1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: All right, So a Facebook listener, Steve on Anyway, he 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:08,160 Speaker 1: wrote this, Uncle Steve. His name is Ricky, Uncle Steve, 3 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 1: I need some guidance. Last week, I'm at a cool, 4 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:14,640 Speaker 1: fine girl while out with some friends. She's funny and 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:18,840 Speaker 1: simply gorgeous. We exchange numbers and are going to go out. 6 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,079 Speaker 1: While texting, though she told me she worked as a 7 00:00:22,079 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 1: stripper just for the money, she says, I'm not sure 8 00:00:25,640 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 1: how I feel about this or if I'm even up 9 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 1: for it. Somehow this became a whole other level of 10 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 1: pressure or issues that I wasn't prepared for. She said 11 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:38,239 Speaker 1: she didn't do anything to cause and she didn't do 12 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: anything to cause it. Dog is all me, Uncle Steve, 13 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: my homie said I should do like a list, like 14 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,640 Speaker 1: what are the pros and cons of dating a stripper? 15 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: I really don't want to deal with games, jealousy, flakiness, 16 00:00:51,520 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: or anything like that. But I also feel bad for 17 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,319 Speaker 1: not giving someone a fair shot just because of their 18 00:00:57,400 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: job or really what their job wants. Was am I wrong? 19 00:01:02,000 --> 00:01:02,880 Speaker 1: His name is Ricky. 20 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 2: Hey man, she's so fine. 21 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:08,480 Speaker 3: You trying to find a way not to have a 22 00:01:08,520 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 3: problem with this job. 23 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 2: But dog, you're gonna have a problem with the job. 24 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 3: Dog, and you say jealousy is gonna be that's gonna 25 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:19,360 Speaker 3: be one of them. You know, working hours, it's gonna 26 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 3: be one of them. Ain't a lot of late night 27 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 3: dating because she up on that pole. You know, then 28 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 3: what she gotta do to get you know, she gonna 29 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 3: be out there stripping everybody looking at what what you 30 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 3: want to be yours. Now, if you can handle that 31 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 3: type of stuff, then go ahead. I'm not that guy. 32 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: So you ain't never fell in Live with no stripper. 33 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:42,039 Speaker 1: A song about it? 34 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, the dog. Let me tell you I worked when 35 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 3: I was young. I worked at the Cheetah Strip Club 36 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 3: for two weeks. Yeah, oh yeah, thousand dollars a week. 37 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 2: I couldn't turn that down. And the dressing room was 38 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:01,000 Speaker 2: next to the trippers. 39 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,840 Speaker 3: I actually, I think by the end of the week, 40 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 3: I had asked four of them to marry me. Yeah, 41 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 3: because I'm sitting in the dressing room talking to him 42 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 3: neckd and I'm looking at him neked. 43 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 2: That was perfect. That was perfect. 44 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:22,520 Speaker 3: I'm talking about when they had stepped out one of 45 00:02:22,560 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 3: them blue lights, they were still argiers and I was going, well, yeah, 46 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:29,280 Speaker 3: I marry her, and I just talking I was trying 47 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,280 Speaker 3: to talk them off the pole, you know, get out 48 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 3: on the road and make a committed life with me, 49 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:33,680 Speaker 3: you know. 50 00:02:34,560 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 2: But I will say, she's fine. 51 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 3: I appreciate you being honorable trying to say that you 52 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 3: don't want to judge a person about what they do, 53 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 3: But we get judged by what we do all. 54 00:02:42,960 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 2: The time, all the time, and some things. 55 00:02:45,680 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 3: I don't think you're cut out for this because you 56 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 3: have too many questions going in. 57 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 2: You ain't even in love yet. Twenty eight dogs. But 58 00:02:54,720 --> 00:02:55,800 Speaker 2: see he wants something. 59 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 3: This girl so fine, like a man telling you how 60 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 3: to find This girl is and she's funny and she's 61 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 3: just doing it for the money. 62 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 2: Not a problem being is when you complain. 63 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,360 Speaker 3: Here's what women have to remember when a man comes 64 00:03:14,360 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 3: to you complaining about how you are. If he's going 65 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:23,040 Speaker 3: to complain and offer criticism of how you are, he 66 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 3: must then be standing there with a solution. So that's 67 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 3: the only way complaining and criticism works. You have to 68 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 3: be standing there with a solution or else it's just criticism. 69 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 2: I don't like what you. 70 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 3: Do, Okay, okay, cool, what you want me to do? 71 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:49,760 Speaker 3: Just get a job, okay, where anywhere? 72 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 2: Okay? 73 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 3: How much did this anywhere job pay? This is what 74 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:58,120 Speaker 3: I make it. See, that's the problem, and that's what 75 00:03:58,320 --> 00:03:59,960 Speaker 3: men don't get it. And that's where a lot of 76 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 3: women don't understand. We should go on a field trip 77 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 3: after trip club just so we can understand, or all 78 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 3: of us should go together, sear. I don't want to 79 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 3: go with Shirley and calling you. I don't I'm old school. 80 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 3: I don't believe women all history, person myself, and I 81 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 3: don't see how I could possibly say or feel the 82 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 3: same thing I'm gonna feel with some woman looking up. 83 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 2: Side, and you know we will. 84 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:31,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, just the guys, go. 85 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:34,680 Speaker 3: Man, go back and do what y'all do. Get out 86 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 3: of our stop. 87 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 1: Thank you. Coming up next, we'll have more of the 88 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:42,360 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening to 89 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:44,080 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.