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Speaker 1: Brooking jewels. Second date Update. I can't believe how many

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Speaker 1: emails we're getting from people who want to know why

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Speaker 1: someone blew them off after a first date. It's ridiculous,

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Speaker 1: but it eats at you, like if you can't figure

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Speaker 1: it out, that's all you think about all day, all night,

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Speaker 1: and before you know you've become a craze stalker and

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Speaker 1: you're calling the person eighty times that happened to couple

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Speaker 1: just saying I can relate. I guess maybe I'll just

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Speaker 1: never cared enough. But a lot of people want to

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Speaker 1: find out again. It's second date update. If you want

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Speaker 1: to know why somebody blew you off, just email us.

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Speaker 1: We'll give them a call for you to find out why.

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Speaker 1: We have Danielle on the phone right now. Danielle, how

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Speaker 1: are you? I'm fine? How are you? Guys? Good? You

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Speaker 1: went out on a date with a guy named Jared yep,

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Speaker 1: tell us about it. It was good, Like we shared

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Speaker 1: some advertisers. We had funny toasts to each other, you know,

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Speaker 1: we talked about life and then I can you give

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Speaker 1: us an example of one of your funny toasts? Um?

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Speaker 1: One is were you clink glasses towards each other? And

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Speaker 1: you say here's to me. Another one is you clink

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Speaker 1: them back at you and you say here's to you,

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Speaker 1: and then you rub the glasses together and you think,

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Speaker 1: here's to us. And you getting married on the first day.

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Speaker 1: You actually found someone else that would do that with

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Speaker 1: you on a first date. Well you do it with

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Speaker 1: you do it with an Eastern European accent, so it

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Speaker 1: sounds funnier. Oh yeah, what you're describing to me sounds

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Speaker 1: like you. That does not sound like normal first date behavior.

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Speaker 1: We talk like it was fun, okay, and then what

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Speaker 1: happened when you were playing Eastern European barmaid? Then what happened?

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Speaker 1: Only did that for a toast? And then I sing

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Speaker 1: in a vand and so we talked about that a

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Speaker 1: little bit. And when the check came, I offered to

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Speaker 1: pay half. He's like, oh no, just pay tip. So

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Speaker 1: I paid the tip, he paid the bill. I thought

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Speaker 1: that was perfect. Yeah that's nice. And then yeah, what

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Speaker 1: kind of like this? Okay, what happened? Did you pay

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Speaker 1: the tipping rubles? And he got offended? What happened? There

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Speaker 1: is no kiss, There is no like really good hug,

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Speaker 1: There is no like can't wait to see you soon.

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Speaker 1: You haven't heard from him at all? And what have

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Speaker 1: you done to try to get a hold of him? Uh?

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Speaker 1: The usual text Facebook friend? Uh, texts and then that's it.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like what you said was a lot though

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Speaker 1: already texts, Facebook Friend, a few more texts, carrier pigeon. Okay,

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Speaker 1: are you ready to hear why he didn't call you back?

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Speaker 1: I hope he's just married. And that's because that's why hope. Danielle,

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Speaker 1: I like you, I'd probably go out with you. You

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Speaker 1: sound like one of the crazy chicks i'd go out with,

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Speaker 1: just so I'm just gonna be honest there. And that's

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Speaker 1: a compliment from me. She's too nice for you, all right, Danielle,

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Speaker 1: hold on, we're gonna call him after this. Okay, looking

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Speaker 1: jubil in the morning. Second, Okay, we've got Danielle on

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Speaker 1: the phone, who went out with a dude named Jared.

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Speaker 1: They were having a great time. She hasn't heard from

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Speaker 1: at all. She wants to know why he blew her off. Danielle,

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Speaker 1: are you ready to call him now? No? Are you

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Speaker 1: regretting this decision right now to do the second date update? Yes? Okay,

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Speaker 1: But Danielle, are you still into it. I have nothing

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Speaker 1: to lose but all of my pride. Okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna call him right now. Okay, okay, phones ringing,

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Speaker 1: Hey is Jared there? This is Jared Jared. What's up? Man?

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Speaker 1: This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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Speaker 1: I'm moving ninety two point five. Are you familiar with

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Speaker 1: our show? Yeah? Oh yeah, I listen to you guys.

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Speaker 1: I'm just surprised together call him right? Have you? Um?

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Speaker 1: Have you heard us do the new segment we were

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Speaker 1: doing the second date update? I have? Yeah, just what

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Speaker 1: this is? You are a smart man, Jared. Somebody emailed

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Speaker 1: us to get a hold of you because you went

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Speaker 1: out on a date and didn't call them back. Any

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Speaker 1: ideas that who it could be? H I think I

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Speaker 1: have an inclination right now. It's Danielle. She emailed us. UM,

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Speaker 1: so why did we let me tell you what really happened? Okay?

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Speaker 1: I mean, oh, he is excited about that. You're eager? Okay, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we were on a date and we're talking in the

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Speaker 1: first like thirty minutes, She's like telling me about what

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Speaker 1: our next date is going to be. Okay, don't I

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Speaker 1: don't even know this girl like that, you know, I

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Speaker 1: mean I don't really know her that well. And she's

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Speaker 1: already like time of like, oh, we gotta go see

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Speaker 1: my concert that I'm playing it. Okay, so you were

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Speaker 1: fripped out because she was a little aggressive, real aggressive.

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Speaker 1: I mean she was already planning out like a week later.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't even don't you. Oh, I've

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Speaker 1: and on dates like that where someone does that. So

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Speaker 1: is that all that happened? It was just a little

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Speaker 1: too much for you. She was just already planning every

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Speaker 1: future encounter that you guys were going to have together.

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Speaker 1: That wasn't even like the killer. I mean literally, she

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Speaker 1: called me, texted me right away, which is fine, it's cool,

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Speaker 1: and you know, still a little freaked out. She texted

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Speaker 1: you right after the date was over, right after that

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Speaker 1: called me right away, you know, and yeah, texted and

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Speaker 1: called right away a text is okay, but when someone

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Speaker 1: actually calls right after, it's a little weird. She called

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Speaker 1: me twelve to fifteen times on my phone. Okay, that's

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Speaker 1: not even the worst part about it, is she somehow

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Speaker 1: not only gotten taxed through a mutual friend I having

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Speaker 1: found my parents, my woman parents, She found their house

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Speaker 1: phone and called them if I was okay and I

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Speaker 1: was around. Are you kidding me? Are you? Danielle? Danielle,

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Speaker 1: she's got on the phone. None of this is nearly

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Speaker 1: as true as he's saying, Danielle, how much of it

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Speaker 1: is true? Then my phone might have but dialed him

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Speaker 1: a few times, but he feels to mention that I

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Speaker 1: did not leave messages those times, obviously, and so then

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Speaker 1: I would text him to be like, I am so sorry,

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Speaker 1: that's so embarrassing. And Danielle, I might have left him

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Speaker 1: a message and it might have been inappropriate, but I

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Speaker 1: had been drinking a lot, and so I don't even

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Speaker 1: remember it. I don't know, Danielle. Did you call his

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Speaker 1: parents house too? I don't remember. Do you not have

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Speaker 1: any girlfriends to tell you not to do this stuff? Danielle? Danielle,

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Speaker 1: you're a nice girl, but I mean, that was what

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Speaker 1: are you doing? You know what's going on? I guess

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Speaker 1: I really thought you were cool. I didn't think it

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Speaker 1: would be that big of a deal. You didn't think

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Speaker 1: it might be a bit much, Danielle, Like you just

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Speaker 1: let him go if he wasn't getting back to you,

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Speaker 1: I thought, I don't know, I thought, don't cry, it's

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Speaker 1: only one day. You're not heartbroken. I'm not heartbroken. I'm

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Speaker 1: super embarrassed. And he's kind of blowing it out of proportion.

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Speaker 1: And yes, I'm sorry. I get a little obsessed a

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Speaker 1: little fast, but it's just because I'm such a passionate person. Oh.

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Speaker 1: One person person's passionate, yeah, is another person's crazy. I'm

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Speaker 1: just gonna say it, Danielle, you called his parents' house. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you don't even meet the parents until down the road.

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Speaker 1: Lettle him call him if you've never even met them before.

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Speaker 1: It was it was a little surprising. My parents called

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Speaker 1: me and they're like, you know this, Danielle, because you

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Speaker 1: just just left a message. I'm like, this is like

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Speaker 1: call nine one one, this is doctor Danielle. Don't rag on.

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I was actually gonna say, Danielle, don't be

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Speaker 1: offended that I remember I love crazy women, so I

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Speaker 1: love you. I want to have a relationship with you, Danielle.

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Speaker 1: And on the upside, Danielle, you've got plenty of material

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Speaker 1: for your next album. Right. Seriously, I thought he was

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Speaker 1: gonna be like, oh my gosh, I've been trying to

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Speaker 1: get a hold of her I'm sorry I haven't returned

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Speaker 1: your tech. Here's the thing, Danielle and Jared. At the

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Speaker 1: end of this we always offer people a second date. Danielle,

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Speaker 1: I'm going to go ahead and assume that, yes, you

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Speaker 1: probably want to go on a second date, and a

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Speaker 1: third date, and a fourth and a marriage. Yeah, right

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Speaker 1: now with Jared. Jared, would you be interested in going

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Speaker 1: on a second date if the show picks up the tab? No? Never,

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Speaker 1: Maybe she learned her lesson. I hope she's learned her lesson.

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Speaker 1: Jared does not sound happy. Jared's changing his number as

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Speaker 1: soon as he gets off. It's crossed my mind. Danielle,

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Speaker 1: do you have anything else to say? You shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: so excited and pretend like you enjoy somebody's conversations if

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Speaker 1: you obviously don't, because it just makes people feel stupid.

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Speaker 1: That's what happens on a first date, though, Danielle, how

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Speaker 1: are you trying to spin this on me? Listen? Just

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Speaker 1: block this out and move on. Yeah, I think that, Danielle.

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Speaker 1: Maybe just delete his number, delete any contact information you

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Speaker 1: have for him, take the pictures down that you have

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Speaker 1: in your room, and try to find someone else who's

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Speaker 1: just as passionate as you are. That would be my advice.

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Speaker 1: Thanks guys. Okay, Hey Danielle, don't don't get so down.

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Speaker 1: I still love you. I'm going to go now, okay,

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Speaker 1: and I promise I won't call you guys back okay

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Speaker 1: in the morning.