1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:05,800 Speaker 1: What would you talk about on your on your podcast? Fine, 2 00:00:09,000 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: all right, we got fifteen minutes. Let's go. I miss 3 00:00:16,880 --> 00:00:19,119 Speaker 1: my mom. Why I miss your mom? Danielle SE's in 4 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: Italy until I think this week. She comes back in 5 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:24,640 Speaker 1: a couple of days. And I feel it's so weird, 6 00:00:24,760 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: Like I don't realize how much I talked to her. 7 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: I talked to her probably almost every day, And I feel, 8 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: which can in Italy? She doesn't even have a phone. 9 00:00:32,040 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 1: She borrowed someone's phone to text me that she arrived 10 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:38,199 Speaker 1: on time. I arrived. Fine, I know, hold on, she 11 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,040 Speaker 1: doesn't have a phone. Does They didn't like get the 12 00:00:41,080 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: cell package for overseas, like they can't figure that out. 13 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:47,520 Speaker 1: So how long is she in it? She's ten days? 14 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: But I went to call her three times, where I'm like, oh, 15 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:53,320 Speaker 1: I gotta tell my mom, Oh my mom's not here. 16 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: She's in Italy. But she sent me a picture of 17 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: herself at the Vatican. I have so many stories for you. 18 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: I saw the Pope and blah blah blah. So she's 19 00:00:59,720 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 1: so sighting. But you don't realize you how much you, 20 00:01:03,400 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: you know, rely on your parents, you really do for 21 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: lots of you. It's Funny you mentioned that, Danielle, because 22 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: the other day I was telling my parents, all right, 23 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: so well, let's make some plans. I want to take 24 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 1: mom out for Mother's Day. Let's do something fun. And 25 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,000 Speaker 1: my mother's like, oh, you're on your own on Mother's Day, 26 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: And I'm like what now the old me would be like, 27 00:01:22,400 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to. I never. I used 28 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:27,480 Speaker 1: to dread going to my parents house, used to dread 29 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:31,360 Speaker 1: doing holidays with the family. But I got upset, visibly 30 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 1: upset with my parents. I said, where we are you 31 00:01:34,200 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: gonna be with for Mother's Day? Oh, we're gonna be 32 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,679 Speaker 1: uh cruising on a riverboat in Germany for two weeks. 33 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: So that kind of overlaps with our vacation. So Mother's 34 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:46,479 Speaker 1: Day is not good for us. That's my parents talking 35 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,760 Speaker 1: to me. But Mother's Day is not good for them. Yeah, 36 00:01:49,800 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: they're going on a vacation. You can miss her very much, 37 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:56,960 Speaker 1: but you should be happy that she's enjoying big days. 38 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,000 Speaker 1: These are the times, These are the moments we need 39 00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 1: to spend with up. I do understand that because you 40 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 1: don't know how much longer you know, you don't know 41 00:02:03,480 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: what's going to happen. You've got to hope that you 42 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 1: have years and years and years. Okay, let's have that 43 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: conversation while you're sitting here talking about, you know, missing 44 00:02:11,040 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 1: your mom and which you could call her, but she's 45 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: in Italy and you're talking about your parents who will 46 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: be on the Danube, that's where they're going to be. 47 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:18,600 Speaker 1: I could't pronounce it well, you know. And I definitely 48 00:02:18,720 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: have from come from a different point of view about 49 00:02:21,320 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 1: my parents. And Brody does too, so sort of as well. 50 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: He lost his father. I lost my mother and father. 51 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, I get it. When you have when you 52 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 1: have the moments you can connect with him, do it 53 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: because you know they won't won't always be here. But 54 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,040 Speaker 1: I know that's a sad story, but it's true. But Elvis, 55 00:02:36,120 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 1: just like Valentine's Day, though scary, is that type of 56 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: person that he only can spend Mother's Day with his mother. 57 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,320 Speaker 1: There's there's three and sixty four other days too. Could 58 00:02:44,360 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 1: you do Mother's Day after Mother's Day like when they 59 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 1: get before. Ultimately on Mother's Day, you want your mom 60 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 1: to be happy. You want to have a great day. 61 00:02:54,040 --> 00:02:55,960 Speaker 1: So your mother is getting a chance to travel, which 62 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,359 Speaker 1: she rarely does living in Brooklyn. She doesn't travel a lot. 63 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: He has an opportunity for to do something thing. You 64 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: should be thrilled and you're off the hook. You off 65 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: to buy a brunch and now you can get a 66 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:06,239 Speaker 1: flower's half price the next week. I love the way 67 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: you look at it. But how do you I mean, 68 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:11,280 Speaker 1: they flipped the script on me. I did not see 69 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: that coming because they were they always want to spend 70 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:17,000 Speaker 1: every holiday they can with their son. But my mom 71 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: says that there's like all these phases you go through 72 00:03:19,000 --> 00:03:21,680 Speaker 1: in life, like you have, you know, the single phase 73 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: where you do your own thing, and then a lot 74 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: of people go through the marriage phase, and you have 75 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,320 Speaker 1: your kids and it's all about your children, and then 76 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 1: once your children out of the house, my mom said, 77 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,639 Speaker 1: it's all about me again. Let them go have fun. 78 00:03:32,560 --> 00:03:35,000 Speaker 1: They worked their asses off to raise you and your 79 00:03:35,040 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 1: your brother and your sister, and you're out of the house, 80 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 1: all of your out. You're right, you're you're right. It's 81 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,760 Speaker 1: actually kind of selfish of me to want to spend 82 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: Mother's Day with her. Just be happy for I think 83 00:03:44,680 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: Brody brings up very good point. They're going to travel 84 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: to Germany. That's so cool. Let him have fun. These 85 00:03:49,400 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 1: other cities that can't pronounce. Plus again, if I could 86 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: say they have price flowers. That's really the focus here. 87 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 1: And you can be a cheap bastard, but and you 88 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,600 Speaker 1: can celebrate another day, either you know, when they get 89 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:02,320 Speaker 1: back or before. You know. This is interesting you brought 90 00:04:02,360 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 1: this point up because the other night, when I was 91 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: in Las Vegas accepting this incredible, incredible um induction into 92 00:04:09,920 --> 00:04:12,200 Speaker 1: the Hall of Fame, you know, I was thinking about 93 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: my mom and dad, like, oh my god, I I 94 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 1: wish they were here. That would be so cool for 95 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,800 Speaker 1: them to see that, you know, and there are so 96 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:20,719 Speaker 1: many cool things that we do, all of us, not 97 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 1: just me, all of us, and you really really want 98 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 1: to share them with your mom and your dad, and 99 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 1: so to have them around, that's cool, you know. And uh, 100 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 1: I wish they could have been there that night also 101 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: looking down and being proud. Now, when Elvis, when you 102 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 1: started your radio station in your closet and your your 103 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: home in Texas, where was your mom and dad? Like 104 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:42,760 Speaker 1: what are you doing in the closet? No, they knew 105 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:47,520 Speaker 1: they I came out of that closet. They knew that 106 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 1: radio was my thing. And I've been bitten by the 107 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 1: radio bug. They knew I was in there, and and 108 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: I think they later on said they knew it would 109 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: pay off eventually. That good. Like Scary's dad who said, 110 00:04:57,839 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: don't get into radio. Did he really? Oh yeah, he 111 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:04,560 Speaker 1: apologized to me several years What did he want you 112 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: to do? He wanted me to be an accountant or 113 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: something that had a future, a job that paid. He 114 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,080 Speaker 1: got you there. Well yeah, well but so at the 115 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: time he didn't. He was just like hell bent against it, 116 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,279 Speaker 1: and I went against him. And it wasn't until several 117 00:05:21,360 --> 00:05:24,320 Speaker 1: years later on Father's Day. It was actually a couple 118 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 1: of years ago, and he apologized to me at lunch. 119 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: Look at that and he's like, I'm so sorry. He 120 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:34,240 Speaker 1: goes all these years I I I, um, I believe 121 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: I'm saying it, you know, I just it's just weird 122 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:37,479 Speaker 1: to me because it was. It was It was a 123 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:41,000 Speaker 1: really touching moment. I almost cried because he apology. He 124 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 1: looked me in the eye and apologized for all those 125 00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 1: years that he was against me going into He kind 126 00:05:46,680 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: of came or he came around and just had that 127 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: admission and I'm like, wow, what, thanks, thanks for the apology, 128 00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 1: you know, but what did your parents want you to 129 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,119 Speaker 1: do well. I wanted to. I wanted to like pound 130 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 1: the pavement after college, and I wanted to like a 131 00:06:00,880 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: audition for Broadway shows. And I remember my dad saying, yeah, 132 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 1: we paid for college so that you could go bound 133 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: the payment and do the Broadway shows. So what do 134 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:09,960 Speaker 1: they want? And then I, I don't know they really 135 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: I don't remember the discussion, but I know that I interned, 136 00:06:12,680 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: and I know that my mom told me to quit 137 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 1: this job here several times because I was making four 138 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 1: dollars and five cents an hour, which was the minimum 139 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: wage at the time, and she was like, this is 140 00:06:22,279 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: not going anywhere. This is where you have to this 141 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,359 Speaker 1: is and eventually I kept saying, wait, mom, wait, something's 142 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: going to happen. And then it did. They make you 143 00:06:30,080 --> 00:06:31,960 Speaker 1: feel like a failure, and it wouldn't make me feel 144 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 1: like a failure. But she just wanted, you know, she 145 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,760 Speaker 1: wanted you to be happy. Ye see, my parents were 146 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,359 Speaker 1: They never ever said don't do radio. They never said 147 00:06:40,440 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: anything other than we just want you to be happy. 148 00:06:42,600 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: And I never really understood that until you know, now, 149 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: what about you? My At first I had the opportunity 150 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 1: to come work here when I was a freshman in 151 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:53,720 Speaker 1: college and I told my mom that, and she goes, 152 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,200 Speaker 1: so you're going to answer phones and give up three 153 00:06:56,279 --> 00:06:59,239 Speaker 1: years of college and get an education. I said yeah, 154 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:03,279 Speaker 1: and she said no. Uh So luckily four years later 155 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:06,159 Speaker 1: the opportunity came here. But my mom worked in the 156 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: entertainment business um behind the scenes, and I grew up 157 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: in it, and I knew that at the end of 158 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,720 Speaker 1: the day, I did not want to start my life 159 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: behind a desk, per se. I didn't want to sit down. 160 00:07:17,160 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: I didn't want to clock in at nine o'clock nine 161 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,480 Speaker 1: am and leave at five wear a suit, wear a 162 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: suit scary being an accountant, I cannot envision him wearing 163 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 1: a t and I so I never wanted to be 164 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: behind a desk where whatever it may be that I 165 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 1: did so right and a brody Yeah you're how does 166 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,680 Speaker 1: your mom feel about you and your your involvement with 167 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: the fact that I'm getting paid to do what I've 168 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: been and always have exuded my whole life. I mean, 169 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 1: I used to get in trouble in school. The dean 170 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 1: once called my mom and said, uh, your your son's 171 00:07:47,320 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 1: in my office. Uh, And she said I was something okay, 172 00:07:49,640 --> 00:07:52,640 Speaker 1: she's Japanic. He said he was being extremely humorous and 173 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,520 Speaker 1: disrupted the class, and I hear I hear him saying 174 00:07:55,520 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: to her on the phone, no, no, you don't understand. 175 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: It is a bad thing. No no, And she was like, 176 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: I'm so proud of him. That's my boy. He gets 177 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:05,080 Speaker 1: that from me. And so he thought she'd get upset 178 00:08:05,080 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 1: that I was being funny in the class. And so 179 00:08:07,200 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: the fact that I get to do this, my mother's thrilled. 180 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I grew up on comedy radio my grandfather, 181 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 1: and I have other relatives who write comedy, so this 182 00:08:14,360 --> 00:08:16,240 Speaker 1: was sort of a thing that, you know, my father 183 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: was just happy that I was happy. They never cared. 184 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 1: I mean I was going to law school. They were happy. 185 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: And then when I wasn't, they were happy. So now 186 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: my mother listens to the show, in the podcast and 187 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: everything else, and she's she's proud, loving life. You know 188 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: that I was supposed to sign with Mark Anthony like 189 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: years ago before. So before Mark Anthony was Mark Anthony, 190 00:08:34,000 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: he was a freestyle singer in the Bronx and I 191 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:39,679 Speaker 1: was singing at the time, and uh, I he had 192 00:08:39,800 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 1: heard me on a demo or something, and he had 193 00:08:41,800 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: come to my house and wanted to sign me for 194 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: this song that he was working on with somebody. And 195 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: he took my dad, myself, and his people out to lunch, 196 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:54,199 Speaker 1: and my dad didn't trust him and didn't trust the people. 197 00:08:54,559 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: And so to this day I go, hey, Dad, remember 198 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: that Mark Anthony. Yeah, that's him right over there. He's 199 00:08:59,320 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: like you act you have knowing is much better than 200 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 1: the market. He wouldn't he wouldn't let me sign with him. 201 00:09:04,480 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 1: He would not let me sign with him. Mix tape 202 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:09,719 Speaker 1: you want that mixed? I don't know where that. I'm 203 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: glad you didn't sign with there you go, thanks? That funny. 204 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: It is funny, you know. It's just you do what 205 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 1: you want to do in life to have You want 206 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:21,680 Speaker 1: to have fun, you want to do something that's like interesting. Yeah. 207 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: And there are a lot of people who listen to 208 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: our show and we hear from you every day, from 209 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: people who just feel like they're in a dead end job. 210 00:09:28,520 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: They don't know how they ended up here, but they 211 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: know they've got to make ends meet, they've got to 212 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: put food on the table, and they don't have a choice. 213 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: But if ever, you get into a point in your 214 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 1: life where you feel like you're trapped and you have 215 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:43,160 Speaker 1: to do that or nothing else. That's not a good feeling. 216 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 1: No way. I don't ever want to become stagnant. I 217 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:47,280 Speaker 1: always want to feel like I'm getting paid to do 218 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:50,679 Speaker 1: my hobby. Instagram and here's always different because you're always 219 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:52,760 Speaker 1: doing something different. It's not always the same, Like I mean, 220 00:09:52,960 --> 00:09:54,880 Speaker 1: we come into the show every day, and then we 221 00:09:55,040 --> 00:09:57,079 Speaker 1: have the stuff that we normally do, what we're traveling 222 00:09:57,120 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: or interviewing this or going to host this or doing 223 00:09:59,280 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 1: and it's always differ and it's very interesting. You know, 224 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,280 Speaker 1: it is interesting. So you know, no matter what you 225 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: do for your living, you know you've got to find 226 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 1: a way to make it interesting. Otherwise you're cheating yourself. 227 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:11,040 Speaker 1: Like the time has taken, the calendar days are just 228 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: flying into the air and before you know it, you're 229 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,840 Speaker 1: gonna be how old and you're what do I What 230 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: did I just do? What do I do with my life? 231 00:10:19,000 --> 00:10:21,079 Speaker 1: Where did it go? Spend more than half of your 232 00:10:21,080 --> 00:10:25,480 Speaker 1: waking hours doing your job, So you better love what 233 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:28,680 Speaker 1: you do otherwise you're screwed. It's like it's you spend 234 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: all this time in bed as well? You need a 235 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: good bed, you need important. You need great pillows and 236 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,520 Speaker 1: great bed. You do not skip on your mattress. I 237 00:10:38,520 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 1: helped my brother in law take his mattress out the 238 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:45,199 Speaker 1: other day. How old was It was about fifteen years old. 239 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: The thing crumbles as we're bringing it down. That's nasty, 240 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: that is disgusting. I know. The thing is that you 241 00:10:54,240 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 1: spend all this time on your mattress. This is a 242 00:10:56,160 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: very important part of every day and every night. You 243 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: need a good man. My first apartment was the mattress 244 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: was concave, so if you laid anywhere near towards the 245 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: middle a little bit, you rolled into the middle right, 246 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: so you had to sleep on the edge, which are 247 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: the only part that wasn't collapsed. And every morning I 248 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,520 Speaker 1: would wake up in the middle of the bed. I 249 00:11:13,640 --> 00:11:16,439 Speaker 1: was alone, thankfully, So I had a race car bed 250 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: until I was in high school, a race car like 251 00:11:20,040 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: the kids race car bedol sophomore in high school and 252 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 1: when my dad goes, that's enough, we got to get 253 00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:29,840 Speaker 1: you a bed. My car. Yeah, race car, but I 254 00:11:29,840 --> 00:11:31,720 Speaker 1: think if you have a driver's license, you should not 255 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: have a race car. I didn't have a driver's license yet, 256 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:38,800 Speaker 1: so it was good. I love that like little drummer 257 00:11:38,800 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 1: boys as wallpaper. But no, but the bed was never 258 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:42,800 Speaker 1: he was going to say, a little drummer boys in 259 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: his bed. Okay, So, which reminds me of the next question. Uh, 260 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 1: how old were you when you stopped going to your pediatrician? Oh? 261 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: My gosh, because I have a friend who still goes 262 00:11:55,200 --> 00:11:58,719 Speaker 1: to his childhood doctor as a man. Yes, as a man. 263 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: He's grown man, seventeen seventy. See, I was still going 264 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 1: to mind until he passed away. Okay, would you still 265 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:08,800 Speaker 1: be going now? I would love to still. He was amazing, definitely. 266 00:12:08,840 --> 00:12:12,600 Speaker 1: I would say. It's interesting because my wife Ali, she's 267 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:16,839 Speaker 1: a physician assistant, and she sees thirty year olds come 268 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 1: in with their mother's guys, thirty old guys with their moms, 269 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 1: and mom's answering the question as if the thirty year 270 00:12:23,720 --> 00:12:27,319 Speaker 1: old is ten. Yeah, I can see that happening. Wait, 271 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 1: does a pediatrician have the same qualifications and the same 272 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: level of experience and expertise as a as a doctor? 273 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: No stuff, But they they're not experts in as your 274 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:41,840 Speaker 1: lung zero, general aging, and they are experts and things 275 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:43,520 Speaker 1: that had to do with the development of a kid 276 00:12:43,520 --> 00:12:45,199 Speaker 1: and this and that. But but the little chairs in 277 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 1: the waiting room or tiny. We had an return here 278 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,120 Speaker 1: last summer named Josh So he was twenty one at 279 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: that point. He said, I've never been in a waiting 280 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: room for a doctor that didn't have toys. He still 281 00:12:55,120 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: goes to his pediatrician. I asked my kids pediatrician the 282 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 1: other day, what age do they stop going? But she said, 283 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:03,679 Speaker 1: you can go into your twenties. No, my friends in 284 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:07,839 Speaker 1: his thirties. If if I could go to my kids 285 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 1: pediatrician as my doctor, I would because she's amazing, and 286 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 1: my doctor I'm leaving because I don't well. Different story, well, 287 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 1: doctor Hill was my pediatrician and every time and I 288 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:18,960 Speaker 1: was like, it's kind of a sick kid. And every 289 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: time I needed a shot, which was every time I 290 00:13:20,640 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: went to the doctor, he would walk in and he 291 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: would have it behind his back because if I knew you, 292 00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: but I knew it, I know exactly the guy's gonna 293 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 1: zap me with a needle. And so he'd walk in 294 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,600 Speaker 1: and go, Okay, Well, I'm like, okay, let's do it. 295 00:13:33,640 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: He'll bring it out. I'm like, God, I hated that. 296 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: I will admit when I give blood now as an 297 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:39,520 Speaker 1: adult when like the doctor says you have to get 298 00:13:39,559 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: blood work, I have them open the draw and give 299 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,040 Speaker 1: me a lollipop afterwards. Why should the kids get lollipops? 300 00:13:44,040 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 1: Don't get a lollipop. I bet they love giving you 301 00:13:46,120 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 1: a lollip I'm like, hey, where's lollipop? Oh? You want lollipop? 302 00:13:48,640 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 1: They get excited they give you one. You see the 303 00:13:50,240 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 1: story about the dentist. Lady suing a dentist right now 304 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 1: because the dentist was rubbing her feet and gave her 305 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 1: red wine and then worked on her mouth. What that 306 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,640 Speaker 1: sounds kind correct? Well, yeah, no, we're just talking about 307 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 1: dentist doctors that It reminded me of a story I 308 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:08,079 Speaker 1: was reading this morning. She went to the dentist. The 309 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: dentist rubbed her feet, gave her red wine, then worked 310 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:17,440 Speaker 1: on her mouth. M did he fill her cavity? Something's 311 00:14:17,480 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: going on there, something something in the milk ain't clean. 312 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 1: I don't wait, what's his number? We rubbed my feet? 313 00:14:25,960 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: What you work in my mouth? This has been a 314 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,520 Speaker 1: very interesting fifteen minute morning show podect Calm Morning. It 315 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:36,840 Speaker 1: wasn't the worst podcast ever. No, I'm still recovering from 316 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: food poisoning. Do we have time for one more question. Um, 317 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: when you go to a doctor that handles your private parts, 318 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 1: like a urologist or a kinnecologist, you prefer same sex 319 00:14:45,600 --> 00:14:47,760 Speaker 1: opposite sex. I'm on the real quick, I'll do either. 320 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: I used to prefer same sex, but now I'm fine 321 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: with opposite either. Say we can get into this on 322 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 1: the Big Show tomorrow. All right, Well that was a 323 00:14:56,040 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 1: mellow fifteen minute, fifteen minute morning show, ol