1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,399 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 2: Hi girl, Hi Hi. 3 00:00:08,920 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 3: So this is going to be a fun episode because 4 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 3: we are bringing Austin Nichols on the show because next Sunday, 5 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,119 Speaker 3: our movie Gaslet is coming out on Lifetime, so I 6 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:26,160 Speaker 3: thought it would be awesome to kind of chat with 7 00:00:26,239 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 3: him about the movie and just all things Gaslet by 8 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 3: my husband. 9 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 4: I cannot wait. 10 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:32,519 Speaker 2: I'm excited to watch it. 11 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm so excited, which sounds terrible because it's like a 12 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:39,960 Speaker 1: really correct, like tough subject line, but like I love 13 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:43,320 Speaker 1: movies like that. I'm also really excited proud of you. Yeah, 14 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:45,200 Speaker 1: I'm really excited to see you in that kind of role, 15 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:48,680 Speaker 1: like I got as Preston. We watched the trailer and 16 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:50,959 Speaker 1: I was like, damn it. 17 00:00:50,960 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 4: Cre great job, Cramer, Like I. 18 00:00:53,080 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 5: Just couldn't, like I was because it's so different than 19 00:00:55,760 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 5: anything I've seen you do, but so good. 20 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 6: Like I'm just really excited. 21 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,760 Speaker 3: The trailer is scary, I know, I know, And it 22 00:01:04,800 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 3: was hard too because I wanted so Jolie's obviously in 23 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 3: the movie, she plays my daughter. I wanted to show 24 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 3: her the trailer, but I'm like, man, this this is 25 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,680 Speaker 3: really scary. But I also wanted her to see. 26 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 2: That she's been there. 27 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 3: So I was like, hey, baby, do you want to 28 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 3: see the trailer for the movie. But before I press play, 29 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 3: I just I need you to remember this is just 30 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,520 Speaker 3: a story, and this is remember how I had to 31 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 3: kind of talk to her about what was happening in 32 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 3: so she got the context of it, like when she'd 33 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 3: run in and we were fighting or something, and I'd 34 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:35,920 Speaker 3: always when we'd cut, I'm like, are you good? 35 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 2: That was just make believe, you know. 36 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:40,800 Speaker 3: So it was tough. Yeah, that is tough, I know. 37 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 3: But when she watched it, she's like, that's scary, and 38 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 3: I was like. 39 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:47,560 Speaker 2: I know, but I was like, I was trying to 40 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:48,720 Speaker 2: balance that line was. 41 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:49,720 Speaker 6: A little Yeah. 42 00:01:49,760 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 4: Even my twelve year old was like, oh, this is 43 00:01:51,960 --> 00:01:54,080 Speaker 4: so scary. I was like, it's fine. 44 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: It's funny though, because not funny. But when we were 45 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 3: filming one of the scenes, it was a scene where 46 00:02:00,040 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 3: you guys will obviously on Sunday you'll see it. Hopefully 47 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,600 Speaker 3: you watch and tune into Lifetime. But the scene where 48 00:02:07,880 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 3: we end up leaving the house and I've got the 49 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 3: bags packed, Austin and I were joking about something and 50 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 3: Jolie's like, Mommy, it's serious. Time get serious. And I 51 00:02:18,320 --> 00:02:21,519 Speaker 3: was like, okay, girl, I love get in your role. Yeah, 52 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: I was like, she's like amateur. That was like the 53 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 3: you know, her second week, so she was getting I 54 00:02:26,360 --> 00:02:28,800 Speaker 3: was just so proud of her confidence. It's great, amazing 55 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 3: she did. But that was just funny because she was 56 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 3: schooling me. 57 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:34,120 Speaker 6: Does Jolie want to do more movies? 58 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 2: Now she does? She actually has a meeting with an agent. Yeah. 59 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,640 Speaker 3: So I'm really proud of her because this is something 60 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 3: where again I feel like she kind of stepped into 61 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:45,519 Speaker 3: her confidence and so that made me really happy to 62 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 3: watch as a mom. Even cried like a lot of 63 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 3: kids couldn't do that. No, No, a lot I could 64 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 3: not do that. I mean, I have three. I'm pretty 65 00:02:53,520 --> 00:02:58,000 Speaker 3: sure that so far. But I mean, but again, all 66 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 3: kids excel at different things. Yeah, kids are sports phenomenons, 67 00:03:02,760 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 3: you know what I mean. Jolie, can you know that 68 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:06,800 Speaker 3: can't do a cartwheel? 69 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? So it's like they're all different. 70 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:12,160 Speaker 5: I couldn't do a cartwheel either, non actress, just trying 71 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 5: to find a spot. 72 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 6: Still forty two. 73 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 3: They do, but I am really excited. It's weird because 74 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,080 Speaker 3: I'm I'm kind of like how you said, Kat, I'm 75 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 3: it's it's weird to be excited for a movie like 76 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 3: this because it is someone's story that I was telling, 77 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 3: but also it's not And I talked to Morgan because 78 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 3: this is the stories based on Morgan Metz. Her her 79 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:39,360 Speaker 3: her husband tries to kill her. And when I talked 80 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:42,280 Speaker 3: to her, you know, it was I was so careful 81 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 3: of my words too, because it was just I wanted 82 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 3: to be sensitive to the situation. But she also knew 83 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 3: my domestic abuse background, and so you know, she was 84 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:55,080 Speaker 3: just like, this isn't just for me. I did this 85 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 3: for everybody else in which we had that conversation because 86 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 3: when I got the offer, I told Lifetime I wanted 87 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 3: to do like a little background. I told the head 88 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 3: of Lifetime that I really wanted to do something in 89 00:04:07,840 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 3: the domestic abuse space and then you know, be able 90 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 3: to shed light some light on that. And when this 91 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 3: came about, I was just like, Wow, this hits close 92 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 3: to home with some of the things that happen. And 93 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 3: so when I talked to Morgan, you know, that's and 94 00:04:22,360 --> 00:04:24,000 Speaker 3: that's when I told my therapist. I was like, and 95 00:04:24,040 --> 00:04:25,719 Speaker 3: I told you. We even talked about on here. I 96 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,160 Speaker 3: was like, I don't know if I want to tap 97 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 3: back into that because I've already done, like there's just 98 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,520 Speaker 3: so much emotion. Well I'll even be able to bring 99 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,039 Speaker 3: the emotion out. And that's when you know. I sat 100 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 3: on here again. My therapist was like, it's not for you. 101 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:38,479 Speaker 3: And then when Morgan and I talked about it too, 102 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:41,560 Speaker 3: she was saying, you know, this is for the women 103 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 3: that can't get out of that relationship and that need 104 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 3: to see this, that need to see because I think 105 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:51,280 Speaker 3: even if it's not the physical abuse, the abuse that 106 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 3: comes with the gas lighting is so much too. Because 107 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 3: I remember, I mean, I'm sure we've all been in 108 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 3: a situation where you just question your sanity and you're like, wait, 109 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 3: but I I know what just happened, But then you're 110 00:05:02,560 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 3: saying it didn't happen, and then you just feel like 111 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:04,839 Speaker 3: you're crazy. 112 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:10,680 Speaker 5: I grew up in a very tumultuous house, and I 113 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 5: don't and I will be careful to what I share, 114 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:16,160 Speaker 5: but I would say that this, like watching you on here, 115 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:20,559 Speaker 5: a lot of that resonates because the gaslighting is so real. 116 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 5: I mean, you don't even know that it's happening, and 117 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 5: it's a slow chip away. I think a lot for women. Yeah, 118 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 5: I mean I've been in relationships too where I've gone like, 119 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 5: but wait, that's actually not reality. Like it's almost weird 120 00:05:30,920 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 5: when you have to stand in a truth and say 121 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 5: that is that's actually not what's happening. I'm not gonna 122 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:37,839 Speaker 5: let you say that to me, even if you're not 123 00:05:37,839 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 5: saying that out loud in your brain, because it gets 124 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 5: so tangled up and enmeshed and crazy. 125 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 2: But it's just so hard to know. 126 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:49,720 Speaker 3: Like I mean, I it wasn't the only gaslighting relationship. 127 00:05:49,760 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 3: But then when I look back, I'm like, it's just 128 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,799 Speaker 3: crazy how they try to twist the reality and twist 129 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 3: what's actually happening. 130 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 6: The narrative becomes their narrative. 131 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean we know that it happened. You know, 132 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: you you would sit there and watch it happen, right, 133 00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 3: You're like no, yeah, And I'm like and Catherine's trying 134 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 3: to but no matter how much Catherine could then tell 135 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 3: me something, I'm the one that's being like, said all 136 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 3: this information, I'm like, no, nothing, he did nothing, he 137 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: did nothing wrong, And you're submerged and you're like, yes. 138 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:20,919 Speaker 2: He did. 139 00:06:21,480 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think too. It'll be interesting to watch it 140 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:28,279 Speaker 1: from a point of view. I I don't know that 141 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:31,720 Speaker 1: I can truly think maybe a family relationship, but I 142 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: don't know that I can truly pinpoint a major gas 143 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: lighting relationship in my life, if I'm being completely honest. 144 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 2: You're such a sturd actin so I. 145 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: Mean, maybe mom to an extent, but like I would 146 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: have never thought of it that way, you know, but 147 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: I truly don't think I could. But it'll be interesting 148 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: to watch it from that perspective, have like having only 149 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: seen other people go through it, but I think it'll 150 00:06:56,240 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 1: be it'll be interesting to watch, and I think it'll 151 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: be really important for people who have been in that situation, 152 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,200 Speaker 1: but people who haven't to really kind of understand more 153 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,640 Speaker 1: about people who are in that situation. Like there were 154 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: times with me with you, I'm like I can't, like 155 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: I can't, you know, not to be mean, but it 156 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:13,880 Speaker 1: was kind of like, how does she not see this? 157 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 4: I can only do so much? What do I say? 158 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:16,480 Speaker 4: What do I do? 159 00:07:16,520 --> 00:07:17,000 Speaker 3: You know? 160 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 5: But when it's your life and your subb it's and 161 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 5: I've learned that so much now yet I think it's 162 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 5: very important for people who maybe haven't seen it, who 163 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 5: haven't been in that relationship, to see how it messes 164 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 5: with the victim and how how they you know, how 165 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:34,240 Speaker 5: they see it. 166 00:07:34,280 --> 00:07:35,960 Speaker 4: I just I'm interested to see and. 167 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: How they take it on as it's their fault. 168 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:38,239 Speaker 4: Yeah. 169 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 3: Absolutely, they're they're to blame or they're the ones that 170 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 3: did X, Y and Z. And even if you were, 171 00:07:43,880 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 3: I mean, because like I just said, how you're so 172 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 3: emotionally and you're you're so strong. I feel even though 173 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 3: I mean, even the people that are strong, they still 174 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 3: it can easily just the comments can easily start to 175 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 3: chip away at people. Sure, And that's where there are 176 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 3: certain things. When I was watching back the movie because 177 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 3: I saw the rough cut, even when he asked, He's like, 178 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 3: why didn't you pick up the kids, It's like, well, 179 00:08:05,240 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 3: I I didn't. You didn't ask me to pick up 180 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 3: the kids. So it's like this even just a simple. 181 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:10,640 Speaker 2: Question of. 182 00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 3: Not I don't want to say antagonizing, but a simple 183 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:19,240 Speaker 3: question of doubting the other person, what their reality and 184 00:08:19,280 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 3: what their talk was, it starts to just start to 185 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 3: you know, because he was upset about something that happened, 186 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 3: but I didn't say I was going to pick up 187 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 3: the kids? Right, Why are you asking me if I 188 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 3: was picking up the kids? And then it becomes like 189 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 3: an argument. 190 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but also I do want to go back to 191 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: I don't think that I haven't been in that situation 192 00:08:35,840 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: because I'm strong in quotation marks. I think even the 193 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 1: strongest people can easily be guess no, I mean I 194 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:45,600 Speaker 1: just have been lucky enough. And maybe it is because 195 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: how I grew. I don't know, but I just don't 196 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 1: think that I have. But like, I think it would 197 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:52,679 Speaker 1: be so easy, even just hearing that comment, I would 198 00:08:52,679 --> 00:08:57,440 Speaker 1: easily be like, wait, I could easily see feeling crazy 199 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 1: and just the smallest conversation like that, it's crazy. 200 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:03,839 Speaker 4: I'm anxious to watch it for sure. 201 00:09:04,160 --> 00:09:04,840 Speaker 2: I don't think. 202 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 3: I mean, oh, I just say I know I could 203 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 3: not have done it without Austin, Like there's there's no 204 00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:17,199 Speaker 3: possible way. Especially there was a scene during the attack scene, 205 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 3: so I don't like it. 206 00:09:18,679 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 2: This is this is no. 207 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 3: I don't want to say it's embarrassing. This is just 208 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 3: a very personal thing. But if someone is on top 209 00:09:28,000 --> 00:09:32,080 Speaker 3: of me and it could be having sex, like if 210 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,760 Speaker 3: there's if I feel like I can't get up, I 211 00:09:34,800 --> 00:09:37,199 Speaker 3: will go into a full panic attack mode because the 212 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 3: body remembers my first abuser on top of me and 213 00:09:40,480 --> 00:09:45,680 Speaker 3: I couldn't move, and so during this scene, I was like, 214 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 3: oh man, I'm gonna I think I'm gonna struggle at 215 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 3: this because Austin is on top of me, and I 216 00:09:50,640 --> 00:09:53,440 Speaker 3: know I'm trying to struggle to get out. 217 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:55,080 Speaker 2: There's a scene. 218 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 3: Where he puts the pillowcase over my head, and so 219 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 3: not only are my my arms bound he puts the 220 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 3: pillowcase over my head, but because we were so in it, 221 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 3: when he put the pillow case over my head, it 222 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 3: was too tight. So I couldn't breathe because I took 223 00:10:11,080 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 3: one big breath and it took me right back to 224 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,559 Speaker 3: being strangled. I mean, I screamed so loud that they 225 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 3: had to they called cut because I just I couldn't breathe, 226 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 3: and I mean riped the thing, you know. They off 227 00:10:26,200 --> 00:10:30,000 Speaker 3: my head and and I just I couldn't. I just 228 00:10:30,040 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 3: lost it and I had to go outside and then 229 00:10:31,679 --> 00:10:33,840 Speaker 3: we had to take five because I just my my 230 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 3: whole body was just like back in it and it 231 00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 3: was so fricking scary. But like the only person that 232 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 3: I felt safe around that moment was being there with 233 00:10:42,760 --> 00:10:45,280 Speaker 3: Austin and like knowing like he had me and that 234 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 3: that wasn't what was going on, this was just a movie. 235 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 3: And I had to almost like I had to take 236 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 3: five minutes, put my feet on the ground outside, take 237 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:55,439 Speaker 3: a few you know, deep, and go, Okay, this is 238 00:10:55,480 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 3: not reality. This is not actually happening. But it just 239 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 3: brought me back and it was yeah, that's a lot. 240 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:06,320 Speaker 5: Wow, Yeah that is this is not Mario Lopez square, No, No, 241 00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 5: this is not. 242 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 2: No, it was it was no. 243 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:10,679 Speaker 3: I mean I even had to talk to to Amy 244 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:14,640 Speaker 3: about it because that moment was just it was tough, 245 00:11:15,360 --> 00:11:18,600 Speaker 3: but I got to take the power back in that moment. Yeah. 246 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:20,640 Speaker 2: I also what she helped me with. 247 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,720 Speaker 5: I can see glimpses even in the trailer of just 248 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 5: like it almost because I know you looked almost therapeutically acted, 249 00:11:32,800 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 5: like I was like, Okay, she knows this space. 250 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 3: I'll tell you about a scene that I'm i think 251 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 3: the most proud of, but let's first get Austin on. 252 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 7: Hello ladies, seriously. 253 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 3: Let me just tell you right now what Austin is 254 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 3: up to, because he just started filming, acting, directing in 255 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:07,199 Speaker 3: a movie that he's directing the movie and he's acting. 256 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 4: In It's amazing. 257 00:12:08,320 --> 00:12:09,600 Speaker 7: No, I'm not acting in it. 258 00:12:09,600 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 3: Oh I thought you're not acting. I thought you were 259 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 3: acting in it. 260 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 7: There was a lot of talk. It's funny when you're 261 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 7: an actor and you start directing people that questions. I 262 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 7: was like, well, are you going to play a role? 263 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 7: And there was a moment where I was going to 264 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,960 Speaker 7: play the bad guy because people love me to play 265 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 7: bad guys, which we're going to get into. And then 266 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 7: we got an amazing we lost our leading man and 267 00:12:33,480 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 7: for a while there we were scrambling to find someone 268 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:41,839 Speaker 7: and the producers were going, can you do it? And 269 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:45,080 Speaker 7: I was like, no, no, I mean I could, but 270 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 7: I really don't want to. I really really wanted to 271 00:12:47,720 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 7: focus on directing and be so so locked in and focused. 272 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 7: But now I'm not. I mean, there may be a 273 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 7: funny little moment I find, like a fun little you know, 274 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,959 Speaker 7: hitchcock little I'm back in the corner or something funny, 275 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 7: but no, I'm not playing a substantial role. 276 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 3: Well, either way, you're directing, and there's that's a lot 277 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:11,040 Speaker 3: of moving pieces. So thank you for coming on to 278 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 3: talk about gas lit by my. 279 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 7: Husband for having me. I'm so excited So when you. 280 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:18,280 Speaker 3: Got this, well, actually, let me just get the elephant 281 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:22,679 Speaker 3: out of the room really fast. Sydney, our producer has 282 00:13:22,720 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 3: a big crush on you. You are I'm calling out Sydney, Sydney. 283 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:32,760 Speaker 7: Sure, Sydney for my Sydney. I actually, I can believe 284 00:13:32,960 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 7: you just did. 285 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:36,199 Speaker 8: That. 286 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 2: You cannot tell me, you know, we're talking about this later. 287 00:13:41,440 --> 00:13:48,800 Speaker 7: How are you hi? Oh my god, I'm good, so 288 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 7: great to meet you. 289 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 5: Yeah. 290 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,280 Speaker 2: I just had to say that. Sorry, Sydney, I love you. Okay, 291 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 2: of Sydney. She can't tell me stuff like that. She 292 00:13:57,760 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 2: doesn't know yet. 293 00:13:58,960 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 3: I didn't like Chad Austin was my crash and I'm like, well, 294 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 3: she shouldn't tell me that one. 295 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 2: Okay. 296 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:09,679 Speaker 3: So when you got this script, what was your first thought? 297 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:11,479 Speaker 3: When reading the script. 298 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:16,959 Speaker 7: I immediately my gut said, this is so meaty. This 299 00:14:17,080 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 7: role is so meaty. And it goes from you know, 300 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 7: like all American happy young couple to you know, this 301 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 7: guy becomes a monster. And I'm like, how do you 302 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 7: say no to that? You know, there's there's there was 303 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:32,120 Speaker 7: never a doubt in my mind. I was like, I 304 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 7: I these are the kinds of kinds of roles you 305 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 7: dream about that you can sink your teeth into where 306 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:39,920 Speaker 7: you get to go from A to Z. And you 307 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 7: know the hard part was, you know, being such a 308 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 7: monster with you in some of these scenes and and 309 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 7: and seeing you go to these places that was really 310 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 7: hard and and at times like terrifying and like you 311 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 7: were the one going through it and it was way 312 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 7: harder for you. But then we're sitting there going what 313 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:06,040 Speaker 7: are we doing? Like it was it was you know, 314 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,160 Speaker 7: I remember a moment that you I'll let you talk 315 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 7: about it if you want to or not, where we 316 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:15,120 Speaker 7: all had to stop and go like, okay, we have 317 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:17,240 Speaker 7: to think about this for a second. You know, it 318 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 7: was it's really case I see. But you know, those 319 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:23,320 Speaker 7: heavy things are are I feel like what a lot 320 00:15:23,360 --> 00:15:25,560 Speaker 7: of actors you know, dream about. You know, you want 321 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 7: to be able to test yourself. You want to be 322 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 7: able to you know, stretch your wings. You want to 323 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:31,720 Speaker 7: be able to try something challenging and that you've never 324 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 7: done before. And I mean this this was a huge 325 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:36,480 Speaker 7: opportunity for me. 326 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 3: What was that the pillowcase one, because that's what I 327 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 3: had just Yeah, that was that one scared me. 328 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:44,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, have you talked about that already? 329 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:48,240 Speaker 3: I basically, yeah, just just before you came on, I said, 330 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 3: one of the moments that I think triggered my past 331 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 3: was when you were on top of me and I 332 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,000 Speaker 3: couldn't breathe when that pillow case came over. 333 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 7: So I remember, like, because we had to do this 334 00:15:57,760 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 7: a bunch of times, and you know, we're on the 335 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 7: and Janet, we're struggling, and jan is emotionally, you know, 336 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 7: like going through it and it's screaming in tears and 337 00:16:06,520 --> 00:16:08,360 Speaker 7: all this stuff. And I remember when the pillowcase, when 338 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 7: I put the pillowcase over your head, the fake blood 339 00:16:10,920 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 7: on your face soaked into the pillowcase, and then the 340 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 7: pillowcase you breathed in and it went that kind of 341 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:22,040 Speaker 7: like concave suction into your mouth, and that's I freaked out. 342 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:25,640 Speaker 7: And that's right. We need tapped out because I mean, 343 00:16:25,680 --> 00:16:28,640 Speaker 7: I knew you weren't going to suffocate, but it was 344 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 7: the scariest moment. And that's right when you you were 345 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:35,720 Speaker 7: like no more, and it was I've never been in 346 00:16:35,760 --> 00:16:38,160 Speaker 7: that position on a set. I've never experienced anything like that, 347 00:16:38,240 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 7: and I can't even imagine what that was like for you. 348 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,480 Speaker 5: That was one of my questions is because you two 349 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 5: have such a deep friendship to be an actor and 350 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 5: then have to separate your compassion that you have for 351 00:16:51,040 --> 00:16:54,480 Speaker 5: her as a person. Does it make it even more 352 00:16:54,600 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 5: challenging then to step into a role obviously as an 353 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,920 Speaker 5: actor and like as like a master of your craft, 354 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:01,480 Speaker 5: you want to be really good at that scene, but 355 00:17:01,520 --> 00:17:05,439 Speaker 5: then you have this heart for a person. How what 356 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 5: is the duality of that feel like in the scene. 357 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 7: I mean I could never let go of caring about 358 00:17:11,160 --> 00:17:15,719 Speaker 7: like I could never fully step into this this character 359 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 7: and not care like there was never a moment where 360 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:21,719 Speaker 7: I was like I wasn't thinking about her. You know. 361 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 7: It just it's impossible. I'm not that good of an actor. 362 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:29,320 Speaker 2: No, maybe you're just that good of a human. 363 00:17:30,520 --> 00:17:33,200 Speaker 6: I actually would prefer you to be a better human. Anyways. 364 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:35,919 Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, well, thank you, that's very nice, But 365 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,399 Speaker 7: it's it's it's just one of those I don't know 366 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:42,399 Speaker 7: what else to say about it. It was just, you know, 367 00:17:42,520 --> 00:17:45,400 Speaker 7: while while it's important to get this story out there 368 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 7: and it can ultimately help people, and it can help 369 00:17:47,400 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 7: women get out of dangerous situations, there's there's a moment 370 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:54,160 Speaker 7: I think where we all we were all going, why 371 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:55,560 Speaker 7: are we doing this. 372 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:58,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, well I think too. I mean that that that 373 00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,640 Speaker 3: part as well. There was sexual assaults in it, So 374 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,560 Speaker 3: there was just those those different layers of I mean 375 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 3: even it's hard because we are so close and we're 376 00:18:08,400 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 3: we've been friends for so long, it was difficult to 377 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:15,000 Speaker 3: I mean for the for the first week and a half, 378 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 3: I mean, we barely even spoke to each other because 379 00:18:17,520 --> 00:18:19,160 Speaker 3: we had to both be in seene and you had 380 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:21,439 Speaker 3: to be this monster and I and I had to 381 00:18:21,440 --> 00:18:24,959 Speaker 3: be on the brink of a complete breakdown in tears. 382 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,320 Speaker 3: That like, there was no normally on a set, it's 383 00:18:27,600 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 3: I mean you've been there, it's like everyone's happy and 384 00:18:30,160 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 3: they're talking, and it's like you don't really need to 385 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 3: really get into character that much at them, you know, 386 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: because this is all like usually fun, like yeah, Christmas 387 00:18:37,000 --> 00:18:41,000 Speaker 3: movies and you know. So, but this was like we 388 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,520 Speaker 3: almost stayed apart for a while because we had to 389 00:18:44,720 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 3: stay in such a like distant thing. 390 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 7: Yeah. I mean, I remember after that first week or 391 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 7: week and a half going, oh my god, I'm so 392 00:18:53,280 --> 00:18:55,399 Speaker 7: glad we got that stuff over with because then we 393 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:58,320 Speaker 7: were able to actually laugh and have some fun, and 394 00:18:58,400 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 7: it was hard to find those moments even but we 395 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,960 Speaker 7: did and we're kind of like, oh my god, I'm 396 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:05,000 Speaker 7: so glad that stuff is over. You know, the movie 397 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,480 Speaker 7: still had heavy stuff in it. But I don't know 398 00:19:07,520 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 7: how you felt, but I was. I was thankful we 399 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 7: kind of did that. 400 00:19:10,359 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 2: I was relieved. 401 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:14,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, the heavy abuse stuff was done and over with 402 00:19:15,320 --> 00:19:17,720 Speaker 3: what do you what? I loved and that's what I 403 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 3: just to go back to what I was kind of 404 00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:22,160 Speaker 3: telling the girls, like I could not imagine someone else 405 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:27,640 Speaker 3: playing opposite me with this movie. Like I just I'm 406 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 3: so thankful for you and grateful for you, like you're 407 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 3: You're just an incredible actor. You're the best scene partner ever. 408 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:37,520 Speaker 3: There's a scene in the I mean there's so many 409 00:19:37,560 --> 00:19:40,000 Speaker 3: moments where Austin and I get each other so well 410 00:19:40,040 --> 00:19:43,639 Speaker 3: that and he knows when I'm about to do something 411 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 3: to do a better take, and he's like do it again. 412 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:47,320 Speaker 3: And he did that to me on one Tree Hill 413 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 3: where he held my hands and I, you know, I 414 00:19:49,000 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 3: started crying. And so you're just such a giving actor 415 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:54,959 Speaker 3: and I don't I've never had that before, so I 416 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 3: was just I couldn't. 417 00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,000 Speaker 2: I'm just so grateful you you accepted this role. 418 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:01,399 Speaker 7: You're gonna make me break down here. I love you 419 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:06,560 Speaker 7: so much and I've never I've never really had somebody 420 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:09,080 Speaker 7: that I've got to work with again that I felt 421 00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 7: like we had. We have something that really works, you know. 422 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,800 Speaker 7: And I'm not going to be grandiose and compare us 423 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 7: to Bogie and Bacall and you know some of these 424 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 7: old amazing people who did you know, like in a 425 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:25,240 Speaker 7: stolen around Gossing, that work together again and again again 426 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,119 Speaker 7: because they have something that works. But I feel like 427 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 7: we have something like that, and that's so rare. I 428 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 7: hope we get to work together again. You know, you're 429 00:20:35,160 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 7: you're You're phenomenal, and yeah, like I said it, it 430 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:40,000 Speaker 7: just doesn't happen. 431 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,760 Speaker 3: Was there a scene for you in the movie that 432 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:44,199 Speaker 3: you're the most proud of. 433 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, the first thing that jumps to mind is when 434 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:52,119 Speaker 7: Rodney comes to you and he he says that he's sick. 435 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 7: And to be perfectly honest, I just I've emotion has 436 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:01,000 Speaker 7: been something that when I was younger, was really hard 437 00:21:01,040 --> 00:21:04,800 Speaker 7: for me as an actor. And I think honestly it 438 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 7: was just because I was young and I didn't have 439 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 7: a lot of life experience, and you know, it came 440 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 7: from a relatively really happy, nice family. Sure we had 441 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,200 Speaker 7: our issues, but you know I didn't I didn't come 442 00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,159 Speaker 7: from the street, and I didn't like, you know, I 443 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 7: don't have this. You know this tough, this tough story, 444 00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,960 Speaker 7: in this tough childhood. But as I've gotten older and 445 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 7: I've been through some stuff and I've lost my mom, 446 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,960 Speaker 7: and you know, I was really proud of that scene 447 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 7: with you. There there was a natural kind of flow 448 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 7: and it felt a little effortless when in the past 449 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,439 Speaker 7: it's the emotion has always been a struggle for me. 450 00:21:43,520 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 7: So that one was I remember. I remember going upstairs 451 00:21:49,600 --> 00:21:52,199 Speaker 7: in that house at the end, and just like I 452 00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,360 Speaker 7: cried again because I was that's something that's been hard 453 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 7: for me in my whole career. I was like, I 454 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:01,480 Speaker 7: was like, I was so thankful and grateful, and I 455 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 7: remember looking up into the ceiling and thanking my mom. 456 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 7: I was like, you know, you made me, you made 457 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 7: by leaving me, you made me a better person, and 458 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:10,280 Speaker 7: you made me a better actor. 459 00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 4: Wow, gave me chills crying. 460 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 8: That seems amazing, so sweet, though, Austin, I have a 461 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 8: question for you that I've actually wanted to ask a 462 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 8: lot of actors that get casted, So you said that 463 00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:26,639 Speaker 8: you kind of you've been casted in similar roles that 464 00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:27,640 Speaker 8: like kind of the bad guy. 465 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:30,679 Speaker 6: Yeah, and I we always need a bad guy in 466 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:31,080 Speaker 6: the movie. 467 00:22:31,119 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 4: We need you. 468 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 6: But I hate it for you on a personal level 469 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:35,639 Speaker 6: because I hate that. 470 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 5: I just have always hated when an actor has to 471 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:39,560 Speaker 5: be the bad guy, you know, because we all know 472 00:22:39,720 --> 00:22:42,119 Speaker 5: there's like certain guys that just always get casted that way. 473 00:22:42,600 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 5: Does it does it hurt your heart at all at 474 00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 5: some point that you're like, I make an awesome bad guy. 475 00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:50,520 Speaker 7: Yes, it does. It does hurt my heart all the time. 476 00:22:50,560 --> 00:22:52,879 Speaker 7: But at the same time, you know, don't feel too 477 00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 7: bad for me, because playing bad guys is really really fun. 478 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,520 Speaker 5: I mean, we do need you. I mean it's not 479 00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 5: really much fun if we don't have a bad guy. 480 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,560 Speaker 5: But man, I thought about that, like on a personal level, 481 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 5: it's like, Wow, I make a really good like a hole. 482 00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 5: I can't wait to be casting you know, Like that's horrible. 483 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, it's so funny because a lot of 484 00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:13,640 Speaker 7: time it's the grass is always greener. You know, I'll 485 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 7: play a bunch of bad guys and I'll be you know, 486 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 7: calling my agents like send me lead, send me, you know, 487 00:23:20,440 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 7: I want to be the good guy, and then I'll 488 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,440 Speaker 7: get one and I'll do it, and then I want 489 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:28,080 Speaker 7: to be the bad guy. Yet so I actually think 490 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:30,679 Speaker 7: I've been extremely lucky to kind of be able to 491 00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:35,720 Speaker 7: do both. Maybe if you really kind of waited it out, 492 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 7: it would probably be more bad guys. But I'm you know, 493 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,800 Speaker 7: I feel like it's really fun and except for maybe 494 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,360 Speaker 7: this one was a little less fun because it's so intense, 495 00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 7: but it's usually really really fun. The one thing that 496 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 7: I think is so interesting about being a lead is 497 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:55,640 Speaker 7: and you see this with you know, you really see 498 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,040 Speaker 7: it very rarely. And that's why I think, you know, 499 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,119 Speaker 7: movie stars are so rare because to me, it's all 500 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:07,280 Speaker 7: about trust and the audience trusting basically a person, and 501 00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 7: it's not even acting ability. To me, it's some of 502 00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 7: these people, like when I think of Tom Hanks or 503 00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 7: something or someone like that, we just inherently love and 504 00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,800 Speaker 7: trust this man and he can play characters or he 505 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,200 Speaker 7: can play himself, whatever it is he's done at all. 506 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 7: But there's something to me that's so fascinating about trust 507 00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 7: and a person sitting down in a movie theater or 508 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,560 Speaker 7: on their couch and they just go. I know I'm 509 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,919 Speaker 7: in good hands for the next two hours. Like I know, 510 00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 7: I'm not going to waste my time with this person. 511 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 7: And that is something that I just I just think 512 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:43,880 Speaker 7: is so special. 513 00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 3: Well, what I think you do really well with the 514 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,920 Speaker 3: bad guy thing is you always try to find the heart. 515 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:04,120 Speaker 3: Like I remember when we were doing the courtroom scene 516 00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 3: and you had asked me basically what because I had 517 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:09,680 Speaker 3: you didn't talk to Morgan ever. 518 00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 2: Did you? 519 00:25:10,640 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 7: No? 520 00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:14,880 Speaker 3: No, Yeah, I think when I told you about kind 521 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 3: of what Rodney did in the court scene, you know 522 00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:21,160 Speaker 3: you've even throughout the movie, you still tried to Yes, 523 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,840 Speaker 3: he is a monster, and you still tried to give 524 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 3: him a heart in it as well, and some kind 525 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:32,520 Speaker 3: of compassion where it's you know, he did awful things 526 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:36,439 Speaker 3: and he's also broken and you were trying to, you know, 527 00:25:36,520 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 3: give him some some you know some yeah, some compassion. 528 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:42,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess you know, if we were doing a 529 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:44,480 Speaker 7: doctor you know, it's it's it is at the end 530 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 7: of the day, it is a movie, too, right, and 531 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,520 Speaker 7: you want to tell a great story. And I think 532 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,399 Speaker 7: you know, seeing seeing Rodney at the beginning and seeing 533 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:54,880 Speaker 7: this young love and this like these two all American 534 00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 7: all American couple. You know, you want, I feel you 535 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:02,919 Speaker 7: want to like these people so much at the beginning, 536 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,880 Speaker 7: so that what happens is so much more powerful, right, 537 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:10,639 Speaker 7: So you know it is a bit manipulative. But at 538 00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,840 Speaker 7: the same time, I think it just it makes a 539 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 7: better story. Right if the guy was just totally if 540 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 7: there wasn't a little any kernels in there that we 541 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 7: liked about him, I feel like people just turn it off, 542 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,840 Speaker 7: you know. So it's funny because I do feel weird 543 00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,640 Speaker 7: about it. Sometimes I felt where I was like, why 544 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:33,359 Speaker 7: am I trying to like show the audience something lovely 545 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:34,240 Speaker 7: about this prencipent. 546 00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: But I think that's reality. I mean, unless you're just 547 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:42,080 Speaker 1: a complete, you know, psychopath over here, who you know, whatever, 548 00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:46,280 Speaker 1: most of these people do have glimpses. That's why people 549 00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:49,199 Speaker 1: get stuck in these situations. They have glimpses of the 550 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 1: good in them, and that's why people get in these situations. 551 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:55,480 Speaker 1: So I think that's so important to show that because 552 00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:56,239 Speaker 1: that's part of it. 553 00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 7: That's a great point. Yeah, I mean, you fall in 554 00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:02,919 Speaker 7: love with someone, Yeah, there's absolutely I'm sure, you know, 555 00:27:04,440 --> 00:27:06,320 Speaker 7: I'm sure there was a lot to fall in love 556 00:27:06,359 --> 00:27:09,240 Speaker 7: with early on and then you know, people change, but 557 00:27:09,280 --> 00:27:10,960 Speaker 7: you're I think that's really astute. 558 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's really smart well as a guy, because you know, 559 00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 3: I feel bad always being like, you know, the woman is, 560 00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 3: have you been in a relationship where you've been gaslet 561 00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 3: from on the other side of things? Because I feel 562 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:27,679 Speaker 3: like it's just we've you know, it's just like the 563 00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:31,120 Speaker 3: women and we've been gasolt and we've been abusing. Now 564 00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:34,800 Speaker 3: the statistics are I actually don't even know, so I'm 565 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:36,320 Speaker 3: not even gonna speak on it, but I'm just we 566 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,240 Speaker 3: always just say that, like when I've been doing press, 567 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, you know, to the women out here that 568 00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 3: need to see this movie for sure, and I'm like, 569 00:27:42,480 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 3: and men. 570 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 7: Absolutely, No, that's such a great, great question. And this 571 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 7: is I always think this is a question we should 572 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:53,119 Speaker 7: always ask the other sex, right like, because we always 573 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:57,560 Speaker 7: tend to talk about ourselves and to ask the other team, 574 00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,159 Speaker 7: you know, is so I think that's what solves so 575 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:05,080 Speaker 7: many of our problems. Let's talk. Yes, Yes, I have, 576 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,200 Speaker 7: I have. And you know it's funny is that I 577 00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,080 Speaker 7: And when I was in it, I didn't really know 578 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 7: I was I am. And I think that's probably what 579 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,320 Speaker 7: a lot of people would say I didn't realize it, 580 00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:17,440 Speaker 7: and I didn't really pick it up, you know, until 581 00:28:17,480 --> 00:28:19,440 Speaker 7: I was out of it and picked it apart that 582 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 7: I start to understand. And that's that. I feel like 583 00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,439 Speaker 7: that's what happens to a lot of people, is you know, 584 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 7: you fall for someone and there's something great there, and 585 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 7: then as it bad things start to happen. You. You know, 586 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,959 Speaker 7: if you're a positive person, you stick to those positive 587 00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,360 Speaker 7: Oh well, this happened, and this happened, and they were 588 00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 7: so lovely and this was this is so great, and 589 00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 7: you I stayed kind of blind. I don't really know 590 00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,280 Speaker 7: what to say about that, except I wish I would 591 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 7: have been more aware earlier. 592 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:54,360 Speaker 3: I guess it's like how though, you know, like for 593 00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,840 Speaker 3: the person that's in that situation, it's it's so hard 594 00:28:56,920 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 3: when you're in the cycle of that abuse, with lighting 595 00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 3: and the mental abuse of it all, it's like, how 596 00:29:03,920 --> 00:29:05,560 Speaker 3: do you even see it? 597 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 7: Yeah? And also I think, I mean, I can't say 598 00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,040 Speaker 7: this for all human beings, but I think a lot 599 00:29:12,040 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 7: of human beings when they're in something, they want it 600 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:20,800 Speaker 7: to work right, so we ultimately our goal oriented. I feel, 601 00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 7: at least I am and I want something to work, 602 00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 7: whether it's my career, my relationship, whatever it is I'm building, 603 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 7: you know, something out of wood in my garage. I 604 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 7: want it to be good. So I try to work. 605 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 3: What else, Austin, I mean, you've got your directing. What 606 00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:40,400 Speaker 3: else is on the horizon for you? 607 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:44,440 Speaker 7: I mean, I can't tell you, guys, how fun this 608 00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 7: is to direct this movie. Today's day four. We have 609 00:29:47,760 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 7: a late call. We go in at one o'clock. We 610 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 7: have two night scenes. I have the funniest group of actors. 611 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 7: I have an amazing crew. Everyone's laughing and having a ball, 612 00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 7: even though it's ninety five degrees and we're all dying 613 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 7: in the heat. But you know, we're doing a comedy. 614 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 7: And I haven't seen anybody frown. I haven't seen anybody 615 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 7: throw a tantrum. It's just been such a joy, and 616 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 7: I I'm I'm lit up in a way that I 617 00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 7: haven't been, you know, in a long time. And by 618 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,480 Speaker 7: the way, I love acting, I'll always love acting, but 619 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 7: this is just new. It's a new horizon. It's something 620 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 7: I can really seek my sink my teeth into. And 621 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 7: I just I hope this movie turns out good and 622 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 7: people see it and I get to keep doing it. 623 00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:31,480 Speaker 2: What's it called again? 624 00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:37,720 Speaker 7: Right now? It's called Muni and I will I will 625 00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,800 Speaker 7: say that the title is probably going to change. I'm 626 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 7: not gonna I can't say what yet, but the title 627 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 7: that we're gonna that it's in the in our minds 628 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,560 Speaker 7: is really really cool. In the second I can, I'll 629 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:54,480 Speaker 7: tell you. But so basically, it's about a really run down, 630 00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 7: beat up public golf course with dirt fairways and the 631 00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 7: quirky misfits who work there. The whole place is in 632 00:31:01,000 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 7: jeopardy of getting you know, bought and developed, and it's 633 00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 7: just about a bunch of funny people trying to protect 634 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:06,960 Speaker 7: their home. 635 00:31:07,800 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 3: I love that there's rumors swirling there's a One Tree 636 00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:13,280 Speaker 3: Hill reboot. 637 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 2: Would you do it? Yes or no? He's drinking a 638 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:22,240 Speaker 2: glass of water and he's not answering. 639 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 7: Look, I mean, it's so rare that you're a part 640 00:31:26,720 --> 00:31:30,040 Speaker 7: of something that could be redone. I really feel like 641 00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,960 Speaker 7: it's you know, we see reboots when we're at home. 642 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,320 Speaker 7: We see reboots all the time. We're like, enough of 643 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:39,160 Speaker 7: the reboots, But how many actors can say they were 644 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:43,120 Speaker 7: in something that's going to be have another life? I mean, 645 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 7: it's very cool. And you know, all I'll say is 646 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:51,040 Speaker 7: that I would just I want it to be the 647 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,520 Speaker 7: best that it can be. I want it to be awesome. 648 00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,400 Speaker 7: And you know, if all the pieces fall into the 649 00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:00,440 Speaker 7: right place, you know, how can you say no? 650 00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 4: Love it? 651 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 3: Austin, you are the best. Thank you so much. Appreciate 652 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,760 Speaker 3: you just being vulnerable and sharing everything that you have. 653 00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,680 Speaker 3: And I just I love you. 654 00:32:11,200 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 7: I love you to death, and thank you for bringing 655 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:18,200 Speaker 7: me into this movie, gas Lit, and I owe you one. 656 00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,400 Speaker 7: I had such a blast with you. And let's let's 657 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:22,120 Speaker 7: go make some more. 658 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 6: Yeah, we will love it, okayn't wait to watch, I 659 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:26,000 Speaker 6: asked him. 660 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 2: I thank you for taking the time. 661 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:29,200 Speaker 7: You got it. 662 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 2: You're the best. 663 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:31,360 Speaker 7: You're the best. 664 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:32,880 Speaker 4: No, you're the best. 665 00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,120 Speaker 2: You know you're I mean it just he's just the best. 666 00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,920 Speaker 4: He's such a lovely human. 667 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 2: He really is. 668 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 3: I didn't know that about me. I was sweet that 669 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 3: he shared about the emotion side of it. 670 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:44,720 Speaker 7: I knew. 671 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't. I didn't know that. 672 00:32:47,360 --> 00:32:50,160 Speaker 3: I mean, I don't really remember him crying on One 673 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,680 Speaker 3: Tree Hill, but not that. I don't think that storyline 674 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:56,600 Speaker 3: really ever led to him being super tearful or anything 675 00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:58,000 Speaker 3: like that. I mean, he's been in a bunch of 676 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 3: other stuff, Sydney. I'm sorry. I just can't want you 677 00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,320 Speaker 3: to have the opportunity to say hello. 678 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:09,760 Speaker 2: I'm glad she's I know you're happy. That's the thing. 679 00:33:09,800 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 3: Like I wouldn't do it if I was. 680 00:33:14,480 --> 00:33:16,360 Speaker 1: You look beautiful, but it is early there, so I 681 00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 1: didn't know. But she's actually the best wing woman on that. 682 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 1: Like there's been probably twice that we worked together. Been like, 683 00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: all right, Jana, don't usually ask, but this is the one, 684 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:28,280 Speaker 1: and she's like, I'm on. 685 00:33:28,360 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 2: It wasn't Lance Bass one of them I did. 686 00:33:30,840 --> 00:33:31,320 Speaker 4: I asked. 687 00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,040 Speaker 1: He's not a bit, I'm not a huge but I 688 00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:36,800 Speaker 1: was like, everyone's gonna think this is cool. 689 00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:38,280 Speaker 4: I'm actually going to ask for a photo. 690 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 1: But no, I can't remember there was someone I was like, no, 691 00:33:44,200 --> 00:33:45,880 Speaker 1: I just stood back and I was like, I can't 692 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,480 Speaker 1: ask on this one. I'm just gonna stare while you talk. 693 00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,120 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be able to speak with Matthew. I can't 694 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 1: even remember, but I think it's happened a couple of times. 695 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 1: But you're the best with that. 696 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 7: Thank you? 697 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:55,880 Speaker 8: Really? 698 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,160 Speaker 2: Is that for me? 699 00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,520 Speaker 7: We interviewed Maddie and Tay and I'm a huge fan. 700 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 5: I remember that got me a picture with them and 701 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:04,520 Speaker 5: like we hung out for a while. 702 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:05,880 Speaker 2: It was great. 703 00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:11,040 Speaker 3: I'm literally like, I feel bad for anyone that are 704 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,320 Speaker 3: quote unquote celebrities in my phone because I'm the person. 705 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:14,880 Speaker 7: Like, let's call him. 706 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:16,440 Speaker 2: They'd love to say hi to you. You know, I 707 00:34:16,560 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 2: just want everyone to meet like the person. I just 708 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:19,960 Speaker 2: I think it's so fun. 709 00:34:20,000 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 5: But you've done that for me too, because I have 710 00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:24,120 Speaker 5: girlfriends in Michigan everybody. 711 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,000 Speaker 6: I have one. 712 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:29,440 Speaker 5: Specifically Coco, and she loves you, like loves you. And 713 00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,239 Speaker 5: it was her birthday and I was like, Cramer, will 714 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:32,919 Speaker 5: you just face time. You're like for sure, like you don't, 715 00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,760 Speaker 5: you don't care, you don't care what you're wearing. 716 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:36,920 Speaker 6: It's like the funnest thing to me. 717 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,480 Speaker 4: I think I've ever done that to you, and it 718 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 4: made her day. I've never thought about that. I mean, 719 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 4: she's like, yeah, don't do that. 720 00:34:47,120 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 2: Eventually there'll be no one asking. 721 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,480 Speaker 5: So that's like Preston, I'm like, yeah, let me hook 722 00:34:51,520 --> 00:34:53,239 Speaker 5: you guys, like of course you should come meet him 723 00:34:53,239 --> 00:34:54,680 Speaker 5: and hug his neck and yeah. 724 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:56,759 Speaker 2: You're so sorry that I love it. 725 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,359 Speaker 3: Well, thanks guys, but yeah, I just I just wanted 726 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:01,680 Speaker 3: to first apologize to Sydney. 727 00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,759 Speaker 2: But again, I think I knew she loved it. 728 00:35:03,800 --> 00:35:05,600 Speaker 5: I think we could frame it differently in the future. 729 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,440 Speaker 5: I would like to just talk off air about that. 730 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:11,320 Speaker 2: For Sid, I unfortunately love him more after that interview. 731 00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 3: So right, I cannot confirm nor deny, okay relationships. I 732 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,160 Speaker 3: meant to ask him that because it's not my sure business. 733 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 3: I just don't know if he was like publicly single 734 00:35:23,080 --> 00:35:25,239 Speaker 3: or what his deal was. I should have asked him, said, 735 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:26,839 Speaker 3: I should have asked him. I should have been a better 736 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:27,719 Speaker 3: wing woman for you. 737 00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:32,160 Speaker 2: But yeah, any of the. 738 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 6: Questions, No, I don't think so anything else. 739 00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:36,359 Speaker 4: Sunday, it's the big day. 740 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:37,000 Speaker 2: Is Sunday? 741 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:37,759 Speaker 4: Is the big day? 742 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 6: Lion Girl turns one on Sunday? 743 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, sweet thing. Oh and we've got wind Down shows 744 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 1: this week. 745 00:35:45,600 --> 00:35:46,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be fun. 746 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,520 Speaker 4: It's gonna be great. So excited wind Down in the 747 00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:51,360 Speaker 4: Wild Nashville, Detroit. 748 00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:51,680 Speaker 2: And Chicago. 749 00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm I'm excited. Yeah, I'm excited to watch. 750 00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 2: I hope. 751 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,440 Speaker 3: I hope you guys, it's hard to say it, enjoy 752 00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:03,200 Speaker 3: the movie, you know. I hope it helps the person 753 00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 3: that needs to see it is what I'll say regarding that, 754 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:10,800 Speaker 3: and if you do need help one eight hundred and 755 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:13,600 Speaker 3: seventy nine nine, safe is a place to call. 756 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:19,279 Speaker 5: I'd also encourage that if you feel like something is off, 757 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 5: it most likely is, and that might be a good 758 00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:25,040 Speaker 5: starting point for women in this situation. I watched a 759 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,560 Speaker 5: lot of storylines unfold my whole life, and I think 760 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,280 Speaker 5: if you follow your gut and you feel like something 761 00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,720 Speaker 5: is off, I would say that someone that feels safe 762 00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:35,400 Speaker 5: doesn't often feel that way. So if you feel something, 763 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:40,080 Speaker 5: that would be my first intuition. Your gut is your 764 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:45,000 Speaker 5: best discernment, and I would say. 765 00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,279 Speaker 3: You can take the power back in a situation that's 766 00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,439 Speaker 3: something that I didn't know about for a while, even 767 00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:50,320 Speaker 3: if it's in the past. 768 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:51,520 Speaker 2: And oh yeah, the. 769 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 3: Scene that I was able to do that in I 770 00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 3: actually called Morgan when I read this script. One of 771 00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:04,920 Speaker 3: the scenes brought me crying. It was the courtroom scene 772 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:09,719 Speaker 3: where she gets to confront Rodney and she gets to 773 00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,440 Speaker 3: have a speech. I never got that opportunity in court. 774 00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 3: I sat on the stand, I saw him, I looked 775 00:37:16,160 --> 00:37:18,279 Speaker 3: him in the eyes, but I wasn't allowed to say 776 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:22,600 Speaker 3: anything besides the cross you know, the DA was cross examining, 777 00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:26,440 Speaker 3: cross examining, but I never got to have like a 778 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:29,800 Speaker 3: a word with him, like you know, a goodbye almost 779 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,640 Speaker 3: in a way. And so with a scene, I was like, oh, man, 780 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,359 Speaker 3: I don't know what's going to come up for me here. 781 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:38,480 Speaker 3: And so I called Morgan. I said, you know, I 782 00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,759 Speaker 3: want to play this, and you know, I asked her 783 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,840 Speaker 3: certain things like how she felt in this scene or 784 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 3: in that scene, because it's very similar and her speech 785 00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:50,440 Speaker 3: that she said is pretty similar to what is written 786 00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:53,160 Speaker 3: in the script, and so you know, I tried to 787 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 3: also honor her story as much as I could as well. 788 00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:57,840 Speaker 3: And so when I called her, I said, hey, I 789 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,560 Speaker 3: just need to ask about that courtroom scene. You know what, 790 00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:02,600 Speaker 3: what was kind of going through your head from your 791 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 3: point of view, and you know, how were you when 792 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:07,480 Speaker 3: you were saying the speech. 793 00:38:07,480 --> 00:38:08,160 Speaker 2: Were you crying? 794 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:08,680 Speaker 7: Were you? 795 00:38:09,320 --> 00:38:13,360 Speaker 3: And she was like I was just stone cold, super 796 00:38:13,560 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 3: you know, strong, and you know, didn't flinch, looked him 797 00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:18,520 Speaker 3: straight in the eye and then it never looked at 798 00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 3: him again. And so I told the director this and 799 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,040 Speaker 3: I'm like, all right, so this is how Morgan played it, 800 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 3: and She's like kind of what Austin said is. She goes, 801 00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,880 Speaker 3: this is also a story. So she's like, tell the story. 802 00:38:27,880 --> 00:38:29,719 Speaker 3: How you would tell the story? What would you say 803 00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:32,719 Speaker 3: to your abuser on the stand? And so it was 804 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:36,279 Speaker 3: one take because there was no way I could do 805 00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:39,160 Speaker 3: that again. So I asked her. I asked the director, 806 00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:40,640 Speaker 3: I go, do you mind if we do my close 807 00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,959 Speaker 3: up first? And she's like absolutely, I go, I think 808 00:38:44,840 --> 00:38:47,040 Speaker 3: I'm going to play it how. I'll give you obviously 809 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:48,320 Speaker 3: as money takes, as you want. I was like, but 810 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 3: I'm going to play it in my brain how I 811 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:54,400 Speaker 3: would have said it to my abuser on the stand. 812 00:38:55,560 --> 00:38:58,600 Speaker 3: And it was I mean, they kept in every emotion, 813 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,759 Speaker 3: every piece, and it was probably I walked away and 814 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,480 Speaker 3: I and I remembered what my therapist and where she 815 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,600 Speaker 3: said you got to take the power back that day 816 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 3: m H. And I got to like bury it. Wow, 817 00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 3: and it was like what a therapeutic it was. 818 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:12,439 Speaker 2: Yeah. 819 00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,919 Speaker 3: So also to the people watching, like you can still 820 00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 3: even and you can still have that moment, have that 821 00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:19,160 Speaker 3: moment to yourself if you have to say it to 822 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,560 Speaker 3: yourself in the mirror or you take the power back 823 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 3: from that situation, because that was the most it was, 824 00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,239 Speaker 3: like I was telling Amy. I was like, it was 825 00:39:27,400 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 3: like a weight was lifted and I was able to 826 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 3: just really move on from it after how many years? 827 00:39:36,719 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 1: But it's crazy, you probably didn't. Did you even realize 828 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 1: you really needed that no measure like that? 829 00:39:41,880 --> 00:39:43,880 Speaker 2: Nope, that's so crazy. Yeah. 830 00:39:44,120 --> 00:39:46,080 Speaker 4: So I'm so happy for you though, Thank you. 831 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 3: Sunday Night eight seven, Central Gaslipay, my Husband, The Morgan 832 00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:55,479 Speaker 3: Metzer Story, and again nine nine Safe See you guys 833 00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:55,919 Speaker 3: next week. 834 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:56,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I