WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Lift Your Spirits

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<v Speaker 1>Second data to day. Do traumatic experiences really bond people

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<v Speaker 1>closer together? I think they do. Yeah, I mean, which

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<v Speaker 1>is why I constantly try to traumatize our listeners every

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<v Speaker 1>single day's work. That way, they feel closer to us

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<v Speaker 1>and they keep on listening and become attached in an

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<v Speaker 1>almost unhealthy way. Yeah, that's my goal for the fans

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<v Speaker 1>of this show. Tratize out there because we love you.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of our listeners says she went through a

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<v Speaker 1>dramatic experience recently and I can't wait to hear what

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<v Speaker 1>that was. So Nicole, welcome to the show. And is

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<v Speaker 1>the dramatic experience listening to us in the morning? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that what you're talking about? No, that always frightens my day. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>we're not doing our jobs. Then, I just wanted you

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<v Speaker 1>to scream in response to Jeffrey. Just there there it is.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what we want. Yeah, you said it frightens your day, right,

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<v Speaker 1>not brighton? There you go. Yeah, that's it. That's okay. Perfect. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about the guy that you ended up

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<v Speaker 1>meeting during this traumatic experience. What happened totally? What happened? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it kind of feels cliche, like something from a sitcom.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. We actually got stuck in an elevator together,

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<v Speaker 1>like one of those parking garage elevators up to a business.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, it was up to a business because the

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<v Speaker 1>public ones kind of smell like you're in and the

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<v Speaker 1>elevator stopped by itself or did you hit like a

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<v Speaker 1>button to make it stop because you noticed he was cute?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no I did. I was no, no, no, it

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<v Speaker 1>just stopped on itself. We had like barely lifted off

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<v Speaker 1>the floor, and it just kind of quote, oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you feeling when that happened? You know, it

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<v Speaker 1>was not fun. I mean at first I was just like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little hiccup, but then it just stayed not moving.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, how long were you in there? It was

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<v Speaker 1>like close to forty minutes all told. Yeah, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I don't really consider myself claustrophobic, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>those parking garage elevators are pretty small. It was it

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<v Speaker 1>just you and him in the elevator. Were other people

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<v Speaker 1>in there too? No, it was just us too. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're like at least a hot gentleman, it could

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<v Speaker 1>be worth yeah, yeah, sorry, what was the guy's name

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<v Speaker 1>that you were stuck with. His name was Sean? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and how was Sean doing? Was he also pretty scared? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed really chill about it, super calm. Yeah. And

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<v Speaker 1>after a few minutes, I he just kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>introduced himself and was like, oh, you know, we just

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<v Speaker 1>now those happens there all the time. You just pushed

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<v Speaker 1>the call button and wait for help. That's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a weird thing to say to somebody. Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's quite possible he just said that to try to

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<v Speaker 1>make me feel better because he could see the panic

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<v Speaker 1>on my face. Yeah. Yeah, that's nice. Yeah. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so he seemed like a cool person too. Then. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and so he just started asking me about you know,

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<v Speaker 1>ah like where do you live and oh his family clothes,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me about your siblings, you know, just we just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of did he use the whole time? Totally? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>just like that that's a better idea than what I

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<v Speaker 1>had in my head, like where do you live your

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<v Speaker 1>family film? No, it sounds like he was being like

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<v Speaker 1>just trying to help you relax a little bit and

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<v Speaker 1>think about something besides the fact that you're stuck in

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<v Speaker 1>a multi Yeah, totally. Well, and you have a guy

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<v Speaker 1>who's like asking you questions, interested in learning about you too, like,

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<v Speaker 1>were you guys able to actually kind of hit it off? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>when the elevator finally did start moving, you know, as

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<v Speaker 1>we stepped out, he asked me for my phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh oh that's good, that's right. And we texted the

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<v Speaker 1>next couple of days, back and forth, you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>laughing about the situation. And did he ask you out finally? No,

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<v Speaker 1>he never actually did, but immmm, maybe I overstepped. I

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<v Speaker 1>did say, you know, we should go to a restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>sometime without an elevator, you know, that's fun. Yeah. What

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<v Speaker 1>what was his response? Just nothing? Just he's totally ghosted

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<v Speaker 1>me since then. Oh well, maybe he just didn't see

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<v Speaker 1>it the same way did you. I mean, did you

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<v Speaker 1>find out is he single? No? I didn't get any

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<v Speaker 1>like relationship details from him. I just assumed he was

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<v Speaker 1>single at the time because he asked for my number.

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<v Speaker 1>But looking back, you know, I wonder if maybe he

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<v Speaker 1>is in a relationship or even married, and maybe thought

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<v Speaker 1>he could, like I don't know, have a little thing

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<v Speaker 1>on the side. And then you had forty minutes to

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<v Speaker 1>check out and see if there was a ring, so

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<v Speaker 1>single minded focus on one the situation, and then two

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<v Speaker 1>just trying not to freak out. When most people go

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<v Speaker 1>into survival mode, they're not checking to see if they have,

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<v Speaker 1>like an engagement ring. I think, oh my god, we're married.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, we're gonna this is weird that

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<v Speaker 1>he hasn't talked to you. We're gonna play a song.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll come back. We'll call Sean for you. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>chance that he might actually be stuck in another elevator

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<v Speaker 1>because he says it happens to him all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he's been in there for a whole week. We're

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<v Speaker 1>going to be the heroes. But well, we'll find out

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<v Speaker 1>in just a minute when we do your second date

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<v Speaker 1>update right after this. Okay, okay, thanks. Hold on, one

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<v Speaker 1>of our listeners Nicole got stuck with a guy in

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<v Speaker 1>an elevator, and we're about to call that guy. But

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<v Speaker 1>she's lucky that she wasn't stuck in an elevator with me,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'd be taken out ceiling tiles, punching a hole

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<v Speaker 1>right through the top of it, and then telling Nicole,

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<v Speaker 1>hop on my back, girl, we're climbing this cable to freedom.

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<v Speaker 1>And afterwards that's worth standing on the rooftop and the

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<v Speaker 1>helicopters about to land and take me off to Antarctica.

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole says, but wait, I don't have your phone number yet.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's when I turn around and I toss her

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<v Speaker 1>a wink and I say, yeah, you do check your contacts.

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<v Speaker 1>It's under mister mystery. I slipped it out of your

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<v Speaker 1>pocket between floors seventeen and eighteen. Don't be a stranger, kid, Boom,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still talking for some reason. The building would exploded

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<v Speaker 1>as you take off in the helicopter. Okay, it happens

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<v Speaker 1>every time. Is the real hero here, Jeffrey? Are mister mystery?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry? Yeah, who's not very who's not very mysterious? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>How optimistic are we here, Nicole? I mean I feel optimistic. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we were totally engaged, and he don't use that word

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<v Speaker 1>when we talked about might freak him out. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you're optimistic, but may I remind you he

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<v Speaker 1>hasn't called or texted back in close to a week. Yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>let's pull the fire alarm in the building and call

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<v Speaker 1>this guy here. I am not buying tickets to this movie,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Here we go let's call Sean and see

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<v Speaker 1>what he has to say. Hello, Hey, are we talking

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<v Speaker 1>to Sean? Oh? Yeah, this is Sean. Who's this? This

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<v Speaker 1>is jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. But some know me as mister mystery. We're

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<v Speaker 1>still doing this, Okay, what's Yeah? I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>waste your time or anything here, but one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners has been trying to get a hold of you

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<v Speaker 1>for like a week now, so we're hoping to connect

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<v Speaker 1>you too. Who are you talking about. It's a woman

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<v Speaker 1>that you got stuck in an elevator with not too

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<v Speaker 1>long ago, named Nicole. Oh. Um, okay, okay, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well we do this thing called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what this is. Um, technically this wasn't a date,

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<v Speaker 1>but Nicole was very grateful for what you did for

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<v Speaker 1>her while you were stuck in the elevator together. So

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm on the radio You thought maybe you guys

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<v Speaker 1>had something like you could there was potential there? Did

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<v Speaker 1>she read that right? Maybe? Initially? But like not really?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, can I ask you did you find her

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<v Speaker 1>attractive at all? Yeah? She's cute, It wasn't It's this

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<v Speaker 1>isn't like a superficial thing. She just the more we

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<v Speaker 1>were in there, she just started confessing things and it

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<v Speaker 1>was just too much. Oh it was a lot. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not like her deathbed, save those she was sharing memories

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<v Speaker 1>with him. What do you mean confessions? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's her deal. I don't I don't want to air

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<v Speaker 1>out her stuff on the radio. Okay, well that's I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's nice of you, but like you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>tell us the worst stuff that she said there. It

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<v Speaker 1>could be something even little that struck you as being

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit odd, because she knows by doing this

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<v Speaker 1>segment she might hear something that's a little bit embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's that's fair. I mean she did call you, um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>something about it. When she was little, she took an

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<v Speaker 1>extra piece of pie at Thanksgiving when her grandma wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>looking like her grandma really wanted that piece of pie.

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<v Speaker 1>It's cute that I didn't really she was such a

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<v Speaker 1>bad person. God, no, wonder you're not calling her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's where it started. Um, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>a cute memory, like, yeah, it started from kids stuff

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<v Speaker 1>and then like went progressively older, like she was a

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<v Speaker 1>middle school and she made fun of a kid at

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<v Speaker 1>school that or sweatpants and called him sweaty Scottie. Oh oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was sweaty Scottie. Yeah, it was something

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<v Speaker 1>like that. I mean, it is pretty good. I really

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<v Speaker 1>can't hear anymore that we need to stop here. Oh god, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's on the line. Yeah, Sean, That's that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of how this works. We we usually have them waiting

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<v Speaker 1>and we call them in when it's the right time. Usually, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I can't. Um, No, we're not gonna We're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna share anymore. No, you don't. You just feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad about sweaty Scotty because yeah, I mean, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's been on my conscious and I just don't need

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<v Speaker 1>anything else aired right now. But more importantly, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>I'm confused, Sean, you're not calling me back because I

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<v Speaker 1>was sharing weird stories. What I mean, what was I

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<v Speaker 1>annoying you with them? Or it felt like you might

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<v Speaker 1>have boundary issues? Boundary mean he doesn't she doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>what not to share or is that what you mean? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And like I don't really know you, but you also

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<v Speaker 1>led with like the worst aspects of yourself according to you,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's not like a great first impression. Real Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>If you think taking pie at Thanksgiving is like the

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<v Speaker 1>worst aspect of somebody, that's pretty heavy. Oh do you

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<v Speaker 1>want me to share more? Or was that enough? That

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<v Speaker 1>was sweaty scotty enough. I mean I kind of want

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<v Speaker 1>you to share more. It doesn't sound that bad. But

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<v Speaker 1>we could talk about the time she sideswiped a part

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<v Speaker 1>car and just didn't leave a note. We could talk

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<v Speaker 1>about that they are getting a little better, if that

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. That's pretty bad, Sean. If that's how you

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<v Speaker 1>felt about her, and all those confessions turned you off,

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<v Speaker 1>then why did you ask for her number? That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I want to know. I was worried about her. I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to make sure she was okay. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>a monster. I not a monster like she is. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't understand. And like, why did you

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<v Speaker 1>keep texting me? I mean it was more than just

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<v Speaker 1>hey you okay, it was like three days of text

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's what it really is, Sean. You actually

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<v Speaker 1>like her more than you realize. I did hear you.

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<v Speaker 1>You said you say was cute? Oh I did ask

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<v Speaker 1>you that and you said you thought she was attracted.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't see how that's relevant to her sideswife and

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<v Speaker 1>cars and calling people making well, is that she felt remorseful,

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<v Speaker 1>That's why she was telling you these things. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like she was like some crazy that didn't feel bad

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<v Speaker 1>about it. We had done bad things, yeah, I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>I agree, It's just you generally find out about those

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<v Speaker 1>things like later after you got to know a person. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but now it's all on the table. Isn't any better

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<v Speaker 1>to have all this information? If this is as bad

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<v Speaker 1>as it gets, do you have any more confessions? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm made out with the mail room guy at the

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<v Speaker 1>company holiday party one year, and that's not bad. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>why are we talking about all all the old stories

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<v Speaker 1>from Nicole's pass when what we really need to be

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<v Speaker 1>focusing on is the two of you and the Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship I can see forming between you guys. At

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<v Speaker 1>least you guys are really good communicators. It's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>cute and good for the record. I mean, it was

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<v Speaker 1>an extraordinary circumstance. I was a little panicky. I'm sure

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<v Speaker 1>I overshared things that would never normally happen on a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Yeah, Sean, I think you need to go

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<v Speaker 1>and share these stories during a real first date outside

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<v Speaker 1>of a broken elevator, where it's more appropriate to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>and we want to pay for that date. Well, some

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<v Speaker 1>of the church, they can go to a confessional. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>down the road. It's a really funny story that could

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<v Speaker 1>be cute. Yeah, or you say no and you traumatize

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<v Speaker 1>her even more and this is a horrible memory that

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<v Speaker 1>haunts her forever that she's going to get. You want

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<v Speaker 1>to traumatize her, Sean, Is that what you want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>You're putting her on an elevator and you're hitting the

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<v Speaker 1>panic button right now. If you say no, there's no

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<v Speaker 1>pressure here. We really would you guys go out again,

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<v Speaker 1>don't listen to jail or else. It's better to be

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<v Speaker 1>with someone that overshares than doesn't share at all. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you think, Sean, Well, let me ask, do you

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<v Speaker 1>want to go with me? Like a you're you still in? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm totally still in. Okay, Yes, I'm really interested. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I shared me. I'd love to know more

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<v Speaker 1>about about you, Sean. I mean it's a yes from

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<v Speaker 1>everybody in the room, but the one that matters is you.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say, one more chance for Nicole and

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<v Speaker 1>then let's do it. You guys are gonna be cute.

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<v Speaker 1>So what terrible memory are you going to share with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Sean to make her feel better? We'll save that for

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<v Speaker 1>the date. I'm not putting that out on the radio. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm under no obligation to do this, Absolutely not. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like we should do a three way call with the

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<v Speaker 1>mail room guy. Let's make this interesting. Now we're getting

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<v Speaker 1>spicy Jeffrey in the morning. You know, I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>guy didn't just say yes because we pressured him into

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<v Speaker 1>doing it, Like, I hope he actually really wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>see Nicold again. You want everything, don't you, jeff Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>say yes. You want him to feel good about saved. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm the villain for one. Ultimately, I'm glad that cooler

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<v Speaker 1>heads prevailed because, honestly, they never would have spoken to

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<v Speaker 1>each other ever again if we didn't call. That's true.

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<v Speaker 1>She was wondering, does it say so much about us

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<v Speaker 1>that we didn't think that she did anything that bad

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<v Speaker 1>in her life? Yeah? What is that about our own personality?

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<v Speaker 1>The confessions were not that bad, but it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was nice we get them on the phone, you talk

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<v Speaker 1>it out, you hear both sides. You're reminisce about the

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<v Speaker 1>good times with the mail boy, and next thing you know, boom,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a date. Yeah, simple mail boys always lead to

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<v Speaker 1>a date. Am I right? Is that why Alexis was

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<v Speaker 1>chilling over by the mail room earlier? Doesn't She doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know how to mail anything. I was trying to

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<v Speaker 1>learn new things, rock Alexis. Anyway, remember, if you ever

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call somebody for you, try and get

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<v Speaker 1>you a date. Email the show. We'll call that person

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<v Speaker 1>who wasn't calling you back.