1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:01,680 Speaker 1: So the dating world is a terrible place. 2 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,040 Speaker 2: Sitible show, and if you need any more proof of that, 3 00:00:04,440 --> 00:00:07,360 Speaker 2: relationship backs Versus have just released what your dating profile 4 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 2: prompt says about you, and we'll go over it next 5 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,400 Speaker 2: so you can see just how desperate you really are. 6 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 2: Right after this sole show, what does your dating profile 7 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 2: prompt say about you? It's a double show, I'll tell 8 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 2: you right now because a team of psychologists just released 9 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 2: a study that says that your dating profile prompt can 10 00:00:25,880 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 2: say everything about you and your personality. If you don't 11 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,520 Speaker 2: know what a dating profile prompt is, it's like a short, 12 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: pre written question or phrase on a dating app that 13 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,920 Speaker 2: you answer to help show off your personality. Think of 14 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,160 Speaker 2: it as a conversation started as something like my most 15 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:43,559 Speaker 2: useless skill is? Or do truth and a lie? Or 16 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 2: the hallmark of a good relationship is blank. The prompts 17 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 2: are designed to help break the ice and make profiles 18 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 2: more interesting and relatable than just photos and stats. So 19 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 2: what does your dating profile prompt say about you? Well, 20 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 2: if you use my most useless is, these team of 21 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 2: psychologists say that you might have performative self deprecation syndrome. 22 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 3: Syndrome. Why can't it just be funny. I think we 23 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,320 Speaker 3: appreciate self deprecation. 24 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: No, they say subjects frequently weaponize humility to lower expectations 25 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 2: while inviting approval. It's correlated with high levels of passive 26 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:23,400 Speaker 2: ambition and subtle self loathing master's charm. 27 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 3: How did this become a weapon and a syndrome all 28 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 3: the same time. This is wild. 29 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: I feel like they're maybe reading a little too far 30 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,720 Speaker 1: into things, but who knows? I think so. 31 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 2: It seems psychologists just released what your dating profile prompt 32 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 2: says about you. 33 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:40,119 Speaker 1: If you use I'll fall for. 34 00:01:40,120 --> 00:01:42,360 Speaker 2: You if and then you're supposed to fill in the blank, 35 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 2: it says that you could have conditional affect complex. 36 00:01:45,840 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 4: Wowac they got serious thought. 37 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah. 38 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 2: It says it displays dependency on external validation, likely to 39 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 2: attach romantic significance to minor gestures, elevated risk of emotional 40 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,920 Speaker 2: whiplash in early stage interactions. 41 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 3: I feel like it was more of a I'll fall 42 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,440 Speaker 3: for you if you like peanut butter and jelly sandwiches. 43 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:11,000 Speaker 3: So I'm not sure where this whole explanation came from. 44 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 4: Someone got really burned whoever wrote this list? For real? 45 00:02:15,120 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 2: Do either of you guys, Nina and Victoria, use prompts 46 00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:19,679 Speaker 2: on your dating profiles. 47 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, my one favorite like prompt that I use all 48 00:02:22,200 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 3: the time that always gets people like to send messages 49 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 3: when I'm on. I'm on and off right now, but 50 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: I go back and forth between the apps. But it's 51 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 3: just like what your favorite random fact is, and what 52 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,359 Speaker 3: do you say for yours? I'm going to tell you 53 00:02:34,440 --> 00:02:37,960 Speaker 3: it's actually really cute. Did you know that otters hold 54 00:02:38,000 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 3: hands when they go to sleep so they don't float 55 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 3: away from each other? And so I said that, and 56 00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,680 Speaker 3: so then it's always cute and it invites all kinds 57 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 3: of weird stuff. 58 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:47,519 Speaker 1: You know, what do you get back? 59 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,119 Speaker 4: Like, what does a guy say that, Oh, that's cute. 60 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: We could be honors. 61 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 3: I wouldn't let you float away. 62 00:02:54,919 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 4: Wow. 63 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:58,320 Speaker 3: I think the answers tell you more about who the 64 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 3: person is than stupid question. Yeah. 65 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 2: See, I'm glad that I never really was on the 66 00:03:03,280 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: dating apps because my starters would be weird, My prompts 67 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 2: would be weird. When you said that, all I could 68 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 2: think of. Did you know vanilla extract come from beaver's 69 00:03:11,880 --> 00:03:12,480 Speaker 2: anal glands? 70 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: Do you know what you say that? 71 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:16,239 Speaker 3: I had to do a deep dive in research yeah, 72 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,760 Speaker 3: it does, but not ill do Yeah. 73 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:22,120 Speaker 2: Wait pause, vanilla extract A lot of it comes from 74 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:23,320 Speaker 2: Beaver's anal glands. 75 00:03:23,360 --> 00:03:24,239 Speaker 4: How do you know that? 76 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:26,840 Speaker 1: Why do you know that? But not all vanilla? 77 00:03:26,840 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 3: Because I had to look at the vanilla in my cupboard, 78 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 3: and because after Jubile said that, I was like, I'm 79 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 3: not bacon before. I know what. 80 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:34,359 Speaker 4: That's gross? 81 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: I know, isn't it? 82 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 3: But you see what just happened here. This was a 83 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 3: conversation here, it was a conversation starter. And now now 84 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 3: you're in, and now we're in. 85 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. 86 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 2: I don't know what human was the one that figured 87 00:03:43,960 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 2: that out. Whoever it was, they should be locked up. 88 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: I mean, vanilla extract is good, but how did they 89 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: figure that out? 90 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 4: I don't like that, I know that. 91 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 3: But see, the more you reveal on, the weirder it is, 92 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 3: the more likely you are to connect with somebody. 93 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 1: You know what. 94 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 5: A lot of the proms are just, am my opinion, dumb, 95 00:03:58,200 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 5: and they're just like the answers are very basic. 96 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 4: And I tried for the first time. 97 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,960 Speaker 5: Ish like not using a dating website to meet a guy, 98 00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 5: and I met a guy where it was out of town, 99 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 5: like it was through a friend. Okay, okay, And I 100 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:13,520 Speaker 5: was very proud of myself that, like, I started talking 101 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 5: to this guy. 102 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: Uh huh. 103 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 5: I found out this weekend while he's messaging me he's 104 00:04:18,520 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 5: with another girl in another city and he's like been 105 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 5: with so many other people and probably has something. 106 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 4: And I'm like, are you why are you? How do 107 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:29,359 Speaker 4: you have this time to message me? 108 00:04:29,560 --> 00:04:32,599 Speaker 1: It's just like someone dating a yes, and it's crap. 109 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's no different. Actually, i'd be more mad at 110 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 3: your friends for she up with somebody. 111 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:38,599 Speaker 1: She probably would. 112 00:04:38,560 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 4: Know, well, she didn't know. 113 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:41,360 Speaker 5: I told her this weekend that I had been talking 114 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 5: to him, and she's like, oh, so, Torian. 115 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:46,920 Speaker 4: He's very nice, he's very sweet, but be careful with him. 116 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 3: Tooria, maybe you could be the one to change him, 117 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 3: you know that, putting in that effort and change. 118 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,280 Speaker 1: That, hope, Victoria. 119 00:04:53,680 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, he's kind of hard to talk to, 120 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:56,720 Speaker 5: but he ain't gonna get any there out of me 121 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:57,520 Speaker 5: with everywhere. 122 00:04:57,200 --> 00:04:57,919 Speaker 4: Else he's been sleeping. 123 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 3: We need to text him a prompted text one of 124 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 3: the prompts and see how you respond. 125 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:05,599 Speaker 2: That seems psychologists just release what your dating profile prompt 126 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 2: says about you and they really went deep with it. 127 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 2: If you use the dating prompt, my most the most 128 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:16,120 Speaker 2: spontaneous thing I've done is blank. It's the diagnosis they 129 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:19,680 Speaker 2: give is impulsive decision fatigue disorder. What it could have 130 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 2: It suggests disregulated planning faculties. Subjects often display thrill seeking 131 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 2: tendencies and an underdeveloped risk assessment filter. 132 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:32,039 Speaker 3: I think what we're learning is if you use the 133 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,920 Speaker 3: apps at all, your psycho. 134 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:40,120 Speaker 1: Pretty much you've got a disorder. There's something wrong with you. 135 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:41,799 Speaker 4: That's why. 136 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:42,920 Speaker 1: Basically, what it is