WEBVTT - EP 324: Call Me Daddy (Ft. Rory And Demaris) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:05.760 Guess what decision We're about to make. Horrible decision. 0:00:09.160 --> 0:00:14.160 They say everything is bigger in Texas. 0:00:12.920 --> 0:00:14.000 So we want to see it. 0:00:14.080 --> 0:00:17.200 We are coming back to Texas for our Climax tour. 0:00:17.840 --> 0:00:19.919 Please come and see us, because I'm gonna tell you 0:00:20.040 --> 0:00:20.480 right now. 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.680 When we were in Houston Dallas, didn't we didn't get enough. 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:26.119 Remember we went to the Strip Club, we did a 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:28.120 little me Agree, we did the Deep album vibes. 0:00:28.240 --> 0:00:31.400 We need more, and we're coming back Houston July sixth. 0:00:31.400 --> 0:00:33.320 We're gonna be at the House of Blues, and in 0:00:33.400 --> 0:00:35.680 Dallas we're gonna be at the Factory in Deep l. 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.559 That's right, that's right. 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Would he be 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:03.080 your friend? 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:03.400 Yes? 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:05.840 Because when he comes in town, we go out to dinner. 0:01:05.880 --> 0:01:09.160 Okay, Hey, guys, welcome. 0:01:09.319 --> 0:01:11.080 Women are pieces of ship. 0:01:17.319 --> 0:01:20.000 Man saying that black baby as well, and you're gonna 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:23.040 call us pieces of ship Wow, basically counts as a 0:01:23.080 --> 0:01:23.520 woman too. 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:25.560 You said that, I didn't say that. 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:27.480 Y'all. Welcome to horrible decisions. 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:31.640 We are joined today by an ancient ass. 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:36.760 Can't even call him ania and a lovely beautiful I'm 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:40.759 gonna say bisexual, but okay, fake bisexual baby. 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:41.560 We'll talk about it. 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:43.160 I'll tell you. 0:01:44.319 --> 0:01:46.760 Yeah, demeris fake gay and I didn't have it. 0:01:47.000 --> 0:01:48.200 Yeah I did. 0:01:49.360 --> 0:01:52.720 We have Demeris and Rory from New Rory and Mom. 0:01:53.080 --> 0:01:55.880 Hey you guys, I'm busy. That's nandy. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:59.080 This is our show all about horrible decisions. But today 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:03.640 we wanna be messy boots because I said, okay, we 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:05.280 have an album and talk about we'll talk about that. Also, 0:02:05.320 --> 0:02:10.240 you have a baby, yes, why I'm gonna ask the question. Okay, 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:11.760 this is a messy, messy But let me just say 0:02:12.520 --> 0:02:13.799 when you told me you have a baby, do you 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:14.520 remember my reaction? 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:14.920 I do. 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:17.000 I cried full tears. 0:02:17.120 --> 0:02:19.560 You cried one of the first people that was like 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:20.760 excite excitement. 0:02:20.800 --> 0:02:23.520 Tears were like game tears. 0:02:23.880 --> 0:02:27.560 No, like maybe is the way you told me? I 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:29.480 don't know. Also, especially week when we were going to 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:30.880 a party in my fucking make up that room. 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:35.640 But like, you know, when when a friend, this is 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:38.639 fucked up to say, when you have a friend that's 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:40.920 like partying with you and in the streets and like 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:43.040 not even saying whole shit, but just like you're moving, 0:02:43.120 --> 0:02:45.760 like I'm moving, and you have something major happened to 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:47.799 you that doesn't get to happen for people like us 0:02:47.840 --> 0:02:48.640 that are always on the go. 0:02:49.040 --> 0:02:51.760 It was like, whoase homes be out here having babies. 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:54.280 I'm confused, I'm not really my. 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:58.880 Scenario one tears. 0:02:59.000 --> 0:03:01.760 It was like and then especially when the man has 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:03.400 the baby, he don't be a home. 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:10.080 With hold on, I was letting this ship off for 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:12.720 a second. Get your story off. What are you saying 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:15.600 right now? I'm the whole I don't take care of 0:03:15.639 --> 0:03:19.520 my kid. I'm just saying, like to me, maybe it's 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:21.200 like trying to Mariah Mills me right now. 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:24.800 No, but when men have kids, it's way different than 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:26.320 when women have Yes, that's all. 0:03:26.360 --> 0:03:28.720 I'm not like, no no good ones. 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:31.760 Oh yeah, not like me, not a good one. 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.120 But I guess I just wouldn't react. 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:38.280 But I'll say this, you know, to a man having 0:03:38.520 --> 0:03:41.320 Like I was like, oh, congratulations, and you knew out 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.040 the gate like it was for sure yours. 0:03:43.320 --> 0:03:48.800 That's that's like, we're five minutes in, We're five minutes 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:50.800 you knew it was your like both things. 0:03:50.560 --> 0:03:53.440 Be like, you know, she said she was bright, but 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:55.480 I gotta wait, like we knew for. 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:58.480 Sure it was yours. Like, that's fun. You've never put 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:00.320 a man right now. 0:04:00.880 --> 0:04:02.600 This is not what I expected today at all. 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:05.640 Wait, you never had a male friend say that in. 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:07.600 The baby today? Thank fucking god I didn't. 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:10.440 Okay, we would ask for consent for the joke. We 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:11.960 asked for consent for everything. 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:14.360 You believe, Mandy, Seriously, you have no male friend in 0:04:14.400 --> 0:04:15.560 your life that if they said they were having a 0:04:15.560 --> 0:04:16.359 baby you would be happy for. 0:04:17.960 --> 0:04:19.240 I don't fucking kids. 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:22.200 I don't really care about like that. Okay, I will 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:23.479 say your baby is real cute. 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:25.719 Though I got the picture, I was like, because when. 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:27.760 It's ugly, you know, you really can't what to say. 0:04:30.600 --> 0:04:32.960 Like a girl, guy, I felt like I was being 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:35.919 like objective when I was like, oh my god, she's cute, 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.200 Like I still would have thought she was adorable if 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:40.640 she wasn't, because she's my daughter. But thank god, she's 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:45.440 also like specifically cute but also in me. But you 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:48.480 wouldn't care because me Wheezy and her not the baby. 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:51.240 Their mother all took Molly together, so we have like 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:55.400 a different connection. I love that, I mean, but all 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:55.880 that's how. 0:04:55.760 --> 0:04:56.400 She was conceived. 0:04:56.440 --> 0:04:57.040 To me, it's all. 0:04:58.400 --> 0:04:59.760 No, it was like a year difference. 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:01.160 Girl, look at you? 0:05:03.320 --> 0:05:06.000 To me, though, you know what wouldn't be surprising to 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:09.360 me if any of my my male friends had a child, 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:13.040 if it was a girl, like I think, whole niggas 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:14.159 get girls, yo, for sure. 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:15.600 That's literally a thing. 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:16.320 It's science. 0:05:16.640 --> 0:05:17.960 It's not no, it is it is. 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:18.479 It is. 0:05:18.560 --> 0:05:19.360 Find me the scientist. 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:21.000 Derevy hella men. 0:05:22.320 --> 0:05:25.719 Dervy hella, men that only shoot out daughters. And it's 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.159 because it's their karma. Like a lot of men be 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:30.520 wanting sons, okay, and they'll never get it because of 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:32.360 what they've done to women in the past. 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:33.840 So all of your fathers are hos. 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:37.040 Sure my daddy Jamaican, that nigga a big hope. 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:40.240 My mind was so I actually just find out I 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:41.560 might have a goddamn sibling. 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:43.480 But do you know, if it's his, why can't girls 0:05:43.520 --> 0:05:45.080 getting daughter a one year old. 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:47.840 What is it sibling, brother or sister. 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:49.360 I don't even know because I didn't care because that 0:05:49.440 --> 0:05:50.920 nigga ho is still think he's twenty eight. You'd be 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:53.240 putting the little swirlies in his hair still he like 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:54.279 almost sixty. 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:59.240 Yeah, but Jamaican sixty is like a regular sixty. 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:02.880 Is the baby also halfwaye. I ain't even asked, no, 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:04.200 you gotta tie. 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:08.240 I know what Jamaican men a doun't love white women well, 0:06:09.560 --> 0:06:11.400 and Jamaican like big white women. 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:15.200 On top of it, my brother is full black, full Jamaican, 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.479 so I think he got into that type later. 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:21.840 Okay, so you guys don't think that whole women can 0:06:21.839 --> 0:06:24.679 have daughters, Like yeah, karma can't exist. 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:28.719 It's just men's whnus karma for women that doesn't exist, 0:06:28.960 --> 0:06:29.960 like accountability right. 0:06:31.600 --> 0:06:34.520 Now, I'm not doing this. So baby comes. I cried, 0:06:35.080 --> 0:06:39.360 and then in my brain I'm like, how. 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:40.200 Is this going to happen? 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:42.800 I remember thinking like I understand you told people you 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:45.320 trust that wouldn't tell, But at the same time, like 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.640 I was like, like. 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.560 What's gonna happen? And also when it does happen, like 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:52.800 do you acknowledge it? 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:54.720 Like I think about that, well, I like not want 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:56.520 to tell people I'm rightnant, Like what would I do? 0:06:57.720 --> 0:07:00.400 I mean, I wanted to take my time with it, 0:07:00.520 --> 0:07:03.359 and it wasn't something that I had to rush to 0:07:03.400 --> 0:07:05.200 tell the world. I felt like, I mean, I got 0:07:05.240 --> 0:07:08.840 all even people people were pissed that are like I'd say, 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:11.000 associates that I'm cool with that, Like when I posted 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:12.840 on ig They're like, what the fuck you were going 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:13.960 to tell me? I was like, look at the last 0:07:13.960 --> 0:07:16.280 time we spoke, right, like, I'm not about to now 0:07:16.440 --> 0:07:20.560 tell you that. It was such a cleanse for like 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:24.280 those nine months to realize who fucks with you? And 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:26.800 because that's why I was really like, that's why Weezy 0:07:26.880 --> 0:07:28.840 was one of the first people I told, because we 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:31.440 were so close at the moment when that happened. It 0:07:31.480 --> 0:07:34.440 was like, Yeah, I got people I've known for thirty years, 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:35.840 but I don't talk to them that often. I have 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.160 to be like, yo, got a kid, bro, and now 0:07:38.160 --> 0:07:40.280 what we're gonna go another thirty years not talking? 0:07:40.680 --> 0:07:41.520 Do you think that? Like? 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:43.800 It made me think because I was like, I hadn't 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:45.760 seen you in a while, and I was thinking about 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:47.480 it the other day, like damn, I haven't seen Rory's baby, 0:07:47.480 --> 0:07:50.320 and I'm like, is this what happens when parents have 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:51.080 single friends? 0:07:51.520 --> 0:07:55.560 Yeah, for the most part, because it's weird. No, you're 0:07:56.080 --> 0:07:58.240 a human being that isn't going to go to New 0:07:58.320 --> 0:08:00.440 Jersey to just sit in my living room the baby. 0:08:00.480 --> 0:08:03.480 For I don't expect people to do that. 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:05.440 I get that, Like, that's a lot to put on 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:08.320 someone I don't like, look at them like they're bad 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:10.960 friends if they don't rush to New Jersey to see 0:08:10.960 --> 0:08:13.720 my kid, like you'll come to the first birthday. 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:15.000 Now I want to. 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:16.800 I don't put that on other people. 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:19.160 Like I understand everyone else has lives because I've had 0:08:19.200 --> 0:08:21.080 friends that I've had kids that you know, I just 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:25.160 didn't have the time to rush to another state to 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:28.040 go hang out with your kids. And it's also weird too, 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:30.440 like when they're newborns, there's tell me so much you 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:30.760 can do? 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:34.400 You just be like, hey, we give them moment, remember, 0:08:34.840 --> 0:08:36.959 we give the mom so much support. And literally, when 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:38.040 writing the side, I was like, I want to talk 0:08:38.040 --> 0:08:40.040 about baby, but it was cool. I was writing and 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:41.920 I was like, oh my god. One of my questions 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:44.600 like friendships, and I was like, I don't check and 0:08:44.600 --> 0:08:46.640 see how you're doing. Literally, the first thing when I 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:48.079 saw the mother of your kid was asked her how 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:50.080 she was doing. I didn't ask you that. And it's 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:53.679 like we kind of like Father's days. This weekend kind 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:54.959 of forgot about the bitch. I want to go to 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:56.079 the June teeth pic. 0:08:57.320 --> 0:08:58.640 Yeah, it fell on the worst weekend. 0:08:58.679 --> 0:08:59.480 It did fall off. 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:04.960 He's like, no. 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:08.240 I did want to say, though, only because we know 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:11.120 a baby takes nine months, which apparently by science it's 0:09:11.160 --> 0:09:13.920 not even nine months. It's allegedly like longer than that. 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:17.960 It's nine point it's longer than that. But you birthed 0:09:18.000 --> 0:09:21.199 another baby, which took forever, I will say, because we 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:23.880 all ended up being a part of the YouTube thing 0:09:23.880 --> 0:09:26.000 in the studio like two years ago. 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:26.720 Oh my god. 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:31.280 Yeah, so the the birth of your album and that 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:35.920 being released took took like double the time of the 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:38.840 actual human baby. But I wanted to know, like with 0:09:39.000 --> 0:09:41.600 telling the world and the excitement of both, what the 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:44.400 difference and emotions were. I mean, clearly, you put your 0:09:44.400 --> 0:09:46.480 heart and soul and sperm into you. 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:51.560 Know, you had quite a may sperm sperm, but heart 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:55.760 and an effort and time into curating both of those 0:09:55.800 --> 0:09:57.760 things kind of I want to know, like what that 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:00.800 was like to also announce both at the same I mean, 0:10:00.920 --> 0:10:02.080 kind to receive. 0:10:01.760 --> 0:10:04.320 The backlash at the same time for something that you 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:05.800 were so proud of at the same time. 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:08.600 I mean, was it backlash? And we can get to 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:09.040 that after. 0:10:09.120 --> 0:10:11.439 But it was hate, Yeah, there was there was a 0:10:11.480 --> 0:10:11.880 lot of hate. 0:10:11.920 --> 0:10:13.360 Wait about what was it? 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:15.600 Oh? I mean people are. 0:10:15.480 --> 0:10:17.320 Always gonna have something to say. We saw that with 0:10:17.559 --> 0:10:22.040 the passing of DC Young flies uh partner and just 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:24.400 what everyone had to say, Like people always will just 0:10:24.440 --> 0:10:27.440 have something to say about how you do something. But 0:10:27.559 --> 0:10:30.680 to me releasing that and knowing how much you love music, 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:33.800 like just even people just fucking. 0:10:33.480 --> 0:10:36.160 Hating everything about the title and the album had to 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:37.800 do with my life for the last three years. 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:39.160 I'm not gonna include my kid in. 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:42.480 That, Like no, you're right, And also why I guess 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:43.839 I didn't look at it his hate and just more 0:10:43.960 --> 0:10:49.120 like delusion and weirdo shit is like is my daughter 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:53.880 gonna drive iTunes sales? Like like what about? Like am 0:10:53.880 --> 0:10:55.800 I using my kid right now? No, it's part of 0:10:55.840 --> 0:10:58.560 the title. I thought it'd be different. So with a 0:10:58.600 --> 0:11:00.760 lot of other stuff as well, and even why there 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:03.520 was so much pause with the album was so many 0:11:03.520 --> 0:11:05.280 things happened in between that I had to go focus 0:11:05.320 --> 0:11:07.560 on right away, one being a pod break up, one 0:11:07.840 --> 0:11:10.480 being oh, I have a kid on the way, Like 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:12.000 things changed a lot. 0:11:12.679 --> 0:11:14.400 So when it's finally coming out, why am I not 0:11:14.760 --> 0:11:17.800 a dress? Yeah? 0:11:17.840 --> 0:11:19.920 Like, so much stuff happened in between there, and other 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:22.280 family issues that I didn't like, even. 0:11:22.120 --> 0:11:25.439 Talk about health stuff, like I thought that was really 0:11:25.480 --> 0:11:25.880 odd that. 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:28.439 People like he's using his kid like okay, and when 0:11:28.440 --> 0:11:30.520 you put music out, you use your personal life. Matter 0:11:30.520 --> 0:11:33.080 of fact, fans get mad when there's no personal shit 0:11:33.200 --> 0:11:38.000 in your music. If becomes really just stagnant and odd, 0:11:38.120 --> 0:11:40.480 like there's no feeling to it. Of course I'm gonna 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:44.280 involve that with this rollout per se. Well for the 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:47.000 ice I have some questions get anyone to buy it. 0:11:47.240 --> 0:11:49.400 We're gonna get an icebreaker, and it's very based on 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:51.760 I thought it'd be different only because one of my 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:55.319 favorite songs on the project is featuring Ari Lennox and 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:59.480 James fut Leroy, which I love because you know you 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:02.120 really love somebody if you let your phone die, yes, 0:12:02.600 --> 0:12:05.240 And I wanted to know at what point or how 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:08.080 long does it take for you to to be around 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:12.120 somebody and your phone doesn't matter? And also even when 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:15.839 you like them, are y'all still the type that flip 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:17.800 your phone over like you hide and something. 0:12:17.800 --> 0:12:21.480 That's a but that's a flip right now, it's a risk. 0:12:22.760 --> 0:12:23.400 It's risk action. 0:12:23.520 --> 0:12:25.400 Honestly, I slipped because of the backlight. 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:28.120 And like, for example, if I'm at a table and 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:30.560 my phone does this, it's rude because now. 0:12:30.440 --> 0:12:32.319 I'm gonna look, so I'll flip it. Even when I'm like, 0:12:33.000 --> 0:12:35.440 that's just making an excuse for flipping the phone over. 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:39.720 Okay, quick, quickly, how does your wrist action go? Though? 0:12:39.840 --> 0:12:42.480 If I'm like this going like this is weird to me, 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.160 this makes sense. This is how I put my hands down. 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:49.280 You can put it. Wow, this that wasn't as good 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:50.880 as an excuse those bullshit. 0:12:51.000 --> 0:12:51.240 This is. 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:54.000 Between both of you. 0:12:54.080 --> 0:12:57.120 I've ever heard of modest actual truth, like this is science. 0:12:57.120 --> 0:12:57.720 Look at my roosts. 0:12:57.800 --> 0:13:02.800 This is what happens naturally kind of just you know that. 0:13:02.800 --> 0:13:05.680 Is I do that by myself in my own bed. 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:08.040 I'm like, well, put my phone down, okay, so that's 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:09.040 how I move my. 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:11.480 Demarus. 0:13:11.600 --> 0:13:14.839 Let's talk as women yes, you're dating a man or 0:13:14.880 --> 0:13:18.120 a woman. Okay, do you feel like your partner is 0:13:18.200 --> 0:13:22.720 hiding something when they flip their phone over or even 0:13:22.720 --> 0:13:26.240 if their phone dies, because who lets their phone die anymore? 0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:29.160 Do you feel like they're doing something they're not supposed. 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:31.000 To the phone die? I know they with me, So. 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:34.360 If you flip your phone over, I automatically think you're 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:37.960 a cheating, philandering whore. Right, But I'm quick to like 0:13:38.000 --> 0:13:41.720 flip my phone over because I genuinely hate notifications, Like 0:13:41.920 --> 0:13:43.640 genuinely when my phone. 0:13:43.360 --> 0:13:46.040 I get, I don't yeah. 0:13:45.840 --> 0:13:49.400 Exactly, So if I get a notification, it's usually work. 0:13:50.080 --> 0:13:52.440 So then it's like, what this is? 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:53.960 Why you guys are gaslighting right now? 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:57.480 Like I'm a cheater, I would know not to have 0:13:57.640 --> 0:13:59.600 the cheating pop up on the top of my phone. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:00.960 Why this means nothing to. 0:14:03.480 --> 0:14:05.480 My Snapchat alerts come right through. 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:08.120 I believe you're a cheater. 0:14:08.440 --> 0:14:12.640 I use Snapchat because I am back and horn but 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:15.200 also I feel like I'm famous. It's just gonna be 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:17.679 texting niggas. No, you're not gonna screenshot me, and if 0:14:17.720 --> 0:14:19.840 you do, I'm gonna see it. And if you want pictures, 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:22.880 it gets deleted. I talked to niggas through Snapchat. 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:25.880 Wait, men are just leaking text conversations? 0:14:25.960 --> 0:14:27.520 First off, do you not see that the girl that 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:28.200 was just dealing with. 0:14:28.240 --> 0:14:31.040 Zion Diday, that's a girl, no saying men are doing that. 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:34.640 Yes, first of all they share it to their fathers. 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:36.880 Wait a second, but are they really? 0:14:37.880 --> 0:14:40.560 Who wasn't Meek Mill just dropped the whole group chat 0:14:40.600 --> 0:14:41.800 with drawing all these niggas. 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:43.320 Niggas is the new bitches these days. 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:44.280 But that's girl. 0:14:44.640 --> 0:14:47.000 While I disagreed with that, that's a bunch of men 0:14:47.000 --> 0:14:49.520 in a group chat. I've never been in any male 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:52.560 group chat where somebody was like, yo, man, He said, 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:55.600 hey to me, you do you think. 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:57.720 Your friends may not be corny? Then yeah, exactly, I 0:14:58.280 --> 0:15:01.040 do that corny until he reaches. 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:01.480 The corn level. 0:15:01.880 --> 0:15:04.280 I just I can't believe that that that men would 0:15:04.320 --> 0:15:05.240 actually they do it. 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:08.000 They do. They do it that manner of screenshotting. 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:10.440 And maybe you're not on black Twitter enough, but the 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:12.160 black Twitter streets. 0:15:12.680 --> 0:15:17.400 I was early, early on Black Twitter. I'm nine nine by. 0:15:19.280 --> 0:15:19.760 The cookout. 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.840 Now I have another question for Demerius this time because 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:24.160 as I'm talking to you and as. 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:27.720 Your good friend Rory, you know really, like. 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:30.120 Was like, nah, she gay as fuck. She's not really 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:33.800 she's she's gay, she's fake straight. Actually, I'm looking at 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:36.880 your nails and I would love to know how you're getting, 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:38.320 Like are you a bottom? 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:40.320 Because what are you doing with your hands when I 0:15:40.480 --> 0:15:41.360 look like I'm not. 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:43.600 I am not currently having sex with anyone. 0:15:43.640 --> 0:15:50.440 So that's why you're celeb Yes, your celibate for by somebody, but. 0:15:51.520 --> 0:15:54.080 I do not need anybody. I'm just I'm chilling right now. 0:15:54.280 --> 0:15:55.600 You can't come on horrible decisions? 0:15:55.600 --> 0:15:55.920 Are you going? 0:15:57.160 --> 0:16:00.280 I wanted you to come up with you because I 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:00.840 have not been. 0:16:02.320 --> 0:16:06.720 To tell some Listen, I was in a long term 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:10.680 thing for a very I was in a relationship that 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:12.520 turned into that was supposed to be a breakup and 0:16:12.560 --> 0:16:13.560 then it turned into a thing. 0:16:13.760 --> 0:16:15.600 Right, So it's a relationship. 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:19.960 In a relationship, your breakout, but you don't leave each 0:16:19.960 --> 0:16:23.280 other alone the relationship. I just was in a relationship, 0:16:23.360 --> 0:16:25.880 but that's not a relationship because you're technically I'm thinking 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:28.440 I'm still able to do what I'm still able to 0:16:28.520 --> 0:16:31.400 do other people if I felt like doing that break 0:16:31.560 --> 0:16:34.800 excuse like, okay, girl, but what I haven't So I 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:35.920 have not been dating girls lately. 0:16:35.960 --> 0:16:37.080 That's why my nose are able to be. 0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:43.760 Tried to say that you were like the girl that 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:48.440 gets drunk and just makes out with girls. 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:50.200 With that girl I won't sleep with. I don't like that. 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:52.600 Oh yeah, I can't say girls, but I don't know, 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:55.280 like you gave off more straight vibes, and then as 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:58.800 I'm looking at the nails, like you don't give you know, 0:16:59.440 --> 0:17:00.480 carpet munch es. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:03.400 I don't know if that's a compliment or it is. 0:17:04.040 --> 0:17:04.399 Maybe not. 0:17:04.440 --> 0:17:08.040 It's pride so well, not like it's pride. No, no, 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.960 I'm I'm gay as they come, very very gay. 0:17:11.480 --> 0:17:15.040 Always had us in like an HR situation kind of recently. 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:17.040 What did I do this time? Oh my god, oh 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:17.879 my god, you made. 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:20.160 The right choice. But two more shots and I think 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:20.520 you might have. 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:25.040 Talking to Yomy. Well. 0:17:25.359 --> 0:17:28.960 Jamaris went to LA for her birthday and was with 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:32.960 a fake gay girl, one that like isn't really gay, okay, 0:17:33.119 --> 0:17:35.800 And you know Demarus wants to like peg women. 0:17:35.800 --> 0:17:37.080 She doesn't want to just make out with them. 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:38.760 I love that he said peg women. 0:17:39.280 --> 0:17:40.400 She's all the way there. 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:46.399 Using the wrong term. It's strapping them. She probably listens 0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:47.200 to this show. 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:49.840 By the way she's an amazing woman. I just think 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:50.600 she's fake gay. 0:17:50.640 --> 0:17:53.480 And I glad you didn't go forward with that because 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:56.399 I think she would have wanted that experience until it 0:17:56.440 --> 0:18:00.720 was time for your gayness to really take its and. 0:18:00.760 --> 0:18:02.640 It wouldn't just be a nice makeout session. 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:05.280 And you're not gonna learn how to eat pussy on me, 0:18:05.480 --> 0:18:06.320 just we're not gonna. 0:18:06.560 --> 0:18:06.879 We're not. 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:10.440 I don't have the patience that a great baby gays. 0:18:10.560 --> 0:18:14.359 I don't baby. If your mamma don't know you gay, 0:18:14.880 --> 0:18:16.800 I can't. I can't do it, not if. 0:18:16.680 --> 0:18:18.720 Your mama don't know. If y'all momma don't know you. 0:18:18.520 --> 0:18:22.680 You can't see what if she's a Christian, the mother. 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:23.520 Hypocrits of them all? 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:26.640 Can I be he theated a girl that wasn't out 0:18:26.640 --> 0:18:29.160 to her family didn't like it, And it's so fucked 0:18:29.200 --> 0:18:29.800 up to say that. 0:18:30.240 --> 0:18:32.560 But I'm a little too old now. Yeah. 0:18:33.280 --> 0:18:35.760 And there's another thing, Like I understand coming out is 0:18:35.800 --> 0:18:38.840 like a huge deal, right, like everybody has a different process, 0:18:39.080 --> 0:18:40.360 But personally it. 0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:40.960 Was working with me. 0:18:41.920 --> 0:18:45.760 Why though, I think because I felt like there's a 0:18:45.800 --> 0:18:49.879 part of your life that you haven't let known to 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:51.479 the people you love most and I don't know if 0:18:51.480 --> 0:18:52.800 I want to be along for the ride when you 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:54.960 go through the turmoil of telling them because if you're 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:58.120 in your thirties and partner, well I didn't know where 0:18:58.160 --> 0:19:00.720 that well. We were just starting to date, and I 0:19:00.720 --> 0:19:01.880 was like, well, I don't think I want to. It's 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:03.879 kind of like dating someone with kids, right, you can 0:19:03.960 --> 0:19:05.520 either make the choice yes or no. It's fucked up 0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:07.440 to me when some people are like absolutely not, I 0:19:07.440 --> 0:19:08.919 don't want a woman and with kids, but like you 0:19:09.040 --> 0:19:11.040 kind of know what you can handle. And for me, 0:19:11.359 --> 0:19:13.160 I was like, I don't think I could do this. 0:19:13.920 --> 0:19:16.560 Like I'm going to be the person that they're angry at. 0:19:16.600 --> 0:19:18.200 I'm going to be the person that you may feel 0:19:18.200 --> 0:19:21.040 resentful towards when they're like you know. 0:19:21.040 --> 0:19:23.159 What I mean, they want to just own you. Yeah, yeah, 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:24.080 that's tough. 0:19:24.520 --> 0:19:24.760 Yeah. 0:19:24.800 --> 0:19:28.800 My uh my cousin is gay and we support it fully. 0:19:29.280 --> 0:19:33.280 His husband is Indian and that was definitely a weird thing, 0:19:33.320 --> 0:19:35.880 like he would run to our holidays because he could 0:19:35.960 --> 0:19:39.920 not talk to anyone on his side at all about 0:19:39.920 --> 0:19:42.600 the entire thing. Like my cousin was introduced this is 0:19:42.720 --> 0:19:46.000 friend for a very fucking long time, like so yeah, 0:19:46.000 --> 0:19:47.680 I guess I get that. And I shout out to 0:19:47.760 --> 0:19:49.880 my cousin for really sticking with him through that because 0:19:50.040 --> 0:19:55.520 in the first generation Indian men not having that went 0:19:55.560 --> 0:19:58.080 to the courthouse for them to get married. It was 0:19:58.160 --> 0:20:00.919 just my family, like it was definitely a they've accepted 0:20:00.920 --> 0:20:03.320 it now, but it took it took a really long time. 0:20:03.560 --> 0:20:05.800 I wouldn't have loved that. Hell yet that's been. That's been. 0:20:07.119 --> 0:20:09.400 I guess that's been my experience as well with with 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:14.080 my family, uh being Jamaican, Like my cousin had to 0:20:14.160 --> 0:20:17.040 leave the island because he feared for his life. And 0:20:17.080 --> 0:20:20.960 then my sister is a lesbian, ended up with a baby. 0:20:21.119 --> 0:20:23.200 Don't ask me hot it was like a one month thing, 0:20:23.320 --> 0:20:26.520 ended up with a baby and my dad. I think 0:20:26.520 --> 0:20:29.840 there was excitement in becoming a grandpa. And then the 0:20:29.920 --> 0:20:32.960 daddy was a deadbeat. And now she's with her her 0:20:33.000 --> 0:20:36.480 female partner and they're raising the baby, and you can 0:20:36.560 --> 0:20:41.120 tell like there's definitely still this like thing that even 0:20:41.160 --> 0:20:43.640 though she's a mom, that she's not with a man, 0:20:44.520 --> 0:20:46.680 and there's just that lingering. 0:20:46.359 --> 0:20:48.680 Thing is going to be the dad And yeah, there's 0:20:48.920 --> 0:20:52.440 what was your coming up? Yeah, how did you come out. 0:20:52.600 --> 0:20:55.280 So my parents always I was like, I was very 0:20:55.480 --> 0:20:57.160 like I was a good kid, so I was very 0:20:57.200 --> 0:21:00.320 sneaky with anything that I did sexual related. So my 0:21:00.359 --> 0:21:02.040 parents always thought I was gay. They thought I was 0:21:02.080 --> 0:21:04.119 a lesbian. No, for real, they thought I was a 0:21:04.200 --> 0:21:06.439 lesbian up until like the first time my mom like 0:21:06.640 --> 0:21:08.280 walked in the house and there was a boy there 0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:08.920 and I had to be. 0:21:08.880 --> 0:21:10.160 Like eighteen nineteen. 0:21:10.320 --> 0:21:15.240 Oh wow, yeah, like I had because I never bought 0:21:15.320 --> 0:21:17.439 me in home. So she they was like, yeah, the 0:21:17.440 --> 0:21:19.840 Mara's is gay. Demeor's always been freaky and gay. Like 0:21:19.880 --> 0:21:21.880 they always thought that, Like my whole life, they thought 0:21:21.880 --> 0:21:23.680 I was. I used to hunch the neighbors. That was 0:21:23.760 --> 0:21:26.280 so terrible for me, like embarrassing. 0:21:27.520 --> 0:21:29.840 Yeuah, she know she knew. I was like, it's nine. 0:21:29.880 --> 0:21:32.040 Did she not say anything because that's love? No, but 0:21:32.119 --> 0:21:34.400 like she didn't say anything, that's love. Oh, by the way, 0:21:34.440 --> 0:21:35.719 this just made me think, just looking at you, we're 0:21:35.720 --> 0:21:38.080 talking about girlfriends. So my ex girlfriend and Rory share 0:21:38.119 --> 0:21:41.040 birthday right, And I was literally thinking to myself because 0:21:41.200 --> 0:21:43.400 a few days ago, Mandy and I found out two 0:21:43.440 --> 0:21:46.119 of the guys we fucked chair birthdays are best friend's 0:21:46.160 --> 0:21:46.840 share birthday. 0:21:46.920 --> 0:21:47.919 Oh it's angel members. 0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:48.840 Yeah it was. 0:21:49.680 --> 0:21:51.080 I don't think it's the same thing. 0:21:52.960 --> 0:21:57.560 Like I thought it was, Like, what does it mean? 0:21:59.119 --> 0:22:00.879 A close friend of mine and my ex girlfriend had 0:22:00.880 --> 0:22:02.800 to save It must mean like people you love or 0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:04.320 care about, like something is. 0:22:04.359 --> 0:22:06.440 You attract a certain kind of vibe? That's like, that's 0:22:06.440 --> 0:22:07.760 your vibe. Apparently you like tourists. 0:22:07.840 --> 0:22:10.960 I don't know what pisces and tourists are a great friend, working, 0:22:11.400 --> 0:22:12.200 going to stars and moons. 0:22:12.200 --> 0:22:15.199 This goddamn podcast, hate it. 0:22:15.920 --> 0:22:18.440 I'm an aries. Okay, I'll get into the stars of 0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:19.840 very much a Libra. 0:22:20.080 --> 0:22:22.120 Yeah I know I am. I'm a Libra moon and 0:22:22.359 --> 0:22:24.080 all my best friends have been libras. Y'all let me 0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:24.639 know what y'all done. 0:22:24.720 --> 0:22:30.520 Well, okay, what's the next thing? How skating? 0:22:30.560 --> 0:22:30.720 Ben? 0:22:31.160 --> 0:22:33.320 Now that you have to deal like with human beings 0:22:33.440 --> 0:22:35.880 and they talk about like their signs on first dates. 0:22:36.040 --> 0:22:38.840 So I have not actually been on a first date 0:22:38.920 --> 0:22:40.440 yet with anything new. 0:22:40.880 --> 0:22:43.040 I broke up with my I haven't met a new 0:22:43.080 --> 0:22:44.280 guy yet. 0:22:44.640 --> 0:22:46.800 Oh girl, have you just been recycling? Just keep the 0:22:47.040 --> 0:22:49.080 body count to a certain degree. 0:22:49.359 --> 0:22:51.160 I actually like just to spin the block. 0:22:51.280 --> 0:22:54.879 That's my favorite thing to do, Like recycling is like, no, 0:22:54.960 --> 0:22:59.280 it's giving plastic. I actually technically I should call because 0:22:59.280 --> 0:23:00.800 now I'm back to getting condom Dick. 0:23:00.720 --> 0:23:01.480 So it is getting. 0:23:05.119 --> 0:23:08.200 We know clearly, that's why you're out here with a baby. 0:23:08.680 --> 0:23:11.680 No, and it's so great because it's like, I don't 0:23:11.720 --> 0:23:13.520 know how it's so good with a condom one. But 0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:17.520 I have not yet dated someone new because I haven't 0:23:17.560 --> 0:23:20.199 had the time, which is why, like, you know, a 0:23:20.200 --> 0:23:22.520 couple of weeks ago, I saw them this pod, Like, 0:23:23.000 --> 0:23:25.480 I'm at a place where I'm not gonna just take 0:23:25.520 --> 0:23:26.480 every booking anymore. 0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:28.240 Is it worth my time? What's the money? 0:23:28.240 --> 0:23:30.320 Because if it's not, I want to be outside and 0:23:30.400 --> 0:23:34.160 enjoy a New York summer. So I haven't dated anyone new. 0:23:35.480 --> 0:23:38.320 I got cheated on by a liar, so I think 0:23:38.320 --> 0:23:40.840 there's some trauma there to where realistically I'm not. 0:23:40.920 --> 0:23:41.960 The last time Rory was. 0:23:41.960 --> 0:23:44.679 Sitting here, I know that it's all full circle. 0:23:44.880 --> 0:23:50.679 Yeah, so yeah, I feel and it's and it's. 0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:52.200 Typically everyone was ganging up on him. I was just 0:23:52.240 --> 0:23:52.960 trying to help out. 0:23:53.119 --> 0:23:56.240 It's now it's now to the point where I realized 0:23:56.440 --> 0:23:58.960 I ain't really ready to just jump back into dating 0:23:59.000 --> 0:24:01.600 and having those feelings again because love actually scares the 0:24:01.600 --> 0:24:02.119 fuck out of me. 0:24:02.400 --> 0:24:03.200 I don't want someone. 0:24:03.440 --> 0:24:06.080 I don't want to give up that much control, but 0:24:06.160 --> 0:24:09.359 also have that that deep type of connection with a 0:24:09.400 --> 0:24:13.320 man anytime soon we're touring. I think our content is 0:24:13.320 --> 0:24:16.359 better when we're single. Hose outside could. 0:24:17.520 --> 0:24:18.960 I don't know that that content when you want a 0:24:19.000 --> 0:24:21.960 relationship was really good the last time. Also, in my defense, 0:24:22.040 --> 0:24:24.600 many many went back to do by the way, I did. 0:24:24.480 --> 0:24:27.760 Go back, but he told us a few weeks ago 0:24:28.280 --> 0:24:31.680 that the not only his girlfriend called, but met her 0:24:32.000 --> 0:24:34.560 at the sex club made me invited them to because that. 0:24:34.520 --> 0:24:35.680 Was the last thing that we talked about. 0:24:35.680 --> 0:24:37.680 I was about to ask a girl. 0:24:37.560 --> 0:24:41.040 Came from the sex club, including the bartender who would 0:24:41.080 --> 0:24:44.119 tell me when he was there when I wasn't, And 0:24:44.240 --> 0:24:48.000 he was pretty much finding women in the space that 0:24:48.040 --> 0:24:50.679 I brought him to and making sure to tell them because. 0:24:50.520 --> 0:24:52.080 How do you find me the wrong? 0:24:52.600 --> 0:24:53.159 Was the crazy one? 0:24:53.200 --> 0:24:53.320 Oh? 0:24:53.400 --> 0:24:54.320 Yeah, no, I mean there was. 0:24:54.359 --> 0:24:55.879 I mean I don't have to repeat that because I 0:24:55.920 --> 0:24:57.760 already said it here, but there was just to me, 0:24:57.840 --> 0:24:59.560 there was just so many lies that I'm just like, 0:24:59.760 --> 0:25:02.000 I realize I'm cool with a nigga, fucking another bitch, 0:25:02.320 --> 0:25:04.800 Like I don't believe in like super cheating as much 0:25:04.840 --> 0:25:07.600 as you're cheating because you're lying because I gave you 0:25:07.600 --> 0:25:10.480 the permission to kind of you know, when I'm out 0:25:10.480 --> 0:25:12.159 of town, nigga, if you need some fun, if you 0:25:12.160 --> 0:25:13.560 need to get your rock soft, go do that. 0:25:13.800 --> 0:25:14.680 To me, it's the lying. 0:25:14.760 --> 0:25:17.480 And so there's a question in our entire relationship what 0:25:17.680 --> 0:25:20.920 was real what wasn't. There was weekends and times where 0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:22.840 he said he was somewhere and I'm finding out because 0:25:22.840 --> 0:25:24.600 the girl called my phone. It was a hey, Barbara, 0:25:24.640 --> 0:25:27.760 this is Shirley called me and we were putting dates 0:25:27.760 --> 0:25:30.400 and stuff together. So to me, I would just rather 0:25:30.800 --> 0:25:33.199 I'm back now with people that I'm comfortable with, that 0:25:33.240 --> 0:25:35.360 I still feel safe with, that I can be kinky with, 0:25:35.640 --> 0:25:37.800 and I think it's gonna help me when I'm dating 0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:39.600 these niggas not fuck on the first night. 0:25:39.680 --> 0:25:41.479 Well, let me ask actually, let me ask you. 0:25:41.760 --> 0:25:43.120 Well, first of all, I want to say that now 0:25:43.160 --> 0:25:45.240 I'm not defending him, because like why you fumble the bag? 0:25:45.320 --> 0:25:50.760 She I was just. 0:25:50.840 --> 0:25:54.399 Why why do men If you have somebody who's understanding, 0:25:54.400 --> 0:25:56.479 who you have transparent, who's told you yo, you can 0:25:56.480 --> 0:25:58.720 tell me whatever, I can understand whatever. I might not 0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:01.240 accept it, but I can understated and whatever. Why the 0:26:01.240 --> 0:26:02.560 fuck would you go and still lie? Because now I 0:26:02.560 --> 0:26:04.000 feel like you lying for fun? Now I feel like 0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:04.720 you're just a liar. 0:26:05.400 --> 0:26:08.280 You want to hurt me? Yeah? Or you want to 0:26:08.280 --> 0:26:09.520 feel like you want went over on me? 0:26:09.960 --> 0:26:11.879 Someone that has cheated and lied? 0:26:12.480 --> 0:26:12.720 Yeah? 0:26:12.760 --> 0:26:13.040 What is? 0:26:13.160 --> 0:26:16.480 But I whenever I've never been in a full relationship 0:26:16.520 --> 0:26:18.560 with somebody that I've dated. 0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:21.040 Women that were bisexual and wanted to fuck women together 0:26:21.080 --> 0:26:23.240 in that entire thing, but that was just dating and talking. 0:26:23.520 --> 0:26:25.480 I've never been in a full blown relationship with a 0:26:25.520 --> 0:26:28.840 girl in that regard. So in my younger, unbecoming years, 0:26:29.119 --> 0:26:31.320 I definitely cheated and lied because I wanted to fuck 0:26:31.359 --> 0:26:31.760 other women. 0:26:31.800 --> 0:26:33.680 But also let me so let me change the question. 0:26:33.760 --> 0:26:39.359 Then, what makes men believe that women can't handle their truth? 0:26:39.680 --> 0:26:42.440 Like? Do you not want to date a woman that. 0:26:42.640 --> 0:26:45.760 Accepts you fully for who you are and whatever you 0:26:45.840 --> 0:26:48.520 want out of this relationship? You know you don't have 0:26:48.560 --> 0:26:50.840 to lie about who you are and you're accepting Like what, 0:26:51.440 --> 0:26:54.199 that's my question? What makes a man believe that a 0:26:54.200 --> 0:26:55.720 woman can't accept their truth? 0:26:55.800 --> 0:26:58.560 I'm not going to say this is from a personal aspect. 0:26:58.600 --> 0:27:00.320 But I can you can just need the point of 0:27:00.400 --> 0:27:04.919 view that if a man admitted to his girl that, yo, 0:27:05.000 --> 0:27:08.639 I'm fucking mad bitches, and she was okay with that, 0:27:09.240 --> 0:27:11.320 and the lies and like continued on, he would look 0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:14.440 at her crazy, like, now I'm looking at you, like 0:27:14.440 --> 0:27:17.199 why are you okay with me just steamrolling you? 0:27:17.680 --> 0:27:19.760 And like rolling This is the second time I've heard 0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:21.479 this from a man's mouth. It's so stupid. 0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:24.400 It's it's really dumb, and I don't even think men 0:27:25.760 --> 0:27:28.920 probably get that until they had that conversation. It's like, well, damn, 0:27:28.920 --> 0:27:31.840 I looked at you like you were really some ill chicken. 0:27:31.880 --> 0:27:33.400 Now you're just letting me just. 0:27:33.400 --> 0:27:40.160 Fucking do whatever. That's not attractive. I have not been 0:27:40.200 --> 0:27:41.920 through that. Again, I've cheated, but I've not been through 0:27:41.960 --> 0:27:45.040 that specific thing where I viewed a woman that way afterwards. 0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:48.600 But I can totally see that from a psychology place, 0:27:48.640 --> 0:27:51.720 where a man would look less of a woman that 0:27:51.880 --> 0:27:53.159 just would allow him to do that. 0:27:53.640 --> 0:27:55.120 I think he'd rather her just leave. 0:27:55.359 --> 0:27:57.720 Heard this conversation from a homeboy dating a girl for 0:27:57.720 --> 0:28:00.480 a few months. Okay, they were living in another country 0:28:00.560 --> 0:28:02.520 and he's like met another American girl. He's like, this 0:28:02.560 --> 0:28:05.680 girl's great, so she is to travel for two weeks. 0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:08.159 He was like, she's like pushing onto me that I 0:28:08.160 --> 0:28:11.440 can fuck other bitches. He's like, I'm so like annoyed 0:28:11.480 --> 0:28:15.040 and like just like okay, likeugh, And I. 0:28:15.040 --> 0:28:17.280 Was like really, but like do you not want to 0:28:17.280 --> 0:28:18.000 fuck another bitch? 0:28:18.040 --> 0:28:20.399 And he's like, it's just she's trying to tell me 0:28:20.440 --> 0:28:22.280 how open she is and it's pissing me off. 0:28:22.880 --> 0:28:26.600 And I was like, wow, like is. 0:28:26.560 --> 0:28:30.920 It because you think maybe one there being liars about 0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:33.000 how cool they are too, maybe they don't want you 0:28:33.040 --> 0:28:34.640 there thinking she wants to fuck someone else? 0:28:34.680 --> 0:28:35.280 Like what is it? 0:28:38.000 --> 0:28:38.880 I guess it would be. 0:28:40.360 --> 0:28:42.560 I put you on such a high level that I 0:28:42.600 --> 0:28:44.640 could never expect you to be okay with that. 0:28:44.760 --> 0:28:46.600 You put me on such a high level, you'd rather 0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:47.520 cheat and lie to me. 0:28:47.920 --> 0:28:50.480 Like I'm s well, I want to make this clear 0:28:50.520 --> 0:28:54.480 that I know I sound insane right now, Okay, no, 0:28:55.040 --> 0:28:57.720 but you also understand that men and I'm going to 0:28:57.920 --> 0:29:02.000 betray the men gender right now, that like we put 0:29:02.040 --> 0:29:04.560 women at such a high level that we will cheat 0:29:04.600 --> 0:29:06.920 with like bummier chicks to make us feel better, which 0:29:06.960 --> 0:29:09.000 is just weird. How we how we think that type 0:29:09.040 --> 0:29:11.080 of way because she's so highup on this level. Let 0:29:11.080 --> 0:29:15.400 me just go a bunch of other chicks over here 0:29:16.600 --> 0:29:17.480 crazy because. 0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:19.400 I think that sorry that I'm betraying us. Guys. 0:29:19.400 --> 0:29:22.479 He would get upset with me because my ass over shared. 0:29:22.600 --> 0:29:24.680 So every time we broke up, he knew the niggas 0:29:24.680 --> 0:29:26.120 I would go back to, and they were way littered 0:29:26.120 --> 0:29:30.720 in him. So that created like an insecurity because like. 0:29:31.400 --> 0:29:32.760 Men do the women cheat up. 0:29:33.160 --> 0:29:43.520 Women will not always, but you know, in some way, man, it's. 0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:46.560 Either a bigger dick, better looking, or more money. 0:29:46.800 --> 0:29:50.320 That's how we cheer, okay, and that's all the upgrade 0:29:50.320 --> 0:29:53.440 in some level of what you said. Men really base 0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:56.880 their value on and their security on those three things. 0:29:56.960 --> 0:29:59.960 Money and what was the other one? Good looking? 0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:00.560 No? 0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:03.000 No, look that's another one. 0:30:03.200 --> 0:30:04.720 Because I think a dude could be ugly and still 0:30:04.760 --> 0:30:07.040 be confident because he has money, big dick and height. 0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:09.760 Oh yeah, because them tall niggas be too confident. 0:30:09.920 --> 0:30:12.920 But but at that point does cheating become worse? Let 0:30:12.920 --> 0:30:19.239 me try to bring the gender back, let me in 0:30:19.280 --> 0:30:22.520 that regard. Doesn't that make y'all shittier human beings? And 0:30:22.600 --> 0:30:26.360 cheating cheating or cheating up, No, because if we're just 0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:28.760 trying to fuck something real quick, that's an urge, that's 0:30:29.280 --> 0:30:31.920 an ego thing. If you want someone to spend money 0:30:31.920 --> 0:30:33.840 on you, then you're mad. 0:30:34.800 --> 0:30:36.120 You know, we want you to do what. 0:30:38.600 --> 0:30:42.160 I think our cheating makes way more sense because we're 0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:44.920 doing it off an impulse to what is happening at 0:30:44.920 --> 0:30:45.160 the moment. 0:30:45.240 --> 0:30:49.800 We're women mostly cheat emotional. Yeah, I know it's case. 0:30:50.040 --> 0:30:52.880 But if you're cheating to get more money from somebody, 0:30:53.160 --> 0:30:56.360 if you're cheating to have better sex, if you're cheating 0:30:56.400 --> 0:30:58.760 because he's more handsome, go. 0:30:58.840 --> 0:30:59.560 Date that dude. 0:31:00.160 --> 0:31:01.800 I couldn't go. It's different. 0:31:01.840 --> 0:31:04.120 Like the girls that we cheat with typically we don't 0:31:04.160 --> 0:31:07.640 want to date like they don't fit any checklist. 0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:09.640 The way she just gave me a checklist for cheating, 0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:11.160 men is men. 0:31:11.200 --> 0:31:14.880 When it comes to cheating is convenience, the hope of silence, 0:31:15.440 --> 0:31:17.719 and the hope of me putting my phone like this 0:31:17.920 --> 0:31:19.280 and there's no notifications. 0:31:20.160 --> 0:31:23.640 How is it to cheat when the pussy is in 0:31:23.640 --> 0:31:24.400 the house you live. 0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:29.280 In, it's more than just the pussy. Normally, the chase, 0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:32.800 it's the sometimes time. Like all the married niggas that 0:31:32.920 --> 0:31:35.800 like was fucking me outside of their wives, Like there 0:31:35.880 --> 0:31:38.240 was never a conversation that they wanted to leave their wives. 0:31:38.400 --> 0:31:40.920 I just provided sometimes something different. There's also a lot 0:31:40.960 --> 0:31:43.280 of men which is really weird. They'll sit here and 0:31:43.720 --> 0:31:46.120 want to have three sons, want to do kinky shit, 0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:48.400 but won't do it with their wife, maybe like the 0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:50.800 level of respect that they have. They won't do it 0:31:50.840 --> 0:31:53.960 with the woman that they're actually with, that they're married to, 0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:56.680 that is the mother of their children, but they want 0:31:56.680 --> 0:31:58.280 to go do it with someone else because they still 0:31:58.320 --> 0:31:58.840 really want. 0:31:58.680 --> 0:31:59.000 To do that. 0:31:59.280 --> 0:32:02.880 And that's such a backwards viewpoint. It is because you. 0:32:03.000 --> 0:32:04.680 Marry the person that you want to do. 0:32:05.920 --> 0:32:09.160 Brinds more problems or I just think they view it's 0:32:09.280 --> 0:32:13.080 just a typical male ego bullshit. Where if my wife 0:32:13.160 --> 0:32:15.920 was into that, like she's some type of hope, maybe 0:32:16.960 --> 0:32:18.280 the most amazing marriage ever. 0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:20.120 Can't tell me how open she is. 0:32:20.520 --> 0:32:22.080 I want to ask you this because we talked about 0:32:22.080 --> 0:32:23.960 it a few weeks ago, and I'm curious what you 0:32:24.000 --> 0:32:27.040 think about this. Mandy and I were talking about can 0:32:27.080 --> 0:32:30.520 men have too much freedom? Do you semi enjoy parameters? 0:32:30.680 --> 0:32:32.520 And I asked this because. 0:32:34.800 --> 0:32:37.520 For I don't like them bitch. You could fuck them, 0:32:37.560 --> 0:32:39.160 but don't take them on dates. Don't get to know 0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:41.120 how many sisters the brothers they had, don't know. 0:32:41.320 --> 0:32:45.360 I guess that's not enough then, because because maybe more 0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:49.480 traditional men like the parameters. So hear me been fucking 0:32:49.480 --> 0:32:52.800 on and off BDD for years. And the other day 0:32:53.280 --> 0:32:54.520 I was out and I was like, oh, I told 0:32:54.560 --> 0:32:55.880 him I had a nigga and he was like, oh, 0:32:56.000 --> 0:32:57.560 I said, you my man, you know what I don't 0:32:57.600 --> 0:32:58.360 want to and he. 0:32:58.400 --> 0:32:59.000 Was like laughing. 0:32:59.120 --> 0:33:01.480 He's like, yo, be acting so crazy because I was like, 0:33:01.520 --> 0:33:03.120 who the fuck where you going? You just got a haircut. 0:33:04.040 --> 0:33:08.040 And he's like almost attracted to the crazy. And I 0:33:08.160 --> 0:33:11.480 wonder if the craziness is somehow because he knows I'm 0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:13.520 not that crazy but crazy enough to like act a 0:33:13.560 --> 0:33:16.120 little crazy. Is there a medium of where the crazy 0:33:16.160 --> 0:33:17.080 makes you feel wanted. 0:33:17.880 --> 0:33:19.000 It's an ego strom. 0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:19.440 I gonna hold you. 0:33:19.480 --> 0:33:22.040 I've said I'm not crazy enough. It's the ego stroke 0:33:22.160 --> 0:33:22.600 because I. 0:33:22.600 --> 0:33:25.040 Just don't niggas feel like I don't care or that 0:33:25.120 --> 0:33:29.640 I'll be good without them, and I'll just like, yeah, crazy, nigga, 0:33:29.680 --> 0:33:30.080 I got time. 0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:31.000 I'm making money. 0:33:31.040 --> 0:33:33.080 At one point, for sure, I don't want to sound 0:33:33.120 --> 0:33:36.520 like I'm evolved or mature grown, because I'm not. But 0:33:36.600 --> 0:33:39.640 I've definitely gotten out of that phase for sure, because 0:33:39.640 --> 0:33:41.920 I have too much in my life going on where 0:33:41.960 --> 0:33:44.479 that crazy shit is not cute, like a real crazy 0:33:44.560 --> 0:33:50.240 like a yeah, i'cause you're fucking everything up that's going on. 0:33:50.320 --> 0:33:51.520 No, Like if you call me and you look good, 0:33:51.520 --> 0:33:52.920 I'm be like, but who is she? Like? 0:33:53.080 --> 0:33:55.120 That's not crazy, am and then like to laugh about it, 0:33:55.120 --> 0:33:57.200 and I'll be like, like anyone else love you by? 0:33:57.760 --> 0:33:58.680 That's not crazy? 0:33:58.800 --> 0:34:00.000 Do you mumble it at the end of day? 0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:04.280 Don't too insecure to be like too crazy. Sorry, But 0:34:04.480 --> 0:34:07.960 at the same time, yeah, it's not a crazy crazy. 0:34:08.080 --> 0:34:09.440 Real people want. 0:34:09.280 --> 0:34:11.960 To feel wanted. I don't think that's crazy. You want 0:34:12.000 --> 0:34:14.239 people to be get very possessive, not upset about you, 0:34:14.280 --> 0:34:16.880 but you want people to have some type of fiery 0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:21.799 emotion about you. If there is a disagreement involving someone else, 0:34:22.800 --> 0:34:23.279 let me ask you. 0:34:23.440 --> 0:34:25.439 Oh God, what are we doing here? 0:34:25.600 --> 0:34:28.719 No, because to want the need, that's that's the thing 0:34:28.760 --> 0:34:30.719 that he would talk about, right, like not needing a man. 0:34:31.080 --> 0:34:33.600 You listen to him. No, no, no, that's where the 0:34:33.600 --> 0:34:34.560 guys will like throw. 0:34:34.400 --> 0:34:37.120 The he has passed away. I was never like an 0:34:37.160 --> 0:34:38.640 advocate of him. But rest in peace. 0:34:41.280 --> 0:34:45.520 Don't come on in peace, in peace, mayhem on this, 0:34:46.320 --> 0:34:49.120 rest in your grave. That's young man's. 0:34:48.680 --> 0:34:51.280 Really mean to say to something camera. 0:34:51.480 --> 0:35:00.480 And he didn't harm anyone like for real hes anyway. 0:35:00.760 --> 0:35:03.399 I say that because a lot of the I wasn't 0:35:03.440 --> 0:35:05.319 a fan of them. I just when people die. 0:35:05.560 --> 0:35:08.560 It's not like he fucking did mass GENOCIDEY he was 0:35:08.600 --> 0:35:10.680 just a mean guy on the internet. Then we shouldn't 0:35:10.680 --> 0:35:13.160 say recipes to anyone that tweets you're right. 0:35:13.680 --> 0:35:16.080 Okay, let you get your shit off. 0:35:16.239 --> 0:35:19.440 So I say that because I believe after the Kevin 0:35:19.480 --> 0:35:22.759 Samuel's era of youtubing, a lot of stuff like that 0:35:22.800 --> 0:35:26.520 followed through and and I think that there might be 0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:29.480 a little bit of truth in needing to show someone 0:35:29.520 --> 0:35:31.600 you want them, but at the same time not giving 0:35:31.640 --> 0:35:33.840 up your whole self. So tell me some things a 0:35:33.840 --> 0:35:36.320 woman has maybe done to you that make you feel wanted, 0:35:37.000 --> 0:35:39.200 and then in that same breath, things that a girl 0:35:39.239 --> 0:35:41.600 has done where you're like this too much. 0:35:41.960 --> 0:35:46.800 Uh, it's weird. It's twenties, my thirties. The same things 0:35:46.840 --> 0:35:49.760 that have made me feel wanted make me feel now, wow, 0:35:51.480 --> 0:35:52.120 have changed for me? 0:35:52.719 --> 0:35:55.759 I mean kind of back to the crazy conversation of 0:35:55.800 --> 0:35:59.359 like really flipping the fuck out in a way, And 0:35:59.400 --> 0:36:01.480 even in the moment, it didn't make me feel good 0:36:01.600 --> 0:36:04.360 or wanted, but it did bring some type of validation 0:36:04.440 --> 0:36:07.799 of like, are you not going nowhere? Like where there 0:36:07.800 --> 0:36:09.799 could be a screen match right now, or there could 0:36:09.840 --> 0:36:13.000 be you just showing up to my crib or you're 0:36:13.000 --> 0:36:14.640 trying to go through my phone. At least I know 0:36:14.680 --> 0:36:16.000 you're not going nowhere anymore. 0:36:16.719 --> 0:36:18.440 And I agree. 0:36:18.800 --> 0:36:22.680 I listen, I was a nasty twenty year olds, but 0:36:22.719 --> 0:36:23.200 I think. 0:36:23.040 --> 0:36:25.520 Like that though grown thirty forty year old mens today, 0:36:25.640 --> 0:36:27.200 But you ain't going nowhere. 0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:29.120 Oh it give me a crane. 0:36:30.880 --> 0:36:33.520 And I never said it, but I never said that 0:36:33.520 --> 0:36:34.840 out loud, but I did think. 0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:38.520 It, which is which is I think even crazier. 0:36:38.080 --> 0:36:39.640 Like I'm not cool enough to ever stand into it. 0:36:39.680 --> 0:36:42.080 Bro Like I would sound pard you ain't going nowhere? 0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:43.320 Like hey, you would. 0:36:43.080 --> 0:36:45.840 Tell me about an email or how you were blocked 0:36:45.840 --> 0:36:46.600 and there's an email. 0:36:46.680 --> 0:36:47.200 Do you remember that? 0:36:47.360 --> 0:36:47.600 Yes? 0:36:47.960 --> 0:36:49.920 And I was like that's so fucking nuts, and you're 0:36:49.960 --> 0:36:52.720 like I was like, damn, this is toxic. 0:36:53.040 --> 0:36:57.960 Yeah yeah, but at the time I was like, then 0:36:58.000 --> 0:36:58.680 maybe you can. 0:36:58.760 --> 0:37:04.239 I be honest to you, Demirius as well as a 0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:07.440 bisexual myself with the real nails, because I'd be ready 0:37:07.719 --> 0:37:12.959 if the bitches want it, right. I actually commend men 0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.799 and this is going to be my toxic takee. I 0:37:16.040 --> 0:37:21.280 actually talking to my friends giving them advice. Could never 0:37:21.719 --> 0:37:24.560 date a woman. I think that they're nuts. I think 0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:26.560 that they're insane. I think that they're clingy, I think 0:37:26.560 --> 0:37:29.560 that they acquire a whole lot. And so to me, sexually, 0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:31.960 I love being with women, but I can never date one. 0:37:32.200 --> 0:37:32.520 Mind you. 0:37:32.560 --> 0:37:34.240 I'm on this pot every week talking about how niggas 0:37:34.239 --> 0:37:36.080 ain't shit, and to me, the fact that I think 0:37:36.440 --> 0:37:37.239 niggas have. 0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:40.120 A little bit of an over dealing with a. 0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:42.319 Woman, just based off of how I know a lot 0:37:42.360 --> 0:37:44.360 of these dudes, the lying and the cheating. 0:37:44.840 --> 0:37:47.080 We have a lot more opportunity to have that be 0:37:47.440 --> 0:37:49.719 dating a guy where I would rather deal with a 0:37:49.719 --> 0:37:51.960 girl that might be a little more emotional and being honest. 0:37:52.080 --> 0:37:54.080 Oh yeah, nah, I can't do all the emotions. And 0:37:54.080 --> 0:37:56.680 then also, bitch, we can fight because he's the thing, 0:37:57.000 --> 0:38:01.759 like this bitch is just here naming nigga's name. They 0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:04.319 ain't supposed to be on the guy here r like 0:38:04.480 --> 0:38:07.080 Jesus the throw. 0:38:07.920 --> 0:38:13.200 No, we're Eskimo those that one. 0:38:13.360 --> 0:38:14.440 Y'all Eskimo brothers. 0:38:14.560 --> 0:38:16.680 Now, y'all want to stop talking in cold and Morse 0:38:16.719 --> 0:38:17.040 code and. 0:38:17.040 --> 0:38:21.040 Ship y'all gotta be okay, not our threatfle When I 0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:23.960 was dating her, no. 0:38:24.080 --> 0:38:27.160 We just the same girl at the same time. No, No, 0:38:28.040 --> 0:38:29.080 in the same time frame. 0:38:29.200 --> 0:38:31.440 Oh my god, I forgot because given that Rory has 0:38:31.440 --> 0:38:33.239 our same type, because I would be around bitches that 0:38:33.680 --> 0:38:35.560 Rory and he'd be like, are y'all really friends? And 0:38:35.560 --> 0:38:37.400 I'm like, man, I'm trying to fuck She's fun. I 0:38:37.440 --> 0:38:40.080 have my type. I shouldn't have that girl, and you're 0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:42.319 still on the edit part right. I want to say that, now, 0:38:42.840 --> 0:38:45.120 keep three person Rory is. I think they were all 0:38:45.400 --> 0:38:46.080 like super high. 0:38:46.520 --> 0:38:49.040 Me and Rory have the same exact so we have 0:38:49.120 --> 0:38:52.920 the same ext I wonder what your type is because 0:38:52.920 --> 0:38:53.560 that was my type. 0:38:53.600 --> 0:38:55.680 But she said, no, wait which one were talking about? 0:38:55.880 --> 0:38:56.960 You don't know who we're talking about. 0:38:57.120 --> 0:38:59.719 No, I'm talking about the one, the friend that you 0:38:59.800 --> 0:39:02.160 know we would hang out. I'm not gonna put her 0:39:02.160 --> 0:39:06.680 geography on where she lives. Now, oh yeah, she was fired. 0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:07.680 That body was banging. 0:39:07.880 --> 0:39:11.080 No, I think my jersey belongs in the rafters, but 0:39:12.280 --> 0:39:13.160 wildly er. 0:39:13.400 --> 0:39:14.080 Belongs to the rest. 0:39:14.160 --> 0:39:17.200 It was just never you, yeah man, because now I'm 0:39:17.200 --> 0:39:18.880 thinking about she was incredible. 0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:21.239 She was incredible. Oh yeah, I got it. 0:39:21.280 --> 0:39:26.480 But I got a good type, the best, but. 0:39:28.320 --> 0:39:29.319 Like a super chick. 0:39:30.000 --> 0:39:32.680 I mean again, I quietly just move move around. 0:39:32.800 --> 0:39:34.680 I see you with like the slim, but they got 0:39:34.680 --> 0:39:35.960 a fat But when they turn around. 0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:39.360 You're like, oh, that's my type. Is slim that has cursed, 0:39:40.520 --> 0:39:41.360 like actual curse. 0:39:41.840 --> 0:39:43.400 But she was. She was. 0:39:44.520 --> 0:39:47.160 I mean that was That was a long time ago, 0:39:47.239 --> 0:39:49.960 but that was my really still. I used to think, ya, 0:39:51.000 --> 0:39:54.760 I tried, you failed she but she's not good. 0:39:54.640 --> 0:39:55.359 Because I don't pay. 0:39:55.400 --> 0:39:56.440 So I was trying to get her to go on 0:39:56.440 --> 0:39:57.640 a whole trip with me, oh. 0:39:57.800 --> 0:40:00.400 My me and my nigga. 0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:03.640 But I set up, I set a cap and well 0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:04.240 he was gonna. 0:40:04.080 --> 0:40:07.520 Pay pitches and she wanted more than he was, like, bitch, 0:40:07.640 --> 0:40:10.640 we could get these instagram like big time bitches for. 0:40:10.680 --> 0:40:14.520 This time, we're not going to work my work integrity, 0:40:14.840 --> 0:40:16.080 I mean yeah, the Instagram. 0:40:16.719 --> 0:40:17.719 Yeah, like she. 0:40:19.200 --> 0:40:20.480 And first of all. I want to make this very 0:40:20.480 --> 0:40:21.360 clear everyone listening. 0:40:21.480 --> 0:40:24.600 Yes, I was dealing with her way before she got 0:40:24.640 --> 0:40:25.439 into this line of work. 0:40:25.800 --> 0:40:30.279 Oh, I'm sure I on that one. 0:40:30.320 --> 0:40:32.200 No, no, no, Back then, she wasn't doing that work. 0:40:32.640 --> 0:40:33.600 I was trying to either. 0:40:33.640 --> 0:40:35.120 We were civilians in the world at that point. 0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:38.360 We need some money, I got I thought, I said, no. 0:40:38.480 --> 0:40:40.319 It was literally this is where I'm probably bad. She 0:40:40.400 --> 0:40:41.880 was fine as fuck. We hung out, I had a 0:40:41.920 --> 0:40:45.200 great time. I was like, oh, you want a financial drug. 0:40:45.040 --> 0:40:46.799 Well you can come fuck me and my niggas. But 0:40:46.880 --> 0:40:48.280 my nigga not a predator. 0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:51.680 Yeah, why would you grow my friend like that? 0:40:53.840 --> 0:40:56.200 But I'm not buying Nate. I like to help people 0:40:56.280 --> 0:40:57.640 out and listen. 0:40:57.440 --> 0:40:59.680 Wait, tell me what what what the crisis. 0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:01.719 We hadn't spoken in a really long time. 0:41:01.760 --> 0:41:05.040 She sent me a really inappropriate text message on my birthday. 0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:07.200 Oh oh like. 0:41:08.120 --> 0:41:09.520 I deleted that immediately. 0:41:10.520 --> 0:41:14.400 Swim not like that, not daddy. 0:41:14.680 --> 0:41:18.319 She don't want a kid. She said something nice like 0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:21.520 you old now, but I'd still fuck like in a 0:41:21.600 --> 0:41:25.880 nice We had a similar sharks But oh I did that. 0:41:25.880 --> 0:41:29.440 I didn't not delete that. Okay, well I'm a little peaceful. 0:41:29.640 --> 0:41:31.520 Yeah, sharing it on a pot. Would you describe your 0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:34.719 baby mama as crazy? It's okay to say baby mama, 0:41:34.760 --> 0:41:36.000 or do you like to say mother my child? Because 0:41:36.000 --> 0:41:36.839 I love saying baby daddy. 0:41:38.400 --> 0:41:40.920 Whatever works here. I'm now I'm terrified. But I never 0:41:40.920 --> 0:41:42.240 even realized there was cameras here. 0:41:43.680 --> 0:41:46.080 At the point, I love saying, Remember that girl got 0:41:46.080 --> 0:41:47.040 mad at me on stage. 0:41:47.560 --> 0:41:49.520 This girl came up in Detroit. Shout out to her. 0:41:49.520 --> 0:41:51.440 I really wasn't trying to be disrespectful this hot talk. 0:41:51.719 --> 0:41:53.520 She like, we've been together six seventeen years. I'm like, 0:41:53.520 --> 0:41:54.440 oh yeah, baby daddy. 0:41:54.719 --> 0:41:58.160 But I was just talking and she's like now, I 0:41:58.239 --> 0:42:02.080 was like, I'm gonna be the men gender again, the 0:42:02.120 --> 0:42:03.240 trail of the male gender. 0:42:03.320 --> 0:42:05.000 I think it's up to the girl if she wants 0:42:05.000 --> 0:42:06.400 to be called baby mother. 0:42:06.480 --> 0:42:09.840 That's fair because I think you could see that's offensive 0:42:10.080 --> 0:42:12.600 because you also some women think it's the same way 0:42:12.640 --> 0:42:14.080 you say it, like it's fun to say it sometimes. 0:42:14.120 --> 0:42:16.480 Oh yeah, I'm gonna say that. When I got a husband, daddy, 0:42:16.560 --> 0:42:17.160 I'm coming back. 0:42:17.320 --> 0:42:20.080 I get like, why women would be mad if you 0:42:20.200 --> 0:42:21.440 call them your baby. 0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:22.840 We're together, don't call me your baby mother, call me 0:42:22.920 --> 0:42:23.440 your partner. 0:42:23.520 --> 0:42:25.439 And if we fucking don't introduce me as your friend 0:42:25.440 --> 0:42:27.319 because I will fuck everybody around you. 0:42:27.840 --> 0:42:31.000 Like I didn't, bitch, carry. 0:42:32.840 --> 0:42:34.839 They got to flut out this niggas on the Wizards 0:42:34.960 --> 0:42:37.920 and his team was choosing like about three of them niggas. 0:42:37.960 --> 0:42:39.760 And this is back in my Space days. Them niggas 0:42:39.760 --> 0:42:42.480 slid in the my Space GM. They would have slid 0:42:42.480 --> 0:42:45.080 in the DMS if you hadn't introduced me as your friend. 0:42:45.360 --> 0:42:47.279 And so since iing just your friend, nigga. 0:42:47.239 --> 0:42:50.400 Your friend put me on, why ain't people say anything? 0:42:50.560 --> 0:42:54.359 Just say this is Mandy and I'm not this is 0:42:54.360 --> 0:42:55.040 this my friend? 0:42:55.040 --> 0:42:57.480 Oh bitch, I cringe. I said, so your friend just 0:42:57.480 --> 0:42:59.440 eat your ass like this? So your friend just go 0:42:59.480 --> 0:43:00.879 to the sex and fuck you like. 0:43:00.840 --> 0:43:03.440 This, bet in the ass. 0:43:03.760 --> 0:43:05.239 I didn't suck him in the ass. No, but he 0:43:05.280 --> 0:43:06.640 was the first person to made me squirt. 0:43:06.960 --> 0:43:08.520 He was the nigga you met. 0:43:08.440 --> 0:43:15.640 Him, but uh yeah, like I didn't know to me 0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:17.480 to me an introduct was this the one that you 0:43:17.520 --> 0:43:18.839 did MMS with? 0:43:19.320 --> 0:43:20.040 No, you're. 0:43:21.680 --> 0:43:25.200 This is the nigga that this is. This is the 0:43:25.200 --> 0:43:26.960 one who wanted me to piss in a cup with. 0:43:27.560 --> 0:43:31.440 Oh I'm sorry. He was in the golden showers. Then 0:43:31.480 --> 0:43:33.960 he wanted me to squirt into a cup and so 0:43:34.000 --> 0:43:36.480 he could mix it with sorak and drink it. Yeah, 0:43:36.520 --> 0:43:40.000 it was real wow because she said pissed and he 0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:43.200 would be proud, but no, it wasn't him. But yeah, 0:43:43.280 --> 0:43:45.919 like to me, it's crazy because while we're talking about 0:43:45.920 --> 0:43:49.360 titles and how you introduce your partner, there are ways 0:43:49.400 --> 0:43:53.200 if you introduce somebody the wrong way or the title 0:43:53.280 --> 0:43:55.239 that they feel like, well, bitch, I thought he was 0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:58.239 more like, that's a real quick way to kind of 0:43:59.160 --> 0:44:00.480 fuck up a relationship. 0:44:00.520 --> 0:44:02.160 We're going to introduce you to us his girlfriend and 0:44:02.200 --> 0:44:04.480 you ain't know you was his girlfriend? Oh oh wait, 0:44:04.920 --> 0:44:05.479 how did that? 0:44:05.480 --> 0:44:05.640 That? 0:44:05.680 --> 0:44:06.360 Has that happened? 0:44:06.440 --> 0:44:06.720 Yes? 0:44:07.200 --> 0:44:08.920 And how did you did you check him in the 0:44:08.920 --> 0:44:10.520 moment and been like I ain't his girlfriend? 0:44:11.080 --> 0:44:13.640 Bause now because the ship was like I'm cool being 0:44:13.680 --> 0:44:16.120 your girlfriend, but I wasn't your girlfriend last week when 0:44:16.120 --> 0:44:18.080 I thought I was single and I was on another 0:44:18.160 --> 0:44:19.439 date doing what I was doing. 0:44:19.480 --> 0:44:20.560 So I was just sitting there like. 0:44:20.440 --> 0:44:23.240 Ooh, wow, you betrayed him. I betray him. 0:44:23.400 --> 0:44:25.799 Niggas started saying, what did jay Z say? 0:44:26.160 --> 0:44:28.160 I said, don't embarrass me instead of beat mine? That 0:44:28.280 --> 0:44:29.680 was my proposal for us to go study. 0:44:29.840 --> 0:44:34.160 Nah, be clear. You need to be clear, baby. I 0:44:34.280 --> 0:44:37.319 wanted to save my boe man. You know what's crazy 0:44:37.320 --> 0:44:37.719 about than that? 0:44:37.760 --> 0:44:41.680 And I shaid that I hate the don't babey boomy babe, 0:44:42.120 --> 0:44:44.840 none of the cat names unless there is something happening 0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:47.359 between us, and we're going like, I hate the cat 0:44:47.440 --> 0:44:51.319 names out the gate, don't sweetie, Piety, don't sunshine me. 0:44:51.440 --> 0:44:53.560 Don't you really upset about that sunshine text? 0:44:53.600 --> 0:44:56.480 Bro, because call me babe if I tell you, don't call 0:44:56.520 --> 0:44:58.279 me babe. And I then checked you on the cat 0:44:58.360 --> 0:44:59.920 names and said, it's mandy. 0:45:00.000 --> 0:45:00.360 You don't know what. 0:45:01.880 --> 0:45:03.040 Well he called you sunshine. 0:45:04.520 --> 0:45:07.200 Well, he's a Florida niggas, so maybe it's the Sunshine state. 0:45:07.280 --> 0:45:10.360 I don't know. You called me sunshine, and it is 0:45:10.440 --> 0:45:10.920 kind of wild. 0:45:11.840 --> 0:45:14.080 It's like to me, if a man out the gate 0:45:14.440 --> 0:45:17.040 gives you all these nicknames, it's because he's juggling so 0:45:17.040 --> 0:45:18.560 many women he don't know their names. 0:45:18.719 --> 0:45:22.640 I had a guy called me Queen's probably true. 0:45:22.760 --> 0:45:23.840 That sounds good on paper. 0:45:24.200 --> 0:45:25.480 No, you don't think you said that. 0:45:25.440 --> 0:45:27.600 About her last situation and it ended up being true. 0:45:27.600 --> 0:45:28.960 So I need you to be a little bit bored. 0:45:29.800 --> 0:45:31.960 You don't think that he can juggle that and know 0:45:32.000 --> 0:45:34.840 everyone's name. You can save names in your phone. Hold you, 0:45:34.960 --> 0:45:36.320 you think he has you saved the sunshine? 0:45:36.440 --> 0:45:37.520 Hold you. You know what's crazy. 0:45:37.680 --> 0:45:40.400 I'll make nicknames up so much like we called niggas 0:45:40.480 --> 0:45:41.640 nicknames on the podcast. 0:45:41.920 --> 0:45:43.640 Well, that's podcasting, that's. 0:45:43.480 --> 0:45:46.200 Not my homegirls. 0:45:46.560 --> 0:45:48.839 They sometimes don't know these niggas names to the point 0:45:48.840 --> 0:45:50.479 where I forget their names. 0:45:50.520 --> 0:45:50.840 Sometimes. 0:45:51.080 --> 0:45:53.879 That's the one thing I would want to know from 0:45:53.920 --> 0:45:56.279 my past. I know your nicknames and group chats. 0:45:56.280 --> 0:45:56.839 I want to know. 0:45:57.200 --> 0:45:59.960 That's the only thing I want to know. White cat 0:46:00.960 --> 0:46:02.600 not white, I think it. 0:46:02.640 --> 0:46:04.360 I think at one point that was a thing, but 0:46:04.440 --> 0:46:05.720 that wasn't like twenty eleven. 0:46:05.800 --> 0:46:08.200 It's given ginger. I want to cast my podcast. 0:46:09.280 --> 0:46:13.759 Do say we changed the name in the middle of 0:46:13.760 --> 0:46:14.399 it wouldn't work? 0:46:14.600 --> 0:46:17.759 No, No, Then what about like charming young man? 0:46:18.080 --> 0:46:20.759 That's not a Now, I don't think ginger would be 0:46:20.760 --> 0:46:23.120 at that women give in your case, it's probably like 0:46:23.120 --> 0:46:24.400 you know that white white fucking. 0:46:25.200 --> 0:46:27.000 Or it could be Unfortunately, I think that's probably it, 0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:30.640 that's what it was. But I don't think podcaster. 0:46:31.080 --> 0:46:33.560 You don't think podcast question are you a lot of 0:46:34.400 --> 0:46:35.040 first white guy. 0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:39.120 I've never asked that question, so, but no. 0:46:39.080 --> 0:46:42.520 But we'll tell like, do you assume so then you 0:46:42.560 --> 0:46:43.200 don't know for sure. 0:46:44.080 --> 0:46:46.879 The only time I remember that even being a thing 0:46:47.000 --> 0:46:49.640 was in college, when you know, if you weren't a 0:46:49.680 --> 0:46:52.080 hoe in high school like myself, A lot of people's 0:46:52.080 --> 0:46:53.520 introduction to sex was in college. 0:46:53.800 --> 0:46:54.640 So yeah, there was definitely. 0:46:54.640 --> 0:46:57.080 And I went to an all black college, so there 0:46:57.200 --> 0:47:00.040 was a few times where women may have brought. 0:46:59.800 --> 0:47:01.719 It that you know, it's crazy, but that was because 0:47:01.719 --> 0:47:02.880 you are so new to everything. 0:47:03.560 --> 0:47:08.120 Fantasy. You're just saying fantasy, that's not nice. 0:47:08.200 --> 0:47:10.120 I may have gotten I may have gotten some pussy 0:47:10.120 --> 0:47:13.480 I didn't deserve and college because they just wanted to guy. 0:47:13.719 --> 0:47:15.560 I was talking about like my white guy type recently 0:47:16.320 --> 0:47:18.960 and there was a dude who was that last lap. 0:47:19.000 --> 0:47:20.359 I don't know him. He knew me. 0:47:20.280 --> 0:47:22.480 From Shaffer, No. 0:47:26.760 --> 0:47:29.560 La, he's a specific type you, but what's your white 0:47:29.560 --> 0:47:30.240 guy's type? 0:47:30.680 --> 0:47:32.400 And I'm like, I'm trying to think he's like, is 0:47:32.440 --> 0:47:35.120 it like a like a Black association type, like a 0:47:35.239 --> 0:47:37.160 rory or like a CAP And I was like, like 0:47:37.239 --> 0:47:38.400 a Rory is crazy. 0:47:38.960 --> 0:47:41.000 I know what you mean. It's like, you're not like 0:47:41.040 --> 0:47:42.640 a wigger, but you also. 0:47:42.400 --> 0:47:44.200 Have a lot of black friends a starter pack. 0:47:44.600 --> 0:47:48.719 Yeah, he was actually not that. I want them to be. 0:47:50.320 --> 0:47:51.960 A little friend. He's a little further than me. 0:47:53.680 --> 0:47:55.120 Bit he's just from the South. 0:47:55.280 --> 0:47:58.000 He opens his mouth and it's sunshine. 0:47:57.719 --> 0:48:00.320 I'm wearing wolf socks, Like, I don't think that, and 0:48:00.360 --> 0:48:00.799 I'm a grill. 0:48:00.880 --> 0:48:07.920 I want I wanted to ask DeMars now that, like 0:48:08.320 --> 0:48:11.920 you outside, with all of the publicity of who you are, 0:48:11.960 --> 0:48:13.799 You're on the Reddit threads, you're on YouTube. 0:48:13.840 --> 0:48:15.000 You are like that bitch. 0:48:15.080 --> 0:48:17.960 Now, I want to know, like, if you've fucked someone 0:48:18.080 --> 0:48:22.200 who was a fan of yours or if like your 0:48:22.280 --> 0:48:24.360 dms are super lit, how do you how do you 0:48:24.360 --> 0:48:27.520 decipher who you'll fuck based on them probably really liking 0:48:27.560 --> 0:48:29.000 you because you're on a podcast. 0:48:29.080 --> 0:48:31.160 So I'm I was actually gonna ask you guys for 0:48:31.200 --> 0:48:34.440 advice on that because I have no clue, because I'm 0:48:34.520 --> 0:48:36.600 fucking terrified that I'm gonna fuck someone of my sex 0:48:36.600 --> 0:48:39.880 tape's gonna end up on our fucking reddituck. 0:48:39.080 --> 0:48:42.160 To make red house and don't allow them to videotape you. 0:48:42.200 --> 0:48:46.480 That's I'm so like, I'm terrified always well. 0:48:46.320 --> 0:48:48.480 No, that's if you go to their house. They could 0:48:48.520 --> 0:48:49.879 set it up in a hidden teddy bear. 0:48:50.000 --> 0:48:51.040 That's all right, I know. 0:48:52.520 --> 0:48:52.560 It. 0:48:52.600 --> 0:48:55.360 And if you niggas are ready doing that, are you serious? 0:48:55.400 --> 0:48:56.200 I joined. 0:48:56.280 --> 0:48:59.720 I actually like niggas my lead. They laptop open. 0:48:59.760 --> 0:49:03.440 And when I joined, when I joined Hinge for the 0:49:03.480 --> 0:49:05.760 first time, right when I decided that I was single, 0:49:06.200 --> 0:49:09.840 I joined Hinge and I matched with multiple guys. And 0:49:09.880 --> 0:49:11.560 the first thing they say is, hey, big fan of 0:49:11.600 --> 0:49:15.279 the pod yo unmatched. We'll all do respect, sir, we'll 0:49:15.280 --> 0:49:16.200 all do respect. 0:49:17.200 --> 0:49:18.319 That's a good guy, though. 0:49:18.400 --> 0:49:20.040 No, I don't want to you think. 0:49:20.000 --> 0:49:22.959 You think you think our target audience. 0:49:24.280 --> 0:49:24.320 Ing. 0:49:24.520 --> 0:49:29.160 And when guys sans at least the women, God. 0:49:29.080 --> 0:49:31.040 Have you, that's your single time. 0:49:31.719 --> 0:49:33.000 Don't do this. You know what's crazy. 0:49:33.040 --> 0:49:36.360 Actually it wasn't until and I know y'all are listening, 0:49:36.400 --> 0:49:40.560 so this is gonna sound crazy. So last year I 0:49:40.640 --> 0:49:44.560 hosted a FED dinner like fed life. They they've heard 0:49:44.560 --> 0:49:47.080 about it. It was like a formal erotic dining experience. 0:49:47.719 --> 0:49:50.760 That is, formal erotic dining experience. 0:49:51.320 --> 0:49:52.000 Didn't invite us. 0:49:53.320 --> 0:49:55.480 Well, it was erotic. It was erotic dining. It was 0:49:55.520 --> 0:49:58.359 a lot going on, and it was wonderful. But then 0:49:58.400 --> 0:50:02.160 we also hosted a play party the next night. So 0:50:02.239 --> 0:50:04.680 one of the girls who was a slave for the 0:50:04.800 --> 0:50:10.200 night was fine, was bondaged up and beautiful, so I 0:50:10.320 --> 0:50:12.560 really wanted her. And she happened to be with like 0:50:12.600 --> 0:50:15.839 this biracial guy who had this big afro and hair 0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:20.760 and uh So when we went to the play party 0:50:22.440 --> 0:50:24.600 and I was with my partner at this time, we 0:50:24.719 --> 0:50:28.640 all played okay, and I ended up helping her suck 0:50:28.680 --> 0:50:29.040 his dick. 0:50:29.400 --> 0:50:31.000 Okay, now not. 0:50:31.160 --> 0:50:33.319 She helped say, I'm sure she couldn't do it all 0:50:33.360 --> 0:50:35.239 because it was the size of my arm. 0:50:35.400 --> 0:50:37.000 She said that in the cadence of like I helped 0:50:37.000 --> 0:50:41.040 her literally, I helped her hair. 0:50:41.560 --> 0:50:42.560 She threw up in the toilet. 0:50:42.640 --> 0:50:45.760 I know, I helped her suck as big asstick. And 0:50:46.280 --> 0:50:48.600 I was really interested in her more than anything. 0:50:48.600 --> 0:50:51.000 But his tick was big. I was drunk. Short, we're 0:50:51.040 --> 0:50:51.920 at a sex club, why not? 0:50:52.760 --> 0:50:56.399 So we are in now I'm probably sharing, y'all gonna 0:50:56.400 --> 0:51:00.560 get the tea. So we're in Chicago this weekend and 0:51:01.680 --> 0:51:04.520 she dms me, Hey, we're coming to the show tonight. 0:51:04.600 --> 0:51:07.840 Mind you we met that night, didn't know she met. 0:51:08.080 --> 0:51:12.000 She came to the party because her partner or that 0:51:12.120 --> 0:51:14.680 night find out all of this later. So they're on 0:51:14.800 --> 0:51:15.400 the stage. 0:51:15.920 --> 0:51:17.160 I'm like, you know, he's. 0:51:16.880 --> 0:51:20.520 Familiar because he came to Chicago. Were you skipping the guy? 0:51:20.680 --> 0:51:22.759 Understanding we saw him years ago? I didn't know that 0:51:22.800 --> 0:51:23.800 I saw him years. 0:51:23.600 --> 0:51:25.839 Ago, but he wasn't at the show. 0:51:25.920 --> 0:51:27.120 I didn't. So this is the thing. 0:51:27.160 --> 0:51:29.480 He was at the sex club. We bring him up 0:51:29.480 --> 0:51:33.319 on stage to the Chicago show this year. But I'm 0:51:33.360 --> 0:51:36.160 talking to the girl because the girl's gorgeous. So I'm 0:51:36.160 --> 0:51:38.279 talking to the girl like, hey, girl, da. So they 0:51:38.320 --> 0:51:39.560 come up on stage. I'm like, you want to come 0:51:39.600 --> 0:51:41.440 up for the couple's game. They come up on stage. 0:51:41.680 --> 0:51:43.279 I'm like, girls, it okay if I talk about we 0:51:43.320 --> 0:51:44.200 played at the sex club. 0:51:44.280 --> 0:51:46.720 Yeah. So we're coming back to New York. 0:51:47.520 --> 0:51:51.760 I get a DM from his ex girlfriend and he's like, ooh, 0:51:52.080 --> 0:51:52.720 not y'all. 0:51:52.560 --> 0:51:55.120 Having my ex on stage and almost messing up. 0:51:54.800 --> 0:51:57.160 Like she's like, this is the ex okay. 0:51:57.400 --> 0:51:58.320 So she then. 0:51:58.239 --> 0:52:01.799 Sends me a picture from four years years ago of 0:52:01.880 --> 0:52:05.680 him and her at our Chicago show four years ago. 0:52:06.040 --> 0:52:09.279 So I said, oh, not the girls looking like a 0:52:09.360 --> 0:52:11.480 cur So she's like, I see that, you know, he's 0:52:11.480 --> 0:52:14.399 with someone that looks like me. But I'm also just like, oh, 0:52:14.400 --> 0:52:17.000 he's a fan of the show. He came to the 0:52:17.000 --> 0:52:20.200 Horrible Decisions show four years ago. I didn't know that 0:52:20.200 --> 0:52:22.080 they knew anything about Horrible Decisions when I met them, 0:52:22.120 --> 0:52:25.080 because I really ran everything through the girl. She wasn't 0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:28.360 that familiar at the time. And I'm like, damn, you 0:52:28.440 --> 0:52:31.359 helped suck that fandy. I sucked fan Dick. 0:52:31.960 --> 0:52:33.239 I did not know. 0:52:34.239 --> 0:52:36.399 But also, to be completely honest. 0:52:36.120 --> 0:52:39.000 In context, though it's sex club dick, well. 0:52:39.040 --> 0:52:41.319 Yeah, good one. Well yes, but also and they got 0:52:41.320 --> 0:52:42.000 to all know you there. 0:52:42.160 --> 0:52:45.840 Yeah, no, calm down, you're a regular. 0:52:51.560 --> 0:52:55.759 Yeah, but I go to the club often, and like, 0:52:55.760 --> 0:52:57.719 like people used to come up and say, like at 0:52:57.760 --> 0:53:00.720 the end of the night that they were like betting 0:53:00.719 --> 0:53:02.600 who could fuck me and my man, like. 0:53:02.640 --> 0:53:04.600 We were probably like we're great. 0:53:05.040 --> 0:53:07.319 Like people are like wanting to play with us, but 0:53:07.520 --> 0:53:09.680 I never really play with people, and especially when. 0:53:09.680 --> 0:53:11.400 You're like the last boss in the videos. 0:53:12.800 --> 0:53:14.680 But also when they're like, oh my god, we're fans 0:53:14.680 --> 0:53:16.799 of the pod, I'd be like, oh, thank you, and 0:53:16.880 --> 0:53:18.879 I ast them off completely as someone that I want 0:53:18.880 --> 0:53:21.480 to play with. Okay, I don't like fucking fans. I 0:53:21.520 --> 0:53:23.120 just can't believe you in front of fans. 0:53:23.239 --> 0:53:24.000 It's crazy too. 0:53:24.320 --> 0:53:25.520 Oh, I ain't gonna hold you. 0:53:25.600 --> 0:53:27.920 I mean, it's a multi media experience. 0:53:30.560 --> 0:53:34.759 It's a three D immersion experience. And fraud on this. 0:53:36.480 --> 0:53:38.560 Back, sucking that dick right down in front of everybody? 0:53:38.640 --> 0:53:38.920 Shall do? 0:53:39.000 --> 0:53:40.160 And I eat ass in front of everybody. 0:53:40.160 --> 0:53:42.120 I don't shit. I don't be lying to people. 0:53:42.120 --> 0:53:44.960 Oh yeah, I had you guys have exposed another fans 0:53:44.960 --> 0:53:47.239 of vagina in front of me at one of your 0:53:47.239 --> 0:53:47.920 live shows that. 0:53:47.920 --> 0:53:48.640 I didn't want to see. 0:53:48.800 --> 0:53:49.800 They are girl. 0:53:49.800 --> 0:53:52.120 We showed vagina at the Black pig Fest. That bitch 0:53:52.200 --> 0:53:54.760 bent over in the whole audience saw. 0:53:54.680 --> 0:53:56.759 Kouchie okay speak speaking of which I need to be 0:53:56.760 --> 0:53:58.560 at the next show, Like I need to be at 0:53:58.560 --> 0:53:59.000 the next show. 0:53:59.000 --> 0:54:00.839 Our New York show is gonna be no, because when 0:54:00.880 --> 0:54:02.759 you're a sex slave, I think it's Tony Hall at 0:54:02.760 --> 0:54:03.240 one point. 0:54:03.320 --> 0:54:07.480 Yeah, yeah, you gotta come back. Was it Atlanta to 0:54:07.640 --> 0:54:08.600 be insane? Yeah? 0:54:08.600 --> 0:54:09.680 I had to see that vagina. 0:54:10.200 --> 0:54:13.040 It's possible. We have a lot of vagina was getting shown. 0:54:13.160 --> 0:54:15.600 I'm not gonna lie. We had to COVID shout out. 0:54:15.520 --> 0:54:19.000 To I didn't know everybody fucking covid and then went 0:54:19.040 --> 0:54:22.560 to the show gave us. Didn't tell me your little 0:54:23.440 --> 0:54:25.960 He didn't tell he was going to the horrible decisions 0:54:26.000 --> 0:54:29.320 like show at all. He went with covid. 0:54:29.719 --> 0:54:32.320 Y'all, wow, you getting COVID. 0:54:33.880 --> 0:54:36.240 I got it from her vagina that she exposed on stage. 0:54:36.239 --> 0:54:36.920 You did not get it. 0:54:37.080 --> 0:54:41.760 She said, how much did that girl charge? 0:54:42.800 --> 0:54:47.080 Oh no, we're not going to talk about that. We all. 0:54:47.880 --> 0:54:50.839 I need to know it was No, it wasn't. 0:54:50.960 --> 0:54:51.560 It wasn't that high. 0:54:52.040 --> 0:54:55.400 But yeah, the other girl was three thousand dollars. 0:54:55.600 --> 0:55:00.520 Yeah it was Lord, Yeah, you me, that was too 0:55:00.560 --> 0:55:03.080 much girl. We brought five bitches. My nigga was not 0:55:03.120 --> 0:55:06.160 about to spend twenty bands to bring bitches to fuck 0:55:06.200 --> 0:55:06.920 me and him. 0:55:07.160 --> 0:55:10.400 Like, we brought five girls, Like less than two is 0:55:10.440 --> 0:55:12.120 not a lot, less than a weekend of sex. 0:55:12.719 --> 0:55:15.319 It wasn't a full weekend of sex. You like, I'm 0:55:15.360 --> 0:55:16.680 not fucking them the whole time. 0:55:16.760 --> 0:55:18.759 And if it's multiple girls like you, you don't have 0:55:18.840 --> 0:55:20.360 to carry the whole load by yourself. 0:55:20.800 --> 0:55:23.279 You by just like let me eat your pussy in 0:55:23.280 --> 0:55:25.080 front of him type ship, like we weren't. 0:55:25.120 --> 0:55:26.279 There was five girls. 0:55:26.000 --> 0:55:29.000 That we brought bro damn glad, I ain't wife. 0:55:31.120 --> 0:55:32.000 I hate that she. 0:55:31.960 --> 0:55:34.319 Never came sob you did, she wouldn't have been there. 0:55:34.400 --> 0:55:36.239 Maybe she wouldn't have needed to come down the home 0:55:36.320 --> 0:55:36.920 trup No. 0:55:36.960 --> 0:55:38.799 I respect her for having a higher number she did. 0:55:39.280 --> 0:55:40.759 I was hoping he was about to say, like ten, 0:55:43.400 --> 0:55:46.879 worse ten, I know her not from that world, like okay, 0:55:46.920 --> 0:55:51.200 but was that blows my mind that she even went 0:55:51.239 --> 0:55:52.200 into that world. 0:55:52.360 --> 0:55:53.560 I mean, I don't know if she's in it now. 0:55:53.560 --> 0:55:55.920 I didn't meet her in that so I don't know 0:55:55.920 --> 0:55:57.880 if she's in that world. Why is this so. 0:55:57.719 --> 0:55:58.239 Funny to me? 0:55:58.760 --> 0:56:00.000 Because it's your little heart? 0:56:00.160 --> 0:56:01.839 Do you not believe she has entered the world. I'm 0:56:01.840 --> 0:56:03.719 sitting on this horseshotter. I thought you guys are the 0:56:03.760 --> 0:56:04.399 only one I knew. 0:56:04.600 --> 0:56:09.920 And I mean, but to me, if you so. 0:56:11.600 --> 0:56:13.000 Anywhere she met my dad? 0:56:13.239 --> 0:56:15.880 Okay, okay, fuck everybody met your dad. You know what 0:56:15.880 --> 0:56:16.080 I mean. 0:56:16.120 --> 0:56:18.440 I don't think that my dad tried to beat what 0:56:18.600 --> 0:56:19.840 your your dad tried to be. 0:56:20.600 --> 0:56:24.720 This was Kaluza fucking the beginning. 0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:27.120 I don't know, Jake the snake, your dad trying to 0:56:27.120 --> 0:56:29.319 be one of the women that you actually could have 0:56:29.440 --> 0:56:30.080 wiped is. 0:56:30.400 --> 0:56:33.359 My dad has my dad pulled a girl I knew 0:56:33.440 --> 0:56:35.680 out of my twenty fifth birthday and fucked her. 0:56:36.480 --> 0:56:37.600 Wow, you know? 0:56:37.760 --> 0:56:41.160 And then she also sent me a maybe on my birthday. 0:56:41.920 --> 0:56:44.200 Of the three of us outside, you know what's crazy 0:56:44.239 --> 0:56:44.640 to me though? 0:56:44.680 --> 0:56:45.000 About you? 0:56:45.480 --> 0:56:47.480 Oh my god, and I almost wiped. 0:56:47.560 --> 0:56:50.239 Here's the thing as women, if you are in a 0:56:50.280 --> 0:56:55.880 place of financial struggle and you have these men in 0:56:55.920 --> 0:56:58.319 your phone or in your life, and none of them 0:56:58.360 --> 0:56:58.960 are willing to. 0:56:58.880 --> 0:57:00.720 Help you elevate, you delete the number. 0:57:00.840 --> 0:57:03.319 The fact that you could be like damn, and she 0:57:03.480 --> 0:57:06.839 almost went this or she's in that life. It's it's 0:57:06.960 --> 0:57:09.839 kind of telling to me, like, well, you didn't step 0:57:09.920 --> 0:57:10.200 up and. 0:57:10.160 --> 0:57:12.520 Help her, Like what because I didn't meet. 0:57:12.800 --> 0:57:16.160 We didn't meet on a level of I've never given 0:57:16.160 --> 0:57:17.480 that girl a dollar in my entire wee. 0:57:17.760 --> 0:57:20.160 We met because we liked each other and it stayed that. 0:57:20.120 --> 0:57:21.640 Way and that's fine, but you can like that. 0:57:21.680 --> 0:57:24.080 And then we stopped talking. So now I'm not responsible 0:57:24.120 --> 0:57:25.440 for your finance, not even her. 0:57:25.480 --> 0:57:27.360 I want to generalize it because if a woman that 0:57:27.400 --> 0:57:30.760 you meet is like in a space of some sort 0:57:30.760 --> 0:57:34.200 of financial struggle, like the fact that men are so like, 0:57:34.360 --> 0:57:36.680 oh my god, and you went and made an only fans, 0:57:36.720 --> 0:57:39.000 or you went and did this, or you were around 0:57:39.000 --> 0:57:40.200 this type of man for money. 0:57:40.480 --> 0:57:42.640 It's like, well, you wasn't helping. 0:57:42.400 --> 0:57:45.040 Like, oh, I'm not saying that, I'm not judging her 0:57:45.080 --> 0:57:47.120 at all. But first I was actually happy to hear 0:57:47.160 --> 0:57:48.520 that she had a higher number. That didn't worry, but 0:57:48.680 --> 0:57:49.520 she did it didn't work. 0:57:50.400 --> 0:57:53.880 No judgments, But then have you ever dated a woman 0:57:53.920 --> 0:57:57.240 then that was down and out and you felt like 0:57:57.280 --> 0:57:59.680 you weren't going to help out because you didn't want 0:57:59.680 --> 0:58:01.120 to feel like a trick instead. 0:58:00.880 --> 0:58:05.000 Of Wait, definitely given women money that I'm dealing with. 0:58:04.960 --> 0:58:05.600 Okay, not. 0:58:07.160 --> 0:58:15.280 Like really dating, like not not in exchange for she 0:58:15.320 --> 0:58:20.560 went she went talking ally on too much. No, not 0:58:20.640 --> 0:58:24.080 a I don't do that. I didn't know because not 0:58:24.240 --> 0:58:26.600 just remember now, I just remember the one time I 0:58:26.640 --> 0:58:29.840 gave a girl money so she could suck the marits 0:58:30.200 --> 0:58:31.400 wait not to fuck me? 0:58:31.440 --> 0:58:33.080 Wait what hold on? 0:58:33.320 --> 0:58:37.880 No, just the story, wait to say it took me 0:58:37.920 --> 0:58:39.360 a second to realize why she laughing. 0:58:39.440 --> 0:58:41.400 You paid a bitch to fuck demand it was their birthday. 0:58:41.440 --> 0:58:44.160 DeMars fell asleep, not for me. I wasn't gonna be 0:58:44.240 --> 0:58:45.320 there how did you pay? 0:58:45.360 --> 0:58:47.400 I want to know now that we talk about dever, Yeah, 0:58:47.840 --> 0:58:49.120 not worth a thousand bucks. 0:58:49.760 --> 0:58:50.520 I got a good deal. 0:58:52.680 --> 0:58:54.280 She was bad. 0:58:54.520 --> 0:58:58.080 No, no, no, no, that's clearfl she was bad, but let's clarify. 0:58:58.520 --> 0:58:59.960 Wait, she would discount. 0:58:59.600 --> 0:59:03.480 For lit bitch, let me know she was. 0:59:04.720 --> 0:59:05.880 I was just I was just. 0:59:05.800 --> 0:59:07.960 Trying to give Damaris a birthday present when we were 0:59:07.960 --> 0:59:08.320 in La. 0:59:09.480 --> 0:59:13.280 She fell asleep, but did she I was sleeping and 0:59:13.320 --> 0:59:14.040 I was out shopping. 0:59:14.080 --> 0:59:16.400 But Rory is a horrible surprise person, right, So if 0:59:16.400 --> 0:59:18.480 you're throwing a surprise party for somebody, you don't say, yo, 0:59:18.520 --> 0:59:21.080 I'm a by the pool chilling like I was like, oh, 0:59:21.120 --> 0:59:24.320 I bet you didn't say. 0:59:29.680 --> 0:59:30.959 I'm running around. 0:59:30.680 --> 0:59:32.640 Like I had to go, like to the stores and 0:59:32.680 --> 0:59:35.800 get a bag, shoes, get a wax, and I fell asleep. 0:59:35.880 --> 0:59:40.400 Like He's like, yo, wow, not real quick, only because 0:59:40.560 --> 0:59:43.360 now I got to think of how it happens for 0:59:43.480 --> 0:59:44.040 my trips. 0:59:44.120 --> 0:59:48.280 Right, So whenever niggas like want me to bring other girls, 0:59:48.520 --> 0:59:51.600 I gotta send pictures instagrams. They got to go through 0:59:51.600 --> 0:59:54.200 and look if he said, hey, I got a bitch 0:59:54.240 --> 0:59:55.840 here for you to fuck, would you have wanted to 0:59:55.880 --> 0:59:57.360 see what she looks like first or would you have 0:59:57.440 --> 0:59:58.080 just went over there? 0:59:58.120 --> 1:00:03.560 I know me and I have to say, wait, oh, 1:00:03.680 --> 1:00:04.200 good question. 1:00:04.280 --> 1:00:07.919 Well she was a sex worker, but I know her too, 1:00:08.680 --> 1:00:11.240 and I know she would like to because she's not faked. 1:00:11.280 --> 1:00:13.880 I wouldn't have gotten her a fake gay sex worker. 1:00:14.000 --> 1:00:17.240 Let's not like, I'm not no whack bitch to throw 1:00:17.240 --> 1:00:18.600 out a whole bunch of money for a bitch to 1:00:18.600 --> 1:00:18.920 fuck me. 1:00:20.240 --> 1:00:24.880 I was just agree like, I'm not no whack bitch. 1:00:24.880 --> 1:00:29.000 Where she was just she's okay. It was a Wednesday. 1:00:29.880 --> 1:00:31.160 You could have saved thisself some money. 1:00:31.240 --> 1:00:33.400 You know. It wasn't like we was leaving the club. 1:00:33.440 --> 1:00:34.760 It was it was the sun was out. 1:00:35.000 --> 1:00:35.479 It was like. 1:00:37.520 --> 1:00:40.080 It was two o'clock and after Yeah, you you got 1:00:40.080 --> 1:00:41.760 her pussy at two o'clock in the afternoon. 1:00:41.880 --> 1:00:42.480 That's her birthday. 1:00:42.560 --> 1:00:43.280 That's really sweet. 1:00:43.960 --> 1:00:45.120 I thought it was a really nice. 1:00:45.720 --> 1:00:47.240 In the middle of work. I don't want to know 1:00:47.520 --> 1:00:49.640 I had magic in the middle of the day. Bro. 1:00:50.440 --> 1:00:52.640 I thought it was an amazing birthday. 1:00:53.080 --> 1:00:57.280 Two o'clock new dick that I've never gotten. No was 1:00:57.280 --> 1:00:59.440 a girl my birthday dick until the end of it. 1:00:59.600 --> 1:01:02.080 But I look at dick and pussy completely different because 1:01:02.120 --> 1:01:04.840 I a new bitch just off a whim nigga has 1:01:04.880 --> 1:01:07.560 to go through like a whole fucking. 1:01:08.880 --> 1:01:09.960 I would agree with that. 1:01:10.080 --> 1:01:12.120 Yeah, like she'll fuck a bad bitch that knows how 1:01:12.160 --> 1:01:12.920 to eat pussy. 1:01:12.960 --> 1:01:14.600 I don't think I've ever fucked a girl during the 1:01:14.640 --> 1:01:17.680 day either, like girl fucking night. Women are beautiful. 1:01:17.720 --> 1:01:19.960 I like women. I look at a man long enough 1:01:20.000 --> 1:01:21.920 during the day. I'm like a woman during the day. 1:01:21.960 --> 1:01:25.919 Normally it's like, like, so you said, I'm not fake. 1:01:26.240 --> 1:01:28.320 I think you out of some pussy. But it's normally 1:01:28.360 --> 1:01:30.680 like like, don't let the world know. 1:01:30.600 --> 1:01:33.840 After I've been drinking, or like like I want like, yeah, 1:01:35.000 --> 1:01:36.840 you gotta get you gotta get brunch pussy. Brunch. 1:01:36.840 --> 1:01:44.000 Pussy is the definition, oh you having. 1:01:44.920 --> 1:01:47.880 Yeah, it's pretty. 1:01:47.640 --> 1:01:49.640 Much the gayest brunch that you could possibly go to. 1:01:50.640 --> 1:01:54.959 It's my last and date with the woman was not there? 1:01:55.480 --> 1:01:58.880 You a girl there? Yeah, that's surprising. It's gay, but 1:01:58.920 --> 1:01:59.800 she lived nearby. 1:02:00.960 --> 1:02:02.640 I didn't know that it was gay, though, so the 1:02:02.760 --> 1:02:04.480 girl took me there for our first day, so now 1:02:04.520 --> 1:02:05.280 that makes sense. 1:02:05.320 --> 1:02:09.880 I didn't know gay either. I didn't know that that's. 1:02:07.880 --> 1:02:10.880 What the women women at brunches. 1:02:11.040 --> 1:02:11.360 I mean I. 1:02:13.720 --> 1:02:15.680 Talked the woman, but it's not like what do you 1:02:15.720 --> 1:02:18.600 put the diaper changing thing down? How do you funk 1:02:18.640 --> 1:02:20.640 a woman? If you're a woman, you. 1:02:20.760 --> 1:02:23.840 Just get on the floor and they stand over your face. 1:02:23.560 --> 1:02:25.120 And you so you lay on a bathroom. 1:02:25.520 --> 1:02:30.400 You don't have to do finger though, Like okay, that 1:02:30.400 --> 1:02:32.120 would get on the floor, first seat. 1:02:32.160 --> 1:02:34.200 When men take women to literally. 1:02:33.840 --> 1:02:36.240 Go on, you can literally go like this and she 1:02:36.400 --> 1:02:37.439 stands right over you. 1:02:37.600 --> 1:02:38.439 But where does that happen? 1:02:38.520 --> 1:02:39.960 I did that? I did that. 1:02:40.000 --> 1:02:42.960 I think ned bathrooms and the ned the NED bathroom 1:02:44.080 --> 1:02:44.760 last pride. 1:02:45.120 --> 1:02:47.000 We're gonna have to that out, no wonder. 1:02:47.080 --> 1:02:49.640 We can't get any more deals, and. 1:02:49.560 --> 1:02:52.360 I wouldn't given anyway to draw more people were working. 1:02:52.360 --> 1:02:52.880 Shout out to them. 1:02:52.880 --> 1:02:54.480 Wait which girl I was partner with them? 1:02:54.680 --> 1:02:56.320 The girl I told you about that? 1:02:56.360 --> 1:02:57.400 I was, what's not like you did it? 1:02:59.320 --> 1:02:59.560 Yeah? 1:03:00.560 --> 1:03:01.520 Those they are nice bathrooms. 1:03:01.560 --> 1:03:04.400 Yeah, I got it last like a little tape. You 1:03:04.400 --> 1:03:07.320 had your little ass bad. 1:03:07.520 --> 1:03:08.440 Where people do drugs? 1:03:09.400 --> 1:03:11.560 You know what you know there's a man or a woman. 1:03:11.640 --> 1:03:12.959 If I would have went in there to do drugs 1:03:13.000 --> 1:03:15.760 and you was in there, I've been sewing. Can you move? Okay? 1:03:16.200 --> 1:03:18.640 Honest with you especially like there's only two bathrooms, like 1:03:19.840 --> 1:03:20.320 somewhere else. 1:03:20.840 --> 1:03:21.960 Well, then there's downstairs. 1:03:21.960 --> 1:03:24.200 That's also you live walking distance away, you could have 1:03:24.360 --> 1:03:25.960 ate in the pussy at your house. 1:03:26.000 --> 1:03:27.680 You do love walking distance away. You do a really 1:03:27.760 --> 1:03:28.240 nice bathroom. 1:03:28.440 --> 1:03:32.000 Let me thank you. Tell everybody where you live, I said, 1:03:32.040 --> 1:03:33.080 lois all the time. 1:03:33.840 --> 1:03:36.400 But my point is me having the party house for 1:03:36.480 --> 1:03:38.120 so long was such a wild like. 1:03:39.600 --> 1:03:41.640 I kind of still do. But anyway, I was in 1:03:41.760 --> 1:03:43.400 last lap and again. 1:03:43.480 --> 1:03:49.720 Never going back the house the part when is the party? 1:03:49.760 --> 1:03:52.040 No, I'm cool, Really I want to come for the party. 1:03:52.160 --> 1:03:55.120 What is the party? We actually cool with the party, 1:03:55.280 --> 1:03:58.080 like at my house it was the pandemic house. But 1:03:58.400 --> 1:03:59.320 here's the other issue. 1:03:59.440 --> 1:04:03.440 Barty has some goddamn nerve because literally came to my 1:04:03.560 --> 1:04:05.080 house for a party and he was like, oh my god, 1:04:05.120 --> 1:04:06.720 yeah I'm having a baby. Man I knew, and I'm 1:04:06.720 --> 1:04:09.120 like crying, have fun. And then some other people came there. 1:04:09.160 --> 1:04:11.000 Rory invited and I was like, oh, what how did 1:04:11.000 --> 1:04:11.880 there get cocaine here? 1:04:13.640 --> 1:04:17.040 Wait? I invited coated a party house. It was Passion 1:04:17.040 --> 1:04:17.760 week though. 1:04:18.240 --> 1:04:22.040 Oh it was. But it was an R and B 1:04:22.160 --> 1:04:25.000 artist that we like a lot, that likes coke. 1:04:25.320 --> 1:04:28.120 Oh okay. It literally was like like, ye, let me 1:04:28.120 --> 1:04:29.919 find something someone else like you A cryed a card. 1:04:31.360 --> 1:04:37.480 We And what was so funny how him and I's 1:04:37.520 --> 1:04:40.680 relationship started was music ship. And then he'd come to 1:04:40.680 --> 1:04:42.480 New York and asked me for coke, and I'm like, 1:04:42.520 --> 1:04:44.400 I'm not the do I feel like I know who 1:04:44.400 --> 1:04:46.200 you're talking you know exactly, I know exactly. 1:04:46.280 --> 1:04:47.040 Now they got a coke. 1:04:47.160 --> 1:04:48.960 Look, hey, do you want to have a coke? 1:04:49.040 --> 1:04:49.200 Look? 1:04:49.280 --> 1:04:51.760 I was, but you like, you know people that sell 1:04:51.840 --> 1:04:54.680 drugs you look like and then would ask me if 1:04:54.760 --> 1:04:56.960 I had a plug in l A. 1:04:57.040 --> 1:04:59.520 I'm like, I don't do coke, but you look like. 1:04:59.440 --> 1:05:01.800 A person that those drug dealers. That's not a hard. 1:05:01.800 --> 1:05:06.840 Guesh you're all so white did and drugs the molly 1:05:07.160 --> 1:05:07.600 I brought them. 1:05:07.880 --> 1:05:09.040 We both brought it. We broke. 1:05:09.960 --> 1:05:12.440 Every time you're on we heavily talk about drugs. I 1:05:12.440 --> 1:05:15.600 feel like I'm the friend. Was not even a drug no, 1:05:15.880 --> 1:05:16.520 not a drunk guy. 1:05:17.040 --> 1:05:17.200 You know. 1:05:17.240 --> 1:05:19.720 First of all, it was Brooklyn Mirage. You had been 1:05:19.760 --> 1:05:20.240 ready to go. 1:05:20.480 --> 1:05:22.120 Me and Vinnie Camp we were like, let's share each 1:05:22.120 --> 1:05:25.320 other's and then Rory comes out with his fucking. 1:05:25.080 --> 1:05:27.640 Job to the left talking about I got these from Amazon. 1:05:29.240 --> 1:05:30.400 You got drugs from Amazon. 1:05:36.760 --> 1:05:39.480 I'm not playing with you know you all right, you 1:05:39.520 --> 1:05:41.720 misquoted me because my jaw was doing that, But I 1:05:41.760 --> 1:05:44.200 also said I don't really feel it. 1:05:44.640 --> 1:05:45.560 And then wait, this is. 1:05:45.480 --> 1:05:47.720 How we got there. Yeah, I bought glasses from Amazon 1:05:47.720 --> 1:05:48.560 that had college. 1:05:48.600 --> 1:05:50.960 So bad, right, And I wasn't at the time lit 1:05:51.040 --> 1:05:53.000 enough to get us in. And he was just like, 1:05:53.680 --> 1:05:57.360 we'll just ask right, got Roy's out of my phone and. 1:05:57.400 --> 1:05:58.400 Was like, anyway, we're going. 1:05:58.440 --> 1:06:00.120 We bought like the IP passes will be up there 1:06:00.160 --> 1:06:02.160 and I was like what, So He's like, I guess 1:06:02.200 --> 1:06:03.880 I'll just come to did not think he'd be in 1:06:03.920 --> 1:06:06.800 for the festivities as well, and by Amazon tied I. 1:06:07.240 --> 1:06:08.200 Three D glasses. 1:06:08.280 --> 1:06:10.320 I went. We had a good time. 1:06:10.520 --> 1:06:11.800 I've never had a molly experience. 1:06:11.840 --> 1:06:13.800 Like the party started at one am. 1:06:14.120 --> 1:06:16.360 They went from one to five, Like it was one 1:06:16.360 --> 1:06:19.240 of those type you know, they only had lollipops and 1:06:19.240 --> 1:06:21.160 bubble gum in the bathroom to like help you with 1:06:21.160 --> 1:06:21.480 your mind. 1:06:23.680 --> 1:06:29.320 Was clearly before you guys reached your thirties. No, it 1:06:29.440 --> 1:06:30.160 was like twenty. 1:06:29.960 --> 1:06:32.920 Nine, No, no, years ago, thirty you know what, you. 1:06:33.080 --> 1:06:33.680 Just turned thirty. 1:06:33.720 --> 1:06:36.400 You should tell your baby mama to do a pump 1:06:36.440 --> 1:06:38.600 and dump night and we should do it again, and 1:06:38.760 --> 1:06:40.880 you should do it with im. Go to the Brookly Mirage, 1:06:40.920 --> 1:06:41.800 get your mama baby. 1:06:41.800 --> 1:06:44.160 I would love to and pumping up and we have Vinnie. 1:06:43.880 --> 1:06:46.320 Come up and we have fun when you have to 1:06:46.480 --> 1:06:48.440 pump breast milk and then dump it because it has 1:06:48.560 --> 1:06:49.400 drugs in it. 1:06:49.280 --> 1:06:52.560 Got you, Yeah, not drugs, alcohol too, Yeah, and my 1:06:52.680 --> 1:06:55.520 sure to if the woman goes out drinking and the 1:06:55.600 --> 1:06:56.400 best feet and they have to. 1:06:56.440 --> 1:06:58.880 Dump and well not exactly. And yeah, now you guys 1:06:58.920 --> 1:07:00.320 have a lot of woman listeners. So I do want 1:07:00.320 --> 1:07:02.800 to let you know that if you're sober enough to drive, 1:07:02.920 --> 1:07:06.880 you're sober enough to breastfeed, like I said, because we. 1:07:06.880 --> 1:07:09.640 All have brought the lizers now if we're right at 1:07:09.680 --> 1:07:13.120 the no I mean, if you're. 1:07:12.960 --> 1:07:18.000 An adult, you know, if you're like fucked up, I 1:07:18.040 --> 1:07:20.560 don't really know until the next day, and I'd be 1:07:20.600 --> 1:07:22.360 like something was part of the last night. 1:07:22.400 --> 1:07:24.040 I don't remember, but I knew I was good. 1:07:24.680 --> 1:07:26.360 But see I'd be like that because I wake up 1:07:26.360 --> 1:07:28.040 the next morning and be like, damn, I was fucked 1:07:28.080 --> 1:07:28.520 up last night. 1:07:28.600 --> 1:07:30.560 We got to worry about no. Speaking of kids, do 1:07:30.600 --> 1:07:32.240 you have a dad, Well you don't have a dad. Body. 1:07:32.240 --> 1:07:33.480 I'm looking at you, but like, did you have a 1:07:33.480 --> 1:07:35.520 phase where you were like even when you she was pregnant, 1:07:35.560 --> 1:07:36.400 you just start eating a lot. 1:07:36.320 --> 1:07:38.320 And you were getting a dad bod, Like I'm starting 1:07:38.320 --> 1:07:40.760 a gang. Wait, I was way skinnier than this through 1:07:40.800 --> 1:07:43.919 the entire thing. Yeah, while you were shressed out, Yeah, 1:07:43.960 --> 1:07:44.880 you was like don't sleep? 1:07:45.080 --> 1:07:45.320 Yeah? 1:07:46.560 --> 1:07:48.560 Is pregnancy pussy as good as they say it is? 1:07:49.840 --> 1:07:51.240 What is it? He said that quick? 1:07:52.040 --> 1:07:54.040 And all right? Can I share something mabe not? 1:07:54.080 --> 1:07:56.400 It wasn't the first pregnancy pussy? What is wrong with you? 1:07:56.480 --> 1:07:56.800 What is? 1:07:57.680 --> 1:08:01.439 I didn't ask her yet? No, oknyway cause I didn't 1:08:01.440 --> 1:08:02.840 ask my daughter if my dick hit her? 1:08:03.760 --> 1:08:08.240 Does your baby have a dimple? They say the dimples 1:08:08.280 --> 1:08:10.000 come from the dick touching the baby. 1:08:10.880 --> 1:08:12.480 And I was told that and I have two dimples, 1:08:12.520 --> 1:08:13.360 and I started looking my dad. 1:08:13.440 --> 1:08:17.679 Weird, that's where from? Wait? 1:08:18.160 --> 1:08:20.800 Can I share something that I haven't shared on our 1:08:20.840 --> 1:08:22.880 podcast because it's just not the place. This is a 1:08:22.920 --> 1:08:27.120 safer place share. I shared it in front of our 1:08:27.520 --> 1:08:29.240 Discord audience, but I cut it. 1:08:29.240 --> 1:08:30.280 I didn't. I never put it out. 1:08:30.360 --> 1:08:36.639 Okay, So you go from fucking a lot when she's pregnant. 1:08:36.960 --> 1:08:39.280 Yeah, like pregnant women are horny. 1:08:39.439 --> 1:08:43.880 Bregant pussy is incredible, and then after your child is born, 1:08:43.920 --> 1:08:47.240 it changes naturally because you have to wait for the 1:08:47.240 --> 1:08:50.920 pussy to heal, and like that's the correct way to 1:08:50.960 --> 1:08:59.200 put it, right, So when you go from that, I 1:08:59.200 --> 1:09:01.200 started having wet dreams at thirty three years old for 1:09:01.240 --> 1:09:04.240 the first time. Really, yeah, and it got and it 1:09:04.280 --> 1:09:08.759 got nothing in my draw because I used to sleep 1:09:08.920 --> 1:09:10.519 naked her and I would sleep naked. But then when 1:09:10.560 --> 1:09:12.439 you have a daughter, like, I don't know, you just 1:09:12.479 --> 1:09:15.439 don't sleep naked. It's it's weird to me in the beginning. Yeah, 1:09:15.439 --> 1:09:17.680 I get it, especially because she has to be like 1:09:17.960 --> 1:09:19.559 she has to feed every hour. 1:09:19.840 --> 1:09:22.960 Yeah, were you waking her up from the wet dream? 1:09:23.400 --> 1:09:23.960 Excuse me? 1:09:24.040 --> 1:09:27.880 Like, was it audible or you during your wet d 1:09:28.560 --> 1:09:30.360 Oh No, I don't think, I don't I don't know, 1:09:30.720 --> 1:09:33.400 but oh, you don't know. But I would wake I 1:09:33.400 --> 1:09:35.720 would wake up because I haven't had a wet dream 1:09:35.760 --> 1:09:38.880 since I was like a kid. So I would wake 1:09:38.960 --> 1:09:43.360 up and like nervous, almost on like some judgmental ship 1:09:44.439 --> 1:09:46.920 and run to the bathroom to try to clean myself up, 1:09:46.920 --> 1:09:50.400 because my girl knows what my cumsmells like too, so 1:09:50.560 --> 1:09:52.240 I didn't want her to think like I was jerking 1:09:52.240 --> 1:09:54.960 off in the bathroom. I'm cleaning myself up, like I'm cheating. 1:09:55.120 --> 1:09:59.759 I'm like walking back like did you feel like her feelings? 1:09:59.760 --> 1:10:01.360 Like, oh my god, like yes, you need to get 1:10:01.400 --> 1:10:01.680 fucked that. 1:10:01.840 --> 1:10:04.439 Meanwhile, I'm trying to deal with something. I haven't had 1:10:04.479 --> 1:10:06.760 this since I was fucking fifteen, to have a wet drink. 1:10:06.840 --> 1:10:08.240 Oh no, I. 1:10:08.160 --> 1:10:10.640 Wonder if any other men have gone through that had 1:10:10.680 --> 1:10:12.880 a recent We just went from fucking so much to 1:10:13.720 --> 1:10:14.240 not at all. 1:10:14.760 --> 1:10:17.720 Obviously, how close to the baby coming out? To the 1:10:17.720 --> 1:10:18.320 second Like was. 1:10:18.280 --> 1:10:20.439 It that day day will four? 1:10:20.880 --> 1:10:23.559 Wow? Yeah, you produced her labor? 1:10:24.320 --> 1:10:27.000 Yeah? Probably, I have. 1:10:27.000 --> 1:10:29.920 One more question before we grab it up. I said earlier, 1:10:29.920 --> 1:10:31.200 Oh my god, I feel so bad. But we have 1:10:31.240 --> 1:10:32.840 another friend, Jamal just had a baby. 1:10:33.000 --> 1:10:33.600 Yeah. 1:10:33.640 --> 1:10:35.200 And again, like I'm really saying. 1:10:35.160 --> 1:10:39.000 We were like father friends via tex because our children 1:10:39.040 --> 1:10:41.960 are like a week a week apart. 1:10:42.080 --> 1:10:44.520 Yeah, yeah, me and Jamal. 1:10:46.400 --> 1:10:50.000 C we're talking about Jamal that doesn't know shout out 1:10:50.040 --> 1:10:53.599 to you. Both had cute little girls. But like, yeah, 1:10:53.720 --> 1:10:58.120 how do how do people support dads? Because it's really 1:10:58.200 --> 1:10:59.960 hitting me, like only women that have babies. I hit 1:11:00.080 --> 1:11:02.599 that like the fact that I know you way better 1:11:02.600 --> 1:11:04.479 than your baby mom and still looked at her like, 1:11:04.479 --> 1:11:05.479 oh my, you look great heart? 1:11:05.520 --> 1:11:07.160 Are you doing it? Said nothing to you, like damn, 1:11:07.880 --> 1:11:08.320 she's the one. 1:11:08.640 --> 1:11:11.759 Meanwhile, she's the one sneaking through bathrooms with wet dreams 1:11:12.040 --> 1:11:13.280 trying not to look like a cheater. 1:11:13.560 --> 1:11:16.800 Well which one is worse? Oh? 1:11:16.840 --> 1:11:19.680 No, I agree, But but yeah, how do we support you. 1:11:20.120 --> 1:11:22.439 Sneaking through a bathroom to wipe yourself up because your 1:11:22.479 --> 1:11:23.840 girl knows what your cumb smells like? 1:11:24.040 --> 1:11:26.920 Is a terrifying bottom was like, I really don't. 1:11:26.920 --> 1:11:28.479 I didn't want her you looking like that because you 1:11:28.479 --> 1:11:30.200 don't know your man's comes, because I don't know my 1:11:30.240 --> 1:11:31.680 man's comes smell, which I. 1:11:31.680 --> 1:11:34.519 Know the smell of I don't come, but I don't know. 1:11:34.560 --> 1:11:37.360 I don't know if I'm gonna smell the draws. 1:11:37.320 --> 1:11:39.679 Like what did you eat juice park? That ship don't 1:11:39.680 --> 1:11:41.759 have those smell. I was just taking that what smell 1:11:42.080 --> 1:11:42.679 what's coming? 1:11:43.040 --> 1:11:45.360 I don't smell it. I don't know, but she knows 1:11:45.360 --> 1:11:48.479 what my comb smells. Like or maybe she knows, not 1:11:48.520 --> 1:11:49.160 in a bad way. 1:11:51.479 --> 1:11:56.240 You feel like, maybe this. 1:11:56.400 --> 1:12:00.599 Has a distinct smell according to her, Oh knows what 1:12:00.640 --> 1:12:05.320 my coum smells like. Okay, all right, maybe I have 1:12:05.320 --> 1:12:07.000 a nasty maybe I have a nasty nut. 1:12:08.240 --> 1:12:09.519 You guys can never hold my daughter. 1:12:10.200 --> 1:12:12.640 I ain't got no smell, bitch. Now that has some 1:12:12.760 --> 1:12:14.360 taste to it sometimes. 1:12:14.680 --> 1:12:17.680 But Come doesn't smell, does not smell. I haven't been 1:12:17.720 --> 1:12:18.040 around a. 1:12:18.000 --> 1:12:22.560 Lot now, and Dick might have a smell, but come, no, 1:12:22.760 --> 1:12:26.559 he doesn't. He my face like, come just gets hard. 1:12:26.560 --> 1:12:29.360 It's more the texture and it's drying up. But I 1:12:29.400 --> 1:12:30.200 don't smell like. 1:12:32.360 --> 1:12:33.960 I wasn't gonna say, my god, I went to the 1:12:33.960 --> 1:12:36.000 air perspective privacy, but you was awful. 1:12:36.200 --> 1:12:37.200 Yeah, okay, when it's on my. 1:12:37.160 --> 1:12:40.479 Face, you just explain why she knows what it smells like. Okay, that, 1:12:42.240 --> 1:12:46.639 but it's not like I've none of their nose. So huh, 1:12:47.600 --> 1:12:48.479 you didn't do it enough? 1:12:49.800 --> 1:12:52.040 Not you nothing and noses you wanted to? 1:12:53.560 --> 1:12:56.280 Okay, there's I mean, I don't get. 1:12:56.720 --> 1:12:58.360 Like comesnop bubbles. 1:12:59.200 --> 1:12:59.960 That would be kind of ill. 1:13:00.000 --> 1:13:01.160 I would turn that into a thing like if you 1:13:01.280 --> 1:13:02.720 nutted in my notes I would like try to make 1:13:02.720 --> 1:13:05.160 that sexy in the moment, like probably choking and dying, 1:13:05.240 --> 1:13:07.160 but I would try to make that sexy in the moment. 1:13:07.200 --> 1:13:08.640 You know what's crazy. My daughter is going to be 1:13:08.640 --> 1:13:09.719 able to watch this one day. 1:13:10.760 --> 1:13:13.400 That's fine. She knows how she was conceived. That's great. 1:13:13.479 --> 1:13:15.080 This is not the word giving sex. 1:13:15.200 --> 1:13:18.479 I did not come on her mother's face to conceive her. 1:13:19.080 --> 1:13:19.720 I feel so bad. 1:13:19.760 --> 1:13:22.400 I'm so our podcast that women shouldn't be able to vote, 1:13:22.439 --> 1:13:24.040 and like, you think this is going to be the worst. 1:13:23.880 --> 1:13:27.679 Thing that you said. I didn't say that. 1:13:31.160 --> 1:13:35.200 Women around though shouldn't have podcast. Her parents bro, Oh 1:13:35.240 --> 1:13:39.080 what the fuck? Oh no, it's rible. I'm it's off. 1:13:39.240 --> 1:13:40.280 That doesn't scare y'all at all. 1:13:40.479 --> 1:13:42.760 Yeah, I don't want kids choice. 1:13:42.800 --> 1:13:44.479 Like, my kid is going to know how I felt 1:13:44.520 --> 1:13:46.200 in twenty fifteen on a Wednesday. 1:13:46.240 --> 1:13:48.040 Literally, my kid is gonna have a shirt that says 1:13:48.080 --> 1:13:50.639 I beat the vacuum because as much as I bring 1:13:50.680 --> 1:13:53.120 it up, they are just gonna be proud that they've 1:13:53.200 --> 1:13:54.320 made it through nine months. 1:13:54.360 --> 1:13:55.639 They call it, call her hoover. 1:13:58.920 --> 1:14:00.800 No, I go that in the middle of man, I 1:14:00.840 --> 1:14:03.160 was thinking about that is terrified just seeing over like 1:14:03.240 --> 1:14:05.320 your mom love it. It's not like we do porn, 1:14:05.360 --> 1:14:07.800 but it's almost worse because at least porn is just isolated. 1:14:07.840 --> 1:14:09.920 I've talked for hundreds of hours, you guys do I 1:14:10.280 --> 1:14:12.479 definitely audio porn. One audio porn. 1:14:12.520 --> 1:14:14.320 I wont tried to check me about something I said, 1:14:14.360 --> 1:14:16.360 like I had an opinion on about like sexually, Like, oh, 1:14:16.400 --> 1:14:17.280 I heard you say that. 1:14:17.400 --> 1:14:19.000 I was like, bro, I'm sure I did say that. 1:14:19.160 --> 1:14:21.360 It was also like I don't think this is bad. 1:14:21.640 --> 1:14:25.719 That reminds me of Also like when Kim K was like, yeah, 1:14:26.000 --> 1:14:28.799 what Kanye is doing is way worse for our children 1:14:28.840 --> 1:14:30.880 than any sex tape I could ever have, And it 1:14:30.920 --> 1:14:31.280 was just. 1:14:31.200 --> 1:14:34.639 Like, you know, I don't just hear I agree with her. 1:14:35.120 --> 1:14:35.880 I agree with her too. 1:14:35.960 --> 1:14:39.640 Yeah, one hundred percent. These new kids are super persentives. 1:14:39.200 --> 1:14:41.599 With these new kids are not only progressive. 1:14:41.080 --> 1:14:43.639 They care way more about Jewish people than women having 1:14:43.640 --> 1:14:45.320 sex on it, but they change people. 1:14:45.360 --> 1:14:46.840 With George Floyd, the comments, but. 1:14:47.200 --> 1:14:51.080 They changed, but also we believe in people having opinions 1:14:51.200 --> 1:14:52.080 changing their mind. 1:14:52.400 --> 1:14:54.920 He came back and apologized. 1:14:54.240 --> 1:14:55.360 Having an opinion. 1:14:55.439 --> 1:14:59.160 Mandy, no one you think Kanye is having I say 1:14:59.280 --> 1:15:02.080 he can't. I'm saying that a Jewish, I'm saying, yes, 1:15:02.320 --> 1:15:05.479 well I'm Israeli, but I mean the Black Ship. 1:15:05.439 --> 1:15:07.320 It was used to know you have the most Jewish 1:15:07.400 --> 1:15:07.840 name on earth. 1:15:07.920 --> 1:15:10.800 I know, but I can say it now. We're gonna 1:15:10.800 --> 1:15:11.679 make credit to ship. 1:15:13.160 --> 1:15:16.160 To me. It's the fact that there's people that have 1:15:16.280 --> 1:15:20.160 been like put to the cross because of tweets from. 1:15:20.000 --> 1:15:24.719 When they were and now when they're yeah to all Jews. 1:15:25.439 --> 1:15:26.320 I get that. 1:15:26.400 --> 1:15:28.720 But what I'm saying is we are also in a 1:15:28.720 --> 1:15:32.240 generation where, because of podcasting, everyone believes in this freedom 1:15:32.240 --> 1:15:35.040 of speech, everyone believes in being able to change their mind, 1:15:35.280 --> 1:15:37.799 share their opinion and acknowledging that what I think today 1:15:38.040 --> 1:15:40.679 may change tomorrow, and we should allow growth, we should allow. 1:15:40.439 --> 1:15:41.360 Grace for these things. 1:15:41.680 --> 1:15:45.240 It's literal the fact that people are really hoping that 1:15:44.920 --> 1:15:48.920 there's rappers that get let free and killers because they 1:15:49.040 --> 1:15:51.840 like their music get let free for certain reasons. 1:15:51.800 --> 1:15:53.960 Like we are also so progressive. 1:15:53.960 --> 1:15:59.520 I don't know, but the fact that police officers, teachers, 1:15:59.840 --> 1:16:03.559 and all of these careers that women have they're losing 1:16:03.640 --> 1:16:06.479 because of having only fans. I think that there's a 1:16:06.720 --> 1:16:09.680 huge stigma still associated to fucking on. 1:16:09.880 --> 1:16:12.040 That doesn't mean that what Kanye is doing is not 1:16:12.040 --> 1:16:14.320 worse than kill sexy. But the way that kill sex 1:16:14.360 --> 1:16:16.439 tape isn't harming anyone. No, it's not harming anyone. And 1:16:16.520 --> 1:16:18.960 I'm not and Kanye's But I'm talking as a child. 1:16:19.560 --> 1:16:22.080 As a child, do I want my daddy to be crazy? 1:16:22.400 --> 1:16:23.840 Or do I want all the kids to be able 1:16:23.880 --> 1:16:26.439 to see my mom suck dick. I'm talking about that 1:16:26.520 --> 1:16:29.080 being in kids, like being a child. 1:16:28.920 --> 1:16:31.519 And what the kids say embarrassing. I get it. 1:16:31.560 --> 1:16:33.320 As adults, we think it's no brow. 1:16:33.720 --> 1:16:37.280 I don't if you were twelve and your dad was Kanye, right, 1:16:37.800 --> 1:16:38.920 do you know how embarrassing? 1:16:39.040 --> 1:16:40.920 Like she's young enough to where maybe the kids can't 1:16:41.000 --> 1:16:42.000 understand it. You were a. 1:16:41.960 --> 1:16:44.759 Teenager kids on, you could walk into school and people 1:16:44.760 --> 1:16:47.080 are like, your dad is literally having a fucking manic 1:16:47.160 --> 1:16:47.920 attack online. 1:16:47.960 --> 1:16:49.439 Crazy. Yes, that's the. 1:16:49.360 --> 1:16:52.200 Part, not not what he's saying, but the fact that 1:16:52.200 --> 1:16:54.639 he's crazy and he wears them boots with them shoulder pads. 1:16:54.720 --> 1:16:55.880 I hate she's. 1:16:55.640 --> 1:16:58.880 Gonna get eating the fun North is not growing up 1:16:58.920 --> 1:17:01.040 in East New York where someone be like, yo, your mom, 1:17:01.080 --> 1:17:02.519 your mom's sucking dick, Where. 1:17:02.400 --> 1:17:03.720 It be a joke in East New York. 1:17:03.760 --> 1:17:06.000 In the South too, they will talk about. 1:17:05.800 --> 1:17:08.559 Like that is north is growing up in Calabasas, where 1:17:08.600 --> 1:17:11.120 every last one of those moms is on camera sucking dick. 1:17:11.240 --> 1:17:11.759 That's fine. 1:17:12.240 --> 1:17:15.439 I know one of his lawyers who's Jewish, a woman, Okay, 1:17:15.640 --> 1:17:18.120 and she literally was like, yo, her kid goes to 1:17:18.200 --> 1:17:21.519 Donda Academy specifically because and I even looked at her 1:17:21.520 --> 1:17:22.920 crazy until she talked me through the ship. 1:17:23.000 --> 1:17:24.040 I was like, oh, but you're insane. 1:17:24.439 --> 1:17:27.360 And then she was like, yo, you don't understand how 1:17:27.400 --> 1:17:29.360 what kind of teachers he hired. He is the best 1:17:29.360 --> 1:17:29.800 of the best. 1:17:29.920 --> 1:17:31.240 I have a friend that has kids. 1:17:31.760 --> 1:17:33.760 Really, Oh the way they talk, She's like, it was 1:17:33.840 --> 1:17:36.000 literally like idiot, I'll be. 1:17:36.280 --> 1:17:37.759 I'm not like, it's not like a secret. 1:17:38.439 --> 1:17:38.720 I'll be. 1:17:38.720 --> 1:17:42.559 Who called into our pods Brooklyn from the movie Atlanta, Okay, 1:17:43.120 --> 1:17:45.560 his kids are enrolled in there and he explained the 1:17:45.560 --> 1:17:46.800 same thing to me. I was like, Oh, that actually 1:17:46.840 --> 1:17:49.000 sounds incredible. That's a beautiful place to. 1:17:50.280 --> 1:17:51.360 Look at where we're at. 1:17:51.680 --> 1:17:54.479 Damn. Near every podcast talks about mental health. 1:17:54.920 --> 1:17:58.880 You will get a pass for having a manic episode 1:17:58.960 --> 1:18:01.880 before you have a pass from being a sex workstanic 1:18:02.080 --> 1:18:06.040 racist episode. Bro people care about mental health, and literally 1:18:06.240 --> 1:18:08.719 he was prescribed meds he didn't want to take them. 1:18:08.960 --> 1:18:11.439 We talk about mental health a lot to me someone 1:18:11.560 --> 1:18:13.440 having a mental breakdown. 1:18:13.800 --> 1:18:16.480 As children, I'm not talking about us viewing as adults. 1:18:16.160 --> 1:18:17.479 Even if it wasn't the tweet stuff. 1:18:17.520 --> 1:18:21.040 No, but I'm talking about as children. What you could talk. 1:18:21.200 --> 1:18:23.280 Your mama be out here sucking dick, she'd be selling 1:18:23.439 --> 1:18:25.680 her ass for fifty dollars. She on here said I 1:18:25.680 --> 1:18:27.760 can go and watch your mom suck dick. That is 1:18:27.800 --> 1:18:28.679 worse than your daddy. 1:18:29.439 --> 1:18:31.640 I think I agree with you if from him was 1:18:31.680 --> 1:18:34.360 a regular only fans, girl, I agree with you right 1:18:34.400 --> 1:18:35.760 that the only fans will be worse. 1:18:36.760 --> 1:18:37.759 They're at the met gala. 1:18:37.880 --> 1:18:40.120 I don't think anyone's saying anything to North like I 1:18:40.120 --> 1:18:42.200 don't think anyone's saying, yo, your mom's sucking dick on camera, 1:18:42.240 --> 1:18:43.600 because she's gonna look at them and be like my 1:18:43.680 --> 1:18:48.800 mom's I'm more famous than the president, who gives best belief. 1:18:48.160 --> 1:18:53.200 If North is getting bullied by somebody or talking shit 1:18:53.280 --> 1:18:55.519 with somebody, that's gonna be the first chap. The same 1:18:55.520 --> 1:18:57.759 way people still want to jab me that I'm fat. 1:18:57.960 --> 1:19:01.519 There's certain things that are trigger points true that people 1:19:01.520 --> 1:19:04.799 will always say, and to me, your one parent being crazy, 1:19:04.920 --> 1:19:08.000 one parent sucking dick on camera for what people can 1:19:08.040 --> 1:19:10.120 talk about and what would hold more weight and probably 1:19:10.360 --> 1:19:11.240 hurt you more. 1:19:11.120 --> 1:19:15.599 Crazy like Dennis, Maybe Kanye's a bad firstball, he's a diplomat. 1:19:16.760 --> 1:19:19.360 Crazy is a different way. I'm here crazy. I'm like, oh, 1:19:19.360 --> 1:19:20.920 you're like a But they. 1:19:20.800 --> 1:19:24.840 Talked about his mental health, bro, I don't think I'm 1:19:24.880 --> 1:19:25.240 sure that. 1:19:25.600 --> 1:19:28.840 I'm sure that Kanye's mental health affects North in other ways, 1:19:28.880 --> 1:19:30.680 and as she grows up, it'll affect her in other way. 1:19:30.760 --> 1:19:32.679 So I think that'll be a bigger trigger point because 1:19:32.680 --> 1:19:34.360 if you call my dad crazy and I'm in the 1:19:34.360 --> 1:19:36.240 house watching him have many there's a. 1:19:36.160 --> 1:19:37.920 Black girl that's going to grow up and watch him 1:19:38.120 --> 1:19:40.600 siding with Candae Owens and saying that George Floyd's been 1:19:40.720 --> 1:19:41.280 its his fault. 1:19:41.320 --> 1:19:43.640 So the way that well, and I'm speaking to you, 1:19:43.720 --> 1:19:47.639 the way that he treats his children in the house, 1:19:47.920 --> 1:19:51.040 to me is different from what is public facing. Again, 1:19:51.120 --> 1:19:53.320 even us just talking about your daughter's going to be 1:19:53.320 --> 1:19:54.759 able to see all the things that you've said. 1:19:54.920 --> 1:19:57.120 There's a lot of opinions you've been potting for now 1:19:57.200 --> 1:19:57.799 eight years. 1:19:58.080 --> 1:19:59.800 There's a lot of things that your daughter may grow 1:19:59.840 --> 1:20:02.240 up with and fucking disagree and be like, dad, are 1:20:02.240 --> 1:20:03.040 you fucking kidding me? 1:20:03.080 --> 1:20:03.920 This is what you think? 1:20:04.240 --> 1:20:06.559 And so to me as podcasters, there's things I've said 1:20:06.600 --> 1:20:09.120 on this podcast that and that you've said, and that 1:20:09.160 --> 1:20:09.919 you've said. 1:20:09.840 --> 1:20:12.920 That years down the line. Oh I was in this place. 1:20:12.960 --> 1:20:14.880 I don't think like that you're telling me there's no line. 1:20:14.920 --> 1:20:18.439 Has already ever been a bigot? Like, there's a line, bro. 1:20:19.200 --> 1:20:23.280 Not that you misogynists, but misogynists. 1:20:23.320 --> 1:20:25.160 I would agree, Like maybe you said some daughter, you 1:20:25.280 --> 1:20:27.479 got three guys on a podcast, you say some shit, but. 1:20:27.439 --> 1:20:31.760 Like big violence, harmful, like my dad saying bios should 1:20:31.760 --> 1:20:33.160 get in the kitchen. I don't not saying you ever 1:20:33.160 --> 1:20:35.200 said that, but like I'm most not every episode, but. 1:20:37.439 --> 1:20:40.240 That's hard for three years that got mad that I 1:20:40.240 --> 1:20:43.320 stopped cooking and ordered food out. There's a sexist, misogynist 1:20:43.360 --> 1:20:45.160 line that probably will always be there. We're also in 1:20:45.160 --> 1:20:47.200 a country where literally people are moving out of the 1:20:47.240 --> 1:20:49.880 state of Texas and Florida and Alabama and a lot 1:20:49.880 --> 1:20:51.840 of the Bible Belt because of where they're even placing 1:20:51.880 --> 1:20:52.479 rights on women. 1:20:52.720 --> 1:20:53.880 So to me, yes. 1:20:54.120 --> 1:20:57.240 Unfortunately, with this goddamn sex positive ass podcasts, there are 1:20:57.280 --> 1:21:00.760 still very negative views on women's for sure engaging in 1:21:00.760 --> 1:21:02.920 sexuality over someone being fucking. 1:21:02.680 --> 1:21:06.519 Crazy and saying bigoted, racist ass ship. 1:21:06.600 --> 1:21:09.679 I put it this way, everyone that goes to school 1:21:09.720 --> 1:21:14.439 with my daughter in ten to thirteen years should be 1:21:14.560 --> 1:21:17.120 very afraid because I'm gonna train my daughter to find 1:21:17.160 --> 1:21:17.720 dirt on oil. 1:21:19.400 --> 1:21:21.240 Yeah, because that would be the easiest one to find. 1:21:21.280 --> 1:21:23.160 If she goes to school with these kids, they pull. 1:21:23.040 --> 1:21:27.519 Up things about her father cool, Me and Amara are 1:21:27.520 --> 1:21:30.120 gonna sit I'm gonna get like a gateway computer that 1:21:30.200 --> 1:21:32.160 like the tall ship, and we're gonna sit here like this, 1:21:32.560 --> 1:21:35.000 and we are gonna find every tweet from her little 1:21:35.040 --> 1:21:38.880 snotty nosed friends, fathers and mothers and instagrams forever. Y'all 1:21:38.920 --> 1:21:42.000 should be terrified if you want to pull up my shit, Oh, 1:21:42.040 --> 1:21:43.519 we are gonna find all of y'all shit. 1:21:44.600 --> 1:21:46.519 Imagine if we had two daughters, Oh see, that would 1:21:46.520 --> 1:21:47.920 be bad. Well, imagine if I just. 1:21:47.840 --> 1:21:50.120 Had a daughter, that's gonna be me and Mar's bonding shit. 1:21:50.240 --> 1:21:52.599 But like literally, if Bory and I's daughters or kids 1:21:52.640 --> 1:21:55.360 were like friends, it'd be like yo, we're. 1:21:55.080 --> 1:21:57.040 Bidden right now already. 1:21:57.080 --> 1:21:59.000 You know, I'm trying to manifest the baby. 1:21:59.200 --> 1:22:00.720 I'm a baby so bad. 1:22:00.840 --> 1:22:02.880 Yeah, I hope you get that. 1:22:03.600 --> 1:22:05.880 I want family get prayed it towards the end of 1:22:05.880 --> 1:22:10.240 the lag, you have the father A man. 1:22:10.320 --> 1:22:12.000 I'm just saying, like, I really hope it happens, but 1:22:12.040 --> 1:22:14.240 you can still have the father picked out and kids 1:22:14.240 --> 1:22:15.080 that are like whatever. 1:22:15.680 --> 1:22:19.479 My point is, if that happened, I feel like our 1:22:19.600 --> 1:22:23.120 karma as would be really bad. Like if our kids 1:22:23.160 --> 1:22:24.759 went out together and be like, I can just picture 1:22:24.800 --> 1:22:25.360 my mom coming that. 1:22:25.479 --> 1:22:28.559 You didn't do that. Ah ah No, that'd be bad. 1:22:28.840 --> 1:22:30.720 We almost can't have them be friends because we need 1:22:30.760 --> 1:22:34.000 someone whose parent is like super conservative, Like we got 1:22:34.000 --> 1:22:34.720 to balance it out. 1:22:35.120 --> 1:22:37.599 Can't just be the two of us. I mean, tattoo 1:22:38.000 --> 1:22:39.360 fucking entertainer parents. 1:22:39.520 --> 1:22:42.960 You're gonna come out with Alabama Parker, But oh my god, 1:22:43.320 --> 1:22:46.120 I feel like I feel like a mar is gonna 1:22:46.160 --> 1:22:47.280 be more conservative than me. 1:22:48.040 --> 1:22:49.639 These kids are more conservative there. 1:22:50.080 --> 1:22:53.320 Things are changing, Like millennials are the biggest hordes of. 1:22:53.280 --> 1:22:56.679 Them all, but they're also very judgy and weird. 1:22:56.800 --> 1:22:59.559 They're very but gen z right now, they literally said it. 1:22:59.560 --> 1:23:02.240 Maybe it's because of the pandemic too. Gen Z is. 1:23:02.200 --> 1:23:05.040 Having less sex than any generation before them. 1:23:05.120 --> 1:23:06.680 Right, Well, they don't know that. They don't have to 1:23:06.680 --> 1:23:09.720 be people and social skills suck. That's it. 1:23:09.760 --> 1:23:12.080 That's all sex much social skills to get plassy? 1:23:12.600 --> 1:23:13.559 That's that's not true. 1:23:14.439 --> 1:23:19.479 How should I approach that conversation in ten years? Thirteen years? 1:23:19.880 --> 1:23:20.440 Conversation? 1:23:21.400 --> 1:23:25.040 Sex with in ten years? 1:23:25.080 --> 1:23:28.960 For Amara, like, yeah, for sure, yes there was babies 1:23:28.960 --> 1:23:31.400 in middle school. Yeah, but you're talking about periods earlier. 1:23:31.720 --> 1:23:34.320 I lost my I lost my generally at fourteen, and 1:23:34.560 --> 1:23:37.360 it could have happened at twelve thirteen, but I was 1:23:37.400 --> 1:23:37.840 too scared. 1:23:38.000 --> 1:23:39.559 I think my mom talked about sex with me at 1:23:39.600 --> 1:23:42.519 eight because she talked about periods. 1:23:42.240 --> 1:23:44.439 And I know weirdos on the internet and be like, 1:23:44.479 --> 1:23:46.680 are you sexualizing your child? No, it's definitely something I 1:23:46.720 --> 1:23:47.320 have to think about. 1:23:47.520 --> 1:23:50.800 Yeah, at all. As a five, I think three women, 1:23:50.960 --> 1:23:52.759 what's the best way to croach? 1:23:52.880 --> 1:23:56.360 Like I'm asking grade So that's like eleven, eleven, twelve 1:23:56.840 --> 1:23:59.439 before I'm going before I think so too. 1:23:59.560 --> 1:24:00.759 So to me, it's not sex. 1:24:01.880 --> 1:24:07.559 It's watching and inappropriate behavior by men boys in school, 1:24:07.720 --> 1:24:10.040 so it's not really sex. So as soon as she 1:24:10.120 --> 1:24:12.720 goes to daycare, you need to be able to communicate 1:24:13.160 --> 1:24:16.120 what areas no one should ever touch you. 1:24:16.360 --> 1:24:18.360 My mom would literally put her hand on my movie 1:24:18.360 --> 1:24:19.479 like what do you do if a boy touched you there? 1:24:19.479 --> 1:24:20.800 And teach me how to like knock it off. 1:24:21.400 --> 1:24:23.760 So to me, that's that conversation should be had as 1:24:23.800 --> 1:24:26.439 soon as they're going into daycare, like what areas no 1:24:26.479 --> 1:24:27.519 one should ever touch you? 1:24:27.960 --> 1:24:30.360 And yet that's a daycare come not even why that's 1:24:30.439 --> 1:24:31.160 but that's what I'm saying. 1:24:31.320 --> 1:24:34.800 But sex as soon as a period comes, which could 1:24:34.800 --> 1:24:37.120 be as early as eight even I think to me, 1:24:37.280 --> 1:24:40.280 once a period you could have, you could have a baby. 1:24:40.280 --> 1:24:43.400 Now you're a woman, and this is the feelings that 1:24:43.439 --> 1:24:45.960 you're gonna start. Like I was masturbating and dry humping 1:24:45.960 --> 1:24:46.960 my fucking teddy bears, and. 1:24:46.960 --> 1:24:49.639 See that's what I was gonna say. And my one 1:24:49.680 --> 1:24:52.000 of my past relationships and one of my. 1:24:53.600 --> 1:24:54.439 Everyday and one of my. 1:24:54.360 --> 1:24:57.120 Past relationships, the person I was with had a child. 1:24:57.560 --> 1:25:02.880 That child discovered my sex toy and would sneak and 1:25:02.920 --> 1:25:06.360 take it. And we caught her one time because I couldn't. 1:25:06.400 --> 1:25:08.200 I was in the middle of sex. And if I'm 1:25:08.200 --> 1:25:09.479 in the middle of sex, and I can't find. 1:25:09.360 --> 1:25:10.519 My sex toy. Sex. 1:25:10.560 --> 1:25:13.200 It's halted, and we flipping the fucking mattresses and we're 1:25:13.200 --> 1:25:15.840 finding it. So we couldn't find it, like anywhere, Like 1:25:15.880 --> 1:25:18.080 we cannot find it. So she was gone with her mother. 1:25:18.760 --> 1:25:21.599 She came back. We were living together. She was at 1:25:21.600 --> 1:25:24.800 this time she was ten. Ooh she was ten. 1:25:25.560 --> 1:25:26.000 I'm sorry. 1:25:26.080 --> 1:25:27.479 Yeah, she was nine, I'm sorry at this time she 1:25:27.520 --> 1:25:30.680 was nine. We couldn't find it. She came back the 1:25:30.680 --> 1:25:33.160 next day and like it was like folded right where 1:25:33.160 --> 1:25:35.000 I usually keep it, and I. 1:25:35.000 --> 1:25:36.599 Was like, oh, this girl had my sex toy. 1:25:36.680 --> 1:25:38.640 So then two years later, after she got like, they 1:25:38.640 --> 1:25:40.240 had a conversation with her, like you don't touch stuff 1:25:40.240 --> 1:25:43.320 that's not yours, blah blahlahlah. Two years later, now at eleven, 1:25:43.840 --> 1:25:46.240 she found it again and we found it underneath her 1:25:46.240 --> 1:25:49.240 pillow with the charger attached to it. So at this point, 1:25:49.320 --> 1:25:51.160 it's like, oh, now you know what the fuck this 1:25:51.200 --> 1:25:56.679 is for. It was a bullet, like you was charging 1:25:56.720 --> 1:25:58.719 my bullet, Like you knew what the fuck it was for. 1:25:58.800 --> 1:26:01.040 So the feeling were already there. 1:26:01.120 --> 1:26:03.000 So that's why I say, like, even you have to 1:26:03.040 --> 1:26:06.960 have a conversation about those feelings, yeah, earlier, even before the. 1:26:06.960 --> 1:26:09.040 Peer because their peers, which is what I was. 1:26:09.000 --> 1:26:11.040 Talking about when we had sexy Red on the pod 1:26:11.760 --> 1:26:13.479 talking about what pleasure is doing. 1:26:13.520 --> 1:26:17.080 Yes, the kids out of fucking the ass, No, but 1:26:17.160 --> 1:26:20.479 I understood where she was coming from with them, where 1:26:20.520 --> 1:26:22.479 she was coming from the parents. So they were having 1:26:22.479 --> 1:26:24.600 a conversation with sexy read where a teacher got in 1:26:24.640 --> 1:26:27.360 trouble because she was telling kids in class like, hey, 1:26:27.360 --> 1:26:30.200 you can get pleasure from antal sex if you touch 1:26:30.360 --> 1:26:30.920 this part. 1:26:31.040 --> 1:26:33.880 But like, yes, so. 1:26:33.880 --> 1:26:37.720 Don't volunteer the information of I think it was help sex. 1:26:38.200 --> 1:26:40.040 Don't volunteer the information of yo. 1:26:40.040 --> 1:26:42.000 Like about pleasure. 1:26:42.120 --> 1:26:45.200 But to me, you can be I think you can say. 1:26:45.680 --> 1:26:49.120 This is why people listen. 1:26:49.320 --> 1:26:53.639 I'm gonna sound real Republican. That's her parents. 1:26:53.680 --> 1:26:55.160 I don't know who's gonna. 1:26:58.160 --> 1:27:00.519 Having those conversations about how you should enjoy sex. 1:27:00.520 --> 1:27:04.680 They're not doing conversations with me. You don't want to 1:27:04.720 --> 1:27:05.600 know about fox. 1:27:05.360 --> 1:27:07.840 There are in the world. Why are you teaching children 1:27:07.840 --> 1:27:10.200 about pleasure? That's sick as fuck. 1:27:10.320 --> 1:27:13.120 I don't think it's saying that anal sex happens and 1:27:13.160 --> 1:27:16.360 that there's a prostate gland that gets stimulated, like and 1:27:16.400 --> 1:27:18.280 that's why people have anal sex or something like that, 1:27:18.320 --> 1:27:19.360 but like, full. 1:27:19.160 --> 1:27:20.719 On what she was doing insane? 1:27:20.760 --> 1:27:24.400 Did you guys have the Puberty movie? And yeah, Florida, Yeah, yeah, 1:27:24.439 --> 1:27:25.679 in like fifth sixth grade. 1:27:25.439 --> 1:27:27.800 Because our Florida we had education system sucks. 1:27:28.439 --> 1:27:29.000 Yeah we did. 1:27:29.280 --> 1:27:32.559 But none of that was about pleasure. It was just 1:27:32.640 --> 1:27:34.800 which is why even health class shouldn't be about it. 1:27:34.880 --> 1:27:35.599 Okay, so let me. 1:27:35.600 --> 1:27:38.400 So I'll say this, and I don't want to bring 1:27:38.400 --> 1:27:39.880 out the fact that you're a man. But you're a man, 1:27:39.960 --> 1:27:41.800 so this is a very different experience for you because 1:27:41.800 --> 1:27:43.680 no matter how you have sex. 1:27:43.680 --> 1:27:45.439 It is going to feel good to you. 1:27:45.720 --> 1:27:48.800 There a lot of girls, me included, growing up we 1:27:48.880 --> 1:27:51.479 did not know that sex was supposed to feel a 1:27:51.520 --> 1:27:54.000 certain way for us because no one taught us that. 1:27:54.040 --> 1:27:55.840 We were taught not to have sex. 1:27:55.880 --> 1:27:59.360 Not to get pregnant, Like there was no hey, this 1:27:59.400 --> 1:28:01.560 should be happening and this is how it's supposed to be. 1:28:02.200 --> 1:28:02.800 I agree with you. 1:28:02.920 --> 1:28:05.720 I don't think the male gym teacher that happens to 1:28:05.720 --> 1:28:08.280 do help us for one semester should teach. 1:28:08.439 --> 1:28:09.280 But guess what else. 1:28:09.160 --> 1:28:10.719 Wasn't being taught for play? 1:28:10.800 --> 1:28:12.880 The fact that we want to be wet before a 1:28:12.960 --> 1:28:15.280 dick is inserted, which causes. 1:28:14.920 --> 1:28:17.280 A little much Saying that if someone needs lubrication for 1:28:17.360 --> 1:28:19.240 sex in order for it to not be painful is 1:28:19.280 --> 1:28:21.200 not teaching foreplay and pleasure. 1:28:21.240 --> 1:28:23.479 But there should be four play because I defend my 1:28:23.520 --> 1:28:26.559 gender for a second. We're fourteen, fifteen years old rubbing 1:28:26.560 --> 1:28:28.080 our dicks on the side of a couch. You think 1:28:28.120 --> 1:28:29.800 we know about four play either, we don't know what 1:28:29.840 --> 1:28:30.680 we're supposed to do with that. 1:28:30.920 --> 1:28:33.479 Do you know how much traumatic sex had has been 1:28:33.560 --> 1:28:37.400 had by women of all ages? Because literally, men, teaching 1:28:37.520 --> 1:28:39.479 men not to be violent is not needing to teach care. 1:28:39.560 --> 1:28:41.479 But it's not about I want to be violent. 1:28:41.800 --> 1:28:43.879 You guys are having a different conversation than what I'm having. 1:28:43.760 --> 1:28:44.719 Clearly different conversation. 1:28:44.840 --> 1:28:48.680 I'm literally saying, as a woman, scientifically, we have to 1:28:48.760 --> 1:28:51.280 be aroused. There are universi that have to take place 1:28:51.520 --> 1:28:53.200 before a dick enters us. 1:28:53.479 --> 1:28:55.040 And so if pleasure. 1:28:54.760 --> 1:28:58.200 Is not being taught in schools, there is a large 1:28:58.320 --> 1:29:04.760 element of women going through very dry shaping, uncomfortable, painful sex. 1:29:04.880 --> 1:29:08.519 Teaching lubrication doesn't mean you need to teach pleasure, but 1:29:08.600 --> 1:29:10.040 not everyone As kids. 1:29:09.840 --> 1:29:12.040 Are not going to the next door and picking up 1:29:12.320 --> 1:29:12.720 that's not. 1:29:12.960 --> 1:29:14.879 You can't even go to the sex store underage. 1:29:14.920 --> 1:29:16.720 Okay, I'm agreeing with you. 1:29:16.840 --> 1:29:19.040 I just don't think that that should be taught by 1:29:19.080 --> 1:29:22.519 someone that does pe class and also does health class 1:29:22.640 --> 1:29:24.599 to me, because that's what the structure would be. Now, okay, 1:29:24.600 --> 1:29:27.400 now we're gonna have which is mister whoever teaching young 1:29:27.479 --> 1:29:28.719 girls how to get wet? 1:29:29.720 --> 1:29:31.439 I mean to me, I think there's there could be 1:29:31.479 --> 1:29:32.320 a program for. 1:29:32.320 --> 1:29:35.280 Real you can be you can educate it without being creepy, 1:29:35.360 --> 1:29:39.320 without being creepy. You should there also let's be public school. 1:29:39.320 --> 1:29:41.360 But also yes, yes, but also let's be. 1:29:41.400 --> 1:29:43.360 Very any one of those men should have taught you 1:29:43.360 --> 1:29:43.920 all about sex. 1:29:44.200 --> 1:29:45.000 No, but exactly, I. 1:29:45.000 --> 1:29:46.760 Mean, I have a woman teacher. They separated the. 1:29:46.720 --> 1:29:46.960 Men and. 1:29:48.960 --> 1:29:50.000 Started in high school with women. 1:29:50.360 --> 1:29:52.960 They separated men and women so that we could ask questions. 1:29:53.040 --> 1:29:55.599 I'll also be honest and and even going a little 1:29:55.600 --> 1:30:00.439 step further with the fact that parents are the last people. 1:30:00.520 --> 1:30:02.560 Unfortunately they do all these conversations. 1:30:02.720 --> 1:30:03.800 Do you know who talk? 1:30:03.880 --> 1:30:06.800 Guests, who led the conversation, friends. 1:30:06.600 --> 1:30:09.480 Everyone that was just open to even having those conversations, 1:30:09.640 --> 1:30:11.080 which I then had to hope. 1:30:11.200 --> 1:30:13.360 My mom had cool enough friends that I felt safe 1:30:13.400 --> 1:30:13.680 talking to. 1:30:13.840 --> 1:30:15.719 I had my period for a year from my mom, 1:30:16.040 --> 1:30:19.360 so when we really talk about the safetiness and also 1:30:19.600 --> 1:30:22.519 I literally my friend got mad at me because I 1:30:22.560 --> 1:30:24.680 was at her house. Her daughter was like fourteen, and 1:30:24.720 --> 1:30:26.599 I'm talking about how fine Tide Dallas sign is one 1:30:26.640 --> 1:30:30.439 day and she was really upset at me about talking 1:30:30.479 --> 1:30:33.040 about just the attractiveness of Tie Dallas Sign and she 1:30:33.120 --> 1:30:35.040 was like, girl, I was like, bitch in middle school, 1:30:35.200 --> 1:30:37.280 bitches was getting they titty suck behind the gym, like 1:30:37.320 --> 1:30:37.960 stop acting. 1:30:37.960 --> 1:30:40.599 People were talking my daughters are there yet? Wait? 1:30:40.600 --> 1:30:43.280 Wait, wait wait, just talking about someone being high literally, 1:30:43.600 --> 1:30:45.680 And so let's be very clear on the fact that 1:30:45.880 --> 1:30:50.040 parents are terrified and also sometimes really blind to the 1:30:50.040 --> 1:30:52.760 fact that their children are doing things if they they're 1:30:52.760 --> 1:30:54.320 not ready to accept that they're doing. 1:30:54.600 --> 1:30:57.719 When I came to my mom with a goddamn pregnancy test, 1:30:58.320 --> 1:31:01.080 that was her finding out I was having that's so crazy. 1:31:01.320 --> 1:31:02.760 I hid my period for a year. 1:31:03.040 --> 1:31:03.360 I am. 1:31:06.120 --> 1:31:09.320 I wish there was a conversation earlier on what I 1:31:09.320 --> 1:31:11.880 could expect, what was good, what wasn't. The fact that 1:31:12.240 --> 1:31:14.200 having sex with a man isn't gonna keep a nigga 1:31:14.280 --> 1:31:16.680 or make a nigga like you. There's so many elements 1:31:16.720 --> 1:31:19.799 of sex that were not taught to women that because 1:31:19.800 --> 1:31:21.920 we just have to sit here and let y'all figure 1:31:21.960 --> 1:31:23.479 out what the fuck it is, because y'all just want 1:31:23.520 --> 1:31:25.360 to get a rock off. And now we're sitting here 1:31:25.400 --> 1:31:28.719 taking all this painful, unenjoyable sex. There's women that still 1:31:28.800 --> 1:31:30.920 in their thirties and forties have not orgasm. 1:31:31.040 --> 1:31:31.240 Yep. 1:31:31.360 --> 1:31:33.720 Like, can you imagine, Amandy for the kids that are 1:31:33.720 --> 1:31:36.840 gay about having a conversation and how girls should go 1:31:36.880 --> 1:31:39.639 down on each other, about scissoring, about tribbing, like. 1:31:39.680 --> 1:31:42.080 Well, okay, all right, so you but that would get 1:31:42.120 --> 1:31:44.000 a way too inappropriate. 1:31:44.040 --> 1:31:46.040 Like and that's why I agree with Manny. 1:31:46.040 --> 1:31:48.760 But that was the reason of my question of how 1:31:48.760 --> 1:31:50.920 to have that conversation because even let's go back to 1:31:50.920 --> 1:31:52.679 the college ship, when I saw a lot of women 1:31:52.720 --> 1:31:54.599 that didn't have sex in high school. Yeah, and then 1:31:54.680 --> 1:31:57.200 because they because because they were told sex was the 1:31:57.240 --> 1:31:59.679 worst fucking thing ever, don't ever do it. I don't 1:31:59.680 --> 1:32:02.760 want to have that relationship with my daughter. I'm I'm 1:32:03.040 --> 1:32:05.960 a realist. My daughter is going to have sex. I'd 1:32:06.040 --> 1:32:10.280 rather have a relationship with her to have that conversation 1:32:10.680 --> 1:32:14.240 before she's blocked off, don't ever fucking have sex. And 1:32:14.240 --> 1:32:16.960 then when she's by herself in college or wherever the fuck. 1:32:17.080 --> 1:32:21.360 I mean, she's mind, but imagine too, you're learning because 1:32:21.400 --> 1:32:24.760 I don't want her to have her at an early age. 1:32:24.520 --> 1:32:26.000 With drugs and alcohol. 1:32:26.240 --> 1:32:30.599 To me, the conversation of sex has to come even 1:32:30.680 --> 1:32:33.840 earlier now because of shows like Euphoria, because they even 1:32:33.880 --> 1:32:35.439 experiences that I had in high school. 1:32:35.640 --> 1:32:36.000 I got. 1:32:36.080 --> 1:32:38.760 I remember coming home drunk wasted one night from a 1:32:38.840 --> 1:32:40.800 because I went to an all white school, like a 1:32:40.840 --> 1:32:41.599 majority white school. 1:32:41.640 --> 1:32:44.360 I went to DP my first ironically DP. 1:32:45.000 --> 1:32:48.240 My ninth grade year, and all of the kids there 1:32:48.920 --> 1:32:51.280 lived in mansions, has so much money. I came from 1:32:51.280 --> 1:32:55.400 goddamn Oakrage, so I was never I. 1:32:54.840 --> 1:32:57.400 We didn't have basements the school I went to. Them 1:32:57.439 --> 1:32:58.519 white kids were richest. 1:32:58.560 --> 1:33:01.200 Fuck got the whole bars from their children, from their 1:33:01.200 --> 1:33:03.479 parents when the parents were gone for the weekend. I 1:33:03.560 --> 1:33:08.000 wish sex was taught way earlier then the conversation of 1:33:08.640 --> 1:33:12.080 liquor drugs, And then now there's liquor and drugs happening. 1:33:12.200 --> 1:33:14.519 There's sex that I know nothing about, and now all 1:33:14.520 --> 1:33:16.120 of it is combined, and I'm having to figure it 1:33:16.120 --> 1:33:17.040 out by myself. 1:33:17.120 --> 1:33:20.120 I'll give this advice as someone that has teach that 1:33:20.640 --> 1:33:24.719 the most healthy, in my opinion, best father daughter relationship 1:33:24.720 --> 1:33:29.280 I could have ever had. I think one, if you 1:33:29.439 --> 1:33:32.839 never get to talk about sex with your daughter, probably 1:33:32.920 --> 1:33:35.360 just because maybe two her mom's doing a good job 1:33:35.360 --> 1:33:37.400 at it, and three like I love my dad so much, 1:33:37.400 --> 1:33:39.160 we're like I'd be so uncomfortable because it's like, oh, 1:33:39.160 --> 1:33:39.879 it's a guy. 1:33:39.760 --> 1:33:41.000 It's my body, what do I do? 1:33:41.280 --> 1:33:44.519 But I do think my dad shaped a lot of 1:33:44.520 --> 1:33:45.879 things for me that were really helpful. 1:33:46.280 --> 1:33:47.360 My dad was so. 1:33:49.040 --> 1:33:51.599 Forward about how beautiful I was and how men should 1:33:51.600 --> 1:33:53.840 treat me and would open my door for me and 1:33:53.920 --> 1:33:55.720 let me know guys were supposed to do that. My 1:33:55.840 --> 1:33:58.120 dad would even when he gave me allowance money and 1:33:58.120 --> 1:33:59.719 I'd try to buy something, he would tell me about 1:33:59.720 --> 1:34:01.160 how men are supposed to pay for things for me, 1:34:01.520 --> 1:34:04.200 like he wanted me to be independent but also know 1:34:04.240 --> 1:34:06.960 how to be treated. And he would ask me when 1:34:07.000 --> 1:34:09.200 I liked boys about how they were treating me. 1:34:09.400 --> 1:34:11.760 I think showing your daughter that step and. 1:34:11.720 --> 1:34:13.759 My dad would also do it with my mom, opening 1:34:13.800 --> 1:34:16.439 doors for doing things, being very chivalrous. And I think 1:34:17.040 --> 1:34:20.400 also again finding that love from the first man of 1:34:20.439 --> 1:34:22.439 your life was like it for me because some of 1:34:22.479 --> 1:34:25.160 my friends that have shitty relationships with their dad, we 1:34:25.200 --> 1:34:28.559 talk about that a lot about maybe they've accepted bare minimum. 1:34:28.600 --> 1:34:29.840 Like one of my home girls right now, she's like, 1:34:29.840 --> 1:34:31.760 I think, if I ever knew my dad, I wouldn't. 1:34:31.400 --> 1:34:32.519 Be like this with men. 1:34:33.120 --> 1:34:36.360 And that alone, just all of that love and constant 1:34:36.360 --> 1:34:39.640 reassurance I think really affirms a woman's place in like 1:34:39.960 --> 1:34:42.360 you know, and I'm granted, I'm sure there's different situations, 1:34:42.360 --> 1:34:44.719 but for the most part, we should see the best 1:34:44.720 --> 1:34:46.720 example of a man from our dad. 1:34:47.200 --> 1:34:50.040 Yes, if your daughter is on a. 1:34:50.040 --> 1:34:52.559 Plane in lesbian thought it'd be different. These thuse all 1:34:52.560 --> 1:34:52.920 that shit. 1:34:53.800 --> 1:34:54.960 It's a great album, you know. 1:34:55.240 --> 1:34:58.200 Nonetheless, I thought it would be Rory Zamaras, thank you 1:34:58.280 --> 1:35:01.160 guys so much for fucking joining us. This is about 1:35:01.160 --> 1:35:04.920 to be one of these long episodes, because what's craziest, 1:35:04.920 --> 1:35:08.360 the end of this was great. These conversations are very neat, 1:35:08.400 --> 1:35:10.720 and I'm really glad that we got to have them. 1:35:11.280 --> 1:35:13.400 Rory Demerez let them know not only where they can 1:35:13.479 --> 1:35:16.320 hear you, but Rory let them know about the album, 1:35:16.400 --> 1:35:19.120 who's on there, and what type of music they can 1:35:19.160 --> 1:35:19.960 expect from it. 1:35:19.960 --> 1:35:21.400 It's giving have sex to it, by. 1:35:21.320 --> 1:35:23.479 The ways, guys, I like it. 1:35:23.560 --> 1:35:26.000 Yeah, it gives pre album pre sex. 1:35:26.479 --> 1:35:27.559 Yeah, it was definitely. 1:35:29.080 --> 1:35:33.600 But you know you're gonna be sucking dick to Lennox. 1:35:34.000 --> 1:35:36.560 Like you know what I mean, like move from the 1:35:36.560 --> 1:35:38.400 living room to the actual bedroom and then you have 1:35:38.439 --> 1:35:40.479 to change the playlist at that point unless you have 1:35:40.680 --> 1:35:41.719 no second X everywhere. 1:35:41.760 --> 1:35:45.439 Yeah, I mean I'd like to like listen to you 1:35:45.439 --> 1:35:47.240 and then I'm just like I just like music. 1:35:47.560 --> 1:35:50.679 Word yes, because I like to move my like body 1:35:50.720 --> 1:35:53.200 to him. And I really like the production of this. 1:35:53.200 --> 1:35:55.599 Album, so I appreciate that. Well, yes, I thought it'd 1:35:55.600 --> 1:35:56.080 be different song. 1:35:56.160 --> 1:35:58.240 I know, well I'm fucking because then I'll be singing it. Bitch. 1:35:58.320 --> 1:36:01.519 I like just good music playing, but I hate songs 1:36:01.520 --> 1:36:03.000 that come on and not be knowing it. That's the 1:36:03.000 --> 1:36:04.880 word the song giver fucked to though, No, first time 1:36:04.920 --> 1:36:06.720 I didn't fuck this. One man tried to put on 1:36:06.760 --> 1:36:10.800 the Offset solo album and I said, I shared that 1:36:10.840 --> 1:36:13.160 story on the pod. I said that nigga every time 1:36:13.200 --> 1:36:16.800 I heard me, and he was so fine, and he 1:36:16.840 --> 1:36:18.120 put on offset solo. 1:36:17.920 --> 1:36:20.200 Album, and I mean, everyone knows my favorite. Fuck it's 1:36:20.200 --> 1:36:23.360 a brand fires album, e p anything, bro. 1:36:23.479 --> 1:36:25.439 I sucked so many niggas to that, and I feel bad. 1:36:25.640 --> 1:36:27.840 Oh I fuck everyone to say all like that's my ship. 1:36:27.920 --> 1:36:30.640 Oh yeah wait. So like when he turned on the 1:36:30.680 --> 1:36:31.960 offset album, I'm not gonna lie. 1:36:31.960 --> 1:36:33.320 His dick was hard, My pussy was right. 1:36:33.479 --> 1:36:34.720 I said, you know what, we're not going to do 1:36:34.760 --> 1:36:36.400 this actually do anything. 1:36:37.080 --> 1:36:40.479 Was literally literally that's what he put on. 1:36:41.479 --> 1:36:45.040 I can't do this, like this is what you want 1:36:45.040 --> 1:36:46.400 to Yeah, it was given. 1:36:46.479 --> 1:36:48.360 No, maybe he just wanted to put on noise. It 1:36:48.439 --> 1:36:51.880 was two o'clock in the morning. It was off. 1:36:52.439 --> 1:36:54.240 It was his solo album, not even me. I was 1:36:54.320 --> 1:36:56.960 question it was no, it wasn't awesome. 1:36:57.360 --> 1:37:01.120 It wasn't you walk to your own ship? 1:37:01.200 --> 1:37:07.000 Yeah, okay, weird, weird, You're not any your name is 1:37:07.040 --> 1:37:07.519 just on there. 1:37:07.720 --> 1:37:07.920 Yeah. 1:37:07.960 --> 1:37:10.280 But I have so much connection to what I want 1:37:10.280 --> 1:37:12.280 to start, like thinking about certain notes that I didn't 1:37:12.320 --> 1:37:14.040 mix well, Like I wasn't even gonna lie. 1:37:14.080 --> 1:37:15.920 I was listening to one song today and I was like, 1:37:16.240 --> 1:37:18.320 is it blending? Because I heard new Rory your mall 1:37:18.800 --> 1:37:20.080 in the in the song, and I. 1:37:20.040 --> 1:37:21.639 Was like, is it playing the podcast? 1:37:22.760 --> 1:37:25.479 I don't know the connection to that album wouldn't be 1:37:25.520 --> 1:37:27.600 a sexual one. That would feel so odd to me. 1:37:27.720 --> 1:37:31.080 And then I'd start like judging the project. Okay, Well, 1:37:31.240 --> 1:37:33.960 while I was fucking. 1:37:32.840 --> 1:37:38.040 About the project album, don't don't do it? 1:37:39.240 --> 1:37:40.200 Do you put a condum on too? 1:37:41.120 --> 1:37:45.479 Oh my god? Can you We're sunning out. 1:37:47.600 --> 1:37:48.320 Experience, No. 1:37:51.360 --> 1:37:51.880 Demarius. 1:37:52.080 --> 1:37:53.680 Tell them where they can listen to you. You can 1:37:53.800 --> 1:37:58.479 listen and escapades. I do not tell my lesbian but 1:37:58.640 --> 1:38:02.439 ye were every DSP You can listen to us YouTube, 1:38:03.120 --> 1:38:08.760 join our Patreon, everywhere, just where you get shipped. Yeah, 1:38:09.520 --> 1:38:10.400 you can. 1:38:10.160 --> 1:38:12.400 Still from you guys. I don't know they know. 1:38:12.760 --> 1:38:16.559 They'll want very unavailable for a lot. I'm not gonna lie. 1:38:16.640 --> 1:38:18.800 Y'll be aunt Eddie, y'all be still everyone I see 1:38:18.840 --> 1:38:20.439 y'all try to steal back out in l A. 1:38:20.920 --> 1:38:23.800 Y'all just want everybody that horrible fucking shut up. 1:38:24.439 --> 1:38:28.840 I have to go, bye, guy, Thank you for it. 1:38:28.960 --> 1:38:30.120 To another episode of Horrior. 1:38:29.960 --> 1:38:30.599 Decisions by. 1:38:32.560 --> 1:38:34.519 I think there's also a difference, Like I think we 1:38:34.600 --> 1:38:37.240 associate statement with like being her in her shadow, but 1:38:37.439 --> 1:38:39.400 like you said, seven did have a career but also 1:38:39.960 --> 1:38:42.120 what you what we spoke about, is that someone who 1:38:42.200 --> 1:38:47.000 can't embrace what you do because they're they're they're intimidated 1:38:47.040 --> 1:38:49.680 by it, and then they project and use like this 1:38:49.920 --> 1:38:53.040 the sex talk to their advantage and they try to 1:38:53.120 --> 1:38:53.519 shame you. 1:38:53.760 --> 1:38:57.000 That is what you're talking about. Not necessarily needing a steedman. 1:38:57.040 --> 1:39:00.160 I mean, I think any entrepreneur business woman need to 1:39:00.200 --> 1:39:02.639 support her because nigga, don't act like you don't. 1:39:02.479 --> 1:39:04.839 See things need to get done, like being useful. 1:39:05.040 --> 1:39:06.920 If you're just standing around nigga, you're not useful for 1:39:06.960 --> 1:39:08.360 the team, You're not useful for the household. 1:39:08.400 --> 1:39:11.519 When I say a steedman, though, I think that someone 1:39:11.680 --> 1:39:16.120 being okay. I think that when we talk about gender roles, patriarchy, masculinity, 1:39:16.960 --> 1:39:22.080 men sit here and feel uncomfortable showing up in feminine ways, 1:39:22.520 --> 1:39:25.400 and so showing up emotionally and not being the protector 1:39:25.439 --> 1:39:27.880 and provider now makes you feel like a bitch when 1:39:28.200 --> 1:39:29.680 I that's what I need from you