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Speaker 1: Second day? The guy on the phone for a second

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Speaker 1: date update today asked the girl that he wants to

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Speaker 1: call out in one of the most creative ways I've

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Speaker 1: I'll give you full tongue. She said no, and we

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Speaker 1: years of dating, that was the most creative thing I've

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Speaker 1: is impressive. Congratulations Lucas, Oh, thanks wet Man. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: having me on. Guys, no problem. I read your email

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Speaker 1: and it was very creative how you asked this girl out?

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Speaker 1: First of all, what's her name? Gemma? Gemma? All right,

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Speaker 1: why don't you tell us a little bit about Gemma. Well,

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Speaker 1: she's really cute. We've worked together. We do a catering

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Speaker 1: How long have you been thinking about this? Ah? Man,

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Speaker 1: it's been at least eight months. Oh that's kind of cute.

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Speaker 1: what finally made you go, I'm going to ask her out.

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Speaker 1: If you've been thinking about it for eight months? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't need you. I don't need anything like that,

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