1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: Bye from the Windrust Studios, UKSFM Chicago, KIM and I 2 00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:10,559 Speaker 1: Heart Radio Station. Here's Fred and everyone. Six or nine Tuesday, 3 00:00:10,560 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 1: October twenty nine, Thread and NANGI you're here. Hello Auntie Taylor. Hello, 4 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:19,720 Speaker 1: Happy rainy Tuesday, Rufio and I got a second morning 5 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 1: Richard the uber driver running Richard First, I got in 6 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: the uber and he had one on, three five on, 7 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 1: So that's a first. That's a good sign. Your tip 8 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 1: is going up. I see that, and then he goes 9 00:00:34,440 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: your friend. I'm like, yeah, Now I'm embarrassed because it's 10 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: gonna be the worst Uber ride of all time because 11 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:43,279 Speaker 1: it's only gonna be five dollars. What where you take 12 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: an uber from my house? Because it's raining? You nosy? 13 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 1: So you're trying to get me to say homegirls house. 14 00:00:50,880 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 1: I won a Homegirls house one nosy? Nosy? Oh guy, 15 00:00:57,360 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: that doesn't matter what I said. That wouldn't be that 16 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:05,840 Speaker 1: much scandal. If I had right this girlfriend rock, what'd 17 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: you take it home from Schanberg? Oh? Now that would 18 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:13,880 Speaker 1: be scandal. Who's in Schaumberg? Nobuddy? I didn't anyway, shout 19 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: out to uh to Richard, nice guy, Richard and Richard's girlfriend. 20 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 1: I guess listen, I don't know her name. He didn't 21 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: tell me that much, but yeah, home, well no, that's 22 00:01:22,920 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 1: well better enough, better enough, home girl. What I want 23 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:29,960 Speaker 1: to know? You got in the car. I saw your 24 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,600 Speaker 1: picture next to the bedstand, on the bed stand next 25 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: to the bed right there. Anyway, Um wow, this took 26 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: a turn. The Entertainer Report about fifteen minutes. What's coming up? 27 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:43,319 Speaker 1: She easy loves him some Nando's. He also loves giving 28 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: free Nando's away to chicagoans. I'll tell you what he 29 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 1: did and trending stories bullet Poice and start you Tuesday 30 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 1: next on one three five one three five Guess FM 31 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: Chicago's number one Hit music stage of Fred and NANGI 32 00:01:57,400 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: did we win the rattiest city of the year again? 33 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: I'll say in a second Apple A couple of Apple 34 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: stories today. Um boobs are trending. A very heroic dog. 35 00:02:11,240 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: Let me see what else? Yeah, that's about the gisto 36 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:17,360 Speaker 1: and those are the important things you need to know. 37 00:02:17,400 --> 00:02:20,720 Speaker 1: We'll get to it next. M report on Fred and 38 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: what's trending in Chicago with Fred and Angie. I'm one 39 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: of three five kiss all right, the most rat infested 40 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: city Chicago. This is the fifth consecutive year, by the way. Yeah. 41 00:02:34,320 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: The annual report from Pest Control Company ORCAN is based 42 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 1: on the number of rodent treatments the company performed from 43 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 1: September fift twenty eighteen to September fifteenth, fifteenth to the 44 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: fifteen eighteen to nineteen and includes both residential and commercial treatments. 45 00:02:47,960 --> 00:02:52,720 Speaker 1: The Tanaradius city is, according to ORCAN, Chicago, LA, New York, KEC, 46 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 1: San Francisco, Oakland, San Jose, Detroit, Cleveland, Akron, Minneapolis, Philadelphia, 47 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: and ed And Yeah, I've only ever seen one rat here, really, Yeah, Yeah, 48 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: I mean I don't see him. You're living in like 49 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 1: a high rise. You usually don't really see them a lot. 50 00:03:12,840 --> 00:03:15,679 Speaker 1: I mean mostly like in the alley. Yeah, I don't 51 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,839 Speaker 1: see him inside, but yeah, mostly in the alleys, you know. Yeah, 52 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:20,920 Speaker 1: Like we're paying you a living wage around here. You 53 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 1: seeing rats in your house? Your house? I see him 54 00:03:25,560 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 1: in the alleys him. Um, people are using If you're 55 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,959 Speaker 1: using an iPhone five Kalen, since you have a three, 56 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,639 Speaker 1: you got to update the software on your phone or 57 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,680 Speaker 1: it's going to stab working on Sunday after twelve am 58 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 1: on Sunday, November third. iPhone five owners won't be able 59 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 1: to connect to the internet unless they have the iOS 60 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:46,720 Speaker 1: ten three four. Those with the four S and various 61 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: older iterations of the iPad will also need to update 62 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: the software on their devices. The problem has stemmed from 63 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: a GPS bug which only occurs every nineteen years, causing 64 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:59,240 Speaker 1: some devices to lose track of time. The bug fixes 65 00:03:59,280 --> 00:04:01,960 Speaker 1: were only apply to Apple software iOS TM three four 66 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:04,680 Speaker 1: and iOS nine three six and later, so anyone who 67 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: hasn't updated will face serious problems. And also you'll soon 68 00:04:10,760 --> 00:04:12,880 Speaker 1: want a new phone because everything will slow weight down, 69 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: even though our friend and Apple says that's not true. 70 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: Apple unveiled new AirPods, the AirPods Pro with noise cancelation. 71 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: Of course they did, because I just bought AirPods like 72 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 1: three months ago. Obviously, the tech giant says. The noise 73 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 1: cancelation inside the AirPods will it's accomplished for a pair 74 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: of microphones that are combined with advanced software. They'll hit 75 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 1: Apple stores tomorrow and you'll have to drop two forty nine. 76 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:41,720 Speaker 1: They're not pretty looking, No they're not. No, they're not 77 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,919 Speaker 1: They look like regular like other buds. Now they have 78 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:48,599 Speaker 1: like they look like uncircumcised AirPods, the multiple tips that 79 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 1: you could change the adjusticizing. Yeah, they're they're weird. They 80 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: look like the AirPod. And then it's kind of like 81 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 1: they look like uncircumcised AirPod. Yeah, like it's got a 82 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 1: pimple on the on an AirPod. Now what they do. 83 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:04,880 Speaker 1: They're not pretty looking. We go look at him, You'll 84 00:05:04,920 --> 00:05:07,239 Speaker 1: see what I'm talking about. Two models flashed their boobs 85 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: during Sunday's World Series game, and now Major League Baseball 86 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: has banned them for life. It was the seventh inning 87 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:14,960 Speaker 1: of Game five between the Nats and the Astros in 88 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:18,279 Speaker 1: DC when Julia Rose and Lauren Summer were seen lifting 89 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,480 Speaker 1: their shirts as Garret Cole prepared to throw a pitch. 90 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 1: The game was briefly held up in security escorted the 91 00:05:24,160 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 1: models from their seats. Um, there you go. So there 92 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: was a letter person. Shame on him MLB for banning them. 93 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: These are like the lowest ratings in history, and here 94 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,280 Speaker 1: they are trying to help it out. Right now, everyone's 95 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 1: been talking about it for the past four days. That's 96 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:43,159 Speaker 1: exactly right. No one's watching the World Series compared to 97 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 1: other years, and here you are doing a public service, 98 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: and now you're banned from all Major League Baseball stadiums 99 00:05:49,240 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: and facilities indefinitely. If they would have like given them 100 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: tickets to the rest of the game, yeah, people would 101 00:05:54,720 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: watch just to wait for the flash. That would have 102 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 1: been something else. Breast Cancer Awareness Month, that's what they 103 00:05:59,640 --> 00:06:03,200 Speaker 1: were doing. They say they were raising awareness for breast cancer. 104 00:06:03,279 --> 00:06:05,760 Speaker 1: The women also said it's completely unfair for them to 105 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: be banned for life when men have been going topless 106 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: at supporting events for decades. Yeah. I'd rather see their 107 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:15,400 Speaker 1: boobs than sweaty old dude with a dcup. Yeah, I 108 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 1: love it. Dude with a dcup, Come on, Washington Nationals fans. 109 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:20,560 Speaker 1: To begin of the World Series. Jeff Adams became a 110 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 1: viral star after Sunday's World Series game when TV cameras 111 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: caught him taking a ball to the chest while holding 112 00:06:26,440 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 1: beers in both hands. He didn't want to drop any 113 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 1: of the beers to catch the ball. He was carrying 114 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: the two bud lights when an Astros player hit a 115 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,719 Speaker 1: two run homer which hit him in the chest. He's 116 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: kind of a large chested man. Bounced off he got 117 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: the ball. Video of the moment was all over Twitter, 118 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 1: and people were loving the fact that he took the 119 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 1: shot rather than spill a drop of beer. He said 120 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:47,640 Speaker 1: he saw the ball coming but decided to let it 121 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 1: hit him. I'm solid, he said. The marketing team at 122 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: bud Light also noticed, calling Adams a hero for saving 123 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 1: his beers. They also tweeted that they've been in contact 124 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 1: with him. He'll be wearing a new T shirt commemorating 125 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: the heroic moment, and um, I guess he's going to 126 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 1: the next game too, which is to night. He used 127 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: to have a Twitter because someone's gonna find some every 128 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: time someone does something. Tweet from two thousand time, ten 129 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 1: years ago he wrote something that was horrible, which was 130 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:24,560 Speaker 1: exactly that dude needs to wipe swipe every day from 131 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:28,040 Speaker 1: the internet completely. A military working dog it was wounded 132 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:33,120 Speaker 1: while tracking down Isis leader Abu Bakar Albaghatti Alba whatever 133 00:07:33,160 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: his name is. He's dead. Um. He was identified by 134 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: President Trump. He released a photo of the dog on 135 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: Twitter yesterday, writing, we have declassified a picture of the 136 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:45,240 Speaker 1: wonderful dog name not declassified. That did such a great 137 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: job in capturing and killing the leader of Isis. Uh. 138 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: That's a good girl, apparently, a good girl. Now, I 139 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,720 Speaker 1: read something on Twitter this morning about why I shouldn't 140 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: say the name. I guess the name has been leaked, 141 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: but let me find this thing. It makes sense why 142 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: we shouldn't say the name a whole on a second, 143 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: I didn't have a second. Basically, by identifying the name, 144 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 1: you could identify the handler, which could then identify which 145 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:14,360 Speaker 1: Delta group it was, and so we don't need to 146 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: do that get retaliation, and we don't need to do that. 147 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: So I'm not going to repeat the name of the dog. Marke. 148 00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: I did have questions about the name of the dog, 149 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,800 Speaker 1: but I'm not going to say And uh, let me 150 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: see here. What else do I have? On national days? 151 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: It's National Hermit Day, National Oatmeal Day, a National cat Day. 152 00:08:32,280 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: We've been invited by Tao later on today to investigate 153 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:36,920 Speaker 1: the because I don't know if you guys know this, 154 00:08:37,000 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: but we are paranormal experts, and so they've invited us 155 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: over there to sort of investigates or have Klin sort 156 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 1: of channel see what she feels. See if if we 157 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: invite a priestess Miranda or whatever her name is, we 158 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: invite her to sort of get a feel for this too. Ghoyfriend. 159 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: It's haunted a ghost, so they can't talk back. Well, 160 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:01,640 Speaker 1: but the most boyfriend might be there watching you when 161 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:04,160 Speaker 1: you don't know. That's okay, Really you want to be 162 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: watched when you don't know? Yeah, that's fine, that's it's 163 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:11,720 Speaker 1: not it's it's women and children. Well, there was not 164 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: one boy ghost in Tao, so you know, well, they're 165 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 1: they're women and children that died the Tao. Well, hold on, now, 166 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: I didn't know this. Actually I had been mistaken. The 167 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 1: Tao Restaurant and Club is located in the former Chicago 168 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 1: Historical Society Building. It's a historic landmark. Uh deerborn in 169 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: Ontario is where it's located. Um, it's a hey Ives 170 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: Cobb Richardsonian roman Esque architecture example case you were wondering. 171 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: Looks like a castle. Yeah. The rumor is that it 172 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,120 Speaker 1: was used as a morgue. Right now, you should know 173 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 1: this these Chica. Well, but hold on. The Chicago Historical 174 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:53,560 Speaker 1: Society Building has been said to be haunted. The claim 175 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 1: arose from its use as a makeshift more for victims 176 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,120 Speaker 1: of the Eastland Disaster of nineteen fifteen. All the oh 177 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:04,920 Speaker 1: no bodies were ever brought to the building. So I 178 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:10,120 Speaker 1: don't know. It's been featured on many paranormal television shows. Um. 179 00:10:10,120 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: It was featured in an episode of Exploring the Unicorn, 180 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:16,200 Speaker 1: which is on Fox Family TV about the Wuiji Board. 181 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 1: Also featured on an episode of Ghost Adventures. So many nightclubs. 182 00:10:21,320 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 1: I feel like I've lost a few lives there. Some 183 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: of my old lives are there, are definitely some some 184 00:10:26,880 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 1: romances lost there, umber lost, the pool tables in the basement, 185 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 1: some dignity, I know what else was there? Then makes 186 00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: a sense? No, No, it's long ago. Anyway, later on 187 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: we'll be investigating the hauntedness of Tals. Thanks for having us. 188 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: Hopefully they have some sushi rolls ready for us that 189 00:10:57,920 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 1: let me see if let me see if those are 190 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:02,199 Speaker 1: holes and it might stop. I got you guys want 191 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 1: food in the bar and I want the ghosts. You go, No, 192 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: you go look for ghosts and I'll be eating um 193 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: whatever they whatever? They have alcoholic and I should have 194 00:11:12,800 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: brought some sage. I don't know if that's she's that 195 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:19,319 Speaker 1: a fire hazard? If you we're not lighting it on, fine, 196 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 1: I thought you did smoke it, just smoke fire, but 197 00:11:22,880 --> 00:11:27,760 Speaker 1: it wouldn't smoke. You're gonna light anything on fire. It's 198 00:11:27,800 --> 00:11:31,880 Speaker 1: just smoke detecting. I do it in places where they're smoked. 199 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,920 Speaker 1: I have a rosary in the car, Okay to bring that. Yeah, 200 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: we need a Yeah, we need all kinds of stuff 201 00:11:37,760 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: you need. Yeah, my digital rosary comes in today. Jesus, 202 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 1: you'll find Rufio and I with the digital rosary by 203 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,120 Speaker 1: the sushi bar. Yes, Jonah's brothers the entertainment up for 204 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:58,720 Speaker 1: next time one of three five entertainment reports where Elle 205 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:02,079 Speaker 1: Lakers I'll start. Lebron James and former California Governor Arnold 206 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: Schwartzenegger were among the thousands ordered to evacuate their homes 207 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: yesterday due to the Getty fire. Just before if where 208 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: I Am, Lebron tweeted it him and his family were 209 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:15,120 Speaker 1: driving around looking for accommodations. Do you do you really 210 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,720 Speaker 1: have to look hard when you're Lebron though? I mean, hi, 211 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:21,880 Speaker 1: Rich Carlton, Yeah right, hey, Staples Center, let me just 212 00:12:21,920 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: stay here, right? You tell me? No five star hotel 213 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:29,679 Speaker 1: and the Los Angeles would have him. I'm sure so. Also, 214 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:33,320 Speaker 1: Arnold Schwartzeneger confirmed he and his family were evacuated advised 215 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: others to do the same. So lots of people are 216 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: getting displaced from that fire. Geezy was in town. This 217 00:12:41,440 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 1: is actually super cool. Did you guys hear about what 218 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:46,760 Speaker 1: he did for his fans. Geeazy corraled one hundred of 219 00:12:46,800 --> 00:12:50,200 Speaker 1: his most you know, special fans Friday night in Chicago 220 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 1: for a spread at Nando's, and he, I guess is 221 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:55,959 Speaker 1: a huge Nando's freak. He kicked off the weekend by 222 00:12:55,960 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 1: asking his more than eight point three million Instagram followers 223 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:01,520 Speaker 1: who wanted to grab dinner. He said, the first one 224 00:13:01,559 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: hundred to RSVP to the number he posted got directions 225 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,480 Speaker 1: to Nando's in Chicago for a free meal. Can more 226 00:13:08,520 --> 00:13:11,800 Speaker 1: than delivered treated fans to an insane spread of twenty 227 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:14,960 Speaker 1: five chicken platters. It's about one hundred quarter chickens if 228 00:13:14,960 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 1: you're counting three hundred wings, plus tons of sides that 229 00:13:17,520 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: include mashed potatoes, fries, spicy rice, macho peas, garlic bread. Yeah, yeah, 230 00:13:24,720 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 1: it is. They also got to mingle with Cheesy, who 231 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:31,959 Speaker 1: gave each fan a limited edition of Geasy's Nando's sauce. 232 00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 1: I guess he has his own sauce too. He loves 233 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 1: Nandos so much he's even shouted it out on like 234 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: different interviews, parts of songs and things like that. So 235 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: that's pretty cool that people got to do that. Um. 236 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:48,040 Speaker 1: Kylie Jenner's being slammed for dressing her twenty one month 237 00:13:48,080 --> 00:13:51,839 Speaker 1: old daughter, Stormy in a miniature replica of her gown, 238 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:56,559 Speaker 1: her Matt gallagown for Halloween. So why it's so cute? 239 00:13:56,720 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: The reality star shared images and video of Stormy on Instagram. 240 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:03,360 Speaker 1: I'm showing her dressed in that feathery purple dress. It 241 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:06,439 Speaker 1: looked nearly identical to the versace that Kylie wore herself 242 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:10,439 Speaker 1: in May. Most praise did as cute, adorable. Some slammed 243 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 1: her as super vain and called the costume inappropriate. I 244 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: don't see what's inappropriate costume? Right? Exactly? Well, did you 245 00:14:18,200 --> 00:14:20,600 Speaker 1: see Jay Wow was getting slammed because she dressed up 246 00:14:20,600 --> 00:14:24,680 Speaker 1: her kids as um Sandy and Danny from Greece and 247 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:28,680 Speaker 1: they had the fake cigarettes. Oh my god, there's one 248 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: obviously promoting smoker. Exactly exactly do you want them to 249 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: have jewels instead? Like like part of the I guess 250 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: you could skip that detail, but still we all know 251 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 1: the con It's it's that's costume, it's real, exactly, it's 252 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:49,840 Speaker 1: part of exactly what those candy cigarettes man, that's well, yeah, 253 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: I mean they were fake. They still make those, you 254 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 1: can still find those. I get that those are probably 255 00:14:55,280 --> 00:14:57,320 Speaker 1: a bad idea, candy cigarettes. That we all have a 256 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: kid of those things. I did too. Their chalk, Yeah, 257 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: at least chuck sugar. Is this cool that you could 258 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: blow out smoke take smoke more to check out A nine? 259 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: It probably wasn't. Actually, you can see the costume um 260 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 1: that little Stormy was wearing. You can also see Kanye 261 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 1: in James Cordon did the first ever airport or air pool? 262 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: I should say airpool, not carpool. Airpool cherioke on a plane. 263 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: It's at freight Anti dot com. I'm asked the question 264 00:15:23,960 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 1: because it's early, got a bunch of moms. I don't know. 265 00:15:27,760 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: I mean another day of canceled school, so maybe a 266 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 1: win's asleep. I'm not sure, but uh, but I want 267 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 1: to know from moms who are maybe getting up, getting 268 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:38,760 Speaker 1: the house ready. Uh. And and maybe you're getting a 269 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 1: family ready, or maybe you're getting the family ready because 270 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:44,280 Speaker 1: you have to go to work. Because there's a record 271 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 1: high number of women saying that they prefer working versus homemaking. Oh, 272 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: hell yeah, and I want to know even three five 273 00:15:54,720 --> 00:15:56,840 Speaker 1: Maybe you've done both. Maybe you're one of the other 274 00:15:56,960 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: right now. Um. And this this debate happens with men too, 275 00:16:01,400 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 1: by the way, because I have male obviously male friends 276 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:06,080 Speaker 1: who are fathers, and they get an arguments about this 277 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: with their wives sometimes as well. Eight five, five, five, 278 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 1: nine one on three five. But as a woman, would 279 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 1: you rather and I'll tell you more about this to study, 280 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: but would you rather go to work or be a 281 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: full time homemaker which includes you know, I don't know, 282 00:16:20,880 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: obviously raising your kids and taking care of that and 283 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 1: taking care of the house and all that stuff. Would 284 00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 1: you rather go to work or would you rather be 285 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,960 Speaker 1: a homemaker? Eight five, five, five nine one one three 286 00:16:30,040 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: five Lizzo first all one oh three fives so good, 287 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 1: so three five kism Chicago's number one hit music stage 288 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: with Fred and NANGI, Good morning blogs in ten minutes, 289 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 1: a thousand bucks after seven, we'll do stay or go 290 00:16:46,720 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: debate someone's relationship drama and jingle Bowl tickets of seven 291 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: twenty five. We got those, don't we can't we roofy? Yeah, yeah, yeah, 292 00:16:55,240 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: we got those. Good mus I got a little thing 293 00:16:57,880 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 1: here that says we got them, but we got him. 294 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: I will get that thing. Thank you, thanks for getting 295 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: the thing that we need to say the thing. Given 296 00:17:05,960 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: the choice between working or staying at home to take 297 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,640 Speaker 1: care of the house and family, a record high sixty 298 00:17:10,720 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 1: six percent of adults would prefer to work. Women's preference 299 00:17:14,680 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: to work outside the home has reached fifty six percent. 300 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:21,879 Speaker 1: That's the highest point in roughly three decades. The question 301 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: is I guess often included in organization's polling. This is 302 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:27,880 Speaker 1: between seventy four and ninety nine, although some of the 303 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 1: readings were only among women, But from nineteen ninety two 304 00:17:31,160 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 1: until now, the question has been asked more regularly, with 305 00:17:33,760 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: a consistent majority of Americans preferring to work outside the home, 306 00:17:37,280 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 1: while at least half of women overall have preferred working 307 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 1: overstaying home since two thousand and seven. As recently as 308 00:17:43,000 --> 00:17:44,760 Speaker 1: two thousand and three and two thousand and five, slim 309 00:17:44,760 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 1: majorities of women have favored the more traditional domestic role 310 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 1: of homemaking. So would you rather stay at home and 311 00:17:53,040 --> 00:17:55,959 Speaker 1: be a full time mom and whatever other duties come with, 312 00:17:56,240 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 1: you know, keeping the house and all of that, or 313 00:18:00,040 --> 00:18:01,720 Speaker 1: would you rather drop the kids off at school? Or 314 00:18:01,800 --> 00:18:03,640 Speaker 1: drop the kids off at daycare or whatever and head 315 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: to work. Lindsay, yeah, Hi, lindsay what would you rather? 316 00:18:08,600 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 1: I'd rather work? You'd rather work? And how old are 317 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 1: your kids? By the way, I have one kid. He's 318 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:16,920 Speaker 1: almost a year and a half. Is a year and 319 00:18:16,920 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: a half. So what happens to him when when you 320 00:18:18,520 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 1: go to work you take him a daycare or something? Yeah, 321 00:18:21,119 --> 00:18:24,000 Speaker 1: he goes to someone's house. Okay, So you'd rather drop 322 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 1: him off and say, okay for like eight hours or whatever. 323 00:18:27,200 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 1: He's gonna be fine with this person. I'm gonna go 324 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:30,520 Speaker 1: to work and have a career. I mean, what do 325 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:34,159 Speaker 1: you what do you see as he advantages? Honestly, I 326 00:18:34,280 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 1: just like being able to do both. I like being 327 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:38,720 Speaker 1: able to go in like the business world and have 328 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 1: those type relationships and then come home and be a 329 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: mom in a wife. I like that he doesn't have 330 00:18:44,119 --> 00:18:45,920 Speaker 1: to have me to be happy and the time on 331 00:18:46,040 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: me all the time. You can go to anyone and 332 00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 1: be good to go if you don't work when you're 333 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:52,920 Speaker 1: at home. Honestly, it is yeah, And I can't imagine 334 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:55,159 Speaker 1: just being at home all day long. I don't know. 335 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,040 Speaker 1: I just like being able to do balth Yeah, that 336 00:18:57,080 --> 00:19:00,159 Speaker 1: makes sense. Thank you, Lindsay, have a good day, and 337 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: you've missed a lot of stuff, missed a lot of 338 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 1: stuff because you're here as we're If you were just 339 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:07,399 Speaker 1: at home, I say, just at home, but if you weren't, 340 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 1: if it was just home and not work at home, yeah, 341 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,159 Speaker 1: because you get to do double because you still have 342 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:14,280 Speaker 1: a job. And then it's not like the things that 343 00:19:14,280 --> 00:19:16,720 Speaker 1: you that your child needs when you go home don't 344 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,000 Speaker 1: exist any right. Well, I mean I'd stayed at home 345 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:22,040 Speaker 1: for the first three years of my daughter's life, and 346 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 1: I could not wait to go back to work. It's 347 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: a lot of work, and like she just said, your 348 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:32,480 Speaker 1: child relies on you for everything, and so you get 349 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,160 Speaker 1: to a point where you're like, I don't know how 350 00:19:34,200 --> 00:19:36,239 Speaker 1: to entertain them anymore. They need to be so they 351 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 1: need to start socializing. They need to meet other kids 352 00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 1: and play, and you know, you get to a place 353 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:43,480 Speaker 1: where you're like and then you need to socialize with 354 00:19:43,560 --> 00:19:46,960 Speaker 1: adults and feel like you're doing something else. Sometimes doesn't 355 00:19:47,000 --> 00:19:49,240 Speaker 1: surprise anyone to know that I or to learn that 356 00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:51,439 Speaker 1: I spent like the first ten years of my life 357 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,639 Speaker 1: attached to my mother completely like she did everything, so 358 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 1: that doesn't surprise anybody to this day. Hey Diana, Hey guys, 359 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:02,399 Speaker 1: how's it go? Hi Diana? Would you rather be a 360 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: stay at home mom and homemaker or have a job? 361 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 1: And I guess sort of displace some of those duties. 362 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 1: So let me just start that I love my daughter 363 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: to death, but you could not pay me enough to 364 00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: be a stay at home markmen, Why why? What is it? Oh? Really? 365 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,439 Speaker 1: I mean I have my daughter's amazing he is, but 366 00:20:24,480 --> 00:20:27,400 Speaker 1: I just I give all the respect to the mothers 367 00:20:27,440 --> 00:20:29,840 Speaker 1: at home because I can't. I need to get away. 368 00:20:29,960 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 1: I need to do something for myself. But at least, 369 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: at least it's your creation that you're impatient with, as 370 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,320 Speaker 1: opposed to going to work and dealing with people who 371 00:20:37,320 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: are I don't know, rude or inapt or incapable or whatever. 372 00:20:41,560 --> 00:20:42,879 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure you have your own set of 373 00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:46,679 Speaker 1: stress and frustration in addition now to the responsibility you 374 00:20:46,680 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 1: have as a mom. Right, Oh yeah, but that's what 375 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: he darts for and my employees to be here and 376 00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,080 Speaker 1: at work. Like you can walk away, you can take 377 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:58,199 Speaker 1: a break, you can mentally check out. I mean, you 378 00:20:58,240 --> 00:20:59,959 Speaker 1: can't do that with your kid. You have to be 379 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:03,439 Speaker 1: constantly focused, and you don't have the option. Yeah, you 380 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: don't the option of just going and hiding out from 381 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 1: that person that's bugging you. Yeah, all right, thank you Dan, 382 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 1: Thanks guys, Hey, thanks so much for calling. Have a 383 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: great day. Appreciate you listening to Hi. Arena. Yeah, hey, 384 00:21:14,080 --> 00:21:16,440 Speaker 1: would you rather stay at home, be a homemaker or 385 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: have a full time job. I work a full time 386 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,200 Speaker 1: job and take care of my son. I would rather 387 00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 1: stay at home and be a homemaker. Okay, have you 388 00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:29,400 Speaker 1: done it full time before? Like been stay at home? Um? Yeah, 389 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:31,840 Speaker 1: when I moved back to the city, me and my 390 00:21:31,880 --> 00:21:35,600 Speaker 1: son's father did it together. But I loved it. I 391 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 1: loved being at home my son. I'm taking him to 392 00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 1: school being a time with the school working. You don't 393 00:21:41,280 --> 00:21:44,440 Speaker 1: get that you're tired. Yeah, yeah, that's true. Yeah. And 394 00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,399 Speaker 1: by the way, you don't not have to take care 395 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 1: of your kid at the end of the work day, right, 396 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: I mean it's like you still do so right exactly, 397 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,360 Speaker 1: come home, be tired and take care of it exactly. 398 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 1: I can give all my attentions to him and raising 399 00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 1: him really really good. He still goes to school, he 400 00:21:59,760 --> 00:22:02,120 Speaker 1: still gets the feet. People, I could join the mom's 401 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:06,720 Speaker 1: day class. Yeah. Once they're in school, it does make life, 402 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: you know, easier. It's that first you know, four years 403 00:22:09,800 --> 00:22:15,040 Speaker 1: or so where it's like woo, yeah, yeah, school teacher 404 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 1: calls and she's like you gotta come get your key, 405 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:20,320 Speaker 1: gotta leave work anyway. Yeah, and that becomes super stressful too, 406 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 1: because now you have work obligations and you have the 407 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:25,040 Speaker 1: home obligations, and of course the home obligations are going 408 00:22:25,080 --> 00:22:27,200 Speaker 1: to come first, and so that could get the job 409 00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:30,639 Speaker 1: at jeopardy. So now it's doubly stressful. Thank you, Irena, 410 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: have a great day. Thank you for listening. Hey, Lizette, 411 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,600 Speaker 1: Hi Liszt. So you've done both. You've stayed at home 412 00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 1: and had a full time job. Yeah, And I honestly 413 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: would have preferred to stay home the first year of 414 00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:45,960 Speaker 1: my son's life, just because I feel like it's the 415 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,640 Speaker 1: most crucial time and like everything happens in that first year. Yeah, 416 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,840 Speaker 1: there's a lot. So then after that you'd be okay. 417 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,840 Speaker 1: Then going in having a job, yeah, I mean, and 418 00:22:55,920 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 1: then at that point you feel a little bit more 419 00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 1: strucksworthy and other people and like their care for your child. 420 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 1: But I mean, I think if I had two then 421 00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, I'm stay at home at that point. Yeah, 422 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:11,760 Speaker 1: that's true. Thank you, Lizette. Have a great day. And 423 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm cool with the idea that it's shifting from, like 424 00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: the expectation that the woman would stay at home in 425 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 1: the seventies or prior to now. The this is more 426 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,119 Speaker 1: of an acceptance, hopefully that women want to be a 427 00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:24,600 Speaker 1: mom and want to work. But I have friends who 428 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 1: travel for work and they get into this argument all 429 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 1: the time with their wives, and I think it's so 430 00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:33,919 Speaker 1: unfair because the I think the misperception is because my 431 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,200 Speaker 1: friends are on the road and they're traveling and they're 432 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: not at home and not doing the parental thing. It's 433 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 1: that they are somehow at an advantage, and I think 434 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:46,200 Speaker 1: they sometimes see it as a disadvantage. It's like, yes, 435 00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 1: I'm not home and you're having to pick up, you know, 436 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: a tremendous amount of the burden. But I'm also not 437 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:54,040 Speaker 1: where I want to be on my time in my 438 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: bed at my house drinking my beer and going to 439 00:23:57,760 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 1: my kid's softball game. Yeah I don't to do that either. 440 00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:02,639 Speaker 1: So it's like, yeah, you're right, I get the break, 441 00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 1: but it's not it's not necessarily the break that it's 442 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,359 Speaker 1: not like a vacation. Now, you know, there's guilt that 443 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: goes along with it too. When you have to travel 444 00:24:10,080 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: away from your kids, you always wish you could be there. Yeah, 445 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,439 Speaker 1: I mean, even like when you're a working parent, they're skilled. 446 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:18,640 Speaker 1: I don't get to take my daughter to school ever 447 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,679 Speaker 1: in the morning. That sucks. No, I just and I 448 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:24,199 Speaker 1: hear both sides of it, right, It's like that I 449 00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:26,480 Speaker 1: never get a break. And then and I suppose you know, 450 00:24:26,520 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: my friends who were away, they get a break, but 451 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,600 Speaker 1: maybe they don't want the break, you know, maybe they'd 452 00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: rather be there for these things and see more of 453 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,639 Speaker 1: their family and not be in a hotel bed all 454 00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,640 Speaker 1: the time. Hey Amanda, Hi, Hi, So you're going back 455 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:41,240 Speaker 1: after maternity leaves. So congratulations by the way, thank you. Yeah, 456 00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 1: it does have my third daughter in June. Okay, So 457 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: you you've been through this, So do you prefer would 458 00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,479 Speaker 1: you prefer if you had the option to stay at 459 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:51,560 Speaker 1: home or to have or to go to work. I 460 00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:53,679 Speaker 1: mean I was preferred to go to work. I just 461 00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 1: told my husband yesterday, I said, it's so nice that 462 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,280 Speaker 1: I was able to focus on those three kids at home. 463 00:24:58,320 --> 00:25:01,719 Speaker 1: But I need to ta get out of the for sure. Yeah, 464 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,760 Speaker 1: you go stir crazy. Well, and then I know other 465 00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:07,639 Speaker 1: people who their wives in this case, they'll go to 466 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 1: work and it's a break, even them going to work 467 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 1: and then paying for the childcare basically as a wash. 468 00:25:13,200 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 1: But they would rather that their their wife have that 469 00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,600 Speaker 1: outlet to go to work and have this other identity 470 00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 1: and other responsibility at least for a little while, even 471 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 1: if it winds up not making them any money or 472 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,480 Speaker 1: even costing them a little bit of money, because then 473 00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 1: they have, you know, they feel like they have multiple 474 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:31,199 Speaker 1: identities and they get that break. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, and 475 00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 1: there's going to be a time, you know, within a 476 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 1: couple of years if those kids, you know, you're not 477 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,640 Speaker 1: paying for daycare, they're in school, and you'll you'll want 478 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 1: that job. Yeah. Yeah, there you go. Thank you a 479 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,159 Speaker 1: man to have a good day. Thank you. Vast majority 480 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:45,520 Speaker 1: of people are like, you know what, I'll see you 481 00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:49,920 Speaker 1: at five, but I'll tell you when you bema. That's 482 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:53,119 Speaker 1: what I'm saying though, Like for dad, so let's not 483 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 1: let's not leave dads out of this. I mean, if 484 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 1: you're a dad who doesn't get to go home, you 485 00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 1: wake up, you know, maybe hopefully you help the kids 486 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,359 Speaker 1: get read or if you can, if that's if you 487 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 1: haven't left. And then you go to work all day 488 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: and then you sit in traffic or on the train 489 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,399 Speaker 1: going home. You get home at seven, whatever time it is, 490 00:26:08,560 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: and it's not that the kids. First of all, the 491 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,440 Speaker 1: kids might be in bed, so you didn't even see them, 492 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: and it's something the kids then don't want to see 493 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,719 Speaker 1: you or understand the pressure. So I think dads are 494 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,000 Speaker 1: included in this too. I just think that typically the 495 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 1: expectation is that the dad goes to work and the 496 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: mom stays home. But maybe that's changing. Let's do blogs 497 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 1: next after Sam Smith. Then we'll get you a thousand bucks, 498 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 1: paints of bills, stay or Go, and jingle ball tickets 499 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: coming up also about an hour from now, a thousand 500 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 1: and fifty with showvis Shelley in the showdown at seven 501 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 1: forty five. Hate. Yeah, they talk better than they type. 502 00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs with Fred and Andy Rights 503 00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,760 Speaker 1: audio journals. Imagine that we're writing in our diaries, except 504 00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: of course we say them a lot. We have these 505 00:26:52,280 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 1: big leather bound books in here that we that we 506 00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 1: use the feather and ink we write in them, someday 507 00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:05,440 Speaker 1: we'll be able to sell them for millions of dollars um. 508 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,119 Speaker 1: You know, once upon it and we should copyright this 509 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:11,239 Speaker 1: Copyright US twenty nineteen. Once we've been doing Waiting by 510 00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:12,840 Speaker 1: the Phone I've been doing versions of this on the 511 00:27:12,920 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: radio for like almost twenty years now. People have said 512 00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: we should write a book about it, like that we 513 00:27:16,840 --> 00:27:19,680 Speaker 1: should somehow transcribe all of those into a book. Would 514 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,400 Speaker 1: be funny, It would be funny. I don't know how 515 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 1: to do it, but anyone, you need to hire a suscribe. 516 00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: We would have to some sort of someone would have 517 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,480 Speaker 1: to listen to all of those. And I don't know 518 00:27:29,480 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 1: what do you call that undictation? But when you when 519 00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 1: you when you have to type up, I'm sure they 520 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 1: have software to do it anyway. Whatever. Um is just 521 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 1: a publisher out there that wants to publish a Waiting 522 00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: by the Phone book, and we might make some money, 523 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:42,239 Speaker 1: how about it? How about that? And then you can 524 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: go be a stay at home mom. Now that your 525 00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: daughter's fifteen fifteen year old daughter and sit on the 526 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:52,560 Speaker 1: couch all day, buy a car. With the proceeds to 527 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 1: the money, you'll never see her again. Donated to charity. 528 00:27:55,840 --> 00:27:58,400 Speaker 1: UM audio journalist six fifteen and eight fifty. Is Kylin 529 00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 1: doing a blog or Kaylin, go ahead, thank you, dear blog. 530 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:05,600 Speaker 1: So my sister. I have a sister. She is, Oh 531 00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: my god, she's fifteen. I think she's a sophomore in 532 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,360 Speaker 1: high school. She said something that made me really sad 533 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 1: the other day. She said that she feels like an 534 00:28:14,200 --> 00:28:17,399 Speaker 1: only child, and if she kind of is. I know, 535 00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:19,399 Speaker 1: but it broke my heart. And I know it's not 536 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,720 Speaker 1: like my fault. I couldn't decide when she was born 537 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:24,399 Speaker 1: or when I was born. But since we're thirteen years apart, 538 00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I try really hard to call her 539 00:28:27,560 --> 00:28:30,640 Speaker 1: every week and text her and face time with her 540 00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 1: and get back to see her, but I don't know. 541 00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,400 Speaker 1: It made me really sad, and I think I've been 542 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,080 Speaker 1: thinking about it a lot. I think some days she'll 543 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 1: have a different perspective, though, because she probably doesn't have 544 00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 1: the perspective to realize how much you are doing for 545 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 1: her now versus a lot of other siblings who were 546 00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 1: thirteen years apart. I mean, these efforts that you're making 547 00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 1: to see her and call her and do all these things. 548 00:28:49,520 --> 00:28:51,719 Speaker 1: My sister and I are eight years apart, and I 549 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,280 Speaker 1: think she liked the fact that I was gone and 550 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:58,080 Speaker 1: she was an only child, especially considering I'd already sort 551 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,000 Speaker 1: of put them what they thought was through the ringer, 552 00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 1: so like the experiment was me by the time they 553 00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,760 Speaker 1: got to her. They're like, whatever, I feel that way 554 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 1: with my daughter. I feel guilty sometimes about that. That's 555 00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: part of the kids well, that she's basically an only child, 556 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 1: you know, that's part of the reason I let her 557 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:17,240 Speaker 1: have sleepovers all the time and her friends over whenever. Yeah, 558 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:20,000 Speaker 1: I just feel bad. Plus her family doesn't live here, 559 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 1: you know. But you're not absent, is what I'm saying. Like, 560 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,200 Speaker 1: and I think that she gets older should realize that 561 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 1: you weren't absent. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, I 562 00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,600 Speaker 1: was an only child until she came. But I don't 563 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: look now at my life and feel like an only 564 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 1: child at all. Like I don't, I don't know. I 565 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 1: don't feel like I really grew up that way. I 566 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: don't know what the hell I was doing, But it 567 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 1: just made me sad that she feels that way, And 568 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:43,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what else I can do. So if 569 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,400 Speaker 1: anybody else has any idea, Yeah, I don't know. I think, 570 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 1: you know, you're out here and making a life for 571 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 1: yourself and also from Afar, you know, trying to be 572 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 1: supportive of her. I think it's really cool what you 573 00:29:52,160 --> 00:29:53,840 Speaker 1: do for her. Should bring her out here to visit. 574 00:29:54,080 --> 00:29:55,960 Speaker 1: I would love too. I'm trying to get my mom, like, 575 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: how is she old enough to like fly here by herself? Yeah, 576 00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 1: for sure, I mean I did, But I also get 577 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 1: the experiment. I was flying at six myself. I think 578 00:30:05,520 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: I was like ten. Same. I would meet my mom 579 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 1: on business trips like it was no thing, But like 580 00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't I must think fan too, okay, 581 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 1: I mean I would pick her up from the airport, 582 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 1: But I just I don't know. For some reason, like 583 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 1: all the stuff that I did, I'm nervous like thinking 584 00:30:18,920 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 1: about her doing for sure, same, you know what I mean. 585 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 1: I know. I don't know if it's because I trust 586 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,760 Speaker 1: myself more. They just kids today seem so much more 587 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:29,840 Speaker 1: like not as worldly as we had to be. I 588 00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:31,520 Speaker 1: feel like we had to be a little bit more, 589 00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,760 Speaker 1: But I don't know, they're a little bit more protected. Yeah, 590 00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,360 Speaker 1: and I would be so nervous about that too. But yeah, 591 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,120 Speaker 1: but now she says she's trying to I see what 592 00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:40,680 Speaker 1: she's trying to do. I'm like, we'll come visit me, 593 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:42,239 Speaker 1: and she's like, well, I think I should probably bring 594 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,320 Speaker 1: a friend or two. And I'm like, oh, so she's 595 00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 1: guiltying you a little bit. Can I handle these like 596 00:30:46,240 --> 00:30:50,320 Speaker 1: high school girls like in Chicago by myself? Like, I'm like, 597 00:30:50,600 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: how about we do you just alone first and then 598 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 1: you can bring some foots. The other advantage that she 599 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,200 Speaker 1: has is that you're a girl. Because I wasn't a 600 00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 1: very good big brother to my sister, I don't think 601 00:30:59,280 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: because we were so far apart and I couldn't relate. 602 00:31:01,880 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 1: You know, here I am sixteen, she's nine. You know. 603 00:31:04,280 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: Then I go to college and she's she sort of 604 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,720 Speaker 1: does that on her own, and like we didn't have 605 00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:11,720 Speaker 1: those lines of communication. Then now we're super close. Now 606 00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 1: we talk about everything. So I feel like it's only 607 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 1: probably going to get better. Yeah, I hope. So, I 608 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,239 Speaker 1: just it broke my heart. I know she probably like 609 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:20,320 Speaker 1: she is alone all that. It made me feel bad. 610 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:22,680 Speaker 1: It sounds like this might be this particular angle might 611 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,520 Speaker 1: be a guilt trip. So listen, so lonely, I should 612 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 1: probably bring three friends and get hammered in your apartment 613 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:32,880 Speaker 1: in Chicago, a whole lot less, lonely, asking her about 614 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 1: her feelings. How do you feel? How is life going 615 00:31:34,960 --> 00:31:37,479 Speaker 1: for you? So it wasn't her. I'm so thirsty. No 616 00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:40,480 Speaker 1: one will feed me anyway. He's not the chicken finger girl. 617 00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,560 Speaker 1: Oh god, oh no, oh no, I just have a 618 00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: lot of chicken fingers. See that particular friend is up 619 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: to no good. That is not the friends? Is it? 620 00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:58,560 Speaker 1: How I call her? Hip? Can't come? Just kidding? Love you? 621 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:02,160 Speaker 1: I see, we could take you to Nando's speaking on 622 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 1: the endos the chicken, Oh, forget about they have good ones, yeah, 623 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:15,239 Speaker 1: raising Caines, it's good particular. Yes, that might be too 624 00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,480 Speaker 1: spicy though, Yeah, I have the regular ones. Just don't 625 00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 1: get her the voodoo. Oh boy, dear blogs, do you 626 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:24,840 Speaker 1: guys know? Um? I talk a lot about going to therapy. 627 00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:28,040 Speaker 1: I talk a lot about anxiety and depression. A lot 628 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,600 Speaker 1: of us do. And I got to therapy every Monday, though, 629 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: and I've been going for three years, same person, every Monday. 630 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:40,360 Speaker 1: I don't miss a week. And if anyone's been a 631 00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:42,880 Speaker 1: therapy that you know what I'm talking about. Like, at first, 632 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,400 Speaker 1: it was a relief to start going because I felt like, Okay, 633 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 1: I'm taking steps to to sort of make my life better, right, 634 00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:51,240 Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna this person's gonna help me work through 635 00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,520 Speaker 1: all this stuff. And then so initially you feel like 636 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 1: just that just the fact that you made the move 637 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 1: and like you found the person and you're going. But 638 00:32:57,640 --> 00:32:59,640 Speaker 1: then there are these for me, at least, there are these. 639 00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 1: Law been these long periods where I feel like I'm 640 00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:05,760 Speaker 1: wasting time because there's no breakthrough, like I'm waiting for that. 641 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,760 Speaker 1: I'm a so type a about things that I want. 642 00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: I want there to be a day where she says 643 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,920 Speaker 1: the thing or does the thing where I feel like 644 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 1: I'm fixed like that, you know what I mean. Like 645 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 1: you go to a doctor typically and they give you 646 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,120 Speaker 1: an antibiotic and then you feel better in a week 647 00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 1: and that's the end of it. And so I spend 648 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: this money and I go I talk to this lady, 649 00:33:22,680 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: and week after week after week, I'm I don't know. 650 00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 1: There are times when I feel like what am I 651 00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: doing here? Like what are we talking about? What's the process? 652 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: Where is this going? But my sister is a therapist, 653 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,240 Speaker 1: and she told me just to trust it. And yesterday 654 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,840 Speaker 1: was a day in particular where I felt like when 655 00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 1: I walked out, I felt like, not not that I'm 656 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 1: cured or anything like that, like this is never going 657 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:46,080 Speaker 1: to end, but I felt like I was able to 658 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,000 Speaker 1: articulate to her some things that are going on in 659 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,360 Speaker 1: my life and some some changes that I've made and 660 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 1: some progress that I've made in a way that I 661 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:56,120 Speaker 1: think indicates that I'm paying attention and that it's working. Yeah, 662 00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:59,440 Speaker 1: so that was a good day. I thought, Wow, like 663 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: I was, I was really proud of myself. I think 664 00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:04,760 Speaker 1: I really have picked up on something and I was 665 00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 1: happy about that. Yeah. Sometimes I have those moments where 666 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't feel like I'm really accomplishing anything 667 00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 1: in therapy at this moment, but then you look back 668 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 1: and realize, like everything is. So it's part of the 669 00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:17,560 Speaker 1: whole process, and even though you don't think that you're 670 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:20,839 Speaker 1: having these breakthroughs, they come to you eventually. I mean, 671 00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,360 Speaker 1: not every session is going to be like this amazing 672 00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:27,239 Speaker 1: breakthrough session or a light bulb moment goes off. But no, 673 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,399 Speaker 1: and I don't have very many, but I guess if 674 00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,799 Speaker 1: I'm having a few, and then if I look sort 675 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 1: of where I was three years ago versus where I 676 00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: am now, and I see the change, then it's worth it. 677 00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,239 Speaker 1: And granted, you know, being able to go to therapy 678 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 1: every week is a tremendous luxury. Unfortunately, it shouldn't be. 679 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,320 Speaker 1: It shouldn't be that it's a luxury for people to 680 00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:46,800 Speaker 1: get mental healthcare. We've gone over that a million times. 681 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:48,960 Speaker 1: But I see it as a luxury. I go back 682 00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:51,920 Speaker 1: every week because it's a luxury. I don't go only 683 00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:53,880 Speaker 1: in times of crisis because I feel like I'm not 684 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 1: going to be well enough equipped to deal with the 685 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,440 Speaker 1: crisis if I'm not working on the downtimes too, right, 686 00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 1: So anyway, I, you know what, I encourage people if 687 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,919 Speaker 1: they have the ability to go, or if you've gone 688 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 1: and you felt like my mom has gone to therapy 689 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,920 Speaker 1: and she refuses, and I'm probably shouldna be talking about this, 690 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,759 Speaker 1: but I don't. I just know secret that I don't. 691 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:11,600 Speaker 1: I don't think she's open to going back, because I 692 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:13,840 Speaker 1: don't think she thinks it works for her. But I 693 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:15,840 Speaker 1: think it's a commitment. It is like I feel like 694 00:35:15,840 --> 00:35:17,640 Speaker 1: I've had to go for a very long time to 695 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,319 Speaker 1: have a day where I feel like, you know what, 696 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: maybe this is working now. Granted tomorrow it may all 697 00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:25,200 Speaker 1: crumble and it's self care. And then I gotta go 698 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: on Monday, and you know, I gotta, I gotta, you 699 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:30,359 Speaker 1: know so. And then, by the way, those days are 700 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: frustrating too, where you feel like you've made progress, and 701 00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 1: then and then, for whatever reason, you can't logically use 702 00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,719 Speaker 1: what you've learned or what you you know. You can't 703 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,959 Speaker 1: you can't apply that to a situation where you're sad 704 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 1: or upset. But anyway, it's good. It's good self care, 705 00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,799 Speaker 1: just like going to the gym or yesterday. That's good. 706 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:48,959 Speaker 1: Someone told me once too, and I think it's true. 707 00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 1: They said that, you know, therapy is just like or 708 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:54,799 Speaker 1: healing is a lifelong process, and I thought the same thing. 709 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, I'll be good, and like, you know, 710 00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:59,680 Speaker 1: give me six months. Oh no, no, oh no, it's yeah, 711 00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:02,880 Speaker 1: it is lifelong process because you have different challenges in 712 00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 1: different stages of your life they need help overcoming. I've 713 00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:08,440 Speaker 1: read in books that they're supposed to be an end 714 00:36:08,480 --> 00:36:10,719 Speaker 1: game like that, that there is supposed to be a 715 00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,000 Speaker 1: time where you don't have to go anymore. I don't 716 00:36:13,000 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 1: think that, but I don't know. I don't see that 717 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 1: because because my friends have graduated from therapy. Like I 718 00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 1: think I could stop going, but I also think it 719 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 1: wouldn't be healthy for me to completely stop going. I 720 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: don't want to. I don't need it to survive every day. 721 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: Like a therapists if they don't think that you need 722 00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,840 Speaker 1: therapy will tell you that, Yeah, no, I don't like it. 723 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 1: They're good, But I don't think it's a bad outlet 724 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like I can afford it, 725 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,719 Speaker 1: so I can go, And it's nothing else. It's a 726 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,520 Speaker 1: sounding It's an impartial sounding board, right, whether she's applying 727 00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,400 Speaker 1: you know, medical techniques or not. Anyway, there's another mental 728 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: health The more you know Mental Health minute from your 729 00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: friends at Fred Nancie Nanjie, the Trust Studios Chicago and 730 00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 1: IR Radio station here spreading in jointing everyone a thousand 731 00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 1: bucks that's yours in two minutes, Stay or go with 732 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,680 Speaker 1: Tanya will debate her relationship issue in just a second. 733 00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,520 Speaker 1: The entertainment up for it after we give you some 734 00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,120 Speaker 1: jingle ball tickets. What's coming up there? Justin Bieber's hinting 735 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,080 Speaker 1: at a Christmas album, But he's gonna make us work 736 00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: for it. I'll tell you what that's all about. I 737 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 1: gotta thank everybody for their nice comments yesterday and my Graham. 738 00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:22,319 Speaker 1: I believe that was the most like picture of all 739 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: time on my on my Graham homegirloud let me and 740 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:30,320 Speaker 1: you know what, let's not let's not break the trends. 741 00:37:30,719 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: But a lot of comments. Everybody really nice and really supportive, 742 00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:37,360 Speaker 1: and I am grateful for that. I'm grateful that so 743 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:39,560 Speaker 1: many people would go on there and say nice, take 744 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:41,520 Speaker 1: the time to say nice things about my new little 745 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,799 Speaker 1: relationship situation with Homegirl. Everybody's happy for you, so it's 746 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:48,480 Speaker 1: very nice of you. Thank you. Normally I respond to 747 00:37:48,520 --> 00:37:51,560 Speaker 1: people all the comments, but there were so many I don't, 748 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,399 Speaker 1: so I just kept sort of like commenting in there, 749 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:57,080 Speaker 1: like thanks blogger, you thanks. A lot of people have 750 00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:01,280 Speaker 1: been asking why I'm blowing it's Homegirl. It's the Avino 751 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:05,320 Speaker 1: moisturized facial moisturized moisturized for men that I've been using 752 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:09,759 Speaker 1: swipe up for a discount. Not really A lot have 753 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,760 Speaker 1: you been asking why it looks so good lately regular 754 00:38:14,440 --> 00:38:18,839 Speaker 1: regular booty. It really does. Yeah, ye does look at 755 00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: that natural glow. I'm saying, hey, no, that's because of 756 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,719 Speaker 1: the male self tanner. I've been using swipe up for 757 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 1: a discount. Why have you been asking why my teeth 758 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:29,080 Speaker 1: looks so white? But I've been brushing them. That's the 759 00:38:29,120 --> 00:38:32,400 Speaker 1: reason why its thousand bucks. There Ago next after Lizzo 760 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:34,920 Speaker 1: in two minutes, one, three, five, seven, sixteen. Thank you 761 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:42,440 Speaker 1: for having us on all see here jingle ball tickets 762 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: in just a second. Hey Tanya, how you doing good? 763 00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 1: How are you? Tanya? Welcome? I've been called the staired goal. 764 00:38:50,760 --> 00:38:53,880 Speaker 1: This is where we address somebody's relationship issue because we 765 00:38:53,920 --> 00:38:55,480 Speaker 1: get a lot of these emails from folks. Hey, what 766 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,160 Speaker 1: do you guys think of this? So why don't you 767 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,080 Speaker 1: tell us what's going on in your relationship? This guy Kevin' 768 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 1: been dating for how long? About three months? What's going 769 00:39:04,640 --> 00:39:09,640 Speaker 1: on with Kevin? What's kidding? Okay? So well, I'm going 770 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: to a Halloween party and I'm gonna be a sexy 771 00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,840 Speaker 1: Harry Potter. I'm a huge fan. Um. And the costume 772 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:20,640 Speaker 1: is what do you expect? I mean, short shirt, kind 773 00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:24,239 Speaker 1: of button down, die high stocks. Um. And of course 774 00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,640 Speaker 1: the time, the wand but I sent and like, so 775 00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 1: I dressed up and I tried it on and I 776 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,080 Speaker 1: sent it to him thinking that he was going to 777 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:34,600 Speaker 1: be like turned on and lose his mind, but instead 778 00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:37,799 Speaker 1: he came back at me all pissed and told me 779 00:39:37,880 --> 00:39:41,880 Speaker 1: not to wear it. And I'm like shocked. But I 780 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,840 Speaker 1: I've read Harry Potter, which Harry Potter has a thigh 781 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 1: highs and I'm curious I may need to reassess my 782 00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 1: interest in Harry Potter, if that's right? Is right? Is 783 00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 1: he mad because it's sexy or is he mad because 784 00:39:55,000 --> 00:40:00,800 Speaker 1: it's Harry Potter and he's embarrassed it's because it's sex? Yeah, 785 00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 1: and I think he just doesn't want me to go 786 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,840 Speaker 1: out like that. But I don't know is this normal. 787 00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,279 Speaker 1: I haven't been in a relationship in a while, so 788 00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:14,200 Speaker 1: he showed any like push back on you dressing sexy 789 00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:18,200 Speaker 1: and other you know circumstances at all. I mean, I 790 00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 1: guess I don't dress that sexy normally. And so is 791 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: he invited to hang out with you on this night 792 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 1: or is this you're you're out and about Not that 793 00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:27,880 Speaker 1: he should have to be there, but I mean, is 794 00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:32,239 Speaker 1: this something where he might be upset that he isn't included? Well, no, 795 00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 1: I didn't even get that far, I guess, but I 796 00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: of course he's invited. I want him to be there, 797 00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 1: but I guess he just doesn't want other people seeing. 798 00:40:41,480 --> 00:40:43,200 Speaker 1: Is he just very modest? Is that what it is? 799 00:40:43,200 --> 00:40:47,799 Speaker 1: I mean? Or controlling or controlling? Well? Yeah, I mean 800 00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 1: this has never come up before. I never felt like 801 00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:53,440 Speaker 1: he was controlling before, but it's only been three months. 802 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,440 Speaker 1: He doesn't tell you what to wear when you go 803 00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,880 Speaker 1: out or no, no, no no. I mean, how revealing 804 00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,279 Speaker 1: is this? Is it? Is it really sexy or is 805 00:41:01,320 --> 00:41:04,680 Speaker 1: it just kind of sexy? Like is it longerie? I mean, 806 00:41:04,719 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 1: like I shouldn't bend over which sir, look, I don't. 807 00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like that's typical Halloween at the 808 00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 1: Special exactly. I don't know everyone does this, But I 809 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 1: also think that's it's tricky because you should be able 810 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,680 Speaker 1: to wear whatever you want and and he should's afraid. 811 00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,239 Speaker 1: I should be supportive, but well, maybe he's proud of 812 00:41:28,239 --> 00:41:32,000 Speaker 1: his girlfriend and he's respects some level of privacy and 813 00:41:32,040 --> 00:41:33,920 Speaker 1: he doesn't want everybody to see the things that he 814 00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: gets to see. I mean, I can understand that. I also, 815 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:39,280 Speaker 1: I just don't like the slippery slope of him telling 816 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:41,239 Speaker 1: you what you can and can't wearing. Holloween, I don't 817 00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:44,200 Speaker 1: love that. I don't. I can see him being sort 818 00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:48,240 Speaker 1: of protective of and feeling that there are certain aspects 819 00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:51,960 Speaker 1: of you that he considers to be somewhat sacred. I'm seriously, 820 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,080 Speaker 1: maybe he doesn't want everyone to see your ass. Why 821 00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,720 Speaker 1: because old school, what's going to happen if somebody sees 822 00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:01,280 Speaker 1: her ass? Big deal? I don't know. I mean because 823 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,920 Speaker 1: because it's to him, that's it's his no, let's go 824 00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:06,880 Speaker 1: down that road. I'm just trying to figure out, like 825 00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:10,200 Speaker 1: what he could what what he's afraid of. I'm trying 826 00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 1: to play Devil's advocate here because I don't love it. 827 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:13,479 Speaker 1: And if that's what you want to wear, you should 828 00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:16,200 Speaker 1: be able to wear that. I'm you know, I don't know. 829 00:42:16,239 --> 00:42:18,360 Speaker 1: I mean, some people believe that there are certain aspects 830 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,800 Speaker 1: of your relationship that are sacred, and maybe he doesn't 831 00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,319 Speaker 1: want you out there, and maybe maybe he feels like 832 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,799 Speaker 1: that would give provide the kind of attention that a 833 00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: single girl might get, or that you might get attention 834 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:33,160 Speaker 1: from men that um could in friendship on your relationship again, 835 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,239 Speaker 1: get attention from men wearing a parka. It doesn't matter, 836 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:40,480 Speaker 1: that's on the men. That's not we're going to get 837 00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,320 Speaker 1: more attention from men in a I mean, it doesn't 838 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:45,680 Speaker 1: matter like what you wear like you're gonna get attention 839 00:42:45,760 --> 00:42:48,920 Speaker 1: if somebody's being that's on that person. I don't think 840 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,279 Speaker 1: we're talking about lecherous. I think we're talking about what 841 00:42:51,520 --> 00:42:55,680 Speaker 1: men approaching women who who are dressed especially sexy. If 842 00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:57,239 Speaker 1: you're wearing long gerane a bar, you're gonna get more 843 00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,560 Speaker 1: attention than if you're wearing them. It is Halloween, But 844 00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,480 Speaker 1: when did everything in Halloween becomes sexy? When did it? 845 00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 1: When did everything have to be about skin? I don't 846 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,960 Speaker 1: even know. Is this really about the costume or is 847 00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:09,080 Speaker 1: this about the fact that you look really good in it? 848 00:43:09,440 --> 00:43:11,839 Speaker 1: Which is fine. All of this is fine, but let's 849 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:19,440 Speaker 1: get to the root of what it's about. Yeah, do 850 00:43:19,480 --> 00:43:22,480 Speaker 1: you think he's threaten? But I think he doesn't want 851 00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 1: other people looking at me. That's that valid thought. I mean, 852 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 1: is that is that something that concerns you? Is that 853 00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,919 Speaker 1: something that you should do? You believe that that's something 854 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:31,239 Speaker 1: you should be considerate of if you're in a relationship 855 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,279 Speaker 1: with him, because maybe he's not the guy for you. 856 00:43:33,360 --> 00:43:37,880 Speaker 1: But is it is it so bad that he um 857 00:43:37,920 --> 00:43:40,400 Speaker 1: that he's concerned about that he's concerned about the attention 858 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:44,480 Speaker 1: that you might get when you're in a relationship with him. 859 00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:50,319 Speaker 1: I guess I shouldn't expect him. You're just like, you know, 860 00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,919 Speaker 1: be okay with me going out there as if I am. 861 00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:58,760 Speaker 1: I guess he's a single costume. He threatened, that's his problem. 862 00:43:59,120 --> 00:44:01,960 Speaker 1: I don't think that's true. You're in a relationship, yeah, 863 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:04,279 Speaker 1: but like she should not awesome. She's not going out 864 00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:08,040 Speaker 1: every night, like you know, dressing this way to like 865 00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,920 Speaker 1: pick up dudes. She's going out on Halloween. It's a costume. 866 00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:14,640 Speaker 1: If he's controlling every aspect of your life, that's an issue. 867 00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,320 Speaker 1: If he's concerned about this one costume in this one setting, 868 00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,719 Speaker 1: I don't know that you just disregard it. Because while 869 00:44:21,719 --> 00:44:23,440 Speaker 1: you're an independent woman and you get to make your 870 00:44:23,440 --> 00:44:25,759 Speaker 1: own decisions, and I completely agree with that, and if 871 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:27,839 Speaker 1: you decide to go out and wear this costume, by 872 00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:30,520 Speaker 1: all means own that. But it might hurt his feelings. 873 00:44:30,560 --> 00:44:32,200 Speaker 1: And if you're in a relationship with him and you 874 00:44:32,239 --> 00:44:34,680 Speaker 1: care about his feelings, it might be worth hearing it out, 875 00:44:34,719 --> 00:44:37,680 Speaker 1: engaging whether this is a situational or whether this is 876 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,880 Speaker 1: going to be epidemic, Because I think you do have 877 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,880 Speaker 1: to care about his feelings. That's what I feel like. 878 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 1: It's a slippery slope. Okay, well I do, but I 879 00:44:45,480 --> 00:44:48,840 Speaker 1: can meet him halfway and like wear a normal button 880 00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 1: down instead of like hied up. And I don't love 881 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:55,680 Speaker 1: it either, because I that wouldn't be me. But but 882 00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:58,719 Speaker 1: I'm also not a costume. I'm not I'm not sort 883 00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,719 Speaker 1: of in that mindset. I'm not insecure in such a 884 00:45:01,760 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 1: way that if you go out and wear this outfit. 885 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:07,760 Speaker 1: But maybe he's his values in that regard are different 886 00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:10,399 Speaker 1: than yours, and maybe maybe you, maybe you hear him out, 887 00:45:10,400 --> 00:45:13,520 Speaker 1: you shouldn't wear a sexy Harry Potter costume. All right, 888 00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:15,319 Speaker 1: Well let me see what some people have to say 889 00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:16,840 Speaker 1: about this time you. Thank you so much, have a 890 00:45:16,880 --> 00:45:19,439 Speaker 1: great day. Thank you. Yeah. I know. Look, I don't 891 00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:21,600 Speaker 1: like controlling guys, but I also don't think. I think 892 00:45:21,600 --> 00:45:23,439 Speaker 1: when you get into relationship, then you hear. You got 893 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,839 Speaker 1: to hear somebody out on their concerns, and if you're 894 00:45:25,840 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 1: gonna be in a relationship with somebody long term, then 895 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 1: their concerns are valid in some regard. Hey Taylor, Hello, 896 00:45:33,280 --> 00:45:35,399 Speaker 1: Hi Taylor, good morning. You just heard tiny and stair 897 00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:39,520 Speaker 1: go what do you think? By yes, what do you think? 898 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,799 Speaker 1: What do you think when you hear that? Wow? My 899 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:44,360 Speaker 1: boyfriend's kind of the same way. I kind of dressed 900 00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:47,960 Speaker 1: it down all the time. So every time I do 901 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,960 Speaker 1: have an opportunity that I could dressed up and go out, 902 00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 1: it makes him uncomfortable. Not because he doesn't like me 903 00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,920 Speaker 1: wearing that stuff. He just he's very insecure about himself 904 00:45:59,640 --> 00:46:01,920 Speaker 1: and he thinks that I'm going to get more attention 905 00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:07,319 Speaker 1: than it's his insecurity. And it's not that you're doing 906 00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,960 Speaker 1: anything wrong. That's his insecurity. That's his problem. Yes, it's 907 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:15,000 Speaker 1: not all insecurity. Yeah, it's not. So you don't need 908 00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:17,400 Speaker 1: to be You don't need to be mindful of aspects 909 00:46:17,400 --> 00:46:19,800 Speaker 1: of him that are insecure. When you're in a relationship 910 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:21,960 Speaker 1: with him, you just disregard those things I think you need. 911 00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,400 Speaker 1: It's not necessarily that you are. I mean, you don't 912 00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:30,520 Speaker 1: disregard some things that you know he he values, But 913 00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:34,680 Speaker 1: at times like you need to, you need to just 914 00:46:34,800 --> 00:46:38,240 Speaker 1: discover the boundaries. Because it's not fair that I'm limiting 915 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,240 Speaker 1: myself just to make you feel better about yourself. Because 916 00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:43,319 Speaker 1: I need you to work about him, I would agree, 917 00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:47,200 Speaker 1: And that's not going to help better about himself. Agree 918 00:46:47,239 --> 00:46:51,640 Speaker 1: with that consistent you would say, yeah, I agree. I agree, 919 00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:53,640 Speaker 1: because it's not going to stop there. It's gonna just 920 00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,080 Speaker 1: bleed into other areas, you know exactly. And if I 921 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:59,640 Speaker 1: could make him just more comfortable with me doing that 922 00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:02,319 Speaker 1: kind of thing and like show him that, hey, it's 923 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:04,520 Speaker 1: not that big of a deal. You need to just 924 00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,960 Speaker 1: calm down about it because nothing's going to happen, then 925 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:09,359 Speaker 1: it would be Okay. I agree, it's tricky, It's true. 926 00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:11,439 Speaker 1: I agree that it's tricky, but I don't I think 927 00:47:11,440 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 1: issue is not your outfit. The issue is his insecurity. 928 00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,840 Speaker 1: So let's work on the real problem because it doesn't 929 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:19,800 Speaker 1: matter what you wear, that insecurity is still going to 930 00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:24,080 Speaker 1: be there. I appreciate you. Have a great day. Thank 931 00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 1: you guys too. Thank you, Hey Amy, good morning, Hey, 932 00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:33,000 Speaker 1: good morning. And the sexy Halloween costume, but her boyfriends 933 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,399 Speaker 1: are happy about it, what do you think? Okay, so 934 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,120 Speaker 1: here's my thing. She initially said I'm going to a 935 00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,680 Speaker 1: Halloween party, right, so in my mind I'm thinking she's 936 00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,799 Speaker 1: going without him. She sends him the picture of her 937 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 1: in the sexy costume, and he's like, I'm not going 938 00:47:49,400 --> 00:47:51,160 Speaker 1: to be there. I don't want you to wear that, 939 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,440 Speaker 1: so I would want to know is he going to 940 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 1: be there or not. If it's going to be there, 941 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,520 Speaker 1: I don't see so much of an issue with it. 942 00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:01,640 Speaker 1: But if she's going out and he's not going to 943 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 1: be there, he's obviously feeling insecure about it, and maybe 944 00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:08,240 Speaker 1: she needs to reconsider. I don't know. Yeah, thank you, Amy, 945 00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:12,280 Speaker 1: have a good day. Thank you too. Glad you call him, Mike, Yeah, 946 00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:13,839 Speaker 1: I'm my good morning. What do you want to say? 947 00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:15,640 Speaker 1: What do you think about? Just if if people just 948 00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:17,840 Speaker 1: tuning in. Tanya has been with this guy for three months. 949 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,720 Speaker 1: She's wearing what she says is a very sexy costume 950 00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,040 Speaker 1: for Halloween. He's he's seen a picture of it, and 951 00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 1: he doesn't particularly care for it. Yeah. I was just 952 00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:28,440 Speaker 1: gonna say that I've been on relationship for about a 953 00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 1: year now and my girlfriend's definitely a little more reserved. 954 00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,040 Speaker 1: But in this regard, I just feel like, and I 955 00:48:34,120 --> 00:48:35,799 Speaker 1: told her this in the past and she agreed that, 956 00:48:35,880 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 1: Like I feel like, when you're in a relationship, it's 957 00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:40,239 Speaker 1: kind it is kind of sacred, and like that's part 958 00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,440 Speaker 1: of like the PERCs of being in a relationship. That's 959 00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:43,880 Speaker 1: why you get to see like you're a woman like 960 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: that and not like everyone else, you's got to see 961 00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:48,239 Speaker 1: as much. And then again, just like you guys have 962 00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,120 Speaker 1: talked about though, like if I was there, then obviously 963 00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:51,799 Speaker 1: I feel much better about it. And I don't really 964 00:48:51,800 --> 00:48:54,960 Speaker 1: have many securities. I feel like everyone gets a little jealous. 965 00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:56,920 Speaker 1: But if you're gonna be there, I don't think it's 966 00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:58,160 Speaker 1: a problem. I mean, if I want to be a 967 00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:03,080 Speaker 1: sexy snoopy and that costume is me wearing a white 968 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,920 Speaker 1: song and then, by the way, maybe that's not an 969 00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:09,000 Speaker 1: insecurity thing. Maybe it just embarrasses her because she's more 970 00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:10,680 Speaker 1: modest than I am. I think I have to take 971 00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:13,440 Speaker 1: that any consideration because I think it would be unfair 972 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:17,040 Speaker 1: for me to just disregard yea, her feeling about that 973 00:49:17,160 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 1: where it's coming from. Like, I agree, but I think 974 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 1: it's a conversation that she needs to hear and not 975 00:49:21,600 --> 00:49:23,759 Speaker 1: just immediately say I am a woman, I will do 976 00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:25,680 Speaker 1: what I want and I don't care what you think 977 00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:28,960 Speaker 1: about it. She'd also say that, well, I don't know 978 00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:30,520 Speaker 1: if that's the right thing to do in a relationship, 979 00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:34,279 Speaker 1: not that I'm any expert. After fifteen minutes. Thank you, Mike, 980 00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:39,120 Speaker 1: have a good day. Glad you'd call. Hey, Jill, Hi Joe, 981 00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:41,400 Speaker 1: good morning. What do you want to say? Well, what 982 00:49:41,520 --> 00:49:44,040 Speaker 1: I wanted to say is that it sounds to me like, 983 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,759 Speaker 1: you know, it's possible that maybe he's concerned about her 984 00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:50,000 Speaker 1: going out on night. Well, a lot of people are 985 00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:54,000 Speaker 1: going to be drinking, and not necessarily that she's gonna chief, 986 00:49:54,080 --> 00:49:56,160 Speaker 1: but just there are a lot of creepy people out 987 00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:59,920 Speaker 1: on fallow Bees. Maybe he is creeping on her from 988 00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:02,239 Speaker 1: thanks the outfit. Well, if that's what he's worried about, 989 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,799 Speaker 1: you should go with her then. Yeah, she said he 990 00:50:04,840 --> 00:50:07,960 Speaker 1: was invited. Yeah, but you know how she said he 991 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:12,000 Speaker 1: was invited, It sounded like they hadn't actually had that conversation, 992 00:50:12,200 --> 00:50:16,120 Speaker 1: just like he was invited. Um, thank you Jill, have 993 00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:21,120 Speaker 1: a good day. Appreciate you calling hey, lazy lazy? What 994 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:24,279 Speaker 1: do you think about Sego? I definitely agree with you 995 00:50:24,360 --> 00:50:26,480 Speaker 1: on this. Um, if you're in a relationship, I feel 996 00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:30,400 Speaker 1: like should respect your man on it and you shouldn't 997 00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:32,840 Speaker 1: dress sexy and go with the other girls from it 998 00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:36,400 Speaker 1: because he's not there, then you really should, you know, 999 00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:39,560 Speaker 1: dress appropriate he is there that yeah, you know, based 1000 00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:42,600 Speaker 1: dress sexy, hasn't dar sect you with you? Well, if 1001 00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:44,839 Speaker 1: they're not aligned on this, you know, if they're if 1002 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:49,000 Speaker 1: they're fundamentally they disagree completely on this, and maybe they're 1003 00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:50,640 Speaker 1: not for each other, you know, I'm not sure, but 1004 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:53,920 Speaker 1: I just hate the idea of that um that she 1005 00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,160 Speaker 1: wouldn't be mindful at least somewhat of what he thinks 1006 00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,480 Speaker 1: about it and the root of the problem and whether 1007 00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:01,680 Speaker 1: it's a emic or if it's just a one time thing. 1008 00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,319 Speaker 1: If it's every damn thing she wears every day, that's 1009 00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:07,839 Speaker 1: not that's a problem. If it's his insecurity, her like 1010 00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:11,279 Speaker 1: covering herself up is not going to change that insecurity 1011 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,120 Speaker 1: in him. Yeah. So well, we've we've diagnosed him as 1012 00:51:14,160 --> 00:51:17,759 Speaker 1: being massively insecure as in life and that okay, we 1013 00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,040 Speaker 1: never talked to this guy. She should live her own 1014 00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:21,920 Speaker 1: life that we don't know that that's what's going on. 1015 00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:25,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, Lacy Sorr. Thank you have a great day. 1016 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:28,680 Speaker 1: Glad you called. Hey Emily, Hi guys, Hi, Emily, what 1017 00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:32,200 Speaker 1: do you think? So? I think that just because she's 1018 00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:36,640 Speaker 1: wearing something like deductive or something that she feels good 1019 00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:42,560 Speaker 1: going out and doesn't mean that she's going to like pay. 1020 00:51:43,280 --> 00:51:45,760 Speaker 1: I have a boyfriend, like, thank you, and he should 1021 00:51:45,760 --> 00:51:49,160 Speaker 1: be proud of like, hey, I got a hot dry Yes. No, 1022 00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,200 Speaker 1: it's not like she's going to go out and you know, 1023 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 1: do whatever. She's in the costumes. If she's the type 1024 00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,080 Speaker 1: of person that's going to go out and just sleep 1025 00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:59,880 Speaker 1: with dudes anyway, she'll do it with or without that, 1026 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:02,360 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? It could just be about 1027 00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 1: something other than sexuality. Could this be about modesty? Well? 1028 00:52:05,400 --> 00:52:09,040 Speaker 1: Why does he need her to be modest for him? Um? Well? 1029 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:13,440 Speaker 1: Dating like good for him? Well, and she admitted this 1030 00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 1: was especially revealing. But okay, all right, thank you. Have 1031 00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:19,000 Speaker 1: a good day, Emily, thank you, Thanks glad you called? 1032 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:22,399 Speaker 1: Hey Ashley, Hi, Hi Ashley. What do you think? Good morning? 1033 00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:24,400 Speaker 1: That's it called. Lots of opinions on this, what do 1034 00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 1: you think? Okay, first, I want to say hi to 1035 00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:31,920 Speaker 1: you guys, because i'm your pop up wedding wife. A 1036 00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:35,920 Speaker 1: little boy, right, yeah, a little boy in us. Shockingly, 1037 00:52:36,000 --> 00:52:38,520 Speaker 1: we have a little girl now too. Oh wow, look 1038 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:42,440 Speaker 1: at this man, Look at what we've started. You spawn something. 1039 00:52:42,600 --> 00:52:44,880 Speaker 1: Not only are we not only can we marry you, 1040 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:49,000 Speaker 1: but we're also fertility gods too. It's unbelievable. Yes, you 1041 00:52:49,040 --> 00:52:52,080 Speaker 1: guys are so. But that being said, I've been with 1042 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:54,000 Speaker 1: my husband now. I mean we've only been married for 1043 00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:56,120 Speaker 1: a few years now, but we've been together for thirteen 1044 00:52:56,239 --> 00:53:00,480 Speaker 1: years and communication is key. There is something more to 1045 00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,919 Speaker 1: him and his issues with it. He needs to wear 1046 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:07,440 Speaker 1: that costume and for three months, you're only with him 1047 00:53:07,480 --> 00:53:10,319 Speaker 1: for three months, you know where your costume and has 1048 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 1: some fun. Look good, but you know, like you said, 1049 00:53:13,040 --> 00:53:15,400 Speaker 1: you're not You're not gonna go out and sleep with everybody. 1050 00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:17,799 Speaker 1: Tell you know, I get a boyfriend. I don't need 1051 00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:21,600 Speaker 1: anything else. Thank you and the horn, but the communicate 1052 00:53:21,760 --> 00:53:25,200 Speaker 1: and figure out what's really going on here exactly. Thank you, Ashley. 1053 00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:28,319 Speaker 1: Have a good day. He's your guys. Hey, Oscar, how 1054 00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:31,800 Speaker 1: are you doing? Good morning? More fun, Oscar, So you 1055 00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:33,600 Speaker 1: heard stare going. I'm just gonna recap this one more 1056 00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:34,960 Speaker 1: time for the people who may have just tuned in. 1057 00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:36,960 Speaker 1: Uh time you hit us up. She's bought the guy 1058 00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,000 Speaker 1: for three months. She has what she had misses, a 1059 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,640 Speaker 1: very sexy Harry Potter costume that she is going to 1060 00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,440 Speaker 1: wear a very short skirt YadA gotta YadA um, and 1061 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,759 Speaker 1: her boyfriend is not a fan of this costume and 1062 00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:51,279 Speaker 1: what do you think? No word very sexy. She wants 1063 00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:55,480 Speaker 1: to flood it up for the night you want, no, yeah, no, 1064 00:53:55,760 --> 00:53:58,640 Speaker 1: she wants to look like a prostitute that night. I 1065 00:53:58,840 --> 00:54:04,360 Speaker 1: want to be like, she's wearing costume because the word sexy. Like, 1066 00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:08,360 Speaker 1: here's the thing. She's going out and she's letting everything 1067 00:54:08,440 --> 00:54:10,080 Speaker 1: pop out there night and he's like, hey, could you 1068 00:54:10,160 --> 00:54:11,839 Speaker 1: just pone it down a little bit? There's nothing wrong 1069 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:14,680 Speaker 1: with it? Has to do it? Why does she? Why 1070 00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:18,200 Speaker 1: does she have to tell? Well, it has to take 1071 00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,480 Speaker 1: your girlfriend went out in the sexy Harry Potter costume. 1072 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:28,160 Speaker 1: Oscar again again, he isn't the word she wants. She 1073 00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:32,359 Speaker 1: wants everybody to look at it. And this is the thing. 1074 00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:35,479 Speaker 1: This is the thing, though, Oscar. Why she what's someone 1075 00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:41,400 Speaker 1: I don't agree with? I don't agree, Oscar, Oscar, I 1076 00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:47,040 Speaker 1: don't such Okay, I don't agree that there's anything inherently 1077 00:54:47,200 --> 00:54:52,120 Speaker 1: or or or explicitly intended by this costume the way 1078 00:54:52,160 --> 00:54:54,600 Speaker 1: that you were saying. But what really concerns me is 1079 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:57,479 Speaker 1: the overlying point that that people aren't going to listen 1080 00:54:57,520 --> 00:55:00,160 Speaker 1: to their partner. That's all I'm asking for is let's 1081 00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:02,360 Speaker 1: talk about it. Let's hear out what is your concern 1082 00:55:02,360 --> 00:55:05,120 Speaker 1: and why versus I'm just doing it because I can. 1083 00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,319 Speaker 1: That's all I'm arguing. I don't know about where you're going. 1084 00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:10,319 Speaker 1: That's a whole different level of assumption that I'm not 1085 00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:13,360 Speaker 1: comfortable with. Oscar wants to wear a Christmas tree. But 1086 00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:15,239 Speaker 1: I'm calling it out on what it is. We've all 1087 00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:17,600 Speaker 1: been out on Halloween. We all see what these girls 1088 00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:27,640 Speaker 1: she really wanted, the nice touchup bottle, Oscar, Thank you, Oscar, 1089 00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:31,880 Speaker 1: have a good day's opinion. It's that's very extreme. Whoa 1090 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,960 Speaker 1: very extreme to be a ghost with the full bed 1091 00:55:35,040 --> 00:55:36,880 Speaker 1: bed sheet on? You know what, You're not even allowed 1092 00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:38,759 Speaker 1: to go out? Yeah, you gotta wear a onesdaye with 1093 00:55:38,840 --> 00:55:42,080 Speaker 1: a mask. 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He rolled 1108 00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:27,000 Speaker 1: up to a table that was so full, but the 1109 00:56:27,040 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 1: pit bosses decided to make an exception and had a 1110 00:56:29,440 --> 00:56:32,960 Speaker 1: tenth chair moved to the table just so Ben could play. 1111 00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:36,520 Speaker 1: He was wasted, almost fell off his chair, got twenty 1112 00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:41,600 Speaker 1: thousand in chips, and was in and out in twelve minutes. 1113 00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:44,640 Speaker 1: Who they say, he's like a brilliant gambler, and I 1114 00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:46,479 Speaker 1: know there are some places where he can't play certain 1115 00:56:46,520 --> 00:56:48,640 Speaker 1: games because he can have He stumbled out of the 1116 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:52,320 Speaker 1: casino with his lady friend fifteen hundred winnings and twelve minutes. 1117 00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,839 Speaker 1: Not bad, not bad. His lady friend, by the way, 1118 00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:58,120 Speaker 1: his girl named Katie Cherry who goes by the stage 1119 00:56:58,200 --> 00:57:01,960 Speaker 1: name Kad Cherry, and She was seen parting with them 1120 00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:04,920 Speaker 1: this whole weekend. She went to Berkeley College to music. 1121 00:57:05,440 --> 00:57:08,160 Speaker 1: Was at one time a protege of Timberland, the producer. 1122 00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,880 Speaker 1: She worked with a lot of big stars, including Timberlake, Um, 1123 00:57:12,000 --> 00:57:17,280 Speaker 1: Carrie Hilson, Kid Rock. When you say stage name, yeah 1124 00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:23,360 Speaker 1: she's a producer. Oh okay, I guess not an actor? 1125 00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:32,439 Speaker 1: Is the term that badly um. John Legend and Kelly 1126 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:36,080 Speaker 1: Clarkson have teamed up to redo the Christmas classic Baby 1127 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 1: It's cold outside. Remember last year how everybody was like, 1128 00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:40,840 Speaker 1: oh my god, me too. It's so rapey, you know it? 1129 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:46,640 Speaker 1: It really kind of um. So the revised lyrics are now, 1130 00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:49,240 Speaker 1: I really can't stay baby it's called outside. I've got 1131 00:57:49,240 --> 00:57:52,400 Speaker 1: to go away. I can call you a ride. This 1132 00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:57,840 Speaker 1: evening has been so glad you dropped in. Don't worry. 1133 00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,360 Speaker 1: My mother will start to worry. I'll call a car 1134 00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:06,320 Speaker 1: and tell him to hurry instead of um drink. By 1135 00:58:06,320 --> 00:58:16,720 Speaker 1: the way, you're gonna say oscar was aggressives, no question 1136 00:58:16,760 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 1: about it. Speaking of Christmas, Justin Bieber announced Easy to 1137 00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:25,560 Speaker 1: release an album by Christmas. If his Instagram post gets 1138 00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:28,960 Speaker 1: twenty million likes, like you need that? Why do you 1139 00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:31,479 Speaker 1: need that Justin, He said. If it gets twenty million likes, 1140 00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:35,080 Speaker 1: Justin Bieber will release an album before Christmas, shared like 1141 00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:37,440 Speaker 1: get posted in your story. I got to see the demand. 1142 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:39,560 Speaker 1: I love you guys on pump for It. That means 1143 00:58:39,560 --> 00:58:42,120 Speaker 1: he's basically got an album that's ready to go. Yeah, 1144 00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:45,320 Speaker 1: he just wants all the buzz. His last album was 1145 00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:48,240 Speaker 1: twenty fifteen Purpose. That'll come out when Yondi comes out. 1146 00:58:48,520 --> 00:58:51,400 Speaker 1: I want to check out online. Today. Speaking of Yondi, 1147 00:58:51,760 --> 00:58:56,360 Speaker 1: Kanye and James Cordon did the first ever airpool karaoke. 1148 00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,680 Speaker 1: It's like twenty five minutes long. Um, you can check 1149 00:58:58,680 --> 00:59:03,440 Speaker 1: it out fred Anti dot com. Let's see here. Hello there, Stephanie, 1150 00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,560 Speaker 1: how are you good? How are you today? Stephanie? You 1151 00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:10,080 Speaker 1: got the jingle Ball tickets? Thank you guys so much. 1152 00:59:10,200 --> 00:59:12,280 Speaker 1: I've been I've been really wanting to go, so well, 1153 00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:14,280 Speaker 1: now you go. You and a friend going for free. 1154 00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,080 Speaker 1: Will see in a few weeks December eighteenth at All 1155 00:59:17,120 --> 00:59:19,080 Speaker 1: State with all the big stars. Hang on one second, 1156 00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:21,480 Speaker 1: I have a great date. Thank you for listening. Okay, 1157 00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:24,080 Speaker 1: thank you. I hope everybody. I hope the Sexy Harry 1158 00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:27,640 Speaker 1: Potter Um Club of Chicago shows up at jingle ball 1159 00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:30,200 Speaker 1: in their costumes for real, and I also hope they 1160 00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:33,880 Speaker 1: all ask for permission first. Make sure it's okay with 1161 00:59:33,640 --> 00:59:37,440 Speaker 1: with Big Pop at home? Yeah, oh yeah yeah, running by, 1162 00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,880 Speaker 1: running by him, see what he thinks about it? High Shelley, 1163 00:59:41,640 --> 00:59:44,200 Speaker 1: Let's play one thousand and fifty bucks in the show 1164 00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:48,440 Speaker 1: Big Shelley's show them sixteen straight wins. I'm going to 1165 00:59:48,520 --> 00:59:52,880 Speaker 1: win two ninety eight today in five questions date five, five, 1166 00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:54,600 Speaker 1: five nine, one one on three five. If we want 1167 00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,240 Speaker 1: to play, we'll do it after jingle ball artists the 1168 00:59:56,360 --> 01:00:02,040 Speaker 1: Jonas Brothers on one h three five, Fred and Angie 1169 01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:07,640 Speaker 1: on one oh three five. Kiss up the showbiz, Shelley is, yeah, 1170 01:00:07,680 --> 01:00:13,520 Speaker 1: the lawyers made us bleep that out, Shemmy, Let's welcome 1171 01:00:13,560 --> 01:00:18,960 Speaker 1: your challenger today. It is? Is it Genie? Jane? Janie High? 1172 01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:25,160 Speaker 1: What's your name? Sixteen? Jean Hijane? How are you doing? 1173 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:27,840 Speaker 1: There was two ease, So I was Gene. Is that 1174 01:00:27,880 --> 01:00:31,240 Speaker 1: how you spell it? Jean? No? Just Jay, and that's 1175 01:00:31,280 --> 01:00:39,520 Speaker 1: what I figured. But yes, he's answering the phone today anomalous. 1176 01:00:41,760 --> 01:00:44,240 Speaker 1: What's that? What'd you say? I can't believe I'm on 1177 01:00:44,280 --> 01:00:47,520 Speaker 1: with you guys. This is crazy I was so glad 1178 01:00:47,520 --> 01:00:50,200 Speaker 1: to have you here. It's very exciting for us as well. 1179 01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:51,919 Speaker 1: When I played a game today. I'll tell us about 1180 01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:56,240 Speaker 1: yourself though, Gene. Um, well, I lived in, say Charles, 1181 01:00:56,360 --> 01:00:59,040 Speaker 1: and I'm at work right now. Actually, oh yes, he's 1182 01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:00,680 Speaker 1: getting paid to play the game. And what do you 1183 01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,760 Speaker 1: what do you do? Well, I'm on a break, I break. 1184 01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:10,000 Speaker 1: I worked for cost Oh yeah, yo, ask him for 1185 01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:12,640 Speaker 1: the freebies. The one on Randall over there, the one 1186 01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:17,400 Speaker 1: on Randall, Um, no, I'm in I work in Booming down. Oh, 1187 01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:23,240 Speaker 1: the one on Army Trail. Yeah, of course. Um, let's 1188 01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:25,640 Speaker 1: play one thousand and fifty dollars a price. She's won 1189 01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:28,880 Speaker 1: sixteen straight and overall record two hundred ninety seven wins, 1190 01:01:28,960 --> 01:01:32,640 Speaker 1: nineteen losses. Let's go. Oh boy, okay, oh boy, cheeny, 1191 01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:40,479 Speaker 1: good luck. She rises Harris in the down position today. 1192 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:44,640 Speaker 1: She's wearing a scarf, a brown infinity scars from sweater 1193 01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:48,560 Speaker 1: with long tails, got front. Yeah the French talk is 1194 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:51,840 Speaker 1: what that's called rufio, wearing some looks like black pants, 1195 01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:55,360 Speaker 1: got some zippies in the front, little zippies, gold zippy 1196 01:01:55,400 --> 01:01:59,360 Speaker 1: pockets and what's the footwear? Black loafers. They were like 1197 01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:04,400 Speaker 1: wedges and they showed down Fashion Rundowns brought to you 1198 01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:06,760 Speaker 1: by the dry Cleaning Experts a CD one Price Cleaners 1199 01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:11,600 Speaker 1: who keep You Looking and Feeling Jane. Question number one, 1200 01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,760 Speaker 1: all right, Selena Goman says she wants her ex boyfriend 1201 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:17,520 Speaker 1: to listen to her new song Lose You to Love Me. 1202 01:02:17,720 --> 01:02:22,560 Speaker 1: Name the X which fast food restaurant is referencing Kanye West. 1203 01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:30,520 Speaker 1: News song closed on Sundays. This late iconic painter who 1204 01:02:30,560 --> 01:02:35,400 Speaker 1: coined terms like happy Accidents, has a birthday today. I 1205 01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:38,880 Speaker 1: have an idea. Daniel Craig shot his final scene as 1206 01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:43,520 Speaker 1: this character for the movie No Time to Die. Oh 1207 01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:46,640 Speaker 1: my God, I haven't Oh, all right? Last question, Kylie 1208 01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,880 Speaker 1: Jenner and her best friend recreated the iconic VNA moment 1209 01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:55,560 Speaker 1: when Britney Spears kiss another singer. Name that singer? Oh 1210 01:02:55,560 --> 01:03:04,960 Speaker 1: my god, Jane Cheny, Jean Jean Jean, Oh boy, oh Man. 1211 01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:08,320 Speaker 1: Rufiel is updating the board. I think she's gonna get five. Actually, oh, 1212 01:03:08,360 --> 01:03:13,040 Speaker 1: I'm sure. Let's see shells two. Yeah, she returns from 1213 01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:16,000 Speaker 1: the sound through booth. All right. Question number one for 1214 01:03:16,040 --> 01:03:19,160 Speaker 1: you Shovin Shelley. Selena Gomez says she wants her ex 1215 01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:21,840 Speaker 1: boyfriend to listen to her new song Lose You to 1216 01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:25,479 Speaker 1: Love Me? Name that ex, Justin Bieber. Which fast food 1217 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:30,360 Speaker 1: restaurant is referencing Kanye West's new song Closed on Sundays. 1218 01:03:30,360 --> 01:03:40,280 Speaker 1: Which one Burger came, Oh shoot, because because can clap 1219 01:03:40,320 --> 01:03:43,800 Speaker 1: back at that thing? But I said referenced. Yeah, I said, 1220 01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:48,280 Speaker 1: That's what I said. Which fast food restaurant is referenced? 1221 01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:51,600 Speaker 1: I don't know what she thought she thought? Which she thought? 1222 01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:56,080 Speaker 1: She said? Which fast food restaurant is referencing the thing? Okay? 1223 01:03:56,560 --> 01:04:00,000 Speaker 1: This late iconic painter who coined terms like happy acts 1224 01:04:00,120 --> 01:04:04,840 Speaker 1: and has a birthday today. Oh three, dude's name too, 1225 01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:15,120 Speaker 1: Painter yes one, saying she said the last name. All right, 1226 01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:17,960 Speaker 1: this is this is this is this is not the 1227 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,760 Speaker 1: direction I saw this going. You got. Daniel Craig shot 1228 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:23,400 Speaker 1: his final scene as this character for the movie No 1229 01:04:23,520 --> 01:04:26,760 Speaker 1: Time to Die. James Bond and Kylie Jenner and her 1230 01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:30,240 Speaker 1: best friend recreated the iconic Vienna moment when the m 1231 01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:33,600 Speaker 1: a moment when Britney Spears kissed another singer name the 1232 01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:43,840 Speaker 1: singer uh Madonna. Yes three, show a little little shaky though, 1233 01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:46,760 Speaker 1: Jeane Genie, You're gonna have to say, it though, I'm 1234 01:04:46,800 --> 01:04:48,120 Speaker 1: sorry even though you did it, you know, a nice 1235 01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,760 Speaker 1: job and you and you almost tied somehow. My name 1236 01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:52,800 Speaker 1: is Geene Jennie, and I got showed up on the showdown. 1237 01:04:53,720 --> 01:04:55,560 Speaker 1: My name is Gane Jennie, and I got shot up 1238 01:04:55,600 --> 01:05:00,400 Speaker 1: on the show down. And and I can't ha with 1239 01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:08,280 Speaker 1: the gorilla. That was a sad and rendition you Jean 1240 01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:18,480 Speaker 1: Jeannie can't hang? What if I got sorry? I was 1241 01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:22,520 Speaker 1: all right, not my best performance either, but it's okay, 1242 01:05:22,880 --> 01:05:24,760 Speaker 1: hold on one second, have a great take costcos he 1243 01:05:24,840 --> 01:05:27,919 Speaker 1: had everybody for us. Okay, Well, thanks, guys. Good stay 1244 01:05:28,000 --> 01:05:34,600 Speaker 1: right when two or ninety eight by Friday, by Thursday, 1245 01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:36,560 Speaker 1: you could get to three hiding because then on the 1246 01:05:36,640 --> 01:05:42,680 Speaker 1: weekend's my birthday? And you right it is your birthday? 1247 01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:49,360 Speaker 1: Is uh? The boyfriend coming in the town? Sure? Birthday? 1248 01:05:49,680 --> 01:06:04,280 Speaker 1: Sex birthday? It's the best time of year. Who's Who's 1249 01:06:04,280 --> 01:06:12,160 Speaker 1: a birthday? Six Chicago? What's coming up on the show 1250 01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:15,400 Speaker 1: Michelle Program from ten to noon today? I have jingle 1251 01:06:15,440 --> 01:06:18,720 Speaker 1: Ball tickets today and also more or Lessia car tickets. 1252 01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:22,120 Speaker 1: And there's a photo bombing Gramma roaming the streets of Chicago. 1253 01:06:25,920 --> 01:06:34,040 Speaker 1: All right, ten toon with Shelle, have a great day, Shelle, Yeah, 1254 01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:37,040 Speaker 1: it feels good with Fred and Angie on one of 1255 01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:39,880 Speaker 1: three five kiss at that shut out National Lewis University. 1256 01:06:39,920 --> 01:06:42,160 Speaker 1: We love to share good news, positive stories going on 1257 01:06:42,240 --> 01:06:45,360 Speaker 1: in the world every day. What's your finance? That's celebrity 1258 01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:48,360 Speaker 1: feels good um. Actor and pro wrestler John Cena took 1259 01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:51,240 Speaker 1: to Twitter yesterday to announce he's planning on making a 1260 01:06:51,360 --> 01:06:54,760 Speaker 1: five hundred thousand dollars donation who, a charity that aids 1261 01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:59,000 Speaker 1: California's firefighters and first responders. In the heartfelt video, he 1262 01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:02,520 Speaker 1: addresses his Upcome film and explains how it showcases a 1263 01:07:02,520 --> 01:07:05,960 Speaker 1: group of people I believe our heroes, first responders. Right now, 1264 01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:09,040 Speaker 1: California is in dire straits. It is burning, It is 1265 01:07:09,120 --> 01:07:12,920 Speaker 1: under siege from massive wildfire statewide, which means that our 1266 01:07:12,960 --> 01:07:15,160 Speaker 1: first responders are working around the clock and they need 1267 01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:17,880 Speaker 1: our health. So he said, in times like this, when 1268 01:07:17,920 --> 01:07:19,840 Speaker 1: people are giving their lives and working around the clock, 1269 01:07:19,840 --> 01:07:22,480 Speaker 1: what they need from us as resources, It's the right 1270 01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:24,400 Speaker 1: thing to do. I wish everyone the best of luck, 1271 01:07:24,760 --> 01:07:32,520 Speaker 1: Stay safe. You are our hero. Yeah. Most people have 1272 01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:35,600 Speaker 1: probably seen married couple shopping for furniture to decorate their 1273 01:07:35,600 --> 01:07:38,760 Speaker 1: new home. But people's hearts are melting over an older 1274 01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:42,240 Speaker 1: man and his very adorable shopping companion. We'll get the 1275 01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:44,680 Speaker 1: photo up at fred Angie dot com. Sent and tip Paulina. 1276 01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:49,520 Speaker 1: Alicia Doll's grandfather is inseparable from his best friend, Coco 1277 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:52,760 Speaker 1: the dog, and wherever one goes, the other is usually 1278 01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:55,120 Speaker 1: not far away. So when Grandpa Doll and his wife 1279 01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:57,360 Speaker 1: moved into a new home, the senior dog a dead 1280 01:07:57,440 --> 01:07:59,560 Speaker 1: refused to buy a new reclanner until it received the 1281 01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:04,040 Speaker 1: officials dampa approval from the dog Coco. When Grandma and 1282 01:08:04,080 --> 01:08:07,560 Speaker 1: Grandpa moved and needed to buy new furniture, his granddaughter 1283 01:08:07,600 --> 01:08:10,080 Speaker 1: said it was Grandpa's requirement that the foot rest on 1284 01:08:10,080 --> 01:08:12,240 Speaker 1: the lounge chair was wide enough for him and Coco 1285 01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:15,360 Speaker 1: to sit side by side, So he brought Coco into 1286 01:08:15,400 --> 01:08:18,800 Speaker 1: several stores to try out chairs until he found the 1287 01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:21,960 Speaker 1: perfect one. Coco was always greeted with a smile, and 1288 01:08:22,000 --> 01:08:23,360 Speaker 1: I'm sure it's not every day that a man and 1289 01:08:23,439 --> 01:08:26,320 Speaker 1: his dog of furniture shopping. They tried it out, a 1290 01:08:26,360 --> 01:08:28,840 Speaker 1: lot of photos of it. I assume they finally found 1291 01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:31,120 Speaker 1: one that worked for both of them and they can 1292 01:08:31,200 --> 01:08:33,320 Speaker 1: both sit together. And happiness and the photos of amazing. 1293 01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:36,080 Speaker 1: We'll get enough. Fred Angie dot Com and Angie Live 1294 01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:42,200 Speaker 1: from the Interest Studios UKSCFM, Chicago, Kiss FM, and iHeart 1295 01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:46,320 Speaker 1: Radio Station. Here's Fred and Angie Morning, Christen. How are 1296 01:08:46,320 --> 01:08:50,960 Speaker 1: you doing? Eight oh six Thursday. It's not Thursday, it's Tuesday. 1297 01:08:51,920 --> 01:08:55,960 Speaker 1: I was excited. I'm distracted. I'm looking at this video 1298 01:08:56,000 --> 01:09:00,360 Speaker 1: that Anthony Alfano, the little boy who always has the 1299 01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:05,080 Speaker 1: super inclusive Halloween costumes each year. Yeah, unless you're his 1300 01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:06,800 Speaker 1: beetle Jews. I got to see that in person. This 1301 01:09:06,880 --> 01:09:11,160 Speaker 1: year is Blue Man Group. His family is incredible, his 1302 01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:13,479 Speaker 1: mom and his dad, everybody and his mom sent me 1303 01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:17,880 Speaker 1: this video of Anthony listening to the Gorilla listening to 1304 01:09:17,920 --> 01:09:21,200 Speaker 1: the SHOWB Shelley Showdown, and the smile on his face 1305 01:09:22,000 --> 01:09:24,960 Speaker 1: makes my day. Anyway, they have a book out by 1306 01:09:24,960 --> 01:09:27,000 Speaker 1: the way. I let's see if I remember the title 1307 01:09:27,040 --> 01:09:28,920 Speaker 1: of the book, you can. His mom wrote a book. 1308 01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:33,920 Speaker 1: It's called Watch My Chair Disappear. It's on Amazon, and 1309 01:09:34,200 --> 01:09:36,439 Speaker 1: it's a way to start the conversation with their kids 1310 01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:40,439 Speaker 1: about it inclusiveness and differences between people. So I would 1311 01:09:40,479 --> 01:09:42,120 Speaker 1: love to see them sell a ton of these books. 1312 01:09:42,560 --> 01:09:46,360 Speaker 1: Dianna Alfano watch my Chair Disappear, and it's on Amazon 1313 01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:48,120 Speaker 1: and you can get it that way. So I shout 1314 01:09:48,120 --> 01:09:51,120 Speaker 1: out to them. But the video of Anthony is on 1315 01:09:50,760 --> 01:09:53,680 Speaker 1: my on my Insta Fred on air and I love it. 1316 01:09:54,160 --> 01:09:58,320 Speaker 1: His little smile will make your day so amazing. Costumes 1317 01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:00,800 Speaker 1: every year too. Let's do the entertainer report after we 1318 01:10:00,840 --> 01:10:02,840 Speaker 1: give you a thousand bucks and waiting by the phone. 1319 01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:05,040 Speaker 1: What's coming up in there? She easy hooks up a 1320 01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:07,479 Speaker 1: hundred fans in Chicago with some dinner. I'm gonna tell 1321 01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:09,240 Speaker 1: you about that. That's on the way in a few 1322 01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:11,880 Speaker 1: trending stories, blogs off coming up the sour on one 1323 01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:17,080 Speaker 1: O three five. Why they get blown off? We'll find 1324 01:10:17,080 --> 01:10:19,400 Speaker 1: out now in Waiting by the Phone with Fred and 1325 01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:25,040 Speaker 1: Angie on one of three five Kiss FM. Right, see 1326 01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:28,479 Speaker 1: hear Swanka? Aaron? How are you? Aaron? I'm good? How 1327 01:10:28,520 --> 01:10:30,640 Speaker 1: are you doing right? Thanks for being here, Welcome to 1328 01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:33,080 Speaker 1: Waiting by the Phone. You and Isabella met and you 1329 01:10:33,080 --> 01:10:35,880 Speaker 1: feel like you've been blown off? What happened? Yeah? So 1330 01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:38,800 Speaker 1: we met on Hinge, the dating app. Okay, it's like 1331 01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:41,000 Speaker 1: kind of like Tinder, right, it's very familiar. Yes, I 1332 01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:44,240 Speaker 1: know all these things right, yeah, yeah, exactly. So you know, 1333 01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:48,080 Speaker 1: we message, we texted, and then we agreed to meet 1334 01:10:48,160 --> 01:10:50,240 Speaker 1: up for a drink um and I thought it went 1335 01:10:50,320 --> 01:10:53,240 Speaker 1: really well. She seemed really neat. She was very attractive, 1336 01:10:53,280 --> 01:10:59,400 Speaker 1: really successful, funny, okay, you know, good conversationalist like so 1337 01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:02,360 Speaker 1: like we really but she was severing my type. At 1338 01:11:02,360 --> 01:11:03,599 Speaker 1: the end of the day, I said, I call her 1339 01:11:03,680 --> 01:11:06,080 Speaker 1: is out for another date, you know, for dinner that time, 1340 01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:10,519 Speaker 1: maybe next until you know, nef lacing ship. Ah yeah, okay, 1341 01:11:10,520 --> 01:11:12,240 Speaker 1: So you were hoping I'd get her on the couch 1342 01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:15,519 Speaker 1: hump or whatever. And so I reached out three times. 1343 01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:18,880 Speaker 1: I text her, a couple of times I called her 1344 01:11:19,120 --> 01:11:22,840 Speaker 1: and nothing, no refond. Okay, radio silence. Right, So again, 1345 01:11:23,040 --> 01:11:25,840 Speaker 1: you thought you had a good time. You told her 1346 01:11:25,840 --> 01:11:27,960 Speaker 1: you were going to reach out, you did nothing. It's 1347 01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:30,040 Speaker 1: gotta be driving your nuts like it would most people. 1348 01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:31,200 Speaker 1: And you want to know why. You want to know 1349 01:11:31,200 --> 01:11:33,080 Speaker 1: why she's not reaching out, Well, why she's not calling 1350 01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:35,639 Speaker 1: you back or texting you. Yeah, all right, we'll call 1351 01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:37,840 Speaker 1: her Isabella as her name. You'll be on the phone 1352 01:11:37,840 --> 01:11:39,240 Speaker 1: the whole time. I don't want you to jump here 1353 01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:41,080 Speaker 1: right at first, but at some point you can definitely 1354 01:11:41,120 --> 01:11:42,760 Speaker 1: jump in and hopefully we can get some info for 1355 01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:44,840 Speaker 1: you and set you up on another date and pay 1356 01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:47,160 Speaker 1: for it. Okay, I appreciate that. Can you hang off 1357 01:11:47,160 --> 01:11:49,800 Speaker 1: for just a second. I stay here. You'll hear what 1358 01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:52,759 Speaker 1: happens next Part two. After Sha Mendez and Camila Cabello, 1359 01:11:55,280 --> 01:11:58,320 Speaker 1: the entertainer important about ten minutes with Dashi, it'say fourteen 1360 01:11:58,479 --> 01:12:00,880 Speaker 1: on one or three five kiss at Chicago's number one 1361 01:12:00,920 --> 01:12:03,599 Speaker 1: hit music station. Fred Nancy, good morning, thanks for being 1362 01:12:03,680 --> 01:12:06,719 Speaker 1: here for two of waiting by the phone with Aaron. 1363 01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:11,760 Speaker 1: Why is he being ghosted? Hello? Hey? Is this Isabella? 1364 01:12:12,760 --> 01:12:15,320 Speaker 1: Hi Isabella fred Nancie calling from the morning radio show 1365 01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:17,639 Speaker 1: on caissep Em And I'm sorry to bother. I'm sorry 1366 01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:21,840 Speaker 1: to call so early too, but we all Nope, no, 1367 01:12:22,200 --> 01:12:25,559 Speaker 1: well man, maybe maybe maybe you did kind of maybe 1368 01:12:25,600 --> 01:12:26,920 Speaker 1: I have to tell you that you are on the 1369 01:12:27,000 --> 01:12:28,920 Speaker 1: radio and I would need your permission to keep going. 1370 01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:33,800 Speaker 1: Is that okay? Yeah? Definitely? Well I mean yes, I think, well, yeah, no, 1371 01:12:33,880 --> 01:12:37,200 Speaker 1: I understand it. I'm sure you're suspicious that we're calling, 1372 01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:39,000 Speaker 1: but we're calling for a guy named Aaron who you 1373 01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:43,760 Speaker 1: met on a dating app. Do you remember Aaron? Um? Yeah, 1374 01:12:44,400 --> 01:12:46,360 Speaker 1: all right, Okay, that's definitely not why I thought you 1375 01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:49,479 Speaker 1: were calling. Okay, okay, yeah, I'm sorry to disappoint you. Then, 1376 01:12:49,520 --> 01:12:51,160 Speaker 1: but he wanted to know. He reached out to us 1377 01:12:51,160 --> 01:12:53,519 Speaker 1: and and he said that you met on an app 1378 01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:55,200 Speaker 1: and had a great time on a date and he's 1379 01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:56,960 Speaker 1: been reaching out to you since then, and he wants 1380 01:12:56,960 --> 01:12:59,439 Speaker 1: to know why it is that you're not calling him back. 1381 01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:04,200 Speaker 1: And he called the radio station to get you guys in. Mom, 1382 01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:07,960 Speaker 1: he did, you're mad? Oh my god. Okay, all right, 1383 01:13:08,000 --> 01:13:10,240 Speaker 1: well I'll just put him on blast. That's syring if 1384 01:13:10,240 --> 01:13:13,839 Speaker 1: that's what he wants to do. What did he do? Okay, Well, 1385 01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:17,040 Speaker 1: first and foremost, um, Yeah, we met on a dating 1386 01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:21,519 Speaker 1: site and all that jazz um. But it's weird because 1387 01:13:21,920 --> 01:13:27,880 Speaker 1: halfway through the date, I realized that we've met before, 1388 01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:32,120 Speaker 1: Like we met on a different dating site earlier, and 1389 01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:35,760 Speaker 1: we had gone out before, and he had basically it's 1390 01:13:36,000 --> 01:13:38,519 Speaker 1: I don't I don't know how this happens, but we're 1391 01:13:38,520 --> 01:13:41,599 Speaker 1: like having a good time during the date, YadA, YadA, YadA. 1392 01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:45,080 Speaker 1: He's totally like thanks sweet to me and all that jazz, 1393 01:13:45,160 --> 01:13:47,040 Speaker 1: and then like halfway is a date, he like said 1394 01:13:47,080 --> 01:13:48,960 Speaker 1: something that triggered me to go, oh my god, wait 1395 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:52,479 Speaker 1: a minute, I heard the story before, and then I realized, yeah, 1396 01:13:52,560 --> 01:13:55,839 Speaker 1: we've actually gone out before. We went on a different site. 1397 01:13:56,240 --> 01:13:59,800 Speaker 1: He had the same picture up, and so he had 1398 01:13:59,840 --> 01:14:03,080 Speaker 1: no idea, and for a while, you had no idea. Yeah, 1399 01:14:03,120 --> 01:14:04,760 Speaker 1: for a little Well, I mean, he was wearing a 1400 01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:07,000 Speaker 1: baseball hat on the first date and he wasn't on 1401 01:14:07,040 --> 01:14:09,760 Speaker 1: the second. What happened on the first date. Oh, it 1402 01:14:09,880 --> 01:14:12,280 Speaker 1: wasn't good. It was a It was a good date, 1403 01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:14,519 Speaker 1: if you know what I'm saying. So he definitely should 1404 01:14:14,520 --> 01:14:17,200 Speaker 1: have remembered. But so he didn't call you after the 1405 01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:19,920 Speaker 1: first date. No, and then you guys go out again. 1406 01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:21,840 Speaker 1: He's like, man, this girl's hot. Yeah, because he said 1407 01:14:21,840 --> 01:14:25,520 Speaker 1: you were hot before. I'm like tinder or something. Thank you, okay, exactly. 1408 01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:30,599 Speaker 1: And apparently my you know, assets were not memorable enough 1409 01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:35,040 Speaker 1: after the first date. Oh warrants a phone call? And now, okay, hey, god, 1410 01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:37,320 Speaker 1: that's that's not fair. That's not fair. Wait, that's Aaron. 1411 01:14:37,360 --> 01:14:40,000 Speaker 1: By the way, I always forget to mention that always 1412 01:14:40,040 --> 01:14:42,080 Speaker 1: the other person's on the phone time about that lapse 1413 01:14:42,080 --> 01:14:45,479 Speaker 1: of judgment or whatever or whatever. So Aaron's here, dude, 1414 01:14:45,479 --> 01:14:47,320 Speaker 1: you went out with her before and you got some 1415 01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:50,559 Speaker 1: action and you don't remember. No, I remembered. I just 1416 01:14:50,640 --> 01:14:52,599 Speaker 1: I thought it would be weird to bring it up. 1417 01:14:52,600 --> 01:14:54,240 Speaker 1: You know, we were meeting in the new context. I 1418 01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:56,679 Speaker 1: didn't want to like make a big deal of effected. 1419 01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:05,840 Speaker 1: I don't mind you remember. Yeah, that's no. I mean 1420 01:15:05,880 --> 01:15:10,520 Speaker 1: I own it. Look familiar like you thought she looked Familion, 1421 01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:12,920 Speaker 1: I will say to Hope, I look familiar. Your tongue 1422 01:15:13,000 --> 01:15:17,080 Speaker 1: was down my throat. You're on my asshall I remember either. Hello, 1423 01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm the one that just told the world you're the 1424 01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:22,439 Speaker 1: one calling asking them why I'm not calling you back? Actually, 1425 01:15:22,520 --> 01:15:24,679 Speaker 1: like blow up my phone like six times a day. 1426 01:15:24,760 --> 01:15:27,200 Speaker 1: Anybody who's on more than one dating app knows that 1427 01:15:27,240 --> 01:15:29,200 Speaker 1: there's a chance that you're going to see somebody. Because 1428 01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:30,840 Speaker 1: most people were on more than one dating I've seen 1429 01:15:30,880 --> 01:15:32,599 Speaker 1: my mask with the same person twice. You just have 1430 01:15:32,640 --> 01:15:34,759 Speaker 1: to if you've been out with them and you've hooked 1431 01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:38,400 Speaker 1: up with them, it's helpful to remember that. Thank you. Yeah, 1432 01:15:38,560 --> 01:15:42,240 Speaker 1: probably get your straight look. I mean, maybe you don't 1433 01:15:42,320 --> 01:15:45,280 Speaker 1: drink so much or but in fairness to Isabella, you 1434 01:15:45,320 --> 01:15:49,679 Speaker 1: didn't remember either until I write no for a minute, 1435 01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:51,280 Speaker 1: and I think it was because he was, like I said, 1436 01:15:51,320 --> 01:15:53,320 Speaker 1: he was running a baseball hat on the first date 1437 01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:56,160 Speaker 1: and on the second thing he wasn't I look exactly 1438 01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:58,960 Speaker 1: a freaking thing. Okay, I don't. I just I don't 1439 01:15:59,000 --> 01:16:01,080 Speaker 1: think that's the important thing. Important thing is did you 1440 01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:03,559 Speaker 1: have a good time on the date. I don't like 1441 01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:06,120 Speaker 1: to date people that have, um, what is that thing 1442 01:16:06,120 --> 01:16:08,439 Speaker 1: where people like walk away from the hospital and like 1443 01:16:09,760 --> 01:16:13,200 Speaker 1: thank you? Come on together? All right? So I can't 1444 01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:14,840 Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date and pay for 1445 01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:17,320 Speaker 1: it since he can't remember, Apparently you can pay for 1446 01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:20,320 Speaker 1: me to go on another date with someone who will remember, Yeah, 1447 01:16:20,439 --> 01:16:23,320 Speaker 1: you're going out with Wow? Yeah, you know, I might 1448 01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:26,840 Speaker 1: want to have a spreadsheet. You might want to have 1449 01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:30,920 Speaker 1: like some kind of PowerPoint presentation that you review, Yes, 1450 01:16:31,000 --> 01:16:35,160 Speaker 1: something like that. Yeah, that's a different level of forgetfulness. 1451 01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:37,639 Speaker 1: Like I've matched with the same person before and been 1452 01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,200 Speaker 1: unsure of it over the years. But I don't think 1453 01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:43,679 Speaker 1: I've ever been out with somebody that you slept with 1454 01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:46,479 Speaker 1: and not knew it. Come on, no, I've not done that. 1455 01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:49,360 Speaker 1: You should have You ever been some in a room 1456 01:16:49,360 --> 01:16:51,040 Speaker 1: though and seen somebody and been like, did I or 1457 01:16:51,080 --> 01:17:01,240 Speaker 1: didn't I um either never happened. No, no shingle ball 1458 01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:03,840 Speaker 1: artist Lewis Cafaldi is on right now the Entertainber Upward, 1459 01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:14,679 Speaker 1: next Angie's Entertainments with It's Matt Bay, Next Level House. 1460 01:17:14,760 --> 01:17:16,840 Speaker 1: So if you're a big Jeezy fan, maybe you've got 1461 01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:19,519 Speaker 1: to be a part of this. On Friday, he treated 1462 01:17:19,520 --> 01:17:21,719 Speaker 1: a hundred fans to a chow down at his favorite 1463 01:17:21,800 --> 01:17:25,759 Speaker 1: chicken joints um So He quarreled like farralled a hundred 1464 01:17:25,800 --> 01:17:29,400 Speaker 1: of his biggest fans Friday in Chicago for a spicy 1465 01:17:29,439 --> 01:17:32,400 Speaker 1: spread at Nando's Chicken and So. He kicked off the 1466 01:17:32,439 --> 01:17:34,799 Speaker 1: weekend by asking his more than eight point three million 1467 01:17:34,880 --> 01:17:37,680 Speaker 1: Instagram followers if they wanted to grab some dinner. The 1468 01:17:37,720 --> 01:17:40,080 Speaker 1: first one hundred to RSVP to this number that he 1469 01:17:40,160 --> 01:17:43,719 Speaker 1: posted got directions to Nando's in Chicago for a free meal. 1470 01:17:44,160 --> 01:17:47,200 Speaker 1: He then delivered, treating all these fans to an insane 1471 01:17:47,240 --> 01:17:50,800 Speaker 1: spread of twenty five chicken platters, three hundred wings, plus 1472 01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:54,840 Speaker 1: tons of sides, mashed potatoes, fries, a good spicy rice. 1473 01:17:54,920 --> 01:17:59,040 Speaker 1: Everything in Nando's is own delicious macho piece garlic bread 1474 01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:01,760 Speaker 1: over a thousand box for that tab picked it all 1475 01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:04,160 Speaker 1: up and they got to mingle with him. They all 1476 01:18:04,240 --> 01:18:08,560 Speaker 1: left with limited edition Geezy Nando's sauce. I didn't know 1477 01:18:08,680 --> 01:18:11,599 Speaker 1: yet his own sauce is his face on the bottom. 1478 01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:13,400 Speaker 1: His face is on the bottom. Okay, yeah, I went 1479 01:18:13,439 --> 01:18:15,200 Speaker 1: there one day. They were given out free sauce, like 1480 01:18:15,320 --> 01:18:18,280 Speaker 1: the big bottle of the one they have at the tables. Yeah, 1481 01:18:18,520 --> 01:18:20,400 Speaker 1: it wasn't huge. It was like a little smaller than 1482 01:18:20,400 --> 01:18:25,800 Speaker 1: the bottom here. I was so pumped. Yeah, so you 1483 01:18:25,840 --> 01:18:29,200 Speaker 1: could try his sauce. Um Los angel his Lakers all 1484 01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:33,000 Speaker 1: star Lebron James former California governor Arnold Schwartzenegger were among 1485 01:18:33,080 --> 01:18:36,680 Speaker 1: the thousands ordered to evacuate their homes yesterday due to 1486 01:18:36,760 --> 01:18:40,080 Speaker 1: the Gatty Fire in California. Just before four am, Lebron 1487 01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:43,000 Speaker 1: tweeted him and his family were driving around looking for accommodations. 1488 01:18:43,840 --> 01:18:47,439 Speaker 1: Okay if you have people for the right, Yeah tell me. 1489 01:18:47,560 --> 01:18:50,800 Speaker 1: No one's got room for Lebron James, his family money 1490 01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:53,439 Speaker 1: them just like wandering the streets like I want to 1491 01:18:53,439 --> 01:18:54,760 Speaker 1: stay in the hotel. Did he have to get like 1492 01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:58,880 Speaker 1: a house? Like? Who knows? Um? So he was evacuated. 1493 01:18:59,000 --> 01:19:02,080 Speaker 1: Schwartzenegger evacuate. Waited that fire is crazy right now. Um. 1494 01:19:02,160 --> 01:19:05,200 Speaker 1: Kylie Jenner being slam for addressing her twenty one month 1495 01:19:05,280 --> 01:19:08,519 Speaker 1: old daughter, Stormy in a miniature replica of her gown 1496 01:19:08,680 --> 01:19:11,120 Speaker 1: for the Matt Gala. This year. She dressed her up 1497 01:19:11,120 --> 01:19:14,920 Speaker 1: as that for Halloween, shared images of Stormy on Instagram. 1498 01:19:15,160 --> 01:19:17,479 Speaker 1: She looked so cute in that feathery purple dress that 1499 01:19:17,600 --> 01:19:20,639 Speaker 1: looked nearly identical to the Versace number that Kylie herself 1500 01:19:20,720 --> 01:19:23,840 Speaker 1: wore to the met Gala. Most praisy idea is cute 1501 01:19:23,960 --> 01:19:27,800 Speaker 1: and adorable. Some slammeder, though, calling her vain and calling 1502 01:19:27,880 --> 01:19:32,160 Speaker 1: a costume inappropriate. Yeah, oscar, it wasn't a sexy Yeah, 1503 01:19:32,680 --> 01:19:36,840 Speaker 1: it wasn't a sexy Harry Potter costume. So pissed she 1504 01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:41,800 Speaker 1: should be gone as a bottle of hill. So if 1505 01:19:41,800 --> 01:19:43,680 Speaker 1: you want to see that costume, I thought it was adorable, 1506 01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:45,559 Speaker 1: you can check that out. Also, a friend's super fan, 1507 01:19:45,720 --> 01:19:48,800 Speaker 1: Charlie Poose, got to meet Jennifer Aniston. His life is 1508 01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:51,040 Speaker 1: getting made. He met two of them though, huh yeah, 1509 01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:54,120 Speaker 1: well three actually because he after he met Courtney Cox, 1510 01:19:54,360 --> 01:19:57,680 Speaker 1: him and Courtney and Lisa Kudrow had pizza together. Oh 1511 01:19:57,960 --> 01:19:59,840 Speaker 1: what the hell? Yeah, So then he was on all 1512 01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:02,439 Speaker 1: and she brought out John Aniston for him and he 1513 01:20:02,560 --> 01:20:04,519 Speaker 1: was thrilled. You can see that at front Anti dot 1514 01:20:04,560 --> 01:20:06,360 Speaker 1: com every now and again. This show needs an Oscar. 1515 01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:08,760 Speaker 1: I knew it was going to happen. I saw what 1516 01:20:08,920 --> 01:20:10,880 Speaker 1: Paulina tighted in and he was gonna say, and I 1517 01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:14,679 Speaker 1: was like, here we go, Here we go, the go ahead. 1518 01:20:14,800 --> 01:20:19,160 Speaker 1: Let's hear it. Let's hear it, Oscar. You know your 1519 01:20:19,200 --> 01:20:21,280 Speaker 1: opinions are welcome. We don't have to agree with him. 1520 01:20:21,439 --> 01:20:24,200 Speaker 1: We can think that you're crazy, but you know, call 1521 01:20:24,280 --> 01:20:27,040 Speaker 1: up here anytime with your crazy as antiquated, weird opinion. 1522 01:20:27,960 --> 01:20:30,599 Speaker 1: So I'll listen. It's all good. Eight twenty six will 1523 01:20:30,640 --> 01:20:33,080 Speaker 1: do trending stories in about ten minutes. Blogs coming up 1524 01:20:33,200 --> 01:20:37,960 Speaker 1: as well. Thousand bucks just after nine. The average weekly 1525 01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:40,720 Speaker 1: allowance for kids in the US is now up to 1526 01:20:40,920 --> 01:20:44,200 Speaker 1: thirty dollars a week. They asked a lot of parents 1527 01:20:44,840 --> 01:20:47,360 Speaker 1: how much they pay their kids in allowance and how 1528 01:20:47,400 --> 01:20:50,880 Speaker 1: they spent the money. The average allowance thirty bucks a 1529 01:20:50,960 --> 01:20:54,160 Speaker 1: week or fifteen hundred dollars a year. Parents say that 1530 01:20:54,320 --> 01:20:57,960 Speaker 1: most of their kids spend their allowance on outings with friends, 1531 01:20:58,240 --> 01:21:02,840 Speaker 1: digital devices, or download or toys. How much allows it 1532 01:21:02,920 --> 01:21:05,160 Speaker 1: eight five five five nine, one one h three five. 1533 01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:07,200 Speaker 1: How much allowing did you get as a kid or 1534 01:21:07,240 --> 01:21:11,320 Speaker 1: were your parents like, no, you live in a house. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1535 01:21:11,920 --> 01:21:13,880 Speaker 1: you live in a house, and so like you got 1536 01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:17,160 Speaker 1: to do stuff in the house because that's what you get. Yeah, 1537 01:21:17,520 --> 01:21:20,000 Speaker 1: that's that's what it requires to live here. And if 1538 01:21:20,040 --> 01:21:22,760 Speaker 1: you want extra stuff, you could get odd job. Yeah. 1539 01:21:23,000 --> 01:21:24,840 Speaker 1: My mom would turn on the water foucet and be like, 1540 01:21:24,960 --> 01:21:28,160 Speaker 1: see you get free water. You should live here, that's 1541 01:21:28,200 --> 01:21:30,040 Speaker 1: what you're getting. My parents laughed at me, was like, 1542 01:21:30,080 --> 01:21:31,880 Speaker 1: can I get five dollars if I do the dishes 1543 01:21:31,920 --> 01:21:37,559 Speaker 1: a like dishes? Like same, damn it. Yeah. I wasn't deprived, 1544 01:21:37,720 --> 01:21:39,880 Speaker 1: And I'm not gonna say that I was out there 1545 01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:42,760 Speaker 1: doing hard labor or whatever, but there wasn't just they 1546 01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:45,519 Speaker 1: were and when I needed something or something like that, 1547 01:21:45,640 --> 01:21:47,960 Speaker 1: I mean, I got it. But I'm saying like, there 1548 01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:51,040 Speaker 1: wasn't just here's forty dollars or here's thirty dollars every 1549 01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:54,000 Speaker 1: week just because you're alive. Yeah, that's how I am 1550 01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:55,639 Speaker 1: with my daughter. I don't really give her an allowance, 1551 01:21:55,720 --> 01:21:57,200 Speaker 1: but if I wanted to go to the movies, they 1552 01:21:57,240 --> 01:21:59,120 Speaker 1: give me money. If I wanted to do something. They 1553 01:21:59,160 --> 01:22:01,360 Speaker 1: give me money. Because school activity, they give me money. 1554 01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:03,840 Speaker 1: It doesn't really do chores either, though. Yeah, I'm not 1555 01:22:04,160 --> 01:22:06,400 Speaker 1: saying by any means that I was, you know, roughing 1556 01:22:06,479 --> 01:22:08,599 Speaker 1: it out there on the mean streets of Scottsdale. Right. 1557 01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:11,519 Speaker 1: My parents did a good job. It worked hard, But no, 1558 01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:14,080 Speaker 1: there was no thirty bucks a week just for just 1559 01:22:14,240 --> 01:22:16,240 Speaker 1: to chill. I would have moved out if I got 1560 01:22:16,280 --> 01:22:20,320 Speaker 1: thirty I'm rich. Now, what I could see being beneficial 1561 01:22:20,920 --> 01:22:25,519 Speaker 1: is if you said, here's I don't know whatever amount 1562 01:22:25,600 --> 01:22:28,040 Speaker 1: a month, and you got to figure out how to 1563 01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:29,880 Speaker 1: make that last. Like, so if you want to go 1564 01:22:29,920 --> 01:22:31,360 Speaker 1: to the movies a couple of times, if you want 1565 01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:34,000 Speaker 1: to buy something, you go to the movies. If you 1566 01:22:34,080 --> 01:22:36,000 Speaker 1: want to, I don't know. You could spend it all 1567 01:22:36,040 --> 01:22:37,680 Speaker 1: at once, you could spend it over the course of 1568 01:22:37,720 --> 01:22:39,519 Speaker 1: the month. But this don't ask me for more money, 1569 01:22:39,600 --> 01:22:43,960 Speaker 1: like here's the money. Now that I could see that 1570 01:22:45,479 --> 01:22:47,920 Speaker 1: some value, some money skills. Now you would be giving 1571 01:22:47,960 --> 01:22:49,720 Speaker 1: them money for nothing, But you're also giving them money 1572 01:22:49,760 --> 01:22:51,760 Speaker 1: for nothing to go out and do stuff. You know, 1573 01:22:51,760 --> 01:22:54,400 Speaker 1: because my parents' attitude was your job as school. So 1574 01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:56,479 Speaker 1: you go to school and then we'll help you with 1575 01:22:56,520 --> 01:22:59,639 Speaker 1: the other stuff. But then when I wanted more money, 1576 01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:01,720 Speaker 1: so I had a car and all that dates and 1577 01:23:01,760 --> 01:23:03,880 Speaker 1: all that stuff, then I had to I had to 1578 01:23:03,880 --> 01:23:07,679 Speaker 1: go get the job at BBV also known as Blockbuster Video. 1579 01:23:08,200 --> 01:23:13,840 Speaker 1: It was like vis that's that's actually where woo, that's 1580 01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:15,960 Speaker 1: where I went next. I was a big beautiful vixen 1581 01:23:17,600 --> 01:23:23,519 Speaker 1: after Blockbuster closed. Hey Marissa, Hey Marissa, you've got ten 1582 01:23:23,600 --> 01:23:26,360 Speaker 1: bucks a week? Yeah, so how did it work? Like 1583 01:23:26,479 --> 01:23:28,320 Speaker 1: Sunday they say, here's your ten bucks and you you 1584 01:23:28,439 --> 01:23:31,960 Speaker 1: figure it out. It was actually every Saturday I got 1585 01:23:32,040 --> 01:23:34,240 Speaker 1: ten bucks because they knew, like my friends would be 1586 01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:36,880 Speaker 1: going to get ice creamer or whatever, and then I 1587 01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:39,839 Speaker 1: would usually spend it on one day, go home crying 1588 01:23:40,160 --> 01:23:43,840 Speaker 1: to my dad like I need more money, and usually 1589 01:23:44,000 --> 01:23:46,360 Speaker 1: he'll give in. But never my mom, did you have 1590 01:23:46,439 --> 01:23:48,280 Speaker 1: to do chores for that ten dollars or was it 1591 01:23:48,400 --> 01:23:51,559 Speaker 1: just given? Oh? Yeah? Yeah. So growing up we own 1592 01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:53,800 Speaker 1: laundry mats, so we always had to make sure the 1593 01:23:53,880 --> 01:23:57,360 Speaker 1: machines were clean, the floors were Moms, I'd just been 1594 01:23:57,439 --> 01:24:04,599 Speaker 1: taking the cores out the machines. I probably would. Yeah, 1595 01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:05,960 Speaker 1: that was the other thing my parents would say, Like 1596 01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:07,439 Speaker 1: my dad had a factory. So it was like, Okay, 1597 01:24:07,439 --> 01:24:09,000 Speaker 1: you want more money because you got something you want 1598 01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:10,640 Speaker 1: to buy, then you can show up and you can 1599 01:24:10,800 --> 01:24:12,840 Speaker 1: you know, do this stuff in the back. My dad 1600 01:24:12,880 --> 01:24:14,360 Speaker 1: was always mean to me too. He was very mean 1601 01:24:14,439 --> 01:24:16,200 Speaker 1: to me, but he had to be, I guess because 1602 01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:18,400 Speaker 1: because he had an other employees and like I couldn't 1603 01:24:18,439 --> 01:24:21,880 Speaker 1: get favor. Yeah, were your partis mean to you at 1604 01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:27,280 Speaker 1: the laundry man um Yes, sometimes just like creve of 1605 01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:32,320 Speaker 1: purpose exactly. Oh they do that, so this is there, 1606 01:24:32,520 --> 01:24:34,200 Speaker 1: this is what they have to do now. And I'm like, 1607 01:24:35,520 --> 01:24:37,439 Speaker 1: and by the way, I know, by the way, my 1608 01:24:37,560 --> 01:24:39,519 Speaker 1: dad was smart because more than once in college when 1609 01:24:39,520 --> 01:24:41,679 Speaker 1: I was getting lazy, I would think, if I don't 1610 01:24:41,680 --> 01:24:43,599 Speaker 1: make this work and get a real job, I'm gonna 1611 01:24:43,600 --> 01:24:45,719 Speaker 1: wind up working for him. And that's what it's gonna 1612 01:24:45,720 --> 01:24:47,559 Speaker 1: be like every time. You know what, I love you, Dad. 1613 01:24:48,160 --> 01:24:49,960 Speaker 1: I better show up for class. I'm but take my 1614 01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:53,680 Speaker 1: hungover as the class. Thank you, Marissa, have a good day. 1615 01:24:54,479 --> 01:24:59,680 Speaker 1: I appreciate you. Abigail Hi, Hey, hey, Abigail, what was 1616 01:24:59,680 --> 01:25:03,120 Speaker 1: your a thirty bucks win out? Zero dollars? You got 1617 01:25:03,240 --> 01:25:05,479 Speaker 1: zero dollars in week dollars and zero cents now did 1618 01:25:05,520 --> 01:25:07,439 Speaker 1: you ever tried did you ever try and proposition them 1619 01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:10,800 Speaker 1: for money? Like, okay, like negotiate with them your parents? Yeah? 1620 01:25:11,240 --> 01:25:13,599 Speaker 1: I did. It didn't go very well. Um, at one 1621 01:25:13,640 --> 01:25:15,639 Speaker 1: point we absolutely were younger. We would get like quarters 1622 01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:17,000 Speaker 1: in a jar if we were badly to get him 1623 01:25:17,040 --> 01:25:18,400 Speaker 1: taken out, and at the end of the week we 1624 01:25:18,439 --> 01:25:20,759 Speaker 1: would get like the three dollars in it. Oh okay. 1625 01:25:21,240 --> 01:25:23,000 Speaker 1: My dad's friends used to come over a lot and 1626 01:25:23,080 --> 01:25:26,800 Speaker 1: pay me to wash their car. I'm sure they did. 1627 01:25:27,520 --> 01:25:32,040 Speaker 1: What do you mean you talking about lecturius? How do 1628 01:25:32,120 --> 01:25:36,000 Speaker 1: you feeling? Your boy, your your dad's friends. We were leturis. 1629 01:25:36,200 --> 01:25:41,599 Speaker 1: We're talking about where those shorts where white shirts? What's 1630 01:25:41,680 --> 01:25:45,720 Speaker 1: even more messed up? As your dad was broke, he 1631 01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:47,920 Speaker 1: was inviting people over to do this and then taking 1632 01:25:47,920 --> 01:25:49,840 Speaker 1: a commission. It was weird. How do your friends always 1633 01:25:49,840 --> 01:25:54,920 Speaker 1: come over on Saturday? Thank you, Abigail, Hey, thanks for listening. 1634 01:25:54,960 --> 01:25:57,920 Speaker 1: Have a good day. Hey Scotty, Hey Scott. What was 1635 01:25:57,960 --> 01:26:01,320 Speaker 1: your allowance? Um? I was allowed to eat dinner? Yeah, yeah, 1636 01:26:01,640 --> 01:26:04,120 Speaker 1: exactly right. And what happened when you asked for money 1637 01:26:04,160 --> 01:26:06,720 Speaker 1: if you wanted to do something? Oh, there was no 1638 01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:10,080 Speaker 1: giving out money like that. Yeah, well, my parents are 1639 01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:12,960 Speaker 1: very conservative. They waited until I was old enough to 1640 01:26:13,000 --> 01:26:15,240 Speaker 1: get a job, and then I was. I saved up 1641 01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:17,800 Speaker 1: money to get a car and they matched it. Oh 1642 01:26:17,880 --> 01:26:20,640 Speaker 1: that's nice that they did that. Yeah, so all of 1643 01:26:20,720 --> 01:26:24,559 Speaker 1: the slavery became good at the end. Yeah, it was funny. 1644 01:26:24,600 --> 01:26:26,560 Speaker 1: My dad made the same deal with me. Look, I 1645 01:26:26,720 --> 01:26:28,439 Speaker 1: was a privileged growing up. I really was. But my 1646 01:26:28,840 --> 01:26:31,800 Speaker 1: dad said, I will match whatever you can make in 1647 01:26:31,880 --> 01:26:33,800 Speaker 1: a summer. So you got to come up with a 1648 01:26:33,880 --> 01:26:36,360 Speaker 1: business and you got to figure it out. And so 1649 01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:38,519 Speaker 1: I didn't know what to do. So I I took 1650 01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:40,360 Speaker 1: one class one day. Someone told me I had to 1651 01:26:40,400 --> 01:26:43,479 Speaker 1: do HTML one day and my dad's like, that's your business. 1652 01:26:43,520 --> 01:26:45,960 Speaker 1: Show up in my office tomorrow morning. Empty office. He 1653 01:26:46,080 --> 01:26:48,679 Speaker 1: throws a phone book on the desk. Figure out somebody 1654 01:26:48,720 --> 01:26:51,960 Speaker 1: to buy your website. I sold one, and then he 1655 01:26:52,000 --> 01:26:53,800 Speaker 1: gave me a car. And then he said, by the way, 1656 01:26:53,800 --> 01:26:56,599 Speaker 1: I'm not matching your act. You don't get any money. 1657 01:26:56,640 --> 01:26:59,479 Speaker 1: By the way, just shut up, thank you, stt have 1658 01:26:59,560 --> 01:27:01,000 Speaker 1: a good day. You must have made a lot of 1659 01:27:01,280 --> 01:27:06,080 Speaker 1: that one. Um. Well, he they did more than that. 1660 01:27:06,320 --> 01:27:09,040 Speaker 1: I also became a shuttle for my sister who was 1661 01:27:09,160 --> 01:27:12,160 Speaker 1: nine which you know, I will be honest. That was smart. 1662 01:27:12,439 --> 01:27:14,439 Speaker 1: I'll buy you the damn car. One're not gonna use 1663 01:27:14,479 --> 01:27:16,600 Speaker 1: a mess up my car. And two, you know, go 1664 01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:18,360 Speaker 1: pick up your sister from dance. I bought you a car. 1665 01:27:18,920 --> 01:27:21,720 Speaker 1: It was what am I gonna say? No, I had to, 1666 01:27:22,240 --> 01:27:24,639 Speaker 1: but it was a valuable lesson I called called all summer, 1667 01:27:24,720 --> 01:27:26,840 Speaker 1: I only sold one website that I barely knew how 1668 01:27:26,880 --> 01:27:28,439 Speaker 1: to make. I had to fake it till I made it, 1669 01:27:29,240 --> 01:27:30,920 Speaker 1: and I made some pretty good money. My parents made 1670 01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:32,040 Speaker 1: me get a job in the summer so that I 1671 01:27:32,080 --> 01:27:35,639 Speaker 1: could buy my school clothes in the fall. You want 1672 01:27:35,640 --> 01:27:39,280 Speaker 1: your own school clothes, new clothes. Yeah, I'm learning for 1673 01:27:39,360 --> 01:27:40,680 Speaker 1: someone to call up here and say they got some 1674 01:27:40,760 --> 01:27:44,880 Speaker 1: mad money, like just some crazy amount of Hey Sophia, Hey, 1675 01:27:45,040 --> 01:27:48,120 Speaker 1: good morning. What was your allowance? Well, when I'm the chant, 1676 01:27:48,160 --> 01:27:50,360 Speaker 1: I think it was like twenty bucks a week. So 1677 01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:52,639 Speaker 1: once I got to college, I really wanted to work, 1678 01:27:52,720 --> 01:27:54,360 Speaker 1: and my dad was really strict and went to let us. 1679 01:27:54,360 --> 01:27:56,479 Speaker 1: So you can give me about two hundred dollars a week. Wow, 1680 01:27:56,560 --> 01:27:58,840 Speaker 1: two hundred bones a week, Well, yeah, that's a lot 1681 01:27:58,920 --> 01:28:00,880 Speaker 1: in college. Eight hundred bucks a month is a lot 1682 01:28:00,960 --> 01:28:03,679 Speaker 1: in college. Now, what was that supposed to cover everything? Food? Everything? 1683 01:28:04,840 --> 01:28:08,880 Speaker 1: I'm just food and gash like the spending. But I 1684 01:28:09,080 --> 01:28:10,760 Speaker 1: like to shop and I liked to my clothes, so 1685 01:28:11,040 --> 01:28:15,240 Speaker 1: that was very Yeah, but there's something about that they 1686 01:28:15,360 --> 01:28:17,679 Speaker 1: teaching the budgets, you know, and some people that they don't, 1687 01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:19,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, they wind up using credit cards and 1688 01:28:19,920 --> 01:28:21,439 Speaker 1: then they learned the hardway. And I'm not talking about 1689 01:28:21,439 --> 01:28:23,479 Speaker 1: credit cards in this necessities. I'm talking about credit cards 1690 01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:25,720 Speaker 1: for crap. And then they don't learn about budgeting and 1691 01:28:25,760 --> 01:28:27,960 Speaker 1: then they get themselves in big trouble. They don't teach 1692 01:28:27,960 --> 01:28:31,879 Speaker 1: it in school. Well, your parents gotta teach you. Thank you, Sophia, 1693 01:28:32,560 --> 01:28:34,920 Speaker 1: Thank you a good day. Well I'm taking notes now, 1694 01:28:34,960 --> 01:28:36,760 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna raise my future child that I don't 1695 01:28:36,760 --> 01:28:38,479 Speaker 1: even have. I'm gonna get them a car so they 1696 01:28:38,479 --> 01:28:40,240 Speaker 1: could do my errands for me. And I'm gonna give 1697 01:28:40,280 --> 01:28:41,680 Speaker 1: them an allowance at the beginning of the month so 1698 01:28:41,760 --> 01:28:43,479 Speaker 1: they could figure it out. You don't even need them 1699 01:28:43,520 --> 01:28:46,000 Speaker 1: to do your errands. You can just basically have delivery 1700 01:28:46,080 --> 01:28:49,439 Speaker 1: for everything anymore. Don't say this in case my future kid, 1701 01:28:49,520 --> 01:28:52,040 Speaker 1: here's this. Yeah, it's just I'm telling you it's giving 1702 01:28:52,080 --> 01:28:53,519 Speaker 1: you a reason now I have to buy my future 1703 01:28:53,600 --> 01:28:56,040 Speaker 1: kid might be listening. Don't don't tell them, don't give 1704 01:28:56,080 --> 01:29:00,840 Speaker 1: them any advice. Hey Kyle, Yeah, Kyle, you got twenty 1705 01:29:00,880 --> 01:29:03,240 Speaker 1: bones a week two. This is pretty good. So this 1706 01:29:03,400 --> 01:29:05,559 Speaker 1: is pretty good. And so my parents were two opposite 1707 01:29:05,640 --> 01:29:08,960 Speaker 1: schedules on. My mother worked during the day, my father knights, 1708 01:29:08,960 --> 01:29:11,320 Speaker 1: So every time they would come home, I'd be like, hey, 1709 01:29:11,520 --> 01:29:13,360 Speaker 1: I get my allowance to my mother. But then the 1710 01:29:13,439 --> 01:29:16,960 Speaker 1: next day, when my dad was the theater in the day, Hey, 1711 01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:19,320 Speaker 1: I need some money. She didn't get your allowance. I 1712 01:29:19,400 --> 01:29:21,519 Speaker 1: didn't get anything. So they never saw each other, so 1713 01:29:21,600 --> 01:29:26,320 Speaker 1: they wouldn't know as that's funny. Thank you man, have 1714 01:29:26,360 --> 01:29:28,519 Speaker 1: a good days. And that's the other thing you can 1715 01:29:28,560 --> 01:29:30,720 Speaker 1: do when you have divorced parents for the brief time 1716 01:29:30,760 --> 01:29:33,080 Speaker 1: that I saw them both, is you work one for 1717 01:29:33,160 --> 01:29:36,639 Speaker 1: the other. That was the only benefit to having divorced 1718 01:29:36,680 --> 01:29:38,720 Speaker 1: parents at the time was that my mom would say no, 1719 01:29:39,000 --> 01:29:41,720 Speaker 1: so my father would immediately say yes. Anything she said 1720 01:29:41,800 --> 01:29:43,599 Speaker 1: no to, he'd say yes because that was about all 1721 01:29:43,600 --> 01:29:46,160 Speaker 1: he was good for at the time. So you know, 1722 01:29:46,200 --> 01:29:47,760 Speaker 1: it'd be like, can I have a sling shot? No, 1723 01:29:47,920 --> 01:29:49,080 Speaker 1: you can't have one, And go over there, can have 1724 01:29:49,120 --> 01:29:52,920 Speaker 1: a slingshot, you can have two, let's go get can 1725 01:29:53,000 --> 01:29:56,479 Speaker 1: take it home to your mom and show it to her. Yeah, 1726 01:29:57,120 --> 01:29:59,080 Speaker 1: if you have divorced parents, you know what I'm talking about. 1727 01:29:59,439 --> 01:30:03,439 Speaker 1: Her sharing adjusted be kissing. I don't want to be 1728 01:30:04,080 --> 01:30:08,160 Speaker 1: what's trendynding? What's trending in Chicago? With Freddy and Angie, 1729 01:30:08,320 --> 01:30:11,640 Speaker 1: I'm one of three five kiss we got we went 1730 01:30:11,720 --> 01:30:14,960 Speaker 1: an award in Chicago. You guys ready? Yeah. For the 1731 01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:19,799 Speaker 1: fifth consecutive years, Chicago has been named the most wrapped 1732 01:30:19,840 --> 01:30:23,080 Speaker 1: infestive city in the US. WHOA, let's go to Saint TRAFFICA. 1733 01:30:24,320 --> 01:30:27,720 Speaker 1: We should go crate. Somebody tweeted me yesterday and then like, 1734 01:30:27,800 --> 01:30:32,200 Speaker 1: there are number one Ecuadorian listener except for Paulina next 1735 01:30:32,240 --> 01:30:35,400 Speaker 1: to next to Paulina. Yeah, I'm a listener. Do you listen? Yeah? Listen? 1736 01:30:36,040 --> 01:30:39,320 Speaker 1: Y'all good? Yeah, yeah, you're a fan of the program. 1737 01:30:39,680 --> 01:30:42,240 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, keep it up, guys. She's like, you guys 1738 01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:44,840 Speaker 1: are all right, but I'm better. Well she, I mean, 1739 01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:47,120 Speaker 1: she does host the show the Chicago needs and deserves. 1740 01:30:47,240 --> 01:30:49,519 Speaker 1: From what time is it on twelve to five Monday 1741 01:30:49,600 --> 01:30:54,080 Speaker 1: through Friday am? Yes, overnight and it's called overnight drive. Ye. Yeah, 1742 01:30:54,160 --> 01:30:57,240 Speaker 1: but it's called it's called Everyone's sleeping. It's called there's 1743 01:30:57,240 --> 01:31:00,280 Speaker 1: a lot of I'll tell you what you are. You're 1744 01:31:00,439 --> 01:31:04,320 Speaker 1: very well listened to. It's a good time. No, it's 1745 01:31:04,360 --> 01:31:07,240 Speaker 1: a great time. Everyone check it out. So anyway, Orkin 1746 01:31:07,360 --> 01:31:09,920 Speaker 1: said that we are the rattiest city based on the 1747 01:31:10,040 --> 01:31:14,559 Speaker 1: treatments the services they've had to perform on rats Chicago 1748 01:31:14,720 --> 01:31:19,720 Speaker 1: number one, LA, New York, d C, San Francisco, Detroit, Cleveland, Minneapolis, Philadelphia, 1749 01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:24,479 Speaker 1: and Atlanta release the coyotes running up the top ten. 1750 01:31:24,640 --> 01:31:27,000 Speaker 1: So a couple of Apple stories. People using an iPhone 1751 01:31:27,040 --> 01:31:30,120 Speaker 1: five will need to update it. Are you listening? Kalena 1752 01:31:30,760 --> 01:31:34,000 Speaker 1: six s oh my bed I have a seven? Whoa 1753 01:31:37,880 --> 01:31:40,920 Speaker 1: my sister my upgrade? She still just appreciate you, still 1754 01:31:40,920 --> 01:31:42,680 Speaker 1: holding an original I bought up to her ear and 1755 01:31:42,760 --> 01:31:45,519 Speaker 1: waiting for it to ring. People are using an iPhone 1756 01:31:45,560 --> 01:31:48,040 Speaker 1: five need to update it software or their phone will 1757 01:31:48,080 --> 01:31:51,280 Speaker 1: stop working on Sunday after twelve am on Sunday, November 1758 01:31:51,320 --> 01:31:53,759 Speaker 1: twenty third, iPhone five owners won't be able to connect 1759 01:31:53,760 --> 01:31:57,120 Speaker 1: to the internet less they have iOS ten three four 1760 01:31:57,479 --> 01:32:01,080 Speaker 1: sad days. Those were the iPhone four s and various 1761 01:32:01,160 --> 01:32:04,759 Speaker 1: older iterations. All the iPad will also need to update. 1762 01:32:04,800 --> 01:32:06,880 Speaker 1: The sufferer on their devices has to do with the 1763 01:32:06,920 --> 01:32:10,080 Speaker 1: GPS bog so you'll have to do that. Also, plug 1764 01:32:10,120 --> 01:32:12,280 Speaker 1: your phone into a modem to get You're just funny 1765 01:32:12,760 --> 01:32:15,400 Speaker 1: look cool in high school. Yeah, it's weird when Kala 1766 01:32:15,439 --> 01:32:17,599 Speaker 1: comes in here and dress and connect the Prodigy by plugging, 1767 01:32:19,960 --> 01:32:25,160 Speaker 1: I have all these free trial CDs. Exactly awesome. Hey, 1768 01:32:25,280 --> 01:32:30,320 Speaker 1: hot sexy mom is sixty nine. I might just come 1769 01:32:30,360 --> 01:32:36,200 Speaker 1: back on Monday with a new phone. Oh, the newest 1770 01:32:36,280 --> 01:32:44,080 Speaker 1: phone with the three cameras on it. Wow, you got that? 1771 01:32:44,280 --> 01:32:47,880 Speaker 1: You got that iPhone drip all the Sudden has that one. 1772 01:32:48,120 --> 01:32:52,200 Speaker 1: She's totally stunting on me. They also, of course they 1773 01:32:52,280 --> 01:32:54,880 Speaker 1: did this. You guys are welcome because I bought AirPods 1774 01:32:54,920 --> 01:32:56,519 Speaker 1: like three months ago, so you guys are welcome for this. 1775 01:32:56,680 --> 01:32:58,080 Speaker 1: As soon as I buy anything to come out with 1776 01:32:58,080 --> 01:33:00,599 Speaker 1: a new one. Apple hasn't filed their air Pods pro 1777 01:33:01,560 --> 01:33:06,200 Speaker 1: that have noise cancelation that look like air pods uncircumcised. 1778 01:33:06,479 --> 01:33:10,400 Speaker 1: The tech giant says the noise cancelation inside the AirPods 1779 01:33:10,479 --> 01:33:12,760 Speaker 1: Pro is accomplished through a pair of microphones that are 1780 01:33:12,760 --> 01:33:15,840 Speaker 1: combined with events software. They all hit Stories tomorrow for 1781 01:33:15,920 --> 01:33:18,360 Speaker 1: a measly two hundred and forty nine dollars. Those I 1782 01:33:18,479 --> 01:33:20,400 Speaker 1: might actually get, though, because they have the rubber thing 1783 01:33:20,560 --> 01:33:24,640 Speaker 1: that in my ear. The other ones, I'll tell you 1784 01:33:24,720 --> 01:33:27,160 Speaker 1: something else it sucks is I'm deaf in one ear, 1785 01:33:27,240 --> 01:33:29,400 Speaker 1: but yet I still gotta pay full price and get both. 1786 01:33:30,280 --> 01:33:32,320 Speaker 1: You know, like what you hook him brother up? Who's 1787 01:33:32,360 --> 01:33:36,479 Speaker 1: deaf in one ear? Like an tell me one? Make 1788 01:33:36,520 --> 01:33:38,760 Speaker 1: it half because you get the ones wasted. I can't 1789 01:33:39,120 --> 01:33:42,000 Speaker 1: hear excriminating now. Granted, you know you wuk around with 1790 01:33:42,120 --> 01:33:44,479 Speaker 1: one in It looks a little weird, but it doesn't 1791 01:33:44,479 --> 01:33:49,240 Speaker 1: matter because I can't hear anyway. Come on, Apple, just 1792 01:33:49,320 --> 01:33:52,200 Speaker 1: send me one. It works because I'm sure people lose 1793 01:33:52,280 --> 01:33:54,639 Speaker 1: like a left or or right here and there. Yeah, 1794 01:33:54,680 --> 01:33:56,200 Speaker 1: then you can just buy the matching one. Do you 1795 01:33:56,280 --> 01:33:58,280 Speaker 1: wear them? Both are just to wear? The one depends 1796 01:33:58,479 --> 01:34:01,560 Speaker 1: Sometimes I just wear the one. Who cares? You know? 1797 01:34:01,800 --> 01:34:06,519 Speaker 1: Another one's just for looks. But I don't think they could. 1798 01:34:06,600 --> 01:34:08,559 Speaker 1: They could talk to you because you could hear them. 1799 01:34:08,880 --> 01:34:11,799 Speaker 1: You know, what do you mean you have one ear open? Yeah? Exactly, 1800 01:34:11,960 --> 01:34:13,880 Speaker 1: Well I don't have one ear open though. Well if 1801 01:34:13,920 --> 01:34:16,760 Speaker 1: you're only wearing one iPod to the naked ear doesn't work. 1802 01:34:16,840 --> 01:34:22,559 Speaker 1: But they don't know people all the time they think 1803 01:34:22,600 --> 01:34:24,519 Speaker 1: I'm an a hole because they'll be on the other 1804 01:34:24,600 --> 01:34:26,400 Speaker 1: side and they'll be like, it ain't so rude. You 1805 01:34:26,439 --> 01:34:28,040 Speaker 1: didn't even talk to me. I'm like, I couldn't hear you, 1806 01:34:28,240 --> 01:34:30,840 Speaker 1: and I'm on your side that you can't hear out of. Yeah, okay, 1807 01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:33,439 Speaker 1: that makes sense. Yeah why and I'm ignoring you. So 1808 01:34:34,680 --> 01:34:37,240 Speaker 1: sometimes I'm like, hello, No, you are on the side 1809 01:34:37,280 --> 01:34:39,599 Speaker 1: that I can hear. But other other times I intentionally 1810 01:34:39,640 --> 01:34:41,840 Speaker 1: put people on that side and I tell you and 1811 01:34:41,920 --> 01:34:44,439 Speaker 1: I tell them, yes, I always worry you ask me 1812 01:34:44,479 --> 01:34:47,479 Speaker 1: to sit here. That's exactly why. No. I mean I'll 1813 01:34:47,520 --> 01:34:50,000 Speaker 1: tell people like if it's like a business meeting or 1814 01:34:50,080 --> 01:34:52,040 Speaker 1: something important, I'll go, hey, just heads up, like I'm 1815 01:34:52,080 --> 01:34:54,160 Speaker 1: deaf in my left ear. So if you talk to 1816 01:34:54,240 --> 01:34:56,400 Speaker 1: me and I ignore you, I'm not being rude. Um, 1817 01:34:56,479 --> 01:34:58,720 Speaker 1: other times I'm just being rude. So one about the 1818 01:34:58,800 --> 01:35:00,800 Speaker 1: headphones you're wearing right now, you'd rather be wearing just 1819 01:35:00,880 --> 01:35:04,200 Speaker 1: one headphone and would lad would see these particular headphones 1820 01:35:04,200 --> 01:35:06,040 Speaker 1: would look silly. But I've I've tried to get Sony 1821 01:35:06,120 --> 01:35:09,040 Speaker 1: to sell me like the defective ones. That was one 1822 01:35:09,080 --> 01:35:11,559 Speaker 1: blown out because for half or something and I can 1823 01:35:11,560 --> 01:35:14,280 Speaker 1: save some money and want to him. I will tell 1824 01:35:14,320 --> 01:35:16,559 Speaker 1: you that for like two years, one was blown out 1825 01:35:16,600 --> 01:35:19,280 Speaker 1: and somebody barrowed my headphones and like, how come only 1826 01:35:19,360 --> 01:35:22,080 Speaker 1: one to work somewhe Welcome to my entire life. I 1827 01:35:22,200 --> 01:35:24,639 Speaker 1: didn't know that I've been blown out for thirty years. 1828 01:35:26,040 --> 01:35:29,080 Speaker 1: Two models flashed their boobs during Sunday's World Series game, 1829 01:35:29,120 --> 01:35:33,240 Speaker 1: and now Major League Baseball has banned them indefinitely. Um 1830 01:35:33,439 --> 01:35:38,400 Speaker 1: they these models, we're raising awareness for breast cancer. The 1831 01:35:38,479 --> 01:35:41,080 Speaker 1: women also said that it's completely unfair for them to 1832 01:35:41,160 --> 01:35:43,760 Speaker 1: be banned for life. With men have been going top 1833 01:35:43,840 --> 01:35:47,320 Speaker 1: was his sporting events for decades. Yeah yeah, roof you, 1834 01:35:47,320 --> 01:35:49,280 Speaker 1: and now you're only going to see them topless on Instagram. 1835 01:35:49,600 --> 01:35:54,040 Speaker 1: A military working dog it was wounded while tracking down 1836 01:35:54,240 --> 01:36:01,360 Speaker 1: isis leader Abu Bakr, a Bugatti bag Dotti, A bad number. 1837 01:36:01,400 --> 01:36:04,599 Speaker 1: One wants a guy in the world dead anyway. He's 1838 01:36:04,640 --> 01:36:06,960 Speaker 1: been identified by President Trump. And it's a woman. Actually, 1839 01:36:07,040 --> 01:36:10,639 Speaker 1: it's a woman dog. It's a woman. It's a woman. 1840 01:36:11,320 --> 01:36:13,560 Speaker 1: It's a woman dog. It's a female dog. It's a 1841 01:36:13,640 --> 01:36:18,040 Speaker 1: good girl. Everyone keeps saying, good boy, it's a good girl. Now. 1842 01:36:18,840 --> 01:36:22,880 Speaker 1: I read this this morning. He's very interesting. They declassified 1843 01:36:22,920 --> 01:36:25,720 Speaker 1: the image. They did not declassify the dog's name. I 1844 01:36:25,840 --> 01:36:28,719 Speaker 1: didn't realize that now that the name is leaked apparently, 1845 01:36:28,800 --> 01:36:30,360 Speaker 1: But the reason that it's bad to say the name 1846 01:36:30,479 --> 01:36:31,960 Speaker 1: is because if you know the name, you might know 1847 01:36:32,120 --> 01:36:34,160 Speaker 1: the handler, and then you might be able to figure 1848 01:36:34,160 --> 01:36:37,960 Speaker 1: out which group of Delta forced the handlers in and 1849 01:36:38,040 --> 01:36:41,519 Speaker 1: they could be targeted. So not a good idea. Um. Also, 1850 01:36:41,560 --> 01:36:44,800 Speaker 1: I got one more baseball story. There's the booby Ladies 1851 01:36:44,840 --> 01:36:46,840 Speaker 1: you can't go, and then there's this guy, Jeff Adams. 1852 01:36:46,880 --> 01:36:49,679 Speaker 1: The guy's a hero, a viral star. After Sunday's World 1853 01:36:49,720 --> 01:36:52,280 Speaker 1: Series game when TV cameras caught him taking a ball 1854 01:36:52,320 --> 01:36:54,880 Speaker 1: to the chest while holding beers in both hands. He 1855 01:36:54,880 --> 01:36:58,240 Speaker 1: don't want to drop that. He's using his boobies a 1856 01:36:58,280 --> 01:37:04,920 Speaker 1: block of baseball. They were covered though, covered. Yeah. I 1857 01:37:05,000 --> 01:37:07,040 Speaker 1: think if if the women had caught a foul ball 1858 01:37:07,120 --> 01:37:09,639 Speaker 1: between her breasts, she probably would have gotten to throughout 1859 01:37:09,640 --> 01:37:14,080 Speaker 1: the first pitch. That would be quite a feat. He 1860 01:37:14,120 --> 01:37:17,160 Speaker 1: can't ban a woman for a skill like that. Then 1861 01:37:17,240 --> 01:37:19,400 Speaker 1: you want people to watch baseball I mean let them 1862 01:37:19,439 --> 01:37:21,400 Speaker 1: show their booth. He was holding two bud lights. He 1863 01:37:21,479 --> 01:37:24,200 Speaker 1: refused to drop the bud lights to catch the ball. Um. 1864 01:37:24,320 --> 01:37:28,080 Speaker 1: They have a shirt now commemorating the heroic moment, and 1865 01:37:28,880 --> 01:37:30,800 Speaker 1: I guess he is getting to go to Game six, 1866 01:37:30,880 --> 01:37:34,439 Speaker 1: which is tonight in Houston. Houston leads that series by 1867 01:37:34,560 --> 01:37:38,000 Speaker 1: one game. It's National Hermit Day, National oatmeal Day, National 1868 01:37:38,160 --> 01:37:40,800 Speaker 1: cat Day to Day as well, and uh later on 1869 01:37:40,840 --> 01:37:43,240 Speaker 1: today we're going to too because we're going to check 1870 01:37:43,280 --> 01:37:46,240 Speaker 1: out the place apparently is haunted. But I did learn today. 1871 01:37:46,560 --> 01:37:49,479 Speaker 1: I had always been told that that building was a morgue, 1872 01:37:49,600 --> 01:37:53,400 Speaker 1: a working morgue in nineteen fifteen. I learned today it 1873 01:37:53,760 --> 01:37:57,479 Speaker 1: was designated a morgue. But nobodies were ever there, So 1874 01:37:57,640 --> 01:38:00,200 Speaker 1: I don't know how haunted this place really is. There's 1875 01:38:00,240 --> 01:38:03,559 Speaker 1: no dead bodies. I'll be checking the sushi if it's haunted. Yeah, 1876 01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:05,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to eat it to be sure. Though. 1877 01:38:05,640 --> 01:38:07,800 Speaker 1: We had to test the bar. We don't, you know, 1878 01:38:07,960 --> 01:38:12,599 Speaker 1: get that gonna get some spirits at the bar by 1879 01:38:12,640 --> 01:38:16,880 Speaker 1: the way, Oh god, I sorry, I was skipped over 1880 01:38:16,920 --> 01:38:21,280 Speaker 1: the dead joke. We didn't We did not actually get 1881 01:38:21,400 --> 01:38:25,160 Speaker 1: food boys snakes from Tao we said that we did 1882 01:38:25,520 --> 01:38:28,080 Speaker 1: so we didn't have to come to work the fast day. 1883 01:38:28,280 --> 01:38:30,920 Speaker 1: Thanks for and I and Clarty and that one. You 1884 01:38:30,960 --> 01:38:32,840 Speaker 1: weren't there. You were invited to the party and you 1885 01:38:32,920 --> 01:38:35,240 Speaker 1: didn't de tend because your father. Now, yeah, you could 1886 01:38:35,280 --> 01:38:37,680 Speaker 1: have a different place that you got sick from, Like 1887 01:38:37,760 --> 01:38:43,280 Speaker 1: we all went to lunch before going to Tao better 1888 01:38:43,320 --> 01:38:45,840 Speaker 1: petty over here. Yeah, you were invited to the party 1889 01:38:46,280 --> 01:38:48,679 Speaker 1: and we were all out together having a nice time, 1890 01:38:48,800 --> 01:38:52,240 Speaker 1: partaking in the delicious beverages of towel from the very 1891 01:38:52,320 --> 01:38:54,560 Speaker 1: hot people that work there. I was single then, and 1892 01:38:55,120 --> 01:38:57,880 Speaker 1: I'm no longer than I am no longer single I was. 1893 01:39:00,240 --> 01:39:02,360 Speaker 1: I was single then. I didn't do anything, but I 1894 01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:04,040 Speaker 1: was single. I want I did. After that night, I 1895 01:39:04,080 --> 01:39:06,160 Speaker 1: went to Partillo's to look at your own picture. You 1896 01:39:06,280 --> 01:39:09,280 Speaker 1: damn right I did. It's one of my proudest accomplishments. 1897 01:39:09,560 --> 01:39:10,800 Speaker 1: If you do, you tell me if you had a 1898 01:39:11,320 --> 01:39:13,439 Speaker 1: virtual statue of you at the greatest restaurant in town, 1899 01:39:13,439 --> 01:39:15,920 Speaker 1: that you wouldn't go look at it. Yet I'm totally jealous, right, 1900 01:39:16,200 --> 01:39:20,160 Speaker 1: so jealous, I know. I let me tell you what 1901 01:39:20,200 --> 01:39:22,000 Speaker 1: I made love to that night after the Pink Party. 1902 01:39:22,040 --> 01:39:24,360 Speaker 1: I made love to a cheeseburger. That's what I made 1903 01:39:24,400 --> 01:39:28,960 Speaker 1: love to. What else I have surprised? I ordered PARTI. 1904 01:39:29,200 --> 01:39:31,040 Speaker 1: It wasn't stiff for the mad love that cheeseburger was. 1905 01:39:32,720 --> 01:39:36,559 Speaker 1: It was an apple pie. It was an apple pie. Yeah. Also, hey, 1906 01:39:36,640 --> 01:39:38,479 Speaker 1: I look a lot of underrated items are you? Guys 1907 01:39:38,520 --> 01:39:41,719 Speaker 1: know how I feel about the strawberry shortcake. Another underrated 1908 01:39:41,760 --> 01:39:44,040 Speaker 1: item that I was introduced to are those little poppy 1909 01:39:44,080 --> 01:39:49,760 Speaker 1: seed muffins. If they give you good underrated, really good? 1910 01:39:49,800 --> 01:39:51,640 Speaker 1: They never had it? Well, tell you they don't do 1911 01:39:51,680 --> 01:39:55,759 Speaker 1: anything wrong to Molly's are really good char grilled chicken salmich. 1912 01:39:56,520 --> 01:39:59,160 Speaker 1: They don't do anything delicious, they don't do anything wrong. 1913 01:39:59,240 --> 01:40:04,479 Speaker 1: There nothing luffy. This's not why I've ordered fifty items 1914 01:40:04,479 --> 01:40:07,439 Speaker 1: in there with the news. I haven't been disappointed one time. Yes, 1915 01:40:07,479 --> 01:40:10,800 Speaker 1: the chops yet take like get a like I get 1916 01:40:10,840 --> 01:40:12,519 Speaker 1: a beef and cheik Roissan, but instead of like the 1917 01:40:12,920 --> 01:40:17,800 Speaker 1: shredded cheddar, I get the cheese sauce. Oh I am talking? Yeah, 1918 01:40:18,080 --> 01:40:24,720 Speaker 1: say it's flower dirty. I'm tingly. Yeah. They talk better 1919 01:40:24,760 --> 01:40:27,519 Speaker 1: than they type. These are the radio block with Freddy 1920 01:40:27,520 --> 01:40:31,080 Speaker 1: and Angie Treddy status updates like we're running in our 1921 01:40:31,200 --> 01:40:33,840 Speaker 1: diaries six fifty and eight fifty. We do them and 1922 01:40:33,920 --> 01:40:40,160 Speaker 1: shout out to Baba Lexus of Arlington and I want 1923 01:40:40,400 --> 01:40:44,680 Speaker 1: a klin Um go ahead, calin okay, all right. Two 1924 01:40:44,720 --> 01:40:49,479 Speaker 1: years ago, dear Block, thank you very much. UM. I 1925 01:40:50,400 --> 01:40:54,320 Speaker 1: was feeling really sad recently because my sister, who is 1926 01:40:54,360 --> 01:40:56,880 Speaker 1: thirteen years younger than me, UM told me that she 1927 01:40:57,000 --> 01:40:59,920 Speaker 1: feels like an only child, um, which I guess she's 1928 01:41:00,040 --> 01:41:04,720 Speaker 1: technically kind of, um she's the only kid in our house. Yeah, um, 1929 01:41:05,160 --> 01:41:06,880 Speaker 1: but I was feeling really sad about it, and I 1930 01:41:06,960 --> 01:41:09,200 Speaker 1: didn't know why. I like try to do everything I 1931 01:41:09,280 --> 01:41:11,800 Speaker 1: can for her and call her and face time her, 1932 01:41:11,880 --> 01:41:15,639 Speaker 1: even though she seems less than interested most of the time. UM. 1933 01:41:16,040 --> 01:41:18,960 Speaker 1: But I was talking about it earlier on the radio, 1934 01:41:19,000 --> 01:41:21,320 Speaker 1: and everyone's giving me a lot of hope because I 1935 01:41:21,400 --> 01:41:23,960 Speaker 1: guess a lot of people have that issue and when 1936 01:41:24,040 --> 01:41:27,840 Speaker 1: they get older, they learn to bond. Sounds like overwhine 1937 01:41:28,160 --> 01:41:30,720 Speaker 1: is what many people are saying. For sure. I think 1938 01:41:31,680 --> 01:41:34,479 Speaker 1: whatever she's feeling now, she won't feel in ten years. Yeah. 1939 01:41:34,680 --> 01:41:37,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. We're definitely really close and 1940 01:41:37,200 --> 01:41:40,160 Speaker 1: I see her more than I mean, more than I 1941 01:41:40,439 --> 01:41:42,439 Speaker 1: should because I don't live there. But I go home 1942 01:41:42,439 --> 01:41:44,519 Speaker 1: a lot to see her, and I try to hang 1943 01:41:44,560 --> 01:41:46,080 Speaker 1: out with her when she doesn't want to, you know, 1944 01:41:46,200 --> 01:41:48,519 Speaker 1: take selfies with her friends. You're a good big sister 1945 01:41:48,640 --> 01:41:50,920 Speaker 1: to her. You do a little, and you also are 1946 01:41:51,000 --> 01:41:53,880 Speaker 1: inspiring her, whether you know it or not. Inspiring. Yes, 1947 01:41:54,000 --> 01:41:56,519 Speaker 1: of course you are. You're, you know, her big sister 1948 01:41:56,640 --> 01:42:00,040 Speaker 1: who's living her best life. I thought putting yourself a 1949 01:42:00,080 --> 01:42:02,760 Speaker 1: picture of yourself phone that poster and then putting um 1950 01:42:02,960 --> 01:42:05,800 Speaker 1: perseverance at the bottom of it, you know, you holding 1951 01:42:05,840 --> 01:42:08,639 Speaker 1: an eagle, I thought that was really I always ask 1952 01:42:08,720 --> 01:42:10,640 Speaker 1: her like, do you want my autograph? Yeah? Right? You 1953 01:42:10,720 --> 01:42:12,639 Speaker 1: know it's a good reminder of like what she should 1954 01:42:12,680 --> 01:42:15,680 Speaker 1: aspire to be. Right, she doesn't think so her friends do. 1955 01:42:15,800 --> 01:42:17,680 Speaker 1: Whenever her friends are over, she's like, Sis, when are 1956 01:42:17,720 --> 01:42:19,519 Speaker 1: you coming home? You know, because she wants to show 1957 01:42:19,560 --> 01:42:21,439 Speaker 1: me off. But if if they're not there, it isn't 1958 01:42:21,439 --> 01:42:23,600 Speaker 1: that sort of what teenagers do, you know. It's like 1959 01:42:23,880 --> 01:42:27,000 Speaker 1: it's like they play one way with the people closest 1960 01:42:27,040 --> 01:42:29,320 Speaker 1: to them. But then I would have loved to have 1961 01:42:29,920 --> 01:42:32,280 Speaker 1: had a big sibling like I would have been obsessed 1962 01:42:32,280 --> 01:42:34,560 Speaker 1: with them. She's going to get older and compare you 1963 01:42:34,840 --> 01:42:37,840 Speaker 1: to other people she meets with siblings and realize how 1964 01:42:37,920 --> 01:42:39,519 Speaker 1: good you were and how cool you were, and it 1965 01:42:39,600 --> 01:42:41,560 Speaker 1: will pay off. I think she's like cooler than me. 1966 01:42:41,880 --> 01:42:43,760 Speaker 1: I don't really know what's actually got a better phone 1967 01:42:43,800 --> 01:42:46,800 Speaker 1: than you for sure. Well that's true because of me, 1968 01:42:49,439 --> 01:42:51,320 Speaker 1: and you will bond about other things, you know, once 1969 01:42:51,400 --> 01:42:54,760 Speaker 1: she's older. My sister. I'm six years older than my sister, 1970 01:42:55,800 --> 01:42:58,600 Speaker 1: but she had kids before me, and so like that 1971 01:42:58,760 --> 01:43:00,360 Speaker 1: was one of the things we really bonded. I'm like, 1972 01:43:00,360 --> 01:43:02,920 Speaker 1: I was calling her for advice my little sister on 1973 01:43:03,160 --> 01:43:05,920 Speaker 1: you know, mom stuff and you know, will you find 1974 01:43:06,040 --> 01:43:09,000 Speaker 1: your way as adults. I mean, maybe she's just mad 1975 01:43:09,040 --> 01:43:11,120 Speaker 1: because I talked to her daily about how she'll have 1976 01:43:11,200 --> 01:43:12,760 Speaker 1: to take care of me when I'm old and I'll 1977 01:43:12,760 --> 01:43:14,479 Speaker 1: have to live like above the garage with her and 1978 01:43:14,520 --> 01:43:18,160 Speaker 1: her husband because I mean, the age difference, she can 1979 01:43:18,240 --> 01:43:21,559 Speaker 1: totally like wipe my butt or whatever. I'm perfect, it's perfect. 1980 01:43:21,920 --> 01:43:26,040 Speaker 1: He's mad about your parents, like they're hoping that she'll 1981 01:43:26,080 --> 01:43:27,720 Speaker 1: do that for them. Let's talk about what she'll do 1982 01:43:27,840 --> 01:43:29,640 Speaker 1: for yeah, I mean, because they are not going to 1983 01:43:29,680 --> 01:43:31,479 Speaker 1: be around forever and I do need someone to take 1984 01:43:31,520 --> 01:43:32,600 Speaker 1: care of me. I'm still a goat to have a 1985 01:43:32,600 --> 01:43:35,960 Speaker 1: sister to wipe my butt someday. That's that's an added benefit. 1986 01:43:36,000 --> 01:43:38,439 Speaker 1: I hadn't considered a big age difference. You know. It's 1987 01:43:38,520 --> 01:43:41,240 Speaker 1: like I'll be really old and decrepit and she'll still 1988 01:43:41,280 --> 01:43:44,000 Speaker 1: be like, okay to take care of someone. Lord only 1989 01:43:44,040 --> 01:43:45,840 Speaker 1: knows if I'll be an old maid or not, or 1990 01:43:45,920 --> 01:43:47,400 Speaker 1: if I'll have kids to take care of me. You 1991 01:43:47,439 --> 01:43:49,439 Speaker 1: know what, if you're anything like your nana, then you're 1992 01:43:49,439 --> 01:43:52,559 Speaker 1: gonna be amazing. I mean, I'm a lot like my nana, 1993 01:43:52,600 --> 01:43:54,760 Speaker 1: which is the scariest part of everything. I love that 1994 01:43:54,840 --> 01:43:58,320 Speaker 1: lady too. Every time I see Canadian Club and I 1995 01:43:58,600 --> 01:43:59,960 Speaker 1: can send you a picture over the weekend for the 1996 01:44:00,040 --> 01:44:01,559 Speaker 1: bar that I was and I saw, I saw CC, 1997 01:44:01,720 --> 01:44:03,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, Nanda, you would have been happy in 1998 01:44:03,960 --> 01:44:05,880 Speaker 1: Door County. I'll tell her she can travel there. Would 1999 01:44:05,880 --> 01:44:07,760 Speaker 1: have been didn't get no photo. I would have liked 2000 01:44:07,760 --> 01:44:11,400 Speaker 1: a picture of that apple pie. Fred, Well, guess what 2001 01:44:11,479 --> 01:44:13,080 Speaker 1: I would have liked to have eaten the apple pie 2002 01:44:13,120 --> 01:44:15,360 Speaker 1: except to the back of an Avis rental car right now. 2003 01:44:15,680 --> 01:44:18,360 Speaker 1: Because I left it there. I really hope somebody went 2004 01:44:18,360 --> 01:44:20,080 Speaker 1: out there and got it. I tried to call the 2005 01:44:20,200 --> 01:44:24,879 Speaker 1: place and say somebody, that's a good pie from Sweety 2006 01:44:24,920 --> 01:44:28,160 Speaker 1: Pies and somebody should go eat that. But nobody answered 2007 01:44:28,200 --> 01:44:31,400 Speaker 1: the phone. So maybe the next guy who rented the 2008 01:44:31,439 --> 01:44:33,400 Speaker 1: car the next day because it's cold, so it won't 2009 01:44:33,479 --> 01:44:35,720 Speaker 1: It'll be fine. Yeah, maybe the next person gets a 2010 01:44:35,800 --> 01:44:38,120 Speaker 1: nice surprise for me. I paid it forward. I guess 2011 01:44:38,840 --> 01:44:42,400 Speaker 1: it's um, it's dear blog. You know it's interesting. Um, 2012 01:44:43,600 --> 01:44:45,560 Speaker 1: it's been a very long time since I posted a 2013 01:44:45,600 --> 01:44:53,400 Speaker 1: photograph of a romantic partner publicly. I did that yesterday Homegirl, 2014 01:44:53,479 --> 01:44:55,280 Speaker 1: and I was a picture of the two of us 2015 01:44:55,600 --> 01:45:01,760 Speaker 1: approved by home Girl, by the way, every photo of 2016 01:45:02,000 --> 01:45:06,000 Speaker 1: I got it. That's cool. And I have to tell you, 2017 01:45:06,280 --> 01:45:08,840 Speaker 1: you know, every now there's that one percent of people 2018 01:45:08,880 --> 01:45:11,240 Speaker 1: who are jackasses because they can be. There was none 2019 01:45:11,280 --> 01:45:15,760 Speaker 1: of that yesterday. Everybody an overwhelming show of support and 2020 01:45:16,360 --> 01:45:19,280 Speaker 1: shared happiness for me, and I'm just so I'm truly like, 2021 01:45:19,439 --> 01:45:22,200 Speaker 1: no all jokes aside. I'm grateful and humble that anybody 2022 01:45:22,200 --> 01:45:24,160 Speaker 1: would even care enough to go look at that picture 2023 01:45:24,200 --> 01:45:26,400 Speaker 1: like it and write something nice. That's very nice. People 2024 01:45:26,400 --> 01:45:28,320 Speaker 1: have been start pulling for me over the years to 2025 01:45:28,360 --> 01:45:31,280 Speaker 1: find somebody, and who knows, maybe hopefully it lasts long time. 2026 01:45:31,360 --> 01:45:33,800 Speaker 1: Maybe it doesn't. But either way, this has been a 2027 01:45:33,840 --> 01:45:37,920 Speaker 1: great experience, right, But what it does you're not talking 2028 01:45:38,000 --> 01:45:40,880 Speaker 1: about like college, You're talking no. But for me, this 2029 01:45:41,040 --> 01:45:44,280 Speaker 1: is I haven't had a girlfriend in over ten years, 2030 01:45:44,680 --> 01:45:46,840 Speaker 1: and so this is good. This is progress from me. 2031 01:45:47,160 --> 01:45:53,240 Speaker 1: Cloud got to get that cloud, yea. But where I'm 2032 01:45:53,280 --> 01:45:55,559 Speaker 1: going with this is, you do hear from some folks 2033 01:45:55,920 --> 01:45:58,639 Speaker 1: when you post something like that, You hear from some folks. 2034 01:45:58,680 --> 01:46:01,720 Speaker 1: They come out of nowhere, Um, people who haven't been 2035 01:46:01,760 --> 01:46:05,880 Speaker 1: paying attention to you, people who once didn't people. I mean, 2036 01:46:05,920 --> 01:46:09,479 Speaker 1: it's very interesting what the reaction that you get from people, um, 2037 01:46:09,640 --> 01:46:12,960 Speaker 1: when you announce that you're in this more committed dynamic. 2038 01:46:13,040 --> 01:46:14,600 Speaker 1: I was, I've been gotten a few texts that I 2039 01:46:14,680 --> 01:46:17,599 Speaker 1: think are like completely random and I'm going, why why 2040 01:46:17,720 --> 01:46:20,439 Speaker 1: are you? You know? People talking around? Yeah? Like and 2041 01:46:20,920 --> 01:46:23,680 Speaker 1: granted I'm guilty of that too. In the past, I 2042 01:46:23,960 --> 01:46:25,960 Speaker 1: seem to emerge right around the time that I hear 2043 01:46:26,040 --> 01:46:32,000 Speaker 1: somebody moved on why I think, really that guy? I 2044 01:46:32,080 --> 01:46:33,840 Speaker 1: think it happens a lot, but it's interested didn't have. 2045 01:46:34,000 --> 01:46:35,719 Speaker 1: Now should I be concerned that she has not posted 2046 01:46:35,760 --> 01:46:39,680 Speaker 1: a picture publicly? Well, you just posted one yeah, and 2047 01:46:39,760 --> 01:46:42,040 Speaker 1: it's literally been did you did she take pictures on 2048 01:46:42,120 --> 01:46:46,320 Speaker 1: her phone at all? I don't think of us. Should 2049 01:46:46,320 --> 01:46:49,519 Speaker 1: I be ashamed? Or should should I think that she's 2050 01:46:49,560 --> 01:46:52,559 Speaker 1: ashamed of me? No? No, that would be insane. Now 2051 01:46:52,640 --> 01:46:58,000 Speaker 1: you're really overthinking that may settled down me just decided 2052 01:46:58,040 --> 01:47:05,640 Speaker 1: to post it. Yeah, got some boogies. No getting emotional. No, 2053 01:47:06,120 --> 01:47:07,960 Speaker 1: I would not be upset if she didn't post a 2054 01:47:07,960 --> 01:47:10,639 Speaker 1: picture of you guys. Ye know, at what point should 2055 01:47:10,680 --> 01:47:12,120 Speaker 1: I get upset about it? What do you think likes 2056 01:47:12,120 --> 01:47:16,240 Speaker 1: the ever more? Me? I like her more? Really so much. 2057 01:47:18,080 --> 01:47:20,200 Speaker 1: I love this, there's no question. Why do you have 2058 01:47:20,200 --> 01:47:22,360 Speaker 1: a little fun and ask her like so sweet? When 2059 01:47:22,400 --> 01:47:23,800 Speaker 1: you're going to post a picture of us? When you 2060 01:47:23,840 --> 01:47:30,200 Speaker 1: get as her more than my friend? Request? Why not 2061 01:47:31,439 --> 01:47:35,920 Speaker 1: her topic? Season? Get with it? She will? Why you 2062 01:47:36,080 --> 01:47:38,120 Speaker 1: basically know her by now? You don't? You don't don't 2063 01:47:38,160 --> 01:47:40,960 Speaker 1: do it? You don't know? Yeah, and you've proven yourself 2064 01:47:41,000 --> 01:47:43,280 Speaker 1: to be a little intrusive. So I don't think you 2065 01:47:43,680 --> 01:47:48,479 Speaker 1: like my comment yesterday? She did? Yeah that's cool. Yeah, 2066 01:47:48,600 --> 01:47:50,880 Speaker 1: cool story, but really like she needs to have I 2067 01:47:50,960 --> 01:47:52,439 Speaker 1: need to have a coming out party for her. You 2068 01:47:52,479 --> 01:47:56,559 Speaker 1: know where we all go and she comes down the staircase. Yeah, 2069 01:47:56,960 --> 01:48:00,679 Speaker 1: well she's all that. None the richards. This man will 2070 01:48:00,680 --> 01:48:07,400 Speaker 1: be there so much. I've been actually working on getting 2071 01:48:07,400 --> 01:48:09,160 Speaker 1: sixpence none the richer. I think it's only like four 2072 01:48:09,240 --> 01:48:11,400 Speaker 1: or five pence. Now. I don't think they're all available. 2073 01:48:12,120 --> 01:48:16,639 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know how many. That's how many 2074 01:48:16,680 --> 01:48:18,280 Speaker 1: pence I can get to show up, But I'm working 2075 01:48:18,320 --> 01:48:21,360 Speaker 1: on you. They could also play there, she goes, I 2076 01:48:21,479 --> 01:48:30,120 Speaker 1: like that one. Shek um, what else is there? Google dolls? 2077 01:48:30,200 --> 01:48:31,880 Speaker 1: You could do something? Oh my god, I would love 2078 01:48:31,960 --> 01:48:42,479 Speaker 1: that black balloon. No, but I love to meet her. 2079 01:48:42,600 --> 01:48:46,639 Speaker 1: I will say that. I guess I haven't taken for granted, 2080 01:48:46,960 --> 01:48:49,880 Speaker 1: but I haven't been this far in the process for 2081 01:48:50,120 --> 01:48:54,080 Speaker 1: one for me to realize just how intrusive is the 2082 01:48:54,120 --> 01:48:57,960 Speaker 1: word it is to date me like it's it's it's 2083 01:48:58,040 --> 01:49:01,400 Speaker 1: not like a normal thing, not me me, but like 2084 01:49:01,680 --> 01:49:06,519 Speaker 1: me in this job totally. Um, and granted, you got 2085 01:49:06,640 --> 01:49:08,559 Speaker 1: to know that you're signing up for that. There's no secret, 2086 01:49:08,680 --> 01:49:10,760 Speaker 1: like you know, if you've ever heard of this thing, 2087 01:49:10,840 --> 01:49:13,479 Speaker 1: then you know that. Yeah, not a whole lot of 2088 01:49:13,520 --> 01:49:16,360 Speaker 1: things is sacred, some things, for sure. But I also 2089 01:49:16,520 --> 01:49:19,439 Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to. I'm waiting for her, 2090 01:49:19,479 --> 01:49:24,519 Speaker 1: beautiful body. Beautiful body I'm waiting for and she sent 2091 01:49:24,560 --> 01:49:26,000 Speaker 1: me a sex so she's gonna be a sexy Harry 2092 01:49:26,040 --> 01:49:28,960 Speaker 1: Pond for Halloween. I told her, told her at it, 2093 01:49:31,240 --> 01:49:33,080 Speaker 1: but I don't have a concern. If I had a concern, 2094 01:49:33,439 --> 01:49:34,640 Speaker 1: I would I would hope that we would have a 2095 01:49:34,680 --> 01:49:37,560 Speaker 1: conversation about it and hopefully in the end um she 2096 01:49:38,439 --> 01:49:42,800 Speaker 1: would wear I would hope, but I would I would hope. 2097 01:49:43,960 --> 01:49:45,920 Speaker 1: I would hope that if I had a concern, she'd 2098 01:49:46,040 --> 01:49:47,599 Speaker 1: hear it and we talk about it and then tell 2099 01:49:47,640 --> 01:49:49,479 Speaker 1: me I'm an idiot, But yeah, should hear it for sure? 2100 01:49:49,760 --> 01:49:51,280 Speaker 1: But you know, I think that's I think that's what 2101 01:49:51,320 --> 01:49:55,200 Speaker 1: should happen. But anyway, so I I'm trying to stay 2102 01:49:55,200 --> 01:49:57,880 Speaker 1: out of trouble in this one, but it's it's kind 2103 01:49:57,880 --> 01:50:01,000 Speaker 1: of trouble. Do you think you're say my mouth, you know, 2104 01:50:01,120 --> 01:50:03,640 Speaker 1: say something stupid because you decide because I know I 2105 01:50:03,680 --> 01:50:05,760 Speaker 1: gotta be and I'm not gonna stop talking. But I 2106 01:50:05,840 --> 01:50:07,640 Speaker 1: also think that you know, if I say something now 2107 01:50:07,640 --> 01:50:09,160 Speaker 1: and then someone hears it, then they call her and 2108 01:50:09,200 --> 01:50:12,080 Speaker 1: it gets it's already happened, it gets mistranscribed, and then 2109 01:50:12,080 --> 01:50:13,439 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, did you say this? And then 2110 01:50:13,439 --> 01:50:16,360 Speaker 1: it's like no, Well she wouldn't know to ask you first, 2111 01:50:16,400 --> 01:50:17,840 Speaker 1: and I think it takes a while to get used 2112 01:50:17,880 --> 01:50:20,920 Speaker 1: to that and got to bring the receipts. She can 2113 01:50:21,000 --> 01:50:23,479 Speaker 1: handle it, she big girl. Yeah. I get Rufio to 2114 01:50:23,600 --> 01:50:28,160 Speaker 1: edit the segments and send it the traffic. He does. 2115 01:50:29,080 --> 01:50:31,120 Speaker 1: He doesn't if you could take out that one sentence 2116 01:50:31,320 --> 01:50:32,880 Speaker 1: and then send it to me. I didn't say that 2117 01:50:33,720 --> 01:50:35,559 Speaker 1: right here, of course I got friend. I got it back. 2118 01:50:36,520 --> 01:50:40,240 Speaker 1: Until you don't. Yeah, some sabacochaic on the you are 2119 01:50:40,320 --> 01:50:43,400 Speaker 1: you would totally tell his girlfriend no, wait, he's right 2120 01:50:43,520 --> 01:50:46,600 Speaker 1: or done? Yeah, he's in your business a lot on 2121 01:50:46,880 --> 01:50:49,120 Speaker 1: free food. Yeah, I know, I know how to get 2122 01:50:49,160 --> 01:50:52,680 Speaker 1: to ruffyo. It's hard. Free food and sports memorabilia. You 2123 01:50:52,760 --> 01:50:53,120 Speaker 1: were good,