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<v Speaker 1>Jebels Second date update? How do you do a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update for a couple who's never been on a

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<v Speaker 1>date before and never even met in person personal? I

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<v Speaker 1>have no idea, but we're going to have to figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out, because that's what we've got today for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Kristen is on the phone and apparently

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<v Speaker 1>that's her situation. What's up, Kristin? How are you? Hey?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. How are you guys doing? Oh you sound

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<v Speaker 1>so chipper. Well I'm okay, but I'm actually a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit sad because here i am I'm having to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second update. All right, so good. Your email said

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<v Speaker 1>that you never actually met him in person and never

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<v Speaker 1>went on a date. So tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy you want to call today. Well, his

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<v Speaker 1>name is Thomas. We met online and we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>for about a month. That's a long time. It is

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<v Speaker 1>a very long time. I mean, first of all, I

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell you that he just looked so handsome

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<v Speaker 1>and even on the phone, like the tone of his voice.

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<v Speaker 1>It just seemed like a gentleman, you know, and we

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<v Speaker 1>just had like a really dip connection. Can I ask

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<v Speaker 1>why you guys didn't meet up in that whole month

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<v Speaker 1>long period of chatting. We never were able to think

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<v Speaker 1>our schedules and so we try, but something always will

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<v Speaker 1>come up, especially with his job. But I did have

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you guys that it just went to the

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<v Speaker 1>fund that we said I love you what oh way?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was this that deep of a connection.

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<v Speaker 1>Who was the one to drop that first? You were him?

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<v Speaker 1>He did, but I set it back. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>be happy for you, but I'm having all sorts of

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<v Speaker 1>red flags, like as he asked you for money is

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<v Speaker 1>my first thought, because it feels like he's setting you

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<v Speaker 1>up to take advantage of you for some reason. He's

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<v Speaker 1>a gentleman, you know. We talked a lot about our

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<v Speaker 1>life is and where we were in our lives, and

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<v Speaker 1>we both really want a relationship and something serious. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you, I mean you definitely liked him a lot

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<v Speaker 1>then loved him. Yeah. Well, I know it sounds stupid

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<v Speaker 1>to say I love you to somebody before you meet them,

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<v Speaker 1>but you know, once you say it. It's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>out there, you know. Yeah, And in the moment, it

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<v Speaker 1>just felt right, And so did you guys ever try

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<v Speaker 1>to meet up. We finally got to have the date

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<v Speaker 1>and we were going to have dinner at this restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and I show up and he never shows up. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my gosh, how long did you wait before you realize

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't showing up? I was there for about forty

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes, and I was texting him, and then finally

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<v Speaker 1>he got back to me, and he said that he

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<v Speaker 1>went to another restaurant that had the same name, but

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a different town. What he missed him the

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<v Speaker 1>town location. Okay, I mean, at one point, are you

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<v Speaker 1>not going to believe this guy? He's either catfishing you.

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<v Speaker 1>I could honestly see how that's happened. Only one time

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<v Speaker 1>has it happened to me. But it's happened anything. It's possibleriing,

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I was thinking in my mind. But I

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<v Speaker 1>also I was a little skeptical about it. So why

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<v Speaker 1>didn't he just say wait there, I'll be right there

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<v Speaker 1>Because he was too far. It was already too late.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been there for forty five minutes. For an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you do next? I try to look

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<v Speaker 1>on Golo with their restaurant on another city and I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't find it. Seems like he lied to you then, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was very heartbroken. Did you ask him about it?

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<v Speaker 1>I did ask him about it? And now he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to get back to me, Like, he doesn't text

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<v Speaker 1>me back, so I've not even had any contact with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, I just don't like this guy. Aren't

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<v Speaker 1>you mad too? I'm mad and I'm sad. I go

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<v Speaker 1>from being mad and sad to be mad and bad

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<v Speaker 1>because I just had You know, when you are dating online,

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<v Speaker 1>you need too many people, and I want to really ship.

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<v Speaker 1>I want somebody who I'm going to be settled with

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<v Speaker 1>that love me, that I love fat, that you know

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<v Speaker 1>we can make this happen. And then at this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should just strive for showing up to dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, baby steps until you get to all that.

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<v Speaker 1>I know. I don't know what are you wanting from

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, Thomas right? Like, what do you want from

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<v Speaker 1>him now? You actually want to go out with him again?

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<v Speaker 1>Or you just want to tell him off? I want

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<v Speaker 1>to hear his explanation first, before I decide if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna tell him off, because I really want to know

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<v Speaker 1>what happened. I mean, he went from saying I love

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<v Speaker 1>you and having this amazing connection to leaving me hanging

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<v Speaker 1>and telling me a possible lie. So I just want

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<v Speaker 1>an answer. Okay, Well, we'll play a song and then

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<v Speaker 1>come back and call him and get your second day update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, looking jubil in the morning. Second update if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just tuning in for today's second day update. Kristen

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<v Speaker 1>is on the phone and she wants to call a

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<v Speaker 1>dude named Thomas. The thing is, they've never actually met

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<v Speaker 1>in person, and they haven't gone out on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>They met online. They talked for about a month, things

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<v Speaker 1>got serious, serious enough to the point where they actually

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<v Speaker 1>said I love you to each other. And then they

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<v Speaker 1>set up a dinner date and Thomas never showed and

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<v Speaker 1>his excuse was that he went to the same restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>but in a different town, so we didn't have time

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<v Speaker 1>to meet her. Then she googled if that restaurant was

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<v Speaker 1>in that town and no, so it certainly seems like

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<v Speaker 1>he's lying, all right, Kristen, Before we make the phone call,

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<v Speaker 1>I do have maybe some news that might be kind

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<v Speaker 1>of disturbing to you? Okay, what, well, I am actually Thomas.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I set this whole thing up to

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<v Speaker 1>meet you during a second date up date. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty impressive. Weird. Oh my god, you guys my heart

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<v Speaker 1>to throb. What are you doing? Seriously, because right now

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas could be anyone. Do you still buy his story

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<v Speaker 1>that he's who he says he is. I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know anymore. I'm so confused. It's just I really want

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<v Speaker 1>it to be I really do. I mean, I just

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<v Speaker 1>hope he's not lying to you and that there is,

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<v Speaker 1>like you said, some reasonable explanation. Yeah. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>find now for sure so I can move on with

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<v Speaker 1>my life. Okay, cool. I'm gonna dial his phone of

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<v Speaker 1>it right now then and see if we can get

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<v Speaker 1>your answer. Here we go, Hello, Hi, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Thomas? Uh No, this is not Tom, This isn't Thomas,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Glenn. Can I ask his calling? Yeah? My

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<v Speaker 1>name is Jewbil. I'm calling from brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi, I

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<v Speaker 1>was looking to speak with a Thomas h Yeah. No, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Well you said your name was Glenn. Yep, it is okay. Well, Glenn,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask you a question. Did you start kind

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<v Speaker 1>of an online relationship with a girl named Kristen a

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<v Speaker 1>little while ago? Sorry? What is this about? I knew it.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't an answer my question, Glenn, Yeah, exactly, Glenn. Um. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that I'm asking you, Glenn, is because Kristen

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us because we do a segment on our show

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<v Speaker 1>called the Second Date Update. That's where if you go

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date with somebody and then they end

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<v Speaker 1>up not calling you back after, you can email us

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<v Speaker 1>and hopefully find out why. And she told us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about meeting a dude named Thomas online and

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<v Speaker 1>talking to him for over a month. Things got very heated,

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<v Speaker 1>to the point where Thomas and her were saying I

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<v Speaker 1>love you, and then there was supposed to be a

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<v Speaker 1>dinner date and that never happened. But strangely, the phone

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<v Speaker 1>over that she gave me for Thomas is for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and your name's Glenn. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, No, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I was confused. I am Thomas. Yeah, Glen, we know

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<v Speaker 1>that you're lying. Just come out with it. Why are

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<v Speaker 1>you leading women on and telling them I love you

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<v Speaker 1>on dating naps and toying with their emotions. That really

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<v Speaker 1>hurts people. I know it sounds like that. No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ex Flinn. So, Thomas is my middle name,

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<v Speaker 1>and I go by Glenn sometimes in Thomas sometimes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're admitting that you're you're the person that she

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<v Speaker 1>was talking Yeah, yeah, no, I know Christian Yeah yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait wait the Christen that you were supposed to meet

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant where you said you were in a

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant in a different city. But then when she looked

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<v Speaker 1>up that restaurant in the different city that didn't exist. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>you know a lot about me. Yeah, I did try

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<v Speaker 1>to meet her, Okay. I mean it's kind of weird

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<v Speaker 1>how honest you're being, because normally when people catfish somebody online,

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<v Speaker 1>they would try to deny it. While it's kind of complicated,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess you could call it a catfish, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>not like that. Okay, Well then can you can you

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<v Speaker 1>try to explain it please? So I so, actually I've

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<v Speaker 1>met Kristen before. What better before? You mean like you

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<v Speaker 1>had seen her picture on the same dating app or something,

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<v Speaker 1>well that, but also I've met her in person. She

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<v Speaker 1>just doesn't know that I'm who I say I am

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<v Speaker 1>or who she's been talking to you. What. Wow, that

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<v Speaker 1>cuts off as not only like catfishing and like an

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<v Speaker 1>a whole move, but creepy. You sound creepy. No no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not prepy a. It wasn't expecting to talk about

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<v Speaker 1>this right now. So I actually live in her building.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys live in the same building. Yeah, it does not,

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<v Speaker 1>as I didn't move into like stock her. I live

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<v Speaker 1>in the apartment underneath her, and I really like her,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just really nervous to talk to her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>no one brought up Stocking. You're the only person that

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<v Speaker 1>jumped to that conclusion, which is also a red flag. No,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are accusing me, and it just it's making

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<v Speaker 1>me sound like I'm crazy, but I'm not. I really

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<v Speaker 1>like Kristin and this whole situation is weird. I'm I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not accusing you anything. I'm just trying to figure out

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<v Speaker 1>what you're doing if it's not catfishing. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>she lives in the unit above me, and I really

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<v Speaker 1>like her. She's really cool and really pretty, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just a kind of a nervous guy. So I thought

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<v Speaker 1>I'd make this profile off to get to know her

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<v Speaker 1>and then you know, meet her or talk to her

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<v Speaker 1>in person with this information I have. And when you

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her in person and you showed up and

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<v Speaker 1>you were the dude that lives downstairs, you didn't think

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<v Speaker 1>that would go bad. Well, I was just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>use the information to talk to her about things she

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<v Speaker 1>would like. But a fake persona, I was never going

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<v Speaker 1>to meet her as that. I mean, I was just

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<v Speaker 1>using that to kind of get to know her better.

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<v Speaker 1>But it got really out of hand. So you were

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<v Speaker 1>basically like being a spy on a dating nap in

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<v Speaker 1>order to find out I don't know if she likes

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<v Speaker 1>to go hiking, so that when you ran into her

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<v Speaker 1>into the building, you could be like, oh, hey, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>also going on a hike, let's go together, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she would fall in love with the real you, not

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<v Speaker 1>the fake you. Yes, exactly. Thank you for understanding whoa

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<v Speaker 1>okay catfished her to get research on things to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to her about. Elaborate. Yeah, that's a lot of work.

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<v Speaker 1>And then how did you let your fake persona say

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<v Speaker 1>I love you to her online? I don't know, she's

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<v Speaker 1>awesome and I just got wrapped up into this fantasy. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did you mean to actually schedule a date with her? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she was the one who was pushing it, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought since we talked a lot, like she

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<v Speaker 1>could see past the weird beginning to this relationship we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to have. Did you have any plan of actually

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<v Speaker 1>meeting up with her? I gid plan on it, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I freaked out at the last moment. So then

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<v Speaker 1>what was your weight? So everything backfired and now you're

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<v Speaker 1>just giving up on everything. You're not stalking her anymore? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was never stalking her, but yeah, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>just it's all complicated. Yeah, super complicated. You know what

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<v Speaker 1>else complicated? Even more? Thomas Kristen is actually on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone listening and wants to talk to you right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Oh my god, oh my god, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. I'm I'm so sorry. This is so embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what to think. I don't either.

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<v Speaker 1>Who are you, oh, Glenn, I don't even know who

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<v Speaker 1>you are, Like, what do you look like? We actually

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<v Speaker 1>talked once in the laundry mat But I live underneath you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in one or two. I'm the guy with the

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<v Speaker 1>shaved head. I'm really sorry. I didn't mean for it

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<v Speaker 1>to get like that. I just I think you're really

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<v Speaker 1>cool and you're so beautiful, and I just was worried

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<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't go well. So I don't know, I just

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<v Speaker 1>know you cats fish me. I thought what you did.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is and arrassing. Well, okay, every night

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<v Speaker 1>I have to find you with your boyfriend upstairs, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's that should be me. You don't know me. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what boyfriend? What are you talking about? That blonde guy,

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<v Speaker 1>the one with the hair up to his shoulders. He's

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<v Speaker 1>been around for like six months and I hear you

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<v Speaker 1>guys all the time. First of all, he's not my boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>It's nothing like that. Okay, Okay, his girlfriend. I've heard it.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like spying on her. So not only are you

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<v Speaker 1>like creating faith personas to get into her life, but

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<v Speaker 1>now you're just straight up listening to her conversations inside

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<v Speaker 1>her apartment no our building, the scale and I just

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are saying I'm lying while she's also lying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have a boyfriend or not? Because if you

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<v Speaker 1>do have a boyfriend, it's weird that you're online trying

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<v Speaker 1>to meet dudes telling him you love him. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>both is not my boyfriend is a friend. We hang

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<v Speaker 1>out a lot. It's a fun thing. It's not my

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<v Speaker 1>perfriend and he knows that. Oh man, you guys are both. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care if she's dating eight other dudes right now.

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<v Speaker 1>What he did is so creepy. Okay. I know we're

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<v Speaker 1>both in like a weird place and this all started

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<v Speaker 1>out really weird. But when we were talking online there

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<v Speaker 1>was something there. There was a good vibe, and like

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<v Speaker 1>I was vibing with Thomas, not with Glenn. I am Thomas.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you're not Thomas. You put on the

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<v Speaker 1>like fake pictures. It's so bad. You have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Those are my brother? Actually, are breaking a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>your brother? Yeah? Those are pictures of my older brother.

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<v Speaker 1>Does he even know that you're doing that? No, he

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<v Speaker 1>told me I should do it. You are such a

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<v Speaker 1>bad liar. Are you actually trying to still make this work?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she would literally have to be just as

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<v Speaker 1>nuts as you to want to continue whatever weird fantasy

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<v Speaker 1>relationship you started. Whatever. I mean, I'm not moving out

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<v Speaker 1>of the building, So either we go on a day

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<v Speaker 1>or just like I don't know. You cannot make me

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<v Speaker 1>go on a day with you. This is just so

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<v Speaker 1>that whatever this all got really out of hand. I

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<v Speaker 1>was just trying to get to know you because I

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<v Speaker 1>liked you, and now it's just weird and it's our fault. Glad,

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<v Speaker 1>you could have talked to me like a normal person

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<v Speaker 1>and just asked me out. Who knows, lady, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have gone out with you. I did try to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you like a normal person in the laundry mat,

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<v Speaker 1>and you were didn't even give me the time of day.

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<v Speaker 1>You just walked out. I don't even remember this. Who knows,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what was going on in my

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<v Speaker 1>mind that day. Whatever, I liked you, and I'm down

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on another date if you want. All right, well, Kristen,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go on a second, well a

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<v Speaker 1>first date with Thomas. Thomas? We will pay for me. No, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm changing my lots. I mean, this is grout.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Glad. She needs to call her landlord

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<v Speaker 1>right now. All right, Well, I'm not gonna talk to you,

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<v Speaker 1>so don't worry. I'll forget you, exist, forget I exist,

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<v Speaker 1>and tell your boyfriend I say hello, he oh my

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend text day at seven eight five nine two says

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<v Speaker 1>I hope Kristin moves. Yeah, I think everybody does. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jewel in the morning. If you miss today's

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<v Speaker 1>second day update, it's girl. Kristen met a dude named

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<v Speaker 1>Thomas about a month ago online and things got really serious,

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<v Speaker 1>really fast. They were even saying I love you to

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<v Speaker 1>each other before they actually met. They set up a

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<v Speaker 1>dinner date, but Thomas never showed up, and then we

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<v Speaker 1>tried calling Thomas, but a dude named Glenn picked up

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and he admitted that he lived in the

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<v Speaker 1>same apartment complex as Kristen and set up the profile

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<v Speaker 1>because he hoped to learn some extra background about her.

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<v Speaker 1>When you just spell it all out, it's so creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah right, And she was creeped out, especially when Thomas

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<v Speaker 1>said he knew about the other guy that she'd been

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with in her apartment. Yeah no, something about

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<v Speaker 1>her guy asked her. Well, he did online as another

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<v Speaker 1>person and it didn't work out well for him because

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<v Speaker 1>he did not get a second date. Remember, you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day update, all you got to

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