1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:04,440 Speaker 1: Thank you for coming back. Part two is underway. Do 2 00:00:04,519 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: you know do you remember much about your grandmother? No, 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 1: because I wondered because your mom was this way, and 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: you said a part of you, you know, like you 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,200 Speaker 1: had to break a curse because you saw the way 6 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: your mom was, and I would it be interesting to 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: know what type of what type of mom your mom had. 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: I think everybody was uneducated, So I think my daughter 9 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,520 Speaker 2: was the first one to graduate high school in three generations, 10 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 2: first one to go to college that I can think of, 11 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: that I know of. 12 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 3: So, No, my grandmama died. She was an alcoholice. 13 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 2: She got poisoned withever corn look or some type of moonshine. 14 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 3: So I don't know much about her. I just know 15 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:41,680 Speaker 3: my granddaddy. 16 00:00:42,240 --> 00:00:43,959 Speaker 1: You said that was one of your proudest moments when 17 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,120 Speaker 1: your daughter graduated high school. It was because you didn't 18 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: you drop out of your mom dropped out. Probably your 19 00:00:51,159 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: your your grandmother probably didn't go to the finish high 20 00:00:54,800 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: school either. What was that moment like when your daughter's 21 00:00:57,520 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: like you see your daughter walking across that stage high 22 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:00,880 Speaker 1: school diploma. 23 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 2: I cried, I cried, And you know what, let's back 24 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,039 Speaker 2: up before you get to the high school plumb. So 25 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 2: I never got a chance to go to prom or 26 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:12,160 Speaker 2: anything like that because I dropped out. And so I 27 00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,959 Speaker 2: have four kids, and every one of them went to 28 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:17,160 Speaker 2: prom for me. 29 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 3: I picked the outfit I picked. I went all out. 30 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:24,759 Speaker 2: I mean I told them what I wanted them to wear. 31 00:01:25,200 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 2: I picked they card. I didn't pick they date. My 32 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 2: daughter went with a bunch of girls. I should have 33 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:33,319 Speaker 2: known she was get in. My other daughter went with 34 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,120 Speaker 2: her best friend. And my sons went with two young ladies. 35 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,119 Speaker 2: And they allowed me to pick their dates and stuff 36 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: like that. So I got to live that through them. 37 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:45,160 Speaker 2: And when they all graduated, and I just said, you know, 38 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: I did something. And my daughter, Garyana, she is an 39 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 2: she has two degrees, and so you know, I'm proud 40 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 2: of them. You know, they're not convicted felons like me. 41 00:01:56,880 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 2: They're not high school dropouts. They work and they do 42 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 2: the things they supposed to do. So I'm all right, 43 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 2: I'm proud of them. 44 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 4: You did more than all right. 45 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 3: Yeah they didn't. 46 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:11,639 Speaker 2: They didn't turn into no Shannon Sean, my fat ass 47 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 2: son could have played football. But you know, I'm not 48 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,440 Speaker 2: that parent. They're gonna stick around when you ain't good 49 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:19,040 Speaker 2: at something. I bring your ass on now. My son 50 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: played basketball. One time he was so hard with Shanny 51 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:23,359 Speaker 2: his shoe kept falling off it. I said, boy, get 52 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 2: them damn shoe. I'm going home and watching young and restless. 53 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 2: I said, we quit, we quit. 54 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 3: You're horrible. 55 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 4: He said, what you mean? 56 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 3: I said, baby, you you're only good at football. 57 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 2: Go out there and let them hit you upside your 58 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 2: damn head because that's what you're good at. 59 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 4: You like to eat ms fat. 60 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: What advice would you give, because you'd be a you'd 61 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:43,960 Speaker 1: be a great I mean, you'd be great with a 62 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: tar talk. You'd be great talking to young women that 63 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:51,359 Speaker 1: are possibly going through something or have gone through something 64 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,800 Speaker 1: very similar to what you've gone through. What would be 65 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: some of the advice that you would like to share? 66 00:02:55,919 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: I mean, have you shared? I mean, obviously you shared 67 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: your story many times, but have you thought about, like, 68 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,399 Speaker 1: if I get an opportunity to stand up in front 69 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:07,520 Speaker 1: of a group of women, a thousand women and share 70 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 1: my story with them, maybe they've gone through something similar 71 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: and don't know how to move on, or maybe there's 72 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,079 Speaker 1: somebody that's going through something right now that I can 73 00:03:17,120 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: help them with. 74 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:19,200 Speaker 4: What would you tell. 75 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 2: Them, learn how to love yourself. The problem with me 76 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,399 Speaker 2: was I realized I didn't love myself. I was too 77 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 2: busy loving everybody else and nobody was loving me. So 78 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,840 Speaker 2: that was That's one of the things that always tell people. 79 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 2: I said, when you do so much for other people, 80 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:39,880 Speaker 2: then you're taking away from yourself. You gotta make yourself first. 81 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 2: And when I learned how to love myself, that's why 82 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 2: I was able to find a man that knows how 83 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 2: to love me. When I was loving on my kids father, 84 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 2: I was just loving on him. 85 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 3: He wasn't loving on me. 86 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 4: He didn't return that. 87 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 3: He did no reciprocate, reciplicate. Since you want to use 88 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 3: these fans hands, he wasn't giving back. I don't reciprocate me. 89 00:04:02,320 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 3: Or I used to still call I love an educated man, 90 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:12,280 Speaker 3: but yeah, you didn't give it. Learn how to love yourself. 91 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 3: Put yourself first. 92 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,560 Speaker 2: And then you know, even as a mom or wife, 93 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:18,920 Speaker 2: we still have the you know, tendency of putting everybody 94 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 2: else before. Sometimes you gotta pull your wig off and 95 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 2: shut that door and say, everybody outside the door re 96 00:04:23,960 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 2: gonna go to the hell to day because it's all 97 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 2: about me. 98 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 3: You gotta learn how to love yourself. 99 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 1: When you first got into comedy, mispat, did you change 100 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: what I mean was your accent? 101 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 4: Did you change anything about the way you talk? 102 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,840 Speaker 3: Nah? I changed my act. 103 00:04:39,920 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 2: You know. I did what everybody else do, an whole 104 00:04:41,880 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 2: bunch of sex stuff. And then I started to tell 105 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:47,440 Speaker 2: these stories about life off story, off stage, and people 106 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 2: just like you should really, you know, look into telling 107 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:54,719 Speaker 2: these stories. And I had my neighbors and everybody kept 108 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 2: telling me you got crazy stories like Richard Pryor. I 109 00:04:58,000 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 2: ain't really know who rich pro I didn't even know 110 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 2: rich Pride was a comedian. So I started to look 111 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 2: into Richard Probaby and buy his old CD. And I 112 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 2: was like, you get all that money for telling your business. 113 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 3: You know, because we grew up a lot of light. 114 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 3: He grew up in the Bronx. I grew up in 115 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 3: a boot leg house. 116 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 4: You know. 117 00:05:11,320 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 3: He saw holes. I saw holes. That was nothing. 118 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:13,960 Speaker 4: You know. 119 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,839 Speaker 2: I've told that story about helping mine special need uncle 120 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:18,839 Speaker 2: have sex all the time. 121 00:05:18,880 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 3: That's what me and my sister had to do with 122 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 3: holding legs back because he was crippled. So here he 123 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 3: was crippled and so he would have seizures. 124 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 2: I've told this story many times, and my granddaddy thought 125 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 2: if my uncle busts a nut, it would calm down 126 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 2: to Maunt of siezes that he would have. So me 127 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 2: and my sister would have to go back there and 128 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 2: pull his leg back because he was crippled and he 129 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 2: was special need too. You know, back then we said 130 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,440 Speaker 2: that he was retarding, so we pull his leg back. 131 00:05:43,640 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 2: He get it started, and my grandad give a fifty 132 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 2: cent to go play pac Man. But you know what, 133 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:55,400 Speaker 2: back in those days, it was normal if go caet 134 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 2: see the naked and get him ready for the whole. 135 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 2: He just be smiling because he really couldn't I like 136 00:06:00,279 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 2: start smiling all the time. You about it happened the 137 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 2: more he smiled a longeed guy. I'm gonna tell you 138 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 2: the first time I ever saw one outside of a sea, 139 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 2: I was like that thing, don't look like not knowing 140 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 2: I wasn't supposed to be looking at a ca sisars? 141 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 4: When did when did you? When did you decide? 142 00:06:24,800 --> 00:06:24,840 Speaker 3: So? 143 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 4: You know what, I think I can do? Stand up? 144 00:06:27,520 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 4: I think I'm funny. 145 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,599 Speaker 1: Because I know you you dropped out in like the 146 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: eighth grade. But were you Were you funny as a child? 147 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,200 Speaker 1: Were you a comedian where you you know, class clown 148 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 1: where you were in school. 149 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I had the jone all the time. 150 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 4: We called it. 151 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, we had a jone all the time because I 152 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:45,480 Speaker 2: was I was a musty kid. So what my mama 153 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 2: would give us by everything was monthly. She was about 154 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,159 Speaker 2: it to see. We could only get one swipe, so 155 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 2: it was just enough for one arm. So you knew 156 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 2: not to use that other arm the whole day to 157 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 2: keep it from sweating. So I was right handed, so 158 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 2: I would always put a d up on my right 159 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 2: because that's my most active arm. So I would have 160 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 2: to get people off of me, you know, because we 161 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 2: wrote we were hand me down. My brother stole from 162 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 2: the good Whell and we were just pois healed. So 163 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 2: I would have to learn. My mouth became a piece. Yeah, 164 00:07:14,680 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 2: you're gonna get up off me. And I used to 165 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:22,240 Speaker 2: fight a lot too. She I thought all the time 166 00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 2: at English Avenue Elementary, you better ask somebody because you know. 167 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: So when I was coming up, they used to give 168 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 2: those boxes to poor kids. Remember the Thanksgiving and Christma. 169 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:38,440 Speaker 2: I hate those boxes. Oh and it was five of us, 170 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: all five of us was getting boxes, and Mama was 171 00:07:41,360 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 2: so lazy shuting. She wouldn't even come up to the 172 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:45,679 Speaker 2: school knowing we got that thirty pound God damn Tucky 173 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 2: gotta walk them down the street. 174 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, he on throwing on my side. You got him 175 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,120 Speaker 3: on your you on your shoulder like a pocket bull. 176 00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 3: Can't good. So everybody be picking that up. Can't good. 177 00:07:56,040 --> 00:08:00,720 Speaker 3: Falling because of box wet and so I had to 178 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:03,840 Speaker 3: fight all the time cause we were so damn poor. 179 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 4: So you do it like you know what, we try this. 180 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: So do you remember do you remember the moment that 181 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: you said I'm gonna give a stand up or try Yeah? 182 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: And do you remember your first set? 183 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? 184 00:08:14,800 --> 00:08:18,160 Speaker 2: So, like I said, everybody said, I had stories like 185 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:21,240 Speaker 2: Richard Price. I go to this caseworking and I'm trying 186 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 2: to make her get me more. 187 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 3: I'm trying to make her feel sorry for me. 188 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: So the first story I tell her my granddaddy hanging us. So, 189 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 2: my granddaddy hung us one time for stealing my aunt 190 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 2: food stamps. 191 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,679 Speaker 3: And it wasn't no like like no killer hanging. 192 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 2: It was like five second. He put the rope around 193 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:37,160 Speaker 2: the neck, mood it and say who got the food stamps? 194 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 3: I told on him. My caseworker laughed. I asked off. 195 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 2: She said, you've thought about being a comedian And I said, 196 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:45,840 Speaker 2: She said, you are funny. So she would block off 197 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:50,440 Speaker 2: my She was my welfare work program caseworker. She would 198 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:52,719 Speaker 2: block off two, three out just talking to me. Let 199 00:08:52,760 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 2: me tell a story. She be in there with tills 200 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 2: coming out of eye and. 201 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 3: I'm like what. She was like, you should really try 202 00:08:59,000 --> 00:08:59,560 Speaker 3: to stand up. 203 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:04,760 Speaker 4: Are you give me an extra? You waste my time. 204 00:09:05,480 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 2: She gave me a lot of stuff and she kept 205 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:11,360 Speaker 2: encouraging me. And I got on stage and uh. I 206 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:14,040 Speaker 2: came home one night with my wig smelling light cigarette. 207 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 2: I told my husand I sad, I'm a comedian. He said, 208 00:09:15,720 --> 00:09:17,120 Speaker 2: take your ass to bed so you can go to 209 00:09:17,200 --> 00:09:18,080 Speaker 2: Walmart tomorrow. 210 00:09:19,520 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 3: And I said, now, I'm a comedian. I'm a comedian. 211 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 3: And I just kept going out and hook. 212 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:26,800 Speaker 1: The first time you got on stage and you heard 213 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:29,200 Speaker 1: that applause, you heard that laughter, there was no turning 214 00:09:29,240 --> 00:09:29,880 Speaker 1: back from its back. 215 00:09:30,040 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 2: I know when I get into something when something is 216 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,640 Speaker 2: in it for me, And I felt like something was 217 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,560 Speaker 2: in it for me. Not only the money was there, 218 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 2: but the healing process was there too. So I just 219 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:43,439 Speaker 2: stuck with it, and I'm gonna tell y'all some when 220 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 2: you choose a career that other people don't understand, it 221 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 2: can really. 222 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:48,239 Speaker 3: Mess up your relationship. 223 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 2: My husband did not understand why I wanted to be 224 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 2: a comedian, and it really put some dts in my marriage. 225 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,719 Speaker 3: You know, I know he wanted to leave. 226 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 2: Like I said, I was feeling this credit card flying 227 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 2: out doing gas spots. You don't get paid, no guess bys, 228 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 2: and he couldn't understand. It's like, you're not making no money. 229 00:10:07,640 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 2: So I'm telling you it's something here for me, and 230 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 2: I stuck with it and that day, can't William call 231 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:15,400 Speaker 2: everything changed. 232 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 1: Wow, because a lot of times they can't see, like 233 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:22,199 Speaker 1: everybody wants the instant gratification. Okay, right now, this that 234 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:24,760 Speaker 1: you on stage and you're doing this X, Y and Z. 235 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:27,600 Speaker 1: But it was going to be down the road and 236 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 1: they can't see what you see because it wasn't their vision. 237 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 4: That's your vision. 238 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,839 Speaker 2: When I moved from Atlanta to Indianapolis with my husband 239 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 2: jobs General Motors, and I was determined to get out 240 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 2: of Indianapolis, I hated it. 241 00:10:39,920 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 3: I could not live. 242 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:43,200 Speaker 2: I lived in Plainfield, Indiana, in front of the prison 243 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,200 Speaker 2: that Mike Tyson did all his time at and that 244 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:47,440 Speaker 2: was the first thing they told me. 245 00:10:47,440 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 3: Mike Tysan did it. 246 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 2: I don't give a damn about no black man going 247 00:10:49,920 --> 00:10:51,800 Speaker 2: to jail. I know a lot of black men's in Gaim. 248 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:55,360 Speaker 3: And I just knew that on Morland. Thank you. 249 00:10:56,280 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 2: And I'm like, I can't stay here. And I told 250 00:10:58,679 --> 00:11:02,360 Speaker 2: my husband, I said, just stick with me. I said, 251 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 2: I'm going to retire you. And my I was like, girl, 252 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 2: I got a picture. You can't retire. I said, I'm 253 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 2: going to retire you, shouting my husband at the house 254 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:11,360 Speaker 2: right now. He ain't worked in two and a half years. 255 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:12,640 Speaker 3: Wow, three years. 256 00:11:13,520 --> 00:11:15,240 Speaker 2: I looked at him and I said, it's time to lead, 257 00:11:15,280 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 2: gentle motive. We don't need it no more. My husband 258 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 2: bus his ass for over twenty four years taking care 259 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 2: of me and them kids. There was days he had 260 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:26,319 Speaker 2: to drag himself in the house from making them transmission 261 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 2: in them calls. 262 00:11:27,559 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 3: But now he just go and get the leads out 263 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:33,760 Speaker 3: the pool. He do white man stuff. 264 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:38,720 Speaker 2: And every time I look on all security camera and 265 00:11:38,720 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 2: I see him, I say, I told him, and I 266 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 2: asked him other I said, are you happy? 267 00:11:43,120 --> 00:11:44,480 Speaker 3: He said, if only you knew. 268 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: This, Pat, you're very comfortable on stage. You mentioned earlier 269 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 1: that your daughter is gay. Yes, you say you're very comfortable, 270 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 1: You're very comfortable on stage talking about it. 271 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 4: Did you know or did she come to you and 272 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 4: tell you. 273 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,319 Speaker 3: Oh, I shouldn't be eating nice Damn I'm on camera. 274 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 3: I kind of knew what happened. I didn't know my 275 00:12:09,880 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 3: daughter was gay. Uh. 276 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: I bought her some Eling Harris's book he was it 277 00:12:14,320 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 2: was I was listening to you one on three one 278 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 2: day and they was talking about Elin Hare Franksky and 279 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 2: that was an author. 280 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 3: Get these books, they're good. And so my daughter is 281 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 3: a reader, like that's all she do was read. So 282 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 3: I some get my. 283 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 2: Daughter these books. I didn't know there was a damn 284 00:12:29,600 --> 00:12:32,319 Speaker 2: load book because I don't read. I bought my daughter 285 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 2: all these damn load books and she just reading them 286 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 2: ship And I said, what the hell is in these book? 287 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 3: Reading them? Why she had school reading them? Why she's 288 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 3: doing that's what the hell is in these books? 289 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 2: I pick it up and she only thing about undercover 290 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 2: gay do that said, who the hell bout you? 291 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 3: These books? She was like you, how about you this shit? 292 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:51,440 Speaker 2: And so I tell my husband, I said, I think 293 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,400 Speaker 2: she might be kind of suspect. And so when she 294 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 2: went to college and she didn't come back home, and 295 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 2: then she started to run because I went to jail 296 00:13:00,160 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 2: and I hated gay women. I hated gay women. I 297 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: could deal with a gay man, I could not deal 298 00:13:05,160 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 2: with a gay woman. And my daughter knew how I 299 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 2: felt because of the shit, the mean things I would 300 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 2: say around the house. And my daughter disappeared for three 301 00:13:14,679 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 2: years and I called her. I hit up on Facebook 302 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:18,319 Speaker 2: one day and I said, where are you? She was 303 00:13:18,360 --> 00:13:21,400 Speaker 2: in Virginia, I said, call me. She called me and 304 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 2: I said, Ashley, are you gay? 305 00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:25,199 Speaker 4: Now? 306 00:13:25,200 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 3: I already kind of figured about then. 307 00:13:26,640 --> 00:13:28,199 Speaker 2: I just want to hear all about She said, yes, ma'am, 308 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 2: I'm gay. 309 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,120 Speaker 3: I said, so you sleep with women, you eat pussy. 310 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 4: Could you be a little more suddled with it? 311 00:13:37,200 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 3: No, I had to get right to the point. She said, yes, ma'am, 312 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,839 Speaker 3: I do. I said, all right, Well, come on back 313 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 3: to Atlanta. 314 00:13:42,360 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 2: That's all they do down here. I said, you're gonna 315 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 2: fit ready at home. And it was hard. It was 316 00:13:48,480 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 2: hard because I was raised a certain rank and my 317 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 2: daughter looked just like me, Shannon, just like me. And 318 00:13:54,240 --> 00:13:56,400 Speaker 2: that was time I see her on Facebook well, and 319 00:13:56,520 --> 00:13:58,960 Speaker 2: I called him, and I would tell her get my 320 00:13:59,080 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 2: face off them. 321 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,000 Speaker 3: I mean, she liked the hard chicks like you. She 322 00:14:04,160 --> 00:14:05,200 Speaker 3: like a chick that look like you. 323 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 2: They have on pasts, but they be looking like you. 324 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:17,920 Speaker 2: So I had to learn just you know, I love 325 00:14:18,040 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 2: my child, yes, so I had to learn. You know, 326 00:14:22,200 --> 00:14:25,560 Speaker 2: I guess I wanted to. I guess I used to 327 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 2: always joke about I saying I always wanted to teach 328 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,440 Speaker 2: you how to dig. But you know we gonna never 329 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 2: have that in com And she said. 330 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:32,720 Speaker 3: Well, Mama, do it. I'm a deal dose. And so 331 00:14:32,840 --> 00:14:34,000 Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I ain't gonna do it on your 332 00:14:34,040 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 3: deal though, but. 333 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 2: You know you gay, I love you and just come 334 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 2: home and I love my child. And it opened my 335 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 2: eyes because I tell people all the time what you 336 00:14:44,040 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 2: don't like a lot of time, God would put that 337 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 2: in your lives and your life to make you understand you. 338 00:14:49,800 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 3: What do you hate? 339 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:54,960 Speaker 2: Why we judge peopley's sexuality. My daughter is in a 340 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 2: great relationship. She found somebody that love for my daughter. 341 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 2: Ain't ever been beat on like me, mistreated like me, 342 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: And she happy and I'm gladed. What we want for 343 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 2: our kids, That's all I want for my daughter. Now 344 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,120 Speaker 2: I'll tell you when you come over there sometime. Because 345 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 2: she's so nasty, I make her use plastic. But other 346 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 2: than that, maybe she talking about vagina like chicken dressing. 347 00:15:19,640 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 3: So but I love her and I'm. 348 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:28,400 Speaker 2: Happy that she that she's okay with who she are, 349 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:31,200 Speaker 2: and as a family, we support that you. 350 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 4: Told a story, told the joke what times like. 351 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: Your daughter's a lot like you, because you know, the 352 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: only difference is I dated lazy man. 353 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 4: She liked lazy women. 354 00:15:40,240 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 2: She in the beginning, she loved them lazy And say, Ashley, 355 00:15:44,200 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 2: just go over there and get your lazy man. 356 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 3: They you can't read. They have really big packages. You 357 00:15:48,880 --> 00:15:49,560 Speaker 3: will enjoy. 358 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 2: A lazy man will rock you, aril. They make you 359 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 2: sound like your tape. I'm not calling you lazy, and 360 00:15:57,560 --> 00:15:59,800 Speaker 2: I'm just saying it gave me flashback that day when 361 00:15:59,800 --> 00:16:01,920 Speaker 2: I heard it on Instagram. 362 00:16:02,640 --> 00:16:06,360 Speaker 4: You followed me, Yeah, I follow you. 363 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 2: Won't block me. You learn how to work your damn following. 364 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,120 Speaker 2: I didn't record that you recorded. 365 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:15,640 Speaker 3: First. 366 00:16:15,680 --> 00:16:19,360 Speaker 2: I thought that was Ai said, damn, Ai is killing it. 367 00:16:22,960 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 2: When you came't clean up down, I was like, WHOA. 368 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 4: I don't think I'm ever gonna be a live this 369 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:31,240 Speaker 4: down now. 370 00:16:31,280 --> 00:16:33,240 Speaker 3: But I don't think you are Shannon. 371 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 2: I don't think I don't think you are. You know, 372 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:42,200 Speaker 2: as a woman, we appreciated that tape, we did. Then 373 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:46,760 Speaker 2: you appreciated ma'am. Don't you say naw? 374 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 3: You probably with the victim. I'm just playing. 375 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: Had the situation had been reversed, let's just say you 376 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,080 Speaker 1: your daughter's situation, do you think your mom would have 377 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: been an accepted No. 378 00:17:02,200 --> 00:17:05,560 Speaker 2: No, that's all we heard was ugly stuff, sissy, the 379 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,160 Speaker 2: F word. We heard all those words coming up. If 380 00:17:08,200 --> 00:17:10,200 Speaker 2: you you know, if you was gay, was something wrong 381 00:17:10,280 --> 00:17:12,639 Speaker 2: with you? No, my mama wouldn't accept that. 382 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: How have you been able because you have broken a 383 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:21,919 Speaker 1: lot of the curses that your family were stuck with. 384 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 1: You've become more accepted, You've been to be, You've been free, 385 00:17:25,800 --> 00:17:29,160 Speaker 1: you've been more kind, you've been more receptive to things. 386 00:17:29,600 --> 00:17:30,920 Speaker 4: How old you been able to do that? 387 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 3: I love my child. 388 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 2: I love my child and I'm not gonna I'm not 389 00:17:36,840 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 2: gonna disown my child for sexuality. I mean, you see 390 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:42,520 Speaker 2: people stick by their kids when they know they don't 391 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,920 Speaker 2: murder nine people. Yes, all my daughters doing the liquor looking. 392 00:17:46,240 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 2: Why can't I stick by all, and my daughter is 393 00:17:49,240 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 2: happy at the end of the day, at the end 394 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,439 Speaker 2: of the day. And you know what's so crazy, Shanny 395 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 2: by me being a I call myself a gay parent, 396 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,240 Speaker 2: and so many gay people come out to my show 397 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:00,280 Speaker 2: and they don't have a parent like me. 398 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:01,280 Speaker 3: Who's understanding. 399 00:18:01,480 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 2: I just last a couple of weeks ago, this girl 400 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 2: was like, I'm so glad you talked about being how 401 00:18:06,880 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 2: much you love your gay daughter. 402 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 3: My daddy is in the audience. 403 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:12,480 Speaker 2: He having a hard time accepting my brother, or my 404 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:15,439 Speaker 2: mama is having a hard time accepting my sister. Why 405 00:18:15,840 --> 00:18:18,360 Speaker 2: when that person is happy at the end of the day. 406 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 2: We all want to be happy. I mean they always 407 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 2: talk about the Bible. 408 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 3: You know, everything in the Bible to me ain't real. 409 00:18:26,880 --> 00:18:27,640 Speaker 3: And then if it. 410 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 2: Is real, let me and God deal with that, because 411 00:18:31,280 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 2: your ass gotta deal with some things with God yourself. 412 00:18:33,840 --> 00:18:35,679 Speaker 1: With the cherry pick parts of the Bible, there are 413 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:37,639 Speaker 1: certain parts there here too. In another part there just 414 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:38,719 Speaker 1: totally thank you. 415 00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 2: So don't cherry pick me or don't cherry pick my daughter. 416 00:18:42,240 --> 00:18:44,920 Speaker 2: Let my daughter let be happy. And I tell people 417 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: all the time, they was like, miss past, how do 418 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 2: I tell my mama. My mama want to sell me 419 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 2: being gay. I had a young boy coming to my 420 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 2: inbox one day. She want to sell me being gay. 421 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:55,479 Speaker 2: I said, you tell your mama you stop sucking dick. 422 00:18:55,560 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 2: When she stops sucking dick, I'm sorry. Ain't had nobody 423 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,640 Speaker 2: cuss on they parl cars that. 424 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:03,679 Speaker 3: Much, but you can bleep it. 425 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 2: But yeah, but don't come for me with my gay child. 426 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:08,600 Speaker 2: And people like, oh, it's so holy. Half of the 427 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:10,439 Speaker 2: crap you do in your life is a holy and 428 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 2: who knows what's unholy. I had somebody to tell me 429 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 2: one time, you we're gonna pray. 430 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:16,840 Speaker 3: The gainess out of Ashley. 431 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 2: How the hell we gonna pray the gaateeness out of 432 00:19:19,320 --> 00:19:21,200 Speaker 2: ass I'm up here praying for ash I can forget, 433 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:22,960 Speaker 2: to forget to pray for myself, and. 434 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 3: I go to Hell and ash little to heaven. 435 00:19:25,200 --> 00:19:27,120 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be trying to pray no gateness out 436 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:29,040 Speaker 2: of ash I got my own things. I be doing 437 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,359 Speaker 2: all the times. I for as these white people credit 438 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 2: cards stole them check, I'm still praying for that. So 439 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,800 Speaker 2: mind your business. That's the problem with this world. We 440 00:19:38,840 --> 00:19:43,240 Speaker 2: won't mind out We too, were too businesses. 441 00:19:42,240 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 3: We too business trying to make everybody do what we 442 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:45,639 Speaker 3: want them to do. 443 00:19:47,040 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 4: Or try to make people think that we're perfect. 444 00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 3: And you're not perfect. You're not perfect. 445 00:19:52,440 --> 00:19:54,520 Speaker 1: Because everybody, if you look at everybody on the internet, 446 00:19:54,640 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 1: they got nice cars, they got nice homes, they're making 447 00:19:56,920 --> 00:19:59,320 Speaker 1: tons of money, they're on vacation, they line. 448 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 3: Look, did you see the boy who got the girl 449 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:02,919 Speaker 3: set him up? 450 00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 2: And he got a rolexe in the pool and the 451 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:07,160 Speaker 2: rolex was set him up in the rolex was fake. 452 00:20:08,640 --> 00:20:11,959 Speaker 2: Y'all better stop flexing. I mean, I come from an 453 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 2: era where you didn't show off your stuff because you 454 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,280 Speaker 2: were too scared somebody was gonna come take your stuff. 455 00:20:16,960 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 3: All they do is flass, that's all. 456 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:20,960 Speaker 2: And you know what, Shannon, When I built my house, 457 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 2: I did show my house certain parts. So it's only 458 00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,880 Speaker 2: because I wanted ag TV to give me a TV show. 459 00:20:28,720 --> 00:20:30,639 Speaker 2: They ain't gave me no TV show, so I stopped 460 00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:31,400 Speaker 2: showing it. 461 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:33,200 Speaker 3: That's the only reason. 462 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna take you through my closet and 463 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 2: show you the design of bags. I'm not gonna open 464 00:20:38,520 --> 00:20:41,680 Speaker 2: up my bank account and show you anything. But those 465 00:20:41,720 --> 00:20:44,920 Speaker 2: are people that they ain't got nothing, and that need 466 00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 2: to show you that they got something. Because I always 467 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 2: say rich people ain't never rich people ain't never gonna 468 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:52,400 Speaker 2: really be flashy. 469 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 3: Mm hmmm. 470 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 2: It's a poor people that's gonna come out here and 471 00:20:56,600 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 2: show you everything they got. 472 00:20:58,520 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 3: I ain't gonna show you nothing. 473 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,359 Speaker 2: I ain't gonna show you nothing I show ain't gonna 474 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 2: get no stack of money and put it upside my head. 475 00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 3: Now you're breaking the house and it's all ones. 476 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 2: You donna shot my whole family and showed my little 477 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:13,119 Speaker 2: dog I just got from Walmart named Lulu, brought me 478 00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,359 Speaker 2: an also, dude from Walmart. You ain't gonna shoot my 479 00:21:15,400 --> 00:21:18,240 Speaker 2: dog over. No eight hundred dollars for ones. 480 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 3: I hear flexing because I'm fifty two. That's what we 481 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 3: say flex. 482 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 483 00:21:23,880 --> 00:21:26,680 Speaker 2: But those are people that that that need to prove something. 484 00:21:26,720 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 2: I don't need to prove nothing. 485 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:30,400 Speaker 1: Miss pat. Let me ask you this for your audience. 486 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,840 Speaker 1: If you gotta do you change your set for a 487 00:21:33,880 --> 00:21:37,399 Speaker 1: white audience as opposed to your dog, your comedy, your comedy. 488 00:21:37,600 --> 00:21:38,480 Speaker 3: My company is my company. 489 00:21:38,520 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 2: I say the N word, I do me. I'm not 490 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 2: gonna switch it up for you. I'm not gonna make 491 00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 2: you feel comfortable. I'm telling my story. Why should I 492 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 2: allow you to buy a ticket and come and tell 493 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:48,520 Speaker 2: me what you want to hear. 494 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:51,880 Speaker 3: You can't see me. I didn't come to see you. 495 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,919 Speaker 2: You have a lot of black comedians that can't perform 496 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 2: in front of white people. My audience is pretty diverse. 497 00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,280 Speaker 2: I got a lot of Trump supporters. 498 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:01,560 Speaker 3: They were yesterday. 499 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:05,840 Speaker 2: I'm posted that stuff, all black woman, all this. They 500 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:08,560 Speaker 2: were wearing me out. And I tell him, it's about respect. 501 00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:11,280 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to respect that. I'm a diehood Democrat 502 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 2: and I believe in what I believe, and I'm gonna 503 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 2: respect you. I don't have a problem with you. The 504 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,439 Speaker 2: way you vote, that's what's great about this country. So 505 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna argue with you. I cry with you, 506 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:24,160 Speaker 2: I pray with you, I fight you, but we're not 507 00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,680 Speaker 2: gonna I ain't gonna argue with you, and you're gonna 508 00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:27,199 Speaker 2: respect me. 509 00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:29,120 Speaker 3: And that's it. 510 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, you vote whoever one day, the people's vote. 511 00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 2: Now that I tell a story about I have a 512 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:41,400 Speaker 2: Trump supporter, that's that's does my gutters right and show 513 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:42,879 Speaker 2: up at my house. He got a Trump head on. 514 00:22:43,440 --> 00:22:45,280 Speaker 2: The man had a good deal and he did a 515 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:47,439 Speaker 2: damn good job. I don't send him over all my 516 00:22:47,440 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 2: black friend's house because at the end of. 517 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 3: The day, you know, that's his job, and he gave 518 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,120 Speaker 3: me a service. I don't. I try to see both 519 00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 3: sides of everything, and I got friends. Oh no, no, no, no, 520 00:23:01,560 --> 00:23:03,800 Speaker 3: no no. People vote for all kinds of reasons. 521 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:07,160 Speaker 2: Taxes, you know, some of them racism, some of them 522 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 2: did whatever. You know, if I honestly, sometimes my kid 523 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 2: will be Tomama Republican. I need to vote over there 524 00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,040 Speaker 2: sometimes for the tax break. It about to be some 525 00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 2: nice tax breaks. My camp and I said, hey, the 526 00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 2: tax king just got elected. What you think can happen? 527 00:23:28,800 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 1: Well, the market, the market went crazy this morning. We'll 528 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 1: see how long it runs. I heard you Joe Rogan, 529 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:36,960 Speaker 1: Joe was a comedian, does a great job with the 530 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:38,879 Speaker 1: UFC and the digital space. 531 00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:42,720 Speaker 4: He's the king is. You're good friends with it. 532 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:47,480 Speaker 1: So what's Joe like, because you know him behind the camera, 533 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:48,440 Speaker 1: not in front of the camp. 534 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 3: Joe a nice person. Joe. 535 00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,640 Speaker 2: You know, I hear a lot of things about Joe. 536 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,080 Speaker 2: People say he's racism. I said, no, that's not the Joe. 537 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 2: I know he's he's nice. If I ever need some 538 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,199 Speaker 2: he you know I can pick up the phone and 539 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,679 Speaker 2: call him, Hey, Joe, I can be honest with you. 540 00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:07,679 Speaker 2: I can ask Joe to tweet out a show or 541 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 2: help me with a show before I can ask some 542 00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 2: black comedian. 543 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:11,760 Speaker 3: And that's bad to say. 544 00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:17,040 Speaker 2: When the pandemic hit two two people called me and 545 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,320 Speaker 2: asked me, was I gonna make it through the pandemic? 546 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 3: And one of them was Joe Rogan, Wow, and I 547 00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 3: said huh. I said, I'm gonna be okay. He said 548 00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:27,600 Speaker 3: you you good? 549 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 5: You good? 550 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,640 Speaker 2: And the other one was Burt Christian. I said I'm 551 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 2: gonna be okay. I'm good. 552 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 3: Now. 553 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 2: One black comedian called me and asked me, are you 554 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 2: gonna be okay? You're gonna make it through the pandemic. 555 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:44,240 Speaker 2: I don't even think we checked on each other like that. No, no, 556 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 2: we didn't. 557 00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,399 Speaker 3: I mean, you know, Joe Joe, because a. 558 00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 1: Lot of time it's fat when we call one another, 559 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,160 Speaker 1: we automatically sumo, you're trying to find out something. 560 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:53,760 Speaker 4: You fish it? 561 00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, fish, you ain't called it sincerely check on me. 562 00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 1: You just tried to mm hmm. Yeah, I know he ain't. 563 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:02,800 Speaker 1: The mispatter ain't doing good. 564 00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:03,320 Speaker 4: I don't know. 565 00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:06,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that ain't how I took it from them. 566 00:25:06,760 --> 00:25:09,159 Speaker 1: I mean, no, no, no, no no, I'm saying we do that, 567 00:25:09,200 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: ye yes, yes. 568 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 3: Yes yes, and you gonna make it through this. I wouldn't. 569 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 2: I went down stairs in my basement and start paying 570 00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:17,040 Speaker 2: my house in Indiana the whole time the pandemic went on, 571 00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 2: I remoted ouse. I mean, but you know, and my 572 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,600 Speaker 2: daughter get on me all the time because she just 573 00:25:22,640 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 2: see things one way. 574 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:26,520 Speaker 3: I see things down the middle. 575 00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 2: Like when people be talking that crap about Joe Rogan, 576 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,359 Speaker 2: that ain't the Joe Rogan. I know right, he's a friend. 577 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 2: He cares if I call him, he a pick up 578 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 2: the phone. If he can help me, he will help me. 579 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 2: And I mean there were times I asked certain comedians 580 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 2: to tweet out my show and they wouldn't even do it. 581 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:48,880 Speaker 2: I asked Joe to do it, and no problem. Pat 582 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:56,919 Speaker 2: just sent it to me. Wow, that's because you know, 583 00:25:57,200 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 2: we're too busy thinking it's not enough space. 584 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 3: For all of us. It happens all the time, and 585 00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,160 Speaker 3: it is if I. 586 00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,680 Speaker 2: Can help you, I'm going to help you. I want 587 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 2: to see everybody on top. 588 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: It happened to me because I have a kangyac This 589 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:16,040 Speaker 1: is my Kanyac shave by La Portier Latier port my party. 590 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 4: Yeah okay, I want no problem. 591 00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 3: Y'all heard that, Yeah, no problem. 592 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: And I send it to a lot of my friends 593 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 1: now when they send me things, T shirts or product, 594 00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 1: I post it my product, not one, not one, not one. 595 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:36,120 Speaker 3: And I don't know why we like that. 596 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:40,679 Speaker 1: I don't because sometimes we feel that if we get something, 597 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: they lose something instead of okay, well he got it. 598 00:26:44,480 --> 00:26:47,080 Speaker 1: Like if somebody moved, like I don't look at somebody 599 00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: like I live in a neighborhood, nice neighborhood. If somebody black, 600 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: or what they doing over here, I don't look at 601 00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:55,080 Speaker 1: it like that. I'm like, man, okay, somebody else got 602 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,080 Speaker 1: some money to make HI enough money that can live here. 603 00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 4: I don't look at it or what they doing here 604 00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 4: the same thing you do it. It's a nice neighborhood, 605 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 4: nice school district. We well off. I don't know why 606 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:05,680 Speaker 4: we're like that, miss Pat, I really don't. 607 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:08,480 Speaker 3: Probably all the way they back to slavery. 608 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 4: Mean Yeah that mayeld. I'm better than you. 609 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:15,760 Speaker 3: I'm better than you. I'm light skinned, you dog skin. 610 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 2: It's it's it's, it's it's every time we have a 611 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 2: black baby. Until we break those curses, those things are 612 00:27:22,119 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 2: still gonna be spilled into all community. 613 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:24,760 Speaker 5: You know. 614 00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,919 Speaker 2: I've had people where they have on something and they 615 00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:28,639 Speaker 2: be like, don't you ever tell nobody where you get 616 00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 2: your stuff from? But then how's that company gonna make money? 617 00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,400 Speaker 2: I don't care if you got on what I got on, right, 618 00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 2: I don't care if we buy and do the same thing. 619 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 2: I just want to be happy at the end of 620 00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 2: the day. But black they say we crabs in the barrel. 621 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:44,400 Speaker 4: Sometimes to an extent, we are. 622 00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, we are. Now I'm gonna post your alcohol. You know. 623 00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:49,920 Speaker 3: It was crazy because when de young Cole I saw 624 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:50,480 Speaker 3: you interviews. 625 00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:53,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, dun Cole's show was so good to me, and 626 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 2: his show came out during a pandemic babet. I went 627 00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,760 Speaker 2: and grabbed his show and I just kept posting, y'all 628 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:00,640 Speaker 2: go watch this show. 629 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,200 Speaker 3: Y'all go watch this show. And dung Cole's like, man, 630 00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:03,880 Speaker 3: you're reale. 631 00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:06,919 Speaker 2: Nobody asked me to do that, but I did it 632 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,320 Speaker 2: because it was a good show and it was on 633 00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:12,560 Speaker 2: the same network BT Plus with me and I wanted 634 00:28:12,600 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 2: it to make it and it came out at a 635 00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:17,040 Speaker 2: time where we were just coming out of the pandemic 636 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,480 Speaker 2: and you really couldn't really talk about it. So I 637 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 2: just went crazy and I was like, y'all go watch 638 00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,679 Speaker 2: dun Cole's show. I would put his show on in 639 00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,320 Speaker 2: a room and just let it run because I wanted 640 00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 2: his show to get a second season because it was 641 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 2: a good show. The same thing with the other show 642 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,720 Speaker 2: d R in Detroit. Nobody asked me to post that. 643 00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:41,400 Speaker 2: I did it because we look alike and we're on 644 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 2: the same network, and I want I'm there and I 645 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 2: want you to stay there with me, and any which 646 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:47,560 Speaker 2: way I can. 647 00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 3: I don't want no part in the show. 648 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:51,520 Speaker 2: I just want people to know it's a good show 649 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 2: out there, and my show ain't the only good show 650 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 2: over there, and Tyler Perrys show ain't the only good 651 00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:58,400 Speaker 2: show over there. 652 00:28:58,560 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 3: It's other. 653 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:02,560 Speaker 2: They bring it in, other producers and people to develop shows. 654 00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 2: It's also good. That's why I did it. And and 655 00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,760 Speaker 2: b T was like, you posting other people's shows? 656 00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 3: Why not? It's good, right, But that's what I do. 657 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 4: That's what you do. That's why you're so blessed, miss pat. 658 00:29:16,800 --> 00:29:18,960 Speaker 3: I ain't worried about nothing. I'm happy. 659 00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 1: What about joke stealing because that seems to be it's 660 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,600 Speaker 1: kind of like it's kind of like, uh, that seems 661 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:29,440 Speaker 1: like a big be a big thing for a comedians, like, Okay, 662 00:29:29,480 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 1: you can steal a joke, but just give me credit 663 00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 1: if you've give me credit coming like like a song. 664 00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:35,440 Speaker 1: You know, you can't steal my hook and so forth 665 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 1: the song without giving the person credit or asking the 666 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 1: person for that. 667 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 3: For a certain I don't have that problem. I'm too personal. 668 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 3: You can't. 669 00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,240 Speaker 2: You're gonna say you got shutting to it that you gonna 670 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 2: say you got shut the back of the head. They 671 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:49,840 Speaker 2: automatically knowing me your daughter gay. You know, the things 672 00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,440 Speaker 2: I talk about is so personal to me. You know, 673 00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 2: it's hard to steal a personal. 674 00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 3: Joke, you know. 675 00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 2: And so I don't really have that problem. I see 676 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 2: jokes stealing all the time. But I don't have that 677 00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,120 Speaker 2: problem because I write for my life. I don't go 678 00:30:04,160 --> 00:30:07,320 Speaker 2: out and try to develop anything. It happens, and then 679 00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 2: I just go and tell a story about it. 680 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:12,920 Speaker 1: Is used to fight, used to fight, comedian Back in 681 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: the day, when you first got started, you fight anybody 682 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: is fat. 683 00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 4: This woman here, I thought you said you had grew 684 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:20,760 Speaker 4: out of that. 685 00:30:21,880 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 2: Oh I fought. Yes, I used to fight quite a bit. Yes, 686 00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 2: you like fighting, I do. 687 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:28,600 Speaker 3: I did. 688 00:30:28,680 --> 00:30:30,600 Speaker 2: I'm too old for now. I'm going through mental pause. 689 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 2: I can't be fighting nobody now. 690 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:33,760 Speaker 3: Who did you hear that I fought? 691 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:36,160 Speaker 4: What I'm saying you fought? 692 00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,440 Speaker 3: Yes? I did fight him, I sure did? 693 00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 5: Or what. 694 00:30:41,040 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 2: Just being disrespectful? You know, having a very big ego. 695 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 2: You know, at the time, this comedian was blowing up 696 00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 2: that they're famous. Now I love them too, but yeah, 697 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:53,680 Speaker 2: I sure did. I went on that knocked the sh 698 00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:54,320 Speaker 2: out of them. 699 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:56,600 Speaker 4: To call you fat, don't. 700 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 3: Call me fat. Anybody call me fat, and you can call. 701 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:01,360 Speaker 2: Me and might get away with but gginna get away 702 00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,640 Speaker 2: and calling me fat, I'm gonna get my fat up 703 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 2: and knock the hell out of you. 704 00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:06,880 Speaker 3: I'm not just being disrespectful. 705 00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,280 Speaker 2: While I was on stage and I'm open micing at 706 00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:11,920 Speaker 2: the time, and I got up and knocked both of them. 707 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,960 Speaker 2: Bus you're did I was crazy Beckon cause you know, 708 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,600 Speaker 2: I say, my husband didn't send me out here for 709 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 2: y'all to disrespec me. I'm not turning no tricks for 710 00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:23,120 Speaker 2: you know, a lot of some comedians will sleep with 711 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:24,959 Speaker 2: male comedians just to get on the road. I'm not 712 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 2: doing that. 713 00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:26,960 Speaker 3: I got a. 714 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 2: Husband, y'all. Ain't gonna disrespeke me. So yeah, I had 715 00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:31,320 Speaker 2: to fight a couple of times. 716 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,920 Speaker 4: There's never been a night this big. 717 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 1: On Friday, November fifteenth, Netflix and Most Valuable Promotions bring 718 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,960 Speaker 1: you the highly anticipated boxing mega end of the year 719 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: Jake El Gayo Paul will go toe to toe in 720 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 1: the ring against Iron Mike Tyson, the baddest man on 721 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 1: the planet. 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You can also follow 730 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: the road to the fight by watching Countdown Paul Tyson, 731 00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,480 Speaker 1: a three part documentary series beginning November twelfth, only on 732 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:33,080 Speaker 1: Netflix Miss Patt Show, You've done for almost forty episodes. 733 00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:36,840 Speaker 1: You shadowed records even in Crash the BT plus at. 734 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: I mean, what's it like you have your own show, 735 00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 1: Miss pat show, you have a judge show, Miss Pat 736 00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:50,080 Speaker 1: Jump what set light? Is it even better than you 737 00:32:50,360 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 1: even when you laid like when you told your husband 738 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: at the time before he was your boyfriend, now he's 739 00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:59,000 Speaker 1: your husband, become your husband, I'm gonna have a TV show? 740 00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:04,120 Speaker 1: Is it even better than you imagine? 741 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 2: You know, sometimes I guess yes, Cause sometimes I sat 742 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:12,480 Speaker 2: on a plane and I think about the things that 743 00:33:12,520 --> 00:33:15,120 Speaker 2: I accomplished, the little girl from the West End of 744 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 2: Atlanta or an eighth grade education and been through the 745 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:23,400 Speaker 2: things that she's been through, and I started to cry. So, 746 00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 2: you know, I look back over my life and I 747 00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,400 Speaker 2: look at some of my relatives and I know I 748 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:32,000 Speaker 2: could have been in the place they was in. And 749 00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 2: I don't know what God is still in me to 750 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:40,680 Speaker 2: make me so hungry on the inside to change my circumstance. 751 00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 2: But he puts something in me to say I wasn't 752 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,680 Speaker 2: gonna live like this. Y'all ain't gonna treat me like this. 753 00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,640 Speaker 2: And you know, when I'm laying in bed and I 754 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 2: can see myself on TV. I just smile, you know, 755 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 2: and sometimes I try not to take it all in, 756 00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:01,600 Speaker 2: but I just really smiled. It taught me five years 757 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,200 Speaker 2: to do Miss pat show because they didn't understand me. 758 00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 2: A little young guy, Jordanie Cooper come along and said, 759 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,200 Speaker 2: y'all holding her back, let her be herself. You'll get 760 00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:13,040 Speaker 2: more out of her. And that's how the language became 761 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:16,239 Speaker 2: in the show. And you know too. 762 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 3: I'm just proud of myself. 763 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 5: You know. 764 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,280 Speaker 2: I could have gave up. I could have got on drugs, 765 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,839 Speaker 2: I could have been I could have been around here 766 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,440 Speaker 2: pulling the finger at so many people that did me wrong. 767 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:31,440 Speaker 2: But I kept going and look at me today. I 768 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:33,759 Speaker 2: used to I always say this is about my first 769 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,800 Speaker 2: kid's father. I said, gotta be careful how you treat people, 770 00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:41,520 Speaker 2: because what you think is trash somebody else's treasure. You 771 00:34:41,560 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 2: work at Jiffy lu and you love to tell people. 772 00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 2: I'm your baby mama, and I'm so petty. Every year 773 00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:49,920 Speaker 2: I get renewed. I make sure they put a billboard 774 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 2: by his job because he catched the bus. 775 00:34:55,360 --> 00:34:59,520 Speaker 3: So I was claim the famous on his baby mama. 776 00:34:59,719 --> 00:35:00,880 Speaker 3: But you nowhere shinning. 777 00:35:01,120 --> 00:35:03,720 Speaker 2: I look at my kids, especially my first two sets 778 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 2: of kids, and they know what they was there at 779 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:08,759 Speaker 2: the crack house. I was selling crack one time who 780 00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,440 Speaker 2: was shooting dice and these dudes started shooting each other. 781 00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,120 Speaker 2: And my daughter grabbed my son and put him in 782 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:15,439 Speaker 2: the stroller and she ran down the street so fast. 783 00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:16,920 Speaker 2: When she wouldn't stop, I had to get in the 784 00:35:16,920 --> 00:35:18,960 Speaker 2: car to go get her. And I remember because I 785 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 2: sold drugs across the street from her school. And I said, Ashley, 786 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 2: and she said, you're gonna get us killed. You're gonna 787 00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,719 Speaker 2: get us killed. And my son was in pamples and 788 00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:28,960 Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm not gonna. 789 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:29,400 Speaker 3: Get you killed. 790 00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:33,400 Speaker 2: They just shoot. My daughter couldn't understand it. You know, 791 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 2: I supposed to be a protector. 792 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:41,480 Speaker 3: So now I know how proud they are of their mother, 793 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:42,400 Speaker 3: you know. 794 00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,480 Speaker 2: I see it in their eyes, and when I'm taking 795 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,360 Speaker 2: them place and I'm doing stuff, and they proud of me. 796 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:53,399 Speaker 2: And let me say this, I don't think I ever 797 00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 2: really had nobody. I never had anybody to look forward 798 00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,360 Speaker 2: to to say I want to make that person proud. 799 00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,880 Speaker 2: But I always tried to make my kids proud of me, 800 00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:09,319 Speaker 2: especially them first two because they was there. 801 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,160 Speaker 3: They took on so much. 802 00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 2: My daughter told me stop selling drugs in front of 803 00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:16,319 Speaker 2: her school, and I was so ignorant, I said, girl, 804 00:36:16,320 --> 00:36:16,839 Speaker 2: I was here. 805 00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,360 Speaker 3: Before the schools. The school's one police thing was we 806 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,280 Speaker 3: got to get you another school. It's my job. 807 00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 2: And so my daughter been through so much. You know, 808 00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,480 Speaker 2: she saw me get beat she saw me get shot, 809 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:30,640 Speaker 2: and to see how mama what she had today, I 810 00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:31,640 Speaker 2: know she proud of me. 811 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,440 Speaker 4: I know she is, even after going through all that. 812 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:36,880 Speaker 4: Did you think this day was possible? 813 00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:39,640 Speaker 1: After all the beatings that you were undertaking, after being shot, 814 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:43,080 Speaker 1: after going through this being did you ever think this 815 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:43,880 Speaker 1: day was possible? 816 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:44,279 Speaker 4: Fact? 817 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:48,680 Speaker 3: No, I didn't. I didn't know. I knew I wasn't 818 00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 3: going to give up, but I didn't see all of this. 819 00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,279 Speaker 2: I didn't see the TV, the two TV shows, a 820 00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,440 Speaker 2: comedy tour, all the things that I've been in and doing. 821 00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:59,239 Speaker 3: Hell, I didn't even see me sitting there with you. 822 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,280 Speaker 3: They just asked me, club, where you going on? Shaha? 823 00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 2: I ain't going on that damn show. Ain't got nobody 824 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:04,680 Speaker 2: talk about. And then I look up a couple of 825 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,080 Speaker 2: weeks calling me, I'm like club shan Shane. Yeah, so no, 826 00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,480 Speaker 2: I didn't. I didn't. I didn't know. All I wanted 827 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,520 Speaker 2: to do was make enough money, legal and live happy. 828 00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 2: But when I met my husband, he allowed me to 829 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 2: dream because I had it in me, just so many 830 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:21,520 Speaker 2: people had killed it. 831 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:25,319 Speaker 3: He lit that fire and say, okay, you can dream. 832 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,920 Speaker 4: How do you feel about people calling you the next rose. 833 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:33,319 Speaker 5: Well? 834 00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 2: I mean, Roseanne was wonderful. She she I mean, she 835 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:40,160 Speaker 2: was iconic. She had a great show. I mean, and 836 00:37:40,200 --> 00:37:42,960 Speaker 2: I opened for Roseanne one time in Vegas. I did 837 00:37:43,000 --> 00:37:44,439 Speaker 2: a show called Real Funniest Mom. 838 00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:48,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. I used to talk to her quite a bit until. 839 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:50,560 Speaker 2: Trump first term, and she blocked me because I was 840 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:52,759 Speaker 2: tweeting all that crazy stuff and she's like, you're not 841 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:53,040 Speaker 2: for me. 842 00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,120 Speaker 3: But I like Roseanne. I don't have a problem with that. 843 00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 1: But people also try to go up and you know, 844 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 1: I think it's maybe just we called it the side you 845 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:02,439 Speaker 1: and Monique you Canna lie. I'm sure you've probably gotten 846 00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 1: a lot of comparisons. 847 00:38:03,760 --> 00:38:05,480 Speaker 2: I do, I did, but more need don lost a 848 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:07,720 Speaker 2: way And I'm still fat. 849 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:12,160 Speaker 1: You look good, uh, I mean, you're okay with your size. 850 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:13,520 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm surprised that you know a lot of 851 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: people have done that, OZAMPI tries. 852 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:19,520 Speaker 2: I tried ose zippy. It gave me gall bladers golf jail. 853 00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:24,200 Speaker 3: I ain't lose. I mean nothing. Old Zippy ain't for everybody, 854 00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 3: so I don't know if it what. 855 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 4: Try zeppatite, Noah, I don't try. 856 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:36,160 Speaker 3: We go bit hole gold bit yogurt. So i'nother try 857 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:41,160 Speaker 3: a treadmill for real. You know what. 858 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,359 Speaker 2: I ain't even had weight loss, servius. I don't lost 859 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,480 Speaker 2: one hundred pounds. Nobody noticed it and it just stopped working. 860 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:50,279 Speaker 3: So I don't know. You like to eat the hell, y'all. 861 00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:55,000 Speaker 3: I liked what you think y'all got airing me? Hell 862 00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:57,240 Speaker 3: is wrong with you? Ask to me, dumb. 863 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:01,640 Speaker 2: He literally that my big ass and say, do you 864 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:04,200 Speaker 2: like to eat you out? I went by the I 865 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,319 Speaker 2: went by the gas station and put the app pump 866 00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:11,080 Speaker 2: in my ass today, Shannon, That's how I got blowed up. 867 00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:13,600 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, stick a pin in me. 868 00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:19,239 Speaker 2: I'm gonna be your size, you know sometimes you know 869 00:39:19,280 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 2: he don't date big girls. 870 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:22,160 Speaker 4: Back in the day. 871 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:26,959 Speaker 2: Back in the day, Uh, when you needed a collar 872 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 2: green dealer you worked. 873 00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,359 Speaker 1: With Lee Dames on the Mispast Show. Yes, I did 874 00:39:31,880 --> 00:39:34,400 Speaker 1: and you know, obviously he and Monique has made amends. 875 00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 2: Was Lee like, Lee is great? He is great Lee. 876 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,680 Speaker 2: I first, how I got with Lee is uh. I 877 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,359 Speaker 2: did a Joe Rogan podcast. Fell a by the name 878 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:48,280 Speaker 2: of John Rattler hurt me on the podcast and called 879 00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:49,080 Speaker 2: me in to imagine. 880 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:50,840 Speaker 3: At the time, he was a producer. Is there the 881 00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:54,359 Speaker 3: producer and took me over to Lee, and Li said, okay, 882 00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,160 Speaker 3: well develop a show. 883 00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,239 Speaker 2: I went through two writers, and Lee found the current 884 00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:00,319 Speaker 2: writer and created the show. I like Lee, Lil Lee 885 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,280 Speaker 2: would fight for He fought for that show many times. 886 00:40:03,680 --> 00:40:04,520 Speaker 3: And let me tell you something. 887 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:06,560 Speaker 2: I had three deals on that one show, and that 888 00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:07,960 Speaker 2: usually don't happen in LA. 889 00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:10,799 Speaker 3: They dropped it because the writer didn't work out. 890 00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:12,800 Speaker 2: Then they dropped it again, and Lee went to Fox 891 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,760 Speaker 2: and said, give me one more. 892 00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:15,839 Speaker 3: Chance to develop a show. 893 00:40:16,080 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 2: It's something here and got me paid off three deals 894 00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 2: they usually don't happen on the same show. 895 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:23,479 Speaker 3: And I got paid three times. 896 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,480 Speaker 2: I was okay, they had already paid me three times 897 00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:26,919 Speaker 2: sharing it, and I was like, shit, I take your 898 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:29,359 Speaker 2: money going back on the road. And he found that 899 00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,680 Speaker 2: writer and he created a mispass show. Now I don't 900 00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 2: think anybody saw that show last in five season? Cause 901 00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:39,000 Speaker 2: I sure did not see that show last in five season. 902 00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,799 Speaker 2: And you know, Hulu shot the pilot and dropped the 903 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 2: pilot and never forget it dropped it on Valentine's Day 904 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:49,160 Speaker 2: and Lee called me in. I said, well, Lee, I 905 00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:50,240 Speaker 2: truly believe we'll. 906 00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:50,640 Speaker 3: Find a home. 907 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:53,759 Speaker 2: And BT plus called never heard of BT plus at 908 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,239 Speaker 2: the time, and they gave us the opportunity. And that's 909 00:40:56,239 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 2: when I told my co creator, I said, you got 910 00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,080 Speaker 2: to learn how to mess with people who messed with you. 911 00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:02,800 Speaker 2: And I was happy to be at the network because 912 00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 2: they understood being black in America. 913 00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 3: I didn't have to explain Ashy. 914 00:41:07,000 --> 00:41:09,360 Speaker 2: I didn't have to explain, you know, the black culture 915 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:10,720 Speaker 2: because the producers. 916 00:41:10,280 --> 00:41:13,279 Speaker 3: In the room was already black. So they got the show. Now. 917 00:41:13,360 --> 00:41:15,799 Speaker 3: Was they probably scared because we were cussing? Hell yeah? 918 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,640 Speaker 3: But it took off because it had never been done before. 919 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:24,400 Speaker 4: So what did you learn about negotiating? 920 00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 1: Because, like you said, you had the little thing at 921 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,800 Speaker 1: Fox and then Hulu shot the pilot. They weren't interested. 922 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:32,320 Speaker 1: They wanted you to change something. 923 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:35,040 Speaker 3: Right, change was as far. 924 00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:36,799 Speaker 1: As the language in which you were using. Were you 925 00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:38,000 Speaker 1: always going to use the language. 926 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:40,000 Speaker 3: No, we wasn't gonna always use the language. 927 00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:40,279 Speaker 4: No. 928 00:41:40,440 --> 00:41:40,879 Speaker 3: They are. 929 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:43,839 Speaker 2: When Hulu picked it up, they took out a few 930 00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:46,319 Speaker 2: of the good jokes that they didn't understand right, And 931 00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:49,160 Speaker 2: I was like, dude, you taking out You taking out 932 00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,719 Speaker 2: the best part of the show. But to get the 933 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:53,839 Speaker 2: show pick up, we had to allow them to take 934 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,239 Speaker 2: it out. And so when as soon as they dropped it, 935 00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,440 Speaker 2: we put it wrapped back in. But what I learned 936 00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 2: from and you asked me what I learned from negotiating, 937 00:42:03,560 --> 00:42:04,520 Speaker 2: this is what I tell. 938 00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 3: People about Hollywood. 939 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:08,239 Speaker 2: You gotta be careful because you will walk in that 940 00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:11,080 Speaker 2: door and you would get ripped the hell off. The 941 00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:14,280 Speaker 2: first time I saw the Mispatch Show with a manager, 942 00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 2: I don't even think I had an agent. Well, the 943 00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 2: show got dropped. Guess what, Shannon, I wasn't even executive producer. 944 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:26,600 Speaker 3: It wasn't even create or comedy by I didn't get 945 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,680 Speaker 3: any of those credit. I was about to be robbed. 946 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:35,120 Speaker 2: I was about to get God, but God said no 947 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 2: and stop the show. Not once, but twice. I got 948 00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:41,319 Speaker 2: an agent, Kyle, and he was like, you don't even 949 00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:44,120 Speaker 2: have executive producer. I'm like, what executive producer. You ain't 950 00:42:44,239 --> 00:42:46,080 Speaker 2: have a story about all of these was my story. 951 00:42:46,160 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 2: All of that was my comedy. 952 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,080 Speaker 3: That show is me and. 953 00:42:50,160 --> 00:42:53,520 Speaker 2: The first three to four thirty season show enough. They 954 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:57,160 Speaker 2: changed all of that. So I'm so glad it did 955 00:42:57,160 --> 00:42:58,360 Speaker 2: not get picked up when it was. 956 00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,840 Speaker 3: Gonna get picked up. I don't even think it was. 957 00:43:01,400 --> 00:43:03,839 Speaker 2: I was nothing but an actress on that show. Right, 958 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 2: do you know I wouldn't have made no money. No, 959 00:43:07,600 --> 00:43:09,680 Speaker 2: But they don't tell you these things because they know 960 00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:11,879 Speaker 2: when you were a comedian. I mean, they know when 961 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,560 Speaker 2: you knew. You just want the money, you want to 962 00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:16,879 Speaker 2: be on TV. You gotta be careful. You gotta do 963 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,759 Speaker 2: your business first. When you get into this, you got 964 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:22,240 Speaker 2: I mean, the money gonna come, but the money can't 965 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:23,800 Speaker 2: come if they stealing from you. 966 00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:25,799 Speaker 1: And even you making the money upfront, you want the 967 00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:28,120 Speaker 1: money on the back end, the residuals. Yes, you get 968 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:28,680 Speaker 1: the credit for. 969 00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,080 Speaker 2: It, You get the credit for you points on the show. 970 00:43:31,280 --> 00:43:33,400 Speaker 2: You gotta ask, you gotta you know. And this is 971 00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,279 Speaker 2: why I'm so grateful for the dude who found me, 972 00:43:35,360 --> 00:43:38,279 Speaker 2: John Reller. He tells me everything and. 973 00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:39,040 Speaker 3: He don't have to. 974 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:42,240 Speaker 2: He tells me, and I think I got a pretty 975 00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 2: honest team, you know, because my agent could have just 976 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,200 Speaker 2: took whatever Fox gave him, and he said no, because 977 00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,880 Speaker 2: they get to produce a story by all of these things. 978 00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:54,600 Speaker 2: I get four or five credits off that show. You 979 00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:57,319 Speaker 2: gotta be careful when you go out there because these 980 00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 2: people will eat you alive. 981 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:00,319 Speaker 4: Because they know what you don't. 982 00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 2: They know what you don't. You gotta ask questions. Ask 983 00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:06,200 Speaker 2: questions to a somebody who have already had a show. 984 00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:08,480 Speaker 2: So when you go in the room and you hear 985 00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:11,600 Speaker 2: certain things, you know you know what you're talking about, 986 00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:15,040 Speaker 2: because if you don't, because that if it had the 987 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:18,839 Speaker 2: Mispast show went on Fox, the very first fright writer man, 988 00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:22,440 Speaker 2: I would have gotten pimped yea until I got that 989 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 2: agent and he said, no, y'all will not do this 990 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:25,279 Speaker 2: to her. 991 00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,160 Speaker 1: If Miss pat could play in a movie, what would 992 00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:31,200 Speaker 1: be the perfect role for you? 993 00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:36,759 Speaker 2: I always wanted to do a buddy cop movie, you know, 994 00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 2: like like Rush Hour. 995 00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,320 Speaker 1: I can see you and Melissa McCartney doing a movie together. 996 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:48,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, or that I cannot think of her name. 997 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:52,799 Speaker 2: The lady from One Day at a Time, you know 998 00:44:52,840 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 2: what I'm talking about. 999 00:44:53,719 --> 00:44:54,359 Speaker 3: The mom on One. 1000 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,920 Speaker 2: Day at the Time, the new one that came back 1001 00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,359 Speaker 2: on net Flix. Ok Oh, I'm okay, I can't think 1002 00:44:58,360 --> 00:44:59,399 Speaker 2: of her name, gonna be so mad. 1003 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, because I remember One Day at a. 1004 00:45:01,160 --> 00:45:04,120 Speaker 3: Time that was somebody google it real quick, so I said. 1005 00:45:04,000 --> 00:45:06,319 Speaker 4: That was Bonnie Franklin. Was that One Day at a Time? 1006 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:06,520 Speaker 5: Right? 1007 00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:08,719 Speaker 2: No, that was the old one, you know it came back. 1008 00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:12,399 Speaker 2: But yes, what's her name? 1009 00:45:12,880 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 3: The mom? 1010 00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:20,560 Speaker 2: Huh? No, not Reader the mom, the new one? 1011 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:22,319 Speaker 3: Justina, Justina. 1012 00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,920 Speaker 2: I could see myself doing a buddy cop movie with 1013 00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:26,439 Speaker 2: just Stina from One Day at a Time. 1014 00:45:27,000 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 3: She's so funny to me. So that's what. 1015 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,040 Speaker 2: That's one of the things, you know, because women don't 1016 00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:35,759 Speaker 2: really get an opportunity to have a series like you. 1017 00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:40,120 Speaker 3: Know, Bad Boys and Rush Our One and stuff like that. 1018 00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 4: You are meeting celebrities now you're a celebrity yourself. 1019 00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 1: Have you been starstruck by some of the people that 1020 00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 1: you've been able to meet. 1021 00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,239 Speaker 3: I just recently met a glorilla. 1022 00:45:55,400 --> 00:46:01,080 Speaker 2: I love that little love that looked that little I 1023 00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:02,920 Speaker 2: love her and call it b I met her at 1024 00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 2: the BT was. 1025 00:46:03,640 --> 00:46:04,960 Speaker 3: I really wanted to meet her. 1026 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:07,719 Speaker 2: But and I hate to say this because I don't 1027 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:09,800 Speaker 2: want to sound inapprop because this person is married. 1028 00:46:09,840 --> 00:46:11,759 Speaker 3: But everybody know, I'm a big fan of Iceque. 1029 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,080 Speaker 2: I want to work with ice cubes so bad, and 1030 00:46:14,120 --> 00:46:16,239 Speaker 2: I be up there just so all ice Cube so cute. 1031 00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 2: But I've always dreamed of working with Iceque. I'm a 1032 00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,880 Speaker 2: big fan of ice Cue for me and everybody you know. 1033 00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:24,479 Speaker 2: I went on the cruise with my husband. They said, 1034 00:46:24,719 --> 00:46:27,680 Speaker 2: who is the celebrity daddy? Your wife like? My husband 1035 00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:29,960 Speaker 2: said Denzel Washed. I said, what the hell make you 1036 00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,600 Speaker 2: think I would like Denzel Washing? He said, all old 1037 00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:36,400 Speaker 2: women like Dinzel? Why who the hell is old? Everybody 1038 00:46:36,440 --> 00:46:39,560 Speaker 2: know I like ice Cue. I've always wanted to work 1039 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 2: with ice Cue. 1040 00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:45,000 Speaker 1: He announced that Friday, the last installment, is going to happen. 1041 00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,640 Speaker 4: Would you like to be in the last Hell? 1042 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, ice Q, please call me. You can keep me 1043 00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:52,200 Speaker 2: away from you, but I would love to be in Friday. 1044 00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:55,840 Speaker 3: I love ice Cue. I got who don't love Friday? 1045 00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:59,920 Speaker 3: Hell yeah? I mean everybody my dad who played it? Anyway? 1046 00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,360 Speaker 4: Time up new characters? 1047 00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you need me, ice Cube, call me, call 1048 00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:06,799 Speaker 3: me ice Cube. I'm here. 1049 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,160 Speaker 1: It's better if you can have dinner with four people 1050 00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:11,319 Speaker 1: dead or alive. Who are those four people be at 1051 00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:12,239 Speaker 1: the dinner table with you. 1052 00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 3: Whitney Houston, it will be Whitney Houston. It would be. 1053 00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 2: Richard pryor, uh, Richard prior who. 1054 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:30,120 Speaker 3: Else dead or alive? I would probably push your pail 1055 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:41,359 Speaker 3: there and hmmm, who else? Fred sample a burning mag? 1056 00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:42,120 Speaker 3: Burning mag? 1057 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:43,760 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1058 00:47:43,880 --> 00:47:46,839 Speaker 1: What have you been in this business and been successful? 1059 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:49,480 Speaker 1: As you watch your career grow, what have you learned 1060 00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:50,840 Speaker 1: most about money? 1061 00:47:51,480 --> 00:47:56,759 Speaker 3: Investment? Investing? Taxes? You gotta pay a lot of taxes. 1062 00:47:57,120 --> 00:48:01,960 Speaker 2: You know what's crazy because well when they started saying, oh, 1063 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,880 Speaker 2: you need an accountant, you know you got because you 1064 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:05,919 Speaker 2: know you're just making money. 1065 00:48:05,960 --> 00:48:08,399 Speaker 3: I ain't gonna lie. I was making money. I ain't 1066 00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:08,920 Speaker 3: paying it here. 1067 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,160 Speaker 2: I ain't ready then it eventually I already say hey, 1068 00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,640 Speaker 2: you gotta pay this. So before the rs could say that, 1069 00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:17,840 Speaker 2: my people got me with the right person to say 1070 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,839 Speaker 2: you gotta pay your taxes. And the amount of tax 1071 00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:24,040 Speaker 2: that I had to pay. I was fussing why I 1072 00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:26,040 Speaker 2: gotta pay all that? They don't know I'm black. 1073 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:27,080 Speaker 3: He was like, they don't care. 1074 00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,560 Speaker 4: They want they money. 1075 00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 2: They could so I, you know, I had to learn, 1076 00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,440 Speaker 2: Like I heard Kevin Hart say this many times, you 1077 00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 2: got to take fifty percent of what you earn and 1078 00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:40,759 Speaker 2: put it to the side for taxes, and you know, 1079 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:43,320 Speaker 2: you listening, you know, oh yo or whatever whatever, because 1080 00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,120 Speaker 2: you're not in that tax bracket. But that is so true. 1081 00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 2: So that's what I find myself doing that. I don't 1082 00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 2: ever want to have an RS problem, and I want 1083 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 2: to invest so I can leave my kids and grandkids stuff. 1084 00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:56,600 Speaker 3: So that's what I do. 1085 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 1: I think you mentioned earlier, but have you ever I 1086 00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,120 Speaker 1: think the hardest thing is mis pat is that when 1087 00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 1: we come up people that came up, like family and 1088 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,960 Speaker 1: sometimes friends, you're like, they were there when you didn't 1089 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,200 Speaker 1: have anything, so you know they're there for the long haul. 1090 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: But telling people know, and you have to, you have 1091 00:49:13,640 --> 00:49:16,040 Speaker 1: to after you get to a certain point, you have 1092 00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:17,279 Speaker 1: to be willing to tell people no. 1093 00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 2: That's hard, you know, because they think you got it 1094 00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:24,279 Speaker 2: or they know you got it. And I have to 1095 00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:28,399 Speaker 2: tell my families and sometime my friends I don't have it. 1096 00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:31,600 Speaker 2: I can't do it even if I got it. I 1097 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:35,640 Speaker 2: have to think like this, Shannon, my husband is retired. 1098 00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:40,839 Speaker 2: We on one income. I have my four kids. I mean, 1099 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:42,480 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I have two kids at the house. I 1100 00:49:42,480 --> 00:49:44,600 Speaker 2: have four kids that I've cussed the up, and I 1101 00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:47,080 Speaker 2: have a lot to take care of. If I go down, 1102 00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:50,279 Speaker 2: A lot go down, yes, so I cannot. I can't 1103 00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,720 Speaker 2: take care of other households. 1104 00:49:52,440 --> 00:49:54,320 Speaker 4: And I ain't savor it only what's on my ship 1105 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:55,320 Speaker 4: and my brother. 1106 00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:57,040 Speaker 2: I was talking to one of my brothers the other day. 1107 00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:58,840 Speaker 2: He was like, won't you help a brother, won't you 1108 00:49:58,880 --> 00:49:59,600 Speaker 2: help somebody out? 1109 00:49:59,640 --> 00:50:01,359 Speaker 3: You got all that money, you got two TV shows? 1110 00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,319 Speaker 2: I said, they what you think it is? He said, 1111 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,160 Speaker 2: you give me a thousand dollars. I said, well, what 1112 00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 2: you're gonna do with a thousand dollars? I'm I'm I'm 1113 00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:09,799 Speaker 2: gonna invest it. I said, house, I'm gonna buy me 1114 00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:11,600 Speaker 2: a house. What a thousand dollars? 1115 00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:16,280 Speaker 3: I said. I said, boy, you can't. 1116 00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:20,200 Speaker 2: Even get concrete for a thousand dollars. You still smoking crackache. 1117 00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:23,319 Speaker 2: But he was like, well give me ten thousand. I'm 1118 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:25,600 Speaker 2: not gonna give you nothing. And I told my brother, 1119 00:50:25,680 --> 00:50:29,160 Speaker 2: I don't owe you anything just because y'all see me 1120 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:30,680 Speaker 2: on TV and y'all think y'all got it. 1121 00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:31,160 Speaker 3: I do. 1122 00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:33,319 Speaker 2: I probably do have it, but I ain't got it 1123 00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:35,879 Speaker 2: for you. And I have no damn problem saying no 1124 00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:39,680 Speaker 2: waste it. Not I don't because I got my own 1125 00:50:39,840 --> 00:50:41,200 Speaker 2: I got my own family. 1126 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:42,880 Speaker 3: And that's what they don't understand. 1127 00:50:43,080 --> 00:50:45,600 Speaker 2: When when Biggie said more money, more problem, he was 1128 00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:48,759 Speaker 2: not longing. And one of them problems is y'all that 1129 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,160 Speaker 2: I r ass and I gotta always have they money. 1130 00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,440 Speaker 2: And I can't keep they money in my titty like 1131 00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 2: I do my other money, because they gonna send somebody 1132 00:50:58,200 --> 00:50:59,400 Speaker 2: over there to get they money. 1133 00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:03,399 Speaker 4: Been like growing up where you grew up. Now you're 1134 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:07,000 Speaker 4: in the birds. You got the gay you you got. 1135 00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:09,640 Speaker 1: A big house, got fifteen twenty thousand feet, you got 1136 00:51:09,680 --> 00:51:12,120 Speaker 1: a pool, you got probably got a guest house. 1137 00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 3: I gotta. I just did my pool house. I'm working 1138 00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:14,839 Speaker 3: on it now. 1139 00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 4: See that I know it. 1140 00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 3: I know it. It's nice. 1141 00:51:20,719 --> 00:51:22,920 Speaker 2: It's nice to well. I don't like walking the property. 1142 00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:24,680 Speaker 2: I said, damn this, this is a lot of I 1143 00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:25,920 Speaker 2: about seven acres. 1144 00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 3: And I built a built the house. 1145 00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:29,440 Speaker 2: And it was a house there, and I knocked it down, 1146 00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:31,839 Speaker 2: and I wanted the house to build a certain way. 1147 00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:33,880 Speaker 2: So I just decided to build in my you know, 1148 00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,239 Speaker 2: have contracted out myself. 1149 00:51:36,800 --> 00:51:39,439 Speaker 3: And it feels good, you know, to pull up in there, 1150 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,440 Speaker 3: and it feel good. Not to struggle. 1151 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,200 Speaker 2: It feel good to pull up at my house and 1152 00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 2: say this is all house. It feel good to put 1153 00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,280 Speaker 2: and I'm not bragging to pull up in my yard 1154 00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:53,919 Speaker 2: and it's eight calls there and some days I don't 1155 00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:57,000 Speaker 2: know where the keys and now want no car. If 1156 00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,880 Speaker 2: it feel good, then know things are paid off. I 1157 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 2: feel good to know that my hard work has paid off. 1158 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:06,960 Speaker 2: You know I've blessed my kids. I've blessed my grandkids. 1159 00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 2: You know that's my. 1160 00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 3: Meed and family. 1161 00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:14,759 Speaker 2: It just I'm happy, right, And I didn't get it 1162 00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:15,440 Speaker 2: by stealing. 1163 00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:20,759 Speaker 1: Let me ask you you are when you're working at McDonald's. 1164 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:22,160 Speaker 1: I read that you served Jimmy Carter. 1165 00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:26,719 Speaker 3: One he came in, he came in, he came in. 1166 00:52:26,800 --> 00:52:29,279 Speaker 3: Pore Jimmy Carter. I always wanted ask him. Do you 1167 00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:29,799 Speaker 3: remember me? 1168 00:52:30,080 --> 00:52:33,799 Speaker 2: I was working at McDonald's on Tar Boulevard and I'm 1169 00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:36,640 Speaker 2: stealing out the register and Jimmy Carter walk in. 1170 00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:37,040 Speaker 3: I didn't know. 1171 00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:38,719 Speaker 2: I don't know nothing about no presidents. I'm just not 1172 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,600 Speaker 2: trying to get my life back together. And I looked 1173 00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:44,960 Speaker 2: up and I said, you look familia, and he's young, lady. 1174 00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,720 Speaker 2: Give me a cheat burger or side selling the water. 1175 00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:50,279 Speaker 2: So the boy and the girl was like, Patricia, I'm like, 1176 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,840 Speaker 2: he said that, Jimmy Carter. I look at Jimmy Carson. 1177 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:58,360 Speaker 2: I told you I knew you. Secret Service fell out laughing. 1178 00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 2: But you know, before they walk in a public bill 1179 00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:01,839 Speaker 2: like that, secret Service. 1180 00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:02,040 Speaker 3: Come in first. 1181 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,400 Speaker 2: So I'm thinking that did I violate my probation or 1182 00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,160 Speaker 2: do they know I'm stealing? What the hell going on? 1183 00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,120 Speaker 2: Because he's just looking all around. He got something in 1184 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:11,839 Speaker 2: his ear. I know, a police and Jimmy Carter walk 1185 00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,320 Speaker 2: in and when I said there crap to Jimmy Carr, 1186 00:53:14,360 --> 00:53:17,279 Speaker 2: that secret Service hollered and. 1187 00:53:17,200 --> 00:53:19,759 Speaker 3: I called my husband. I said, I met that, Jimmy Carl. 1188 00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:22,439 Speaker 2: Don't say that. Don't say that. Don't say you said 1189 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:24,120 Speaker 2: don't you didn't say it like that. I said, yeah, 1190 00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:29,320 Speaker 2: I said it like that because my husband is my manner, 1191 00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,920 Speaker 2: well spoken, watching a lot of news, a lot of sports. 1192 00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:34,440 Speaker 3: He on top. He don't even curse. 1193 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:39,279 Speaker 1: Wow, Miss pat settles it. You play a judge, Yes, 1194 00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:44,080 Speaker 1: where you settle cases? Uh botch bbl someone getting catfish? 1195 00:53:44,320 --> 00:53:46,560 Speaker 1: What is one of the craziest stories that you had 1196 00:53:46,560 --> 00:53:47,000 Speaker 1: to settle? 1197 00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:51,080 Speaker 3: A guy came in there and he was a new chef. 1198 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:52,880 Speaker 4: A news chef, yes. 1199 00:53:53,000 --> 00:53:55,480 Speaker 3: Whoever hired? 1200 00:53:57,840 --> 00:54:00,640 Speaker 2: And Colos Miller said the funniest stuff. He said, well, 1201 00:54:00,640 --> 00:54:02,560 Speaker 2: what do you do? Do you actually your customers do 1202 00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:03,680 Speaker 2: they have another allergy? 1203 00:54:04,320 --> 00:54:06,200 Speaker 3: Halloed hollered. 1204 00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,239 Speaker 2: That was the best, one of the most memorable and 1205 00:54:09,360 --> 00:54:12,480 Speaker 2: funniest case, which is this season the second season that 1206 00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,200 Speaker 2: show came out of nowhere. Me and my co creator 1207 00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,600 Speaker 2: talked about a Judge show and then we I hooked 1208 00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:22,759 Speaker 2: up with selling in with four ninety five and she 1209 00:54:22,960 --> 00:54:24,399 Speaker 2: helped me develop it. 1210 00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:26,239 Speaker 3: And I didn't know what was gonna do it. 1211 00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:27,879 Speaker 2: I didn't know people was gonna take it the way 1212 00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:31,080 Speaker 2: they did, and they love it, and I thank y'all 1213 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:32,839 Speaker 2: for loving it and keep loving it so I can 1214 00:54:32,840 --> 00:54:33,760 Speaker 2: get a third season. 1215 00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:37,400 Speaker 4: You had ye as a special guest on that right. 1216 00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:38,760 Speaker 3: Yes, I did. He's crazy. 1217 00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:39,279 Speaker 4: He is. 1218 00:54:39,760 --> 00:54:41,480 Speaker 3: Ray J is crazy. 1219 00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:44,920 Speaker 2: Ray J called me one day and said, me and 1220 00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,759 Speaker 2: Pat I got I got an idea for yesid what 1221 00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:48,040 Speaker 2: ray J? 1222 00:54:48,640 --> 00:54:53,760 Speaker 3: You should be? Ah? What is old? What are old? 1223 00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:56,840 Speaker 3: What are those women who be like young boys? Madam? 1224 00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:57,680 Speaker 4: Yeah? 1225 00:54:57,719 --> 00:54:59,279 Speaker 3: I said, what the hell are you talking about? You? Yeah, 1226 00:54:59,280 --> 00:55:00,920 Speaker 3: you should be a madam and you should come on 1227 00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:02,719 Speaker 3: a young guy. I said, Reggie, I'm mayor. I can't 1228 00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,920 Speaker 3: do that. I can't be nobody. Med Hi, I'm fifty 1229 00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:07,799 Speaker 3: two going through middle Paul j J. Let me call 1230 00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:08,239 Speaker 3: you back. 1231 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:12,920 Speaker 1: Did you see the story that ray J and Diddy's 1232 00:55:12,960 --> 00:55:14,200 Speaker 1: son almost got into it? 1233 00:55:16,480 --> 00:55:17,880 Speaker 4: Rayjie always is a mess, Ain't. 1234 00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:19,600 Speaker 3: You know what? I thought? 1235 00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:21,799 Speaker 2: Ray J was on the news for real when he 1236 00:55:21,840 --> 00:55:24,520 Speaker 2: was reporting that about Diddy and REGJ. 1237 00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:28,120 Speaker 3: Don't look like no fighter, right, And I was like, 1238 00:55:28,160 --> 00:55:29,160 Speaker 3: they're gonna whoop ray J. 1239 00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:30,960 Speaker 2: When I figured out it was a skit, I said, 1240 00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:32,879 Speaker 2: they're gonna whoop ra J ed keep on talking about 1241 00:55:32,880 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 2: Diddy and then next thing I know, they're in an 1242 00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:36,440 Speaker 2: altercation at a Halloween party. 1243 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:39,640 Speaker 1: MS fat as of somebody that's spent time in jail, 1244 00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:42,520 Speaker 1: do you haven't? I mean, what advice would you give 1245 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,560 Speaker 1: Diddy if he's in jail. I mean, obviously, when you 1246 00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:47,200 Speaker 1: were in general population, you weren't a celebrity. He ain't 1247 00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:47,719 Speaker 1: in g pot. 1248 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:50,279 Speaker 3: Well, he probably got it a lot better than when 1249 00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:50,719 Speaker 3: I had it. 1250 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm saying he's I mean, but you know 1251 00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:56,680 Speaker 1: it's after being around people for an extended period of time, 1252 00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,440 Speaker 1: you need to be around people. He's not around nobody. 1253 00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,200 Speaker 1: He probably not talking to anybody but the guards. Then 1254 00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:02,600 Speaker 1: he's talking to the guards. 1255 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,239 Speaker 3: I don't know, because you know, people always ask me, 1256 00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:06,560 Speaker 3: have I been to a diny pot? I don't go. 1257 00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:08,719 Speaker 2: Nobody part, I go home. I mind my being here. 1258 00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:11,879 Speaker 2: I'm praying did it for you? I hope you get out. 1259 00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:13,160 Speaker 2: He got a family. 1260 00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:15,680 Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't know the whole. I don't 1261 00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:18,120 Speaker 3: get into it. I don't read the stuff on him. 1262 00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:21,160 Speaker 3: I don't follow it. I mind my damn business because 1263 00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:21,799 Speaker 3: I don't know. 1264 00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:23,879 Speaker 1: I mean, if some celebrity would have had a party, 1265 00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,240 Speaker 1: let's just say, for the sake of argument, some celebrity 1266 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:28,479 Speaker 1: had a party in Cali at l A or web 1267 00:56:28,480 --> 00:56:30,480 Speaker 1: and they invited me, I probably would have went too. 1268 00:56:31,080 --> 00:56:33,279 Speaker 2: Now I probably would have went too. But if if 1269 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:35,400 Speaker 2: I walked in there and everybody was having sex, I. 1270 00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:38,319 Speaker 3: Probably would have left right up. I probably would have. 1271 00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:39,960 Speaker 2: I know, I would have walked right up out of there, 1272 00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:42,120 Speaker 2: because the last thing I want to see is somebody 1273 00:56:42,160 --> 00:56:43,040 Speaker 2: having six. 1274 00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:44,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I don't want to see. 1275 00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:48,160 Speaker 3: That, you know. I don't know. So I wish you luck. 1276 00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:50,520 Speaker 3: I'm trying to keep my own clean. 1277 00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,239 Speaker 1: So what have you learned about Hollywood? Being a part 1278 00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,760 Speaker 1: of Hollywood? You got two shows, you got two hit shows, 1279 00:56:56,960 --> 00:56:59,640 Speaker 1: you're on the road. What have you learned about Hollywood? 1280 00:57:01,040 --> 00:57:06,040 Speaker 3: Don't believe everything you He'll see it's fake. It's fake. 1281 00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:10,600 Speaker 2: Everybody ain't your friend, Everybody ain't happy for you. It's 1282 00:57:10,680 --> 00:57:13,400 Speaker 2: not what you think it is. You know, it's portrayed 1283 00:57:13,440 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 2: one way. Some of the most miserable peoples I ever 1284 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 2: ran into. You know, everybody put on this facade like 1285 00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:24,120 Speaker 2: they happy or they something, and they're not, and believe 1286 00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:26,880 Speaker 2: it or not, half struggling worse than you. 1287 00:57:27,040 --> 00:57:30,280 Speaker 1: Yes, but that's the biggest misconception that everybody, oh here 1288 00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:32,800 Speaker 1: in Hollywood and everybody got a big mansion, and everybody 1289 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:34,800 Speaker 1: got a hit show, and everybody making tons and tons 1290 00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,560 Speaker 1: of money, and a lot of these actors and actresses 1291 00:57:37,840 --> 00:57:38,560 Speaker 1: are struggling. 1292 00:57:38,880 --> 00:57:39,160 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1293 00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,640 Speaker 2: I mean it showed you when we went through that strike, 1294 00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:44,400 Speaker 2: and you know that's what I look. 1295 00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,120 Speaker 3: At a lot of that stuff and I try to 1296 00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:46,920 Speaker 3: learn from it. 1297 00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:50,400 Speaker 2: Like I saw Justin Biever's on there talking about somebody 1298 00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:53,560 Speaker 2: stole his money. I watch my money, I watch my 1299 00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:56,560 Speaker 2: money and I ask questions. You're not gonna play me 1300 00:57:56,600 --> 00:57:58,600 Speaker 2: I have no problem calling you saying what I fuck my. 1301 00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:02,240 Speaker 3: Check at Jedlight. That ain't no, ain't no third party. 1302 00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:05,440 Speaker 2: I'm calling you myself where my money, ask get my money, 1303 00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:08,240 Speaker 2: get get my money, and I'm not gonna send my 1304 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:10,760 Speaker 2: money to nobody first. I'm gonna pay you because you 1305 00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:13,080 Speaker 2: work for me, and what happened is a lot of 1306 00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:15,000 Speaker 2: times people are like, oh, just send my money here 1307 00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:16,200 Speaker 2: and there and y'all pay me. 1308 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,000 Speaker 3: Uh uh uh uh. I check everybody I call my 1309 00:58:19,000 --> 00:58:20,520 Speaker 3: bait explain this to me. 1310 00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,080 Speaker 2: Don't you don't you go on my damn banking cat 1311 00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:24,640 Speaker 2: without me getting a cold saying you can go in 1312 00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 2: there and I'm gonna ask you what. 1313 00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,000 Speaker 3: You need because I need to go in there with you, 1314 00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:33,160 Speaker 3: right because I used to steal suld. You think a 1315 00:58:33,240 --> 00:58:35,880 Speaker 3: thief gonna trust somebody? No hell, I know. 1316 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,600 Speaker 2: God gonna get me back for what I did, but 1317 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,240 Speaker 2: you ain't gonna get me back as long as I. 1318 00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:41,720 Speaker 3: Got two eyes and no cattle ragts. 1319 00:58:42,240 --> 00:58:44,400 Speaker 2: I be watching my money and I know they be like, 1320 00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:47,439 Speaker 2: this is an old, untrustworthy bit. You damn you ain't 1321 00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:50,160 Speaker 2: gonna have me back at the pole house because I'm 1322 00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:52,400 Speaker 2: too old to prostitute and I'm too old to do 1323 00:58:52,480 --> 00:58:53,440 Speaker 2: them trigger things. 1324 00:58:54,680 --> 00:58:57,520 Speaker 1: Mister pat, what are your thoughts on plastic surgery? Should 1325 00:58:57,560 --> 00:58:58,680 Speaker 1: women get plastic surgery? 1326 00:58:58,920 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 4: Bbls? Or you okay with that? 1327 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:04,640 Speaker 3: You know where everybody look the same? You know? 1328 00:59:05,200 --> 00:59:06,760 Speaker 2: I mean, who am I to saying I'm fat? They're 1329 00:59:06,760 --> 00:59:08,400 Speaker 2: gonna they gonna go in to come and be like, bitch, 1330 00:59:08,440 --> 00:59:11,600 Speaker 2: you fat? You know I ain't gonna lie. If I 1331 00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:13,720 Speaker 2: lost a few pounds, I would get my stomach cut 1332 00:59:13,720 --> 00:59:15,840 Speaker 2: off because I like to see mother Joanna before I die. 1333 00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:21,040 Speaker 2: But but all this shit, but these black women run 1334 00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:22,280 Speaker 2: around here getting extra lips. 1335 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,520 Speaker 3: Why you need lips? You black? You already got lips. 1336 00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:26,360 Speaker 3: You got it. You got negro lips on top of 1337 00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:28,680 Speaker 3: negro lips. You know I don't. 1338 00:59:29,480 --> 00:59:32,760 Speaker 2: And it's not it's not real, you know, for the 1339 00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 2: way they look. And but these are the bitches that 1340 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:38,600 Speaker 2: can't keep nobody. As beautiful as some of them are, 1341 00:59:38,600 --> 00:59:40,959 Speaker 2: they can't keep no man. So who are you doing 1342 00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:44,640 Speaker 2: it for? Who are you doing it for? I love 1343 00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,840 Speaker 2: Kendren Lamar's he had the song say what a scratch 1344 00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:53,280 Speaker 2: Mark's at? I was like, right here, Nigga, right here, Kendrew. 1345 00:59:53,720 --> 00:59:57,720 Speaker 2: But I mean it makes me think that sometimes, you know, 1346 00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,280 Speaker 2: women are just not happy with the way they look 1347 01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,840 Speaker 2: because of what social media has created. I mean, do 1348 01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 2: you I mean, and I'm quite sure you had all 1349 01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,760 Speaker 2: types of women shutting? I mean, how many time have 1350 01:00:07,800 --> 01:00:09,400 Speaker 2: you hit somebody from the back and they ass went 1351 01:00:09,480 --> 01:00:14,960 Speaker 2: up their bag and you gotta you gotta help you, 1352 01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:18,200 Speaker 2: you gotta help her get that ass plant and you 1353 01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:20,280 Speaker 2: gotta act like it ain't nothing, but you like, I 1354 01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:22,160 Speaker 2: don't really want that went. 1355 01:00:21,960 --> 01:00:25,400 Speaker 3: Flat on one side. I mean, think about that. And 1356 01:00:25,440 --> 01:00:28,040 Speaker 3: I'm not saying I'm not. I'm not. I'm no Beyonce. 1357 01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:31,000 Speaker 3: It's gorgeous. I'm no. You know, I got some issues. 1358 01:00:31,480 --> 01:00:34,080 Speaker 3: You know, I'm fat. I know I'm fat, but I'm happy. 1359 01:00:35,160 --> 01:00:37,120 Speaker 2: And when I lose some weight, I'm gonna get my 1360 01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:38,120 Speaker 2: stomach cut off. 1361 01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:40,280 Speaker 3: But I ain't gonna buy no ass. I got this 1362 01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:45,040 Speaker 3: some government butter and cheese, you know, getting your neck. 1363 01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,920 Speaker 2: People in here getting light polled on their neck, that 1364 01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,520 Speaker 2: people don't cut their nose down so they can't breathe, 1365 01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:51,240 Speaker 2: no damn more. 1366 01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:53,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, when is enough? It's enough? 1367 01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:57,040 Speaker 2: You know, we we get we getting eyebrows, permanent putting 1368 01:00:57,080 --> 01:01:00,360 Speaker 2: out put on and it makes you, it makes me say, 1369 01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:02,240 Speaker 2: it's beautiful as black women are. 1370 01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:05,080 Speaker 3: When is enough is enough? When we gonna be happy 1371 01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:05,720 Speaker 3: with ourselves. 1372 01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:07,360 Speaker 1: Are they doing it to get a man or they're 1373 01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,560 Speaker 1: doing it to impress other women? Why would women get. 1374 01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:12,280 Speaker 2: Probably to impress other women. That's what we do because 1375 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:15,000 Speaker 2: a man. Come on, shanny, how many girls you don't 1376 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:17,040 Speaker 2: slept when they had they we slid off? 1377 01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:21,440 Speaker 4: Okay, I ain't a lot. I have a couple of the. 1378 01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:25,040 Speaker 3: Bigger than me. 1379 01:01:27,880 --> 01:01:31,760 Speaker 2: That would before the money, because I know you ain't 1380 01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:33,959 Speaker 2: lifting these kind of legs with the money. 1381 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 3: Or what's your what's your gas off? And you need to. 1382 01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:45,440 Speaker 6: Stay Yeah, I don't know if guys like a person 1383 01:01:45,480 --> 01:01:49,560 Speaker 6: a woman has to have a bbl that guys, guys, 1384 01:01:49,600 --> 01:01:50,680 Speaker 6: you know how guys are. 1385 01:01:50,520 --> 01:01:53,720 Speaker 2: We I mean something y'all like trophy pieces, you know 1386 01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:55,040 Speaker 2: instead of just wives. 1387 01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:58,320 Speaker 3: It's hard to be a wife now, you know, to 1388 01:01:58,400 --> 01:01:59,160 Speaker 3: just be at home. 1389 01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:03,560 Speaker 1: And but the wise want to be a wife. It's 1390 01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:05,920 Speaker 1: easy to say that, but do they want? Is that 1391 01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:06,800 Speaker 1: what they want? 1392 01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,720 Speaker 3: That's what I want? I mean, but that's not what 1393 01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:11,760 Speaker 3: everybody want, you know. 1394 01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:13,960 Speaker 2: And my husband and my husband fat too shit he 1395 01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:15,640 Speaker 2: ain't gonna tell me gonna get no BBL. 1396 01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:17,800 Speaker 3: Well here up there, we both need to BBL. 1397 01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:22,480 Speaker 2: And that's probably why I'm not pressuring into, you know, 1398 01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:26,640 Speaker 2: into getting any type of classic surgery. And I know 1399 01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:29,440 Speaker 2: y'all gonna say, oh, she got diabetes for your information, 1400 01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:32,080 Speaker 2: I don't have no diabetes. I'm just chunky, and I 1401 01:02:32,120 --> 01:02:33,760 Speaker 2: gained a few pound before I got here because I 1402 01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:34,439 Speaker 2: was stretched out. 1403 01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:36,640 Speaker 3: By the delection. But I'm gonna lose a few pounds. 1404 01:02:36,800 --> 01:02:39,560 Speaker 2: But you know, I think it has a lot just 1405 01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:42,360 Speaker 2: to do with people not happy with the way they look. 1406 01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:44,000 Speaker 2: And I'm not happy with the way I look either, 1407 01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:46,680 Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna do all that. I'm not gonna go. 1408 01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:49,080 Speaker 2: I got boobed, so I don't have to buy boobs. 1409 01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:51,080 Speaker 2: You know, I just got a little extra stombach. I 1410 01:02:51,120 --> 01:02:52,920 Speaker 2: don't need no more. As you know. 1411 01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:55,280 Speaker 3: I don't care nobout running down, no beaching, no swimsuit. 1412 01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,240 Speaker 3: I don't care nothing about. I'm fifty two. I wear 1413 01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:02,400 Speaker 3: a panting linel two one in the front in the back. 1414 01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:06,080 Speaker 3: Come on for what, ask your mama? She well too 1415 01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:12,480 Speaker 3: too eighty one? Well she on four she got on 1416 01:03:12,560 --> 01:03:16,280 Speaker 3: two pamples. That thing juice when. 1417 01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:22,040 Speaker 1: Now you're in your fifties and you blew up later 1418 01:03:22,120 --> 01:03:24,720 Speaker 1: in life. A lot of people have success earlier in life, 1419 01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:27,800 Speaker 1: right it out, you have success later in life, does 1420 01:03:27,800 --> 01:03:31,400 Speaker 1: it make you appreciate it more now having success later 1421 01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:31,800 Speaker 1: in life. 1422 01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:34,360 Speaker 2: Yes, I'm so glad I didn't get it when I 1423 01:03:34,360 --> 01:03:36,480 Speaker 2: was with that first baby, Daddy. I'm so glad I 1424 01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:40,400 Speaker 2: didn't know this talent that I have. Oh, thank you God. 1425 01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,520 Speaker 2: Because I was a little girl. I was funny back then, 1426 01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:47,280 Speaker 2: they said. But I'm so glad that I didn't become 1427 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:50,200 Speaker 2: miss pat until I was married with kids. And it 1428 01:03:50,240 --> 01:03:53,520 Speaker 2: also gave me more to talk about too. So yeah, 1429 01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:56,720 Speaker 2: I'm happy. I'm happy I blew up while I was old. 1430 01:03:58,360 --> 01:03:59,880 Speaker 1: I'm gonna get you out of here on this one, 1431 01:04:00,840 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 1: young mom. Now you're a grandma, What is it like 1432 01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:09,520 Speaker 1: being a grandma? What type of grandma's past? 1433 01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:14,880 Speaker 2: I'll be cussing them kids out. My grandson said, I 1434 01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:17,080 Speaker 2: won't go over my house. She'd be hollering at us 1435 01:04:17,120 --> 01:04:20,400 Speaker 2: all the time, because you know, I don't have to page. 1436 01:04:20,400 --> 01:04:23,200 Speaker 3: Shut your ass, Damn shut y'all. You ain't gonna run 1437 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:25,320 Speaker 3: in not my house. Let my ac ain't heat out 1438 01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:25,800 Speaker 3: of my house. 1439 01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:30,440 Speaker 2: But I love my grandbabies and I'm happy. You know, 1440 01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:32,439 Speaker 2: I told I told my daughter in law, I said, 1441 01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:34,400 Speaker 2: don't have no more kids by my son. Y'all don't 1442 01:04:34,440 --> 01:04:36,000 Speaker 2: need no more kids. Don't let the man keep messing 1443 01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:38,760 Speaker 2: up your body. He ain't worth it. For Get your 1444 01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,919 Speaker 2: tombs tide. She got a tomb tide and three is enough. 1445 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:45,120 Speaker 2: So it's a twin boys and it's one girl. So 1446 01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,760 Speaker 2: I love being a grandmama because I look forward to 1447 01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,240 Speaker 2: spoiling them and sending them back out the door. 1448 01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:53,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, so you let whatever the parents won't allow them 1449 01:04:53,080 --> 01:04:54,520 Speaker 1: to do, you let them do it. 1450 01:04:54,640 --> 01:04:55,280 Speaker 3: Hell no. 1451 01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:58,440 Speaker 2: In fact, my granddaughter got a cell phone. Well, I 1452 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:02,240 Speaker 2: got four other kids in my house the same age, 1453 01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:06,360 Speaker 2: and I got an eight year old, and I have 1454 01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:08,160 Speaker 2: a No, I have a eleven year old, and my 1455 01:05:08,200 --> 01:05:10,840 Speaker 2: granddaughter's eleven. She got a cell phone. Nobody don't have 1456 01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:12,600 Speaker 2: a cell phone in my house. I don't play that time, 1457 01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:15,640 Speaker 2: because when you put that computer in their hand, they 1458 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:16,920 Speaker 2: exposed to the world. 1459 01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:17,880 Speaker 4: You know. 1460 01:05:18,000 --> 01:05:21,040 Speaker 2: My grand's daughter literally texts me this morning and said, 1461 01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:25,400 Speaker 2: oh my god, Trump warre, Oh we're gonna be okay. Well, 1462 01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:26,920 Speaker 2: the other kids didn't say that because they don't got 1463 01:05:26,920 --> 01:05:30,520 Speaker 2: no phone and we ain't had a tv'll, so she 1464 01:05:30,640 --> 01:05:33,480 Speaker 2: out there putting all of this negative and positive stuff 1465 01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:36,080 Speaker 2: in our head. It's just too much. It's just too 1466 01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:38,000 Speaker 2: much for a kid. A kid shouldn't be worried about 1467 01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:40,320 Speaker 2: Lord next year. A kid should be a kid. And 1468 01:05:40,360 --> 01:05:42,400 Speaker 2: I don't think my granddaughter get to be a kid 1469 01:05:42,440 --> 01:05:45,440 Speaker 2: because my son gave her cell phone too young. 1470 01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 1: Your falcon, y'all do it good, y'all, A top of y'all, 1471 01:05:50,640 --> 01:05:53,000 Speaker 1: a top of the NFC South. You won like three 1472 01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:55,160 Speaker 1: four games in the road, just beating the cowboys. Y'all 1473 01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:58,560 Speaker 1: beat the bugs. Hey, y'all riding hot? How do you 1474 01:05:58,640 --> 01:05:59,720 Speaker 1: feel about your falcon? 1475 01:05:59,800 --> 01:06:02,440 Speaker 4: And do you bleed? First? Cousins Kirk cousins can take 1476 01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:03,040 Speaker 4: them all away. 1477 01:06:03,400 --> 01:06:06,120 Speaker 2: You know when we first got cousin, I don't I 1478 01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:08,680 Speaker 2: don't want him. Let me say that I'm a diehard 1479 01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:11,960 Speaker 2: Michael Vic fan. Yes, I was there when Vic first 1480 01:06:12,000 --> 01:06:14,600 Speaker 2: got there. The year that Vic went to jail, That's 1481 01:06:14,600 --> 01:06:16,560 Speaker 2: the year I left here and went to Indiana with 1482 01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:17,320 Speaker 2: my husband's job. 1483 01:06:17,600 --> 01:06:19,720 Speaker 3: So I love me some Michael Vic. 1484 01:06:20,160 --> 01:06:22,920 Speaker 2: I do, and I just have not been able to 1485 01:06:22,960 --> 01:06:26,960 Speaker 2: sell anybody since he's gone since he left. And so 1486 01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:29,360 Speaker 2: when we got Kirk cousin, I said, Okay, here go 1487 01:06:29,440 --> 01:06:30,600 Speaker 2: this one hundred million dollars. 1488 01:06:30,600 --> 01:06:32,040 Speaker 3: White boy ain't gonna do nothing no more. 1489 01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:36,160 Speaker 2: But I've been paying attention and I gave up my 1490 01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,840 Speaker 2: Falcon tickets this year and I wish I had nothing, 1491 01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:42,640 Speaker 2: damn because I had five tickets and they was. 1492 01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:49,160 Speaker 3: Down, like down on the floor. Yes I did. 1493 01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:51,840 Speaker 2: They cost some money because you know, we were just 1494 01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:53,480 Speaker 2: not winning, and I was like, I can't keep spending 1495 01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:57,160 Speaker 2: this kind of money. But I'm so happy because everybody 1496 01:06:57,200 --> 01:07:00,200 Speaker 2: know I'm a diehard Falcon fan. I will slept in 1497 01:07:00,240 --> 01:07:03,360 Speaker 2: your face for a by the fact. I love the 1498 01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:05,760 Speaker 2: fact I was. I was literally getting off a plane 1499 01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:07,000 Speaker 2: coming to every game. 1500 01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,240 Speaker 3: I love my Falcon. That's my team. 1501 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:13,120 Speaker 2: I love the Falcons and I'm so happy they doing 1502 01:07:13,160 --> 01:07:15,480 Speaker 2: well and we're gonna go to the playoffs. 1503 01:07:16,480 --> 01:07:18,840 Speaker 4: You guys were up twenty eight to three and. 1504 01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:19,880 Speaker 3: I was at that game. 1505 01:07:21,720 --> 01:07:22,680 Speaker 4: Have you gotten over that? 1506 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:26,880 Speaker 3: I gotten over it? 1507 01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:29,160 Speaker 2: But you know, I don't know if you ever heard 1508 01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:30,960 Speaker 2: the story that I tell about the Falcon killed my 1509 01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:35,160 Speaker 2: sister in law. That night when we was winning, I 1510 01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:38,200 Speaker 2: was talking so much trash to New England fan Lee 1511 01:07:38,320 --> 01:07:40,920 Speaker 2: Daniel gave me two super Bowl tickets to. 1512 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:42,560 Speaker 3: Go to Houston to go to the Super Bowl. 1513 01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:45,439 Speaker 2: CBS gave me tickets like ABC, whoever it was, I'm 1514 01:07:45,480 --> 01:07:48,360 Speaker 2: talking mad shit to the FORO, just talking stop. 1515 01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:50,520 Speaker 3: It was Fox. 1516 01:07:50,680 --> 01:07:52,600 Speaker 2: Fox gave me because that's what my show was at 1517 01:07:52,600 --> 01:07:54,800 Speaker 2: the time. I don't put on a two Patty Liners. 1518 01:07:54,840 --> 01:07:57,560 Speaker 2: I'm there just talking trade baby. 1519 01:07:58,400 --> 01:08:01,840 Speaker 3: Let me tell you. When halftime came and they started to. 1520 01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,960 Speaker 2: Come back, I couldn't believe it. I'm screaming in holling, 1521 01:08:05,280 --> 01:08:07,880 Speaker 2: please don't. I go to the bathroom, praying in the bathroom. 1522 01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:10,080 Speaker 2: I get a phone call from my husband. He said 1523 01:08:10,120 --> 01:08:12,280 Speaker 2: my sister had a heart attach watching the Falcon game, 1524 01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:14,240 Speaker 2: and I literally said, fuck your sister. 1525 01:08:14,400 --> 01:08:23,280 Speaker 3: The facton by Loocier. He called me back and said 1526 01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:26,439 Speaker 3: she passed away. And I'm like, I don't care. 1527 01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,920 Speaker 2: The Falcons long the Super Bowl and I walk out 1528 01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:31,040 Speaker 2: the door in chanter five. 1529 01:08:31,120 --> 01:08:33,599 Speaker 3: Then I won't talk. My sister laud them died. 1530 01:08:33,680 --> 01:08:36,040 Speaker 2: But she died in the third quarter, and it's you know, 1531 01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:37,800 Speaker 2: it was when they were still kind of up. So 1532 01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:40,600 Speaker 2: she went to heaven thinking we want but it's the 1533 01:08:40,640 --> 01:08:43,320 Speaker 2: people who stayed behind that day like me and you 1534 01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:45,479 Speaker 2: know the different that they did not win. 1535 01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:47,960 Speaker 3: And I used to tell that story all the time. 1536 01:08:48,000 --> 01:08:49,240 Speaker 3: They killed my law. 1537 01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:51,800 Speaker 2: But I yet I still go to the game, and 1538 01:08:51,880 --> 01:08:54,160 Speaker 2: I make sure I take an aspen before I go. 1539 01:08:54,240 --> 01:08:55,679 Speaker 3: So my hug and beat right. 1540 01:08:57,960 --> 01:08:59,960 Speaker 4: Hot and flashy stand up to her. Get your take. 1541 01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:04,839 Speaker 1: It's ww dot Mispatcomedy dot com. Season four The Mispat 1542 01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:07,760 Speaker 1: Show is now streaming on BT Plus, and season two 1543 01:09:07,840 --> 01:09:11,320 Speaker 1: of Miss Pat Settles is streaming on bt Miss Pat, 1544 01:09:11,479 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 1: thanks for coming back, Thank you. 1545 01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:16,280 Speaker 5: Thank y'all for having me all my life, grinding all 1546 01:09:16,280 --> 01:09:19,120 Speaker 5: my life, sacrifice, Hustle bat. 1547 01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:23,320 Speaker 3: The Price, Wanta Slice Got the Brother Swap all my life. 1548 01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:26,200 Speaker 5: I've been grinding all my life, all my life, and 1549 01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:30,960 Speaker 5: grinding all my life sacrifice, Hustle Bag the Price, Wanta 1550 01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:34,000 Speaker 5: Slice got the Brother Swap all my life. 1551 01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:35,360 Speaker 3: I've been grinding all my life.