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Speaker 1: Buggal up, Hold on tight, we gotta fall you here.

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Speaker 1: It is subject is she cheating? And should I leave? Hello,

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Speaker 1: Shirley Stephen tell me. Let me start by saying that

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Speaker 1: I have been married for six years without a problem.

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Speaker 1: At least, this is what I thought in parentheses. Uh,

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Speaker 1: My wife and I, along with her two children, attended

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Speaker 1: her best friend's wedding. I noticed that my wife introduced

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Speaker 1: me to everyone but this one guy, but she did

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Speaker 1: state that he used to work with her. As a

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Speaker 1: wedding went on, I saw the guy whispered to my

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Speaker 1: wife among friends. Then when my wife sat down, her

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Speaker 1: girlfriend the bride went and whispered to my wife. Fast

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Speaker 1: forward in October, my wife started working overtime three or

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Speaker 1: four days consistently, always getting a taxi voucher from her

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Speaker 1: job back home. On Christmas, another overtime day, I just

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Speaker 1: happened to see the home computer computer on with my

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Speaker 1: my surprise, I've seen that she wrote a quick note

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Speaker 1: to her friend the bride stating that Mark the guy

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Speaker 1: was in the bronx and he called her numerous times,

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Speaker 1: and she stated she was upset for missing his call,

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Speaker 1: so I asked her who is Mark. She stated she

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Speaker 1: did not know a guy named Mark. I later checked

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Speaker 1: her cell phone record and lo and behold, Mark's number

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Speaker 1: is in there consistently. Yes, I called to confirm it

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Speaker 1: was him. I approached my wife about it again and

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Speaker 1: she said, oh, yeah, I know him. We're just friends.

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Speaker 1: Get ready, Steve, here it comes. One night I hit

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Speaker 1: the redial button on the house phone by accident, and

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Speaker 1: this is what I heard her voice, saying, this phone

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Speaker 1: is just for that very special person. You know who

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Speaker 1: you are. Leave me a message so I can hear

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Speaker 1: your voice. I just looked at her in total disbelief.

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Speaker 1: I let her here so she could not deny it.

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Speaker 1: She bought a new cell phone just for him. Wow.

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Speaker 1: As time goes by, I find out through my wife

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Speaker 1: that he is married. And she claims that they have

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Speaker 1: only talked on the phone and went to lunch with

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Speaker 1: a group, and that she met his wife. She said

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Speaker 1: that they had sexual conversation, but she said that is nothing.

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Speaker 1: She went to the movies and stated she was with

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Speaker 1: her two female friends, but they both called my house

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Speaker 1: while she was out. She later said that she lied. Steve,

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Speaker 1: I'm no fool. I'm sticking it out because of my children.

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Speaker 1: Is she cheating? And should I leave? Oh? My god?

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Speaker 1: Is she cheating? Yeah? Affirmative affirmative? How much evidence do

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Speaker 1: you need? All right, we'll be back twelve minutes after

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, Steve, let him have it today,

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Speaker 1: Part two of your response to the Strawberry Letter. Let's go.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, yeah, she's cheating. I mean, how much

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Speaker 1: evidence do you need? You know, it's all right there.

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Speaker 1: You've done everything but see them, catch them in bed together.

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Speaker 1: You've done everything like that. I can't read the letter

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Speaker 1: no more because I'm gonna get more mad. Just read

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Speaker 1: it when you read it again? Yeah, you have to.

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Speaker 1: Hello Sherlet Steve and Toms start by saying, I've been

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Speaker 1: married for six years without a problem. At least that's

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Speaker 1: what I thought. My wife and now along without two children,

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Speaker 1: attended her best friends with I noticed that my wife

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Speaker 1: As the wedding went on, I saw the guy whispered

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Speaker 1: to my wife among friends, you ain't leaning over, putting

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Speaker 1: your lips up against my wife. Let's just start right there.

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Speaker 1: Let me let let me tell you how this ain't

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Speaker 1: going no further with me anyway anyway, very patient man.

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Speaker 1: Then when my wife sat down, her girlfriend the bride

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Speaker 1: went and whispered to my wife as forward. In October,

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Speaker 1: always getting a taxi about you from her job back home.

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Speaker 1: On Christmas, another overtime day, I just happened to see

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Speaker 1: So I peeked at it, and to my surprise, I

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Speaker 1: The bride stayed in that Mark, the guy was in

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Speaker 1: the Bronx and he called her numerous times, and she

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Speaker 1: that consistently. Yes, I called confirm it was him. That's

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Speaker 1: another moment. I'm just trying to figure out. That's why

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Speaker 1: we wanted you to read. Just when I called him,

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Speaker 1: it ain't too confirmed exactly. I just I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: get a location I'm gonna call in. He's the Lucky

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Speaker 1: Sweep stage when I'm bringing the che by. I approached

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Speaker 1: I know him. We're just friends. Get Ready, Steve, here

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Speaker 1: it comes. There, you're writing me phone now, get ready, Steve,

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Speaker 1: here it comes. One night, I hit the redoubt button

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Speaker 1: I heard her voice, saying, this phone is just for

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Speaker 1: that very special person. You know who you are. Leave

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Speaker 1: me a message so I can hear your voice. I

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Speaker 1: just looked at her in total disbelief. I let her

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Speaker 1: here so she could not deny she bought a new

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Speaker 1: cell phone just for him. Wow. As time goes by,

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Speaker 1: I find out through my wife that he is married.

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Speaker 1: And she claims that day have only two talked on

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Speaker 1: the phone and went to lunch with a group, and

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Speaker 1: then she met his wife. She said they had sexual conversation,

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Speaker 1: but she said that is nothing. She went to the

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Speaker 1: but they both called the house while she was out.

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Speaker 1: She later said that she lied Steve. I'm no food.

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Speaker 1: I'm sticking it out because of my children. Is she

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Speaker 1: cheating and should I leave well food see because obviously

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Speaker 1: you have a couple of misconceptions about definitions of word. Steve,

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Speaker 1: I'm no food. Okay, what is you then? Because see

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Speaker 1: I I see fool all through the letter Steve, I'm

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Speaker 1: no fool. I'm sticking it out because of my children.

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Speaker 1: Is he a woman? Because there's a female statement, I'm

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Speaker 1: sticking it out for my kids. I ain't hardly heard

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Speaker 1: no dudes say that. I think he really loves her?

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Speaker 1: Is she cheating? And should I leave me? My question

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Speaker 1: is when the hell is she getting put out? Since Steve,

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Speaker 1: first of all, your wrong letter for me. Wrong letter, y'all, father,

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Speaker 1: forgive down. First of all, you cheating on me? Why

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Speaker 1: I'm leaving any bags getting packed? It's gonna be the

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Speaker 1: one with the flowers on Those are the female bags,

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Speaker 1: the pink to me getting packed. The black tunic ain't

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Speaker 1: getting packed, but the prank tune it though prank tun

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Speaker 1: me for to get star a matter of fact, you

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Speaker 1: because I'm mad now, So it ain't pink. It's a

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Speaker 1: prank tubic, that prank tunic getting back, and it ain't

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Speaker 1: gonna be a whole lot of stuff. And you have

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Speaker 1: a cover of pad drawers because I bought that time.

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Speaker 1: Don't a man leans over whisper to your wife? First

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Speaker 1: of all, I got friends, all my friends as men.

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Speaker 1: H I ain't got no pardon to let nobody lean

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Speaker 1: over put his lips up against my wife. Is to

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Speaker 1: say nothing disrespectful as that. First of all, skip disrespect

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Speaker 1: when I put my forehead on the bridge of your nose,

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Speaker 1: and I excuse me, I was trying to whisper to you. Now,

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Speaker 1: now you you heard your friend talking about you heard

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Speaker 1: your wife leave a message the dude was in town,

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Speaker 1: and she hate she missed his call. Then you check

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Speaker 1: your cell phone record mark all over that you call

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Speaker 1: him to confirm is him right there? Me and Mark

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Speaker 1: fin to have a whole another kind of conversation. This

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Speaker 1: we are through with the low life moves right here.

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Speaker 1: Now you have to find out Mark married. Well, see

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Speaker 1: right now, a woman, it's gonna let everybody feel some

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Speaker 1: of this pain. See wants some woman find out that

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Speaker 1: the wife to what the woman calling the wife and

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Speaker 1: gonna spread this. And you ain't fenn to sit here

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Speaker 1: and just be at your house, you know, going to

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Speaker 1: the PTA meetings and everything. And I'm sitting up in

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Speaker 1: the here, laying up late at night tripping. We've coming

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Speaker 1: out and everything. I bought the extra blue. I can't

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Speaker 1: keep no hand in my head now. But you're sitting

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Speaker 1: up in here, going to PTA meeting, having yourself just

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Speaker 1: Bobby Dog, good time came over. No, no, you ain't

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Speaker 1: been to had him over. Bobby down a good time

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Speaker 1: with me. Everybody fel to have a stink date, are crazy, Steve.

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows when you smack your lips ignorant. You can

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Speaker 1: email us or instagram us your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: At my Girl Shirley, you're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show