WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Want my Spaghetti Noodle

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<v Speaker 1>Second day? The guy on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update today asked the girl that he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call out in one of the most creative ways I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard of. And that's saying a lot, because I've

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<v Speaker 1>been pretty creative in my dating life. I remember one

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<v Speaker 1>time I asked this girl out. I walked up to

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<v Speaker 1>her and said, Hey, could I like to go out sometime?

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<v Speaker 1>I'll give you full tongue. She said no, and we

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go out. But after looking back at all my

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<v Speaker 1>years of dating, that was the most creative thing I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever done. And this guy outdid me by far, which

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<v Speaker 1>is impressive. Congratulations Lucas, Oh, thanks wet Man. Thanks for

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<v Speaker 1>having me on. Guys, no problem. I read your email

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<v Speaker 1>and it was very creative how you asked this girl out?

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, what's her name? Gemma? Gemma? All right,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you tell us a little bit about Gemma. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she's really cute. We've worked together. We do a catering

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<v Speaker 1>job and like I always wanted to ask her out.

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<v Speaker 1>It was I mean, it took me forever to actually

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<v Speaker 1>like get the courage up to say anything to her.

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<v Speaker 1>How long have you been thinking about this? Ah? Man,

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<v Speaker 1>it's been at least eight months. Oh that's kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like so much about her? She's one of

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<v Speaker 1>those girls that's kind of like cute, but she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how cute she is, you know. Okay, So she's cute,

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<v Speaker 1>very cute. Oh my gosh, she's so cute. That part

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<v Speaker 1>what finally made you go, I'm going to ask her out.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've been thinking about it for eight months? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it's been eight months. I just basically looked

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<v Speaker 1>myself in the mirror and I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if I don't do it now, I'm never gonna do it. Okay. So,

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<v Speaker 1>so did you actually do something creative or did you

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<v Speaker 1>do something like Juble describe described? No? No, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I did something pretty creative. Okay. So one night we

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<v Speaker 1>were working together on this job and we had all

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<v Speaker 1>the food set up, and it is right before the

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<v Speaker 1>event starts, and I said to her, will you please

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<v Speaker 1>look over there, because there's this one special order that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to screw up, right, So she walks

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<v Speaker 1>over there. My heart's something. She pulls up the lid

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<v Speaker 1>of the dish and underneath I had written will you

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<v Speaker 1>go out with me in spaghetti? That's creative. You asked

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<v Speaker 1>a girl out in spaghetti. I've never heard of that before, right.

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<v Speaker 1>What was her reaction? Well, I didn't know because I

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<v Speaker 1>went in the other room and I started working these

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<v Speaker 1>tables and stuff, and I'm thinking about it the whole time,

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<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't say anything until the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 1>We're cleaning up after everybody. She comes up to me

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like, did you write will you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with me? In spaghetti? And I was nervous because I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that she didn't like it, But she says, did

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<v Speaker 1>you really mean that? And I said yeah, So then

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<v Speaker 1>we made plans to go out. Awesome. Okay, So so

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<v Speaker 1>it did work. Yeah, the spaghetti ask out actually worked

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<v Speaker 1>all right. So there's a lesson that a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>dudes can learn out there. If you haven't all asking

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<v Speaker 1>a girl out, use some spaghetti. Spaghetti ask out trick

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<v Speaker 1>brought to us by Lucas. What did you guys do

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<v Speaker 1>on your date when you actually went out. Well. The

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<v Speaker 1>next night, we're catering a job and she was actually

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me a lot, getting a little bit flirty,

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<v Speaker 1>giving me the eyes, you know. Okay, so she's excited

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<v Speaker 1>obviously about this date. Yeah, things are going great. And

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<v Speaker 1>then after we're cleaning up, she said, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do something and I was like, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>you're like, yeah, didn't you read my spaghetti letter. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you guys, people underrate the spaghetti. Did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>hang out that night? Yeah? Yeah. So we finished up

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<v Speaker 1>the job, take her out to my car. It's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you come back to my place. I'll make

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<v Speaker 1>you some food, we'll have some wine, do that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing. And she agreed. So we drive over to

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<v Speaker 1>my place and I actually made her can you guess spaghetti?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? Now, it's getting a little know when the

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<v Speaker 1>jokers should end. She really liked it though, Okay, good

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<v Speaker 1>and it was good wine was it was from the

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<v Speaker 1>catering company listening in. So you mean you stole the wine?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what you're saying? I mean I borrowed stole

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<v Speaker 1>Who's keeping right? Okay, So you guys shared spaghetti and

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<v Speaker 1>some stolen wine from your job. Yeah, I guess you

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<v Speaker 1>could say that you know that she knows that you

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<v Speaker 1>stolen it from the catering company, right, I mean she

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<v Speaker 1>worked for the same company. It's not a mystery where

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<v Speaker 1>the nice bottle of wine came from. Yeah, sure she

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<v Speaker 1>knew where it was from. But it's cool. We all

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<v Speaker 1>do it. It's one of the perks of the job.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it also left over spaghetti that you were serving

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<v Speaker 1>her from the catering No, no, I made the spaghetti

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<v Speaker 1>that night. Okay, fresh spaghetti, old wine. Got it. So

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<v Speaker 1>how did the date go though? When you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>actually having dinner and stuff? We actually didn't even get

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<v Speaker 1>to dinner because things started heating up, um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>making out a little bit wow right away. Yeah, But

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<v Speaker 1>then a little bit into things, she started getting a

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<v Speaker 1>little weird. How so well, she just kind of pu

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<v Speaker 1>old back and instead of being a little bit distant,

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<v Speaker 1>and she said that she thought we were going too fast.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, what, oh, maybe that's not weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she just thought you were going too fast. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't I've never had a girl and tell me to

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<v Speaker 1>slow down before. And then she just says to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I don't know if it's best that

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<v Speaker 1>I stay. Whoa wow, okay, and that hit me like

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<v Speaker 1>a ton of bricks. Did you cry? No? I didn't cry,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know I was upset. I wanted to go

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<v Speaker 1>over to the Spaghettian, right. No, please, I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>the way you should have just communicated with her. The

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<v Speaker 1>whole time was via spaghetti noodle. So did she leave

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<v Speaker 1>right after that? Then? Yeah? We work at the same place.

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<v Speaker 1>We do all these same jobs together, and it's been

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<v Speaker 1>incredibly weird. That's this weird vibe going on, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know how to I don't know what to do.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel I actually feel bad for you. Like eight

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<v Speaker 1>months you're building this night up in your head. It's

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<v Speaker 1>finally going exactly how you hadmagined it too, and then

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<v Speaker 1>everything is apparently fallen apart. Thank you. Have you tried

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to her about this? I've tried. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I try and talk to her at the job.

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<v Speaker 1>She just walks into the next room. I'm texting her,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm calling her, and she never responds to anything. And

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<v Speaker 1>you were respectful when she said she wanted to slow down.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, yeah, that's fine, that's cool. We can do that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was totally cool with that. I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe we are taking things too fast. All right, well

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<v Speaker 1>we'll play a song, come back, call her and get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date update. Okay, all right, thankfully you guys. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>hang on frooking Jubil in the morning, seate if you're

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<v Speaker 1>just joining us for today's second date update. Lucas is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and he wants to call a girl

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<v Speaker 1>named Jemma today. They actually started making out twenty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>in to their first date. Yeah, get it. But now

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<v Speaker 1>she's not calling him back and he doesn't know why,

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<v Speaker 1>and he asked her out in one of the most

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<v Speaker 1>creative ways I've ever heard. He asked her out with

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<v Speaker 1>a plate of pasta. Yea. They both work at a

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<v Speaker 1>catering company and one night when they were working together,

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<v Speaker 1>he spelled out, will you go out with me in spaghetti?

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<v Speaker 1>And she eventually said yes. But now, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not answering any of his phone calls and she's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of ignoring him at work. Lucas, what I think

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<v Speaker 1>you need to do is go beyond words. Now at

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<v Speaker 1>this point, what do you mean by that? Well, the

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<v Speaker 1>pasta thing works so good for you, right, you got

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Yeah, I think you should do it again,

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<v Speaker 1>but this time, don't spell anything out. Just get a

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<v Speaker 1>hot dog and a bun and maybe a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>meatballs and place them all appropriately on a plate and

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<v Speaker 1>show that to her and she might be down to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with you again after that. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>should have called you before the first I got all

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<v Speaker 1>the tricks, man, I got all the tricks. Especially said

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<v Speaker 1>she said that she thought that they were moving too fast.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not too fast at all to bowl. We'll call

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<v Speaker 1>her right now and see if we can figure out

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<v Speaker 1>why she's not calling you back. Okay, okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, May I speak to Gemma? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she? Hey, Gemma, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from brook and Jewil in the morning. Okay, you're

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<v Speaker 1>working catering, so I'm guessing you're not up early in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. Well, how do you know that I work

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<v Speaker 1>in catering. I kind of know a lot more than

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<v Speaker 1>you think I know about your gema? Why do you

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<v Speaker 1>why do you do it like that? Okay, that's super creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>And who are those people that are in the background.

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<v Speaker 1>That's broke? Why is that weird guy? Laughing. That's Jose

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<v Speaker 1>the laughing guy. And then there's me. My name is Jewbil,

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<v Speaker 1>and this is Brooke and Jewil in the morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. Why are you guys calling me? She's like, ant,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't make it any better. I'm calling you because

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<v Speaker 1>you went out on a date with a guy who

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<v Speaker 1>listens to our show, and he emailed us and asked

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<v Speaker 1>if we could get you on the phone. Wow. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The guy that wanted us to call you today, his

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<v Speaker 1>name is Lucas. Oh god, and I know you know

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<v Speaker 1>who Lucas is because you guys work together. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to change jobs. You're trying to change jobs to

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<v Speaker 1>avoid Lucas. Yeah, that is really intense. Why because it's

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<v Speaker 1>just a little too awkward for me? All right, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>what is so awkward? I mean, he told us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about your date. He told us that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went out one night after work and went back

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<v Speaker 1>to his place to eat, and you drank a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us that you guys started making out a

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<v Speaker 1>certain point. He's telling you that we made out. Why

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<v Speaker 1>is he telling people about our date so explicitly? Didn't well,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't give us any like crazy details. He just

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<v Speaker 1>said that you guys are making out. At a certain point,

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<v Speaker 1>you stopped and said that you wanted to go, and

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<v Speaker 1>then you left and haven't talked to him since. I

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<v Speaker 1>will say he was completely respectful of you. And he

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<v Speaker 1>was so excited. I mean, it sounds like he's had

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<v Speaker 1>a crush on you for months and months and was

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<v Speaker 1>so looking forward to this night. Well so uncomfortable. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I just yes, he was obviously very excited

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<v Speaker 1>and very inexperiencedence was he a bad kisser or I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of scared to ask you what you mean by

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<v Speaker 1>he was so excited. It's actually just everything everything possible.

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<v Speaker 1>Just seemed like he's never been with a woman before,

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<v Speaker 1>ever in his life. And I the date started with

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<v Speaker 1>me going at his door and he shook my hand

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<v Speaker 1>when he saw me, he shook my I've known this

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<v Speaker 1>guy for eight months and he shook my hand. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he was being a little bit charming, maybe he's

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be sweet. I'll let it fly. And then

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<v Speaker 1>we walked in and he had like already opened wine

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<v Speaker 1>that he even he was totally open about it. He

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, I got it from catering gig. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>so he essentially stole wine, but it was already open

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<v Speaker 1>from being poured at the catering event. So he's cutting

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<v Speaker 1>corners on your date. Yeah, yeah, I mean, this is

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<v Speaker 1>a first date and he wanted to impress me, and

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<v Speaker 1>he impressed me. I opened aired out used wine, but

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<v Speaker 1>you're still made out with them? Well, because I thought, okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's being really sweet, intertmin that he's really nervous.

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<v Speaker 1>So then she started to ask me permission to do everything.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I say everything, I mean she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>is it okay if I sit next to you? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it okay? If I touch your hands like like this?

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<v Speaker 1>Can I just put my hand on your hands? Everything?

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<v Speaker 1>So imagine like can I kiss you right now? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I kiss you with tongue right now? Thought? Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I've never no, no, no, so awkward. I've heard people

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<v Speaker 1>do they can I kiss you? Thing? And I know

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<v Speaker 1>some girls have a split reaction that some girls like

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<v Speaker 1>just go for it. Some girls are like I like

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<v Speaker 1>it when they ask did he really ask you? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I kiss you with tongue? Yes? Oh my god? Can

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<v Speaker 1>I use my tongue? Did you can I use my tongue.

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<v Speaker 1>Was that the final question that made you stop saying yes?

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<v Speaker 1>The final question which was the total total? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it should have been can I kiss you with Tom?

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<v Speaker 1>But it was, um, can I Can I grab your boobs?

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<v Speaker 1>Grab your boobs? Can I grab your boobs? Not like

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<v Speaker 1>let me see them? Let me see them? But you know,

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<v Speaker 1>not nothing like cool? Dirty? It was like can I

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<v Speaker 1>grab your boobs? Grab? And then I just had to

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<v Speaker 1>dip out. I mean it was so terrible. I can

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<v Speaker 1>understand how that would be awkward to ask everything the most.

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<v Speaker 1>I also, can I ask you something? Sure? I just

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<v Speaker 1>need your permission? Is it okay if I let you

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<v Speaker 1>know that he? Is it okay if I let you

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<v Speaker 1>know that he's on the other line listening right now

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<v Speaker 1>and wants to talk to you. Are you seeing me

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<v Speaker 1>right now? No, I'm not, Lucas. Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask you permission to do every single little thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're going a little overboard here. Really listen,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to die, and you know I want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that you're okay with things. No, Lucas,

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<v Speaker 1>if you were to ask me one time, can I

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<v Speaker 1>kiss you right now? That can be still sexy, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's not sexy when you ask about everything. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you were asking about sitting next to me, holding my hand,

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<v Speaker 1>topics of conversation. I was always trying to take it slow.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to put you off or make you

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<v Speaker 1>feel uncomfortable or anything. If there's anything that we get

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<v Speaker 1>from this really inappropriate and awkward phone call right now

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<v Speaker 1>on a radio shows, it's that you should never ever

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<v Speaker 1>do that again. How do I know if it's okay

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<v Speaker 1>to's if you're boob If I don't ask you, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't even believe you're asking me that question. No man

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<v Speaker 1>has to ask that question. Stop dogging on Lucas so much.

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<v Speaker 1>He's trying to be respectful of you, Gemma, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for trying. I get that he's trying to be respectful,

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<v Speaker 1>but at a certain point he needs to pick up

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<v Speaker 1>on the queue that it's just not working. Yeah. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>if I remember correctly from that night, you were saying

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<v Speaker 1>yes to a lot of things. Good point. I only

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<v Speaker 1>said yes because I had already consumed nearly that entire

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<v Speaker 1>bottle of the open air do out wine that you

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<v Speaker 1>stole from the catering company, and I was too lit.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh and that's a responsible way to behave on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. I'm saying that I was trying to be responsible.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not that's not my problem. I'm not the one

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<v Speaker 1>calling into a radio show, Jemma. He could have at

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<v Speaker 1>least return my calls. No, it would have been too awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't prepared to talk to you, Jemma. He liked

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<v Speaker 1>you for eight months. You're telling me the entire time

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<v Speaker 1>that you guys worked together, you didn't have any feelings

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<v Speaker 1>towards him, and you have a wonderful personality or suite.

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<v Speaker 1>But as soon as you were alone with me, it

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<v Speaker 1>was like the worst date I've ever missed. Oh, that

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<v Speaker 1>is harsh man. He didn't do anything wrong. He It's

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<v Speaker 1>just awkward for God's sake. But imagine, like like a

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<v Speaker 1>woman's spark is lit by somebody being manly. At least

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<v Speaker 1>that's how mine is, And as soon as somebody starts

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<v Speaker 1>acting like a twelve year old, I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what you like? I guess I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>never grabbed your boob on that date. I wish you

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<v Speaker 1>would just asked it. I wish you'd just grabbed it. Yeah, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we have a little different memory of that

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<v Speaker 1>night because you were pretty turned on when I was

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<v Speaker 1>doing it. Oh, I think we definitely have a different memory. Well, Jemma,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to ask you a question. Oh God, Gemma,

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<v Speaker 1>is it okay if I ask you if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a second date with Lucas because we will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it? You know what. No, I gotta say no.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. You know, Lucas, I wish you all

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<v Speaker 1>of the best. I really really do. I think you're

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<v Speaker 1>very sweet. My recommendation for you is that you never

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<v Speaker 1>just do not ask questions like that again. Just go

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and go for it, find that self confidence within

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<v Speaker 1>yourself and move you sound like a motivational speaker. It's awesome. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>there are plenty of girls who want me. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't need you. I don't need anything like that,

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<v Speaker 1>So you don't have a great one. You're right, Lucas,

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<v Speaker 1>there are plenty of girls out there who want you.

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<v Speaker 1>Just ask them. I'm sure they're out there in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Sexton at seventy five nine two says, I don't blame

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<v Speaker 1>that dude. He was just trying to not be hashtag

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<v Speaker 1>me too. Maybe went a little overboard. If so, if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed it, I'm talking about today's second date update

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<v Speaker 1>is dude Lucas wanted to call a girl named Jemma.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out on a date and everything was going fine.

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<v Speaker 1>They even made out like twenty minutes into it, but

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<v Speaker 1>we called Jima to find out why she wasn't giving

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<v Speaker 1>Lucas a call back, and apparently during their date, he

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<v Speaker 1>kept asking permission to do everything. Can I sit next

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<v Speaker 1>to you, kind of put my hand on your hand,

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<v Speaker 1>Can I kiss you? Can I kiss you with tongue?

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<v Speaker 1>Everything he was asking permission for. Yeah, and he said

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<v Speaker 1>he was just trying to be respectful. Yeah. I like

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<v Speaker 1>his style. Dude consent sexy man totally, but it's not

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<v Speaker 1>for everything. Yeah, sometimes you know girls like he take charge,

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<v Speaker 1>give me a kiss, cool folb in the door for you,

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<v Speaker 1>for both of us. Anyway, she said that she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>into it and it completely killed the mood and no

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<v Speaker 1>second date. They're not going out again. Remember, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second date, up date, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to do an email the show and we will call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back. When five