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Speaker 1: My friend's stepdaughter through a tantrum, and everyone blames.

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Speaker 2: Me as they should.

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Speaker 1: I fifty five female, met my friend's stepdaughter to be

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Speaker 1: fourteen yesterday. I introduced myself and I told her it

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Speaker 1: was nice to meet her.

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Speaker 2: Is it?

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Speaker 1: I had heard that she was amazing by multiple people

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Speaker 1: so I repeated, you put in earbuds to emphasize that

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Speaker 1: she is ignoring me, and she walked off.

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Speaker 3: Dale I mean, stone cold, angsty teenager vibes. Gotta respect it,

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Speaker 3: angsty teen reage. Come on, I hate my mom. It's

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Speaker 3: giving that I hate my dad.

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Speaker 1: So she's deliberately being rude and apparently doesn't care to

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Speaker 1: meet me, not my future stepdaughter. She doesn't have to

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Speaker 1: like me. Her choice. I chose not to be a

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Speaker 1: part of the drama. But we did choose this story

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Speaker 1: from Sunflower nine seventy one, and it came from our slash. Okay,

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Speaker 1: story time, if you want your story, I read, drop

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Speaker 1: it in there.

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's giving Disney episode this one. Yeah, his stepdad

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Speaker 4: and stepdaughter getting along. Disney do that Nickelodeon. I don't know,

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Speaker 4: but I think that's you don't you wouldn't know. I

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Speaker 4: wouldn't know, but I would.

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Speaker 3: I think when I think of like step I feel

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Speaker 3: Disney Dynamic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I.

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Speaker 1: Was thinking like Zach and Cody, but we're more like Cinderella.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, she wasn't a step mom.

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Speaker 3: Wait who who's Who's who's the step mom and stepdad

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Speaker 3: and Zach and Cody?

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Speaker 1: There is none? Oh just their single single bio mom. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's it with my brothers. One day we'll put a

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Speaker 1: side by side with the three of us. Maybe we'll

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Speaker 1: get them as a guest one day.

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Speaker 2: O good se we'll.

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Speaker 1: Cook, well cook. Anyways, let's get back to the story.

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Speaker 1: So we all went to dinner as plant. There were

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Speaker 1: total of nine of us, and I unfortunately ended up

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Speaker 1: seated next to her at the wonderful dinner. Aside from

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Speaker 1: her ignoring everyone equally anyways, I asked her to please

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Speaker 1: After she used oh this is This is top tier

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Speaker 2: Boy, dude, it's so funny. Though.

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Speaker 1: This smells like teen spirit. So I reached over her

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Speaker 1: in her personal space. I told her that I'd asked

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Speaker 1: her twice and she had ignored me both times. You're

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Speaker 1: playing you gotta you gotta fight fire with fire with

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Speaker 1: these kids. But I digress. We'll see what happens.

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Speaker 2: Put the ketchup away from her.

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Speaker 1: You can be like you just emotionally attacked me. You

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Speaker 2: WHOA how about that? Yeah, dude, inside out beat you.

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Speaker 1: At your own game, son. I'd kind of had it

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Speaker 3: I then added that next time to simply pass the ketchup,

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Speaker 1: Someone reaches for it. She went into complete meltdown mode. Now, apparently,

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Speaker 1: to some, I am the bad guy here as she

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Speaker 1: it well. So am I the a hole here? Or

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Speaker 1: is my friend's future stepdaughter a mess? I'm literally posting

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Speaker 1: it on an Am I the a hole over a

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Speaker 1: ketchup incident? If you were wondering, she is not on

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Speaker 1: the spectrum. I am what and that's why I'm asking

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Speaker 1: thank you a quick at it for clarification. I wasn't

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Speaker 1: clear about the nine of us that went into the dinner.

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Speaker 1: It was a combination of adults and teenagers. Adults at

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Speaker 1: one table, teens at a connecting table. Adult sat first,

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Speaker 1: Now we have relevant comments and we have.

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Speaker 2: A big fat.

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Speaker 1: Update two days later, forty eight hours after where we

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Speaker 1: at in this moment of time. But first off, we

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Speaker 1: have to answer Opie's question. Is Opie the a hole

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Speaker 1: for snapping back?

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Speaker 2: Thanks? I mean, did he really snap back that much?

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Speaker 1: Dude?

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Speaker 2: This?

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Speaker 1: First off, this team, this angsty teen is an angsty team,

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Speaker 3: Second off, you it is. It's so obvious. It is

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Speaker 3: what op is saying is true. It is so obvious

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Speaker 3: she's like poking the bear. She's doing it in a

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Speaker 3: moving the to catch a model just a little out

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Speaker 3: of reach. Ask your question of the bud head Budes

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Speaker 3: and like it is definitely rude but kind of hilarious

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Speaker 3: This is this is top tier trolling tier, which I mean,

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Speaker 3: I like to the point where I kind of respect it.

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Speaker 3: Like it's a bad idea, but it's so perfectly executed

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Speaker 1: Michael Jordan oftrolling. Let's love you when you love the

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Speaker 3: She there's nothing that she gains from doing this. It's

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Speaker 3: love of the game. Right now, Yeah, can you fault Kenny?

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Speaker 2: Fault that? I don't think so, it's hard to think.

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Speaker 2: So it's hard.

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Speaker 3: But in all seriousness, so hope not the Obviously, this

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Speaker 3: fourteen year old kid is the a hole. But you know,

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Speaker 3: a lot of fourteen year old kids are what do

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Speaker 3: you do?

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Speaker 2: What do you do? Uh?

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Speaker 3: I think I think you play, You try to out,

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Speaker 3: uh uh morally you know that.

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Speaker 2: Mentally, mentally, mentally get out of aful.

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Speaker 1: But let me save you here, Palan. I know we're joking,

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Speaker 1: but I honestly think that, like if you fight fire

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Speaker 1: honestly believe that she's like, oh, look at this freaking

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Speaker 1: fifty five. You're such a boomer. You're so old, You're

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Speaker 3: And fifty five year olds are like basically my people

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Speaker 3: these days and apparently mine recording everyone, Yeah, pointing, point

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Speaker 3: in case, buddy. So I think, and it's we're at

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Speaker 3: we're at more of an advantage because like we're younger.

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Speaker 1: We yeah, talk to the youth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we know about the youth about this.

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Speaker 1: We can fight fire with fire. Actually, I might take

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Speaker 2: Ut like the team, you know what I mean. I

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Speaker 3: I literally just like like that is that doesn't go

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Speaker 3: out of style, you know, Ignoring people kids have been

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Speaker 3: ignoring parents from the beginning of time. Old people from

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Speaker 3: the beginning of time. You read ancient texts from Greece,

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Speaker 3: and the people, the old people are like damn kids

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Speaker 3: these days there always have their nose in the scroll,

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Speaker 3: you know, like it's like people have people have. The

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Speaker 3: only move here is to just ignore. Put in oorhead

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Speaker 3: yeah yeah, put in your head phones, yeah, put the ketchup.

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Speaker 3: Squeeze the ketchup in your ears analogies. But guys, we

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Speaker 3: have some relevant comments.

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Speaker 1: So cute with your shirts.

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Speaker 2: I just love that.

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Speaker 1: Thank you there, uh uh, chew on this. If we

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Speaker 1: did this, if we wore this at like Vincoon or

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Speaker 1: the events that we're going to, and we approach people

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Speaker 1: as we do overbearing or intriguing.

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Speaker 4: Figure trademark, it's giving the orange Polo vibe.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it totally is.

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Speaker 1: Because like, oh, we're the matching shirt. Guys, they will

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Speaker 1: remember us. Are these such a good point?

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Speaker 3: Our orange polos ow could be our new orange polos.

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Speaker 1: And I won't look like an assistant coach at a

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Speaker 3: No, although that did work for you, you know it was.

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Speaker 3: It's giving at a time.

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Speaker 2: It's giving vibes.

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Speaker 1: It's giving vibes.

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Speaker 2: It's giving vibes.

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Speaker 1: But let's give these relevant conductors a chance to say

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Speaker 1: their peace. So a commenter says, uh, what did you say,

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Speaker 1: slash do Uh? If the step daughter acts like this

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Speaker 1: I hope, he responds. My friend pretty much froze. She

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Speaker 1: wasn't aware of the issue earlier. Just heard her melt down.

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Speaker 2: She adores this girl.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to cause an issue between them. I

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this kind of could be could be tricky because

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Speaker 1: That's dep can be tricky. Someone asking someone else to

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Speaker 1: pass uh. Opie says, I was annoyed from earlier, but

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Speaker 1: meant that no one else would be able to pass it.

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Speaker 1: Another commentary says, not the a whole. What is her problem?

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Speaker 1: She seems like a brat and not in the good

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Speaker 1: new summer way.

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Speaker 2: Opie says, no clue.

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Speaker 1: My friends are much younger than I am. Maybe she

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Speaker 1: doesn't like grandmothers. Oh dude, Opie's also a grandmother. That

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Speaker 1: just adds to the to the boom rallegy, to the boom,

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Speaker 1: to the booms, to the boom.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, the boom is oh deeah. Another commentary says

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Speaker 3: she relishes the drama. Opie says nice.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: This guy hosts a shop. Opie says, light bulb, you

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Speaker 1: are so right. I literally didn't think of it like that,

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Speaker 1: but you are so right. She went from invisible to

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Speaker 1: being a center of attention. Bingo, thanks for your last Riley.

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Speaker 1: What's that from again, I don't know. It's like it's

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Speaker 1: from a thing anyways. Sounds like not Edison it it's

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Speaker 1: a movie technically the despeakable me. Yeah, yeah, like Bob, Yes,

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Speaker 1: there it is. Thank you. Comment says exactly, she was invisible,

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Speaker 1: main worries at the moment. A fourteen year old soon

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Speaker 1: to be stepdaughter, Uh for this not to be a

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Speaker 1: minefield would be strange. You are a friend of her

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Speaker 1: she was amazing? Quote unquote To me, it's to me

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Speaker 1: it seems uh oh, ingratiating and patronizing. I say a

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Speaker 1: I get that. It's a minefield now. I just didn't

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Speaker 1: OPI is also a woman. Female, you have female, so

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Speaker 1: There is no more to the story on my end,

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Speaker 1: Did we not call it?

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Speaker 2: We did?

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Speaker 3: We called it, albeit not the bisch part, the boomer part.

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Speaker 1: The allegations were real strong.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I feel like this, this bomb is

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Speaker 3: So she hates that she will have to share a bedroom.

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Speaker 3: She hates that her dad is getting remarried. She hates

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Speaker 3: She hates that everyone except her loves her stepmother to be.

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Speaker 1: Her dad explained that he loves her, but he also

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Speaker 2: It's not my place.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if she's showing signs prior to that

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Speaker 1: I don't care what she thinks of me. I do

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Speaker 1: just pass the ketchup boomer bish over and out.

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Speaker 3: Oh fire, dude, close closing it out kind of got

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Speaker 3: Like, I feel like there's just not a recognition of

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Speaker 1: Opie's friends, I think they're the.

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Speaker 2: A holes for not like parenting the kid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because specifically because and I'll try to find the spot.

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Speaker 1: But basically when she was like, you know, I hate

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Speaker 1: like if I'm the parent, I'm like, hey, what would

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I think two things can be true at once.

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Speaker 1: It can be totally unacceptable to just completely freak out

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Speaker 3: Why is she moving the ketchup bottle? Why is she

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Speaker 3: watch the ketch a bottle? I want to know what

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Speaker 3: That's right, just said inside out? Yeah, rightly, inside out?

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Speaker 1: So many great kids movie references.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I got something to show you, guys.

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Speaker 2: Tell me what is that.

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Speaker 3: Michael Bay's Skibbity Toilet movie production Company has apparently sent

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Speaker 2: I don't know what what does this mean?

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Speaker 4: Oh, he's just making a movie of Skibby Toilet, which,

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Speaker 3: Did hear about that there? But they're wait, they're making

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Speaker 4: Fro Because Jin Alpha, my girlfriend works with kids, and

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Speaker 1: Do you believe in Skibbity?

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Speaker 2: What does that mean?

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Speaker 4: Exactly? It's captivated by them. They understand it us. We're

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Speaker 1: We go to the team and we're like, listen up, kid,

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Speaker 1: I am going to call Michael Bay himself and figure

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Speaker 1: screening I possibly can. All right, I listen, I know

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Speaker 1: that's what you care about.

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Speaker 2: All the kids care about it.

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Speaker 3: I'm not trying to gun the gat of of excitement here,

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Speaker 1: And get you in the first screening I can. And

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Speaker 4: It with Skibby Toilet, It's it's like a it's like

437
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:04,120
Speaker 4: a shorts on YouTube shorts, you know that, right, what

438
00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 4: it's like the skimmy toilet or fighting the cameraman.

439
00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 1: And that's like a storyline.

440
00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 3: I know about that storyline. Come on, do you think

441
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:14,080
Speaker 3: I haven't watched all sixty four parts of Skimby Toilet?

442
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 3: There's more now, I think it's like one hundred.

443
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're washed. Only sixty four?

444
00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 3: Wow, how many of you watched enough? But you know

445
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 3: what is never enough? Oh what reading these stories?

446
00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, give me part one hundred of that.

447
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 3: We got another app So I ruined family therapy by

448
00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 3: telling my dad he was a bad parent. My eighteen

449
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,560
Speaker 3: female mom. Oh man, my eighteenth female mom died when

450
00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:54,720
Speaker 3: I was seven. Tone shift, tone shift, Damn. Let's try

451
00:22:54,720 --> 00:23:00,880
Speaker 3: it again, all right, take two my eighteen feet Look

452
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:05,320
Speaker 3: at this guy, my eighteen My eighteen female mom died

453
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 3: when I was seven. There we go my father a

454
00:23:10,200 --> 00:23:12,440
Speaker 3: if they do that out of context and just keep there,

455
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 3: there you go my father aka step siblings. Dad remarried

456
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 3: a year later. His new wife had three kids, A

457
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:29,320
Speaker 3: eight male, b six male, see three female.

458
00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:30,920
Speaker 2: We're giving these real names.

459
00:23:32,440 --> 00:23:42,479
Speaker 3: Albert Fine No, Albert, Albert Boomer, and Cassandra. Albert Boomer

460
00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:45,679
Speaker 3: and Cassandra love It. He said she wanted a dad

461
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 3: for her kids, and he wanted a mom for me.

462
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 3: I remember telling him I didn't want a new mom.

463
00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:55,600
Speaker 3: He said I would understand later my stepsiblings. Dad basically

464
00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:59,200
Speaker 3: stopped doing anything alone with me. No more camping nights

465
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,400
Speaker 3: in the backyard or movie nights, which we had done

466
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 3: every week for years. Nothing. He spent time with all

467
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:09,040
Speaker 3: his new kids to bond. It's been eleven years and

468
00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:12,400
Speaker 3: he still doesn't have time for me because he's bonding

469
00:24:12,520 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 3: with them. Sounds like he's just trying to bond with

470
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 3: new mom. He stopped coming to my games when I

471
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:23,560
Speaker 3: got to high school. Also, this comes from Human Dogs

472
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 3: seventeen thirty two on.

473
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 2: The r slash.

474
00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,399
Speaker 3: Okay, storytime, submit your story there. So his wife and

475
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 3: I have nothing in common. I play three sports and

476
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,280
Speaker 3: I'm on the speech team. She's very girly and likes

477
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 3: girly trips to buy clothes and makeup at different malls.

478
00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 3: She knows I don't want to go, but just tells

479
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 3: my stepsiblings dad that she invited me. I have a teammate,

480
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:47,359
Speaker 3: I played two sports with. Her parents have become like

481
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 3: my own, she said, she is totally fine with it.

482
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,080
Speaker 3: I've made sure to ask all the time because I

483
00:24:52,080 --> 00:24:55,080
Speaker 3: don't want to take someone else's parents. But she's always

484
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,040
Speaker 3: the one to invite me over. Brings her parents to

485
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:00,960
Speaker 3: my swim meets because she knows no one will be

486
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 3: there for me.

487
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 1: Oh, oh my god.

488
00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 3: Dude invited me to go to shopping for mother slash

489
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 3: Father's Day gifts and says they are both for us.

490
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,800
Speaker 3: Her parents get me holiday gifts and say I'm always welcome.

491
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: W freaking parents and friend. That is the biggest w

492
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 1: of all time.

493
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:24,840
Speaker 3: L for the original parents, not the deceased.

494
00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't know. We don't know if they're bad

495
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 2: or not. They could be, they could be not good.

496
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:32,560
Speaker 1: I guess you're technically right.

497
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't know anything. Why would you assume they're

498
00:25:35,080 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 3: good because they're dead. Look at me, silly goose. Here

499
00:25:41,080 --> 00:25:44,080
Speaker 3: I am senior night at basketball. I told her my

500
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 3: step siblings dad isn't going to walk me around the

501
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 3: floor because he doesn't even bother coming to games. She

502
00:25:50,880 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 3: asked her dad to walk both of us, and he

503
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 3: was happy to. In a small town that made the

504
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:59,960
Speaker 3: paper because they thought it was sweets my stepsiblings. Dad

505
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 3: flipped out and took us all to therapy. He asked

506
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:08,359
Speaker 3: why he hadn't been asked. I said, because he didn't

507
00:26:08,359 --> 00:26:10,720
Speaker 3: come to games. He said he didn't know I played

508
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 3: basketball anymore, which is a red flag.

509
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:16,880
Speaker 2: That's part of the problem, boy, exactly.

510
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 3: I asked if that's why he didn't come to swimming

511
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 3: or softball when he couldn't miss Albert or Boomer's practices

512
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:31,120
Speaker 3: or come to speech meets when he went to Cassandra's

513
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 3: dance recitals. He just stared at me and said he

514
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 3: didn't know I still did those either. I asked why

515
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 3: he talked for days about Boomer's camping trip but didn't

516
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,919
Speaker 3: ask about my senior trip to Mexico. He said he

517
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 3: didn't know I went. I said he signed the form.

518
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 3: He admitted he didn't read it. I asked if he

519
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 3: remembered the last time I called him Dad. He said

520
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 3: he didn't know. I stopped, I said, May thirteenth, twenty

521
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:00,080
Speaker 3: twenty one.

522
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:02,400
Speaker 2: As a date.

523
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: Bro, if this, if this was a court and uh,

524
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 1: Op was you know, Grillingham guilty locked away? This is

525
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: a This is a like Op might have a future

526
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: as a lawyer, because.

527
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 2: Wow, Opie's got mental receipts. Got the chops mental receipts.

528
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 3: He said, that was the day Albert Boomer and Cassandra started.

529
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 3: I said, I know you stopped being my dad when

530
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 3: you started being theirs. I walked out of therapy, and

531
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 3: we have an edit, we have an update, we have

532
00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:47,639
Speaker 3: relevant comments, and we have another thick, juicy update before

533
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 3: we get into that, is Op the a hole for

534
00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 3: walking out of family therapy and basically throwing down that knowledge.

535
00:27:56,280 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: Honestly, even do we know Op's ah, I'm assuming eighteen, Okay, Op,

536
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:05,959
Speaker 1: he's eighteen. OPI literally just laid out the receipts and

537
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 1: let them speak for themselves. There was no like over

538
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: dramatic yelling all of this stuff. I think Op communicated

539
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: it in a way. And Anthony was saying earlier too that, uh,

540
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:22,439
Speaker 1: sometimes you kind of like need to say something a

541
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: certain way, not necessarily like yelling or whatever, but you

542
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: kind of got to be just like super directed, straightforward,

543
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: I think Opie was super directed, straightforward without crossing the

544
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,960
Speaker 1: line of becoming like an a hole.

545
00:28:34,119 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 2: Yeah it was.

546
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 3: There was no yelling involved. And also, if there's anywhere

547
00:28:37,359 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 3: to come clean, it is family therapy. So I feel

548
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,280
Speaker 3: like it was the right context. It wasn't in front

549
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 3: of a bunch of people, like in terms of in public.

550
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 3: It was the right context. It was the right delivery.

551
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 3: I feel like there is no way op is an

552
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 3: a hole here. The dad, on the other hand, the

553
00:28:55,200 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 3: fact that he didn't know any of the sports that

554
00:28:57,640 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 3: she was doing, didn't know anything about out her life

555
00:29:02,240 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 3: at all, like incredible, red flag dude, just stark red

556
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 3: flag so bad, so bad. And also that he only

557
00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:15,479
Speaker 3: took everyone to like I think in his mind he's like, oh,

558
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 3: I'm going to take her to therapy and you know,

559
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:20,760
Speaker 3: show her for making this whole public showcase of like making.

560
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:21,440
Speaker 2: Me look like a bad dad.

561
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 1: It's like, you literally did this.

562
00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,520
Speaker 3: To yourself exactly, And it was like he was such

563
00:29:25,520 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 3: a bad father that another set of parents had to

564
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:30,959
Speaker 3: step in and do all of the parental things that

565
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 3: he hadn't been doing. And it's like you know those

566
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 3: stories where it's like the guard like the janitor had

567
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 3: kidney failure, so the whole school got together and like

568
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 3: raised money, and it's like, oh, that's so cute, but

569
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 3: it also is a sign that are like the Americans,

570
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 3: like healthcare system is so unequivocally broken. Yeah, it's like, oh,

571
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 3: it's such a cute thing that like these parents walked

572
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 3: the op down, the down, the for the sports thing,

573
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 3: But it's just an indicator of how broken the familial

574
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 3: dynamic that OPI has his.

575
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 2: That is so true.

576
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. I thought you were going to

577
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 4: take a turn with the janitor story because it happened

578
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 4: in my school where they dedicated the yearbook to the janitor,

579
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:22,600
Speaker 4: and later like before and later that year, the janitor

580
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 4: like squeezed the butt of one of the like cheerleaders.

581
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:29,680
Speaker 3: It was it was so bad, Oh my god, so

582
00:30:29,720 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 3: like they had Are you expecting me to know that story?

583
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 2: I thought that's where you were going.

584
00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: I was like, no way, he knows that story.

585
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 3: You did some level like deep journalism to bring this

586
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 3: up in ok storytime segment.

587
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

588
00:30:43,880 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 4: Like they get them all together, it's happy, and it

589
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 4: turns out he's a bad person. I thought that's where

590
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 4: that was going.

591
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 2: Oh okay, but I'm sorry for that cheerleader.

592
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: That's dude awful.

593
00:30:54,640 --> 00:30:57,320
Speaker 3: You know, I had an okay storytime, but I don't

594
00:30:57,360 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 3: know if I want to say maybe I'll share it

595
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 3: at the end we got we got some updates at IT,

596
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,240
Speaker 3: so at IT. I played all three of those sports

597
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 3: since I was a toddler, so I'm not sure why

598
00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:12,800
Speaker 3: he thought I stopped. He never asked why I came

599
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,480
Speaker 3: home a couple hours after practice or went out on

600
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 3: weekends for game days. When I talked about games, he said,

601
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,000
Speaker 3: I thought I was just playing with friends, because all

602
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 3: my friends play. My update got deleted, but basically, I'm

603
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 3: getting some info on my trust and belongings I paid for.

604
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:32,040
Speaker 3: My friend's dad. Tried to confront my step siblings dad

605
00:31:32,280 --> 00:31:34,479
Speaker 3: about why I can't go over anymore, but he just

606
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 3: shut the door on him. And I check in daily

607
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 3: with my friend or her parents via phone. My step

608
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:42,320
Speaker 3: siblings are all mad at both their parents and are

609
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 3: being very supportive.

610
00:31:44,560 --> 00:31:46,440
Speaker 2: The verdict from round It is not the a hole.

611
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 3: We got some relevant comments so OPI on explaining to

612
00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 3: her father how she feels about him and her friend's

613
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 3: family at the moment, I'm more angry that I have

614
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:59,360
Speaker 3: to miss practices for therapy, and then I'm no longer

615
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 3: allowed over to my friend's house because they are a

616
00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 3: bad influence. I'm happy he found his new family and

617
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 3: I found mine. I'd be content with going no contact

618
00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 3: with them to have my real family back. I missed

619
00:32:12,640 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 3: them so much. When I told him I felt like

620
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,440
Speaker 3: I lost my family, he cried and said he understood,

621
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 3: then got mad and yelled at me when I told him,

622
00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,880
Speaker 3: I meant the family I had for the last few years,

623
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:25,920
Speaker 3: not him.

624
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:27,960
Speaker 2: Oh dude.

625
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:33,480
Speaker 1: And I mean, like, salute Op for being so very communicating.

626
00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 3: I think, extremely direct, extremely extremely direct, and not intentionally

627
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 3: vindictively at all, or at least like I mean, even

628
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 3: if it was vindictive. I mean I could see, like

629
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 3: like some of these setups being crafted to like cause

630
00:32:53,720 --> 00:32:57,000
Speaker 3: a little bit of pain. But I think it's necessary

631
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,440
Speaker 3: at this point. Yes, Like, I think this is where

632
00:32:59,440 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 3: it's coming to.

633
00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: It's just it's it's as close to kind of reading

634
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 1: the facts as possible.

635
00:33:03,720 --> 00:33:06,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, And the facts are just just Yeah, she's not

636
00:33:06,720 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 3: trying to sugarcoat it. Yeah. And Jellybuss says she's very

637
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 3: good at communicating. For eighteen, Lily x Pilly says, brutal, brutal,

638
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 3: So how does he not know she still does sports.

639
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 3: I paid for the sports registration and equipment out of

640
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,120
Speaker 3: the trust my mom left me. I just had to

641
00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 3: go to the bank and write out a request, and

642
00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 3: the next day I'd pick up the money. He said,

643
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:32,960
Speaker 3: if I wanted him there, I should have given a schedule.

644
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,800
Speaker 3: I told him that I don't understand why he would

645
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 3: think I would just stop playing all the sports I

646
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 3: had played since I was a toddler, and that he

647
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 3: didn't get schedules from my stepsiblings. He got them himself.

648
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 3: Then he just got mad and walked out. He's being

649
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 3: confronted with all this stuff, like, finally, how did her

650
00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 3: dad not know she went to Mexico? And how did

651
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 3: ope get a passport without a parent?

652
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:57,240
Speaker 2: True?

653
00:33:57,360 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 3: I had a form signed at the beginning of the

654
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 3: year for numbers planning for the teacher. I was seventeen.

655
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 3: I got my passport after my birthday, before the trip,

656
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 3: and paid for it out of my mom's trust fund.

657
00:34:08,360 --> 00:34:10,319
Speaker 3: He knew I went on a trip, but didn't know

658
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 3: where to and Opie says, I'll probably do an update soon,

659
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 3: but basically, I'm not allowed to go to my friend's

660
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 3: house anymore because he thinks the parents are about influence.

661
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:21,800
Speaker 3: He says, I never told him anything about what I did,

662
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,839
Speaker 3: so he shouldn't be expected to know.

663
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:28,320
Speaker 2: You weren't curious enough to ask yea. His wife says.

664
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 3: She just wanted a dad for her kids and it

665
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 3: isn't her fault, which is true. My step siblings have

666
00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 3: been nice and said they thought he knew about my

667
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 3: games and would be totally okay with him skipping theirs

668
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 3: to come to my remaining games. They'd been more mad

669
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:44,480
Speaker 3: at him than anything else and told him if he

670
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,600
Speaker 3: can't go to mind, then he doesn't need to go

671
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:49,840
Speaker 3: to theirs. And he said that they were being brats,

672
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:54,280
Speaker 3: but they don't care. And there is a big, fat,

673
00:34:54,880 --> 00:35:01,160
Speaker 3: juicy updates. But it sounds like it sounds like the

674
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 3: dad is doing everything he can to ingratiate himself to

675
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 3: his new wife.

676
00:35:08,520 --> 00:35:14,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it is. It is just so tragic. Also,

677
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: the friend's parents, that is like the type of parent

678
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 1: I will aspire, Yeah, because that that to me is

679
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:22,000
Speaker 1: Jeff's kiss.

680
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

681
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 3: Get all the kids, yeah, and be kind to them,

682
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,880
Speaker 3: you know, I hope adopt the Latchkey kids.

683
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:31,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, adopt the Lashki kids. I kind of hope maybe

684
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: that there's an awakening and there can be some sort

685
00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: of reconciliation. Alternatively, I think what OPI said of like OPI,

686
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: he's like, hey, look, I'm not even mad for you

687
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 1: to go off and like have your family, but I

688
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 1: just want to go back to the people that have

689
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: actually been family to me and go to contact. So

690
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: I just don't have to deal with this mess.

691
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, kind of super fair.

692
00:35:53,440 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I think OPI is incredibly independent. OPI is

693
00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 3: independent financially and emotionally. Yeah, And so I think, like,

694
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 3: I don't even know, like, is there any I don't

695
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 3: know if there's anything the dad can do. I think

696
00:36:08,560 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 3: it is the like unless unless he says, I now

697
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:17,400
Speaker 3: realize how terrible I've been treating you. I don't expect

698
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 3: you to forgive me right now, but I will work

699
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 3: to prove that I care about you and rebuild trust.

700
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 3: And I know it may take years, but I'm willing

701
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,800
Speaker 3: to start. If you can give me another chance, I

702
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 3: think that's the only thing that he can say. And

703
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 3: if she chooses to not give him another chance, then

704
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 3: that's you know, up.

705
00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:36,880
Speaker 1: To her, and it is what it is. You did

706
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: nothing less than that level of a bit.

707
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,760
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, but there is an update, Paul, there's no goodness.

708
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:48,319
Speaker 3: So four days later update because a lot of people

709
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:50,000
Speaker 3: will worry about me not being able to get my

710
00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,600
Speaker 3: things from my biofather's house and going back to therapy.

711
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:57,560
Speaker 3: Turns out it's not even yet necessary. After my last post,

712
00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 3: my stepmother wanted us all to go to the Lakehouse.

713
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 3: That's her happy place, safe space, sanctuary, she says, and

714
00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 3: it's her answer to everything. She wants the boys out.

715
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 3: She sends my biofather and her sons to the lake house.

716
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:15,760
Speaker 3: Time with daughter, lake house, time alone, lakehouse by herself.

717
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 3: She does photography there and she's right, it does look

718
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 3: like a postcard two story cabin style. They never took

719
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 3: me for the girls trips or boys' trips, only when

720
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 3: everyone went together. So my step siblings won't call biofather

721
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 3: dad anymore. My stepmom says, if he isn't their dad

722
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 3: and she isn't my mom, why are they even married?

723
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:40,080
Speaker 1: Shut up.

724
00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:44,880
Speaker 3: My biofather asked if she wanted a divorce, and she

725
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 3: said she didn't sign up for the drama. They argued,

726
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:53,680
Speaker 3: and we went to hang out by the lake. We've

727
00:37:53,719 --> 00:37:57,759
Speaker 3: been getting along great now against the parents, which I

728
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 3: didn't see humming. I guess like the step siblings.

729
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,600
Speaker 1: I've joined after that whole thing. They were like, you

730
00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 1: know what, You're right, We're riding with you, f dad.

731
00:38:09,840 --> 00:38:13,000
Speaker 3: Anyway, we went back to therapy yesterday and my stepsis

732
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:18,399
Speaker 3: brought up that they are getting divorced. Biofather said, if

733
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 3: they can work it out in therapy. Therapist asked if

734
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,399
Speaker 3: it could be amicable, because it's obvious that they're cold

735
00:38:24,440 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 3: to each other. Stepmom said her kids could see biofather,

736
00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 3: but she would just want her place. He said that

737
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:35,919
Speaker 3: wasn't possible because it's actually mine because my mom had

738
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 3: it before they were married and it's part of the prenup.

739
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,319
Speaker 2: Let's freaking go.

740
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 1: So does that mean the house was passed down to

741
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:47,880
Speaker 1: Ope via the trust?

742
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 2: I believe so? I believe so.

743
00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:56,640
Speaker 3: Stepmom was livid and ugly cried mad all the way home,

744
00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 3: then asked about the house we live in. My biofather

745
00:39:01,280 --> 00:39:04,000
Speaker 3: tried to get her out of the kitchen, but she screamed,

746
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 3: and he admitted that my grandpa gave it to my

747
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:11,720
Speaker 3: mom as a wedding gift before they were married.

748
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 2: Let's go.

749
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 3: Turns out he won't let me move out because the

750
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:24,440
Speaker 3: house is actually mine since I turned eighteen. So oh

751
00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:29,800
Speaker 3: he owns the house. Ohpe, he can kick them out.

752
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 3: She split the savings because they had been living way

753
00:39:33,120 --> 00:39:37,280
Speaker 3: below their means. He told her most of the savings

754
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:40,920
Speaker 3: slash certificates of deposits where accounts set up for me

755
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 3: by Mom's parents. She has been crying in her room

756
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 3: and says, I'm selfish for not letting her have the

757
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:52,920
Speaker 3: lake house my great grandpa built and gave to my grandpa,

758
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 3: who gave it to my mom. And we have a

759
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 3: relevant and some updates from Op. It's a short but

760
00:40:05,719 --> 00:40:10,319
Speaker 3: very juicy update. But also you can see us live

761
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 3: every weekday at three pm PSD. But so just tap

762
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:18,439
Speaker 3: her profile, but really quick, before we get to the

763
00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:23,280
Speaker 3: grand finale of this story, please, I believe what's happened

764
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:28,800
Speaker 3: is OP owns both the lake house and the actual house,

765
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:34,320
Speaker 3: plus a trust that the mom left, so OP kind

766
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 3: of owns everything everything, and the dad and the stepmom

767
00:40:40,239 --> 00:40:44,040
Speaker 3: own nothing. And it seems like the step kids are

768
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 3: on Op's side and the step mom and stepdad or

769
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 3: at stepmom and bio dad are fighting with each other,

770
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 3: and the step mom wants to leave, the bio dad

771
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:59,040
Speaker 3: wants to stay, but all the kids hate them, and

772
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:02,120
Speaker 3: I think it seems like the family's kind of imploding.

773
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,239
Speaker 1: Dad is about to take the fattest l of any

774
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: family splitting in at least okay, storytime mystery and probably

775
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: in the history of the space time continuum. Yeah, I

776
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:15,600
Speaker 1: mean it doesn't get worse than you. Literally, he spent

777
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: all these years like, oh, like let me, let me

778
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 1: buddy up to the kids and can basically pretend my

779
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,399
Speaker 1: own biological child doesn't exist, just to you know, get

780
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: in with the mom. Now the mom doesn't want him,

781
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 1: the step kids don't want him. He doesn't have any

782
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:31,919
Speaker 1: of the houses, and Opie's got the trust fund both

783
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: the houses.

784
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 3: Wow, kind of kind of sweet justice, beautiful just this

785
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 3: is being served. But we do have final comment to

786
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 3: close out this story. So wild black Hat says, what

787
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:48,440
Speaker 3: in the world so she never put a cent towards

788
00:41:48,480 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 3: those and somehow never asked herself in all those years

789
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:54,120
Speaker 3: how the assets would be how the assets would be

790
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:57,360
Speaker 3: split in the event of a divorce. Opie responds, I

791
00:41:57,480 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 3: doubt she ever thought about divorce until last week everything

792
00:42:01,719 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 3: kind of exploded. Since they don't have a prenup, she

793
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 3: probably thought she would get half of everything. Well, she

794
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,719
Speaker 3: will get half of everything, which is nothing because I

795
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:19,919
Speaker 3: ain't zero fat zero zero. Yeah, dude, what a satisfying

796
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 3: satisfying And it's just nice when people, bad people get

797
00:42:23,600 --> 00:42:24,280
Speaker 3: their comeuppance.

798
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 1: And you know, like op like, if if any eighteen

799
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: year old is to inherit, you know, a lake house,

800
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 1: a main house of trust on all this stuff, it

801
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 1: should be someone like Hope.

802
00:42:34,560 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, because OPI has basically been living independently for the

803
00:42:37,960 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 3: last like few years, and so it seems like op

804
00:42:41,840 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 3: has a pretty good head on their shoulders.

805
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 1: And the juxtaposition of the last story where it was like,

806
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,280
Speaker 1: you know, of the teen like moving the ketchup bottle

807
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:52,240
Speaker 1: around just to like be able to kill at someone, yeah,

808
00:42:52,320 --> 00:42:56,280
Speaker 1: versus like, hey, look, OPI wasn't even vindictive. OPI was like, listen,

809
00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 1: you can go have your life with your family, mozeltof

810
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:00,239
Speaker 1: go ahead.

811
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 3: All I want, Fussled, All I want is to just

812
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:08,839
Speaker 3: have my family and my life and my peace. That's

813
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,920
Speaker 3: all I want. And you can go off be happy

814
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 3: with the people that screwed me out of.

815
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 1: A late childhood. Yeah, I don't even care. That is

816
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:21,680
Speaker 1: that's big, that's that's very that's the high road right there.

817
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:23,759
Speaker 2: Huh. That's where that story ends.