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Speaker 6: What if you're on a dinner date.
Speaker 7: You're sat down at your table, okay, and right before
Speaker 7: you order, the other person makes a very odd request.
Speaker 7: For example, do you mind if I FaceTime my mom
Speaker 7: with you because her calming voice just helps me chew
Speaker 7: my food slower.
Speaker 1: No, she's gonna stay on the phone even see.
Speaker 6: That'd be strange. But do you just go with it?
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 7: She was really nervous.
Speaker 2: Baby well.
Speaker 7: On our listeners, one of our listeners says his date
Speaker 7: asked him to do something unusual shortly after they sat
Speaker 7: down to dinner. We're going to see if it had
Speaker 7: any effect on why he's not getting a call back
Speaker 7: when we do your second Date update right after.
Speaker 5: This, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 7: There's certain professions out there that are just considered sexy.
Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, okay.
Speaker 7: Like who's not swiping right on a hot firefight either right,
Speaker 7: that's that's me, okay?
Speaker 6: Or something I thought you were going to say.
Speaker 7: No, ory me down with the ho that's more like that.
Speaker 6: That's what Alex is doing, but she turned her Michael exactly.
Speaker 7: Or a hunky doctor, yeah that's the classic, or a
Speaker 7: sultry child and family therapist.
Speaker 1: I haven't. Yeah, tell you my problem.
Speaker 7: Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bed?
Speaker 8: Did you just say abandonment issues?
Speaker 7: Oh yeah. And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist
Speaker 7: the lure of a smoke show in a sexy uniform,
Speaker 7: so let's talk to him about it.
Speaker 6: His name is Nick.
Speaker 9: Nick.
Speaker 6: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 9: Hey, thanks for having me.
Speaker 10: I'm going to know.
Speaker 1: I am so curious about the profession here.
Speaker 7: It's just like a milkman. Yeah, well, who's this person
Speaker 7: that she met and what do they do?
Speaker 9: Her name is Becca and she's a cop.
Speaker 1: Oh, she is a.
Speaker 6: Lady cop.
Speaker 7: He cuff me?
Speaker 1: Or lady cops are sexy.
Speaker 2: They like, you know, their waist always looks so cinched,
Speaker 2: like it's good.
Speaker 6: Cuffs, ready to go at the moment.
Speaker 1: Honestly, just the power that they have.
Speaker 11: Yeah, okay, they're always like license and registration and I'm
Speaker 11: like five ft ten in single.
Speaker 7: I'm sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick,
Speaker 7: Exactly did you.
Speaker 1: Meet her while getting arrested or no?
Speaker 9: We met on the apps?
Speaker 1: Oh you did?
Speaker 7: Okay?
Speaker 1: Okay, if you're a cop, do you share that on
Speaker 1: the app?
Speaker 7: Or is that a no, No, that was her picture.
Speaker 9: Okay, of course I made a dumb joke. I said,
Speaker 9: are you a real copper or stripper?
Speaker 7: Oh? Got a ring?
Speaker 1: Did she like that?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 9: She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth person
Speaker 9: to stay that. Yeah. I guess that one's a pretty
Speaker 9: basic joke.
Speaker 6: So you're already start with her.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but she responded, isn't that just half the battle
Speaker 2: dating apps?
Speaker 1: How'd you turn it around?
Speaker 9: She did have other pictures on there, and there was
Speaker 9: a picture of her having a cup of coffee at
Speaker 9: a cafe, and so I was like, oh, you like coffee.
Speaker 1: I thought for sure you were going to make a
Speaker 1: donut joke at that.
Speaker 9: I don't think of this opportunity that would have been.
Speaker 7: No, no, you already took a jab your bro. What
Speaker 7: did you do with the coffee?
Speaker 9: I just was like, oh, yeah, you know, are you
Speaker 9: a coffee fan? And she basically got super fired up
Speaker 9: and was.
Speaker 11: Like, you know, and then you asked her what's your drink?
Speaker 2: Right?
Speaker 9: Like, that's what you have to ask I did, And
Speaker 9: then she started going off about how she had gone
Speaker 9: recently to her favorite coffee shop and they got our
Speaker 9: coffee order wrong. And she wasn't mad about it, but
Speaker 9: she was just mentioning. And I was like, oh, I'll
Speaker 9: put a bad Yelp review on their site for you.
Speaker 1: And this is a cute connection.
Speaker 7: Okay.
Speaker 6: So this is all the chat leading.
Speaker 9: Up to the date, all the chat leading up to
Speaker 9: the date. And so I recovered and I was like, well,
Speaker 9: let's hang out, let's go out to dinner.
Speaker 7: Nice.
Speaker 2: How was that where'd you guys? I mean, was it
Speaker 2: fancy or was it more casual?
Speaker 6: Was it coffee?
Speaker 9: No, it wasn't coffee. It was I would say it
Speaker 9: was you know, mid I didn't want to go like
Speaker 9: but I also did want to go like high pressure,
Speaker 9: super expensive. So it's got to a place that felt comfortable.
Speaker 9: Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working
Speaker 9: in law enforcement.
Speaker 6: Yeah, what is it like to go on a date
Speaker 6: with a real cop?
Speaker 9: You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was pretty chill.
Speaker 1: Uh didn't come Did you expect her at any point?
Speaker 4: Though?
Speaker 9: I don't know. You know, some people get off of
Speaker 9: work and then they had just come directly. No, I
Speaker 9: wasn't expecting that.
Speaker 7: I gets okay, it would feel like a very powerful
Speaker 7: move though to sit in a booth right next to
Speaker 7: a cop, and.
Speaker 1: I would think that somebody was with their parole officer.
Speaker 7: Even then you cough as a bad boy at that
Speaker 7: point to everybody in the restaurant.
Speaker 11: So was she cool though, because like, you're on a
Speaker 11: date with a cop, I would.
Speaker 1: Be nervous time.
Speaker 7: Did you only have one drink?
Speaker 1: Can you mention are expired?
Speaker 9: You?
Speaker 1: And get you that?
Speaker 6: How did it go?
Speaker 9: That was on my mind. I was like, I can't
Speaker 9: tell any stories about my bad boy early days all
Speaker 9: that sort of stuff. But there was one point, you know,
Speaker 9: we didn't really stick to her working law enforcement too long,
Speaker 9: but there was one point where she was like, hey,
Speaker 9: do you mind if we could switch seats so I
Speaker 9: can like face the door.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah. People liked it.
Speaker 2: Are in law enforce, like they always want to seize
Speaker 2: in case they can never be caught by surprise.
Speaker 1: That's what happens in the movies.
Speaker 7: That's smart though, or it's a good excuse for her
Speaker 7: to be like, when I need to escape from this stage,
Speaker 7: I know exactly where I need.
Speaker 6: To run down.
Speaker 7: I mean, either way, yeah, so did you switch?
Speaker 10: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I was down with making that happen. So we did.
Speaker 9: You know, she's a really smart person. We had really
Speaker 9: good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why
Speaker 9: at this point she's not texting me back.
Speaker 7: Wow did end?
Speaker 9: It ended with like a really nice hug, Let's do
Speaker 9: this again. I didn't go in for the kiss because
Speaker 9: it didn't feel like we were quite there, but there
Speaker 9: was definitely some chemistry. And when I said let's do
Speaker 9: this again, there was no hesitation, no let me think
Speaker 9: about it, let's look at my schedule, none of that stuff.
Speaker 9: I can tell the brush off and like an actual
Speaker 9: let's do this again.
Speaker 7: Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the
Speaker 7: siren in her cop car and driven around the block
Speaker 7: real quick, acause one's ever stick.
Speaker 1: No one's ever asked that before. I mean, who knows.
Speaker 2: Maybe she's on an undercover mission and that's why she
Speaker 2: hasn't gotten back to you because she's not allowed.
Speaker 7: So wait, nick, question, is she the one who suggested
Speaker 7: that you go have dinner at that particular restaurant?
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door jet?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I throw a couple of options when we were chatting,
Speaker 9: and she selected that one.
Speaker 7: Oh, was it in like a really shady part of
Speaker 7: town for no reason whatsoever, a.
Speaker 1: Really nice part of town. Maybe it's a white collar
Speaker 1: crime like embezzlement or something.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, we might actually help solve a crime
Speaker 7: by doing this second data.
Speaker 3: Probably not.
Speaker 7: Well. Yeah, and you know how most cops are when
Speaker 7: you get them on the phone, they tell you everything.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, they're like an open book.
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I've ever had that long of a conversation.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 6: Well, this is going to be a first in a
Speaker 6: lot of different ways for us.
Speaker 1: Now they don't run a background check on the show.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah with the cop.
Speaker 2: I've never gotten out of a ticket.
Speaker 7: This is going to be interesting when we come back,
Speaker 7: call Becca and get you your second date update right
Speaker 7: after this.
Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update.
Speaker 7: Normally our show is getting cops called on us. Yeah
Speaker 7: that's true, But today we're the ones calling up a.
Speaker 1: Cop that's rights after, not to report.
Speaker 7: An emergency, but to get answers for our friend Nick,
Speaker 7: who went out with a law enforcement officer named Becca
Speaker 7: the other night.
Speaker 11: Should we just all nine one one and ask Rebecca?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's how it works.
Speaker 7: We actually have Becca's cell phone numbers, so it's probably
Speaker 7: easier to do that. The thing is, Nick's not getting
Speaker 7: a call back after their romantic dinner. Is there a
Speaker 7: reason for it? Or was the whole dinner affront for
Speaker 7: a sting operation that she was running to bring down
Speaker 7: an Italian mob boss?
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke.
Speaker 2: But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant,
Speaker 2: and now she's not calling him back as.
Speaker 7: Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us
Speaker 7: for help that this is where the call was going
Speaker 7: to go?
Speaker 9: I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case.
Speaker 9: I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman.
Speaker 6: At least that's what she wants you to think.
Speaker 11: Yeah, dude, sounds like she has a hit out on her.
Speaker 11: Her back was facing. She knows that there's a hit
Speaker 11: man out.
Speaker 7: There looking for It's possible, or maybe there's a simple
Speaker 7: reason and you messed up in some way. Let's figure
Speaker 7: it out. I'm gonna diary number both.
Speaker 1: They're going to be great options.
Speaker 7: We are here for the tea, so let's do it.
Speaker 7: I'm dialing it right now. Hello, Hi, we're looking to
Speaker 7: speak with Becca speaking Hey, Becca, how you doing out
Speaker 7: your officer.
Speaker 1: I'm honestly kind of nervous.
Speaker 7: I don't know if we should really mention that.
Speaker 9: It was a little late.
Speaker 7: We're brooking Jeffery in the morning, and you probably heard
Speaker 7: my co host say officer Becca, because we heard that
Speaker 7: you're a cop. And I just want to ask you upfront.
Speaker 7: Is it okay for us to mention your profession.
Speaker 6: On the radio.
Speaker 4: I'm okay with that.
Speaker 6: We're allowed to say that.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, she put it on her dating profile, he.
Speaker 7: Said, put it on the radio. I mean that's a
Speaker 7: different thing, you know, a worse.
Speaker 2: Lazier than a dating Definitely, people probably see your profile.
Speaker 7: But we're bottom line is we wanted to talk to
Speaker 7: you about a date you went on recently with a
Speaker 7: guy named Nick.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that sign was not good.
Speaker 7: So Nick reached out to us because he said he
Speaker 7: really enjoyed spending time with you that night, and he's
Speaker 7: curious if there's a reason why you're not calling him
Speaker 7: back and arranging a second meet up.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to
Speaker 2: see you again.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so obviously, I I work in law enforcement. I've
Speaker 4: been on the forest for some time now, so I'm
Speaker 4: gonna always look up who I'm going on a date
Speaker 4: with or who I'm spending time with.
Speaker 2: Don't you wish you had that type of access election?
Speaker 1: I know, I only have my reverse Google image search.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, but like I did this on my
Speaker 4: own time. I don't use like police scanners. I hired
Speaker 4: someone myself.
Speaker 2: Okay, you're just doing your own normal just you're probably
Speaker 2: better at it than us.
Speaker 6: You got more resources than the average person.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I found something that I thought he would be more
Speaker 4: forthcoming with some and when he wasn't, I it turned
Speaker 4: me off.
Speaker 9: I have no more interest.
Speaker 1: Are you saying he lied to you on the date?
Speaker 4: He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't
Speaker 4: forthcoming with information, which I feel.
Speaker 9: Is a lie. Yeah, when you're.
Speaker 11: Dating a cop, you have to be honest.
Speaker 7: If it's about well, can I ask it?
Speaker 11: Was it like a criminal thing?
Speaker 10: Right?
Speaker 11: That's the only thing you looked up, right.
Speaker 4: I don't know if it's appropriate for the radio.
Speaker 2: Okay, wanted If it's like a record that is supposed
Speaker 2: to be private, then don't share it.
Speaker 1: But if it's something we could any of us could
Speaker 1: find on the Internet spill away.
Speaker 6: We honestly don't have standards.
Speaker 7: The part, the thing that you don't you might not realize, beca,
Speaker 7: is that part of being on this segment is the
Speaker 7: person agrees to hear whatever the reason is, no matter
Speaker 7: how embarrassing or strange it might be.
Speaker 4: I mean, if he agreed to that, then yeah, I'll
Speaker 4: share it.
Speaker 9: He was married a year ago.
Speaker 4: To a Russian woman and she filed for divorce about
Speaker 4: a month ago. Oh yeah, that's a huge part of
Speaker 4: his life. And to just withhold that information.
Speaker 1: That's a lot of first date to bring up though
Speaker 1: on that, Like, how do you even start? So listen,
Speaker 1: I had this Russian wife.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like that you were expecting him to bring that up?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I think I was expecting him to tell me if
Speaker 4: he was separated. Being separated is a lot different from divorce.
Speaker 1: Oh it's not official yet.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I feel like he could withhold a lot of information
Speaker 4: if he's not forthcoming about the truth.
Speaker 1: See that. I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I kind of am with her on that, Like if
Speaker 2: it's divorced and final and you're done with it, But
Speaker 2: if you're in the middle of a separation.
Speaker 7: And I think you can list it on your dating profile,
Speaker 7: like specifically your status single divorce, separating what you.
Speaker 2: Look for mostly the most traumatized would.
Speaker 7: Yeah, but like, did you even talk about relationships at
Speaker 7: all on the date?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I mean I hinted about it and I shared about
Speaker 4: mine a little bit, you know, just keeping respectful details private.
Speaker 4: But he said he didn't want to talk about it,
Speaker 4: and it seemed like he was evading the truth instead
Speaker 4: of just a private person.
Speaker 7: Okay, warning you know, Becca, I think the person who's
Speaker 7: actually going to find all of this the most interesting
Speaker 7: is actually Nick himself, who is listening on the other line,
Speaker 7: has tapped into our phone somehow.
Speaker 6: We did consent to it. Now, so he is there
Speaker 6: wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 7: Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I mean you wanted the truth out of him. Now's
Speaker 1: the chance?
Speaker 6: Nicky there?
Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm here. So what's up, Ecca? You go on
Speaker 9: dates with people and you look up their history before
Speaker 9: you do.
Speaker 4: So, yes, Nick, I'm a cup.
Speaker 9: I think, yeah, right, Well, we were going to a
Speaker 9: public place, and I feel like that's kind of using
Speaker 9: your cop resources to look up my history was Excuse me.
Speaker 4: I didn't use police rec sources. I use my own
Speaker 4: personal resources, and I just think it's really weird you
Speaker 4: wouldn't say anything.
Speaker 9: I mean, I'm not telling you if that's true or not.
Speaker 9: I mean, you could have looked that up on some
Speaker 9: strange site that has false information big marriages courses.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm actually going to back up on this because
Speaker 2: I have a friend who's fiance looked her up when
Speaker 2: they were dating and he got all the information wrong.
Speaker 9: It's true, you probably have the wrong guy.
Speaker 11: Nick is a common name.
Speaker 7: Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick
Speaker 7: and you mix them up?
Speaker 4: It's one hundred percent.
Speaker 9: Nick.
Speaker 6: Really, how do you know that?
Speaker 4: Because I'm a cop. Okay, I'm going to text you
Speaker 4: your marriage certificate right now.
Speaker 6: No, No, wait, you can do that.
Speaker 1: You got the marriage certificate public record?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can look.
Speaker 6: I know how.
Speaker 1: Michael.
Speaker 4: It's absolutely public record, and I just texted you a
Speaker 4: photo of it.
Speaker 9: And there's your wife's name.
Speaker 6: Do you have a text?
Speaker 1: Nick?
Speaker 9: Look, here's the deal.
Speaker 7: If you wait a minute, it was.
Speaker 9: A mistake, it was a short term thing. Yes I
Speaker 9: was married. Yes, I'm getting a divorce. It's going to
Speaker 9: be done very soon.
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that, yeah.
Speaker 7: Back at the start. But the truth should have been
Speaker 7: the first thing you said to her when you greeted
Speaker 7: her inside of the restaurant.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if he would have told you that, you would
Speaker 2: have been okay with it.
Speaker 4: Really, I mean, honesty is the best policy.
Speaker 9: We all have a past. Wow, Like, come on, what
Speaker 9: else do you know about me? Do you look at
Speaker 9: my record from what college?
Speaker 2: Wait, you're still the one got outed as a liar.
Speaker 6: I'm curious what you did in college. That sounds kind
Speaker 6: of funny.
Speaker 9: It was a stupid frank with the cow. But that's
Speaker 9: not even the point.
Speaker 1: It's not her fault, mall.
Speaker 9: Okay, Well, I'm not saying it's her fault. I'm saying
Speaker 9: it's my past defense.
Speaker 7: This is kind of embarrassing information to open up with,
Speaker 7: not to mention, like on the radio, but especially on
Speaker 7: a first date with someone you're trying to Impress's.
Speaker 1: At that chose to do the radio part. Well, I know,
Speaker 1: I'm just saying this is a lot sweet.
Speaker 7: I'm trying to defend a guy who's in a weird
Speaker 7: spot here. So Becca, he has admitted that you were right,
Speaker 7: and he's ready to move on, hopefully, with you, would
Speaker 7: you be willing to give him a chance?
Speaker 4: I'm not interested. Guys, it's just a no brainer for me.
Speaker 9: You got to be honest. Oh I wasn't dishonest. I
Speaker 9: am separated. I'm getting a divorce.
Speaker 6: It's just too late you started with it.
Speaker 1: Probably wasn't me.
Speaker 9: I didn't know she was such a good cop.
Speaker 7: Progation skills their next level dude. So maybe like a
Speaker 7: different professional uniform, like a coast guard, they won't look
Speaker 7: up your past about.
Speaker 1: Just be honest on the next day.
Speaker 5: Why different brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Why do our listeners love it so much when people
Speaker 7: get busted in a lie on our second date? Call
Speaker 7: literally text into seven eighty five nine to two says
Speaker 7: I knew that guy was a liar the moment I
Speaker 7: heard him. I think I went out with him two
Speaker 7: months ago before he was separating. Who knows if that's true.
Speaker 7: But we could ask a certain officer that we know
Speaker 7: to go and investigate that particular text.
Speaker 1: We're friends now with the I don't know that it's
Speaker 1: worth her time or our time. Ye let that one lie.
Speaker 1: He needs to work out his own mess.
Speaker 7: Yeah, if anything, we call her asked for help.
Speaker 11: She'll probably run our names and one of us will
Speaker 11: get arrested.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope she's a surprised that we're all sitting
Speaker 2: here without handcuffs.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we all enjoy good pair of handcuffs around our
Speaker 7: That's not what I thought regard to someone else conversation anyway.
Speaker 7: Unfortunately that call turned out to not end in a
Speaker 7: second date. We can't win them all, but we can
Speaker 7: always try. If you email the show and we'll call
Speaker 7: that person who's not calling you back and go check
Speaker 7: out all of our second dates wherever you find your
Speaker 7: podcast on Apple, Spotify, even on YouTube.
Speaker 6: A Brook and.
Speaker 5: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 7: On this show, we always report on Karen's and over
Speaker 7: the top public tantrums that go viral online.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's so like, it's so much tea to.
Speaker 7: Talk about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it's a good gossip subject.
Speaker 7: It's funny audio to play on the show. But it's
Speaker 7: never actually happened during one of our second dates, that
Speaker 7: is until today. Wait, I'm not even talking about Brooks
Speaker 7: role in the Cally.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about I'm tired of that joke.
Speaker 7: Okay, call the manager on me, I dare you. But
Speaker 7: one of our listeners says he had a run in
Speaker 7: with a random woman who started screaming at him in
Speaker 7: the middle of his first date, just out in public.
Speaker 7: And you're never gonna believe the topic that made her
Speaker 7: go off. You're gonna hear the full story in your
Speaker 7: second date update next.
Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates.
Speaker 7: Sometimes you can plan the perfect date, but then some
Speaker 7: outside force that you can't control comes into play and
Speaker 7: changes everything.
Speaker 1: Like a hurricane.
Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, that we shouldn't be going on a date
Speaker 7: if there's an eminent hurricane about to bear.
Speaker 6: Down on you.
Speaker 1: Sometimes you just need love.
Speaker 7: I guess I was thinking more like when Brooke was
Speaker 7: on a date eating her potato salad and a bird
Speaker 7: pooped on it, but it didn't stop her though. Brooke
Speaker 7: kept on eating, holding eye contact with that dude the
Speaker 7: entire time.
Speaker 2: Okay, I can usually go along with these, but that
Speaker 2: one is too far eat the potato salad. I would
Speaker 2: then steal his food and eat whatever he was eating.
Speaker 7: I'm not sure if our listener Marshall has quite the
Speaker 7: same resilience says Brooke does. Let's find out, though, Marshall,
Speaker 7: Welcome to the show man.
Speaker 10: Hey, how's everyone doing?
Speaker 1: It sounds like better than you. It sounds like you
Speaker 1: had something terrible happened on your date.
Speaker 7: We don't know how terrible before before we get to
Speaker 7: the setup. A bird poop doesn't sound that horrible on
Speaker 7: your food, I don't know. But before we get to
Speaker 7: the crazy whateverthing that happened that derailed the date, let's
Speaker 7: start with the girl that you met. Who's she?
Speaker 10: Yes, so, her name is Julia. We met online. She's
Speaker 10: super cute, okay.
Speaker 2: Was there something about her that stood out from everybody else?
Speaker 10: Well, other than her beautiful smile and beautiful hair. Of course,
Speaker 10: she had this beautiful dragon tattoo on her shoulder, and like,
Speaker 10: you know, I'm really into like tattoos, and it was
Speaker 10: it was super hot and just it was it was
Speaker 10: just beautiful. It was beautiful.
Speaker 1: That's awesome.
Speaker 6: That's a good like conversation point to come up on it.
Speaker 2: I mean, people are so proud of their tattoos. I
Speaker 2: bet she would love to have a compliment about it.
Speaker 11: Some girls get annoyed because guys always say the same thing, I.
Speaker 7: Like, your tattoo, did it hurt?
Speaker 6: You know?
Speaker 1: I don't think that's about it.
Speaker 2: When you ask what the meaning is that should because
Speaker 2: Alexis hates meanings.
Speaker 1: I was drunk.
Speaker 7: A lot of Okay, well, at least the initial attraction
Speaker 7: was there for you. What did you and Julia do
Speaker 7: for your day?
Speaker 9: Well?
Speaker 10: I wanted to do something different, right, so I didn't
Speaker 10: want to be like every other guy that was hitting
Speaker 10: her up online. So I was like, well, let's do
Speaker 10: something somewhat romantic. And city stooters and right around the city.
Speaker 10: I love. That are some of my favorite spots.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like you know, like the scooters that are you
Speaker 2: can like use your app on and yeah, my husband
Speaker 2: and I do that.
Speaker 7: Sometimes that doesn't bode well for you.
Speaker 1: Oh no, we bring helmets though, because there.
Speaker 7: Are a lot of people you don't not.
Speaker 5: Worried helmets and I've never seen you're a helmet on those.
Speaker 1: Oh I definitely. Do you go twenty twenty five miles
Speaker 1: an hour? Alexis?
Speaker 7: Yeah, hey, did you did you go? Helmets or no helmets? Marshall,
Speaker 7: No helmets?
Speaker 9: No?
Speaker 10: All right, But you know it's funny that you say
Speaker 10: that because everything was going well. We got ice cream,
Speaker 10: we got coffee and everything, but then we're at a
Speaker 10: crosswalk and this woman comes up. She says, like, you know,
Speaker 10: she's an er doctor, and she's like, listen, I've been
Speaker 10: doing this for over twenty years, and most of the
Speaker 10: injuries I've seen have come from those scooters right there.
Speaker 7: Oh oh my god, was right. That sucks though, Well, like,
Speaker 7: what a mood killer to happen in the middle of you.
Speaker 12: Or what do you?
Speaker 7: Yeah, what did you walk off and walk the scooter?
Speaker 10: So you're saying, well, you know, I'm sitting there and
Speaker 10: I'm like, come on, lady, I'm obviously on a date here,
Speaker 10: so you know, I kind of laugh it off, okay,
Speaker 10: and so I'm like, let me get out of this
Speaker 10: situation as quick as possible.
Speaker 1: So great injuries.
Speaker 10: As I was pulling away, you wouldn't believe it. I
Speaker 10: ran over this lady's foot. The irony I felt horrible,
Speaker 10: and she's yelling even louder, that's.
Speaker 7: Why you got a gun it and get away from
Speaker 7: the screens.
Speaker 10: After that point, I was like, I just want to
Speaker 10: be as far away from this lady as possible. She
Speaker 10: was okay. I took the tongue lashing, and I'm like,
Speaker 10: all right, let's just go and Julie's not really wanting
Speaker 10: to ride these scooters anymore.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, weird.
Speaker 1: Time to park up.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, did you guys just find a bar
Speaker 2: or something or a restaurant to go to?
Speaker 10: Yeah? Actually we did. I was like, let's just go
Speaker 10: over here. This is a nice spot. We got a
Speaker 10: couple of drinks and it's good. Everything seem cool.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you read what she wanted right like that. I
Speaker 1: mean it's good like something some people will be like,
Speaker 1: let's just keep going and ignore the other person's feelings.
Speaker 7: Why are you every time it's like any drink comes
Speaker 7: into playbooks like okay, good, good, thank god. I mean
Speaker 7: it is dangerous, heavy drinking, thumbs up, good, helmet, I.
Speaker 1: Wear a helmet to white night.
Speaker 9: No.
Speaker 1: I mean it's good that you read what she wanted
Speaker 1: and needed and.
Speaker 7: Salvage I mean, did you salvage it from that point?
Speaker 7: Did it feel good from that point on?
Speaker 9: Well?
Speaker 10: I thought so. I mean we had a great time.
Speaker 10: We shared it, laughed, we got a couple of drinks
Speaker 10: and everything was fine. But well, I've been trying to
Speaker 10: get in contact with her and have another date for
Speaker 10: the last two weeks, and she's just always had some
Speaker 10: other excuse, you know. And she even told me that
Speaker 10: she's been going out on dates, which is cool, don't
Speaker 10: get me wrong, Like I get it.
Speaker 1: She's to say that, do you say that to each other?
Speaker 1: And she don't want to go out with them.
Speaker 7: She's telling you, I'm seeing other guys. I can't meet
Speaker 7: up with you. I only got a.
Speaker 2: Date Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
Speaker 10: Well, she did say, let's pick another night, but it
Speaker 10: just seems like every night I picked, there's always.
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, okay, she was just saying that because she
Speaker 2: felt bad about that whole being real honest thing the date,
Speaker 2: you know it.
Speaker 7: Is Maybe not though, but it might be a good
Speaker 7: sign that she's being totally transparent telling you what's going
Speaker 7: on in her life.
Speaker 11: But also it's hard to reject people, so maybe she's
Speaker 11: hoping he figures.
Speaker 2: It out, Like, how about we just find out we
Speaker 2: need to figure it out.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we're all we're all gonna have helmets before we
Speaker 7: make the call, just because we don't know what disaster
Speaker 7: might be waiting on the other end.
Speaker 11: Always has five in her car.
Speaker 1: Seriously, you should wear a helmet on those things.
Speaker 7: Yes, all right? For to come back Second Dates, an
Speaker 7: extra safe edition of your Second Date update right after this,
Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in.
Speaker 5: The morning Second Date Updates.
Speaker 7: Oh can you guys picture it right now?
Speaker 1: Picture what?
Speaker 7: This is the background music I have in my head
Speaker 7: as Marshall navigates through the busy city sidewalks, creasing it
Speaker 7: three miles per hour without a hed Well, it's like
Speaker 7: Frogger dodge the fire hydrant. Marshall jumped the manhole.
Speaker 1: It's all the games until somebody gets hurt.
Speaker 7: That's right, because he's an adrenaline junkie riding without a
Speaker 7: helmet on. That's probably why he called into the show
Speaker 7: this morning, just for the high of being on the radio.
Speaker 7: Open sewer coming up, isn't that John Marshall? You got
Speaker 7: your adrenaline fixed just talking to us, didn't you.
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 10: Yeah I did.
Speaker 6: Yeah, see right through you.
Speaker 2: This sounds like the theme song of an eighties like
Speaker 2: video game.
Speaker 7: We've all been.
Speaker 6: There, the dangerous streets.
Speaker 7: But the worst part of the date was when Marshall
Speaker 7: accidentally ran over a lady's foot who warned him that
Speaker 7: scooters are very dangerous. End up causing a lot of
Speaker 7: er visits, and of course it ended up happening during
Speaker 7: his date, and Brooke is upset he wasn't wearing a helmet.
Speaker 2: Well, that's not about me, I mean, it's about his date.
Speaker 2: Like he was to rescue the night they went out,
Speaker 2: got some drinks, calm down.
Speaker 7: At least we thought he rescued it. But it's been
Speaker 7: two weeks and she still hasn't agreed to another date.
Speaker 7: Even told him that she's seeing another guy on one
Speaker 7: of the Knights.
Speaker 6: Kind of harsh, but but honest, brutally.
Speaker 7: Honest, And maybe that's a good sign. Marsh You ready
Speaker 7: to call her here?
Speaker 10: Yeah? Yeah, hopefully we can get to the bottom of this.
Speaker 2: I mean, you don't sound like a dangerous guy, so
Speaker 2: I think that it's probably not the scooter mishap.
Speaker 7: That's what they say about all the most dangerous people
Speaker 7: in the world. I never would have suspected you to
Speaker 7: be the killer nice.
Speaker 9: Killer.
Speaker 7: All right, Mars, Well, let's just do this.
Speaker 6: I'm gonna call Julia for you. Here we go. Hello, Hey,
Speaker 6: is this Julia?
Speaker 7: Yes you may have Yeah, we are a question.
Speaker 8: We're a radiown number.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we have to protect our number because we're a
Speaker 7: radio show.
Speaker 9: Okay, what is this about?
Speaker 7: This is about a segment we do on Brook and
Speaker 7: Jeffrey in the morning. That's what this show is.
Speaker 6: It's called second Date Update.
Speaker 8: Okay, and who is it you're looking.
Speaker 7: For for you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll start me.
Speaker 9: Yeah.
Speaker 7: We heard about you through one of our listeners named
Speaker 7: Marshall that apparently you went on a date with a
Speaker 7: couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 9: Oh Marshall, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think that sounded good.
Speaker 7: There was a smile on her face when she said
Speaker 7: his name.
Speaker 8: Sure, why would he have the radio calling me though?
Speaker 8: It's just a little confusing because he has my numbers.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 7: Well he's been using that number to try and ask
Speaker 7: you out, but you keep brushing him off or being busy.
Speaker 1: Or maybe you're not brushing him off. He doesn't know.
Speaker 1: He felt like, maybe that's why, maybe you don't like
Speaker 1: him that much.
Speaker 7: That's why he's going through us. He's trying to get
Speaker 7: some clarity.
Speaker 12: You know.
Speaker 9: It's just how do I explain this?
Speaker 8: And there's nothing wrong with him per se, But I'm
Speaker 8: looking for a partner in life. I want my rider die.
Speaker 7: Because we heard you guys rode City Scooters.
Speaker 8: Oh my goodness.
Speaker 7: Yeah, apparently there is the background music that was playing
Speaker 7: the entire time because you two are rebels who ride
Speaker 7: without helmets on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's it's really honestly, ride or die
Speaker 2: in that situation because you should be protecting your head.
Speaker 10: No.
Speaker 8: Absolutely, honestly, it didn't occur to me until after that
Speaker 8: woman like she's sort of a cost to us, But
Speaker 8: I didn't really think about it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we heard there was an old lady that like
Speaker 7: approached you and said riding scooters causes a lot.
Speaker 6: Of er business.
Speaker 1: I think she's a er doctor.
Speaker 8: She could have maybe been like a little more pleasant
Speaker 8: about it. She's sort of just like started shouting at us.
Speaker 8: And I think Marshall handled it all right. He got
Speaker 8: a little panicky.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds fun though.
Speaker 7: And I think Marshall even admitted that it was kind
Speaker 7: of an awkward moment in the date. But over when
Speaker 7: you look at Marshall as a person, we're not sure
Speaker 7: why you wouldn't want to see him one more time.
Speaker 8: It's not that I don't want to see him, it's
Speaker 8: not he's not like giving me like that wow factor
Speaker 8: at least, you know, not in a good way. Like,
Speaker 8: I mean, yeah, he's texted me, but has he called me?
Speaker 8: You know, voiced the voice and asked me out again.
Speaker 1: A lot of people don't like that.
Speaker 7: These days you're looking for hasn't.
Speaker 8: Like called me or like text him, been like let's
Speaker 8: do this at this time on this date. He's just like, Hey,
Speaker 8: I had a good time, and I'm like that's nice.
Speaker 12: But a lot of.
Speaker 9: Guys have had a good time with me.
Speaker 8: I'm looking for the guy that's going to put that
Speaker 8: extra effort into it and make me feel like I'm
Speaker 8: one in a million.
Speaker 11: What if he's not trying to come off like super though,
Speaker 11: Like what if he just wants to have a conversation
Speaker 11: throughout the day and then naturally bring up a date.
Speaker 9: You know.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think he's trying to be respectful of you here.
Speaker 9: It is.
Speaker 1: That's what I was trying to sound really good to me.
Speaker 12: Yeah, text is nothing.
Speaker 8: I want flowers. I want gestures.
Speaker 1: So you're not even no, No, she's saying that she
Speaker 1: needs more. She knows that he likes.
Speaker 7: Her, but he's just.
Speaker 2: Gesture and in life, she's looking for somebody who's gonna
Speaker 2: put the work in.
Speaker 8: Absolutely So I mean, if you guys could actually just
Speaker 8: let him know that I'm not interested, that would.
Speaker 2: Be Okay, so you know what you want and you
Speaker 2: don't think it's Marshall.
Speaker 7: Yeah, if you want us to tell him no, we could,
Speaker 7: or honestly, you could just do it yourself, because he's
Speaker 7: actually on the phone right now, and.
Speaker 12: What I didn't want to do.
Speaker 7: You're laughing and smiling.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's finally on the phone. Remember that's what
Speaker 1: you wanted.
Speaker 6: Marshall is there?
Speaker 10: Man, Hey, Julia, Sorry, this is a little awkward. I
Speaker 10: apologize about that.
Speaker 6: Marsh I don't know.
Speaker 7: If you heard all that, but she's trying to tell
Speaker 7: you that she's not that interested and it's probably not
Speaker 7: going to happen.
Speaker 10: You know what. That's okay. I got the clarity that
Speaker 10: I needed.
Speaker 1: He's going to give up.
Speaker 10: I appreciate you being honest. Wait seriously, well, I mean
Speaker 10: I texted you and.
Speaker 8: Oh you texting me? Everybody texting me? Are you kidding me?
Speaker 8: Oh my god, I'm not should be a jerk here,
Speaker 8: but like you went through all this trouble and You're
Speaker 8: like you have me on the radio and everything, and
Speaker 8: I'm like, oh, no, thanks, and you're just like hey, bye,
Speaker 8: Like where's the gesture.
Speaker 7: He's listening to what you're saying.
Speaker 12: He's listening to me, saying he's a great guy.
Speaker 8: He's not showing up enthusiast.
Speaker 9: I'm like, it's fine.
Speaker 1: Situations we learned.
Speaker 7: Don't take no for an answer is not an acceptable
Speaker 7: thing anymore. I guess, yeah, that's not allowed.
Speaker 6: Girls like never call me again.
Speaker 11: You go, okay, I'll respect that, And she's like, oh,
Speaker 11: I said sometimes, I mean it.
Speaker 9: Sometimes I didn't say never call me again.
Speaker 8: I said, Oh, he's really really sweet, but I'm not
Speaker 8: that interested. That's like a far cry from never call
Speaker 8: me again.
Speaker 7: I don't want him to call you even though you're
Speaker 7: not interested, Marshall.
Speaker 1: I'm just kind of surprised that you're not putting up
Speaker 1: more of a fight either.
Speaker 10: Okay, well, you know, I'm sorry. I guess I was
Speaker 10: just trying to fill out the situation. I didn't want
Speaker 10: to bother you, but I really wanted to see you again.
Speaker 10: So do you want to go out with me? I
Speaker 10: would love to take you out again.
Speaker 8: Oh man, I appreciate the offer, but I really am
Speaker 8: not interested.
Speaker 1: You just to turn him down, are you kidding?
Speaker 2: Mom? Give him a chance like he with the extra
Speaker 2: planned a unique date.
Speaker 10: You don't want a chance with this girl, Julie, I'm
Speaker 10: sorry about the scooters. We can wear helmet, you can
Speaker 10: do whatever you want. We can go to a bar. Marshall,
Speaker 10: Oh my god.
Speaker 12: Just stop seriously. I already said no, you're embarrassing yourself.
Speaker 12: Oh god, you understand how any of this? It's only
Speaker 12: like eight notes?
Speaker 6: Yeah, how many notes does it take?
Speaker 8: I said no to a guy like fifteen to twenty
Speaker 8: times before I did, yet, like, this guy's still gotta
Speaker 8: wait to go.
Speaker 2: Oh why You're just gonna end up attracting red flag men.
Speaker 7: From here on out?
Speaker 1: Guys, do we just forever ask girls out?
Speaker 9: Take?
Speaker 7: Well, we have to at least ask one more time
Speaker 7: officially for the rules. Julia, would you like to go
Speaker 7: out with Marshall again? One more time? We would pay
Speaker 7: for it.
Speaker 6: We have to. We have to get the no.
Speaker 8: I think he's so sweet, but I know.
Speaker 7: You like to go out with Marshall one more time?
Speaker 2: You pay?
Speaker 7: Would Okay? Asked up?
Speaker 1: All right, that's too much.
Speaker 8: Just knock that into him.
Speaker 1: Okay, That's that's what it really came down.
Speaker 7: Could have said that, We.
Speaker 1: Could have just ended it as soon as we got Marshall.
Speaker 9: Sorry, Marshall, Marshall, It's okay.
Speaker 10: I guess I wish I would have know him sooner,
Speaker 10: But I mean I wish you the best.
Speaker 11: There's a text word that would like your number, just so.
Speaker 6: I have a feeling that we're not done with Marshall yet.
Speaker 7: We're gonna have to do seven more second data. We'll
Speaker 7: eventually get her to say yes. One of these days, Bro.
Speaker 1: You'll teach them.
Speaker 7: Roll around the city by himself beating off into the
Speaker 7: sunset at a brisk four miles per hour. One day
Speaker 7: you'll come back get that date, buddy.
Speaker 10: All right, all right, I appreciate you, guys, Brook and
Speaker 10: Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: Man.
Speaker 7: That really was just like an old school arcade game
Speaker 7: Sidewalk Scooter X, and we tried to help Marshall beat
Speaker 7: that final boss level and get him a second date.
Speaker 1: Wait, you're making her the big monster at the end
Speaker 1: of the video. Is that what you're doing?
Speaker 7: She's like the gorilla. That's but we tried and tried
Speaker 7: until ran out of live. He neuses he can always
Speaker 7: pop in another quarter and try again. Eventually beat that game.
Speaker 2: There.
Speaker 7: I guess I would ask people to text in to
Speaker 7: seven eighty five nine two should Marshall keep trying to
Speaker 7: get another date, but I know ninety nine percent are
Speaker 7: going to say no.
Speaker 2: Well no, It's like she was saying what she wanted
Speaker 2: and then when he gave it to her, then she
Speaker 2: didn't want it anymore.
Speaker 1: I think she I think she just didn't want him,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, I think I think
Speaker 1: she could have had him.
Speaker 7: I think in general, I'm just gonna speak for all
Speaker 7: of the people out there, for all the women listening,
Speaker 7: and Brooke would agree with me on this.
Speaker 2: They wouldn't continue whatever you're about.
Speaker 7: Out, ladies. If you have certain rules and expectations about dating,
Speaker 7: you please let us know what they are. All right,
Speaker 7: that's valid, Okay, Can we.
Speaker 6: Guess what it is you want and don't want?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm sure.
Speaker 1: You guess right. You move up in the rain. It's real, fad.
Speaker 1: I'm actually with jeff on that one.
Speaker 2: I mean, like a little handbook for everyone men and
Speaker 2: women would be really nice.
Speaker 7: But even if you don't know what you want, you
Speaker 7: can always email us. We'll call that person who wasn't
Speaker 7: calling you back. O. Check out all of our Second
Speaker 7: Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey