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Speaker 1: Hi everyone. Hi Jordan, Hello everybody, Welcome to adulting. You

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Speaker 1: know who to fuck this is is Raven Simone and

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Speaker 1: Arkle just kidd me? Wow is that too much?

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Speaker 2: First of all, I am Arkle rising, Okay, I'm not

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Speaker 2: exactly straight up?

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Speaker 3: Arkle, Okay.

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Speaker 1: Are you subscribing to astrology and mercury in retrograde?

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Speaker 4: And do you even know what retrograde is?

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Speaker 2: I know that it's when things are caddy wapus. I

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Speaker 2: don't know that much about astrology. I feel like Sam Cook,

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Speaker 2: but like I don't know much about astrology, don't know

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Speaker 2: much about numerology.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, what is one song, Jordan that your

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Speaker 1: parents would play and just do the little two step,

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Speaker 1: the little adorable adult two step where they just like

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Speaker 1: stay on the one tile and your dad's like kind

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Speaker 1: of like moving your mom's hips, and you could just

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Speaker 1: tell that they have just been together forever. What is that?

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Speaker 1: What's that song?

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Speaker 5: Oh, that's a great question.

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Speaker 2: They loved Al Green's early stuff, so it was still

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Speaker 2: in love, Still in love with you. And then a

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Speaker 2: song that became Me and My Wife's song, which is,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Aretha Franklin's one Step Ahead. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's it's a really good, really good song. But if

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Speaker 2: like still in Love with You came on the radio,

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Speaker 2: my mom would always say, oh, it was a dance,

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Speaker 2: your daddy did a song, and it just meant that

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Speaker 2: they were bang into that song.

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Speaker 5: But like, like why.

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Speaker 1: I was like, where are we going? We'd be like, Mom,

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Speaker 1: you know what's so funny. It's like we really have

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Speaker 1: to plan out. Heis and I music to alone time

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Speaker 1: sex because kids. And I was talking to my friend

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Speaker 1: the other day and she's like, oh my god. When

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Speaker 1: my husband and I try to do it, it feels

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Speaker 1: like I'm in that movie The Quiet Place.

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Speaker 4: Where I'm like, don't, don't you move, don't.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, that's what it feels like with

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Speaker 1: kids and you're trying to sleep. I feel like a

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Speaker 1: sassy ballerina just trying to like just balance that one

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Speaker 1: big toe and arch my back. It's too hard. It's

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Speaker 1: too hard. It feels like a giraffe and I can't

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Speaker 1: reach the tree. It's it feels impossible.

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Speaker 5: Is there a lock on your door?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 5: Why is there no lock on your door?

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Speaker 4: Why do I need a lock on my door?

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Speaker 2: Because okay, if you're you know enjoying each other's bodies

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Speaker 2: and then they like want water, knock, knock knock, I

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Speaker 2: want what you know that.

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Speaker 5: They're like, why are you hurting?

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Speaker 1: Mommy?

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Speaker 4: Like, have your kids ever walked in on you?

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Speaker 5: I don't think so, but I think they might have

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Speaker 5: seen us. Oh yuck, Like I think they've seen us.

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Speaker 3: I have.

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Speaker 1: I am sorry everyone. This is the first thing you're

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Speaker 1: listening to in the morning and you're eating something and

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Speaker 1: you just put it out. I understand why and how

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Speaker 1: and back to why and it's my fault.

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Speaker 4: It's my own phone.

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Speaker 5: Wow. Oh yuh, I love it.

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Speaker 1: I walked into my parents once, but I didn't even

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Speaker 1: realize what I was walking in on till like fifteen

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Speaker 1: years later I started to put together right. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I guess they weren't playing leap frog. Now I know

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Speaker 1: why my parents put my bedroom in the front of

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Speaker 1: the house and their bedroom was in.

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Speaker 4: The back of the house. They hear my little footsteps.

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Speaker 5: Yeah do do do do do do doo?

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 2: There's so many times when you know you are going

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Speaker 2: to fun town and it's just like, oh God, you

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Speaker 2: hear like you hear like you do, and you're like,

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Speaker 2: was that the fucking dog.

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Speaker 5: I know, was that the kids? Was that the dog.

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Speaker 1: Trying to decipher footsteps between dogs? Because I have one

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Speaker 1: hundred and twenty pound dog and a ninety pound dog.

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Speaker 4: Yes, they sound.

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Speaker 5: Like people going down the stairs, especially oh, like.

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Speaker 4: Barreling down the steps. I'm like, this is it?

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Speaker 1: This is it because you can't tell if they're coming

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Speaker 1: up or down the steps because it's so crazy. Oh

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Speaker 1: my goodness. I also like just I also just love

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Speaker 1: the company, to be honest, because it just makes the

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Speaker 1: house that much sweeter when no one's there.

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Speaker 4: Oh with your dogs, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: And as an only child, like my house was always

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Speaker 1: empty unless it was like the weekend, and then it

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Speaker 1: was like way too full. Yeah, but you know, and

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Speaker 1: then living in Florida, they have like these rooms made

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Speaker 1: just for abuela or like you know.

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Speaker 5: What, No, it's beautiful. It's nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like human people like live with their grandparents and

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Speaker 1: their parents whatever, and so I just love all the

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Speaker 1: generations in the house. It's giving incanto and I never

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Speaker 1: really fully got it till now because it's just so

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Speaker 1: nice having a full ass dinner table.

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Speaker 2: Yeah truly, I mean, and dogs are great because dogs

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Speaker 2: get it after a while, they'd chill, yeah, and they're

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Speaker 2: just like with you and like you don't have to

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Speaker 2: say anything.

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Speaker 5: It's beautiful.

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Speaker 4: Can you have sex with like your dog in the room?

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Speaker 5: Well yeah, I mean yes.

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Speaker 4: Oh, Leo has seen some things.

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Speaker 2: Leo's seen and heard some things. Though lately Leo is

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Speaker 2: getting older, he's about twelve. And I noticed every time

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Speaker 2: we get naked, he like starts scratching under the bed

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Speaker 2: like crazy, and we're like, all right, Leo, we get it,

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Speaker 2: like you're uncomfortable with this.

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Speaker 5: But one time.

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Speaker 4: You're having sex while he's under the bed.

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Speaker 2: He sleeps under the bed. He sleeps under this nice

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Speaker 2: clearance and his little things under there. His little bed

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Speaker 2: is under there. That's where you sleep. So he feels

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Speaker 2: it's like a cave. He feels like protected under there.

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Speaker 2: Oh but I did get it. I did get a

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Speaker 2: really cold, cold, wet nose in my butthole once when

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Speaker 2: I was getting down.

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Speaker 4: Oh, congratulations, thank you so much. What's his name?

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Speaker 2: It was actually not my dog. We were staying, we

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Speaker 2: were tagging at these people's house, and this lab, you know,

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Speaker 2: a sweet little black lab, was just like, what's going

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Speaker 2: on with y'all?

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Speaker 5: And I leapt yeah, so high in the air.

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Speaker 1: You know, let this be a lesson to everybody. If

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Speaker 1: you don't know that something's about to touch your booty hole,

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Speaker 1: it's very unnerving. Like, if you're gonna go to the

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Speaker 1: booty hole, try to like slide your finger down the

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Speaker 1: butt cheek first, just so you're like, uh, oh, it

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Speaker 1: might go there. And this goes for the lab too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: don't you know somewhere else before you.

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Speaker 4: Put it there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like you know what, Labrador consent is beautiful.

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Speaker 4: This is so funny.

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Speaker 1: This is like something out of like wedding crashers, because

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Speaker 1: then I just see like the mom I just see

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Speaker 1: like someone just like kissing the Lab's face all over

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Speaker 1: and just being love me so much, and they're just

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Speaker 1: like really kissing your ass. Oh my god, that's the

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Speaker 1: only time someone's gonna kiss your ass.

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Speaker 5: Thank thank you.

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Speaker 1: This took a turn. Usually is not an intro for

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Speaker 1: a remote recording. These are like live show topics. But

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Speaker 1: we are out here.

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Speaker 5: We're out here.

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Speaker 4: We're getting deep.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I love seeing you and telling you wild hit like this.

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Speaker 1: So here we are between moving blankets and a microphone

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Speaker 1: bigger than most people's babies.

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Speaker 4: Absolutely, what a safe space.

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Speaker 1: This is so sad. If if our deepest, darkest secrets

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Speaker 1: are between them, like moving blankets and a rented office

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Speaker 1: and a microphone the size of a child's head, then

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Speaker 1: we have found the secret to happiness.

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Speaker 4: I have to tell you something about please please tell

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Speaker 4: me more.

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Speaker 2: So, basically, when we record this in my like co

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Speaker 2: workspace office, whatever you want to call it, and in

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Speaker 2: the actual office that I have, I share a wall

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Speaker 2: with a therapist and the therapist is saying that she's like,

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Speaker 2: very you're very vocal, and I can hear the podcasts

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Speaker 2: and my and my patients are you know, they're they're

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Speaker 2: fans dealing with trauma.

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Speaker 1: Oh well they should listen, honey. They should listen to

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Speaker 1: the podcast because it's cheaper than therapy.

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Speaker 2: Honestly, they're like trying to figure out some sound buffering.

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Speaker 1: This feels like an adulting question, Like I have an office.

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Speaker 1: There's a therapist next to my office. What do I

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Speaker 1: do if the therapist can hear me? Jordan, Michelle, what

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Speaker 1: do you think? It's like?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, but she's so kind and sweet.

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Speaker 5: Yes, can I ask you a questions?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: So are you comfortable with having your animals in the

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Speaker 2: room while you guys pick up.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but like when I start to arrive at the

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Speaker 1: train station, my puppy gets really excited and like gets

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Speaker 1: in there, and I'm like, back the fuck up, and look,

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Speaker 1: it takes a really long time.

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Speaker 4: To like get there.

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Speaker 5: Do you what the what?

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Speaker 1: Ding ding bitch?

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Speaker 4: You get it to come? Jordan to come?

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Speaker 5: U uh oh of yes, sexual reference.

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Speaker 4: Okay, yes, Jesus Christ.

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Speaker 5: In my house, we call it. We call it climaxing.

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Speaker 3: But go ahead.

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Speaker 1: I can't believe we're talking about this wrapped around moving

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Speaker 1: blankets and borrowed equipment, and this shall be heard all

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Speaker 1: over the world. Here we are also, Yes, another thing

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Speaker 1: no one tells you as you're decorating your home with

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Speaker 1: your husband, like don't put family pictures and pictures of

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Speaker 1: your kids up on your walls because why because it

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Speaker 1: feels like people are looking at you when you have

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Speaker 4: I can't believe I had to explain that to you.

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Speaker 1: Why what have we been talking about in the bed?

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Speaker 2: I thought you were going another way. Okay, I have

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Speaker 2: to get deep with you.

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Speaker 5: I am not the conductor of the Philharmonic in my bed.

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Speaker 5: Believe it or not.

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Speaker 2: It's this is so wild.

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Speaker 1: People that speak like English as a second language would

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Speaker 1: be like.

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Speaker 6: Fuck, I'm talking about when Germany listen to this and

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Speaker 6: be like, what the fuck is wrong with them? They're

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Speaker 6: arriving at train stations, They're playing in orchestras.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, I'm not in charge of programming. No, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm not in charge of programming.

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Speaker 5: Are you are? You're in charge of programming.

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Speaker 4: I think it's a co producing situation.

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Speaker 5: That's great.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we're co producers.

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Speaker 5: That's huge.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we definitely go Dutch.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I love it, and uh, I think.

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Speaker 1: It's good to end it here and get to our

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Speaker 1: guests before.

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Speaker 4: It gets real weird, too crazy. If these moving blankets could.

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Speaker 1: Talk, honey, Oh the secrets I've told into this borrowed Mike.

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Speaker 2: Yes, our guest is an influencer, hilarious.

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Speaker 4: Multi hyphen it dynamic.

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Speaker 2: Wonderful, has such an eye, such a wit, such talent,

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Speaker 5: So let's do that right now.

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Speaker 2: Please, welcome to the one and only Francesca Ramsey.

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Speaker 4: That was really nice. Yeah you did good.

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Speaker 1: Francesca Rivera Lucile Banetta, Dianaa, Yeler Dash Ramsey looking like

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Speaker 4: What a glorious introduction.

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Speaker 1: This is a special episode to be honest, though, Jordan,

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Speaker 4: Ohamn, so gross.

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Speaker 2: We were kids. We were kids then, and so much

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Speaker 1: Yes, And I live in Los Angeles now I drive

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Speaker 2: Well, you're very kind and you've done me the service

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Speaker 7: Oh I'm team Jordan all the damn time. One time

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Speaker 4: Too soon, Oh it's too soon.

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Speaker 7: We're all going to get replaced with white Nepo babies.

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Speaker 1: we we out here, bring it Octa rooms back.

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Speaker 7: Yes, Rooney, you get a Roonie, you get a Rooty,

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Speaker 1: I did open? I did. Did you poke in my

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Speaker 7: Similar to me, your house is very stylish and clean,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she definitely there's ritual killings happening in that. In

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Speaker 2: If there's like any mess, I do leave a single sock,

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Speaker 5: No, she loses er.

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Speaker 1: Oh, we about to see you a couples therapy. No,

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Speaker 1: It's Giving snapped, giving that nap. You better be careful

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Speaker 1: all of them yellow Gatoray, then your fridge are just

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Speaker 2: I did join Costco, and I feel like an adult

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you need Costco. Yes, I'm a single person and

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Speaker 7: Why would you be that much dried fruit? That's my

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Speaker 4: No, I love it. You know why, because I'll tell

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Speaker 1: Because I have TMJ and I grind my teeth a lot,

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Speaker 4: And that's why people love chips.

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Speaker 1: And that's why chips and pretzels because the crunch is

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't keep running out to trade of Joe's.

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Speaker 1: I was like the trade of hoe, let's go. You

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Speaker 1: Don't need that, bitch. It is too early for you

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Speaker 5: If you spill that bag of almonds, I have.

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Speaker 1: No don't ever look between the couch cushions in my house.

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Speaker 4: It'll be all nuts.

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Speaker 5: So many ways to gote that. Can I ask you

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Speaker 2: A rumbled person? Rumble is not messy. Rumple is like

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Speaker 1: No, there's a little disheveled looking, a little.

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Speaker 7: and I have an industrial steamer, so I got you.

446
00:21:53,200 --> 00:21:55,239
Speaker 7: And if you don't like a steamer, we could do

447
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:57,480
Speaker 7: a blow dryer. I kept a blow dryer either, thoughy

448
00:21:57,480 --> 00:22:00,639
Speaker 7: I got no hair. A blow dryer could very quickly

449
00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:04,240
Speaker 7: get the crumple out of a fit before we leave

450
00:22:04,280 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 7: the home. True, because here's the thing and Michelle, Michelle

451
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:11,760
Speaker 7: knows empathizes here. When I go places, people often want

452
00:22:11,800 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 7: to take a picture with me.

453
00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:13,199
Speaker 5: You know.

454
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,719
Speaker 1: I can't leave the home without a little mouse scare on,

455
00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:20,440
Speaker 1: a little filled brow, you know, because somebody is going

456
00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 1: to be like, oh my god, I love you less

457
00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:23,600
Speaker 1: like but you can't be.

458
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:24,960
Speaker 4: Crumpled if you roll them with me?

459
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:25,439
Speaker 5: Right?

460
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, we need to be getty ready.

461
00:22:27,880 --> 00:22:30,639
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Did we just get the

462
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:35,440
Speaker 1: name for our episode? Getty ready?

463
00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 5: Geddy ready?

464
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:36,919
Speaker 3: Go?

465
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:38,760
Speaker 1: You better pretend.

466
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,600
Speaker 7: When you look in the mirror, where is the watermark

467
00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 7: going to fall? Make sure it's not obscured, you know

468
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 7: what I mean? Make sure you're red d for it.

469
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 7: That's how I'm leaving the home.

470
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Speaker 1: I have a question, and this is like, I'm sorry, Jordan,

471
00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: it seems like you still have.

472
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:53,639
Speaker 4: More in your mind.

473
00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:56,040
Speaker 5: Go ahead.

474
00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:59,399
Speaker 1: Have you ever dated someone who's always on their phone?

475
00:22:59,560 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: Or you with the person that's always on their phone.

476
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 7: I used to be the person that's always on their phone.

477
00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 7: I'm not anymore.

478
00:23:06,440 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: Does someone tell you, well, I will.

479
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:10,520
Speaker 7: Shout out to my best friend Delan. There are a

480
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:12,199
Speaker 7: few times where he's like, girl, you gotta put that

481
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:17,120
Speaker 7: phone down, you know. And it's hard especially when one

482
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 7: the internet is your source of entertainment, but it's also

483
00:23:19,760 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 7: like linked to your job, and so especially for a

484
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:27,640
Speaker 7: freelancer or a creative person, you could essentially work all

485
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 7: of the time. And so there was a large chunk

486
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 7: of my life where I justified being on my phone

487
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 7: because I was like, well, I'm working, but like you know,

488
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 7: looking at Twitter drama is not really work, so I

489
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:43,199
Speaker 7: would do I'm very nosy. I love to know who

490
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:46,879
Speaker 7: everyone's mad at, and so I would just be like,

491
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 7: you know, like Indiana Jones excavating drama.

492
00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:52,720
Speaker 1: I'm like, who is this subtweet about? Let me go

493
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 1: look through their likes and then let me see who

494
00:23:55,359 --> 00:23:57,280
Speaker 1: they followed. Like I was doing all of that. What

495
00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: in the black CSI is going on?

496
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:03,040
Speaker 7: Yes, Oh my god, I was like inside of the motherboard,

497
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,440
Speaker 7: you know, like when you watch hackers and like the

498
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:07,360
Speaker 7: numbers are scrolling all next to them.

499
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:07,960
Speaker 1: That was me.

500
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 7: And I still do a little bit of that, but

501
00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 7: I'm I'm just I better manage it. I don't do

502
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:17,119
Speaker 7: it when I'm on a date or having dinner. You know,

503
00:24:17,640 --> 00:24:19,720
Speaker 7: killing time is usually when I would do it, and

504
00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,560
Speaker 7: then I would get sucked in, So I don't do

505
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 7: that anymore.

506
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 5: You Know.

507
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 1: What I do love, though, is that your clapback is

508
00:24:25,600 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 1: so good on Twitter, but your clapbacks are also really

509
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:35,160
Speaker 1: good in person, which is very rare because people can't

510
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: always do it. You know, it's like one or the other,

511
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:40,720
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Thank you, Yeah, thank you.

512
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm very flattered that you would say that.

513
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,879
Speaker 7: It's been something that has been something that I've worked on,

514
00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,760
Speaker 7: just feeling comfortable enough to assert myself. And I think,

515
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:56,640
Speaker 7: especially as a black woman, oftentimes we myself included shy

516
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 7: away from sometimes saying how we really feel because of

517
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:01,760
Speaker 7: the person of like, oh, that's going to come across

518
00:25:01,800 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 7: too angry or too needy or too whatever. And so

519
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 7: it's a very delicate balance for me to assert myself

520
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,199
Speaker 7: in a way with a little smile. You know, I

521
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 7: don't have to I don't have to be mean or

522
00:25:14,760 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 7: yell at you or even curse at you.

523
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's not get ugly lines. Yeah, keep it cute,

524
00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 1: keep a cute and friendly and cordial and a little

525
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:28,120
Speaker 1: classy read here and there. Yeah, protect your piece, it

526
00:25:28,160 --> 00:25:31,960
Speaker 1: really does. I'm here for protecting the peace, please, because

527
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 1: people do feel like emotional osteoporosis, you know.

528
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's so real and like what I found in

529
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 7: terms of when you say, like the emotional osteoporosis, you

530
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,119
Speaker 7: end up carrying that shit around with you if you

531
00:25:45,160 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 7: don't assert yourself. Yeah, they get to go on about

532
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 7: your life and you are just kind of churning that

533
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:52,640
Speaker 7: moment over and over and over again. And I would

534
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 7: rather say something, be done with it, and then get

535
00:25:55,119 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 7: to move on and make it no longer. My business

536
00:25:58,920 --> 00:26:02,320
Speaker 7: in real life is different than the Internet because when

537
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 7: it's in.

538
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 1: Real life there's a high probability.

539
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 7: But I actually know you and I'm in community with you,

540
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 7: and you and I are gonna have to be around

541
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:12,960
Speaker 7: each other at another time, and so hmm, I have

542
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 7: to be really conscientious about how I say certain things

543
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:20,400
Speaker 7: in those situations so that it doesn't prolong the awkwardness

544
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 7: and then turn into like, God, I can't ever see

545
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:25,240
Speaker 7: them at a party. Yeah, I gotta whatever. It just

546
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:27,800
Speaker 7: has to be a cute little hey, let's nip this

547
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 7: in the bud. And then usually what I do is

548
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 7: I like change the subject and do something friendly, so

549
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 7: it's like I'm not harping on that thing. I just

550
00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:37,720
Speaker 7: needed to like, Yeah, you know, when you're walking your dog,

551
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 7: you gotta yank that chain a little bit, like don't

552
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 7: you don't you touch that chicken bone. That's what you

553
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 7: have to do sometimes to people in person, you gotta

554
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 7: be like you're getting a little too close.

555
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 1: To the stove.

556
00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 7: Move and then you go, now here's a candy, Like

557
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 7: you know what I mean? You say, know, you fucked

558
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,480
Speaker 7: up over here and now we're gonna we gonna retrain

559
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 7: you over here.

560
00:26:55,800 --> 00:26:58,200
Speaker 5: Do we have to get the like the chest harness

561
00:26:58,320 --> 00:26:59,680
Speaker 5: for our friends? Is that what you're saying?

562
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 1: Like, no, you want that? I would personally? You want

563
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: the personally I would love the chest one. No, my

564
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: chest is too big. I would love the chess one.

565
00:27:25,400 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 1: I think like in a perfect world, which is not

566
00:27:28,560 --> 00:27:31,479
Speaker 1: my world, we talk about stuff, we squash it, we

567
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:35,920
Speaker 1: move on. You and I have talked about stuff that

568
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,639
Speaker 1: we felt. Jordan and I have had moments where we're like,

569
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: this isn't great.

570
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:40,080
Speaker 5: How do we look?

571
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: But there are some people I think the biggest thing

572
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 1: for me is like, I know I'm not perfect, but

573
00:27:45,800 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 1: I try to show up and look within. And what

574
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: really fucks me up is some people's inability to take

575
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 1: any accountability. And I know people use the word psychopath

576
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 1: quite a bit, but I'm like, if someone's telling you

577
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: that this is not good and you have hurt them,

578
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 1: and we have exhibit A to Z and you're like, no,

579
00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: that didn't happen, Nope, don't remember it that way. Yeah,

580
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: and you're still denying it and don't even want to

581
00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:17,359
Speaker 1: like apologize, Just to apologize because you've hurt someone's feelings

582
00:28:17,359 --> 00:28:22,399
Speaker 1: to move on feels insane to me. Yeah, And I

583
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,880
Speaker 1: know we use the word gas lighting quite a bit,

584
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: like in society now like.

585
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 7: It's a real thing though, and it's a real fucking thing.

586
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 7: I mean, I will say that's one of the wonderful

587
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,880
Speaker 7: things about adulthood is that I'm in a place where

588
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 7: I don't have to spend time with anybody that I

589
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,520
Speaker 7: don't want to, and that if I'm finding myself coming

590
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 7: up with the same issue with the person over and

591
00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 7: over and over again, I don't even need to have

592
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 7: a big conversation about it.

593
00:28:47,720 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 4: I'm like, I'm good on this person. Yeah, you know

594
00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 4: what I mean.

595
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 1: I'll see you across you know, the grocery store of Vonn's,

596
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 1: hey girl, and keep it moving like. Yes, We're just

597
00:28:56,200 --> 00:28:57,760
Speaker 1: not going to hang out anymore. I'm not going to

598
00:28:57,840 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: text you.

599
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 7: I'm not going to tell you in my personal business

600
00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:03,840
Speaker 7: when I see you out in the world, because I

601
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 7: know I can't trust you, and I know that you

602
00:29:06,320 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 7: don't provide a safe space for me to bring grievances

603
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,320
Speaker 7: to you where you can address them like an adult.

604
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 1: So I'm good on that. The circle is closed.

605
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 5: So it's like, can we quiet quit people in our lives?

606
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:23,280
Speaker 7: Yes, one thousand, one thousand percent. And again sometimes it

607
00:29:23,400 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 7: just depends too, Like when it's a really close friend, Yeah,

608
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 7: sometimes you do need to have a big conversation. But

609
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 7: if it's an acquaintance and it's something you have talked

610
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 7: about and now you're talking about four and five and

611
00:29:35,600 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 7: six times, yeah I'm done. I don't have time to

612
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 7: spend with the people that I actually love and care about,

613
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 7: So why am I now going to waste time talking

614
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,200
Speaker 7: to you about the same thing I've talked to.

615
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,520
Speaker 1: You multiple times about. So now I'm just gonna move

616
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 1: on I will always try to make it work with

617
00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: my parents because I love them, well, yes, but I'm

618
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: not going to try and make it work with my

619
00:29:56,920 --> 00:29:59,240
Speaker 1: cousins all the time, like I'm good on it, right

620
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,600
Speaker 1: or like on their uncles, Like you know, I do

621
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: respect you as a human being. I'm not going to

622
00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:07,640
Speaker 1: humanize you lol, Right, but like I gotta go. You know,

623
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: Jordan and I like sometimes we're like should we invite

624
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: this person?

625
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:11,440
Speaker 5: Maybe not?

626
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 1: You know, Jordan's like, how about so and so I'm

627
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:17,760
Speaker 1: just like, not my bag right now? Yeah, And that's okay.

628
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 1: And he's not trying to fight it, right, he's not

629
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: trying to convince me. He's like word and we keep

630
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,360
Speaker 1: it moving. And I never did that before. So I

631
00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 1: was like, I guess the more the merrier. And I'm

632
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 1: just like, nah, bitch, because no, you have to look

633
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:35,840
Speaker 1: at the return on investment, like is this sorry, that's

634
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 1: just how it is. I'm cutching numbers.

635
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 4: I'm getting the calculator out.

636
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 5: This happening right now.

637
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: You're like, are you doing a spreadsheet?

638
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 5: Okay?

639
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 7: Yeah, because honestly, to your point, Michelle about like you know,

640
00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 7: is this the right person to have on the podcast

641
00:30:51,760 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 7: as an example, Are you going to be arguing with

642
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 7: them the whole time? Are you going to need to

643
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:00,160
Speaker 7: edit out huge chunks of the conversation because it says

644
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:01,160
Speaker 7: done inappropriate?

645
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all gonna have to reconsider moving.

646
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: The schedule around because you're like, fuck, I don't think

647
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:08,840
Speaker 1: we could put this episode out now.

648
00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:12,920
Speaker 7: We behind like, yeah, is the return on investment worth

649
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,680
Speaker 7: you know, disrupting your piece for somebody, but you don't

650
00:31:15,720 --> 00:31:17,520
Speaker 7: even really funk in the first place.

651
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, all that is the juice worth the squeeze, I

652
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:21,440
Speaker 5: hear you.

653
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, hello, hello chills.

654
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 4: I know they're multiplying.

655
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 1: Sorry, I had to you guys, come on, why I

656
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 1: love a music reference.

657
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 5: Those are my favorite.

658
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 3: Oh.

659
00:31:34,800 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 1: I've been to karaoke with you. I know you. She

660
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: don't even need the screen.

661
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 5: She's like karaoke with you. Oh.

662
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 1: I've done karaoke with Jordan and Fran, but never together.

663
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:47,280
Speaker 1: I would have to leave.

664
00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:50,479
Speaker 5: I'd be like, okay, come out, I know I'm terrible.

665
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: No, Fran doesn't even need the screen, and she'll stop

666
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: the song to be like that's not my what is it?

667
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 2: Like?

668
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 5: Like, hey, my key, yet you're range?

669
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Speaker 1: I've Oh, can we take it down? Can we take

670
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 1: it down a third? Thank you?

671
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:04,720
Speaker 5: I can't hear. I can't hear myself.

672
00:32:04,760 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 1: Guys, can are the monitors?

673
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 3: Yes?

674
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:11,240
Speaker 1: Where are my back where are my backgroundsnners? Oh my god? Okay,

675
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: So we get questions in from our audience. Yes, you've

676
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 1: done the show. You know how it goes. They ask

677
00:32:15,760 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: us questions about adulting, and you know what, we try.

678
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 4: To answer them. It is what it is. I'm ready.

679
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:25,320
Speaker 4: It's like we are the costco of emotions. Here we go.

680
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: First question, ooh, this is a good question. How much

681
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 1: do I tip my hairstylist who owns her own salon?

682
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,440
Speaker 1: I love her, but doesn't it all go to her anyway? Oh?

683
00:32:36,680 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 7: Baby baby, Yeah, I mean that's a good listen. I

684
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 7: as a bald person, I tip my barber.

685
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean I feel like it's just customary.

686
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:47,080
Speaker 5: Yes, sure.

687
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:51,320
Speaker 7: And my barber, to this questions point, owns her own spot.

688
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: So I don't know. I feel like it's just good karma.

689
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh for sure.

690
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, especially if they go above and beyond. And above

691
00:32:58,880 --> 00:33:01,200
Speaker 1: and beyond doesn't necessarily mean and like they're doing something

692
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,080
Speaker 1: extra for you. It's like if they take you in

693
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: a pinch I think that's also like protecting your piece too.

694
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 1: It's just like, yeah, fifteen percent, I think that's pretty standard, right.

695
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, fifteen to twenty, that's usually pretty standard. And it's like,

696
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,360
Speaker 2: you know what, it's just a way of saying that

697
00:33:15,520 --> 00:33:19,120
Speaker 2: I appreciate you, and it's kind of like maybe down

698
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:21,320
Speaker 2: the line they could help you, you know, help you

699
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 2: out right. When you're in a jam and you need something,

700
00:33:24,040 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 2: they're there for you.

701
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,680
Speaker 7: Yeah, when you're tight on cash flow, you're like, usually

702
00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 7: I do twenty right now, it's got to be five.

703
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:34,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, absolutely. Can I ask you a question though, sure?

704
00:33:34,920 --> 00:33:37,520
Speaker 2: I love your hair journey, I love your hair. Thank you,

705
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 2: probably because you have one of the best shaped heads

706
00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 2: in the business.

707
00:33:40,440 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 5: Now, I know I asked you this.

708
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 2: I just wonder about the pricing and the difference in

709
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 2: haircuts pricing between men and women. Yeah, for me, it

710
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,479
Speaker 2: costs me fifteen dollars you get my haircut?

711
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: Ooh, I wish. Okay, Well, here's the thing. I pay

712
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,480
Speaker 1: a little bit more for a haircut because there's the

713
00:33:58,520 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 1: booge coming out of me.

714
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 7: I struggled to find a barber that was on time.

715
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 7: Every barber I have ever been to is always running

716
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 7: fifteen to thirty minutes behind. And most of the barber's

717
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 7: New York and LA didn't take appointments. They just wanted

718
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 7: you to walk in off the street.

719
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:20,560
Speaker 4: No, that's bullshit.

720
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: I can't live like that. I have places to be, Yeah,

721
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:27,200
Speaker 1: I have a to do list. No no, no, I

722
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:29,280
Speaker 1: want to go. I want to pull up the app.

723
00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 1: I want to pick my preferred time. I want you

724
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: to have parking. The last girl I've been going to

725
00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:39,480
Speaker 1: has Vala. I could just roll up, hand off my keys,

726
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 1: go in. She always on time all ways, she has

727
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:46,920
Speaker 1: never been late. Yes, so you know what I feel. Okay,

728
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 1: paying forty five dollars for a haircut, you win in well,

729
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: and the other thing is too shout out to a

730
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: lady barber.

731
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Speaker 4: First time I've ever had a lady barber.

732
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,320
Speaker 1: The barber shop was doing all sorts of conspiracy theories

733
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: and they was talking about homophobic shit. I'm like, turn

734
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: the r kelly off, bitch, We're not doing this no more.

735
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,080
Speaker 1: I was like, I will pay more just to not

736
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: be in this space.

737
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,800
Speaker 5: But I thought that's how that's how we get our haircut. No,

738
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 5: that's usually how it's done.

739
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:18,840
Speaker 2: Now I have to listen to some debate about Lebron

740
00:35:18,920 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 2: versus Steph Curry and all that stuff, and how.

741
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 5: The neighborhood and neighborhood's changing now.

742
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:29,040
Speaker 1: And did coronavirus come from sheep? Was it man made?

743
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god? The like what the food in prison was? Like?

744
00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:38,080
Speaker 1: You know who's on the juice and who's not?

745
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 4: I can't.

746
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 1: I was often the.

747
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 7: Only woman in there, and then I would show up

748
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:45,319
Speaker 7: for the time. They'd be like, sorry, we're running. We're

749
00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 7: running forty minutes behind.

750
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:48,840
Speaker 1: Forty minutes.

751
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 4: Forty Yeah, no, you pay for all that. I love that, though.

752
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:57,560
Speaker 7: I pay premium so I can stroll him at my time,

753
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:00,760
Speaker 7: leave at my time and be done one hondo.

754
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 5: Okay, but you know, you know what the culture, the

755
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 5: culture misses you.

756
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:11,959
Speaker 1: Well, my lady barbera is black. Yeah, okay, we're making

757
00:36:12,000 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: our own culture. We're making our own culture. Let me,

758
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 1: there's gonna be more beautiful black ball bitches that are

759
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: gonna be running to barber's.

760
00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 5: Do you want to shout out your hair person?

761
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 1: I don't want people steal my barber I know, why

762
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:28,920
Speaker 1: don't you do that? Why don't you do that? I'm

763
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 1: gonna be fucked up. Trying to get my I'm gonna

764
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: be like, wa a second. She is booked up. When

765
00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 1: anyone's like do you have a good babysitter, I'm like,

766
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:37,400
Speaker 1: don't know, nobody. Move on.

767
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 5: I don't know, nobody, move on. Wow, Well, and you.

768
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:44,240
Speaker 1: Know what I will moment of truth. I did steal

769
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:45,840
Speaker 1: this barber from a guy that I went on a

770
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,959
Speaker 1: few dates with because his haircut was always looking good

771
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, who you're barber? He's like, Oh,

772
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: she's so good. Da da da da da.

773
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:55,680
Speaker 7: And then it's really funny because she's real cool, but

774
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,520
Speaker 7: she's a little she's kind of like a wall. She

775
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 7: doesn't really say that much. But now she and I

776
00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,440
Speaker 7: are buddies, and my friend is so jealous. He's like,

777
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 7: you guys talk. I'm like, oh yeah, we talk about

778
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 7: all sorts of stuff. We are chopping it up in there.

779
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 7: She don't say shit to him.

780
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 1: Oh no, lost him? Mm hmm Ooh. Here's a cute question.

781
00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: Do people still write thank you cards? What about texting

782
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 1: a thank you note versus a mailing card? One time

783
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 1: your mom came over for dinner, friend, and she sent

784
00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:29,960
Speaker 1: me a thank you card, and I was like, she

785
00:37:30,000 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: sure did. I said, this is nice? I think no

786
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 1: one does this no more. Listen, Learna taught me right.

787
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:40,279
Speaker 1: I love a thank you card. And also, Michelle, you

788
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:42,239
Speaker 1: can attest to this. I like to make a thank

789
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:45,319
Speaker 1: you card. It's a little you know, a handmaid.

790
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:46,920
Speaker 5: What are you talking about? Oh? You know.

791
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: I have a little watercolor. I have lino print. I

792
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:52,360
Speaker 1: make my own stamps.

793
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 4: Sure, it's insane.

794
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 1: Stamp up some wrapping paper.

795
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 5: Make your own. How can you make it?

796
00:37:58,000 --> 00:37:59,000
Speaker 1: It almost makes me.

797
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:05,280
Speaker 5: Feel you know, Okay, I don't want you to incriminate yourself.

798
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,960
Speaker 5: I'm out here. You know what it is.

799
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 7: It's like a little It's like a little linoleum, and

800
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 7: you carve a shape into it, okay, and then you

801
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:24,320
Speaker 7: can stamp. So I make a bunch of little cards.

802
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 7: I have a gift drawer. I have a drawer full

803
00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 7: of wares because if I get.

804
00:38:29,520 --> 00:38:33,440
Speaker 1: Invited someplace, I'm showing up with a gift. This is adulting.

805
00:38:34,160 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: Nicole Bayer does that too, because she said her mom

806
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: always had a drawer full of birthday cards, Christmas cards anytimes.

807
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 1: And can I tell y'all friends, thank you cards are

808
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,959
Speaker 1: so nice that it almost makes me feel bad about

809
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: myself because I'm like, whatever I did did not warrant

810
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: this nice thank you card. And then it makes you

811
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 1: feel like you have to send a thank you cards

812
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 1: in response to the thank you, thank you card for

813
00:38:57,120 --> 00:39:00,560
Speaker 1: the thank you car thank you. Yeah, it stresses me

814
00:39:00,600 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 1: out a little bit because I'm just like, uh oh,

815
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:03,680
Speaker 1: this is really nice.

816
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:06,400
Speaker 7: The person that wrote in is correct. Most people do

817
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 7: a text message or an email. If you go that

818
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:13,919
Speaker 7: extra step and send an actual card, people really appreciate it.

819
00:39:14,200 --> 00:39:17,399
Speaker 7: Get you when you go to Target, when you go

820
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 7: to Papyrus, get you some cute.

821
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 5: Y't it's fun, it's funny words.

822
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 1: Some cute cards that embody your style. Keep them in

823
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: the drawer so you always have them. And I will

824
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,720
Speaker 1: also add that gift shower. When you're out and about

825
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,319
Speaker 1: and you see something cute and you're like, this will

826
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,239
Speaker 1: make a cute gift. Bye by two of them, even

827
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:51,120
Speaker 1: if you don't have anyone to give it to. I

828
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 1: have a list on my phone of sites that are

829
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,359
Speaker 1: good for gifts. Okay, do you know what I do?

830
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:58,920
Speaker 1: I take a picture with it or a video or

831
00:39:59,000 --> 00:40:01,840
Speaker 1: do some sort of like photo shoot with the flower

832
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,239
Speaker 1: someone sent me, and then I send them all the

833
00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 1: pictures and I'm just like thank you. Yes, that extra

834
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:12,120
Speaker 1: step is important. I used to do like an ig post. Yeah,

835
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:15,280
Speaker 1: oh sorry about your wife? What I was gonna says?

836
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 1: She has blank cards? Yes, so she will get like

837
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: a whole thing of blank cards. And then it's it's

838
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:24,440
Speaker 1: just somebody with them rain And it could be a birthday,

839
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:26,760
Speaker 1: it could be a funeral.

840
00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 2: It doesn't matter, like it's just it's a blank card

841
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: and it works out really well. I love this for you, though,

842
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:38,120
Speaker 2: Fran It's definitely giving Wes Anderson vib like where are

843
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:38,520
Speaker 2: we going?

844
00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:39,560
Speaker 5: Where are we going?

845
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,640
Speaker 7: There's plucky classical music playing as soon as I open

846
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:43,200
Speaker 7: that drawer.

847
00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, what's the next question?

848
00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:46,520
Speaker 1: Jordan?

849
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:50,640
Speaker 5: Okay, here it is. I'm a gay Asian twenty nine

850
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 5: year old man.

851
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:52,719
Speaker 1: Are you comfortable reading this?

852
00:40:52,840 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 5: I'm very comfortable reading.

853
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 2: I want to make sure that I go slowly, though,

854
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 2: because I always speed through these things. Okay, I've been

855
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,399
Speaker 2: in a couple of dates, but somehow I can't get

856
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 2: second dates. I believe I'm charming and nice and I've

857
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 2: got a great ass. Okay, so I got extra meat

858
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 2: on me. Oh so what how does an adult improve

859
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:13,240
Speaker 2: their flirt game.

860
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: This is that part was in all caps ooh. When

861
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 1: it comes to flirting, I struggle with this because I

862
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:26,720
Speaker 1: struggle with transitioning from like funny and silly to sexy.

863
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:30,280
Speaker 1: And I feel like my flirting comes off as like hey, yes, gilling,

864
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 1: I'm like doing a shoulder shrug and like jazz hands.

865
00:41:35,520 --> 00:41:37,880
Speaker 1: I've seen someone flirt with you one time and I

866
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:41,799
Speaker 1: was like, wait a minute, you remember, Oh do you remember? No?

867
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:44,839
Speaker 1: I don't remember. This is another thing too, is I'm

868
00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:47,759
Speaker 1: bad at picking up what other people are putting down,

869
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: very bad at it because I was like, WHOA should

870
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 1: I leave?

871
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 7: But I had my babies with me now exactly. I

872
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 7: was fucking two step in and toe touching. Yeah, because

873
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,959
Speaker 7: I don't know what's going on. Yeah, I'm not going

874
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,919
Speaker 7: at the flirting game. But I would say, if you're

875
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 7: not getting a second date, try not to take it personally.

876
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:09,759
Speaker 7: I think, especially because of dating apps, a lot of

877
00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:14,480
Speaker 7: folks have too many options. Yeah, and so instead of

878
00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 7: being intentional about, you know, going on a date, they're

879
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 7: testing out a bunch of different people and what ends

880
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,239
Speaker 7: up happening is they connect with somebody else more than

881
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 7: they connected with you, not a personal thing. But then

882
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:30,800
Speaker 7: they go they go off elsewhere where. Like pre dating apps,

883
00:42:31,320 --> 00:42:32,879
Speaker 7: you had to take more initiative. You had to meet

884
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 7: people in person, you had to introduce yourself, you had

885
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,760
Speaker 7: to Yeah, you had to ask them on a date.

886
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 7: And now with all the dating apps, it's like Roulette.

887
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:45,839
Speaker 7: You swipeswipesipe, bam, we're going on a date.

888
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:49,240
Speaker 4: Bet, I'm black, I had so I'm sorry.

889
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 5: Do you let me ask you this? So frank when

890
00:42:52,880 --> 00:42:54,439
Speaker 5: you're you online date?

891
00:42:54,880 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: I deleted all my dating apps.

892
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:57,600
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

893
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 7: Well yeah, I just like, I just don't want to

894
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 7: text a stranger.

895
00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 1: I'm so much.

896
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 7: I'm a great Texter, but I'm good at texting with

897
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 7: my friends, not someone that I don't know. And I

898
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:13,319
Speaker 7: want to meet people in person. And so I have

899
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 7: met some cool people via online dating. The guy who's

900
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,240
Speaker 7: Barbara I stole. We're very good friends.

901
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 5: Now that's huge.

902
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: You share a barber, We share a barber.

903
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 7: He is wonderful, he's a great guy. We didn't work romantically.

904
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,759
Speaker 7: We met on Hinge and I would say he is

905
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 7: one of my favorite people in la Oh.

906
00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:33,400
Speaker 1: I love that.

907
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 7: And it was rare because we really did hit it

908
00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:38,600
Speaker 7: off on text but that was like after going through

909
00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:42,240
Speaker 7: so many people and the texting just being dry.

910
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 2: So if you're going to meet somebody in real life

911
00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 2: in Los Angeles, is it like you both were at

912
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:52,360
Speaker 2: in and out and you both ordered like, Well.

913
00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 1: What I've been doing is I've been asking my friends

914
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: to set me up. I like said to my friends,

915
00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:03,080
Speaker 1: I am open, like I was dating somebody that relationship ended.

916
00:44:03,200 --> 00:44:05,880
Speaker 1: I gave myself some time to kind of recover, and

917
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: then I said to my friends, I'm deleting all my

918
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:08,280
Speaker 1: dating apps.

919
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 7: If you know anyone, let me know. And I had

920
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 7: a few people who said, you know what, I actually

921
00:44:14,120 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 7: do know somebody, So I'm kind of.

922
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 1: Figuring it out. No no love connection yet, but I

923
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 1: do have a date this weekend, so we'll see. I'm

924
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 1: going to be honest, I wouldn't even know how to

925
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,880
Speaker 1: set you up because you are so all over the place,

926
00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 1: And it's like I was kind of all over the

927
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: place too, but you're all over the place in a

928
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: way where I'm just like I don't even know, Like

929
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:37,760
Speaker 1: I don't know either.

930
00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:40,280
Speaker 7: That's the thing that's kind of the exciting part, because

931
00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:43,640
Speaker 7: I just say, like, I don't have a specific type

932
00:44:43,760 --> 00:44:46,359
Speaker 7: and to this person who's looking to get, you know,

933
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 7: more second dates. I think sometimes you have to be

934
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 7: open to exploring with someone who might not necessarily check

935
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 7: all the boxes, so to speak. Yeah, Like I think

936
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 7: sometimes we can be very like they need to like

937
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 7: make this much money, and they need to live in

938
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 7: this burrow, and they need to drive this kind of

939
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 7: car and they need to do It's like, well, then

940
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 7: you might be missing out on somebody who doesn't have

941
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,400
Speaker 7: some of those things. But it's really great in some

942
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,799
Speaker 7: other ways. And so if you're finding yourself dating the

943
00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 7: same kinds of people and it not working out, maybe

944
00:45:17,760 --> 00:45:19,360
Speaker 7: you need to get out of your comfort zone.

945
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 1: Yeah. I always say it's not black and white. The

946
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,720
Speaker 1: real love is the shades of grain between. You'll get messing.

947
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:31,960
Speaker 1: She's all right, our bit bitch a ride on strike.

948
00:45:32,320 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 2: So creative energy has to go somewhere. But wait, you're

949
00:45:36,160 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 2: in LA And we asked this of a guest very

950
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 2: recent and like they say, all these things are like,

951
00:45:41,640 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 2: they can be this, they can be that. But if

952
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 2: you live on one side of town, the east side,

953
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,320
Speaker 2: and they live on the west side, somehow that's not happening.

954
00:45:48,480 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: We got to meet in the middle.

955
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 5: Okay, you're willing to meet in the middle.

956
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 7: I'm willing to meet in the middle. I think that

957
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 7: that's reasonable. I don't know this idea of like you

958
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:59,319
Speaker 7: live too far away, Like you know, you just have

959
00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:01,759
Speaker 7: to be creator to go and google maps and say

960
00:46:01,920 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 7: put in your arrived by time. You know, see how

961
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 7: long you need to That's what I do. Yes, I

962
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:11,319
Speaker 7: go work backwards, I see what time I need to leave,

963
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:13,759
Speaker 7: and then I leave fifteen minutes early. Michelle, you know

964
00:46:13,880 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 7: I'm an early ass bitch. Look, she's an early ass bitch.

965
00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 7: I'm like a premature baby and she gonna be late.

966
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 7: She gonna let you know.

967
00:46:19,200 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 4: I'm gonna show up.

968
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 1: Underweight, hungry, hungry, ambiotic, fluid in the eyes.

969
00:46:27,000 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 4: Can I just I love this for us, but can

970
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 4: I just get back to the question?

971
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 1: Listen, please please, The flirting wasn't caps in the question.

972
00:46:36,160 --> 00:46:39,360
Speaker 1: That feels a little extra to me, whoever wrote this question.

973
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: It feels like you're feeling yourself and I love that

974
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:46,880
Speaker 1: for you, but maybe you just need something casual, like

975
00:46:46,920 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: a one night stand, because it feels like you want

976
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 1: to get it in. I'm really unclear with like, because

977
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 1: chemistry is chemistry and you don't always have to do

978
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:59,400
Speaker 1: this textbook flirting, right, So whether it's you want to

979
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 1: be casual or like have a relationship, like figure out

980
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:07,760
Speaker 1: what that is. But yeah, I mean just asking somebody

981
00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: how their day is and just seeing where a conversation

982
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:15,879
Speaker 1: goes from there can be sexy and romantic even and

983
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:19,799
Speaker 1: not this textbook flirting thing that we all think we're

984
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 1: supposed to do. You can just look at someone and

985
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 1: be like, I want to know what you feel, like,

986
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:27,319
Speaker 1: oh you hungry, let's get you know what I mean?

987
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:28,640
Speaker 1: But that's it.

988
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:31,200
Speaker 7: I'm going to piggyback off of that and say, like

989
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 7: honesty is really sexy, Like yeah, there's something really cute

990
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:37,879
Speaker 7: about and disarming about someone saying like I'm really bad

991
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:39,719
Speaker 7: at flirting, but I'm like into you.

992
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: Is that weird? Is that like too much?

993
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,720
Speaker 7: Because I do that sometimes where I'm like, hey, could

994
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 7: like this girl that I ran into. We've gone out

995
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:49,280
Speaker 7: a few times, we're trying to be friends. We've been texting,

996
00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 7: but I was like, she was like, I'd love to

997
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 7: hang out and I said as friends or more than friends. Sorry,

998
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 7: I'm bad at this eyeball emoji, Like just say you

999
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:00,800
Speaker 7: don't know what you're doing.

1000
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:03,240
Speaker 5: Just yeah, it's kind of cute.

1001
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 7: It's kind of quirky, dear, it's endearing to just admit

1002
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,160
Speaker 7: like I don't know what I'm doing, and like even

1003
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:12,359
Speaker 7: like I never get second dates, but I really want

1004
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 7: a second.

1005
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,120
Speaker 1: Date with you, like jump. That's the true I love it.

1006
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 2: Put it on a card, Make that card yourself, Get

1007
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:21,720
Speaker 2: the pulp out, make your own paper at the Put.

1008
00:48:21,560 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: A girl with an umbrella and raining on the front. Okay,

1009
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 1: last question you guys, ooh baby, she's having so much

1010
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 1: fun and learning a lot too.

1011
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,960
Speaker 4: Yes, stop learning. This is so crazy.

1012
00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:34,719
Speaker 1: How do I tell my neighbors that I can hear

1013
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:37,000
Speaker 1: them getting it on and that they need to close

1014
00:48:37,040 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 1: their windows the window huh ski damn from the window

1015
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: to the whole they're loud. You know.

1016
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,240
Speaker 7: I would say you could send them a little card

1017
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 7: and instead of saying something about sex, you could say

1018
00:48:52,320 --> 00:48:55,560
Speaker 7: something about, wow, damn, y'all really.

1019
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: Playing that Renaissance album a lot? Ha ha ha hear

1020
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 1: it all the time. Then they'll be like, oh, ship,

1021
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:05,640
Speaker 1: that is good. If they're here in the Renaissance album,

1022
00:49:06,040 --> 00:49:08,400
Speaker 1: they probably are hearing everything else.

1023
00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 5: That's that's hilarious.

1024
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 4: That is so good. That's what I would ask.

1025
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 1: The answer that was not what I was gonna say,

1026
00:49:15,719 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 1: But that's the answer. I almost don't want to answer

1027
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 1: because that's the answer. No, I want to hear. I

1028
00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:21,920
Speaker 1: want to hear what you would do. I was going

1029
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,719
Speaker 1: to do some like low budget ghetto home alone ship

1030
00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: where I'm playing like probably like porn or something way

1031
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 1: too loud for them to hear it, so competing moans kinda.

1032
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 2: I was going to say, fight fire with fire, you know,

1033
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 2: get down, get jiggy with your partner.

1034
00:49:40,719 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: And wait, can you tell your wife we're gonna get jiggy, Jordan,

1035
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm so worried.

1036
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 5: I we've said that before.

1037
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 2: Please don't, Friand, Hey, that's when I talk about sex friend,

1038
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 2: and just for that reason, Yeah, Frand, I'm going to

1039
00:49:57,120 --> 00:50:00,800
Speaker 2: tell you that I had a frazy sex thing happened

1040
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:04,240
Speaker 2: with my wife. No, we broke the bed. We broke

1041
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 2: our bed and I was like, oh my, yes we

1042
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:08,800
Speaker 2: did when your.

1043
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 1: Bed already broken? Yeah, the bed was already broken. I

1044
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:14,840
Speaker 1: was like, why did you wait to the last fucking question?

1045
00:50:15,800 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 1: Bring this up? I can't wait for your kids and

1046
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:26,880
Speaker 1: your parents to listen to this episode. Yeah, you know what.

1047
00:50:26,960 --> 00:50:29,960
Speaker 1: So like, if the bed breaks with Jordan's wife, it's like,

1048
00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 1: ooh baby, look at them. But if the bed breaks

1049
00:50:33,160 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 1: with me, they'd be like, Michelle, you got a contribute.

1050
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:43,680
Speaker 2: You need to stop, you need to stop. But it

1051
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 2: was quite an adventure. We thought we almost killed the dog.

1052
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 5: It was like, oh my god.

1053
00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:55,959
Speaker 1: And on that note, No, it's the position, bitch. No,

1054
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 1: you gotta give it up, was it, doggie? Oh no, please?

1055
00:50:59,880 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 2: No?

1056
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:12,360
Speaker 5: No? Two young you know missionaries.

1057
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: Spreading the good news? Wow? Well, now you guys know

1058
00:51:16,040 --> 00:51:18,200
Speaker 1: what happens at the end of the Book of Mormon.

1059
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:26,040
Speaker 1: Oh yes, how many musical references are now in this episode?

1060
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,640
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, you guys, you guys answer and you

1061
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:31,000
Speaker 1: tell us how many jellybeans in the jar?

1062
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1063
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,279
Speaker 1: Okay, So we asked all our guests, and you know

1064
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: this because you've done the motherfucking show. What's the most

1065
00:51:36,920 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 1: adult thing that you want to do for yourself that

1066
00:51:38,360 --> 00:51:40,080
Speaker 1: you haven't had time to do yet?

1067
00:51:40,120 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 4: And it could be anything.

1068
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:44,239
Speaker 1: It could be a size a petite or a Lizzo

1069
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:51,280
Speaker 1: ass Costco sized serving something adult that I want to

1070
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 1: do for my self. Oh I really I really.

1071
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 7: Want one of those custom walking closets with like the

1072
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:07,080
Speaker 7: drawers built in, and like the jewelry tray and the

1073
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:11,120
Speaker 7: glasses case on the wall, and like you know, the

1074
00:52:11,200 --> 00:52:14,800
Speaker 7: lights that light up each little outfit. It is a closet,

1075
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 7: but it's also like a backdrop. I could shoot some

1076
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,360
Speaker 7: Instagram videos in there, you feel me some get ready witness.

1077
00:52:20,920 --> 00:52:21,719
Speaker 4: Oh my goodness.

1078
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 7: I want a closet that feels like another room in

1079
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 7: my home, but also like a dressing room kind of

1080
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:31,520
Speaker 7: like you can have a little chair in there and

1081
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 7: maybe you get your makeup done before an event.

1082
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 4: Air a boot wall. God, I want that. Oh my god,

1083
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 4: that's where it's at.

1084
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: I want that.

1085
00:52:52,920 --> 00:52:56,600
Speaker 7: So I want that for you. You kind of have that, Michelle.

1086
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 7: You turned a room into a closet.

1087
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,839
Speaker 4: I did me too. It's my most favorite thing.

1088
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:03,680
Speaker 1: Everything you were saying, I was like, yes, I wish

1089
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:05,840
Speaker 1: I was a bit more organized, but yes.

1090
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 7: And your shoes are displayed, and you got the little

1091
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:11,360
Speaker 7: handbags and their own little their little stalls like a

1092
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,120
Speaker 7: little horse stall, but for a purse.

1093
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 1: I love fat black unicorns because that's what I feel like.

1094
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 1: And so I have a bunch of little unicorn heads

1095
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 1: that are really chubby, and I love it so much.

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Speaker 1: I do having a little space for you. It's it's

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Speaker 1: mushi shit. I love that.

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Speaker 7: I'm claiming it. I'm manifest. I manifest now. I've been

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00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 7: in LA for three years, so now I manifest things.

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Speaker 1: Do you manage more or after your jiu jitsu and

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00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: your green grass shots? Oh my god, it's a tumoric

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00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: ginger shot.

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Speaker 4: I'm so sorry.

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00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 1: They're right.

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00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:53,800
Speaker 7: We're working on in you know, reducing our cortisol, reducing

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Speaker 7: the inflammation.

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00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: Yes, LA is in me. Okay, this is where I

1108
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 1: was meant to fit it. I go to LA and

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00:54:01,280 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: everyone's like, what in the before picture is happening?

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Speaker 4: We can't wait to fix it?

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00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:08,120
Speaker 1: And I'm like, this is how it looks, okay me

1112
00:54:08,200 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 1: and Betsy Siddaro.

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00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:11,680
Speaker 4: Anyways, everyone, Yeah, no.

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00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:15,320
Speaker 1: Let's claim a boudoir for Francesca in the future.

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00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 4: I love it.

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00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:16,799
Speaker 5: Well, let's see it.

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00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,359
Speaker 4: Fran We love you so much.

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00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: Thank you for coming here and spending your time and

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00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,239
Speaker 1: energy with us, and this was wonderful. I miss you

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Speaker 1: guys so much.

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Speaker 7: Like I said, I talk to you all the time,

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00:54:25,320 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 7: but just being able to see your faces in real

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Speaker 7: time has just been an absolute delight.

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Speaker 4: It's the best. We're not expecting a thank you card.

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00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:35,720
Speaker 5: I want my handmade stamp.

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00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: Yes, I will get to carving immediately.

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00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, ooh.

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Speaker 1: Baby is wild. Yes, she's wild. Yes, the woman is

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00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:57,399
Speaker 1: wild and a good time and thoughtful. She is as

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00:54:57,480 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 1: vibrant as the color she paints on her wall. Understand,

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00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 1: and her dog is named flex. It's all too much.

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Speaker 5: I didn't catch that part her dog names Flex.

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Speaker 4: I love that we didn't talk about it, but I

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00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,480
Speaker 4: just know that. I think her dog has an Instagram

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00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:13,040
Speaker 4: page too.

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00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 5: Don't quote it better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so many life lessons like I love the thoughtfulness, Yes,

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Speaker 1: between spending time with someone because she really edits her

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00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:26,359
Speaker 1: time wisely and hence the thank you note. I think

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Speaker 1: being creative doing hobbies is just really good for your psyche.

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00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,480
Speaker 1: You don't even like we get so caught up and

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00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 1: I gotta go to this and I gotta do that,

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00:55:33,840 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 1: But you can just like sit down and do some

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00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 1: arts and crafts even as an adult, and still find pleasure.

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00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 2: Absolutely, it's like I gotta make this, I gotta do this,

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00:55:41,480 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 2: you know, I gotta get this done.

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00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:43,399
Speaker 5: Check it off the list.

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Speaker 2: I love what you're saying now, yeah, and like yeah,

1149
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:47,680
Speaker 2: to find the time to do that and give yourself

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00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 2: that space in that time.

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Speaker 5: It's fantastic. You know what.

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00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:52,680
Speaker 4: I also realized too, we know some good ass people.

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00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,080
Speaker 1: We've been doing this for a while, yeah, and we

1154
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:57,919
Speaker 1: have a good fucking community of people.

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00:55:57,640 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 4: That we can roll with. Absolutely that's fun.

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00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 1: Absolutely with no food allergies, no offense, fe have food allergies,

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00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,760
Speaker 1: But it's nice to go out and be garbage cans

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00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:14,399
Speaker 1: with people. I'm just saying, you know, if, like most

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00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:16,120
Speaker 1: of my friends are interimant and fasting, I'm like, I

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00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:21,120
Speaker 1: guess I'll talk to you after eight pm? What what?

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00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 5: I guess?

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00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: I can't go to this food bizarre with you because

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00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:25,640
Speaker 1: you'll be in the same air as oysters.

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00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:29,040
Speaker 5: But that can kill people dead, Michelle, Come on now, look.

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00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:34,280
Speaker 4: At my face. Look at my face.

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00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 5: I know I do love that as a superpower.

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00:56:36,560 --> 00:56:38,080
Speaker 2: When you go to a restaurant and they're like, you

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00:56:38,080 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 2: have any analogies and like you better backed up?

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00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 5: Do I look like it? Look at me?

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00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 1: I know? People are like are you vegan? Us said?

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00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:47,800
Speaker 1: This is a double chin bitch, you know what's wine

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00:56:48,040 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 1: and blood up?

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00:56:49,440 --> 00:56:51,879
Speaker 4: Come on, come a fuck one?

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00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,760
Speaker 5: How dare you truly oh my gosh.

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00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:56,399
Speaker 2: And if you want to hear a little bit more

1176
00:56:56,440 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 2: of Fran or a lot more, you should check out

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00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:02,080
Speaker 2: our podcast which just premiered. It's called let Me Fix It,

1178
00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,279
Speaker 2: and she does it with her friend Delan, so it's

1179
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:05,879
Speaker 2: just more friend all the time.

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00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 5: I love it.

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00:57:06,400 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: Yes, Delana is so fucking funny. He's such a treat.

1182
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:10,520
Speaker 1: We should also have him on the show love it.

1183
00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: He is a Broadway actur. Oh cool, and so he

1184
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 1: can sing, he could dance, he can like serve honey,

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00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:20,160
Speaker 1: and I just love that they're coming together because they've

1186
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: been friends for a really, really long time and it's

1187
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,960
Speaker 1: so nice when you just like can do stuff with

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00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 1: your friends that are really talented and that chemistry be

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00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 1: popping like the bottles at my house after four pm. Bitch,

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00:57:30,960 --> 00:57:33,880
Speaker 1: I'm just kidding four thirty because daycare pickup is a

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00:57:33,920 --> 00:57:36,880
Speaker 1: doozy oof. I'm trying not to drink between Monday and Thursday.

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00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:37,600
Speaker 4: It is hard.

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00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 1: I am cranky by five pm. But you know what,

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00:57:41,080 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 1: who does that? Do you have a glass of wine

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00:57:48,160 --> 00:57:48,600
Speaker 1: with dinner.

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00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 5: I like to have a glass of wine.

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00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:52,760
Speaker 2: I like to have a nice rosette, little skin contact,

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00:57:52,800 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 2: perhaps an orange or Lambruska is what we had this weekend.

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Speaker 5: Wasn't mad at it.

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Speaker 4: I like Lambrusko.

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Speaker 1: I do like it with a little ice cube because

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00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 1: I feel like it definitely needs to be chilled. It

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00:58:02,480 --> 00:58:06,080
Speaker 1: never gets chilli enough. Yes, I do like a nice surah,

1204
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:07,760
Speaker 1: but I like to keep it in the fridge. People

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00:58:07,800 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: are just like, why should red wine be cold? I said,

1206
00:58:09,560 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 1: sometimes it tastes better if you get a Spanish red

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00:58:11,840 --> 00:58:13,000
Speaker 1: Put that shit in the fridge.

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00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,680
Speaker 4: It just tastes better.

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00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 2: That's when she goes off. I don't know if you

1210
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 2: know this, but you have streaks within you of information.

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00:58:20,000 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 2: It's like somebody trips a wire and then it's just

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00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 2: like Michelle blacks out like your time travel.

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Speaker 5: One Ted talk later, it's my favorite shit.

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Speaker 4: I wouldn't be able to do a Ted talk.

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Speaker 1: I would just like try to hype people up like

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Speaker 1: Beyonce Coachella.

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Speaker 4: I'd be like, oh, like.

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00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:46,680
Speaker 1: I wouldn't know how to be in front of that

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00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 1: many people and not be that excited.

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00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 5: Yes you could.

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Speaker 2: If it were some subject that like I didn't know

1222
00:58:52,960 --> 00:58:55,880
Speaker 2: you have feelings about and you just went off, it

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00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 2: would be amazing.

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Speaker 5: Any who'ser, any who's her Thank you guys.

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00:59:01,040 --> 00:59:02,600
Speaker 4: So much for listening. You guys are the best.

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00:59:02,680 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: I am sending everyone a verbal thank you note with

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00:59:07,360 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 1: a custom made stamp.

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Speaker 2: Yeah okay, oh me too, and you'll get it on

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00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:14,560
Speaker 2: handmade parchment.

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00:59:15,800 --> 00:59:18,959
Speaker 5: Maade with love. Yeah. That was real. That was so fun.

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Speaker 5: Thank you friend.

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Speaker 1: It's great.

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Speaker 4: Can we end it? I have to go pee, so

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00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 4: let's just say bye goodbye.

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Speaker 5: It's always the hardest part for me.

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Speaker 2: Oh Jesus, this has been an exactly right production.

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Speaker 4: Our senior producer is G.

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Speaker 1: Howley.

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00:59:36,680 --> 00:59:38,520
Speaker 5: Art Associate producer is Christina Chamberlain.

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00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 4: This episode was mixed by John Bradley.

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00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:42,680
Speaker 5: Our guest booker is Patrick Cottner.

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00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,240
Speaker 1: Additional production support from Hannah Kyle Crichton.

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00:59:45,480 --> 00:59:48,280
Speaker 5: Theme song in live show DJing is by DJ Don will.

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00:59:48,560 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 4: Our live show producer is Marian Ways.

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00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 5: Artwork by Jamie Bechtel.

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00:59:52,760 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 4: Photography by Heis vander Most.

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00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 2: Executive produced by Karen Kilgera, Georgia Hartstark and Danielle Kramer.

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00:59:59,360 --> 01:00:01,760
Speaker 1: Follow the show on Instagram at Adulting the Pod.

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01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 2: Email your questions to Adulting Questions at gmail dot com.

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Speaker 5: M