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Speaker 1: All right, it's time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And

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Speaker 2: You never know, you never know. Buckle up and hold

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Speaker 2: on tight. We got it for you. Here it is

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Speaker 2: Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject. I'm the captain of this ship.

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Speaker 1: I am the captain now, Okay, Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm

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Speaker 1: married and my husband and I have two children. He's

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Speaker 1: in law enforcement, but he's not a police officer. I

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Speaker 1: work as a teacher and I have my school kids

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Speaker 1: and three children at my house. My husband is a

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Speaker 1: dependent in more ways than one. It has been this

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Speaker 1: way for the past three years after he had an

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Speaker 1: on the job injury. He no longer washes his own

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Speaker 1: clothes and he can't mow the lawn anymore. Those were

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Speaker 1: the only two things he did before, and now he

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Speaker 1: can't even do that.

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Speaker 3: Nothing is physically wrong with him.

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Speaker 1: But he says the anxiety from his injury has him

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Speaker 1: leary of doing too much. So what's the So here's

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Speaker 1: what happened to him. He works at the jail in

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Speaker 1: the evidence room, and he was on a ladder maybe

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Speaker 1: six feet in the air, and he slipped. He didn't

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Speaker 1: hit the floor, but he dislocated his left shoulder trying

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Speaker 1: to hold on a small box fell and hit him

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Speaker 1: in his eye, so he wore an eyepatch for a week.

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Speaker 1: His shoulder was operated on, and he was off work

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Speaker 1: for a full month. When it was time to return

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Speaker 1: to work, he decided he couldn't drive anymore. So now

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Speaker 1: I take him to work and pick him up, even

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Speaker 1: with sex I initiated, and I have to do all

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Speaker 1: the work while he takes special care not to injure

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Speaker 1: his shoulder, even though he injured it three years ago.

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Speaker 1: His coworkers are sick of him too, so something's got

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Speaker 1: to give. When I stopped washing his clothes for him,

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Speaker 1: he asked our twelve year old daughter to do it,

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Speaker 1: and I told him that's inappropriate. We got into an

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Speaker 1: argument and I let him know that I make all

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Speaker 1: the decisions going forward, and he's going to be treated

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Speaker 1: like one of the children, he said, since I'm the

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Speaker 1: captain of the ship now he wants to take early retirement.

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Speaker 1: Do you think I need to be more patient with him?

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Speaker 1: Or is he playing me for a whole fool m Okay,

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Speaker 1: this could all be cleared up. This could all be

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Speaker 1: cleared up with a quick trip to the doctor. Okay,

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Speaker 1: but your husband won't go.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure. I mean, he already.

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Speaker 1: Knows that if he went to the doctor, you would

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Speaker 1: find out what you already know too, that there's nothing

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Speaker 1: wrong with him.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he's been playing you for at least two of

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Speaker 1: the three years that since he had the operation. You're

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Speaker 1: not even a doctor, and you know there's nothing wrong

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Speaker 1: with him. He's just milking the situation to get you

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Speaker 1: to do stuff for him.

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Speaker 3: He's been lazy.

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Speaker 1: He's just being like he's lazy with sex, with his laundry,

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Speaker 1: with everything. So my advice to you, wifey, is to

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Speaker 1: stop doing the things you do. You have been more

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Speaker 1: patient than anyone else, I'm sure with him. Even if

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Speaker 1: him to work and picking him up. I'm sure he

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Speaker 1: can do that himself. All he has to do is

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Speaker 3: He's fine.

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Speaker 1: Good to go, and tell your twelve year old daughter

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Speaker 1: to stop, because you're right, she shouldn't do that.

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Speaker 3: She's getting an allowance for it, is she.

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Speaker 1: You didn't mention that, so she's probably doing that for free.

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Speaker 1: He's just lazy and trifling at this point, and you

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Speaker 1: don't have to treat him like a child. But you know,

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Speaker 1: like I said, this could all be cleared up if

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Speaker 1: you guys would just take a trip to the doctor

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Speaker 1: and you'll find that he's okay, and yeah, he is

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Speaker 1: playing you. Steve.

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Speaker 4: Wow, this letter wasn't what I thought it was gonna

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Speaker 4: be about at all. I thought it was this man

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Speaker 4: the sh I just thought that's what it was gonna

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Speaker 4: be about. This is a really disappointing letter, man. This

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Speaker 4: is really really disappointing because I don't you know I'm

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Speaker 4: reading or read this letter. I just don't like men

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Speaker 4: like this. I just don't.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 4: I know it's a one sided story and she's writing

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Speaker 4: the letter, but she's writing the letter out of frustration.

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Speaker 5: This dude right here, y'all married, I wish.

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Speaker 4: I knew how old he was could really help me analyze.

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Speaker 5: It's even better. But you got two kids.

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Speaker 4: He's in law enforcement, but he's not a police officer

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Speaker 4: the right away, I'm thinking traffic cop, or he write tickets,

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Speaker 4: but that ain't the case. She's a school teacher and

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Speaker 4: you got your school kids and three different children at

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Speaker 4: your house and don't know what that means anyway. My

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Speaker 4: husband is a dependent in more ways in one uh,

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Speaker 4: and he's been this way for three years after he

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Speaker 5: What did he do? Oh?

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Speaker 4: We find out those are the only two things he

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Speaker 4: did before, and now he can't even do that. Nothing

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Speaker 4: is physically wrong with him, but he says the anxiety

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Speaker 4: from his injury caught makes him leary of doing too much.

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Speaker 5: Too much.

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Speaker 4: You don't do nothing to wash clothes and molded lawn,

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Speaker 4: And based on y'all's two jobs, that lawn ain't that big.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying so. Now now she describes what happened

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Speaker 4: to him. He worked out the jail in evidence room,

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Speaker 4: he up on the ladder one trying here, no mention

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Speaker 4: to weight. How you think you pull your should out

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Speaker 4: when you grab and don't fall left? I'm telling you

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Speaker 4: that's what happens. She say, how holy is either?

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Speaker 5: And if you ain't working, your ass gonna get fut.

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Speaker 3: Hold on, hold on, okay, Ky.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Subject of today's Strawberry letter,

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Speaker 1: I'm the captain of this ship. We'll get back into

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Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: six hundred plus miles of range.

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Speaker 5: What if it's all of that and more? What is

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Speaker 5: it then?

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Speaker 2: more details.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 3: This subject, I'm the captain of this ship.

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 4: This woman been married to her in the everdence room,

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Speaker 4: up on the letder, probably looking at some evidence.

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Speaker 5: He ain't had no business. He was doing doom do

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Speaker 5: do do Do Do do Doom Doom, doo doom.

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Speaker 4: And he moved up on that ledder and she say

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Speaker 4: he injured his shoulder. But Dick, when he grabbed on

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Speaker 4: that was it all the weight told his shoulder dislocated,

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Speaker 4: It ripped the ligaments. All this here fast should have

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Speaker 4: just went on down, but no, he tried to stay up.

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Speaker 4: He ain't hit the floor, but he dislocated his shoulder

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Speaker 4: trying to hold on.

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Speaker 5: Then a small box fell and hit him in the eye.

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Speaker 4: Now in the evidence room, that small box is probably

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Speaker 4: a jewelry box. It could be a room with a

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Speaker 4: quarter sack of weed in it. It could be a

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Speaker 5: For a week. Now, that really makes you look like

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Speaker 5: you hurt.

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Speaker 4: You got your arm and a sling and you gotta

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Speaker 4: how you can play this. His shoulder was operated on

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Speaker 4: and he was off.

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Speaker 5: For a full month.

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Speaker 4: Now now he can't drive black people on Black dudes

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Speaker 4: only drive with one hand any damn waiting. We already

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Speaker 4: know that. Now if his right arm was hurt, that's

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Speaker 4: even better. That's the one we lean on the arm

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Speaker 4: rest on anyway. And if his left arm is hurt,

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Speaker 4: then that's cool. Then we just do the lean the

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Speaker 4: other way, lean up against the door. Both of them

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Speaker 4: is pimp poses. You just got to rock the one

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Speaker 4: you like. So I take him to work and pick

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Speaker 4: him up, even with sex I initiated and have to

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Speaker 4: do all the work where he takes special care not

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Speaker 4: to injure his shoulder. This hot no is the fat.

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Speaker 4: See when you're having sex and you don't want to

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Speaker 4: injure your shoulder.

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Speaker 5: The only thing he can do it in they.

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Speaker 4: On his sorrey back, which is fat gonna do anyway

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Speaker 4: because he don't want to be up on his knees

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Speaker 4: where he got to put that work in, pull his

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Speaker 5: Here my shoulder. He can't hurt my shoulder. Do nobody

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Speaker 5: give it but they shoulder? When you have his.

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Speaker 4: Sex, you know how many whole cramps out they got,

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Speaker 4: how many ham strings out and pulled you how many

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Speaker 4: peck muscles out and toe. You know how many head

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Speaker 4: lacerations out of head in my head going from slamming

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Speaker 4: into it too hard? You how many times man, I

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Speaker 4: gripped that muscle off? You have any idea?

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Speaker 1: Man?

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Speaker 4: How many times out of toe the tenders in the

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Speaker 4: bottom of my feet trying to get my toes and

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Speaker 4: get more more grip on that sheet? You know how

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Speaker 4: many injuries out and had doing sex? And don't give it?

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Speaker 5: But I'll see you tomorrow, and don't stop. Just stop.

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Speaker 4: Child horses, bustle, pulls, cramps right on, do it? Everything

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Speaker 4: out of my arms just slipped off the corner of

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Speaker 4: one time, kept going, kept swallowing the blood so.

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Speaker 5: It wouldn't get on her, and kept moving.

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Speaker 4: Has got to be done, hissed the punk got a

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Speaker 4: little hurt. Shows man missed me with this here pissed

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Speaker 4: Now he now now his coworkers as sick of him too,

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Speaker 4: So something got to give. When I stopped washing his

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Speaker 4: to do it. He can't wash clothes. And then I

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Speaker 4: told him that was inappropriate. We got in an argument

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Speaker 4: one of the children. He said, since I'm the captain

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Speaker 4: Do you think I need to be more patient in him?

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Speaker 4: Or is he playing me for a whole fool a

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Speaker 1: That's fools.

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Speaker 4: They tied in his eyes, your twelve year old tied

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Speaker 4: of washing his underwear and all this hell. How you

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Speaker 4: because of your shoulder. Ain't worth for three years after

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Speaker 4: the operation? Did they operate on the right shoulder? They

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Speaker 4: do that all the time? Did they operate on the

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Speaker 4: right shoulder? I say, yes, they operated on the right shoulder.

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Speaker 4: And I say, your man is full of it. He

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Speaker 4: is just full of it.

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Speaker 5: He is lazy.

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Speaker 4: He has found a way to make an excuse for

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Speaker 5: And once you decide to be.

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Speaker 4: A lazy person, let me help you understand something y'all

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Speaker 4: carries over into every aspect of your life. So now

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Speaker 4: you lazy at the job, you lazy at home. You

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Speaker 4: don't want to do nothing to work, You're gonna do

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Speaker 4: no home. You lazy in the bedroom. You're just a

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Speaker 4: lazy person. So you can relegate your life to living

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Speaker 4: with this lazy person, or you.

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Speaker 5: Can issue an ultimatum.

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Speaker 4: You either get up and get back to work and

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Speaker 4: be the man that I'm married or me and you

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Speaker 4: are done.

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Speaker 1: Back to you busting your lip on a night stand

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Speaker 1: though and kept what happens.

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