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Speaker 1: First Date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 3: Natasha is on the phone today for our first date

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Speaker 3: follow up and she's getting ghosted by a guy named

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Speaker 3: Mason who she really likes. So in a few minutes

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Speaker 3: we're gonna call him see if you'll tell us why

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Speaker 3: he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Natasha,

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Speaker 3: how long has it been since you heard from Mason?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Man, it's been it's been like a couple of days.

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Speaker 1: Like I don't know, Well, he he won't hang out

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Speaker 1: with me again. We were I don't know. He just

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Speaker 1: says he's busy. It's the word family obligation.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but could not be legit if it's been a

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Speaker 5: couple days or the couple days is silence.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like we work in the same building.

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Speaker 4: I just don't get it, Like it's not it's just

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Speaker 4: a bunch of it'so much to bes because he could

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Speaker 4: just be busy or I don't know, I feel like

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Speaker 4: something else is going on, Like we had such a

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Speaker 4: great date. We had like fire, it was amazing. So

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Speaker 4: like the fact that he won't like meet up for

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Speaker 4: another happy hour right across the street from our office.

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Speaker 1: Is just doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 3: Well, let's talk about the date.

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Speaker 2: What part was let's hear about the fire.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean, like, I don't know, we had a

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Speaker 4: really good time, Like our date was like amazing, but

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Speaker 4: like we were like touching and kissing, like we shared

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Speaker 4: appetizers and like, I don't know. Then we went back

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Speaker 4: to his house and we hooked up.

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Speaker 1: I had to go, like I had to sneak out

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Speaker 1: in the middle of.

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Speaker 4: The night because I had a early work day the

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Speaker 4: next day. But I don't know, I just thought that

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Speaker 4: since it was so hot, and really I didn't see

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Speaker 4: anything that went wrong. I just don't understand, like why

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Speaker 4: he can't even like I.

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Speaker 1: Mean if our coffee in the lobby, Like what in the.

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Speaker 2: Heck right now? It feels like you're a little eager.

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Speaker 5: Have you expressed that eagerness at any point after so

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Speaker 5: you guys hooked up?

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, yeah, but like okay, so I might have

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Speaker 4: like hicked something when I left his house that may

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Speaker 4: have upset him.

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Speaker 3: Like I took something.

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Speaker 1: And when I was leaving, Yeah, I might have kicked

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Speaker 1: something like my shoe.

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Speaker 4: Well there was like kitty litter on my shoe and

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Speaker 4: I was leaving his house, so I was like, oh no,

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Speaker 4: maybe I kicked over his cat's litter box and maybe Dad,

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Speaker 4: is that why.

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Speaker 1: He's not talking to me? I mean, I might be pissed.

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Speaker 2: So did you leave a mess behind you? Is that

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Speaker 2: what you're saying?

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Speaker 1: It was dark, it was early, I didn't see it.

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Speaker 1: I might have met I don't even know if the

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Speaker 1: cat was in there.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, that's not funny.

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Speaker 5: Did you address the potential mess that you left? Did

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Speaker 5: you say sorry, I think I kicked something on my

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Speaker 5: way out or anything like that.

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Speaker 1: I want to explain myself, but like, I'm just not

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Speaker 1: he won't meet up with me, so he's just being cold.

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Speaker 1: And after hooking up and after the way everything went,

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Speaker 1: and then if I made a mess of his apartment,

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Speaker 1: and if that's why he doesn't want to see me again,

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Speaker 1: just tell me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that doesn't feel good, right, yeah, especially after hurking

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Speaker 5: up with somebody. They do owe you a little something

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Speaker 5: that doesn't feel good.

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Speaker 1: You have any family obligations to have I don't even

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Speaker 1: understand how many could be possible.

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Speaker 3: It'll be oh, okay, well we'll play a song, come back,

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Speaker 3: and then call him and see if you tell us

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Speaker 3: why he's ghosting you, and maybe get to another date

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Speaker 3: if you still want one. Okay, okay, thank you, all right,

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Speaker 3: we'll play a song, come back and get your first

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Speaker 3: day follow up next. Natasha is on the phone today

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Speaker 3: for a first date follow up. She's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 3: a dude named Mason. So in a second, we're gonna

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Speaker 3: call him, see if you tell us why he's ghosting

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Speaker 3: her in maybe get her another date. But real quick, Natasha,

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Speaker 3: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation?

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Speaker 4: Basically we work in the same building. We didn't realize

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Speaker 1: For so long, and then we met and we had

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Speaker 1: she hung out and we hooked up. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I maybe kicked over his catbox and now he hang

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Speaker 1: out with me. All right?

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Speaker 3: Do you think it might be because he kicked over

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Speaker 3: the litter box on accident? All right, well, we'll see

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Speaker 3: if we can figure it out. Here we go. Are

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Speaker 3: you ready?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Okay, Hi, I'm asking to Mason. Please, Mason, how are

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Speaker 3: you good?

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 6: Who's this?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Thank you for asking Mason. My name is Jubel

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Speaker 3: and I host a radio show. It's called the jewbel

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Speaker 3: show him Mason, the whole shows here. I'm Nina, Hi,

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Speaker 3: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: Hey guys, I've heard you guys. I heard you guys later.

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Speaker 6: I heard you guys earlier.

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Speaker 3: Oh win, Oh thank you. That's cool. We're just calling

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Speaker 3: to say thank you. We were watching you. Listen. We're

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Speaker 3: actually calling you because we got an email about you, Mason, okay,

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Speaker 3: from somebody who you went on a date with, but

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Speaker 3: now you're ghosting. This is a first date follow up.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, all right, so what the what are the accusations?

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Speaker 3: Any idea, any idea of who would email us?

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Speaker 6: Natasha.

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Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure you're correct, Mason. Natasha, what happened? She

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Speaker 3: wants to know why you're ghostinger. She said she really

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Speaker 3: liked you, but now you are talking.

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Speaker 8: About okay, So all right, well this is okay if

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Speaker 8: she wants to hear it on the radio. So we obviously,

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Speaker 8: like she told you, guys, kind of.

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Speaker 1: The basic what happened.

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Speaker 6: We we met and we.

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Speaker 9: Went off for drinks, and then she might she might

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Speaker 9: have spent the night, okay, cool, and then so thanks,

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Speaker 9: you were drinking and I'm a light sleeper.

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Speaker 8: She spent the night and I kept on waking up

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Speaker 8: because she kept on farting, and and it's.

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Speaker 6: Fine, there's nothing wrong with farts. But it's just a

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Speaker 6: little bit like maybe I guess.

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Speaker 7: Too soon for fart, if that makes sense, Like I

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Speaker 7: just you know, I just kind of met her and

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Speaker 7: I'm already hearing her fart.

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Speaker 2: You exactly. You can't really control your body too soon.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, so, which is fine because I'm sure, like you

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Speaker 7: know who doesn't fart. So but I was just a

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Speaker 7: little bit much for me. It kind of gave me

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Speaker 7: an eck. But there's nothing, there's no bad thing. I

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Speaker 7: should just honestly, I should have just got back here.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't like why you guys were like, well stuff

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Speaker 3: is it?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 6: I mean, I I was sleeping. Who knows what she was,

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Speaker 6: but I haven't a murphy. It was just it was just.

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Speaker 5: Sleep, OKAYT Like I could I could see like if

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Speaker 5: she was doing it on purpose or like blatantly in

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Speaker 2: But like if you're sleeping, you can't really control it's happening, right,

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 6: That's why it's an embarrassing ick. I guess. I mean,

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Speaker 6: I I just again, like it's maybe if I just

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Speaker 7: For it's like a dating and thing because I've you know,

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Speaker 7: something wrong with that when you're dating someone.

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Speaker 3: But I always get nervous about that, falling asleep next

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Speaker 3: fart or not, that's.

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Speaker 2: How you get nervous.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, what if you were in his position? I'm

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Speaker 5: just curious, like how other people would handle that, Like

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Speaker 5: if you were she was sleep farting, I think that's

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Speaker 5: that'd be cute unless they were like real bad ones.

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Speaker 3: That's cute. She doesn't even know she's farting. She's embarrassed

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Speaker 2: Are you crying right now?

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Speaker 3: I'm just laughing.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry. Well, thank you for telling us the truth. Mason.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel about I'm a light sleeper.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 3: Sure, Mason, I don't know if you remember or not.

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Speaker 3: But when we do the first date follow ups, the

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Speaker 3: other person is on the phone. So Natasha's on the

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Speaker 3: phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 6: All right, you heard all that?

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Speaker 1: Hey? Sorry, yeah, no, no, it's cool. Maybe you know

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Speaker 1: you were definitely farting. Also for dinner, we.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, I was walking a lot. I probably don't

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Speaker 6: want to air my stomach. Maybe I didn't.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I remember.

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Speaker 6: I don't know who was farting, but there was farting dude, so.

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Speaker 4: Something when when I too, it's cute and you it

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Speaker 4: just seems uncomfortable around you, so you.

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Speaker 1: Know, sorry, but I don't know. You were totally farting

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Speaker 1: more than I was, and I feel so much better now.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well, I'm glad we're on the same page, part

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Speaker 6: I'm glad we have the same Yeah, I'm glad I

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Speaker 6: heard you got to hear me fart because I felt

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Speaker 4: I thought I thought you didn't want to talk to

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Speaker 4: me anymore because I kicked.

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Speaker 6: Over your cat pox. Yeah, that was No, that happens

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Speaker 6: all the time.

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Speaker 1: That's that's fine.

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Speaker 3: That would be well now that you have both known

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Speaker 3: each other's fart so, I mean, yeah, Mason, would you

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Speaker 3: like to go on another date with Natasha? Will pay

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Speaker 3: for it?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: So I guess now that we both realize that we're

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Speaker 7: both nighttime tutors, uh night. I mean, I'm not I'm

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Speaker 7: not opposed to it, and I definitely feel bad about

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Speaker 7: ghosting and I shouldn't have done that.

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Speaker 6: And now that now it's just now it's this whole

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Speaker 6: thing is it's really funny.

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Speaker 3: So Natasha, congratulations another day.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you guys. That's awesome and speaks for apologizing.

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Speaker 1: I hated that feeling.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so definitely, yeah, definitely, and so please yeah, let's

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Speaker 6: go on the second date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's cut. And now it doesn't matter if you

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Speaker 3: guys fart.

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Speaker 2: No, no, maybe do things and turn each other on.

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Speaker 4: Rural.

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Speaker 6: I like that a hard part.

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Speaker 3: Reset Juble's first date follow up