1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: Hello, my love, Welcome to the gift. Then La la 2 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: bonus episode we got into the AMA right and I 3 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:20,760 Speaker 1: mean happy first Monday of the month, Happy first Monday 4 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:28,240 Speaker 1: of the bond. It's the first of the month. I 5 00:00:28,280 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: love that you know that I was obsessed with bone 6 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: thugs and harmony and who wasn't. So you guys know 7 00:00:37,640 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 1: this is when we recap an og episode of vander 8 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: Pump Roules. So Jessica asked, you, guys, what episode you 9 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:47,479 Speaker 1: wanted us to break down? And of course you chose 10 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: it's not about the Bosa, So I rewatched it. Okay, 11 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 1: it was I have not rewatched. That was a wild 12 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: How were you feeling? 13 00:00:59,000 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 2: Because there are a lot of things that you were 14 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 2: doing then that you would never do not I that's 15 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: not my boss. 16 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 1: That is not my boss. 17 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 3: And you have said that you don't go back and 18 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,039 Speaker 3: watch episodes that you've been drinking in. 19 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:11,119 Speaker 4: So how was it going? 20 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: It's all a big trigger to be sitting up at 21 00:01:15,200 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: this restaurant being like, I'm gonna have a vodka soda? 22 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: What coming? 23 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 4: Double double? 24 00:01:21,520 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 1: What is going on? I was so triggering? And why 25 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: is my voice so different back then? 26 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 4: Day? 27 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 1: You look like a baby too, like an octave hire 28 00:01:28,760 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: or something. Yeah, mine was too though, Okay, if you 29 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: can imagine No. Number one. It was triggering because I 30 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: just was annoyed at my own self. I was just like, 31 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: this person is very young and stupid. Clearly I was 32 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: triggered by the drinking. James is a dick, I missed 33 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: the ogs, and Jack's Taylor is a fool. That's what 34 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: I gathered. I didn't realize how Kelsey came about. 35 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 2: I thought Kelsey, I know, we'll get into it, but 36 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 2: I thought Kelsey was his therapist to begin with. 37 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 1: I didn't realize she was a reiki healer that he 38 00:02:08,480 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: then decided to hire. And the things he said. I 39 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: was like, oh god, yeah, anyway, no good, no, no good. 40 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 1: All around you look. Yeah, you look like a baby. 41 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 1: You have that like baby face. I think I was 42 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: like twenty six, which I mean I used to say, 43 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: once you hit twenty five, I feel like your frontal 44 00:02:28,120 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: lobe is formed and you can go out into the 45 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,920 Speaker 1: world and kill it. Honestly, I changed my mind. I 46 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:37,119 Speaker 1: think a solid thirty until you hit thirty you're a child. Yeah, 47 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: And for men, I think it's like forty five. Yeah, 48 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:42,239 Speaker 1: for men, it's like a sixty five right for men. 49 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:46,240 Speaker 1: They never reached the actual age of being mature individuals. 50 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 3: Agree, No, I agree, But then you guys kind of 51 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 3: we don't know what to do. 52 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 4: You guys throw us through loops, so. 53 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 1: We don't know which way to not really though, not really, 54 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 1: it's pretty it's pretty pretty freaking easy, and you make 55 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,800 Speaker 1: it difficult. And then look at us and think, I 56 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:04,480 Speaker 1: wonder why she's gone insane. Maybe because you're an asshole. 57 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,560 Speaker 1: You know you're insensitive. 58 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 4: We just need to be forty five. 59 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: Just wait, you all need to kind of just disappear. Actually, 60 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:20,160 Speaker 1: I got interviewed at the at the premiere party, and 61 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, it's actually a really great 62 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: time for chicks, you know, because we just keep elevating, 63 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: we become more powerful. It was about me, like like 64 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,119 Speaker 1: going in and thinking about having a baby on my own. 65 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 1: I was like, and the men just keep getting more 66 00:03:32,160 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: bottom of the barrel, like they keep getting shittier while 67 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: we keep getting better, And there will be a day 68 00:03:37,200 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 1: where we have no use for you anymore. I just 69 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: said that to Kyle. I said, we're gonna we can 70 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 1: make fake meat. 71 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:45,560 Speaker 2: You don't think we can make fake sperm that's coming 72 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 2: not fake, but like engineered sperm. I gotta say, at 73 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:51,119 Speaker 2: the end of the day, I don't want to live. 74 00:03:51,240 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 2: This is going to be so fucked up with me 75 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:54,080 Speaker 2: to say I don't want to live in a world 76 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 2: with no men. 77 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:56,320 Speaker 4: You guys would have I don't either. 78 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: I don't either. 79 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 4: Careful what you wish for, you just might get it. 80 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: That's very true. That's very true. I think about all 81 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: the things I wished for in the past, and I'm like, Wow, 82 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 1: I got exactly what I wanted, but in a very 83 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: different way than I thought I got it. 84 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know if I wanted the way I 85 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,719 Speaker 3: got it anyway. 86 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 1: No, I love the man's. I love a man's tall, 87 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:26,240 Speaker 1: dark and handsome, lick me from head to toe, moving on, 88 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: give me all the things for real. I know it 89 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:32,559 Speaker 1: seems like I'm a man hater. I am a man lover. 90 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 1: There's just other people him. No, that's actually not true. 91 00:04:37,279 --> 00:04:39,680 Speaker 1: I don't hate them at all. I smell bullshit from 92 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,800 Speaker 1: a mile away. But I love the man's And actually, 93 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: I think of every dude that I've ever dated, and 94 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:52,920 Speaker 1: there's not there's literally whatever, every single one who I 95 00:04:53,040 --> 00:04:57,440 Speaker 1: claim has been great. It's just the timing's off. Like 96 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: you did X, Y and Z, but like I also 97 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 1: did X, Y and Z, and it's because you were young, 98 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: and it's because I was maybe immature and a little insecure, 99 00:05:05,600 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 1: you know. But all the dudes that I've been involved 100 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:11,159 Speaker 1: with top notch, top notch and great a meat. Let 101 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:15,599 Speaker 1: me tell you what great a meat? What did you 102 00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: guys think of the episode? Did we get a lot 103 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: of comments? 104 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 2: Lots of comments, A lot of the same questions which 105 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:23,640 Speaker 2: I'm excited to dive into. I loved the episode. I 106 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: loved seeing the ogs. It was so weird to see 107 00:05:27,560 --> 00:05:32,359 Speaker 2: you like drinking. Honestly, just the drinking was weird because 108 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:35,560 Speaker 2: everything else was pretty spot on. 109 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,039 Speaker 1: You like standing up for yourself. 110 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 2: What you said to James at the bar, where you're like, 111 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: I need a friendship where I can feel safe. I'm like, oh, 112 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 2: there she is. Yes, that's right. Can I be safe 113 00:05:44,760 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 2: in this friendship? And he was like yes, it's like 114 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,360 Speaker 2: there you were. The Only thing that was weird is 115 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 2: he said some asshole things and then you didn't immediately 116 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: jump down his throat. 117 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: I was shot at you say again, well he's in mind, 118 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: I have my baby, and she decided I was trying 119 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: to watch on my phone, she decided to sit down 120 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,240 Speaker 1: next to me, and you know, she's a sponge, so 121 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: I couldn't watch the entire episode, but clearly I was there. 122 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: If you remind me what this episode entailed, because season six, 123 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:13,520 Speaker 1: you guys, season six was the season that I came 124 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 1: in and earned my place. 125 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:18,920 Speaker 4: It seemed like that too, the way the ogs were 126 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:19,520 Speaker 4: even talking. 127 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:23,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was like season four was rough, season five 128 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: was even rougher. Season six is where I came in 129 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 1: and I finally felt like, Okay, I found my footing, 130 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:31,880 Speaker 1: I've earned my place here and I had a really 131 00:06:31,920 --> 00:06:34,720 Speaker 1: great season, and that's when the audience kind of shifted 132 00:06:35,480 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: their mindset about me as well. You say that, so 133 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: it here's my question. 134 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:43,480 Speaker 2: You said you earned your place season six mentally, did 135 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 2: you feel like it was a tough one of the 136 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 2: tougher seasons for you or did you feel empowered? 137 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:50,680 Speaker 1: And like, because I felt I felt very empowered. I 138 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: felt like I could finally talk about the relationship that 139 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,440 Speaker 1: I was in at the time. I felt like people 140 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: were starting to accept me and they had kind of 141 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 1: owned they're they're wrongdoing and having us not really ever. Connect. No, 142 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,280 Speaker 1: it was a great It was a great season obviously. 143 00:07:08,520 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: Then you cut to like season ten where I'm really 144 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 1: hitting different and season six is like whatever I loved. 145 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:17,520 Speaker 1: I loved filming season six. 146 00:07:17,760 --> 00:07:20,880 Speaker 2: You he said, so James at the table said some 147 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: and I know we'll break this down however you want. 148 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 2: But you asked me, he said some shit that I 149 00:07:26,240 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 2: I he said. 150 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna see what I want to leave out. 151 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,360 Speaker 2: He said, blah blah blah, and then he said, the 152 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,880 Speaker 2: person you're dating at the time, he said, is just going. 153 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: To be done with you and on to the next 154 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: I mean, is he a psychic? Is he a psychic? 155 00:07:45,120 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 4: I think he was talking out of his ass and 156 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 4: the ship it stuck. 157 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: But you didn't. 158 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:52,440 Speaker 2: You made on his throat at the moment. You were 159 00:07:52,480 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 2: like this, You were like, what is going on in that? 160 00:07:55,920 --> 00:07:59,520 Speaker 1: I was a little confused by what he was saying. Yeah, 161 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: and I didn't and immediately jumped down his throat. I'm 162 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: actually thrilled that he spoke that into the atmosphere because 163 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: that was the first time I felt that we started 164 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: manifesting getting rid of this person at some point in time, right, 165 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 1: you know, he manifested a new young blonde great love. 166 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:21,720 Speaker 1: It probably didn't love hearing it at the time, but 167 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,760 Speaker 1: it was like James Kennedy started manifesting that so that 168 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:26,680 Speaker 1: I could be done and come into my own at 169 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 1: some point. So I'm actually very grateful that he spoke 170 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 1: that into the atmosphere. But I knew I knew James, 171 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: and it was like, Okay, you've been drinking, and I'm 172 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: not going to jump down your throat immediately. I'm going 173 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,360 Speaker 1: to take a beat and kind of like regroup, say 174 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: what I need to say, and then I need to 175 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: make an exit because right now this is where La 176 00:08:45,080 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 1: La could get physical with you. When I was a drinker, 177 00:08:49,000 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: it was unpredictable behavior. I have never that I can 178 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:58,520 Speaker 1: recall gotten physical with someone in my right frame of mind. 179 00:08:59,600 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: But Lola, when she's drinking, could absolutely see rage and 180 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,360 Speaker 1: just like attack you really, and I'm skinny and scrappy 181 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,520 Speaker 1: as fuck. You got those nails and I got the 182 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:17,959 Speaker 1: nails and I'm quick, yeah, yeah, great, like I'm swinging 183 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 1: and then bolting. Oh okay, so and then I'm kaoing 184 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: your fucking ash. That's what's happening. 185 00:09:24,600 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 4: Coward is what we call it. 186 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: It's not a coward. I can remember one time I 187 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 1: got physical with someone and it was scary for them. Oh, 188 00:09:33,520 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 1: scary for them. Yes, it was a man wow and 189 00:09:36,320 --> 00:09:38,560 Speaker 1: he was terrified of me. And then I got thrown 190 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:41,000 Speaker 1: into the backseat of a truck as the cops rolled in. 191 00:09:41,120 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: And I never went back to that place, no way ever. 192 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 1: But you were wasted, wasted on that note, were you 193 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,240 Speaker 1: with Easan? Can you ask this because you were talking 194 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: about this in the car, about her drinking, and you 195 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: were like, oh yeah. 196 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 4: I was very surprised because I was asking how you 197 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 4: hold your shit together? Have no idea that you were. 198 00:10:04,559 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: At the table with James the table or no. No, 199 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 1: we always pregamed and fun fact, you know how it 200 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:16,120 Speaker 1: shows that I leave. We I don't leave. They wrap 201 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: up filming, we go next door to this bar called 202 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: the Diamond. Get fucked you and James and Logan. Yeah, 203 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:29,320 Speaker 1: so you guys made before I even left? Really wow? Okay, 204 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: so you were fucked up though, and they didn't you know, 205 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say here's the thing, you know when I'm 206 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 1: fucked up? Okay, very fucked up. Same season where I'm 207 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:44,720 Speaker 1: at Peter's birthday party and I'm screaming at Sena and 208 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:50,440 Speaker 1: it's when Schwartzy calls Sena a bootleg Kardashian and I'm like, 209 00:10:52,920 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm done. Like that's oh we started early like this 210 00:10:57,200 --> 00:10:59,920 Speaker 1: morning that was this morning dress. 211 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 2: I want to flip that and just text that to 212 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 2: so many people that enough, I am done. 213 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: I've had it. 214 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, just start using that when you and mom pop off. 215 00:11:09,640 --> 00:11:15,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna start texting that to my mom. That's 216 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:19,240 Speaker 1: left up bla lah. Okay, the one it looked like 217 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: you had together, well, it looked like you were angry. 218 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:23,920 Speaker 1: It was the pitch of my voice that you could 219 00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: tell her she's a little drunkie. But where I was 220 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: in that scene with James about the pasta, that was 221 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 1: like we were pretty lit, but we weren't like we're 222 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: gonna be blackout pretty soon. Right right that you went 223 00:11:38,400 --> 00:11:43,200 Speaker 1: over to the Diamond, the Dime, the Dime. Oh no, 224 00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 1: I'm sure. I'm sure that night we probably went to 225 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 1: like sur and continued the party. 226 00:11:48,840 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 2: Okay, let me ask you, do you remember when you 227 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,440 Speaker 2: watch these scenes? Do you remember them like you can 228 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:55,600 Speaker 2: feel what you felt in that moment, or are you like. 229 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:57,440 Speaker 4: I don't even remember walking in that door. 230 00:11:57,960 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember you do. Yeah. I it was very 231 00:12:01,440 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: rare that I ever blacked out because I usually ended 232 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 1: up puking before I blacked out. 233 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:09,880 Speaker 4: Really, I always got blackout family, maybe. 234 00:12:09,760 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I like never. I can't think of really any 235 00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 1: time that I blacked out because I get very sick 236 00:12:16,520 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: before I can black out. Oh you mean because you 237 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 1: get sick, you can't black out to get them. Yeah, 238 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: well I have to stop drinking. It's like we're vomiting now. 239 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 4: My body gets tired before my mind. 240 00:12:26,920 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 3: Now how it's usually your mind goes to bad and 241 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 3: your body keeps going. 242 00:12:33,679 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 1: I want to know what some of the questions are. Yeah, 243 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: we've got a lot of good ones. 244 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:41,400 Speaker 2: Okay, this is a very common one, and I want 245 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 2: you to put this to rest because you were asked 246 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:45,480 Speaker 2: this on the tour as well when we did that 247 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 2: give them while a tour. 248 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 1: Is pasta code for anything? Legit? Question? Was there a 249 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:57,880 Speaker 1: secret meaning for pasta? You guys? So many people asked me, 250 00:12:58,040 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 1: like they thought for so long that I did all 251 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: of Raquel's cocaine. They thought it was like a secret 252 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: code word for cocaine. They were like Pasta's blow. They're 253 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: upset because Lala did all of Rauquel and James's blow 254 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:17,880 Speaker 1: and I'm like, what, no, no, right. I wrote about 255 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:22,199 Speaker 1: this in my book. Okay, okay. Producers wanted something else 256 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: brought up. I did not feel comfortable about bringing that up. 257 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 1: So what did I do? I tried to just say 258 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,959 Speaker 1: something to kind of steer in a different direction, which 259 00:13:34,040 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: was we ate off all of Raquel's pasta, and she 260 00:13:36,280 --> 00:13:37,920 Speaker 1: didn't give us permission, and I thought we were going 261 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: to laugh it off. And something else was, you know, 262 00:13:40,400 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: we were going to change the trajectory of the conversation 263 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:48,840 Speaker 1: away from where they wanted it to go. I didn't 264 00:13:48,840 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: feel right about having it go where they wanted it 265 00:13:51,080 --> 00:13:55,040 Speaker 1: to go, and it went an even more chaotic and 266 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: better direction. 267 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 2: It was a better direction. So you brought James didn't 268 00:13:58,600 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 2: know you were going to talk about pasta. 269 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,720 Speaker 1: Here's the thing. I smoked an entire blunt and Raquel 270 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 1: was working and said you can have some of my 271 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: food while I'm working, and I ate it all. I 272 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 1: was camped outside on this. It used to be there's 273 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:15,079 Speaker 1: like tables there now, but it used to be where 274 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: it was just benches and tiny little tables, and she 275 00:14:18,800 --> 00:14:21,440 Speaker 1: was popping in and out and taking bites and I'm 276 00:14:21,480 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: here stoned as a motherfucker. Yeah, and I just ate 277 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 1: the whole thing. Okay, Well that leads out it was 278 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 1: pasta that leads us into this. So it was pasta. 279 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 1: It wasn't cocaine. Let me be very clear. I've never 280 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: done cocaine in my entire life. Okay. I have smoked 281 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 1: weed and I did mushrooms one time when I first 282 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: moved out to La. It was freaking awesome. I stared 283 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: at a tree for a few hours and sobbed because 284 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 1: I was like, it's breathing and it's making it so 285 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 1: I can breathe. And it had lights wrapped around, not 286 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 1: like the exterior, but you know when they wrap like 287 00:14:56,800 --> 00:15:01,120 Speaker 1: the trunk. And it was like I he blue and 288 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: I was. And then this guy popped up behind it 289 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: and he was like whoa. And then he moved and 290 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: I go, no, go back. Then he sat there like 291 00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: this was he real? He was real? I think it 292 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 1: was real. I think he was real. Twist he was not. 293 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 1: He did not exist. 294 00:15:16,760 --> 00:15:18,600 Speaker 4: I was about to say, was he also on these shrooms? 295 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 2: No? 296 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 1: It was with me and Danny and we ate an 297 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: edible and took shrooms. It was at our friend Eli's 298 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: house and it was awesome. 299 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 300 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:31,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. And we were like in swimsuits all day and 301 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: having drinks and it was just like not a care 302 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: in the world, Like what do we have to deal with? What? 303 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,320 Speaker 1: We got bills to pay and rent? But that ain't today, bitch. 304 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: So we're vibing, vibing, so fun, so fun. I didn't 305 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 1: have a child to wake me up. I didn't have 306 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:50,680 Speaker 1: to worry about thinking about getting your people into schools, 307 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:54,080 Speaker 1: were dance class at three. It was just like, let's 308 00:15:54,120 --> 00:15:57,400 Speaker 1: get fucked up because we ain't got to work tonight. 309 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: It's a different kind of fun nowadays. But yes, the 310 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 1: kind of fun that they say is fun, and it 311 00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:08,120 Speaker 1: is like it's just a new kind of fun. I'm like, 312 00:16:08,240 --> 00:16:10,160 Speaker 1: it's not a new kind of fun. It's called it's 313 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,320 Speaker 1: just not fun anymore. Thank you for. 314 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 2: Keeping that honest, because moms will be like it's a 315 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 2: new kind of fun, and in the back it doesn't seem. 316 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:21,280 Speaker 1: Like, fuck off, it ain't fun no more. Okay, it's 317 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: we have responsibilities and it's not that fun. Is it 318 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:27,720 Speaker 1: great that I can be like, pack up, I'm gonna 319 00:16:27,760 --> 00:16:32,720 Speaker 1: take everyone on like a fantastic vacation. Yes, but it's 320 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:36,360 Speaker 1: just not the way it used to be. Okay, way 321 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 1: more fun packing my shit to go with some rich 322 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,640 Speaker 1: fucking guy who I didn't need to sleep with, by 323 00:16:41,680 --> 00:16:49,640 Speaker 1: the way, way more fun, okay, because he's got the responsibilities, right, 324 00:16:49,960 --> 00:16:51,440 Speaker 1: he's got to go figure out how to pay for 325 00:16:51,480 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: it all. Not me. I'm going back to Olympic and 326 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:58,040 Speaker 1: howser after this baby. Nine hundred dollars a month in rent, 327 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:04,040 Speaker 1: that's a amazing for two people. It was nine hundred each, 328 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,119 Speaker 1: but for two bedrooms. Ms. Can you ask and anyone 329 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: who hears that and is like, that's pretty pricey and 330 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 1: you to la prices are a ship show. 331 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, it is a shit show that leads us into 332 00:17:15,600 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 2: because you said, you know, you ate her pasta, a 333 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:22,399 Speaker 2: lot of questions saying was Raquel just as upset about 334 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:22,960 Speaker 2: the pasta? 335 00:17:23,760 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: Raquel was stoned and drunk too. She was not. She 336 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:29,000 Speaker 1: didn't care. It was a night at sir you guys, 337 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: no one cared about anything. And guess what we eat 338 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:37,679 Speaker 1: for free? Yeah, Raquel didn't even remember that she ordered pasta. Okay, 339 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:40,040 Speaker 1: we were all just having a good time. But I 340 00:17:40,160 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 1: understood where James was coming from. He's like, this is 341 00:17:42,080 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 1: symbolic to you bully my girlfriend because you don't like her. 342 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:47,760 Speaker 1: And we didn't like her. Yeah, we we tolerated her. 343 00:17:47,960 --> 00:17:50,240 Speaker 1: But can I tell you Raquel would come over in 344 00:17:50,359 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 1: six inch heels and miniskirts to my apartment just to 345 00:17:53,720 --> 00:17:57,160 Speaker 1: like chill. And I was very kind, okay. I gave 346 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,880 Speaker 1: her cozy sweatpants. They were usually floods on her because 347 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:03,400 Speaker 1: her legs went to the sky. I gave her blinkies 348 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,800 Speaker 1: like I made her comfortable, okay. Even though I didn't 349 00:18:06,800 --> 00:18:13,280 Speaker 1: dig her that much, I treated her kindly until it 350 00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: just got to be hard. 351 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I wonder why. 352 00:18:17,440 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: I do wonder why? A very sweet how James defended her. Yeah, 353 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 1: a lot of. 354 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 4: That episode, but we both. 355 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:32,560 Speaker 1: Took an L in the scene if we flash, But 356 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:36,640 Speaker 1: again he manifested for me. So I'm I was gonna. 357 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 4: Say, it is not an L for you. 358 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 1: No, Oh, I stay winning. I don't know how that happens. 359 00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,080 Speaker 1: Even when you think I took the L, I'm like, no, no, no, 360 00:18:45,440 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: give it a minute. Score is not settled yet, and 361 00:18:47,600 --> 00:18:50,360 Speaker 1: then I always come out winning. Wild if you want 362 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:53,840 Speaker 1: to wild? How many people are gonna hate me right now. 363 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,919 Speaker 1: I don't think at all this woman is annoying. You know. 364 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 1: That's what the bonus episodes are for. 365 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:02,360 Speaker 2: It's for special ship like my horn. Yes, a lot 366 00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 2: of people what kind of pasta was it? 367 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: Was it? Angel hair? Was it? No? It was like 368 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:10,199 Speaker 1: they're like snow pea pasta. So it was like a 369 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:17,320 Speaker 1: yummy like butter, like a buttery sauce noodle. What is 370 00:19:17,800 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 1: a thick noodle that's long like spaghetti? But it's a 371 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:25,040 Speaker 1: fetta chini noodle. But it wasn't an alfredo though, No, 372 00:19:25,080 --> 00:19:31,080 Speaker 1: but but it wasn't fetichini alfredo. It was not. It 373 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 1: was just fetta chini with a different sauce. I know, 374 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 1: I know what you mean. But most people are like 375 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 1: they think fetted chini and the oh it's alfredo sauce. 376 00:19:40,440 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 1: You think spaghetti, you think of red sauce. Oh okay, 377 00:19:44,560 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 1: like a buttery sauce. That sounds delicious. 378 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 3: It was good, fantastic, But I only I only get 379 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:52,760 Speaker 3: down with alfredo sauce. 380 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:59,679 Speaker 1: You do love a cream to the feet between her legs. 381 00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:03,200 Speaker 4: By the way, me. 382 00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: Too, though, like Schwartzy hates hates anything that's like creamy, 383 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 1: and he hates mayo and so when he messed up 384 00:20:13,080 --> 00:20:15,360 Speaker 1: Season ten, I wanted to say, you have to eat 385 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 1: a Costco size tub of mayo, and you can't take 386 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,080 Speaker 1: it home with you have to eat it in front 387 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: of him. I'm sick. I'm sick that he hates creamy stuff. Yeah, 388 00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 1: I was like, I'm from Utah. Give me all the mayo, ever, 389 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: all the mayo? 390 00:20:30,880 --> 00:20:34,160 Speaker 2: Do you know that fetichini alfredo is not some addition Italy. 391 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 1: It's like you you, it shouldn't be. 392 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 4: It's not even good. 393 00:20:37,920 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 1: It's an American iceed. Yeah, it's not. It feels American 394 00:20:42,160 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: as it gets. Of course it does give me like 395 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: capers and like all of the like tomato sauce that 396 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:54,479 Speaker 1: is not from this prey Go Prego. I'm sorry. I 397 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:58,160 Speaker 1: like fresh. Yeah. This is why I eat out though, Yeah, 398 00:20:58,359 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: because the home cooked takes too much time for me, right, 399 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,359 Speaker 1: and I would rather just have someone else, a professional 400 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:04,639 Speaker 1: do it. 401 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:07,440 Speaker 2: Your mom's a good cook, though, she's a good cook. 402 00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 2: We're switching that up, right when you Yeah? 403 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 3: Yeah, every time every time Lisa cooks, I'm always upset 404 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 3: she doesn't cook more. 405 00:21:15,440 --> 00:21:19,600 Speaker 1: That's true, she's really good. I don't know. I assume 406 00:21:19,640 --> 00:21:20,399 Speaker 1: she's good. Anytime. 407 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:25,480 Speaker 2: It's just like, she's really good, and I've never eaten 408 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:25,879 Speaker 2: a thing. 409 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: Of hers in my life. 410 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 4: She's only made three things. 411 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:29,400 Speaker 1: But I come over and it smells good. 412 00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:34,880 Speaker 2: A lot of questions asking was this before this fight? 413 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: Before or after you and James hooked up? 414 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 4: Do you remember what season? Did you get after? 415 00:21:39,880 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 1: It was after? It was after? Okay, okay, good to know. 416 00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:47,560 Speaker 1: Well we made out a lot season four. Then we 417 00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:53,160 Speaker 1: the finale episode where I look like a drunk shit seal. 418 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:57,320 Speaker 4: That was my first episode watching you drinking. 419 00:21:58,600 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 1: Literally it's the finale episode. I'm hammered. Okay, I met. 420 00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 1: I get invited by the skin of my teeth to 421 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:12,600 Speaker 1: Katie and Schwartz's engagement party. Okay, we're talking. Relatives have 422 00:22:12,680 --> 00:22:15,959 Speaker 1: flown in. This is like real life, Okay, and Kristin 423 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 1: and Stassy see this. You guys are saying, my brother 424 00:22:19,320 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 1: has no idea what I do. Oh okay, don't like Okay, 425 00:22:22,840 --> 00:22:24,320 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna break this down then we can move on. 426 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:30,040 Speaker 1: Kristin and Stossy Katie and Schwartz's best friends. Okay, get 427 00:22:30,119 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: up to give a speech and it takes a while, 428 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,919 Speaker 1: so I in front of everybody. Okay, everyone's listening, and 429 00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,520 Speaker 1: I go, can we wrap this up? What the fuck 430 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:45,000 Speaker 1: are you guys talking about? Where are you hammered? Though wasted? 431 00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 1: And then it cuts to me because I just stay 432 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,040 Speaker 1: it out of the blue and I don't think it 433 00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 1: was expected. So a camera cuts to me and I'm like, 434 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:55,040 Speaker 1: what the fuck are you talking about? Ken Ken is 435 00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 1: sitting next to me and Erica, and you can tell 436 00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:00,399 Speaker 1: Erica's like, get me away from this girl. No. It 437 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 1: was mortifying. And then I tried to steal Christen Doty's 438 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:04,400 Speaker 1: black car because I was like, let's take the black car. 439 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to take that little prius that I called. 440 00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: You know this, this was a highly requested episode. 441 00:23:10,600 --> 00:23:12,399 Speaker 2: It might have to be the one. They all They 442 00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 2: all put in quotes like can you wrap this up? 443 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:14,680 Speaker 4: Episode? 444 00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:17,800 Speaker 1: It might have to be the next. So that night, anyway, 445 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,479 Speaker 1: we go to Sir for the after party and I 446 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 1: shove Kristen Doty to the ground and I and Kristen 447 00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: Dody and I say to Stassy and Katie and I 448 00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:32,199 Speaker 1: go drunkenly drunk shit suit. I was like, here's a deal. 449 00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:33,399 Speaker 1: If you want to be my friend, you can be 450 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 1: my friend. If you don't want to be my friend, 451 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 1: then suck my deck as if I'm doctor dre What 452 00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: who talks like that? I cannot imagine. 453 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 2: I think, I think we have to watch this is 454 00:23:49,560 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 2: all in the same episode. 455 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:57,840 Speaker 1: All really mortifying. So that's the first night I went 456 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,160 Speaker 1: home with James. We had sex, and then I want 457 00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 1: to say, like a few months later we were traveling 458 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:10,359 Speaker 1: a lot together and we hooked up another time. But 459 00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:13,240 Speaker 1: I was like, kind of like he was with Raquel, 460 00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:14,040 Speaker 1: and I was like. 461 00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 4: Whatever, But I was never hooked up when he was 462 00:24:17,760 --> 00:24:18,719 Speaker 4: like talking to Raquel. 463 00:24:19,160 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: They were, they were together, and like I technically could 464 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 1: not be together with my person because he was married, 465 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 1: we later find out, right, so like you can't cheat 466 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,399 Speaker 1: on a married person, which you can't, but I it 467 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,800 Speaker 1: wasn't just James, Like I was sleeping with a bunch 468 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 1: of fucking hotties. Good for you, as I. 469 00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:41,880 Speaker 2: Should have, as he should have got You didn't say 470 00:24:41,880 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 2: no to them back then? 471 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:47,200 Speaker 1: You know when't you regret it nowadays? Those hotties, Oh 472 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 1: are you jack? That's what I'm saying. There's a few 473 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:52,240 Speaker 1: that I could have creeped around with that I didn't 474 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 1: because I have a conscience that I literally when I 475 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,639 Speaker 1: found out that my relationship was like kind of a sham. 476 00:24:58,880 --> 00:24:59,520 Speaker 4: You're like, damn. 477 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 1: I was like, do you know what kind of dick 478 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,680 Speaker 1: I gave up for your asshole? That sucks? 479 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 4: It does? 480 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 1: See, that's okay, There'll be more. It'll come. There's plenty 481 00:25:10,119 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 1: of dick in the sea. It'll come. 482 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 4: And there is plenty of dick in this There really is. 483 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 1: Plenty of dick in the sea. This is one. Oh 484 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:21,360 Speaker 1: I want to know about this too. 485 00:25:21,760 --> 00:25:24,720 Speaker 2: Did you guys ever find out if Rob actually did 486 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 2: kiss that girl? 487 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 1: I think you did. I just think when people don't 488 00:25:28,640 --> 00:25:33,439 Speaker 1: just like say things like not exactly like I have 489 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: learned that if something is said, people are not just 490 00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 1: Now I'm not saying it's always there's always truth to everything, 491 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,200 Speaker 1: because there's some like nut jobs out there that totally 492 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 1: just make things up. But like, who is Rob Voletta really? 493 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 1: And who's this girl? You know? Yes, I think they 494 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: kissed each other. By the way sheena in that relationship. 495 00:25:58,960 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 1: Girl was like dedicated, is that what? Yeah? And very 496 00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:07,240 Speaker 1: thin during that relationship because she was so stressed out. 497 00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 2: Yep, yeah, that was that was tough. I was I saw, Yeah, 498 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 2: she was very tiny I was. 499 00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: Like, oh, well, she was stressed out about Rob kissing 500 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,879 Speaker 1: and then she's like, my boyfriend doesn't make out, not 501 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: even with me, And I was like, oh, leave just. 502 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:24,040 Speaker 4: Oh I did see that. 503 00:26:24,240 --> 00:26:28,280 Speaker 2: Thank God she has Yeah, run the man she does. 504 00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:31,240 Speaker 2: Now are you and James so close? 505 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,119 Speaker 1: James and I, I would say, yes, we're close. And 506 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,600 Speaker 1: our moms really hit it off at the premiere party. 507 00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 1: They had never met, and so James and I are 508 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 1: gonna plan like a mommy and son and daughter and 509 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:50,840 Speaker 1: ali little lunch thing. Yes, we're so close. Here's the thing. 510 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: This isn't like season four, five six anymore. Like we 511 00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,239 Speaker 1: all legitimately have to go out and and figure out 512 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 1: how to pay for these lifestyles that we are creating. Right, 513 00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:06,440 Speaker 1: So he's constantly he's never in La now guy DJ's 514 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,520 Speaker 1: giant venues all the time. I'm so proud of him, 515 00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 1: Like thousands of people, the production on his DJ gigs 516 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: now is like mind blowing. He's really busy. I'm really busy. 517 00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:22,080 Speaker 1: So we're as close as we could possibly be with 518 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,919 Speaker 1: where we're at in our lives. I don't see anybody 519 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: the way that I would like to see them. That 520 00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 1: makes sense. 521 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 2: Oh, this is a fun one that if you want 522 00:27:30,560 --> 00:27:33,400 Speaker 2: to end on this, we can. What do you remember, 523 00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 2: if anything, what they cut out of the episode. 524 00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: That I don't know? Okay, I can't. You can't really remember. 525 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,160 Speaker 1: I can't really remember what they may have cut out. 526 00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: What else is in that episode? It was so we 527 00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,360 Speaker 1: start with the guys with the reiki heeler, and then 528 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,520 Speaker 1: it's not about the pasta, then the girl, and. 529 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:58,280 Speaker 2: It's the Pride Parade which Stossy is doing styling for 530 00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:58,760 Speaker 2: for all of you. 531 00:27:58,840 --> 00:28:02,600 Speaker 1: So that's in the same episode. Yeah, okay, is that 532 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 1: where I performed it? No? No, unless I missed it, 533 00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 1: but no them No, But did I come in like 534 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 1: as you were in there? So that's a part they 535 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,920 Speaker 1: couldn't show. So I was in that because I performed 536 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 1: that year. I gave Pride. You did on that stage 537 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:22,960 Speaker 1: the things that I used to do. You guys, could 538 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: you imagine if someone was like, we'd love for you 539 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 1: to perform at Pride, I would run away? Really? Are 540 00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:33,520 Speaker 1: you crazy? Did you perform with no by yourself myself 541 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:36,239 Speaker 1: and danced to a track up? 542 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 4: Yes? 543 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 1: Is that anywhere on YouTube? 544 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:39,360 Speaker 4: It has? 545 00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:44,480 Speaker 1: I think I have video on my phone. Oh my god, 546 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:49,680 Speaker 1: I can't. I dumped champagne all over my head. Beautiful moment, 547 00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: no hard rock. I had pulled my ship together. That 548 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 1: was that rehab hub the name of a club, I 549 00:28:57,240 --> 00:29:00,400 Speaker 1: think right, That's where I dumped the sham paid all 550 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: my head done. The next time we went together, I 551 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 1: didn't have as many drinks and I was in normal 552 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 1: form okay, and then drank after wild days? Who even 553 00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:14,200 Speaker 1: was I? It's so crazy to me. 554 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:17,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, you were always doing things like that. 555 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,800 Speaker 1: Though we have time for one more, okay, this is 556 00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: a fun one. 557 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:24,760 Speaker 2: Was the staff always partying on Pride, drinking, et cetera 558 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 2: on shift, so while they were working. 559 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,920 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something, there was nothing better than 560 00:29:30,280 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 1: being employed by sir back in the day. It was 561 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:41,000 Speaker 1: I was constantly drinking. We were wasted at Pride while working. 562 00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,840 Speaker 1: Are you crazy? The moment I clocked in, I went 563 00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:52,840 Speaker 1: to the sidebar in the pink room and I would 564 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 1: order my vodka soda. It would look like I was 565 00:29:57,240 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 1: just drinking water and I would get wasted. So what 566 00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,040 Speaker 1: we all? Everyone would? Would they know? Did Lisa and 567 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:09,880 Speaker 1: Ken Nolly? I'm sure that they were, like, I'm sure 568 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 1: they knew. I'm sure people knew. Okay. Yeah. 569 00:30:13,520 --> 00:30:16,480 Speaker 2: Did anyone ever get a talking to or in trouble 570 00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,120 Speaker 2: for getting too wasted during work? 571 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 1: Yes? Oh really, Yeah I got talked to the most. 572 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:26,120 Speaker 1: I think that the boys got talked to a lot, 573 00:30:26,680 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 1: and I think Stacy got pulled aside a few times. 574 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: I really kept my shit together, you did, Yeah? I 575 00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 1: did good. And I also, like most people, would choose 576 00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 1: to drink the what's that the wine with the fruit 577 00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 1: in it? What's that drink called? Again? Oh? Not holidays? 578 00:30:52,000 --> 00:30:52,720 Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. 579 00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:56,640 Speaker 2: Yes, it's like a very Spanish wine drink, like wine 580 00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 2: with fruit. 581 00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,520 Speaker 1: Yes, Oh my god, it's so sad. My mouth is 582 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:02,880 Speaker 1: watering thinking about it. That's how good it was. It 583 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:05,520 Speaker 1: tastes like fruit juice, that's what they would drink. And 584 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: I was drinking vodka sodas that always looks like water. 585 00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: So no one if I was acting different, it was like, 586 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:18,960 Speaker 1: can't prove it? Whoa? Anyway? Whoa? The throwbag episode? I 587 00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 1: really do miss the ogs. It's another level of chaotic, 588 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:26,840 Speaker 1: but we now know that the valley does exist. I 589 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:29,520 Speaker 1: did get in trouble for outing that show a few 590 00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:33,400 Speaker 1: months ago on my Amazon Live. Yes, but now they've 591 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:40,040 Speaker 1: dropped the teaser the Valley with Jackson, Britney, a couple 592 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: other A couple other couples that you guys are not 593 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: familiar with, but you'll get to know. Dotie will be 594 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 1: back on your guys' screens. It's pretty wild. I can't wait. 595 00:31:49,520 --> 00:31:53,640 Speaker 1: This is very exciting as I've heard, it's crazy. Oh, 596 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,160 Speaker 1: I cannot wait. I know you guys. Thank you so 597 00:31:56,240 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 1: much for listening to another bone horrific episode. We give 598 00:32:00,720 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 1: them all bonus podcast reminder. We have a bonus episode 599 00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:10,800 Speaker 1: with the video that drops every single Monday. You are welcome. 600 00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 1: I hope that you get through the week. Mondays are 601 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 1: not that fun. We're going into it with you, all right. 602 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: I love you guys. Bye,