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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio and.

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Speaker 2: Two time People's Choice Award winning podcast. Hello everybody, We're scrubbing.

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Speaker 1: In row Dub dub Happy Monday. How's everybody doing.

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Speaker 3: Everything over here?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, we weren't talking to the listeners. They don't have

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Speaker 2: respond So.

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Speaker 3: I'm great.

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Speaker 4: I'm fantastic, sexy, very sexy.

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Speaker 1: I'm the opposite of sexy. I am Sonzi.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she says Sonzy. She goes, can you do you

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Speaker 2: have an a cup of epsom salt you can bring

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Speaker 2: to me today? I was like, wow, we're old, huh,

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Speaker 2: because yes, I do.

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Speaker 1: So my body basically this weekend, like I've just been

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Speaker 1: kind of I have just been running myself ragged, and

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Speaker 1: my body just told me to this weekend like Tanya, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: take a little chill pill and relax, and so I

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Speaker 1: listened and I did that. And it's kind of weird

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Speaker 1: because I'm so used to running so many miles every

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Speaker 1: day that like I didn't run for three days and honestly,

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Speaker 1: like my my my back hurts a little from just

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Speaker 1: like I think laying too much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I have like weekends if I am just

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Speaker 2: at home, not doing anything where when Monday comes in

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Speaker 2: and do my workout, I feel like I have severe

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Speaker 2: lower back ish.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I'm like I was kind of concerned about

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Speaker 1: this this pain in my lower back because I've never

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Speaker 1: had it before. So I was like, Beca, I need

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Speaker 1: some EPs and salt and I need to soak my

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Speaker 1: body in some situation tonight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, I hit the pavement. I got

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Speaker 1: back on the pavement today, put in some miles, and

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling it.

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Speaker 2: Oh you ran, I ran, Oh yeah, yeah, well your

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Speaker 2: body's like wait a second, you give me three days off?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Note in note to self hashtag no days off

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Speaker 1: these mode.

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Speaker 2: Y we Okay, So Tanya and I on Saturday, we

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Speaker 2: had planned to go have lunch and.

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Speaker 1: We super cute lunch, like we were gonna get dressed

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Speaker 1: up and like have a cute lunch outside.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. But she wrote me and she was like, I'm

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Speaker 2: not feeling like one hundred percent. I don't know if

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Speaker 2: I have the energy to go out to like a

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Speaker 2: restaurant or whatever. And there was a lot happening at

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Speaker 2: my house, so it wasn't like really cute spot to

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Speaker 2: catch up. Yeah, And so I was like, why don't

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Speaker 2: we go get food to go in Santa Monica and

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Speaker 2: then go have like a picnic kind of on the

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Speaker 2: grass area by the water. And it was so fun.

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Speaker 1: It was so fun and so cute. I love that

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Speaker 1: we do stuff like that. Do you know how much

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Speaker 1: I love it?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I do, But I also love it. And I

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Speaker 2: was gonna say, go on dates with your best friends

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Speaker 2: and like do cute things. Don't reserve it only for

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Speaker 2: like romantic relationships, because it's really fun to like use

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Speaker 2: that time and actually make an effort.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it such a great time. Put a little blanket down,

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Speaker 1: had some pete on the side of the road.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she did pee on my side of the car

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Speaker 2: for whatever reason.

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Speaker 1: There's people on my side.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah there were. Yeah, I like get too

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Speaker 2: nervous to pee unless there's an actual toilet. And so

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Speaker 2: the fact that she was just like, hey, can you

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Speaker 2: block this side? I got to pop a squad. I

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Speaker 2: was like, we're literally on the main road in Santa Monica.

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Speaker 2: There's cars next to us, there's people walking by, and she's.

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Speaker 1: Just like, like one it because highway.

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Speaker 2: And they were like where we were parked, there was

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Speaker 2: a car on either side of us, and nope, well

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Speaker 2: I don't think anyone was in the car next to us.

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you, I've become a professional nature

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Speaker 1: peer during quarantine because I did a lot of picnics

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Speaker 1: at this park where there is no there's just no

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Speaker 1: that bathroom, and so I've learned how to basically you

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Speaker 1: open both doors like the like let's say you're on

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Speaker 2: Unless you don't have a four door car.

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Speaker 1: Unless you don't know, then you're in trouble, isn't it.

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Speaker 3: Isn't that a crime? Yes?

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Speaker 1: Yes, if I was spotted from a police officer, I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't have received a ticket as or citation of sorts.

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Speaker 3: But couldn't make it any longer.

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Speaker 1: Oh my bladder was so full, I wouldn't have been

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Speaker 1: And we were spend like a good chunk of time there.

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Speaker 1: There's no way I would have been able.

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Speaker 2: To do that. I had to pay the whole time,

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Speaker 2: and I was just like I held it. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: held it till I got hold.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you when you let me tell you.

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Speaker 1: When you are a UTI frequenter such as myself, the

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Speaker 1: minute you or you got a fee, you have to

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Speaker 1: relieve yourself. So shout out to my UTI queens.

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Speaker 3: Why flask?

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Speaker 2: What about it?

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Speaker 1: Why not in the car?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Well I needed to drink from it that day.

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Speaker 2: She don't worry though. She used the water from her

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Speaker 2: hydroflash to rent the area where she went, which was

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Speaker 2: very thoughtful.

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Speaker 1: Pavement.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: And I went to get something other car forgetting what

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Speaker 2: had happened in that area, and literally panicked that I

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Speaker 2: stepped in. She goes, I rinsed it with water. It

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Speaker 2: was like, yeah, how well.

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Speaker 3: Right, so now I stepped in.

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Speaker 1: That's right, that's right.

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Speaker 2: So have we ever talked about you do y'all pee

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Speaker 2: in the shower?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: No, And if Allison's listening, I never have and I

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Speaker 4: never will.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I stopped when when the kids were babies and we'd

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Speaker 3: give them baths in the shower, And then I.

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Speaker 4: Keep seeing those studies where it's like it doesn't sit

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Speaker 4: in there long enough to like transfer any bacteria. So like,

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Speaker 4: let a rip, but I'm like, I feel like this

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Speaker 4: is a trap. I'm not I'm not going to do this.

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Speaker 4: I stopped doing it when I started living with somebody,

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Speaker 4: but the temptation is still there.

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Speaker 1: Oh man.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, I have never done it, and I didn't

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Speaker 2: realize it was such a common thing until I didn't

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Speaker 2: but like as an aware adult, no.

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Speaker 1: No, I mean I've definitely peen in the shower. I

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Speaker 1: don't like. I mean, I try to pee before I

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Speaker 2: What's the problem, Like, what is it? What's I get?

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Speaker 2: Especially for men to do it, because y'all don't even

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Speaker 2: it's not even like, oh I don't want to waste

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Speaker 2: toilet paper when I could just go in the shower,

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Speaker 2: Like y'all don't even use toilet paper.

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Speaker 1: So that's right. I do it for the environment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's a really.

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Speaker 1: Pee in the shower and I use a menstrul cup.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome, Mother Nature in a hydroplast and a hydroplast.

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Speaker 3: Wowfoor all did this in the shower. They would save

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Speaker 3: more than five thousand gallons of water a year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well you can. I'm gonna find things in my

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Speaker 2: It's just I it's not even so much of I

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Speaker 2: just can't do it. I just can't make myself pee

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Speaker 2: trip to Big Sir. I had to get out and

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Speaker 2: I was hanging on for dear life. To ninety five PM,

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Speaker 2: we were like dying laughing.

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Speaker 1: It was a mess, you guys, if I had to

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Speaker 1: explain to you the place, because honestly, it's one of

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Speaker 1: those I think it's one of those things where because

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Speaker 1: when I feel the urge, I just I have to go,

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Speaker 1: no matter where I am. I remember during quarantine we

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Speaker 1: there's like no escape and the traffic was back to

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Speaker 2: The thrill of a lifetime.

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Speaker 1: Do you know that thing? So I was there and

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Speaker 3: In front of you was the car behind you was

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Speaker 3: the bridge a little like four walls. If anyone was

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Speaker 2: Under, which would be upsetting to see for some Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: shoes rose well switching gears to something else.

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Speaker 1: That's sorry. Sorry, you know you.

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Speaker 2: Can to different get it the n C double A.

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Speaker 2: So I was on TikTok last week, just scrolling as

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Speaker 2: I do, and there was this video from a basketball player.

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Speaker 2: Her name's Saedona Prince, and she's like she's the organ

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Speaker 2: center and she was posting the difference between the women's

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Speaker 2: I mean it's something that I think I've known about

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Speaker 2: and I played sports are growing up, so there was

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Speaker 2: always a difference in like the guys everything versus the girls.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this to me shook me to my fourth because

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Speaker 1: I've never seen that before. Like I mean, I only

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Speaker 1: I grew up playing tennis, and it's like you have

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Speaker 1: a tennis court in balls and rackets, Like I never

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Speaker 1: really noticed any difference between the men. You know, our

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Speaker 1: I never I don't know, I've I've never seen this

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Speaker 1: jarring because it's literally a stack of weights for the women,

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Speaker 1: a stack of weights and then rows like a like

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Speaker 1: a like a like a full blown gym, yeah the men.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like a gym set of.

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Speaker 1: Huge yeah, like like benches to do presses, multiple multiple weights,

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Speaker 1: variants of weights. What else have you gotten there? Some

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Speaker 1: I mean just wild.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was. The women's was literally.

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Speaker 2: Like different weights. I think it went up to what

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Speaker 1: It's so so okay, I'm having a hard time. So

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Speaker 2: I mean, I for my own self have more equipment

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know what's happening. I feel

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and start like watching and rooting. I watch their.

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Speaker 3: Well why not do your alla lotter, why not do Arizona.

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Speaker 1: That's a great idea. Cuba is college, right, yes, ma'am. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: You know, I have great news for you, Arizona women's team.

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Speaker 3: In the first round, they're the third I'm not going

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Speaker 3: the first round they beat Stony Brooks seventy nine to

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Speaker 1: Great, and I will be. I'm going to go buy

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Speaker 2: I just think I I think talking about it, and

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Speaker 2: And I get it. Maybe women's sports don't generate as

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Speaker 1: But we can start getting them to generate the money.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm like pissed to myself. I went to u

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Speaker 1: Did did I go to?

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Speaker 1: I went to lacrosse. I think there was hot lacrosse players.

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Speaker 2: But if the organization, if the schools put as much

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Tanya loves sports. He thinks they're so cute and

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna order my merch tonight and follow the NCAA

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Speaker 3: I was.

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Speaker 2: I was mostly I forgot. The food was like shocking

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Speaker 2: And so I think it's just like you said, the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just the kind of I mean, we need

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 1: If you really take a look at it, it's not

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, look at who we're playing. We're playing

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Speaker 3: a basket worth?

444
00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:48,119
Speaker 1: Seven?

445
00:20:49,000 --> 00:20:51,560
Speaker 3: Okay? So there's going to be a bit of alitic

446
00:20:51,960 --> 00:20:52,600
Speaker 3: one one is it?

447
00:20:52,720 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 2: One?

448
00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:53,159
Speaker 3: Is it?

449
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:54,040
Speaker 1: One basket?

450
00:20:54,520 --> 00:20:54,919
Speaker 2: You got it?

451
00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:56,320
Speaker 1: One point? One point?

452
00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 2: Come on, you got it?

453
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 1: One point?

454
00:20:57,840 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 2: Try again?

455
00:20:58,320 --> 00:20:59,760
Speaker 1: Unless you get a three pointer, then you get a

456
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Speaker 1: three Okay, that's right.

457
00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:04,280
Speaker 3: But what constitutes a three pointer?

458
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,440
Speaker 1: Oh so the other one? So you get two points? Okay?

459
00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:10,960
Speaker 3: Right? And a three pointer is when you shoot it from.

460
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 1: The three point line.

461
00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:12,720
Speaker 3: Okay?

462
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 2: And a free throw is worth how many one?

463
00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:17,639
Speaker 1: Yeah? But you get two free throws?

464
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:18,200
Speaker 2: Okay?

465
00:21:18,200 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 3: What is it? That's attle more complicated?

466
00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 1: What is a travel when they walk with the ball?

467
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:25,320
Speaker 2: Okay?

468
00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:30,159
Speaker 1: Kind? How many steps they count? How you count people

469
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:38,359
Speaker 1: go fast? It's like, how do you know what constitutes that.

470
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,520
Speaker 2: Isn't it more than two? It's a travel, right? You

471
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 2: got one two and then yeah it's one two and

472
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,720
Speaker 2: then after that it's a travel. How many it wants

473
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Speaker 2: to double?

474
00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:49,720
Speaker 1: A double dribble? Is that illegal against the rules?

475
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, you get.

476
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Speaker 6: It.

477
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Speaker 1: You dribble and then you travel, and then you dribble again.

478
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 2: Kind of if you dribble and then pick it up

479
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 2: and then dribble again without you have to pass after

480
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,440
Speaker 2: you pick it up and stop dribbling a capacitor. Shoot,

481
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,680
Speaker 2: this is a lot. I'll figure it out.

482
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:06,680
Speaker 1: I can watch a basketball game and.

483
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,240
Speaker 3: Follow it, like, all right, Wednesday Arizona be whay? He

484
00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 3: was Wednesday times to be determined?

485
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 1: Channel on what channel? ESPN?

486
00:22:13,480 --> 00:22:15,520
Speaker 3: I believe so, but I think that's all up in

487
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:15,800
Speaker 3: the air.

488
00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 1: But yes, I will tell you I will be there.

489
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: I will be there. I will be square No.

490
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 3: Esp two or there's a bunch of ESPN.

491
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Speaker 1: I can't tell you, Like I don't think I've ever

492
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 1: put it on ESPN in my life, like never, Like

493
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Speaker 1: I don't even know what channel that is. Does Hulu

494
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 1: Live have that? Yeah? Yes, yeah, Hulu Live.

495
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 2: Does I know that. We have a very exciting guest

496
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:42,280
Speaker 2: coming up, But we have to talk about Grace.

497
00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 3: Oh yes, we do.

498
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 2: Okay. First of all, there's a clip right at the

499
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 2: beginning spoiler alert, when Meredith walks up and sees Derek fishing,

500
00:22:54,760 --> 00:22:57,360
Speaker 2: and she goes, it's you again, and he looks over

501
00:22:57,440 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 2: at the camera and does this look where he kind

502
00:23:02,320 --> 00:23:05,680
Speaker 2: of like grins and turns his head and I had

503
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 2: the biggest smile.

504
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 1: It's because it's the look he looks so good. Oh

505
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:15,439
Speaker 1: I thought it was like the look he gave like

506
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Speaker 1: old school marriage.

507
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, well that it was like all of it combined,

508
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:23,159
Speaker 2: and I was just like, why am I so affected

509
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 2: by this relationship still after seventeen years?

510
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:29,200
Speaker 1: It really is something else.

511
00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:29,840
Speaker 2: That look.

512
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Speaker 1: It's like that's the look you want, Like that's the

513
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:34,000
Speaker 1: look we all just like want.

514
00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: I just you know, I know a lot of people

515
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 2: talk about how horrible Derek was to Meredith, but like,

516
00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:40,360
Speaker 2: what do you mean?

517
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,439
Speaker 1: A lot of people are like he was horrible to

518
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 1: her the beginning. Yeah, a lot of Rocky Star It's okay.

519
00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 2: Passionate about that, but oh they are in game. They

520
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:54,360
Speaker 2: have to be. This show cannot end with somehow her

521
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 2: ending up with Derek.

522
00:23:56,840 --> 00:23:58,119
Speaker 1: That means she's to die.

523
00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: Well, what if it ends like a flash, it goes

524
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 2: really far forward and she is like, has a beautiful,

525
00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 2: happy life and then she dies and it shows like

526
00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:11,480
Speaker 2: Zola getting ready to start her internship.

527
00:24:12,160 --> 00:24:14,120
Speaker 3: Oh like that.

528
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:17,239
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm actually liking this doctor guy for her,

529
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:18,879
Speaker 1: Like this cute one widow.

530
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like why, I don't mind it because they're

531
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 3: slow burning it, they're not forcing it. So this one's

532
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 3: really taking its sweet time.

533
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 1: It's sweet time. It's sweet why.

534
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,840
Speaker 3: He lost his wife, she lost her husband.

535
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did it, but like it's like they're each

536
00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 1: other's good karma.

537
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:37,959
Speaker 3: I was.

538
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 2: I was actually moral and team de Luca for her.

539
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, are you like you've totally lost your mind?

540
00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:49,119
Speaker 2: What have we seen a widow that she's liked her

541
00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 2: hair yesterday?

542
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 1: Now she's like doulty Meredith. Meredith and de Luca we're like,

543
00:24:58,840 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 1: we're like, okay, no, no, I got to get a good

544
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:02,240
Speaker 1: comparison here.

545
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 2: We'll be here all day.

546
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 3: Folks were going along this one.

547
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:16,440
Speaker 1: Meredith and de Luca were like, who's the what's the

548
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 1: the main guy from Sesame Street. It's like big Bird,

549
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:26,879
Speaker 1: It's like it's like Big Bird dating the Cookie Monster.

550
00:25:28,800 --> 00:25:31,320
Speaker 1: It just did not go.

551
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:35,560
Speaker 3: A different bird. Is that what you're saying.

552
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: Big birds should date?

553
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 2: Who?

554
00:25:36,960 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: Did you know?

555
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 2: I was trying to big Bird didn't have a relationship

556
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 2: as far as I'm concerned.

557
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: And I was trying to do like a cartoon analogy.

558
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:48,960
Speaker 1: But I'm not familiar with Sesame Street very well. Yeah,

559
00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

560
00:25:50,000 --> 00:25:52,240
Speaker 2: What's another cartoon in cook Monsters?

561
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:53,440
Speaker 1: The cartoon that I know.

562
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:56,680
Speaker 2: I just don't see, you know, I don't feel like

563
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 2: you know a lot of cartoons.

564
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 1: It's like it's like the race Car Guy Blaze, the

565
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: race Car Blaze.

566
00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 2: What is happening?

567
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: Lightning McQueen, Lightning McQueen dating Little bo Peep from Toy Story.

568
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 4: That is a spinoff I can get into, thank you.

569
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,200
Speaker 1: It is just not it and not it?

570
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 2: Who? What are we talking about?

571
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 1: Like Meredith and delay and.

572
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,960
Speaker 2: Then mcwidower and her go together like.

573
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:28,680
Speaker 1: Peas and carrots.

574
00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 2: I'm going to disagree. I'm rooting for her to end

575
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 2: up with Derek. I want her to just be it.

576
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 2: She's gonna be an independent, strongino man until she, you know,

577
00:26:40,119 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 2: passes on and then she reunites with the love of

578
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 2: her life.

579
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,440
Speaker 3: I like the idea that Meredith recovers, and in the finale,

580
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,120
Speaker 3: we see like I don't know if you guys watched

581
00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 3: Six Feet Under back in the day, but it was

582
00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:51,679
Speaker 3: all about death because they were at a funeral home,

583
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 3: and the last episode of the series it flashes forward

584
00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:58,359
Speaker 3: to every character on the show how they ultimately pass away,

585
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,879
Speaker 3: which was fascinating that. I would be very interesting to

586
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:05,399
Speaker 3: see Meredith's death and reunion with Derek as Zola is

587
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 3: starting her internship. That's exciting. I love that.

588
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 2: Should I contact the writers.

589
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 3: And just think, I'm just concerned that it's going to

590
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 3: end this year. We're not going to get that.

591
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 2: I think we could get that. I like don't see

592
00:27:16,640 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 2: them having Derek like this and then it not ending

593
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 2: with them being I mean, they clearly get what we want.

594
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 2: They brought him back, however, they could they do clearly

595
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:27,760
Speaker 2: get what we want.

596
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 3: But Christa says that they're planning a finale for this season.

597
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,240
Speaker 3: It could be a series finale or could be a

598
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 3: season finale. What you're describing is a very final finale.

599
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: That okay, her saying that dream so dark, she could

600
00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: dream it is dark.

601
00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 2: I'd almost rather her just be like this is gonna

602
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: be the end. I hate feel like it could be then,

603
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 2: but it might not be the end.

604
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 3: I hope it's not the end. And I've always said

605
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,399
Speaker 3: I keep going without Meredith. I don't care. I just

606
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:53,160
Speaker 3: wanted to keep going.

607
00:27:53,400 --> 00:27:54,919
Speaker 2: No, I don't love math.

608
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 1: How do you have grays anatomy?

609
00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 2: I told you where Ellis and Bailey.

610
00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 3: Fine, there's a way to do it. The hospitals called

611
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 3: Grace Loan. Now you can call it Grace Loan out

612
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 3: of me. I don't know, but there's a way to

613
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 3: do it. Somebody's just got to come up with the idea.

614
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 3: I didn't love this episode. I will say that I

615
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:11,920
Speaker 3: me too.

616
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: It was a little snoozy.

617
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 3: It was a little snooky, and what really There was

618
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 3: a scene with Richard and Catherine in the conference room,

619
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 3: and like they didn't have a shot at her coming

620
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 3: into the room, so they dubbed in her voice saying

621
00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 3: you wanted to see me, Richard, and then suddenly they're

622
00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 3: sitting there and just talking about really nothing. To me,

623
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,639
Speaker 3: it was like this episode came into forty one minutes quick.

624
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,360
Speaker 3: We need to do one more thing to kill three

625
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 3: minutes here to get to forty four.

626
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 1: I felt like a buffer, like what is.

627
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 3: The scene Richard bummed because people are dead. Okay, we're

628
00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:44,800
Speaker 3: not advancing any storyline here.

629
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Speaker 1: Oh.

630
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 2: He was like I'm losing hope, like there's no I'm

631
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 2: not getting anything good and she's like, I'm living with

632
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 2: stage or cancer and nothing's grown. Like this is good news,

633
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 2: Like there is still good news happening within these walls.

634
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:03,080
Speaker 2: Still are heartless. We had a memorial for de Luca.

635
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,280
Speaker 3: Funny thing there was. I felt bad for all of

636
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 3: the actors who had to do emotional goodbyes to de

637
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 3: Luca to camera and then they didn't even use the

638
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 3: sound on them, just showed them in the background. I

639
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,280
Speaker 3: was like, oh, poor guys had to do the whole

640
00:29:16,320 --> 00:29:18,720
Speaker 3: thing with tears running down their face and we didn't

641
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:19,280
Speaker 3: even see it.

642
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: You know what scene I could have done it without

643
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 2: was the drinking scene with Jackson Joe and yeah, look

644
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,840
Speaker 2: as a whole it was. I was like an emotional

645
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 2: I loved when Derek was talking about how well he

646
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 2: knows Ellis and like even though she feels like she

647
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 2: never knew you, he's like describing all the things she

648
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 2: is and y'all are just critics.

649
00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 1: I just feel like they've been going above and beyond

650
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,480
Speaker 1: this season that this one felt a little lackluster to me.

651
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,360
Speaker 2: That's all. Yes, they can't they can't hit.

652
00:29:51,760 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: Yes they have been.

653
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: I'm saying if they have one, they just came back

654
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 2: last week like them with the real big one.

655
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a wanger banger, a big a.

656
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 2: Wanker ah waker from Tatasso. I don't know what that means.

657
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:14,000
Speaker 2: I don't watch it again. Okay. We have Victoria Justice

658
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 2: coming on and very excited to chat with her and

659
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 2: what's going on in her life. I don't know if

660
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,720
Speaker 2: she watches Grace, but we will find out and we

661
00:30:22,800 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 2: will be right back with up.

662
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 7: That's right, all right, everybody.

663
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Speaker 2: We have had limited guests this year because we've been

664
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Speaker 2: very specific about who we have joining us on the podcast,

665
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Speaker 2: and today we have a very exciting guest. We have

666
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Speaker 2: Victoria Justice in the o R. Welcome. We like to

667
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,880
Speaker 2: pretend that we're you know, based on scrubbing in that

668
00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 2: we're in the o R.

669
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, in the OHR.

670
00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,880
Speaker 2: Do you watch Gray's Anatomy? We're like obsessed?

671
00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 8: Man, so well, I've Actually've never seen Grey's Anatomy?

672
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: What is wrong with me, do yourself a favor, trust me.

673
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 1: Start from season one, episode one. You are in for

674
00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 1: a thrill, really.

675
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,600
Speaker 2: Yes, okay, but also she she's pretty busy. I don't

676
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 2: know if she has time for seventeen seasons of a show.

677
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,640
Speaker 1: There's no rush. That's the best part.

678
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 8: Only that's a lot of seasons.

679
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 2: You really have to do. You really have to commit.

680
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 2: But anyways, we are so excited to talk to you.

681
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,880
Speaker 2: I'm serious, Like, we've had so many episodes this year

682
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 2: where it's been us and so we're really excited to

683
00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 2: have guests and talk about what's going on. And you

684
00:31:46,600 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 2: have a lot happening right now.

685
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 3: I do. Yeah.

686
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 8: I have a movie that just came out. It's called Trust.

687
00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 8: You can watch it on demand and it's in select theaters.

688
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 8: I have new.

689
00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 6: Music that's out, a song called Treat Myself and a

690
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:00,240
Speaker 6: song called Stay. And I also did a movie for

691
00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 6: this or Sorry, I said, a song for the soundtrack

692
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 6: of this movie. It's a cover of an old school

693
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 6: Billy Paul song called Everybody's Breaking Up. And it's like

694
00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 6: a jazzy, soulful little number that's out right now as well.

695
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 8: So lots of music and the movie and it's all

696
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:14,400
Speaker 8: very exciting.

697
00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:16,120
Speaker 1: Did you shoot this movie in Quarantine?

698
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:21,239
Speaker 6: I shot it right before, So we filmed like at

699
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 6: the beginning of January to get certain shots with like

700
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,720
Speaker 6: the Christmas decorations in New York, and then we stopped filming,

701
00:32:26,760 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 6: and then I came back to LA and then I

702
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:31,680
Speaker 6: started filming again in February, and then we finished in March,

703
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 6: like just as the pandemic hit. And when I flew

704
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 6: back home to LA things were like looking a little

705
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 6: suss but it wasn't like for sure yet, and then

706
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,360
Speaker 6: like a couple days after that, we were in full

707
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 6: on lockdown mode.

708
00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 8: I mean, but honestly could talk.

709
00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: Yes, seriously, I was gonna say.

710
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 2: I mean, I was just having this conversation the other

711
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:54,600
Speaker 2: day about how all of these movies that were filmed

712
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 2: in this time and how it's been adjusting and shifting,

713
00:32:57,680 --> 00:33:00,320
Speaker 2: Like was this always the release date or did y'all

714
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 2: try to push it as far as you could to

715
00:33:02,480 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 2: see if this would the pandemic and pandemonium would calm down?

716
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 6: Oh no, I think this was always maybe the release date.

717
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:16,840
Speaker 2: Yeah great, Yeah, I mean I feel like so many

718
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 2: people just had to adjust and say, like should we

719
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 2: be patient and hope that maybe this ends and things

720
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 2: are normal again. But I feel like we're on the

721
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:26,600
Speaker 2: up and up right now.

722
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 8: I think so. I think so knock on wood.

723
00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:31,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you have to record any of your songs

724
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 1: and do any of your music via like zoom Er?

725
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 6: I didn't, Actually, I oh, well, well, the song that

726
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 6: I did for the movie Everybody's Breaking Up was during

727
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:46,719
Speaker 6: the pandemic, so I had to go to the studio

728
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,240
Speaker 6: and like, you know, have my mask on and everyone

729
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 6: was like socially distancing and there wasn't many people allowed there.

730
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:54,640
Speaker 8: So that was that was an interesting experience.

731
00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:57,800
Speaker 6: But the other two singles that I put out Treat Myself,

732
00:33:57,840 --> 00:33:59,440
Speaker 6: which was the first one I put out in December.

733
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 6: The first thing I put out in seven years was

734
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 6: Treat Myself in December, and then Stay, it was my

735
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 6: second one. And those songs I'd actually written and recorded

736
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 6: like a year and a half agour a year ago,

737
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 6: So that was pre.

738
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 8: All of this.

739
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:16,879
Speaker 1: So you were just logging content before the pandemic hit.

740
00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:21,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, I've been sitting on some songs that I really loved,

741
00:34:21,400 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 6: and honestly, like with my first single, Treat Myself, I

742
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 6: promised my fans that I was going to put music

743
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 6: out in twenty twenty, and I wanted to stay true

744
00:34:28,760 --> 00:34:31,239
Speaker 6: to my word, and I just felt like the message

745
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 6: of treat myself was perfect because it's like kind of

746
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 6: like a self love anthem, is what I've heard some

747
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 6: people call it what I love, and it's all about

748
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,920
Speaker 6: like kind of how the voices in our heads can

749
00:34:41,960 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 6: lie to us sometimes and how we need to treat

750
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,759
Speaker 6: ourselves better. And I felt like so many people would

751
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,279
Speaker 6: be able to relate to this message specifically right now,

752
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:53,319
Speaker 6: because you know, more than ever, we're all just at

753
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:56,839
Speaker 6: home alone with ourselves, and our thoughts can just run

754
00:34:56,920 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 6: rampant and go crazy. So it was like a message

755
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:00,920
Speaker 6: that I thought would be good to put out right now.

756
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 2: So I think everyone needs that message.

757
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, not even like not even at home and our

758
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: thoughts are running around, but it's like we're at home

759
00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: and we're just like scraggly and like you know what

760
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: I mean, and.

761
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 2: We're scrolling, you know, social media. It's just like in

762
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 2: our face and all we have is like comparing ourselves,

763
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 2: and we're like looking at ourselves, comparing ourselves to this

764
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 2: unrealistic expectation exactly.

765
00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 6: It's hard that this has not been easy for anyone,

766
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 6: you know, And yeah, it's so easy to compare ourselves

767
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 6: when it's so easy to like feel down and feel

768
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 6: bad about yourself and feel like you're not where you

769
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 6: should be or you know whatever.

770
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 8: And I feel like, at the end of the day,

771
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:39,280
Speaker 8: like we got to like show.

772
00:35:39,120 --> 00:35:41,279
Speaker 6: Ourselves love, you know, we got to be our own

773
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 6: best friend, We gotta we got to talk to us

774
00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 6: ourselves better, because like I have a line on the

775
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:47,239
Speaker 6: song that it's like I wouldn't say the things I

776
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 6: do to anybody else, So why is it okay to

777
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:52,320
Speaker 6: say to myself? And it just like really brings true

778
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 6: for me because we can really be so like mean

779
00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 6: to ourselves. And it's like you wouldn't You would never

780
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 6: say that to your best friend, So like why is

781
00:35:58,600 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 6: it okay for.

782
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,360
Speaker 1: You to say that your Well, yeah, how do you

783
00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 1: show love to yourself?

784
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 8: That's a great.

785
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 6: Question, you know, how do I show love to myself?

786
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 6: I think by I don't know. I'm all about like

787
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 6: self care is really important to me. So I try

788
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,880
Speaker 6: to meditate when I can, I try to take like

789
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 6: you know, have like self care days or like you know,

790
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 6: an hour or two to myself where I just you know,

791
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:25,600
Speaker 6: take a shower and then put on a face mask

792
00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,040
Speaker 6: and like take that time to sort of unplug and

793
00:36:28,120 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 6: not feel guilty about like not doing something. You know.

794
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:34,919
Speaker 1: I mean I have a hard time with that too.

795
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,160
Speaker 8: Yeah. Yeah, I think it's definitely something that's important for

796
00:36:39,200 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 8: me to do.

797
00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 6: And how also I show myself love I don't know,

798
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 6: I think just trying to like grownd myself, because we

799
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,600
Speaker 6: all have moments where we feel down, or we feel

800
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 6: bad about things, we're not good enough in certain.

801
00:36:50,840 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 8: Ways or YadA, YadA, YadA, And I.

802
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 6: Think it's just you know, being able to remind yourself

803
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,200
Speaker 6: sometimes of all the good things that you have accomplished

804
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 6: and like how far you have come, and like, you know,

805
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 6: you're still learning and growing, and we're all on our

806
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 6: own individual journeys and we shouldn't, you know, compare that

807
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 6: with someone else. And I think it's just I don't know,

808
00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 6: just trying to try to practice being kind to ourselves somewhere.

809
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:17,800
Speaker 8: It's just important.

810
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 1: I don't know if you are single or if you

811
00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 1: are in a relationship.

812
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 8: I'm a single girl.

813
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,439
Speaker 1: Okay, Well let me tell you something that I did

814
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 1: recently that showed myself some love because it was really

815
00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 1: just so much fun. I hadn't put on a pair

816
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 1: like a sexy pair of lingerie in a minute, and

817
00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: so I literally just like put it on and walked

818
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: around my apartment and I felt so good, Like it

819
00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 1: just felt good. Yeah.

820
00:37:42,840 --> 00:37:44,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, I love doing stuff like that too. It feels

821
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 6: so good to just like when you're feeling down sometimes,

822
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 6: especially during this time, we're like we don't there's not

823
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 6: a lot of reason to like put makeup on and

824
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,720
Speaker 6: get dressed up, and you know, we can't really go anywhere,

825
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,000
Speaker 6: so sometimes it really does, like it really can I

826
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 6: just change your mood and make you feel so good

827
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 6: about yourself to like put that face to make up on,

828
00:38:00,800 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 6: like put on a really cute.

829
00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:08,880
Speaker 8: Outfit, like you know, like it's so true.

830
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 2: Help have you have you a like are you in

831
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 2: that place of single where you're like single ready to mingle?

832
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 2: Are you like I'm single and I'm focusing on myself only.

833
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 6: I feel like I kind of go back and forth

834
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 6: with both, but I think I'm ready to mingle.

835
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, i think I'm maybe leaning more towards that.

836
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, this year was probably a tough time to mingle.

837
00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 2: Because it was all virtual, so mingling virtual, it.

838
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 8: Was very limited mingle.

839
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 2: Safe social distance mingling.

840
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:44,680
Speaker 1: Oh, it just sounds like I had some friends who

841
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,279
Speaker 1: met who were dating on the apps and stuff, and

842
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: it's just like the awkward conversation of just like are

843
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: you gonna like it's just so awkward to even think about,

844
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:57,359
Speaker 1: like are you gonna get a test? Okay? Like when

845
00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:00,400
Speaker 1: if we get a test then we can like touch,

846
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:05,200
Speaker 1: Like it's just so weird, Like when you think about it,

847
00:39:05,200 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like we're just living

848
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,439
Speaker 1: in such a weird time right now?

849
00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 2: You would you feel like, have you ever been on

850
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,920
Speaker 2: a date with someone who didn't know who you were,

851
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 2: or like wasn't fully aware of who you are? Or

852
00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 2: have you really only dated people were kind of in

853
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 2: the same industry so there they get it a little more.

854
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 6: Yeah, I guess I've mainly dated people that have been

855
00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:28,200
Speaker 6: in the same industry as me, because I mean those

856
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 6: are mainly the people that I'm like around, right, But

857
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 6: I think it would be cool I would be open

858
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,680
Speaker 6: to dating someone that wasn't in the same industry. That

859
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:37,280
Speaker 6: might be kind of refreshing, to be honest.

860
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 2: Well, I know there was like a huge I'm I'm

861
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:42,359
Speaker 2: years ago, was on the Bachelor, and so I'm from

862
00:39:42,400 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 2: that world. I remember, well, I was gonna say, I mean,

863
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 2: it was such a big deal when it came out

864
00:39:51,000 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 2: that you and Peter were friends, and like, did you'll

865
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:58,000
Speaker 2: grow up together? What was the connection? Wait, Peter, Peter

866
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:59,919
Speaker 2: the Pilot? Oh that Peter.

867
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so funny.

868
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 6: Uh yeah, Peter and I we grew up in Florida together.

869
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,680
Speaker 6: We both like started out doing child modeling and commercials

870
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 6: and stuff when we were younger, and our moms became

871
00:40:13,080 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 6: good friends. And then when I was like eleven, I

872
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 6: moved to LA to pursue acting and all this stuff,

873
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:23,200
Speaker 6: and we actually lived in a two bedroom apartment together

874
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 6: in Studio City, me and Peter and my mom and

875
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 6: his mom. Yeah, and friends, Yeah, like childhood friends. We

876
00:40:29,560 --> 00:40:31,879
Speaker 6: would go to Beaman Park together in Studio City and

877
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,680
Speaker 6: like go like hide under this like turtle that was

878
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 6: in the sand, run around and beat kids together.

879
00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,240
Speaker 8: And then we kind of and then like I stayed

880
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:39,799
Speaker 8: in LA and.

881
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 6: They went back to Florida and did their thing and

882
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 6: eventually moved back out to LA.

883
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 8: But we kind of like lost touch, and you know,

884
00:40:46,880 --> 00:40:48,720
Speaker 8: people lives, things, whatever.

885
00:40:49,360 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 6: And I remember I was watching Hannah's season of the

886
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 6: Bachelorette and they're doing all the intros and everything, and

887
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,800
Speaker 6: then I see Peter come on screen.

888
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:02,520
Speaker 8: I freaked out. I was like, oh my.

889
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: God, that must be so weird.

890
00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:08,839
Speaker 6: However, it was so weird. I was like, what is

891
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 6: he doing on the happening?

892
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 5: I know?

893
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 6: It was so funny, and then like we all reconnected

894
00:41:16,080 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 6: and it was really fun to just you know, reconnect again.

895
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 8: And that's that's basically the story.

896
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 2: That's so funny. I didn't because so what was it?

897
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 2: So y'all were basically kids the last time you saw

898
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,480
Speaker 2: each other, and then the next time you saw him

899
00:41:26,520 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 2: it was like his intro and the Bachelorette. Yeah, wow,

900
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:32,480
Speaker 2: that is funny.

901
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:33,560
Speaker 1: That is really funny.

902
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask also, your your movie that has

903
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 2: come out, Trust is very different from where like your

904
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 2: hardcore fans know you from like a very different role.

905
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,719
Speaker 2: Do you feel like is there a pressure, like an

906
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 2: intimidation of switching gears in such a drastic way for

907
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,240
Speaker 2: you or do you just assume like, hopefully my fans

908
00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 2: have grown with me and they're ready for what I'm

909
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:00,680
Speaker 2: putting out.

910
00:42:01,239 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think my fans have grown with me for sure.

911
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 6: I feel like it's just like a natural progression. I'm

912
00:42:06,360 --> 00:42:10,480
Speaker 6: obviously not going to play like high school forever, and

913
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 6: so I've matured, and so the roles that I'm going

914
00:42:13,760 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 6: to be interested in are going to mature as well.

915
00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,000
Speaker 6: But I felt I feel like this role, it was

916
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 6: really kind of perfect for me in a lot of ways.

917
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 8: It's not like, you know, overly scandalous and shocking.

918
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 6: Rooms will be like, oh my god, like she really

919
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,560
Speaker 6: did that, or I'm like fully nude or something, which

920
00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:37,319
Speaker 6: I not plan undoing ever, But you know, it's it's

921
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 6: just a little bit scandalous and it's more mature, and

922
00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 6: it's like this adult relationship drama.

923
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 8: And I had a lot of fun doing it, and

924
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 8: I think hopefully people will will enjoy it.

925
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 6: I think they will. There's lots of twists and turns.

926
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:50,760
Speaker 6: It's very it's fun.

927
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 2: I love anything with a good twist and turns. I'm

928
00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:55,360
Speaker 2: just really into.

929
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 1: Right now, like a thriller.

930
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:58,480
Speaker 2: Is it a thriller? Would you say it's a thriller?

931
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 6: No, it's a thriller. It's a it's like a relationship drama.

932
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 6: It takes place in New York City and like the

933
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 6: Art World in New York. It's about a married couple

934
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 6: play by me and Matt Dario, and it's really about

935
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 6: like temptation and cheating and the kind of the whole

936
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 6: of you're trying to figure out like did this person's cheat?

937
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 8: Did they cheat? Like what's going on?

938
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,120
Speaker 6: And then you there's just like something else that gets

939
00:43:22,160 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 6: thrown at you.

940
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 8: You're like, oh, I didn't see that coming.

941
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 6: And I think it'll start a lot of interesting conversations too,

942
00:43:27,000 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 6: about like what people consider to be cheating And.

943
00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: I know, I mean I feel like it's it's not

944
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 1: They not like too much of a question there, right.

945
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 2: No, I think, I know, I disagree. I think a

946
00:43:41,120 --> 00:43:44,640
Speaker 2: lot of people. I mean it's you could literally go

947
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 2: back to Ross and Rachel. What are they on a break?

948
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 5: You know?

949
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 1: But that's not ating?

950
00:43:51,680 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 2: But that was the whole thing she felt like it was.

951
00:43:54,040 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like a lot of people, it's emotional. There's emotional,

952
00:43:57,280 --> 00:44:00,600
Speaker 2: there's physical, there's.

953
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 6: Exactly and it's like you can get really close, but

954
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,320
Speaker 6: if you don't actually do it, is that still consider

955
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 6: cheating or.

956
00:44:06,040 --> 00:44:09,640
Speaker 1: Like yes, that's the thing, but like yeah.

957
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,200
Speaker 6: So the whole time, for the whole movie, though, I

958
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 6: think like there's just different things that happen, and it's

959
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 6: like about it's really just about like it's a very

960
00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,720
Speaker 6: relatable story about this couple that is a happy couple,

961
00:44:19,800 --> 00:44:24,239
Speaker 6: but it's relatable because things can happen, and then neither

962
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,320
Speaker 6: one of them are crazy people. You know, my character

963
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 6: is sort of seeing things that are making her kind

964
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 6: of insecure and doubt like is he cheating? And then

965
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,640
Speaker 6: you know my husband's character is you know, I'm this

966
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,279
Speaker 6: art gallery owner. I'm representing this new like hot young

967
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 6: Irish artist and he's you know, super flirtatious, and so

968
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 6: my husband's kind of thinking, well, like is there something

969
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 6: going on here?

970
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 8: And he's seeing things.

971
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 6: So it's kind of just about like how all of

972
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,000
Speaker 6: that can happen and how like insecurities and doubts and

973
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 6: jealousy and temptation can kind of play into a relationship

974
00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:54,839
Speaker 6: and like where that can take you.

975
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 8: And I don't know, it's a it's a.

976
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:00,759
Speaker 2: Ride, but that we we all have, like some of

977
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 2: our listeners will email in and there's there's always every

978
00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 2: now and then there's a story of like you know,

979
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 2: I thought when I committed to this relationship or when

980
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 2: I got married to my husband or my wife, that

981
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,839
Speaker 2: I want to be able to have feelings for someone else.

982
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,000
Speaker 2: And it's like we're not really in control of who

983
00:45:17,040 --> 00:45:19,840
Speaker 2: we're drawn to or who's drawn to us, or like,

984
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 2: you know, we only can control ourselves and have self control.

985
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,680
Speaker 2: But it is not so black and white of just

986
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,400
Speaker 2: like once you meet someone that you're with or you

987
00:45:29,520 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 2: marry that you're never going to be tempted or like

988
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:36,280
Speaker 2: find someone else attractive or appealing, right exactly.

989
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:37,680
Speaker 8: I mean it's kind of inevitable.

990
00:45:37,680 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 6: I think people are going to find other people attractive,

991
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:41,680
Speaker 6: that sort of thing whatever. But it is all about

992
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 6: you know, trust at the end of the day, which

993
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:46,440
Speaker 6: is what the movie is called and so kind of

994
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 6: explores all that.

995
00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:52,720
Speaker 1: Oh wow, really really like what's the word close this circle?

996
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 8: Circle?

997
00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: Wow?

998
00:45:56,280 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's talk there's talks about a Victoria reboot. Is

999
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 2: that Are there any Is there any truth to that?

1000
00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 2: Do you talk about it?

1001
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 5: No?

1002
00:46:05,800 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 8: I think people really want one.

1003
00:46:07,200 --> 00:46:09,319
Speaker 6: I think that's awesome, but there's not been any like

1004
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 6: official you know, there's not not any plans to do

1005
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:14,400
Speaker 6: that in the works right now, but I guess, you know,

1006
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 6: you never know.

1007
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:17,879
Speaker 1: Everybody wants a reboot of everything they do.

1008
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:22,560
Speaker 6: It's just like nostalgic people are just super into reboots

1009
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 6: right now.

1010
00:46:23,160 --> 00:46:27,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, there's something about like our brains go back to

1011
00:46:27,760 --> 00:46:30,799
Speaker 2: that simple time where we enjoyed these shows in these

1012
00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 2: moments and felt like these characters were our friends, and

1013
00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:36,279
Speaker 2: and then you think that if you can get the

1014
00:46:36,320 --> 00:46:38,800
Speaker 2: reboot and have everyone back together, it'll be the same.

1015
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 2: But sometimes it's just like it ended where it ended.

1016
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:44,719
Speaker 2: It was like a beautiful memory exactly.

1017
00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1018
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 6: Sometimes it's it's supposed to end or edit and you

1019
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 6: don't need to do anything else, you know what I mean?

1020
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but you'd be open to it.

1021
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,359
Speaker 8: Yeah, you never know, you never know.

1022
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's like open. I like it. What is it?

1023
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: Open to the possibility, not attached to the outcome.

1024
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 2: Oh that's good, that's good.

1025
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 8: That is a great quote.

1026
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 3: I love that.

1027
00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:09,759
Speaker 1: Thank you so much. I'm good for one thing at

1028
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 1: when I get it right. Sometimes I can't quite the

1029
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 1: steal the loop like you did there.

1030
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 2: Do you have a preference over creating music or acting?

1031
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 2: Is there? Do you have a love over one over

1032
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:23,359
Speaker 2: the other.

1033
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 8: Oh, it's so hard. I really do love them both.

1034
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 8: And I feel so lucky to do both.

1035
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 6: So it's hard to choose. I love when I get

1036
00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:35,920
Speaker 6: to do both simultaneously, Like that is the most fulfilling

1037
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 6: for me. I don't know, but it kind of like

1038
00:47:39,280 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 6: wanes like sometimes, like right now I feel like I'm

1039
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 6: maybe leaning more towards music and loving music more. But

1040
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,759
Speaker 6: then you know, I'll see a great film or see

1041
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 6: something that inspires me and I'm like, oh god, I

1042
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:51,879
Speaker 6: just love acting so much, like I want to do that,

1043
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:52,200
Speaker 6: you know.

1044
00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:53,719
Speaker 8: So just depends on the day.

1045
00:47:53,760 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 2: I think, Okay, I'm gonna ask two more questions and

1046
00:47:56,920 --> 00:47:59,120
Speaker 2: then we'll let you go because I know you're a

1047
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:04,120
Speaker 2: busy girl. What album was your favorite this year? Did

1048
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 2: you have anyone where you were like, this is the

1049
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:08,840
Speaker 2: best album of her this year during the pandemic.

1050
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: It's a tough question.

1051
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,320
Speaker 8: You can take one.

1052
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 6: Well, just like well within the yeah, yeah, year is

1053
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 6: basically like an extended year.

1054
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:23,640
Speaker 8: What album from last year?

1055
00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 2: A song?

1056
00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:32,920
Speaker 8: I'm trying to think, what? Oh, I uh. There's this

1057
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 8: artist Sasha Sloan.

1058
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 6: That I oh, yeah her, She's so good.

1059
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 8: Her album that she put out last year was called

1060
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 8: Only Child. I love it. She's so cool.

1061
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, her.

1062
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: She is like a storyteller too.

1063
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:48,319
Speaker 8: He's so good.

1064
00:48:48,360 --> 00:48:51,439
Speaker 6: Those are my favorite kind of artists that the ones

1065
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:53,319
Speaker 6: that like are great songwriters and can tell a good

1066
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 6: story and they're just like she's so real and vulnerable

1067
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,319
Speaker 6: and it's like mellow pop music and I just I

1068
00:48:59,400 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 6: dig it.

1069
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:03,560
Speaker 8: I love it. I also really loved Folklore Taylor Swift.

1070
00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:04,920
Speaker 8: I really enjoyed.

1071
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 2: It and were big Taylor fans huge.

1072
00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 6: So good, and I'm obsessed right now with Leave the

1073
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 6: Door Open, the new Bruno Mars and Anderson Pack song.

1074
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:17,359
Speaker 8: Have you guys heard it?

1075
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,800
Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, just is that the one they performed?

1076
00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:24,240
Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, silk Sonic, Silk Sonic.

1077
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 5: For it.

1078
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:26,719
Speaker 8: I love it.

1079
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:28,640
Speaker 5: I love es.

1080
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so cool. Like he Bruno's always really had

1081
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,799
Speaker 2: a gift of kind of going back to that time

1082
00:49:35,840 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 2: of music while still keeping it modern and with the

1083
00:49:40,520 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 2: times exactly.

1084
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say something controversial. I don't like that song.

1085
00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 8: You don't like it?

1086
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 2: No, that's okay, that's an opinion. Yeah, an opinion on

1087
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 2: a song, isn't that controversial?

1088
00:49:54,600 --> 00:49:56,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't like Wet my Whistle, Like it's just

1089
00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: like it's like it's like white noise, you.

1090
00:49:58,920 --> 00:49:59,359
Speaker 5: Know, what I mean.

1091
00:50:00,920 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 2: Okay, well, you're gonna get offensive if you keep describing

1092
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:04,520
Speaker 2: things as white noise.

1093
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:07,799
Speaker 8: I think that's great.

1094
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,800
Speaker 6: Well, I mean I grew up listening to like motown

1095
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 6: like I love. I just love like soul music and everything,

1096
00:50:13,920 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 6: and so that's why I love it personally. It like

1097
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 6: has like and it's like soulful, but it also has

1098
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:20,480
Speaker 6: like a sense of humor to it still, which is

1099
00:50:20,480 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 6: what I think Bruno mars like does. So well, it's

1100
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:23,600
Speaker 6: really fun.

1101
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 8: But I totally understand.

1102
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: I mean, don't get me wrong, I love you some Bruno.

1103
00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: I mean, like grenade is just like.

1104
00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: It's not.

1105
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:37,960
Speaker 1: Oh see, we just might be sonically different.

1106
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 2: That might be.

1107
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:39,800
Speaker 1: We just might be.

1108
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:43,200
Speaker 8: We can agree on Sasha Sloan.

1109
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:48,759
Speaker 1: Yes, folklore you know, would be actually really funny. If

1110
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 1: there's a dating app that matched you by your like

1111
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 1: music choices, I would love that. I'm sure there is one.

1112
00:50:56,160 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 8: Probably, I think that's so important.

1113
00:50:58,360 --> 00:50:58,960
Speaker 1: I agree.

1114
00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:04,480
Speaker 2: Okay, my question, who's been your most pleasant and like

1115
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 2: best experience of a run in with someone that you

1116
00:51:08,800 --> 00:51:14,360
Speaker 2: admire loved or your worst? If you want to spill

1117
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:15,040
Speaker 2: some tea, But.

1118
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 1: Spill some tea. I don't think I've ever heard Becka

1119
00:51:19,080 --> 00:51:19,360
Speaker 1: say that.

1120
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 2: By the way, I'm on TikTok now, oh oh is

1121
00:51:22,160 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 2: that what they say on Okay?

1122
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 8: Me too?

1123
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 3: I came.

1124
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,520
Speaker 8: God the best of someone I admired or loved.

1125
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:35,399
Speaker 6: Uh oh oh god, this is kind of an embarrassing one.

1126
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:40,320
Speaker 6: I Sarah Brellis is like one of I love admire

1127
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:40,799
Speaker 6: her so much.

1128
00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 8: She's one of my favorite singer songwriters. You guys know

1129
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:43,000
Speaker 8: who she is.

1130
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,240
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, of course she's incredible.

1131
00:51:45,400 --> 00:51:49,760
Speaker 6: So years ago she I must have been like seventeen

1132
00:51:49,760 --> 00:51:52,440
Speaker 6: when this happened. She was like performing at Miranda Cosgro's

1133
00:51:52,480 --> 00:51:55,839
Speaker 6: birthday party, and I loved her so much.

1134
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:57,319
Speaker 8: I was like, I have to get backstage. I have

1135
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:57,919
Speaker 8: to meet her.

1136
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 6: So the you know, people that were the party got

1137
00:52:00,680 --> 00:52:03,560
Speaker 6: me backstage, and she performed like so many great songs,

1138
00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,320
Speaker 6: but she didn't do like one of my favorite songs,

1139
00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 6: and so gravity.

1140
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:09,920
Speaker 8: I just want to guess gravity. Yeah. So I was like, So,

1141
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 8: I was like so nervous to meet her, and I

1142
00:52:11,600 --> 00:52:13,640
Speaker 8: go backstage. I'm like, oh my holy, what the hell?

1143
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:15,880
Speaker 8: What am I going to stay? And so she's like

1144
00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,799
Speaker 8: there and I'm like hi. She's like hi, and I'm like,

1145
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 8: oh my gosh. You were amazing.

1146
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:21,759
Speaker 6: I was like, you did such a good job, like

1147
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 6: you know, I'm wondering like you, but you didn't do Gravity.

1148
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,160
Speaker 8: Though I love that song so much. And she was

1149
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:28,840
Speaker 8: like oh yeah, yeah, She's.

1150
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:30,000
Speaker 6: Like I just I just wasn't sure I was going

1151
00:52:30,040 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 6: to do this venue Justice and I was like, oh Justice,

1152
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:43,840
Speaker 6: That's why I lost. It was so just like I

1153
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 6: literally didn't even like my brain, just like I didn't

1154
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:48,600
Speaker 6: know what and that's.

1155
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,200
Speaker 1: What it ended. That's where it ended. You were like,

1156
00:52:50,200 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 1: that's my last name, and she just was like.

1157
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:59,480
Speaker 8: Great, great, Like yeah, I get it, okay, her last

1158
00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:00,000
Speaker 8: name is around.

1159
00:53:00,239 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 2: She would do something like that totally.

1160
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 1: Like when I met Patrick Dempsey, I was like, oh,

1161
00:53:07,200 --> 00:53:09,560
Speaker 1: you gonna throw? We were at a baseball field and

1162
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 1: I was like, are you gonna throw the ball? Like,

1163
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 1: out of everything I can say to Patrick Dempsey, I'm like,

1164
00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:16,640
Speaker 1: are you gonna throw the ball?

1165
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 2: Like I met Elizabeth Olsen one time, and I was

1166
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:25,600
Speaker 2: in my defense. I had been overserved significantly after an

1167
00:53:25,640 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 2: eighties cover party or band and I go I was

1168
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:32,120
Speaker 2: trying to tell her that she was so beautiful. I

1169
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:34,359
Speaker 2: don't know what happened, And I was just like, you're

1170
00:53:34,400 --> 00:53:37,280
Speaker 2: so much prettier than your sisters. But I was trying

1171
00:53:37,320 --> 00:53:40,759
Speaker 2: to say it, like, I know you probably feel like

1172
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:44,360
Speaker 2: a lot of pressure in comparison that your sisters like

1173
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 2: you're beautiful, you know, like.

1174
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 3: It was.

1175
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 2: And she started laughing and she goes, well, my sisters

1176
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:52,839
Speaker 2: are beautiful too, and I was like, no, no, there.

1177
00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 2: It was like could my friend basically pulled me away?

1178
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 2: It was bad.

1179
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 1: Oh that's so good.

1180
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,680
Speaker 2: Thank you so much for hanging out with us. I

1181
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 2: felt like we were just having girl chat. That was

1182
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:07,040
Speaker 2: so fun.

1183
00:54:07,280 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 1: That was really fun.

1184
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:11,759
Speaker 2: Y'all watch them. I'm gonna literally go home and watch

1185
00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:17,440
Speaker 2: the movie tonight, Cozy Day. I'm gonna watch Trust. You

1186
00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:18,919
Speaker 2: can did you say where? Did you say?

1187
00:54:18,920 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 1: People can watch it on demand on demand?

1188
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 6: Yep, like iTunes and whatnot and like in select theaters.

1189
00:54:26,640 --> 00:54:29,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can just like type it into your TV

1190
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: and it'll show you where you can get it.

1191
00:54:31,400 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 5: Yea.

1192
00:54:33,160 --> 00:54:36,240
Speaker 2: And also stream all her new music. She's like giving

1193
00:54:36,320 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 2: you the gift of music in multiple songs, So go

1194
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 2: stream those.

1195
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,239
Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you so much, thank you.

1196
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 5: Buye Bye Victoria, Bye.

1197
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 2: Okay, we are back. So after this conversation about Victoria,

1198
00:55:05,760 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 2: Justice movie, Trust and kind of deciding what is considered cheating.

1199
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 2: We have a little would we call this a game

1200
00:55:15,719 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 2: or conversation starters? Are? What are these?

1201
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, a conversation starter. We have a lot of them,

1202
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,520
Speaker 3: but I'll just pick a few good ones. And you know,

1203
00:55:22,600 --> 00:55:25,200
Speaker 3: there's a lot of different levels of cheating and different

1204
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:27,440
Speaker 3: relationships and different rules on cheating. I think we all

1205
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 3: agree that intercourse with someone outside of your relationship is cheating,

1206
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,320
Speaker 3: but there's a lot of gray aaria on some of these.

1207
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 3: How do we feel about for example, your partner is

1208
00:55:37,600 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 3: flirting with someone through text but has never met them, cheating.

1209
00:55:43,200 --> 00:55:45,360
Speaker 2: Like you would break up over that or just it

1210
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:47,399
Speaker 2: would be a heavy conversation If.

1211
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 1: He's flirting with somebody via text message, well.

1212
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 2: What's flirting?

1213
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:50,960
Speaker 1: Like?

1214
00:55:51,160 --> 00:55:54,960
Speaker 2: Sometimes that's being nice, and that can be flirting. Like

1215
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 2: I consider myself because I'm nice, sometimes I can come

1216
00:55:57,760 --> 00:56:01,399
Speaker 2: across as flirting, but I have like no interest in

1217
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 2: anything other than being kind, feels suspect. Can we get

1218
00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,919
Speaker 2: maybe an example of those text.

1219
00:56:13,120 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: I know very specifically when I'm being flirty and I'm

1220
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: being kind.

1221
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:20,720
Speaker 3: I agree with that, I don't.

1222
00:56:20,840 --> 00:56:22,839
Speaker 1: I think there's news for ninety five p.

1223
00:56:24,320 --> 00:56:27,359
Speaker 2: Listen ninety five. P has had some flirty conversations that

1224
00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:29,640
Speaker 2: I had to have some conversations about, but it was

1225
00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 2: like more so I was just you know, it wasn't

1226
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 2: anything more than me being nice and I trust, gotta trust.

1227
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 2: But it literally was like one conversation and I was like,

1228
00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:40,839
Speaker 2: all right.

1229
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:46,400
Speaker 3: Fine, how about your partners using a webcam? You're going

1230
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:51,000
Speaker 3: to a webcam site and interacting with the people on

1231
00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:55,640
Speaker 3: the webcam site and perhaps doing a little bit of

1232
00:56:55,680 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 3: themselves while they're watching it.

1233
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 2: Cheating, Just yeah, don't do that.

1234
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, cheating And like not, my dude, Well, it is

1235
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,080
Speaker 3: a line, whether you know about Like if they're hiding

1236
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:11,719
Speaker 3: that from you, that does seem like cheating. But I

1237
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 3: feel like in some relationships they're aware of this activity.

1238
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:15,920
Speaker 3: And maybe.

1239
00:57:17,640 --> 00:57:20,200
Speaker 1: I'm not like porn to me, I'm not like a

1240
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:22,880
Speaker 1: I don't like it, but I think I would not.

1241
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: It wouldn't be a what's the word deal breaker for

1242
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 1: me if this guy was like, I watch porn, but

1243
00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: interacting with somebody via webcam is a hard no.

1244
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 2: These are also just our opinions and our relationships. Like

1245
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:41,040
Speaker 2: I think there is a lot of like, you know,

1246
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,920
Speaker 2: people have more open relationships some people are open to

1247
00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 2: a lot more than I personally am, which is fine,

1248
00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 2: but teach their own These are just our personal preferences

1249
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:57,600
Speaker 2: and our own relationship. If someone is web chatting and doing, uh,

1250
00:57:58,160 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 2: are you talking about like masturbating? Okay, I don't know, I.

1251
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:06,000
Speaker 1: Don't that's the word. We were kind of pivoting around,

1252
00:58:06,160 --> 00:58:08,920
Speaker 1: you know, maybe fondle correcting.

1253
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I hate fondling yourself. That's yeah. I don't like it,

1254
00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 2: so don't do it for me?

1255
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:24,640
Speaker 3: All right? How do we feel about social media? Like?

1256
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 3: What do we How do we feel about commenting on

1257
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 3: people's pictures who are partially dressed.

1258
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,120
Speaker 2: I don't like it. I don't know that it's a

1259
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:39,240
Speaker 2: deal breaker, but it is a conversation to be had.

1260
00:58:39,920 --> 00:58:42,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I wouldn't like it. I don't think it's cheating,

1261
00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:43,640
Speaker 1: but I wouldn't like Yeah.

1262
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 2: I don't think it's cheating either. I do think it warrants.

1263
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,280
Speaker 2: If it's like happening all the time where your person's

1264
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 2: like all you see is their comment popping up on

1265
00:58:50,840 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 2: every like half nude photo, maybe have a conversation and

1266
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 2: let them know if that makes you uncomfortable. If you're

1267
00:58:56,880 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 2: not uncomfortable, then chill, let them do it.

1268
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 3: What about a fantasy? What about fantasies about other people?

1269
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:08,440
Speaker 1: Oh, that's interest.

1270
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,320
Speaker 2: Like they tell you about a fantasy they had.

1271
00:59:11,560 --> 00:59:12,920
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I guess that's the only way you

1272
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:14,720
Speaker 3: would find out, I suppose, But.

1273
00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 2: They say, like I want to.

1274
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 3: No, not, I want to just like like sometimes I

1275
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 3: think I don't know how you tell me right, Like is.

1276
00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 1: It like is it like one of those oh my

1277
00:59:25,280 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 1: hall pass if I saw me lacunis like I'd want

1278
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:33,720
Speaker 1: to wink or whatever. I don't know, that's the fantasy.

1279
00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:39,480
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go ahead and give myself a blanket

1280
00:59:39,480 --> 00:59:42,440
Speaker 1: statement of everything's is cheating to me. So my partner,

1281
00:59:42,640 --> 00:59:49,440
Speaker 1: my partner better be loyal af all right, Yeah, this.

1282
00:59:49,280 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 3: Is an anonymous email. I'm a single mother to do

1283
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:53,919
Speaker 3: beautiful babies, and over the last year I've begun dating

1284
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,600
Speaker 3: again after a pretty rocky divorce. A year ago, I

1285
00:59:56,640 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 3: met an amazing man who has only lived in my

1286
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 3: state for a few years, but see to have things together.

1287
01:00:01,160 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 3: A great career, owns a home here, and has a

1288
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 3: personality that complements mind perfectly. He seems to have messed

1289
01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:10,480
Speaker 3: well with my kids in my busy lifestyle. Just recently, however,

1290
01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:13,000
Speaker 3: he has shared that he doesn't feel fulfilled here and

1291
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:15,960
Speaker 3: wants to potentially move, and has started applying to different

1292
01:00:16,040 --> 01:00:18,800
Speaker 3: jobs in different states. I can't help but think I'm

1293
01:00:18,880 --> 01:00:21,520
Speaker 3: just not good enough to stick around for. He's broken

1294
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 3: up with me twice over the last year, the reason

1295
01:00:24,240 --> 01:00:26,200
Speaker 3: being that he wants to move and doesn't want to

1296
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:28,440
Speaker 3: hurt my kids and I. In my head, I keep

1297
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 3: hearing Tanya saying no discounts. But is this a situation

1298
01:00:32,040 --> 01:00:34,360
Speaker 3: I should stay in or wait around for, or is

1299
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 3: this a red flag that I should avoid.

1300
01:00:39,520 --> 01:00:41,560
Speaker 1: I feel like he's not giving you the option to

1301
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:44,560
Speaker 1: stay and wait around right, Like if he's looking for

1302
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 1: jobs elsewhere, I feel like you're not really being given

1303
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 1: an option. Like he's taking matters into his own hands

1304
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: and doing what he wants.

1305
01:00:52,800 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think this guy sounds like he's a little selfish,

1306
01:00:56,800 --> 01:00:58,800
Speaker 2: Which if that's what he wants to do with his life,

1307
01:00:58,800 --> 01:01:00,439
Speaker 2: that's fine, but you don't need to be a part

1308
01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 2: of it. And like, you've been through a rocky marriage

1309
01:01:04,120 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 2: or you know, divorce, and you deserve someone who like

1310
01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:10,520
Speaker 2: really prioritizes you, and it doesn't sound like he has

1311
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:13,120
Speaker 2: done that. And the fact that he's broken up with

1312
01:01:13,160 --> 01:01:15,520
Speaker 2: you twice. There's no safety in that for you. So

1313
01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:18,920
Speaker 2: of course you're questioning where your worth is. Which when

1314
01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:21,480
Speaker 2: you start questioning your worth in a relationship, that's when

1315
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:24,080
Speaker 2: things are not working how they should.

1316
01:01:24,720 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I also think too, I think that you

1317
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: can let somebody go and and let that go. If

1318
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 1: this really is somebody that in your heart of hearts

1319
01:01:36,880 --> 01:01:38,919
Speaker 1: you feel like he is the one for you, then

1320
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 1: like he will, you'll find your way back to each other.

1321
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:45,440
Speaker 1: But I also think too, like when you hold on

1322
01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:49,440
Speaker 1: to something like with your clenched fist, it's almost it's worse.

1323
01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 1: You kind of just have to like let things go,

1324
01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: as much as it sucks.

1325
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:57,480
Speaker 3: I think you're clinging to this guy because it's so

1326
01:01:57,560 --> 01:01:59,520
Speaker 3: hard to find somebody when you're a single mom with

1327
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:01,480
Speaker 3: too cat and you're coming off a divorce, and you're

1328
01:02:01,520 --> 01:02:04,320
Speaker 3: really excited by the idea of finding somebody that you

1329
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:07,440
Speaker 3: really click with, and it's tough because your kids are

1330
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 3: always going to be a priority. But unfortunately this guy's

1331
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:12,760
Speaker 3: got his priority and it's not you. And so Tanya's

1332
01:02:12,840 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 3: voice in your head saying no discounts is correct, And

1333
01:02:15,000 --> 01:02:16,080
Speaker 3: I think you should listen to that.

1334
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 1: I agree, sad though, I'm sorry.

1335
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 2: No, it sucks, and I just I think if I

1336
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:26,959
Speaker 2: think she's probably great and she can find someone who

1337
01:02:27,120 --> 01:02:30,240
Speaker 2: is great and makes her feel valued and safe in

1338
01:02:30,280 --> 01:02:32,560
Speaker 2: a relationship, I agree, Well, he'll move.

1339
01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:35,200
Speaker 3: To Arkansas and then he'll realize, you know what, she

1340
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 3: was awesome, and you'll find your way back to each other.

1341
01:02:37,920 --> 01:02:38,200
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1342
01:02:38,320 --> 01:02:41,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, if she hasn't moved on to someone better, that's right.

1343
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 3: Katie says. I've been dating my boyfriend for about six

1344
01:02:43,960 --> 01:02:46,440
Speaker 3: months now. Things were very serious right from the beginning.

1345
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:50,000
Speaker 3: He's sweet and smart and driven and kind and beautiful.

1346
01:02:50,680 --> 01:02:53,320
Speaker 3: He's exactly the kind of person I've always imagined my

1347
01:02:53,400 --> 01:02:56,760
Speaker 3: life with. Lately, we've been fighting a lot more. I'm

1348
01:02:56,760 --> 01:02:59,000
Speaker 3: pretty sensitive, and I've cried myself to sleep on more

1349
01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:01,920
Speaker 3: than one occasion because of this. After every fight, we

1350
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 3: generally come to an understanding, and I feel like we

1351
01:03:04,240 --> 01:03:06,640
Speaker 3: end up better and like we learn something about each other.

1352
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:09,360
Speaker 3: But at what point do these fights become too much?

1353
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:11,920
Speaker 3: Are we experiencing growing pains that come with being in

1354
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 3: a relationship, or are we just not right for each other?

1355
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 1: I felt me a little more context as to what

1356
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 1: these fights are about. Because if you're fighting over like, oh,

1357
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 1: you left the toilet seat down, and you're really getting

1358
01:03:25,640 --> 01:03:28,880
Speaker 1: into fights about that stuff, then I'd say you're probably

1359
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 1: not a match. But if the fights are growing pains

1360
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:34,439
Speaker 1: and you're actually like learning about each other and how

1361
01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: you guys handle different situations and things like that, then

1362
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:40,000
Speaker 1: I think that that's pretty normal.

1363
01:03:41,040 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think there's a lot of I think a

1364
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:48,520
Speaker 2: lot of fights and arguments come from communication errors and

1365
01:03:48,560 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 2: how we communicate differently. And so I think for me,

1366
01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:56,600
Speaker 2: my personal therapy and then also couple therapy has been

1367
01:03:56,680 --> 01:03:59,600
Speaker 2: so great because it's been trying to find the tools

1368
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:02,840
Speaker 2: to understand each other more, which I think is a

1369
01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:05,919
Speaker 2: lot of where these issues happen and why we fight

1370
01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 2: and argue because we don't argue or fight the same

1371
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 2: way or communicate the same way. And so if it's

1372
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:14,000
Speaker 2: I guess I agree like the context is hard because

1373
01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:16,720
Speaker 2: if it's things where you're trying to understand each other

1374
01:04:16,720 --> 01:04:18,600
Speaker 2: and you're just not getting there, I think those things

1375
01:04:18,640 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 2: are fixable if you're willing to make the effort and

1376
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:24,440
Speaker 2: work on it. But if it's something like y'all are

1377
01:04:24,480 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 2: bickering about little things every other day that are just

1378
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:32,400
Speaker 2: like y'all are butting heads constantly. Maybe y'all are in

1379
01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:33,640
Speaker 2: each other's person.

1380
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think too, it's like, yeah, the context

1381
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:39,880
Speaker 1: of the fights is huge because it's if they're fundamental

1382
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 1: things like let's say, you guys, are you know, he

1383
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: likes to stay in and you like to go out.

1384
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:47,480
Speaker 1: I mean that could be, you know, somewhat of an issue.

1385
01:04:47,520 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 1: I guess if you just like to live your lives differently,

1386
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 1: you know. But yeah, I don't know. I think there's

1387
01:04:55,240 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: something to be said about I don't think that things

1388
01:05:01,080 --> 01:05:02,920
Speaker 1: go smoothly, and I think that you do have to

1389
01:05:02,960 --> 01:05:06,600
Speaker 1: fight and kind of figure out what's important and work

1390
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 1: through those things. But if their fight's over, I don't know,

1391
01:05:11,400 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: and you're crying yourself to sleep, that seems not great. Well,

1392
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:18,360
Speaker 1: I'm a sensitive person, uh huh, and so I cry

1393
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:22,000
Speaker 1: a lot. And I mean I think I cried myself

1394
01:05:22,000 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 1: to sleep once in my last relationship.

1395
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 2: Well, I was gonna say, I've never gone to sleep

1396
01:05:28,360 --> 01:05:30,480
Speaker 2: while we were still in a fight, And I think

1397
01:05:30,520 --> 01:05:33,560
Speaker 2: that's an effort that we've both made where even if

1398
01:05:33,600 --> 01:05:37,040
Speaker 2: we're exhausted, we make sure that we come to an

1399
01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 2: understanding and at least can you know in the conversation

1400
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 2: and feel like we've made progress before we go to sleep.

1401
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 2: But I think the fact that y'all are able to

1402
01:05:46,800 --> 01:05:50,000
Speaker 2: resolve at some point is good. I think if y'all

1403
01:05:50,040 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 2: could just find the tools of how to not let

1404
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 2: it escalate to that point where you're crying, I think

1405
01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:57,480
Speaker 2: that would be really helpful to probably save you both

1406
01:05:57,520 --> 01:06:01,080
Speaker 2: a lot of frustration and pain. But if you're crying

1407
01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:04,439
Speaker 2: a lot.

1408
01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 1: I wonder if he's an Aries.

1409
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:07,560
Speaker 2: Probably, yeah, it must be.

1410
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 3: It must be it at least chance, yeah.

1411
01:06:11,800 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: Because that then he's like fiery and very you know.

1412
01:06:15,480 --> 01:06:16,840
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like I think if I were to

1413
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:19,439
Speaker 1: fight with an Aries, I would cry myself to sleep

1414
01:06:19,440 --> 01:06:19,720
Speaker 1: a lot.

1415
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 2: Well, I also have to say, in my life, I

1416
01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 2: don't know that I've ever cried myself to sleep because

1417
01:06:26,280 --> 01:06:28,320
Speaker 2: it's not my personality type. And she did say she's

1418
01:06:28,440 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 2: very sensitive, so.

1419
01:06:29,400 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: I think, and that's me, Like I'm very sensitive, That's.

1420
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:34,640
Speaker 2: What I'm saying. So like, I don't necessarily it could

1421
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,560
Speaker 2: be like I could look at the fight and be like, oh,

1422
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:39,920
Speaker 2: that's not bad. I mean she's being you know, it's

1423
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 2: her feelings are valid, but it is a little more

1424
01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 2: on the sensitive side where Tony's like, I totally get

1425
01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:49,000
Speaker 2: her perspective, you know, it's like, no, I think that

1426
01:06:49,080 --> 01:06:52,360
Speaker 2: could have a different reaction from different people.

1427
01:06:52,880 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I also think too sometimes you have to

1428
01:06:55,160 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 1: check yourself a little bit because I am such a

1429
01:06:57,640 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 1: sensitive person and I take things so per personally and

1430
01:07:01,000 --> 01:07:03,680
Speaker 1: so sensitively that I've had to, like through therapy, I've

1431
01:07:03,680 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 1: had to like really kind of grow in that space

1432
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:09,120
Speaker 1: and just know that, like not everything is meant to

1433
01:07:09,200 --> 01:07:12,040
Speaker 1: be that way against me or you know what I mean,

1434
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:13,720
Speaker 1: Like I take I don't know if I've learned how

1435
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 1: to kind of manage that a little bit better. So

1436
01:07:18,120 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 1: food for thought.

1437
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:22,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like Tanya, the amount of times she's cried over

1438
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 2: me not texting your back and then posting the Instagram

1439
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 2: is countless error.

1440
01:07:26,880 --> 01:07:30,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've cried myself to Okay.

1441
01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:32,200
Speaker 2: This is total. This is kind of about relationships. Has

1442
01:07:32,200 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 2: anyone watched the one on Netflix or read the book?

1443
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 2: It is fascinating. It is like such a fascinating storyline

1444
01:07:41,280 --> 01:07:45,320
Speaker 2: and it really made me think about Tanya.

1445
01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:46,160
Speaker 1: Why.

1446
01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:50,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So basically I know, and you find your match,

1447
01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:53,800
Speaker 2: so it connects you basically genetically matches you with someone

1448
01:07:53,840 --> 01:07:56,200
Speaker 2: that you will fall in love with when you meet them.

1449
01:07:56,600 --> 01:07:58,640
Speaker 3: So it's like a black mirror type thing, like a

1450
01:07:58,680 --> 01:08:02,200
Speaker 3: near future thing with anology that matches you up with somebody.

1451
01:08:01,840 --> 01:08:06,480
Speaker 2: Perfectly right, like all the qualities will ALIGNE And one

1452
01:08:06,520 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: of the this is just like one of the storylines,

1453
01:08:08,760 --> 01:08:11,840
Speaker 2: and it is this girl who's married and she takes

1454
01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:14,680
Speaker 2: her husband's like one of his hairs or something and

1455
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:17,160
Speaker 2: submits him to find his match. But he doesn't know

1456
01:08:17,760 --> 01:08:19,439
Speaker 2: because she's like, I need to know if I'm not

1457
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 2: his match, and so she ends up meeting up with

1458
01:08:22,360 --> 01:08:24,599
Speaker 2: the woman who is his match to see like what

1459
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:28,879
Speaker 2: she's like and befriends her and she's like he cannot

1460
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:30,920
Speaker 2: meet her because they'll fall in love, and so it

1461
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 2: just becomes really messy. But I was like, could see

1462
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:36,200
Speaker 2: Dania being like, am I his match?

1463
01:08:36,640 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to know that. I heard the premise,

1464
01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 1: and I was like, I think I would want to

1465
01:08:40,320 --> 01:08:43,200
Speaker 1: take the test if I were single, because like that's cool,

1466
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 1: you know, like you're saying you didn't find your match,

1467
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 1: But if I was not, if I was married, I

1468
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:49,240
Speaker 1: wouldn't want to take it. I wouldn't want my partner

1469
01:08:49,320 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 1: to take it.

1470
01:08:49,600 --> 01:08:51,400
Speaker 3: Either if you find your match and they're married.

1471
01:08:53,160 --> 01:08:55,280
Speaker 1: Oh, like, if I'm single and I find a match,

1472
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:56,600
Speaker 1: take it.

1473
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:58,040
Speaker 3: You find out, oh my gosh, he's married.

1474
01:08:59,320 --> 01:09:01,080
Speaker 1: Oh that would be hard. I don't know what I

1475
01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:01,479
Speaker 1: would do.

1476
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:06,519
Speaker 2: She'd just linger around and be like, hey, I don't know.

1477
01:09:06,640 --> 01:09:09,479
Speaker 1: That would be hard because I wouldn't want to ruin

1478
01:09:09,520 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 1: the marriage. But if he's my perfect match, see this way,

1479
01:09:16,560 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 1: I like, no, this is not that's not it.

1480
01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:19,800
Speaker 3: I know.

1481
01:09:19,840 --> 01:09:22,680
Speaker 2: That's why the It's like the show is really interesting.

1482
01:09:22,800 --> 01:09:25,720
Speaker 2: It's like it makes you think about these things. And

1483
01:09:25,760 --> 01:09:28,360
Speaker 2: to be honest, I could see it going to this

1484
01:09:28,439 --> 01:09:31,160
Speaker 2: in the future in some capacity, maybe not so dark,

1485
01:09:31,240 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 2: but like where they can match people based on these things.

1486
01:09:35,320 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm still not sure why dating apps haven't

1487
01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:40,719
Speaker 1: taken it a step further and like really like given

1488
01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 1: people percentages, just like based on swiping, do you know what

1489
01:09:43,479 --> 01:09:45,360
Speaker 1: I mean? Like your answers and their answers, Like you

1490
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:47,760
Speaker 1: guys are sixty five percent compatible.

1491
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:51,240
Speaker 3: Like that's completely an exact though, just because you guys

1492
01:09:51,280 --> 01:09:54,200
Speaker 3: like the same pizza and TV shows and there's.

1493
01:09:54,080 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 2: Something I don't think there is, yeah, because to me,

1494
01:09:57,920 --> 01:10:03,120
Speaker 2: those are just conversation starters. Yes, like they're not really significant.

1495
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:03,880
Speaker 2: That's not true.

1496
01:10:03,960 --> 01:10:06,679
Speaker 1: Like if somebody run on their dating app, I love

1497
01:10:07,320 --> 01:10:09,840
Speaker 1: cheese and I want to live in a house of cheese,

1498
01:10:10,280 --> 01:10:12,800
Speaker 1: and in my dating app, I'm like lactose intolerant. We

1499
01:10:12,840 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 1: would have zero percent compatibility, and that is accurate.

1500
01:10:16,600 --> 01:10:17,519
Speaker 2: What if because.

1501
01:10:17,360 --> 01:10:20,360
Speaker 1: Dating ham would give me diarrhea?

1502
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,960
Speaker 3: No, you don't want a guy who's like super into

1503
01:10:23,080 --> 01:10:27,400
Speaker 3: Gray's anatomy, who's super into astrology, who loves self help books.

1504
01:10:27,439 --> 01:10:29,960
Speaker 3: You don't want that guy. That's not your perfect match.

1505
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 3: So you think I'm pretty sure that you don't want

1506
01:10:34,439 --> 01:10:36,679
Speaker 3: your clone as your partner.

1507
01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 1: Well right, but what if they have some sort of

1508
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:41,760
Speaker 1: method where they can actually figure it out?

1509
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:44,760
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. I do think there will be

1510
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 2: an advancement in these things in the future. I hope.

1511
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:49,880
Speaker 8: I'm not understand for it.

1512
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:50,559
Speaker 3: You me too.

1513
01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:52,479
Speaker 1: You know. I like to lead with my heart. I

1514
01:10:52,560 --> 01:10:54,719
Speaker 1: like my heart to do the beating and the picking,

1515
01:10:55,040 --> 01:10:56,400
Speaker 1: and I'm going to keep it that way.

1516
01:10:57,280 --> 01:10:59,760
Speaker 2: Great. I'm so happy to keep that heart.

1517
01:10:59,560 --> 01:11:02,719
Speaker 1: On my leave and just let it just roam around

1518
01:11:02,760 --> 01:11:04,599
Speaker 1: and pick pick pick people.

1519
01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:07,759
Speaker 2: No, she just has her hand in my face.

1520
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:12,719
Speaker 1: My heart's my heart picking you, I love you.

1521
01:11:15,280 --> 01:11:17,800
Speaker 2: Well not, I definitely would recommend watching it.

1522
01:11:18,120 --> 01:11:20,720
Speaker 1: I want to watch the College Admissions documentary too.

1523
01:11:21,240 --> 01:11:25,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so bad. It's some next on my list.

1524
01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:26,400
Speaker 2: It was awesome.

1525
01:11:26,800 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 3: I love TV.

1526
01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:30,639
Speaker 1: Oh, TV is awesome. I was like, are you saying

1527
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:31,559
Speaker 1: Iggy's awesome?

1528
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:33,679
Speaker 3: Like this is like this is the time, Like TV

1529
01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:35,840
Speaker 3: has never been better than it is right now. It

1530
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:38,200
Speaker 3: is all things I want to watch all the time,

1531
01:11:38,479 --> 01:11:39,120
Speaker 3: all the time.

1532
01:11:39,360 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 2: It's kind of overwhelming, though, because it's always there's always

1533
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:46,240
Speaker 2: something available, always something people are telling you to watch.

1534
01:11:46,360 --> 01:11:48,280
Speaker 2: You just kind of feel like you can't keep up

1535
01:11:48,360 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 2: with what's viral or what.

1536
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:52,679
Speaker 1: No, and then I forget and then I'm like back

1537
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:54,680
Speaker 1: to watching Denny and I.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 1: I did actually just start watching Insecure, which I I'm loving.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I've heard that's amazing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm only two episodes in, so I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: really give my opinion quite yet, but so far, so good.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's always good for two episodes in for me

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01:12:13,000 --> 01:12:17,080
Speaker 2: normally is like may for anything. So I'm a tough

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Speaker 2: critic when it comes to finding a good TV show.

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Speaker 2: I like Anyways, it has been a wonderful episode with y'all.

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Speaker 2: As always, we love.

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Speaker 1: You so much, Love you so much.

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Speaker 2: Go women, Sports, Go wild Cat. Hope you all have

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Speaker 2: a great week and we'll be back next Monday.

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Speaker 1: I'll be wearing my merch hopefully it comes in time.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, your merch, your costume all right.

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Speaker 1: Bye bye