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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becka Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing it.

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Speaker 3: Dong ding dong.

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Speaker 4: It's Christmas Eve, it is, it is, the house is client.

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Speaker 3: I'm sad why I know, like.

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Speaker 2: So that I have this thing where like on the

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Speaker 2: first day of Honkkah because we have the kids open

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Speaker 2: all like that, we let them choose this year. Do

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Speaker 2: you want to open all your gifts on the first

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Speaker 2: night of Hankah or do you want like some that

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Speaker 2: some tonight, some the other two days that we have

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Speaker 2: them for Hankkah. And they were like, no, we want

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Speaker 2: to do it all on that one day.

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Speaker 3: And I was like.

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Speaker 2: I'm so sad that it's already like the first day

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Speaker 2: of Honkah, because that means it's basically over the holidays.

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Speaker 2: Like I can't be present because I'm already sad that

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Speaker 2: it's like.

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Speaker 3: All almost over.

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Speaker 4: You can't live lifeline.

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Speaker 3: I know, it's horrible.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you have to. You have to allow yourself to

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Speaker 4: be present in the moment, otherwise you miss it, miss everything.

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Speaker 2: I know, maybe a little bit about myself vulnerability.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt vulnerable.

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Speaker 2: But it's true, like I'm already It's only Christmas Eve,

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Speaker 2: so we still have Christmas Eve, Christmas and New Year's Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and I'm already fearing the beginning of the New Year.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm already like it's gone.

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Speaker 3: I've begun my vacation or your vision board. Yeah, in this.

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Speaker 4: Head, let's let's lock in and be present. Yeah, present,

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Speaker 4: we're here. We're here on Christmas Eve with the scrubbers.

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Speaker 4: Where are you right now on Christmas Eve?

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Speaker 3: I'm in San Diego?

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Speaker 4: Oh nice? Yeah, yeah, sound excellent, great quality.

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Speaker 2: So we're spending Christmas, even Christmas in San Diego with

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Speaker 2: my parents and then my brother and his family. They're

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Speaker 2: doing like they want to do, like a quiet little

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Speaker 2: Christmas at home with their daughter. She's one, and it's

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Speaker 2: just like you. But I'm sure we're all going to

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Speaker 2: do stuff. It's like dinner together at some point, so fun. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: what are you doing Easton?

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Speaker 4: We are?

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Speaker 1: It all goes well. The earlier part of this week,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna be up in Idlewild, okay, and then we're

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Speaker 1: going to come back down. So we're at my house

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Speaker 1: right now in Minrovia. It's a great ris we're gonna

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Speaker 1: be there for Christmas Eve Chrismas Day, Okay, good Christmas house.

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Speaker 1: Then we'll go back up to the mountains for the

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Speaker 1: rest of the week. And uh yeah, so I'm at

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Speaker 1: home right now by a hot fire.

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Speaker 4: Do you mean if everything goes well according to being

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Speaker 4: able to drive because of the snow?

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Speaker 1: You know, Actually I hadn't taken snow into consideration until today.

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Speaker 1: It's some snow, but now you know, work is not

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Speaker 1: as light as I was expecting it to be around

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Speaker 1: this time of year, and some people might need my

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Speaker 1: presence in a little town called Brentwood, California, And I'm

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Speaker 1: hoping that's not the case.

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Speaker 3: So we'll see. What are you doing today?

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Speaker 4: If all goes according to plan, should be in Florida

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Speaker 4: with my parents and then Haley is coming to meet

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Speaker 4: me there to be with my family.

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Speaker 3: On Christmas Day on the day after Christmas.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So I am there with my parents and I

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Speaker 4: think my brother and my niece and nephew.

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Speaker 3: What day do you leave? What day did you leave?

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Speaker 4: Christmas Eve? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Today I'm on a flight actually, okay, okay, so you're

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Speaker 2: out there, and then when do you guys get back For.

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Speaker 4: Those of you who are not picking up, this is

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Speaker 4: a pre recorded episode. I'll know. Sometimes you got to clarify.

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Speaker 2: I'm officially off, Like I am like off. Put my

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Speaker 2: vacation days in for the week of the twenty second

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Speaker 2: and next week, so I'm like off the grid.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, you're not. You're here. Yeah. So it's gonna

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Speaker 4: just be a cozy holiday. We thought about maybe doing

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Speaker 3: So, are you going to be in Florida for New

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Speaker 4: No? No, no, I'll be I'll be here back in

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Speaker 4: La Okay for New Year's Are you going somewhere for

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Speaker 3: We're going to the Dominican Republic. Wow, whoa, Yeah, that's fun.

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Speaker 4: Is that random?

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Speaker 2: But two of my friends they were going and so

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Speaker 2: We're gonna take the kids and it'll be like.

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Speaker 4: So fun a New Year's celebration the dr in the

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Speaker 4: dr that's so fun. Yeah. Yeah, so that'll be great.

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Speaker 4: Did when you are in the spirit of the holidays,

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Speaker 4: are y'all in like a cozy mode? Or are you

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Speaker 4: in like a let's go and do things and be

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Speaker 2: So I love to just like I really just found

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Speaker 3: To, Like I just want to lay as much as possible.

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Speaker 2: And I like looking like a hobbit, like I like

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Speaker 2: not wearing makeup. But I did a lot of Christmasy

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Speaker 2: things and like holiday things leading up, Like we went

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Speaker 2: to like the boat parade, and I was trying I

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Speaker 2: So I failed myself in that.

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Speaker 4: But did you get all your shopping done already? Like

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Speaker 4: you're done? No? Oh okay, Yeah, I haven't done a

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Speaker 3: Single thing. We finish the kids and that's about the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm a little overwhelmed.

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Speaker 4: I'll get it done. I always do. This is no different.

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Speaker 4: I think I just feel two weeks in Japan, come

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Speaker 2: You know what, I bothers me though every year I

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Speaker 2: tell myself I'm gonna do better next year, Like.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna plan ahead.

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Speaker 2: It's at the end of September I'm gonna start thinking

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Speaker 2: about things. I'm gonna start getting things. I'm gonna start

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Speaker 2: wrapping things so that I don't feel this way because

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Speaker 2: I really want to just like not have to worry.

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Speaker 2: Like I really want to like unplug an unwind and

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Speaker 3: And I never do it every year. Same, it's annoying.

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Speaker 3: Why can't I do that for myself?

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Speaker 4: Do you exchange gifts? Do you and Robbie exchange gifts?

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Speaker 2: We typically do, And that's the plan this year. But

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I have no idea what to get.

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Speaker 3: Him, like truly no clue. I know he's a simple guy.

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Speaker 4: He is a simple He's so simple.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, what do I was thinking about getting some

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Speaker 3: Like it's like a man gift.

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Speaker 4: Well, I also we like readed our backyard and stuff,

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Speaker 4: and so I found this really cool heater like outdoor

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Speaker 4: there's no propaine or anything needed. And so I asked Haley.

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Speaker 4: I was like, this is something I'm excited about. She's like,

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Speaker 4: amazing that I will send it to you. It's incredible.

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Speaker 3: All the time I was frigid out in my backyard.

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Speaker 4: I'm likeazing, Well, what prompted it is that at Halloween

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Speaker 4: not being miserably cold. Yeah, so I'm really excited. No,

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Speaker 4: it's just a plug it. Yes, it's amazing. She was

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Speaker 3: Is worth it very Renting them is so expensive.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, even renting them, I will make up the money.

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Speaker 2: I know, when we were doing Thanksgiving, Robbie's like, we

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Speaker 4: For Valentine's Day? I'm gonna be asking you for another one.

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Speaker 4: So like you talk about getting stuff that's like a vacuum,

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Speaker 4: Could do it then also a cool piece of bracelet

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Speaker 4: or something. I don't know what is Robby, Like.

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Speaker 3: You've been really wanting new pillowcases, like every time.

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Speaker 4: Exciting. I love a new pillowcase. Get him a silk

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Speaker 3: I don't even think he wants the sill phone.

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Speaker 2: He just wants it because like we change our pillowcases

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Speaker 2: every night. We just have a ton of pillowcases.

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Speaker 4: But they have like, wow, every single night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because Sonny like gets on our pillows and.

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Speaker 4: That's insane. What but do you wash your sheets every day? No,

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Speaker 4: just the case, just winning the poop the sheets. But

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Speaker 4: he's changing his pillow case every night. Sure, that's crazy.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you this is not something that he

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Speaker 3: This is a Tanya thing. Okay, yeah, it's not like he.

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Speaker 4: How many pillow cases are you gonna need to that's

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Speaker 4: I gotta get a lot of pillowcases.

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Speaker 2: But our pillowcases have like they're like ripped. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I don't even know. These are from like when I

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Speaker 1: Got together and even like uniform pillow cases.

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Speaker 3: No wow, thrill.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we have the ones that like belong with the

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Speaker 4: I have collected my silk pillowcases, which are like they're expensive,

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Speaker 4: so I keep them, but every now and then I'll

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Speaker 4: order when I'm like I need fresh ones, I'll order

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Speaker 4: us fresh one. So now we have a little container

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Speaker 4: that just has our silk pillowcases. It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: Wow, you know I should get a silk pillow. Everybody

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Speaker 4: You should definitely have them one, I know for your

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Speaker 4: hair and extensions and everything. I know you should look

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Speaker 4: into that. I'll get to one. A monogram. You're in

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Speaker 4: on it, thank you so much. Yeah, so gifts her

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Speaker 4: You have all your to think about it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well,

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Speaker 3: Yes, Merry Christmas, everybody. We love you so much.

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