh way, you're right, okay.

676
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: Next time, I'll solely bring it up to you. But like,

677
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:07,000
Speaker 1: is that.

678
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 2: I think you probably could have left it it okay? Yeah,

679
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 2: when you start driving home the point a little too hard.

680
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: It's not great.

681
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 2: It's not great.

682
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 1: I made a shake on it at the end.

683
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 2: That's okay.

684
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean it's not great.

685
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 2: Look it's it's not terrible. It's not earth shattering. Yeah,

686
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:31,800
Speaker 2: but it's just something for next time, like that cool.

687
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: Like I should have put. Then this hot part of

688
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 1: my body fills up and I'm like I need to

689
00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:40,800
Speaker 1: show I know, well, is there a friendship as an

690
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 1: adult that you've cut off? And why?

691
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 2: Let me think about that. I didn't have a whole

692
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 2: lot to cut out. No, nothing comes to mind right now?

693
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 2: What about you?

694
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 1: Only one? And it wasn't necessarily a cut off. It

695
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 1: was like the year. I mean, weirdly, I had a

696
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: year that was almost as bad as this one. It

697
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: was right when it was right when I got fired

698
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 1: and Slade amputato her fingers right.

699
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:11,440
Speaker 2: And both of our lives burned down that time. So yeah,

700
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 2: I'm sorry to anybody, but like both of Slate's finger

701
00:32:14,480 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 2: got chopped off, the guy got killed at your house,

702
00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 2: you got fired, her head right, all of it.

703
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:23,480
Speaker 1: It was a rough year and somebody that I had

704
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 1: worked with, Oh, then I was getting attacked on the

705
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: internet by a stranger. Yes, so somebody that I had

706
00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: worked with was very upset that me getting attacked online,

707
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: was upset was hurting her business that she started because

708
00:32:41,040 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: of mine. Okay, that's I was like, you know what,

709
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: I'm not.

710
00:32:46,040 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 2: Mad at you, but I don't need this.

711
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm not going to talk about this with you,

712
00:32:50,080 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 1: like your your business came to fruition becaucause of me

713
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: because of a television show I was on, And you

714
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 1: don't think I'm also bummed on how it's affected my business.

715
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,400
Speaker 2: Right Like, I don't feel good either, So let's not.

716
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's not. This is so for me. It's like,

717
00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: if you're gonna come to me and be mad over

718
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:10,320
Speaker 1: something I can do, Like what was I going to do?

719
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 1: Be like, hey, Alex Baskin, producer of Housewives, can you

720
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: please ignore everything that's going on and bring me back.

721
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 1: One of my friends is a little irritated, right.

722
00:33:20,680 --> 00:33:23,160
Speaker 2: Like, why is this all of a sudden about her

723
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 2: and not about you? You know, I don't have I

724
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: keep so few people close that I think there are

725
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 2: different levels different Well, there are acquaintances, you know. So

726
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 2: the people that are close to me are close to me,

727
00:33:35,520 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 2: and yeah, I haven't. I don't think anybody in my

728
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 2: adult relationships.

729
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 1: Do you think your friends are similar to you or different?

730
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:46,479
Speaker 1: Like Liyah, for example, I think is like she feels

731
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 1: like a pulled back.

732
00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:51,880
Speaker 2: But she's quiet strength, quiet strength. She's very scrappy, but

733
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 2: she's very quiet strengths.

734
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: She keeps it undercover, very but she gets sh done

735
00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:57,480
Speaker 1: within seconds.

736
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:01,120
Speaker 2: She does. And she's also tough. She's very tough, but

737
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 2: you wouldn't. She's not projecting it outward. Yeah, I'm trying

738
00:34:05,920 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: to think like friendships. No, but I've cut some people

739
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 2: out romantically like that. I've seen post divorce that I

740
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 2: think we're just not the best. Ye.

741
00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:17,919
Speaker 1: How long did it take you to figure that out?

742
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: Too long? You know what I mean? Too long and

743
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 2: not that in the sense that, oh my god, I

744
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:28,040
Speaker 2: wasted time because look whatever that means, but it was

745
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:30,960
Speaker 2: just like it wasn't necessary and looking back on it now,

746
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 2: I'm glad that that's sober.

747
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh, we got to get back to the word

748
00:34:35,400 --> 00:34:36,399
Speaker 1: we don't like to use.

749
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 2: What's that one?

750
00:34:37,480 --> 00:34:39,280
Speaker 1: We're going We're on to the second page.

751
00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 2: We are what do we have love languages or their friendship? Okay,

752
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 2: sweepy as being in the public life changed the way

753
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,919
Speaker 2: you trust or form new friendships. Absolutely, but you've always

754
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,280
Speaker 2: been in the public eye like you guys have always

755
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 2: even though you grow I know you always say this.

756
00:34:55,239 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 2: We grew up on Hilton Head. My dad's from Indiana,

757
00:34:57,960 --> 00:34:59,400
Speaker 2: Like I get it. But your father was like a

758
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 2: really big star. So don't tell me both of you

759
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:06,080
Speaker 2: that that didn't come into play like people knew so

760
00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 2: did you ever see?

761
00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: But we were chosen too at that point. We were

762
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:16,040
Speaker 1: like he had two like tall ass sons that played

763
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 1: like rugby or whatever.

764
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: I have to stop you. I knew your dad was

765
00:35:21,080 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 2: a big rock star, like and I'm older than you,

766
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: so to me, you've always been the children, Like I

767
00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:32,439
Speaker 2: knew that there were other kids, but.

768
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 1: But we got more attention. We got more attention from

769
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,480
Speaker 1: like I just did an interview with Shep. We got

770
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 1: more attention from my mom because my mom like we

771
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 1: had like a big party house and like, yeah, like

772
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: everybody would talk about Vicky, you know, like so it's

773
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:53,160
Speaker 1: yeah and the monkey, the monkey, the monkey mean to you, Yeah,

774
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: but yeah, I think we always did have our dad.

775
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 1: But because we put even though other people may have

776
00:35:58,960 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: put him on a pedestal.

777
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 2: Oh no, he's just your dad.

778
00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 1: We didn't.

779
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,680
Speaker 2: And by the way, I had to defend John Mellencamp

780
00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 2: the other day Teddy in an interview. Did you know that?

781
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I did.

782
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 2: I thought I was going over there to talk to

783
00:36:12,680 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 2: masked singer and this dude says, so John Mellencamp says

784
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 2: he's preparing for the muscle. I said, whoa, this is

785
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 2: like humorous, like let's not go down.

786
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,840
Speaker 1: Like I made a total freaking joke about it. And

787
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: he was like, let's pick our top six And I'm like,

788
00:36:28,000 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 1: what are we going back to? What was it before Facebook?

789
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 2: Or that my Space? The top six? But I just

790
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 2: want you to know, like in that interview, I was like, what,

791
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,880
Speaker 2: like what the fuck? Like, don't don't make this dark,

792
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 2: like this was something that they you know that you

793
00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 2: and your father were talking about this. There's humor in

794
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:47,920
Speaker 2: the here.

795
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:51,160
Speaker 1: And in that same token like here he knows me

796
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 1: well enough. Like I even told my sister when she came,

797
00:36:53,880 --> 00:36:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, no crying around. I don't want to.

798
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it.

799
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:02,240
Speaker 1: But my dad knows that I need like some comedy

800
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 1: to this because his next quote or his next thing

801
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: was like, all right, now we actually really do have

802
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 1: to get talking serious, like we need to talk about

803
00:37:11,320 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: your will and like your living trust and like do

804
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 1: the things we need to do, you know. But like

805
00:37:17,000 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 1: sometimes I don't want just someone to come pummel me,

806
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:20,320
Speaker 1: like let's.

807
00:37:20,160 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: Joke, let's have a good time, because he thinks are

808
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 2: so heavy.

809
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

810
00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:25,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, So I was like, no, I don't. I don't

811
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 2: think John Minnett like that, Like, yeah, don't don't do

812
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:30,440
Speaker 2: this to me right now. I'm a fuck you up.

813
00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:31,720
Speaker 2: I was really pissed.

814
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: And then is coming from I know it was, and

815
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:38,160
Speaker 1: it was everywhere, like that day that was everywhere, and

816
00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 1: so was me getting in an altercation. I've been for

817
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 1: the dogs.

818
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was like telling you, we're the most calm

819
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 2: person in the entire.

820
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: I was like, can I not get a fucking break.

821
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: I'm not even trying to fight with anyone.

822
00:37:47,239 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 2: Even what you did in your past life to deserve

823
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 2: all this chaos, I.

824
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:53,479
Speaker 1: Must have done some fucked up shit.

825
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:08,439
Speaker 2: So do you think that you you're okay? So we're

826
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 2: talking about you being in the public eye. I think

827
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:11,799
Speaker 2: you've been in the public eye since you were young.

828
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:16,000
Speaker 2: So you know, what, do you have any new friends? No?

829
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,400
Speaker 1: No, I keep the same friend I mean I have

830
00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: my most recent set of friends, our friends that I

831
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 1: met and Mommy and Me with Slate. Okay, so because

832
00:38:24,560 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: that's when you're you know, that's over ten years ago.

833
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:30,359
Speaker 1: It's because you have a big life change, and there were.

834
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,760
Speaker 2: People bond with women that are doing like Matt.

835
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:34,040
Speaker 1: Was one of my fucking friends. What am I going

836
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: to do with him? With my kids?

837
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 2: What you were.

838
00:38:40,400 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 1: Ten years ago? Not in Mommy and Me.

839
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:44,239
Speaker 2: Oh, I was like, you're and Mommy and me?

840
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: You have not Literally my brain I'm saying my current

841
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 1: friend group was askew.

842
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm with it now.

843
00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 1: Jeepers, I didn't know I was going to spell it

844
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:56,560
Speaker 1: out on the pod. Now.

845
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:58,840
Speaker 2: Sorry, Are there any friendships that got stronger because of

846
00:38:58,880 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 2: what you went through on the show, Yes, you're looking

847
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:06,840
Speaker 2: at it. Yeah, and I think that you know, people,

848
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 2: a lot of people watch the show and they think

849
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 2: they know what the show is about or how you feel,

850
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:20,040
Speaker 2: but that's not true. The only people who really know

851
00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:21,719
Speaker 2: what the show does to them are the women that

852
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,680
Speaker 2: have been on the show. And you do form real

853
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 2: friendships when you were not. I mean, there's some people

854
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:33,440
Speaker 2: that we've worked with it that not one not one iota.

855
00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:36,600
Speaker 1: But there's plenty of time where you form the friendships.

856
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,200
Speaker 1: I would say we had some of our best laughs

857
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 1: on planes, of course. I mean, granted, our first time

858
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 1: we were filmed on a plane and that's when we

859
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:45,200
Speaker 1: decided we didn't like each other.

860
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 2: But after that start, but after.

861
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: That, like our plane, right, because remember we would fly

862
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:56,000
Speaker 1: thirty six hours to go somewhere for three days. Yes,

863
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: so we were by the time our flight home, we

864
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,920
Speaker 1: were just like can I sit next to Erica?

865
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 2: Yeah? Can I just sit next to you? Like, do

866
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 2: you have any snack? Do you want this? People don't

867
00:40:08,120 --> 00:40:10,440
Speaker 2: realize that, and you kind of bond in those situations.

868
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 2: I remember when Durit this is before you joined the cast,

869
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:14,680
Speaker 2: and I were not getting along in Hong Kong and

870
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 2: we had all just gotten rained on and we're all

871
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 2: sitting in the back of this mini van and she

872
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:22,719
Speaker 2: had the poncho and she went just like, you know,

873
00:40:22,840 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 2: like I was like thank you, you know, like we

874
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 2: were not gonna here.

875
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:30,440
Speaker 1: I was like you like, no, you would do that

876
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 1: too with Tom's because I'd always get carsick. Eric would

877
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: be like, you didn't bring him again, and I was

878
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 1: like no, and you'd be.

879
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: Like, yes, here are your fucking tongues and fucking pregnant woman.

880
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,080
Speaker 2: And I was always fascinating. I have to roll down

881
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 2: the window. I'm so hot, like you were sick. I

882
00:40:49,520 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 2: was impressed. I want to tell everybody doing that.

883
00:40:53,040 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 1: I want to tell everybody about friendships. Sprinter van I said,

884
00:40:56,760 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: we made friendships and planes, not sprinter vans. Sprinter Vans

885
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: is where you find the world. If they used all

886
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,800
Speaker 1: the footage from the sprinter vans, all.

887
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:07,440
Speaker 2: The cussing out that we did of everybody.

888
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: Everyone, I mean, it didn't matter if it was one

889
00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:10,760
Speaker 1: of us, if it was one.

890
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 2: Of production, if it was anybody. Just the level of

891
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 2: anger in a sprinter van. No.

892
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 1: We would get in and would be like, how long

893
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,360
Speaker 1: to the horse riding that we're doing, and they'd be

894
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 1: like seventy two minutes and I'd be like, don't act

895
00:41:23,800 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: like that's not more than an hour, because you said

896
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:26,759
Speaker 1: seventy two you know.

897
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 2: Like it was very tough. We sprinter vans do not

898
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 2: do something wrong with them.

899
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: Why they need to get better recording in there, because

900
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 1: that is they don't. Yes, you know what it will

901
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 1: they get down?

902
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,879
Speaker 2: No, do not get better recording in the sprinter van.

903
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 1: I appreciate Erica is not her friendliest and a sprinter

904
00:41:45,000 --> 00:41:45,839
Speaker 1: I'm not.

905
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 2: I'm not.

906
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,160
Speaker 1: She might need more tumps and other things.

907
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 2: I need lots of other things. The sprinter vans make

908
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:54,920
Speaker 2: me wild. I don't know what it is. I just

909
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 2: I think because the seats are so uncomfortable.

910
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 1: And if you have to sit backwards, or if you're

911
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 1: late and you have to sit said someone you don't like,

912
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: and then you're like, they're not going to use this anyway,

913
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: and now this person doesn't want to talk.

914
00:42:07,800 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 2: But I you know, it's funny because we were talking

915
00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,280
Speaker 2: at the reunion about how d was smoking a sig

916
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 2: in the car and Kyle said, oh, you never thought

917
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 2: that they'd use that, and I go, oh, they use.

918
00:42:17,200 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: I assume everything they'll use, like.

919
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 1: And this isn't to dog out to read. I love

920
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: to read, and I've smoked a sig myself, or a

921
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:27,760
Speaker 1: vape or whatever.

922
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 2: You know, the first time I saw you smoking was

923
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:32,840
Speaker 2: with the crew and Provence when you were drunk. I

924
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,520
Speaker 2: didn't know Teddy drunk smoke. I didn't know Teddy smoked

925
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 2: until I caught her out back in France smoking. I

926
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: was like, oh, misfitness. She watched Miss Lifestyle.

927
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: And I was great. I'm like, I was curious because

928
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: the only person that actually carried six what were dread

929
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 1: And I went to smoking parliaments and no, hers are

930
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: parliament lights snow with whatever menthols.

931
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 2: And so I'm like, wow, she smokes American spirits, but

932
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 2: I know she smoked pfunks.

933
00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 1: So I had to move on from her, and I

934
00:43:09,640 --> 00:43:11,560
Speaker 1: went to the crew andmy, does anyone have a cigarette

935
00:43:11,560 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 1: that doesn't have menthol in it?

936
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:16,480
Speaker 2: I saw you back there smoking in a skirt and drunk,

937
00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,719
Speaker 2: and I was like, what the fuck part of the

938
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,720
Speaker 2: show is this? I had no idea.

939
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 1: I mean even Chris walked out to yell at me,

940
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: like get back in there.

941
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:26,279
Speaker 2: I know that's what I saw.

942
00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 1: But that's why I never thought that they would use

943
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: to eat smoking on camera.

944
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:35,399
Speaker 2: Because I was smoking with the camera. Man.

945
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 1: That's my point. Thank you Pablo for never sharing, Fuck

946
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 1: off Erica for sharing well whatever, but it's not why

947
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:48,719
Speaker 1: I got the cancers. Guys, it's a different kind My metastaised.

948
00:43:48,160 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 2: You had this, do you know I saw your skin

949
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:52,359
Speaker 2: cancer with that night in Vegas that we're talking about.

950
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 2: I saw it on your shoulder. I can tell you

951
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:56,840
Speaker 2: what you're wearing, wearing a black romper. We were standing

952
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,600
Speaker 2: on the balcony. It was at nighttime, it was the summertime,

953
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 2: were standing in the Venetian and I saw this and

954
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 2: I thought, oh my gosh, I wonder if those are

955
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,440
Speaker 2: scars or something. I saw it. I was like the

956
00:44:06,440 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 2: first time I'd ever met. I was like, what is

957
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:08,680
Speaker 2: that on her sid?

958
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,399
Speaker 1: Because what year was the first year that I came

959
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: on What I'm trying to remember.

960
00:44:13,200 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 2: Like, so I did season six, You came on season seven,

961
00:44:16,280 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 2: and I think he went season eight.

962
00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 1: That was probably two thousand and seven.

963
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, something like that.

964
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: Huh, seventeen, two thousand seventeen. Still not good with dates,

965
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: still not good. Nineteen ninety, nineteen ninety nine.

966
00:44:30,080 --> 00:44:31,839
Speaker 2: Thought it was nineteen ninety nine for a long time

967
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:33,000
Speaker 2: here recently.

968
00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 1: Nineteen ninety the whole time I was in the hospital,

969
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: I was like nine nine.

970
00:44:36,160 --> 00:44:36,480
Speaker 2: Good year.

971
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 1: The year I graduated high school.

972
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 2: That's what it is.

973
00:44:39,719 --> 00:44:42,480
Speaker 1: Eighty nine graduated high school.

974
00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:47,439
Speaker 2: You didn't graduate high school barely? Oh you did, I'm saying,

975
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 2: did you get kicked down.

976
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:50,960
Speaker 1: No, I just wanted to go to the horse shows

977
00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 1: at the end. No, I would you know what, didn't

978
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:55,360
Speaker 1: make it to college.

979
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 2: But you guys do it just fining.

980
00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:00,080
Speaker 1: Keep tuning in to Diamonds in the Rough because, and

981
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 1: though it may be more rough than diamonds, half the

982
00:45:02,400 --> 00:45:04,520
Speaker 1: time when you listen to us, we're doing our best.

983
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: We're having a great time. I'm just happy to spend

984
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 2: the time with you and have you smiling and laughing.

985
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 2: I know, and I'm glad we're friends. It's brilliant.

986
00:45:11,200 --> 00:45:14,359
Speaker 1: But let's fight next week. No, what can we fight

987
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 1: with about?

988
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 2: Fighting about anything with you?

989
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think what I could do to really

990
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:20,399
Speaker 1: piss you off. No, I can pull your eyelash off.

991
00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: That would piss you off.

992
00:45:21,520 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 2: Here, do it right now. I'm not mad, Oh, Mike.

993
00:45:27,040 --> 00:45:29,799
Speaker 1: I'm mad because I didn't put any on today. Well, thanks, guys,

994
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:30,239
Speaker 1: tune in.

995
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 2: So there's my in the woods. I love you.

996
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 1: All we need is some kind of velvet outfit and

997
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: we're good to go.

998
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 2: Love you, love you, Bye bye, guys.