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Speaker 1: Second day? The guy on the phone for a second
Speaker 1: date update today asked the girl that he wants to
Speaker 1: call out in one of the most creative ways I've
Speaker 1: ever heard of. And that's saying a lot, because I've
Speaker 1: been pretty creative in my dating life. I remember one
Speaker 1: time I asked this girl out. I walked up to
Speaker 1: her and said, Hey, could I like to go out sometime?
Speaker 1: I'll give you full tongue. She said no, and we
Speaker 1: didn't go out. But after looking back at all my
Speaker 1: years of dating, that was the most creative thing I've
Speaker 1: ever done. And this guy outdid me by far, which
Speaker 1: is impressive. Congratulations Lucas, Oh, thanks wet Man. Thanks for
Speaker 1: having me on. Guys, no problem. I read your email
Speaker 1: and it was very creative how you asked this girl out?
Speaker 1: First of all, what's her name? Gemma? Gemma? All right,
Speaker 1: why don't you tell us a little bit about Gemma. Well,
Speaker 1: she's really cute. We've worked together. We do a catering
Speaker 1: job and like I always wanted to ask her out.
Speaker 1: It was I mean, it took me forever to actually
Speaker 1: like get the courage up to say anything to her.
Speaker 1: How long have you been thinking about this? Ah? Man,
Speaker 1: it's been at least eight months. Oh that's kind of cute.
Speaker 1: Would you like so much about her? She's one of
Speaker 1: those girls that's kind of like cute, but she doesn't
Speaker 1: know how cute she is, you know. Okay, So she's cute,
Speaker 1: very cute. Oh my gosh, she's so cute. That part
Speaker 1: what finally made you go, I'm going to ask her out.
Speaker 1: If you've been thinking about it for eight months? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's been eight months. I just basically looked
Speaker 1: myself in the mirror and I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: if I don't do it now, I'm never gonna do it. Okay. So,
Speaker 1: so did you actually do something creative or did you
Speaker 1: do something like Juble describe described? No? No, I think
Speaker 1: I did something pretty creative. Okay. So one night we
Speaker 1: were working together on this job and we had all
Speaker 1: the food set up, and it is right before the
Speaker 1: event starts, and I said to her, will you please
Speaker 1: look over there, because there's this one special order that
Speaker 1: I don't want to screw up, right, So she walks
Speaker 1: over there. My heart's something. She pulls up the lid
Speaker 1: of the dish and underneath I had written will you
Speaker 1: go out with me in spaghetti? That's creative. You asked
Speaker 1: a girl out in spaghetti. I've never heard of that before, right.
Speaker 1: What was her reaction? Well, I didn't know because I
Speaker 1: went in the other room and I started working these
Speaker 1: tables and stuff, and I'm thinking about it the whole time,
Speaker 1: and she doesn't say anything until the end of the night.
Speaker 1: We're cleaning up after everybody. She comes up to me
Speaker 1: and she's like, did you write will you go out
Speaker 1: with me? In spaghetti? And I was nervous because I
Speaker 1: thought that she didn't like it, But she says, did
Speaker 1: you really mean that? And I said yeah, So then
Speaker 1: we made plans to go out. Awesome. Okay, So so
Speaker 1: it did work. Yeah, the spaghetti ask out actually worked
Speaker 1: all right. So there's a lesson that a lot of
Speaker 1: dudes can learn out there. If you haven't all asking
Speaker 1: a girl out, use some spaghetti. Spaghetti ask out trick
Speaker 1: brought to us by Lucas. What did you guys do
Speaker 1: on your date when you actually went out. Well. The
Speaker 1: next night, we're catering a job and she was actually
Speaker 1: talking to me a lot, getting a little bit flirty,
Speaker 1: giving me the eyes, you know. Okay, so she's excited
Speaker 1: obviously about this date. Yeah, things are going great. And
Speaker 1: then after we're cleaning up, she said, you know, you
Speaker 1: want to do something and I was like, of course,
Speaker 1: you're like, yeah, didn't you read my spaghetti letter. I'm
Speaker 1: telling you guys, people underrate the spaghetti. Did you guys
Speaker 1: hang out that night? Yeah? Yeah. So we finished up
Speaker 1: the job, take her out to my car. It's like, well,
Speaker 1: why don't you come back to my place. I'll make
Speaker 1: you some food, we'll have some wine, do that kind
Speaker 1: of thing. And she agreed. So we drive over to
Speaker 1: my place and I actually made her can you guess spaghetti?
Speaker 1: All right? Now, it's getting a little know when the
Speaker 1: jokers should end. She really liked it though, Okay, good
Speaker 1: and it was good wine was it was from the
Speaker 1: catering company listening in. So you mean you stole the wine?
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying? I mean I borrowed stole
Speaker 1: Who's keeping right? Okay, So you guys shared spaghetti and
Speaker 1: some stolen wine from your job. Yeah, I guess you
Speaker 1: could say that you know that she knows that you
Speaker 1: stolen it from the catering company, right, I mean she
Speaker 1: worked for the same company. It's not a mystery where
Speaker 1: the nice bottle of wine came from. Yeah, sure she
Speaker 1: knew where it was from. But it's cool. We all
Speaker 1: do it. It's one of the perks of the job.
Speaker 1: Was it also left over spaghetti that you were serving
Speaker 1: her from the catering No, no, I made the spaghetti
Speaker 1: that night. Okay, fresh spaghetti, old wine. Got it. So
Speaker 1: how did the date go though? When you guys were
Speaker 1: actually having dinner and stuff? We actually didn't even get
Speaker 1: to dinner because things started heating up, um, you know,
Speaker 1: making out a little bit wow right away. Yeah, But
Speaker 1: then a little bit into things, she started getting a
Speaker 1: little weird. How so well, she just kind of pu
Speaker 1: old back and instead of being a little bit distant,
Speaker 1: and she said that she thought we were going too fast.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what, oh, maybe that's not weird.
Speaker 1: Maybe she just thought you were going too fast. I
Speaker 1: don't I've never had a girl and tell me to
Speaker 1: slow down before. And then she just says to me,
Speaker 1: you know what, I don't know if it's best that
Speaker 1: I stay. Whoa wow, okay, and that hit me like
Speaker 1: a ton of bricks. Did you cry? No? I didn't cry,
Speaker 1: but you know I was upset. I wanted to go
Speaker 1: over to the Spaghettian, right. No, please, I think that's
Speaker 1: the way you should have just communicated with her. The
Speaker 1: whole time was via spaghetti noodle. So did she leave
Speaker 1: right after that? Then? Yeah? We work at the same place.
Speaker 1: We do all these same jobs together, and it's been
Speaker 1: incredibly weird. That's this weird vibe going on, and I
Speaker 1: don't know how to I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1: I feel I actually feel bad for you. Like eight
Speaker 1: months you're building this night up in your head. It's
Speaker 1: finally going exactly how you hadmagined it too, and then
Speaker 1: everything is apparently fallen apart. Thank you. Have you tried
Speaker 1: to talk to her about this? I've tried. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, I try and talk to her at the job.
Speaker 1: She just walks into the next room. I'm texting her,
Speaker 1: I'm calling her, and she never responds to anything. And
Speaker 1: you were respectful when she said she wanted to slow down.
Speaker 1: He said, yeah, that's fine, that's cool. We can do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I was totally cool with that. I thought, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe we are taking things too fast. All right, well
Speaker 1: we'll play a song, come back, call her and get
Speaker 1: your second date update. Okay, all right, thankfully you guys. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: hang on frooking Jubil in the morning, seate if you're
Speaker 1: just joining us for today's second date update. Lucas is
Speaker 1: on the phone and he wants to call a girl
Speaker 1: named Jemma today. They actually started making out twenty minutes
Speaker 1: in to their first date. Yeah, get it. But now
Speaker 1: she's not calling him back and he doesn't know why,
Speaker 1: and he asked her out in one of the most
Speaker 1: creative ways I've ever heard. He asked her out with
Speaker 1: a plate of pasta. Yea. They both work at a
Speaker 1: catering company and one night when they were working together,
Speaker 1: he spelled out, will you go out with me in spaghetti?
Speaker 1: And she eventually said yes. But now, like I said,
Speaker 1: she's not answering any of his phone calls and she's
Speaker 1: kind of ignoring him at work. Lucas, what I think
Speaker 1: you need to do is go beyond words. Now at
Speaker 1: this point, what do you mean by that? Well, the
Speaker 1: pasta thing works so good for you, right, you got
Speaker 1: a date. Yeah, I think you should do it again,
Speaker 1: but this time, don't spell anything out. Just get a
Speaker 1: hot dog and a bun and maybe a couple of
Speaker 1: meatballs and place them all appropriately on a plate and
Speaker 1: show that to her and she might be down to
Speaker 1: go out with you again after that. You know, I
Speaker 1: should have called you before the first I got all
Speaker 1: the tricks, man, I got all the tricks. Especially said
Speaker 1: she said that she thought that they were moving too fast.
Speaker 1: That's not too fast at all to bowl. We'll call
Speaker 1: her right now and see if we can figure out
Speaker 1: why she's not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, May I speak to Gemma? Please?
Speaker 1: This is she? Hey, Gemma, how are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from brook and Jewil in the morning. Okay, you're
Speaker 1: working catering, so I'm guessing you're not up early in
Speaker 1: the morning. Well, how do you know that I work
Speaker 1: in catering. I kind of know a lot more than
Speaker 1: you think I know about your gema? Why do you
Speaker 1: why do you do it like that? Okay, that's super creepy.
Speaker 1: And who are those people that are in the background.
Speaker 1: That's broke? Why is that weird guy? Laughing. That's Jose
Speaker 1: the laughing guy. And then there's me. My name is Jewbil,
Speaker 1: and this is Brooke and Jewil in the morning. It's
Speaker 1: a radio show. Why are you guys calling me? She's like, ant,
Speaker 1: that doesn't make it any better. I'm calling you because
Speaker 1: you went out on a date with a guy who
Speaker 1: listens to our show, and he emailed us and asked
Speaker 1: if we could get you on the phone. Wow. Okay.
Speaker 1: The guy that wanted us to call you today, his
Speaker 1: name is Lucas. Oh god, and I know you know
Speaker 1: who Lucas is because you guys work together. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to change jobs. You're trying to change jobs to
Speaker 1: avoid Lucas. Yeah, that is really intense. Why because it's
Speaker 1: just a little too awkward for me? All right, Well,
Speaker 1: what is so awkward? I mean, he told us a
Speaker 1: little bit about your date. He told us that you
Speaker 1: guys went out one night after work and went back
Speaker 1: to his place to eat, and you drank a little bit.
Speaker 1: He told us that you guys started making out a
Speaker 1: certain point. He's telling you that we made out. Why
Speaker 1: is he telling people about our date so explicitly? Didn't well,
Speaker 1: he didn't give us any like crazy details. He just
Speaker 1: said that you guys are making out. At a certain point,
Speaker 1: you stopped and said that you wanted to go, and
Speaker 1: then you left and haven't talked to him since. I
Speaker 1: will say he was completely respectful of you. And he
Speaker 1: was so excited. I mean, it sounds like he's had
Speaker 1: a crush on you for months and months and was
Speaker 1: so looking forward to this night. Well so uncomfortable. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I just yes, he was obviously very excited
Speaker 1: and very inexperiencedence was he a bad kisser or I'm
Speaker 1: kind of scared to ask you what you mean by
Speaker 1: he was so excited. It's actually just everything everything possible.
Speaker 1: Just seemed like he's never been with a woman before,
Speaker 1: ever in his life. And I the date started with
Speaker 1: me going at his door and he shook my hand
Speaker 1: when he saw me, he shook my I've known this
Speaker 1: guy for eight months and he shook my hand. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe he was being a little bit charming, maybe he's
Speaker 1: trying to be sweet. I'll let it fly. And then
Speaker 1: we walked in and he had like already opened wine
Speaker 1: that he even he was totally open about it. He
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I got it from catering gig. I mean,
Speaker 1: so he essentially stole wine, but it was already open
Speaker 1: from being poured at the catering event. So he's cutting
Speaker 1: corners on your date. Yeah, yeah, I mean, this is
Speaker 1: a first date and he wanted to impress me, and
Speaker 1: he impressed me. I opened aired out used wine, but
Speaker 1: you're still made out with them? Well, because I thought, okay, well,
Speaker 1: maybe he's being really sweet, intertmin that he's really nervous.
Speaker 1: So then she started to ask me permission to do everything.
Speaker 1: And when I say everything, I mean she was like,
Speaker 1: is it okay if I sit next to you? Yes?
Speaker 1: Is it okay? If I touch your hands like like this?
Speaker 1: Can I just put my hand on your hands? Everything?
Speaker 1: So imagine like can I kiss you right now? Can
Speaker 1: I kiss you with tongue right now? Thought? Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: I've never no, no, no, so awkward. I've heard people
Speaker 1: do they can I kiss you? Thing? And I know
Speaker 1: some girls have a split reaction that some girls like
Speaker 1: just go for it. Some girls are like I like
Speaker 1: it when they ask did he really ask you? Can
Speaker 1: I kiss you with tongue? Yes? Oh my god? Can
Speaker 1: I use my tongue? Did you can I use my tongue.
Speaker 1: Was that the final question that made you stop saying yes?
Speaker 1: The final question which was the total total? I mean,
Speaker 1: it should have been can I kiss you with Tom?
Speaker 1: But it was, um, can I Can I grab your boobs?
Speaker 1: Grab your boobs? Can I grab your boobs? Not like
Speaker 1: let me see them? Let me see them? But you know,
Speaker 1: not nothing like cool? Dirty? It was like can I
Speaker 1: grab your boobs? Grab? And then I just had to
Speaker 1: dip out. I mean it was so terrible. I can
Speaker 1: understand how that would be awkward to ask everything the most.
Speaker 1: I also, can I ask you something? Sure? I just
Speaker 1: need your permission? Is it okay if I let you
Speaker 1: know that he? Is it okay if I let you
Speaker 1: know that he's on the other line listening right now
Speaker 1: and wants to talk to you. Are you seeing me
Speaker 1: right now? No, I'm not, Lucas. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: didn't ask you permission to do every single little thing.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're going a little overboard here. Really listen,
Speaker 1: you don't want to die, and you know I want
Speaker 1: to make sure that you're okay with things. No, Lucas,
Speaker 1: if you were to ask me one time, can I
Speaker 1: kiss you right now? That can be still sexy, but
Speaker 1: it's not sexy when you ask about everything. I mean,
Speaker 1: you were asking about sitting next to me, holding my hand,
Speaker 1: topics of conversation. I was always trying to take it slow.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to put you off or make you
Speaker 1: feel uncomfortable or anything. If there's anything that we get
Speaker 1: from this really inappropriate and awkward phone call right now
Speaker 1: on a radio shows, it's that you should never ever
Speaker 1: do that again. How do I know if it's okay
Speaker 1: to's if you're boob If I don't ask you, I
Speaker 1: can't even believe you're asking me that question. No man
Speaker 1: has to ask that question. Stop dogging on Lucas so much.
Speaker 1: He's trying to be respectful of you, Gemma, thank you
Speaker 1: for trying. I get that he's trying to be respectful,
Speaker 1: but at a certain point he needs to pick up
Speaker 1: on the queue that it's just not working. Yeah. Hey,
Speaker 1: if I remember correctly from that night, you were saying
Speaker 1: yes to a lot of things. Good point. I only
Speaker 1: said yes because I had already consumed nearly that entire
Speaker 1: bottle of the open air do out wine that you
Speaker 1: stole from the catering company, and I was too lit.
Speaker 1: Oh and that's a responsible way to behave on a
Speaker 1: first date. I'm saying that I was trying to be responsible.
Speaker 1: That's not that's not my problem. I'm not the one
Speaker 1: calling into a radio show, Jemma. He could have at
Speaker 1: least return my calls. No, it would have been too awkward.
Speaker 1: I wasn't prepared to talk to you, Jemma. He liked
Speaker 1: you for eight months. You're telling me the entire time
Speaker 1: that you guys worked together, you didn't have any feelings
Speaker 1: towards him, and you have a wonderful personality or suite.
Speaker 1: But as soon as you were alone with me, it
Speaker 1: was like the worst date I've ever missed. Oh, that
Speaker 1: is harsh man. He didn't do anything wrong. He It's
Speaker 1: just awkward for God's sake. But imagine, like like a
Speaker 1: woman's spark is lit by somebody being manly. At least
Speaker 1: that's how mine is, And as soon as somebody starts
Speaker 1: acting like a twelve year old, I can't do it.
Speaker 1: You know what you like? I guess I wish I
Speaker 1: never grabbed your boob on that date. I wish you
Speaker 1: would just asked it. I wish you'd just grabbed it. Yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: I think we have a little different memory of that
Speaker 1: night because you were pretty turned on when I was
Speaker 1: doing it. Oh, I think we definitely have a different memory. Well, Jemma,
Speaker 1: I would like to ask you a question. Oh God, Gemma,
Speaker 1: is it okay if I ask you if you go
Speaker 1: out on a second date with Lucas because we will
Speaker 1: pay for it? You know what. No, I gotta say no.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. You know, Lucas, I wish you all
Speaker 1: of the best. I really really do. I think you're
Speaker 1: very sweet. My recommendation for you is that you never
Speaker 1: just do not ask questions like that again. Just go
Speaker 1: ahead and go for it, find that self confidence within
Speaker 1: yourself and move you sound like a motivational speaker. It's awesome. Listen,
Speaker 1: there are plenty of girls who want me. All right.
Speaker 1: I don't need you. I don't need anything like that,
Speaker 1: So you don't have a great one. You're right, Lucas,
Speaker 1: there are plenty of girls out there who want you.
Speaker 1: Just ask them. I'm sure they're out there in the morning.
Speaker 1: Sexton at seventy five nine two says, I don't blame
Speaker 1: that dude. He was just trying to not be hashtag
Speaker 1: me too. Maybe went a little overboard. If so, if
Speaker 1: you missed it, I'm talking about today's second date update
Speaker 1: is dude Lucas wanted to call a girl named Jemma.
Speaker 1: They went out on a date and everything was going fine.
Speaker 1: They even made out like twenty minutes into it, but
Speaker 1: we called Jima to find out why she wasn't giving
Speaker 1: Lucas a call back, and apparently during their date, he
Speaker 1: kept asking permission to do everything. Can I sit next
Speaker 1: to you, kind of put my hand on your hand,
Speaker 1: Can I kiss you? Can I kiss you with tongue?
Speaker 1: Everything he was asking permission for. Yeah, and he said
Speaker 1: he was just trying to be respectful. Yeah. I like
Speaker 1: his style. Dude consent sexy man totally, but it's not
Speaker 1: for everything. Yeah, sometimes you know girls like he take charge,
Speaker 1: give me a kiss, cool folb in the door for you,
Speaker 1: for both of us. Anyway, she said that she wasn't
Speaker 1: into it and it completely killed the mood and no
Speaker 1: second date. They're not going out again. Remember, if you
Speaker 1: want to do a second date, up date, I have
Speaker 1: to do an email the show and we will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back. When five