1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Do you like New Year's resolutions? Um, I have a 2 00:00:04,280 --> 00:00:06,240 Speaker 1: whole list of I have a lot of lists in 3 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 1: my phone. I feel like every kind of transition to 4 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: go from there, Well, I feel like every episode I'm 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 1: like and then I made a list. But I know 6 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: I have um a really long list that I feel 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:25,360 Speaker 1: like it's just a compilation. I just keep adding to 8 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: it every year because I never really do them. So 9 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: maybe this year it will be to edit that list 10 00:00:30,800 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: and concentrate on a couple of them. That's probably not 11 00:00:32,920 --> 00:00:35,480 Speaker 1: a bad idea. I do like it's been to me though, 12 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:39,920 Speaker 1: with New Year's resolutions. I'm like, I feel this immense 13 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: amount of like fresh start every New Years. That people 14 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,320 Speaker 1: are kind of like New Year's resolutions are so stupid, 15 00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:47,800 Speaker 1: but I'm like, no, it's actually like you've got your 16 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:51,280 Speaker 1: time off, you relaxed, you've recharged, and it's kind of 17 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:54,360 Speaker 1: that like let's get revived up and like, you know, 18 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 1: go for it, and what do I want this year 19 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: to look like? I actually really like the idea. It's 20 00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: I mean, it's a great way to set goals. I 21 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: think it's a pitfall that you can fall into. Though, 22 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: is setting too many such as or not being specific enough, 23 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: like I'm gonna lose weight. You know, if if you're 24 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,760 Speaker 1: like I want to lose twenty pounds this year, then 25 00:01:15,760 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: it's a very clear goal. You have something to work towards, 26 00:01:19,040 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: or like I want abs, Um, that's not gonna work 27 00:01:22,880 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 1: for me this year. But maybe it's like I'm gonna 28 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: dots today, Like you're saying, like, do something specific and 29 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,759 Speaker 1: actually set the goal. I really like that. I just 30 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: did a podcast back in December with this lady and 31 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,800 Speaker 1: the book is called Maybe It's You, But she talks 32 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: a lot about that, like why we can't reach our 33 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: dreams is because first of all, we don't know them, 34 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: but second of all, we don't want to actually take 35 00:01:47,160 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: the steps to get them, you know, like yes, we 36 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: want six pack abs, but do we want to actually 37 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: do the work and do we want to be realistic 38 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:56,640 Speaker 1: about the work that we can do. So I think 39 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: that's a great point you bring up with resolutions. I 40 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 1: this year made a couple and I'm really excited to 41 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: move into the new year working on them. But I 42 00:02:05,600 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: have some like New Year's resolutions, Pet Peeves, I have 43 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:10,959 Speaker 1: to talk about first. All right, are you going to 44 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 1: tell us your resolutions for that, Like, I think they're 45 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: personal telling someone your wish when you bought your birthday 46 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: candles or something I don't really believe in, like jinxing it. 47 00:02:22,120 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 1: But I also sort of feel like they want to 48 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: keep them close to my own heart. They're not for 49 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 1: public consumption. Okay, my biggest pet peeve about New Year's resolutions, 50 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: and I feel like I'm gonna sound like an asshole, 51 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: but if you're a person who goes to the gym 52 00:02:36,400 --> 00:02:40,080 Speaker 1: throughout the year, you know that from January to March, 53 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: the gym is just gonna suck. It's true. Every year 54 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: it's like a g I'm not gonna be able to 55 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: find a parking spot. Every time I want to get 56 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: on the elliptical, it's going to be taken. It's just 57 00:02:51,919 --> 00:02:54,799 Speaker 1: you know who loves that that month or the gems. 58 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: They totally prey on you. I guarantee you that they'll 59 00:02:58,639 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 1: you'll get emails about him deals because they die for 60 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: people to sign up and then not show up. That's 61 00:03:04,720 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: their business model. I mean it's actually, when I say 62 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: it out loud, I'm like, I should just be cheering 63 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 1: these people one and I do like I think that 64 00:03:11,360 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: that is a great start, and you know, especially if 65 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: you stick with it. Everything for health I'm super supportive of. 66 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: But I'm like, because it literally is by March every year, 67 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: it's kind of cleared out and the people who aren't 68 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: going to stick with it are gone by then. But 69 00:03:29,960 --> 00:03:33,840 Speaker 1: January February March, man, they're tough. You better get there 70 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: early if you're going to a class. You know what 71 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying. Do you have any pet? Peeves? Um? No? 72 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: Look at you? How sweet? But I'm laughing because I'm reading. 73 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: I'm reading my resolutions for last year, and one of 74 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: them is so absurd. I can tell us? Can you 75 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: tell us since its last year? Yeah, buy a house 76 00:03:55,960 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 1: in Mexico? What I mean, I don't even know where 77 00:04:00,680 --> 00:04:03,760 Speaker 1: that came from. I hope you were probably drunk. Probably 78 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: also said learn in Spanish. You know, it's probably you're 79 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: on some sort of Mexican kid. Do you like eating tacos? 80 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: And you're like, you know what I'm gonna do? Learn Spanish? 81 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: And by house in Mexico. I will tell you this, 82 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,320 Speaker 1: I love Mexico and if you buy a house, I'll 83 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: be frequencying about house so many in Mexico. I mean, 84 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:24,480 Speaker 1: I love to loom so much. Me too, except for 85 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,720 Speaker 1: I've never been. You love it. I can tell by 86 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 1: the photos, you know what. I love it the photos, 87 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: but also the food is so freaking good. It's just right, yeah, 88 00:04:37,040 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: super clean, but so good. It's just amazing. I don't 89 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:44,599 Speaker 1: know anyone love Mexico. I love to beach villages in Mexico. Well, 90 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: I hope that you really do buy this house. Then 91 00:04:46,279 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 1: I think you should add that to your list for 92 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: this year. I am roll that one over. I've found 93 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: this article on barstool sports. Do you let's do you 94 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: ever read that barston sports dot com. It's pretty funny, 95 00:04:55,600 --> 00:05:00,160 Speaker 1: but um. They were talking about like the five up 96 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 1: New Year's resolutions annoyances and why you shouldn't do them. 97 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 1: So they say number five is enjoy the little things 98 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: in life as the resolution. Like they quote little things 99 00:05:09,920 --> 00:05:12,480 Speaker 1: in life, you know, like because we all do do this, right, 100 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 1: We're like, oh, I'm gonna be grateful for the small things, 101 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: and I'm I don't know this one says, let's remember 102 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 1: to enjoy the small things in life. Guys. This year, 103 00:05:20,720 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: I'm going to stop and small the roses. I saw 104 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 1: butterfly come out of the cocoon today makes you appreciate 105 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: how wonderful life is. Hashtag life, hashtag little things, hashtag butterflies. 106 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: I mean they're like, look, I'm not saying appreciating the 107 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: little things in life isn't important. Of course, it's important 108 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:41,919 Speaker 1: to have some perspective. But if you're someone that's constantly 109 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: has to remind yourself of this, then you're more on. 110 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:49,159 Speaker 1: And it's also like it sort of plays into what 111 00:05:49,200 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: I said earlier. It's so not specific right totally, but 112 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,880 Speaker 1: but I mean their point is I think he says, 113 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: you're probably also a person that says some it like 114 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:05,720 Speaker 1: dance like no one is watching and poster yes, yes 115 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 1: you shop at life is good. You're a Karen? Is 116 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 1: that what a Karen is? So like, let me speak 117 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:16,560 Speaker 1: to the manager, Karen, Like, you know, like I love 118 00:06:16,600 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 1: the hot, like I hope the holidays are white. But 119 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: if the wine turns r atuls to keep drinking Like 120 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: that kind of he says, people who tell you to 121 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 1: enjoy the little things in life are basically just telling 122 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,160 Speaker 1: you that you're a selfish, privileged prick um. News flash, 123 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,280 Speaker 1: you don't think I know that I'm a white male 124 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: in America. You literally can do better than that. You 125 00:06:37,560 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 1: don't have to remind me of it. I realized that 126 00:06:39,279 --> 00:06:41,360 Speaker 1: every fucking day I wake up and remember that I'm me. 127 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:47,360 Speaker 1: He's funny, Um, he says. Another one is read more. 128 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm definitely on my list. I know. I 129 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 1: actually always set out with really lofty goals to read 130 00:06:55,320 --> 00:06:58,360 Speaker 1: more because I really enjoy reading. It's finding the time 131 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: that's that's my problem. But you know, again, to be 132 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: more specific, my I was on my list last year. 133 00:07:04,720 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: It was my goal was to read two books a month. 134 00:07:08,680 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: That's a lot. That's a lot. I failed at it. 135 00:07:11,880 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: I think the first month I did it, and then 136 00:07:14,800 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 1: I probably didn't finish another book. Yeah, for me, like 137 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:22,440 Speaker 1: the only time I can really read is at night, 138 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: right before I go to bed. I used to read 139 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,520 Speaker 1: a lot on planes, but now that they have internet, 140 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: I just work, you know what I mean. If I 141 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: don't have wife on a plane, that's going to be 142 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:32,680 Speaker 1: a couple of hours I knock out of reading, which 143 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: is always kind of great. But yeah, I um, sadly, 144 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: now that I'm old, reading makes me go to sleep. 145 00:07:41,520 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: That's why I think I do it at night because 146 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: it helps me to sleep. But then I don't get 147 00:07:45,000 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: very far it takes, and you're right, or I'm like, 148 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 1: I'll read a few pages and then I'll read a 149 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: paragraph and be like, oh my god, I've read this 150 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: all right. The third one, number three? He went five 151 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: or three, we're counting down. He says, stop drinking. That 152 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: the resolution would be stopped drinking, smoking, and eating unhealthy well, right, 153 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,600 Speaker 1: he kind of says. This one drives me nuts because 154 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,679 Speaker 1: you know it's a lie. Right. It's also so vague. 155 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: It is so vague and like, you're right, like if 156 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:20,119 Speaker 1: you set a goal for maybe like hey, I'm gonna 157 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 1: only drink on the weekends, or I'm only going to 158 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:24,880 Speaker 1: drink this many nights a week or this many cut 159 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:29,119 Speaker 1: out ice cream, you know, like stop eating ice cream. Right, 160 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,199 Speaker 1: Maybe if you make a specific it would be it's 161 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 1: a It is true, though, when you're coming off the holidays, 162 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:38,520 Speaker 1: do you do this? When I'm I think it's kind 163 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: of similar to signing up for a gym membership. When 164 00:08:41,000 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: you're coming off the holidays, you feel like disgusting because 165 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,680 Speaker 1: all you do is go to holiday parties, You drink 166 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:51,240 Speaker 1: a lot, you eat just like shit, so many cookies 167 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:54,600 Speaker 1: and ship yeah, yeah, people are just like gifting, you know, 168 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 1: like just there's so much and I feel gross. So 169 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,400 Speaker 1: usually by January I do kind of want to like 170 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:02,400 Speaker 1: clean it up a little bit. And there is something 171 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:05,960 Speaker 1: about the the Caward for flipping. It's a fresh start, 172 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: Like I get it. Like I'm guilty of that being 173 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:11,840 Speaker 1: on my list too, But I think in order to 174 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,559 Speaker 1: be successful at it, you have to be specific about 175 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,560 Speaker 1: what your goal is. I think that's a really good one. 176 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:23,400 Speaker 1: Number two has become a better person. That again super vague, 177 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: but he said, I just find this one hilarious. A 178 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: better brother, a better friend, a better son, whatever. Being 179 00:09:28,679 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: a nice person is overrated. Okay, he's a little aggressive. 180 00:09:32,600 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 1: I try to be nice ones. And then I realized 181 00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: the world sucks. Okay, No, his kind of attitude is 182 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,840 Speaker 1: not what I'm bringing into my New Year. But I 183 00:09:40,880 --> 00:09:43,120 Speaker 1: think it goes to the point of what you're saying 184 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: of like, like and do what right. It's like for me, 185 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 1: if I were going to have that, it would be 186 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: where find a place to volunteer? Yeah, actually something good 187 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: in the world. And you know, I will tell you 188 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 1: one of my things on my resolution list this year 189 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: is to give back in some way, because I literally 190 00:10:03,880 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 1: get so busy and so wrapped up in my own 191 00:10:06,360 --> 00:10:09,600 Speaker 1: world that life starts to feel really small. Like my 192 00:10:09,679 --> 00:10:11,839 Speaker 1: world starts to feel really small, my problems start to 193 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:14,720 Speaker 1: feel really big. Do you know what I'm saying? Like 194 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,959 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, he didn't button that shirt 195 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 1: on the red carpet, and it's just like that feels 196 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: like it could send me into a tailspin. If you 197 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: know this, The things that they matter, they do matter, 198 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 1: and I want to be really good at my job. 199 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:28,959 Speaker 1: But like, let's get some perspective here. Well, and you 200 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:33,480 Speaker 1: know it's funny. I um, we always think like if 201 00:10:33,520 --> 00:10:36,120 Speaker 1: I only have the time, I would do this, I 202 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:40,679 Speaker 1: would do X, Y Z, and um. You know, most weekends, 203 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:42,600 Speaker 1: I like have a whole list of things I need 204 00:10:42,640 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: to get done, and I goof off and I don't 205 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: do them, so they just moved to next weekend. But 206 00:10:47,920 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 1: when you finally do them, You're like, wow, I got 207 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: that done. It didn't take that much time, and I 208 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: still managed to have fun on the weekend. So the 209 00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: point that I'm making is you have the time, and 210 00:10:56,920 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: if if you devote it to volunteering for brothers, big sisters, whatever, 211 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 1: You'll still have the time to do the ship that 212 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: you want to do and it's just about getting off 213 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 1: the couch and doing it, you know so, and that 214 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: would make you a better person. Do you know what 215 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: his number one thing is? I have a feeling get 216 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: in shape membership. I mean it's just kind of it's like, Okay, 217 00:11:23,720 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 1: I hope that every single person listening does work out 218 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:30,559 Speaker 1: and does get a gym membership and is super into it. 219 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 1: So I'm not trying to be negative Nancy here, but 220 00:11:32,960 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 1: just stick with it, right or you know what, love 221 00:11:36,440 --> 00:11:40,240 Speaker 1: yourself enough to like not feel like every year you 222 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: have to start the year being like I'm not good enough, 223 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 1: I'm not hot enough. I gotta go to the gym 224 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:48,920 Speaker 1: and change myself. It might just be about health or something, right, Yeah, 225 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 1: I mean you should be healthy. Um, but I also 226 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: think too it's like there's there there has to be 227 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,880 Speaker 1: something about that that like this is your year that 228 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: you're gonna end up hot, you know? Yeah that I'm 229 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 1: gonna tell you. The closer I get to forty, I 230 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: might still have like three years, but I have this 231 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:11,319 Speaker 1: like I'm like, I'm not going into forty not hot. 232 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 1: I'm really going to work. Trust me, I tried. I failed. Whatever, 233 00:12:16,720 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm making it a goal. It's going to be my 234 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: resolution for three years. Um, I've got news resolutions in 235 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: my phone from two thousand thirteen. Do you have any 236 00:12:25,240 --> 00:12:27,720 Speaker 1: funny ones you want to share? Let me see other 237 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:30,600 Speaker 1: than buying a house in Mexico. Number ten was read more, 238 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god, we are literally everything that guy hates 239 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:37,079 Speaker 1: Judge less. I guess I was a Judge bitch back 240 00:12:37,080 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 1: in two thousand thirteen. Here's a funny one. Figure out 241 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:45,880 Speaker 1: l A exit strategy. I clearly was thinking, yeah, and 242 00:12:45,920 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 1: to the at the end of two thousand thirteen, I 243 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: was thinking about how I could figure out how to 244 00:12:49,440 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: get out of LA. It says, figure out l A 245 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: exit strategy, Airbnb my room and split my time in Nashville. Questionable. See, 246 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,600 Speaker 1: I'm manifested it. I was gonna say. Sometimes I do 247 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 1: feel like if you write something down as a resolution, 248 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 1: like even if just to put it out there to 249 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:10,719 Speaker 1: the universe, you're just manifesting how to make it happen. YEA, 250 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 1: So maybe there is a point to these resolutions. After all, 251 00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: I had stopped texting and driving. Definitely that was a 252 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 1: resolution you could do that do not disturb on your phone. 253 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 1: We now try to make that. Now they have that 254 00:13:24,040 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: where it's an automatic setting on an iPhone. It is 255 00:13:27,400 --> 00:13:29,880 Speaker 1: yeah that, um, I mean you have when you buy 256 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: a newer iPhone. It's it's turned on, like you can 257 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:35,559 Speaker 1: turn it off. So if someone texts you while your 258 00:13:35,600 --> 00:13:38,880 Speaker 1: cars in motion, while your phone's in motion in your car, 259 00:13:39,200 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 1: they get a bounce back that says I'm currently driving, 260 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 1: not checking on. I get that from some of my friends. 261 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:47,320 Speaker 1: I just didn't know your friends got it from me. Interesting, Well, 262 00:13:47,480 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: I think all in all, maybe it's not a specific resolution, 263 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: but it's the idea of like starting fresh and what 264 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:56,199 Speaker 1: do you want to bring energy wise into your new year. 265 00:13:56,880 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: So I'm I'm believing in these resolutions. I'm all about them. 266 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,320 Speaker 1: I think this year I'm gonna have a shorter list 267 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: that's going to be more specific and realistic. I like 268 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:09,080 Speaker 1: your goal. I think that. I think that's really smart 269 00:14:09,120 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 1: because I think a lot of times when we get 270 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:14,839 Speaker 1: into trouble and like for me, I know specifically, I'll 271 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 1: start beating myself up just thinking like I didn't do that, 272 00:14:18,920 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: or you know, just like it's not possible and there's 273 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: something wrong with me, and the truth is like I 274 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,280 Speaker 1: just set the bar a little too high and it's 275 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:32,520 Speaker 1: super unrealistic. Yeah, I mean this list for me into seventeen. 276 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 1: Come on, you're going to fail in those yea? All right? Well, 277 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: as you're making your resolutions, we hope we brought some 278 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:44,840 Speaker 1: insight into our opinions on im I guests and some 279 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 1: random gown barstool sports. I think the number one resolution 280 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:53,040 Speaker 1: for everybody this year is to remember to act casual. 281 00:14:54,280 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: Thank you for listening to this week's episode of at 282 00:14:56,600 --> 00:15:00,080 Speaker 1: Casual on velvets Edge. We'll be back every Friday with 283 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 1: your Act Casual topic of the week. Remember to subscribe, rate, 284 00:15:03,960 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: and review this podcast to ensure that you are the 285 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: first to hear each episode. Also, we want to hear 286 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:11,320 Speaker 1: from you. 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