WEBVTT - Mustache Collection, Autopsy Refusal, Holiday Hazards, Traditions, and More! 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:13.720 Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk 0:00:21.160 --> 0:00:23.479 Hi everyone walk on The Mother Knows that this is 0:00:23.520 --> 0:00:28.200 our annual questions only episode. So Maria is going to 0:00:28.320 --> 0:00:32.800 ask the questions and we will answer them. All right, first, 0:00:33.040 --> 0:00:35.800 what do the majority of people or children choke on 0:00:35.920 --> 0:00:39.680 over the holidays? I don't know if there's anything different 0:00:39.800 --> 0:00:42.440 during the holidays than any other time of year, but 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:48.800 the most common things are food, obviously, the classic things 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:52.559 of hot dogs that are cut in cross sections that 0:00:52.680 --> 0:00:59.040 are the exact size of a child's airway, grapes, things 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:04.600 like that. Another one could be balloons or common one 0:01:04.680 --> 0:01:06.640 kid's choke on. I don't know if people have a 0:01:06.680 --> 0:01:08.920 lot of balloons around this time of year, but I 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:11.280 don't think it's anything different around this time of year 0:01:11.360 --> 0:01:15.399 than any other time of year. It's just terrible to 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:17.959 even think about a kid choking around the holidays. But 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:23.120 all right, what's the weirdest Christmas related injury you've heard of? 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:30.760 Let me think on that for a second. What are 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:31.319 you well? 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:33.400 If I could help you out, there's a lot of 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:38.000 electrocutions right that happened with like Christmas trees or the. 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:39.280 Guy the other day. 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:41.520 You know the guy, the guy that we talked about 0:01:41.920 --> 0:01:44.480 a couple weeks ago that got electrocute to putting his 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:47.920 Christmas lights up. Yeah, and it wasn't you know. The 0:01:48.440 --> 0:01:51.480 way I thought about it was he got electrocuted plugging 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:53.360 it in on the roof or something, but he hit 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:55.720 the live power line. So yeah, when he was like 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:59.400 throwing them, he was throwing them somewhere right to get 0:01:59.400 --> 0:02:00.720 to the other side to somewhere. 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:03.680 Yeah, it seemed like a lot of. 0:02:03.640 --> 0:02:07.000 Real trees also catch on fire a lot, and I 0:02:07.080 --> 0:02:09.880 think those cause people a lot of problems. That used 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:12.240 that used to be a thing that when I was 0:02:12.280 --> 0:02:14.320 a kid that people were so scared of. And I 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:16.680 don't I don't really know. I never really talked a 0:02:16.720 --> 0:02:21.119 game about it because we only had a real tree 0:02:21.120 --> 0:02:23.440 a couple times, and it was flocked. And they're like 0:02:23.480 --> 0:02:25.519 a little bit different because they're sealed and they don't 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:27.960 get dried out as easily, like you don't have to 0:02:27.960 --> 0:02:28.600 water them. 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:30.440 Like crazy like you do a regular tree. 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:34.920 But yeah, like I remember growing up that was it 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:37.519 seemed like a lot of people moved to artificial trees 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:40.040 in the eighties because they were afraid that the tree 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:44.239 was gonna catch on fire in the house. Yeah, I mean, 0:02:44.280 --> 0:02:47.640 I feel like I definitely don't see as many stories 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:49.920 about it recently. I don't know if people are just 0:02:50.040 --> 0:02:52.680 like better about unplugging them or keeping them on a timer. 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:55.880 I think the rule of thumb is just you know, 0:02:55.960 --> 0:02:58.959 you don't leave stuff plugged in, like while you're not 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:00.440 home something like that. 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:00.760 You know. 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:03.400 The lights are different though, I'm guilty of leaving my 0:03:03.480 --> 0:03:06.320 Christmas lights on all the time. The led wants they 0:03:06.320 --> 0:03:10.120 don't get hot. Well, considering that you're married to a fireman, 0:03:10.320 --> 0:03:13.760 you're not really super responsible with fire hazard. 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.680 He lives here too. What do you want me to say? 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:18.200 We have a question about Gabe coming up. I'm just 0:03:18.200 --> 0:03:20.400 gonna jump to it now since we're on the topic. 0:03:20.960 --> 0:03:24.600 What are some absolutely no go fire hazards or fire 0:03:24.720 --> 0:03:30.120 safety Gabe preaches around the holidays. Candles are always a thing. 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:33.320 I want a house to smell good all the time. 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:36.720 But he's constantly yelling at me about having candles too 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:40.720 close to things, and I'm like, dude, I really I 0:03:40.760 --> 0:03:43.200 can't explain to you how far away it is he 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:46.160 wants it to be. Like if you add a dining 0:03:46.240 --> 0:03:48.440 room table. He wants it to be in the center 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:51.560 of the table and no light fixture above it, and 0:03:51.680 --> 0:03:55.680 nothing anywhere near it, not a curtain, not a shelf, 0:03:55.800 --> 0:03:58.480 not a piece of taxi army that might catch on fire. 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:00.560 That might have happened a couple of years ago. So 0:04:00.640 --> 0:04:06.560 now he's all paranoid. Yeah, so he's he's he's kind 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:10.640 of nuts about the candles. He hates in my house, 0:04:10.680 --> 0:04:14.280 I have really long curtains on almost every single window, 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:16.960 and he's always like, can't you make. 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:20.799 Those curtains shorter? And I'm like, no, that looks terrible. 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:21.599 I'm not doing that. 0:04:21.839 --> 0:04:23.880 I like them dragging on the floor. He hates it, 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:27.400 like he just thinks it's a huge fire hazard. He's not, 0:04:28.160 --> 0:04:32.400 He's not really. He also gets nuts with cooking. Anytime 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:37.240 he calls it a careless cooking incident, he smells like 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:40.640 something burning. He like freaks out and like opens all 0:04:40.680 --> 0:04:43.640 the windows when it's twenty degrees outside. But he's he's 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:48.080 really not that bad. Honestly, your worst defense, in my opinion, 0:04:48.200 --> 0:04:51.200 is your space heater by your desk, because there have 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:54.520 been several times where I've you know, you're away, and 0:04:54.560 --> 0:04:56.719 then I come in the house and it's on from 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:59.679 like two days ago, touching your fur lined. 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.640 I cannot believe you have not had a problem. Yeah, 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:07.440 and that thing catches on fire sometimes too, like it 0:05:07.520 --> 0:05:10.440 did a couple of weeks ago. But I need that. 0:05:10.440 --> 0:05:11.960 That's like my security blanket. 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:15.440 And that's the second time that one is caught on fire, 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:17.640 like you got a new one and then the second 0:05:17.680 --> 0:05:19.520 one caught on fire a couple of weeks ago. So 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:22.839 Gabe's dad is a fireman, and I think that I 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:26.120 had a conversation with him once about electric blankets, Like 0:05:26.160 --> 0:05:29.920 he's like a note because he's like old school seventies firefighter, 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:33.040 Like he's when electric blankets would like kill people, and shit, 0:05:33.600 --> 0:05:36.839 they probably still could, I suppose, But I'm like, I 0:05:36.839 --> 0:05:40.000 would get divorced from you if I couldn't have a 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:44.520 my electric blanket. But one of Gabe's friends had a 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:49.360 fire that involved the dryer lint not being cleaned out properly. 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:54.400 So he's like a freak about that, Uh, always checking 0:05:54.440 --> 0:05:56.479 to make sure that that's cleaned out every single time 0:05:56.600 --> 0:06:02.039 used the dryer and stuff. Just that's that's it, though 0:06:02.040 --> 0:06:04.680 they're not really I mean, considering the amount of fires 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:05.680 that the guys go to. 0:06:05.800 --> 0:06:06.160 They don't. 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:09.360 They don't really seem like they're too they don't get 0:06:09.360 --> 0:06:13.200 too overly crazy with things. I wonder if they blanket 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:17.280 careless cooking incidents. As a lot of people store things 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:20.440 in their oven. I'm firmly against doing that. But my 0:06:20.600 --> 0:06:24.719 husband is really about putting all different types of things 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:27.760 in the oven. Just he'll put like food in there 0:06:27.800 --> 0:06:30.240 to keep it warm or just random shit, and I'm like, 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:34.680 don't do it, because I mean, like like he'll mostly 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:38.119 he puts pans in there, but let's say he'll cook 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:41.279 something and then he'll later want to reuse like the 0:06:41.320 --> 0:06:43.800 piece of foil he was using, not like he could 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:46.719 rip another piece off or anything, right, So he'll put 0:06:46.760 --> 0:06:49.040 that in there and it'll have grease on it or something, 0:06:49.320 --> 0:06:51.440 and then I'll turn the oven on not knowing it's 0:06:51.440 --> 0:06:54.120 in there, and then it smells bad, and I'm just like, 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:56.680 I don't want to worry about something being in there. 0:06:57.160 --> 0:07:01.240 Just we have places to put everything. You're just being lazy. 0:07:02.000 --> 0:07:04.720 It just seems like it's like it's like almost an 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:06.440 empty cabinet in your kitchen. 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:10.200 That's you know what I mean, I understand it. I 0:07:10.640 --> 0:07:12.880 actually keep stuff in the one side of mine too. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:14.360 I don't know. 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.760 I just I don't see a reason for it, you know. 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:19.480 I sometimes I put my sour dough bowl in there 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:21.520 to prove it, but I put a note on the 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:22.440 thing that says. 0:07:22.240 --> 0:07:22.720 It's in there. 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:26.280 Yeah, but there's a piece of plastic wrap on it, 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:28.160 so like you know how bad that's gonna be. 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:30.320 I don't know. 0:07:30.600 --> 0:07:32.440 I just wonder if they have a lot of problems 0:07:32.440 --> 0:07:35.280 because of stuff like that. All right, do you have 0:07:35.320 --> 0:07:37.640 a certain food or snack that you put out every 0:07:37.720 --> 0:07:40.640 year for the holidays? They said they do strump boli 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:44.520 and pepperoni bread. It sounds delicious. When I read that 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:48.280 question earlier, I was like, I want to make pepperoni 0:07:48.320 --> 0:07:51.040 bread for for Christmas Eve now. 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:56.200 Because you can't. So I already I already I already looked. 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.280 Up a recipe seriously, like I'm going to make it 0:07:58.360 --> 0:08:01.760 because one of the things about being gluten free is 0:08:01.800 --> 0:08:04.000 that you just can't have good stuff like that. And 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:06.000 even if I make it, like, it's just not gonna 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:07.680 taste like it should. 0:08:07.760 --> 0:08:10.200 But that makes me think that I want that. 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:16.640 We didn't we talk about this a few episodes back, like, well, 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:20.960 we were talking about our favorite holiday treats. 0:08:22.480 --> 0:08:23.000 So stuff. 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:24.840 Yeah, we kind of touched on it a little bit, 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.360 Like I feel like we're switching it up this year. 0:08:27.440 --> 0:08:32.240 Normally we make sauce with like sausage and meatballs and everything, 0:08:33.240 --> 0:08:35.360 and then we do sandwiches. This year, we're gonna be 0:08:35.360 --> 0:08:37.760 making chicken cutlets, which is a little different, but we're 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:40.520 still gonna be doing sausage and peppers. And then every 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:42.600 year I try to put out some like cheese board 0:08:42.760 --> 0:08:47.040 checuterary situation. But Rick Let's not makes that thing whatever 0:08:47.120 --> 0:08:50.480 it is that corn beef ball, Yeah, that's that thing's good. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:54.520 It's really good. What is it. It's like corned beef 0:08:54.600 --> 0:08:58.719 and cream cheese. That's it. No, there's more stuff, but 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:01.000 I'm not gonna give away seat. It's on the air. 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:03.600 It's a that's like a family delicacy. 0:09:03.800 --> 0:09:07.320 Yeah, it's it's it's like a weird thing, but it works. 0:09:08.240 --> 0:09:12.080 Yeah, that thing is really good. I don't know. 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:15.000 I feel like we put out a lot of different stuff. Thanksgiving, 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:18.160 we're pretty ritualistic, having the same exact menu every year. 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:20.640 But I feel like Christmas Eve we just put like 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:24.320 we all like we're big food people and we all 0:09:24.360 --> 0:09:26.719 like to cook and stuff, so we like to like say, oh, 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:29.320 this year, we're doing this or whatever. Yeah, and I'm 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:31.680 you know, I I'm going a little lighter on the 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:35.560 Secuterary this year, because let's not forget two years ago 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:39.000 when I made the Secuterary chalet and then nobody ate 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:40.400 it because everybody was like. 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:42.400 I don't want to touch it, it's too pretty. Ria 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:44.280 has this problem all the time. She makes these. 0:09:44.320 --> 0:09:46.360 Really she does it for like if we have a 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:49.120 like a kid's party or something, she always makes these 0:09:49.200 --> 0:09:52.640 like extravagant cheese boards, and then nobody wants to eat 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:55.520 it because they look so nice they don't want to 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:57.439 mess it up. And then we end up having like 0:09:58.200 --> 0:10:00.800 fifty dollars worth of cheese and shit just like sitting 0:10:00.800 --> 0:10:04.840 there because nobody touched it. It really seezes me off, though, 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:06.920 because it's food, and I'm like, it's I know, I 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:10.440 understand that, though, like I would feel weird being the 0:10:10.480 --> 0:10:13.080 one to like wreck the way that it looks. You know, well, 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:16.880 usually I make it, then I take a picture and 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:20.800 then Gabe can't help himself, so he immediately tears into it. 0:10:20.800 --> 0:10:24.200 And at least other people feel good about it. After that, 0:10:24.800 --> 0:10:27.760 so I don't know. I'm not The chalet took too 0:10:27.840 --> 0:10:30.280 long and then nobody touched it. I was really pissed 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:32.959 about it. So I'm not going hard on the spreads 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:35.600 anymore for my house because it really annoys me. 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:41.760 All Right, what are your favorite ornaments on your Christmas tree? 0:10:41.920 --> 0:10:45.560 I don't. I don't really have any great ones. She 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.000 doesn't have any fun ones. 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:50.200 I don't because I am such a crazy person, like 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:53.480 I talk about this that I probably have something wrong 0:10:53.520 --> 0:10:58.440 with me, with my color of coordination, and I just 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.760 I can't have those like junkie ornaments. I'm like one 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.160 of those people. I have a whole box of them, 0:11:04.200 --> 0:11:08.360 but they're not hanging up anywhere. I'm just that person. Sorry, 0:11:08.480 --> 0:11:13.920 hate me whatever. Actually, Aunttary got me when the girls 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:18.720 were born, not you, unfortunately, but the two lillly And and Luccia. 0:11:19.200 --> 0:11:23.680 She got me these like little Lennox. They're they're like 0:11:23.679 --> 0:11:27.160 a little lammer giraffe thing that says their name and 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:31.520 their their year that they were born. You're probably my 0:11:31.559 --> 0:11:34.960 favorite ones, and they match my tree, so it works out. 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:39.280 God forbid. They don't match the tree. I have all 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:43.839 junkie ones because I love those kind. My favorite one, 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:47.480 it's hard to say. One of my favorites is my 0:11:47.640 --> 0:11:51.040 husband's stepmother bought him one that's when he learned how 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:53.720 to drive that says steer clear, Here comes Ricky and 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:54.720 it's a steering wheel. 0:11:54.800 --> 0:11:56.320 I think that one's just hilarious. 0:11:56.640 --> 0:12:00.520 Oh, I guess one of my favorite ones is I 0:12:00.559 --> 0:12:03.439 have one that's a little Martha's Beach bubble that says. 0:12:03.160 --> 0:12:05.200 More noog and I love it. 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:07.720 And then you got me that really cute chocolate chip 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:08.680 canoli one. 0:12:08.880 --> 0:12:11.720 I think that one's really cute. Yeah, you have that 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:15.439 matter tree. It's pink. 0:12:15.760 --> 0:12:20.360 Yeah, but Mike, my kitchen's more of a French theme. 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:25.840 Gothic French bistro is my theme. So like, I don't know, 0:12:26.440 --> 0:12:28.120 just leave my tree alone. 0:12:28.640 --> 0:12:29.439 All right, whatever. 0:12:29.840 --> 0:12:31.720 What's your favorite cookie recipe? 0:12:33.080 --> 0:12:34.640 Oh, the Ricotta cheese cookies. 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:39.559 Mine is the Peppermint Hershey kit Yeah, it's chocolate cookie 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:41.200 with a peppermint Hershey kiss in it. 0:12:41.360 --> 0:12:42.240 Do you think those. 0:12:42.080 --> 0:12:44.199 Ones me and Lara, the ones me and Lara made 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:46.199 the other day, you could probably do that with. 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:48.480 I think it's like a trader. 0:12:48.840 --> 0:12:53.120 I think the recipe was a trader Joe's and We've 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:54.160 made it a couple of years. 0:12:54.160 --> 0:12:57.199 It's really good. It makes like a loaf. 0:12:58.360 --> 0:13:00.920 We were sinking it looks like a big turd and 0:13:00.960 --> 0:13:05.720 were like pinching off a loaf to make this. But yeah, 0:13:05.760 --> 0:13:08.080 it's really good. They're chocolate. But there was there was 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:10.160 a section of the recipe that said you could like 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:13.679 add peppermint and stuff and make them, because you could 0:13:13.720 --> 0:13:17.000 do like the chocolate one and the white one and 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:19.440 make both of them, and then you you like roll 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:21.199 it up and make the pin wheels. Have you ever 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:21.720 seen those? 0:13:22.480 --> 0:13:25.199 Yeah? Yeah, I think I think Annie used to make 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:25.640 those a lot. 0:13:25.880 --> 0:13:26.199 She did. 0:13:26.240 --> 0:13:30.200 They were really good. I liked those a lot. Yeah. 0:13:30.240 --> 0:13:32.480 I think I think the ones I make are essentially 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:35.480 the same as yours. But I just add like peppermint 0:13:35.559 --> 0:13:37.640 extract and then put the her she can. You're making 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:41.160 the ricotta cheese once. Yeah, I just this morning got 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:43.400 all of the stuff. I'm gonna make them this weekend. 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:45.760 All right, make sure you give me some like a lot. 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:47.680 I'm making you a whole box. You act like I 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:50.679 don't ever give you like an entire box of cars. 0:13:51.360 --> 0:13:55.120 You're ridiculous. Have you ever refused to do it? Autopsy? 0:13:55.200 --> 0:14:02.880 If so why Yes. So there's a disease called CJD 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:05.600 and it's a preon disease, which is weird. We talk 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:07.319 about it a little bit in the gross room. We've 0:14:07.320 --> 0:14:10.920 actually done a high profile that's a section on preon diseases. 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:14.319 And it's a little bit different than any kind of 0:14:14.440 --> 0:14:17.520 infection that you ever think about getting from a bacteria 0:14:17.760 --> 0:14:20.640 or a virus, because it's not an infectious agent, but 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:26.360 it's something that causes abnormal proteins and most of the 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:30.240 time when people get it, it just occurs in their body, 0:14:30.960 --> 0:14:34.120 but there's rare times that you can catch it from 0:14:34.280 --> 0:14:36.960 a person. And the people that are most high risk 0:14:37.040 --> 0:14:39.400 to catch it from a person that has JD are 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:42.240 people who are either a brain surgeon that are doing 0:14:42.800 --> 0:14:46.080 surgery on those patients or a person that's doing autopsy 0:14:46.120 --> 0:14:50.880 and taking out the brains of those patients. And the 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:54.040 reason that it's so dangerous is because when you use 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:57.680 the bone saw, it creates aerosols which you could breathe in, 0:14:57.720 --> 0:14:59.280 even if you're wearing a mask and everything. 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:00.600 It's just kind of risky. 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:04.960 Right now, there's a whole entire procedure on how to 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:07.960 do these autopsies and you're supposed to use like specific 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:11.520 tools and a different a bone saw that that has 0:15:11.560 --> 0:15:13.920 a vacuum attached to it that sucks the dustin as 0:15:13.960 --> 0:15:14.560 you're using it. 0:15:14.600 --> 0:15:16.720 And my particular lab. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:20.320 Wasn't equipped for that. So I did do an autopsy 0:15:20.400 --> 0:15:24.240 once without all of that stuff on a patient with 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:30.880 that and because I just I don't know why, I 0:15:30.960 --> 0:15:33.360 just did because I worked there, and that's you know. 0:15:34.640 --> 0:15:37.720 The second time they asked us to do it, one 0:15:37.760 --> 0:15:40.400 of the neuropathologists that I used to work with, so 0:15:40.560 --> 0:15:44.080 that's one of the pathologists that specialized in brain pathology, 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:47.520 came up to me and he was just like listen, Nicole, 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:49.800 like I don't want to start any trouble, but I 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:50.320 don't think. 0:15:50.200 --> 0:15:51.880 You should do this, and I think you should refuse 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:52.360 to do it. 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:55.160 And he's like, I just don't think they know enough 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:58.920 about this, and I don't want to see you pop 0:15:59.000 --> 0:16:01.080 up with something in ten from now because you were 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:03.640 exposed to this, because that's how it works, like you 0:16:03.680 --> 0:16:05.800 wouldn't even really know you were sick for a while. 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:09.160 And that was cool that he was trying to look 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:12.240 out for me, and it was fine because we ended up. 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:14.800 There's there's like certain centers around the country that you 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:17.440 could send these patients to that are getting research and stuff, 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.520 and they have the equipment to do it. So it 0:16:19.560 --> 0:16:22.760 wasn't that huge of a deal, you know. So Yeah, 0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:28.480 so for CJDA only once, do you consider yourself health 0:16:28.480 --> 0:16:31.440 care or law enforcement? Me? 0:16:31.640 --> 0:16:32.240 Healthcare? 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:36.440 Would a medical examiner though, be considered law enforcement or 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:43.320 they also healthcare? They're they're government employees, medical, legal, death investigation. 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:45.640 I would consider them to be on the on the 0:16:45.760 --> 0:16:50.320 legal side of things more so. Yeah, but they also 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:53.920 have an interesting role because they're also involved with public health, 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:58.920 especially if they're doing autopsies on you know, think about COVID, 0:16:59.080 --> 0:17:02.560 TB things like that, that like transmissible diseases. They're they're 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:06.359 the ones that see the dead people, and so they're 0:17:06.480 --> 0:17:09.320 they have a really big role in public health as well. 0:17:09.400 --> 0:17:14.600 But their they're governmental employees. Yeah, for sure. Do you 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:19.480 have a specific order that everybody opens the presence? Well, yeah, 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:21.240 we let the little kids open them first. 0:17:22.200 --> 0:17:25.959 Yeah, like they they come down and do Sanna and 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:27.800 all that, and then we. 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:29.640 Wait on a side because this is probably the last 0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:30.399 year for Sanna. 0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:33.679 We've literally been saying that for three years. 0:17:34.119 --> 0:17:37.440 Yeah. But but Lucci is ten years old, Come onta 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:40.359 tell her she's getting a little Wait, who was telling me? 0:17:40.720 --> 0:17:41.160 Oh? 0:17:41.200 --> 0:17:43.200 Was Jen telling us the other day that she knows 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:45.159 a kid that was in sixth grade or something that 0:17:45.240 --> 0:17:46.120 still believes in Santa. 0:17:46.160 --> 0:17:49.600 I don't like high school? High school? The girl was 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:52.120 going into ninth grade. No, they just told her. 0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:56.399 No, I don't think so yes is she like like, 0:17:57.520 --> 0:18:00.600 I don't know how that's that doesn't see right to me, 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:03.560 like a kid of that age, Like that's why do 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:05.520 you have your kid in a bubble like that? The 0:18:05.600 --> 0:18:07.960 kid was fifteen years old? This is what I was like, 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:10.760 what is happening here? How do you how how do 0:18:10.800 --> 0:18:13.760 you keep somebody so sheltered like that? I don't think 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:16.760 that's listen, like I believe that that the mom thinks 0:18:16.800 --> 0:18:19.080 that she still believes, but the kid doesn't because I 0:18:19.080 --> 0:18:22.480 don't think, like I don't and I don't know Laura, 0:18:22.560 --> 0:18:24.399 if you're listening that I could be wrong, but I 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:30.960 believe that Laura never had a formal conversation about about June. 0:18:31.000 --> 0:18:32.919 But she just like she's like, I know, we just 0:18:33.000 --> 0:18:34.320 never like you know. 0:18:34.280 --> 0:18:37.480 How with Lily and like I had a formal conversation 0:18:37.600 --> 0:18:40.760 with her about like yeah, but she was like questioning 0:18:40.840 --> 0:18:43.240 that she was yeah, and she was she was ten, 0:18:43.560 --> 0:18:47.200 and ten's my cut off, so cause I'm like a 0:18:47.240 --> 0:18:49.119 little bit older, you get you're gonna get beat up. 0:18:49.160 --> 0:18:51.200 There's like a fine line, and it's ten years old 0:18:51.280 --> 0:18:55.600 for me. But like, but Lara, like I mean, I 0:18:55.600 --> 0:18:58.800 don't think I don't know that June's ever like formally 0:18:58.840 --> 0:19:01.600 said to her, I don't believe in Santa anymore because 0:19:01.600 --> 0:19:03.639 she just goes along with it kinda And I know 0:19:03.680 --> 0:19:08.600 a lot of kids do that, So that doesn't mean 0:19:08.840 --> 0:19:11.600 like June certainly doesn't believe in Santa anymore, but like 0:19:11.760 --> 0:19:13.919 you know what I mean, Like I that's what I 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:16.600 think is happening there, and the mom maybe isn't letting go. 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:19.520 There's no way your fifteen year old believes in Santa. 0:19:19.560 --> 0:19:20.520 Still. I'm sorry. 0:19:20.720 --> 0:19:22.679 This kind of leads into the next question, which is 0:19:22.720 --> 0:19:25.480 how and when did we stop believing in Santa. So 0:19:26.359 --> 0:19:30.359 I actually overheard you one Easter, I think I was 0:19:30.440 --> 0:19:34.280 around nine, say to somebody in the house, we gotta 0:19:34.320 --> 0:19:37.000 go get the bunny shit out of the trunk. But 0:19:37.119 --> 0:19:40.199 I was like barely asleep in the same room as you, 0:19:41.000 --> 0:19:43.800 so then you know, I pretended and everything, and then 0:19:44.600 --> 0:19:47.480 you just you get so excited about it, and it's 0:19:47.480 --> 0:19:50.080 like hard as a kid that you don't want to 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:53.280 disappoint your parent about it, so you just go along 0:19:53.320 --> 0:19:55.560 with it for a little bit, and then I think 0:19:55.560 --> 0:19:58.400 that's what happens. It's funny because right now, like Lucia 0:19:58.480 --> 0:20:01.080 is definitely testing me. I could I feel it. She 0:20:01.200 --> 0:20:05.360 keeps bringing it up, and I'm like, I don't know. 0:20:05.560 --> 0:20:07.800 I just like we just keep saying I told you 0:20:07.880 --> 0:20:10.679 I probably said this in a previous episode that she 0:20:10.840 --> 0:20:13.679 was like, wait a second, like don't we think that 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:16.280 this is weird that there's just some guy that comes 0:20:16.280 --> 0:20:18.080 into your house in the middle of the night and 0:20:18.119 --> 0:20:20.640 he says he like stares at you when you're sleeping 0:20:20.680 --> 0:20:23.040 and he knows when you're awake, and he's like stalking you. 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:27.159 And and then Gabe says, well, so do you not 0:20:27.280 --> 0:20:28.439 believe in Santa anymore? 0:20:28.480 --> 0:20:28.960 Lucha? 0:20:28.960 --> 0:20:32.600 And she says, no, I do. It was so funny, 0:20:32.920 --> 0:20:34.879 but she brought it up again the other day and 0:20:34.920 --> 0:20:37.040 she did tell me that kids at school said it 0:20:37.160 --> 0:20:39.879