WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classics: Right To Remain Sexy + Scooter Safety Patrol 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:01.200 A little special tree. 0:00:01.360 --> 0:00:03.720 Every weekend on Saturdays, we do those back to back 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:06.880 classics for you. Thank you for finding the Second Date podcast. 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:09.639 It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, and we still 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:11.119 love to highlight your comments. 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:13.560 I got a big list of them. I feel I 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:15.560 do you do? That was correct? 0:00:15.680 --> 0:00:20.480 Justice, I really When Alexis says she reads everything you write, 0:00:20.600 --> 0:00:23.000 she does, I really do? And then comment I might 0:00:23.040 --> 0:00:24.560 read it three months from you when you write it, 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:25.200 but I'll read it. 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:25.440 Yes. 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:29.240 But I saw one from Irene who said, Okay, it 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:30.360 finally happened. 0:00:30.560 --> 0:00:33.040 After a year of relentlessly listening to your Second. 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:36.320 Date updates, I finally finished them all and the conclusion 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:38.559 is I'll never date again. Oh, thank you guys for 0:00:38.600 --> 0:00:41.839 bringing me closer to my cat. Yeah, become a Spanish 0:00:41.880 --> 0:00:44.839 living in Germany. Thank you for bringing me closer to 0:00:44.880 --> 0:00:46.840 my cat. That's the best tagline ever. 0:00:46.840 --> 0:00:47.960 I love it. Well. 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:50.240 Not to spoil your fun, but you do have a 0:00:50.320 --> 0:00:52.080 chance to go over to our full shows now. 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:54.560 Yeah, we got a brand new full hour for you 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:56.840 every day you can listen with you there. Yeah. 0:00:56.840 --> 0:00:59.960 Well your life all right, you're back to back class 0:01:00.200 --> 0:01:00.920 start right now? 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:04.399 What if you're on a dinner date. 0:01:04.720 --> 0:01:07.760 You're sat down at your table, okay, and right before 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:12.280 you order, the other person makes a very odd request. 0:01:13.120 --> 0:01:15.920 For example, do you mind if I FaceTime my mom 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:19.280 with you because her calming voice just helps me chew 0:01:19.319 --> 0:01:20.240 my food slower. 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:24.119 No, she's gonna stay on the phone even see. 0:01:24.160 --> 0:01:26.880 That'd be strange. But do you just go with it? 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:28.400 I don't know. 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:30.000 She was really nervous. 0:01:30.120 --> 0:01:30.880 Baby well. 0:01:30.959 --> 0:01:33.679 On our listeners, one of our listeners says his date 0:01:33.800 --> 0:01:38.040 asked him to do something unusual shortly after they sat 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:40.720 down to dinner. We're going to see if it had 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.679 any effect on why he's not getting a call back 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:46.320 when we do your second Date update right after. 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:49.200 This, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 0:01:50.760 --> 0:01:54.960 There's certain professions out there that are just considered sexy. 0:01:55.000 --> 0:01:57.240 Oh oh yeah, okay. 0:01:56.800 --> 0:02:01.960 Like who's not swiping right on a hot firefight either right, 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:04.400 that's that's me, okay? 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:08.120 Or something I thought you were going to say. 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:12.400 No, ory me down with the ho that's more like that. 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:14.720 That's what Alex is doing, but she turned her Michael exactly. 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:18.720 Or a hunky doctor, yeah that's the classic, or a 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:21.280 sultry child and family therapist. 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:25.400 I haven't. Yeah, tell you my problem. 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:28.520 Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bed? 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:30.519 Did you just say abandonment issues? 0:02:30.680 --> 0:02:33.640 Oh yeah. And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:36.920 the lure of a smoke show in a sexy uniform, 0:02:37.280 --> 0:02:38.640 so let's talk to him about it. 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:39.519 His name is Nick. 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:39.840 Nick. 0:02:39.919 --> 0:02:40.760 Welcome to the show. 0:02:41.320 --> 0:02:42.320 Hey, thanks for having me. 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:44.680 I'm going to know. 0:02:45.040 --> 0:02:47.400 I am so curious about the profession here. 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:51.000 It's just like a milkman. Yeah, well, who's this person 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:52.359 that she met and what do they do? 0:02:53.000 --> 0:02:55.240 Her name is Becca and she's a cop. 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:56.240 Oh, she is a. 0:02:57.800 --> 0:02:58.680 Lady cop. 0:02:58.960 --> 0:03:00.440 He cuff me? 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:02.440 Or lady cops are sexy. 0:03:02.720 --> 0:03:06.160 They like, you know, their waist always looks so cinched, 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:07.320 like it's good. 0:03:07.680 --> 0:03:09.240 Cuffs, ready to go at the moment. 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:11.320 Honestly, just the power that they have. 0:03:11.480 --> 0:03:14.000 Yeah, okay, they're always like license and registration and I'm 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:15.600 like five ft ten in single. 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:18.280 I'm sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick, 0:03:19.919 --> 0:03:21.639 Exactly did you. 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:24.600 Meet her while getting arrested or no? 0:03:25.360 --> 0:03:26.320 We met on the apps? 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:26.920 Oh you did? 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:27.240 Okay? 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:29.200 Okay, if you're a cop, do you share that on 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:29.560 the app? 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:31.960 Or is that a no, No, that was her picture. 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:34.839 Okay, of course I made a dumb joke. I said, 0:03:34.880 --> 0:03:36.640 are you a real copper or stripper? 0:03:36.840 --> 0:03:38.640 Oh? Got a ring? 0:03:39.720 --> 0:03:40.520 Did she like that? 0:03:41.120 --> 0:03:41.160 No? 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:44.480 She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth person 0:03:44.520 --> 0:03:48.120 to stay that. Yeah. I guess that one's a pretty 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:49.240 basic joke. 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:51.040 So you're already start with her. 0:03:51.160 --> 0:03:53.600 Yeah, but she responded, isn't that just half the battle 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:54.640 dating apps? 0:03:55.240 --> 0:03:56.280 How'd you turn it around? 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:58.720 She did have other pictures on there, and there was 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:01.600 a picture of her having a cup of coffee at 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:04.120 a cafe, and so I was like, oh, you like coffee. 0:04:04.280 --> 0:04:05.640 I thought for sure you were going to make a 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:06.840 donut joke at that. 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:11.240 I don't think of this opportunity that would have been. 0:04:11.680 --> 0:04:14.720 No, no, you already took a jab your bro. What 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:16.680 did you do with the coffee? 0:04:17.120 --> 0:04:18.919 I just was like, oh, yeah, you know, are you 0:04:19.360 --> 0:04:22.400 a coffee fan? And she basically got super fired up 0:04:22.440 --> 0:04:22.800 and was. 0:04:22.920 --> 0:04:25.520 Like, you know, and then you asked her what's your drink? 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:25.839 Right? 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:27.359 Like, that's what you have to ask I did, And 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:29.440 then she started going off about how she had gone 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:31.680 recently to her favorite coffee shop and they got our 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:34.279 coffee order wrong. And she wasn't mad about it, but 0:04:34.320 --> 0:04:36.200 she was just mentioning. And I was like, oh, I'll 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.520 put a bad Yelp review on their site for you. 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:42.039 And this is a cute connection. 0:04:42.480 --> 0:04:42.880 Okay. 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:44.480 So this is all the chat leading. 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:46.279 Up to the date, all the chat leading up to 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:48.760 the date. And so I recovered and I was like, well, 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:50.200 let's hang out, let's go out to dinner. 0:04:50.440 --> 0:04:50.680 Nice. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:52.839 How was that where'd you guys? I mean, was it 0:04:52.880 --> 0:04:54.440 fancy or was it more casual? 0:04:54.720 --> 0:04:55.279 Was it coffee? 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:57.880 No, it wasn't coffee. It was I would say it 0:04:57.920 --> 0:04:59.680 was you know, mid I didn't want to go like 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:02.280 but I also did want to go like high pressure, 0:05:02.320 --> 0:05:06.200 super expensive. So it's got to a place that felt comfortable. 0:05:06.600 --> 0:05:09.680 Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:10.880 in law enforcement. 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:13.120 Yeah, what is it like to go on a date 0:05:13.200 --> 0:05:14.239 with a real cop? 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:17.880 You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was pretty chill. 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:21.719 Uh didn't come Did you expect her at any point? 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:22.039 Though? 0:05:22.120 --> 0:05:23.920 I don't know. You know, some people get off of 0:05:23.920 --> 0:05:26.120 work and then they had just come directly. No, I 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:27.080 wasn't expecting that. 0:05:27.160 --> 0:05:29.560 I gets okay, it would feel like a very powerful 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:31.400 move though to sit in a booth right next to 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:33.320 a cop, and. 0:05:32.640 --> 0:05:35.000 I would think that somebody was with their parole officer. 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:39.000 Even then you cough as a bad boy at that 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:40.479 point to everybody in the restaurant. 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:43.000 So was she cool though, because like, you're on a 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:44.359 date with a cop, I would. 0:05:44.200 --> 0:05:45.400 Be nervous time. 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:47.200 Did you only have one drink? 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:49.159 Can you mention are expired? 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:50.680 You? 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.200 And get you that? 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:53.840 How did it go? 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:56.839 That was on my mind. I was like, I can't 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:59.800 tell any stories about my bad boy early days all 0:05:59.839 --> 0:06:02.880 that sort of stuff. But there was one point, you know, 0:06:02.920 --> 0:06:06.159 we didn't really stick to her working law enforcement too long, 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:08.560 but there was one point where she was like, hey, 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.800 do you mind if we could switch seats so I 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:13.080 can like face the door. 0:06:13.320 --> 0:06:16.560 Oh yeah, oh yeah. People liked it. 0:06:16.600 --> 0:06:18.800 Are in law enforce, like they always want to seize 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:20.760 in case they can never be caught by surprise. 0:06:22.440 --> 0:06:23.560 That's what happens in the movies. 0:06:24.040 --> 0:06:26.120 That's smart though, or it's a good excuse for her 0:06:26.200 --> 0:06:28.200 to be like, when I need to escape from this stage, 0:06:28.240 --> 0:06:29.599 I know exactly where I need. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:29.920 To run down. 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.320 I mean, either way, yeah, so did you switch? 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:33.160 Yeah? 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:35.640 I was down with making that happen. So we did. 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:38.320 You know, she's a really smart person. We had really 0:06:38.360 --> 0:06:42.760 good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.800 at this point she's not texting me back. 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:46.640 Wow did end? 0:06:47.240 --> 0:06:49.680 It ended with like a really nice hug, Let's do 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:51.920 this again. I didn't go in for the kiss because 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:53.600 it didn't feel like we were quite there, but there 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:56.440 was definitely some chemistry. And when I said let's do 0:06:56.520 --> 0:06:59.480 this again, there was no hesitation, no let me think 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:01.719 about it, let's look at my schedule, none of that stuff. 0:07:01.760 --> 0:07:04.560 I can tell the brush off and like an actual 0:07:04.800 --> 0:07:05.599 let's do this again. 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.240 Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the 0:07:08.279 --> 0:07:10.920 siren in her cop car and driven around the block 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.800 real quick, acause one's ever stick. 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:17.920 No one's ever asked that before. I mean, who knows. 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:19.880 Maybe she's on an undercover mission and that's why she 0:07:19.880 --> 0:07:22.080 hasn't gotten back to you because she's not allowed. 0:07:22.360 --> 0:07:25.720 So wait, nick, question, is she the one who suggested 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:28.080 that you go have dinner at that particular restaurant? 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:30.000 Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door jet? 0:07:30.160 --> 0:07:30.640 Yeah? 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:33.280 I throw a couple of options when we were chatting, 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:34.680 and she selected that one. 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.280 Oh, was it in like a really shady part of 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:39.440 town for no reason whatsoever, a. 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:42.040 Really nice part of town. Maybe it's a white collar 0:07:42.080 --> 0:07:44.720 crime like embezzlement or something. 0:07:44.800 --> 0:07:47.280 Oh my god, we might actually help solve a crime 0:07:47.400 --> 0:07:48.640 by doing this second data. 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:49.440 Probably not. 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:55.240 Well. Yeah, and you know how most cops are when 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:57.000 you get them on the phone, they tell you everything. 0:07:57.440 --> 0:07:59.080 Oh yeah, they're like an open book. 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:03.160 Yeah yeah, I've ever had that long of a conversation. 0:08:03.240 --> 0:08:03.440 Yeah. 0:08:04.080 --> 0:08:05.320 Well, this is going to be a first in a 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:06.360 lot of different ways for us. 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:08.600 Now they don't run a background check on the show. 0:08:08.760 --> 0:08:10.960 Oh yeah with the cop. 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:13.840 I've never gotten out of a ticket. 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:16.280 This is going to be interesting when we come back, 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:18.600 call Becca and get you your second date update right 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:19.080 after this. 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:22.040 Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 0:08:24.480 --> 0:08:27.720 Normally our show is getting cops called on us. Yeah 0:08:27.760 --> 0:08:31.400 that's true, But today we're the ones calling up a. 0:08:31.440 --> 0:08:34.599 Cop that's rights after, not to report. 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:37.080 An emergency, but to get answers for our friend Nick, 0:08:37.240 --> 0:08:40.000 who went out with a law enforcement officer named Becca 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:40.560 the other night. 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:42.520 Should we just all nine one one and ask Rebecca? 0:08:42.600 --> 0:08:43.640 Yeah, I think that's how it works. 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:46.640 We actually have Becca's cell phone numbers, so it's probably 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:49.760 easier to do that. The thing is, Nick's not getting 0:08:49.760 --> 0:08:53.080 a call back after their romantic dinner. Is there a 0:08:53.160 --> 0:08:56.320 reason for it? Or was the whole dinner affront for 0:08:56.360 --> 0:08:59.440 a sting operation that she was running to bring down 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:00.880 an Italian mob boss? 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.480 I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke. 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.400 But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant, 0:09:06.440 --> 0:09:08.360 and now she's not calling him back as. 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:13.960 Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us 0:09:14.000 --> 0:09:15.720 for help that this is where the call was going 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:16.040 to go? 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:20.760 I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case. 0:09:20.840 --> 0:09:24.600 I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman. 0:09:25.480 --> 0:09:26.959 At least that's what she wants you to think. 0:09:27.040 --> 0:09:29.000 Yeah, dude, sounds like she has a hit out on her. 0:09:29.440 --> 0:09:31.960 Her back was facing. She knows that there's a hit 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:32.480 man out. 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:35.440 There looking for It's possible, or maybe there's a simple 0:09:35.480 --> 0:09:39.080 reason and you messed up in some way. Let's figure 0:09:39.120 --> 0:09:40.559 it out. I'm gonna diary number both. 0:09:40.559 --> 0:09:41.520 They're going to be great options. 0:09:42.800 --> 0:09:45.160 We are here for the tea, so let's do it. 0:09:45.320 --> 0:09:56.400 I'm dialing it right now. Hello, Hi, we're looking to 0:09:56.400 --> 0:10:01.559 speak with Becca speaking Hey, Becca, how you doing out 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:02.319 your officer. 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.400 I'm honestly kind of nervous. 0:10:06.440 --> 0:10:08.400 I don't know if we should really mention that. 0:10:09.000 --> 0:10:09.840 It was a little late. 0:10:11.280 --> 0:10:14.120 We're brooking Jeffery in the morning, and you probably heard 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:17.040 my co host say officer Becca, because we heard that 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:19.280 you're a cop. And I just want to ask you upfront. 0:10:19.400 --> 0:10:22.480 Is it okay for us to mention your profession. 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:22.720 On the radio. 0:10:23.520 --> 0:10:24.520 I'm okay with that. 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:25.440 We're allowed to say that. 0:10:25.520 --> 0:10:27.760 Okay, Well, she put it on her dating profile, he. 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:29.319 Said, put it on the radio. I mean that's a 0:10:29.320 --> 0:10:30.679 different thing, you know, a worse. 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:33.400 Lazier than a dating Definitely, people probably see your profile. 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:38.480 But we're bottom line is we wanted to talk to 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:40.360 you about a date you went on recently with a 0:10:40.360 --> 0:10:41.200 guy named Nick. 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:46.480 Yeah, that sign was not good. 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:48.920 So Nick reached out to us because he said he 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:52.040 really enjoyed spending time with you that night, and he's 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:55.000 curious if there's a reason why you're not calling him 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:56.600 back and arranging a second meet up. 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.760 Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to 0:10:59.760 --> 0:11:00.480 see you again. 0:11:01.880 --> 0:11:06.719 Yeah, so obviously, I I work in law enforcement. I've 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:10.280 been on the forest for some time now, so I'm 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:13.280 gonna always look up who I'm going on a date 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:15.200 with or who I'm spending time with. 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:18.520 Don't you wish you had that type of access election? 0:11:18.679 --> 0:11:21.520 I know, I only have my reverse Google image search. 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:24.600 Yeah, I mean, but like I did this on my 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:28.000 own time. I don't use like police scanners. I hired 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:28.960 someone myself. 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:32.880 Okay, you're just doing your own normal just you're probably 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:34.040 better at it than us. 0:11:34.160 --> 0:11:36.400 You got more resources than the average person. 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:37.839 Yeah. 0:11:37.160 --> 0:11:40.439 I found something that I thought he would be more 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:44.000 forthcoming with some and when he wasn't, I it turned 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:44.320 me off. 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:45.360 I have no more interest. 0:11:46.840 --> 0:11:48.360 Are you saying he lied to you on the date? 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:52.760 He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:55.319 forthcoming with information, which I feel. 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:57.920 Is a lie. Yeah, when you're. 0:11:57.840 --> 0:11:59.640 Dating a cop, you have to be honest. 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:01.640 If it's about well, can I ask it? 0:12:01.679 --> 0:12:02.840 Was it like a criminal thing? 0:12:02.920 --> 0:12:03.040 Right? 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:04.360 That's the only thing you looked up, right. 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:07.240 I don't know if it's appropriate for the radio. 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:12.400 Okay, wanted If it's like a record that is supposed 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:13.960 to be private, then don't share it. 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:16.040 But if it's something we could any of us could 0:12:16.080 --> 0:12:20.079 find on the Internet spill away. 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:21.480 We honestly don't have standards. 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:25.680 The part, the thing that you don't you might not realize, beca, 0:12:25.760 --> 0:12:28.240 is that part of being on this segment is the 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:31.320 person agrees to hear whatever the reason is, no matter 0:12:31.360 --> 0:12:33.840 how embarrassing or strange it might be. 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:37.079 I mean, if he agreed to that, then yeah, I'll 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:37.560 share it. 0:12:39.160 --> 0:12:41.000 He was married a year ago. 0:12:41.160 --> 0:12:46.320 To a Russian woman and she filed for divorce about 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:51.360 a month ago. Oh yeah, that's a huge part of 0:12:51.400 --> 0:12:54.480 his life. And to just withhold that information. 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:57.640 That's a lot of first date to bring up though 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:01.199 on that, Like, how do you even start? So listen, 0:13:01.280 --> 0:13:02.600 I had this Russian wife. 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:06.760 Yeah, like that you were expecting him to bring that up? 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:07.800 Yeah? 0:13:07.960 --> 0:13:09.960 I think I was expecting him to tell me if 0:13:10.000 --> 0:13:13.800 he was separated. Being separated is a lot different from divorce. 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:15.240 Oh it's not official yet. 0:13:16.000 --> 0:13:17.160 Yeah. 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:20.239 I feel like he could withhold a lot of information 0:13:20.600 --> 0:13:23.200 if he's not forthcoming about the truth. 0:13:24.640 --> 0:13:25.920 See that. I mean, I don't know. 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:27.520 I kind of am with her on that, Like if 0:13:27.559 --> 0:13:29.960 it's divorced and final and you're done with it, But 0:13:30.000 --> 0:13:33.040 if you're in the middle of a separation. 0:13:32.760 --> 0:13:35.360 And I think you can list it on your dating profile, 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:39.040 like specifically your status single divorce, separating what you. 0:13:38.920 --> 0:13:45.040 Look for mostly the most traumatized would. 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.640 Yeah, but like, did you even talk about relationships at 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:51.320 all on the date? 0:13:51.800 --> 0:13:52.040 Yeah? 0:13:52.120 --> 0:13:55.319 I mean I hinted about it and I shared about 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:59.120 mine a little bit, you know, just keeping respectful details private. 0:13:59.200 --> 0:14:02.040 But he said he didn't want to talk about it, 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:04.880 and it seemed like he was evading the truth instead 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:06.160 of just a private person. 0:14:06.360 --> 0:14:10.559 Okay, warning you know, Becca, I think the person who's 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:12.839 actually going to find all of this the most interesting 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:18.040 is actually Nick himself, who is listening on the other line, 0:14:18.080 --> 0:14:23.000 has tapped into our phone somehow. 0:14:23.000 --> 0:14:25.360 We did consent to it. Now, so he is there 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:26.320 wanting to talk to you. 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:30.240 Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry. 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:33.760 I mean you wanted the truth out of him. Now's 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:34.280 the chance? 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:35.480 Nicky there? 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:39.600 Yeah, I'm here. So what's up, Ecca? You go on 0:14:39.680 --> 0:14:41.960 dates with people and you look up their history before 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:42.280 you do. 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:46.240 So, yes, Nick, I'm a cup. 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.600 I think, yeah, right, Well, we were going to a 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:54.120 public place, and I feel like that's kind of using 0:14:54.160 --> 0:14:58.480 your cop resources to look up my history was Excuse me. 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:01.480 I didn't use police rec sources. I use my own 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:05.560 personal resources, and I just think it's really weird you 0:15:05.560 --> 0:15:06.440 wouldn't say anything. 0:15:07.880 --> 0:15:10.640 I mean, I'm not telling you if that's true or not. 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:12.440 I mean, you could have looked that up on some 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:18.600 strange site that has false information big marriages courses. 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:21.600 Okay, I'm actually going to back up on this because 0:15:21.680 --> 0:15:24.480 I have a friend who's fiance looked her up when 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:27.000 they were dating and he got all the information wrong. 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:28.920 It's true, you probably have the wrong guy. 0:15:29.560 --> 0:15:30.720 Nick is a common name. 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:34.120 Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick 0:15:34.160 --> 0:15:34.920 and you mix them up? 0:15:35.600 --> 0:15:36.760 It's one hundred percent. 0:15:36.920 --> 0:15:37.080 Nick. 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:39.760 Really, how do you know that? 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:45.360 Because I'm a cop. Okay, I'm going to text you 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:47.080 your marriage certificate right now. 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:50.520 No, No, wait, you can do that. 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:52.960 You got the marriage certificate public record? 0:15:53.120 --> 0:15:54.920 Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can look. 0:15:56.360 --> 0:15:57.720 I know how. 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:01.240 Michael. 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:06.560 It's absolutely public record, and I just texted you a 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:07.240 photo of it. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:08.480 And there's your wife's name. 0:16:10.600 --> 0:16:11.280 Do you have a text? 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:11.760 Nick? 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:14.640 Look, here's the deal. 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:19.800 If you wait a minute, it was. 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:22.760 A mistake, it was a short term thing. Yes I 0:16:22.840 --> 0:16:25.480 was married. Yes, I'm getting a divorce. It's going to 0:16:25.560 --> 0:16:27.000 be done very soon. 0:16:27.640 --> 0:16:31.720 Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that, yeah. 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:33.720 Back at the start. But the truth should have been 0:16:33.760 --> 0:16:35.640 the first thing you said to her when you greeted 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:36.960 her inside of the restaurant. 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:44.760 Yeah, if he would have told you that, you would 0:16:44.760 --> 0:16:45.680