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Speaker 1: Jewels Second Date Update Before we start today's second date update,

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Speaker 1: I want every dude listening right now to take note

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Speaker 1: and pay attention. Okay, because on the phone right now

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Speaker 1: we have a true pickup artist. Oh, this guy knows

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Speaker 1: how to get the ladies and he has a pickup

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Speaker 1: line that he uses that I guess is a surefire technique.

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Speaker 1: There's there's literally no such thing. It doesn't exist. His

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Speaker 1: name is David, and in his email about the woman

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Speaker 1: that he wants to call today, he said he went

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Speaker 1: to a dog park and this is how he got

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Speaker 1: her number. He said, Hey, is that your dog smooth line? David,

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Speaker 1: very smooth. And I would argue that it's to deliver

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Speaker 1: h not the actual words. Okay, So David, tell us

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Speaker 1: how you deliver it that If it's different than that, well,

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Speaker 1: I see, I got to the dog park quite often,

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Speaker 1: and there's there's two different kinds of people who go

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Speaker 1: and she's definitely the latter, not the former, you know,

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Speaker 1: of words for the show, David. Yeah, Well, sorry to

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Speaker 1: use big words. I just meant, you know, she's hot.

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Speaker 1: And see, friend, that's better. That's much more our enigmatic

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Speaker 1: or whatever to speak our language. She hot, I like her.

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Speaker 1: That's really all we needed. So you started talking to her,

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Speaker 1: and I'm making fun of it because in your email

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Speaker 1: I said, is that your dog? And she said no? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Wait were you purposely pointing to a dog that you

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Speaker 1: dog that I've seen her bring before, and she says, no,

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Speaker 1: not her dog, and that kind of took me back.

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Speaker 1: I don't really know what I was expecting, but she

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Speaker 1: so she's funny. That's good. So we started sort of

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Speaker 1: joking about, well, you know, if we were to steal

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Speaker 1: the highest bounty on it? And did you guys decide

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Speaker 1: you're going to pick me up. It was close. It

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Speaker 1: I am guessing you guys went on a date. We did.

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing I must have said something. I must have

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Speaker 1: not funny, but I think they just don't get them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: want to know. Well, we'll play a song, come back,

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Speaker 1: All right, Hey, thank you guys. Yeah, man, hang on

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Speaker 1: Brookbil in the morning if you're just joining us for

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Speaker 1: today's second date update. We have David on the phone

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Speaker 1: and he wants to call a girl named Teresa. They

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Speaker 1: And David, I've got three theories for you. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the right response, David. First theory was that maybe

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Speaker 1: Third theory never actually happened at all. You dreamt the

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Speaker 1: whole thing, and you currently still dreaming, David, And then

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Speaker 1: this whole thing is less embarrassing if it's the third one.

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Speaker 1: You did nothing wrong in the third scenario. You did.

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Speaker 1: I gave you her number? Right? Are you saying you

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Speaker 1: you're tired of my theories? Yeah? I mean I guess

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Speaker 1: phon number right now? Okay, here we go. That's what

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Speaker 1: I'm looking Okay, Hi, Hi, aspect to Teresa please this

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Speaker 1: is her? Hey Teresa, how are you? This is Jewil

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Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry who

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Speaker 1: jew Bil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. It's

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Um, I think you might have the

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Speaker 1: It's called the second Date Updates. So you went out

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Speaker 1: Why do you think I left? I couldn't. I just couldn't.

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Speaker 1: you know? Like I don't know, I feel like you

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Speaker 1: Were doing right now, David. David, you see what's wanting

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Speaker 1: don't remember the test after the stake, right, That's not

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Speaker 1: Remember we talked about it. It's a successful second date.

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