Speaker 1: This show is back. Welcome to exactly a mother. This
Speaker 1: is your girl, and you're listening to exact amout of
Speaker 1: production of My Heart Radio. Miyamo. Thank you so much
Speaker 1: for tuning in. Thank you for always being connected, for supporting,
Speaker 1: you for loving me, and if you don't love me,
Speaker 1: thank you for listening at least. Hey, I appreciate the
Speaker 1: haters some being. Life is good. Things keep getting only
Speaker 1: but better. And let me tell you something. In the beginning,
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're just tuning income, Okay, later on
Speaker 1: in the beginning of the show, I started off the
Speaker 1: show with the co host Stevie noonez or Steven Stevie
Speaker 1: noniez and and the vibe was so good, the energy
Speaker 1: was so good, Dominic Dominico, and it was just it
Speaker 1: was just good, good vibes. I've missed him so much.
Speaker 1: Um And because he started this journey with me, I
Speaker 1: told him me that Stevie and I'm gonna have to
Speaker 1: see it in Peja like Pijama party, being really last,
Speaker 1: being laid back even let's talk a little bit about
Speaker 1: the things that we've been up to. Um. The lessons
Speaker 1: learned just like a recap of one and how it
Speaker 1: has been for him and obviously for myself. So Stevie,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming back. Yes, I love you.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you look so good and we're so
Speaker 1: laid back the jabs so we could get real today
Speaker 1: and red room, Oh yes, I'm out there red. We're
Speaker 1: feeling really red today. Um. The energies is good and
Speaker 1: I don't know why, but today I woke up feeling
Speaker 1: so positive. I feel good. I feel energized. It's not
Speaker 1: because I handled Dick, because I haven't had none of that.
Speaker 1: I can't drink, I can't smoke, I can't do nothing
Speaker 1: better in my spirit. Maybe it's my baby is giving
Speaker 1: me this positive energy. But I feel good inside. I
Speaker 1: feel motivated. I feel like things are about to get
Speaker 1: only but better. I feel like I want to I
Speaker 1: don't know. I feel good. So with that being said,
Speaker 1: let's get to it. Okay, can has been the best
Speaker 1: thing that has happened to you this year? I decided
Speaker 1: to make a move in faith and it was just
Speaker 1: so amazing. I picked up my stuff, picked up my family,
Speaker 1: got a beautiful house with a pool, um and moved
Speaker 1: to Florida. And going to Florida during that process and
Speaker 1: having no one, but I did have someone and her
Speaker 1: name was Ada okay here, and that was such a
Speaker 1: It was such an easier transition due to the fact
Speaker 1: that you supported me. I mean I went out in
Speaker 1: faith and you were like, oh my god, Stephen don
Speaker 1: As in Florida, like let's connect and I got to
Speaker 1: hang out with you and you guys really made me
Speaker 1: feel like family. So the biggest highlight, Amta, was the
Speaker 1: blessing that you worked in my life. I think just
Speaker 1: you changed what you changed my if you gave me
Speaker 1: a confidence like talk about a lot um the Latin
Speaker 1: Next community supporting one another like you support. You gave
Speaker 1: me little on me a chance to be on your podcast,
Speaker 1: and my life has changed because You're following is so
Speaker 1: supportive and they're so loving. They sent me great messages
Speaker 1: and just having you, Amata as like, I feel like
Speaker 1: you're for real. We are pretty most, we are pretty most.
Speaker 1: I'm super grateful to know that I was able to
Speaker 1: be part of that special moment in your life this
Speaker 1: year of growing, you know, because I know I know
Speaker 1: what it feels to take that step in faith and
Speaker 1: finally deciding to do something for the best of your career,
Speaker 1: for the best of your family, for the best of you.
Speaker 1: So I'm grateful to know that I was at least
Speaker 1: able to that. I'll say that, but I mean the
Speaker 1: best part, the best thing that has happened to me one. Obviously, UM,
Speaker 1: I wasn't expecting it. I wasn't expecting it at all.
Speaker 1: I would say as much. I am grateful for the
Speaker 1: moments in which I was happy, all the moments in
Speaker 1: which in my spirit of my soul I felt joy
Speaker 1: this year. If I felt happiness, even if later on
Speaker 1: things turned out to be trash or if things turned
Speaker 1: you know, weren't as good, But for all the moments
Speaker 1: that I was happy, I am grateful for that joy
Speaker 1: that happened. Is that blessing that I had in my
Speaker 1: spirit and my soul. And obviously, um, I am more
Speaker 1: than happy and excited because this year at the beginning
Speaker 1: of a new stage in my life, which is obviously
Speaker 1: I am pregnant. I am pregnant up to I am
Speaker 1: a girl mom. I wasn't expecting this at all, and
Speaker 1: this has to be via and it's making me mature,
Speaker 1: is making me grow, is making me see things differently,
Speaker 1: is making me plan even more for the you know
Speaker 1: for and towards the future, so I see even about
Speaker 1: in my life. So definitely I would say that my
Speaker 1: pregnancy has been the best thing that has happened to me.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, and you know what I'll say.
Speaker 1: I'll say something else obviously me Nina, right, But there's
Speaker 1: other things that I'm grateful for, and I'll say at
Speaker 1: least one more. I'm just gonna say one more. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm also really grateful and I can say that, you know,
Speaker 1: something else that happened to me this year, it was
Speaker 1: really good being able to buy investment properties. Being able
Speaker 1: to buy investment properties was another big step in my
Speaker 1: life that I always had my mind on, but I
Speaker 1: never had the balls to actually just do it. And
Speaker 1: I feel proud of myself whether I did good or
Speaker 1: in some business adventures I failed. I feel proud of
Speaker 1: the fact that I had the guts to do with
Speaker 1: many wish to do and won't get up and do it.
Speaker 1: There's people that have more money than me and still
Speaker 1: won't do it because they're out of fear. I may
Speaker 1: not have dinga right the guts to go out there
Speaker 1: and try it. So Stevie, here goes another one. What
Speaker 1: is the most important lesson learned this year for you
Speaker 1: to not take things personal. I you know, I learned
Speaker 1: this year that you cannot let your emotions take over
Speaker 1: your well being, right and and that sounds cliche, but
Speaker 1: you can't react to everything. You know, everything in life
Speaker 1: is lined up the way it's supposed to be. There's blessings,
Speaker 1: Hallelujah that comes to you. And sometimes we get in
Speaker 1: the way of that because of our emotions and what
Speaker 1: we what we're creating in our head, you know, And
Speaker 1: it's not that serious, like you just have to let
Speaker 1: life be life. And that's that's what I learned this year.
Speaker 1: And that's what I took from this year and also
Speaker 1: being away and you know, removing myself from a big
Speaker 1: city like New York and Connecticut. I learned that I
Speaker 1: learned me Who's Stevie Dounaz, you know, because I really
Speaker 1: lived for everyone, for what I look like, who I
Speaker 1: shouldn't press, how many furs I should buy, how much
Speaker 1: photo shoots, how many photo shoots. And this year I
Speaker 1: really learned like family is priority. And that's what I
Speaker 1: learned this year. Family is priority. And I've been blessed
Speaker 1: even more since I chose to prioritize my family. How
Speaker 1: about you, I'll say that this year, um lessons that
Speaker 1: I have learned definitely have been stay humble, right, but
Speaker 1: still know you're worth. I think that for a long
Speaker 1: time I was so humble um that I felt like
Speaker 1: I felt like I needed to be loyal to certain
Speaker 1: situations or to certain people or whatever, even even though
Speaker 1: I knew that they weren't appreciating um my worth. So
Speaker 1: sometimes people feeling Okay, I you know who mean that
Speaker 1: because she wants this, this, this, this and that. No
Speaker 1: it's not that is that you'll see you mean it.
Speaker 1: But I know what I'm worth. I know how hard
Speaker 1: I've worked to be the woman that I am today.
Speaker 1: I know that there's certain things that I shouldn't accept,
Speaker 1: There's certain things I shouldn't tolerate, there's certain things that
Speaker 1: it's not meant for me. Just because somebody else is
Speaker 1: willing to put up with your ship or put up
Speaker 1: with something doesn't mean that I should do it. So
Speaker 1: definitely remain humble, but still know you're worth, Still know
Speaker 1: you know who you are. And and then that goes
Speaker 1: for everything that goes for business. Yes, I am humble,
Speaker 1: and you're like oh I might not wants an example,
Speaker 1: Oh I might have wants, you know, ten dollars for this.
Speaker 1: You know, we can only give her to one of
Speaker 1: That means you can't work with me. And that's just
Speaker 1: what it is at this moment, because I have worked
Speaker 1: so hard to build this person that I am today
Speaker 1: that it doesn't mean that I'm less humble. It just
Speaker 1: means that, you know, yes it is price is not
Speaker 1: today's price. Yesterday's worth is not today's worth. So I'll
Speaker 1: definitely say that, and then I'll also say that I
Speaker 1: I am. You know, I've known this better. I think
Speaker 1: the life you know, reminded me that m de sa
Speaker 1: it okay, asking you know, God knows what he's doing,
Speaker 1: and there's a purpose for everything, and a lot of
Speaker 1: times you may not understand what God is trying to
Speaker 1: do in your life. And this is for those that believe.
Speaker 1: If we don't believe, that's fine, Maybe the universe, law
Speaker 1: of attraction whatever works for you. But um, God has
Speaker 1: a purpose for everything. Sometimes when things happen to you
Speaker 1: and you think that it's for the worst of you,
Speaker 1: for the ending of you, it's actually a lesson learned
Speaker 1: and it's actually something that's supposed to make you better
Speaker 1: and you know, help you grow, and that goes in
Speaker 1: many aspects in my life. So you know, I think
Speaker 1: that is that they'll say it. Okay, I asked him,
Speaker 1: just have a little bit more more faith. You have
Speaker 1: done the work this year. You have done may babe,
Speaker 1: if you can not have been us maker and a
Speaker 1: mover this year, you put yourself fast physician to like
Speaker 1: another from like and you know, I know that this
Speaker 1: is like the end of the year, like from that
Speaker 1: interview with Gloria's Stefan and the Red Table talk like
Speaker 1: that shaped up the foundations other And I don't want
Speaker 1: to get so much into that because if you want
Speaker 1: to go see that interview, it's on the I Heart app.
Speaker 1: It is an incredible you. Oh my god, you did
Speaker 1: what was supposed to be done. I mean, I mean
Speaker 1: and I and I and I've been busy. I've been
Speaker 1: working with els And that's another thing. No matter what happens, guys,
Speaker 1: remember to keep moving forward. It doesn't matter what it is.
Speaker 1: Just move forward whatever you do. Don't just sit there
Speaker 1: and let life go by. If they just move forward.
Speaker 1: And talking about moving forward, I'll ask you this, what
Speaker 1: has been some of the challenges that you had to come.
Speaker 1: One of the challenges that I've had to overcome is
Speaker 1: pretty much, you know, going to unknown territory again, you know,
Speaker 1: moving to Florida, that big move was you know, scary.
Speaker 1: It was a challenge leaving you know what I'm used
Speaker 1: to behind. You know, I was used to waking up,
Speaker 1: like I said, every day, interviewing, doing this, doing that.
Speaker 1: And now it's like, how am I going to balance
Speaker 1: being Stephen Nunas and being Stevie Nuna's you know, And
Speaker 1: but I did it. I did it, Amata, and you
Speaker 1: have been an incredible journey and I'm doing it, you know,
Speaker 1: So that that was a challenge, but get knowing, there's
Speaker 1: no challenge that's gonna stop me, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because of the faith that I have and believe. How
Speaker 1: about you, what was challenging for you? I'm me who
Speaker 1: I'm still going through it right now. I'm going through
Speaker 1: it and it's so hard. I have my days that
Speaker 1: are you know, I'm stronger than others. And I'm gonna
Speaker 1: open book with my life because I just feel like
Speaker 1: a lot of people can relate and I don't want
Speaker 1: to be over here sugarcoating or faking you know, faking
Speaker 1: the funk. Um. But you know, just being you know,
Speaker 1: being in a place where I studied off my year
Speaker 1: in February, super in love, super you know, like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, just you know, this is so fucking perfect.
Speaker 1: And then now ending my year, um, you know, pregnant
Speaker 1: and having to go through this process by myself. Um,
Speaker 1: you know, it's really tough. I have my days where
Speaker 1: I'm good, and I have my days where you know,
Speaker 1: I get depressed. And depression is real. Um, depression is real.
Speaker 1: I had seen it. I had seen you know, other
Speaker 1: people talk about postpart him this and that, and I
Speaker 1: know that happens after. But doing pregnancy, you know, especially
Speaker 1: now with social media, when you see people, you know,
Speaker 1: couples or they're doing it together or you know, the
Speaker 1: belly rubs and just the partnership. To see myself without
Speaker 1: it's very it's very tough. It's very hard. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be fine, I'm gonna be okay. There's been many women
Speaker 1: that have done it. But just because you do it
Speaker 1: doesn't mean that it's easy. So being able to say,
Speaker 1: you know what, Okay, God knows what he's doing this
Speaker 1: was meant for you. You're gonna do it. Just being
Speaker 1: able to do that alone, it's one of those challenges
Speaker 1: that's not easy. Now I can relate to my mom
Speaker 1: even more that she did it as well, and all
Speaker 1: those single mothers out there, I want to give you
Speaker 1: all the biggest shout outs and much love to y'all,
Speaker 1: be cause it's not easy and I know that you
Speaker 1: guys have been able to do it. So that's one
Speaker 1: of those challenges. Being able to separate myself from music wise,
Speaker 1: from a place where I want to get back into
Speaker 1: my music. I just am going through. I'm still going
Speaker 1: through some legal issues that have made me not be
Speaker 1: able to do as much as I wanted to, But
Speaker 1: just being able to separate myself from something that I
Speaker 1: had attached myself for so many years um and just
Speaker 1: being able to say, you know what, it's not that
Speaker 1: I hate you, it's not that I don't this is
Speaker 1: not that it's just that I want to move on.
Speaker 1: I want to move forward with my life. And it
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with loyalty, because loyalty be trying
Speaker 1: to sit you down for years ago. Oh you're not.
Speaker 1: That's it. As a wrap, you have to be loyal
Speaker 1: to yourself first either why you could be loyal to
Speaker 1: everybody else. So if something is not good for you,
Speaker 1: as the home brainwashed, it can be loyal. You're not loyal.
Speaker 1: If somebody is drowning, they're gonna make sure to drown
Speaker 1: you first so they can breathe. I seek it, No,
Speaker 1: but being able to separate myself from certain situations is
Speaker 1: something that I'm proud of being able to finally overcome
Speaker 1: and not feel guilty for it, because that's another thing.
Speaker 1: Once do something that's good for you, a lot of
Speaker 1: times you end up feeling guilty like you did something wrong. No,
Speaker 1: you did it was best for you, and that's what
Speaker 1: you're supposed to do in the first place. So tell
Speaker 1: you about doing the things that you're supposed to do
Speaker 1: in the first place. The first thing you have to
Speaker 1: do is be proud of yourself. So it wasn't proudest thing,
Speaker 1: your proudest moment of this year. My proudest moment, and
Speaker 1: you're gonna love this is that for I have an
Speaker 1: older daughter, she's eleven years old, and um, I wasn't
Speaker 1: in her life as much. You know, I was too
Speaker 1: busy doing conscerts. You know, announcing to me egos, announcing
Speaker 1: cardis and stages, you know, for what I was doing
Speaker 1: and all of this stuff. Um, but I wasn't there
Speaker 1: for her, you know. But I've been a father as
Speaker 1: guy in a second chance. I've been like a real
Speaker 1: father to s J. To Stevie Jr. And that has
Speaker 1: been like my proudest moment. He is so intelligent, he's
Speaker 1: so smart. He's gonna be amazing because I'm taking the
Speaker 1: time to help with his child development process. And that's
Speaker 1: something that I wasn't able to be for my first daughter,
Speaker 1: which is very I mean, I was there, but I
Speaker 1: wasn't there. I mean, you could be a father and
Speaker 1: live in the same household, but that doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: you're emotionally there. That doesn't mean that you're at every
Speaker 1: event and every concert. And I tried, you know, But
Speaker 1: with my son, I've had a proud moment. And she's eleven,
Speaker 1: so I've been able to be there for her preteen stage.
Speaker 1: And let me tell you a Mada, your niece, texts
Speaker 1: me she'd be like I dad in school, let me
Speaker 1: tell you what happened like she tells me everything. She
Speaker 1: includes me in her life. So one of my proud
Speaker 1: moments is really being a dad because he say, you're
Speaker 1: so you said I'm gonna fetch you. You're so bat
Speaker 1: They have to see hole, I'm done now um emotionally
Speaker 1: and I and I'm not. I'm not going to be
Speaker 1: that that father anymore. You know, my kids are going
Speaker 1: to have because that really affects you. That really affects
Speaker 1: you when you don't have you know, because kids go
Speaker 1: through stuff that we go through because the generational curses,
Speaker 1: and if I got through them, why not be there
Speaker 1: instead of saying, oh, no, I never been that dad.
Speaker 1: Oh no I never did this. I don't no, I
Speaker 1: never did that. I was perfect. Why not be there
Speaker 1: and and tell my kids, oh, I've been exactly through that.
Speaker 1: It's been amazing. So that has been my proudest moment
Speaker 1: is being a proud father. That's such a beautiful message
Speaker 1: is to know that you're there, You're present, and a
Speaker 1: lot of men need to hear that. A lot of
Speaker 1: guys right now that have kids. You know what he says,
Speaker 1: such a bad point. It's not just about being a
Speaker 1: father because you're a sperm donor, but it's not about
Speaker 1: being there emotionally, like be there for your kids. Emotionally,
Speaker 1: sit down, have a conversation with them, take them out
Speaker 1: for ice cream, go to the park. You know, even
Speaker 1: if you're at the house, do them a freaking I
Speaker 1: don't know, a bologna sandwich and just sit down and
Speaker 1: let them feel that their loved and they're cared by.
Speaker 1: Not just because you pay the bills in the house
Speaker 1: and because you have a roof over your head. That
Speaker 1: means that they gave you. Know, I love you and
Speaker 1: I'm your father, but take some time to show that
Speaker 1: to them. Create memories. This year, I definitely feel is
Speaker 1: one of those years of creating memories, create moments, because
Speaker 1: the day that you die, the only thing that you
Speaker 1: take with you are the memories and the things that
Speaker 1: you did. You don't take any of the material things.
Speaker 1: So definitely being a supportive and emotionally their father is
Speaker 1: so important. I'm so grateful and I am proud of
Speaker 1: you for doing that as well. Um my proudest moment.
Speaker 1: And you know, say I feel that, girl, I don't
Speaker 1: really know. I I feel that amongst many, amongst many.
Speaker 1: I just feel proud that I continue to keep being
Speaker 1: the voice for you know, for my race or my community,
Speaker 1: my my people, my Latin x latinos for Latinos, for blacks,
Speaker 1: for women. I feel proud of the fact that I
Speaker 1: continue to use my boys, my platform, and I've been
Speaker 1: able to you know, make certain differences. Um, even even
Speaker 1: working on Latin networks where you never saw ever a
Speaker 1: person as dark as I am working on these platforms
Speaker 1: um giving hope, still giving hope and breaking barriers and
Speaker 1: opening doors for other women and other men like myself
Speaker 1: they want to have an opportunity. I am grateful for that.
Speaker 1: That really means a lot to me to know that
Speaker 1: I've been able to um to just you know, be
Speaker 1: that person and and fasted because in the beginning, all
Speaker 1: the bricks and stones are are thrown at me, all
Speaker 1: the judgments are thrown at me. Wos of my has
Speaker 1: been used to do good amongst many obviously you know, proud,
Speaker 1: proudful moments like you said, the Red Table talk was
Speaker 1: one of those moments. My real estate was one of
Speaker 1: those moments. UM. Continuing to actually even accept and have
Speaker 1: my father and my household, knowing all the things that
Speaker 1: I know and all the things that I've been through
Speaker 1: is a proud moment for me as an adult, to
Speaker 1: be able to put you know, my feelings to aside
Speaker 1: and be the bigger person, um, being able to try
Speaker 1: when I haven't done it yet. But I'm trying to
Speaker 1: learn how to deal with a lot of emotional situations, um,
Speaker 1: and be more mature and and and think before I act.
Speaker 1: I mean, there's many things that I'm proud of, proud
Speaker 1: of being proud of that is lessons learned. If you
Speaker 1: feel that you've learned any lessons this year, Stevie, what
Speaker 1: would you say that they have been the biggest lesson
Speaker 1: I learned this year? Don't who you're telling you who
Speaker 1: you tell you right about? Right? You know people in
Speaker 1: your face they're one way, but honestly, you know, behind
Speaker 1: your back it's a different story. And the thing is
Speaker 1: is that everyone talks about people, right, but honestly, don't.
Speaker 1: Don't let anyone use and abuse you ever. And you know,
Speaker 1: and in this industry sometimes or in life in general,
Speaker 1: you could be used. You know, you could be the
Speaker 1: one that carries your family. You know, you could be
Speaker 1: the one that everyone wants to use. Oh, please give
Speaker 1: me money, please give me money, the netto netto everywhere.
Speaker 1: But you're being the enabler, and no is a powerful word.
Speaker 1: If I can tell you one thing, no is a
Speaker 1: powerful word. And if I can't do it, honey, I
Speaker 1: can't help you. You know if I need to be
Speaker 1: there for my family first, I need to be there
Speaker 1: for my family, because that is one lesson that I
Speaker 1: learned that I was a yes man. Can you host this? Yes?
Speaker 1: Can you do? Can you host this concert? Yes? Can
Speaker 1: you do this? Yes? Can you go fly out to
Speaker 1: l A and do this? Yes? Everything was yes, you know,
Speaker 1: but then I get drained because some of the things
Speaker 1: that not everything is for you and helps your career.
Speaker 1: So it's gonna be a Destiny's child. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: no year for honey. Okay, period. I know I surely
Speaker 1: the house she had learned that before. But for me,
Speaker 1: I would say, is I always preach about it? But
Speaker 1: you know I didn't pay attention to would I be
Speaker 1: preaching lesson? Learn? Listen to your intuition. Listen to your intuition.
Speaker 1: God put that in your body for a reason. You
Speaker 1: don't have an intuition for nothing. When you go into
Speaker 1: a room and you feel scared, is there for a reason.
Speaker 1: When you are close to somebody and your intuition tells
Speaker 1: you change seats. It's you know, I think that a
Speaker 1: lot of times you see red flags and you ignore them.
Speaker 1: You're into it. And that goes for anything for business.
Speaker 1: If there's a document, if there's a contract that looks
Speaker 1: suspicious that you don't feel in your spirital Okay, I
Speaker 1: don't know why I feel like I shouldn't do this.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Listen to it. Listen to it. I
Speaker 1: knew that, listen to it. The same thing goes with friends.
Speaker 1: If there's somebody that's trying to be your friend or
Speaker 1: trying to be in your circle or whatever, or if
Speaker 1: you're dating someone or whatever, the kids may be that
Speaker 1: you see some red flags or your intuition is telling
Speaker 1: you don't do it. So I would definitely say, um,
Speaker 1: this year lesson learned is quo. I'm not saying following
Speaker 1: a thousand percent because something they can just come out
Speaker 1: of fear. Um, and fear is just you know, the unknown.
Speaker 1: But that intuition that you know that something is not right,
Speaker 1: definitely check that out. Um. What about the best decision
Speaker 1: you took this year? The best decision I took? I know,
Speaker 1: the best decision I took was I suntory gonna tell
Speaker 1: you guys. So for my birthday this year, um, I
Speaker 1: went to a new resort. And you know, I gotta guess,
Speaker 1: should I can I? Could I be real? Could I
Speaker 1: be real? That ma'd be real, be real, be exactly.
Speaker 1: For a long time, you know, I was, of course
Speaker 1: in love with my wife. For those that don't know what,
Speaker 1: we have to do an episode on that because people
Speaker 1: don't understand how I want married a woman. But I
Speaker 1: you know, I said, can we go to a new resort.
Speaker 1: I need to be able to explore. We live in Florida.
Speaker 1: Now let's let's explore a little bit. And what I
Speaker 1: mean explorers, just let's see what this new resort could give.
Speaker 1: So i'm there, I get a call from the love
Speaker 1: of my life up north, which is not a woman,
Speaker 1: is a man, so listen. So he comes and he's like,
Speaker 1: I flew in, and I'm like, wait a second, So
Speaker 1: wait a second. I'm on my way to a new resort.
Speaker 1: You flew in. You didn't tell me you're flying And
Speaker 1: and the best decision that I mean was to sit
Speaker 1: down with both of them and say, listen, I love you,
Speaker 1: and I love you, and we're just gonna have to
Speaker 1: make this work if we can. You know, nothing is
Speaker 1: for us if we can. And girls. The best decision
Speaker 1: being open and being free to both of them, especially
Speaker 1: my wife because she deserves all of the real Honest,
Speaker 1: I can't be in a relationship without telling her. I
Speaker 1: told her before I was married, and girl, guess what
Speaker 1: A kissed. Oh my god, you're lying because she's and
Speaker 1: she's conservative. Okay. Communication is key. Sometimes you just communication
Speaker 1: to keep board. It's like, Mama, I am dead. Okay,
Speaker 1: well look best. The best decision I have taken, I
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Speaker 1: eliminate more people out of my life. If you you know,
Speaker 1: if I had any yes man's gone, if I had
Speaker 1: any people that were stressing me out gone, any negativity gone,
Speaker 1: like well my mom, but you know I can't get
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Speaker 1: I'm grateful that I did that. I took those decisions
Speaker 1: I feel my past, and to be honest, I needed
Speaker 1: at this moment because I'm about to take a whole
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Speaker 1: get rid of people was definitely one of the best
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