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Speaker 1: My ex of eight years is trying to rejoin my

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Speaker 1: of the craziest stories on Earth. I'm Sophia, and what

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Speaker 1: should OP do? Riley? What do you think?

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Speaker 2: OP?

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Speaker 3: Should eliminate the threat to dominate the problem and get

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Those are your friends?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: What else is the trick?

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Speaker 4: Is?

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Speaker 2: You have to do it legally and she still has

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Speaker 2: to be live.

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Speaker 1: So what are you suggesting?

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Just get rid of her if that's

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Speaker 2: what you are.

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Speaker 1: Interesting advice from Riley anyway, there's only one way to

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Speaker 1: find out. So that day, all right? So throw ra

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Speaker 1: one ninety two says me and a girl who I

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Speaker 1: will just call Jessica. We're a couple of for eight

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Speaker 1: plus years and engage for three plus of them. I

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Speaker 1: We ended up hitting it off pretty quickly, as our

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Speaker 1: dorky nerdy hobbies a line really well nice, the dand hobbies.

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Speaker 1: I personally fully expected to marry this person and spend

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Speaker 1: the rest of my life with her as usual. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's pretty usual. In early twenty s her job offered

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Speaker 1: the company's satellite office in New Zealand. She was an

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Speaker 4: That's sick.

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Speaker 1: That's a sick place to go. It was very sudden,

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Speaker 1: and I was really not happy with the idea, but

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Speaker 1: I flew out to visit her after two months. Only

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Speaker 1: when I arrived at the airport, I got a text

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Speaker 1: message from her. The message was short and more or

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Speaker 3: Dude, I don't even know where he's from, but whatever

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Speaker 3: set of hours that you were on that plane, that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like presumably he had said he was flying, like

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Speaker 1: that's not a thing you do in a whim usually,

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. No amount of money, Oh god. She

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Speaker 1: then completely blocked me on almost every single form of

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Speaker 1: and became an absolute wreck. I remember completely breaking down

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what happens next, but I hope that

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Speaker 1: you got to have like a really nice time in

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Speaker 1: New Zealand. Yes, solo, like a solo trip. You found yourself,

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Speaker 1: You went river rafting, you went on an adventure, some

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Speaker 1: lord of the ring, Lord of the ring style. I

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Speaker 1: friends were shocked, confused, and basically lost. Even her parents

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Speaker 1: I was extremely close with we coached peewee hockey together

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Speaker 1: refused to believe it at first. Yo, that's yeah, I

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Speaker 2: What do you got where you feeling?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay, I think that there we go. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's bouncing. Conspiracy theory. Oh, just imagine that it's there,

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Speaker 1: my head. Anyway, I that she joined New Zealand's version

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Speaker 1: everyone FBI. Yeah, but whatever the FBI is in New Zealand.

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Speaker 2: Do you have to go no contact through FBI?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe she was going under cover.

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Speaker 3: What if it was, I could believe the army, the army,

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Speaker 3: the New Zealand Army, like she was like a secret operative.

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Speaker 1: She's a secret operative her New Zealand, because everyone knows

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Speaker 4: Because it's secret, it's secret.

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Speaker 1: No one knows about it. Anyway, let's read on. I

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Speaker 3: It's it's like her best friends became close friends with me.

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Speaker 3: About a year ago, she invited some of her old

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Speaker 2: Oh what Yeah, that's crazy, that's insane. So there must

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like maybe she like met this other guy in

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Speaker 1: I gotta drop everyone in my old life than I've

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Speaker 1: got to start over in New Zealand. Completely.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's definitely what she did. Yet she did not

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Speaker 1: No, not the way. That was not the right way

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Speaker 1: at all. Anyway, Over a year ago, I started dating

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Speaker 1: gotten close over the last two years, she felt quite

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Speaker 2: Oh nice, that's good.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that there's some happy times. And also I

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Speaker 1: still there was something, something happened, something crazy happened, and

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Speaker 2: And then with this dude for a big year a year.

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Speaker 1: Eleven years, and then just like ghosting.

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Speaker 2: I totally forgot about that.

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Speaker 1: I feel like something's going on. Yeah, something's going on.

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Speaker 1: I don't know much, and I don't want to know. However,

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Speaker 1: some of my friends have started playing D and D.

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Speaker 2: These D and D stories.

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Speaker 1: Oh, there's so many D and D stories, and I

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Speaker 2: I have never heard a D and D story until

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Speaker 1: They're drawn to me because I love D and D.

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Speaker 1: Last week I found out that jess and some of

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Speaker 2: No, not a Facebook message either.

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Speaker 1: No no, no, that's bad. I didn't respond and blocked her.

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Speaker 1: I told my ESSO, and I just felt like I

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Speaker 2: Is she move it back?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's still in New Zealand. How do they No,

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Speaker 3: They live in a small town and there are not

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Speaker 1: It ain't happening. This isn't Scooby Doo Mystery Incorporated where

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Speaker 1: Anyway, there's an update. Thank you all for your wonderful support. Anyways,

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Speaker 1: I have tried my best to follow everyone's advice, I

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Speaker 1: Many of them sided with me, but a bunch of

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Speaker 1: sounds really great. I like this person. I don't really

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Speaker 2: You just choose not to be around her. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: Opie's friends can still go hang out with her if

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Speaker 2: How people do you need? Oh?

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Speaker 2: What's like chaotic numbers.

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Speaker 1: Around Like five or six is like a good number. Okay,

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Speaker 3: Oh speaking of your D and D journal, dude, that

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Speaker 3: they were so cool. She had a whole journal dedicated

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Speaker 1: The picture of just one of the characters in the campaign.

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Speaker 2: It's very detailed. They had a map. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wait to we have a story tame?

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Speaker 2: That was it?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: That was the story time?

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Speaker 2: Oh that was okay, story time?

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Speaker 1: We have, okay, story time. I played D and D

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Speaker 2: I don't know if this is nerdy or not, but

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Speaker 1: Oh, thank you. We've learned from past red stories that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just like from where I back in the South.

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Speaker 1: It's like stranger things. You get bullied.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah I did. Yeah, it's still stuck in that.

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Speaker 1: Time for ambigmatized. Oh that sucks. Yeah, D and D's

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Speaker 1: Maybe the new okop gaming channel is me playing D

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Speaker 2: Can you play by yourself?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 1: I get people? Oh yeah, friends, I have friends.

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Speaker 2: Who's good for you?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you so much. I've got at least

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Speaker 2: You can play D and D then exactly, let's go perfect.

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Speaker 1: I accidentally broke up my friend's relationship, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: even know that they were dating anyone. Am I the

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Speaker 1: a hole? This is okop, home of the craziest stories

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Speaker 1: on Earth. I'm Sophia, And are they the a hole?

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Speaker 1: What do you think? Riley? First impressions?

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Speaker 2: I mean, if you cock blocked them? Yeah? Yeah, have

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Speaker 2: you ever cock blocked someone?

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Speaker 1: Probably? It's like a thing that a lot of people

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Speaker 1: I feel like hundreds hundreds thousand millions whoa? Anyway, there's

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Speaker 1: only one way to find out spell that gee. Okay,

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Speaker 1: oh this is an okayohp submitted story. Thanks guys.

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Speaker 3: what's number Riley four four zero five Oh wait six' five.

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Speaker 2: Six seven and let's get into this.

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Speaker 1: Story this is From Manson's. Chick Manson chick SAYS i

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Speaker 1: had an Ex doug had dated in twenty twelve and

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Speaker 1: then was friends with benefits off and on for several.

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Speaker 1: Years he was diagnosed with desmoid tumors as a child

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Speaker 1: and they had come back in twenty. Thirteen what are desmoid? Tumors?

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Speaker 1: Research riley is on the. Job that's your new, Nickname

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Speaker 1: your Research riley.

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Speaker 2: Research that has way more of a ring than big protes,

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Speaker 2: literation non cancerous growths that occur in the connective. Tissue.

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Speaker 1: Okay whoever said that okop is not informative was. Wrong

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Speaker 1: we're learning new things every. Day he was one of

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Speaker 1: my best, friends so when he told, ME i insisted

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Speaker 1: on taking him to chemo infusion appointments and supporting him

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Speaker 1: every way. POSSIBLE i would talk to him on the

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Speaker 1: phone nearly every day and we would have dinner several

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Speaker 1: times each. WEEK i dated other people in this, time

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Speaker 1: but nothing really. STUCK i knew he was on dating,

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Speaker 1: Seeing in twenty, fifteen after his tumors grew to be

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Speaker 1: over twenty, Pounds oh my, god the doctors decided he

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Speaker 1: needed to undergo. Surgery i'm so sorry about. THAT i

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Speaker 1: took the day off, work drove him to his, appointment

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Speaker 1: Hours his mom was there AND i was there to

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Speaker 1: support her and. Him he got out of surgery and

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Speaker 1: was quickly processed through to an inpatient. Room that sounds

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Speaker 1: like a. Opie you sound like a good. Friend, yeah

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Speaker 2: Person friends with benefits and friends that take them to the.

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Speaker 1: Hospital friends with all the. Benefits, ANYWAY i spent as

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Speaker 1: after work every day and for several hours on the.

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Speaker 1: Weekends in the following. Weeks he would have, visitors mostly his,

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Speaker 1: mom but he did have a handful of. Others for,

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Speaker 1: one he asked me to leave the room for their,

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Speaker 1: visit SO i. Did the next visitor Was. Sarah. Oh

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Speaker 1: doug did not ask me to leave the room for a,

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Speaker 1: visit SO i sat nearby reading while she was. There

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Speaker 1: they talked for about thirty. Minutes she had brought him

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Speaker 1: gifts and they were having a grand all. Time he

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Speaker 1: had not told me anything about, her SO i had

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Speaker 1: no clue she was. Different when she, left they, kissed

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Speaker 1: but it felt, uncomfortable like they were, nervous SO i

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Speaker 1: assumed there was a, crush but nothing serious going on

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Speaker 1: yet they, kissed she brought him. Gifts she brought him,

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Speaker 2: Kissed he hung out for thirty.

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Speaker 1: MINUTES. M, yeah, sorry op that's here Recording, Sam you're

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Speaker 1: ruining it and he keeps coming. In, Wait, reley can

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Speaker 1: you give a? Recap?

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Speaker 3: Oh, Yeah so SO opi accidentally broke up a friend's. Relationship,

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Speaker 3: yeah because they didn't know that the friend was dating.

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Speaker 3: Anyone opie has taken the friend to the hospital.

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Speaker 1: Because they're undergoing like chemotherapy or.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah AND opi he met her friend's.

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Speaker 4: Girlfriend opie is finally figuring out the. Truth, yeah but

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Speaker 4: they said low key a home wrecker accidentally, yep, yo

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Speaker 1: Cour you're doing so. Well but the last thing we

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Speaker 1: doug the friend for thirty, minutes and then she had

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Speaker 1: yet WHICH i, Think, yeah there was a. GISs that's

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Speaker 1: WHAT i. Said there's a. GISs it's pretty. Obvious it's pretty.

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Speaker 1: Obvious after a, Month doug was released from the. Hospital

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Speaker 1: he went home to heel before eventually needing surgery again

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Speaker 1: the next, year twenty, sixteen where he was hospitalized for six.

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Speaker 1: On In august twenty, eighteen he proposed to, Me, oh whoa,

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Speaker 4: Whoa whoa.

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Speaker 2: Wait a, minute, wait what happened to the other.

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Speaker 1: Girl during our? ENGAGEMENT i asked About sarah and their

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Speaker 1: just laughed at me and said they were and made

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Speaker 1: fun of me for never. Realizing that's Like doug's, like,

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Speaker 1: yeah Oh, sarah old.

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Speaker 4: News that. Old, heck, yeah we were, dating but version

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Speaker 4: two point oh came. Along, wait But i'm.

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Speaker 1: Confused he just like they weren't. Dating he just proposed

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Speaker 1: her really, no no To. Op doug just PROPOSED op.

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Speaker 2: BECAUSE i MEAN opi was saying more care Of doug than, well.

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Speaker 1: Because it seems Like op was like what happened To.

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Speaker 4: Sarah it feels like they jumped from like deep friends.

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Speaker 1: To, well they were friends with, Benefits.

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Speaker 4: Oh they, Were so it seems like they jumped from

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Speaker 4: friends with benefits to like, marriage which is not a

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Speaker 4: jump you see often except in rom. Com so this

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Speaker 4: would be a really really cute.

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Speaker 1: Wrong call Forgetting Sarah. Marshall, Yes, marshal except like in the.

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Speaker 1: Hospital in the, HOSPITAL i really hope That doug's, okay,

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Speaker 1: wait it's like the Big.

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Speaker 4: SICK i haven't seen, that BUT i Saw.

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Speaker 1: Liar i'm GLAD i didn't, realize because IF i, had

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Speaker 1: we never would have had such a strong bond AND

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Speaker 1: i probably never would have married my best. Friend Oh, rob,

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Speaker 1: guys he. Died, oh this is so sad In october twenty,

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Speaker 1: nineteen just twenty seven days after a hospital. Wedding i'm

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Speaker 1: still proud to be his. Wife i'm could have. Cried

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Speaker 1: that's so. Sad i'm so, Sorry. Opy oh my, gosh

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Speaker 1: this has got really.

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Speaker 4: SAD i came in on all that goes. THERE i

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Speaker 4: wasn't ready to start tearing. UP i.

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Speaker 1: Didn't, YEAH i REALLY i have. Tears. Wow, Wow i'm so, Sorry.

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Speaker 1: OPIE i don't have anything, OBVIOUSLY i don't have anything

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Speaker 1: funny to say about this because he's really. Sad i'm

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Speaker 1: really sorry for what you had to go. Through you

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Speaker 1: seem like a really great. Person you were there For

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Speaker 1: doug every step of the. Way And i'm glad that

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Speaker 1: even though it was really, Obvious i'm glad you didn't

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Speaker 1: realize because it seems like you had something really.

442
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Speaker 2: Special But, doug that's What that's a. Rap that's a.

443
00:18:01,520 --> 00:18:03,479
Speaker 1: RAP i have nothing else to say about. This i'm so.

444
00:18:03,520 --> 00:18:08,280
Speaker 4: Sorry if you love, us make sure the subscribe.

445
00:18:07,640 --> 00:18:12,080
Speaker 1: We love you and see. Omar that was really.

446
00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:16,119
Speaker 4: Sad this is an episode From Deep within the archives

447
00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:22,639
Speaker 4: time for okop. Reward tinder date ghosted, me befriended my,

448
00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:26,679
Speaker 4: sister and is now my sister's. Bridesmaid So i'm refusing

449
00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:27,280
Speaker 4: to go to the.

450
00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:30,200
Speaker 5: WEDDING i mean that cuts extra, Deep like not only

451
00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:32,760
Speaker 5: did you did you ghost? Me but then you go

452
00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:35,560
Speaker 5: and become my own sister's best friend just to like

453
00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:37,080
Speaker 5: rub salt in my.

454
00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:40,600
Speaker 4: Wounds it's, like, hey this is the vision you, had

455
00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,240
Speaker 4: like Like virgin one point, oh not good, Enough virgin

456
00:18:43,280 --> 00:18:45,760
Speaker 4: three Point, oh your. Sister that's the kind of FRIENDSHIP

457
00:18:45,800 --> 00:18:46,240
Speaker 4: i wanted my.

458
00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:48,760
Speaker 5: Life we should have a series of like like supreme,

459
00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:50,320
Speaker 5: Toxicity like who's the most?

460
00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:54,000
Speaker 4: Toxic, yeah this is pretty. Toxic it's pretty. Toxic this

461
00:18:54,080 --> 00:18:57,000
Speaker 4: is this is up there in The Toxic. Olympics this

462
00:18:57,119 --> 00:19:04,760
Speaker 4: is toxic at the. Blood you're taking your takes enhancing, drugs. Steroids,

463
00:19:04,840 --> 00:19:08,760
Speaker 4: yeah you're taking. Crack yeah IT'S, pcp. DUDE pcp is

464
00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:11,960
Speaker 4: a performance enhancing. Drug really, wait isn't that like is

465
00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:15,080
Speaker 4: that's not? Psilocybin is? It? No, NO pcp is like

466
00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:19,639
Speaker 4: LIKE pcp turns people into, superheroes like they can like

467
00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,480
Speaker 4: rip the car doors off Of oh My, god like

468
00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,680
Speaker 4: like bath salts kind of kind of, YEAH pcp is, like,

469
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:30,879
Speaker 4: uh but you go, crazy you go, crazy you eat someone's.

470
00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:32,920
Speaker 4: Face but, LIKE i only have one thing to. Say

471
00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:34,400
Speaker 4: where CAN i get SOME.

472
00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:36,960
Speaker 2: I mean the?

473
00:19:37,119 --> 00:19:41,240
Speaker 4: Plug all? Right so this is the SITUATION, i twenty seven,

474
00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:46,440
Speaker 4: male find myself. IN i do think the backstory is important, Here,

475
00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:49,080
Speaker 4: YEAH i. WOULD i would, say so let's let's let's

476
00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:52,359
Speaker 4: get some. Context what Hap so my sister is getting

477
00:19:52,359 --> 00:19:55,520
Speaker 4: married In. November congrats to your. Sister we are really

478
00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,960
Speaker 4: close and always have. Been SO i find this whole

479
00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,640
Speaker 4: situation even. Weirder i've been asked to be a groomsman

480
00:20:01,880 --> 00:20:06,000
Speaker 4: on her fiance. Side. COOL i feel like like including

481
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:08,720
Speaker 4: like the like the brothers and the sisters and the

482
00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:11,040
Speaker 4: siblings in the wedding party is like kind of like a.

483
00:20:11,160 --> 00:20:13,320
Speaker 5: Must, yeah you, know like what are you gonna? Do, like,

484
00:20:13,680 --> 00:20:16,960
Speaker 5: hey PERSON i grew up, with get the fuck out.

485
00:20:16,880 --> 00:20:18,800
Speaker 4: Of, it out of my, Wedding get out of. Here

486
00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,760
Speaker 4: has like a like a dad ever been part of

487
00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:26,919
Speaker 4: the bachelor? Party like could you invite your dad the? Groomsman?

488
00:20:27,040 --> 00:20:28,879
Speaker 5: Oh, YEAH i guess the groomsmen. Do that is the,

489
00:20:28,920 --> 00:20:32,040
Speaker 5: Thing like the grooms and go to the bachelor. PARTY i,

490
00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 5: mean that would be one interesting bachelor. Party that would

491
00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 5: be an interesting. One that's all i'm gonna. Say me

492
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:38,760
Speaker 5: and him are, cool and it was important to my

493
00:20:38,800 --> 00:20:41,399
Speaker 5: sister That i've. Included SO i was really looking forward

494
00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:44,760
Speaker 5: to it UNTIL i saw WHO i was paired.

495
00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:49,920
Speaker 4: With from the bridesmaid's. Side, no even, now we're going further.

496
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,800
Speaker 4: Back we're jumping the time, Machine, John we're going back

497
00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:56,879
Speaker 4: two years. Ago so two years, AGO i met this

498
00:20:56,920 --> 00:21:01,680
Speaker 4: girl Named tara Or tara do what a what a terrible?

499
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 4: Person this is all, right twenty six female on a dating.

500
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:09,719
Speaker 4: App we started talking. Daily it's getting hot and. Spicy

501
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:14,400
Speaker 4: she sounds. Intaable, hey you get them facetimed a, lot

502
00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,640
Speaker 4: went on. Dates we talked for over three. Months three.

503
00:21:17,680 --> 00:21:20,359
Speaker 4: Months that's a good amount of. Time, yeah that's this

504
00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:23,639
Speaker 4: hold amount of. Time AND i felt like it was

505
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 4: actually going. Somewhere. Well after one of our, dates she

506
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 4: completely ghosted. Me, Good i'll deserve, IT i said to

507
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 4: follow up, text but got nothing. BACK i won't. WHY

508
00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,520
Speaker 4: i was really upset by just one follow up. TEXT

509
00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:44,280
Speaker 4: i think three, months like you could do like a, call, yeah.

510
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:47,720
Speaker 5: Yeah get a couple of voicemail maybe an. Email, yeah

511
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 5: maybe like.

512
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 4: Walk up to their house On MySpace, message go to

513
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,840
Speaker 4: their friends and families and say have you seen this?

514
00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:57,479
Speaker 4: Woman lock them in their? Car, yeah and take them

515
00:21:57,520 --> 00:21:59,800
Speaker 4: to a dessert in location them in front of them

516
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 4: and say simple things you could. Do, yeah this, normal normal. Thinging,

517
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 4: hey we're about non toxic. Relationship of, course do not

518
00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 4: thinking your girl dad To. Nevada we're The kings of non.

519
00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:19,880
Speaker 5: Toxicity that is not we stand in non Toxic. Kings we.

520
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:23,399
Speaker 4: Stand that's a podcast, name that is he calls our

521
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,640
Speaker 4: non Toxic kings in the comments right. NOW i won't.

522
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:28,600
Speaker 4: LIE i was really. UPSET i even talked to my

523
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 4: sister about. It, WELL covid hit AND i moved away

524
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 4: for a, job come back AND i find my sister

525
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:42,240
Speaker 4: And tara are now. Friends. Yo after he like talked

526
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 4: about it and, alright like LIKE I i would like

527
00:22:47,240 --> 00:22:50,520
Speaker 4: IF i was the, SISTER i would tell my brother.

528
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 4: Immediately it's like, yo this girl just like LIKE i

529
00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 4: mess it Like i'm LIKE i met her and it's

530
00:22:56,640 --> 00:23:01,679
Speaker 4: and it's the girl From. Tinder yeah you. Instant and

531
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:03,919
Speaker 4: he was like really broken up about. It why are

532
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 4: you keeping this like a? Secret not good apparently my

533
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 4: sister got a new. Job tara recognized the last, name

534
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,560
Speaker 4: reached out to, her and they became and they became.

535
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 4: Friends but it's like also not just regular, friends such good.

536
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 4: Friends in fact that she is now a bridesmaid and

537
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:21,919
Speaker 4: hangs out at my parents'.

538
00:23:22,000 --> 00:23:23,800
Speaker 5: House just for a, SECOND i thought we were going

539
00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:27,160
Speaker 5: a whole different. Direction they're more than just. Friends she's

540
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:33,919
Speaker 5: calling off the. Word that would be a story right.

541
00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:37,879
Speaker 4: THERE i found out they were friends literally three weeks.

542
00:23:37,920 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 4: Ago she never mentioned it to, me which is sus,

543
00:23:41,119 --> 00:23:52,120
Speaker 4: dude so sus blood over you, know, crud that's what

544
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:53,800
Speaker 4: is on the bottom of my.

545
00:23:54,000 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 5: Shoe damn brot, off where's a dirty? DOORMAT i can

546
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 5: just rub you.

547
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:06,359
Speaker 4: Into my see that sounds like like dirty talk, dirty,

548
00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 4: yeah and just you KNOW i hate you dirty at

549
00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 4: the same time serving to depending on the, mat you know.

550
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:17,480
Speaker 4: YE i asked her if she knew it was The

551
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,680
Speaker 4: TARA i got ghosted, by and she Said tara had

552
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:25,960
Speaker 4: told her but wanted to keep their conversations. Private, yo,

553
00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 4: bro what why did she ghost? Them that's also WHAT

554
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:35,120
Speaker 4: i want to. Know she's she's continuing her her toxic queen.

555
00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 4: BEHAVIOR i, mean, yeah, dude too many toxic queens On?

556
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:42,600
Speaker 4: Tinder do we? STAND i don't stand toxic. Queens you,

557
00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,560
Speaker 4: know there WAS i had a toxic queen in my.

558
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:49,480
Speaker 4: Life uh, oh and she, dude where's text?

559
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:49,560
Speaker 1: Her?

560
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 4: Ever where's? Text?

561
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 1: He?

562
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:55,040
Speaker 4: Ever went? On two dates went super. Well one of

563
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 4: them was IN la the other one was In North.

564
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:01,959
Speaker 4: Carolina and then bad radio silence. Too but, Anyway i'm

565
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 4: not mad about. IT i don't even. CARE i don't even.

566
00:25:04,119 --> 00:25:10,320
Speaker 4: GIVE i don't even. Care we Stan oh, God i'm forgetting.

567
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:13,280
Speaker 5: It we stand a self confident, king you, know a secure? King,

568
00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 5: yeah a secure. King, okay it's, fine it's. Fine i'm

569
00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:27,200
Speaker 5: only like a little bit. Hurt then a random text

570
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 5: From tara asking WHAT i wanted to do for entrance.

571
00:25:30,640 --> 00:25:32,840
Speaker 4: Dance you know WHAT i want to do for that entrance?

572
00:25:32,920 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 4: Dance dance on the mat That i'm rubbing this shoe

573
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,920
Speaker 4: on that you are on the bottom up because you're

574
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 4: a piece.

575
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 5: Of, Crud, tara how DO i enter? You then you

576
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 5: stop talking to, me and now we want to enter

577
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:47,119
Speaker 5: into a.

578
00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 4: Dance, yeah, no, no, no we're. Way patty can close

579
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 4: your doors on. Me you can't enter anywhere. ANYMORE i

580
00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,960
Speaker 4: immediately called my, sister who informed me That tara AND

581
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 4: i would be paired, up including the entrance. DANCE i asked.

582
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 4: WHY i know many of her bridesmaids and her had

583
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,679
Speaker 4: to pair with and she had to pair me with

584
00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:11,760
Speaker 4: the one who ghosted. Me, truly maybe maybe siss is

585
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 4: trying to put him back.

586
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:17,159
Speaker 5: Together if that's the, case this is a terrible, APPROACH i.

587
00:26:17,200 --> 00:26:19,719
Speaker 5: Know or just like say that's what you're, doing make

588
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 5: it be, known to be like you have to do

589
00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:23,639
Speaker 5: it with?

590
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:31,639
Speaker 4: Her, yeah she said she had her reasons And, tara

591
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 4: And tara also asked for me, Specifically, yo how do

592
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:41,880
Speaker 4: you ghost my man and then ask for him? Specifically

593
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,439
Speaker 4: this is so. Weird this is so, Weird like to

594
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 4: ghost a guy and then go and like she's the

595
00:26:49,680 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 4: one that sought out the sister because of the last.

596
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:54,840
Speaker 4: Name what if this is a part.

597
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:57,919
Speaker 5: Of a whole elaborate mind game that she's playing with this,

598
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 5: Guy like she ghosts him for like years befriends of

599
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 5: the sister just to come back and be, like now

600
00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 5: you will marry me and be grateful. Forever maybe maybe

601
00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:10,199
Speaker 5: that would be like the greatest mind game of all.

602
00:27:10,280 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 4: TIME i don't stay. Toxic, yeah fuck, DUDE i don't like.

603
00:27:13,960 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 4: That you think it like this job to a happy.

604
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 4: Relationship that's? Right or so he? Said or is? It

605
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 4: or AM i a toxic? King you? Decide do we?

606
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 4: Stand have you seen that guy where it's, like stay? Toxic?

607
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:35,879
Speaker 4: Y great? Content great. CONTENT i never responded To tara

608
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:39,080
Speaker 4: and instead went to talk to my sister in. Person good,

609
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 4: idea AND i got the same, answers and this time

610
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 4: she sounded offended THAT i asked for a different. Person why?

611
00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 4: Offended it's. Weird it's weird to, ask it's weird to

612
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:54,120
Speaker 4: ask for. This it's completely reasonable to not want to be. Paired, Yeah.

613
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:58,080
Speaker 4: TARA i told her how uncomfortable it made, me and

614
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 4: she told me to stop overthinking and just have. FUN

615
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 4: i said she didn't understand how HURT i, was and

616
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 4: said she had. It she said she had an, idea

617
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 4: but to just do it as her wedding. GIFT i

618
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:15,359
Speaker 4: feel like the sister has something like like behind her

619
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 4: set this is this is making literally no logical sense.

620
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 4: Whatsoever she said she wasn't going to SO i, Said

621
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 4: i'd be dropping. Out my parents are calling me an a,

622
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 4: hole BUT i don't THINK i. Am it's a weird,

623
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 4: request And i'm not about. It AM i the a.

624
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:35,000
Speaker 5: Hole look HERE'S i. THINK i think it's a bit

625
00:28:35,240 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 5: of an exaggeration to. DROP i, mean he only knew

626
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:40,520
Speaker 5: her for three. MONTHS i think it's an, exaggeration but he.

627
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 5: Should he should be, like, Look i'm going to go

628
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 5: to the.

629
00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 4: Wedding you're my.

630
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 5: Sister, Like i'm going to be in there and support,

631
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:48,240
Speaker 5: you even if you don't like it in the, moment

632
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,600
Speaker 5: because like you'll probably regret it when we're. Older But

633
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 5: i'm not Gonna i'm just going to be chilling. There

634
00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:59,920
Speaker 5: i'm just gonna be there at the. Wedding, actually maybe

635
00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 5: that's too much of a no.

636
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:04,520
Speaker 4: REACTION i, MEAN i, LIKE i think it's weird that

637
00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:08,040
Speaker 4: the sister is making him do, This but If i'm

638
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 4: thinking about my sister's, wedding it's it's still freaking. Weird

639
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 4: but like three, months it's not a long. Time it's

640
00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 4: really not a long. Time your sister's weddings like forever, Potentially,

641
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 4: yeah and like to withdraw over this three.

642
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 5: Monthship you're absolutely, right that's actually.

643
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 4: It's it's a little it's a it's too much of a. Reaction,

644
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 4: yeah you voiced your, concern and like that's kind of

645
00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:34,200
Speaker 4: all you can.

646
00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,200
Speaker 5: Do, yeah WOULD i would be, like could you just

647
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 5: please just tell me? Why LIKE i still do it

648
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 5: regardless if she told her me or.

649
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 4: Not but, Ude i'm, like like she must have something

650
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 4: in her unders something.

651
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,239
Speaker 5: HERE i, mean it makes no. SENSE i MEAN i

652
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Speaker 5: think they're trying to set the back. UP i think

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Speaker 5: that's very a very reasonable, guess.

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Speaker 4: And like it seems like both of them might want

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Speaker 4: to it's terrible request pecifically request why would she's just

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Speaker 4: so weird to ghost? Him maybe, okay you know, What, okay,

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Speaker 4: uh maybe she's like she feels embarrassed that she did ghost,

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Speaker 4: him and she's just embarrassed she was too embarrassed to

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Speaker 4: reach back, out and now she's, like, okay maybe this

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Speaker 4: is like the way back.

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Speaker 5: In that is, like you, know but you ghosted, him

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Speaker 5: so you kind of have to live with. That, yeah

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Speaker 5: it is what it.

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Speaker 4: Is they're, weird dudek just just you, know just say

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Speaker 4: like it's it's really easy to send a text saying like,

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Speaker 4: not interested at this. Point so, bye very, simple very

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Speaker 4: that's all you have to, do all you have to.

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Speaker 4: course of. Course, yeah this is not this is not

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Speaker 4: as chronicles Of sam's love. Life, yeah which could be

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Speaker 4: a whole a whole show. Entirely that that girl THAT

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Speaker 4: i took To North, CAROLINA i texted, her you showed

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Speaker 4: you the text you, did and she replied with the

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Speaker 4: whole ha ha she, well, no she she gave a full.

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Speaker 4: Response she gave me a full full response before very

679
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Speaker 4: very boring response, though and THEN i said something funny

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Speaker 4: and then she just ha had, it which is. Brutal

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Speaker 4: hey she she thought it was, funny.

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Speaker 5: Bro fucking, brutal getting ha. Ha, yeah it's it's it's

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Speaker 5: a it's a it's a. Pattern, yeah it's a. Pattern

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Speaker 5: tough she community, yeah, yeah no she.

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Speaker 4: Could she's. Done she's. Done i'm. Done i'm. Done clean slips.

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Speaker 4: Over ladies and.

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Speaker 5: Gentlemen tune into the next episode to see the next.

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Speaker 5: Adventure the next episode Of Sam's Love.

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Speaker 4: CHRONICLES i will see you on the flippity Flop, ye