WEBVTT - Behind the Scenes

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<v Speaker 1>Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio.

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<v Speaker 2>Podcast We're Back.

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<v Speaker 1>I missed you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, if I could vote someone most excited to be back,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to sit on your laps. I missed you

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<v Speaker 2>guys a lot. Yeah, I miss you too. Like even

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<v Speaker 2>my body language is aggressive. You say the word and

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<v Speaker 2>I will sit right there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like in a corner. Even more award if.

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<v Speaker 2>We took tech tooe three in a row on this

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<v Speaker 2>scout for the whole podcast, because I just want to

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<v Speaker 2>touch you both. I just want to see your face.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that you want to eat space? That's a sweet way, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I said, I said, I want to see your face.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, which means you want space from I on

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<v Speaker 2>the camera. But I missed you guys. It's been a

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<v Speaker 2>minute since we've all sat here because it's like this

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<v Speaker 2>person was sick and then the kid was sick and holiday.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's just that time of year, so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're all back. We're all back. We're all here.

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<v Speaker 1>I miss you like you got kicked off. No, got

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<v Speaker 1>kicked off?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah. Listeners are genuinely concerned. I've been hired. They're like,

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<v Speaker 2>are you still mind down? I was like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>think so. It has been a minute. Let me think

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<v Speaker 2>about those. Yeah, I'm so so. This is this a

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<v Speaker 2>contract renewal discussion?

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<v Speaker 1>New Year?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, new Year? I just miss you. You had a movie. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was so fun to be able to do a

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<v Speaker 2>movie top of the year. Oh good, like good for

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<v Speaker 2>your heart. It was good. It was really good. Good.

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<v Speaker 2>Catherine came along for how many nights were you there?

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<v Speaker 1>Three? Three year?

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<v Speaker 2>This is a total sidebar, but Catherine will understand this.

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<v Speaker 2>We played a lot of games for those three nights.

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<v Speaker 2>I introduced Monopoly Go Ordeal to Alan last night.

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<v Speaker 1>What is this game?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? But I almost took a picture and was like, Catherine,

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<v Speaker 2>come come over.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm proud.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, if you're played Monopoly, deal I haven't. But I

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<v Speaker 2>love Monopoly. It's even better. Okay, it's just harder, Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>it's quicker. Yeah. It just made me think of us

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<v Speaker 2>in our time in Enid, Oklahoma. Sweet people. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>they were great, very sweet people. But you guys, I

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<v Speaker 2>got tell you what I fell in love with Oklahoma City?

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<v Speaker 2>You did.

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<v Speaker 3>I love Oklahoma City. If I could do a movie

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<v Speaker 3>there again, I would love it because there's so much

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<v Speaker 3>to do there. For not only kids, like their zoo

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<v Speaker 3>and their science museum fabulous of the fast zoos and

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<v Speaker 3>science museums I've ever been to. So good, so good,

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<v Speaker 3>and the food amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh good.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you like Okross, I didn't didn't have any.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, don't I do that there?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, it's a while. Well, I used to.

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<v Speaker 2>That used to be part of my territory when I

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<v Speaker 2>was on the label, so I was there a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>but I wasn't going to zoos. I just was managing them.

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<v Speaker 2>It's time to be alive. But yeah, like, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>bad that you didn't get to witness that part of Oklahoma's.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay because I feel like we knew what this time

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<v Speaker 1>was going to be, and it was literally sitting in

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<v Speaker 1>a hotel room and like playing games, and that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I was prepared for. That's what I wanted. I loved it.

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<v Speaker 2>The funniest part that was we were on set and

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<v Speaker 2>I was telling they were asking me kind of what's next,

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, oh, I've got a movie in San

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<v Speaker 2>Antonio for a couple of weeks and then we're filming

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<v Speaker 2>in the Bahamas Ish area.

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<v Speaker 1>Goes, I'm sorry, what, Yeah, when you brought me to

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<v Speaker 1>Enid and you're going to the Bama Oky.

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<v Speaker 2>And O no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 1>I got a promise out of this one for sticking through.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, you know what, apologies, so you

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<v Speaker 2>can come with me on that that part of the.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't And let me just say it wasn't that

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<v Speaker 1>it was Enid. I love small town not having a

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<v Speaker 1>lot to do. I'm great with that. It was freezing

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<v Speaker 1>that That's really what it was about. I was not prepared.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go to the Walmart and buy gloves

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<v Speaker 1>and like all the things because I just didn't realize

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<v Speaker 1>with me so cold.

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<v Speaker 2>You looked really cute though my face timed in. You

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<v Speaker 2>looked like a little you looked like you were a

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<v Speaker 2>character in the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, hey, I stood out there. I did get

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<v Speaker 1>in the heating car a lot, but I stood out there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah he did. I mean it was it was freezing

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<v Speaker 2>found until like one two in the morning or something,

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<v Speaker 2>and she's out there just freezing her little buns off.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, okay, you can go in the heating car.

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<v Speaker 1>If they can do it and save these lines and

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<v Speaker 1>less clothes than me, I can stand out here.

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<v Speaker 2>At a girl. But you are so like, what a friend. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Michigan girls will dig deep if we have to. But

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<v Speaker 2>that I mean, that's all. That's cool. Okay. I left

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<v Speaker 2>when I was eighteen. My blood has since that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's a she loves the sun.

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<v Speaker 2>I love, I love, And I started to get the

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<v Speaker 2>sads this week. Why this is the cold? Oh oh

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<v Speaker 2>that's yeah, that's it's starting to sink in. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's sunny here. It's just really coold. Like you can't

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<v Speaker 2>go for a while. Y'all know, it's snowed at thirty A. Yeah, everywhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Houston Airport shut down.

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<v Speaker 1>There's snow on the beach.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys, that's so cool though. I think I would love

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<v Speaker 2>to see that. I think that's really cool. You can

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<v Speaker 2>go to northern Michigan anytime, right, But like.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm from here and I'm going to Florida, and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't usually see the snow on the beach, so that's right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I have obviously, but I think that's just

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I don't think snow's charming. It's over for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it for about a month. Yeah, I like

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<v Speaker 2>it for about one hour. For my kids, I like

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<v Speaker 2>it for kids love it for twenty minutes. You do

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<v Speaker 2>twenty minutes of getting everything on and then you hands side.

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<v Speaker 2>Where's Ma'm yeah, your friends that invited us to veil

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<v Speaker 2>and I ooh, that's amazing, I said, And they're like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>if you have the right stuff, you stay warm. And

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, it doesn't I if you mad, I feel trapped.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>So where have you been? What have you been doing? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen you.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you've been.

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<v Speaker 1>You did have a birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>Forty three birthday, h which, by the way, you just disappear.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, because y'all know this really cute thing. You came

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<v Speaker 3>to my house for my birthday, and so I'm you know, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>let's go surprise Yeah, Kristin at her house, do the

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<v Speaker 3>whole thing. Because it was so sweet what y'all did

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<v Speaker 3>for me. I wanted to do the same back. And uh,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm really glad I texted you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she was ready to go.

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<v Speaker 2>She's she's here. I'm like, wait, what cats on? Fine?

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<v Speaker 2>My friends. Yeah, we just did a little quick trip

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<v Speaker 2>to Tampa. I took the kids to Universal. It was

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<v Speaker 2>like sweet, okay, yeah, we feeling about forty three. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel great, great. Oh, I could possibly be my favorite

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<v Speaker 2>year so far. Really, Oh, I'm I don't know. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>in a mode. Was it? What is it? I don't

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, I don't know. I really don't know. There's

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<v Speaker 2>a certainty. What did I say the other day and

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<v Speaker 2>my other girlfriend turned forty three four days after me,

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, there's just like this, like an empowerment

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<v Speaker 2>and peace. So great. Yeah, I just feel really happy happy.

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<v Speaker 2>You're scared to say, I'm scared to say, the bottom

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<v Speaker 2>falling out still in there? Yeah, I just feel great.

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<v Speaker 2>So had a birthday, my little podcast that could that

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't always will be had a birthday. So it's five amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it, guys. Really, I think that's that. Did I

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<v Speaker 2>miss anything? I didn't film a movie, so I feel

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<v Speaker 2>a little lack luster. But I just had a birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it, you guys. Can I just tell you how

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<v Speaker 2>cool Martin Sheen is though? Oh okay, the most loveliest

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<v Speaker 2>human you've ever met. He's so great, he's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>There's this scene where I'm supposed to be just bawling,

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<v Speaker 2>right and Martin's in the scene, and I can't really

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<v Speaker 2>like give you know, why I'm so upset or whatever.

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<v Speaker 2>But and he's comes over in the scene and just

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<v Speaker 2>places his hand on my on my shoulder. And by

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<v Speaker 2>the way, two minutes prior, we're like cracking up. He's

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<v Speaker 2>just he's really funny. He likes to make funny jokes.

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<v Speaker 2>And how do you do this? What do you mean?

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<v Speaker 2>How do you cry? Do you think of something sad? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>You do? What do you think of? I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just fascinating herself. I don't know. Sometimes kabits our manager hat.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretend Cat's a friend, right now?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think of?

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<v Speaker 3>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it is like you, I'm fascinated because you can

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<v Speaker 2>be cracking like I can't. Well, I don't know I can.

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<v Speaker 3>If you if you think of any trauma that you've

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<v Speaker 3>gone through, shit, you just think about those painful memories.

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<v Speaker 3>There's there's a few that and each movie is a

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<v Speaker 3>different type of pain, right, So like this one, there

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<v Speaker 3>was something that I connected to that I'm like, all right,

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<v Speaker 3>where am I going to find the emotion through this?

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<v Speaker 3>And in those moments to cry? And that was you

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<v Speaker 3>find it from whether either's childhood or past traumas of.

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<v Speaker 2>X Y and Z. Okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'm not going to say exactly what it was,

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<v Speaker 3>but the uh in that scene, it was tough because

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, man, this was my first one that I

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<v Speaker 3>was filming with them, and so I'm like, this is

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<v Speaker 3>gonna be hard to get because you have two seconds

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<v Speaker 3>for them to go okay and action, you know, as

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<v Speaker 3>we're all just like laughing. But this one just this

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<v Speaker 3>was a sad scene. So it was easy to be

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<v Speaker 3>able to get because we were in a hospital scene,

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<v Speaker 3>so super easy to like get there. Maybe maybe I

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<v Speaker 3>had this like moment where it's like I love Martin Sheen,

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<v Speaker 3>like I love him. American President was one of my

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<v Speaker 3>favorite movies ever, and it was kind of that moment

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<v Speaker 3>of like gratefulness too, So it was almost like a

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<v Speaker 3>happy cry right in like a sad moment because it's

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<v Speaker 3>like this.

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<v Speaker 1>Is so cool, like a pinch me moment, literally.

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<v Speaker 2>Acting with someone that I like love so much, grew

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<v Speaker 2>up with this movies, you know, and like I'm in

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<v Speaker 2>the scene with him, so I'm like, you better knock

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<v Speaker 2>it out of the apartment. It was almost like I'm

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<v Speaker 2>like he's watching you, you know, like he's he who

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<v Speaker 2>he is nervous, like a nervous happy drama all in

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<v Speaker 2>one like really sad scene. And so and I had

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<v Speaker 2>this scene where I have to like he has to

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<v Speaker 2>give me the nod like this person is gone, and

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<v Speaker 2>so I give that like look, like a no look,

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<v Speaker 2>and then just this tears start to just like stream.

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<v Speaker 2>He comes and like puts his hand like on my arm,

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<v Speaker 2>and then it was just like a sob you know.

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<v Speaker 2>And then but it but like in even the scene,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, obviously it was like a when we were rehearsing,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, he's like cracking jokes and so then

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<v Speaker 2>it's like how much do you want for that for

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<v Speaker 2>the death? You know, like you can even mo me

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<v Speaker 2>for the death or and then two seconds later its

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<v Speaker 2>like and actually, so it's like he's like funny, but

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<v Speaker 2>it was awesome love that. I felt a little starstruck

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<v Speaker 2>on your behalf when I saw him with you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>well he hugs you, he loves you, he's sweet, sweet,

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<v Speaker 2>he like cares. Yeah, I can tell, good dude. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>so that was really fun. I don't know when's the mahamas,

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, I'm going there this week? What what you

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<v Speaker 2>literally just January. It's the only time I get to see.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you noticed it's the same every January because it's

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<v Speaker 2>the only domaseum? And where are you going? The Bahamas

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<v Speaker 2>were staying this time for fun? Yeah? Two days, two

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<v Speaker 2>brave days away from the kids, three nights dot. Come

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<v Speaker 2>are you proud of me? Here? What's the look? I

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<v Speaker 2>can two days? Yeah too, full days? I know, I

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<v Speaker 2>know it's not proud. Okay, God, she's like, that was shame.

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<v Speaker 2>I got it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I know the difference in her look.

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<v Speaker 2>I gotta get back on track here, shame I okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you're a great actress. I thought. Your brother is like,

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<v Speaker 2>I just do hang on, I'm getting my trauma. Cry

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<v Speaker 2>girl yourself. One more day, No, three nights. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>three nights, two nights or three three nights? Two full days,

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<v Speaker 2>like I'll have two full days, but three nights okay,

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<v Speaker 2>three nights. Okay, that's great. The night's all that matter,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what I mean? Three days is good? Three good? Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>I thought even like, well, just getting there takes forever

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<v Speaker 2>from here. Yeah, that's why it's like if you just

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<v Speaker 2>do too. Yeah, what are you filming? I'm excited? Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like you go to these like locations all

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<v Speaker 2>the time that are like kind of not wh people.

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<v Speaker 2>Well yeah, yeah, kindly, Oklahoma City, we love you. So

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<v Speaker 2>I just love that you might be in the Hamas.

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<v Speaker 2>It gives me outer Banks vibes. And that's why I

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<v Speaker 2>was checking in. It's a thriller. Yes, it's not all

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<v Speaker 2>I can say. Oh yeah, in the Bahamas, mostly in

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<v Speaker 2>San Antonio. Oh yeah, okay, yeah, okay, okay, it's gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be fun though. Really excited about this one. But there

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<v Speaker 2>are some things that happened while we were gone, devastating things,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of devastating things which we've talked about, and

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<v Speaker 2>we're going to move on to the No, it's still devastating.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you going to talk about the Jessicas? I was

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<v Speaker 2>going to ask des check on the Simpson one, devastated.

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<v Speaker 2>We did talk about it months ago. I texted you

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<v Speaker 2>and I said, how are you feeling about this? She's like, Cramer,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just us weekly. I go, oh, why there's smoke,

0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:19.560
<v Speaker 2>there might be fires. She goes, oh coming from me,

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<v Speaker 2>I like loud, yeah, every once in a while, it's

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<v Speaker 2>so great. But yeah, I'm sad. I'm sad when anybody

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<v Speaker 2>gets divorced and I'm more sad when it's public. I

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<v Speaker 2>think because I've done this with you, I could actually

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<v Speaker 2>maybe I could cry about things a lot easier than I.

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<v Speaker 2>Jessica Simpson the cry. No, I just hate that it

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<v Speaker 2>has to be so public. I hate it for you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>because I know that is what you sign up for

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<v Speaker 2>in air quotes and what people always say. But it

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<v Speaker 2>just doesn't matter. No one gets married to get divorced.

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<v Speaker 2>I stand by that. So I just think it sucks

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<v Speaker 2>because there's kids involved and they have to read it

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<v Speaker 2>and know it, and even if they're bigger, it doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>It's all. I just hate it. Yeah, it makes me sad.

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<v Speaker 2>It does make me sad. A hard time to be

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<v Speaker 2>a Jessica. Well, there's an album which we had her

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<v Speaker 2>husband on the show, but they were saying January is

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<v Speaker 2>a divorce month, and I had to think back to

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<v Speaker 2>my divorces and I'm like, I chose the wrong month.

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<v Speaker 2>That was my problem all along. I don't think I

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<v Speaker 2>ever got divorced into January. I never heard a divorce month,

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<v Speaker 2>and I did read that. I enjoyed that article. The

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<v Speaker 2>writer of that article was actually awesome. What was she

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<v Speaker 2>saying about it. It's just really funny. But she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, it's okay because there's like a new season

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<v Speaker 2>of Severns, so you're gonna be okay. There's plenty of

0:14:45.760 --> 0:14:47.880
<v Speaker 2>TV to keep you company. Yeah, I didn't know it

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<v Speaker 2>was a divorce month, but I guess it's people get

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<v Speaker 2>through the holidays and kind of make the pack or

0:14:51.720 --> 0:14:53.640
<v Speaker 2>the holiday send them over the edge. Either way.

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<v Speaker 1>The holidays can be very depressing too, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it can be a rough time.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I think maybe it's it's also like that fresh

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<v Speaker 2>started the new year kind of too. Yeah, you know

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<v Speaker 2>that she just want to just yep, break it off then.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's it's to your point, it's it always anytime

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<v Speaker 2>I ever see a headline of someone breaking up, may

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<v Speaker 2>it's just like no, even whether I'm connected to it

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<v Speaker 2>or not, like or I like them or not, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just it's sad to see people not together and happy.

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<v Speaker 2>Having said that, I want people to be happy, So

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<v Speaker 2>if the happiest route is to not be with the person,

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<v Speaker 2>then I'm happy for them. It just it sucks, right

0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:32.040
<v Speaker 2>get because you know, like you said, in marriage is

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<v Speaker 2>no one gets married to get divorced, and so it's

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<v Speaker 2>sad when you see things end, but I'm also I

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<v Speaker 2>get really hopeful and excited for people because it's a

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<v Speaker 2>new chapter that they can then find happiness elsewhere. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not like shameful sad. I just get sad. I

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<v Speaker 2>just hate. I just I put myself in those days

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<v Speaker 2>of like they're going to have to move someone out

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<v Speaker 2>and there's going to have to be the mornings where

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<v Speaker 2>they wake up and it's quiet, or there's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be the you know, the weekend where they're alone. And

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<v Speaker 2>I that's the part that I get sad for and

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<v Speaker 2>then hopeful for all the things they'll get. I just

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<v Speaker 2>it makes me sad. I'm way less emotionally distraught over

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<v Speaker 2>this than I was the Nick and Jess split. So

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's something about my maturity, age and or

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<v Speaker 2>emotional investment in her as a human.

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<v Speaker 1>But she'll be good.

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<v Speaker 3>It's hard to because people always say, oh, there was

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<v Speaker 3>warning signs, like the uh, you know, all the clues

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<v Speaker 3>that they were headed for a split, And again, I

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<v Speaker 3>think it's anyone can look at someone's a relationship and

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<v Speaker 3>go like okay, for you, Nick, it's like, Okay, the

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<v Speaker 3>signs were there. You guys were sleeping in separate bed

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<v Speaker 3>or not, I don't know whatever, we weren't, but I

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<v Speaker 3>together watching the shows and separate rooms.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, you know what I mean. But how much

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<v Speaker 2>did you want to share about that?

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<v Speaker 1>We were good? I would say if we were, we

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<v Speaker 1>were not sleeping in different beds. But yes, fair, keep going.

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<v Speaker 2>But like we can all say there was you know,

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<v Speaker 2>but again that's just marriage is having their ups and downs, right,

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<v Speaker 2>just what it is. And so it's just I did

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<v Speaker 2>read somewhere a very like weird sentence about what Jess

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<v Speaker 2>had said about the divorce and so that which one

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<v Speaker 2>Simpson or Elba? Sorry, yeah, just speak about Jess Simpson

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<v Speaker 2>like I was made of honor or something. Why am

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<v Speaker 2>I so weird about her? It was just like this

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<v Speaker 2>very like ambiguous comment about there was an event that

0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:33.960
<v Speaker 2>happened that pushed them to this or something, And I'm like, what,

0:17:34.320 --> 0:17:36.720
<v Speaker 2>like it's just maybe don't say anything at all. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what Kyle Richards did, little baby almost or something. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it could just be no comment at this time. Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>she wanted to chose get out in front of it,

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<v Speaker 2>or like how do I say this?

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<v Speaker 3>Like you want them to know maybe something did happen

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<v Speaker 3>right as opposed to like it wasn't just a yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>we couldn't figure it out.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, some people want people to know that there was

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<v Speaker 1>something I wanted, and some people.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll burn it to the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, some people don't want that out there. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just think that it depends. But that is the

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<v Speaker 1>clue right there that they want it out there.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I'm saying. It's a little baby. Yeah, it's

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<v Speaker 2>the tone if.

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<v Speaker 1>It does, for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>But all in all though, it's sad. Having said that,

0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:23.040
<v Speaker 2>I have someone that I was just chatting with. She

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<v Speaker 2>just broke up with her fiance and it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>coming in and she's just like bawling and we're you know,

0:18:29.520 --> 0:18:32.159
<v Speaker 2>talking about it, and it's like it's just so I

0:18:32.520 --> 0:18:37.000
<v Speaker 2>hate when people's heart breaks. And then after that, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like then I but then I'm also so excited, Like

0:18:39.600 --> 0:18:43.560
<v Speaker 2>I said, like, I'm so excited for people's next chapters.

0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:47.879
<v Speaker 2>I think it's like at a bookstore near you running out.

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<v Speaker 3>I just because it's you know, it wasn't the person

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<v Speaker 3>and we don't understand why, and the puzzle pieces and

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<v Speaker 3>all that, but we will you'll know eventually, you know

0:18:57.960 --> 0:18:58.879
<v Speaker 3>why it didn't work, and.

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<v Speaker 2>The next thing you know, you'll be in Scotland with

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<v Speaker 2>a tear in your eye. Exactly. Amazing. Yeah, so there's

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<v Speaker 2>that one. I'm wondering what other I'm letting you lead

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<v Speaker 2>the headline.

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<v Speaker 3>Charging, headline charge you all know that is a disaster zone.

0:19:13.600 --> 0:19:28.760
<v Speaker 3>Jeez on his side bar to all of this.

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<v Speaker 2>The text message we got in our wind down about

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<v Speaker 2>a labia. Yeah, we're going to talk about it or not,

0:19:38.200 --> 0:19:41.879
<v Speaker 2>but she called it out. Let's talk about Brookshield's got

0:19:41.920 --> 0:19:45.520
<v Speaker 2>a bonus labia rejuvenation without her consent. Why can't every

0:19:45.640 --> 0:19:49.199
<v Speaker 2>Why can't everybody just leave my vagina alone? She has

0:19:49.240 --> 0:19:51.879
<v Speaker 2>a new book out though it's a new book, Brookshield

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<v Speaker 2>is not allowed to get old. Ah, if someone gave

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<v Speaker 2>you a labia without your permission, would you sue for

0:19:59.119 --> 0:20:01.680
<v Speaker 2>mal practice? One thousand percent.

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<v Speaker 1>If anyone did anything without my permission when I am

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<v Speaker 1>under yeah, one hundred and I'm not someone to sue

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<v Speaker 1>anything anyone for anything. Really, that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like we have a friend that we won't name obviously,

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<v Speaker 2>but like she had a procedure done and they were like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh yeah, we just did a little light bow too.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't touch there's no way that's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, since when are doctors tossing in freebies? This is weird.

0:20:26.560 --> 0:20:29.600
<v Speaker 3>So she actually went in for the labia reconstruction. The

0:20:29.720 --> 0:20:33.600
<v Speaker 3>vagina rejuvenation is the extra procedure. Yeah, because the labia

0:20:33.720 --> 0:20:34.800
<v Speaker 3>was an issue for years.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and then they then he gave her like this

0:20:38.320 --> 0:20:40.880
<v Speaker 2>almost winky slimy like I guess what you know? While

0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:41.440
<v Speaker 2>I was in there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that was gross. I didn't like anything about that story.

0:20:44.600 --> 0:20:46.880
<v Speaker 2>Who does that?

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<v Speaker 1>That was Yeah, it's just like I hate it for her,

0:20:50.880 --> 0:20:53.119
<v Speaker 1>and it's like she got like she never talked to us,

0:20:53.320 --> 0:20:56.680
<v Speaker 1>she never it's violating, and then she's somebody so it's

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<v Speaker 1>like you also have a doctor that just did Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, it's just it's all gross. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like it.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you talk about it if that happened to you?

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<v Speaker 1>No, probably not. I don't love of course Kat woll

0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:12.520
<v Speaker 1>Kat I am, and I'm not like there's certain things.

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<v Speaker 1>It feels like it really was kind of traumatizing for her. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's traumatized. I do kind of it is, absolutely

0:21:21.320 --> 0:21:23.600
<v Speaker 1>and it probably would. I mean again, it's her choice

0:21:23.640 --> 0:21:24.640
<v Speaker 1>if she talks about it.

0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:26.639
<v Speaker 2>I hate it for her because it's like it's like

0:21:26.680 --> 0:21:29.080
<v Speaker 2>one of us talking about it. Yeah, it's her choice.

0:21:29.160 --> 0:21:32.840
<v Speaker 1>I could have done without knowing that information, Like you know,

0:21:33.000 --> 0:21:36.240
<v Speaker 1>like sometimes I go back and forth sometimes I'm like,

0:21:36.359 --> 0:21:38.200
<v Speaker 1>do we really need to know all of this about

0:21:38.240 --> 0:21:41.960
<v Speaker 1>all of art? Like we know so much about celebrities now,

0:21:42.000 --> 0:21:44.040
<v Speaker 1>like do we need to know this much about them?

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<v Speaker 1>But on the flip side, it's her choice. She decided

0:21:46.520 --> 0:21:47.840
<v Speaker 1>to tell it so well.

0:21:47.840 --> 0:21:50.320
<v Speaker 2>I also kind of do like it in the way

0:21:50.359 --> 0:21:53.119
<v Speaker 2>that I'm like, I wouldn't have thought to have a

0:21:53.119 --> 0:21:56.280
<v Speaker 2>conversation with my doctor about anything extra heat or she

0:21:56.359 --> 0:21:58.639
<v Speaker 2>might throw in well because that's not normal, right, But

0:21:58.720 --> 0:22:00.280
<v Speaker 2>like because of this, but I.

0:22:00.240 --> 0:22:01.800
<v Speaker 3>Feel like it's a little bit more normal than we

0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:03.840
<v Speaker 3>might think, like just what happened with our friend too,

0:22:04.840 --> 0:22:05.560
<v Speaker 3>things that like.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe a bit of an a to me. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate coming from Brooks Labia who knew Serve from the bottom.

0:22:11.520 --> 0:22:17.520
<v Speaker 1>Now we're here, which is like, are we really talking

0:22:17.520 --> 0:22:18.400
<v Speaker 1>about a Labia today?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:20.640
<v Speaker 1>But I mean I feel for her though, I mean,

0:22:20.800 --> 0:22:21.520
<v Speaker 1>don't get me wrong.

0:22:21.760 --> 0:22:23.680
<v Speaker 2>Basically, when you go into a procedure and make sure

0:22:23.720 --> 0:22:26.679
<v Speaker 2>that's the only thing that's happening, such a helpless feeling.

0:22:27.040 --> 0:22:32.359
<v Speaker 2>You're asleep, right, exactly weird? Yeah, I don't like No,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh my good all No, what else is going

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<v Speaker 1>on in the headlines? There's a lot right now.

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<v Speaker 2>There is. I meant to ask you another question about

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<v Speaker 2>the movie. Okay, can we go back to it real quick? Sure,

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<v Speaker 2>I forgot we got distracted, Okay, trauma. Was there any

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<v Speaker 2>like lovey scenes? Can we know that? Lovey scenes?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 2>Huh? Between me and my husband in the movie the

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<v Speaker 2>movie Husband, Yes, movie Husband? There was zero? Okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>wonder I always like to get an allan temperature check.

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<v Speaker 2>Not even a kiss scene? Oh yeah, I will you

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<v Speaker 2>like kissed my forehead? That was about intimate holdly handing scenes. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but yeah, it wasn't. It was a it's a Christian film.

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<v Speaker 2>Sweet uh huh. It was very sweet. But yeah, he's

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<v Speaker 2>he was lovely.

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<v Speaker 3>He was great, great, really really nice guy, great actor,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's so nice, you know guys. It was difficult though,

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<v Speaker 3>because I was playing like a mom, even.

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<v Speaker 2>Though I am a mom. It was hard because she

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<v Speaker 2>was I know, Catherine always makes fun of me, but

0:23:36.520 --> 0:23:38.800
<v Speaker 2>she was my daughter's older in this, and so I

0:23:38.840 --> 0:23:40.800
<v Speaker 2>had that moment like, oh my gosh, I'm aging to

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<v Speaker 2>like just the mom characters. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I'm not old enough to have a child,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I fifteen year old writer. But

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<v Speaker 1>I get it that that would seem until you're I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I still don't feel like I'm old enough to have

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<v Speaker 1>a fifteen year old. So I get it, like we

0:23:55.600 --> 0:23:57.160
<v Speaker 1>don't feel like we're that old, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, I think right now? Yeah, I just it's like

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<v Speaker 2>out of body to tell you it's forty three. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>And a lot of the things that I audition for,

0:24:06.480 --> 0:24:08.280
<v Speaker 2>so like today I have an audition for something that's

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<v Speaker 2>like mid forties, but I don't I still can't really

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<v Speaker 2>like play that age yet. And so it's just it's

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<v Speaker 2>just it's just weird.

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<v Speaker 3>I am trying to figure that, like, that's just it's

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<v Speaker 3>just weirder for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I wonder sticking to the more like the mid

0:24:23.680 --> 0:24:26.399
<v Speaker 2>thirty rules. I wondered because I watch a lot of

0:24:26.480 --> 0:24:32.240
<v Speaker 2>Jane Fonda, what that somehow does not surprise me? It does?

0:24:32.840 --> 0:24:36.959
<v Speaker 2>I love her so much, and I just always wonder, like,

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<v Speaker 2>as a career, you know, actor, how it feels to

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<v Speaker 2>age up, like, you know, as they age you up,

0:24:43.960 --> 0:24:46.320
<v Speaker 2>and you're like, suddenly you're the grandmother. Like some of

0:24:46.359 --> 0:24:48.520
<v Speaker 2>these women playing these grandmother roles. I'm like, you know

0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:51.560
<v Speaker 2>they're playing them young even, right, And I'm like, oh,

0:24:51.640 --> 0:24:53.800
<v Speaker 2>that probably doesn't feel too good for the like yeah,

0:24:53.880 --> 0:24:57.479
<v Speaker 2>esteem or something. Yeah, it's interesting. I have a question answer.

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<v Speaker 1>So, you posted while you were at the movie that

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<v Speaker 1>you had given Jolie a phone. Uh huh while you

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<v Speaker 1>were gone?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you get any positive or negative feedback for posting that?

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<v Speaker 4>You know?

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<v Speaker 3>What's interesting is I got so many women reaching out

0:25:11.920 --> 0:25:13.639
<v Speaker 3>to me, thank you for actually bringing that up. I have.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a lot of women reaching out to me

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<v Speaker 2>because I'd mentioned that I don't let them have their

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<v Speaker 2>iPads anymore. And that was the number one DM was

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<v Speaker 2>how did you do it?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow?

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<v Speaker 2>Not why did she have a phone?

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<v Speaker 3>Like, because I explained in there that I gave her

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<v Speaker 3>the phone because she's not allowed they don't have the

0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:36.200
<v Speaker 3>iPad anymore. And that was I mean, And it wasn't

0:25:36.240 --> 0:25:38.399
<v Speaker 3>like why, it was how.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you do it? Oh? Cool? And I loved that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's good. Yeah, I just wondered when you saw it?

0:25:43.240 --> 0:25:45.360
<v Speaker 1>When you posted it. I wondered if you got any

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<v Speaker 1>hate for that.

0:25:46.600 --> 0:25:48.560
<v Speaker 3>I feel like I didn't, just because I was able

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<v Speaker 3>to say and I'm I'm like, it's only for the

0:25:51.040 --> 0:25:53.120
<v Speaker 3>two weeks. I'm getting it back when she comes back.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you feel like you had to justify yourself that?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I found that interesting. Yeah, I mean I get it.

0:26:00.440 --> 0:26:02.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying, but I also, to an extent, wish

0:26:02.960 --> 0:26:04.800
<v Speaker 1>you didn't feel like you have to have to justify

0:26:04.800 --> 0:26:07.800
<v Speaker 1>yourself so much. But maybe it kept you from getting hate.

0:26:07.840 --> 0:26:08.479
<v Speaker 1>And there you go.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree that I don't like the justification part of things.

0:26:13.200 --> 0:26:17.520
<v Speaker 3>Having said that, for me, I I don't want people

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<v Speaker 3>I guess I don't want people to think that she's

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<v Speaker 3>allowed to phone that young, sure, because I don't personally

0:26:22.080 --> 0:26:23.560
<v Speaker 3>believe in it at this age.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, so, yeah, cares your world less noisy if you

0:26:28.280 --> 0:26:29.639
<v Speaker 2>can just get out in front of it maybe a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit and just say it.

0:26:31.400 --> 0:26:34.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, No, for sure, I mean I agree, I just yeah,

0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:35.639
<v Speaker 1>there is that part of me that's like, man, I

0:26:35.680 --> 0:26:38.440
<v Speaker 1>wish you didn't have to, you know, like.

0:26:38.359 --> 0:26:40.200
<v Speaker 2>Brookshields Laviya right exactly.

0:26:40.359 --> 0:26:44.159
<v Speaker 1>You know, sometimes we just Yeah, how did she do

0:26:44.359 --> 0:26:47.840
<v Speaker 1>within the phone being taken away or like being done.

0:26:47.600 --> 0:26:50.919
<v Speaker 3>With totally fine, right, Yeah, there was zero issues with it,

0:26:51.920 --> 0:26:54.720
<v Speaker 3>and yeah it was it was good and I and

0:26:54.840 --> 0:26:57.720
<v Speaker 3>I had to obviously talk to Mike about it because.

0:26:59.080 --> 0:27:00.480
<v Speaker 2>You know, it's.

0:27:01.960 --> 0:27:04.000
<v Speaker 3>A technical you know, it's a phone and all the things.

0:27:04.040 --> 0:27:06.080
<v Speaker 3>And I said that, you know, here what I would

0:27:06.119 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 3>love the rules to be, and followed pretty well. I

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:14.080
<v Speaker 3>mean it was you know, the reason we got rid

0:27:14.119 --> 0:27:15.919
<v Speaker 3>of the iPads in the very beginning was because the

0:27:15.920 --> 0:27:18.399
<v Speaker 3>overuse on his part of it.

0:27:19.359 --> 0:27:22.720
<v Speaker 1>And sorry not to pause, we're just real fast. So

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<v Speaker 1>iPads are gone in both homes, yes, got it?

0:27:25.800 --> 0:27:27.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:27:27.040 --> 0:27:31.399
<v Speaker 3>Uh And so once we had basically a come to

0:27:31.480 --> 0:27:36.560
<v Speaker 3>Jesus about it about how it was overused, and then

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 3>when they came here, it was the I'm board and

0:27:38.640 --> 0:27:40.800
<v Speaker 3>I want you know, it's like the all the whole things.

0:27:41.880 --> 0:27:45.040
<v Speaker 3>We just said, okay, we agreed no more iPads, but

0:27:45.560 --> 0:27:48.640
<v Speaker 3>with the phone stuff. You know, I was like, this

0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:50.720
<v Speaker 3>is kind of why, because I don't want to be

0:27:50.760 --> 0:27:52.600
<v Speaker 3>blowing up your phone. I don't want to be texting

0:27:52.680 --> 0:27:54.119
<v Speaker 3>him all the time. Can I talk to the kids.

0:27:54.280 --> 0:27:57.680
<v Speaker 3>It's like that whole conversation. So, you know, it was

0:27:57.760 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 3>just mornings text me before you go to bed and

0:28:01.040 --> 0:28:03.879
<v Speaker 3>then when you get home from school. Yeah, and it

0:28:03.920 --> 0:28:07.080
<v Speaker 3>worked great, great, so I think we'll implement that again.

0:28:07.320 --> 0:28:09.280
<v Speaker 3>But there was no phone, like, no games on the phone,

0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:10.160
<v Speaker 3>no anything else.

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:12.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so yeah, it's great.

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:14.040
<v Speaker 2>It really did work out great.

0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:14.600
<v Speaker 1>I like it.

0:28:14.880 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 3>And then personally with the iPad thing, like just for

0:28:18.200 --> 0:28:21.760
<v Speaker 3>us because I've gotten our friend Sarah Boyd reached out

0:28:22.119 --> 0:28:23.879
<v Speaker 3>and she was like, how did you get rid of

0:28:23.880 --> 0:28:26.440
<v Speaker 3>the iPad? And it's like it was a struggle in

0:28:26.480 --> 0:28:28.399
<v Speaker 3>the very beginning. And I will say this. They have

0:28:28.440 --> 0:28:31.320
<v Speaker 3>it for airplanes. They had it during Scotland when they

0:28:31.320 --> 0:28:33.720
<v Speaker 3>were sick, like that was our way to And I

0:28:33.800 --> 0:28:34.520
<v Speaker 3>understand why.

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:39.120
<v Speaker 2>It's it's the best. You know why why my parents

0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:40.680
<v Speaker 2>use it? I totally get it.

0:28:40.680 --> 0:28:41.840
<v Speaker 3>There's so many times I want to be like, just

0:28:41.880 --> 0:28:44.600
<v Speaker 3>watch your iPad, you know. I kind of now it's

0:28:44.640 --> 0:28:47.160
<v Speaker 3>probably I guess that we limit a lot of TV too.

0:28:47.240 --> 0:28:51.800
<v Speaker 3>But for Jolie, iPads is like the worst thing she

0:28:51.840 --> 0:28:54.760
<v Speaker 3>could possibly have. She's so addicted. And I saw how

0:28:54.800 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 3>addicted she became to it and just how often they

0:28:57.640 --> 0:28:59.480
<v Speaker 3>would ask. I mean, it drove me nuts. And then

0:28:59.480 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 3>with Jays too, it was he didn't really care, but

0:29:02.680 --> 0:29:05.360
<v Speaker 3>then he I could just see the like the addiction

0:29:05.600 --> 0:29:09.160
<v Speaker 3>forming in him, and there's so much more creative now.

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:11.360
<v Speaker 3>They don't ask for it, they don't say they're bored anymore.

0:29:11.400 --> 0:29:14.840
<v Speaker 3>Like it's been fantastic great. Yeah, we so good.

0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:17.880
<v Speaker 2>Legend has the same addictive part of it, and I

0:29:18.000 --> 0:29:21.040
<v Speaker 2>actually we took it away a long time ago because

0:29:21.080 --> 0:29:24.240
<v Speaker 2>I don't like how he acts. I do not like

0:29:24.240 --> 0:29:26.000
<v Speaker 2>the version of my son that has been on an

0:29:26.000 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 2>iPad and we do like we've had like reading eggs

0:29:28.920 --> 0:29:31.600
<v Speaker 2>and we do that on there sometimes, or like I'm

0:29:31.640 --> 0:29:33.680
<v Speaker 2>trying to think. He loves garage band, so I do

0:29:33.760 --> 0:29:35.800
<v Speaker 2>let him have it for garage band because he's likes

0:29:35.800 --> 0:29:38.560
<v Speaker 2>to create the beats, but I do not. I do

0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:41.080
<v Speaker 2>not appreciate how he acts, like it really affects his

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:41.960
<v Speaker 2>behavior a lot.

0:29:42.200 --> 0:29:44.680
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I can see. I can agree with you on that.

0:29:44.720 --> 0:29:48.640
<v Speaker 3>When Jace was playing that Roblocks game, the kind of

0:29:48.680 --> 0:29:52.240
<v Speaker 3>like anger and just more aggression I saw from that too.

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:54.160
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just don't like him tuned out from the world.

0:29:54.760 --> 0:29:56.880
<v Speaker 2>And I have like a good software system on ours

0:29:56.880 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 2>that lets me like govern everything. But but even then

0:30:00.800 --> 0:30:02.600
<v Speaker 2>I just was like I just didn't and it had

0:30:02.640 --> 0:30:04.680
<v Speaker 2>a timer go off. I mean they were only allowed

0:30:04.720 --> 0:30:06.800
<v Speaker 2>like thirty minutes or something when they would use it,

0:30:07.440 --> 0:30:10.000
<v Speaker 2>and it wasn't every day, but I still even he'd

0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:11.800
<v Speaker 2>be like, can you can you give me more time?

0:30:11.960 --> 0:30:14.720
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, no, actually, this is over. Yeah, You're

0:30:14.760 --> 0:30:16.680
<v Speaker 2>just a better dude without it, I think. But I

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:18.560
<v Speaker 2>did integrate it into their world a little. So they're

0:30:18.600 --> 0:30:21.120
<v Speaker 2>savvy enough to know because I you know, that is

0:30:21.160 --> 0:30:24.120
<v Speaker 2>their world unfortunately. Yeah, so I didn't want them to

0:30:24.160 --> 0:30:27.280
<v Speaker 2>like be hindered in the technology piece. Yeah. I mean,

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:30.440
<v Speaker 2>you guys remember when the old computer fired up when

0:30:30.440 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 2>we played organ Trail. Yeah, I mean it's still time

0:30:32.440 --> 0:30:32.680
<v Speaker 2>to walk.

0:30:32.720 --> 0:30:35.080
<v Speaker 3>I mean I let Jolie have the monitor phone, the

0:30:35.080 --> 0:30:37.160
<v Speaker 3>phone that she used, you know to make her fake

0:30:37.160 --> 0:30:39.240
<v Speaker 3>little YouTube videos like I'll, you know, if they want

0:30:39.280 --> 0:30:40.479
<v Speaker 3>to be creative like that.

0:30:40.720 --> 0:30:42.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm fine with that. It's just the games really

0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:43.320
<v Speaker 2>bug me.

0:30:43.480 --> 0:30:45.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's not just because of Mic and the games, right,

0:30:46.160 --> 0:30:48.640
<v Speaker 3>I realized, and I just see like where they go.

0:30:48.880 --> 0:30:52.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was like we did an old school Tetris

0:30:52.040 --> 0:30:54.720
<v Speaker 2>for Christmas, like just the handhod, just the Tetris, and

0:30:54.760 --> 0:30:57.240
<v Speaker 2>that was awesome. But I'm with you I don't like

0:30:57.280 --> 0:30:59.360
<v Speaker 2>it either, and I also just can't like the due

0:30:59.360 --> 0:31:02.360
<v Speaker 2>diligence of that out each game exhausted me too, and

0:31:02.400 --> 0:31:04.800
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm to talk about the chat room stuff.

0:31:04.840 --> 0:31:06.720
<v Speaker 2>I was like, we're out. Yeah, we never did any

0:31:06.720 --> 0:31:08.640
<v Speaker 2>even thing that did that, and I got annoyed because

0:31:08.640 --> 0:31:11.200
<v Speaker 2>then the advertisements would come in and it's like a

0:31:11.280 --> 0:31:14.400
<v Speaker 2>random other game and I just I don't know, it's all.

0:31:15.000 --> 0:31:15.600
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot.

0:31:16.040 --> 0:31:20.440
<v Speaker 3>But again, no judgment for parents that use it. It's

0:31:20.440 --> 0:31:22.360
<v Speaker 3>like I understand how great of a tool it is,

0:31:22.400 --> 0:31:25.320
<v Speaker 3>and it's can be great for people too, other kids,

0:31:25.360 --> 0:31:26.480
<v Speaker 3>and so it's just not.

0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:29.200
<v Speaker 2>Didn't work for us. But also it's kind of like

0:31:29.240 --> 0:31:31.560
<v Speaker 2>mentioning things like this is sometimes people shove to be like, oh,

0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:33.720
<v Speaker 2>I can do it. That was probably the most interaction

0:31:33.760 --> 0:31:36.080
<v Speaker 2>I got when I posted about it, most interaction I've

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:39.200
<v Speaker 2>had with people, because people were like, wait, like I

0:31:39.240 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 2>think they just need the it feels unattainable or overwhelming

0:31:42.640 --> 0:31:43.000
<v Speaker 2>to them.

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:46.040
<v Speaker 3>I think I created the problem with Jolie though, because

0:31:46.200 --> 0:31:49.120
<v Speaker 3>when she stopped napping her quiet time, we'd give her

0:31:49.160 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 3>iPad for two hours in her room, So that became

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:54.000
<v Speaker 3>and I didn't do that with Jays and I was

0:31:54.160 --> 0:31:57.520
<v Speaker 3>and he didn't, so maybe so maybe I created that.

0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:00.120
<v Speaker 3>But at this kind of stuff like he was, it

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:01.640
<v Speaker 3>was my only one and it was just easy, like

0:32:01.760 --> 0:32:03.480
<v Speaker 3>take your iPad so I can do some you know

0:32:03.480 --> 0:32:03.800
<v Speaker 3>what I mean.

0:32:04.920 --> 0:32:09.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think that's what be honest to get d Yeah.

0:32:09.720 --> 0:32:13.360
<v Speaker 1>All kids are just so different one on things. You know,

0:32:14.360 --> 0:32:17.680
<v Speaker 1>people zone in, kids zone in differently, you know, just

0:32:17.720 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 1>everybody's different.

0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:20.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like love can watch a night pat or like

0:32:20.360 --> 0:32:22.200
<v Speaker 2>do a game on there and be fine. And I'm

0:32:22.240 --> 0:32:24.800
<v Speaker 2>like when it was times up, she was like cool, Yeah,

0:32:25.320 --> 0:32:29.320
<v Speaker 2>legend typical LEGI negotiating, Yeah, every second.

0:32:29.400 --> 0:32:31.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean my kids will still ask for like

0:32:31.360 --> 0:32:33.720
<v Speaker 1>more time on their phones. Yes, my teenagers have time

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:36.480
<v Speaker 1>on their phone. So I'm like, should have used it wisely.

0:32:39.160 --> 0:32:39.320
<v Speaker 4>Like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi, I'm Kristin Davis and I want to know. Are

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<v Speaker 2>you a Charlotte?

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<v Speaker 4>In nineteen ninety seven, my life was forever changed when

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<v Speaker 4>I took on the role of Charlotte Yorke on a

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<v Speaker 4>new HBO show called Sex in the City. As we

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<v Speaker 4>watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte navigate relationships in New

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<v Speaker 4>York City, the show helped push once unacceptable conversation topics

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<v Speaker 4>out of the shadows and altered the narrative around women

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<v Speaker 4>and sex.

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<v Speaker 2>We all saw ourselves.

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<v Speaker 4>In them as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex

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<v Speaker 4>and friendships. Now I want to connect with you and

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<v Speaker 4>Present together as we talk with heart, humor, and of.

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<v Speaker 1>So, speaking of the movie, met the sweetest man on

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<v Speaker 1>the set of Your movie. His name was Sam is

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<v Speaker 1>that correct? His name is Sam Sat And had the

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<v Speaker 1>most lovely conversation with this man about family and all

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<v Speaker 1>the things, and so that just made me think because

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<v Speaker 1>he is the father of Justin Baldoni. So speaking of headlines,

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<v Speaker 1>and it just really had me thinking about everything that's

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<v Speaker 1>been in the headlines with him and Blake. But how

0:34:22.680 --> 0:34:25.160
<v Speaker 1>was that with the movie with him, did you I.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel like it was one of those things. Well, first

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<v Speaker 2>of all, it's like it's just so not my place

0:34:29.560 --> 0:34:35.920
<v Speaker 2>to be asking about it, you know, and I can't,

0:34:36.239 --> 0:34:38.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, there's just there's so many headlines and so

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<v Speaker 2>much stuff. But so it's just it's just it's not

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<v Speaker 2>my It wouldn't have been my place to even mention

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<v Speaker 2>it or say anything. But I got to know him

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<v Speaker 2>on a personal level, and he's fantastic, He's so sweet,

0:34:52.160 --> 0:34:55.120
<v Speaker 2>loves his family so much. He's an awesome, awesome producer

0:34:55.120 --> 0:34:57.440
<v Speaker 2>and guy. So he didn't produce that movie, but he

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<v Speaker 2>was there supporting our writer, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, I mean I very much enjoyed him. But

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<v Speaker 1>so let's talk about that headline.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm gonna step out of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I just need some clarification on everything that's happening.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand zero.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>I watched the movie.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, same, and I liked the movie. Loved the movie.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought they did agree too.

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<v Speaker 1>And then we had talked about, you know a while back,

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<v Speaker 1>about like the interviews and stuff where she was kind

0:35:25.239 --> 0:35:27.760
<v Speaker 1>of being like rude to the lady about the pregnant whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even fully understand what that had to do

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<v Speaker 1>with everything, and now it's just erupted into this hole

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<v Speaker 1>four hundred million back and forth. Right, So from there

0:35:38.680 --> 0:35:44.239
<v Speaker 1>that happens. Is he accusing her of being or we

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<v Speaker 1>just as a culture of finding these interviews at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean? Like, so right after the movie, right,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm trying to We have the movie, it

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<v Speaker 1>comes out, then we're all talking about, all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>how she's rude in all these interviews. Did that have

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<v Speaker 1>anything to do with him? Or was that us just

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<v Speaker 1>finding it after the movie? Does anyone know the answer

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<v Speaker 1>to that?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know the answer to that.

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<v Speaker 1>That has always kind of confused me, Like why did

0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:10.279
<v Speaker 1>we all start talking about her being rude in these

0:36:10.320 --> 0:36:13.880
<v Speaker 1>interviews right after? Okay? Right, so that kind of that

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<v Speaker 1>part kind of lost me.

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<v Speaker 2>So then.

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<v Speaker 1>Next is she's suing him. Yes, she sued him first

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<v Speaker 1>as due him first for sexual harassment, I believe, correct,

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<v Speaker 1>So sexual harassment. I'm like trying to make sure I

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<v Speaker 1>get all the facts to this whole thing. So that's

0:36:36.520 --> 0:36:39.520
<v Speaker 1>confused me. So she sued him, but now he has countersued.

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<v Speaker 2>Her, correct for that's four hundred million.

0:36:42.040 --> 0:36:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Is she suing him for four hunder millionaire?

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<v Speaker 2>He sued her and she's suing both of them? Is

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<v Speaker 2>that correct? Ryan and Blake? I believe so, And if

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<v Speaker 2>you hear the pauses, it's because we are looking and

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<v Speaker 2>producer chat to clarify for us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a lot, it's but it's all over the headlines. Yes,

0:37:02.320 --> 0:37:04.440
<v Speaker 1>it's a lot. It's a little overwhelming at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen a lot of whose side are you on?

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't even feel like people are asking, you know,

0:37:10.600 --> 0:37:12.719
<v Speaker 1>like taking polls, who side are you on? Who's this

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<v Speaker 1>Blake Live versus? And I'm like, I don't even think

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<v Speaker 1>I fully understand the entirety of this whole situation.

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<v Speaker 2>I do not understand the entirety. So something she's suing

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<v Speaker 2>him for something that happened during the movie, Is that correct?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? I believe the sexual harassment things during the movie

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<v Speaker 1>and things that were and he was a director on

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<v Speaker 1>the head I believe, so, Okay, But I think things

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<v Speaker 1>that were said, some things about intimacy coordinators, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. I know that she wait, according to.

0:37:47.120 --> 0:37:50.600
<v Speaker 2>Him, yeah, intimacy coordinator yeah, oh yeah, wait.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait And according to his yeah, according to his screen,

0:37:54.480 --> 0:37:57.360
<v Speaker 1>like his receipts. She didn't want to meet with the

0:37:57.360 --> 0:38:00.120
<v Speaker 1>intimacy coordinator, so that place.

0:38:00.120 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 2>Coordinator just go through like the scene, any scene that

0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:06.480
<v Speaker 2>is like sexual ish and tell me what that is.

0:38:06.560 --> 0:38:09.520
<v Speaker 2>Like anytime you have something that's like an intimate scene,

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<v Speaker 2>just like, yeah, you would have an intimacy coordinator be

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<v Speaker 2>like are you comfortable with this? Like let's like we

0:38:15.160 --> 0:38:17.400
<v Speaker 2>walk through it and be like okay, like you know,

0:38:18.400 --> 0:38:21.000
<v Speaker 2>does this feel okay to you? So that both people

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<v Speaker 2>feel comfortable with the scene that's about to take place

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<v Speaker 2>and they can have someone to kind of advocate for them. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that. Yeah, brilliant, Well lovely has that always been.

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<v Speaker 2>It's something that you can absolutely one thousand percent ask

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<v Speaker 2>for and most professional movies have them on great Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I like that. I've had them on a couple like

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<v Speaker 2>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's fascinating. I mean I don't know. That's what

0:38:48.040 --> 0:38:51.960
<v Speaker 1>we've heard a lot of exactly trying to piece together

0:38:52.040 --> 0:38:56.200
<v Speaker 1>all the information of this and unless actually factually absolutely

0:38:56.239 --> 0:38:59.000
<v Speaker 1>and what is actually happening, what the facts are the

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:02.799
<v Speaker 1>intimacy coordinator Where that plays in where it is important

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<v Speaker 1>that she turned it down versus what is being said.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't I don't fully understand the scope

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<v Speaker 1>of it, and I don't know that I can even

0:39:11.480 --> 0:39:14.000
<v Speaker 1>really fully take a stance because I don't even understand

0:39:14.040 --> 0:39:15.759
<v Speaker 1>the scope of all that's going on. But I was

0:39:15.800 --> 0:39:17.960
<v Speaker 1>just kind of curious if y'all knew a little bit

0:39:18.000 --> 0:39:20.560
<v Speaker 1>more about it, if you can help explain it to

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<v Speaker 1>me a.

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<v Speaker 2>Little bit more. I usually filter like everything through Preston.

0:39:25.640 --> 0:39:28.480
<v Speaker 2>He's my cliff note guy. Yeah, So like i'll because

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<v Speaker 2>I just can't. I don't have the capacity or I'm

0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 2>also like honestly sometimes like I don't know, I just

0:39:33.840 --> 0:39:36.840
<v Speaker 2>it's too much. So but he will even like anything

0:39:36.840 --> 0:39:39.960
<v Speaker 2>with policies anything, and then I filter all things school

0:39:39.960 --> 0:39:42.919
<v Speaker 2>and educating it. Yeah, but like he kind of tried

0:39:42.920 --> 0:39:44.279
<v Speaker 2>to lay it out, Fran and I was I got

0:39:44.480 --> 0:39:45.120
<v Speaker 2>just confused.

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<v Speaker 1>I usually know, this one's just really compluted. This one's

0:39:48.320 --> 0:39:49.600
<v Speaker 1>just it's a lot to it.

0:39:49.680 --> 0:39:52.360
<v Speaker 2>So it does feel like murky and noisy. Me just

0:39:52.360 --> 0:39:55.320
<v Speaker 2>feels like it's confusingly aware right now, I know it's everywhere.

0:39:57.040 --> 0:39:58.959
<v Speaker 1>Oh man, Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so when we get clarification, when we circle back,

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<v Speaker 2>is that what we want to do?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we'll circle back on that one. But what else

0:40:05.640 --> 0:40:07.320
<v Speaker 1>is going on? I feel like there's just been a lot.

0:40:07.800 --> 0:40:09.240
<v Speaker 2>Kat would you do over the break?

0:40:09.320 --> 0:40:10.040
<v Speaker 1>What did I do?

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<v Speaker 3>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't seen it a long time.

0:40:11.880 --> 0:40:13.919
<v Speaker 1>Kids and Enid, that was about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I like Cube Cube the best.

0:40:19.719 --> 0:40:20.600
<v Speaker 1>I love that game.

0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:24.480
<v Speaker 2>I don't love how to Play Well, Guys, that was

0:40:24.480 --> 0:40:26.959
<v Speaker 2>a good one. It's glad. I'm glad to be back.

0:40:27.080 --> 0:40:28.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm glad I think we're back together.

0:40:29.480 --> 0:40:35.600
<v Speaker 3>And should we just say, like, what do you do

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<v Speaker 3>you believe in saving receipts.

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<v Speaker 2>For just life? Yeah? I mean I want to. I

0:40:46.040 --> 0:40:47.399
<v Speaker 2>want to say no, but I know me.

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<v Speaker 1>One million percent. I can remember talking to my boss

0:40:51.840 --> 0:40:54.800
<v Speaker 1>years ago and as having a disagreement in him saying

0:40:54.880 --> 0:40:57.000
<v Speaker 1>pick up the phone and column, and I said, and

0:40:57.040 --> 0:40:59.439
<v Speaker 1>when you're in a position like I'm in, you want

0:40:59.480 --> 0:41:02.759
<v Speaker 1>it in writing. I mean, I just it is one

0:41:02.840 --> 0:41:05.480
<v Speaker 1>of those I have always. Yes, I love a phone call,

0:41:05.520 --> 0:41:07.239
<v Speaker 1>but guess what if something was covered on that phone call,

0:41:07.280 --> 0:41:08.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm also going to email you and make sure I

0:41:08.760 --> 0:41:09.640
<v Speaker 1>have a receipt about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think the re sech can be misread?

0:41:15.480 --> 0:41:21.000
<v Speaker 1>Misread in certain circumstances? Sure, And I'm not saying that

0:41:21.160 --> 0:41:26.440
<v Speaker 1>I am necessarily sarily an advocate for showing receipts publicly.

0:41:27.120 --> 0:41:29.400
<v Speaker 1>I just think that they sure can't protect you in

0:41:29.400 --> 0:41:31.640
<v Speaker 1>a situation like this. Do I need to see the

0:41:31.719 --> 0:41:36.200
<v Speaker 1>receipts of what happened between Blake and Justin? Yeah, but

0:41:36.239 --> 0:41:37.200
<v Speaker 1>that made me think of that.

0:41:37.360 --> 0:41:41.319
<v Speaker 2>It was like appliances or that's where I'm at, and

0:41:41.400 --> 0:41:43.120
<v Speaker 2>like I do actually because you just never know when

0:41:43.160 --> 0:41:44.600
<v Speaker 2>Maytag might need a moment.

0:41:44.440 --> 0:41:46.240
<v Speaker 1>But you never know when you're going to get sued

0:41:46.239 --> 0:41:47.920
<v Speaker 1>and you're going to need to have those receipts.

0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:50.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so don't. I'm huge.

0:41:50.480 --> 0:41:54.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm huge on having stuff in writing, which text life.

0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:58.880
<v Speaker 2>I haven't really either, like a conversation same. But you

0:41:58.920 --> 0:42:02.080
<v Speaker 2>know what's interesting is like I almost receded out something

0:42:02.200 --> 0:42:04.319
<v Speaker 2>gosh a few years ago. Oh boy, did I want

0:42:04.360 --> 0:42:07.960
<v Speaker 2>to so bad, like so bad because I was getting

0:42:08.480 --> 0:42:11.480
<v Speaker 2>dragged through some stuff that I was like, that is

0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:16.440
<v Speaker 2>not actually facts, Like that is not facts? Mad member

0:42:16.520 --> 0:42:21.440
<v Speaker 2>sitting with Catherine being like I and this publication was like,

0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:24.239
<v Speaker 2>well you can because I sent them the receipt and

0:42:24.280 --> 0:42:29.200
<v Speaker 2>I said, here's the actual proof that that's not factual,

0:42:29.719 --> 0:42:31.239
<v Speaker 2>and she goes, well you can post that, and I

0:42:31.280 --> 0:42:33.839
<v Speaker 2>was like, because you want me to, that's drama for them,

0:42:33.880 --> 0:42:34.759
<v Speaker 2>you and pick up. Oh.

0:42:34.800 --> 0:42:38.400
<v Speaker 3>I mean I was sreaming on the I mean screaming,

0:42:38.760 --> 0:42:40.040
<v Speaker 3>and the path's like, calmed down.

0:42:40.040 --> 0:42:43.120
<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, it's not you. It's just frustrating.

0:42:42.600 --> 0:42:45.160
<v Speaker 3>Life, right, And I have the receipt right there, and

0:42:45.160 --> 0:42:47.799
<v Speaker 3>you're gonna run something that's not freaking true, right.

0:42:48.800 --> 0:42:50.800
<v Speaker 2>I was so pissed.

0:42:51.000 --> 0:42:53.200
<v Speaker 3>Well, it's like that when I was like someone that's it,

0:42:53.280 --> 0:42:57.279
<v Speaker 3>Like this is like this is exactly what these publications want.

0:42:57.360 --> 0:43:00.880
<v Speaker 3>You want the fucking drama, right, and you want me

0:43:00.920 --> 0:43:03.399
<v Speaker 3>to post this, that's right. I'll just keep it going,

0:43:03.600 --> 0:43:06.400
<v Speaker 3>bringing back and that's the thing. And like my publicist

0:43:06.520 --> 0:43:09.200
<v Speaker 3>and her was like and Catherine was like, this will

0:43:09.320 --> 0:43:11.640
<v Speaker 3>just continue it and I'm like, and you're going to

0:43:11.680 --> 0:43:13.440
<v Speaker 3>be feeding what they want. And I'm like, but it's

0:43:13.480 --> 0:43:16.399
<v Speaker 3>going to make this person look like they win and

0:43:16.440 --> 0:43:17.480
<v Speaker 3>that's killing me.

0:43:18.200 --> 0:43:21.040
<v Speaker 2>Like that's killing me.

0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:25.360
<v Speaker 3>And and I was like, but I'm but I'm I

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:26.920
<v Speaker 3>had to go to the like I know the truth

0:43:27.680 --> 0:43:29.799
<v Speaker 3>and swallow it and let it die.

0:43:30.120 --> 0:43:32.720
<v Speaker 2>Oh. But it was the hardest thing ever. I also

0:43:32.880 --> 0:43:36.800
<v Speaker 2>just know, like I know, like I know vindication comes

0:43:36.800 --> 0:43:39.360
<v Speaker 2>and we do not have to always. I'm like, you

0:43:39.360 --> 0:43:40.839
<v Speaker 2>know what it's and that's the thing. I'm like, and

0:43:40.880 --> 0:43:43.160
<v Speaker 2>I've recently I got don't know how when I was

0:43:43.239 --> 0:43:46.239
<v Speaker 2>like scrolling back in certain things, I ended up just

0:43:46.480 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 2>getting rid of everything because I'm like, it doesn't I

0:43:48.760 --> 0:43:50.840
<v Speaker 2>was like, it'll all come back the way it's supposed

0:43:50.880 --> 0:43:53.239
<v Speaker 2>to wash out, not with me anymore, because I'm long

0:43:53.320 --> 0:43:55.960
<v Speaker 2>removed from that situation. That's right, But it'll come back

0:43:56.120 --> 0:43:58.960
<v Speaker 2>to them in a different situation somewhere else. I don't

0:43:58.960 --> 0:44:00.720
<v Speaker 2>need to be the one and I'm I'm so glad

0:44:00.840 --> 0:44:03.200
<v Speaker 2>I did not put something out. Yeah, do you want

0:44:03.239 --> 0:44:04.920
<v Speaker 2>to have a manager appreciation moment?

0:44:05.920 --> 0:44:08.120
<v Speaker 1>Well, here's the thing. I do want to say that

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<v Speaker 1>if that were me personally, I don't know that I

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<v Speaker 1>could have taken my own advice. I will be the

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<v Speaker 1>first to say that I know what the right thing

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<v Speaker 1>in that situation is to do. But let me not

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<v Speaker 1>say if I were you, it would have been really

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<v Speaker 1>freaking hard for me not to trust me. I love

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<v Speaker 1>a receipt and I don't like my name being like

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<v Speaker 1>muddied any more than anyone else. So the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you were able to show that restraint is huge and

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<v Speaker 1>I give that to you because that is what needed

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<v Speaker 1>to happen. But on the flip side, I wouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>blamed you for a second for putting it out there.

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<v Speaker 1>But it just it just keeps it going, and it

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<v Speaker 1>makes it more miserable for you and for and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just not worth it. But yeah, you're out of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and the watch.

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<v Speaker 2>It always gets cleaned eventually, eventually. But anyways, leopard never

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<v Speaker 2>changes its spot. I hope they do. I have Well,

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<v Speaker 2>you're not a lesser thing. I hope you're not a leopard.

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<v Speaker 2>Well listen, we've all like you know, and I think people,

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<v Speaker 2>and this is what I'll always go back to. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have hate for a single person in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>I really don't. And I think everyone has the ability

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<v Speaker 2>to change. I've changed, I've grown so much, and I

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<v Speaker 2>continue to grow. I continue to change, I continue to

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<v Speaker 2>learn and.

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<v Speaker 3>Like and I pray for those people that you know

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<v Speaker 3>did wrong or did bad or whatever to be able

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<v Speaker 3>that they're growing and they're happy. And I think some

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<v Speaker 3>people together are just oil and water.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, you know what I mean, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly, So I'm like, some people just don't mix well together.

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<v Speaker 3>Some people are just really unhealthy at that time together,

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<v Speaker 3>and everyone's off. I'll have like and I want everyone

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<v Speaker 3>to be freaking happy.

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<v Speaker 2>I have like zero. That's why I'm like, I have

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<v Speaker 2>no issues.

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<v Speaker 3>Like if I ran into the people that hated me that,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, I hope that they can meet me in

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<v Speaker 3>this version. Now I hope to meet them in that version.

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<v Speaker 3>So I hope, you know, for all all love and

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<v Speaker 3>all change and all like we all all are allowed that,

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<v Speaker 3>and I hope everyone's great. And I do believe that

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<v Speaker 3>people can change, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Also will continue to make mistakes. People make mistakes. That's

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<v Speaker 1>who we are. We are hearings, people make mistakes.

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<v Speaker 2>Gel together.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like sometimes you sit in the cars and people,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, this person's give me my friend.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean. But you're really good. You're

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<v Speaker 2>really good at that. You'll be like, oh, I'm glad

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<v Speaker 2>you guys connect Like that doesn't hurt your feelings. Glad

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<v Speaker 2>she does. She said it to me, glad you connect.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, anyway, well I die, I just

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<v Speaker 2>die because I I it's just so like it's so certain.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not like because I was like, wait, whoa I didn't,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and she's like, I'm glad you and I

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<v Speaker 2>think she didn't really meant it, and I was like, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>that is. But it's also like when we talked about,

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<v Speaker 2>you know how you're like I dated someone, I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>those guys not right for me, but the person would

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<v Speaker 2>be great for Julie. I'm like, oh no, no, no, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>You're really good about that. Thanks. I think that's how

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<v Speaker 2>you survived in l A. Yeah, like I think that world,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, that industry is just your industry is you

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<v Speaker 2>have to be that way. I mean, I just believe

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<v Speaker 2>in that, you know, I believe that Mike's new he's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be great for his new girlfriend. We just

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<v Speaker 2>were terrible together, you know. I love that you believe

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<v Speaker 2>that about him. Anyways, let's