1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: It's time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if you 2 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please 3 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:10,639 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARVFM dot com. 4 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: All you have to do is click submit Strawberry Letter. 5 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: And through that we'd love to hear from you, try 6 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 1: to help you if we can. 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 2: All right, well, yeah, buggle up and hold on tight. 8 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 3: We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter. 9 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:23,720 Speaker 2: Thank you, nephew. 10 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 1: Subject They're not really related, okay, Dear Steven Shirley. My 11 00:00:28,200 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 1: husband and I have been together for five years and 12 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: married for three years. I have a son by my 13 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,800 Speaker 1: ex husband, and my husband has a son by an 14 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 1: ex girlfriend. Our blended family works perfectly because the boys 15 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: are very close. 16 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 2: In age, so they're best friends. 17 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: My stepson's mom is cool, but I've made it a 18 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: point to keep her at a distance because my mother 19 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: in law told me she can be very messy at times. 20 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,000 Speaker 1: She also warned me to keep an eye on my 21 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: husband's cousin, Mallory, because she's a bad fluence on my 22 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:04,039 Speaker 1: husband and we'll have him hanging out at all, hanging 23 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: out all of the time. When I met my husband, 24 00:01:06,959 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: he was out with his cousin, Mallory. They were inseparable, 25 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:13,320 Speaker 1: and she has a son around our son's age, so 26 00:01:13,400 --> 00:01:16,479 Speaker 1: they all play together. She's a beautiful woman with her 27 00:01:16,520 --> 00:01:21,240 Speaker 1: own business, so I've wondered why she's still single. After 28 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:24,160 Speaker 1: we got married, Mallory stopped coming around as much, and 29 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: my husband said she was dating someone new and didn't 30 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:31,039 Speaker 1: want him to meet the guys. That was four years ago. 31 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: Now she stopped coming over all together. My husband's ex 32 00:01:35,400 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: girlfriend called me one day to ask if Mallory and 33 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: I had a problem with each other. I told her 34 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,479 Speaker 1: no and asked why. She said, there's a rumor that 35 00:01:44,560 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 1: Mallory's three year old son is my husband's child. I 36 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: thought Mallory was his cousin, but his ex said they're 37 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 1: not related at all. I called my mother in law 38 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: to ask her, and she jokingly, jokingly said they're kissing 39 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: cousin and probably used to mess around. 40 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:04,480 Speaker 3: It started to. 41 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 1: Make sense because Mallory said she was too sick to 42 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,120 Speaker 1: come to our wedding and she never calls my phone. 43 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 1: She always calls my husband and they talk privately a lot. Boy, 44 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: What's I stupid? If this is true? How do I 45 00:02:18,080 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: find out all the truth without fighting them. 46 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: Hmmm. 47 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: I don't know how you're going to do it without 48 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:26,559 Speaker 1: fighting them. 49 00:02:25,560 --> 00:02:27,880 Speaker 2: Because it seems pretty clear what this is. 50 00:02:28,400 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 1: And so much for the perfect, blended family that you 51 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: thought you had, because this is a mess, and you 52 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 1: already know that if you ask him, he's certainly going 53 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: to lie about it. He hasn't told you until this point. 54 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: If you listen to the show on a regular basis, 55 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 1: you know the lives will be flying out of your 56 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:50,080 Speaker 1: husband's mouth before you can even get the questions out. Okay, 57 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,840 Speaker 1: there's also the matter of exactly what truth do you 58 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: want to know? 59 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:56,480 Speaker 2: Do you want to know if they're really cousins? Are 60 00:02:56,520 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: the exes? 61 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: And the big question, of course, is your husband Mallory's 62 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,320 Speaker 1: baby daddy. You got to look at the facts. When 63 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 1: you met your husband, he was with Mallory. They were inseparable. 64 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: Those are your words. Your mother in law told you 65 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:10,959 Speaker 1: to keep an eye on her because she's a bad 66 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 1: influence on your husband. 67 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:16,119 Speaker 2: I don't really know what that means, but your. 68 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: Mother in law also said that Mallory and your husband 69 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: probably messed around and they're kissing cousins. Okay, that could 70 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: produce a child if they messed around and then his 71 00:03:27,360 --> 00:03:31,600 Speaker 1: ex said they're not related at all. After you guys married, 72 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: miss Mallory stopped coming around and now only talks to 73 00:03:35,320 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: your husband in private. 74 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 2: Something is off. 75 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: Okay, you gotta admit that something is off, and this 76 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 1: sounds bad. It should be fairly easy to get a 77 00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 1: DNA a test to see who is the child's father. 78 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: But what is your gut telling you? That's what I 79 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:52,920 Speaker 1: got to ask you. What is your gut telling you? 80 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: Because my gut is leaning toward Mallory is not his 81 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: cousin like they said, and your husband is the father. 82 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 2: That's what my good is telling me. 83 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 3: Steve, Wow, I wasn't expecting this. 84 00:04:06,640 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 4: I'm going to admit I'm a big throwed off, you know, 85 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:20,839 Speaker 4: a little bit of Oh really okay. Now, normally I 86 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 4: would prepare a lie for this guy, but this may 87 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 4: be not the time for the lie. Well, instead of lying, no, 88 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 4: this is a time for reveal. See, there's a difference. 89 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:37,160 Speaker 4: You gotta know when to lie and you got to 90 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 4: know when to reveal. 91 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:41,719 Speaker 3: So let me walk you through what I'm saying. 92 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,120 Speaker 4: You've been married for five years, three years, knowing this 93 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 4: guy for five you got a son by your ex husband, 94 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:50,760 Speaker 4: and your husband has a son by an ex girlfriend. 95 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 4: Our blended family works together perfectly because the boys are 96 00:04:57,080 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 4: very close in age. Let's keep that in mind. We're 97 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 4: gonna need disinformation right here. Put a star next to that. 98 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:08,039 Speaker 4: So they're best friends. My stepson's mom is cool, but 99 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 4: I made it a point to keep her at a 100 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 4: distance because my mother in law told me she could 101 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 4: be very messy at times. Okay, let's keep that in 102 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 4: mind because that's gonna come back. She also wanted me 103 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 4: to keep all my husband's cousin Mallory because she's a 104 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 4: bad influence on my husband, only have him hanging out 105 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 4: all the time I met my husband, he was out 106 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 4: with his cousin Malory. 107 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 3: They were inseparable. 108 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 4: He has a son around our She has a son 109 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 4: around our son's. 110 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 3: Age, so they all play together. 111 00:05:39,560 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 4: She's a beautiful woman with her own business, so I 112 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 4: wondered why she was still single. After we got married, 113 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 4: Mallory stopped coming around as much, and my husband said 114 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 4: she was dating someone new and didn't want him. 115 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 3: To meet the guy. 116 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 4: Okay, that's an interesting comment and signs don't know why 117 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 4: don't want you to meet the new guy. You know, 118 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 4: you'all friends and cousin. You would think you want your 119 00:06:06,320 --> 00:06:10,400 Speaker 4: cousin's opinion. That was four years ago. Now she just 120 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:13,680 Speaker 4: stopped coming over all together. My husband's AS girlfriend called 121 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 4: me one day. Your husband's AS girlfriend called you. Then 122 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,680 Speaker 4: your mother in law tell you to watch her call 123 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 4: she messy? 124 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 2: She sure did. 125 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 4: She told you to watch his ex girlfriend because she 126 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:26,159 Speaker 4: is messy. 127 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 3: Here' she go. 128 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 4: She called you and ask if Malorie and I had 129 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 4: a problem with each other? 130 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:38,400 Speaker 2: Who is hu? 131 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:42,200 Speaker 1: Hang on, hang on, We'll have part two of your 132 00:06:42,240 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 133 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: Today's strawberry letters subject they're not really related. 134 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:51,279 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll get back into it right after this. 135 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:57,160 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 136 00:06:59,400 --> 00:07:01,159 Speaker 2: Hey everyone, and quick health question. 137 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:05,039 Speaker 1: Even though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did 138 00:07:05,040 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: you know your immune system weakens with age. That's where 139 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 1: vaccines come in. They help train and strengthen your immune 140 00:07:11,360 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: response to fight off certain respiratory illnesses like flu Newmacaco, pneumonia, RSV, 141 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 1: and COVID nineteen this fall, ask your doctor which vaccines 142 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:24,960 Speaker 1: you need and visit vaxsist dot com that's vaexsist dot 143 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: com to schedule one or more of vaccines sponsored by Pfizer. 144 00:07:29,640 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today. It's strawberry letter. 145 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: The subject is they're not really related, just. 146 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,559 Speaker 3: Woman being married. Uh three years, been knowing this guy five. 147 00:07:41,680 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 4: She got a son from a previous husband, He got 148 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 4: a son from previous girlfriends. They both the same age. 149 00:07:47,040 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 4: They got a blended family. They play together all the time. 150 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 4: Fast forward, the mother gets in and tells her beware 151 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 4: of his. 152 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:58,000 Speaker 3: Former girlfriend because she can be messy. 153 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 4: Then the mother in law told or her beware of 154 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:05,640 Speaker 4: Mallory because she can be getting him into trouble and 155 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 4: be a bad influence on him. 156 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:16,560 Speaker 3: So every woman in his life had been a bad decision. Damn. 157 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:21,040 Speaker 4: Now they were in separate, because when you met them, 158 00:08:21,080 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 4: he was with Mallory. They were in separate and everything. 159 00:08:24,160 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 4: And now she's beautiful, got her own business, and you 160 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 4: wonder why she was still single. Well after we got married, 161 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 4: Mallory stopped coming around as much, as my husband said. 162 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,200 Speaker 4: She was dating someone new and didn't want him meet 163 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:38,320 Speaker 4: the guy. If when your cousins, you want your other 164 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:42,920 Speaker 4: cousin's opinion, especially if y'all close red flag. That was 165 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 4: four years ago. Now she stopped coming over altogether. My 166 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:50,120 Speaker 4: husband said, girlfriend called me one day to ask you, 167 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,719 Speaker 4: Mallory and I had a problem with each other. Now, 168 00:08:53,720 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 4: why does he have to call you you? Let me 169 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:57,880 Speaker 4: tell you why she called you, because your mam in 170 00:08:57,960 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 4: law told you she was messing, and here she come 171 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:05,840 Speaker 4: four years. Took her four years to call you and 172 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 4: ask did you and Malory have a problem to each other? 173 00:09:08,480 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 3: I told her. 174 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:12,600 Speaker 4: Now she said, well, why you ain't got no problem 175 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 4: with him? She said, there's a rumor that Matory's three 176 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 4: year old son is your husband's child. I thought Mallory 177 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 4: was his cousin. Well, now let's deal with this right now. 178 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 4: If Mallory was his cousin, you don't have to worry 179 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 4: about it. 180 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 3: He lies. All you need to do is watch that 181 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 3: boy close. 182 00:09:41,160 --> 00:09:45,360 Speaker 4: Now, three boys that's playing now is your little boy 183 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 4: from your ex husband. Is your husband's little boy from 184 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 4: his ex girlfriend? And now is Mallory's little boy. If 185 00:09:57,600 --> 00:10:05,240 Speaker 4: Mallory e your husband's cousin, you would know that by 186 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 4: watching the boy. You know what, because the little boy 187 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,959 Speaker 4: ain't gonna be quite right now. I'm just telling you 188 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 4: he ain't like the rest of the boy. He ain't 189 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 4: gonna be a climb on stuff. You know, he ain't 190 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 4: gonna do little boy stuff. Now, if these cousins have 191 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:29,080 Speaker 4: gotten together, I'm telling you right now, he fought your 192 00:10:29,160 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 4: howled at the little boy right now, three three years old. 193 00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 3: He ain't said nothing nothing. 194 00:10:39,440 --> 00:10:41,440 Speaker 4: He's still crawling. 195 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 3: He ain't said nothing. 196 00:10:45,200 --> 00:10:47,719 Speaker 2: I cannot with he's still. 197 00:10:47,400 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 3: Crawling at three three you can walk and. 198 00:10:53,520 --> 00:11:00,520 Speaker 4: One can't say water before wah wah that that he 199 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:04,840 Speaker 4: I'm just telling you, if this was MATTERI couz just 200 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 4: watch the boy. 201 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 3: Man, how big is his head? Are you? 202 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 2: Come on? Come on, you move on from this. 203 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 4: No, this is how you do these letters. Okay, now 204 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 4: we'll get back to the boy. But right now, but 205 00:11:25,559 --> 00:11:29,200 Speaker 4: his ex said they're not related at all. Once again, 206 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 4: it would be in the boy if they were related. Now, 207 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:37,840 Speaker 4: obviously this boy's normal. He ain't doing nothing nothing that 208 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 4: inbread people do. I'm from West Virginia. I've seen a 209 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 4: couple of people that stayed up the road. What can happen. 210 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:50,600 Speaker 3: Down there? 211 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 4: Just thirteen years old, they're walking down the street just 212 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:55,760 Speaker 4: peeing on himself. If you don't pull up on the 213 00:11:55,800 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 4: side of the road and just do your business on 214 00:11:58,280 --> 00:11:59,560 Speaker 4: the side of what's you walking? 215 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:02,319 Speaker 3: Peing on yourself for Herbert? 216 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:10,560 Speaker 4: He got a helmet on. Yeah, all right, I'm gonna 217 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 4: tell you. If he's fifteen and still got training with 218 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 4: he just ain't gonna get it. I'm just telling you, 219 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 4: he just ain't gonna get it. It's equilibrium. It's never 220 00:12:21,400 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 4: gonna kick it. Equilibrium, it's never gonna kick in. He 221 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:28,840 Speaker 4: all he rides, he's still here, fifteen, got them training. 222 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 4: He still ride to the side like this. He's still 223 00:12:33,120 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 4: ride to the side like this. Back to be hollering 224 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:39,080 Speaker 4: for no reason. 225 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:45,079 Speaker 3: Just the MoMA come over your house. 226 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:48,240 Speaker 4: And if he get thirsty, if he take his helmet 227 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 4: off and put the water in the helmet to drink it, 228 00:12:51,280 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 4: we deal. 229 00:12:51,679 --> 00:12:53,720 Speaker 3: We're dealing with some issues now. I'm just trying to 230 00:12:53,760 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 3: tell you. 231 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 4: Anyway, he called your mother in law of ass because 232 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 4: she jokingly said they're kissing cousins. 233 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:00,720 Speaker 3: Probably used to mess around. 234 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:03,320 Speaker 4: Started to make sense because Mallory said she was too 235 00:13:03,360 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 4: sick to come to our wed and she never caused 236 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 4: my phone. She always calls my husband and they talk privately. 237 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,440 Speaker 3: A lot. Boy, was I stupid if this is true. No, 238 00:13:11,520 --> 00:13:12,440 Speaker 3: you're not. No, you're not. 239 00:13:12,440 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 4: It wasn't stupid at all. Nobody knew and there's no 240 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:17,600 Speaker 4: way to do. And obviously it's not in the boy 241 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 4: because the boy's normal. Thank God for that. So no, 242 00:13:20,120 --> 00:13:24,040 Speaker 4: they're not cousins. Now to find out all the truth 243 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:26,440 Speaker 4: without fighting, Why you gotta fight them? Just gather them together. 244 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 4: I'll tell you what you can fix all this, Just 245 00:13:30,240 --> 00:13:30,920 Speaker 4: ask the boy. 246 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 2: Listen. 247 00:13:33,559 --> 00:13:37,479 Speaker 1: Please leave your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram. 248 00:13:37,840 --> 00:13:42,000 Speaker 4: All his answers is just blurts. 249 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,880 Speaker 1: At Steve Harvey FM, and please check out the Strawberry 250 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:45,520 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. 251 00:13:45,679 --> 00:13:48,160 Speaker 2: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.