WEBVTT - Why is Max ghosting Danni?

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<v Speaker 1>First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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<v Speaker 1>online at advocateslaw dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Danny is on the phone today for our first day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Max.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we'll call him and see

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<v Speaker 2>if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. But first

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<v Speaker 2>let's find out about the date. Danny, how long has

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<v Speaker 2>it been since you heard from Max?

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<v Speaker 3>It's been about five days.

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<v Speaker 4>Five days, okay, yeah, it doesn't feel too bad. How

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<v Speaker 4>many times have you tried to hit him in that time?

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<v Speaker 5>Though?

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<v Speaker 2>Twice he tried to hit him. You know, that's why

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<v Speaker 2>you're getting Yeah, he's met him up a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 3>Though, yes I have. I mad him up a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of times. I sent him a couple of texts and nothing.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, let's go backwards. Tell us about the date. How

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<v Speaker 4>did that go?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>Well, actually we went mini golfing. I thought it was

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<v Speaker 6>kind of cute. Yeah, you know, something's fun, low pressure.

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<v Speaker 6>Thanks for going great. At first, we were laughing, joking

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<v Speaker 6>around a little.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it was all good.

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<v Speaker 6>Then we started talking about exes, but not super serious

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<v Speaker 6>or anything.

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<v Speaker 3>You just mentioned his ex never.

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<v Speaker 6>Like to do anything fun, like mini golf, so I

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<v Speaker 6>thought it was funny to clown on them a bit

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<v Speaker 6>to make him feel better. I was like, your X

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<v Speaker 6>sounds super lame. I got I'm way more fun.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm probably more attractive. He was definitely leveled.

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<v Speaker 4>Up, definitely showing him confidence.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 2>How did he react to that?

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, he didn't seem to mind at all.

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<v Speaker 6>He laughed and we kept having fun flirting, and I

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<v Speaker 6>mean everything was good. I mean it went so well

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<v Speaker 6>that we ended up, well, we hooked up.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't seem bothered by it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, I mean I think it would be weird

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<v Speaker 2>if he was super bothered by it, Like, hey, don't

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<v Speaker 2>you ever speak ill of Maya?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well, then that sounds like a good thing. How

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<v Speaker 4>did that? How did that end? Did you? Guys? Like,

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<v Speaker 4>did you leave that night or did you stay over?

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, you know, he's a great guy, Like, he's funny, chill,

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<v Speaker 6>easy to talk to.

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<v Speaker 3>I haven't had a date go that smoothie in a while.

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<v Speaker 3>He's just got this laid back vibe. But there's something

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<v Speaker 3>deeper there.

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<v Speaker 6>I just I didn't expect him to go to me

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<v Speaker 6>after everything seemed so good. You know, after I stayed

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<v Speaker 6>the night.

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<v Speaker 2>I okay, I did stay over.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, Yeah, so after we hooked up, we were just

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<v Speaker 6>lying there and I might have kind of joked about

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<v Speaker 6>his ex again, you know, like I bet your ex

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<v Speaker 6>wouldn't have done this at Minigoff.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought it was funny.

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<v Speaker 6>But now I'm trying to think maybe he didn't think

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<v Speaker 6>it was as.

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<v Speaker 3>Hilarious as I did.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, I was trying to make him feel good

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<v Speaker 6>about it, like a confidence boost.

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<v Speaker 3>But now that I haven't heard from him, I'm wondering

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<v Speaker 3>if I crossed the line. I mean, it was just

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<v Speaker 3>a joke.

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<v Speaker 2>How was it when you say goodbye to him in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning?

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<v Speaker 3>It was good.

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<v Speaker 6>We kissed goodbye and so I'll see you soon.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean he acted like we were gonna have another date.

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<v Speaker 4>So he didn't seem awkward at all. When you guys

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<v Speaker 4>said by like you really felt like you were going

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<v Speaker 4>to talk to him again.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, absolutely.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well we'll see if we can figure it out

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<v Speaker 2>for you. Then we'll play a song, come back and

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<v Speaker 2>then call him and see if you'll tell us why

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<v Speaker 2>is ghosting you and maybe get to another date. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll get your first Day follow up.

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<v Speaker 2>If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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<v Speaker 2>Danny is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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<v Speaker 2>a guy named Max. So we're about to call him

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<v Speaker 2>and see if you'll tell us why is ghostinger and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe get her another date if she still wants one.

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<v Speaker 2>But before we do that, Danny, why don't you remind

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<v Speaker 2>us about your date real quick?

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<v Speaker 6>So we went Minnie goffing, which was really fun, and

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<v Speaker 6>we joked around.

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<v Speaker 3>We were very flirty.

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<v Speaker 6>We talked about her exces like, not like anything real serious,

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<v Speaker 6>and you know.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of made a joke that I'm probably more fun.

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<v Speaker 6>Than you're you leveled up, I'm probably more attractive, just kidding.

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<v Speaker 6>And I mean it must have been good, because well,

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<v Speaker 6>we hooked up and I haven't heard from him in

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<v Speaker 6>five days, and I've tried to contact him.

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<v Speaker 3>A couple of times.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean, we kissed goodbye the next morning, he said

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<v Speaker 6>I'll see you soon, and it sounds like we're going

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<v Speaker 6>to get back.

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<v Speaker 3>Together, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you ready for us to call him?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I am all right, here we go. Hello, I'm I

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<v Speaker 2>speak to Max. Please Lucy Max, how are you? This

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<v Speaker 2>is a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi'm Max,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Nina. I am Victoria and my name is Jubell.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing good?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you great? Have you ever heard of the show

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<v Speaker 2>before or listened?

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<v Speaker 3>I've heard of it?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yes, sure, okay, sweet, Well, guess what's what's going on?

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<v Speaker 2>You are the star of the show. We do a

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<v Speaker 2>segment on the show. It's called the first eight follow Up.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where if you go on a date with someone

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<v Speaker 2>and then you end up ghosting them, that person can

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<v Speaker 2>email us to get you on the phone and find

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<v Speaker 2>out why you're getting ghosted. So somebody emailed us about you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why we're calling. Oh okay, do you know who

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<v Speaker 2>would email us? Maybe you have an idea you want

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<v Speaker 2>to throw it a guess. Is it Danny? Yes? It

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<v Speaker 2>is Danny. I congratulations. She emailed us. We talked to

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<v Speaker 2>her a little bit about your date, and she's really curious.

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<v Speaker 2>She wants to know why you're ghosting her. She said

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<v Speaker 2>she thought everything was great.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, look, we definitely had a fun time, like

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<v Speaker 7>for sure, she's super fun girl. I mean I had

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<v Speaker 7>I hopes because, as you know, we were joking around

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<v Speaker 7>and you know, it seemed like a great match. But

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<v Speaker 7>you know, I'm I'm I'm big on chemistry, and you know,

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<v Speaker 7>when we got to the bedroom.

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<v Speaker 3>It just I didn't feel that sparked. You know, It's

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<v Speaker 3>like it wasn't bad, it was didn't click for me,

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<v Speaker 3>you know.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're saying you just didn't enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, uh, the date was a blast, but when it,

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<v Speaker 8>you know, it came down to it, there's there's no

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<v Speaker 8>connection in the bedroom, and chemistry is just really important

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<v Speaker 8>to me.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, so you didn't enjoy it?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait? Wait, wait, wait? Are you saying I'm done? I'm bad?

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<v Speaker 2>Max Danny actually on the phone listening and wants to

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<v Speaker 2>talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you you never had any complaints?

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<v Speaker 6>I actually even told people I was the most adventurous

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<v Speaker 6>he'd ever been with.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you sure it wasn't you that was off? No? No,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not. I'm not saying you're bad.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm just I'm just saying that we you know, didn't

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<v Speaker 8>have a spark like, okay, did well?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you think it was amazing? I mean it was fine,

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<v Speaker 3>but it was the first time. I mean, it's never

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<v Speaker 3>mind blowing the first time you get to know each other.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, well, I mean it wasn't My ex first time

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<v Speaker 8>is great?

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<v Speaker 2>What oh my god?

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<v Speaker 3>But your excellent lame and I'm awesome. And honestly, I

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<v Speaker 3>think we book deserted a redo.

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<v Speaker 6>I can do better and I'm sure you can too,

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<v Speaker 6>are you so.

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<v Speaker 2>Well?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm just saying it's never great the first time. I mean, seriously,

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<v Speaker 6>I was nervous. It was our first time.

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<v Speaker 3>There were a lot of nerves involved. Yeah, no, look

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<v Speaker 3>I get it.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I just you know, it's it's got to

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<v Speaker 7>be undeniable for me, you know, I just I'm not

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<v Speaker 7>saying that the first time.

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<v Speaker 3>I will. You're telling me.

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<v Speaker 6>You're telling me that every time you've had actually the

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<v Speaker 6>first time, it's just been impeccable.

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<v Speaker 3>I doubt that. Well, I think that.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that, you know, the first time, if it's

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<v Speaker 5>like you know what I mean, there's I've definitively had

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<v Speaker 5>it happen where I knew that I was like way

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<v Speaker 5>into this.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you haven't even seen all my moves, like

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<v Speaker 3>the waka what your move?

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<v Speaker 2>The way?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, because it's good and you haven't even seen

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<v Speaker 6>that yet.

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know if I want to see the waka.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh, trust me, you definitely want to see the waka.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm very curious about.

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<v Speaker 5>It.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds dangerous, it's not.

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<v Speaker 3>It's fantastic.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Max, do you want a chance to see the Walker?

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<v Speaker 2>Would you like a second date with Danny? Will pay

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<v Speaker 2>for it. I feel like you got to do it

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<v Speaker 2>for all of us, Max.

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<v Speaker 7>All right, I yeah, I'm down. I'm down for I'm

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<v Speaker 7>down for a second time. Yeah, it's for anything else.

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<v Speaker 7>I have to experience the Walker.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, you'll love it. You'll love it.

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<v Speaker 4>Please let us know how it goes.

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<v Speaker 3>Be sure to take a week off of work after.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh god, Okay, Well, congratulations, Danny got another date and Max,

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<v Speaker 2>good luck God Black

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<v Speaker 4>You will first date follow up