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Speaker 1: Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio.

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Speaker 2: Podcast We're Back.

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Speaker 1: I missed you guys.

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Speaker 2: Guys, if I could vote someone most excited to be back,

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Speaker 2: I want to sit on your laps. I missed you

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Speaker 2: guys a lot. Yeah, I miss you too. Like even

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Speaker 2: my body language is aggressive. You say the word and

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Speaker 2: I will sit right there.

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Speaker 1: I'm like in a corner. Even more award if.

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Speaker 2: We took tech tooe three in a row on this

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Speaker 2: scout for the whole podcast, because I just want to

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Speaker 2: touch you both. I just want to see your face.

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Speaker 2: Is that you want to eat space? That's a sweet way, No,

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Speaker 2: I said, I said, I want to see your face.

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Speaker 2: I know, which means you want space from I on

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Speaker 2: the camera. But I missed you guys. It's been a

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Speaker 2: minute since we've all sat here because it's like this

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Speaker 2: person was sick and then the kid was sick and holiday.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's just that time of year, so hard.

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Speaker 1: But we're all back. We're all back. We're all here.

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Speaker 1: I miss you like you got kicked off. No, got

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Speaker 1: kicked off?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah. Listeners are genuinely concerned. I've been hired. They're like,

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Speaker 2: are you still mind down? I was like, yeah, I

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Speaker 2: think so. It has been a minute. Let me think

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Speaker 2: about those. Yeah, I'm so so. This is this a

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Speaker 2: contract renewal discussion?

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Speaker 1: New Year?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, new Year? I just miss you. You had a movie. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it was so fun to be able to do a

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Speaker 2: movie top of the year. Oh good, like good for

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Speaker 2: your heart. It was good. It was really good. Good.

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Speaker 2: Catherine came along for how many nights were you there?

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Speaker 1: Three? Three year?

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Speaker 2: This is a total sidebar, but Catherine will understand this.

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Speaker 2: We played a lot of games for those three nights.

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Speaker 2: I introduced Monopoly Go Ordeal to Alan last night.

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Speaker 1: What is this game?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? But I almost took a picture and was like, Catherine,

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Speaker 2: come come over.

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Speaker 1: I'm proud.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're played Monopoly, deal I haven't. But I

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Speaker 2: love Monopoly. It's even better. Okay, it's just harder, Yeah

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Speaker 2: it's quicker. Yeah. It just made me think of us

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Speaker 2: in our time in Enid, Oklahoma. Sweet people. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: they were great, very sweet people. But you guys, I

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Speaker 2: got tell you what I fell in love with Oklahoma City?

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Speaker 2: You did.

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Speaker 3: I love Oklahoma City. If I could do a movie

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Speaker 3: there again, I would love it because there's so much

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Speaker 3: to do there. For not only kids, like their zoo

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Speaker 3: and their science museum fabulous of the fast zoos and

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Speaker 3: science museums I've ever been to. So good, so good,

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Speaker 3: and the food amazing.

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Speaker 1: Oh good.

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Speaker 2: I hope you like Okross, I didn't didn't have any.

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Speaker 1: Well, don't I do that there?

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Speaker 2: I don't know, it's a while. Well, I used to.

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Speaker 2: That used to be part of my territory when I

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Speaker 2: was on the label, so I was there a lot,

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Speaker 2: but I wasn't going to zoos. I just was managing them.

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Speaker 2: It's time to be alive. But yeah, like, I feel

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Speaker 2: bad that you didn't get to witness that part of Oklahoma's.

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Speaker 1: Okay because I feel like we knew what this time

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Speaker 1: was going to be, and it was literally sitting in

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Speaker 1: a hotel room and like playing games, and that's what

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Speaker 1: I was prepared for. That's what I wanted. I loved it.

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Speaker 2: The funniest part that was we were on set and

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Speaker 2: I was telling they were asking me kind of what's next,

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Speaker 2: and I said, oh, I've got a movie in San

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Speaker 2: Antonio for a couple of weeks and then we're filming

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Speaker 2: in the Bahamas Ish area.

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Speaker 1: Goes, I'm sorry, what, Yeah, when you brought me to

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Speaker 1: Enid and you're going to the Bama Oky.

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Speaker 2: And O no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: I got a promise out of this one for sticking through.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, you know what, apologies, so you

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Speaker 1: It wasn't And let me just say it wasn't that

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Speaker 1: it was Enid. I love small town not having a

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Speaker 1: lot to do. I'm great with that. It was freezing

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Speaker 1: that That's really what it was about. I was not prepared.

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Speaker 1: I had to go to the Walmart and buy gloves

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Speaker 1: and like all the things because I just didn't realize

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Speaker 1: with me so cold.

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Speaker 2: You looked really cute though my face timed in. You

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Speaker 2: looked like a little you looked like you were a

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Speaker 1: I mean, hey, I stood out there. I did get

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Speaker 1: in the heating car a lot, but I stood out there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah he did. I mean it was it was freezing

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Speaker 2: and she's out there just freezing her little buns off.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, okay, you can go in the heating car.

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Speaker 1: If they can do it and save these lines and

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Speaker 1: less clothes than me, I can stand out here.

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Speaker 2: At a girl. But you are so like, what a friend. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Michigan girls will dig deep if we have to. But

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Speaker 2: that I mean, that's all. That's cool. Okay. I left

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Speaker 2: when I was eighteen. My blood has since that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a she loves the sun.

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Speaker 2: I love, I love, And I started to get the

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Speaker 2: sads this week. Why this is the cold? Oh oh

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Speaker 2: that's yeah, that's it's starting to sink in. Yeah, and

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Speaker 2: it's sunny here. It's just really coold. Like you can't

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Speaker 2: go for a while. Y'all know, it's snowed at thirty A. Yeah, everywhere.

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Speaker 2: Houston Airport shut down.

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Speaker 1: There's snow on the beach.

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Speaker 2: Guys, that's so cool though. I think I would love

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Speaker 2: to see that. I think that's really cool. You can

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Speaker 2: go to northern Michigan anytime, right, But like.

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Speaker 1: I'm from here and I'm going to Florida, and I

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Speaker 1: don't usually see the snow on the beach, so that's right.

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Speaker 1: I mean I have obviously, but I think that's just

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Speaker 1: I think it's cool.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think snow's charming. It's over for me.

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Speaker 2: I like it for about a month. Yeah, I like

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Speaker 2: it for kids love it for twenty minutes. You do

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Speaker 2: twenty minutes of getting everything on and then you hands side.

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Speaker 2: Where's Ma'm yeah, your friends that invited us to veil

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Speaker 2: and I ooh, that's amazing, I said, And they're like, no,

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Speaker 2: if you have the right stuff, you stay warm. And

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Speaker 2: I'm like, it doesn't I if you mad, I feel trapped.

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Speaker 2: I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: So where have you been? What have you been doing? Like,

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen you.

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Speaker 2: I feel like you've been.

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Speaker 1: You did have a birthday.

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Speaker 2: Forty three birthday, h which, by the way, you just disappear.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because y'all know this really cute thing. You came

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Speaker 3: let's go surprise Yeah, Kristin at her house, do the

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Speaker 3: whole thing. Because it was so sweet what y'all did

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Speaker 3: for me. I wanted to do the same back. And uh,

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Speaker 3: I'm really glad I texted you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she was ready to go.

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Speaker 2: She's she's here. I'm like, wait, what cats on? Fine?

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Speaker 2: My friends. Yeah, we just did a little quick trip

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Speaker 2: to Tampa. I took the kids to Universal. It was

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Speaker 2: like sweet, okay, yeah, we feeling about forty three. I

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Speaker 2: year so far. Really, Oh, I'm I don't know. I'm

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Speaker 2: I don't, I don't know. I really don't know. There's

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Speaker 2: my other girlfriend turned forty three four days after me,

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Speaker 2: and I said, there's just like this, like an empowerment

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Speaker 2: falling out still in there? Yeah, I just feel great.

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Speaker 2: So had a birthday, my little podcast that could that

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Speaker 2: That's it, guys. Really, I think that's that. Did I

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Speaker 2: miss anything? I didn't film a movie, so I feel

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Speaker 2: a little lack luster. But I just had a birthday.

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Speaker 2: That's it, you guys. Can I just tell you how

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Speaker 2: cool Martin Sheen is though? Oh okay, the most loveliest

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Speaker 2: human you've ever met. He's so great, he's so funny.

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Speaker 2: There's this scene where I'm supposed to be just bawling,

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Speaker 2: right and Martin's in the scene, and I can't really

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Speaker 2: But and he's comes over in the scene and just

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Speaker 2: And how do you do this? What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: How do you cry? Do you think of something sad? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Pretend Cat's a friend, right now?

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Speaker 1: What do you think of?

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it is like you, I'm fascinated because you can

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Speaker 3: If you if you think of any trauma that you've

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Speaker 3: And in those moments to cry? And that was you

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Speaker 3: find it from whether either's childhood or past traumas of.

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Speaker 3: So I'm not going to say exactly what it was,

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Speaker 3: but the uh in that scene, it was tough because

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Speaker 3: we're all just like laughing. But this one just this

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Speaker 3: had this like moment where it's like I love Martin Sheen,

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Speaker 3: like I love him. American President was one of my

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Speaker 1: Is so cool, like a pinch me moment, literally.

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Speaker 2: Acting with someone that I like love so much, grew

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Speaker 2: it out of the apartment. It was almost like I'm

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Speaker 2: like he's watching you, you know, like he's he who

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Speaker 2: He comes and like puts his hand like on my arm,

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Speaker 2: and then it was just like a sob you know.

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Speaker 2: And then but it but like in even the scene,

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Speaker 3: Charging, headline charge you all know that is a disaster zone.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then they then he gave her like this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was gross. I didn't like anything about that story.

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Speaker 1: do we really need to know all of this about

430
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Speaker 1: all of art? Like we know so much about celebrities now,

431
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,040
Speaker 1: like do we need to know this much about them?

432
00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 1: But on the flip side, it's her choice. She decided

433
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 1: to tell it so well.

434
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Speaker 2: I also kind of do like it in the way

435
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 2: that I'm like, I wouldn't have thought to have a

436
00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:56,280
Speaker 2: conversation with my doctor about anything extra heat or she

437
00:21:56,359 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 2: might throw in well because that's not normal, right, But

438
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 2: like because of this, but I.

439
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:01,800
Speaker 3: Feel like it's a little bit more normal than we

440
00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 3: might think, like just what happened with our friend too,

441
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:05,560
Speaker 3: things that like.

442
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:08,000
Speaker 2: Maybe a bit of an a to me. Yeah, I

443
00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:11,439
Speaker 2: appreciate coming from Brooks Labia who knew Serve from the bottom.

444
00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: Now we're here, which is like, are we really talking

445
00:22:17,520 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 1: about a Labia today?

446
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:18,680
Speaker 2: Okay?

447
00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:20,640
Speaker 1: But I mean I feel for her though, I mean,

448
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:21,520
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong.

449
00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 2: Basically, when you go into a procedure and make sure

450
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,679
Speaker 2: that's the only thing that's happening, such a helpless feeling.

451
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:32,359
Speaker 2: You're asleep, right, exactly weird? Yeah, I don't like No,

452
00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 2: I don't like it.

453
00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my good all No, what else is going

454
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,160
Speaker 1: on in the headlines? There's a lot right now.

455
00:22:39,080 --> 00:22:40,880
Speaker 2: There is. I meant to ask you another question about

456
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 2: the movie. Okay, can we go back to it real quick? Sure,

457
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:47,080
Speaker 2: I forgot we got distracted, Okay, trauma. Was there any

458
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 2: like lovey scenes? Can we know that? Lovey scenes?

459
00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 3: Uh?

460
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:54,840
Speaker 2: Huh? Between me and my husband in the movie the

461
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 2: movie Husband, Yes, movie Husband? There was zero? Okay, I

462
00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,440
Speaker 2: wonder I always like to get an allan temperature check.

463
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 2: Not even a kiss scene? Oh yeah, I will you

464
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 2: like kissed my forehead? That was about intimate holdly handing scenes. Yeah,

465
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:12,960
Speaker 2: but yeah, it wasn't. It was a it's a Christian film.

466
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:16,160
Speaker 2: Sweet uh huh. It was very sweet. But yeah, he's

467
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:16,800
Speaker 2: he was lovely.

468
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:22,439
Speaker 3: He was great, great, really really nice guy, great actor,

469
00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 3: and it's so nice, you know guys. It was difficult though,

470
00:23:28,640 --> 00:23:31,560
Speaker 3: because I was playing like a mom, even.

471
00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:34,480
Speaker 2: Though I am a mom. It was hard because she

472
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 2: was I know, Catherine always makes fun of me, but

473
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 2: she was my daughter's older in this, and so I

474
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:40,800
Speaker 2: had that moment like, oh my gosh, I'm aging to

475
00:23:40,880 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 2: like just the mom characters. Now.

476
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:44,640
Speaker 1: She's like, I'm not old enough to have a child,

477
00:23:44,680 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, I fifteen year old writer. But

478
00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:52,919
Speaker 1: I get it that that would seem until you're I mean,

479
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 1: I still don't feel like I'm old enough to have

480
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: a fifteen year old. So I get it, like we

481
00:23:55,600 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 1: don't feel like we're that old, you.

482
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Speaker 2: Know, I think right now? Yeah, I just it's like

483
00:24:01,440 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 2: out of body to tell you it's forty three. Yeah, yeah,

484
00:24:04,800 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: And a lot of the things that I audition for,

485
00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,280
Speaker 2: so like today I have an audition for something that's

486
00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:11,160
Speaker 2: like mid forties, but I don't I still can't really

487
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 2: like play that age yet. And so it's just it's

488
00:24:15,640 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 2: just it's just weird.

489
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 3: I am trying to figure that, like, that's just it's

490
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 3: just weirder for me.

491
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I wonder sticking to the more like the mid

492
00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 2: thirty rules. I wondered because I watch a lot of

493
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 2: Jane Fonda, what that somehow does not surprise me? It does?

494
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:36,959
Speaker 2: I love her so much, and I just always wonder, like,

495
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 2: as a career, you know, actor, how it feels to

496
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,920
Speaker 2: age up, like, you know, as they age you up,

497
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,320
Speaker 2: and you're like, suddenly you're the grandmother. Like some of

498
00:24:46,359 --> 00:24:48,520
Speaker 2: these women playing these grandmother roles. I'm like, you know

499
00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 2: they're playing them young even, right, And I'm like, oh,

500
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 2: that probably doesn't feel too good for the like yeah,

501
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:57,479
Speaker 2: esteem or something. Yeah, it's interesting. I have a question answer.

502
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Speaker 1: So, you posted while you were at the movie that

503
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: you had given Jolie a phone. Uh huh while you

504
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: were gone?

505
00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:04,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

506
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 1: Did you get any positive or negative feedback for posting that?

507
00:25:08,560 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 4: You know?

508
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,920
Speaker 3: What's interesting is I got so many women reaching out

509
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:13,639
Speaker 3: to me, thank you for actually bringing that up. I have.

510
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,240
Speaker 2: I had a lot of women reaching out to me

511
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,159
Speaker 2: because I'd mentioned that I don't let them have their

512
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 2: iPads anymore. And that was the number one DM was

513
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 2: how did you do it?

514
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 1: Oh wow?

515
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 2: Not why did she have a phone?

516
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 3: Like, because I explained in there that I gave her

517
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 3: the phone because she's not allowed they don't have the

518
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:36,200
Speaker 3: iPad anymore. And that was I mean, And it wasn't

519
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 3: like why, it was how.

520
00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 2: Did you do it? Oh? Cool? And I loved that.

521
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah, I just wondered when you saw it?

522
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 1: When you posted it. I wondered if you got any

523
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:45,840
Speaker 1: hate for that.

524
00:25:46,600 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 3: I feel like I didn't, just because I was able

525
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 3: to say and I'm I'm like, it's only for the

526
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 3: two weeks. I'm getting it back when she comes back.

527
00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 1: Did you feel like you had to justify yourself that?

528
00:25:55,840 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 2: Yeah?

529
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: I found that interesting. Yeah, I mean I get it.

530
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 1: I'm not saying, but I also, to an extent, wish

531
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 1: you didn't feel like you have to have to justify

532
00:26:04,800 --> 00:26:07,800
Speaker 1: yourself so much. But maybe it kept you from getting hate.

533
00:26:07,840 --> 00:26:08,479
Speaker 1: And there you go.

534
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 3: I agree that I don't like the justification part of things.

535
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,520
Speaker 3: Having said that, for me, I I don't want people

536
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:18,960
Speaker 3: I guess I don't want people to think that she's

537
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:22,080
Speaker 3: allowed to phone that young, sure, because I don't personally

538
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: believe in it at this age.

539
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 2: Sure, so, yeah, cares your world less noisy if you

540
00:26:28,280 --> 00:26:29,639
Speaker 2: can just get out in front of it maybe a

541
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:30,720
Speaker 2: little bit and just say it.

542
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, for sure, I mean I agree, I just yeah,

543
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:35,639
Speaker 1: there is that part of me that's like, man, I

544
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,440
Speaker 1: wish you didn't have to, you know, like.

545
00:26:38,359 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 2: Brookshields Laviya right exactly.

546
00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:44,159
Speaker 1: You know, sometimes we just Yeah, how did she do

547
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 1: within the phone being taken away or like being done.

548
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,919
Speaker 3: With totally fine, right, Yeah, there was zero issues with it,

549
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:54,720
Speaker 3: and yeah it was it was good and I and

550
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 3: I had to obviously talk to Mike about it because.

551
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:00,480
Speaker 2: You know, it's.

552
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 3: A technical you know, it's a phone and all the things.

553
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,080
Speaker 3: And I said that, you know, here what I would

554
00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 3: love the rules to be, and followed pretty well. I

555
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 3: mean it was you know, the reason we got rid

556
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:15,919
Speaker 3: of the iPads in the very beginning was because the

557
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 3: overuse on his part of it.

558
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: And sorry not to pause, we're just real fast. So

559
00:27:22,800 --> 00:27:25,160
Speaker 1: iPads are gone in both homes, yes, got it?

560
00:27:25,800 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 2: Yeah?

561
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:31,399
Speaker 3: Uh And so once we had basically a come to

562
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:36,560
Speaker 3: Jesus about it about how it was overused, and then

563
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 3: when they came here, it was the I'm board and

564
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 3: I want you know, it's like the all the whole things.

565
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 3: We just said, okay, we agreed no more iPads, but

566
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 3: with the phone stuff. You know, I was like, this

567
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 3: is kind of why, because I don't want to be

568
00:27:50,760 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 3: blowing up your phone. I don't want to be texting

569
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 3: him all the time. Can I talk to the kids.

570
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 3: It's like that whole conversation. So, you know, it was

571
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 3: just mornings text me before you go to bed and

572
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 3: then when you get home from school. Yeah, and it

573
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 3: worked great, great, so I think we'll implement that again.

574
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 3: But there was no phone, like, no games on the phone,

575
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:10,160
Speaker 3: no anything else.

576
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, so yeah, it's great.

577
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 2: It really did work out great.

578
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 1: I like it.

579
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 3: And then personally with the iPad thing, like just for

580
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 3: us because I've gotten our friend Sarah Boyd reached out

581
00:28:22,119 --> 00:28:23,879
Speaker 3: and she was like, how did you get rid of

582
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 3: the iPad? And it's like it was a struggle in

583
00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 3: the very beginning. And I will say this. They have

584
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:31,320
Speaker 3: it for airplanes. They had it during Scotland when they

585
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 3: were sick, like that was our way to And I

586
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:34,520
Speaker 3: understand why.

587
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 2: It's it's the best. You know why why my parents

588
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 2: use it? I totally get it.

589
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 3: There's so many times I want to be like, just

590
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,600
Speaker 3: watch your iPad, you know. I kind of now it's

591
00:28:44,640 --> 00:28:47,160
Speaker 3: probably I guess that we limit a lot of TV too.

592
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 3: But for Jolie, iPads is like the worst thing she

593
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,760
Speaker 3: could possibly have. She's so addicted. And I saw how

594
00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,640
Speaker 3: addicted she became to it and just how often they

595
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 3: would ask. I mean, it drove me nuts. And then

596
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 3: with Jays too, it was he didn't really care, but

597
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 3: then he I could just see the like the addiction

598
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 3: forming in him, and there's so much more creative now.

599
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 3: They don't ask for it, they don't say they're bored anymore.

600
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 3: Like it's been fantastic great. Yeah, we so good.

601
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 2: Legend has the same addictive part of it, and I

602
00:29:18,000 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 2: actually we took it away a long time ago because

603
00:29:21,080 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 2: I don't like how he acts. I do not like

604
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 2: the version of my son that has been on an

605
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 2: iPad and we do like we've had like reading eggs

606
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,600
Speaker 2: and we do that on there sometimes, or like I'm

607
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: trying to think. He loves garage band, so I do

608
00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 2: let him have it for garage band because he's likes

609
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 2: to create the beats, but I do not. I do

610
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 2: not appreciate how he acts, like it really affects his

611
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 2: behavior a lot.

612
00:29:42,200 --> 00:29:44,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, I can see. I can agree with you on that.

613
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 3: When Jace was playing that Roblocks game, the kind of

614
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 3: like anger and just more aggression I saw from that too.

615
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just don't like him tuned out from the world.

616
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 2: And I have like a good software system on ours

617
00:29:56,880 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 2: that lets me like govern everything. But but even then

618
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 2: I just was like I just didn't and it had

619
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: a timer go off. I mean they were only allowed

620
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:06,800
Speaker 2: like thirty minutes or something when they would use it,

621
00:30:07,440 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 2: and it wasn't every day, but I still even he'd

622
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 2: be like, can you can you give me more time?

623
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,720
Speaker 2: And I'm like, no, actually, this is over. Yeah, You're

624
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 2: just a better dude without it, I think. But I

625
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 2: did integrate it into their world a little. So they're

626
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,120
Speaker 2: savvy enough to know because I you know, that is

627
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 2: their world unfortunately. Yeah, so I didn't want them to

628
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 2: like be hindered in the technology piece. Yeah. I mean,

629
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: you guys remember when the old computer fired up when

630
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: we played organ Trail. Yeah, I mean it's still time

631
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 2: to walk.

632
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 3: I mean I let Jolie have the monitor phone, the

633
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 3: phone that she used, you know to make her fake

634
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 3: little YouTube videos like I'll, you know, if they want

635
00:30:39,280 --> 00:30:40,479
Speaker 3: to be creative like that.

636
00:30:40,720 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm fine with that. It's just the games really

637
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 2: bug me.

638
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not just because of Mic and the games, right,

639
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 3: I realized, and I just see like where they go.

640
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like we did an old school Tetris

641
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:54,720
Speaker 2: for Christmas, like just the handhod, just the Tetris, and

642
00:30:54,760 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 2: that was awesome. But I'm with you I don't like

643
00:30:57,280 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 2: it either, and I also just can't like the due

644
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 2: diligence of that out each game exhausted me too, and

645
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm to talk about the chat room stuff.

646
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 2: I was like, we're out. Yeah, we never did any

647
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,640
Speaker 2: even thing that did that, and I got annoyed because

648
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 2: then the advertisements would come in and it's like a

649
00:31:11,280 --> 00:31:14,400
Speaker 2: random other game and I just I don't know, it's all.

650
00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:15,600
Speaker 1: It's a lot.

651
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:20,440
Speaker 3: But again, no judgment for parents that use it. It's

652
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Speaker 3: like I understand how great of a tool it is,

653
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 3: and it's can be great for people too, other kids,

654
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Speaker 3: and so it's just not.

655
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 2: Didn't work for us. But also it's kind of like

656
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 2: mentioning things like this is sometimes people shove to be like, oh,

657
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Speaker 2: I can do it. That was probably the most interaction

658
00:31:33,760 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 2: I got when I posted about it, most interaction I've

659
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 2: had with people, because people were like, wait, like I

660
00:31:39,240 --> 00:31:42,600
Speaker 2: think they just need the it feels unattainable or overwhelming

661
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: to them.

662
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Speaker 3: I think I created the problem with Jolie though, because

663
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 3: when she stopped napping her quiet time, we'd give her

664
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 3: iPad for two hours in her room, So that became

665
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 3: and I didn't do that with Jays and I was

666
00:31:54,160 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 3: and he didn't, so maybe so maybe I created that.

667
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 3: But at this kind of stuff like he was, it

668
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 3: was my only one and it was just easy, like

669
00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 3: take your iPad so I can do some you know

670
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 3: what I mean.

671
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:09,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's what be honest to get d Yeah.

672
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: All kids are just so different one on things. You know,

673
00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 1: people zone in, kids zone in differently, you know, just

674
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:18,480
Speaker 1: everybody's different.

675
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like love can watch a night pat or like

676
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 2: do a game on there and be fine. And I'm

677
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 2: like when it was times up, she was like cool, Yeah,

678
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: legend typical LEGI negotiating, Yeah, every second.

679
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean my kids will still ask for like

680
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 1: more time on their phones. Yes, my teenagers have time

681
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: on their phone. So I'm like, should have used it wisely.

682
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 4: Like that.

683
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 1: Sorry about it.

684
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 2: Hi, I'm Kristin Davis and I want to know. Are

685
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Speaker 2: you a Charlotte?

686
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 4: In nineteen ninety seven, my life was forever changed when

687
00:32:55,840 --> 00:32:58,080
Speaker 4: I took on the role of Charlotte Yorke on a

688
00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,000
Speaker 4: new HBO show called Sex in the City. As we

689
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 4: watched Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte navigate relationships in New

690
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:09,360
Speaker 4: York City, the show helped push once unacceptable conversation topics

691
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Speaker 4: out of the shadows and altered the narrative around women

692
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Speaker 4: and sex.

693
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Speaker 2: We all saw ourselves.

694
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Speaker 4: In them as they searched for fulfillment in life, sex

695
00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 4: and friendships. Now I want to connect with you and

696
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 4: share untold stories and all the behind the scenes together

697
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 4: with special guests. What will begin with sex and the

698
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 4: city will evolve into talks about themes that are still

699
00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 4: so relevant today. Are You a Charlotte is a much

700
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:35,920
Speaker 4: more than just rewatching our beloved show.

701
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: It brings the past and the.

702
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Speaker 4: Present together as we talk with heart, humor, and of.

703
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Speaker 2: Course some optimism.

704
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Speaker 4: Listen to Are You a Charlotte on the iHeartRadio app,

705
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Speaker 4: Apple Podcast or wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 1: So, speaking of the movie, met the sweetest man on

707
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Speaker 1: the set of Your movie. His name was Sam is

708
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 1: that correct? His name is Sam Sat And had the

709
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: most lovely conversation with this man about family and all

710
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: the things, and so that just made me think because

711
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: he is the father of Justin Baldoni. So speaking of headlines,

712
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 1: and it just really had me thinking about everything that's

713
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 1: been in the headlines with him and Blake. But how

714
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Speaker 1: was that with the movie with him, did you I.

715
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 2: Feel like it was one of those things. Well, first

716
00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 2: of all, it's like it's just so not my place

717
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 2: to be asking about it, you know, and I can't,

718
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,640
Speaker 2: you know, there's just there's so many headlines and so

719
00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 2: much stuff. But so it's just it's just it's not

720
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Speaker 2: my It wouldn't have been my place to even mention

721
00:34:45,560 --> 00:34:47,959
Speaker 2: it or say anything. But I got to know him

722
00:34:48,280 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 2: on a personal level, and he's fantastic, He's so sweet,

723
00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 2: loves his family so much. He's an awesome, awesome producer

724
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 2: and guy. So he didn't produce that movie, but he

725
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:01,280
Speaker 2: was there supporting our writer, and.

726
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 1: So yeah, I mean I very much enjoyed him. But

727
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: so let's talk about that headline.

728
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:08,120
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna step out of that.

729
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:12,440
Speaker 1: I just need some clarification on everything that's happening.

730
00:35:12,640 --> 00:35:13,720
Speaker 2: I understand zero.

731
00:35:14,040 --> 00:35:14,360
Speaker 1: Okay.

732
00:35:14,520 --> 00:35:15,960
Speaker 2: I watched the movie.

733
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, same, and I liked the movie. Loved the movie.

734
00:35:18,680 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 2: I thought they did agree too.

735
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 1: And then we had talked about, you know a while back,

736
00:35:22,960 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 1: about like the interviews and stuff where she was kind

737
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,760
Speaker 1: of being like rude to the lady about the pregnant whatever.

738
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 1: I didn't even fully understand what that had to do

739
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,200
Speaker 1: with everything, and now it's just erupted into this hole

740
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:38,280
Speaker 1: four hundred million back and forth. Right, So from there

741
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 1: that happens. Is he accusing her of being or we

742
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: just as a culture of finding these interviews at the time,

743
00:35:47,920 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like, so right after the movie, right,

744
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,839
Speaker 1: that's what I'm trying to We have the movie, it

745
00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 1: comes out, then we're all talking about, all of a sudden,

746
00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 1: how she's rude in all these interviews. Did that have

747
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 1: anything to do with him? Or was that us just

748
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: finding it after the movie? Does anyone know the answer

749
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: to that?

750
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,479
Speaker 2: I don't know the answer to that.

751
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: That has always kind of confused me, Like why did

752
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: we all start talking about her being rude in these

753
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,880
Speaker 1: interviews right after? Okay? Right, so that kind of that

754
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: part kind of lost me.

755
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:17,320
Speaker 2: So then.

756
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:24,359
Speaker 1: Next is she's suing him. Yes, she sued him first

757
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: as due him first for sexual harassment, I believe, correct,

758
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 1: So sexual harassment. I'm like trying to make sure I

759
00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: get all the facts to this whole thing. So that's

760
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:39,520
Speaker 1: confused me. So she sued him, but now he has countersued.

761
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 2: Her, correct for that's four hundred million.

762
00:36:42,040 --> 00:36:43,560
Speaker 1: Is she suing him for four hunder millionaire?

763
00:36:43,640 --> 00:36:47,200
Speaker 2: He sued her and she's suing both of them? Is

764
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:52,719
Speaker 2: that correct? Ryan and Blake? I believe so, And if

765
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 2: you hear the pauses, it's because we are looking and

766
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,839
Speaker 2: producer chat to clarify for us.

767
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Speaker 1: It's been a lot, it's but it's all over the headlines. Yes,

768
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: it's a lot. It's a little overwhelming at the moment.

769
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,480
Speaker 1: I've seen a lot of whose side are you on?

770
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 1: But I don't even feel like people are asking, you know,

771
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: like taking polls, who side are you on? Who's this

772
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: Blake Live versus? And I'm like, I don't even think

773
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: I fully understand the entirety of this whole situation.

774
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,839
Speaker 2: I do not understand the entirety. So something she's suing

775
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 2: him for something that happened during the movie, Is that correct?

776
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: Yes? I believe the sexual harassment things during the movie

777
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: and things that were and he was a director on

778
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: the head I believe, so, Okay, But I think things

779
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 1: that were said, some things about intimacy coordinators, you know,

780
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:47,080
Speaker 1: stuff like that. I know that she wait, according to.

781
00:37:47,120 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 2: Him, yeah, intimacy coordinator yeah, oh yeah, wait.

782
00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,280
Speaker 1: Wait And according to his yeah, according to his screen,

783
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,360
Speaker 1: like his receipts. She didn't want to meet with the

784
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,120
Speaker 1: intimacy coordinator, so that place.

785
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 2: Coordinator just go through like the scene, any scene that

786
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 2: is like sexual ish and tell me what that is.

787
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 2: Like anytime you have something that's like an intimate scene,

788
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 2: just like, yeah, you would have an intimacy coordinator be

789
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 2: like are you comfortable with this? Like let's like we

790
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,400
Speaker 2: walk through it and be like okay, like you know,

791
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 2: does this feel okay to you? So that both people

792
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,160
Speaker 2: feel comfortable with the scene that's about to take place

793
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 2: and they can have someone to kind of advocate for them. Yeah.

794
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 2: I like that. Yeah, brilliant, Well lovely has that always been.

795
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:33,359
Speaker 2: It's something that you can absolutely one thousand percent ask

796
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:38,680
Speaker 2: for and most professional movies have them on great Yeah, okay,

797
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 2: I like that. I've had them on a couple like

798
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 2: for sure.

799
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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fascinating. I mean I don't know. That's what

800
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: we've heard a lot of exactly trying to piece together

801
00:38:52,040 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: all the information of this and unless actually factually absolutely

802
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: and what is actually happening, what the facts are the

803
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:02,799
Speaker 1: intimacy coordinator Where that plays in where it is important

804
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:06,240
Speaker 1: that she turned it down versus what is being said.

805
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 1: You know, I don't I don't fully understand the scope

806
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,439
Speaker 1: of it, and I don't know that I can even

807
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 1: really fully take a stance because I don't even understand

808
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:15,759
Speaker 1: the scope of all that's going on. But I was

809
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: just kind of curious if y'all knew a little bit

810
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: more about it, if you can help explain it to

811
00:39:20,640 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 1: me a.

812
00:39:20,800 --> 00:39:25,240
Speaker 2: Little bit more. I usually filter like everything through Preston.

813
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 2: He's my cliff note guy. Yeah, So like i'll because

814
00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 2: I just can't. I don't have the capacity or I'm

815
00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 2: also like honestly sometimes like I don't know, I just

816
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,840
Speaker 2: it's too much. So but he will even like anything

817
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 2: with policies anything, and then I filter all things school

818
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:42,919
Speaker 2: and educating it. Yeah, but like he kind of tried

819
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,279
Speaker 2: to lay it out, Fran and I was I got

820
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 2: just confused.

821
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:48,240
Speaker 1: I usually know, this one's just really compluted. This one's

822
00:39:48,320 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 1: just it's a lot to it.

823
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 2: So it does feel like murky and noisy. Me just

824
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 2: feels like it's confusingly aware right now, I know it's everywhere.

825
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:58,959
Speaker 1: Oh man, Well.

826
00:39:59,360 --> 00:40:01,879
Speaker 2: Okay, so when we get clarification, when we circle back,

827
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:02,879
Speaker 2: is that what we want to do?

828
00:40:03,000 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll circle back on that one. But what else

829
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:07,320
Speaker 1: is going on? I feel like there's just been a lot.

830
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:09,240
Speaker 2: Kat would you do over the break?

831
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 1: What did I do?

832
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 3: Like?

833
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:11,719
Speaker 2: I haven't seen it a long time.

834
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:13,919
Speaker 1: Kids and Enid, that was about it.

835
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 2: I like Cube Cube the best.

836
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: I love that game.

837
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 2: I don't love how to Play Well, Guys, that was

838
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,959
Speaker 2: a good one. It's glad. I'm glad to be back.

839
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 2: I'm glad I think we're back together.

840
00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 3: And should we just say, like, what do you do

841
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 3: you believe in saving receipts.

842
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 2: For just life? Yeah? I mean I want to. I

843
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:47,399
Speaker 2: want to say no, but I know me.

844
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 1: One million percent. I can remember talking to my boss

845
00:40:51,840 --> 00:40:54,800
Speaker 1: years ago and as having a disagreement in him saying

846
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: pick up the phone and column, and I said, and

847
00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,439
Speaker 1: when you're in a position like I'm in, you want

848
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 1: it in writing. I mean, I just it is one

849
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,480
Speaker 1: of those I have always. Yes, I love a phone call,

850
00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: but guess what if something was covered on that phone call,

851
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 1: I'm also going to email you and make sure I

852
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 1: have a receipt about it.

853
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 2: Do you think the re sech can be misread?

854
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: Misread in certain circumstances? Sure, And I'm not saying that

855
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: I am necessarily sarily an advocate for showing receipts publicly.

856
00:41:27,120 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: I just think that they sure can't protect you in

857
00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:31,640
Speaker 1: a situation like this. Do I need to see the

858
00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 1: receipts of what happened between Blake and Justin? Yeah, but

859
00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: that made me think of that.

860
00:41:37,360 --> 00:41:41,319
Speaker 2: It was like appliances or that's where I'm at, and

861
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 2: like I do actually because you just never know when

862
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 2: Maytag might need a moment.

863
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:46,240
Speaker 1: But you never know when you're going to get sued

864
00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: and you're going to need to have those receipts.

865
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so don't. I'm huge.

866
00:41:50,480 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 1: I'm huge on having stuff in writing, which text life.

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Speaker 2: I haven't really either, like a conversation same. But you

868
00:41:58,920 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 2: know what's interesting is like I almost receded out something

869
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Speaker 2: gosh a few years ago. Oh boy, did I want

870
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:07,960
Speaker 2: to so bad, like so bad because I was getting

871
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:11,480
Speaker 2: dragged through some stuff that I was like, that is

872
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 2: not actually facts, Like that is not facts? Mad member

873
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Speaker 2: sitting with Catherine being like I and this publication was like,

874
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Speaker 2: well you can because I sent them the receipt and

875
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Speaker 2: I said, here's the actual proof that that's not factual,

876
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 2: and she goes, well you can post that, and I

877
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 2: was like, because you want me to, that's drama for them,

878
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:34,759
Speaker 2: you and pick up. Oh.

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Speaker 3: I mean I was sreaming on the I mean screaming,

880
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Speaker 3: and the path's like, calmed down.

881
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Speaker 2: I was like, no, it's not you. It's just frustrating.

882
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Speaker 3: Life, right, And I have the receipt right there, and

883
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Speaker 3: you're gonna run something that's not freaking true, right.

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Speaker 2: I was so pissed.

885
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Speaker 3: Well, it's like that when I was like someone that's it,

886
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Speaker 3: Like this is like this is exactly what these publications want.

887
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Speaker 3: You want the fucking drama, right, and you want me

888
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Speaker 3: to post this, that's right. I'll just keep it going,

889
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 3: bringing back and that's the thing. And like my publicist

890
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 3: and her was like and Catherine was like, this will

891
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Speaker 3: just continue it and I'm like, and you're going to

892
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 3: be feeding what they want. And I'm like, but it's

893
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:16,399
Speaker 3: going to make this person look like they win and

894
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 3: that's killing me.

895
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 2: Like that's killing me.

896
00:43:21,440 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 3: And and I was like, but I'm but I'm I

897
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 3: had to go to the like I know the truth

898
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Speaker 3: and swallow it and let it die.

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Speaker 2: Oh. But it was the hardest thing ever. I also

900
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Speaker 2: just know, like I know, like I know vindication comes

901
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 2: and we do not have to always. I'm like, you

902
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:40,839
Speaker 2: know what it's and that's the thing. I'm like, and

903
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Speaker 2: I've recently I got don't know how when I was

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Speaker 2: like scrolling back in certain things, I ended up just

905
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Speaker 2: getting rid of everything because I'm like, it doesn't I

906
00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 2: was like, it'll all come back the way it's supposed

907
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 2: to wash out, not with me anymore, because I'm long

908
00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 2: removed from that situation. That's right, But it'll come back

909
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 2: to them in a different situation somewhere else. I don't

910
00:43:58,960 --> 00:44:00,720
Speaker 2: need to be the one and I'm I'm so glad

911
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 2: I did not put something out. Yeah, do you want

912
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Speaker 2: to have a manager appreciation moment?

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Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing. I do want to say that

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Speaker 1: if that were me personally, I don't know that I

915
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Speaker 1: could have taken my own advice. I will be the

916
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Speaker 1: first to say that I know what the right thing

917
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Speaker 1: in that situation is to do. But let me not

918
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Speaker 1: say if I were you, it would have been really

919
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Speaker 1: freaking hard for me not to trust me. I love

920
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Speaker 1: a receipt and I don't like my name being like

921
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Speaker 1: muddied any more than anyone else. So the fact that

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Speaker 1: you were able to show that restraint is huge and

923
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Speaker 1: I give that to you because that is what needed

924
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Speaker 1: to happen. But on the flip side, I wouldn't have

925
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Speaker 1: blamed you for a second for putting it out there.

926
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Speaker 1: But it just it just keeps it going, and it

927
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Speaker 1: makes it more miserable for you and for and it's

928
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Speaker 1: just not worth it. But yeah, you're out of it,

929
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Speaker 1: and the watch.

930
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Speaker 2: It always gets cleaned eventually, eventually. But anyways, leopard never

931
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Speaker 2: changes its spot. I hope they do. I have Well,

932
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Speaker 2: you're not a lesser thing. I hope you're not a leopard.

933
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Speaker 2: Well listen, we've all like you know, and I think people,

934
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Speaker 2: and this is what I'll always go back to. I

935
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Speaker 2: don't have hate for a single person in my life.

936
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Speaker 2: I really don't. And I think everyone has the ability

937
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Speaker 2: to change. I've changed, I've grown so much, and I

938
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Speaker 2: continue to grow. I continue to change, I continue to

939
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Speaker 2: learn and.

940
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Speaker 3: Like and I pray for those people that you know

941
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Speaker 3: did wrong or did bad or whatever to be able

942
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Speaker 3: that they're growing and they're happy. And I think some

943
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Speaker 3: people together are just oil and water.

944
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Speaker 2: I know, you know what I mean, Yeah.

945
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Speaker 3: Exactly, So I'm like, some people just don't mix well together.

946
00:45:38,120 --> 00:45:40,840
Speaker 3: Some people are just really unhealthy at that time together,

947
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Speaker 3: and everyone's off. I'll have like and I want everyone

948
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Speaker 3: to be freaking happy.

949
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Speaker 2: I have like zero. That's why I'm like, I have

950
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Speaker 2: no issues.

951
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Speaker 3: Like if I ran into the people that hated me that,

952
00:45:50,320 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 3: I'm like, I hope that they can meet me in

953
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 3: this version. Now I hope to meet them in that version.

954
00:45:54,600 --> 00:45:58,160
Speaker 3: So I hope, you know, for all all love and

955
00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 3: all change and all like we all all are allowed that,

956
00:46:01,200 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 3: and I hope everyone's great. And I do believe that

957
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,279
Speaker 3: people can change, but.

958
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Speaker 1: Also will continue to make mistakes. People make mistakes. That's

959
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Speaker 1: who we are. We are hearings, people make mistakes.

960
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Speaker 2: Gel together.

961
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like sometimes you sit in the cars and people,

962
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Speaker 3: I'm like, this person's give me my friend.

963
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Speaker 2: You know what I mean. But you're really good. You're

964
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Speaker 2: really good at that. You'll be like, oh, I'm glad

965
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 2: you guys connect Like that doesn't hurt your feelings. Glad

966
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Speaker 2: she does. She said it to me, glad you connect.

967
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 2: And I was like, anyway, well I die, I just

968
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Speaker 2: die because I I it's just so like it's so certain.

969
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Speaker 2: It's not like because I was like, wait, whoa I didn't,

970
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Speaker 2: you know, and she's like, I'm glad you and I

971
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Speaker 2: think she didn't really meant it, and I was like, wow,

972
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Speaker 2: that is. But it's also like when we talked about,

973
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Speaker 2: you know how you're like I dated someone, I was like, oh,

974
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Speaker 2: those guys not right for me, but the person would

975
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Speaker 2: be great for Julie. I'm like, oh no, no, no, yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny.

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Speaker 2: You're really good about that. Thanks. I think that's how

978
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 2: you survived in l A. Yeah, like I think that world,

979
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Speaker 2: you know, that industry is just your industry is you

980
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,720
Speaker 2: have to be that way. I mean, I just believe

981
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Speaker 2: in that, you know, I believe that Mike's new he's

982
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:16,279
Speaker 2: going to be great for his new girlfriend. We just

983
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 2: were terrible together, you know. I love that you believe

984
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Speaker 2: that about him. Anyways, let's