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Speaker 1: Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk

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Speaker 1: Hi everyone walk on The Mother Knows that this is

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Speaker 1: our annual questions only episode. So Maria is going to

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Speaker 1: ask the questions and we will answer them. All right, first,

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Speaker 1: what do the majority of people or children choke on

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Speaker 1: over the holidays? I don't know if there's anything different

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Speaker 1: during the holidays than any other time of year, but

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Speaker 1: the most common things are food, obviously, the classic things

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Speaker 1: of hot dogs that are cut in cross sections that

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Speaker 1: are the exact size of a child's airway, grapes, things

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Speaker 1: like that. Another one could be balloons or common one

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Speaker 1: kid's choke on. I don't know if people have a

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Speaker 1: lot of balloons around this time of year, but I

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Speaker 1: don't think it's anything different around this time of year

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Speaker 1: than any other time of year. It's just terrible to

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Speaker 1: even think about a kid choking around the holidays. But

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Speaker 1: all right, what's the weirdest Christmas related injury you've heard of?

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Speaker 2: Let me think on that for a second. What are

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Speaker 2: you well?

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Speaker 1: If I could help you out, there's a lot of

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Speaker 1: electrocutions right that happened with like Christmas trees or the.

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Speaker 2: Guy the other day.

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Speaker 1: You know the guy, the guy that we talked about

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Speaker 1: a couple weeks ago that got electrocute to putting his

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Speaker 1: Christmas lights up. Yeah, and it wasn't you know. The

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Speaker 1: way I thought about it was he got electrocuted plugging

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Speaker 1: it in on the roof or something, but he hit

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Speaker 1: the live power line. So yeah, when he was like

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Speaker 1: throwing them, he was throwing them somewhere right to get

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Speaker 1: to the other side to somewhere.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it seemed like a lot of.

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Speaker 1: Real trees also catch on fire a lot, and I

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Speaker 1: think those cause people a lot of problems. That used

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Speaker 1: that used to be a thing that when I was

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Speaker 1: a kid that people were so scared of. And I

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Speaker 1: don't I don't really know. I never really talked a

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Speaker 1: game about it because we only had a real tree

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Speaker 1: a couple times, and it was flocked. And they're like

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Speaker 1: a little bit different because they're sealed and they don't

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Speaker 1: get dried out as easily, like you don't have to

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Speaker 2: Like crazy like you do a regular tree.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, like I remember growing up that was it

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Speaker 1: seemed like a lot of people moved to artificial trees

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Speaker 1: in the eighties because they were afraid that the tree

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Speaker 1: was gonna catch on fire in the house. Yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I feel like I definitely don't see as many stories

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Speaker 1: like better about unplugging them or keeping them on a timer.

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Speaker 1: I think the rule of thumb is just you know,

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Speaker 1: you don't leave stuff plugged in, like while you're not

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 1: The lights are different though, I'm guilty of leaving my

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Speaker 1: Christmas lights on all the time. The led wants they

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Speaker 1: don't get hot. Well, considering that you're married to a fireman,

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Speaker 1: you're not really super responsible with fire hazard.

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Speaker 2: He lives here too. What do you want me to say?

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Speaker 1: We have a question about Gabe coming up. I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna jump to it now since we're on the topic.

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Speaker 1: What are some absolutely no go fire hazards or fire

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Speaker 1: safety Gabe preaches around the holidays. Candles are always a thing.

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Speaker 1: I want a house to smell good all the time.

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Speaker 1: But he's constantly yelling at me about having candles too

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Speaker 1: close to things, and I'm like, dude, I really I

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Speaker 1: can't explain to you how far away it is he

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Speaker 1: wants it to be. Like if you add a dining

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Speaker 1: room table. He wants it to be in the center

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Speaker 1: of the table and no light fixture above it, and

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Speaker 1: nothing anywhere near it, not a curtain, not a shelf,

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Speaker 1: not a piece of taxi army that might catch on fire.

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Speaker 1: That might have happened a couple of years ago. So

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Speaker 1: now he's all paranoid. Yeah, so he's he's he's kind

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Speaker 1: of nuts about the candles. He hates in my house,

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Speaker 1: I have really long curtains on almost every single window,

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Speaker 1: and he's always like, can't you make.

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Speaker 2: Those curtains shorter? And I'm like, no, that looks terrible.

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Speaker 1: I like them dragging on the floor. He hates it,

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Speaker 1: like he just thinks it's a huge fire hazard. He's not,

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Speaker 1: He's not really. He also gets nuts with cooking. Anytime

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Speaker 1: something burning. He like freaks out and like opens all

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Speaker 1: really not that bad. Honestly, your worst defense, in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: been several times where I've you know, you're away, and

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Speaker 1: like two days ago, touching your fur lined.

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Speaker 2: I cannot believe you have not had a problem. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and that thing catches on fire sometimes too, like it

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Speaker 2: That's like my security blanket.

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Speaker 1: And that's the second time that one is caught on fire,

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Speaker 1: like you got a new one and then the second

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Speaker 1: one caught on fire a couple of weeks ago. So

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Speaker 1: Gabe's dad is a fireman, and I think that I

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Speaker 1: had a conversation with him once about electric blankets, Like

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Speaker 1: he's like a note because he's like old school seventies firefighter,

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Speaker 1: Like he's when electric blankets would like kill people, and shit,

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Speaker 1: they probably still could, I suppose, But I'm like, I

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Speaker 1: would get divorced from you if I couldn't have a

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Speaker 1: my electric blanket. But one of Gabe's friends had a

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Speaker 1: fire that involved the dryer lint not being cleaned out properly.

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Speaker 1: So he's like a freak about that, Uh, always checking

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Speaker 1: to make sure that that's cleaned out every single time

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Speaker 1: used the dryer and stuff. Just that's that's it, though

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Speaker 1: they're not really I mean, considering the amount of fires

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Speaker 1: They don't really seem like they're too they don't get

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Speaker 1: too overly crazy with things. I wonder if they blanket

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Speaker 1: careless cooking incidents. As a lot of people store things

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Speaker 1: in their oven. I'm firmly against doing that. But my

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Speaker 1: in the oven. Just he'll put like food in there

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Speaker 1: to keep it warm or just random shit, and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: don't do it, because I mean, like like he'll mostly

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Speaker 1: he puts pans in there, but let's say he'll cook

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Speaker 1: something and then he'll later want to reuse like the

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Speaker 1: piece of foil he was using, not like he could

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Speaker 1: rip another piece off or anything, right, So he'll put

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Speaker 1: I don't want to worry about something being in there.

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Speaker 1: Just we have places to put everything. You're just being lazy.

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Speaker 1: It just seems like it's like it's like almost an

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Speaker 2: That's you know what I mean, I understand it. I

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Speaker 2: actually keep stuff in the one side of mine too.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't see a reason for it, you know.

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Speaker 1: I sometimes I put my sour dough bowl in there

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Speaker 1: to prove it, but I put a note on the

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Speaker 2: It's in there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but there's a piece of plastic wrap on it,

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Speaker 1: so like you know how bad that's gonna be.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I just wonder if they have a lot of problems

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Speaker 1: because of stuff like that. All right, do you have

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Speaker 1: a certain food or snack that you put out every

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Speaker 1: year for the holidays? They said they do strump boli

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Speaker 1: and pepperoni bread. It sounds delicious. When I read that

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Speaker 2: Because you can't. So I already I already I already looked.

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Speaker 1: Up a recipe seriously, like I'm going to make it

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Speaker 1: because one of the things about being gluten free is

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Speaker 2: But that makes me think that I want that.

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Speaker 1: We didn't we talk about this a few episodes back, like, well,

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Speaker 1: we were talking about our favorite holiday treats.

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Speaker 2: So stuff.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we kind of touched on it a little bit,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like we're switching it up this year.

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Speaker 1: Normally we make sauce with like sausage and meatballs and everything,

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Speaker 1: and then we do sandwiches. This year, we're gonna be

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Speaker 1: making chicken cutlets, which is a little different, but we're

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Speaker 1: still gonna be doing sausage and peppers. And then every

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Speaker 1: year I try to put out some like cheese board

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Speaker 1: checuterary situation. But Rick Let's not makes that thing whatever

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Speaker 1: it is that corn beef ball, Yeah, that's that thing's good.

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Speaker 2: It's really good. What is it. It's like corned beef

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Speaker 2: and cream cheese. That's it. No, there's more stuff, but

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna give away seat. It's on the air.

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Speaker 2: It's a that's like a family delicacy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's it's like a weird thing, but it works.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that thing is really good. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I feel like we put out a lot of different stuff. Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 1: we're pretty ritualistic, having the same exact menu every year.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like Christmas Eve we just put like

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Speaker 1: we all like we're big food people and we all

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Speaker 1: this year, we're doing this or whatever. Yeah, and I'm

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Speaker 1: Secuterary this year, because let's not forget two years ago

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Speaker 1: when I made the Secuterary chalet and then nobody ate

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Speaker 1: it because everybody was like.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to touch it, it's too pretty. Ria

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Speaker 2: has this problem all the time. She makes these.

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Speaker 1: Really she does it for like if we have a

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Speaker 1: like a kid's party or something, she always makes these

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Speaker 1: like extravagant cheese boards, and then nobody wants to eat

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Speaker 1: it because they look so nice they don't want to

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Speaker 1: mess it up. And then we end up having like

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Speaker 1: fifty dollars worth of cheese and shit just like sitting

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Speaker 1: there because nobody touched it. It really seezes me off, though,

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Speaker 1: because it's food, and I'm like, it's I know, I

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Speaker 1: understand that, though, like I would feel weird being the

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Speaker 1: one to like wreck the way that it looks. You know, well,

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Speaker 1: usually I make it, then I take a picture and

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Speaker 1: then Gabe can't help himself, so he immediately tears into it.

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Speaker 1: And at least other people feel good about it. After that,

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Speaker 1: so I don't know. I'm not The chalet took too

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Speaker 1: about it. So I'm not going hard on the spreads

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Speaker 1: anymore for my house because it really annoys me.

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Speaker 2: All Right, what are your favorite ornaments on your Christmas tree?

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Speaker 2: I don't. I don't really have any great ones. She

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Speaker 2: doesn't have any fun ones.

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Speaker 1: I don't because I am such a crazy person, like

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Speaker 1: I talk about this that I probably have something wrong

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Speaker 1: with me, with my color of coordination, and I just

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Speaker 1: I can't have those like junkie ornaments. I'm like one

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Speaker 1: of those people. I have a whole box of them,

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Speaker 1: but they're not hanging up anywhere. I'm just that person. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: hate me whatever. Actually, Aunttary got me when the girls

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Speaker 1: were born, not you, unfortunately, but the two lillly And and Luccia.

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Speaker 1: She got me these like little Lennox. They're they're like

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Speaker 1: a little lammer giraffe thing that says their name and

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Speaker 1: their their year that they were born. You're probably my

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Speaker 1: there's no Santa, right, Like everybody could agree on that.

437
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,400
Speaker 2: It's something we can all ChIL dress in. All right.

438
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 2: What are our favorite true crime podcasts?

439
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:21,600
Speaker 1: Oh, Nancy Grace my number one, Zone seven, Zone seven

440
00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 1: with Cheryl So Cheryl. I found Cheryl, and I found

441
00:22:24,440 --> 00:22:28,439
Speaker 1: Joseph Scott Morgan from Nancy Grace, and then I started

442
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:32,680
Speaker 1: listening to their podcasts from Nancy Grace, so all three

443
00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:39,480
Speaker 1: of them they're my favorites. I also like A last

444
00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:42,359
Speaker 1: podcast on the Left does really good coverage of high

445
00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:46,760
Speaker 1: profile stories, and Heather McDonald on her Patreon also does

446
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 1: really good true crime stories with her sister who's a

447
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:53,040
Speaker 1: criminal defense attorney, So that's a good insight into it.

448
00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 2: As well. So those are the ones I listen to

449
00:22:55,560 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 2: the most.

450
00:22:56,359 --> 00:23:00,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I've I listen to Nancy Grace like,

451
00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: and a lot of people think that she's, you know, older,

452
00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:07,160
Speaker 1: there's other podcasts and stuff. I'm older, and I've been

453
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:10,640
Speaker 1: like I used to watch her show when I was younger,

454
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:14,399
Speaker 1: and I just whenever, Like when that thing just happened

455
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: with the CEO and everything getting shot, I was just like, Oh,

456
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 1: I can't wait to see what she has to say

457
00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: about this, you know what I mean. So that's like

458
00:23:22,160 --> 00:23:26,480
Speaker 1: my go to. And Cheryl's just like the best storyteller ever.

459
00:23:27,359 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 1: She and she just like I love her delivery. And

460
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:34,920
Speaker 1: then Joseph, he used to do autopsy, so so I

461
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:37,280
Speaker 1: just like like to hear that aspect of it.

462
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 2: You know.

463
00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 1: Joseph and Cheryl also have the most calming voices ever,

464
00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: so when you're hearing these horrific stories, it just it

465
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: just hits different because their voices are so relaxing, and

466
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 1: they're like really good people too in real life. Yeah,

467
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:57,760
Speaker 1: they really are outside of podcasts, all right. Who is

468
00:23:57,840 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: my favorite housewife slash franchise? My favorite franchise right now

469
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 1: is Salt Lake City. I think it for a newer franchise,

470
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 1: it's been holding up very well. I think aesthetically, it's

471
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 1: really beautiful to see all the mountains and they're skiing

472
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: all the time, and they always have these like cute

473
00:24:13,680 --> 00:24:17,200
Speaker 1: head to toe Chanelle skiing outfits and I.

474
00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:18,120
Speaker 2: Just like all of that.

475
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,719
Speaker 1: And with that said, my favorite housewife is Lisa Barlow,

476
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,920
Speaker 1: who I also said last year when I was asked

477
00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: this question, She's getting a lot of shit this season,

478
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,480
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna stand by baby or Lisa.

479
00:24:29,160 --> 00:24:33,400
Speaker 2: And like, how much is a Chanelle snowsuit? Oh?

480
00:24:33,400 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 1: It must be like thirty plus thousand dollars?

481
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:37,440
Speaker 2: I just can't.

482
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 1: Like, I like, one of my dreams is to have

483
00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 1: a Chanel like blazer. And I went and just listen,

484
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: like that's not anywhere in my price range. But one

485
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:52,360
Speaker 1: time we were at where Sacks are one of those stores, yeah,

486
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 1: and we like looked in there and it was ten

487
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:57,719
Speaker 1: thousand dollars for a jacket and I just was like,

488
00:24:57,840 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 1: this is not real, Like I can't even believe that.

489
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:03,239
Speaker 2: It's like and it's tweed, right.

490
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 1: So all I kept thinking was like, Okay, I'm gonna

491
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: take a mortgage on my house and just coat and

492
00:25:09,520 --> 00:25:11,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna wear it and like pick up my cat

493
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 1: and her fingernail is gonna get stuck in it, and

494
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: like put a giant pull in it. Like I just

495
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:20,040
Speaker 1: can't imagine having a coat that costs. It's not even

496
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: a coat, it's not like a it's it's just like,

497
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 1: how often can you wear it?

498
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: Everybody?

499
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 1: I don't know. I guess you'd have to wear it

500
00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 1: every day if you spent that much money on it. Well,

501
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 1: there's event because I will never I just want them

502
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: to sponsor us or something like give us an outfit

503
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:38,120
Speaker 1: that would be really cool. These chicks will never wear

504
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 1: the same outfit twice, Like they won't even wear the

505
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:40,879
Speaker 1: same person.

506
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 2: You don't I think that like.

507
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:47,000
Speaker 1: Chanelle's giving them these outfits to wear. I don't think so.

508
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:51,199
Speaker 1: I think what happens sometimes is they have a stylist

509
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,600
Speaker 1: that has things in rotation, so they don't own them,

510
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:57,040
Speaker 1: and they're paying a stylist and they're getting dressed, or

511
00:25:57,080 --> 00:26:00,280
Speaker 1: they're borrowing them or making deals with like sax Or

512
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: Neeman's or companies like that.

513
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 2: But I think that they ever poop in them and

514
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 2: return them.

515
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:12,240
Speaker 1: I mean probably there's always rumors circulating this one chick

516
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: from Beverly Hill saying that she's banned from Louis Vauton

517
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: because she buys so much stuff and returns it. So

518
00:26:18,760 --> 00:26:22,359
Speaker 1: they're definitely things circulating out there about their buying and

519
00:26:22,400 --> 00:26:25,919
Speaker 1: returning processes. But I think a lot of them have stylists.

520
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,880
Speaker 2: And then not all of them.

521
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 1: But I think there's a select few out of the

522
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: over one hundred housewives that have existed that really are

523
00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 1: that wealthy. Because you know, one of the new checks

524
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 1: on Salt Lake City right now, her husband invented the

525
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 1: pom pilot, so they have like crazy tech on.

526
00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:42,480
Speaker 2: I remember that thing.

527
00:26:43,400 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's kind of crazy that you're like, you're still

528
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 1: like living off of that thing that is so obsolete now. Yeah,

529
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 1: but I used to have one of them when I

530
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: went to when I went to college because it was

531
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,800
Speaker 1: like I used to write my homework in it and stuff.

532
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 2: It was awesome. She's got like.

533
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 1: An any of the women that's husbands or themselves have

534
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:06,919
Speaker 1: worked in any type of tech situation have so much money.

535
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, it's crazy.

536
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:11,360
Speaker 1: So they are always, you know, living in these crazy houses.

537
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,439
Speaker 1: But as we know from Bravo History, a lot of

538
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 1: them go to jail for financial crimes and there's other

539
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 1: stuff involved.

540
00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 2: So I don't know.

541
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: I just particularly like that franchise because I think the

542
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: drama is good and just esthetically everything's beautiful. Everybody lives

543
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: in like lodge looking houses that are beautiful and look

544
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 1: at mountains, and for me, it's a good scene, all right.

545
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:53,000
Speaker 1: Favorite movie or show of all time Monstrok will be

546
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:57,240
Speaker 1: my favorite movie if I had to pick one, and

547
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:04,879
Speaker 1: show like old school show Golden Girls, I really like

548
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 1: Stranger Things honestly.

549
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 2: To be your favorite show of all time.

550
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 1: I mean it's up there. I like Golden Girls, like

551
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:16,080
Speaker 1: Golden Girls, Nanny, Like those kinds are the kind that

552
00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:18,040
Speaker 1: you could just have on on the background and like

553
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 1: listen to, you know. But like, yeah, I would say, though,

554
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:27,359
Speaker 1: like like a newer one, I would say Stranger Things probably,

555
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: But like I really liked The Wire and I really

556
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:35,840
Speaker 1: liked Deadwood and you know what I mean, Yeah, Deadwood's

557
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: so good. I just watched it a couple of months ago.

558
00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:41,440
Speaker 1: My favorite TV show of all time is probably a

559
00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: tie between Gilmore Girls and The Nanny. But my favorite

560
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: show currently is this show Shrinking on Apple TV. I

561
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:52,080
Speaker 1: think it's like the most perfect show written. It's hilarious,

562
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,240
Speaker 1: but it's sad at the same time, so it's just

563
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,800
Speaker 1: a good mix of emotions. Movie wise, I feel like

564
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 1: a couple of years ago, I wrote out a list

565
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 1: of I just try to figure out what my favorite

566
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 1: movie is. I just like so many of them, and

567
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 1: I think my number one ended up being the trifecta

568
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: of Happy Gilmore, Billy Madison, Wedding Singer, which is not

569
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: one movie, but I see all three of those the

570
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,040
Speaker 1: same and I could watch them all the time anytime.

571
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sarah Marshall too.

572
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 1: You know the new ones, Like I don't think the

573
00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:23,760
Speaker 1: new one's even coming out to the theater. It's going

574
00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: right to Netflix or something.

575
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah.

576
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 1: Probably that's kind of weird, right, But I'm excited to

577
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 1: see that because I that movie. When that movie came out,

578
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 1: I went to the theater and brought every single person

579
00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 1: that I knew, and I saw it five times. I

580
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,160
Speaker 1: thought it was like the funniest shit I ever saw.

581
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: I thought it was so good.

582
00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how I feel about forgetting Sarah Marshall too.

583
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: It's one movie I've seen seventy five times, and every

584
00:29:48,520 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 1: single time I'm crying, laughing, like it never gets.

585
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 2: Old to me. Have you ever seen that one?

586
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: Uh?

587
00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:55,360
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it is so hilarious.

588
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: So speaking of this right, so all like back in

589
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,479
Speaker 1: the day when Saturday Night Live was like the best ever,

590
00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 1: all of those spinoff movies with like Chris Farley and

591
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: Adam Sandler and stuff, they were all like so good

592
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: and so funny, and then like, what the hell was

593
00:30:12,240 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 1: this Nancy Grace impression?

594
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 2: The other day? It was freaking terrible. Listen.

595
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: I sent it to I sent it to my friend too,

596
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 1: and he was like, I think you're overly sensitive because

597
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: you love her, and I'm like, no, I'm overly sensitive

598
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 1: because as somebody that listens to her, I think she

599
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 1: has a really iconic way of speaking with her accent,

600
00:30:29,760 --> 00:30:32,160
Speaker 1: and she has catchphrases and stuff, and none of that

601
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: was utilized at all.

602
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 2: The hair was wrong.

603
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: They had the handcuff necklace she wears, but it could

604
00:30:38,360 --> 00:30:40,360
Speaker 1: have been way bigger the one she woren't.

605
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:41,120
Speaker 2: Right, life was you?

606
00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: Maria had the best idea that like she start, she

607
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 1: should have started off with like a normal size handcuff necklace,

608
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,280
Speaker 1: and then every time the camera panned over to her,

609
00:30:51,400 --> 00:30:54,000
Speaker 1: like it just kept getting bigger and bigger and bigger,

610
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: like something that would have been hilarious, like her hair.

611
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: Her hair was off, like she has outraged hair. But

612
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:05,719
Speaker 1: I got more of a vibe of like a Petunia

613
00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:11,400
Speaker 1: Clark singing downtown kind of vibe than Nancy Grace. Out

614
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 1: of that, it was like a quoff, like a boufont

615
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 1: kind of rather than And I guess Nancy's hair is

616
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:19,320
Speaker 1: a variation of that.

617
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,800
Speaker 2: But it's not that I don't know.

618
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: I just thought like Nancy Grace is a very easy

619
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: person to imitate because she's very she has her own personality.

620
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,440
Speaker 2: There's nothing like the way she talks and the way

621
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: she looks right.

622
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 1: So, and they've done her before, and well, I don't

623
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: think Sarah Sherman was the best person to impersonate her.

624
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 1: I think Heidi Gardner Chloe Feinneman would have been done

625
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: a better job. I think Heidi Gardner would have probably

626
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 1: been the best because she kind of has.

627
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 2: A mild eye.

628
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:53,640
Speaker 1: All of those people suck, like Saturday Night Live hasn't

629
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: been good in like ten years for real, Like seriously,

630
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,480
Speaker 1: it just I think when you remove a couple of them,

631
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 1: I think Heidi Gardner in particular, I'm going to defend

632
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: because I think when you remove her from Saturday Night

633
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: Live and you put her in other things, she's incredible.

634
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:10,680
Speaker 1: But I don't think they write for her well on

635
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: that show. And there are occasional skits where she is funny,

636
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 1: but I think the show, you know, I'm curious because

637
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 1: it's in its fiftieth year, if Lauren Bichaels is finally

638
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: going to retire. I've heard rumblings that maybe Tina Fey

639
00:32:24,560 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: might take it over.

640
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 2: And if over, yeah, Like.

641
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 1: If she takes it over, then I'd be interested in

642
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: it because she's she's a funny.

643
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 2: Person, she's a good writer.

644
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: So it's a shitty job to have in the sense

645
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 1: of like because she's a mom and stuff. So like

646
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: when you're getting paid a lot of money and you

647
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 1: have this executive level job basically at NBC Universal, but

648
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 1: their hours suck. They are working. This is why they

649
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: take off two weeks at a time, because they're working

650
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 1: seven days a week, sixteen hours a day writing skits.

651
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 1: They're up all night doing them. They have to film

652
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: all the pre recorded ones on Thursday and then be

653
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,240
Speaker 1: doing dress rehearsal that gets taped in case of any errors,

654
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: and then they have the live show. They have to

655
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: make all those costumes in like twenty four hours. It's

656
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,800
Speaker 1: just pure Cha's like a lot of work for the shit.

657
00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: It is, honestly anymore.

658
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, if you had the Golden Era, which

659
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 1: was like Maya, Rudolph, Tina Fey, Amy Poehler, Jimmy Fallon,

660
00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: Will Ferrell, that was like the best time of it.

661
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,719
Speaker 2: No, that wasn't the best time that. I mean. I

662
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 2: just think that there was waves.

663
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,240
Speaker 1: There was like the seventies and then you had like

664
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: Mike Myers and Dana Cart Like all those years were

665
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: really awesome too, because that's like that was when I

666
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:46,120
Speaker 1: was younger, and then Chris Farley and Adam Sandler and

667
00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:48,640
Speaker 1: then you know, Jimmy fall and all that. But after that,

668
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,960
Speaker 1: it just was like it's not been good. And it's

669
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,560
Speaker 1: not just me saying that, like everybody says it's not good.

670
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 2: I don't even.

671
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: Want to put the blame on Lord Michael's one hundred percent.

672
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: I think a lot of it is the network being

673
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 1: incredibly difficult and like nobody's allowed to be funny. You know,

674
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:08,720
Speaker 1: you're you're not allowed to say funny things.

675
00:34:08,760 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 2: Anymore.

676
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: That's just how it is. And I mean, I've listened

677
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: to a lot of podcasts. I've read a couple of

678
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: books about in like wats documentaries about that show. I

679
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,520
Speaker 1: think the history of that show is really incredible. And

680
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 1: even though the show blows right now, I think the

681
00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:25,799
Speaker 1: fact that Lorden Michael's pretty much he left for a

682
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 1: couple of years, but he's pretty much run it the

683
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: entire time is a huge achievement career wise. He was

684
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: my age when that show came out.

685
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: Think about that. So I think it was an awesome

686
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: So that's iconic. That chick that.

687
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 1: Played Nancy Grace was in the You're So Not Invited

688
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 1: to My bar Mitz for Batmanz for whatever?

689
00:34:46,480 --> 00:34:49,920
Speaker 2: Which one's the girl on bot Mitz? Yeah? That did

690
00:34:49,920 --> 00:34:52,479
Speaker 2: you see that? I haven't watched that one yet.

691
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 1: Yeah.

692
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,319
Speaker 2: That that movie's awesome. It's really good.

693
00:34:56,360 --> 00:34:58,840
Speaker 1: It's really like, dude, it's Adam Sandler, like he's just

694
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,479
Speaker 1: he's good, but his girls are in it and they're

695
00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 1: good and it's just and his wife's in it.

696
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 2: The whole thing is really good. I love it.

697
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love most stuff Adam Sandler that. I mean,

698
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,399
Speaker 1: his recent movies have been like kind of hit her face.

699
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: All right, wait, speaking of Jewish people. Okay, so I

700
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:22,959
Speaker 1: found some my new favorite influencer on Instagram. I don't

701
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:24,680
Speaker 1: know what her name is, but I'll tag it in

702
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: this episode if I could send it to you. But

703
00:35:27,960 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: she's an Orthodox Jew and she talks about her life

704
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: and it's amazing, Like I went down a rabbit hole

705
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 1: for two hours watching the videos.

706
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:38,359
Speaker 2: Where have you been?

707
00:35:38,440 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: There's been Netflix shows, there's a Netflix My Unorthodox Life now.

708
00:35:42,560 --> 00:35:45,440
Speaker 1: But this is different because people just ask her questions

709
00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:48,480
Speaker 1: and then she answers them in like a two second clips.

710
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: I'm I'm just as intrigued with this lifestyle as I

711
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:52,879
Speaker 1: am with the Amish.

712
00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 2: Like it's cut.

713
00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: It's so much different than what we are used to

714
00:35:56,719 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 1: that it's so interesting to me. Do you know that

715
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 1: they have to like go to this special place and

716
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 1: take a bath after they have their period, like seven

717
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 1: days after they stop bleeding or something. They have to

718
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,080
Speaker 1: go to this I don't know what the name of is,

719
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,479
Speaker 1: Mifka or something like house, and they have to take

720
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: this special bath. But it's not like it's like a

721
00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 1: spiritual bath. It's not like a get clean bath. They

722
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 1: have to do that every fricking month. That's nuts. I

723
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 1: think this is you know, I've noticed like Mormon cultures

724
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 1: having this huge boom in the last five years, and

725
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,760
Speaker 1: I think it's similar to that because it's just so misunderstood.

726
00:36:35,800 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 1: But it's like a pretty large population of people. No,

727
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 1: I really respect it. I just think it's I just

728
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 1: think it's so crazy because it's not like that's not

729
00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: what we're used to. And I just think about, you

730
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 1: know how I hate going to get my nails done

731
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 1: and I'm thinking, like, God, like you have to be like, oh,

732
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: I got to go to this place and immerse myself

733
00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:56,919
Speaker 1: in a bath after I have my period every month.

734
00:36:56,960 --> 00:36:59,040
Speaker 1: Like it just seems like but she said it's like

735
00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 1: a spa, Like it's all like really fancy and stuff.

736
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 1: But they have like there was just like a bunch

737
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 1: of different questions about like after when they have their period,

738
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: they're not allowed to like touch their husband and stuff

739
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 1: like that. There's just like all these crazy rules and

740
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: it's I just think I think it's cool that to

741
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:23,800
Speaker 1: be able to follow something like that and and never stray.

742
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: They have rules about all this stuff. I was learning

743
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 1: about when they could eat meat and dairy. So like

744
00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:34,280
Speaker 1: if the kid has, they have to wait six hours

745
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: in between. So if the kid has let's say meatballs

746
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 1: or something at lunch at school at twelve thirty, then

747
00:37:41,040 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 1: they can't eat dairy if they wanted to eat dairy

748
00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:46,160
Speaker 1: until six thirty at night.

749
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 2: Like it's you know what I mean, Like they have

750
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 2: to seeople have parmesan in them. They don't know, they

751
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,799
Speaker 2: don't mix, they can't eat them together. That's very it's

752
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:55,479
Speaker 2: it's cool.

753
00:37:55,520 --> 00:37:57,959
Speaker 1: It's cool, right, Like it's you're just like, oh, that's

754
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: that's really interesting. So and I do that with the

755
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: Amish people too, because there's there's people, So there's two

756
00:38:04,840 --> 00:38:07,239
Speaker 1: different kinds of Amish people. I saw one girl that

757
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:13,120
Speaker 1: is Amish who apparently is like sneaking a phone because like,

758
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: how would anybody in her community even know she has it?

759
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 1: A lot of them sneak phones because remember was it

760
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 1: this year when they did that emergency alert on everybody's phone?

761
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: Oh y, the found out in the Amish community because

762
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people had hidden ones. Yeah, and they

763
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 1: were all going off. Yes. So there's that, there's that girl,

764
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 1: and then there's people who like left the Amish and

765
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,880
Speaker 1: now so they grew up Amish and now they're English.

766
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 2: It's so it's just so freaking interesting. I love it.

767
00:38:42,400 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: I think in the Amish culture, when you reach a

768
00:38:46,239 --> 00:38:48,719
Speaker 1: certain age, they give you the option to leave for

769
00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 1: two years and.

770
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,520
Speaker 2: Regular Springer culture.

771
00:38:52,560 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you could decide from there if you

772
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: want to continue being Amish or go off. There's a

773
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:00,879
Speaker 1: part of it that's like because there's just a part

774
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: of it that's really cool, like the community aspect.

775
00:39:03,440 --> 00:39:04,520
Speaker 2: It's the same thing with.

776
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: The with the Jewish Orthodox that they all, you know,

777
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 1: they go to special schools that all the kids learn

778
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:14,719
Speaker 1: the same religion, and then they're living this more unusual

779
00:39:14,760 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 1: life compared to what most Americans are living. So all

780
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 1: of the kids, like they all have the same rules

781
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,759
Speaker 1: when they go at home, you know what I mean.

782
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:25,040
Speaker 1: So with all their friends, it's just it's just like

783
00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: really cool and interesting.

784
00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:28,359
Speaker 2: All right.

785
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:35,560
Speaker 1: What's the strangest thing you've ever collected? Probably I don't know,

786
00:39:35,719 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 1: Gabe's mustache when he shaves it off.

787
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:42,240
Speaker 2: I have dusting. No it's not, it's it's hilarious. Where

788
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 2: is it like? You have it in a jar? Or

789
00:39:44,000 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 2: is it I? I I have it right over there

790
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,640
Speaker 2: on the shelf. Do you want me to grab it?

791
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 1: No? Uh?

792
00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, like that?

793
00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:01,480
Speaker 1: Maybe I UD's I have like my kids placenta's my

794
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: kids on bilical cord stumps, teeth.

795
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 2: Totally normal.

796
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 1: All right. What's the weirdest nickname somebody ever gave to you?

797
00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 2: Mine is Mirth.

798
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 1: I don't know why you guys call me that, and

799
00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,960
Speaker 1: I hate it and pop up. Still I don't know

800
00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 1: why either, But your name is in my phone as Mirth. Yeah,

801
00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,640
Speaker 1: and when you email me and you see see other

802
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,879
Speaker 1: emails with business people, we are dealing.

803
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 2: With it, says Mirth. I don't know what to do

804
00:40:35,160 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 2: about that. Change it. I don't. I don't think I've

805
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: ever had a weird nickname, have I? I don't know. Coli.

806
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 2: That's what my family calls me.

807
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,280
Speaker 1: Well, I call you Nikki sometimes to piss you off,

808
00:40:47,880 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: or to Gabe because we think it's hilarious. Wow, I'm.

809
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:55,080
Speaker 2: You don't like that name?

810
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 1: Uh? What's something you've always wanted to learn or try?

811
00:41:02,800 --> 00:41:05,720
Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm pretty good about that kind of stuff.

812
00:41:07,360 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: When I want to learn how to do something, like

813
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:12,440
Speaker 1: I wanted to learn how to cook and I figured

814
00:41:12,440 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 1: that out and still working on the gardening situation. Actually,

815
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,480
Speaker 1: like I could say that, like I would probably want

816
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 1: to go to more formal like classes to learn about

817
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: plants and.

818
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 2: How to take care of them horticulture type stuff. Also,

819
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,359
Speaker 2: I really want to learn how to.

820
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 1: Like color and draw with colored pencils to do like realism,

821
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 1: like realistic pictures. I feel like I could. I just

822
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: need to learn the certain techniques because I watch I've

823
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:52,360
Speaker 1: seen videos that the kids send me of like artists

824
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:55,280
Speaker 1: that do drawings in colored pencils that look like portraits

825
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 1: are so cool, and I'm like, I feel like I

826
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: could do that. I want to like look into that more.

827
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,800
Speaker 1: I don't know, just like art stuff like that. Yeah,

828
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:07,759
Speaker 1: I really want to learn how to like I want

829
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:10,160
Speaker 1: to learn how to make clothes or knit or something.

830
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 1: I can't crochet, so I assume I can't knit either,

831
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: because they're kind of really similar. But I would like

832
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: to learn how to make clothes with the sewing machine.

833
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,000
Speaker 1: But sometimes what holds me back is I feel like

834
00:42:21,080 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: the more things I learned like that, the more things

835
00:42:23,400 --> 00:42:26,279
Speaker 1: people ask me to do and I don't want to

836
00:42:26,320 --> 00:42:27,759
Speaker 1: do though, Like I just want to do it for

837
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 1: viseo or to make people presents well you know what

838
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:31,600
Speaker 1: I mean.

839
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 2: They know I can't say no. I'm just saying it.

840
00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: You know. I made us those Phillies cardigans and then

841
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:41,120
Speaker 1: everybody asked me for one, and I'm like, I'm sorry,

842
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: but that was way too much time in my life.

843
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: That's only worth it for myself or my parent.

844
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 2: You need to do.

845
00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:50,319
Speaker 1: You need to skip the embroidery, get the machine and

846
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: find something else.

847
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,319
Speaker 2: Because takes the craft out of it.

848
00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: It's relaxing because I could sit on my couch and

849
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:58,319
Speaker 1: do it and watch a movie, not just you know,

850
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: be sitting at a desk country door overall day doing it.

851
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:01,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

852
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:06,480
Speaker 1: It takes away like the art of it all right. Uh,

853
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,440
Speaker 1: would you guys ever write a book together?

854
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? I feel like we kind of did our well yeah,

855
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 2: but we did. I didn't write it. I just did

856
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 2: a loose editing.

857
00:43:19,000 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 1: Now, Maria did the Maria did the behind the scenes work,

858
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,680
Speaker 1: all that work with it, with the getting all of

859
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:33,840
Speaker 1: the photo what is the releases signed? And emailing the

860
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: people back and forth and keeping all of the cases

861
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:39,600
Speaker 1: organized and harassing people when they wouldn't get back to

862
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:40,720
Speaker 1: us and all that stuff.

863
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that type of work. I thrive on.

864
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:46,960
Speaker 2: I don't know what kind of a book do you?

865
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:48,279
Speaker 2: What kind of a book do you want?

866
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 1: Maria and I to write a memoir memoir? I? Yeah,

867
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: I think we could maybe eventually write like a cute

868
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 1: book about our life with you being a teenage mom

869
00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 1: and our relationship and everything. But otherwise I don't I

870
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 1: don't know of what unless we did a collab of

871
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:15,520
Speaker 1: like stories we've both written already in the gross room.

872
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 1: But it's weird because because before I wrote my book,

873
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:23,759
Speaker 1: a lot of publishers that were contacting me wanted me

874
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 1: to write like a memoir book, and I'm just like,

875
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 1: who cares about my life?

876
00:44:28,440 --> 00:44:31,359
Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, I know everybody does it,

877
00:44:31,400 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 2: but like.

878
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,440
Speaker 1: It depends because I read a lot of books like that,

879
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 1: and I've had a couple this year where I've started

880
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 1: reading them and I've I've had to stop, which I am.

881
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 2: If I start something, I finish it, you know what

882
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:46,640
Speaker 2: I mean.

883
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: So like for me to stop reading a book is

884
00:44:49,239 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: like it's really bad and I don't like it. And

885
00:44:51,560 --> 00:44:55,520
Speaker 1: I've had a couple this year. But maybe it also

886
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 1: because I think my life is like like you wouldn't

887
00:44:59,120 --> 00:45:02,719
Speaker 1: even believe it. If well, I think if we compiled

888
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 1: all the stories we tell on here that come up

889
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 1: over time, you can make it very entertaining as anybody

890
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: that has a semi large family and your unique journey

891
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 1: and everything you have to do it in a storytelling.

892
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 1: We really shit to bed with like every time, like

893
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 1: especially with Popop.

894
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,400
Speaker 2: Because he's just prime entertainment we should have.

895
00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 1: Just like, so, Gabe is really good about this. Every

896
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 1: single time either me or the kids say something funny,

897
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,120
Speaker 1: he writes it in his notes in his phone. And

898
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,640
Speaker 1: he's been doing it for ten years at least. He

899
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 1: has a document that's so so so long. He goes

900
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 1: back to it once in a while and like sends

901
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 1: me a quote that I said in twenty fourteen or something.

902
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:47,600
Speaker 1: He thought it all the time, And like, if we

903
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:50,000
Speaker 1: did that with Popop and just wrote down like every

904
00:45:50,000 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 1: single funny thing he said, because it happens all the time.

905
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:55,919
Speaker 1: I started doing it ten years ago and I called

906
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: it Lewisms and the mom mom said he was getting

907
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:00,759
Speaker 1: pissed about it because he thought were making fun of

908
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: them all we are, which we are, but I'm like,

909
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to remember the hilarious things you say and

910
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:08,680
Speaker 1: he just thinks.

911
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 2: We just think, not of thinks. He says, it's just

912
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:12,919
Speaker 2: like the stories and everything, but.

913
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: Because everything he says from his past just seems so

914
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,399
Speaker 1: ridiculous and made up, but then it all checks out.

915
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I think that could be a cool concept.

916
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 1: All right, Why did you decide to do everything retro

917
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 1: for the show, because that's just our style, That's always

918
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:36,480
Speaker 1: been our style. Yeah, we wanted it to have a

919
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:40,360
Speaker 1: vibe of like Donna Reed, like, you know, like just

920
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,000
Speaker 1: old school.

921
00:46:41,719 --> 00:46:43,160
Speaker 2: Like sitcom kind of.

922
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:47,719
Speaker 1: Yeah. We came up with the name first, and we

923
00:46:47,800 --> 00:46:50,520
Speaker 1: knew kind of what we were gonna do, and then

924
00:46:50,560 --> 00:46:52,560
Speaker 1: you have to kind of come up with a brand

925
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: like any other business. You have to come up with

926
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: a brand and colors and everything. So we wanted to

927
00:46:58,040 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: keep it pink because that's everything with the doormatter and

928
00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:03,920
Speaker 1: the grosser rooms pink. So you have to keep branding

929
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 1: my house and seek. And then you know, the show

930
00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: was called Mother Knows Death. There used to be a

931
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:14,399
Speaker 1: sitcom called Father Knows Best. So I took influence from

932
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 1: those old posters from the fifties to make our cover artwork.

933
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 1: And then you just take little bits here and there

934
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,799
Speaker 1: and we found the song, which just made sense. I

935
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:28,080
Speaker 1: feel like the song took us a while though, because

936
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,799
Speaker 1: at first I was leaning more towards like an Ella

937
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: Fitzgerald vibe, like a twenties, a more twenties vibe, you know. No,

938
00:47:36,960 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 1: I always wanted I always wanted it to be super

939
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 1: like campy, just because those shows are typically so you know,

940
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,600
Speaker 1: it reminds like I wanted it to have the vibe

941
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 1: of like that, you know, that that diner place in

942
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:57,200
Speaker 1: Disney World, in Hollywood Studios, the Primetime ca Yeah.

943
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 2: I just wanted it.

944
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: To have like a super cheesy, like a wholesome feel,

945
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:06,920
Speaker 1: and then we're talking about like the nastiest stuff.

946
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

947
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly Like when we were when we were coming

948
00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 1: up with all of this stuff, I was watching like

949
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: old episodes of Johnny Carson and The Tonight Show, like

950
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 1: I forever and I don't know how we're gonna use

951
00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,400
Speaker 1: this eventually, but I want to for something. I forever

952
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 1: love that look of those curtains that are like, you know,

953
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 1: the rainbow curtains that to me is iconic nineteen fifties television.

954
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 1: So I'd like to use that look in some capacity.

955
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,840
Speaker 1: But we just did a lot of research and we thought.

956
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:35,319
Speaker 2: We ever get a set one day.

957
00:48:36,000 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, instead of this bobo that it's not you don't

958
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 1: need to tell them that.

959
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 2: You don't need to tell them you are trade secrets.

960
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 1: But if you saw what was going on beyond the

961
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 1: square frame, it is almost embarrassed.

962
00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 2: Well, it's not.

963
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:53,240
Speaker 1: Really embarrassing for me because what's around the square frame

964
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,279
Speaker 1: is awesome in my office here, but it just like

965
00:48:56,360 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 1: it's us, you know, and occasionally because it's like the

966
00:49:00,880 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: desk I record on is my makeup vanity and everything.

967
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 1: So I'm sure you guys notice that if you watch

968
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:10,880
Speaker 1: on YouTube, occasionally I'll like beat speaking animated with my

969
00:49:10,960 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 1: hands and then I'll like hit something and knock me.

970
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: And a couple episodes ago, I don't even think you

971
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: noticed this because it happened so fast, But I was

972
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 1: touching up my eyebrows in between our ad break and

973
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:26,320
Speaker 1: I lifted my arm and my my eyebrow brush was

974
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: stuck on my sweater and I just pulled it off

975
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:30,840
Speaker 1: like nothing happened.

976
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 2: Nobody said anything about it, so I don't know.

977
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, the worst thing that happens in my video is

978
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: that there's always like a fruit fly in front of

979
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:43,040
Speaker 1: my face or something. This one's been chasing me around

980
00:49:43,040 --> 00:49:45,239
Speaker 1: this whole week, Like I see it right now, Like

981
00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: it's it's like hanging around me, like maybe it's maybe

982
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: it's like a ghost or something. It's like my grandpap

983
00:49:52,080 --> 00:49:53,920
Speaker 1: just trying to like look over me. I don't know,

984
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 1: just trying to swat them. I'm serious, Like, I just

985
00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't find where it's coming from, you

986
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like I have a plant right here.

987
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 1: There's no fungus nuts anywhere in any of the plants

988
00:50:06,160 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 1: right now.

989
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:07,040
Speaker 2: I just don't.

990
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 1: I can't tell where it's coming from. It's driving me

991
00:50:09,840 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: freakin nuts. And I see it like you probably can't

992
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,240
Speaker 1: even do you see it in the video when you look.

993
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: I don't see it when I look, I own, but

994
00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 1: like when it's like this, I'm just like, no, you

995
00:50:21,280 --> 00:50:24,319
Speaker 1: can't really see it because they're so small. All right.

996
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 1: Do you ever listen to music while performing autop season?

997
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 2: If so?

998
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:32,279
Speaker 1: What? Oh? Yeah, we used to. It depends because when

999
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,839
Speaker 1: when I was working at the hospital, we would have

1000
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: residents that would rotate every month, so it would depend

1001
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: on who was on that month. Because I was on

1002
00:50:42,680 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 1: every day and then every month we would have a

1003
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 1: new person. So do you remember Jeffrey, Yeah, yeah, he

1004
00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 1: was awesome. We used to listen to like Whitney Houston

1005
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: and shit, and then Frank we used to listen, Oh, Frank.

1006
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 1: We listened to like Stevie Wonder and like the Drifters

1007
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:04,400
Speaker 1: and stuff like really cool stuff.

1008
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 2: And then we would just it just would depend.

1009
00:51:07,640 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 1: But always it's always like stuff that's like gen pop

1010
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 1: music kind of you know, because you know you're in

1011
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 1: a room with a bunch of people, you can't be

1012
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 1: listening to anything outrageous.

1013
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 2: But yeah, we didn't. We would just depend who was working,

1014
00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,600
Speaker 2: you know. All right, do you.

1015
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 1: Doctors outside of your department ever come to the Morgue?

1016
00:51:29,960 --> 00:51:30,280
Speaker 2: Yes.

1017
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:36,719
Speaker 1: I used to encourage it all the time, especially I

1018
00:51:36,719 --> 00:51:38,759
Speaker 1: had a pretty close relationship with a lot of the

1019
00:51:38,800 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: surgeons at the hospital, So if I was ever doing

1020
00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: an autopsy on one of their patients or something, I

1021
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:49,239
Speaker 1: would encourage them to come look if they wanted to look.

1022
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:53,879
Speaker 2: So yeah, they do. They they do often from all

1023
00:51:53,920 --> 00:51:57,520
Speaker 2: different floors, from surgery, medicine, whatever. They all come down.

1024
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: And we used to have a really cool conference once

1025
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 1: a month that we had a lot of the staff,

1026
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 1: physicians and the residents and medical students come down to

1027
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:10,680
Speaker 1: look at the autop season.

1028
00:52:10,760 --> 00:52:12,120
Speaker 2: I know they do that at.

1029
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:17,080
Speaker 1: Other hospitals too, So we would save all of the

1030
00:52:17,160 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 1: interesting organs from interesting cases we had throughout the month

1031
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 1: and also from surgical specimens as well, and then we

1032
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:30,920
Speaker 1: would present like ten cases a month and show the

1033
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,279
Speaker 1: organs and just show exactly how the person died. We

1034
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:36,280
Speaker 1: would talk about their you know, their age, their medical

1035
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:37,359
Speaker 1: history and stuff like that.

1036
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,719
Speaker 2: It was really, really, it was really awesome.

1037
00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: And really that's that's the best way for doctors to

1038
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: learn because a lot of times we're just seeing like

1039
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:48,160
Speaker 1: MRIs and CT scants and stuff, and for them to

1040
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 1: actually see the organ and really be able to touch

1041
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:54,719
Speaker 1: it and everything, it's just like so magical. All right,

1042
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: this is our last question, which what's a typical day

1043
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 1: in the lab or the morgue look like? Well, they

1044
00:53:01,840 --> 00:53:06,880
Speaker 1: are both different typical days. So if if you're working

1045
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: in the lab in the gross room in the hospital,

1046
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 1: that is pretty much that could change too, but there's

1047
00:53:17,040 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 1: only so much you could do there. So you know,

1048
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,200
Speaker 1: you walk in in the morning, you have your coffee, everything,

1049
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:24,839
Speaker 1: you're not supposed to have coffee in the lab.

1050
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 2: I did every day because like, how could you not

1051
00:53:26,880 --> 00:53:27,919
Speaker 2: have coffee day?

1052
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,160
Speaker 1: Right, It's hard because you're not supposed to drink and

1053
00:53:31,200 --> 00:53:34,360
Speaker 1: eat in the lab. But I'm a rule breaker like that,

1054
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: so you would come in. And so what happens is

1055
00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:41,760
Speaker 1: when the specimens come in from the floor, there's usually

1056
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 1: an employee that works there, like a secretarial type of

1057
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 1: labb aid type of position, and they put all of

1058
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:50,840
Speaker 1: the specimens into the computer and they give them special

1059
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: numbers that are like our pathology numbers. So the first

1060
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: specimen that comes in on January first is number one,

1061
00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:00,239
Speaker 1: and then by the end of the year you could

1062
00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 1: be at like number eighty thousand. Like it just depends

1063
00:54:02,880 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: on the volume at the hospital and they get the

1064
00:54:06,719 --> 00:54:09,439
Speaker 1: special numbers, and then we get them, the pas get

1065
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 1: them and were And like I said, this range is

1066
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: depending on what you get at what hospital. So they

1067
00:54:16,200 --> 00:54:18,839
Speaker 1: can range anything small like a biopsy you get when

1068
00:54:18,880 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: you get a colonoscopy, all the way up to like

1069
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: a large colon resection for cancer, and those obviously take longer.

1070
00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: So let's say, for example, we had a colon cancer case.

1071
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 1: You would pull out the colon and you would look

1072
00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 1: at it and you would measure it, and then you

1073
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:36,800
Speaker 1: would give a description what's called a gross description, so

1074
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:40,080
Speaker 1: like what it looks like exactly, because you have to

1075
00:54:40,080 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: think about this, like the pathologists is getting the slides

1076
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:48,000
Speaker 1: and they're not seeing the specimen ever, so you have

1077
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 1: to write it in such a way that they could

1078
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: visualize what you're looking at. And sometimes that's a little

1079
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:58,759
Speaker 1: bit easier said than done. Then we you know, during

1080
00:54:58,800 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: our training, we learned special sections that we take to

1081
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: show the pathologists because that's how they're able to determine,

1082
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: like they figure out what stage a person is of

1083
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,279
Speaker 1: cancer and what grade the tumors and things like that,

1084
00:55:11,920 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 1: and if it's spread, if it's confined, all those types

1085
00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: of things. So we take special sections and then we

1086
00:55:18,440 --> 00:55:21,280
Speaker 1: usually give those little cassettes that we take the sections

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Speaker 1: to the histology lab and they're the ones that make

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Speaker 1: the slides for the doctors. There's other times too that

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Speaker 1: we can get specimens from people that are open in

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Speaker 1: what we're looking at so they can it kind of

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Speaker 1: guides the course of their surgery. And when they do

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Speaker 1: that that's called the frozen section. So we get that

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Speaker 1: and we have to make the slide like right away,

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Speaker 1: and we're really supposed to do it within twenty minutes

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Speaker 1: of getting it into the lab, and then we bring

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Speaker 1: it to the pathologists and look at it with the pathologists.

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Speaker 1: So that's pretty much the typical day of working in

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Speaker 1: the gross room. It doesn't really change much from place

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Speaker 1: to place. And then if you're doing autopsy, so some

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Speaker 1: places you could do all autopsy job or some like

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Speaker 1: when I did it, it was just like I did

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Speaker 1: all the autopsies and then when I didn't have a

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Speaker 1: fruit flies back. You say it, you say it, oh

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Speaker 1: my god. It it depends, it depends. But like I

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Speaker 1: would do all the autopsies, then when I didn't have

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Speaker 1: an autopsy, I would go upstairs and do surgical specimens

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Speaker 1: like di sect the legs or whatever or help out

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Speaker 1: up there. But when you when you do an autopsy,

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Speaker 1: you it's it's just like a totally different thing. You

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Speaker 1: come in and they'll say you have an autopsy, and

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Speaker 1: like the very first thing you have to do is

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Speaker 1: just make sure that all the PaperWorks squared away. And

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Speaker 1: that can often be a bitch because you have to

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Speaker 1: have the legal nexicicin to sign it, and the doctors

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Speaker 1: on the floor like always wrong. They always fill out

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Speaker 1: the death certificate wrong. They always get the wrong person

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Speaker 1: to sign it. Then you have to track them down

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Speaker 1: and get like it's it's just a lot of like

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Speaker 1: silly work. And then you know, once you're okay to go,

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Speaker 1: you go down to the Morgan, do the autopsy and

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Speaker 1: put the body back and then you're done.

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Speaker 2: Well that's fascinating.

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Speaker 1: So thank you guys so much for all of your questions,

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Speaker 1: and we will continue as always to do the three

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Speaker 1: questions at the end of every news episode. So don't

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Speaker 1: forget every Friday on the app Mother Nose Death Instagram

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Speaker 1: account to submit your questions and we will see you

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Speaker 1: probably in the summer again with our other I guess

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Speaker 1: it's a bi annual questions episode, right, because we typically

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Speaker 1: do it.

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Speaker 2: I don't even.

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Speaker 1: Remember we did one in the summer, did we. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we did it when we went to California.

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Speaker 2: Okay, gee, it's our vacation question episode. Yeah basic, All right,

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Speaker 2: see you guys later.

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Speaker 1: Ya, thank you for listening to Mother nos Death. As

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Speaker 1: a reminder, my training is as a pathologist assistant. I

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Speaker 1: have a master's level education and specialize in anatomy and

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Speaker 1: pathology education. I am not a doctor and I have

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Speaker 1: not diagnosed or treated anyone dead or alive without the

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Speaker 1: assistance of a licensed medical doctor. This show, my website,

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Speaker 1: and social media accounts are designed to educate and inform

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Speaker 1: people based on my experience working in pathology, so they

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Speaker 1: can make healthier decisions regarding their life and well being.

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Speaker 1: Always remember that science is changing every day, and the

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