WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Multiple Misunderstanding

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jew bowls. Second d date. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>think one of the keys to dating is if you're

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<v Speaker 1>ever like challenging a girl to a game I'm playing

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<v Speaker 1>pool bowling something like that. You let them win. No,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not how you do it. You beat them down handily,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you gloat in their face. And that is

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<v Speaker 1>the best way to score a date with a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's exactly what Henry did. Who's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date update right now. He challenged her

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<v Speaker 1>to a race, beat her, and then gloated, and now

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<v Speaker 1>he's wondering why he's not getting a call back. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I might know why, Henry, That's exactly what happened. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't you explain to me what happened then? Because

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<v Speaker 1>your email said that you met her while you guys

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<v Speaker 1>were running, and you challenge her to a race and

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<v Speaker 1>beat her. Right, So it was it was a five

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<v Speaker 1>K and we met while stretching, I was stretching. We

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<v Speaker 1>were booth alone stretching. That sounds very intimate already, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, you know, I guess it was kind of intimate.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you make comments about her being very bendy and

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<v Speaker 1>how you like that. No, I steered clear of those

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<v Speaker 1>sorts of comments. But we were stretching and I noticed her.

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<v Speaker 1>She was cute. We flirted. I was just you know,

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<v Speaker 1>asking her if she was excited about the run. Had

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<v Speaker 1>she'd done this sort of stuff before, just no basic flirting,

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<v Speaker 1>getting to know you stuff, and she seemed really cool,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh my god, this is this

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<v Speaker 1>is really great. So I said, I'll bet you lunch

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<v Speaker 1>that i'll beat you. Oh that's kind of cute. Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was pretty cute. I mean, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>your way to make sure that you can buy her lunch. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole time I was gonna buy I wasn't thinking like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna like hold her to buying me lunch. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just a way to ask her out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure. I'm sure she understood that. So you ended

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<v Speaker 1>up beating her, and then I beat her handily course,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're still bragging about it. I'm a good runner,

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<v Speaker 1>You're I waited for her, not in a creepy way,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was just there. You know, everyone's having some water.

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<v Speaker 1>I was there, and we you know, exchange numbers and

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<v Speaker 1>we went out for lunch. All right, and how did

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<v Speaker 1>lunch go? Really good? I mean, I really liked her.

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<v Speaker 1>She was really cool and funny. It was easy, and

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<v Speaker 1>I paid for lunch again, you know, so, so I didn't,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, make her pay for lunch? Why did you

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<v Speaker 1>laugh after that? That sounded weird, like I paid for lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>if you know what I mean. I thought, I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like I felt like you guys might think that I

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<v Speaker 1>made her pay for lunch because of the bed. You

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<v Speaker 1>should have no, yeah, you absolutely should have made her

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<v Speaker 1>pay for lunch, he said. The conversation and everything was

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<v Speaker 1>going good, Like, what are some of the things you

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<v Speaker 1>really connected on other than the fact that she can't

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<v Speaker 1>run as fast as you can? Right? I mean, there

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<v Speaker 1>was one interesting thing I'll say, I mean that she's

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<v Speaker 1>sort of stood out from other girls I've dated. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked a lot about intimacy, um intimacy, like like

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<v Speaker 1>sexual intimacy. Yeah, oh nice, that's pretty sweet to have

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<v Speaker 1>on a first date over lunch. Yeah, you know, fop

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<v Speaker 1>and salad and talk about saying yeah exactly because it's lunchtime,

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<v Speaker 1>it's daylight. I mean, I don't know exactly how it

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<v Speaker 1>came up, but regardless, she was really free and felt

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable talking about it, and we you know, we both

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it, and it was refreshing, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>I think, you know, I think in our culture, like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of women don't feel comfortable as they should

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<v Speaker 1>talking about that sort of stuff. Can wait, hold on, though,

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<v Speaker 1>what exactly were you talking about? Like the craziest places

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have ever done? It didn't we didn't get

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<v Speaker 1>that far into it, but you know, we just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of talked about how we feel about Say, I got

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<v Speaker 1>the impression that she was kind of wild. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she she basically said as much. Wow, she said. So

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<v Speaker 1>she actually said that she's wild in so many words.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm guessing you got a kiss at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the day ten at least, you know, we just we

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<v Speaker 1>hugged at the end of the day. Actually, Wow, she

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<v Speaker 1>does sound like a wild one. Yeah. Well, again, it

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<v Speaker 1>was afternoon, and you know, first date for me, I

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<v Speaker 1>generally think like the first date, not much is going

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<v Speaker 1>to happen in that way. But but no way, it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel like I was like hugging my sister or something,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like it felt like, okay, there was chemistry there.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're saying that she's wild, and you guys talked

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<v Speaker 1>about all kinds of intimacy, all kinds of sexual stuff

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<v Speaker 1>on her first date, and then you ended it with

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<v Speaker 1>a hug. I'm guessing your talk wasn't really as hot

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<v Speaker 1>and heavy as I'm picturing it in my mind. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like one time I kissed the guy on the cheek. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a naughty girl. No, trust me, it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was more than that. I know it might not sound

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<v Speaker 1>like a lunch date hugging, but like it was pretty

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<v Speaker 1>It was pretty hot, all right. But if it was

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<v Speaker 1>so hot, then why do you think you're not getting

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<v Speaker 1>a callback? I mean, I don't know. I texted her

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<v Speaker 1>after I didn't hear back. I waited a couple of days.

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<v Speaker 1>I texted her again, and I still didn't hear back.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm worried that maybe she felt like obligated because

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<v Speaker 1>of the race, because I bet her that if I

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<v Speaker 1>win that she would have thinked like she felt like

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<v Speaker 1>she had no choice but to go out with you,

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<v Speaker 1>because before the race, you were like, if I beat you,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta take out to launch. She's like, damn it,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to actually go out with this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but I feel like it can't be that

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<v Speaker 1>because again, like she was able to open up with

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<v Speaker 1>me about personal stuff. I felt a real connection, So

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<v Speaker 1>it just seems like it couldn't be that. Well, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, come back, call her and get your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Then okay, thank you? Sure all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking Jubil in the morning. Second update if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>tuning in for today's second date update, Henry is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with us today. He wants to call a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Leslie. They met at a five k before

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<v Speaker 1>the race. He was like, hey, I bet you If

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<v Speaker 1>I beat you, I have to take you out for lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she giggled. I was like okay, and then

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<v Speaker 1>he ended up beating her and they went out to lunch,

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently they had a romantic lunchtime date after their race,

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<v Speaker 1>and a certain point that romantic lunch date turned straight

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<v Speaker 1>up down and dirty, when he says, the conversation turned

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<v Speaker 1>to all sorts of sexual things, something that usually doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>happen over lunch on a first date. So he's very

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<v Speaker 1>confused how he would have this open of a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with a girl and she would not be calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>Henry are you ready to give miss Dirty Talk a call.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready and find out why she's not getting back

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<v Speaker 1>to you. I'm ready. And are you thinking of her

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<v Speaker 1>as like this could be a potential girlfriend or you

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<v Speaker 1>just really curious on what or not she truly is

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<v Speaker 1>wild in the sack booth? Okay, all right, I'm commendable.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in a dollar phone number right now. See if

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<v Speaker 1>we can get her on the phone and find out

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<v Speaker 1>why she's not getting back to you. Okay, okay, thank you? Hello? Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Leslie? Please? Yes? This is her? Hey, Leslie?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Hi, Hi, how are you? I'm okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Who is this? Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning,

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<v Speaker 1>the radio show. What exactly is this regarding? It's regarding

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<v Speaker 1>somebody that you recently went on a date with. What. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you recently went out on a date with somebody that

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<v Speaker 1>listens to our show and you haven't been calling them back.

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<v Speaker 1>So he actually emailed us to see if we could

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and find out why you've

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<v Speaker 1>been blowing him off. Who is it? His name is Henry?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh lord, you remember Henry? He said that you guys

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<v Speaker 1>met at a five k and then went out for

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<v Speaker 1>lunch after. Yeah, okay, is there a reason why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not calling Henry back? He says, he's tried to get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you bunch. Oh, there definitely is a reason.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mind sharing it with us so that we

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<v Speaker 1>can tell him. I don't even know what happened. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like, you know, when I met him, he at

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<v Speaker 1>the road race. He was really funny. He was, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>telling some jokes and I thought that was kind of cute.

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<v Speaker 1>And he said that he made a little bet with

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<v Speaker 1>you before you guys started running. Yeah he did. That

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<v Speaker 1>was I mean, it was kind of cute. It was

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<v Speaker 1>a little cocky, but it was. It was cute, all right. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you liked him a lot, So what

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<v Speaker 1>was it that turned you off? Well, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>normal date at first. You know, we sat down and

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about my job, and then all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, out of nowhere, the conversation went from my

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<v Speaker 1>job to sex and yeah, yeah, what do you mean,

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<v Speaker 1>how do you even make that transition? I had no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>All of a sudden, he started asking about me and

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<v Speaker 1>my sexual experiences with other people and other women, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, where did this come from? And just

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<v Speaker 1>out of the blue, nowhere, he just goes down a

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<v Speaker 1>weird sexual path on you. Yes, out of nowhere. It

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<v Speaker 1>just caught me off guard. I didn't know what to do,

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<v Speaker 1>so I just went along with it. Oh yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>what would you do if you were in my situation?

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<v Speaker 1>Like he just started talking to me about multiple partners,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was I had no idea what I was,

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<v Speaker 1>what I was doing. I was like an out of

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<v Speaker 1>body experience. Really. We talked to him him and he

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<v Speaker 1>said that you guys both mutually started talking about all

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of sexual stuff. No, no, he definitely brought it up.

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<v Speaker 1>And all I wanted to do was get out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>That was all that I was thinking about, Like, how

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<v Speaker 1>can I end this lunch so that I can like

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<v Speaker 1>leave as fast as possible. Why didn't you just I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>why didn't you tell him that those are totally inappropriate

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<v Speaker 1>questions during a lunch date and you're just not comfortable?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just I guess I was so in

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<v Speaker 1>shock about how the conversation just took the turn sexual.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so weird. We talked to him and like

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<v Speaker 1>I said. He was just like, oh, she started talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it, and then we both started talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I had nothing to do with it. And actually, at

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<v Speaker 1>one point he said, and I quote, oh, I'm totally

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<v Speaker 1>into that. I'd be down for that. And I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>unsay anything sexual at all. I wonder what he was

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<v Speaker 1>thinking he'd be down for. Wouldn't you love to ask him?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, no, I don't ever want. That's shame

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<v Speaker 1>because Henry's actually on the other line listening right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Henry, he's on the phone. Yes he is, Henry.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you going to explain yourself? What were you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand. Like, I'm sorry, but like you were

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<v Speaker 1>absolutely talking about sex stuff, and you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I hate to say it, though, I'm sorry, but I

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<v Speaker 1>never bought up sex. Are you serious? Yeah? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>what about all the by talk? You know, what whoa

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<v Speaker 1>the what you said you were by? And so I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, you're telling me you were like opening

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<v Speaker 1>up or something. I'm like, okay, oh my gosh, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I never I never said I was by. Where did

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<v Speaker 1>you get that from? You said you were you said

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<v Speaker 1>you were by coastal and and and so I you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I started, you said you were by coastal

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<v Speaker 1>like four times, and yes, I said I was by coastal.

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<v Speaker 1>Coastal is not bisexual. Bi coastal means I work on

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<v Speaker 1>both the East and West coast, not bisexual meaning I

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<v Speaker 1>have multiple partners. There's definitely a huge difference. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was like a slang term for that. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean bi coastal like that. A lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>say bi coastal, Henry, Are you serious, Henry? Right now,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to say. I thought that's what

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<v Speaker 1>it was. So you like launched into a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>questions about her sexuality because you thought that she was

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<v Speaker 1>confessing to you that she was a bisexual. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess that's what I thought. Yeah, bi coastal is a

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<v Speaker 1>very popular phrase for people that work on both the

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<v Speaker 1>East and the West coast. And so was it after

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<v Speaker 1>she said that that you were like, Oh, I'm into that.

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<v Speaker 1>She kept talking, she kept talking about it, so I thought, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she wants to talk about our sexuality. Okay, Henry, you

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<v Speaker 1>were you were such a dumb I mean, come on,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know everything that I just I really genuinely

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was like a slang term. I'm not an idiot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought you were trying to ask me if

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<v Speaker 1>I was into it. I'm not like homophobic or bisexual

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<v Speaker 1>phobic or something obviously not. You're actually very pro bisexuality,

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<v Speaker 1>judging from your conversation, Henry. Either way I mean mix

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<v Speaker 1>up or no mix up. You don't ask about sexual

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<v Speaker 1>experiences on the first dage on, Leslie. You can see

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<v Speaker 1>that it was a mistake. It's almost endearing word right there. Hey, Leslie,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with Henry? We will pay for it. Yeah, come on

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<v Speaker 1>on whatever coast do you want to be on? You free?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Henry? I just I don't know that I

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<v Speaker 1>can really look at you seriously anymore after our first day.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Oh well, I'm sorry too. Sorry, Henry. You

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<v Speaker 1>the best, though, and now I hope that this was

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<v Speaker 1>an educational experience for you and you can take this

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<v Speaker 1>and into your next state dating experience. At least you

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<v Speaker 1>learned a new word today, Henry. And just out of precaution,

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<v Speaker 1>I just want a tricycle is a bike with three wheels,

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<v Speaker 1>in case anybody ever brings that up. Okay, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>pass the vocab test now