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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Danny is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Max.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call him and see

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Speaker 2: if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her. But first

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Speaker 2: let's find out about the date. Danny, how long has

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Speaker 2: it been since you heard from Max?

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Speaker 3: It's been about five days.

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Speaker 4: Five days, okay, yeah, it doesn't feel too bad. How

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Speaker 4: many times have you tried to hit him in that time?

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Speaker 5: Though?

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Speaker 2: Twice he tried to hit him. You know, that's why

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Speaker 2: you're getting Yeah, he's met him up a couple of times.

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Speaker 3: Though, yes I have. I mad him up a couple

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Speaker 3: of times. I sent him a couple of texts and nothing.

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Speaker 4: Well, let's go backwards. Tell us about the date. How

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Speaker 4: did that go?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 6: Well, actually we went mini golfing. I thought it was

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Speaker 6: kind of cute. Yeah, you know, something's fun, low pressure.

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Speaker 6: Thanks for going great. At first, we were laughing, joking

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Speaker 6: around a little.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it was all good.

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Speaker 6: Then we started talking about exes, but not super serious

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Speaker 3: You just mentioned his ex never.

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Speaker 6: Like to do anything fun, like mini golf, so I

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Speaker 6: thought it was funny to clown on them a bit

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Speaker 6: to make him feel better. I was like, your X

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Speaker 6: sounds super lame. I got I'm way more fun.

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Speaker 3: I'm probably more attractive. He was definitely leveled.

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Speaker 4: Up, definitely showing him confidence.

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Speaker 3: Right.

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Speaker 2: How did he react to that?

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Speaker 3: Honestly, he didn't seem to mind at all.

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Speaker 6: He laughed and we kept having fun flirting, and I

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Speaker 6: mean everything was good. I mean it went so well

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Speaker 6: that we ended up, well, we hooked up.

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Speaker 3: He didn't seem bothered by it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, I mean I think it would be weird

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Speaker 2: if he was super bothered by it, Like, hey, don't

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Speaker 2: you ever speak ill of Maya?

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, then that sounds like a good thing. How

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Speaker 4: did that? How did that end? Did you? Guys? Like,

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Speaker 4: did you leave that night or did you stay over?

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Speaker 6: I mean, you know, he's a great guy, Like, he's funny, chill,

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Speaker 3: I haven't had a date go that smoothie in a while.

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Speaker 3: He's just got this laid back vibe. But there's something

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Speaker 6: I just I didn't expect him to go to me

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Speaker 6: after everything seemed so good. You know, after I stayed

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Speaker 6: the night.

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Speaker 2: I okay, I did stay over.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Yeah, so after we hooked up, we were just

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Speaker 6: lying there and I might have kind of joked about

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Speaker 6: his ex again, you know, like I bet your ex

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Speaker 6: wouldn't have done this at Minigoff.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was funny.

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Speaker 6: But now I'm trying to think maybe he didn't think

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Speaker 6: it was as.

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Speaker 3: Hilarious as I did.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I was trying to make him feel good

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Speaker 3: But now that I haven't heard from him, I'm wondering

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Speaker 3: if I crossed the line. I mean, it was just

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Speaker 2: How was it when you say goodbye to him in

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Speaker 3: It was good.

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Speaker 6: We kissed goodbye and so I'll see you soon.

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Speaker 3: I mean he acted like we were gonna have another date.

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Speaker 4: So he didn't seem awkward at all. When you guys

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Speaker 3: Yes, absolutely.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well we'll see if we can figure it out

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Speaker 2: for you. Then we'll play a song, come back and

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Speaker 2: then call him and see if you'll tell us why

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Speaker 2: is ghosting you and maybe get to another date. Okay, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Next first Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: If you're just joining us for today's first Day follow up.

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Speaker 2: Danny is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by

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Speaker 2: a guy named Max. So we're about to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if you'll tell us why is ghostinger and

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Speaker 2: maybe get her another date if she still wants one.

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Speaker 2: But before we do that, Danny, why don't you remind

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Speaker 2: us about your date real quick?

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Speaker 6: So we went Minnie goffing, which was really fun, and

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Speaker 6: we joked around.

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Speaker 3: We were very flirty.

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Speaker 6: We talked about her exces like, not like anything real serious,

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Speaker 6: and you know.

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Speaker 3: I kind of made a joke that I'm probably more fun.

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Speaker 6: Than you're you leveled up, I'm probably more attractive, just kidding.

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Speaker 6: And I mean it must have been good, because well,

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Speaker 6: we hooked up and I haven't heard from him in

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Speaker 6: five days, and I've tried to contact him.

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Speaker 3: A couple of times.

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Speaker 6: I mean, we kissed goodbye the next morning, he said

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Speaker 6: I'll see you soon, and it sounds like we're going

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Speaker 6: to get back.

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Speaker 3: Together, all right.

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Speaker 2: Were you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I am all right, here we go. Hello, I'm I

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Speaker 2: speak to Max. Please Lucy Max, how are you? This

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Speaker 2: is a radio show. It's called The Jebel Show. Hi'm Max,

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina. I am Victoria and my name is Jubell.

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Speaker 2: How are you.

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Speaker 3: I'm doing good?

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Speaker 2: Are you great? Have you ever heard of the show

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Speaker 2: before or listened?

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Speaker 3: I've heard of it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, sure, okay, sweet, Well, guess what's what's going on?

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Speaker 2: You are the star of the show. We do a

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Speaker 2: segment on the show. It's called the first eight follow Up.

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Speaker 2: That's where if you go on a date with someone

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Speaker 2: and then you end up ghosting them, that person can

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Speaker 2: email us to get you on the phone and find

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Speaker 2: out why you're getting ghosted. So somebody emailed us about you.

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Speaker 2: That's why we're calling. Oh okay, do you know who

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Speaker 2: would email us? Maybe you have an idea you want

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Speaker 2: to throw it a guess. Is it Danny? Yes? It

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Speaker 2: is Danny. I congratulations. She emailed us. We talked to

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Speaker 2: her a little bit about your date, and she's really curious.

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Speaker 2: She wants to know why you're ghosting her. She said

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Speaker 2: she thought everything was great.

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Speaker 7: I mean, look, we definitely had a fun time, like

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Speaker 7: for sure, she's super fun girl. I mean I had

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Speaker 7: I hopes because, as you know, we were joking around

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Speaker 7: and you know, it seemed like a great match. But

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Speaker 7: you know, I'm I'm I'm big on chemistry, and you know,

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Speaker 3: It just I didn't feel that sparked. You know, It's

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Speaker 3: like it wasn't bad, it was didn't click for me,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 4: So you're saying you just didn't enjoy it.

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Speaker 8: I mean, uh, the date was a blast, but when it,

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Speaker 8: you know, it came down to it, there's there's no

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Speaker 8: connection in the bedroom, and chemistry is just really important

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Speaker 8: to me.

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Speaker 2: So you know, so you didn't enjoy it?

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Speaker 3: Wait? Wait, wait, wait? Are you saying I'm done? I'm bad?

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Speaker 2: Max Danny actually on the phone listening and wants to

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Speaker 2: talk to you.

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Speaker 3: Are you you never had any complaints?

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Speaker 6: I actually even told people I was the most adventurous

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Speaker 6: he'd ever been with.

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Speaker 3: Are you sure it wasn't you that was off? No? No,

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Speaker 3: I'm not. I'm not saying you're bad.

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Speaker 8: I'm just I'm just saying that we you know, didn't

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Speaker 3: Did you think it was amazing? I mean it was fine,

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Speaker 3: but it was the first time. I mean, it's never

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Speaker 8: Right, well, I mean it wasn't My ex first time

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Speaker 8: is great?

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Speaker 2: What oh my god?

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Speaker 3: But your excellent lame and I'm awesome. And honestly, I

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Speaker 3: think we book deserted a redo.

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Speaker 6: I can do better and I'm sure you can too,

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Speaker 6: are you so.

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 6: I'm just saying it's never great the first time. I mean, seriously,

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Speaker 6: I was nervous. It was our first time.

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Speaker 3: There were a lot of nerves involved. Yeah, no, look

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Speaker 3: I get it.

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Speaker 7: I mean, I just you know, it's it's got to

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Speaker 7: be undeniable for me, you know, I just I'm not

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Speaker 7: saying that the first time.

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Speaker 3: I will. You're telling me.

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Speaker 6: You're telling me that every time you've had actually the

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Speaker 6: first time, it's just been impeccable.

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Speaker 3: I doubt that. Well, I think that.

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Speaker 5: I think that, you know, the first time, if it's

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Speaker 5: like you know what I mean, there's I've definitively had

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Speaker 5: it happen where I knew that I was like way

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Speaker 3: I mean, you haven't even seen all my moves, like

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Speaker 3: the waka what your move?

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Speaker 2: The way?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, because it's good and you haven't even seen

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Speaker 7: I don't know if I want to see the waka.

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Speaker 6: Oh, trust me, you definitely want to see the waka.

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Speaker 2: I'm very curious about.

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Speaker 5: It.

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Speaker 2: It sounds dangerous, it's not.

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Speaker 3: It's fantastic.

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Speaker 2: Well, Max, do you want a chance to see the Walker?

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Speaker 2: Would you like a second date with Danny? Will pay

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Speaker 2: for it. I feel like you got to do it

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Speaker 2: for all of us, Max.

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Speaker 7: All right, I yeah, I'm down. I'm down for I'm

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Speaker 7: down for a second time. Yeah, it's for anything else.

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Speaker 7: I have to experience the Walker.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you'll love it. You'll love it.

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Speaker 4: Please let us know how it goes.

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Speaker 3: Be sure to take a week off of work after.

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Speaker 2: Oh god, Okay, Well, congratulations, Danny got another date and Max,

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Speaker 2: good luck God Black

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Speaker 4: You will first date follow up