1 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:04,920 Speaker 1: Rolling in five four three. 2 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 2: What's up, y'all? It's your girl Les Pete and it's 3 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 2: Sugarl Dre and the cold and. 4 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 1: You are tuned in to another episode of Poor Minds. 5 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,799 Speaker 2: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. 6 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 1: Have you ate today yet? 7 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? I did. I had some lyftover gooso from yesterday. 8 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:28,720 Speaker 2: Oh okay, because I don't this morning. But I didn't 9 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:31,800 Speaker 2: eat that much. So because we siping, we actually sip 10 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 2: in wine today. 11 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 3: We have an interesting combination today. 12 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: That's how you get the day started. 13 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 2: So what's up since what you been doing this past week? 14 00:00:43,440 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 2: I was in Houston you love again? No, not really. 15 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 3: I just feel like I've just been going home a 16 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:54,480 Speaker 3: lot lately, and it haven't just necessarily been planning, you 17 00:00:54,520 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 3: know what I mean, It just kind of be happening. 18 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:58,320 Speaker 2: So I was at home. 19 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 3: I hung out with all my little friends. I hung 20 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 3: up with my best friend j Ass and we went. 21 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: To this little funnel cake places that I was okay, 22 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:11,920 Speaker 1: it was good as fuck, I'm saying, hold on. 23 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 2: We had went to this little funnel ca place. It 24 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 2: was real good. 25 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 3: Then I had went hung with my best friend Jordan 26 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 3: and his fiance. They had like a little party at 27 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:24,480 Speaker 3: their house because it was the day of the election 28 00:01:24,680 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 3: and stuff, like the day we got the election results 29 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:28,319 Speaker 3: and stuff. So they had like a little party at 30 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:29,880 Speaker 3: their house. So I went over there and then we 31 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 3: ended up going to camp and we went. 32 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 2: Out turned up, so y'all super drunk. 33 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:36,639 Speaker 1: You know me, I'm. 34 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,559 Speaker 2: Dead, you know me? Wait wait, wait, just real quick. 35 00:01:39,600 --> 00:01:43,280 Speaker 1: Speaking of the election, y'all, make sure if you live 36 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: in Georgia, we still got to vote for the Senate. 37 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: It's the Senate, right, Yes, we still got to vote 38 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: for that. So we're not done, y'all, So make sure 39 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 1: y'all go out and still vote again. Yeah, and I 40 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:55,120 Speaker 1: think the deadline to register for like early voting is 41 00:01:55,160 --> 00:01:57,919 Speaker 1: like December to seventy or something, So make sure. 42 00:01:57,800 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 2: Y'all go register to vote. Yeah, but I ain't been 43 00:01:59,800 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 2: doing nothing. I've just been chilling. 44 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,640 Speaker 1: My pussy is on lock right now, so I haven't 45 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: been doing Honestly, I feel like I've been doing good. 46 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,160 Speaker 1: I told you I cleared out my roster and I've 47 00:02:13,240 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: stuck to that. 48 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 2: I've been doing good. Now. 49 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,919 Speaker 1: With that being said, I do got a potential nigga. 50 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 1: I'm not giving him a nickname. Yet because we gonna see, 51 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: We're gonna see how it goes. 52 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 2: But he actually live in Eastings, so I might be going, 53 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 2: are you excited? 54 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: I don't know. 55 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 2: We'll see, we'll see. I don't like to get my. 56 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:35,040 Speaker 1: Dull. 57 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 2: I'm just. 58 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: You already know how I get down. 59 00:02:43,520 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 2: Of course, he's a bad b I'm excited. Is he nice? 60 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 2: Is he a nice guy? It's definitely nice. He fine, 61 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 2: And see that's my problem. 62 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:54,440 Speaker 1: I'll be liking like, I don't know why I've been 63 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: on this like fine nigga thing lately. 64 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 2: I don't know neither, give me give me the medium ugly. 65 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what I've been on this shit like. 66 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,360 Speaker 2: I like medium ugly niggas. That's my friend. 67 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:07,639 Speaker 1: See, And that's why I be in these predicaments I'm 68 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: in because I'd be like, oh, this niggas so fine, 69 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: let me just give him one more chance. 70 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 2: Fine. 71 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 3: I ain't never had a good experience with a fine nigga. 72 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:16,880 Speaker 1: Me neither, I ain't never had to go. 73 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 3: So I think that's why I be over fine niggas, 74 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 3: like they just be cool to like look at and 75 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 3: FuG but but. 76 00:03:22,280 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 1: Don't get it twisted. Medium ugly niggas be feeling theyself too. 77 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:27,959 Speaker 1: Niggas like in general, medium. 78 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: Ugly niggas be feeling themselves too. 79 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 3: But then you can knock them down a few notches 80 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 3: and remind the ass your ass is ugly. 81 00:03:33,960 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 2: Calm the fuck down. 82 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:36,880 Speaker 1: I mean, you can. 83 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 2: Lucky that I'm talking to you is. But if they 84 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 2: got money, they ain't trying to hear that shit. I 85 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 2: don't give a fuck. 86 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:45,080 Speaker 1: What they trying to hear facts is facts. Okay, well, 87 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,920 Speaker 1: let's go ahead and get into these topics today. 88 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 2: I'm shame. I can't believe I. 89 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:55,680 Speaker 1: You can't believe you what nothing I just said? I 90 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: can't believe I talked about like the new babe. It's 91 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: really I can't even say he's a bab yeah, because 92 00:04:00,400 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: it's literally just texting so I know people. Next time 93 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: I go to Houston people and I'm like, oh, trying 94 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 1: to see who I'm with, gonna see you out? 95 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 2: They probably are. That's the bad thing about it. 96 00:04:12,320 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 3: And it's real hard to move, Loki, it really really is. 97 00:04:15,600 --> 00:04:20,159 Speaker 3: So there's that Houston baby and still trying to talk 98 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:20,680 Speaker 3: back to me. 99 00:04:21,120 --> 00:04:24,520 Speaker 2: How's that been going? Have I been talking about him? 100 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 1: Oh? 101 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:26,840 Speaker 2: That's how it's been going period pool. 102 00:04:27,360 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: So I wanted to talk about this because I was 103 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: actually talking to my friend Jazz about this last night. 104 00:04:32,800 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 2: I wanted to. 105 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: Talk about people bonding over not liking somebody, Like like, say, 106 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,760 Speaker 1: me and you don't know each other, and you got 107 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: beef with Ashley and I got beef with Ashley. It's 108 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: too totally different, you know, beefs. And then I meet 109 00:04:55,200 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: you and you like, say, what this home? Meet on 110 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:00,159 Speaker 1: my nerves and I'm like, who says? And then we 111 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 1: find out that we both don't like the girl, and 112 00:05:01,600 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: then we just blossom off of friendship of not liking 113 00:05:05,040 --> 00:05:08,279 Speaker 1: Ashley quote unquote Ashley, what do you think about people 114 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: bonding over not liking a person? 115 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 3: I think that's weird as fucks, because, like, I don't 116 00:05:14,520 --> 00:05:16,800 Speaker 3: fucking know. I just think it's so strange to like 117 00:05:16,880 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 3: for you and a person, y'all both don't like the 118 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 3: same person. So now y'all like, oh, we're gonna link 119 00:05:20,839 --> 00:05:26,640 Speaker 3: up because I think that's weird at fuck, And yeah, 120 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 3: I don't do that. Yeah, but I think I never 121 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 3: became friends with a girl because we both mutually didn't 122 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 3: like the same person. 123 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 2: Right, But you know what's crazy? 124 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,880 Speaker 1: Sometimes people will know that you don't like somebody, and 125 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 1: they'll purposely try to like bring their name up just 126 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: so y'all can have a conversation about it. 127 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 2: If I don't like somebody, I'm not about to sit 128 00:05:43,160 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 2: there and talk about that. You think somebody have did 129 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 2: that before? Absolutely? 130 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 3: Absolutely, I think that I kind of give off like 131 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,520 Speaker 3: an aura, like, don't even come talk to me about like, 132 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 3: you know what I mean, even if we don't like 133 00:05:53,200 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 3: the same person. I think the way that I am, 134 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 3: you just kind of know like, Okay, yeah, I probably 135 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:59,760 Speaker 3: know Jorya don't like these persons neither, But I'm not 136 00:06:00,040 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 3: to talk to her about it because she probably don't 137 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:03,160 Speaker 3: give a fuck because I don't give a fuck to 138 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 3: sit around and talk about people that I'm not cool with. 139 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 3: No more are people that I don't like. If I 140 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 3: don't like you, why the fuck would I be talking 141 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 3: about you? 142 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: But so, so, have you ever talked to somebody like like, y'all, 143 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 1: y'all both didn't like the same person, So you never 144 00:06:18,160 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: had a conversation with somebody and y'all mutually like didn't 145 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 1: like the same person. 146 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 2: You who didn't like me? 147 00:06:26,839 --> 00:06:31,719 Speaker 3: No, I'm saying me and you got me time saying 148 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:34,919 Speaker 3: me and you have had conversations about people that we 149 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:35,440 Speaker 3: don't like. 150 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,559 Speaker 1: But that's so, that's what I'm saying. 151 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:38,919 Speaker 2: That's it. 152 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:42,039 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, but you have to like my friends. Yeah. 153 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:44,679 Speaker 1: But the reason I said that because y'all gotta remember 154 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: me and Dragon like each other at one. 155 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,359 Speaker 3: Point, and I was saying that I was talking to 156 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 3: people about you, No, just my friends. I can't believe 157 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 3: you like you ain't used to be talking to your 158 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 3: friends about me. You're fucking lion. I know you fucking 159 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 3: not saying that. You was probably saying nothing. That's just 160 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 3: like that bad about me. But when we wasn't getting along, 161 00:07:05,440 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 3: you know, used to be Tello friends, Me and Dreyll 162 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:10,080 Speaker 3: be cheap, get out my mother's cookings. 163 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:11,840 Speaker 2: And it's okay because I used to be telling my 164 00:07:11,840 --> 00:07:13,679 Speaker 2: friends and time be like les fucking annoying. 165 00:07:13,760 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: Do we have a person that we mutually don't like? 166 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:18,800 Speaker 3: I feel like we got a few people that we 167 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 3: mutually we don't like. 168 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,600 Speaker 2: Anybody we really don't. That's not well. Let me not 169 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:23,040 Speaker 2: say that. 170 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: We feel like nobody can be gay, nobody can be game. 171 00:07:27,760 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 3: Nobody can be fucking gang bro. Me and you do 172 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 3: not be wanting no new friends? What is wrong with us? 173 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: You know? 174 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 2: This is the thing though. 175 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: I think it's because a lot of times people want 176 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: to be friends with us for the wrong reasons, and 177 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: I feel like, especially now, I mean even before, I 178 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: feel like people thought like, oh, y'all be out with 179 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: the bdbs, and oh y'all be drinking, y'all be turned up, 180 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,520 Speaker 1: Like yeah, we do, but that's not why me and 181 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: you ever became friends in the first place. Yeah, Like, 182 00:07:54,120 --> 00:07:56,080 Speaker 1: like I said, at the time, I had very poor 183 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: pussy management, so I wasn't like, oh, let me hang 184 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: out with Dragon because she fuck with niggas our money. 185 00:08:00,520 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 1: I didn't know what type of men you fucked with. 186 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: When we first met, we bonded over just we had. 187 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 1: We found out that we had the same degree. We 188 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: kind of wanted to do the same thing. So kind 189 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:11,960 Speaker 1: of like back on the topic, I just think it's 190 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,600 Speaker 1: weird when people really try to try to become friends 191 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 1: with people over such silly things like oh, we don't 192 00:08:18,400 --> 00:08:20,280 Speaker 1: like each other, or I think you pretty, or I 193 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: see you outside all the time, or oh I think 194 00:08:22,400 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 1: you got niggas that got money and shit like that. 195 00:08:24,360 --> 00:08:25,600 Speaker 1: That is so weird to me. 196 00:08:25,800 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's very weird. 197 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,640 Speaker 3: I mean, And to me, two beaches that will become 198 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 3: friends because they mutually don't like the same person, y'all 199 00:08:32,760 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 3: not gonna be friends that long because both of y'all 200 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 3: holds fade, right, So something gonna happen, something of y'all 201 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 3: gonna have out because look at how y'all became friends. 202 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 3: Y'all became friends because y'all mutually disliked the same person. 203 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 3: But let nobody get under my skin to the point 204 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 3: that I'd be like, Okay, I'm about to go get 205 00:08:47,480 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 3: cool with the beach because we both don't like her. 206 00:08:49,120 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 2: You're giving that person too much power, way too much power. 207 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 1: But I told you I thought it was weird when 208 00:08:55,320 --> 00:08:57,199 Speaker 1: you became friends with somebody because you thought. 209 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:57,960 Speaker 2: You were pretty. 210 00:09:00,760 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, explain yourself what. I don't mean to put 211 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:08,600 Speaker 1: you on the spot, now, you know, but I got. 212 00:09:08,400 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 3: To know, okay, So I feel like that situation, by 213 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:15,200 Speaker 3: the way, I was way younger, Like that was like 214 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 3: what four years ago, I saw you as what I 215 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 3: was twenty five. I had when I was twenty four 216 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 3: when I became friends with her, I hadn't turned twenty 217 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 3: five years so I feel like, you know, I was 218 00:09:26,800 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 3: younger then, I used to be out. I was working 219 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 3: at the clubs. I used to be out all the time. 220 00:09:30,400 --> 00:09:35,600 Speaker 3: I was fucking with I was fucking with what we 221 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:37,839 Speaker 3: gonna call him crazy? That crazy as. 222 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 2: Oh what the fuck? 223 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: We gonna call him nothing because it's gonna be the 224 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: first and last time we talked about him. 225 00:09:43,880 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 3: So yeah, So like I was fucking with that nigga. 226 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:47,560 Speaker 3: You know, he used to be out all the time. 227 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:48,920 Speaker 3: So I used to be on the scene and shit 228 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 3: a like. So I used to run into her all 229 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 3: the time, and I feel like she just was like 230 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 3: and I used to always be nice, like you know 231 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 3: what I mean. I would get him to dance her 232 00:09:57,559 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 3: and she so you would get him to dance her, 233 00:10:01,679 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 3: dance her, like to get like, you know, for her 234 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:05,319 Speaker 3: to come dance for Oh. 235 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 2: Why did you say it like that? 236 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know, but yeah, So I used 237 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 1: to come. 238 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:13,719 Speaker 2: On, man, keep going with the story. Spin it out, 239 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 2: Spin it out. I forgot what you're talking about. 240 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:18,280 Speaker 3: So I used to so I used to I feel like, 241 00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 3: you know, she thought I was nice because I used 242 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,120 Speaker 3: to be getting him to put money in her pocket 243 00:10:22,160 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 3: and stuff, and so she just reached out and wanted 244 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 3: to be cool, and we found out we had the 245 00:10:25,360 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 3: same degree, so it was just kind of like, okay, cool, whatever, 246 00:10:28,559 --> 00:10:31,679 Speaker 3: So we started hanging out on her end. I do 247 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 3: think it was weird because, yeah, who wants to be 248 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:38,360 Speaker 3: friends with people because they pretty that's strange. But for me, 249 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 3: it was just really like okay, whatever, Like, you know, 250 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 3: you nice, you seem nice, I'm cool, let's why not 251 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:45,520 Speaker 3: hang out? 252 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 2: I don't know. 253 00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: I mean, and at this time, me and you were friends. 254 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: And I'm the type of person I don't hang on nobody. 255 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: I don't care who my friends hang out with. I 256 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 1: really don't. I've never been that persons. But when you 257 00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,440 Speaker 1: told me that you're about to start hanging out, I 258 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: was like, just be careful, That's literally all I said. 259 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:04,439 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, because maybe she'll be 260 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: different with you and lo and behold, she wasn't. Anyways, 261 00:11:07,559 --> 00:11:07,920 Speaker 1: it was. 262 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 2: A very weird situation, very on Patreon. 263 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:14,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, make sure y'all subscribe to the Patreon because she 264 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 1: got into all the t ill watched it. I said, 265 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:20,400 Speaker 1: I've never watched the Patreon episodes, but I had to 266 00:11:20,440 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: watch that, watch that one. 267 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 2: I said. The tears hot. 268 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: It was. 269 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 2: It was a little bit and then people it was like, 270 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:26,840 Speaker 2: who are you talking about? 271 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 3: And I was like, That's why I didn't keep elaborating 272 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 3: because I feel like it would have been very. 273 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:35,520 Speaker 2: Easy to figure. Yeah, if people really see this, you would. 274 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 3: Have had to have been following me in like twenty sixteen. 275 00:11:38,240 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: And there's no and we when we started winding down Wednesday, y'all, 276 00:11:42,200 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: that situation was already over. 277 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,280 Speaker 2: So there's literally no evidence except for like Atlanta people. 278 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 2: They know Atlanta people. 279 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 1: Girl. 280 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, so let. 281 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 1: Us know how y'all feel about people bonding over not 282 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:55,959 Speaker 1: liking the beach. 283 00:11:56,760 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 2: Now. 284 00:11:56,880 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie though I would link with a 285 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 1: bitch to get on a nigga. 286 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 3: You will, Yeah, I would never do that either. 287 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:04,320 Speaker 2: I think that's lame. 288 00:12:04,720 --> 00:12:08,160 Speaker 1: Well I'm lame, So shit happens you is if you 289 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 1: would do that, you know, I'm not gonna lie. 290 00:12:11,640 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 2: I can't believe I'm about to say this. 291 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,480 Speaker 1: Rapper back No, but honestly, rapper Band made me so 292 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 1: fucking mad yesterday. I wanted to I wanted to send 293 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 1: this bitch a message, not him, but another bitch and 294 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 1: be like, girl. 295 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 2: Let me tell you what he said about you, bitch. 296 00:12:28,800 --> 00:12:30,839 Speaker 1: I really I really wanted to, but I was like, 297 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 1: you know what, let me just take my ass to sleep, 298 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: cause I don't move like that. 299 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't never talk to niggas about like no 300 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 3: other bitch. I'm not never about to do that. 301 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 1: I don't No, I don't talk to him about her 302 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 1: or nothing. But it just some shit had went down. 303 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 2: I'm saying, I'm not even about to talk to no like. 304 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:45,640 Speaker 3: You know what I mean, because you you said that 305 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:47,800 Speaker 3: she was about to missage her and be like, let 306 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 3: me tell you what the niggas is. But that's all 307 00:12:49,880 --> 00:12:51,960 Speaker 3: make it look like you and him be talking about her. 308 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:56,520 Speaker 1: Right, But not only that, it's like I know him 309 00:12:57,040 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: and I know how he is. All the bitch was 310 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: gonna do is to be like, look, your little girlfriend 311 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:03,520 Speaker 1: sent me a message, and I would have been looking stupid. 312 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, So maybe I would stupid either way though, Cause 313 00:13:06,640 --> 00:13:07,960 Speaker 3: that's what I'm saying because even if you would have 314 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 3: been like, oh, let me tell you what he said, 315 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,679 Speaker 3: I'll say, y'all be talking about me, right, and that's 316 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 3: how you would have looked. But not that we be 317 00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 3: like sometimes, like I said, niggas be volunteering information. I 318 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:21,000 Speaker 3: don't want to hear, so I never asked, ain't gonna 319 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:21,640 Speaker 3: look at it like. 320 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 1: Exactly, but I didn't do it. But I was so 321 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 1: fucking pissed. I was so like, who my blood I actually? 322 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,640 Speaker 1: And y'all, I've said this on the show plenty of times. 323 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:32,920 Speaker 1: I don't call me and bitches. 324 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:34,200 Speaker 2: You called him a bitch. 325 00:13:34,240 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 1: I have never called that man a bitch in the 326 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: four years i've been four and a half years i've 327 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:37,520 Speaker 1: been doing. 328 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 2: I called him a bitch. Yesterday I called him a bitch. 329 00:13:41,040 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 3: Yes, and how did that end? I don't think that's 330 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 3: gonna age will. 331 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 2: I don't give a damn So. 332 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 3: You really think you're done with him? 333 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:50,560 Speaker 1: Yes? If I call you a bitch, you done said 334 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 1: you was done so many times. 335 00:13:53,320 --> 00:13:54,160 Speaker 2: I'm not buying it. 336 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:55,120 Speaker 1: I'm done. 337 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:57,320 Speaker 2: And if you're watching this, nigga, fuck you. 338 00:13:57,440 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: I'm not buying it. 339 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 2: I feel like, because I. 340 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:04,320 Speaker 1: Might, I take that back. Let me let me calm down, 341 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 1: let me see that's what I'm saying. What the fuck? 342 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 2: And you don't call them a whole fucking bitch. 343 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: That's all disrespectful, though, I do feel like that's the 344 00:14:11,679 --> 00:14:12,719 Speaker 1: most disrespectful thing. 345 00:14:14,240 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 3: I only ever call one the good bach. 346 00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:19,040 Speaker 2: Too, I said, And then and then I put stupid 347 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,160 Speaker 2: ass in front of it. I said, ass beach. 348 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 1: I said, boy, fuck you dot dot dot stupid ass beach. 349 00:14:26,360 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: I meant that ship with my soul. 350 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:29,360 Speaker 2: I know I could see it. 351 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:32,000 Speaker 1: I'm mad. I was so fucking mad. 352 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 2: I'm scared. Let me tell you what happened after. I can't. 353 00:14:35,760 --> 00:14:37,680 Speaker 2: I can't. We got too many viewers. 354 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 3: Now, yeah, you can't just close that type of information 355 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:44,680 Speaker 3: on the show. But but yeah, so let's move on. 356 00:14:44,720 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you talk about the next topic. I'm 357 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: gonna let you introduce this topic because I don't even 358 00:14:50,360 --> 00:14:50,600 Speaker 1: know what. 359 00:14:51,480 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 3: I don't know what these hoes be talking about either. 360 00:14:53,360 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 3: These hos we get on my mother fucking nerves. Y'all, 361 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 3: hollse the stupid as fuck they are let me pissing 362 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 3: me off because I just feel like they make it 363 00:15:01,520 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 3: hard for like beaches who know what they want out 364 00:15:03,600 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 3: of life, like y'all, y'all be fucking settling too much 365 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 3: for me, Like who raised y'all? Anyways, couldn't be, couldn't be. Okay, 366 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:20,000 Speaker 3: So anyways, I'm like, you know, scrawling the timeline this 367 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 3: morning per usual on Instagram, and I see this post 368 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 3: that is like going viral on Instagram that all of 369 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 3: these women keep reposting, and the post basically has said 370 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,960 Speaker 3: something to the extent of like, I'm never the beach 371 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 3: that's I'm always the beach that's gonna break bread, but 372 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 3: I'm never gonna ask for nothing. And they always repost 373 00:15:40,600 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 3: any time about period precisely respectfully, not precisely respectfully. You 374 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 3: probably don't even know how to spell precisely. Ain't nobody 375 00:15:52,040 --> 00:15:56,960 Speaker 3: say that I added little beat myself, come on education, 376 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:58,359 Speaker 3: but they talk about. 377 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 2: Respectfully as shit, So I could I wanted. 378 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 3: To talk about I guess talk about that, Like I 379 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 3: feel like women like that really do make it hard 380 00:16:05,640 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 3: for women who like know what they want out of 381 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:10,360 Speaker 3: relationships and expect things from gods. Like why are you 382 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 3: bragging about the fact that you'll be breaking bread with 383 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 3: niggas but you don't never ask or anything? 384 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 2: You know, how stupid that sounds. 385 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 1: I feel like, what's wrong with the man doing something 386 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:19,400 Speaker 1: for you? Like? 387 00:16:19,400 --> 00:16:21,480 Speaker 3: How do we why are you breaking bread with this nigga? 388 00:16:21,560 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 2: Mea? 389 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:22,320 Speaker 1: Can we can? 390 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 2: We can we touch on that first? 391 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 1: Why I feel like this. 392 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:31,480 Speaker 2: It's different. It depends on the situation. Now, if we 393 00:16:31,560 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 2: got a business. 394 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: No, if we got like a business together and we're 395 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: investing in something together, now that's a totally different topic. 396 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,280 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like that's on, I would 397 00:16:40,280 --> 00:16:41,920 Speaker 1: be on some shit like that. I'm not gonna lie. 398 00:16:41,920 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: Like if a nigga was like, man, let's do this 399 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,440 Speaker 1: he we can both put in on and make some money. 400 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,400 Speaker 1: I would do some shit like that. But that's gonna 401 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 1: be like my nigga, like investing in a business. 402 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:53,160 Speaker 2: That's business, right. But stuff that they talking about like 403 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: little petty, little small shit like that. 404 00:16:55,640 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: I feel like this this is why this conversation is 405 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:01,680 Speaker 1: going on because they feels like this is a quote 406 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:04,600 Speaker 1: unquote city girls movement, which is not a city girls 407 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,119 Speaker 1: movement because we've been talking about getting niggas from their 408 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:08,320 Speaker 1: bread since Trina. 409 00:17:08,600 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 2: You know, back in the day, if you want. 410 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: To be honest, Trina been talking about fucking for the 411 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 1: niggas and getting they shit since nineteen ninety three. I 412 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 1: was popping out puss it in kindergarten, like where your 413 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,800 Speaker 1: lunch money at, nigga. I need my shits. I needs 414 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:26,359 Speaker 1: my shits. Okay, so this is not fucking new. You 415 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 1: start to get what you need, get what you want 416 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:29,560 Speaker 1: out the situation. 417 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:33,680 Speaker 2: Y'all, don't understand that these niggas are using you. A 418 00:17:33,720 --> 00:17:34,200 Speaker 2: lot of times. 419 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:35,720 Speaker 1: These men are using you, so you might as well 420 00:17:35,760 --> 00:17:38,160 Speaker 1: get from the situation that you want. What's the fucking problem? 421 00:17:38,280 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 1: So this is what the thing is. Women like to speak. 422 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: We tried, We talked about this the other week when 423 00:17:45,160 --> 00:17:47,399 Speaker 1: men were like, uh we said, men like be like, 424 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:49,840 Speaker 1: oh you different, baby, you different, You not like these 425 00:17:49,880 --> 00:17:52,880 Speaker 1: other women. So some women really take that in their head. 426 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 2: Like, oh I'm different, I'm different. No, that's not a 427 00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 2: good thing. 428 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:59,760 Speaker 1: That's a misogynistic ass shit to say, Oh you're not 429 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:02,639 Speaker 1: like these other women. This man doesn't even respect women, 430 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 1: and you're taking that as a fucking compliment. Are you crazy? 431 00:18:06,480 --> 00:18:08,359 Speaker 2: What's wrong? Just like these holes? 432 00:18:08,960 --> 00:18:12,200 Speaker 1: Period? What's wrong with somebody doing something for you? What's 433 00:18:12,240 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: wrong with asking for something? Cause a nigga gonna ask 434 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:19,080 Speaker 1: you for some pussy, he gonna. 435 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:20,679 Speaker 2: He gonna ask you to do this and do that 436 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 2: for him. He gonna ask you to come, he gonna. 437 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:24,919 Speaker 1: Ask you to clean, And y'all be right there. 438 00:18:24,840 --> 00:18:27,280 Speaker 3: Sleeping looking stupid as fuck. 439 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:28,120 Speaker 1: Looking crazy. 440 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 2: But you I don't ask for shit, don't get me. 441 00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: Wrong, that's why you broke right now. No, But it's 442 00:18:33,119 --> 00:18:35,600 Speaker 1: not even that though. I love the fact that women 443 00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 1: are bossing up and getting on their ship, absolutely, but 444 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:41,879 Speaker 1: why are you breaking bread with these niggas facts? And 445 00:18:42,160 --> 00:18:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck how much money I get. 446 00:18:44,280 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 3: I ain't breaking bread with no niggas unless that's my 447 00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:49,960 Speaker 3: motherfucking husby right, we're sharing. 448 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 2: But how are you breaking bread with a nigga in yo? 449 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 3: And I'm still gonna have a stash, But how are. 450 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:55,160 Speaker 2: You breaking bread with a nigga and your friends sitting 451 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 2: right there with a stiff wig. 452 00:18:56,880 --> 00:18:58,439 Speaker 1: See if Dre would have been breaking bread with a 453 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: nigga with my wig with stiff I would have been 454 00:19:00,200 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 1: as fu. Yeah, you can't be breaking bread with these 455 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:04,919 Speaker 1: niggas and your friends need to be put on. 456 00:19:05,880 --> 00:19:08,920 Speaker 3: But some people don't care about their friends. That's another 457 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 3: topic for another time. But some people don't care about 458 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:14,879 Speaker 3: their friends. Be all about self, like they be fucking 459 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 3: with a nigga with money, or they be doing and 460 00:19:17,440 --> 00:19:19,200 Speaker 3: they're getting money, but they don't give a fuck about 461 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:19,720 Speaker 3: how they friends. 462 00:19:19,840 --> 00:19:20,720 Speaker 2: They only care. 463 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 3: About them, and that's crazy as fuck to me. I mean, 464 00:19:23,080 --> 00:19:24,399 Speaker 3: but a lot of people be like that. But that's 465 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 3: why somebody if you don't want your whole circle to win. 466 00:19:27,840 --> 00:19:30,919 Speaker 1: Somebody you had tweeted something one day about like getting 467 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: something from niggas or if somebody responded to you, was like, oh, 468 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 1: that's the broken shit. Ever y'all out here asking niggas 469 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:40,399 Speaker 1: for shit or something like that, somebody had responded to it. 470 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't understand how y'all let these men 471 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 1: open their mouths and ask y'all. 472 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:48,439 Speaker 3: Broke about Let me tell you something that I'm like, broke. 473 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,000 Speaker 3: They never being broke ever since? 474 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,199 Speaker 2: I mean I guess, I. 475 00:19:54,200 --> 00:19:56,480 Speaker 3: Guess, I guess maybe in college, but ever since then. 476 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,160 Speaker 3: I mean, it's like money, don't it. Don't it don't 477 00:19:58,200 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 3: be hard for me to come across money and to 478 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:03,880 Speaker 3: give me So, I mean, I'm just being honesty me, 479 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 3: but yeah, So it's just like to me, it's not 480 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 3: about being broke, Like I know how to get my 481 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 3: own money, I know how to maintain money, you know 482 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 3: what I mean? Yes, it's like but at the same time, 483 00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:19,120 Speaker 3: why would I be fucking with a nigga and not 484 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,239 Speaker 3: want him to do stuff for me like that just 485 00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:23,560 Speaker 3: does not make any sense to me. But I ain't 486 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 3: a man that would have an issue with that. It's 487 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,280 Speaker 3: just not the type of man that I will want today. Right, girls, 488 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:29,920 Speaker 3: be like, I don't have to ask my nigga for nothing, 489 00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 3: he does it for me. 490 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:32,879 Speaker 2: Oh fucking brother. 491 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:36,880 Speaker 1: Stop. But it's acting like these niggas are just going 492 00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 1: above and these niggas is not going above and beyond. 493 00:20:40,040 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 2: Let's keep it one. 494 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:40,960 Speaker 4: I mean it. 495 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 3: Don't get me wrong, because I have fucked with niggas 496 00:20:42,720 --> 00:20:45,400 Speaker 3: that you don't necessarily gotta ask, So I get that 497 00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,720 Speaker 3: side of it. But I'm just saying so it's like 498 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 3: I get that side of it too. But at the 499 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 3: same time, if you need something and you need to 500 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 3: ask for it, ain't no shame in sucking asking a 501 00:20:54,400 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 3: nigga that you're fucking to do something for you. What 502 00:20:58,000 --> 00:21:00,359 Speaker 3: you wanna do, bitch, It's just be having so much pride. 503 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,880 Speaker 3: Don't be wanting to ask a nigga for nothing. So okay, cool, 504 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 3: you need your rent pay, but you ain't got the 505 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 3: money to pay your rent, So what you're gonna do? 506 00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,159 Speaker 3: Get a vigti because you too embarrassed? To ax this 507 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:08,480 Speaker 3: nigga for some money. 508 00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:11,119 Speaker 2: But not only that. But we're not talking. 509 00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:14,800 Speaker 1: But I feel like as our situations go now, the 510 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:17,960 Speaker 1: way we are, it's not that we need things because 511 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 1: we gonna take care of ourselves. 512 00:21:19,280 --> 00:21:20,120 Speaker 2: I always tell them. 513 00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:21,920 Speaker 3: I don't need shit from a nigga, That's what I'm saying, 514 00:21:21,960 --> 00:21:23,600 Speaker 3: But you gonna do right. 515 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 1: So I want to make sure that we were making 516 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: it clear now a man, what a man does for 517 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 1: you is always extra. You definitely need to have your 518 00:21:32,640 --> 00:21:34,120 Speaker 1: own money, get on your own shit. 519 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 2: This is supposed to be like, you know, stuff if. 520 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 1: You want to go to the mall to get something, 521 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 1: or if you want to go on a little trip 522 00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: real quick or little to do little stuff like that. 523 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:43,719 Speaker 1: So I think it's amazing that these women are bossed 524 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 1: up and that they don't have to ask a nigga 525 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:48,480 Speaker 1: for shit. But you should want your man to do 526 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,520 Speaker 1: something for you. It's okay to ask your man for something. 527 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 2: And I can't stress this enough. 528 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 3: When if you do start fucking with a nigga that's 529 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 3: doing shit for you, save y'all money, Save y'all fucking money. Hos, 530 00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 3: be so quick a nigga, give a bitch three and 531 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:02,920 Speaker 3: she ain't never had it before, and go blow the 532 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,000 Speaker 3: whole she and be broken again in two weeks by 533 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:10,439 Speaker 3: just stack yr bread y'all. But the game is to 534 00:22:10,480 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 3: be sold, not tall. I'll be just trying to nigga. 535 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,320 Speaker 1: Look, I swear to God, I'm not gonna lie. A 536 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 1: nigga gave me three bands like a wild bag nigga. 537 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 2: I still got ship and you shouldn't. 538 00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,000 Speaker 1: That's the thing to do that I'm not to do. 539 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 1: I just feel like it's just it'll be greater later, 540 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:27,760 Speaker 1: Like I know where I'm going and I know what 541 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,440 Speaker 1: I'm about to do. So it's just like, I don't 542 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 1: all that shit designer ship, these trips, all this that 543 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: shit ain't going nowhere. Take care of your business. 544 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:36,680 Speaker 3: Take care of your business, period. 545 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:38,199 Speaker 2: But yeah, I don't know. 546 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,119 Speaker 3: So I just think that that's the lame, that whole 547 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,360 Speaker 3: little saying, because no, I'm not breaking bread with no nigga, 548 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 3: then I'm gonna ask for some ship. So I think 549 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:48,880 Speaker 3: that that shitt is stupid as hell. 550 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:50,840 Speaker 1: What's the first thing you ask for a nigga whenever 551 00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 1: you start fucking him? Like, what's the first thing you 552 00:22:53,440 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 1: expect for a nigga? 553 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 2: To give you some money. 554 00:22:57,040 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: Like, so, say you start fucking with a nigga, y'all 555 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:01,120 Speaker 1: went on one date. 556 00:23:01,080 --> 00:23:02,520 Speaker 2: Or maybe like a bag or something. 557 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 1: I don't know what's the like some money that you'd 558 00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:06,080 Speaker 1: be like, okay, I can fuck with him, and then 559 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:07,720 Speaker 1: what's the money that he'll give you? Like, I'm not 560 00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: fucking with him. 561 00:23:09,400 --> 00:23:11,720 Speaker 3: If a nigga was to send me like two hundred dollars, 562 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 3: I will blockie this. So don't even fucking play with 563 00:23:16,440 --> 00:23:16,920 Speaker 3: me like this. 564 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:20,920 Speaker 1: Because because I look to you dollars, I'm not gonna lie. 565 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 3: That's embarrassing, Like, don't see me. No, if you're gonna 566 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 3: send me some money, send me some money for real. 567 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: So I'm well, I'm not gonna lie like fifty dollars. 568 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,440 Speaker 3: Niggas be trying to see you fifty dollars, not me, 569 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 3: but no trying to send me fifty dollars. 570 00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 2: They do, They definitely do. They definitely do. 571 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,439 Speaker 1: But I say, like every time I tell you know, 572 00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: like I don't want to say what bait is? 573 00:23:40,720 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 2: Okay, every time, like I'll. 574 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:43,240 Speaker 1: Be he like what you're doing. If I'm on the 575 00:23:43,240 --> 00:23:45,000 Speaker 1: way to the Neil shop, he'll send me five hundred dollars. 576 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:47,680 Speaker 1: But stuff like that is okay. I mean, yeah, that's fine. 577 00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 3: If you tell a nigger, hey, I need to go 578 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 3: get my nails in and he sends you five hundred dollars, 579 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:54,160 Speaker 3: that's cool. That ain't nothing wrong with that because your 580 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:56,639 Speaker 3: nail is only gonna be like, what, one hundred dollars And. 581 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,679 Speaker 2: See me, you send me five hundred dollars. I'm like, oh, 582 00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna get jail to day. I was save 583 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,040 Speaker 2: my money. 584 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,119 Speaker 3: But yeah, I feel like, yeah, I just definitely, I 585 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 3: feel like niggas, no type of niggas that I be 586 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:06,879 Speaker 3: fucking with. 587 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:07,560 Speaker 2: They just kind of know. 588 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:12,720 Speaker 1: They know, they know, they know, they know. Okay, So y'all, 589 00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 1: you know, I gotta talk about these cause I love 590 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:19,640 Speaker 1: y'all and we fuck with y'all. So we me Andrea 591 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 1: have recently, not recently, we've been doing it for like, 592 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,600 Speaker 1: you know, probably for the most portion of the year 593 00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:27,840 Speaker 1: this year, we have recently started doing therapy. So it 594 00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,120 Speaker 1: has worked wonders for us, and I feel like, honestly, 595 00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: a lot of I always say this, a lot of 596 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 1: black people don't really get into therapy. They think it's 597 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,080 Speaker 1: only for people who are like about to jump off 598 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:39,840 Speaker 1: the list. You can't deal with life, but therapy does 599 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:46,520 Speaker 1: so much for people, like if you're dealing with LGBTQ issues, stress, sleeping, trauma, 600 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:50,200 Speaker 1: any kind of grief, self esteem issues. A lot of times, 601 00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,080 Speaker 1: it's like we had a question the other week, a 602 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:53,639 Speaker 1: girl was having problems with her friends. 603 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:56,320 Speaker 2: So if you want to get more deep into the issues. 604 00:24:55,960 --> 00:24:58,359 Speaker 1: That you have going on, we have partnered with better 605 00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 1: help to get y'all count on therapy. So if you 606 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:05,200 Speaker 1: go to betterhelp dot com backslash poor Minds, you'll get 607 00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: ten percent off the first month. 608 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,560 Speaker 2: And when I tell y'all, this works really really good. 609 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,200 Speaker 1: They connect you with a therapist within twenty four to 610 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 1: forty eight hours, and if you don't like your therapists, 611 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 1: don't schedule you with somebody else. It's very easy. You 612 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 1: do it from the comfort of your own home. Y'all. 613 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:24,919 Speaker 1: Gotta remember we're still in the pandemic. Okay, So if 614 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,040 Speaker 1: you don't feel comfortable going to the doctor's office, like 615 00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,360 Speaker 1: I said, you do this from your phone, from your computer, 616 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,720 Speaker 1: and it's very helpful. Over one million people use this. 617 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 1: It's offered in all fifty states. You know what I'm saying, 618 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:37,120 Speaker 1: it's really really good. 619 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:37,760 Speaker 2: I love it. 620 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:41,679 Speaker 1: My counselor she'd be putting me on game. She'd be 621 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 1: putting me on game and letting me know that I'm 622 00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:47,439 Speaker 1: on the right path. And honestly, I feel like I've 623 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:49,239 Speaker 1: been a lot of that. I feel like I've been 624 00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,720 Speaker 1: a lot. I am so happy today. I really am 625 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:52,679 Speaker 1: in a good mood today. 626 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,919 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm in a good mood period. I was actually 627 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 2: excited to record today. 628 00:25:56,240 --> 00:26:03,840 Speaker 1: Sos www dot betterhelp dot com backslash of poor minds. 629 00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 2: That's p O you are. You'll be trying to frame 630 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:12,080 Speaker 2: y'all list missing me. Don't be food. I did miss you. 631 00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: A little tiny tiny bits, a little lots of the people. 632 00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 2: Okay, go ahead and bringing this other topic. I'm gonna 633 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 2: get a little tips and now I'm already tipsy. Oh okay, 634 00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:23,680 Speaker 2: can you read? 635 00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, I'm not hooked on funny Okay. 636 00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,080 Speaker 3: Getting your body done? 637 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 1: Okay, okay. So I want to talk about getting your 638 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:38,160 Speaker 1: body done. 639 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 3: So I came across the sweet a few weeks ago, 640 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 3: and basically this guy was saying that he saw girls 641 00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 3: say that getting your body done is the best investment 642 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:50,720 Speaker 3: that you can make after getting a house, purchasing a home. 643 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 2: So getting your body done is a better investment than 644 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 2: buying a home. 645 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 3: No, is the best investment that you can make next 646 00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 3: to getting a home. Oh, okay, so purchasing a home. 647 00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:02,320 Speaker 3: So I wanted to talk about that interesting feelings. 648 00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 1: Oh, it depends on your honestly, you're it's gonna be 649 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 1: a dish to myself. 650 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:11,480 Speaker 2: But it depends on your intelligence. 651 00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 1: What because honestly, like if you buy a house and 652 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,679 Speaker 1: you're not living in it, like you're trying to, Like, 653 00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,840 Speaker 1: you can flip it, you can rent it out. 654 00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 2: That's gonna make you money in the long run, you 655 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. 656 00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:26,720 Speaker 3: But getting your but your body, paying to get your 657 00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:30,199 Speaker 3: body done costs a significantly less amount of money than 658 00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,360 Speaker 3: it costs to purchase a home. 659 00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 2: It depends what kind of house you buy. 660 00:27:32,840 --> 00:27:36,680 Speaker 1: I love kind of house you could buy for five vans. 661 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:39,159 Speaker 1: First of all, getting your body done is way more 662 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: than five bands. Not really, the actual surgery is it 663 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: is like a BBL. 664 00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 3: You can get a BBL in Miami for like forty 665 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 3: two hundred. 666 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:50,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, but you also got to think about the massages. 667 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:55,400 Speaker 3: When you think, let's say ten thousand dollars. So ten 668 00:27:55,400 --> 00:27:57,240 Speaker 3: thousand dollars with like all of the aftercare. 669 00:27:58,280 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: What house you about to buy for tenth dos of 670 00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:03,879 Speaker 1: the I mean you can put a little down. Hey, 671 00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:08,200 Speaker 1: you can flip a crackhouse. Kick the motherfuckers out. Nah, 672 00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:09,920 Speaker 1: I've met a few. I'd have been to a few 673 00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:10,960 Speaker 1: crackhouses in my life. 674 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:12,919 Speaker 3: I feel like the body gonna pay for the house. 675 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:19,120 Speaker 1: But bitch, how many holes do you know really done? 676 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: Got they body done and got a house? 677 00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:21,640 Speaker 2: What my eye? 678 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 1: Got a house yet? I got a little apartment on 679 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:28,760 Speaker 1: the east side. God damn, I feel like it. 680 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 3: Pussy management. Al Right, pussy managed me. We just talked 681 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 3: about this last week. It is holes will be getting 682 00:28:36,760 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 3: that type of sheep from me because it is. 683 00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:40,400 Speaker 2: I mean, yeah, but the percentage is very low. 684 00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:43,239 Speaker 1: Less not about your mindset, because that's another thing too. 685 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:45,080 Speaker 3: You can go get your body done, but if you 686 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 3: a stupid beach, you're still gonna be a stupid beach 687 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 3: with a new body. 688 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 2: I'm not I'm really not. 689 00:28:55,040 --> 00:28:55,640 Speaker 1: My camera. 690 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 2: I'm looking at the camera. What's up. 691 00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,000 Speaker 1: No, we're not. 692 00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 2: I'm not talking about you. I'm serious. 693 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 3: I'm just saying, like, it's all about your mindset. 694 00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 1: You know what? 695 00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 2: I mean, you could be a smart bitch. 696 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: You got your mind on the money and focused, and she, 697 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: before you get your body done, you just ain't got 698 00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,800 Speaker 1: the lug. So then once you go get the lug, 699 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:15,680 Speaker 1: then you're. 700 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 3: Really about to be killing she because you already had 701 00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 3: the mindset. 702 00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,080 Speaker 1: So don't be a dumb bitch with a dumb bodie 703 00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:25,960 Speaker 1: because that was me as stupid, fat brain stupider. 704 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:34,360 Speaker 2: But but bro, I learned. What if you learned, I 705 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 2: learned you. 706 00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:38,040 Speaker 3: Have to use what you got to get what you want, right, 707 00:29:38,200 --> 00:29:39,600 Speaker 3: So that's what I'm saying. So it's like, if you're 708 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,200 Speaker 3: a smart bitch, you're gonna use your new body as 709 00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 3: leverage to get the things that you want. 710 00:29:44,920 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 2: I really do feel that way. 711 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 3: So you look better, So it's like you, when you 712 00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,120 Speaker 3: look better, you have access to better nig because that's 713 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 3: just the reality of the situation, sugarcoat she. I'm not 714 00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,800 Speaker 3: gonna try to act like pretty privilege is not a thing. 715 00:29:58,000 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: It definitely is real, and I hate when people try 716 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:02,160 Speaker 1: are like come for us and act like what we 717 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:04,280 Speaker 1: talked were being real, were being honest. 718 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 2: It is a real thing. 719 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 3: Pretty privilege is a thing, and I'm gonna take advantage 720 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:08,240 Speaker 3: of it. 721 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:08,760 Speaker 2: And you should. 722 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 3: So it's like, you know what I mean, if you 723 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,560 Speaker 3: got your mind right, the body just gonna add. 724 00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 2: To get your mind, let it talk to But no, 725 00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 2: so for real, like I just feel like, yeah, I 726 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 2: don't know. 727 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: So you feel like invest in your body is smarter 728 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 1: than investing investing. 729 00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:32,080 Speaker 3: In your looks is always smart, always interesting. Because that's 730 00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,000 Speaker 3: another topic. I mean, we ain't never talked about it 731 00:30:34,040 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 3: on the show, but that's another topic. What I was 732 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:39,400 Speaker 3: telling you last week, how on average they say people 733 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,000 Speaker 3: that are ugly make wayless significantly. No serious, I'm being 734 00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,200 Speaker 3: for real, were all you wait? 735 00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 2: Say that again? 736 00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,400 Speaker 3: On average, people that are not that attractive makes significantly 737 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 3: a significant amount of money less than people that are attractive. 738 00:30:55,840 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: So if I walk in Shell right now, over their lifetime, 739 00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:03,120 Speaker 1: they gonna be like, you know what, You're about to 740 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,120 Speaker 1: get a raise because that ass dumb fat if you 741 00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: walked away and to Shell Corporation, if I say, why 742 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:15,320 Speaker 1: could you? I'm talking about the corporation. Okay, So if 743 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: I walked in there and I want to be like 744 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 1: a secretary or some shit, they gonna pay me twenty 745 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,520 Speaker 1: three dollars an hour because my ass fat versus the 746 00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: next girl. 747 00:31:24,880 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 2: They're gonna be like, we're gonna only give you sixteens. 748 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 3: I mean, maybe it depends on who interview on you. 749 00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 3: It depends on whole interview on you. If it's a woman, 750 00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:36,040 Speaker 3: probably not. You know, I know how women are, especially 751 00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 3: women in the corporate workspace. That's another topic we can 752 00:31:38,720 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 3: talk about another time too. 753 00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 2: But you know it's crazy that that. 754 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:44,160 Speaker 1: The fact that you're right is what's scary, Yeah, because 755 00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:45,880 Speaker 1: I feel like, hey, you could end up getting a raise. 756 00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:48,280 Speaker 3: You might not even be half as qualified as somebody 757 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,840 Speaker 3: else who's way more qualified, to have way more credentials 758 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,840 Speaker 3: than you, you know what I mean. But you look bitter, 759 00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 3: so you might end up getting a raise over this person. 760 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 1: And you will make especially if a man is interviewing 761 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 1: you and he thinks you're attract because niggas is horny. 762 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 1: We all know that. 763 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 3: And don't let me get up in there because you 764 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 3: don't know I'll be flirting. You'd be like, if the 765 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 3: job start at twenty five, I'm getting thirty an hour. 766 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 1: Come. 767 00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,320 Speaker 3: You gotta use shout out to Rodney from Players Club 768 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 3: because she taught us early on. 769 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 2: You gotta use what you guys to get what you want. 770 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:28,880 Speaker 1: Terrible, just being honest. If God gave it to me, 771 00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 1: why wouldn't I use it? 772 00:32:31,800 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 2: Why not? 773 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't matter if God gave it to me. 774 00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:36,320 Speaker 1: You don't matter if the doctor gave it to me. 775 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:42,080 Speaker 1: Bitch Gotti, and I'm gonna use it. Okay. So I 776 00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 1: will say this in investing in your body is cheaper 777 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: than buying a home. Yes, but like I said, it 778 00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: just depends on like what your goals are, because it's like, 779 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 1: if you have ten bands, you could save that, stack 780 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 1: it up and eventually, you know, get yourself a home. 781 00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 1: I really would like to know what kind of home. 782 00:33:03,200 --> 00:33:03,560 Speaker 1: I guess. 783 00:33:03,680 --> 00:33:07,640 Speaker 3: But then because you only have to put down you 784 00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 3: do only have to put down a certain percent and 785 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 3: drunk your home. So I mean, I guess you That's 786 00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,320 Speaker 3: what I'm saying. So it's just really one hundred thousand 787 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 3: dollars home with like thousand dollars. 788 00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:17,640 Speaker 2: Right, But now I'm not gonna lie. 789 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,479 Speaker 1: My logic would probably be if I got ten bands, 790 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 1: I would get my body done and then I would 791 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: stack up some more money from you know, and if 792 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,000 Speaker 1: I was reaided to buy a home, I'm buying home 793 00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 1: and then don't make a nigga pay my mortgage. 794 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,000 Speaker 3: That where you can get a nigga to buy you 795 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 3: a home, I mean, but either way in his home. 796 00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm not moving in no nigga house. He gonna 797 00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 2: do you like they did life. 798 00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,520 Speaker 3: If a nigga had a fucking big ass of state 799 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 3: and he wanted you to move in there, you would 800 00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:50,280 Speaker 3: not move in. Oh yeah, ain't nobody saying you can't 801 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 3: still keep because the way my logic is, if a 802 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,160 Speaker 3: nigga have a house, then he wanted me to come 803 00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:55,680 Speaker 3: move in his house, I'll come move in, but I 804 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 3: need to. 805 00:33:56,080 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 2: Keep my apartment. Oh I'm not keeping my apartments. 806 00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 1: I would keep mine because if you're in case and 807 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,360 Speaker 1: if he kicked me out, gonna go to your house. 808 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,000 Speaker 2: But bitch, what if both of us staying with a nigga, 809 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:08,080 Speaker 2: then who did who house? 810 00:34:08,080 --> 00:34:10,200 Speaker 1: You gonna go? I need to have an apartment. 811 00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,200 Speaker 2: You got a stay. 812 00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,800 Speaker 1: I know you got some horse stables. I lay meantime, I'm. 813 00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 2: Not about to play with you. 814 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 1: Know. 815 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 2: I want to keep my apartments no matter what. 816 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying exactly when I get married, 817 00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 1: I think I still want to have that on you 818 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,440 Speaker 1: are both living with niggas. You gonna have your apartment. 819 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: So if my nigga kicked me out nine times out 820 00:34:27,560 --> 00:34:29,959 Speaker 1: of tea, and he will because I stay getting dumped, y'all, 821 00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 1: I can't keep a nigga for ship. So once he 822 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,800 Speaker 1: kicked me out, I'm just moving your apartment. 823 00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,960 Speaker 2: Okay, I guess that's a good lodge you need to have. 824 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,440 Speaker 3: But yeah, so I definitely think that when it comes 825 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 3: to getting your body done, it's a very smart investment. 826 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:48,719 Speaker 3: I feel like always improving your looks and improving how 827 00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 3: you look and how you feel about yourself is. 828 00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:51,040 Speaker 2: A smart move. 829 00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:52,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like. 830 00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 2: But also I feel like they could get you a 831 00:34:54,680 --> 00:34:54,960 Speaker 2: lot of it. 832 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,920 Speaker 3: Can It can help you attain a lot of the 833 00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,080 Speaker 3: other things you want in life later down the line. 834 00:34:59,120 --> 00:34:59,799 Speaker 1: The better you look. 835 00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:01,879 Speaker 3: I I'm just being honest. A lot of people ain't 836 00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 3: gonna like this. I know we're gonna get some backlash conversation. 837 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,400 Speaker 2: I was talking about this in my live yesterday. 838 00:35:06,440 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 1: You know how many people on YouTube have taken our 839 00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:12,040 Speaker 1: clips and created whole YouTube videos just about the ship 840 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 1: that we talk about, just to like bash us. Really, 841 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,000 Speaker 1: Oh no, I didn't see it. You don't have to 842 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:19,160 Speaker 1: show it to But to me, this is kind of 843 00:35:19,160 --> 00:35:22,399 Speaker 1: getting off subject. If you're a content creator out there, 844 00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:26,279 Speaker 1: be creative, like, stop making conversations off of what other 845 00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,359 Speaker 1: people are talking about, because I know when we sit 846 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: in here every day and we come up with the content, 847 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:31,800 Speaker 1: these are stuff that we want to talk about. I 848 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:34,440 Speaker 1: will never take a clip from somebody else's YouTube and 849 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:38,279 Speaker 1: create a whole fucking hour long video just to talk 850 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:39,760 Speaker 1: about what they're talking about and bashing. 851 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:42,920 Speaker 3: Now, weirls ain't got it. They don't really be creative. 852 00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:43,920 Speaker 3: It's neither do the guys. 853 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:48,359 Speaker 2: So that's but anyways, back on top, better to talk 854 00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 2: about this. 855 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 1: I'm bid, but no, I do feel like, you know, 856 00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 1: your looks are an investment, and like I said, I 857 00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 1: also feel like, not only is it the investment of 858 00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 1: the things that you want, but when you look good, 859 00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 1: you feel good, And I feel like that goes into 860 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:08,319 Speaker 1: like a lot of confidence, things like how you wake 861 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:09,799 Speaker 1: up in the morning and get shit done. 862 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:11,600 Speaker 2: Like when I woke up this morning. 863 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,919 Speaker 1: I was like, God, dangn I look good. I'm about 864 00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: to go record poor mine. 865 00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 2: I'm about to be on my ship today. 866 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,400 Speaker 1: Because I woke up feeling good cause I look good. 867 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,120 Speaker 1: Bitch can't tell me no, I don't give a fuck. 868 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:26,799 Speaker 2: Hey, one thing I know of why it so aggressive? 869 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:29,359 Speaker 2: I know one thing? 870 00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,800 Speaker 1: Hey, hey say one thing. I know. 871 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:35,480 Speaker 2: If a bitch call me ugly, I know she alone. 872 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 3: Me And you could say a lot of things, but 873 00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,120 Speaker 3: you can't say that. 874 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:42,239 Speaker 1: You can. You cannot make me. You cannot make me 875 00:36:42,400 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 1: hate myself. You cannot make me feel no way about me. 876 00:36:45,040 --> 00:36:47,080 Speaker 3: You know what's crazy? Even because can we keep getting 877 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 3: it off topic? But you know what's crazy? 878 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:50,760 Speaker 2: Do you ever feel like sometimes people don't really want. 879 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 3: Us to internalize the things that they say about us 880 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:56,680 Speaker 3: and want us to hate our about ourselves. 881 00:36:57,400 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: But it's like, nah, beach, I still feel. 882 00:36:59,000 --> 00:36:59,680 Speaker 2: Like I'm near beach. 883 00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:02,160 Speaker 1: I'm that beach period. 884 00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:04,439 Speaker 3: Die always steel their way. 885 00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:09,520 Speaker 1: Okay, so now we're gonna get into the by oh 886 00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:15,719 Speaker 1: my arm pits, Harry Savage, you're gonna just stop singing 887 00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:20,640 Speaker 1: the song. I know, I wasn't well, I wasn't gonna 888 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:21,759 Speaker 1: say nothing. You're the one. 889 00:37:23,320 --> 00:37:24,640 Speaker 2: You're gonna have to cut that up and. 890 00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,040 Speaker 1: You'll stop singing the song. 891 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,680 Speaker 2: I'm savage class. 892 00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:39,080 Speaker 1: The bed a the hey a we get into the bee, 893 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: I'm getting some head. I'm not gonna say it twice 894 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:48,239 Speaker 1: because you heard what I said. Oh yeah, Okay, So 895 00:37:48,400 --> 00:37:52,279 Speaker 1: today I wanted to talk about good dick versus bad 896 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:56,160 Speaker 1: dick because a lot of niggas think just because they 897 00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:59,040 Speaker 1: got the size that they sex is good. 898 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 2: A lot of niggas because they know they know how 899 00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:04,239 Speaker 2: to stroke, that they got good dick. 900 00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:05,359 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 901 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:08,560 Speaker 2: And it's more than it to that. It's so it's 902 00:38:08,600 --> 00:38:10,400 Speaker 2: a combination of a lot of things. So what do 903 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 2: you what do you think good dick is? What's your definition? 904 00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 2: First thing about. 905 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:27,320 Speaker 1: God? 906 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,880 Speaker 2: Okay, so the first thing that makes good dick to 907 00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:33,759 Speaker 2: me is confidence. 908 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,520 Speaker 1: But you're not overly confident, you know what I'm saying, 909 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,920 Speaker 1: Like you know what to do, like you know, and 910 00:38:39,040 --> 00:38:41,360 Speaker 1: I don't care what size of woman is too, Like 911 00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:43,840 Speaker 1: I'm skipping the number two now women like to be 912 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:45,120 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm a. 913 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:47,480 Speaker 2: Little tipsy too, trying to cover it up and laugh 914 00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:47,759 Speaker 2: at you. 915 00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,480 Speaker 1: Okay, So one is the confidence, but two is like 916 00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 1: I don't care what size of a woman is. 917 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:54,560 Speaker 2: I'm a big bitch, we all know that. 918 00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,440 Speaker 1: But I still like to be handled and picked up 919 00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,719 Speaker 1: and thrown around like I want to like that too, 920 00:39:01,760 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I think that's a 921 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,880 Speaker 1: lot of being a man and being dominant in the bedroom. 922 00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,360 Speaker 1: I love to be dominated in the bedroom, like I 923 00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:10,520 Speaker 1: love when a man just kind of like handles me, 924 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,640 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Another thing that makes good 925 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:19,440 Speaker 1: dick is knowing like different positions. 926 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:32,279 Speaker 2: A lot of niggas just I said that, all right, 927 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,160 Speaker 2: oh my god, let's take back. 928 00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:41,120 Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, okay, it's doing different positions. So I feel 929 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,360 Speaker 1: like I like, okay, we get on top, you hit 930 00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:45,759 Speaker 1: it from the bag, you hit it from time. But 931 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,040 Speaker 1: I like niggas that like, you know, go and hit 932 00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: an angle that you ain't never hit before. You be like, 933 00:39:49,800 --> 00:39:52,800 Speaker 1: oh shit, man, what you're doing. What you're doing, you 934 00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:56,880 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But like acrobats, yes I do. 935 00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:59,759 Speaker 1: I like to be active in the bedroom, Like I'm 936 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: not one person like that just wants to be in 937 00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:04,680 Speaker 1: one position and just I don't like that ship. I 938 00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:08,840 Speaker 1: want to move around. Like if my brows not rubbed 939 00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,440 Speaker 1: off by the time we done, I time, I know 940 00:40:10,520 --> 00:40:13,120 Speaker 1: I got some good dick. If your eyebrow's gone, my 941 00:40:13,160 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 1: eyebrow's gone. If my last not hanging. 942 00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 2: Off with nothing. 943 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:19,680 Speaker 3: If I don't, you know, I were excuse if I 944 00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:22,759 Speaker 3: don't lose at least three of them, I ain't laying 945 00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:23,320 Speaker 3: on the bed. 946 00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,279 Speaker 1: Nothing. So a lot of times, bad dick is like 947 00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 1: niggas think, oh yeah, I got a big dick, But 948 00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:30,840 Speaker 1: just because you have a big dick doesn't mean the 949 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 1: sex is gonna be good. 950 00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:34,000 Speaker 3: And by the way, the older I get, I do 951 00:40:34,200 --> 00:40:38,600 Speaker 3: not like big dicks like, that's not even attracted. 952 00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 2: You were disturbed last time, big I was very disturbed. 953 00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:45,320 Speaker 1: I heard I don't like that. 954 00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:48,279 Speaker 2: Boosy said. I don't like this. Boosie said, I heard 955 00:40:48,320 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 2: big booty. Girls can't take no dick. 956 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 1: He ain't lying. 957 00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:53,080 Speaker 3: I don't like this. 958 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:55,279 Speaker 2: Speak for yourself. No, I'm like, I can't take. 959 00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 1: But I just don't like big digs. 960 00:40:58,120 --> 00:40:59,400 Speaker 2: Like it's just a no. 961 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,720 Speaker 3: They be hurting sometimes it do be hurting. It wouldn't 962 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:03,520 Speaker 3: be uncomfortable. 963 00:41:03,760 --> 00:41:06,279 Speaker 1: You are very mad right now if I am bro, 964 00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,640 Speaker 1: what the fuck why I gave y'all all that did? 965 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:10,080 Speaker 2: Okay? 966 00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:11,759 Speaker 1: First of all, I feel like and that's why a 967 00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,920 Speaker 1: lot of times. Let me keep it real right now, 968 00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,720 Speaker 1: big dick niggas do not have good sex because because 969 00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:19,319 Speaker 1: they feel like they can just ram it in there. 970 00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 2: First of all, you got to ram up the engine. 971 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 1: Now, Garfield got to get ready. You know what I'm saying. 972 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 1: You got to ease all that there they dig oll it. 973 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,120 Speaker 1: She got a fat pussy. She ready know we not 974 00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:33,320 Speaker 1: do we not taking time? Garfield got to know. Okay, 975 00:41:33,600 --> 00:41:34,560 Speaker 1: this is the big dig niggas. 976 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:39,120 Speaker 2: What mean if you Garfield? I forgot can't see it's 977 00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:40,440 Speaker 2: a cat, But. 978 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:44,560 Speaker 1: I feel like this Sometimes Garfield be confused. He'd be like, wait, 979 00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:46,720 Speaker 1: was this the nigga from Thursday or the nigga from Saturday? 980 00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:49,200 Speaker 1: Because if this is a nigga from Saturday, I got 981 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:51,840 Speaker 1: to know what I'm doing. So first of all, you 982 00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:55,440 Speaker 1: got to let Garfield know what's going on. So I 983 00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 1: feel like a lot of times, big big, big, the 984 00:41:58,000 --> 00:42:00,960 Speaker 1: big dig men out there, all three of y'all. You 985 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:10,120 Speaker 1: got to know how to Oh hear that he talked 986 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 1: about what up in the background. 987 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:12,919 Speaker 2: I'm so weak? 988 00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 1: Hold on, wait a minute, now, you know I'm just. 989 00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,319 Speaker 3: Playing, no bitch, I don't have to keep an eye 990 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:20,040 Speaker 3: on your ass. 991 00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:26,560 Speaker 1: So, like I was saying, when you have a big 992 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,360 Speaker 1: dick and you're first engaging in sex with a young woman. 993 00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:32,040 Speaker 1: You really need to kind of go slow and ease 994 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,560 Speaker 1: it in there because you gotta work those muscles out. 995 00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,440 Speaker 2: It's like stretching. The vagina is a muscle that you 996 00:42:37,560 --> 00:42:39,040 Speaker 2: have to stand muscle, and. 997 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:42,319 Speaker 1: You gotta find that spot, you know what I'm saying. 998 00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,080 Speaker 1: So I feel like a lot of times, big big 999 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,719 Speaker 1: niggas do not be having good sex to be the 1000 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:49,120 Speaker 1: medium nick you be having. That's why you like your niggas. 1001 00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:53,279 Speaker 1: They be medium ugly with medium dicks. I'm just start 1002 00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:57,680 Speaker 1: doing medium shit. Yeah, big big bag though, big bag, 1003 00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 1: big bag though. But for sure, Yeah, I don't like 1004 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:03,400 Speaker 1: what makes good what makes good dick for you? 1005 00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:07,520 Speaker 3: I think it's about the stroker game, and I think 1006 00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:10,080 Speaker 3: it's about the four play But also I think, for 1007 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,480 Speaker 3: whatever reason, a lot of the time people don't include 1008 00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:15,880 Speaker 3: four play in like your dick game, but it is 1009 00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:16,440 Speaker 3: a part of it. 1010 00:43:16,560 --> 00:43:18,080 Speaker 1: I hate when the niggas just trying to slide that 1011 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,239 Speaker 1: dick in. Yeah, like, no, that's not but let's talk 1012 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:24,480 Speaker 1: about the stroke game. I hate when niggas be trying 1013 00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 1: to pretty ricky oo ship and be like. 1014 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:32,960 Speaker 2: And strap one. That's too much. Some niggas be having 1015 00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,160 Speaker 2: a weaksh stroke and I've been thinking that they're doing. 1016 00:43:36,360 --> 00:43:40,480 Speaker 1: I don't be laying there like laughed. 1017 00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:43,680 Speaker 2: I've seen the nigga do a little shakira move on 1018 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:57,600 Speaker 2: me one time. His hips wasn't lying, bitch, I know, 1019 00:43:58,560 --> 00:43:59,720 Speaker 2: I know who you're talking about. 1020 00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:07,359 Speaker 1: That cue, don't do that, don't do that. It wasn't him. 1021 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,760 Speaker 2: But no, sometimes niggas be doing too because I was walking. 1022 00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:18,879 Speaker 1: We gotta get to this, Lord, please let me get 1023 00:44:18,880 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 1: to this episode to that Lord, were almost there. 1024 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,000 Speaker 2: We are almost dell. 1025 00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:23,960 Speaker 1: Okay, okay. 1026 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,520 Speaker 2: So yeah, sometimes I feel like men do too much 1027 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,040 Speaker 2: what they hit. He hit the shakira. 1028 00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I should. 1029 00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 2: See your buddy, And I was like, hold on, do 1030 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 2: you like to have sex to music? It depends. I 1031 00:44:40,320 --> 00:44:41,040 Speaker 2: have a playlist. 1032 00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,279 Speaker 3: I have like a few playlists actually, but it just 1033 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,279 Speaker 3: depends because I feel like, sometimes, you know, you just 1034 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 3: be so worked up and ready to go, you don't 1035 00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:48,239 Speaker 3: even get to hard music going. 1036 00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,560 Speaker 1: Oh, I'll be saying the mood as soon as every time. 1037 00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:53,400 Speaker 1: I like, I love listening to music. I always have 1038 00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:56,759 Speaker 1: sex to music. I always have sexy music. Really, yes, 1039 00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:00,600 Speaker 1: I set my playlist up becau I know about the 1040 00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: mountain time I'm gonna be having sex. So when we're done, 1041 00:45:03,640 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 1: the same song, always play what song? Mellow D's from. 1042 00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:15,000 Speaker 3: Hell running down Hell. I can't be a part of 1043 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:19,800 Speaker 3: a celebration. I ain't even gonna laugh at Dick. That 1044 00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:20,640 Speaker 3: ain't even funny. 1045 00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:24,880 Speaker 2: Okay, dangn tough crowd. 1046 00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:27,160 Speaker 3: You is not about to do that with Kirk Cranklin. 1047 00:45:27,600 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 3: Okay when they called the news, come on man, so life. 1048 00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:40,320 Speaker 2: What makes good dick versus bad Dick? Okay? Okay, so 1049 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:44,400 Speaker 2: now we're gonna even finish telling you? Oh I'm sorry finish. 1050 00:45:44,480 --> 00:45:45,120 Speaker 3: No, it's all right. 1051 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:48,239 Speaker 2: Let's go what makes good dick? What makes good Dick 1052 00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,000 Speaker 2: his strong game? If he got money? 1053 00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,800 Speaker 1: I know, I like to be fucking on yachts and 1054 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,640 Speaker 1: jets and ship So that's what made good dick to me? Okay, 1055 00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:02,600 Speaker 1: they make the fisty Okay, we got it, We gotta okay, 1056 00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:07,840 Speaker 1: So what I actually press? Play my bad Okay, so 1057 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:10,759 Speaker 1: my bop of the week. It is just because of 1058 00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 1: one person on this song. The song is fire, but 1059 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 1: the queen is back and she's not here to play 1060 00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:17,800 Speaker 1: with you bitches. 1061 00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:22,600 Speaker 2: Y'all thought it was done. Y'all think my bitch was done? Never. 1062 00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,440 Speaker 1: So my bop of the week is what that' speeds 1063 00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:32,280 Speaker 1: about with Nicki Minaj and the fact that she was pregnant, 1064 00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 1: still killing y'all. One thing I was very mad at 1065 00:46:36,840 --> 00:46:39,520 Speaker 1: Nikki with that whole Cardi situation and how she handled it. 1066 00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:42,239 Speaker 1: But one thing I'm not gonna sit here and let 1067 00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:45,560 Speaker 1: y'all do is take away that woman's talent and Charlie, 1068 00:46:45,760 --> 00:46:50,320 Speaker 1: you cannot say that she don't be spitting every I 1069 00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,399 Speaker 1: can't think of one whack Nikki verse. 1070 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:56,919 Speaker 2: It doesn't exist. It doesn't exist in that bitch death 1071 00:46:57,080 --> 00:46:58,520 Speaker 2: dumb perriet. 1072 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,320 Speaker 1: So I just feel like Nikki she is still the 1073 00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,759 Speaker 1: goat rapper. I'm not even gonna say female rapper. She 1074 00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:08,799 Speaker 1: is the goat rapper because, let me tell you something, 1075 00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:12,800 Speaker 1: besides jay Z is the only person besides Nikki that 1076 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:14,839 Speaker 1: doesn't have a whack verse. I can I can find 1077 00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:18,439 Speaker 1: a wa Wayne verse right now. I leave him dead 1078 00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 1: in the living room, nig I like this. I like 1079 00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:27,560 Speaker 1: this on gotta explaining, Nigga, we know no, I leave 1080 00:47:27,640 --> 00:47:30,040 Speaker 1: him dead in the lit room. He was. 1081 00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:35,960 Speaker 2: Get it yourself. He thought he was doing get it. 1082 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:39,600 Speaker 1: Nigga, shout the fuck up, why are you trying to 1083 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:42,920 Speaker 1: play Wayne, Like when that thing came out, you wasn't jammingy, 1084 00:47:43,600 --> 00:47:46,440 Speaker 1: You wasn't singing that ship too. You was looking fraud 1085 00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:50,319 Speaker 1: me because he's a drops like Killer shout out to Killer, 1086 00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,879 Speaker 1: but Killer trying to play little Wayne off little last week. 1087 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 2: That's what That's what was saying. She's talking about it. 1088 00:47:55,280 --> 00:47:57,839 Speaker 3: I knew that Nigga was fried when he talking about 1089 00:47:58,000 --> 00:48:00,400 Speaker 3: Weezy f Baby and the if it's for for domenal 1090 00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:02,680 Speaker 3: be what you used to be saying that shit. 1091 00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,120 Speaker 4: Though we all need got it was a bar, But 1092 00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,600 Speaker 4: I'm just saying it stupid. You can find a lot, 1093 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,359 Speaker 4: But what I'm saying is you can find a lot 1094 00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:13,320 Speaker 4: of lame Little Wayne versus. 1095 00:48:13,800 --> 00:48:14,799 Speaker 2: You can you. 1096 00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,359 Speaker 1: Cannot find no lame Nikki versus. And you can't find 1097 00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:19,399 Speaker 1: no lame jay Z versus. And that's all I'm trying 1098 00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:23,960 Speaker 1: to say. Nikki ain't never came out with no bars. 1099 00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:30,839 Speaker 1: You Like, what the fuck is she talking about? Everle Ever? Well, 1100 00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:35,040 Speaker 1: you got my hunt beer running away? Can't you feel 1101 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:42,160 Speaker 1: that boom boom bath bars that bar? Can you feel 1102 00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:45,120 Speaker 1: that boom boom boom boom but on boom bass? How 1103 00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:46,279 Speaker 1: is that bars? Bro? 1104 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:47,960 Speaker 2: You still ain't saying nothing. 1105 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: You still my girl? That was when she was at 1106 00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:53,560 Speaker 1: a pop era too. 1107 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:56,080 Speaker 2: She had to cross over. She had to say things 1108 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 2: for the white people to understand. She gotta cross over 1109 00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:03,640 Speaker 2: some tom So you you think super Basis was terrible? 1110 00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:06,160 Speaker 3: I really do check the numbers, bitch. I do think 1111 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,560 Speaker 3: super Basil was terrible. It was another song she I'm 1112 00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,719 Speaker 3: not really a fan of Nikki when she tried to sing. 1113 00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 3: Why because I because she can't sing. 1114 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:16,920 Speaker 1: I can't wait to the barbs see this. I'm actually 1115 00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,000 Speaker 1: gonna give this to the barbs. 1116 00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,360 Speaker 2: That's fine. I mean, I love Nicki Minaj though I do. 1117 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:25,319 Speaker 1: I do, I really do, but I. 1118 00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 3: Don't really like when she's singing. 1119 00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:31,160 Speaker 2: Nobody asked you she's not Drake. Oh fucking brother. 1120 00:49:31,560 --> 00:49:34,480 Speaker 1: I went to a Drake concert and this nigga got 1121 00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:42,360 Speaker 1: on stage and saying, Michael Jackson drank problem. What's the problem, legend. 1122 00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,160 Speaker 2: But Drake can't sing like Michael Jackson. 1123 00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,080 Speaker 1: What the fuck makes you think you can get on 1124 00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:49,520 Speaker 1: stage singing Michael jacks You the other MiG missig take 1125 00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,480 Speaker 1: what makes you think you can sing like Michael jack 1126 00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:55,320 Speaker 1: Because I got vocals, So take your wead off of me. 1127 00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 1: You'll ever move, so won't you? The girls are gonna 1128 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:02,239 Speaker 1: be happy because, by the way, maybe you need to 1129 00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:04,880 Speaker 1: drink every week cause you know, sung like fifty songs 1130 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:07,759 Speaker 1: already and I've been letting you make it. 1131 00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:14,680 Speaker 2: It's like your this week. No, No, I'm qualified. You 1132 00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:18,479 Speaker 2: heard it. Go with your bop of the week. Go ahead. 1133 00:50:18,480 --> 00:50:24,400 Speaker 1: Speaking of Drake, Oh fucking brother, Come on, man, Drake, 1134 00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:27,359 Speaker 1: if you're listening, please slide to my girls d him. 1135 00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:31,000 Speaker 2: I'm tired of this shit. Go ahead, man. Speaking of Drake, 1136 00:50:31,360 --> 00:50:33,520 Speaker 2: this isn't his song where he's featured on the song. 1137 00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,640 Speaker 3: So the song is called your Mind. Still, I feel 1138 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:41,799 Speaker 3: like this is a very popular song that's out right now. 1139 00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:45,160 Speaker 3: You know, everybody been listening to it. Surprisingly, I haven't 1140 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:46,279 Speaker 3: ever talked about it on the show. 1141 00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 1: Isn't that crazy? 1142 00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:51,240 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's my Young Blue okay, featuring Drake. 1143 00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,839 Speaker 1: I think I've heard it before. Shout out to Young Blue, 1144 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:59,319 Speaker 1: shout to Drake. All right, okay, So that's it, right. 1145 00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:05,000 Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about Drake some more? 1146 00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:05,320 Speaker 4: No? 1147 00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:09,880 Speaker 1: Okay, So now we're gonna get into our questions portion 1148 00:51:10,239 --> 00:51:12,200 Speaker 1: of the show. If y'all want your question answered on 1149 00:51:12,280 --> 00:51:15,040 Speaker 1: the show, make sure you email us at ask poor 1150 00:51:15,160 --> 00:51:16,440 Speaker 1: Minds at gmail dot com. 1151 00:51:16,600 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 2: That's ask p O. 1152 00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:20,640 Speaker 1: You are m my n d s at gmail dot 1153 00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,120 Speaker 1: com and we want to answer your question on the show. 1154 00:51:23,200 --> 00:51:25,960 Speaker 2: Please try to keep it to a paragraph that Drea 1155 00:51:26,040 --> 00:51:28,560 Speaker 2: in Lake show at Gmail. Yeah, that's our business email 1156 00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:29,880 Speaker 2: and all we are all speaking of. 1157 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,359 Speaker 1: We got the website up and running so you can 1158 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:34,160 Speaker 1: get all your poor minds face y'all don't have to 1159 00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:36,360 Speaker 1: ask us no more questions. Just go to www. 1160 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,200 Speaker 2: Me she toddy, y'all asking her question. 1161 00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:41,560 Speaker 1: If you need to find or search anything, go to 1162 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:43,480 Speaker 1: www dot poor minds dot com. 1163 00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:47,279 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, alrighty, so let's get into the first one. 1164 00:51:47,320 --> 00:51:48,400 Speaker 3: You want me to read it or you want to 1165 00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:53,320 Speaker 3: go it's this one, right, uh her m m yeah, okay, 1166 00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:57,279 Speaker 3: highlexp Andrea. Please don't include my name, but I would 1167 00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,960 Speaker 3: really like your take on a situation that has stressed me. 1168 00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:02,600 Speaker 3: Three years ago, I met this guy through work. He 1169 00:52:02,719 --> 00:52:05,600 Speaker 3: became the work on me. Simultaneously, I met this girl 1170 00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:08,680 Speaker 3: named Anna and we grew close. Anna introduced me to 1171 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:11,680 Speaker 3: his girlfriend, which was her best friend. We all partied 1172 00:52:11,719 --> 00:52:15,000 Speaker 3: our hung out for mutual friends events. While this happened 1173 00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:18,640 Speaker 3: he was consistently in my DMS. I redirected him. I 1174 00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:20,880 Speaker 3: joked about it from time to time. I'd remind him 1175 00:52:20,880 --> 00:52:24,320 Speaker 3: of his girlfriend or even suggest threesomes because she was cute. 1176 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,520 Speaker 3: Just to be clear, I just to be clear him 1177 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 3: and I never folks. We went to a party and 1178 00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:31,680 Speaker 3: I did give him the wickedest wine. 1179 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 2: For multiple songs. 1180 00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:39,279 Speaker 3: It stopped there, but he did ignite his attraction to me, 1181 00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:40,799 Speaker 3: and the DMS continued. 1182 00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:41,880 Speaker 2: Long story. 1183 00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,600 Speaker 3: Short months after they're engaged, she saw his text messages 1184 00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 3: with him explaining what he wants to do to me 1185 00:52:47,760 --> 00:52:50,840 Speaker 3: and how big his dick is, etc. I'd put this 1186 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 3: emoji yes, and I just talked more generally about six 1187 00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:58,800 Speaker 3: than directing the topics towards him. When the girlfriend discovered 1188 00:52:58,800 --> 00:53:02,359 Speaker 3: the text messages and decided to end our friendship, then 1189 00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,120 Speaker 3: my other friend, Keisha, who I met through Anna, also 1190 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:07,799 Speaker 3: ended our friendship because what I did was so bad 1191 00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:11,560 Speaker 3: and shady, etc. This was devastating because these two girls, 1192 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:15,080 Speaker 3: in particular were my row dogs. They questioned why I 1193 00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,760 Speaker 3: didn't tell them he was in my DMS. Well, Anna's 1194 00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 3: best friend dated him for nearly a decade. Anna's best 1195 00:53:20,719 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 3: friend and I were not friends like that for me 1196 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:25,960 Speaker 3: to believe she will receive me. Lastly, that wasn't on 1197 00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:28,200 Speaker 3: my mind because to me, it wasn't that serious. 1198 00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,880 Speaker 2: He wasn't on my roster. I explained all of this. 1199 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 3: Him and I were just friends talking about talking shit 1200 00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:38,680 Speaker 3: about six relationships and whatever else came up. So I'm excommunicated. 1201 00:53:38,920 --> 00:53:40,880 Speaker 3: Please advise because I'm confused. 1202 00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:41,640 Speaker 2: I'm shady? 1203 00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:44,600 Speaker 3: Am I shady because I didn't tell them they spoke 1204 00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:47,600 Speaker 3: about the girl code? But does this only apply to 1205 00:53:47,680 --> 00:53:50,240 Speaker 3: our friends? Because last I checked, both Anna and Keisha 1206 00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:54,880 Speaker 3: have been side chicks fucking Mary Mel. But I crossed 1207 00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:58,000 Speaker 3: the moral girl code by having conversations. So does this 1208 00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:01,040 Speaker 3: girl code extend to your best friends slash best friend? 1209 00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:04,160 Speaker 3: Where's the fucking rule books to this? Because I don't 1210 00:54:04,160 --> 00:54:05,920 Speaker 3: even get the I didn't even get dick out of 1211 00:54:05,960 --> 00:54:07,960 Speaker 3: this situation, and I lost a bunch of ladies I 1212 00:54:08,080 --> 00:54:12,040 Speaker 3: considered sisters. Please help me understand, sis. 1213 00:54:13,680 --> 00:54:15,560 Speaker 2: I don't want to say you were one hundred percent wrong, 1214 00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:16,680 Speaker 2: but this is what it is. 1215 00:54:17,480 --> 00:54:21,320 Speaker 1: Maybe Anna and Keisha probably still wanted to be friends 1216 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:26,680 Speaker 1: with you, but I'm not gonna lie if if somebody 1217 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:32,320 Speaker 1: that was friends with Drea was conversating with conversation conversing. 1218 00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:38,040 Speaker 1: My bad was conversing with my man and we all 1219 00:54:38,160 --> 00:54:40,839 Speaker 1: found out together, and Drea was still friends with her. 1220 00:54:40,960 --> 00:54:43,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be like, bitch, nah, I'm usually not that 1221 00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:45,840 Speaker 1: type of friend because if like you don't like somebody, 1222 00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:48,279 Speaker 1: that doesn't doesn't necessarily mean I have to like not 1223 00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:51,160 Speaker 1: like them. But sometimes lines are just crossed a little 1224 00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:54,279 Speaker 1: bit too far, and I feel like, honestly, maybe the 1225 00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,880 Speaker 1: girlfriend made them choose, and they made their choice, you 1226 00:54:57,960 --> 00:54:59,840 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I feel like, and if it 1227 00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:02,040 Speaker 1: it wasn't nothing going on, I feel like, why didn't 1228 00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:04,319 Speaker 1: you if the if these are your sisters, why didn't 1229 00:55:04,320 --> 00:55:06,080 Speaker 1: you tell him what? Tell them what he was doing? 1230 00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:07,880 Speaker 1: If these are your sisters? 1231 00:55:07,880 --> 00:55:09,520 Speaker 2: And cause every time a nigga did and me, I'll 1232 00:55:09,520 --> 00:55:10,960 Speaker 2: be like Drean, look, So. 1233 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:13,000 Speaker 1: I feel like, if these are really your sisters, why 1234 00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:15,360 Speaker 1: you didn't tell them? That was too close for comfort? 1235 00:55:15,920 --> 00:55:17,520 Speaker 1: So I think like you definitely kind of broke a 1236 00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:21,440 Speaker 1: little girl code there, I do. If you wasn't interested, 1237 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:22,480 Speaker 1: why not just tell them? 1238 00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,280 Speaker 2: What do you say? What do you think you're not saying? Nothing? 1239 00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:31,600 Speaker 3: I know because I'm just like, girl fucking people. 1240 00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,800 Speaker 2: What you mean, fuck all in people like just move on. 1241 00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:37,160 Speaker 3: I I just feel like, move on from a situation, 1242 00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,040 Speaker 3: Like he's engaged, he got a situation. 1243 00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:42,000 Speaker 2: But she misses her friends, is what she said. 1244 00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:43,759 Speaker 1: She but they don't wanna be your friend no more. 1245 00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:45,399 Speaker 2: Yeah that's true. 1246 00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,560 Speaker 3: But I think I feel like I'm a firm believer 1247 00:55:47,719 --> 00:55:50,560 Speaker 3: in not forcing situations, like you know what I mean. 1248 00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:52,960 Speaker 3: I feel like she can always be rictified if it's 1249 00:55:53,080 --> 00:55:55,439 Speaker 3: equal on both ends, Like when me and you wasn't 1250 00:55:55,440 --> 00:55:57,959 Speaker 3: getting along, Yeah, we wasn't getting along, but I feel 1251 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:00,759 Speaker 3: like we both still wanted to, like be friends again 1252 00:56:00,880 --> 00:56:03,520 Speaker 3: and work on the friendship if it's one sided and 1253 00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:05,080 Speaker 3: you want to be back cool with them and they 1254 00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,200 Speaker 3: don't want to be that cool with you. 1255 00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,160 Speaker 2: These Okay, but do you She's asking do you feel 1256 00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:09,919 Speaker 2: like she was wrong? 1257 00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:10,359 Speaker 1: Yes? 1258 00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:13,120 Speaker 2: So you do feel like she was wrong? Yes, I 1259 00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:14,439 Speaker 2: agree with you. I feel like she will. 1260 00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:16,319 Speaker 1: I feel like if those are your sisters, I don't 1261 00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:19,080 Speaker 1: keep nothing from I don't There's nothing I don't tell Drea. 1262 00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:20,960 Speaker 2: There's nothing I don't tell kill and I to. 1263 00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:24,120 Speaker 3: Say that you gotta tell your friends everything, cause you don't, 1264 00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:24,799 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? 1265 00:56:24,840 --> 00:56:26,719 Speaker 1: You can keep me stopping like that, Like, if. 1266 00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:28,200 Speaker 2: You weren't interested in him and you wasn't trying to 1267 00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 2: fuck him, was like, why did? 1268 00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,719 Speaker 3: But they probably feel betrayed, you know what I mean, 1269 00:56:31,800 --> 00:56:33,360 Speaker 3: because you didn't tell them what was going on, And 1270 00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,400 Speaker 3: they also probably feel like you was lying because if 1271 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:37,160 Speaker 3: it wasn't nothing that was going on and you didn't 1272 00:56:37,160 --> 00:56:39,520 Speaker 3: have no reason to hide it, why was you hiding it? 1273 00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:45,759 Speaker 1: So moving on? It says, I need some real advice. Hey, y'all, 1274 00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:48,319 Speaker 1: keep me anonymous. I'm twenty two years old, and last 1275 00:56:48,400 --> 00:56:50,000 Speaker 1: year I met this thirty two year old guy. 1276 00:56:50,160 --> 00:56:51,200 Speaker 2: He had seven kids. 1277 00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:57,120 Speaker 1: He has seven kids, four babby mamas, and stays with 1278 00:56:57,200 --> 00:56:57,600 Speaker 1: his mother. 1279 00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,239 Speaker 2: I don't even know if I want to finish this. 1280 00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 2: Let me read that again. 1281 00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:08,080 Speaker 1: He has seven kids, four baby mothers, and stays with 1282 00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:08,919 Speaker 1: his mother. 1283 00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:09,680 Speaker 2: All right. 1284 00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,279 Speaker 1: When we first met, he told me he just got 1285 00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:15,640 Speaker 1: out of a long relationship with his last baby mama 1286 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 1: and he moved out of their place. He's always talking 1287 00:57:19,400 --> 00:57:21,480 Speaker 1: to me about his last baby mama, even though I 1288 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:23,720 Speaker 1: tell him I don't want to hear that, because who 1289 00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,240 Speaker 1: wants to hear about someone you fucking on the regular 1290 00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:29,919 Speaker 1: ex all the time? Even though that's his baby mama. 1291 00:57:30,040 --> 00:57:33,040 Speaker 1: I still don't care. It's just always lingering in the 1292 00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:34,840 Speaker 1: back of my head that this nigga missed her. 1293 00:57:35,320 --> 00:57:36,120 Speaker 2: Plus, we got. 1294 00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:38,040 Speaker 1: Drunk once and he slipped up and told me he 1295 00:57:38,160 --> 00:57:40,720 Speaker 1: loved me and claims he don't remember. But I told 1296 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 1: that nigga a drunk mind speak a sober tongue. 1297 00:57:43,880 --> 00:57:46,080 Speaker 2: You better get there from poor mine. Period. 1298 00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,480 Speaker 1: So fast forward to now, it's been a little over 1299 00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:52,000 Speaker 1: a year and he's still staying with his mama, and 1300 00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:53,760 Speaker 1: I'm not about to be getting dicked down with his 1301 00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:56,200 Speaker 1: mama in the next room and kids running around the crib. 1302 00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:58,880 Speaker 1: He claims he's trying to get back on his feet. 1303 00:57:59,000 --> 00:58:01,120 Speaker 1: He has a job, but he can only do so 1304 00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 1: much with the pandemic going on. 1305 00:58:03,120 --> 00:58:03,800 Speaker 2: What should I do? 1306 00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:05,920 Speaker 1: I know it's more out here, but I like him. 1307 00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,600 Speaker 1: We really have a good time together. Don't judge me. 1308 00:58:08,760 --> 00:58:09,760 Speaker 1: I love y'all podcast. 1309 00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:12,000 Speaker 3: First of all, this I'm just I'm definitely judging you. 1310 00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,360 Speaker 1: You are twenty two, and you a cute girl. 1311 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:19,360 Speaker 2: You sends a picture girl and he looks lame. 1312 00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:21,840 Speaker 1: And not only that, I'm telling you this right now, 1313 00:58:22,240 --> 00:58:24,400 Speaker 1: I'm thirty one. So most of the time the man. 1314 00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 1: The men and I'm going to date. They do have kids, 1315 00:58:27,240 --> 00:58:29,600 Speaker 1: they do have shit going on. He's in my age group. 1316 00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:31,920 Speaker 1: I would never even deal with a man like that. 1317 00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:34,680 Speaker 1: You are twenty two, You're supposed to be having fun. 1318 00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:36,880 Speaker 1: There's no reason you should be dating a man that 1319 00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:40,680 Speaker 1: has four other women. You have to realize he needs 1320 00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,520 Speaker 1: to get to some ms before he can even trick 1321 00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:48,360 Speaker 1: on you. He got seven kids and fold baby mama. Girl. Leave, 1322 00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:51,000 Speaker 1: this is not gonna turn out well. And you know 1323 00:58:51,080 --> 00:58:56,080 Speaker 1: what if you stay, leave, there's no advice I can 1324 00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:57,560 Speaker 1: give you. Believe ben leave. 1325 00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:03,640 Speaker 2: I am mad now you knew what we was gonna say. 1326 00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:06,000 Speaker 2: I don't Sometimes I do. We feel like that. I 1327 00:59:06,200 --> 00:59:08,520 Speaker 2: feel like people write us. Y'all all know what we go. 1328 00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:11,760 Speaker 2: I can't believe And you and you're a poor girl, 1329 00:59:11,880 --> 00:59:14,440 Speaker 2: you know, goddamn better into like a poor girl? P 1330 00:59:14,640 --> 00:59:20,040 Speaker 2: o or I said, I did. I'm sorry, sister, but 1331 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:21,000 Speaker 2: why are you sorry? 1332 00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:23,320 Speaker 3: She needed to be sorry and she needs to leave 1333 00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:23,800 Speaker 3: him alone? 1334 00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:25,320 Speaker 1: Is sorry? Ass? Yeah? 1335 00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:28,160 Speaker 2: No, Yeah, we're gonna move on by I can't believe it. 1336 00:59:28,840 --> 00:59:31,160 Speaker 3: Seven can and I say that I love sees you 1337 00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:32,880 Speaker 3: know what I mean? You're a beautiful girl. We just 1338 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,400 Speaker 3: send your picture. But he looked lame and you're only 1339 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:40,720 Speaker 3: twenty two. It's like looked at me in question a 1340 00:59:40,800 --> 00:59:44,760 Speaker 3: good pussy for no reason. Hey Drea, I mean, hey Lecks. 1341 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:48,200 Speaker 3: I'm a new fan, but I'm currently BEINGI y'all. You 1342 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:51,920 Speaker 3: can call me Kine. I'm thirty two, single, driven, hilarious, 1343 00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:55,280 Speaker 3: and with no kids yet birth control, a whole truck 1344 00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:57,840 Speaker 3: driver and cook. I always got my own with a 1345 00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:00,640 Speaker 3: hustle here and there because I always be that pretty 1346 01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:04,160 Speaker 3: for a dark skinned girl. Shaking my head, thought I 1347 01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:06,760 Speaker 3: might never find a real good guy now that I 1348 01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:11,040 Speaker 3: got some fab fire ass pussy, and at some point 1349 01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:13,920 Speaker 3: I would just get my head and leave on these niggas. 1350 01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:14,480 Speaker 2: Lol. 1351 01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:18,080 Speaker 3: But guys, oh, but guys have been stingier these days 1352 01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:20,040 Speaker 3: and nights and have been lonelier. 1353 01:00:21,760 --> 01:00:25,959 Speaker 2: It's it's been over when you move you why because 1354 01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:30,439 Speaker 2: I'm trying to understand what you're saying. It's been over 1355 01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:30,919 Speaker 2: a year. 1356 01:00:31,440 --> 01:00:35,160 Speaker 3: My fop is dangerously tight, but I almost never mean 1357 01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:40,840 Speaker 3: not the I feel like I have a resting bitch 1358 01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:42,880 Speaker 3: face and I'm kind of shy at first. So all 1359 01:00:42,960 --> 01:00:46,960 Speaker 3: that plus the COVID equals online dating. It's been six months. Yes, 1360 01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:50,280 Speaker 3: they're trash. They're all trash, every kind of fuck boy 1361 01:00:50,360 --> 01:00:52,080 Speaker 3: you could imagine, and they all lie. 1362 01:00:52,240 --> 01:00:54,400 Speaker 2: I see right through it. I know it's a COVID. 1363 01:00:54,440 --> 01:00:57,360 Speaker 3: Low key niggas getting off easy with these with the dating, 1364 01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:00,240 Speaker 3: but are still stingy. I'm getting back on my feet 1365 01:01:00,280 --> 01:01:03,440 Speaker 3: from two car accidents in one year, but I still. 1366 01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:08,120 Speaker 2: Please stop driving. That's my first advice. Stop driving, but 1367 01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:08,680 Speaker 2: go ahead. 1368 01:01:09,560 --> 01:01:12,480 Speaker 3: But I still manage to keep a nice crib, a 1369 01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:14,960 Speaker 3: cue car, and some nice things on my way back 1370 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:18,360 Speaker 3: to normal. I got vision, but I be feeling judged, 1371 01:01:18,360 --> 01:01:20,440 Speaker 3: and most of these niggas are low key broker than me. 1372 01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:23,160 Speaker 3: I deserve to be pursued, but I'm not dumb enough 1373 01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:25,640 Speaker 3: to seriously bless a nigga who's not smart enough to 1374 01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:29,200 Speaker 3: even do anything to show me he's serious. What should 1375 01:01:29,200 --> 01:01:32,480 Speaker 3: I do to meet a man of quality in real life? Also, 1376 01:01:32,640 --> 01:01:36,160 Speaker 3: I'm thinking of telling these experiences as YouTube story times 1377 01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:38,600 Speaker 3: if you have any advice on that as well. I 1378 01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:41,120 Speaker 3: know it's a long story. I know it's long. Sorry 1379 01:01:41,200 --> 01:01:44,720 Speaker 3: love y'all. PS let me rephrase that my personality and 1380 01:01:44,840 --> 01:01:47,360 Speaker 3: my hygiene and tighten it seems to make my pussy 1381 01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:48,320 Speaker 3: good as fuck. 1382 01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,960 Speaker 1: Hold. I know it's the same. 1383 01:01:54,040 --> 01:01:56,520 Speaker 3: I know it's not the same, but every nigga I 1384 01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:58,680 Speaker 3: keep a nigga smiling than laughing this shit. 1385 01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:01,480 Speaker 2: But I need all that back. Here's some picks of me. 1386 01:02:01,640 --> 01:02:03,960 Speaker 3: By the way, I'm from an area in VA where 1387 01:02:04,040 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 3: hoes be fighting to the depth of a nigga with. 1388 01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:10,760 Speaker 2: With a just basic job in a cute car. 1389 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:15,840 Speaker 3: I don't know where the single badbs are. We a 1390 01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:22,440 Speaker 3: dating site? No, but I she advertising? She was advertising, 1391 01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 3: but no. 1392 01:02:23,200 --> 01:02:26,760 Speaker 1: I'll say this, honestly, you the best girl. Yeah, you're 1393 01:02:26,760 --> 01:02:28,200 Speaker 1: a cute girl, beautiful girl. 1394 01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:28,680 Speaker 2: I say this. 1395 01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,400 Speaker 1: The best way to find a quality man that's gonna 1396 01:02:31,440 --> 01:02:33,560 Speaker 1: be really interested in you and that does everything you 1397 01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:36,080 Speaker 1: want him to do is just be honest from the 1398 01:02:36,120 --> 01:02:38,480 Speaker 1: get go and be yourself because a lot of times 1399 01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:40,320 Speaker 1: I feel like women try to be like this pick 1400 01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:43,360 Speaker 1: me character and put all their good things out there. 1401 01:02:43,400 --> 01:02:44,360 Speaker 2: But just be who you are. 1402 01:02:44,960 --> 01:02:47,840 Speaker 1: I fucked up by trying to be somebody I wasn't 1403 01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:49,520 Speaker 1: because I thought that's what a nigga wanted. 1404 01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:51,640 Speaker 2: And then I thought I had a because I thought 1405 01:02:51,680 --> 01:02:52,480 Speaker 2: I had a good man. 1406 01:02:52,960 --> 01:02:54,880 Speaker 1: You know, but a quality man is not gonna try 1407 01:02:54,920 --> 01:02:57,400 Speaker 1: to change who you are so to me to find 1408 01:02:57,440 --> 01:02:59,400 Speaker 1: a quality man that really fuck with you, just be 1409 01:02:59,520 --> 01:02:59,880 Speaker 1: who you are. 1410 01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:01,120 Speaker 2: That's the best thing you can do. 1411 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:02,640 Speaker 1: I don't know really. 1412 01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:05,920 Speaker 2: Nothing about VA or where to find the bdb's at, 1413 01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:06,880 Speaker 2: but in Virginia. 1414 01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:11,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't really know nothing about Virginia either, So girl, 1415 01:03:12,240 --> 01:03:12,840 Speaker 1: we can tell you what. 1416 01:03:13,040 --> 01:03:14,720 Speaker 2: Oh, I'm excited to read this one. 1417 01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:19,920 Speaker 1: You are yes, Oh, I mean I agree with you. 1418 01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:22,640 Speaker 2: I agree with everything you was just saying. Just just 1419 01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:24,040 Speaker 2: be yourself, you know what I mean. 1420 01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:27,000 Speaker 3: That's that's the best policy always because it's like, if 1421 01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,360 Speaker 3: you being somebody that you not, you gotta keep up 1422 01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:31,960 Speaker 3: that facade and they gotta be tiring. 1423 01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:34,040 Speaker 2: So it's like, just be you, you know what I mean, 1424 01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:36,000 Speaker 2: You're gonna attract what's for you? 1425 01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:40,720 Speaker 1: Amen, I'm excited to read y'all. Listen, it says Pubic 1426 01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:44,640 Speaker 1: Hair questions for the show. Hi, queens, you're killing it. 1427 01:03:45,080 --> 01:03:47,760 Speaker 1: Found you through the Carlos episode and now I'm watching 1428 01:03:47,800 --> 01:03:50,880 Speaker 1: poor Mine's daily, working my back, working my back through 1429 01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:54,120 Speaker 1: the calidog. I'm thirty years old, goofy white guy that 1430 01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,960 Speaker 1: recently got out of a long term relationship, and you're 1431 01:03:57,040 --> 01:03:59,479 Speaker 1: dishing out valuable game on what I was doing wrong 1432 01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:01,520 Speaker 1: and how to hold up my confidence and get out 1433 01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:02,040 Speaker 1: there again. 1434 01:04:02,640 --> 01:04:05,560 Speaker 2: Not sure if you've talked about men's pubic care much. 1435 01:04:05,880 --> 01:04:08,400 Speaker 2: We never have. This is funny. 1436 01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,960 Speaker 1: How much is acceptable? I tend to just keep my 1437 01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:16,240 Speaker 1: chef smooth to cut down on friction. I don't like condoms, 1438 01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:19,800 Speaker 1: and the rest is trimmed but not shaved. Should I 1439 01:04:19,880 --> 01:04:23,000 Speaker 1: be making the whole area completely smooth as possible? Have 1440 01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:25,400 Speaker 1: you ever pulled a dick out and been surprised? 1441 01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:26,000 Speaker 2: Bummed out? 1442 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:29,240 Speaker 1: On the hair situation on women? I'm cool with any 1443 01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,400 Speaker 1: amount as long as it's not going down to the 1444 01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:36,160 Speaker 1: internet enter thighs or completely bald love BDB from Philly 1445 01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:37,440 Speaker 1: the mle thighs. 1446 01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:40,800 Speaker 2: No, you know, women do be having a lot of 1447 01:04:40,840 --> 01:04:42,880 Speaker 2: hair on that enter thighs. It goes down and no 1448 01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:44,840 Speaker 2: I didn't know that. Well I'm telling you it does. 1449 01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:50,440 Speaker 1: So this is so interesting because I had sex with 1450 01:04:50,560 --> 01:04:52,720 Speaker 1: a man one time and this was a character and show. 1451 01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:54,400 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say who what it is, because he 1452 01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:57,400 Speaker 1: gonna know if he tried to listen. We were having 1453 01:04:57,440 --> 01:05:00,240 Speaker 1: sex and I noticed like he shaved everything, and he 1454 01:05:00,440 --> 01:05:02,280 Speaker 1: was like telling me how he did that for me, 1455 01:05:02,560 --> 01:05:03,200 Speaker 1: Like because. 1456 01:05:03,000 --> 01:05:05,640 Speaker 2: So it could, and I thought it was weird. But honestly, 1457 01:05:05,760 --> 01:05:07,120 Speaker 2: I did feel a difference. 1458 01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:10,120 Speaker 1: I really did, and I thought it didn't make a 1459 01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:11,920 Speaker 1: difference because I've never had a guy be like, oh, 1460 01:05:12,480 --> 01:05:14,000 Speaker 1: shave his balls or I don't know what he I 1461 01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:15,520 Speaker 1: don't know what he did to get the hair off. 1462 01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:16,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to think. 1463 01:05:16,160 --> 01:05:18,200 Speaker 2: About it because I can just imagine Nigga like shaving 1464 01:05:18,240 --> 01:05:18,480 Speaker 2: his bar. 1465 01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:20,720 Speaker 1: I hope not. 1466 01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:22,480 Speaker 2: I want burnt balls on me. 1467 01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:25,320 Speaker 3: I'm back cause one time I tried to use narro 1468 01:05:25,400 --> 01:05:27,280 Speaker 3: on my pussy. This is like a long as time ago, 1469 01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:30,440 Speaker 3: but you're not supposed to put it like on the lips. 1470 01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:34,200 Speaker 2: You're a sick ass bitch, And it burnt, and it burnt. 1471 01:05:33,920 --> 01:05:35,680 Speaker 3: The shit out of my pussy, and I had a 1472 01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,840 Speaker 3: disappointment like two hours later, and you probably still. 1473 01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:41,280 Speaker 2: You damn fucking right, bitch. 1474 01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:45,280 Speaker 1: I was about to be smighty anyway. So honestly, if 1475 01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:47,760 Speaker 1: a man has too much hair, it doesn't bother me. 1476 01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:50,600 Speaker 1: But I will say this, when the men have no 1477 01:05:50,800 --> 01:05:53,720 Speaker 1: hair down there, it definitely feels better because it does 1478 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,040 Speaker 1: help with the friction, and I feel like it helps 1479 01:05:56,120 --> 01:06:00,520 Speaker 1: keep the pussy weather because sometimes hair, especially with African drying. 1480 01:06:01,400 --> 01:06:04,800 Speaker 1: It absorbs. You know, our hair absorbs water. As a 1481 01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:07,000 Speaker 1: black woman, you know when you put water on your 1482 01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:09,840 Speaker 1: hair and just a little bit, it's absorbing that. So 1483 01:06:10,000 --> 01:06:12,920 Speaker 1: when a nigga got four sea hair on them balls, 1484 01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:16,440 Speaker 1: it's absorbed the fo I'm telling you niggas be having 1485 01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,080 Speaker 1: forest got three seeds. I mean, you might be a 1486 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:20,880 Speaker 1: little safe, but that's when you're getting to the white man. 1487 01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:23,440 Speaker 1: And I'm not giving a white man no pussing, no offense, 1488 01:06:23,520 --> 01:06:28,720 Speaker 1: BDB from Philly. But what I'm saying is a lot 1489 01:06:28,800 --> 01:06:30,920 Speaker 1: of black men they have a lot of nappy hair 1490 01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:35,480 Speaker 1: down there, so it's absorbed. It's absorbing. God, I'm so 1491 01:06:35,640 --> 01:06:39,320 Speaker 1: glad we have never talked about this. I actually like 1492 01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:41,800 Speaker 1: it when a man on, it's not a deal breaker. 1493 01:06:42,480 --> 01:06:44,600 Speaker 2: I used to think it was weird. I'm not gonna lie. 1494 01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:46,600 Speaker 3: Like the very first time that I fucked the nigga 1495 01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:50,080 Speaker 3: and he didn't have no hair on like his pubic areas, 1496 01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:51,959 Speaker 3: it's weird, so fucking weird. 1497 01:06:52,000 --> 01:06:54,360 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, Like it does look weird. 1498 01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:57,360 Speaker 1: It does look weird, but I but I will say it. 1499 01:06:57,640 --> 01:06:59,800 Speaker 3: But now that I'm older, I do like it, or 1500 01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:02,200 Speaker 3: least you know, it doesn't have to be like completely bald, 1501 01:07:02,240 --> 01:07:03,960 Speaker 3: but at least have it like manicure. 1502 01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:08,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, like I feel and the top is gone, like 1503 01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:10,720 Speaker 1: the top is gone, like above the balls, Like that's 1504 01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:12,720 Speaker 1: the main area I feel like needs to be gone. 1505 01:07:13,080 --> 01:07:14,440 Speaker 1: Because when I tell you that now, I was like, 1506 01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:18,040 Speaker 1: oh damn, the sex. Definitely that motherfucker was sliding. 1507 01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:22,720 Speaker 2: I said, hold on, way to many y'all thought I 1508 01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:27,040 Speaker 2: was finished. You know, sorry, I was at flashbacks. 1509 01:07:28,200 --> 01:07:31,120 Speaker 1: So, yes, we've never is wrong with you. 1510 01:07:32,240 --> 01:07:35,840 Speaker 2: I'm just saying I just take off the hair. That's 1511 01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:36,360 Speaker 2: all I got. 1512 01:07:36,680 --> 01:07:38,880 Speaker 1: Shave the top off, Yeah, shaven. 1513 01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:41,680 Speaker 2: Top off to get the top off. Hot sauce, y'all. 1514 01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:45,600 Speaker 2: So I feel like, yes, men should. Men should definitely 1515 01:07:45,640 --> 01:07:46,240 Speaker 2: look into. 1516 01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:47,760 Speaker 1: Removing their pubic hair. 1517 01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:50,880 Speaker 2: More so, I agree. I definitely agree with that. That 1518 01:07:51,080 --> 01:07:54,880 Speaker 2: was amazing. I love that. I don't like it. I 1519 01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,440 Speaker 2: don't like that. Okay, I think that was it. With 1520 01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:58,840 Speaker 2: all the questions. 1521 01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:01,720 Speaker 1: Shout out to you, I. 1522 01:08:01,760 --> 01:08:05,720 Speaker 3: Didn't know why B b B from Philly shut out everybody. Listen, 1523 01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:10,160 Speaker 3: this is universal all right, thank y'all so much international. 1524 01:08:11,760 --> 01:08:12,919 Speaker 2: Pimping all over the world. 1525 01:08:13,560 --> 01:08:14,640 Speaker 1: I'm waiting for you to get it. 1526 01:08:14,720 --> 01:08:16,799 Speaker 2: All out. Go ahead, sing this song. 1527 01:08:19,160 --> 01:08:22,880 Speaker 1: The Women in the Caviar, and you know who we 1528 01:08:23,040 --> 01:08:28,920 Speaker 1: are because we put the world. I was so. 1529 01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:31,200 Speaker 2: Thank you. 1530 01:08:32,920 --> 01:08:43,280 Speaker 1: We'll see y'all next week. You just had, you just 1531 01:08:43,439 --> 01:08:45,600 Speaker 1: have to. Is that not what he do? Is that 1532 01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:51,200 Speaker 1: not how a song goes? He said, Oh my 1533 01:08:51,439 --> 01:08:52,880 Speaker 2: God, did you see that clip from