1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:01,200 Speaker 1: A little special tree. 2 00:00:01,360 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 2: Every weekend on Saturdays, we do those back to back 3 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 2: classics for you. Thank you for finding the Second Date podcast. 4 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 2: It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, and we still 5 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 2: love to highlight your comments. 6 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: I got a big list of them. I feel I 7 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: do you do? That was correct? 8 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 3: Justice, I really When Alexis says she reads everything you write, 9 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 3: she does, I really do? And then comment I might 10 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 3: read it three months from you when you write it, 11 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 3: but I'll read it. 12 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:25,440 Speaker 4: Yes. 13 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:29,240 Speaker 3: But I saw one from Irene who said, Okay, it 14 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 3: finally happened. 15 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: After a year of relentlessly listening to your Second. 16 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 3: Date updates, I finally finished them all and the conclusion 17 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:38,559 Speaker 3: is I'll never date again. Oh, thank you guys for 18 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,839 Speaker 3: bringing me closer to my cat. Yeah, become a Spanish 19 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 3: living in Germany. Thank you for bringing me closer to 20 00:00:44,880 --> 00:00:46,840 Speaker 3: my cat. That's the best tagline ever. 21 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 5: I love it. Well. 22 00:00:48,159 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 2: Not to spoil your fun, but you do have a 23 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 2: chance to go over to our full shows now. 24 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, we got a brand new full hour for you 25 00:00:54,640 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: every day you can listen with you there. Yeah. 26 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 2: Well your life all right, you're back to back class 27 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 2: start right now? 28 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:04,399 Speaker 6: What if you're on a dinner date. 29 00:01:04,720 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 7: You're sat down at your table, okay, and right before 30 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 7: you order, the other person makes a very odd request. 31 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:15,920 Speaker 7: For example, do you mind if I FaceTime my mom 32 00:01:16,120 --> 00:01:19,280 Speaker 7: with you because her calming voice just helps me chew 33 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 7: my food slower. 34 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:24,119 Speaker 1: No, she's gonna stay on the phone even see. 35 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 6: That'd be strange. But do you just go with it? 36 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:28,400 Speaker 1: I don't know. 37 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 7: She was really nervous. 38 00:01:30,120 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 2: Baby well. 39 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:33,679 Speaker 7: On our listeners, one of our listeners says his date 40 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 7: asked him to do something unusual shortly after they sat 41 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 7: down to dinner. We're going to see if it had 42 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,679 Speaker 7: any effect on why he's not getting a call back 43 00:01:43,880 --> 00:01:46,320 Speaker 7: when we do your second Date update right after. 44 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 5: This, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 45 00:01:50,760 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 7: There's certain professions out there that are just considered sexy. 46 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: Oh oh yeah, okay. 47 00:01:56,800 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 7: Like who's not swiping right on a hot firefight either right, 48 00:02:02,120 --> 00:02:04,400 Speaker 7: that's that's me, okay? 49 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 6: Or something I thought you were going to say. 50 00:02:08,000 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 7: No, ory me down with the ho that's more like that. 51 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:14,720 Speaker 6: That's what Alex is doing, but she turned her Michael exactly. 52 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 7: Or a hunky doctor, yeah that's the classic, or a 53 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 7: sultry child and family therapist. 54 00:02:22,440 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 1: I haven't. Yeah, tell you my problem. 55 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 7: Tell me how my childhood upbringing turn me bed? 56 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:30,519 Speaker 8: Did you just say abandonment issues? 57 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 7: Oh yeah. And one of our listeners apparently couldn't resist 58 00:02:33,680 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 7: the lure of a smoke show in a sexy uniform, 59 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 7: so let's talk to him about it. 60 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:39,519 Speaker 6: His name is Nick. 61 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 9: Nick. 62 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 6: Welcome to the show. 63 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 9: Hey, thanks for having me. 64 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 10: I'm going to know. 65 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: I am so curious about the profession here. 66 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 7: It's just like a milkman. Yeah, well, who's this person 67 00:02:51,040 --> 00:02:52,359 Speaker 7: that she met and what do they do? 68 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,240 Speaker 9: Her name is Becca and she's a cop. 69 00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:56,240 Speaker 1: Oh, she is a. 70 00:02:57,800 --> 00:02:58,680 Speaker 6: Lady cop. 71 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 7: He cuff me? 72 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,440 Speaker 1: Or lady cops are sexy. 73 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 2: They like, you know, their waist always looks so cinched, 74 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:07,320 Speaker 2: like it's good. 75 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:09,240 Speaker 6: Cuffs, ready to go at the moment. 76 00:03:09,360 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: Honestly, just the power that they have. 77 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, okay, they're always like license and registration and I'm 78 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 11: like five ft ten in single. 79 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 7: I'm sure we're all telling you stuff you already know, right, Nick, 80 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 7: Exactly did you. 81 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,600 Speaker 1: Meet her while getting arrested or no? 82 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 9: We met on the apps? 83 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:26,920 Speaker 1: Oh you did? 84 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 7: Okay? 85 00:03:27,280 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: Okay, if you're a cop, do you share that on 86 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: the app? 87 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 7: Or is that a no, No, that was her picture. 88 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,839 Speaker 9: Okay, of course I made a dumb joke. I said, 89 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 9: are you a real copper or stripper? 90 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 7: Oh? Got a ring? 91 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: Did she like that? 92 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 7: No? 93 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 9: She was like, ha ha, You're only the tenth person 94 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 9: to stay that. Yeah. I guess that one's a pretty 95 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 9: basic joke. 96 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 6: So you're already start with her. 97 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, but she responded, isn't that just half the battle 98 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:54,640 Speaker 2: dating apps? 99 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: How'd you turn it around? 100 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 9: She did have other pictures on there, and there was 101 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 9: a picture of her having a cup of coffee at 102 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 9: a cafe, and so I was like, oh, you like coffee. 103 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 1: I thought for sure you were going to make a 104 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: donut joke at that. 105 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:11,240 Speaker 9: I don't think of this opportunity that would have been. 106 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 7: No, no, you already took a jab your bro. What 107 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:16,680 Speaker 7: did you do with the coffee? 108 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:18,919 Speaker 9: I just was like, oh, yeah, you know, are you 109 00:04:19,360 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 9: a coffee fan? And she basically got super fired up 110 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 9: and was. 111 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 11: Like, you know, and then you asked her what's your drink? 112 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 2: Right? 113 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 9: Like, that's what you have to ask I did, And 114 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,440 Speaker 9: then she started going off about how she had gone 115 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 9: recently to her favorite coffee shop and they got our 116 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,279 Speaker 9: coffee order wrong. And she wasn't mad about it, but 117 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:36,200 Speaker 9: she was just mentioning. And I was like, oh, I'll 118 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:38,520 Speaker 9: put a bad Yelp review on their site for you. 119 00:04:38,640 --> 00:04:42,039 Speaker 1: And this is a cute connection. 120 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 7: Okay. 121 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:44,480 Speaker 6: So this is all the chat leading. 122 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,279 Speaker 9: Up to the date, all the chat leading up to 123 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 9: the date. And so I recovered and I was like, well, 124 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 9: let's hang out, let's go out to dinner. 125 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 7: Nice. 126 00:04:50,800 --> 00:04:52,839 Speaker 2: How was that where'd you guys? I mean, was it 127 00:04:52,880 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 2: fancy or was it more casual? 128 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 6: Was it coffee? 129 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 9: No, it wasn't coffee. It was I would say it 130 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 9: was you know, mid I didn't want to go like 131 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 9: but I also did want to go like high pressure, 132 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 9: super expensive. So it's got to a place that felt comfortable. 133 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 9: Great conversation. We talked a little bit about her working 134 00:05:09,880 --> 00:05:10,880 Speaker 9: in law enforcement. 135 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 6: Yeah, what is it like to go on a date 136 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:14,239 Speaker 6: with a real cop? 137 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 9: You know, she didn't come into uniform. It was pretty chill. 138 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:21,719 Speaker 1: Uh didn't come Did you expect her at any point? 139 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:22,039 Speaker 4: Though? 140 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 9: I don't know. You know, some people get off of 141 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 9: work and then they had just come directly. No, I 142 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 9: wasn't expecting that. 143 00:05:27,160 --> 00:05:29,560 Speaker 7: I gets okay, it would feel like a very powerful 144 00:05:29,600 --> 00:05:31,400 Speaker 7: move though to sit in a booth right next to 145 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 7: a cop, and. 146 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:35,000 Speaker 1: I would think that somebody was with their parole officer. 147 00:05:36,800 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 7: Even then you cough as a bad boy at that 148 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 7: point to everybody in the restaurant. 149 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 11: So was she cool though, because like, you're on a 150 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:44,359 Speaker 11: date with a cop, I would. 151 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: Be nervous time. 152 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 7: Did you only have one drink? 153 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 1: Can you mention are expired? 154 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 9: You? 155 00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: And get you that? 156 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:53,840 Speaker 6: How did it go? 157 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,839 Speaker 9: That was on my mind. I was like, I can't 158 00:05:56,839 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 9: tell any stories about my bad boy early days all 159 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 9: that sort of stuff. But there was one point, you know, 160 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,159 Speaker 9: we didn't really stick to her working law enforcement too long, 161 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 9: but there was one point where she was like, hey, 162 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,800 Speaker 9: do you mind if we could switch seats so I 163 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 9: can like face the door. 164 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah. People liked it. 165 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:18,800 Speaker 2: Are in law enforce, like they always want to seize 166 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 2: in case they can never be caught by surprise. 167 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 1: That's what happens in the movies. 168 00:06:24,040 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 7: That's smart though, or it's a good excuse for her 169 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 7: to be like, when I need to escape from this stage, 170 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:29,599 Speaker 7: I know exactly where I need. 171 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:29,920 Speaker 6: To run down. 172 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:32,320 Speaker 7: I mean, either way, yeah, so did you switch? 173 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 10: Yeah? 174 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 9: I was down with making that happen. So we did. 175 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 9: You know, she's a really smart person. We had really 176 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 9: good conversation about lots of topics. I don't know why 177 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:44,800 Speaker 9: at this point she's not texting me back. 178 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:46,640 Speaker 7: Wow did end? 179 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 9: It ended with like a really nice hug, Let's do 180 00:06:49,800 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 9: this again. I didn't go in for the kiss because 181 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:53,600 Speaker 9: it didn't feel like we were quite there, but there 182 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 9: was definitely some chemistry. And when I said let's do 183 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:59,480 Speaker 9: this again, there was no hesitation, no let me think 184 00:06:59,480 --> 00:07:01,719 Speaker 9: about it, let's look at my schedule, none of that stuff. 185 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 9: I can tell the brush off and like an actual 186 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 9: let's do this again. 187 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, you should have asked if you could hit the 188 00:07:08,279 --> 00:07:10,920 Speaker 7: siren in her cop car and driven around the block 189 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,800 Speaker 7: real quick, acause one's ever stick. 190 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: No one's ever asked that before. I mean, who knows. 191 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 2: Maybe she's on an undercover mission and that's why she 192 00:07:19,880 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 2: hasn't gotten back to you because she's not allowed. 193 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 7: So wait, nick, question, is she the one who suggested 194 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 7: that you go have dinner at that particular restaurant? 195 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, and she had to watch the door jet? 196 00:07:30,160 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 6: Yeah? 197 00:07:30,760 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 9: I throw a couple of options when we were chatting, 198 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 9: and she selected that one. 199 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 7: Oh, was it in like a really shady part of 200 00:07:37,320 --> 00:07:39,440 Speaker 7: town for no reason whatsoever, a. 201 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: Really nice part of town. Maybe it's a white collar 202 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,720 Speaker 1: crime like embezzlement or something. 203 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,280 Speaker 7: Oh my god, we might actually help solve a crime 204 00:07:47,400 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 7: by doing this second data. 205 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 3: Probably not. 206 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 7: Well. Yeah, and you know how most cops are when 207 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 7: you get them on the phone, they tell you everything. 208 00:07:57,440 --> 00:07:59,080 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, they're like an open book. 209 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, I've ever had that long of a conversation. 210 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 9: Yeah. 211 00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 6: Well, this is going to be a first in a 212 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 6: lot of different ways for us. 213 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 1: Now they don't run a background check on the show. 214 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: Oh yeah with the cop. 215 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 2: I've never gotten out of a ticket. 216 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 7: This is going to be interesting when we come back, 217 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 7: call Becca and get you your second date update right 218 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 7: after this. 219 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date Update. 220 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 7: Normally our show is getting cops called on us. Yeah 221 00:08:27,760 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 7: that's true, But today we're the ones calling up a. 222 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:34,599 Speaker 1: Cop that's rights after, not to report. 223 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,080 Speaker 7: An emergency, but to get answers for our friend Nick, 224 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 7: who went out with a law enforcement officer named Becca 225 00:08:40,040 --> 00:08:40,560 Speaker 7: the other night. 226 00:08:40,600 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 11: Should we just all nine one one and ask Rebecca? 227 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:43,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's how it works. 228 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 7: We actually have Becca's cell phone numbers, so it's probably 229 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,760 Speaker 7: easier to do that. The thing is, Nick's not getting 230 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 7: a call back after their romantic dinner. Is there a 231 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 7: reason for it? Or was the whole dinner affront for 232 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 7: a sting operation that she was running to bring down 233 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 7: an Italian mob boss? 234 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, that sounds like he's making a joke. 235 00:09:03,520 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 2: But she sat facing the door, she picked the restaurant, 236 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 2: and now she's not calling him back as. 237 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 7: Nick, did you realize when you reached out to us 238 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,720 Speaker 7: for help that this is where the call was going 239 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:16,040 Speaker 7: to go? 240 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:20,760 Speaker 9: I like your imagination. I don't know if that's the case. 241 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 9: I just she's cute, she's smart, she's a great woman. 242 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 6: At least that's what she wants you to think. 243 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 11: Yeah, dude, sounds like she has a hit out on her. 244 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 11: Her back was facing. She knows that there's a hit 245 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 11: man out. 246 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 7: There looking for It's possible, or maybe there's a simple 247 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 7: reason and you messed up in some way. Let's figure 248 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 7: it out. I'm gonna diary number both. 249 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: They're going to be great options. 250 00:09:42,800 --> 00:09:45,160 Speaker 7: We are here for the tea, so let's do it. 251 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:56,400 Speaker 7: I'm dialing it right now. Hello, Hi, we're looking to 252 00:09:56,400 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 7: speak with Becca speaking Hey, Becca, how you doing out 253 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 7: your officer. 254 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: I'm honestly kind of nervous. 255 00:10:06,440 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 7: I don't know if we should really mention that. 256 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:09,840 Speaker 9: It was a little late. 257 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 7: We're brooking Jeffery in the morning, and you probably heard 258 00:10:14,120 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 7: my co host say officer Becca, because we heard that 259 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 7: you're a cop. And I just want to ask you upfront. 260 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:22,480 Speaker 7: Is it okay for us to mention your profession. 261 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 6: On the radio. 262 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:24,520 Speaker 4: I'm okay with that. 263 00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 6: We're allowed to say that. 264 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: Okay, Well, she put it on her dating profile, he. 265 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,319 Speaker 7: Said, put it on the radio. I mean that's a 266 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:30,679 Speaker 7: different thing, you know, a worse. 267 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 2: Lazier than a dating Definitely, people probably see your profile. 268 00:10:35,760 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 7: But we're bottom line is we wanted to talk to 269 00:10:38,480 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 7: you about a date you went on recently with a 270 00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 7: guy named Nick. 271 00:10:43,000 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, that sign was not good. 272 00:10:46,679 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 7: So Nick reached out to us because he said he 273 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 7: really enjoyed spending time with you that night, and he's 274 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 7: curious if there's a reason why you're not calling him 275 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 7: back and arranging a second meet up. 276 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 2: Honestly, I'd say he's clueless, like he really expected to 277 00:10:59,760 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 2: see you again. 278 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:06,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, so obviously, I I work in law enforcement. I've 279 00:11:06,760 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 4: been on the forest for some time now, so I'm 280 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:13,280 Speaker 4: gonna always look up who I'm going on a date 281 00:11:13,320 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 4: with or who I'm spending time with. 282 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 2: Don't you wish you had that type of access election? 283 00:11:18,679 --> 00:11:21,520 Speaker 1: I know, I only have my reverse Google image search. 284 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, but like I did this on my 285 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 4: own time. I don't use like police scanners. I hired 286 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 4: someone myself. 287 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 2: Okay, you're just doing your own normal just you're probably 288 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 2: better at it than us. 289 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 6: You got more resources than the average person. 290 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:37,839 Speaker 5: Yeah. 291 00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:40,439 Speaker 4: I found something that I thought he would be more 292 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 4: forthcoming with some and when he wasn't, I it turned 293 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 4: me off. 294 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 9: I have no more interest. 295 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: Are you saying he lied to you on the date? 296 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 4: He did kind of abstain from the truth. He wasn't 297 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:55,319 Speaker 4: forthcoming with information, which I feel. 298 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 9: Is a lie. Yeah, when you're. 299 00:11:57,840 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 11: Dating a cop, you have to be honest. 300 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:01,640 Speaker 7: If it's about well, can I ask it? 301 00:12:01,679 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 11: Was it like a criminal thing? 302 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 10: Right? 303 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 11: That's the only thing you looked up, right. 304 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 4: I don't know if it's appropriate for the radio. 305 00:12:07,640 --> 00:12:12,400 Speaker 2: Okay, wanted If it's like a record that is supposed 306 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:13,960 Speaker 2: to be private, then don't share it. 307 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: But if it's something we could any of us could 308 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:20,079 Speaker 1: find on the Internet spill away. 309 00:12:20,120 --> 00:12:21,480 Speaker 6: We honestly don't have standards. 310 00:12:23,040 --> 00:12:25,680 Speaker 7: The part, the thing that you don't you might not realize, beca, 311 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 7: is that part of being on this segment is the 312 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 7: person agrees to hear whatever the reason is, no matter 313 00:12:31,360 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 7: how embarrassing or strange it might be. 314 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 4: I mean, if he agreed to that, then yeah, I'll 315 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:37,560 Speaker 4: share it. 316 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:41,000 Speaker 9: He was married a year ago. 317 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:46,320 Speaker 4: To a Russian woman and she filed for divorce about 318 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:51,360 Speaker 4: a month ago. Oh yeah, that's a huge part of 319 00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 4: his life. And to just withhold that information. 320 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:57,640 Speaker 1: That's a lot of first date to bring up though 321 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,199 Speaker 1: on that, Like, how do you even start? So listen, 322 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: I had this Russian wife. 323 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, like that you were expecting him to bring that up? 324 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: Yeah? 325 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 4: I think I was expecting him to tell me if 326 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:13,800 Speaker 4: he was separated. Being separated is a lot different from divorce. 327 00:13:13,920 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 1: Oh it's not official yet. 328 00:13:16,000 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 9: Yeah. 329 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:20,239 Speaker 4: I feel like he could withhold a lot of information 330 00:13:20,600 --> 00:13:23,200 Speaker 4: if he's not forthcoming about the truth. 331 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: See that. I mean, I don't know. 332 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 2: I kind of am with her on that, Like if 333 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:29,960 Speaker 2: it's divorced and final and you're done with it, But 334 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 2: if you're in the middle of a separation. 335 00:13:32,760 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 7: And I think you can list it on your dating profile, 336 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 7: like specifically your status single divorce, separating what you. 337 00:13:38,920 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 2: Look for mostly the most traumatized would. 338 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:50,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, but like, did you even talk about relationships at 339 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:51,320 Speaker 7: all on the date? 340 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 2: Yeah? 341 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,319 Speaker 4: I mean I hinted about it and I shared about 342 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 4: mine a little bit, you know, just keeping respectful details private. 343 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:02,040 Speaker 4: But he said he didn't want to talk about it, 344 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:04,880 Speaker 4: and it seemed like he was evading the truth instead 345 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 4: of just a private person. 346 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:10,559 Speaker 7: Okay, warning you know, Becca, I think the person who's 347 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:12,839 Speaker 7: actually going to find all of this the most interesting 348 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:18,040 Speaker 7: is actually Nick himself, who is listening on the other line, 349 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:23,000 Speaker 7: has tapped into our phone somehow. 350 00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 6: We did consent to it. Now, so he is there 351 00:14:25,440 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 6: wanting to talk to you. 352 00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:30,240 Speaker 7: Wow, come on, guys, I'm sorry. 353 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:33,760 Speaker 1: I mean you wanted the truth out of him. Now's 354 00:14:33,800 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: the chance? 355 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 6: Nicky there? 356 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm here. So what's up, Ecca? You go on 357 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 9: dates with people and you look up their history before 358 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:42,280 Speaker 9: you do. 359 00:14:42,280 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 4: So, yes, Nick, I'm a cup. 360 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 9: I think, yeah, right, Well, we were going to a 361 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 9: public place, and I feel like that's kind of using 362 00:14:54,160 --> 00:14:58,480 Speaker 9: your cop resources to look up my history was Excuse me. 363 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 4: I didn't use police rec sources. I use my own 364 00:15:01,560 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 4: personal resources, and I just think it's really weird you 365 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:06,440 Speaker 4: wouldn't say anything. 366 00:15:07,880 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 9: I mean, I'm not telling you if that's true or not. 367 00:15:10,760 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 9: I mean, you could have looked that up on some 368 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 9: strange site that has false information big marriages courses. 369 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,600 Speaker 2: Okay, I'm actually going to back up on this because 370 00:15:21,680 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 2: I have a friend who's fiance looked her up when 371 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:27,000 Speaker 2: they were dating and he got all the information wrong. 372 00:15:27,200 --> 00:15:28,920 Speaker 9: It's true, you probably have the wrong guy. 373 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 11: Nick is a common name. 374 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 7: Is that a possibility that maybe it's a different Nick 375 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 7: and you mix them up? 376 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:36,760 Speaker 4: It's one hundred percent. 377 00:15:36,920 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 9: Nick. 378 00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 6: Really, how do you know that? 379 00:15:40,360 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 4: Because I'm a cop. Okay, I'm going to text you 380 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 4: your marriage certificate right now. 381 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 6: No, No, wait, you can do that. 382 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:52,960 Speaker 1: You got the marriage certificate public record? 383 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 7: Yeah, I think, oh wow, you can look. 384 00:15:56,360 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 6: I know how. 385 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:01,240 Speaker 1: Michael. 386 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 4: It's absolutely public record, and I just texted you a 387 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 4: photo of it. 388 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 9: And there's your wife's name. 389 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 6: Do you have a text? 390 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 1: Nick? 391 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 9: Look, here's the deal. 392 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 7: If you wait a minute, it was. 393 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,760 Speaker 9: A mistake, it was a short term thing. Yes I 394 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:25,480 Speaker 9: was married. Yes, I'm getting a divorce. It's going to 395 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 9: be done very soon. 396 00:16:27,640 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, you should have just said that, yeah. 397 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 7: Back at the start. But the truth should have been 398 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 7: the first thing you said to her when you greeted 399 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 7: her inside of the restaurant. 400 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:44,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, if he would have told you that, you would 401 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 2: have been okay with it. 402 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:48,280 Speaker 4: Really, I mean, honesty is the best policy. 403 00:16:48,440 --> 00:16:52,720 Speaker 9: We all have a past. Wow, Like, come on, what 404 00:16:52,760 --> 00:16:54,160 Speaker 9: else do you know about me? Do you look at 405 00:16:54,200 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 9: my record from what college? 406 00:16:56,520 --> 00:17:01,200 Speaker 2: Wait, you're still the one got outed as a liar. 407 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 6: I'm curious what you did in college. That sounds kind 408 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 6: of funny. 409 00:17:04,520 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 9: It was a stupid frank with the cow. But that's 410 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:07,680 Speaker 9: not even the point. 411 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:10,960 Speaker 1: It's not her fault, mall. 412 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 9: Okay, Well, I'm not saying it's her fault. I'm saying 413 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 9: it's my past defense. 414 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 7: This is kind of embarrassing information to open up with, 415 00:17:20,800 --> 00:17:22,840 Speaker 7: not to mention, like on the radio, but especially on 416 00:17:22,840 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 7: a first date with someone you're trying to Impress's. 417 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 1: At that chose to do the radio part. Well, I know, 418 00:17:27,760 --> 00:17:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm just saying this is a lot sweet. 419 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:31,880 Speaker 7: I'm trying to defend a guy who's in a weird 420 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 7: spot here. So Becca, he has admitted that you were right, 421 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:38,120 Speaker 7: and he's ready to move on, hopefully, with you, would 422 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:39,359 Speaker 7: you be willing to give him a chance? 423 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 4: I'm not interested. Guys, it's just a no brainer for me. 424 00:17:44,280 --> 00:17:49,720 Speaker 9: You got to be honest. Oh I wasn't dishonest. I 425 00:17:50,240 --> 00:17:52,000 Speaker 9: am separated. I'm getting a divorce. 426 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 6: It's just too late you started with it. 427 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:55,159 Speaker 1: Probably wasn't me. 428 00:17:57,160 --> 00:17:58,840 Speaker 9: I didn't know she was such a good cop. 429 00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:03,719 Speaker 7: Progation skills their next level dude. So maybe like a 430 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 7: different professional uniform, like a coast guard, they won't look 431 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 7: up your past about. 432 00:18:08,040 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 1: Just be honest on the next day. 433 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 5: Why different brooking Jeffrey in the morning. 434 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 7: Why do our listeners love it so much when people 435 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:20,920 Speaker 7: get busted in a lie on our second date? Call 436 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:24,760 Speaker 7: literally text into seven eighty five nine to two says 437 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 7: I knew that guy was a liar the moment I 438 00:18:27,640 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 7: heard him. I think I went out with him two 439 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 7: months ago before he was separating. Who knows if that's true. 440 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,399 Speaker 7: But we could ask a certain officer that we know 441 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 7: to go and investigate that particular text. 442 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:42,479 Speaker 1: We're friends now with the I don't know that it's 443 00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 1: worth her time or our time. Ye let that one lie. 444 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:47,560 Speaker 1: He needs to work out his own mess. 445 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:49,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, if anything, we call her asked for help. 446 00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:51,000 Speaker 11: She'll probably run our names and one of us will 447 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:51,480 Speaker 11: get arrested. 448 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope she's a surprised that we're all sitting 449 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:54,440 Speaker 2: here without handcuffs. 450 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:58,119 Speaker 7: Yeah, we all enjoy good pair of handcuffs around our 451 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:05,160 Speaker 7: That's not what I thought regard to someone else conversation anyway. 452 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:08,639 Speaker 7: Unfortunately that call turned out to not end in a 453 00:19:08,680 --> 00:19:11,080 Speaker 7: second date. We can't win them all, but we can 454 00:19:11,119 --> 00:19:13,320 Speaker 7: always try. If you email the show and we'll call 455 00:19:13,359 --> 00:19:15,640 Speaker 7: that person who's not calling you back and go check 456 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 7: out all of our second dates wherever you find your 457 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,840 Speaker 7: podcast on Apple, Spotify, even on YouTube. 458 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 6: A Brook and. 459 00:19:20,560 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 5: Jeffrey Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 460 00:19:25,160 --> 00:19:28,360 Speaker 7: On this show, we always report on Karen's and over 461 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 7: the top public tantrums that go viral online. 462 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, because it's so like, it's so much tea to. 463 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:33,919 Speaker 7: Talk about it. 464 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it's a good gossip subject. 465 00:19:36,640 --> 00:19:39,280 Speaker 7: It's funny audio to play on the show. But it's 466 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:43,280 Speaker 7: never actually happened during one of our second dates, that 467 00:19:43,440 --> 00:19:47,760 Speaker 7: is until today. Wait, I'm not even talking about Brooks 468 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:48,880 Speaker 7: role in the Cally. 469 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: I'm talking about I'm tired of that joke. 470 00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 7: Okay, call the manager on me, I dare you. But 471 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,320 Speaker 7: one of our listeners says he had a run in 472 00:19:57,359 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 7: with a random woman who started screaming at him in 473 00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 7: the middle of his first date, just out in public. 474 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:07,080 Speaker 7: And you're never gonna believe the topic that made her 475 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:09,920 Speaker 7: go off. You're gonna hear the full story in your 476 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:11,399 Speaker 7: second date update next. 477 00:20:11,520 --> 00:20:14,400 Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second date Updates. 478 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 7: Sometimes you can plan the perfect date, but then some 479 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:24,360 Speaker 7: outside force that you can't control comes into play and 480 00:20:24,440 --> 00:20:25,400 Speaker 7: changes everything. 481 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 1: Like a hurricane. 482 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, that we shouldn't be going on a date 483 00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 7: if there's an eminent hurricane about to bear. 484 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 6: Down on you. 485 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 1: Sometimes you just need love. 486 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 7: I guess I was thinking more like when Brooke was 487 00:20:39,760 --> 00:20:42,040 Speaker 7: on a date eating her potato salad and a bird 488 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,439 Speaker 7: pooped on it, but it didn't stop her though. Brooke 489 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:49,480 Speaker 7: kept on eating, holding eye contact with that dude the 490 00:20:49,720 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 7: entire time. 491 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,199 Speaker 2: Okay, I can usually go along with these, but that 492 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 2: one is too far eat the potato salad. I would 493 00:20:57,119 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 2: then steal his food and eat whatever he was eating. 494 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,879 Speaker 7: I'm not sure if our listener Marshall has quite the 495 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:07,919 Speaker 7: same resilience says Brooke does. Let's find out, though, Marshall, 496 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:09,000 Speaker 7: Welcome to the show man. 497 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 10: Hey, how's everyone doing? 498 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:13,679 Speaker 1: It sounds like better than you. It sounds like you 499 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: had something terrible happened on your date. 500 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,439 Speaker 7: We don't know how terrible before before we get to 501 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:23,240 Speaker 7: the setup. A bird poop doesn't sound that horrible on 502 00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:26,280 Speaker 7: your food, I don't know. But before we get to 503 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 7: the crazy whateverthing that happened that derailed the date, let's 504 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,439 Speaker 7: start with the girl that you met. Who's she? 505 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 10: Yes, so, her name is Julia. We met online. She's 506 00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 10: super cute, okay. 507 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 2: Was there something about her that stood out from everybody else? 508 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 10: Well, other than her beautiful smile and beautiful hair. Of course, 509 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:48,080 Speaker 10: she had this beautiful dragon tattoo on her shoulder, and like, 510 00:21:48,200 --> 00:21:50,639 Speaker 10: you know, I'm really into like tattoos, and it was 511 00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 10: it was super hot and just it was it was 512 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 10: just beautiful. It was beautiful. 513 00:21:53,960 --> 00:21:54,560 Speaker 1: That's awesome. 514 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 6: That's a good like conversation point to come up on it. 515 00:21:58,040 --> 00:22:00,119 Speaker 2: I mean, people are so proud of their tattoos. I 516 00:22:00,119 --> 00:22:02,879 Speaker 2: bet she would love to have a compliment about it. 517 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:06,359 Speaker 11: Some girls get annoyed because guys always say the same thing, I. 518 00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:08,080 Speaker 7: Like, your tattoo, did it hurt? 519 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:08,760 Speaker 6: You know? 520 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: I don't think that's about it. 521 00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 2: When you ask what the meaning is that should because 522 00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 2: Alexis hates meanings. 523 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,360 Speaker 1: I was drunk. 524 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 7: A lot of Okay, well, at least the initial attraction 525 00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:26,240 Speaker 7: was there for you. What did you and Julia do 526 00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 7: for your day? 527 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:27,680 Speaker 9: Well? 528 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,800 Speaker 10: I wanted to do something different, right, so I didn't 529 00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 10: want to be like every other guy that was hitting 530 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:35,399 Speaker 10: her up online. So I was like, well, let's do 531 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 10: something somewhat romantic. And city stooters and right around the city. 532 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,360 Speaker 10: I love. That are some of my favorite spots. 533 00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, like you know, like the scooters that are you 534 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 2: can like use your app on and yeah, my husband 535 00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:50,280 Speaker 2: and I do that. 536 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:52,959 Speaker 7: Sometimes that doesn't bode well for you. 537 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 1: Oh no, we bring helmets though, because there. 538 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:58,200 Speaker 7: Are a lot of people you don't not. 539 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:00,840 Speaker 5: Worried helmets and I've never seen you're a helmet on those. 540 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: Oh I definitely. Do you go twenty twenty five miles 541 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:04,760 Speaker 1: an hour? Alexis? 542 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:08,480 Speaker 7: Yeah, hey, did you did you go? Helmets or no helmets? Marshall, 543 00:23:08,960 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 7: No helmets? 544 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:09,679 Speaker 9: No? 545 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,440 Speaker 10: All right, But you know it's funny that you say 546 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 10: that because everything was going well. We got ice cream, 547 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:17,439 Speaker 10: we got coffee and everything, but then we're at a 548 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:20,199 Speaker 10: crosswalk and this woman comes up. She says, like, you know, 549 00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,480 Speaker 10: she's an er doctor, and she's like, listen, I've been 550 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 10: doing this for over twenty years, and most of the 551 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,920 Speaker 10: injuries I've seen have come from those scooters right there. 552 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:35,439 Speaker 7: Oh oh my god, was right. That sucks though, Well, like, 553 00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 7: what a mood killer to happen in the middle of you. 554 00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:39,080 Speaker 12: Or what do you? 555 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,159 Speaker 7: Yeah, what did you walk off and walk the scooter? 556 00:23:42,320 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 10: So you're saying, well, you know, I'm sitting there and 557 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:47,600 Speaker 10: I'm like, come on, lady, I'm obviously on a date here, 558 00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 10: so you know, I kind of laugh it off, okay, 559 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,440 Speaker 10: and so I'm like, let me get out of this 560 00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 10: situation as quick as possible. 561 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:54,560 Speaker 1: So great injuries. 562 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 10: As I was pulling away, you wouldn't believe it. I 563 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 10: ran over this lady's foot. The irony I felt horrible, 564 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:12,639 Speaker 10: and she's yelling even louder, that's. 565 00:24:12,480 --> 00:24:14,160 Speaker 7: Why you got a gun it and get away from 566 00:24:14,160 --> 00:24:15,200 Speaker 7: the screens. 567 00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 10: After that point, I was like, I just want to 568 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,159 Speaker 10: be as far away from this lady as possible. She 569 00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,679 Speaker 10: was okay. I took the tongue lashing, and I'm like, 570 00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 10: all right, let's just go and Julie's not really wanting 571 00:24:27,480 --> 00:24:28,800 Speaker 10: to ride these scooters anymore. 572 00:24:29,119 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, weird. 573 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 1: Time to park up. 574 00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:34,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, did you guys just find a bar 575 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:36,679 Speaker 2: or something or a restaurant to go to? 576 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 10: Yeah? Actually we did. I was like, let's just go 577 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 10: over here. This is a nice spot. We got a 578 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,320 Speaker 10: couple of drinks and it's good. Everything seem cool. 579 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, you read what she wanted right like that. I 580 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,800 Speaker 1: mean it's good like something some people will be like, 581 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 1: let's just keep going and ignore the other person's feelings. 582 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 7: Why are you every time it's like any drink comes 583 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 7: into playbooks like okay, good, good, thank god. I mean 584 00:25:00,280 --> 00:25:08,360 Speaker 7: it is dangerous, heavy drinking, thumbs up, good, helmet, I. 585 00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: Wear a helmet to white night. 586 00:25:10,480 --> 00:25:10,600 Speaker 9: No. 587 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,199 Speaker 1: I mean it's good that you read what she wanted 588 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:13,960 Speaker 1: and needed and. 589 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:17,440 Speaker 7: Salvage I mean, did you salvage it from that point? 590 00:25:17,480 --> 00:25:18,679 Speaker 7: Did it feel good from that point on? 591 00:25:19,560 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 9: Well? 592 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:21,760 Speaker 10: I thought so. I mean we had a great time. 593 00:25:22,000 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 10: We shared it, laughed, we got a couple of drinks 594 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:28,120 Speaker 10: and everything was fine. But well, I've been trying to 595 00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:30,719 Speaker 10: get in contact with her and have another date for 596 00:25:30,760 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 10: the last two weeks, and she's just always had some 597 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,800 Speaker 10: other excuse, you know. And she even told me that 598 00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:40,360 Speaker 10: she's been going out on dates, which is cool, don't 599 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:41,719 Speaker 10: get me wrong, Like I get it. 600 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,920 Speaker 1: She's to say that, do you say that to each other? 601 00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:46,640 Speaker 1: And she don't want to go out with them. 602 00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:49,280 Speaker 7: She's telling you, I'm seeing other guys. I can't meet 603 00:25:49,359 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 7: up with you. I only got a. 604 00:25:51,160 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 2: Date Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday. 605 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,760 Speaker 10: Well, she did say, let's pick another night, but it 606 00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,280 Speaker 10: just seems like every night I picked, there's always. 607 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, okay, she was just saying that because she 608 00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:07,800 Speaker 2: felt bad about that whole being real honest thing the date, 609 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:09,080 Speaker 2: you know it. 610 00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 7: Is Maybe not though, but it might be a good 611 00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 7: sign that she's being totally transparent telling you what's going 612 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 7: on in her life. 613 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:16,840 Speaker 11: But also it's hard to reject people, so maybe she's 614 00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 11: hoping he figures. 615 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 2: It out, Like, how about we just find out we 616 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 2: need to figure it out. 617 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 7: Yeah, we're all we're all gonna have helmets before we 618 00:26:25,760 --> 00:26:28,000 Speaker 7: make the call, just because we don't know what disaster 619 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 7: might be waiting on the other end. 620 00:26:29,600 --> 00:26:30,760 Speaker 11: Always has five in her car. 621 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: Seriously, you should wear a helmet on those things. 622 00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:36,280 Speaker 7: Yes, all right? For to come back Second Dates, an 623 00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 7: extra safe edition of your Second Date update right after this, 624 00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:40,879 Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in. 625 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:42,879 Speaker 5: The morning Second Date Updates. 626 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,280 Speaker 7: Oh can you guys picture it right now? 627 00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:48,640 Speaker 1: Picture what? 628 00:26:48,840 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 7: This is the background music I have in my head 629 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 7: as Marshall navigates through the busy city sidewalks, creasing it 630 00:26:56,960 --> 00:27:01,320 Speaker 7: three miles per hour without a hed Well, it's like 631 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:06,280 Speaker 7: Frogger dodge the fire hydrant. Marshall jumped the manhole. 632 00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:11,000 Speaker 1: It's all the games until somebody gets hurt. 633 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:14,960 Speaker 7: That's right, because he's an adrenaline junkie riding without a 634 00:27:15,000 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 7: helmet on. That's probably why he called into the show 635 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:20,359 Speaker 7: this morning, just for the high of being on the radio. 636 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:24,080 Speaker 7: Open sewer coming up, isn't that John Marshall? You got 637 00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:27,520 Speaker 7: your adrenaline fixed just talking to us, didn't you. 638 00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 9: Yeah? 639 00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 10: Yeah I did. 640 00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:32,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, see right through you. 641 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 2: This sounds like the theme song of an eighties like 642 00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 2: video game. 643 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,000 Speaker 7: We've all been. 644 00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 6: There, the dangerous streets. 645 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 7: But the worst part of the date was when Marshall 646 00:27:45,240 --> 00:27:48,320 Speaker 7: accidentally ran over a lady's foot who warned him that 647 00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 7: scooters are very dangerous. End up causing a lot of 648 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,160 Speaker 7: er visits, and of course it ended up happening during 649 00:27:54,160 --> 00:27:56,800 Speaker 7: his date, and Brooke is upset he wasn't wearing a helmet. 650 00:27:57,000 --> 00:27:59,240 Speaker 2: Well, that's not about me, I mean, it's about his date. 651 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,600 Speaker 2: Like he was to rescue the night they went out, 652 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 2: got some drinks, calm down. 653 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:04,680 Speaker 7: At least we thought he rescued it. But it's been 654 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,680 Speaker 7: two weeks and she still hasn't agreed to another date. 655 00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:09,879 Speaker 7: Even told him that she's seeing another guy on one 656 00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 7: of the Knights. 657 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,400 Speaker 6: Kind of harsh, but but honest, brutally. 658 00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,680 Speaker 7: Honest, And maybe that's a good sign. Marsh You ready 659 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:17,200 Speaker 7: to call her here? 660 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:19,840 Speaker 10: Yeah? Yeah, hopefully we can get to the bottom of this. 661 00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:23,360 Speaker 2: I mean, you don't sound like a dangerous guy, so 662 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:25,760 Speaker 2: I think that it's probably not the scooter mishap. 663 00:28:25,840 --> 00:28:27,680 Speaker 7: That's what they say about all the most dangerous people 664 00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:30,639 Speaker 7: in the world. I never would have suspected you to 665 00:28:30,680 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 7: be the killer nice. 666 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 9: Killer. 667 00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 7: All right, Mars, Well, let's just do this. 668 00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 6: I'm gonna call Julia for you. Here we go. Hello, Hey, 669 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:55,160 Speaker 6: is this Julia? 670 00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,080 Speaker 7: Yes you may have Yeah, we are a question. 671 00:29:01,240 --> 00:29:03,040 Speaker 8: We're a radiown number. 672 00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, we have to protect our number because we're a 673 00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 7: radio show. 674 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 9: Okay, what is this about? 675 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 7: This is about a segment we do on Brook and 676 00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,239 Speaker 7: Jeffrey in the morning. That's what this show is. 677 00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:16,920 Speaker 6: It's called second Date Update. 678 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 8: Okay, and who is it you're looking. 679 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:21,479 Speaker 7: For for you? 680 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll start me. 681 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 9: Yeah. 682 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 7: We heard about you through one of our listeners named 683 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,520 Speaker 7: Marshall that apparently you went on a date with a 684 00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:30,280 Speaker 7: couple of weeks ago. 685 00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:33,600 Speaker 9: Oh Marshall, Yeah. 686 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,280 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think that sounded good. 687 00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,320 Speaker 7: There was a smile on her face when she said 688 00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 7: his name. 689 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,760 Speaker 8: Sure, why would he have the radio calling me though? 690 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 8: It's just a little confusing because he has my numbers. 691 00:29:47,840 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: Yeah. 692 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 7: Well he's been using that number to try and ask 693 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:54,920 Speaker 7: you out, but you keep brushing him off or being busy. 694 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,760 Speaker 1: Or maybe you're not brushing him off. He doesn't know. 695 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 1: He felt like, maybe that's why, maybe you don't like 696 00:29:59,280 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: him that much. 697 00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:01,560 Speaker 7: That's why he's going through us. He's trying to get 698 00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:02,120 Speaker 7: some clarity. 699 00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:02,880 Speaker 12: You know. 700 00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,560 Speaker 9: It's just how do I explain this? 701 00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:07,720 Speaker 8: And there's nothing wrong with him per se, But I'm 702 00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:11,080 Speaker 8: looking for a partner in life. I want my rider die. 703 00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:14,880 Speaker 7: Because we heard you guys rode City Scooters. 704 00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 8: Oh my goodness. 705 00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:20,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, apparently there is the background music that was playing 706 00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,520 Speaker 7: the entire time because you two are rebels who ride 707 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:24,400 Speaker 7: without helmets on. 708 00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's it's really honestly, ride or die 709 00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,240 Speaker 2: in that situation because you should be protecting your head. 710 00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:30,440 Speaker 10: No. 711 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 8: Absolutely, honestly, it didn't occur to me until after that 712 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:35,800 Speaker 8: woman like she's sort of a cost to us, But 713 00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 8: I didn't really think about it. 714 00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:39,880 Speaker 7: Yeah, we heard there was an old lady that like 715 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 7: approached you and said riding scooters causes a lot. 716 00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 6: Of er business. 717 00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 1: I think she's a er doctor. 718 00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:47,440 Speaker 8: She could have maybe been like a little more pleasant 719 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:49,800 Speaker 8: about it. She's sort of just like started shouting at us. 720 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:51,600 Speaker 8: And I think Marshall handled it all right. He got 721 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 8: a little panicky. 722 00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds fun though. 723 00:30:54,800 --> 00:30:57,040 Speaker 7: And I think Marshall even admitted that it was kind 724 00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 7: of an awkward moment in the date. But over when 725 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:03,920 Speaker 7: you look at Marshall as a person, we're not sure 726 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,600 Speaker 7: why you wouldn't want to see him one more time. 727 00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,440 Speaker 8: It's not that I don't want to see him, it's 728 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 8: not he's not like giving me like that wow factor 729 00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:13,920 Speaker 8: at least, you know, not in a good way. Like, 730 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 8: I mean, yeah, he's texted me, but has he called me? 731 00:31:17,800 --> 00:31:19,840 Speaker 8: You know, voiced the voice and asked me out again. 732 00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:21,239 Speaker 1: A lot of people don't like that. 733 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 7: These days you're looking for hasn't. 734 00:31:24,080 --> 00:31:26,200 Speaker 8: Like called me or like text him, been like let's 735 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,720 Speaker 8: do this at this time on this date. He's just like, Hey, 736 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:31,080 Speaker 8: I had a good time, and I'm like that's nice. 737 00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:32,040 Speaker 12: But a lot of. 738 00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:33,160 Speaker 9: Guys have had a good time with me. 739 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 8: I'm looking for the guy that's going to put that 740 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 8: extra effort into it and make me feel like I'm 741 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:38,440 Speaker 8: one in a million. 742 00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 11: What if he's not trying to come off like super though, 743 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 11: Like what if he just wants to have a conversation 744 00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,240 Speaker 11: throughout the day and then naturally bring up a date. 745 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:45,520 Speaker 9: You know. 746 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:47,680 Speaker 6: Yeah, I think he's trying to be respectful of you here. 747 00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:47,920 Speaker 9: It is. 748 00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,680 Speaker 1: That's what I was trying to sound really good to me. 749 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:52,960 Speaker 12: Yeah, text is nothing. 750 00:31:53,000 --> 00:31:55,520 Speaker 8: I want flowers. I want gestures. 751 00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 1: So you're not even no, No, she's saying that she 752 00:31:59,200 --> 00:32:01,120 Speaker 1: needs more. She knows that he likes. 753 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 7: Her, but he's just. 754 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,320 Speaker 2: Gesture and in life, she's looking for somebody who's gonna 755 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:07,800 Speaker 2: put the work in. 756 00:32:08,200 --> 00:32:10,480 Speaker 8: Absolutely So I mean, if you guys could actually just 757 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,720 Speaker 8: let him know that I'm not interested, that would. 758 00:32:13,520 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 2: Be Okay, so you know what you want and you 759 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 2: don't think it's Marshall. 760 00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:21,040 Speaker 7: Yeah, if you want us to tell him no, we could, 761 00:32:21,120 --> 00:32:23,400 Speaker 7: or honestly, you could just do it yourself, because he's 762 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 7: actually on the phone right now, and. 763 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 12: What I didn't want to do. 764 00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 7: You're laughing and smiling. 765 00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, but he's finally on the phone. Remember that's what 766 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 1: you wanted. 767 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 6: Marshall is there? 768 00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 10: Man, Hey, Julia, Sorry, this is a little awkward. I 769 00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 10: apologize about that. 770 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:43,920 Speaker 6: Marsh I don't know. 771 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 7: If you heard all that, but she's trying to tell 772 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,160 Speaker 7: you that she's not that interested and it's probably not 773 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 7: going to happen. 774 00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:51,680 Speaker 10: You know what. That's okay. I got the clarity that 775 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 10: I needed. 776 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:53,920 Speaker 1: He's going to give up. 777 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:58,520 Speaker 10: I appreciate you being honest. Wait seriously, well, I mean 778 00:32:58,560 --> 00:32:59,760 Speaker 10: I texted you and. 779 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 8: Oh you texting me? Everybody texting me? Are you kidding me? 780 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 8: Oh my god, I'm not should be a jerk here, 781 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 8: but like you went through all this trouble and You're 782 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,080 Speaker 8: like you have me on the radio and everything, and 783 00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:15,720 Speaker 8: I'm like, oh, no, thanks, and you're just like hey, bye, 784 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:17,520 Speaker 8: Like where's the gesture. 785 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:20,920 Speaker 7: He's listening to what you're saying. 786 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:22,920 Speaker 12: He's listening to me, saying he's a great guy. 787 00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:24,880 Speaker 8: He's not showing up enthusiast. 788 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,240 Speaker 9: I'm like, it's fine. 789 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:28,560 Speaker 1: Situations we learned. 790 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 7: Don't take no for an answer is not an acceptable 791 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,360 Speaker 7: thing anymore. I guess, yeah, that's not allowed. 792 00:33:34,440 --> 00:33:35,800 Speaker 6: Girls like never call me again. 793 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,120 Speaker 11: You go, okay, I'll respect that, And she's like, oh, 794 00:33:40,000 --> 00:33:41,280 Speaker 11: I said sometimes, I mean it. 795 00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 9: Sometimes I didn't say never call me again. 796 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 8: I said, Oh, he's really really sweet, but I'm not 797 00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,320 Speaker 8: that interested. That's like a far cry from never call 798 00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 8: me again. 799 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 7: I don't want him to call you even though you're 800 00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 7: not interested, Marshall. 801 00:33:55,400 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: I'm just kind of surprised that you're not putting up 802 00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 1: more of a fight either. 803 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:02,200 Speaker 10: Okay, well, you know, I'm sorry. I guess I was 804 00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,640 Speaker 10: just trying to fill out the situation. I didn't want 805 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,120 Speaker 10: to bother you, but I really wanted to see you again. 806 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:09,000 Speaker 10: So do you want to go out with me? I 807 00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:10,320 Speaker 10: would love to take you out again. 808 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 8: Oh man, I appreciate the offer, but I really am 809 00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,480 Speaker 8: not interested. 810 00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:21,440 Speaker 1: You just to turn him down, are you kidding? 811 00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 2: Mom? Give him a chance like he with the extra 812 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 2: planned a unique date. 813 00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:30,359 Speaker 10: You don't want a chance with this girl, Julie, I'm 814 00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,960 Speaker 10: sorry about the scooters. We can wear helmet, you can 815 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 10: do whatever you want. We can go to a bar. Marshall, 816 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:36,720 Speaker 10: Oh my god. 817 00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:43,360 Speaker 12: Just stop seriously. I already said no, you're embarrassing yourself. 818 00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 12: Oh god, you understand how any of this? It's only 819 00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:50,840 Speaker 12: like eight notes? 820 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, how many notes does it take? 821 00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:56,920 Speaker 8: I said no to a guy like fifteen to twenty 822 00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 8: times before I did, yet, like, this guy's still gotta 823 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 8: wait to go. 824 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:07,720 Speaker 2: Oh why You're just gonna end up attracting red flag men. 825 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:08,319 Speaker 7: From here on out? 826 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 1: Guys, do we just forever ask girls out? 827 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:11,120 Speaker 9: Take? 828 00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,799 Speaker 7: Well, we have to at least ask one more time 829 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,320 Speaker 7: officially for the rules. Julia, would you like to go 830 00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,560 Speaker 7: out with Marshall again? One more time? We would pay 831 00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 7: for it. 832 00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:20,320 Speaker 6: We have to. We have to get the no. 833 00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:23,680 Speaker 8: I think he's so sweet, but I know. 834 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 7: You like to go out with Marshall one more time? 835 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:26,560 Speaker 2: You pay? 836 00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,839 Speaker 7: Would Okay? Asked up? 837 00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:33,799 Speaker 1: All right, that's too much. 838 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:35,919 Speaker 8: Just knock that into him. 839 00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,399 Speaker 1: Okay, That's that's what it really came down. 840 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:39,680 Speaker 7: Could have said that, We. 841 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 1: Could have just ended it as soon as we got Marshall. 842 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:47,440 Speaker 9: Sorry, Marshall, Marshall, It's okay. 843 00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,400 Speaker 10: I guess I wish I would have know him sooner, 844 00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,520 Speaker 10: But I mean I wish you the best. 845 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:53,960 Speaker 11: There's a text word that would like your number, just so. 846 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,480 Speaker 6: I have a feeling that we're not done with Marshall yet. 847 00:35:56,480 --> 00:36:00,359 Speaker 7: We're gonna have to do seven more second data. We'll 848 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 7: eventually get her to say yes. One of these days, Bro. 849 00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:08,480 Speaker 1: You'll teach them. 850 00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,680 Speaker 7: Roll around the city by himself beating off into the 851 00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:17,399 Speaker 7: sunset at a brisk four miles per hour. One day 852 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,080 Speaker 7: you'll come back get that date, buddy. 853 00:36:19,080 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 10: All right, all right, I appreciate you, guys, Brook and 854 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:27,440 Speaker 10: Jeffrey in the morning. 855 00:36:29,400 --> 00:36:29,600 Speaker 6: Man. 856 00:36:29,680 --> 00:36:33,280 Speaker 7: That really was just like an old school arcade game 857 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 7: Sidewalk Scooter X, and we tried to help Marshall beat 858 00:36:38,600 --> 00:36:42,319 Speaker 7: that final boss level and get him a second date. 859 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,520 Speaker 1: Wait, you're making her the big monster at the end 860 00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:46,919 Speaker 1: of the video. Is that what you're doing? 861 00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:51,960 Speaker 7: She's like the gorilla. That's but we tried and tried 862 00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 7: until ran out of live. He neuses he can always 863 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 7: pop in another quarter and try again. Eventually beat that game. 864 00:37:02,600 --> 00:37:02,719 Speaker 2: There. 865 00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 7: I guess I would ask people to text in to 866 00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:08,880 Speaker 7: seven eighty five nine two should Marshall keep trying to 867 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,319 Speaker 7: get another date, but I know ninety nine percent are 868 00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:12,000 Speaker 7: going to say no. 869 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,080 Speaker 2: Well no, It's like she was saying what she wanted 870 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 2: and then when he gave it to her, then she 871 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:18,600 Speaker 2: didn't want it anymore. 872 00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,000 Speaker 1: I think she I think she just didn't want him, 873 00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,279 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, I think I think 874 00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 1: she could have had him. 875 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:29,840 Speaker 7: I think in general, I'm just gonna speak for all 876 00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:32,240 Speaker 7: of the people out there, for all the women listening, 877 00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:33,759 Speaker 7: and Brooke would agree with me on this. 878 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:39,280 Speaker 2: They wouldn't continue whatever you're about. 879 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 7: Out, ladies. If you have certain rules and expectations about dating, 880 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,160 Speaker 7: you please let us know what they are. All right, 881 00:37:45,200 --> 00:37:46,440 Speaker 7: that's valid, Okay, Can we. 882 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,839 Speaker 6: Guess what it is you want and don't want? 883 00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm sure. 884 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 1: You guess right. You move up in the rain. It's real, fad. 885 00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:55,879 Speaker 1: I'm actually with jeff on that one. 886 00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:58,520 Speaker 2: I mean, like a little handbook for everyone men and 887 00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,239 Speaker 2: women would be really nice. 888 00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,200 Speaker 7: But even if you don't know what you want, you 889 00:38:02,239 --> 00:38:04,879 Speaker 7: can always email us. We'll call that person who wasn't 890 00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,479 Speaker 7: calling you back. O. Check out all of our Second 891 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,760 Speaker 7: Day podcast wherever you get yours at Brook and Jeffrey