WEBVTT - #40 Barbara Shutt

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Did you just butt dial me? Because I have

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<v Speaker 1>on my call display that a call from your number

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<v Speaker 1>but got my numbers blocked. That's how I know it's you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're the only person I know with a block number.

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<v Speaker 2>Is it where we have to go today?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of days ago, I think it was like

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<v Speaker 1>yesterday morning. Were you thinking about me?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought that would be weird because I was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking about you, and I thought, huh, wouldn't it be

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<v Speaker 1>funny if she was thinking about me at the same time?

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<v Speaker 1>Shut from Gimblet Media. I'm Jonathan Goldstein and this is Heavyweight.

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<v Speaker 1>Today's episode the first in a two part series, Barbara

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<v Speaker 1>Part one. Barbara shut right after the break. Hello, Becky, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Becky, my mother in law. Last April, at

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<v Speaker 1>the start of the pandemic, my wife Emily told me

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<v Speaker 1>that her mom had a mystery to solve. Phoner. Emily

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<v Speaker 1>said immediately it was all very dramatic. How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fine, Becky, it should be said, is not the

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<v Speaker 1>dramatic type. There's a famous story about how while making

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<v Speaker 1>brunch for the family, her oven caught fire and as

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<v Speaker 1>everyone ran around phoning nine to one one searching for

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<v Speaker 1>the instruction manual to the fire extinguisher. Becky sat at

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<v Speaker 1>the dining room table silently, eating fruit salad. So while

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<v Speaker 1>Becky may not have a flare for the dramatic, her

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<v Speaker 1>daughter does. There's no time to waste.

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<v Speaker 3>Emily said, these events happened fifty two years ago. By

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<v Speaker 3>the way, so wait a second.

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<v Speaker 1>Emily said that they have like She was like, you

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<v Speaker 1>better pounce on this.

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<v Speaker 3>There were new revelations today.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, I see.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, how about an hour or two hours ago? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>did she tell you anything about it?

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<v Speaker 1>She told me nothing. She should just call just call

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<v Speaker 1>my mother.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you want to hear this story from the beginning.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's a good place to start.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm trying to help out with CEO's homeschooling just a

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<v Speaker 3>little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>THEO is my nephew and Becky's grandson. Last April, his

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<v Speaker 1>school shut down because of COVID, so Becky stepped into

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<v Speaker 1>tutorim over zoom.

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<v Speaker 3>So THEO.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what the word biography means? Biography is

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<v Speaker 2>a book written by the person that it's about.

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<v Speaker 1>No, yes, if I wrote a book. Becky and THEO

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<v Speaker 1>met weekly, and for each lesson she gave him a

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<v Speaker 1>small homework assigned.

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<v Speaker 3>So the first assignment was to write a description you know,

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<v Speaker 3>a person, a place, to thing, just you know, a

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<v Speaker 3>couple paragraph descriptions.

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<v Speaker 1>THEO and Becky each did the assignment and then shared

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<v Speaker 1>their essays. THEO wrote about a World Cup soccer game,

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<v Speaker 1>and Becky, what.

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<v Speaker 3>Popped into my head was this friendship that I had

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<v Speaker 3>in nineteen sixty eight, before you were born.

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<v Speaker 1>In nineteen sixty eight, Becky was nineteen years old. She

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<v Speaker 1>lived in smalltown Minnesota and had never been out of

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<v Speaker 1>the country. She wanted to see Europe, so she linked

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<v Speaker 1>up with a work abroad program that got her a

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<v Speaker 1>job at a commercial laundromat in Copenhagen.

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<v Speaker 3>But it was kind of lonely because there was a

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<v Speaker 3>language barrier and there was no one else my age,

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<v Speaker 3>so it was kind of lonely. And then the third

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<v Speaker 3>week another American girl came.

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<v Speaker 1>What is her name?

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<v Speaker 3>Barbara shut.

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<v Speaker 1>My wife, Emily says that when she was growing up,

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<v Speaker 1>about once a year, Becky would remove the pictures above

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<v Speaker 1>the living room couch and project slides from Copenhagen. Emily

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<v Speaker 1>called this Becky Time a journey back to when Becky

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<v Speaker 1>was Becky not Mom, And right there with Becky. Hovering

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<v Speaker 1>above the couch was Barbara Shut. Becky and Barbara Shut

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<v Speaker 1>on a park bench eating sandwiches, Becky and Barbara Shut

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<v Speaker 1>partying in a room full of young Danes. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>have it in front of you, the thing that you.

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<v Speaker 3>Write my story? Yeah? I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you feel comfortable reading it?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah? Here it is Looking for adventure. In the summer

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<v Speaker 3>of nineteen sixty eight, I found a job in Copenhagen, Denmark.

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<v Speaker 3>The first two weeks were lonely, but when a new

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<v Speaker 3>worker started the factory, everything changed. Her name was Barbara Shut.

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<v Speaker 3>She was thin and wiry, with short, dark hair and

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<v Speaker 3>big eye. She was twenty one years old and had

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<v Speaker 3>just graduated from college. She was rich. Her mother was

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<v Speaker 3>a doctor and her father a retired college professor. Because

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<v Speaker 3>her mother was a doctor, she loved dispensing medical advice,

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<v Speaker 3>whether it was asked for or not. The only advice

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<v Speaker 3>that stuck with me was how to pop a ZiT

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<v Speaker 3>with a razor blade, something she did regularly. She loved checkers,

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<v Speaker 3>and when she couldn't find a checker set in all

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<v Speaker 3>of Copenhagen, she made the board in pieces out of cardboard.

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<v Speaker 3>I hated checkers, but in the way that rich girls

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<v Speaker 3>who are doted on by their parents can be. She

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<v Speaker 3>was very persuasive. Barbara always knew what she wanted, so

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<v Speaker 3>we played checkers. She bought a bike as soon as

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<v Speaker 3>she arrived and rode all over Copenhagen. She only managed

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<v Speaker 3>to persuade me to ride with her once, though I

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<v Speaker 3>was terrified of the traffic. We spent a lovely Saturday

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<v Speaker 3>biking all over the city until the bike she had

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<v Speaker 3>borrowed for me gave out. For eight hours each weekday,

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<v Speaker 3>we were at the same table folding bath powels. It

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<v Speaker 3>was a boring, mind numbing job, but I loved it

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<v Speaker 3>because we had so much fun. We had silly nicknames

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<v Speaker 3>for all the other workers. We sang to the pop

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<v Speaker 3>music coming over the loudspeaker. We laughed our way through

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<v Speaker 3>each day. As the time in Copenhagen was coming to

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<v Speaker 3>an end, we were excitedly planning our next adventure. Barbara,

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<v Speaker 3>who loved horses more than anything in the world, was

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<v Speaker 3>going to a fancy riding cap in England. I left first,

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<v Speaker 3>riding the train across Italy, Austria, Switzerland. I missed the laughter,

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<v Speaker 3>the singing along to Winchester Cathedral a dozen times a day,

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<v Speaker 3>our endless checker games. She was my best friend. But

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<v Speaker 3>it wasn't forever.

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<v Speaker 1>That's lovely, Becky. It wasn't forever, Becky says, because at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the summer, in spite of their closeness, we.

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<v Speaker 3>Never exchanged any information, anything, phone numbers or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think that was?

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was because we we didn't. Our lives

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<v Speaker 3>seemed so different.

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<v Speaker 1>Becky was from Waconia, Minnesota, population two thousand. Barbara was

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<v Speaker 1>from Cincinnati. Her parents were professionals. They had four cars,

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<v Speaker 1>five TVs, a horse. But Becky wasn't envious of Barbara's

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<v Speaker 1>material possessions. What she did envy, though, was Barbara's close

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<v Speaker 1>relationship with her dad. Becky had lost her own father

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<v Speaker 1>a few years earlier.

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<v Speaker 3>She was very close to her father. She talked about

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<v Speaker 3>him a lot. She just was so in love with

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<v Speaker 3>her father, and he wrote her these long, beautiful letters

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<v Speaker 3>every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>When Becky left for Copenhagen, she was still feeling grief

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<v Speaker 1>over her father's death. For Becky, those letters had to

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<v Speaker 1>have seemed every bit as magical as Tivoli guard lit

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<v Speaker 1>up at night.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was writing about her, and I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>in all these years, I've never tried to find out

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<v Speaker 3>what happened to her, and so I googled her and

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<v Speaker 3>I found her immediately. It's easy to find people who are.

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<v Speaker 1>Dead, and she is dead, which brings us to the mystery.

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<v Speaker 1>Becky stumbled upon.

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<v Speaker 3>She died in twenty twelve at age sixty seven, and

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<v Speaker 3>I read the obituary and I thought, wait a minute.

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<v Speaker 1>Becky's sadness over the death of her long lost friend

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<v Speaker 1>was suddenly overshadowed by another feeling confusion. The more Becky read,

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<v Speaker 1>the more the obituary seemed to contradict everything Barbara had

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<v Speaker 1>told her that summer. There was no mention of growing

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<v Speaker 1>up in Cincinnati, no mention of her doctor mother, and

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<v Speaker 1>most of.

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<v Speaker 3>All, there is no mention of a father whatsoever. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>it had the people that preceded her in death no father,

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<v Speaker 3>the people who survived her no father, And there is

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<v Speaker 3>no mention of a father. And that is what she

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<v Speaker 3>talked about constantly. She was and I'm reading this to

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<v Speaker 3>you now from the obituary. She was raised at the

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<v Speaker 3>Galileean Children's Home near Corbyn Kentucky, where she also attended

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<v Speaker 3>primary school and had numerous friends. Does that sound too

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<v Speaker 3>like she was raised there? I mean it says raised.

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<v Speaker 3>Does that mean orphanage? To me, it sounded like orphanage.

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<v Speaker 3>So it doesn't sound like anything I knew about her.

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<v Speaker 3>My thought was, wait what? I was kind of stunned

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<v Speaker 3>when I read this. The details were so different from

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<v Speaker 3>what I would have expected. Then I started thinking, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm stupid. Why didn't I figure out if she was

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<v Speaker 3>so rich, why was she working this menial job she

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<v Speaker 3>could have probably afforded to. Yeah, yeah, I think that

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<v Speaker 3>what she had told me was mostly fiction. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know how I should think about it. Yeah, was she

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<v Speaker 3>just playing me for a stap? I mean, why if

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<v Speaker 3>that's it, it's a cruel thing to do.

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<v Speaker 1>If you were able to find somebody who is still

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<v Speaker 1>around who can speak about her and tell you about her, like,

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<v Speaker 1>what would you want to know?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, first of all, I want to know the truth.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, what was her life? If it wasn't what

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<v Speaker 3>she was telling me it was, what was it and

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<v Speaker 3>why was she telling me the things that she was

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>At the bottom of the online obituary is a comments

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<v Speaker 1>section where several people have posted short notes about Barbara.

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<v Speaker 1>Becky figures there must be someone among them who knows

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<v Speaker 1>the truth. If only some brave soul would reach out

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<v Speaker 1>and ask, some brave soul other than Becky.

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<v Speaker 3>I would never, in a million years do it, Jonathan,

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<v Speaker 3>how well do you know me?

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<v Speaker 1>Becky doesn't like to make a scene, and if there

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<v Speaker 1>is a scene, that's when she reaches for the fruit

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<v Speaker 1>salad I want.

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<v Speaker 3>But okay, else to get it?

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<v Speaker 1>Sure? Sure shirt? You know if at any points you're

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<v Speaker 1>made uncomfortable and need to hide behind my skirts, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>very happy to supply the skirts.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, I need skirts.

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<v Speaker 1>A biography is a book that someone else has written

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<v Speaker 1>about another person. Yes, if an obituary is a kind

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<v Speaker 1>of biography, then an online obituary is a collaborative one.

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<v Speaker 1>People leave comments that exist as windows onto a life.

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<v Speaker 1>But the comments on Barbara's obituary page contain no stories

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<v Speaker 1>or anecdotes, nothing to shed light on who she really was.

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<v Speaker 1>There is one comment, though, that feels like a lead.

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<v Speaker 1>It's from a guy who would have known Barbara around

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<v Speaker 1>the same time Becky did. He says they were good

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<v Speaker 1>friends from college. His name is Chris. I have questions

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<v Speaker 1>for Chris, so I send him an email telling him

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<v Speaker 1>about Becky inter connection to Barbara. But after about a

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<v Speaker 1>week without any response, I dial a telephone number I

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<v Speaker 1>find online. Someone picks up on the fourth ring, and

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<v Speaker 1>what ensues is one of the stranger conversations I've ever had.

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<v Speaker 1>Is this Chris? I ask yes? Chris says, I sent

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<v Speaker 1>you an email last week? Do I have the right person? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>He says, I got your name from Barbara's obituary page.

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<v Speaker 1>I say yes. He says, Chris isn't what you'd call chatty.

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<v Speaker 1>When I ask a question, he replies with only yes

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<v Speaker 1>or no. When I ask if he can elaborate, he bristles.

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<v Speaker 1>I won't give you things, he says, but I will

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<v Speaker 1>verify what things are true or not true. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>deep throat quality to the interview. For whatever reason, Chris

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<v Speaker 1>has cast me as the intrepid journalist, himself the shadowy source.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, when I ask Chris if I can record

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<v Speaker 1>him for broadcast, he brings up Watergate and threatens legal action.

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<v Speaker 1>But in spite of that, there were moments when Chris

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<v Speaker 1>seems eager to talk, like this is the call he's

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<v Speaker 1>been waiting, eating by the phone four for fifty years.

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<v Speaker 1>In the end, Chris and I talk for over an

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<v Speaker 1>hour and a half during that time, and almost in

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<v Speaker 1>spite of himself, he reveals details about Barbara's life that

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<v Speaker 1>are precise and top of mind like. At one point,

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<v Speaker 1>in response to a question about Barbara's childhood, Chris points

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<v Speaker 1>me to a nineteen forty's issue of The Saturday Evening Post.

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<v Speaker 1>It features an article about the Galileian Children's Home. The

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<v Speaker 1>Galilean Children's Home, he says, is the orphanage in Kentucky

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<v Speaker 1>where Barbara was raised. So it seems the obituary was right.

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<v Speaker 1>Contrary to what Barbara told Becky and Copenhagen, she was

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<v Speaker 1>actually an orphan. She had no fancy home, no doting father.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not looking forward to telling my mother in law

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<v Speaker 1>that her friend Barbara lied to her. But then Chris

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<v Speaker 1>tell me something else. At the age of seventeen, Barbara

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<v Speaker 1>was adopted by a couple named Charles and Jane Shutt.

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<v Speaker 1>The Shots were wealthy, They lived in Cincinnati and had

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<v Speaker 1>a horse. Her adopted mother was a doctor, and her

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<v Speaker 1>adopted father, who Chris tells me Barbara was very close

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<v Speaker 1>with was a college dean. Those were the parents that

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara always talked about in Copenhagen, her adopted parents. So

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<v Speaker 1>while the story from the obituary is true, the story

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara told Becky is also true. I asked Chris if

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<v Speaker 1>he knows why Barbara's adopted family wasn't mentioned in her obituary,

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<v Speaker 1>not that I would talk about. Chris says, would you

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<v Speaker 1>say that Barbara's life after the adoption was a happy one?

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<v Speaker 1>I ask until she graduated from college, Chris says, And

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<v Speaker 1>what happened around graduation? I ask that I won't discuss.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris says, I feel like he's baiting me, but I've

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<v Speaker 1>no idea why or for what. Whenever any of this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff happens, Chris continues, you have to ask yourself what's

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<v Speaker 1>in the public domain and what isn't. You could look

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<v Speaker 1>up legal information about Barbara, he says. He pauses, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>this part I can tell you because it's in the

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<v Speaker 1>public domain. In May of nineteen sixty nine, Chris says,

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara killed her mother. For a few moments, we sit

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<v Speaker 1>in silence, Chris waiting for me to react, Me not

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<v Speaker 1>knowing how to her adopted mother. I finally ask that

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<v Speaker 1>is correct. Chris says, how is the murder committed? I ask, gunn.

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<v Speaker 1>Chris says, do you know the circumstances? I ask, And

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<v Speaker 1>this next part, Chris says like he's proud. I knew

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<v Speaker 1>some of the details that the police never knew.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>After hanging up with Chris, I try to unpack what

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<v Speaker 1>I just heard with my producer Stevie. Oh my I can't. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I was not expecting that, Like, it just froze me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know that I even want to share that

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<v Speaker 5>with Becky. I have to admit that when my mother

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<v Speaker 5>in law tasked me with looking into Barbara's obituary, I

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<v Speaker 5>assumed I discover the story of a fabulous someone from

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<v Speaker 5>humble origins who thought Europe a good place to reinvent herself,

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<v Speaker 5>if only for a summer. I never thought murder would

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<v Speaker 5>be an my report, and now that it is, a

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<v Speaker 5>part of me feels protective of Becky. Her summer with

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<v Speaker 5>Barbara is a memory she cherishes. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 5>compromise that. But at the same time, I know Becky

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<v Speaker 5>is someone who flips to the end of novels because

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<v Speaker 5>she just can't wait to know what happens. She's curious,

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<v Speaker 5>and so am I. So I start digging. Over the

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<v Speaker 5>next several days, I'm buried in news clippings with headlines

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<v Speaker 5>like this woman doctor found slain in her office home.

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<v Speaker 5>At the time, the trial of.

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara shut for the murder of her adopted mother Jane

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<v Speaker 1>dominated Cincinnati headlines. And just a quick warning, some of

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<v Speaker 1>the details I'm about to share are disturbing. The newspapers

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<v Speaker 1>describe the murder in gruesome, nearly pornographic detail. Her almost

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<v Speaker 1>nude body was found lying face down, says one article,

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<v Speaker 1>a full blown blood path says another. As well as

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<v Speaker 1>being shot, Jane was also beaten with a fireplace poker,

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<v Speaker 1>struck seventeen times in total. Just a few days ago,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd thought of Barbara as my mother in law's European

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<v Speaker 1>summer friend, with whom she gossiped and rode bikes. Now

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<v Speaker 1>I was reading about her violently beating her mother to death.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like their two different women. In the photos I've

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<v Speaker 1>seen of her, Barbara is striking, and the papers couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>get enough of the mysterious twenty three year old who's

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<v Speaker 1>referred to as Slender olive skinned, elfin faced, pixie faced,

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<v Speaker 1>and gammon faced. One headline, rather than referring to the

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<v Speaker 1>trial as a murder trial, refers to it as a

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<v Speaker 1>waifs trial. The newspapers carry descriptions of Barbara's hairstyle and clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>On her first day in court, The Cincinnati Inquirer calls

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<v Speaker 1>her dress quote fashionably short, but not mini mini. It's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like Barbara is a movie star. From the papers,

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<v Speaker 1>I learned that Barbara had initially confessed to the police,

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<v Speaker 1>but recanted her confession a few days later. Why would

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<v Speaker 1>someone admit to a crime only to take it back immediately?

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<v Speaker 1>To find out, I contact the Hamilton County Court in

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<v Speaker 1>Ohio and request the trial transcript. What I receive is

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<v Speaker 1>a document over twelve hundred typewritten pages long. From it,

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<v Speaker 1>I learned that the prosecution's case was mostly built on

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara's confession, which told the following story. On the morning

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<v Speaker 1>of May twenty fifth, nineteen sixty nine, Jane told her

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<v Speaker 1>that she and Barbara's adopted father, Charles, were separating and

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<v Speaker 1>it was time for Barbara to go out on her own.

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<v Speaker 1>An argument ensued. Barbara grabbed a gun from her father's

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<v Speaker 1>dresser and shot Jane. She then dragged her down two

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<v Speaker 1>flights of stairs to the basement, where she beat her

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<v Speaker 1>to death with the poker. If she was alive, Barbara

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<v Speaker 1>explained in her confession, she was going to tell everybody

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<v Speaker 1>and I was going to be in a jam. The

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<v Speaker 1>defense's case, on the other hand, was built around the

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<v Speaker 1>fact Barbara later recanted her confession. Barbara maintained her innocence

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<v Speaker 1>throughout the trial, claiming the confession was given under false pretenses.

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<v Speaker 1>According to her lawyers, Barbara was horseback riding that morning

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<v Speaker 1>and came home to find Jane dead at the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of the basement stairs. I was thinking that Daddy had

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<v Speaker 1>done it, Barbara testified on the stand. She feared Charles

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<v Speaker 1>had committed the murder, and so she confessed in order

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<v Speaker 1>to protect him. I was going to do anything that

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<v Speaker 1>I possibly could to take the guilt off him. Barbara

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<v Speaker 1>said anything. This meant cleaning up the crime scene and

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<v Speaker 1>disposing of the gun in the Ohio River. It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>until later that she learned her father was innocent. During

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<v Speaker 1>the investigation, police found blood on Barbara's riding boots and

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<v Speaker 1>gunpowder as a jew on her hands. Also Barbara had

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<v Speaker 1>no defensible alibi. She was found guilty and sentenced to

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<v Speaker 1>life in prison for murder in the first degree.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope my voice is okay. You know, we're very

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<v Speaker 2>froggy around here because the allergies. I'll sound like Demi Moore.

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<v Speaker 1>Late one Friday evening, my mother in law, Becky, and

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<v Speaker 1>I meet up in here Den. I've been looking into

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara's life, and I'll just get in front of it

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<v Speaker 1>by saying that some of it is shocking. Really, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The interesting thing is in the end, I think generally

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<v Speaker 1>the things that she told you are true. And I

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<v Speaker 1>begin with the information Becky had asked for. I tell

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<v Speaker 1>her that Barbara had not played her for a sab

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<v Speaker 1>so she grew up an orphan. She was adopted by

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<v Speaker 1>a wealthy family three months. But then I tell her

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<v Speaker 1>the other stuff I learned. In May of nineteen sixty nine,

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara murdered her adopted mother, Jane.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah really, yeah, yeah, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I last saw her in August of sixty eight, so

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<v Speaker 2>this was, you know, nine months later.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Becky says that in Copenhagen she never saw any

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<v Speaker 1>evidence of violence or temper.

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<v Speaker 2>Boy, I never saw that would have been in her

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<v Speaker 2>I can't wrap my head around it. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>what to think of it. What should I think about that?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought she was a really nice person. We had

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<v Speaker 2>so much fun together.

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<v Speaker 1>In fact, the time Barbara and Becky shared in Copenhagen

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<v Speaker 1>came up in the court transcript. Barbara's lawyer asked her

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<v Speaker 1>about her trip to Denmark and the work she did

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<v Speaker 1>at the laundromat. Reading it, I half expected my mother

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<v Speaker 1>in law's name to appear, but Barbara doesn't mention Becky.

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<v Speaker 1>But while Becky's name doesn't make an appearance, another familiar

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<v Speaker 1>name does, someone I'd spoken to just weeks earlier, Barbara's

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<v Speaker 1>old college friend, Chris Chris, who wouldn't let me record

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<v Speaker 1>our call. A week into Barbara's trial, Chris is called

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<v Speaker 1>to the stand for questioning. Were you in the vicinity

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<v Speaker 1>of one twenty two Glenn Mary in Cincinnati? The defense asks,

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<v Speaker 1>on the morning of May twenty fifth, nineteen sixty nine,

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<v Speaker 1>I respectfully declined to answer that question, Chris responds, taking

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<v Speaker 1>the fifth. Did you kill doctor Jane Shott? They ask again?

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<v Speaker 1>Chris takes the fifth. Chris and I spoke for an

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<v Speaker 1>hour and a half, and at no point did he

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<v Speaker 1>ever say anything about being questioned as a suspect. What

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<v Speaker 1>the hell was going on? Was this why Chris had

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<v Speaker 1>been so cagy with me? Was this connected to what

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<v Speaker 1>he knew that the police never knew? Becky wonders too,

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<v Speaker 1>What does Chris have to do with all of this?

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<v Speaker 2>What did he have to say that he didn't feel

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<v Speaker 2>he could say because it would be incriminating. Why did

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<v Speaker 2>he do that? Does he know something that nobody else knows?

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<v Speaker 4>I respectfully declined to answer that question, for the answer

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<v Speaker 4>that question might incriminate me in this jurisdiction or any

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<v Speaker 4>other jurisdiction in the United States.

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<v Speaker 1>This is Chris reciting the Fifth Amendment for me, now,

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<v Speaker 1>fifty two years later, I remember it today. A month

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<v Speaker 1>after our first conversation, I received an email from Chris

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<v Speaker 1>that I didn't know what to make of. In it,

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<v Speaker 1>he told me he now wanted to talk to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and if that wasn't surprising enough, he also said I

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<v Speaker 1>could record the conversation. I think maybe we could achieve more,

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<v Speaker 1>he wrote, if you're still interested, Hey, Chris, I'm.

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<v Speaker 4>Glad we finally made contact.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah, I asked Chris My burning question,

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<v Speaker 1>why did he take the stand?

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<v Speaker 4>It was to protect Barbara, and it was suggested to

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<v Speaker 4>me by Bernard Gilday Junior, who was her attorney. Gil

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<v Speaker 4>Day said they needed another suspect. It didn't have to

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<v Speaker 4>be somebody who actually did.

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<v Speaker 1>The effect Barbara's lawyers were looking to achieve was exactly

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<v Speaker 1>the one it had on me. Chris pleading the fifth

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<v Speaker 1>raised suspicion with all the evidence against Barbara, Gilday was

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<v Speaker 1>just hoping to cast a shadow of doubt. So her lawyer,

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<v Speaker 1>Gilday was just looking to sort of to muddy things somehow.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and have a second suspect.

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<v Speaker 1>But why would Chris, Barbara's college friend, implicate himself in

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<v Speaker 1>a murder trial. It turns out that while they were

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<v Speaker 1>friends in college, they weren't just friends.

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<v Speaker 4>We were engaged. She sat right in front of me

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<v Speaker 4>in the German class in the summer of sixty seven,

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<v Speaker 4>and one time I made a joke or something and

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<v Speaker 4>she turned around and smiled at me, and that's when

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<v Speaker 4>I started talking to her. That was the beginning, and

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<v Speaker 4>it went pretty quickly.

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<v Speaker 1>The end came pretty quickly too. Chris was going away

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<v Speaker 1>to California for graduate school, and the relationship would be

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<v Speaker 1>long distance. They began to picker. The enormity of the

0:27:45.680 --> 0:27:48.800
<v Speaker 1>commitment started getting to them, so just a few months

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<v Speaker 1>after they were engaged, and well before Jane's murder, they

0:27:52.040 --> 0:27:56.159
<v Speaker 1>called it off. But Chris's feelings for Barbara endured. It

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<v Speaker 1>was something her lawyers took advantage of when they asked

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<v Speaker 1>him to testify.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just a strange thing, what you'll do to help someone.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a desperate, if not legally questionable move, but

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<v Speaker 1>the defense didn't have much Chris was never taken seriously

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<v Speaker 1>as a suspect. In fact, the judge ended up telling

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<v Speaker 1>the jury to disregard his testimony altogether, claiming it had

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<v Speaker 1>no real bearing on the case. And today, if you

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<v Speaker 1>ask Chris if he thinks Barbara was guilty, he's unequivocal.

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<v Speaker 1>This is the part he learned later that the police

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<v Speaker 1>never knew.

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<v Speaker 4>She had purchased a gun in Richmond, Kentucky, and she

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<v Speaker 4>went over to some woods and she practiced with a gun,

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<v Speaker 4>so she knew she was going to use it because

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<v Speaker 4>she practiced with it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm unable to verify if Barbara bought the gun, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is true that when her adopted father, Charles, took

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<v Speaker 1>the stand during the trial. He testified that he'd never

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<v Speaker 1>owned a gun or kept one in the dresser where

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara claimed to have found it. After the trial, Barbara

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<v Speaker 1>was sent to a women's prison in Marysville, Ohio to

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<v Speaker 1>serve her sentence, and Chris says he visited a few times,

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<v Speaker 1>but most of their contact was by mail. He kept

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara's letters and sends me a photo of one. It's

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<v Speaker 1>written on prison stationery, and most of it is pretty mundane.

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<v Speaker 1>But what strikes me is how Barbara records the date

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<v Speaker 1>rather than the day, month, and year. She instead writes

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<v Speaker 1>Mother's Day. Chris also tells me that Barbara was given

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<v Speaker 1>a wide berth at Marysville.

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<v Speaker 4>She was favored by Miss Wheeler, the superintendent. For example,

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<v Speaker 4>Miss Wheeler loved Ohio state football, and she would invite

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<v Speaker 4>Barbara only of all the prisoners to come over and

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<v Speaker 4>watch the game. No other prisoner could go into Miss

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<v Speaker 4>Wheeler's house.

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<v Speaker 1>In that he sees Barbara's special talent for manipulation. In prison,

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<v Speaker 1>Chris says Barbara was somehow allowed to keep a camera

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<v Speaker 1>and even a small dog, and she was paroled after

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen years, five years earlier than the minimum stipulated by

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<v Speaker 1>her sentence. It's all part of a bigger pattern, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>like how his parents put up half the money for

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara's bail.

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<v Speaker 4>She used people. Okay, she could get me to do things.

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<v Speaker 4>I drove her weekly to her horse riding lessons, I

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<v Speaker 4>bought her presence, I started smoking with her. She had

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<v Speaker 4>this feeling of entitlement. I think I would say that

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<v Speaker 4>was part of her character.

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<v Speaker 3>Hmm.

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<v Speaker 4>She wanted to get her away.

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<v Speaker 1>My mind returns to what Becky said about being with

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara and Copenhagen, the checkers game she was forced to play,

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<v Speaker 1>the bike ride she had to take. In nineteen seventy two,

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<v Speaker 1>Chris got married and he and Barbara fell out of touch.

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<v Speaker 1>In nineteen eighty four, Barbara moved to Columbus, Ohio after

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<v Speaker 1>being paroled. Then in nineteen ninety one, Chris's marriage ended.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't wait long before reaching back out to Barbara

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<v Speaker 1>and beginning a correspondence, why do you think you reached

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<v Speaker 1>out to her after all those years apart?

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<v Speaker 4>Curious and I still had strong feelings for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Talking to Chris on the phone fifty years later, it

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<v Speaker 1>still feels like Barbara exerts a strange force. Chris tells

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<v Speaker 1>me about this one day in nineteen ninety one, when

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<v Speaker 1>he was passing through Columbus on his way to visit

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<v Speaker 1>family in Cleveland. The way Chris describes it, it almost sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like his car started driving itself.

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<v Speaker 4>I had my daughter with me, and Barbara had sent

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<v Speaker 4>me a picture of her, a little Toyota or Mazda

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<v Speaker 4>whatever she had, with a flower on the antenna. And

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<v Speaker 4>I remember stopping and looking at the house and telling

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<v Speaker 4>my daughter, who was maybe thirteen at the time, I said,

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<v Speaker 4>that's Barbara's car, and this is where she's living, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'll never forget. My daughter said to me, Daddy, are

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<v Speaker 4>you going to go in and see her? And I said, no,

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<v Speaker 4>I just want to know that she's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Hearing the story, I can't help but wonder if the

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<v Speaker 1>real reason Chris changed his mind about speaking with me

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<v Speaker 1>was simply because he longed for someone with whom to

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<v Speaker 1>share Barbara stories. When I asked Chris if, in the

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<v Speaker 1>years after Barbara committed the murder, he'd never heard her

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<v Speaker 1>express remorse, Chris says no, But then he tells me

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<v Speaker 1>one more story from Barbara's life after prison.

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<v Speaker 4>She was cutting the grass, wet grass, and wet grass

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<v Speaker 4>sticks to the bottom of where the blade is and

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<v Speaker 4>you have to clean it out. So she stopped the engine,

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<v Speaker 4>but she didn't disconnect the wire to the sparks blog,

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<v Speaker 4>and she moved the blade to get all the grass out,

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<v Speaker 4>and the motor started and so two of her fingers

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<v Speaker 4>were cut off. And later, at some point she said

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<v Speaker 4>she thought it was punishment for killing her mother. She

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<v Speaker 4>didn't say it as bluntly as that, but that's what

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<v Speaker 4>she was saying.

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<v Speaker 2>What started this all was the obituary. Yeah, And although

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<v Speaker 2>everything in it was accurate, it sure didn't tell the

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<v Speaker 2>whole story.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is what Becky wonders about now, the whole story,

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<v Speaker 1>because while the evidence against Barbara is overwhelming, neither Becky

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<v Speaker 1>nor I are convinced by the motive the prosecution presented.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would be told to move out cause the three

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<v Speaker 1>year old college graduate to fly into a murderous rage. Plus,

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<v Speaker 1>if Chris is to be believed, Barbara had been planning

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<v Speaker 1>the murder for months, what was her motivation before Becky

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<v Speaker 1>met her in Copenhagen, before Charles and Jane adopted her

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<v Speaker 1>Barbara Shutt was a girl named Barbara Wilson. Barbara Wilson

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<v Speaker 1>was born in Kentucky, raised in an orphanage. Who was

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<v Speaker 1>this girl the shots ushered into their home at the

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<v Speaker 1>age of seventeen? And why did you kill Jane?

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<v Speaker 2>There's so many questions I still have, so maybe some

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<v Speaker 2>of those questions you'll find answers to.

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<v Speaker 1>On the next episode of Heavyweight.

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<v Speaker 3>When you want to solve the murder, you discover the

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<v Speaker 3>secrets that spawned it.

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<v Speaker 1>I set out to unlock some secrets.

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<v Speaker 2>The story we got was that she had no family,

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<v Speaker 2>and it wasn't even true.

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<v Speaker 1>What's this place called Galilee's Children's Home? Galilean Children's Home?

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<v Speaker 1>I searched for the Kentucky orphanage where Barbara was raised.

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<v Speaker 5>There's a kid's size book right there.

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<v Speaker 1>And the kids now grown who were raised there with her.

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<v Speaker 3>I try to forget the bad ones.

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<v Speaker 1>There were bad ones.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, from the outside it look like candy and cookies.

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<v Speaker 1>What was going on in the inside was far from that.

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<v Speaker 1>Part two is out now. It's available only on Spotify.

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<v Speaker 1>Go there right now and search Heavyweight to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>the conclusion. This episode of Heavyweight was produced by Stevie Lane,

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<v Speaker 1>producer is Khaleila Holt. Special thanks to Emily Condon, Alex Bloomberg,

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