WEBVTT - Wedding Warning 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:06.000 This is the most dramatic podcast ever and iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:07.600 --> 0:00:10.400 Chris Harrison and Lauren Z mccomedy from the home office 0:00:10.400 --> 0:00:13.440 in Austin, Texas. LZ, what do we got today? 0:00:13.680 --> 0:00:15.760 Well, I think we should talk a little bit about Halloween. 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:19.360 We just came off of it, and you greenlit and 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:23.240 supported what I'm I would call my dream. I mean, 0:00:23.280 --> 0:00:26.280 I guess our upcoming wedding is my dream, but it 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:29.080 was also my dream to turn our pantry into a 0:00:29.160 --> 0:00:34.560 Hogwarts esque Harry Potter House sorting room. And it sounds weird, 0:00:34.560 --> 0:00:36.280 but I brought We had a party at our house, 0:00:36.360 --> 0:00:38.200 like a neighborhood party with a bunch of our friends, 0:00:38.200 --> 0:00:41.360 about fifty people, and I was in the closet all night, 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:43.600 and I brought each guest into the closet with me 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:46.400 and sorted them into their Harry Potter House and then 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.160 had them take a shot of tequila. And I maintained 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:52.599 a British accent and full character the entire time as 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:55.960 Professor Harriet Potter. Anyway, it was my dream, and I 0:00:56.000 --> 0:00:58.320 do want to ask you, do you find me less 0:00:58.320 --> 0:01:00.760 attractive after that? 0:01:02.120 --> 0:01:04.399 Well, the idea of the Halloween party was a good one. 0:01:04.400 --> 0:01:08.120 It was yours because and this whole thing, I'm curious 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:11.039 if anybody else out there does this. You went to 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:13.320 Home Goods and you had a moment. 0:01:13.440 --> 0:01:16.400 Babe, FYI, most people listening to your podcast have been 0:01:16.440 --> 0:01:17.640 to Home Goods and had a moment. 0:01:18.160 --> 0:01:20.880 Saying has anyone been to home Goods? But you you 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:25.000 created a party out of a trip to home Goods. 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:29.200 You came home from Home Goods with a plethora of 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:33.480 Halloween stuff. It's true you said, I have so much 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:36.840 great Halloween stuff where you're throwing a party. So I'm 0:01:36.840 --> 0:01:38.560 curious anyone out there not if you went to Home 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:40.800 Goods or bought the cute soap dispenser or whatever for 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:44.640 Halloween or Thanksgiving, but have you ever created an event 0:01:44.840 --> 0:01:48.000 a party because you had so much cute stuff from 0:01:48.000 --> 0:01:51.360 a shopping spree you went on. That isn't something that's 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:51.800 new to me. 0:01:51.880 --> 0:01:52.480 You know what it is. 0:01:52.520 --> 0:01:55.080 It's the home version of when you buy an outfit 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:57.960 and like you want someone somewhere to wear it, and. 0:01:57.880 --> 0:01:59.520 You just said, you know what, screw it, I'm going 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:01.640 to create my own event so I can wear this. 0:02:02.320 --> 0:02:05.360 I mean, I would imagine I'm not the only one. 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:07.520 I will say yeah, it did. I take it a 0:02:07.520 --> 0:02:08.200 bit to the extreme. 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:08.560 Yes. 0:02:08.800 --> 0:02:11.000 I think what happened was I wandered into home goods, 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:13.520 like right when the Halloween stuff had first been put out, 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:17.080 so there was so much freshly stocked. I was listening 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:19.440 to Harry Potter because I re listened to all the 0:02:19.440 --> 0:02:23.240 books every fall and feel festive for like all the holidays, 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:25.480 because the books have Halloween and Christmas in them, every 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:29.000 single book anyway. And so yeah, I did. I bought 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:31.120 all this stuff. And then I said, we have to 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:33.320 have a party. And I also want to thank you 0:02:33.360 --> 0:02:36.760 because you green let us having a party not. 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:40.120 Too far out from our wedding, which was. 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:42.720 That it was a lot. That was a big leap 0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:44.840 for us because there's a lot on the plate always 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:48.679 coming up, and we're not using a coordinator, as we've 0:02:48.720 --> 0:02:51.880 talked about, and so we've been planning everything, including this 0:02:52.000 --> 0:02:56.760 Halloween party. But when I green let the Halloween party, 0:02:56.760 --> 0:02:58.360 which I was all in because it was our friends 0:02:58.400 --> 0:03:02.400 and it was awesome and and I didn't foresee you 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:05.920 being in the closet all night. I knew you were 0:03:05.919 --> 0:03:08.240 going to do the sorting closet and we had the 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:10.200 sorting hat and it was awesome, by the way. I 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:12.120 was so impressed with what you pulled off. That was 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:16.440 insane on a great level. And I didn't know you 0:03:16.480 --> 0:03:19.240 would be fully in character, which was also awesome. I 0:03:19.320 --> 0:03:23.160 found that very attractive. Really, yeah, that was kind of sexy. 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:25.560 But like you don't love when I do, like my Voldemort. 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:29.480 Voice totally different. No one is sexy doing Voldemort. 0:03:29.760 --> 0:03:31.360 I think some people out there would beg to differ, 0:03:31.960 --> 0:03:33.800 maybe like a bad boy. I don't know. 0:03:34.720 --> 0:03:37.160 You had a cute British accent and people would go 0:03:37.240 --> 0:03:40.800 into our pantry. Lauren would come out and say, you 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:44.680 have been chosen, sorted to be sorted right, Oh chosen? 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:48.240 Yes, I'm not sure that I intended to be in 0:03:48.280 --> 0:03:49.000 the pantry, Alice. 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:50.600 It took it took off. 0:03:50.720 --> 0:03:55.920 It took me over once, you know, I feed off 0:03:55.960 --> 0:03:58.480 of the performance. Once people started saying, oh, are you 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:00.480 not going to break character? I thought to myself, you 0:04:00.480 --> 0:04:01.760 know what, I'm not going to break care you did 0:04:02.320 --> 0:04:06.520 and it was fun, you know. I mean, I like festivities, 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:10.040 I love people. I do think sometimes we overbook ourselves 0:04:10.080 --> 0:04:11.720 a little bit. It's something we're trying to work on. 0:04:11.800 --> 0:04:14.960 But I would always rather be around people than be alone, 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:17.880 and like you know, the holidays are a time to 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:22.080 have parties and lean in and I think everybody really 0:04:22.160 --> 0:04:25.360 enjoyed it. But again, I was just very It really 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:28.920 made me love you. You're always giving me new ways 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:30.719 to love you. But one of the headlines we're going 0:04:30.800 --> 0:04:34.000 to get into today, like ties into this a little bit. 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:36.680 So I wanted to bring up how you just said 0:04:36.760 --> 0:04:39.719 yes to the party, yes to my Harry Potter pantry, 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.240 yes to all the things that I love, which was. 0:04:42.279 --> 0:04:45.240 Wonderful and it was a blast. And look, I think 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:47.360 you're going to hit on another topic that we'll get 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:50.719 into sometime about overbooking ourselves. It is so easy to 0:04:50.760 --> 0:04:52.560 do during the holidays. You kind of get lost in 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:54.480 it all and next thing you know, it's January fourth. 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:56.520 Well, what it's like a rule we should set for ourselves, 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:59.520 should it be we need like between festivities, we need 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:00.599 a certain of days. 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:02.120 I feel like we need a guidelines. 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:03.560 We at least need hours. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:05.840 No, you're being funny, I mean serious, we need a guideline. 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.159 I don't know what that guideline would be, but I 0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:12.360 think it's good to have a down week to prepare 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:14.880 for the next thing. I don't know if that's possible 0:05:14.960 --> 0:05:17.040 during the holidays though we have stuff. 0:05:17.440 --> 0:05:20.640 I think we should maybe say it's hard because other 0:05:20.640 --> 0:05:23.239 people's schedule things, But I think you got to try 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:26.080 to do one event per weekend. Part of it was 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:29.840 we also went to see a country concert, Parker McCollum, 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:32.560 our fave. We went to see him on Friday, and 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:34.680 then we had the Halloween party on Saturday. 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:35.960 And killed it was awesome. 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:37.440 We were wiped from the concert. 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:39.200 Yeah, we were pretty wipe from the concert. We were 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:42.760 there with Parker's family, his friends, and we had a 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:45.440 blast and he absolutely crushed it. Sold out Moody Center. 0:05:45.480 --> 0:05:47.640 He was wrapping up his tour to you know, his 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:49.960 final two things. I can't imagine how emotional it was 0:05:50.000 --> 0:05:53.280 for him because he purposefully wrapped it up in Austin, 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:55.360 where his family is, and then he went down to 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:57.839 the Woodlands in Houston where he's from. He's from Conroe, 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:01.440 so a whirlwind two and then we went right into 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:02.440 the party the next night. 0:06:02.880 --> 0:06:05.359 So I think one thing we need to realize is 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:09.520 that I feel like I'm starting to notice we're very 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:13.159 social people. We love to be around friends and family 0:06:13.200 --> 0:06:17.640 and put things on and host things. But one, you 0:06:17.680 --> 0:06:20.400 and I end up hosting things a lot. We've noticed this. 0:06:20.520 --> 0:06:22.520 I don't know if it is the I mean it's not. 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:24.240 Being a TV host is very different than. 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:26.239 Hosting a party, but we do like to both host. 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:28.839 I think we're good at like entertaining people, and we 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:31.520 kind of produce events in our house, so we end 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:34.400 up posting a lot, and that can be much more 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:37.720 tiring than obviously just attending an event. But two, I 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:40.840 think it's important for us to realize that when we 0:06:40.880 --> 0:06:43.279 are at a party together or when we are in 0:06:43.320 --> 0:06:48.640 a group together, it isn't as good connecting time as 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:49.960 like a date night. 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:53.680 Of course, So how do I say no to you? No, 0:06:53.720 --> 0:06:56.080 I'm serious, Okay, this is for everybody out there in 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:58.400 a relationship. How do I say no to you without 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:01.400 hurting your feelings? Where I can say where you're like, hey, 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:04.760 hey babe, you know what, let's let's host another event tuesday, 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.159 Let's just have some friends over it. If I how 0:07:07.160 --> 0:07:11.840 do I tactfully say enough, like where we're we need 0:07:11.880 --> 0:07:12.320 to take it. 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:15.240 Exactly what you're not doing right now? You, I mean 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.480 what you're you don't do what you just did, You 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:21.800 don't say enough. I think you say. I'm worried about 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:22.800 you and about us. 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:23.680 We're not connecting. 0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:24.679 I want to make sure. 0:07:24.520 --> 0:07:27.240 We have enough time for each other and for and 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:28.720 I want you to have time for yourself. 0:07:28.760 --> 0:07:30.840 I want us to have time. I don't want us 0:07:30.840 --> 0:07:31.800 to not be a priority. 0:07:32.520 --> 0:07:34.320 I think that's important in the holidays, you got to 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:38.960 have that communication with each other because inevitably one person 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:42.120 is kind of pushing to do more or less than 0:07:42.120 --> 0:07:44.640 the other person, or booking things. So it's I think 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.200 it's good to have those conversations. 0:07:46.560 --> 0:07:51.000 Should I have said no to you the day after 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:55.400 the party leaving getting on a plane flying to Arizona 0:07:55.520 --> 0:07:57.960 to see the Texas Rangers World Series game? 0:07:58.160 --> 0:07:59.880 Was that too much? That would have been a detriment 0:07:59.880 --> 0:08:00.840 to our relationship. 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:03.680 I would never That's the problem. We don't want to 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:04.520 say no to each other. 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:09.440 Two days later, like it was Monday and the party 0:08:09.520 --> 0:08:13.360 was sadday you left on It's like a week later 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:18.840 I did no Monday. We are taping this tonight. Texas 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:21.880 Rangers Arizona Diamondbacks were up three to one in the 0:08:21.880 --> 0:08:24.560 World Series. We have a chance to clinch, so I 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.880 know I won't dive into sports too much. But I 0:08:28.000 --> 0:08:30.480 have been a fan of the Rangers since I was 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:33.679 a child, and here is something that I will talk 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.240 to you about sports that I love. So my brother 0:08:36.280 --> 0:08:40.120 and I went out to Game four of the World Series. 0:08:40.520 --> 0:08:44.600 We flew out to Arizona and we went together and 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:47.079 it was a boys trip, just the two of us. 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:50.120 We grew up going to the Ranger games in Arlington 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:53.200 when we were kids. They sucked my entire life. I mean, 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:55.480 they were horrible, but it didn't matter because that's not 0:08:55.600 --> 0:08:58.040 why we went. We didn't go because they were great 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.680 or not great. We had our favorite players anyway, but 0:09:00.760 --> 0:09:02.920 it was time with my dad. It was time with 0:09:02.920 --> 0:09:05.080 our friends, and we'd take our gloves and sit in 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:08.120 the outfield and hope to catch a foul ball and 0:09:08.200 --> 0:09:12.959 if nothing else, a bad sunburn. And those moments with 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:15.520 my family, my dad, that's what I harkened back to 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:18.120 when I go. And I was thinking about that when 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:20.160 I went to the World Series game and we sat 0:09:20.200 --> 0:09:23.000 by a couple of people, a couple of father sons 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:24.880 that were at the game and the World Series. And 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.680 no matter where you are, whether it's in Texas, Arizona, 0:09:27.720 --> 0:09:31.079 Diamondback fans, I got in an Uber from the airport 0:09:31.240 --> 0:09:33.240 and I was talking to the Uber driver and he says, 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:34.640 you guys here for the game. We had our Texas 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:36.720 Ranger gear on. He says, oh, yeah, I used to 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:38.520 go to the Diamondback games with my dad. And it 0:09:38.600 --> 0:09:40.920 just it made me think immediately, it doesn't matter what 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:43.520 city you're in, you went to Cubs games with your dad. 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:46.760 The game of baseball is that one thing it's a 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:49.960 little bit different than other sports that really is nostalgic. 0:09:50.040 --> 0:09:53.600 It takes us back and it means more than the 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:56.319 boring four hours of sitting there for a baseball game. 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:58.080 I don't know if it were in future. I mean 0:09:58.080 --> 0:10:00.000 from what I've heard, it's on the decline. 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:03.560 On the decline, but the spirit of that I think 0:10:03.679 --> 0:10:06.000 lives strongly and I loved that. 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:08.360 I think it's because you can hang easily and comfortably 0:10:08.440 --> 0:10:11.000 to baseball game. Everybody has a seat, you can get 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:13.560 a hot dog. You're not like you're not for an 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:15.760 entire inning and not miss anything. No, and you're not 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:18.640 on bleachers. You have like an actual seat. Anyway. 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:21.080 Okay, I don't want to get too much into the sports. 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:22.960 But it was especially it just made me think about 0:10:22.960 --> 0:10:26.280 why I love sports on that level and what baseball 0:10:26.320 --> 0:10:28.040 meant to me. And it made me think of my 0:10:28.120 --> 0:10:30.120 dad and going there with my brother and it was 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:32.240 a very special trip. And the Rangers one, we have 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:34.120 a chance to win the World Series for the first time. 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:37.000 They came to Dallas the year after I was born, 0:10:37.080 --> 0:10:39.360 nineteen seventy two. We have not one. We're one of 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:43.040 like six franchises that's never won the stink and Cubs 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:43.920 have won again. 0:10:44.679 --> 0:10:47.360 Babe. I mean, I don't know, is this going to 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:48.800 be a line that divides us. 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:52.480 I just hope they my childhood Cubs, inner Cubs fan 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:53.480 that hasn't lasted. 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:54.600 And you're a Rangers fan. 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:58.360 Okay, all are love to the Rangers. Now let's get into. 0:10:58.400 --> 0:11:00.600 Oh, by the way, and might love to the folks 0:11:00.640 --> 0:11:04.720 at Arizona amazing. I ran into so many fans, so 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:07.200 many friends there, and as we were walking to the game, 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:09.560 some were booing, but we stopped and talked to a 0:11:09.559 --> 0:11:12.960 bunch of people, had a beer with everybody. Friendly, friendly folks. 0:11:13.120 --> 0:11:13.840 Well, let's get. 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:15.839 Into some not so friendly stuff. Yes, a couple of 0:11:15.880 --> 0:11:34.080 dramatic headlines. Okay, a new headline allegedly justin Timberlake has 0:11:34.200 --> 0:11:37.679 left the country per this headline, per this context, per 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:43.240 this framing, because of the Britney backlash. Now I don't 0:11:43.240 --> 0:11:46.120 know if that's true. You could also argue that the 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:48.240 guy's just on vacation with his family. He just went 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:51.800 to Cabo, but I will say he's turned off his 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:52.760 Instagram comments. 0:11:52.880 --> 0:11:52.960 Ye. 0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.920 Justin Timberlake and Britney Spears obviously one of the most 0:11:56.960 --> 0:12:01.080 famous teen pop couples of all time, and now Britney 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:04.280 Spears has released her tell all memoir The Woman in Me, 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:07.520 where she makes several reveals if you've been living under 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:09.200 a rock and I haven't heard about it, about her 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:15.000 relationship with Justin Timberlake, including she says that Justin forced 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:16.719 her to get an abortion that she didn't want to 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:18.800 have when they were together and they were just teenagers, 0:12:19.280 --> 0:12:23.719 including talking about you know, how in love with him 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:25.920 she was, how devastated she was and when they broke. 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:28.800 Up, so she took up with her via a text. 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:30.960 She says that he cheated on her. 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:35.080 So this is not playing out well for Justin on 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:41.199 social media and in the headlines. I I don't want 0:12:41.200 --> 0:12:44.679 to say I have mixed feelings, I but I'm not 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:48.080 so like anti justin you and I were talking about this, 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:50.240 I think what's hard today, Well, you made a good point, 0:12:50.320 --> 0:12:50.599 say it. 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:53.480 Yeah, what I took from all of this because who 0:12:53.520 --> 0:12:57.200 knows what where the truth lies somewhere in between, I'm sure, and. 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:58.439 I'm sure there's a lot of By the way I 0:12:58.480 --> 0:13:01.400 think everything Britney's saying it could be true to it. 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:02.959 Like I don't think she made up that he had 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:05.120 her have an abortion. It's just my. 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:11.199 Thought was, relationships just don't go away anymore. When we 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:13.439 were younger, you know, we harkened back to the old days. 0:13:13.800 --> 0:13:16.000 You broke up with somebody for better or for worse, 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.640 you could just disappear. If I was in LA and 0:13:18.640 --> 0:13:20.760 I moved to New York, You're never gonna hear or 0:13:20.800 --> 0:13:24.720 see from me again. Relationships don't go away anymore because 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:29.120 of social media, because of text messages, emails, voicemails, video, 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:33.000 Whatever we have done, we've left a fingerprint that no 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:37.079 longer disappears after we break up, and so it's harder 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:39.800 to have a clean breakup. And that's the only maybe 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:43.440 irony or interesting thing that I found that in this 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:47.360 memoir she chose to kind of rip that scab off. 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:49.400 Considering what's happened to her. 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:54.200 I fully think she needed to tell her side of 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:56.880 her story of what happened in her conservatorship years. 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:59.800 I think that she was manipulated. 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:03.400 I think that she was, as you just said, taken 0:14:03.400 --> 0:14:08.000 advantage of with this conservatorship. Now, you know a lot 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:11.600 of people, there's a lot of talk about well is 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:14.280 she any better off now? I mean, everybody has an opinion. 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:16.240 I'll say this at the end of the day. One 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:18.319 thing I think from covering the case, from what I 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:20.640 knew about it, from being there in court, I don't 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:24.320 understand why her father was ever made her conservatory. He 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:27.080 had a tumultuous relationship with her and her family. He 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:29.760 had a history of alcohol issues. If anybody was going 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:31.680 to be a conservator, I don't know why it was 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:36.240 that person. And also I questioned the entire conservatorship, but 0:14:36.880 --> 0:14:38.560 that I think she needed. 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.000 To be able to tell her story, to speak out 0:14:41.040 --> 0:14:41.560 to the public. 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:44.240 She spent over a decade like in silence, not being 0:14:44.280 --> 0:14:48.160 able to communicate, not being so anyway that she was. 0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:50.600 A prisoner in her own life. It was bi. 0:14:50.760 --> 0:14:53.960 Horrible, couldn't pay for her own groceries if she wanted to. 0:14:54.680 --> 0:15:01.280 But that aside, I just think it's hard in any case, 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:04.720 and like take the social media out of it, because 0:15:05.760 --> 0:15:08.400 if social media didn't exist, someone could still have a celebrity, 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:10.440 could still have done a tell all memoir years later 0:15:10.520 --> 0:15:13.880 and revealed things. I think it's hard to like make 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:19.400 reveals about your really youthful relationships, and that people now 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:23.040 as adults, after decades of growth and change as people, 0:15:23.600 --> 0:15:27.200 would be taken to task for the things they did 0:15:27.240 --> 0:15:30.080 at eighteen. Like that is why I have some sympathy 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:33.280 for Justin here. I mean, they were literally like eighteen 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:33.720 years old. 0:15:33.720 --> 0:15:37.000 They were Disney dancers together. Weren't they Musketeers? 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:39.240 Yes, and they were both in the Fame cycle and 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:40.800 you know so. 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:42.720 They Yeah, they were children at the time. 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:45.360 I don't think he deserves the level of hate he's 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:47.000 probably getting from people. 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:49.880 I would not want to see. 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:52.120 He's a grown man now in a marriage with children 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:56.160 of his own right, And this also fell at a 0:15:56.240 --> 0:15:58.720 very bad time. The memoir came out right as he 0:15:58.760 --> 0:16:02.920 and Jessica Biel celebrating their anniversary. So not a great 0:16:02.960 --> 0:16:06.800 time to celebrate your anniversary, I'm sure Jessica knew most 0:16:06.840 --> 0:16:09.080 of this stuff, but to have it now aired publicly 0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:11.920 and to be dealing with it, the paparazzi, no doubt 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.920 are hounding them and chasing them down. So it's just 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:18.400 a lot of things that you're answering for for something 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:21.520 that your husband went through thirty years ago. 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:26.320 Probably, now that being said, I wish, you know, maybe 0:16:26.440 --> 0:16:28.960 Justin should have reached out to Britney sooner, Maybe should 0:16:28.960 --> 0:16:30.360 have tried to connect with her or tried to make 0:16:30.400 --> 0:16:34.760 amends for some things. They certainly had an absolutely massive 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:38.160 headline making relationship for years, even though it was their 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:41.800 youth relationship. I think the way that I fall on 0:16:41.880 --> 0:16:45.760 it is I love Brittany. I defend Brittany. Britney deserved 0:16:45.880 --> 0:16:49.440 to tell her stories, but also Justin Timberlake doesn't deserve 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:53.640 hate vitriol on the level he seems to be getting 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:53.880 it on. 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.160 So I guess, when you bring this into the real world, 0:16:56.560 --> 0:17:01.040 at what point is it okay or not okay? At 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:05.800 what point do we say you can't go back and 0:17:05.840 --> 0:17:09.160 revisit this and bring this back up when you got 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:12.560 to let your relationship go no matter what transgressions, well 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:16.680 not no matter what, but say there was infidelity when 0:17:16.720 --> 0:17:20.919 you were eighteen sixteen, seventeen, eighteen years old? Not the 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:23.159 most shocking thing in the world that in high school 0:17:23.440 --> 0:17:24.600 somebody cheated on you. 0:17:24.960 --> 0:17:27.560 Right, which is what we're talking about with Brittany and Justin. Yeah, 0:17:27.600 --> 0:17:32.240 I mean they were a high school age. I do 0:17:32.280 --> 0:17:35.360 think people call other people out too much publicly anymore, 0:17:35.640 --> 0:17:37.640 Like why not share your story and not reveal an aim? 0:17:37.800 --> 0:17:41.600 You know? I mean, I guess with Brittany, obviously everyone 0:17:41.600 --> 0:17:43.359 would have known it was Justin. It makes no sense, 0:17:43.400 --> 0:17:48.520 it wouldn't have. But yeah, I don't know, do you. 0:17:48.600 --> 0:17:50.359 I guess what you're asking is, do you have the 0:17:50.440 --> 0:17:54.520 right to like publicly air right decades old stories about people? 0:17:54.640 --> 0:17:56.840 Right? If I've moved on, Let's say me, I was 0:17:57.000 --> 0:18:01.360 I was single for quite some time after post my divorce. 0:18:01.720 --> 0:18:04.480 Not every relationship I went into well actually all of 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:07.199 them didn't end well except for this one with you. 0:18:07.840 --> 0:18:11.479 So how you know, could you go back and say, oh, well, 0:18:11.720 --> 0:18:15.040 you know, you know what to like bringing up say 0:18:15.119 --> 0:18:18.400 Matthew Perry, for example, who tragically passed away last week 0:18:18.720 --> 0:18:21.560 at fifty four years old. What a horrible story, and 0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:25.159 you know, people kind of start talking about him and 0:18:25.200 --> 0:18:28.360 his ex fiance, and people start telling him, like, at 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:32.679 what point do you just say no, Like, keep this 0:18:32.720 --> 0:18:35.920 stuff private, keep it yourself. But we have this thing 0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:40.159 about the power of knowledge and the power of information 0:18:40.320 --> 0:18:44.639 that we we use that as our currency now, and 0:18:44.680 --> 0:18:48.280 it's such a it's not always gross, but it just 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:50.680 feels wrong in a lot of instances. 0:18:51.040 --> 0:18:56.160 I agree, Well, let's turn to something we uh someone 0:18:56.200 --> 0:18:57.480 who doesn't share the information. 0:18:57.840 --> 0:18:58.399 Meg Ryan. 0:18:58.960 --> 0:19:02.439 Meg Ryan, talking about her eight year Hollywood hiatus in 0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:05.440 a new interview with Entertainment Tonight, nod to my peeps, 0:19:05.960 --> 0:19:09.560 and she says that she doesn't think she is a 0:19:09.760 --> 0:19:13.840 very good famous person. She says, quote, I just don't 0:19:13.840 --> 0:19:16.520 think I'm a good celebrity. I just always felt a 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:20.440 little bit like life was over, like outside this little bubble, 0:19:20.440 --> 0:19:24.760 outside some sort of membrane. She says that it's just 0:19:24.800 --> 0:19:27.040 not good for an artist or a creative person to 0:19:27.160 --> 0:19:31.520 have quote limited life in a way to draw from now. 0:19:33.040 --> 0:19:35.520 She makes a really interesting point there, and she also 0:19:35.560 --> 0:19:37.960 does say she says, I have a very charmed life. 0:19:38.000 --> 0:19:40.440