Speaker 1: Brooking jew bowls. Second d date. A lot of people
Speaker 1: think one of the keys to dating is if you're
Speaker 1: ever like challenging a girl to a game I'm playing
Speaker 1: pool bowling something like that. You let them win. No,
Speaker 1: that's not how you do it. You beat them down handily,
Speaker 1: and then you gloat in their face. And that is
Speaker 1: the best way to score a date with a girl.
Speaker 1: And that's exactly what Henry did. Who's on the phone
Speaker 1: for a second date update right now. He challenged her
Speaker 1: to a race, beat her, and then gloated, and now
Speaker 1: he's wondering why he's not getting a call back. I
Speaker 1: think I might know why, Henry, That's exactly what happened. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: why don't you explain to me what happened then? Because
Speaker 1: your email said that you met her while you guys
Speaker 1: were running, and you challenge her to a race and
Speaker 1: beat her. Right, So it was it was a five
Speaker 1: K and we met while stretching, I was stretching. We
Speaker 1: were booth alone stretching. That sounds very intimate already, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess, you know, I guess it was kind of intimate.
Speaker 1: Do you make comments about her being very bendy and
Speaker 1: how you like that. No, I steered clear of those
Speaker 1: sorts of comments. But we were stretching and I noticed her.
Speaker 1: She was cute. We flirted. I was just you know,
Speaker 1: asking her if she was excited about the run. Had
Speaker 1: she'd done this sort of stuff before, just no basic flirting,
Speaker 1: getting to know you stuff, and she seemed really cool,
Speaker 1: and I was like, oh my god, this is this
Speaker 1: is really great. So I said, I'll bet you lunch
Speaker 1: that i'll beat you. Oh that's kind of cute. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I thought it was pretty cute. I mean, it's just
Speaker 1: your way to make sure that you can buy her lunch. Yeah.
Speaker 1: The whole time I was gonna buy I wasn't thinking like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like hold her to buying me lunch. You know.
Speaker 1: It was just a way to ask her out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sure. I'm sure she understood that. So you ended
Speaker 1: up beating her, and then I beat her handily course,
Speaker 1: and you're still bragging about it. I'm a good runner,
Speaker 1: You're I waited for her, not in a creepy way,
Speaker 1: but I was just there. You know, everyone's having some water.
Speaker 1: I was there, and we you know, exchange numbers and
Speaker 1: we went out for lunch. All right, and how did
Speaker 1: lunch go? Really good? I mean, I really liked her.
Speaker 1: She was really cool and funny. It was easy, and
Speaker 1: I paid for lunch again, you know, so, so I didn't,
Speaker 1: you know, make her pay for lunch? Why did you
Speaker 1: laugh after that? That sounded weird, like I paid for lunch,
Speaker 1: if you know what I mean. I thought, I felt
Speaker 1: like I felt like you guys might think that I
Speaker 1: made her pay for lunch because of the bed. You
Speaker 1: should have no, yeah, you absolutely should have made her
Speaker 1: pay for lunch, he said. The conversation and everything was
Speaker 1: going good, Like, what are some of the things you
Speaker 1: really connected on other than the fact that she can't
Speaker 1: run as fast as you can? Right? I mean, there
Speaker 1: was one interesting thing I'll say, I mean that she's
Speaker 1: sort of stood out from other girls I've dated. Um,
Speaker 1: we talked a lot about intimacy, um intimacy, like like
Speaker 1: sexual intimacy. Yeah, oh nice, that's pretty sweet to have
Speaker 1: on a first date over lunch. Yeah, you know, fop
Speaker 1: and salad and talk about saying yeah exactly because it's lunchtime,
Speaker 1: it's daylight. I mean, I don't know exactly how it
Speaker 1: came up, but regardless, she was really free and felt
Speaker 1: comfortable talking about it, and we you know, we both
Speaker 1: talked about it, and it was refreshing, you know, because
Speaker 1: I think, you know, I think in our culture, like
Speaker 1: a lot of women don't feel comfortable as they should
Speaker 1: talking about that sort of stuff. Can wait, hold on, though,
Speaker 1: what exactly were you talking about? Like the craziest places
Speaker 1: you guys have ever done? It didn't we didn't get
Speaker 1: that far into it, but you know, we just sort
Speaker 1: of talked about how we feel about Say, I got
Speaker 1: the impression that she was kind of wild. I mean,
Speaker 1: she she basically said as much. Wow, she said. So
Speaker 1: she actually said that she's wild in so many words.
Speaker 1: I'm guessing you got a kiss at the end of
Speaker 1: the day ten at least, you know, we just we
Speaker 1: hugged at the end of the day. Actually, Wow, she
Speaker 1: does sound like a wild one. Yeah. Well, again, it
Speaker 1: was afternoon, and you know, first date for me, I
Speaker 1: generally think like the first date, not much is going
Speaker 1: to happen in that way. But but no way, it
Speaker 1: didn't feel like I was like hugging my sister or something,
Speaker 1: you know, like it felt like, okay, there was chemistry there.
Speaker 1: So you're saying that she's wild, and you guys talked
Speaker 1: about all kinds of intimacy, all kinds of sexual stuff
Speaker 1: on her first date, and then you ended it with
Speaker 1: a hug. I'm guessing your talk wasn't really as hot
Speaker 1: and heavy as I'm picturing it in my mind. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like one time I kissed the guy on the cheek. Oh,
Speaker 1: she's a naughty girl. No, trust me, it was. It
Speaker 1: was more than that. I know it might not sound
Speaker 1: like a lunch date hugging, but like it was pretty
Speaker 1: It was pretty hot, all right. But if it was
Speaker 1: so hot, then why do you think you're not getting
Speaker 1: a callback? I mean, I don't know. I texted her
Speaker 1: after I didn't hear back. I waited a couple of days.
Speaker 1: I texted her again, and I still didn't hear back.
Speaker 1: So I'm worried that maybe she felt like obligated because
Speaker 1: of the race, because I bet her that if I
Speaker 1: win that she would have thinked like she felt like
Speaker 1: she had no choice but to go out with you,
Speaker 1: because before the race, you were like, if I beat you,
Speaker 1: I gotta take out to launch. She's like, damn it,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to actually go out with this guy.
Speaker 1: I know, but I feel like it can't be that
Speaker 1: because again, like she was able to open up with
Speaker 1: me about personal stuff. I felt a real connection, So
Speaker 1: it just seems like it couldn't be that. Well, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call her and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. Then okay, thank you? Sure all right?
Speaker 1: Brooking Jubil in the morning. Second update if you're just
Speaker 1: tuning in for today's second date update, Henry is on
Speaker 1: the phone with us today. He wants to call a
Speaker 1: girl named Leslie. They met at a five k before
Speaker 1: the race. He was like, hey, I bet you If
Speaker 1: I beat you, I have to take you out for lunch,
Speaker 1: and then she giggled. I was like okay, and then
Speaker 1: he ended up beating her and they went out to lunch,
Speaker 1: and apparently they had a romantic lunchtime date after their race,
Speaker 1: and a certain point that romantic lunch date turned straight
Speaker 1: up down and dirty, when he says, the conversation turned
Speaker 1: to all sorts of sexual things, something that usually doesn't
Speaker 1: happen over lunch on a first date. So he's very
Speaker 1: confused how he would have this open of a conversation
Speaker 1: with a girl and she would not be calling him back.
Speaker 1: Henry are you ready to give miss Dirty Talk a call.
Speaker 1: I'm ready and find out why she's not getting back
Speaker 1: to you. I'm ready. And are you thinking of her
Speaker 1: as like this could be a potential girlfriend or you
Speaker 1: just really curious on what or not she truly is
Speaker 1: wild in the sack booth? Okay, all right, I'm commendable.
Speaker 1: I'm in a dollar phone number right now. See if
Speaker 1: we can get her on the phone and find out
Speaker 1: why she's not getting back to you. Okay, okay, thank you? Hello? Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Leslie? Please? Yes? This is her? Hey, Leslie?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Hi, Hi, how are you? I'm okay?
Speaker 1: Who is this? Jebil from Brook and Jewel in the Morning,
Speaker 1: the radio show. What exactly is this regarding? It's regarding
Speaker 1: somebody that you recently went on a date with. What. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you recently went out on a date with somebody that
Speaker 1: listens to our show and you haven't been calling them back.
Speaker 1: So he actually emailed us to see if we could
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and find out why you've
Speaker 1: been blowing him off. Who is it? His name is Henry?
Speaker 1: Oh lord, you remember Henry? He said that you guys
Speaker 1: met at a five k and then went out for
Speaker 1: lunch after. Yeah, okay, is there a reason why you're
Speaker 1: not calling Henry back? He says, he's tried to get
Speaker 1: a hold of you bunch. Oh, there definitely is a reason.
Speaker 1: Do you mind sharing it with us so that we
Speaker 1: can tell him. I don't even know what happened. It
Speaker 1: was like, you know, when I met him, he at
Speaker 1: the road race. He was really funny. He was, you know,
Speaker 1: telling some jokes and I thought that was kind of cute.
Speaker 1: And he said that he made a little bet with
Speaker 1: you before you guys started running. Yeah he did. That
Speaker 1: was I mean, it was kind of cute. It was
Speaker 1: a little cocky, but it was. It was cute, all right. Well,
Speaker 1: it sounds like you liked him a lot, So what
Speaker 1: was it that turned you off? Well, it was a
Speaker 1: normal date at first. You know, we sat down and
Speaker 1: we were talking about my job, and then all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, out of nowhere, the conversation went from my
Speaker 1: job to sex and yeah, yeah, what do you mean,
Speaker 1: how do you even make that transition? I had no idea.
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, he started asking about me and
Speaker 1: my sexual experiences with other people and other women, and
Speaker 1: I was like, where did this come from? And just
Speaker 1: out of the blue, nowhere, he just goes down a
Speaker 1: weird sexual path on you. Yes, out of nowhere. It
Speaker 1: just caught me off guard. I didn't know what to do,
Speaker 1: so I just went along with it. Oh yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: what would you do if you were in my situation?
Speaker 1: Like he just started talking to me about multiple partners,
Speaker 1: and I was I had no idea what I was,
Speaker 1: what I was doing. I was like an out of
Speaker 1: body experience. Really. We talked to him him and he
Speaker 1: said that you guys both mutually started talking about all
Speaker 1: kinds of sexual stuff. No, no, he definitely brought it up.
Speaker 1: And all I wanted to do was get out of there.
Speaker 1: That was all that I was thinking about, Like, how
Speaker 1: can I end this lunch so that I can like
Speaker 1: leave as fast as possible. Why didn't you just I mean,
Speaker 1: why didn't you tell him that those are totally inappropriate
Speaker 1: questions during a lunch date and you're just not comfortable?
Speaker 1: I mean, I just I guess I was so in
Speaker 1: shock about how the conversation just took the turn sexual.
Speaker 1: That is so weird. We talked to him and like
Speaker 1: I said. He was just like, oh, she started talking
Speaker 1: about it, and then we both started talking about it.
Speaker 1: I had nothing to do with it. And actually, at
Speaker 1: one point he said, and I quote, oh, I'm totally
Speaker 1: into that. I'd be down for that. And I didn't
Speaker 1: unsay anything sexual at all. I wonder what he was
Speaker 1: thinking he'd be down for. Wouldn't you love to ask him?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, no, I don't ever want. That's shame
Speaker 1: because Henry's actually on the other line listening right now.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Henry, he's on the phone. Yes he is, Henry.
Speaker 1: How are you going to explain yourself? What were you doing?
Speaker 1: I don't understand. Like, I'm sorry, but like you were
Speaker 1: absolutely talking about sex stuff, and you know, I mean,
Speaker 1: I hate to say it, though, I'm sorry, but I
Speaker 1: never bought up sex. Are you serious? Yeah? I mean
Speaker 1: what about all the by talk? You know, what whoa
Speaker 1: the what you said you were by? And so I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you're telling me you were like opening
Speaker 1: up or something. I'm like, okay, oh my gosh, No,
Speaker 1: I never I never said I was by. Where did
Speaker 1: you get that from? You said you were you said
Speaker 1: you were by coastal and and and so I you know.
Speaker 1: I mean I started, you said you were by coastal
Speaker 1: like four times, and yes, I said I was by coastal.
Speaker 1: Coastal is not bisexual. Bi coastal means I work on
Speaker 1: both the East and West coast, not bisexual meaning I
Speaker 1: have multiple partners. There's definitely a huge difference. I mean,
Speaker 1: I thought it was like a slang term for that. No,
Speaker 1: I mean bi coastal like that. A lot of people
Speaker 1: say bi coastal, Henry, Are you serious, Henry? Right now,
Speaker 1: I don't know what to say. I thought that's what
Speaker 1: it was. So you like launched into a lot of
Speaker 1: questions about her sexuality because you thought that she was
Speaker 1: confessing to you that she was a bisexual. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess that's what I thought. Yeah, bi coastal is a
Speaker 1: very popular phrase for people that work on both the
Speaker 1: East and the West coast. And so was it after
Speaker 1: she said that that you were like, Oh, I'm into that.
Speaker 1: She kept talking, she kept talking about it, so I thought, oh,
Speaker 1: she wants to talk about our sexuality. Okay, Henry, you
Speaker 1: were you were such a dumb I mean, come on,
Speaker 1: I don't know everything that I just I really genuinely
Speaker 1: thought it was like a slang term. I'm not an idiot,
Speaker 1: and I thought you were trying to ask me if
Speaker 1: I was into it. I'm not like homophobic or bisexual
Speaker 1: phobic or something obviously not. You're actually very pro bisexuality,
Speaker 1: judging from your conversation, Henry. Either way I mean mix
Speaker 1: up or no mix up. You don't ask about sexual
Speaker 1: experiences on the first dage on, Leslie. You can see
Speaker 1: that it was a mistake. It's almost endearing word right there. Hey, Leslie,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out on a second date
Speaker 1: with Henry? We will pay for it. Yeah, come on
Speaker 1: on whatever coast do you want to be on? You free?
Speaker 1: You know, Henry? I just I don't know that I
Speaker 1: can really look at you seriously anymore after our first day.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Oh well, I'm sorry too. Sorry, Henry. You
Speaker 1: the best, though, and now I hope that this was
Speaker 1: an educational experience for you and you can take this
Speaker 1: and into your next state dating experience. At least you
Speaker 1: learned a new word today, Henry. And just out of precaution,
Speaker 1: I just want a tricycle is a bike with three wheels,
Speaker 1: in case anybody ever brings that up. Okay, yeah, I
Speaker 1: pass the vocab test now