1
00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:07,880
Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Hey, Paul,

2
00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:10,240
Speaker 1: good morning, welcome to the program. How are you.

3
00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:11,879
Speaker 2: I'm good? How are you guys?

4
00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:14,560
Speaker 1: We're doing okay doing you know what? No, we're doing

5
00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,400
Speaker 1: great on baby anyway, I don't want to say that

6
00:00:17,400 --> 00:00:19,800
Speaker 1: that sounds dumb. I'm not saying that anymore. Like I'm

7
00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:21,800
Speaker 1: still I'm still stuck on stand on business. But anyway,

8
00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:24,200
Speaker 1: what's going on with this one? Sonya? I have your

9
00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:26,160
Speaker 1: email here, but why don't you tell us how you met?

10
00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:28,440
Speaker 1: About any dates that you've been on and then where

11
00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:29,040
Speaker 1: things are now?

12
00:00:29,200 --> 00:00:30,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, we met on Riyah.

13
00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:35,440
Speaker 1: I asked you fancy on Riya? Oh? Your fancy on Riah.

14
00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:37,479
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to get on that thing for a decade.

15
00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,199
Speaker 1: It won't put me on there. I mean I'm not

16
00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:42,640
Speaker 1: famous enough, I guess, but but Paul is So anyway,

17
00:00:42,720 --> 00:00:45,519
Speaker 1: you met on Rayah and then what Yeah.

18
00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,239
Speaker 2: We and so I asked out for drinks. We had

19
00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:50,600
Speaker 2: a perfect date. We hooked up even.

20
00:00:52,560 --> 00:00:55,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm into her, and we even talked about

21
00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,720
Speaker 3: our second date while we were together.

22
00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,760
Speaker 2: But then she just went dark and I don't know why.

23
00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:03,760
Speaker 1: All right, So this date went really well, I mean,

24
00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:08,560
Speaker 1: you know, normally dates it end in in relations, adult

25
00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:14,360
Speaker 1: loving relations. I know, I'm trying to say it all

26
00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:17,760
Speaker 1: appropriately now because I got middle management, you know. Anyway,

27
00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:20,480
Speaker 1: So yeah, when two people love each other, Paul, and

28
00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,840
Speaker 1: which you obviously did in a long term committed situation

29
00:01:24,520 --> 00:01:27,520
Speaker 1: on God. So anyway, you guys hooked up normally, that's

30
00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,640
Speaker 1: a great sign. Except this woman is ghosting you. It

31
00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,679
Speaker 1: would appear you've reached out. No response. You want to

32
00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,640
Speaker 1: know why? Yeah, exactly. All right, let's call Sonya. I'm

33
00:01:34,640 --> 00:01:36,399
Speaker 1: gonna play one song. We'll come back in two minutes.

34
00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,360
Speaker 1: We'll call Sonya and you'll be on the phone. We'll

35
00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:39,839
Speaker 1: see if you can figure out what's going on. Hopefully

36
00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,240
Speaker 1: we can fix this and set you guys up on

37
00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:44,200
Speaker 1: another date that we pay for. Okay, great, you got

38
00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:46,440
Speaker 1: to hear what happens next Part two of waiting metaphote

39
00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,040
Speaker 1: after Olivia Rudrigo in two minutes, will do it on

40
00:01:49,040 --> 00:01:52,160
Speaker 1: the Fred Show, Olivia Rodrigo, It's the Fred Show commercial

41
00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,120
Speaker 1: free for the next forty minutes on the radio and

42
00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,600
Speaker 1: the iHeart Appy and listened live e either way, Hey, Paul, Yeah,

43
00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,200
Speaker 1: all right, let's call this woman Sonia. You guys, you

44
00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:02,880
Speaker 1: met on the fancy dating app Riah, and you went

45
00:02:02,920 --> 00:02:05,360
Speaker 1: on a date. It went really really well, like as

46
00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:07,920
Speaker 1: well as could be, except you haven't heard from her

47
00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,200
Speaker 1: since the date, and you want to know why exactly.

48
00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:11,280
Speaker 2: I'm stump.

49
00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:24,400
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck. Paul. Hello, Hi,

50
00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:29,399
Speaker 1: is this Sonya? Yes, Sonya, good morning. My name is Fred.

51
00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,839
Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the morning radio show.

52
00:02:31,880 --> 00:02:33,200
Speaker 1: The whole crew is here. I have to tell you

53
00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:35,320
Speaker 1: that we are on the radio right now and I

54
00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:37,400
Speaker 1: would need your permission to continue with the call. Is

55
00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:41,440
Speaker 1: that okay? Okay, thank you very much. I'm not sure

56
00:02:41,440 --> 00:02:43,440
Speaker 1: if you've heard this before, but we call it waiting

57
00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,280
Speaker 1: by the phone, and we're trying to figure out why

58
00:02:45,320 --> 00:02:48,360
Speaker 1: this dude, Paul, who I guess you recently met on

59
00:02:48,400 --> 00:02:50,200
Speaker 1: a dating app and went out with. He wants to

60
00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:53,240
Speaker 1: know why you're not responding to him at all. He

61
00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:54,880
Speaker 1: liked you thought the date went well. He feels like

62
00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:57,720
Speaker 1: you're ghosting him. Is that true? I mean, what's going

63
00:02:57,720 --> 00:03:00,320
Speaker 1: on with Paul? Uh?

64
00:03:01,600 --> 00:03:03,400
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm definitely ghosting him?

65
00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:07,200
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, confirmation why? Because he described what he

66
00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,280
Speaker 1: thought was a really good date. He did mention that

67
00:03:09,320 --> 00:03:11,240
Speaker 1: you guys hooked up at the end. He thought that

68
00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:13,120
Speaker 1: was all a good sign. So why can't he get

69
00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:13,600
Speaker 1: a hold of you?

70
00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:18,280
Speaker 3: Uh well, I'm not calling him back because I actually

71
00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:19,880
Speaker 3: got a message from his wife.

72
00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:24,440
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, that would be a reason why not

73
00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,760
Speaker 1: to call him back. His wife. Yeah, apparently she went

74
00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:31,120
Speaker 1: through his phone and saw messages between he and myself,

75
00:03:31,400 --> 00:03:33,640
Speaker 1: and so she reached out to tell me that he

76
00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:34,600
Speaker 1: was married, and she.

77
00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:35,320
Speaker 2: Sent me proof.

78
00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:37,160
Speaker 1: So what is the proof?

79
00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,720
Speaker 2: I mean, she showed me their marriage to life.

80
00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:44,080
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, do you just keep that handy just in

81
00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:45,840
Speaker 1: case someone she sent you any more?

82
00:03:45,920 --> 00:03:46,440
Speaker 2: Just like photo?

83
00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:51,600
Speaker 1: I mean, wow, okay, huh well, Paul, I forgot to

84
00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:53,600
Speaker 1: mention that Paul is here. Let me bring Paul into this. Paul.

85
00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:58,000
Speaker 1: Uh huh cool? Your wife you left that part out

86
00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:02,280
Speaker 1: of the explanation about being on ryah uh right, right,

87
00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:03,600
Speaker 1: I mean.

88
00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:11,360
Speaker 3: Hello, hello, that's my business, it's your I'm I don't no.

89
00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,280
Speaker 1: That would be everybody's business. That would be her business first,

90
00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,840
Speaker 1: and foremost, that would be our business trying to help you.

91
00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,560
Speaker 1: I mean, I think somebody here going out with has

92
00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:23,120
Speaker 1: a right to know of your marital status or lack thereof.

93
00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:25,680
Speaker 3: Right, Well, all I know is that she and I

94
00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,400
Speaker 3: connected and that's what I'm focused on.

95
00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:31,880
Speaker 1: Okay, well that did you say that to your wife too?

96
00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:35,400
Speaker 1: It's my business. Yeah, that's nice for you, Paul. But

97
00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:37,520
Speaker 1: Sony over here would like to know what we're doing

98
00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:39,920
Speaker 1: with the wife in this scenario. I mean, are you

99
00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,000
Speaker 1: in an open relationship? Like, are you like, what are

100
00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,200
Speaker 1: you doing? I don't. I don't think you are, because

101
00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:47,000
Speaker 1: if she's calling up the people that you moked up

102
00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:48,840
Speaker 1: with and showed them the marriage license and I've been

103
00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:50,840
Speaker 1: telling you guys are on the same page here.

104
00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, my wife and I have issues that we're working through,

105
00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:55,280
Speaker 3: and I'm not.

106
00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:59,719
Speaker 1: Wait, so you're working through the Well, you have issues

107
00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,360
Speaker 1: that you're working through. So what is Sonya's rolling all this? Then?

108
00:05:02,600 --> 00:05:05,560
Speaker 2: Well, right now I'm I'm taking a break. So I was,

109
00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:07,279
Speaker 2: you know, reaching out to other people.

110
00:05:07,880 --> 00:05:10,080
Speaker 1: I don't think this is how this all works. I mean, look,

111
00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:12,359
Speaker 1: I'm not a married man, but I don't think you

112
00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:14,719
Speaker 1: just say you know what. I'm not feeling this today,

113
00:05:15,600 --> 00:05:17,440
Speaker 1: So I'm going to set my marriage aside and get

114
00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:19,120
Speaker 1: on ry and meet a bunch of other people and

115
00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:21,520
Speaker 1: then maybe maybe we work things out. That's not how

116
00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:22,120
Speaker 1: this works.

117
00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:24,760
Speaker 2: No, well now at all.

118
00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:28,120
Speaker 3: I mean, my wife and I have her issues, including

119
00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,840
Speaker 3: over this, and that's really no.

120
00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:34,680
Speaker 2: No one's concerned but my wife and me, and she

121
00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:36,520
Speaker 2: might have crazy.

122
00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,600
Speaker 1: I feel like your wife is in on this if

123
00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:39,840
Speaker 1: she's calling her, you know.

124
00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:43,240
Speaker 2: And then you're both a radio show.

125
00:05:43,400 --> 00:05:48,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I mean, like, how is this surprising to you

126
00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:50,240
Speaker 1: that that's the reason why she's not calling you back.

127
00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:51,720
Speaker 1: You're married, dude.

128
00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:54,520
Speaker 2: I didn't know that. I didn't know that my wife

129
00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:55,480
Speaker 2: had reached out to her.

130
00:05:55,600 --> 00:05:58,080
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So you're having marital issues that, by your

131
00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:02,359
Speaker 1: own admission, you're working out, but in privacy. By the way,

132
00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,800
Speaker 1: what's an invasion of privacy? We did this for you, bro,

133
00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:06,720
Speaker 1: You asked us to do that.

134
00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:08,680
Speaker 2: My wife, that my wife reached out.

135
00:06:08,560 --> 00:06:11,600
Speaker 1: To her, Oh, it's an invasion. You're in a committed

136
00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,680
Speaker 1: marital relationship with this woman. The fact that you're sleeping

137
00:06:14,680 --> 00:06:17,159
Speaker 1: with someone else would be her business. In my opinion,

138
00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:18,960
Speaker 1: I think it might be an invasion of privacy to

139
00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:19,800
Speaker 1: sleep with somebody else.

140
00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,840
Speaker 3: That's between my wife and I. I am taking a

141
00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:23,880
Speaker 3: break from that situation.

142
00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:29,840
Speaker 1: That's really not that how this works is a Mary lady,

143
00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:33,240
Speaker 1: thank you. If you feel like taking a break, you know,

144
00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:35,359
Speaker 1: then you can just get all that yeah, and do

145
00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,680
Speaker 1: what you want. That's like Tuesday, you know, when it's

146
00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:43,120
Speaker 1: time to just is it weird when you show up

147
00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,600
Speaker 1: with the with the pregnancy belly too? On these right?

148
00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:50,120
Speaker 1: That's not my business, that's none of your business a

149
00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,200
Speaker 1: matter of fact, and that's it. That's a matter between

150
00:06:52,240 --> 00:06:55,480
Speaker 1: me and that's that's a privacy issue. What the hell

151
00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:59,440
Speaker 1: is wrong with you? You can't drag people into this stuff.

152
00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:02,880
Speaker 1: You also don't just get to take a break unless

153
00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,960
Speaker 1: everybody's on the same page, which clearly everybody is not Paul,

154
00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:08,919
Speaker 1: because she's calling these women and or this woman in

155
00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,679
Speaker 1: this case and saying, hey, heads up, that's my husband.

156
00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:12,960
Speaker 2: You guys don't get it.

157
00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:16,560
Speaker 1: No, you're right, you're absolutely right. We don't get it.

158
00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:18,880
Speaker 1: I don't get it. Did you have anything else to

159
00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,560
Speaker 1: say for yourself? Because I know where this is going?

160
00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:22,520
Speaker 2: Yeah? Is there gonna be a second date? Or not?

161
00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:24,760
Speaker 1: Unbelievable?

162
00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:25,560
Speaker 2: Are you joking?

163
00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:29,240
Speaker 1: Are you hitting this dude? Is that clueless?

164
00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:31,480
Speaker 2: We have than you.

165
00:07:34,080 --> 00:07:36,840
Speaker 1: Had a connection and so she used to keep going

166
00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:38,800
Speaker 1: out with you even though you admitted on this call

167
00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:40,880
Speaker 1: that you're married and are working on it.

168
00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:43,800
Speaker 3: Yeah right, you're literally unavailable, is what could happen with

169
00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:46,160
Speaker 3: So I am I've made myself available.

170
00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:51,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you are connected to that lady. They

171
00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:53,200
Speaker 1: were on a break. They're on a break. No, they're not.

172
00:07:53,360 --> 00:07:56,760
Speaker 1: He is sitting a break. I didn't realize you could

173
00:07:56,760 --> 00:07:59,160
Speaker 1: do that. You don't laterally and get away with it.

174
00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:01,600
Speaker 1: I had no idea one an invasion of privacy. I

175
00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:04,040
Speaker 1: can't believe your wife would have the audacity to call

176
00:08:04,080 --> 00:08:09,240
Speaker 1: your girlfriend. I know this is crazy. Okay, so Sonia

177
00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:13,360
Speaker 1: obviously not interested. Yeah, definitely hard now okay, so that's

178
00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,480
Speaker 1: that's not going to happen, Paul. I would recommend kind

179
00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,880
Speaker 1: of one or another, like either either we're gonna work

180
00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,320
Speaker 1: it out with our wife, your wife, I'm not involved

181
00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:25,040
Speaker 1: with this, or you're not. But I think there needs

182
00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:26,760
Speaker 1: to be a little more transparency here because it sounds

183
00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:28,840
Speaker 1: like you're doing things sort of on your own. You're

184
00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:31,000
Speaker 1: sort of on a solo mission here.

185
00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:32,480
Speaker 2: You guys are a joke.

186
00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,000
Speaker 1: Oh we're a joke. We should give you the dinner

187
00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:41,040
Speaker 1: to your wife exactly. I wonder if she's taking a

188
00:08:41,080 --> 00:08:45,560
Speaker 1: break too, doesn't sound like it all right, Sonya, thanks

189
00:08:45,600 --> 00:08:47,360
Speaker 1: for your time, Good luck to you. Paul I, don't

190
00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:50,120
Speaker 1: whatever