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Speaker 1: The second data day. Nowadays, most people who are on

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Speaker 1: Facebook use it to either stalk their exes to find

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Speaker 2: Everything that's happening in the world.

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Speaker 3: This all checks out, right, But this all checks out, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Apparently there are some people who still use Facebook to

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Speaker 4: Are they the category? Are they're not in a senior center?

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Speaker 1: It could be because that's what happened to one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Eric, Eric, which extremist chat group? Did you

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Speaker 5: We met on the comment sections of a Facebook group

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Speaker 5: called gross Food?

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Speaker 4: Gross Food? I think that is the only thing left

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Speaker 1: That and the Brook and Jeffrey Facebook page. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: should go follow if you haven't already. But tell us

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Speaker 1: Eric about the girl that you met. What's her name?

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Speaker 5: Samantha?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Samantha.

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Speaker 4: What's funny is that? I wanted to ask first about

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Speaker 4: the gross food that you both commented on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was thinking that, Okay.

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Speaker 3: What was it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was this chili burger and it just looks awful.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, someone's chili is like a weird brownish.

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Speaker 3: That is definitely for sure.

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Speaker 1: Actually, Eric sent us a picture of the so here

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Speaker 1: looks like somebody took two buns and then reached into

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Speaker 4: It lives up to the gross food filter that you

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Speaker 3: Pretty disgusting.

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Speaker 1: How did you guys start talking about it?

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Speaker 5: She was like, is it bad that I want to

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Speaker 4: You? Guys were meant for each other because after I

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Speaker 4: So did you actually, like you actually parlayed that into

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Speaker 4: Oh right, I was gonna say, like, what are the

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Speaker 1: That's what video chat dates are for.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, is that what you guys did? Uh?

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Speaker 5: So we stayed friends on Facebook for a few weeks

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Speaker 1: Oh, we're going to cook that thing together.

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Speaker 4: I think she's going to spend a whole weekend with

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Speaker 1: They also talked for a few weeks, he said before

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Speaker 5: But so she was kind of surprised, but she eventually

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Speaker 1: I'll be fine.

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Speaker 1: A lot of times we don't look our best as

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Speaker 5: She came over to my place and we have the

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Speaker 2: Good, that's really important, dude.

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Speaker 4: Oh why who was disappointed?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, the recipe was just awful. So the one that

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Speaker 4: Oh, it sounds so disgusting.

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Speaker 2: The hilarious point right?

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Speaker 3: Why would you be disappointed?

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Speaker 1: Like I get? I mean, how did that turn out?

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Speaker 5: I mean after an hour, it was a total mess

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Speaker 4: I mean, was there any chemistry between you two, like

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Speaker 1: So the horrible food that you plan to make was

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Speaker 1: How did doings that night?

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Speaker 5: Well? I got real nervous, and I was like, you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I don't want to fly to a

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Speaker 3: Inside.

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Speaker 4: You have taken her out at that point, shown her around.

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Speaker 1: Let's go to a real restaurant. Yeah, I get some

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Speaker 1: good food. I don't know, playing candy Land with a

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Speaker 3: That sounds like Facebook, honestly, circle.

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Speaker 4: So did you guys meet up the next day? No?

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Speaker 5: She took it early flight home and that was it.

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Speaker 3: She even paid the change fee to make it happen.

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Speaker 3: You're desperate to get out when that happens.

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Speaker 1: There is a looking kind of bleak at the moment,

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Speaker 3: Do you like her still?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Of course, I mean that's why I reached it out.

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Speaker 5: I mean I want another chance. That's something that isn't

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Speaker 1: Well, and you.

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Speaker 2: Had chemistry the very beginning before you cook, you said

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Speaker 1: Bro. We're gonna help you find it. We're gonna play

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Speaker 1: a song. We'll come back call Samantha for you and

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Speaker 1: get your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 5: All right, awesome, thanks? All right?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, how do two people hundreds of miles apart

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Speaker 3: It sounds deep, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: It's through gross looking food. Yeah, because that's where they met.

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Speaker 1: On a Facebook group dedicated to ugly meals talking about

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Speaker 2: Now, yeah, I actually do love that, just any type

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Speaker 3: I will continue to stay off Facebook. Didn't do it

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Speaker 1: You don't belong there. Flash forward to their wedding and

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Speaker 1: it's like, I married this woman because we both commented

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Speaker 3: I mean, you guys are getting way ahead of yourself.

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Speaker 4: We couldn't even get through one successful night after he

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Speaker 1: You can focus on all the negative stuff, but I

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Speaker 3: That's good.

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Speaker 2: Chili cakes.

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Speaker 1: It might not be that great because they did try

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Speaker 1: What's your take on this type of mess? You love?

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Speaker 4: Maybe she just wasn't as dedicated to gross food as

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Speaker 3: Could she actually likes attractive food?

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Speaker 5: I mean we had a great conversation for like multiple

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Speaker 4: That's true, you guys, just a long way for that

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean we talked about a bunch of stuff

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Speaker 1: Now we're going to ask her a bunch of stuff

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Speaker 5: Yeah, definitely please, And like I know, you guys normally

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Speaker 4: Let's slow it down, Eric, have you looked at a

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Speaker 4: radio station's budget lately.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, here's three hundred Delta gift cards. Yes, we'll work

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Speaker 2: Ok.

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Speaker 1: Let's just dial her number and see what she has

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Speaker 1: to say. Here we go. Hello, Hey is this Samantha. Yeah, Hey, Samantha,

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Speaker 1: what's up? This is Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, may not listen.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if we're on in your city. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: we're on in a lot of cities. Samantha A radio show.

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Speaker 4: Hi radio show? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And we do a segment here called a second

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Speaker 1: Date Update, and we're trying to help one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners get in touch with you after you went. You

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Speaker 1: went out really far from him. You flew three hundred

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Speaker 5: Eric called you.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yes, he thanks, You're fantastic.

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Speaker 3: He played for all.

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Speaker 1: Technically, she went a long ways to visit him.

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Speaker 4: But you guys had a big connection, Like why would

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, this is like really awkward to talk

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Speaker 1: We are robots.

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Speaker 3: It's so shary. I loved it so bad.

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Speaker 1: Only a human could have possibly come up with that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we're real.

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Speaker 1: We're real, And we're seriously trying to help out one

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Speaker 1: He does not know why you ran back to your

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I know, but like did Eric tell you the story?

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Speaker 1: I mean, we heard about you guys are going to

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Speaker 7: He feels, Oh, I had to go because he kept

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Speaker 4: Right he said, He mentioned that he told you he could.

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Speaker 1: All of that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I'm like, I don't even know you, like

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Speaker 1: We did not know that he made you feel that way.

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Speaker 1: And honestly, I don't know if Eric realizes he made

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Hey, I didn't mean to make you feel uncomfortable.

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Speaker 7: Well, arguing I wasn't like answering your talk. Staffer should

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Speaker 1: Oh all right, cool, all right, everybody, it's hard.

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Speaker 4: You're not a man of many words. Maybe you should

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Speaker 1: Were you drinking that night? Maybe you forgot that you

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess. I mean, I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but I said that I didn't want to stay.

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Speaker 7: So I'm actually really glad I got a hotel because

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Speaker 7: what kind of possession? What did that put me in?

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Speaker 4: You know, Oh, you paid for your own hotel?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, but.

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Speaker 5: I mean I had to stare better room for you.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, whoa, I mean, I wouldn't even have done that.

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Speaker 7: I don't know you. I'm like single going into a

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Speaker 5: Okay, well, well do you want to be my girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: I don't think that was what she meant. I got

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Speaker 1: have an answer for him? Samantha, No, stop.

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Speaker 7: It not like that. I'm not going to do that

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Speaker 1: Sorry, the radio wasn't good. Maybe you should text your

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Speaker 4: I don't think that he was purposely trying to make

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Speaker 2: Coming from someone who has offered and flown girls out

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Speaker 1: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 2: You do your thing.

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Speaker 1: It's all about communications. Show them that gesture. Take the

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Speaker 4: I mean, Sam, maybe it just didn't cross his mind,

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, I mean I feel like I've just totally

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Speaker 5: But I mean, I'd still like to have a second chance.

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Speaker 4: Was that a sorry I heard in there?

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Speaker 1: I heard telling about pooch screwing. But let's call it.

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Speaker 1: Let's call it.

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry. No, this is just too weird. I feel

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it is.

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Speaker 4: One of those things you got to go with your

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Speaker 1: Well, I just don't want this potential relationship to go

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Speaker 3: There's a whole page for it, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: See, it's like there's like hundreds of thousands.

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Speaker 1: How many of them actually fall in love?

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Speaker 3: Yeah's non Apparently.

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Speaker 1: They we wanted it to be one, okay, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean I really wanted to try at ball shake

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Speaker 7: No, Eric, I think we're done here.

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Speaker 1: Samantha because we would offer to pay for that meatball

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Speaker 7: I think I can afford to make a meatball shake

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we were talking to money bags.

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Speaker 4: Samantha makes her own meatballs. Jeffrey, excuse me, it's brooking

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Speaker 1: Well, that may have been the most cringe worthy moment

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Speaker 7: It would have been different if we were like boyfriend girlfriend,

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Speaker 5: Well, will do you want to be my girlfriend?

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Speaker 6: If he's listening right now, had to list through at once.

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Speaker 1: She's the one who said it. Honestly, thank god she

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Speaker 4: What happened to you? All?

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Speaker 3: Rooting for love again?

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Speaker 1: So he didn't even sound like he was into there

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it doesn't sound like he's a guy who's like

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Speaker 6: I don't be a romantic Yeah, yeah, I mean I

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Speaker 2: Want to make people feel comfortable.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he actually learned that lesson.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, his lessons like, next time ask her to be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I fly her out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. But we can help you learn some important life

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Speaker 3: You just make fun of you afterwards.

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Speaker 1: Sure, you'll do it all. Just email the show. We'll

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Speaker 1: call the person who isn't calling you back.

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Speaker 4: Brooking Jeffrey in the morning,