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<v Speaker 1>Jewels Second Date Update Before we start today's second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>I want every dude listening right now to take note

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<v Speaker 1>and pay attention. Okay, because on the phone right now

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<v Speaker 1>we have a true pickup artist. Oh, this guy knows

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<v Speaker 1>how to get the ladies and he has a pickup

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<v Speaker 1>line that he uses that I guess is a surefire technique.

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<v Speaker 1>There's there's literally no such thing. It doesn't exist. His

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<v Speaker 1>name is David, and in his email about the woman

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<v Speaker 1>that he wants to call today, he said he went

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<v Speaker 1>to a dog park and this is how he got

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<v Speaker 1>her number. He said, Hey, is that your dog smooth line? David,

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<v Speaker 1>very smooth. And I would argue that it's to deliver

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<v Speaker 1>h not the actual words. Okay, So David, tell us

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<v Speaker 1>how you deliver it that If it's different than that, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I see, I got to the dog park quite often,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's there's two different kinds of people who go

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<v Speaker 1>to the dog park. There's the people who take their

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<v Speaker 1>dogs so you know, get some exercise. And they just

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<v Speaker 1>go and let the dog run and then they sit

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<v Speaker 1>on their phone the whole time. And then there's people

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<v Speaker 1>who go to be around other people and other dogs

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<v Speaker 1>and interact with people. Okay, I got all the dog

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<v Speaker 1>park too. I don't think that there's that many of

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<v Speaker 1>those people, but okay, but it's just two categories, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's not like a third. And so I I saw

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<v Speaker 1>this girl, Teresa, and i'd actually seen her there before,

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<v Speaker 1>and she's definitely the latter, not the former, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>very very bubbly, very enigmatic. Okay, those are two big

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<v Speaker 1>of words for the show, David. Yeah, Well, sorry to

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<v Speaker 1>use big words. I just meant, you know, she's hot.

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<v Speaker 1>And see, friend, that's better. That's much more our enigmatic

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever to speak our language. She hot, I like her.

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<v Speaker 1>That's really all we needed. So you started talking to her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm making fun of it because in your email

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<v Speaker 1>you said that that was your line. It didn't sound

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<v Speaker 1>like much of a line. That was my line. And

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<v Speaker 1>I went up to her and I just very flat

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<v Speaker 1>I said, is that your dog? And she said no? Wait?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait were you purposely pointing to a dog that you

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<v Speaker 1>knew wasn't hers? No, it was her dog and the

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<v Speaker 1>dog that I've seen her bring before, and she says, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not her dog, and that kind of took me back.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know what I was expecting, but she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of fed into my line. She google, of course,

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<v Speaker 1>it's my dog, and we had to laugh about that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's funny. That's good. So we started sort of

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<v Speaker 1>joking about, well, you know, if we were to steal

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<v Speaker 1>a dog there, which dog would be, you know, fetch

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<v Speaker 1>the highest bounty on it? And did you guys decide

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<v Speaker 1>on one dog to steal? Yeah, we kind of looked

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<v Speaker 1>at the husky. You mean you could probably, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>fetch your pretty penny expensive breed. I see where you're

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<v Speaker 1>going exactly. And so then to kind of keep the

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<v Speaker 1>joe going, I said, well, you know where we can

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<v Speaker 1>go see a lot of other expensive dogs and she says,

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<v Speaker 1>no where, and I said, well, I'll show you on

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<v Speaker 1>our date. Oh, just telling her that you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>go on a date with me, Yeah, I'm pretty proud

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<v Speaker 1>of that one. And then what did she do to that?

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<v Speaker 1>She bat her eyes at you and say, oh, send

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<v Speaker 1>you are such a chaad. We'll just tell me when

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to pick me up. It was close. It

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<v Speaker 1>was close. I think she liked, you know, somebody coming

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<v Speaker 1>along with initiatives, and yeah, you know, I knew what

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted, okay, and she obviously wanted it too. Because

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<v Speaker 1>I am guessing you guys went on a date. We did.

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<v Speaker 1>We did go on a date, and the date was

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<v Speaker 1>to a restaurant that I know that also happens to

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<v Speaker 1>be across the street from a dog groomer. It's across

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<v Speaker 1>from a dog groomer. I mean, in my head, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, it's across the street. It will be funny,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I thought she would find it funny. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>now I'm thinking you're starting to milk the joke a

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<v Speaker 1>little too much. Well, this is why I'm calling, because

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<v Speaker 1>I thought everything was going well. And we ordered, they

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<v Speaker 1>brought us drinks, and as we were waiting for the food,

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<v Speaker 1>she says to me, hey, you know, look, David, uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think this is going to work out? Oh what?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess she was direct with you as well. She

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<v Speaker 1>had you hadn't even gotten through dinner and she's already

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<v Speaker 1>decided it's not going to work. We hadn't even gotten dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa Wow, what did you say to that? I asked her,

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<v Speaker 1>I said, was it? Did I say something? Something I said?

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<v Speaker 1>And she said, no, Look, I'm really sorry. I just

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<v Speaker 1>can't do this and that's it. And that was it. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she she apologized. I think she understood that

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<v Speaker 1>she was cutting it really short. Yeah, that would drive

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<v Speaker 1>me nuts, not knowing why. And that's I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>what's really getting me, because she was really sweet about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't rude and mean, she was really nice to

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<v Speaker 1>go who I wanted to take out. So you can't

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<v Speaker 1>you can't even be angry at her, exactly. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>she left and I've texted her several times and I

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<v Speaker 1>have not heard anything. That's Wait, did you eat your

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<v Speaker 1>whole dinner before she left her? No? I ate my

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<v Speaker 1>dinner and half her her dinner. She was gone at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, right, Yeah, ye, sweet double dinner. I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Nothing wrong with double dinner. Oh got rejected. Why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think that she would just leave like that? Then?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing I must have said something. I must have

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<v Speaker 1>made a joke that just didn't You know, I try

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<v Speaker 1>to crack a lot of jokes. People tell me I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not funny, but I think they just don't get them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's usually what it is, David. That's the best way

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. You know. If you think you're funny

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<v Speaker 1>and people don't agree, screw it you for you're funny.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm I'm guessing it was that, but it's sort

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<v Speaker 1>of kind of eating at me. I just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>want to know. Well, we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>and then call her and get your second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Hey, thank you guys. Yeah, man, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>Brookbil in the morning if you're just joining us for

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update. We have David on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and he wants to call a girl named Teresa. They

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<v Speaker 1>met at the dog park and then ended up making

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<v Speaker 1>plans to go to dinner. When they went to dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>she excused herself before they even had the food and

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<v Speaker 1>said she had to leave and just kind of left

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<v Speaker 1>him there. And he has no idea why she took off.

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<v Speaker 1>And David, I've got three theories for you. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the right response, David. First theory was that maybe

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<v Speaker 1>her ex boyfriend was a waiter at that restaurant she

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<v Speaker 1>had to just get out of there. Second theory, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she just wanted to see your dog again, and you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't bring your dog on the date, so she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to hang around with you. Is a cute dog.

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<v Speaker 1>Third theory never actually happened at all. You dreamt the

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing, and you currently still dreaming, David, And then

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<v Speaker 1>this whole thing is less embarrassing if it's the third one.

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<v Speaker 1>You did nothing wrong in the third scenario. You did.

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<v Speaker 1>I gave you her number? Right? Are you saying you

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<v Speaker 1>want me just to get to the phone call? Then

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<v Speaker 1>you're tired of my theories? Yeah? I mean I guess

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<v Speaker 1>we could explore that later, but maybe if we first, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's get to the phone call. All right, Well, dollar

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<v Speaker 1>phon number right now? Okay, here we go. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking Okay, Hi, Hi, aspect to Teresa please this

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<v Speaker 1>is her? Hey Teresa, how are you? This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry who

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<v Speaker 1>jew Bil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's

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<v Speaker 1>a radio show. Um, I think you might have the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong number. I don't think I do. I got your

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<v Speaker 1>number from one of our listeners who wanted me to

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<v Speaker 1>call you. Yeah for what? Well, valid question. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a good question. So we do a segment on our show.

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<v Speaker 1>It's called the second Date Updates. So you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with the dude that you met at the dog park recently.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's David, and David told us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about your date, and he's confused why you just took

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<v Speaker 1>off before dinner even got there. I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 1>this is one of those things, like I just knew

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't going to work out. He said that, you

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<v Speaker 1>said that, but he still doesn't know why. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand why it matters it Like I'm just I'm not interested. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think we know that, and I think David knows

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<v Speaker 1>that too, because we talked to him. But he's just curious,

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<v Speaker 1>like he wants to know what he did wrong. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just like we were at dinner and he's nice,

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<v Speaker 1>he just doesn't stop talking, and he just it's so exasperating.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I would be in the middle of a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>and he would just keep interrupting me over and over

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<v Speaker 1>and over again. Anytime he would ask me a question

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<v Speaker 1>about myself, and I'd be like thank God, like finally,

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<v Speaker 1>like you know, he'll come up for air and I

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<v Speaker 1>can actually like offer some sort of information about myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I would get three words and he would just jumper

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<v Speaker 1>it back end and interrupt me and turned the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>back around on him. So he talked a bunch, didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really ask you about yourself, and then only wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about himself. Yeah, I mean, it was just like

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<v Speaker 1>it got to the point where I just like I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't be talked at anymore, you know what I mean, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just it was too much. Yeah, but you I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>in his defense, he was probably nervous, and you weren't

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<v Speaker 1>even at the date long enough to really feel the

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<v Speaker 1>pain of being talked at that long. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>was in a lot of pain for being talked at.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what kind of pain he was in,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was in a lot. Well, at least she

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<v Speaker 1>got out before you had to sit there for like

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<v Speaker 1>an hour or two and just listen to him talk

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<v Speaker 1>about himself and you not be able to say a word. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>Why do you think I left? I couldn't. I just couldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just too much, like I couldn't do it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I'm sorry. I can't bag you on this one.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's so rude. You couldn't, like, the

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<v Speaker 1>worst thing that happened is you have to listen to

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<v Speaker 1>a guy for an hour? Do you still take do

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<v Speaker 1>you know? Like I don't know, I feel like you

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<v Speaker 1>might not. That's all right, I'm married, You're right, okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you just cut it and get out of there while

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<v Speaker 1>you were still able to salvage your evening. Maybe yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just you know, especially coming out of a relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like I just want to be out with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy and be able to have a conversation with them

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<v Speaker 1>where like seriously, like they're not going to interrupt me

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<v Speaker 1>every two seconds and I can actually tell them a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about And I feel like I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that I was trying to interrupt you, Like I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>trying to cut you off. Just did Yeah, who's that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>that's David. He's actually on the phone listening and wants

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you or at you, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's on the other line. I wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. Are you kidding me, Teresa? I I've never

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<v Speaker 1>tried to interrupt you. I mean, I did not think

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<v Speaker 1>that you were an interesting we're trying, but you did.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, well, when what I mean, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>we were only out for twenty minutes. How How could

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<v Speaker 1>I have talked over you the whole time? David? Do

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<v Speaker 1>you even remember anything about me aside from the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that I have a dog? Like, can you tell me

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<v Speaker 1>any any fact about me at all? Yeah? I remember

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<v Speaker 1>that you work at the dentist you're dental hygienas. And

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<v Speaker 1>I told you the story about my cab. Not a

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<v Speaker 1>dental hygienas. No, what do you do, Teresa? I work

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<v Speaker 1>at a yoga studio. Oh god, I never said that,

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<v Speaker 1>not one. That's what it was. It was your sister

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<v Speaker 1>is a dental hygienas and your Okay, yeah, I remember now, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>because my cousin is also a dental en sister is

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<v Speaker 1>a dental hygienas, and so I knew about the intricacies

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<v Speaker 1>of this. Professionally, you're doing well, I started talking to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Were doing right now, David. David, you see what's wanting

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<v Speaker 1>right now? You just turned this whole thing right around

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<v Speaker 1>and made it about you. No one cares about your cousin.

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<v Speaker 1>She has a point, David. I mean I was backing

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<v Speaker 1>her on maybe leaving a little bit earlier and not

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<v Speaker 1>giving you a chance. But maybe she read you right. Buddy. Look, no,

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<v Speaker 1>but I wasn't. I'm not trying to argue. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to talk. I'm just trying to say that I

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<v Speaker 1>was listening. Maybe I get the details wrong, but I

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<v Speaker 1>try to listen listen. I don't really hear what you're saying,

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<v Speaker 1>but I listen to the sound. David, if you're in

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<v Speaker 1>a class and then you go and you have to

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<v Speaker 1>take a test, just because you were in the class

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean you're going to pass the test if you

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<v Speaker 1>weren't listening because you didn't retain any information and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't remember the test after the stake, right, That's not

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<v Speaker 1>what she's saying. David is using it as an analogy. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I am listening. I just God, you're not listening. There's

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<v Speaker 1>five other people in this conversation and you're not listening

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<v Speaker 1>to any of about ways. I'm really sorry. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize, Like, how can I be better? I just

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<v Speaker 1>have to listen, Like conversation is a given take, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? Like if I wanted to just

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<v Speaker 1>have a guy talk at me, I would throw on

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<v Speaker 1>a podcast. Like you just need to pay attention and

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<v Speaker 1>if you feel like you're not getting something, out of

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<v Speaker 1>a conversation with somebody. I question. I did not feel

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<v Speaker 1>that way. I didn't feel like I wasn't getting something

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<v Speaker 1>out of the conversation. I wanted to contribute and make

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<v Speaker 1>the conversation better. You know, you were making it all

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<v Speaker 1>about you. That's that's exactly what you were doing. The

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing was about you. He doesn't quite get it yet,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do feel like David is asking the right

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<v Speaker 1>questions on trying to improve himself. You can give him

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<v Speaker 1>some credit for that, right, Teresa. I mean bare minimum credit, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>deliver of credit. And I think that means that you

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<v Speaker 1>guys should go out again. Teresa, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go on a second date with David? Will pay for it?

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<v Speaker 1>I like that you have to dangle the carrot of

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<v Speaker 1>you paying for it? Well, help sometimes, will you do it?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't think that he's actually learned anything

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't think I can actually, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I can put up with another twenty. But you're the

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<v Speaker 1>one who's not listening. Oh my god, No, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I was listening. I mean I know that her sister

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<v Speaker 1>is a dental hygenis and that she likes yoga, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like yoga. That's what I teach. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I do. Well, why you don't like it? You work

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<v Speaker 1>in it and you don't like it. Okay, you can't technicality,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a quart of law. What is going on? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I figured if you got into tea, I knew you

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<v Speaker 1>taught yoga. Like, sorry, I'm getting a little frustrated because

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<v Speaker 1>all I just wanted to do was talk to you

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<v Speaker 1>and get to know you better and have you get

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<v Speaker 1>to know me. But apparently you didn't want to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know me. So wait, you're turning it around now,

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<v Speaker 1>it's really what it feels like. If feels like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I call in and now it's everybody attacked. David Show, No, David, David.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think everybody agrees here that you just

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<v Speaker 1>have some areas to improve. And that's what you called

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<v Speaker 1>in about the second date four. You wanted to know

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<v Speaker 1>what you did wrong. She told you, And yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>hurts a little bit, but it's where we're at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember we talked about it. It's a successful second date.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think so. I think that the conversation is

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<v Speaker 1>double sided like the tape, and you let people contribute,

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<v Speaker 1>you let them be a part of the conversation. Just

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<v Speaker 1>because it's your story doesn't mean I can't tell my

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<v Speaker 1>story too, especially if my story is more interesting. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's the point where we know that I

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<v Speaker 1>will not be going on on the second day. Really,

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<v Speaker 1>that surprises completely surprised by that. Thank you for your time,

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<v Speaker 1>and David, I'm sorry you didn't get a second date. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>don't worry, there's plenty of other fish in the dog park.

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<v Speaker 1>In the morning text in at seven eighty five to

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<v Speaker 1>nine two and says, can you tell me what that

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<v Speaker 1>second day update was about? Again, I wasn't listening Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the morning if you missed today a

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<v Speaker 1>second day update. This dude, David wanted to call Teresa.

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<v Speaker 1>She actually bailed like twenty minutes into their date. While

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<v Speaker 1>they were talking, she said, yeah, this isn't working for

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<v Speaker 1>me and left, and he didn't know why. So we

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<v Speaker 1>got her on the phone and we found out the

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<v Speaker 1>reason that she wasn't calling him back and didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to hang out with him was because he didn't listen

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<v Speaker 1>to a word that she said, and he kept interrupting

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<v Speaker 1>her and talking about himself instead. Yeah, I thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was a being like unfair only giving him twenty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>into the date, and then after we talked to him

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, like like kind of getting during the

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<v Speaker 1>second day update. Yeah, she's just like, dude, I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't have the energy for this anymore. She's like, you

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<v Speaker 1>know how hard that is to talk to someone and

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<v Speaker 1>not have him listen. He's like, yeah, I do know

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<v Speaker 1>how hard that is because one time I was listening.

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<v Speaker 1>I was talking and someone was listening to me, like

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<v Speaker 1>stop bringing it back on yourself the whole time, so

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<v Speaker 1>that they decided to not go out again. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think he'll be just fine. He's got himself to hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with, so he's good. Remember, if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date update, all you have to do

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<v Speaker 1>is email the show and we will call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who didn't call you back. Ninety two point five