WEBVTT - You Pregnant Teww? 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.120 Welcome to Canfully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:20.680 and the Black Effects Oh Ship were back on it, 0:00:20.760 --> 0:00:23.799 and welcome back to yet another carefully reckless episode with 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:26.200 your girl just hilarious. All right, now, grab your t 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:28.800 grab your holes, grab everything you need to listen because 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:34.160 it's story time. So I was talking to a friend 0:00:34.159 --> 0:00:36.839 of mine, right and she was telling me that she 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:39.000 has been in a relationship about five years or whatever. 0:00:39.040 --> 0:00:40.600 Now now I know of this, but I did not 0:00:40.680 --> 0:00:44.040 know this. She's been in like a relationship where she 0:00:45.000 --> 0:00:49.080 is allowing the guy to have another girlfriend basically so 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:51.920 he can't choose between the two. And this has been 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:56.280 this way for five fucking years. Okay, Now, I've known 0:00:56.320 --> 0:00:58.560 this girl for over five years, and I did not 0:00:58.680 --> 0:01:02.560 know I met the nigga everything, did not know that 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:06.360 she was the other woman, well both of them or 0:01:06.440 --> 0:01:08.440 other women, you know what I'm saying. Because he's in 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:11.600 a relationship with both of them. And it's so crazy 0:01:11.600 --> 0:01:13.760 because it's five years strong. How to funk do you 0:01:13.800 --> 0:01:16.480 allow someone to play with you in toy with your 0:01:16.520 --> 0:01:22.720 heart for five years? You're letting him one devalue who 0:01:22.760 --> 0:01:24.440 you are as a woman. You're letting him do that, 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:26.920 he's stripping you of your dignity. Actually you're knowing it 0:01:27.000 --> 0:01:29.479 to yourself, bitch, but whatever, you know what I'm saying. 0:01:29.720 --> 0:01:33.120 And then too, you're giving him power over you. You 0:01:33.120 --> 0:01:35.759 didn't make him choose, You're you're giving him an ultimatum 0:01:35.800 --> 0:01:39.240 that he's never going to take serious because you've stayed 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:43.280 with him for five years. Now. That hurts my feelings 0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:46.600 as her friend, because she kept this ship from me 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:49.960 for a long time, you know. But the god damn, 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:51.920 they lives with her like he has his place, has 0:01:51.960 --> 0:01:54.320 his own place, but he's with her like all the time, 0:01:54.360 --> 0:01:56.200 every time I talked to her or whatever whatever. So 0:01:56.280 --> 0:01:59.280 her admitting this to me, you know, over a drink, 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:01.920 I was just like, damn, bitch, you've been wanting to 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:04.520 tell somebody that for a long time, haven't you. You know, 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:06.520 And not a lot of people know, of course, but 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:08.720 this is how it started. She told me. When she 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:11.320 first met him, he was already dealing with somebody. They 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:14.000 weren't together, but he was working with somebody, okay, So 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.800 she saw him messing with him and everything was the same. 0:02:16.919 --> 0:02:19.280 They they actually hit it off strong, you know what 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:22.440 I'm saying. Everything was good, you know, Um, they started 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:25.760 dating and everything. He had never left this girl alone. 0:02:25.840 --> 0:02:28.160 He actually started getting a little bit more involved with 0:02:28.200 --> 0:02:31.280 the other girl as well. And um, to top it off, 0:02:31.600 --> 0:02:33.799 he was just getting out of a divorce. Let's she 0:02:33.919 --> 0:02:37.440 start there. At least he was divorced though his country wain. 0:02:38.000 --> 0:02:41.320 But yeah, he was already divorced, you know what I'm saying. 0:02:41.680 --> 0:02:44.119 So as you can see, ship already don't work out 0:02:44.120 --> 0:02:46.840 with this nigga. But he's a good guy. He's a 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:49.640 great fucking guy basically. So she found out about the 0:02:49.639 --> 0:02:52.760 girl because he told her. He actually like came clean 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:55.359 and told her like eight months and when they were 0:02:55.360 --> 0:02:58.200 almost like together for a year, he was like, Yo, 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:00.560 it's this other girl that I have. I can't like 0:03:01.000 --> 0:03:02.720 just leave her alone because I do love her, but 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:05.200 I want you and blah blah blah blah bob. And 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:11.520 she is pregnant. So the girl was pregnant. Okay, she 0:03:11.639 --> 0:03:13.320 told him she was not getting rid of the baby. 0:03:13.360 --> 0:03:15.200 He didn't want the baby, but he can't make her 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:17.120 get an abortion, couldn't make her get an abortion, so 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:19.880 we kept the child. She had the child, and here 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:23.520 is my friends still his girlfriend, and here is the 0:03:24.160 --> 0:03:27.960 now baby mother still his girlfriend. Second year, and she 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:32.320 tells him, I can't do this anymore. You have been 0:03:32.320 --> 0:03:34.680 playing games with me since D one or whatever. You 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:36.920 told me about the bitch. Yeah, you came clean, but 0:03:37.120 --> 0:03:39.680 now you need to fucking choose now. He did sell 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:41.880 that he was gonna choose you, so right. I love you. 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:43.400 I don't want to be with her. We just got 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:46.000 this child we gotta raise together. Blah blah blah. She's like, Yo, 0:03:46.120 --> 0:03:48.600 I get it, but you're still sleeping with her, like 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:50.920 you fucking love her like and and I can't. I 0:03:50.960 --> 0:03:53.920 can't do this anymore. I don't know what the funk 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:57.320 happened after that, But fast forward to now to the 0:03:57.360 --> 0:04:01.480 nowadays days she and he and she is still together, 0:04:01.520 --> 0:04:04.360 so they might as well just fucking live together. Has 0:04:04.440 --> 0:04:07.160 that ship ever happened to you? I have my sister 0:04:07.320 --> 0:04:11.880 here again, Shay, stay, what's up? What's going on to people? Yeah? 0:04:12.000 --> 0:04:15.040 What holds that? Listen? I'm gonna tell you that story 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:17.880 like rocked my fucking world. You know, I was so 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:20.159 upset with her, Like, Yo, what the fund do you mean? 0:04:20.480 --> 0:04:22.800 Five years this nigga has not chosen. He has been 0:04:22.800 --> 0:04:25.400 having his cake and eating it too, But honestly, you 0:04:25.440 --> 0:04:28.240 can't even be mad at her, because I know you've 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:32.040 also been a situations when your mind is so wrapped 0:04:32.120 --> 0:04:36.560 up in a situation that's all you know. You can't 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:40.320 remove yourself from a situation until like you're blinders are 0:04:40.320 --> 0:04:43.600 really taken off and and you're ready to really leave 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:46.600 the situation. But to share a man, you understand, and 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:48.680 then you you're knowingly sure. It's one thing to get 0:04:48.760 --> 0:04:50.920 cheated on. Nigga hit that ship for five years or 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:52.719 for however long he hit it, because he hit it 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:55.119 for eight months. I believe he only told her because 0:04:55.120 --> 0:04:56.839 the girl was pregnant and she was not getting rid 0:04:56.880 --> 0:05:01.279 of the baby, so to share her him and her mind. Girl, 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:06.080 she probably honestly blocked out the other female knowing that 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:10.440 she still existed, but she probably just blocked out anyway. Yeah, 0:05:10.760 --> 0:05:12.839 I just I don't, I don't. I don't understand that, Like, 0:05:12.880 --> 0:05:15.520 have you ever been in a situation like that? So 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:20.320 I've never been in a situation like that, But you 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:22.400 know of a situation one of the situations that I've 0:05:22.440 --> 0:05:25.560 been in. One of my baby fathers, whom we will 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:30.159 not name. You remember where you listen he was big, big, 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:33.279 big cheat in it anyway, and I just I don't understand, 0:05:33.279 --> 0:05:34.800 Like how do guys have enough time in the day, 0:05:34.800 --> 0:05:38.040 Like he was really really into you, like y'all was 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:43.000 like together, my nigga. And then I seen him and 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:45.120 a restaurant sitting with a bit, and then we all 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:49.279 know the Baltimore city is so goddamed small enough, i'd 0:05:49.279 --> 0:05:51.600 be fun. Yeah, this is a small more nigga. I 0:05:51.640 --> 0:05:54.000 swear I've seen it. And I don't even know how 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:55.800 I say this ship because I wasn't even going in 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:57.720 that store. I was going to the barbershop right now. 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:01.800 Happen in the car. You took a picture and was like, 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:04.640 I noticed this, nigga. I noticed how he walked. He 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:07.520 was walking holding the bechhnd yea And they went into 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:09.400 the restaurant and he was talking about to go in there. 0:06:09.440 --> 0:06:11.480 I'm like, going there, going there. I handled car at 0:06:11.480 --> 0:06:14.400 the time. I'm sitting there trying to borrow somebody car. 0:06:16.279 --> 0:06:20.160 I wish it was we weren't even then. It weren't 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:22.440 using Yeah, we weren't using it. Yeah, this is like 0:06:22.880 --> 0:06:27.560 we had hacks. Yeah, we had friends then. Yeah, this 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:29.919 was like six seven years ago. I don't think it was. 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:34.160 It was. It was well he wasn't using the dad 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:37.159 people using s. Yeah. Yeah, she first came out. It 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:39.520 was like, no, I don't trusting. We got real hecks 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:42.320 killing and kicking. That motherfucker's raised using no app pick 0:06:42.400 --> 0:06:46.000 us up anyway. Yeah. So I called her sitting in 0:06:46.040 --> 0:06:47.360 the car and I'm like, yo, I see this nigg 0:06:47.400 --> 0:06:49.240 I see afar he up here with a bit. She 0:06:49.279 --> 0:06:50.880 was like, oh, I said, I go ahead say something. 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:52.280 She's like, oh yeah, go in there, go in there, 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:55.279 say something, bitch. Yet So I hit the door. Serious. 0:06:55.279 --> 0:06:57.120 I opened the door to the motherfucking a little little 0:06:57.160 --> 0:06:58.839 petty as restaurant he was because it was like a 0:06:58.839 --> 0:07:01.240 pizza rea next to in a shopping center, but like 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:04.760 a fucking rainbow a fucking subway, like we took this 0:07:04.760 --> 0:07:06.840 bit here. Hold up, Like do you remember you went 0:07:06.920 --> 0:07:08.760 in there and was like, yeah' about to go say something? 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:12.000 Excuse me? Can I get two chicken wings? I definitely 0:07:12.000 --> 0:07:15.880 wanted some chicken, like it was before you go confront. 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:19.360 It was really good, Like who the oldest chicken wings 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:22.480 in there? I walked in there and fucking fried chicken 0:07:22.560 --> 0:07:24.440 smell snaking right in my face like bitch, mad, come 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:25.840 get some of us before you go over here and fight. 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:27.720 So I was like all right, cool, I walked up 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:29.880 to it. Before I even got up there, Yo, the 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:32.160 niggers seen me got up and went to the bathroom 0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:34.480 like I wouldn't you. I really wish I would have 0:07:34.480 --> 0:07:37.080 went in the bedroom, like ha ha, I see you. 0:07:37.080 --> 0:07:38.840 You know what I'm saying. But I so I walked 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.120 up to her. But that is so dumb because you 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:44.360 saw me. You know, I'm your baby mother, little sister, 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:45.880 Like you know I'm your girl, little sister, and you 0:07:45.920 --> 0:07:47.640 fucking try me now you know I'm that type of 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:49.520 bitch to put your ways on blast. And you already 0:07:49.520 --> 0:07:52.320 know that I'm a teller or already got on the 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:54.160 phone and you were on the phone. She was on 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:55.920 the phone me. So I walked up to it. Isn't 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:57.600 go in the bedroom. I was like, excuse me. You 0:07:57.720 --> 0:08:00.480 messed with him, you know, because he he shall remain nameless. 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:03.800 I'm like, you must swim. She was like wow, and 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:06.320 I was like, oh, because that's my sister's boyfriend, Like 0:08:06.320 --> 0:08:08.880 that's my sisters, man, all my sister pregnant. She looked 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:10.840 like a fucking truck was coming to like a darn 0:08:10.880 --> 0:08:12.920 head like, but she did not know like a truck 0:08:12.960 --> 0:08:15.560 was ready head. She ain't say sh it, ain't say 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:17.280 not a damn thing. So I'm sitting there like, yeah, 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:18.560 I just want I just thought you should know that 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:20.320 went over there, picked my wings up. I kept on going. 0:08:20.480 --> 0:08:22.520 This nigga comes back out the bathroom, and then I 0:08:22.520 --> 0:08:24.240 know because I sat back in my car. I went 0:08:24.320 --> 0:08:25.920 to sit back in my car. I wanted to say 0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:27.320 how long this is gonna be in the bathroom? And 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:30.040 the wings were already made. They're not like made to order. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:31.720 They was already right there. So I picked up my 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:33.160 wings and I got the funk out of there. You 0:08:33.160 --> 0:08:35.520 know what I'm saying. This nigga came out. He had 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:37.160 to be at the door waiting to see when I left, 0:08:37.160 --> 0:08:39.520 because how was you in the bathroom that long? Even 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:44.120 though it wasn't something, Yeah, it was like a fast exchange, 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.440 but it's like, Yo, how the funk you really say? 0:08:46.480 --> 0:08:48.320 You come out as soon as I get in my car, 0:08:48.360 --> 0:08:51.560 like you're watching me from the bathroom, obviously. And I 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:53.760 sat there for like a good little fifteen minutes or whatever, 0:08:53.880 --> 0:08:56.000 still on the phone or whatever. My sis sister. But 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.360 you was trying to get you. Remember you called somebody 0:08:58.360 --> 0:08:59.920 to take you up there, and you're like, no, I'm 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:04.640 me up here. Like my best friend got a zip car. 0:09:05.160 --> 0:09:07.719 She went an a zip car and came and got 0:09:07.760 --> 0:09:10.760 my You was trying to get everybody get a way 0:09:10.880 --> 0:09:12.400 up there, and I'm like, yo, And by the time 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:14.560 we got up they was gone and ship. But yo, 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:17.800 I made sure I'm I said something. I said something, 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:21.880 you know. So that was a situation very similar. So 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:23.920 you didn't even really get into the to the whole 0:09:23.920 --> 0:09:27.920 little nitty gritty of it. So when I reached out 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:30.240 to his family to let let his family know that 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:33.040 I was pregnant, They're like, oh, you're pregnant. To you, 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:38.360 I'm like, that's how you found out about Shorty being pregnant. 0:09:38.440 --> 0:09:44.800 I was like to Like so I'm like okay, Like okay, 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:47.640 So now it made it made sense because when I 0:09:47.640 --> 0:09:49.480 found out I was pregnant, I told him about it. 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:53.959 He wanted me to get an abortion. He actually offered me. 0:09:54.640 --> 0:09:57.400 He offered to buy me a pair of ugs and 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:03.040 exchanged to get the abortion. What yes, what the funk? No? 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:06.120 He was like, pick up here of hugs and send 0:10:06.120 --> 0:10:07.439 me the link. I'm a bomb, but you got to 0:10:07.440 --> 0:10:11.640 get the abution first with the shay. Oh my god, 0:10:11.679 --> 0:10:13.200 it is so many bitches that would be like, all right, 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:15.959 I don't look at the uggs like and get it 0:10:16.040 --> 0:10:19.360 to the baby that is that is fucked up. Okay, 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:22.160 So how did it? And when did I know? They're 0:10:22.160 --> 0:10:24.640 on the edge of the seat right now. When did 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:26.520 you meet her? When did you see her? Like? When 0:10:26.559 --> 0:10:30.600 did you ever? Did you? I never got to meet 0:10:31.080 --> 0:10:34.960 the other woman. I actually never I've never other woman. 0:10:35.240 --> 0:10:38.480 So she's under the impression that I'm just some ghetto 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:41.000 as bitch and I caused a lot of trouble and 0:10:41.000 --> 0:10:43.559 ain't not telling who was first. You don't know who 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:47.640 he was dealing with. She so she was a person 0:10:47.679 --> 0:10:51.320 from his past, but they had just broken up right 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:52.760 before I met him when I was a saying nature, 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:58.680 So she was actually with him prior to be getting 0:10:58.679 --> 0:11:00.440 with him in the long long time time, in those 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:03.600 days when all were young and ship very young. But 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.000 then when I found out about her, I confronted him 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:09.959 about it and he lied. When I confronted him about 0:11:10.320 --> 0:11:12.679 about you seeing him, he said, that was my cousin 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:15.320 who him, his big ast He got a biggest cousin 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:16.760 that looked just like him, that walked just like him 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:18.880 in everything and it's bad and it and its cousin 0:11:18.920 --> 0:11:20.440 they had to run, so they got damn bad room 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:23.480 just as soon as I came in there. No, no, 0:11:24.200 --> 0:11:28.959 he said, the girl was his cousin. Oh what she 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:31.320 ain't answering me like, no, goddamn cause in any cousin 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:34.120 would have been like that girls talking my cousin like 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:38.120 she would have just told me that girl bye, niggabye please. 0:11:38.240 --> 0:11:41.320 That is crazy. So I mean a long story short 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:46.719 going forward. Um, we both have children. I won't say 0:11:46.760 --> 0:11:50.800 the age, but um, we both have children. UM our 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:54.040 children recently just met I still have yet to meet, 0:11:54.720 --> 0:11:58.800 um this young lady. And they're not too far apart. 0:11:58.920 --> 0:12:02.120 The kids. Yeah, because y'all were pregnant at the same time. 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.960 So he was living a double life. But the difference 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:09.720 between this story and uh and story time was they 0:12:09.800 --> 0:12:14.880 knew about each other. So I think that's worse. Worse 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:17.240 he told you know, the story that he told her 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:19.640 was hold up, hold up, I know the ship getting good. 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:21.480 But listened to just a couple of seconds of a 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:26.760 commercial if you love me, you'll listen. This is what 0:12:26.840 --> 0:12:30.800 he told the other girl because apparently they were, um, 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.920 you know, more than just a couple. He told her 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:36.400 that I was just a one nice fand and he 0:12:36.440 --> 0:12:39.360 met through his little brother and he doesn't know if 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:44.719 the baby could have possibly possibly been his or not. Wow, 0:12:45.440 --> 0:12:50.240 niggas is so fucking triful. They well on that note 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:52.800 story time that that story is a little better because 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:54.559 the nigger was up front. He did. He came out, 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:56.520 and then she knew about her, and then he knew 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:58.360 and then she knew about her. No, it would be 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:01.320 no secrets. Everything is I don't take The only thing 0:13:01.440 --> 0:13:03.800 is I just can't let somebody run free with my 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:05.839 heart like that, knowing that they got somebody else heard 0:13:06.240 --> 0:13:08.960 as well, Like like at this point, they may as 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:11.200 well all move together. But you know people do it 0:13:11.200 --> 0:13:14.680 all the time. What is it the polygamust? Yeah, yeah, polygamy. 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:17.520 And that's what I wanted to ask him, like yo, 0:13:17.640 --> 0:13:19.120 like no, what I did kind of ask him like 0:13:19.160 --> 0:13:20.440 are you okay with that? Like this is like an 0:13:20.520 --> 0:13:23.600 arrangement like this five years. Don't have a three way relationship, 0:13:24.040 --> 0:13:25.679 you know, And she's like, no, it ain't that then 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:28.160 what the funk is it? Because you're telling me that 0:13:28.240 --> 0:13:30.960 you know this ship and you're okay with this, but 0:13:31.000 --> 0:13:33.600 she's like, I'm not okay with it. That's what I'm saying. 0:13:34.000 --> 0:13:36.920 I just recently told him. Yo, she said, I'm at 0:13:36.920 --> 0:13:39.360 a point now where it's like you need to choose 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:41.440 me or you're done. But you're still in the same 0:13:41.480 --> 0:13:45.160 boat because they have any children. You're telling no, no kids. 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:49.280 I don't think she wants any, but no children, you know, 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:52.640 and he has other children as well, not by that girl, 0:13:52.760 --> 0:13:56.440 just you know, children from previous relationships. Nick, I'm telling 0:13:56.520 --> 0:14:00.000 you that must be like the best dick that anybody 0:14:00.240 --> 0:14:04.640 that never been blessed with in life. It's ridiculous. Seriously, 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:08.760 must be coded. And do y'all remember Loving Hip Hop? 0:14:08.800 --> 0:14:10.600 You remember, well, have you ever watched you know, Loving 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:13.080 Hip Hop New York when Peter guns Amina and Tara 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:17.560 was even if because yes, you've seen that ship online. 0:14:17.559 --> 0:14:21.840 Now listen, Peter wasn't truthful at first, but once they 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:24.000 found out about each other and everything, and once they 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:26.680 you know, knew like, okay, this is what we're dealing 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:29.360 with and okay, this is uh yeah, okay, you know 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:32.520 because he married Amina. He just kept giving Tara kids, 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:34.880 but he wouldn't leave neither one of them. Yeah, my 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:37.360 sister wife. It was like they were in a competition 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.480 to try to see who could win him, because there 0:14:40.560 --> 0:14:43.560 was a scene where Tara was like, yes, I sat 0:14:43.600 --> 0:14:45.520 on his dick every night when I want to. I 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:47.400 would say, Peter, come fuck my pussy and he would 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:49.480 come and he did, didn't you Peter? And Peter was 0:14:49.520 --> 0:14:51.400 sitting there looking like, bitch, why you won't say that? 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:55.400 Ship National TV? He was so mad she put him 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:59.440 out there. So they were in competition, like, yo, y'all 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:03.000 are impeting for this penis? You know? They were like 0:15:03.040 --> 0:15:05.240 getting back like it was like every year. Every year 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:10.360 a new one was pregnant, like Amina. Yeah, then Tar 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:12.760 got pregnant, then a Meana got pregnant, then Tar, and 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:15.880 it's like, yo, y'all are really y'all know about each other, 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:18.080 but y'all trying to see who can win him or 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:21.360 trying to see if and it became a three way situation. 0:15:23.200 --> 0:15:27.960 So yeah, I just I can't. I can't and I 0:15:28.000 --> 0:15:30.560 get you know, people are into that. There are people 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:32.560 who are into that. I just can't do it. For 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.200 my sanity. That's that's not I can't either. I want 0:15:35.280 --> 0:15:37.840 I want my own nigga. Yeah, I want my own nigga. Like, 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:41.440 I just don't understand. Like, it's one thing if you 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:45.400 if you don't know, but when you know, I feel 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:50.240 like you're just being a dumbass essentially. Now let me 0:15:50.280 --> 0:15:53.000 go back to try to clean it up. Some people 0:15:53.040 --> 0:15:56.800 are okay with that, but they don't have a relationship 0:15:57.040 --> 0:15:59.480 with this person. They might just like what they can 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:02.560 do for them sexually, and it's just a sexual thing. 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:04.680 But to actually sit there and fall in love with 0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:07.800 somebody and to be in love with somebody that I 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:10.040 don't get it. I don't understand that. That right there 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:13.840 is when I feel like it is a sickness. Yeah, 0:16:13.960 --> 0:16:16.480 you're talking about for the girl, for the woman either 0:16:16.680 --> 0:16:20.360 or yeah. Because Peter has said, like I love you 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:22.680 and I love you. I love you both like like 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:25.360 my friends. Man, he loves them both like he cannot choose, 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:27.240 like and it's I think it's going on for so 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:30.920 long where they allowed it without even knowing that they 0:16:30.920 --> 0:16:33.720 have allowed it. They're just they're acclimated to the situation. 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:37.160 It's this for five years. That is a lifestyle. That 0:16:37.280 --> 0:16:39.760 is a lifestyle. That's not just a situation. The situation 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:43.760 ship you're cheating or whatever. That is a lifestyle. This 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:46.880 is how all of them, clearly are you used to living? 0:16:47.080 --> 0:16:48.600 Like all right, I'm gonna be with this bitch on 0:16:48.680 --> 0:16:50.560 this day and I'm gonna be with her on that day. 0:16:50.640 --> 0:16:53.600 You understand, right, Yeah, I understand. Okay, I see you 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:55.360 tomorrow road or I see you later because I'm gonna 0:16:55.360 --> 0:16:57.280 be withle heard this time. Blah blah blah. That's when 0:16:57.320 --> 0:17:01.240 I feel like, what is the word I'm looking for? Narcissistic? 0:17:01.640 --> 0:17:05.880 It is narcissistic. The biggest narcissist of all reality TV 0:17:06.040 --> 0:17:08.480 and I've ever even seen in real life as sucking 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:10.760 Stevie j. That's well he used to be. He's not anymore. 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:13.280 Thank god Faith changed his life. Man, he's aptly married 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:17.280 now with her to her what, Yeah, they ain't married 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:22.280 no more? She damn but no. Well, I guarantee you 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:24.240 ain't doing all that ship the faith. I don't know. 0:17:24.520 --> 0:17:29.240 He was just blatantly disrespectful to Mimi and Joscelyn, Like 0:17:29.520 --> 0:17:32.240 I believe he made Jocelyn the main bit she is. 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:34.520 You know what I'm saying or she was but ship 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:37.920 you know, I just and then he fucked me me 0:17:38.200 --> 0:17:41.239 up bad, not physically, you know, I don't want to think, 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:45.720 but I feel like maybe in his mind he felt 0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:48.240 as though he could do that to them because they 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:52.480 weren't anybody, if that makes sense. Faith had a name 0:17:52.760 --> 0:17:55.919 way before he was even and they were friends. They 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:58.520 were actually homies over the years, you know, I mean, 0:17:58.560 --> 0:18:02.720 but still Faith is that's Faith Evans. Yeah, that's that's 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:05.359 biggie X. You know what I'm saying, Like, that's that's Faith. 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:08.760 She's somebody, she's a legend. She's bad like everybody. Everybody 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:15.560 knows Faith Evans. Like somebody say, like some people, right, baby, 0:18:16.880 --> 0:18:19.680 now that's what they'll say. But you know, no, for sure, 0:18:19.720 --> 0:18:21.800 I I do get it. She uh you know, could 0:18:21.920 --> 0:18:23.440 never hold a torch to Faith and not you know, 0:18:23.480 --> 0:18:26.240 I understand. I'm sorry, I'm just being real, um, but yeah, 0:18:26.600 --> 0:18:30.320 I do understand that. However, she's beautiful, she's glowed up, 0:18:30.320 --> 0:18:35.160 and she she has made a better woman of herself, 0:18:35.280 --> 0:18:37.280 you know what I'm saying. And look, she didn't even 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:39.280 got to got a baby out the nigg Stevie. You 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:41.360 know what I'm saying. And and and which her man 0:18:41.480 --> 0:18:43.959 and her he takes care of the baby. You know, 0:18:44.119 --> 0:18:47.000 the man that she's with now. She seems very happy 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:49.000 with him. I still don't know the nick name. But yes, 0:18:49.080 --> 0:18:52.320 she feels she got somebody. Yes she has somebody. Um 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:55.399 he does the TV show with her and everything like, 0:18:55.520 --> 0:18:58.080 no for sure, but you had a lot of situations 0:18:58.160 --> 0:19:00.320 with guys like that was like funny to me. I 0:19:00.320 --> 0:19:03.719 swear to God, like a lot of situations. So the 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:06.160 one before I had children, when I had my first 0:19:06.200 --> 0:19:09.960 little apartment. Don't remember my first little apartment with no furniture. 0:19:10.240 --> 0:19:12.280 I literally had a food's on and the TV staying. 0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:16.560 The guy that used to date who also shall remain 0:19:16.920 --> 0:19:22.080 nameless Homeboy, was living with me and still dealing with 0:19:22.160 --> 0:19:25.480 his ex. I found out about his ex. I can't 0:19:25.480 --> 0:19:28.080 remember how I found out. I felt like somebody told me, 0:19:28.119 --> 0:19:30.320 but I can't remember. Ever, so long ago, I can't 0:19:30.320 --> 0:19:34.240 remember exactly how, but I found out about home Girl. 0:19:34.400 --> 0:19:36.439 This was back in my Space days, so that's how 0:19:37.840 --> 0:19:40.840 I hit her up on my Space. Talked to her 0:19:41.040 --> 0:19:44.880 and we was like, oh yeah, so girl, we're gonna 0:19:44.880 --> 0:19:47.560 set him up so he get off work. He's gonna 0:19:47.600 --> 0:19:49.240 get a ride home. Ain gonna go pick him up. 0:19:49.720 --> 0:19:52.320 Come here, I'm gonna pack all this ship up. Girl. 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:56.680 We're gonna play Irreplaceable by Beyonce. That some fucking clowns 0:19:56.760 --> 0:19:59.560 just actually not trying to redo the boy's mind, like 0:19:59.560 --> 0:20:04.560