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Speaker 3: Y'all don't know y'all all at all, So.

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Speaker 4: Don't given a.

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Speaker 5: Black busz.

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Speaker 4: Steve listening to show.

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Speaker 5: I want to joy? Yeah, joy, They have the same.

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Speaker 7: Love.

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Speaker 4: You gotta turn to turn the mouth. Turn You probably

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Speaker 5: Water of the money up.

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Speaker 8: Come on, you'll think, uh huh, I sure will.

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Speaker 2: Good morning everybody. You all listen to the voice. Come on,

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Speaker 2: dig me now, one.

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Speaker 8: And only Steve Harvey got a radio show. I thank

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Speaker 8: God for it every day. I try to remember that too,

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Speaker 8: you know. I try to remember to be grateful. I

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Speaker 8: think gratitude is one of the things that helps keep

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Speaker 8: me grounded. You can go as far as you want

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Speaker 8: in life. If you don't mind who gets the credit. Well,

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Speaker 8: that applies to God too, don't it. I mean, you know, really,

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Speaker 8: if you don't mind who gets the credit. I'm surrounded

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Speaker 8: by very competent people. I'm surrounded by a lot of

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Speaker 8: people who work hard on their jobs on their career,

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Speaker 8: who are dedicated employees and also just dedicated to their

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Speaker 8: families and you know, dedicated to their own set of aspirations.

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Speaker 8: I don't expect anybody to work for me forever. I

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Speaker 8: always look at my jobortunities as stepping stones because I

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Speaker 8: want everyone around me really to aspire to be more.

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Speaker 8: I mean, that's really the way I am. I'm not

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Speaker 8: any other way. I'm not trying to hold you to

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Speaker 8: this position. You know, tell you there's no room for

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Speaker 8: growth any of that. But even though I'm surrounded by

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Speaker 8: these people, I'm grateful that God placed them in my path,

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Speaker 8: in my life. But in my mind, in my spirit,

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Speaker 8: in everything in me, the credit still belongs to God.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry, the credit still belongs to God. See if

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Speaker 8: you would, just for a moment, stop thinking about yourself,

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Speaker 8: just for a moment. I know that's hard, but just

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Speaker 8: for a moment, stop thinking about yourself and realize that

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Speaker 8: maybe you are who you are because God is who

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Speaker 8: he is. Maybe that's the case. Have you ever considered that?

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Speaker 8: That's the strongest possibility I can give to you? You know,

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Speaker 8: how do you think you the one that made it through?

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Speaker 8: How you think you the one after all of the

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Speaker 8: ignorant decisions we have made? And oh my goodness, let's

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Speaker 8: all be honest. Ain't we made some crazy decisions? I'm

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Speaker 8: talking about, man, I have made decisions so adverse to

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Speaker 8: my destiny and career, my promises.

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Speaker 2: I've made some decisions.

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Speaker 8: Man, knowingly you hear me knowingly do something wrong, and

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Speaker 8: in spite of all that, I'm.

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Speaker 2: Still here standing.

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Speaker 8: Okay, come on now, really, really, all the dirt you'd done,

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Speaker 8: done everybody done dirt, all the mistakes you've made, you

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Speaker 8: in the position you in today because of what? Because

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Speaker 8: you all that? Because you work harder than anybody else. Look,

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Speaker 8: I work hard, I'll be I'll tell you in a minute.

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Speaker 9: I work hard.

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Speaker 8: But I don't think I'm the hardest working person out there.

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Speaker 8: I'm pretty sure somebody done work way harder than I have.

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Speaker 8: So okay, so you work hard? Okay, cool, I got

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Speaker 8: all that. But man, what about his grace and his mercy?

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Speaker 8: What about his favor? How many times, man you done

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Speaker 8: relied on that, even when you ain't know you was

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Speaker 8: relying on it? How many times man God done shown

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Speaker 8: you mercy? You ain't even deserve it? Do you know

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Speaker 8: how many things I've done wrong? I just ain't get

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Speaker 2: You know. Let me see how simple I can be here?

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Speaker 8: You speed, you jwall, You lie to police when you

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Speaker 8: get pulled over that you wasn't speed, and you go

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Speaker 8: You make U turns. I'm just doing traffic violations. Now,

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Speaker 8: let's get off traffic for a second. Let's get on

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Speaker 8: human violations. You talk about people when you're not supposed to.

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Speaker 8: You indulge yourself in gossip even when you don't really.

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Speaker 2: Have all the facts.

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Speaker 8: You pass judgment, You lust for people that don't belong

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 8: See I'm not saying you do all of that, but

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Speaker 8: I'm saying I'm pretty sure I hit you somewhere in there,

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Speaker 8: saying so with all that in mind, See, I'm just

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Speaker 8: stole when you was a kid and nobody caught you. Well,

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Speaker 8: that elevated, didn't it. And some of y'all just didn't

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Speaker 8: stop stealing. And next thing. You know, you was in

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Speaker 8: a car. Now you're sitting somewhere you don't want to

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Speaker 8: be sitting because of a decision you made. But through

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Speaker 8: his grace and mercy, couldn't it have been worse?

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Speaker 2: Though?

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Speaker 8: Without his grace and mercy, could not it have been worse.

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Speaker 8: I know two dudes that got caught in the garage

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Speaker 8: one time trying to break in somebody's house, and the

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Speaker 8: That's Grace and Mercy right there, because they had all

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Speaker 8: full right to shoot these two people, but they didn't.

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Speaker 8: They're Grace and Mercy. See, all of us have benefited

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Speaker 8: from his grace and mercy.

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Speaker 2: All of us have.

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Speaker 8: Done a wrong, committed a sin, broken a law, and somehow,

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Speaker 8: through his grace and mercy, got by, doing drugs, buying drugs,

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Speaker 8: slanging drugs, doing something, got by, jumped on some for

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Speaker 2: So see how you figure with all that.

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Speaker 8: That can go on in your life? And then hold on,

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Speaker 8: let me throw a couple more at you. You can't

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Speaker 8: wake yourself up in the morning, mister big shot, you

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Speaker 8: don't have the ability to control the breaths that you take. Really,

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Speaker 8: mister big shot, really, let's get real basic with it now.

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Speaker 2: You can't wake yourself up in the morning.

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Speaker 8: That's favor, that's grace, that's mercy, that's Him allowing you

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Speaker 8: to wake up just hoping we get it right. You know,

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Speaker 8: God spared me through all the dirt I was doing

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Speaker 8: just hoping. One day, man, can you just straighten up

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Speaker 8: a little bit? When I finally straightened up? And I'm

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Speaker 8: gonna just say it, straightened up a little bit. See,

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Speaker 8: I ain't straightened up all the way. Say I ain't

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Speaker 8: up a little bit blessing me. So the more blessings

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Speaker 8: I gotta start going. Man, maybe I'll try straighten up

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Speaker 8: a little bit more. So I straightened up a little

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Speaker 8: but I'm straighter than I was now. When people judging me,

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Speaker 8: and as they will, and they do, because that ain't right,

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Speaker 8: but they do, and I ain't walking just the way

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Speaker 8: they walk, then here come to criticism. I get it

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Speaker 8: all the time. Stop wanting credit all the time, and

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Speaker 8: give out some credit where credit is due instead of

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Speaker 8: having somebody patting you on your back all the time.

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Speaker 8: Why don't you tell God kill people it was really

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Speaker 8: was God, man that you don't really know how you

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Speaker 8: made it? That really man, you have no explanation for

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Speaker 8: your success, or you have no explanation why you still

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Speaker 8: exist in today. Why don't you tell somebody it was

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Speaker 8: God today. Don't be ashamed. It's the truth, ain't it.

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Speaker 8: I mean, really, man, Let's give God some credit here.

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Speaker 8: Give God the credit and the glory and the honor.

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Speaker 8: And like that plaque said, you can go as far

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Speaker 8: as you want in life if you don't mind who

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Speaker 8: gets the credit.

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Speaker 10: All right, you're listening morning show.

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Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen. It is here the beginning of a

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Speaker 8: new day. God has been good. You should recognize that.

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Speaker 8: If you have awakened on the wrong side of the bed,

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Speaker 8: immediately make a list, get your iPhone, take out your

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Speaker 8: note section, get a pen or paper, do whatever you

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Speaker 8: want to do, or just.

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Speaker 2: Stop and close your eyes.

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Speaker 8: I want you to list fifteen things that you're thankful for,

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Speaker 8: and you have it. As soon as you do that,

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Speaker 8: you will be now up on the right side of

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Speaker 8: the bed. Joy and depression cannot reside in the same place.

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Speaker 8: Get grateful, Get joyous, get your mind right. This is

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Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Tip for the day, Ladies and gentlemen,

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Speaker 8: Shirley Strawberry and Vasachi.

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Speaker 2: All damn day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you Steve. Grateful to be here, Grateful for that tip.

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Speaker 11: Thank you, ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 2: In moneymal green color for.

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Speaker 3: Real, Good morning, Happy Friday, Steve and the.

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Speaker 12: Crew in poetry black, good morning, unc morning family, Glad

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Speaker 12: to be here.

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Speaker 8: In old ass cano capt fashion, Jan Anthony.

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Speaker 5: Brown a hobby watch out there.

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Speaker 8: Now and in a black baseball hat that was formerly

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Speaker 8: from his childhood, which was a white dunce hat, but

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Speaker 8: we turned it into a baseball hat to make him

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Speaker 8: feel better. Ladies and gentlemen, Nephew Tommy, yes.

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Speaker 2: Sir, it's moaning time.

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Speaker 9: Also, you all.

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Speaker 8: Don't ever hear her voice, but one of the oldest

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Speaker 8: O'Dell's niece, Ladies and gentlemen, Mississippi Monica in black and

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Speaker 8: her hair back, thrown.

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Speaker 11: A great deal yes, throwing out yes, what.

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Speaker 2: Got Action's baby hair around? Her edges them.

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Speaker 7: Bang.

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Speaker 13: You know, do you know you can buy baby hair

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Speaker 13: stickers now to put on your hand.

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Speaker 11: If you don't have a.

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Speaker 9: Serious Yeah, I'm serious.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, you can buy that baby hair to get something,

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Speaker 14: all to get something.

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Speaker 2: Just had that. Let's start right now, going through something.

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Speaker 9: You say something? Yeah, say something.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm just have edges, y'all. Don't look for

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Speaker 2: Steve going through something. Baby.

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Speaker 9: Nobody say nothing, he's going through something.

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Speaker 8: Somebody did a computer drawing of me and took my

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Speaker 8: mustache off. I've had it off before, said, yeah, it's so,

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Speaker 8: it's interesting. I don't know what would make me do that.

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Speaker 8: I can't think of nothing. How much would they have

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Speaker 8: to pay me to shave my much? Oh yeah, how

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Speaker 8: much would you? How much would you take?

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Speaker 9: How much?

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Speaker 2: How much? Make me offer? Give me give him money?

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Speaker 11: Oh so there is a price.

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, no, no, no, no, no, no, well it's in

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Speaker 8: the flow at fifty a matter.

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Speaker 2: Of fact, for fifty, I just cut half of it off.

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Speaker 15: Ahead coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 15: we'll hear from the nephew.

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Speaker 11: Is he runs that prank back right out?

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Speaker 15: Well, you're listening morning show, It is time now for

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Speaker 15: the nephew to run that prank back what you got

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Speaker 15: for his nef.

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Speaker 16: Rediped A lot of y'all need to be redipped down

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Speaker 16: there at the tricks.

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Speaker 2: Let's go kept up.

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Speaker 7: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to beat.

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Speaker 17: H it's bast to Henry.

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Speaker 7: How you doing? You's to have a greater New Hope Baptist? Right?

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Speaker 17: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Well, yes I am.

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Speaker 7: My name is Patrick. My name is Patrick Davis. Uh

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Speaker 7: uh doing there? How you doing? Sir? I went there

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Speaker 17: Uh uh?

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Speaker 18: What's your current church?

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Speaker 7: Hold? Well, we liven't been in a minute, you know.

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Speaker 7: For you you you baptized my son and my daughter.

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Speaker 7: Uh kareem? All right? You baptized them. I don't. I

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Speaker 17: But yeah, I was about to say I do a lot.

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Speaker 17: I can't really pin point in name like that. You

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Speaker 7: Ago, three years between two and between two and three

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Speaker 7: years ago. You you baptized my little girl and my son.

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Speaker 17: Okay, blessed on that. I'm glad I was able to

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Speaker 7: This this guy at the church, let me see. His

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Speaker 7: name is Oh Dobbs, Dobbs brother, brother Dobbs, brother.

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Speaker 17: Brother Dobs gave you my phone number, my information, Brother Dobbs.

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Speaker 7: I got this from brother Dobbs that you I could

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Speaker 17: Brother, He's that's a good man right there. I know

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Speaker 7: Okay him, I rooting for wanting to talk to you directly. Okay,

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Speaker 7: Like I said, you baptized my little girl Tailoring and

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Speaker 7: you cleansing them and you watching them? Brad. Okay, here's

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Speaker 7: But if you if I don't see what your baptide

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Speaker 7: that I spent when I was down. I want that.

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Speaker 17: Money back now. Okay, now you concuse me. I'm not

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Speaker 17: sure if I think you know we need to stop

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Speaker 17: this madness right now because you're talking about your money back. Baptized.

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Speaker 17: I'm more alike with baptized your kids. I've been at

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Speaker 17: I just don't understand what you're trying to get at

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Speaker 7: I'm saying you're supposed to when when people get baptized,

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Speaker 7: it's supposed to change them.

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Speaker 17: Cleansing.

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Speaker 7: Okay, I see, yes, clean them, but my kids, let

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Speaker 17: I'm just trying to brother, I'm just just trying to

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Speaker 17: because when we get on the band, how you got

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Speaker 7: The bottom of it is your your baptizing ain't doing nothing.

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Speaker 7: My kids will still graves bad, they still discover boll.

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Speaker 7: Yo said, why they haven't become to church?

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Speaker 17: You said you're not going to any congregation. Maybe you

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Speaker 17: and overall that starts when you.

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Speaker 7: When you have back that damn. I should see a

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Speaker 7: change in them, and I don't see a change. But

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Speaker 7: all the time I was going to your church, I'm

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Speaker 7: paying for these tithes. Well then I'm not getting any

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Speaker 7: Hey man, at the end of the day's path here,

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Speaker 7: I want my money back. That's what That's what we

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Speaker 17: Brother David, that's not how it worked. Brother, you understand,

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Speaker 17: I'm not I'm not trying to raise my.

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Speaker 7: Voice at you.

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Speaker 19: But you, you all over you, all over the place.

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Speaker 17: You want money back.

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Speaker 7: I understand.

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Speaker 17: What can I do for you.

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Speaker 7: I can tell you now what you can do. My kids,

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Speaker 7: I don't got them baptized over there with you. All

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Speaker 7: that time I go on your church, I'm paying me time.

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Speaker 7: I'm paying time, paying ane time, and I get my

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Speaker 7: kids baptized. And but the hides gonna have.

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Speaker 17: Nothing to do with the baptism.

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Speaker 7: The times had something to do with all this time.

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Speaker 7: I spit over there and I'm not taking anything in return. Brother,

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Speaker 7: that's what you're calling all in the world.

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Speaker 20: Am I gonna figure out how much cards you need?

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Speaker 7: I know? Ever think about that?

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Speaker 17: I know exactly No, no, no, no, you call him

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Speaker 20: You're not even a member of my congregation, and I

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Speaker 7: Maybe who you think you were ready to? Your boy said,

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Speaker 7: just because you're gonna show you're a man of the tribal,

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Speaker 18: Don't mean I can't cut your own You understand that, Brother.

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Speaker 17: If it's something you need to deal with, you need

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Speaker 7: Why if I need to talk to brother dog when

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Speaker 7: I'm talking to that, I do not need to the

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Speaker 7: problem right now. You're a problem. I'm a problem. I

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Speaker 7: I know exactly how much I spent over there, and

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Speaker 7: I want my money back.

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Speaker 17: Brother, about that?

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Speaker 20: That's what I care about?

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Speaker 17: Your tide.

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Speaker 20: So I said, your tide want me to spell it out? Oh, well,

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Speaker 20: I bet they know how to spell it.

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Speaker 7: Okay, be crying about.

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Speaker 17: No damn behavior issues with your kids?

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Speaker 20: God, you baptized. That's question you need to be asking.

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Speaker 20: Is you living your life?

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Speaker 17: Think the five?

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Speaker 19: Huh?

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Speaker 7: You know what? You know what?

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Speaker 17: Brothers, I didn't got out beside myself, and I am sorry.

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Speaker 7: Brother.

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Speaker 17: I should not be using file language. I think what's

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Speaker 17: going on? We need to We need to get you

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Speaker 17: I can. I truly, I truly think counseling and talk

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Speaker 17: be fighting on this phone now. Once again, I hope

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Speaker 17: you accept my apology for my language.

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Speaker 7: Can I ask you go ahead?

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Speaker 17: Son?

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Speaker 7: I can hear you, okay. Brother Dobbs tells me that

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Speaker 7: you and him altogether all together some mornings having called

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Speaker 17: Every morning that I'm not they either function or doing

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Speaker 17: definitely he's a good brother. Like I told you, I

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Speaker 7: Right, y'all be listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 17: Yeah, it's always on the radio. What's so fun?

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Speaker 7: This is a nephew timy Man from the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 7: Morning Show. Brother Dobbs just got me to break phone call.

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Speaker 20: You know, Brother dobbsnew about this.

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Speaker 7: He wont gave me your number.

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Speaker 17: I'm too scared to cuss another word out of my character.

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Speaker 17: I didn't think I didn't did enough for a lifetop

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Speaker 2: That's it, I'm done.

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Speaker 15: Coming up next, it is asked the c l O

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Speaker 15: Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building right after this,

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Speaker 15: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, time

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Speaker 15: now to ask the CLO. He is here, Steve Harvey,

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Speaker 15: our Chief Love Officer. This one is from Tangala in

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Speaker 1: Tangla writes, I'm a thirty five.

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Speaker 15: Year old mother of five daughters, and I desperately need

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Speaker 15: to get away. I've gone above and beyond the call

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Speaker 15: even a weekend.

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Speaker 11: To myself.

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Speaker 15: My husband travels for work, so he gets quiet time away.

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Speaker 15: My sister is stationed in Hawaii and I want to

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Speaker 15: take care, he can't handle.

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Speaker 1: The girls by himself.

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Speaker 15: Instead, he suggested we all go to Hawaii as a family.

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Speaker 15: Would I be wrong to plan my trip and leave

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Speaker 15: him home along with our daughter?

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Speaker 2: You need a break, You need a break.

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Speaker 8: Look, everybody needs me time, and planning a trip to

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Speaker 8: Hawaii with your family is just taking the girls with you.

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Speaker 2: The guy has to understand now he's sending a bit

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Speaker 8: He can't handle them by hisself, but he leaves them

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Speaker 8: there with you by yourself because he gets some me

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Speaker 8: like he go to bed and get to watch what

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Speaker 8: he won't lay all around. They don't come on guy,

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Speaker 8: in all families, he has to allow you some time

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Speaker 2: Everybody needs me time.

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Speaker 8: Being a mother is hard, man, and the dude has

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Speaker 8: fatherhood actually, because hell, they got to give birth to

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Speaker 8: tag we're sorry they got us topped. So, yes, you

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Speaker 8: need me time and you need to just go. And

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Speaker 8: he needs to understand that he'll figure it out.

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Speaker 2: I can't. I can't you. I bet you well what

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Speaker 2: you're gonna do? Right?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, But telling her daughters I'm going to Hawaii and

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Speaker 3: they can't go. They probably crazy about the face, you

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Speaker 3: know how.

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Speaker 2: Seventies.

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Speaker 8: I mean, well, get to looking crazy because I'm out

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Speaker 8: because I'm sitting up here with y'all looking crazy. She

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Speaker 8: spread crazy round.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, everybody gets him crazy?

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 11: All right?

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Speaker 15: Schuler and Augusta says, I'm a fifty seven year old

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Speaker 15: man and I'm renting a house to a woman that

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Speaker 15: I used to date. Lately, I've been sleeping with her

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Speaker 15: twenty eight year old daughter, and we've kept it on

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Speaker 15: the download because I don't need the drama. The woman

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Speaker 15: This will kill my reputation in town. But I need

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Speaker 15: the money. What can I do?

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Speaker 2: See old pimp Shoela. Let me explain her to you.

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Speaker 8: God, Oh, you can't play the game, be the pimp

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Speaker 8: and the player, and don't expect to get played or pimped.

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Speaker 2: It's the game you created.

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Speaker 8: You can't be the player and the pimp in the

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Speaker 8: play and pimp you. Now, you screwing this woman's daughter

444
00:23:56,920 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 8: on the down low, so you thought, but you preshing

445
00:24:00,440 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 8: them for money. Now let me let me ask some

446
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:04,879
Speaker 8: so how you gonna play the young girl for some

447
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 8: for some sex. But now when it comes to some

448
00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:12,200
Speaker 8: allocation on the rent, you don't want to give her nothing.

449
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:15,159
Speaker 8: So now you just she's brustaus have to sex you

450
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:19,479
Speaker 8: and you don't chipy in nothing on the rent her mama.

451
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 8: Not only are you messing over her, you used to

452
00:24:22,160 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 8: mess with her and she's ill. Can you let some

453
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Speaker 8: of the dog in you like a grown man? Or

454
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Speaker 8: you just gonna be dogs your whole life. It's just

455
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 8: about you, Shuler, Shuler. Now, I don't know what this

456
00:24:36,080 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 8: young girl thinks that she's gonna accomplish by telling her

457
00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,600
Speaker 8: mother about y'all, because that's just gonna break her heart.

458
00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,959
Speaker 8: She already sick. Yeah, so that's a stupid thing for

459
00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 8: her to initiate you with. But your dumb mans is

460
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,560
Speaker 8: talking about it to ruin your reputation in town.

461
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Speaker 2: With me, dog, it's all about you.

462
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:58,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're sleeping.

463
00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 2: With your former girlfriends daughter on the low.

464
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Speaker 8: You won't give them a break on rick because you

465
00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:08,600
Speaker 8: need the money, but you need the sex. From the

466
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 8: twenty eight year old. But you need your reputation intact.

467
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:13,800
Speaker 8: Look like they're gonna be staying there for free will

468
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Speaker 8: for me?

469
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Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on as being show.

470
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Speaker 8: It ain't free Pardner, all right.

471
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Speaker 15: My husband died in January, and I offered to let

472
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Speaker 15: his brother and his wife move in with me because

473
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 15: I needed a company and I have plenty of room.

474
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,159
Speaker 15: His brother and I love to watch old movies, and

475
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,360
Speaker 15: we stay up late together in the living room watching movies,

476
00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 15: reminiscing and making love while his wife is sleeping. It

477
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 15: helped me deal with the loss of my husband, and

478
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 15: I don't want it to end. Should I tell him

479
00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:54,840
Speaker 15: I'm falling for him or not?

480
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Speaker 2: They just very clean.

481
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Speaker 8: Sleeping with his brother has helped you deal with his death,

482
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 8: That's what she said, because I guess.

483
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Speaker 2: It's like he ain't gone. No more.

484
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 11: Imagines him.

485
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Speaker 2: So I'm trying to and now his wife in the

486
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Speaker 2: other room sleep. How does she say she was she is?

487
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Speaker 11: She didn't say Steve. She didn't. Oh yeah, she didn't say.

488
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:33,920
Speaker 2: Okay, y'all watching old movies.

489
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Speaker 9: Uh huh, car Washed.

490
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Speaker 8: Well if you know who he is, you know, I mean,

491
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Speaker 8: how old y'all? Gladiator?

492
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Speaker 2: Oh? I was talking to some people set today.

493
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Speaker 8: They were talking about Gladiator horse Dad.

494
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Speaker 2: What the hell you mean?

495
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Speaker 8: She told me when Gladier came out I was four,

496
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 8: that's possible.

497
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Speaker 2: Yeah, So look, lady, we can't help you.

498
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,520
Speaker 8: I mean, if that's how you decided to get over

499
00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 8: the death of your husband in January, is bout may

500
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Speaker 8: to start sleeping with his brother.

501
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 2: I don't really know what to say to you.

502
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 8: Well, then they all gonna be in there with now,

503
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 8: they're all gonna be in there making the damn moving in.

504
00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:31,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, what is going on?

505
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,640
Speaker 2: We can see later.

506
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,399
Speaker 11: Yeah, it's bound to happen.

507
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 2: I don't know what to tell you, lady. Sorry, good loans.

508
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 15: Don't tell him she's falling for him or not. That's

509
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,879
Speaker 15: that's the only thing she wants to Yeah.

510
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, yeah, hell yeah, go on and tell him

511
00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 8: then't tell your brother in law that you're falling for him.

512
00:27:55,040 --> 00:27:57,439
Speaker 8: And asked him to go ask him going there and

513
00:27:57,440 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 8: tell his wife how she feel about it, And y'all

514
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:03,720
Speaker 8: make some coffee and talk it over.

515
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:07,160
Speaker 2: While your pictures.

516
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 9: On the wall.

517
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Speaker 10: You're listening hard Morning show.

518
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 15: All right, Sometimes we all find ourselves in a conversation. Okay,

519
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 15: be a political, scientific, educational, financial, even hip hop pop

520
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:26,119
Speaker 15: culture based conversations where we just have no clue, I

521
00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:28,920
Speaker 15: mean clueless to what the person is talking about.

522
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 1: Okay, so so guess.

523
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 9: What sure to do with sports? Busted?

524
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Speaker 15: So do you guys chime in and ask people to

525
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 15: get you up to speed or do you just.

526
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:42,840
Speaker 11: Not in agreement?

527
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,760
Speaker 2: Like you know, you know, like I actually get in

528
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Speaker 2: the conversations.

529
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Speaker 11: I wanted to start with you.

530
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Speaker 8: Yes, thence like bring up a subject cause you know,

531
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Speaker 8: I ain't got nothing now I don't know nothing about it.

532
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Speaker 1: Engineering making a bridge, oh man?

533
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Speaker 8: You know, and my father man used to work constructing.

534
00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,400
Speaker 8: You know, I used to work on bridge. We used

535
00:29:04,400 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 8: to have had the cracks in the bridge, so I

536
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:10,040
Speaker 8: knew all about the structural design of a bridge, what

537
00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 8: called the fracture spaces in it.

538
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Speaker 2: And I just did like that.

539
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Speaker 15: Yeah, did you or your father go to engineering school?

540
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Speaker 15: I mean take engineering?

541
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Speaker 2: And I never did.

542
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Speaker 15: Did he have a construction company or no?

543
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Speaker 7: No?

544
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Speaker 8: No, no, Now we work for this company, Frank buddy,

545
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Speaker 8: Frank buddy contract.

546
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Speaker 11: Have you ever driven over a bridge here?

547
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Speaker 7: Yeah?

548
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 8: I been a lot of That's how we knew how

549
00:29:32,920 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 8: they cracked, you know, structural engineering position is what we

550
00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 8: would take hold was the uprooted problem that diverted the

551
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Speaker 8: situation into a cracking.

552
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Speaker 2: At first, he.

553
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Speaker 9: Sound good what he's talking about.

554
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 11: There's like a board game like them.

555
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Speaker 2: Go ahead, go ahead, car.

556
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Speaker 3: I was ask him, so, how would you what would

557
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Speaker 3: you recommend to update a bridge? Well, I think up

558
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,160
Speaker 3: is a very bridge.

559
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:02,880
Speaker 8: The Golden brid bridge has been needn update and repairing.

560
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Speaker 8: You have been several earthquakes, has we waking the foundation.

561
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Speaker 8: But I think what we're gonna have to do is

562
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Speaker 8: we're gonna have to do a section out of time.

563
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Speaker 8: I think we're gonna have to break that bridge and half.

564
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Speaker 8: So we had just one way traffic going one way,

565
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Speaker 8: and then once you get the one one lane blocked off,

566
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Speaker 8: and then you can do the restructural work on the

567
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Speaker 8: other sides, and then you reinforce it up under with

568
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Speaker 8: welding beams and now to join them back together, and

569
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Speaker 8: that way they'll fix that whole thing.

570
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Speaker 1: You mentioned earthquakes.

571
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Speaker 15: I was wondering, you know, we're out here in La

572
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Speaker 15: what do you know a lot of seismatologists have been

573
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Speaker 15: on the news lately saying there is a possibility that

574
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Speaker 15: there could be an earthquake coming up soon?

575
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Speaker 1: You agree with that?

576
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Speaker 2: Four point seven?

577
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Speaker 11: Four point seven?

578
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Speaker 21: What are you basing that on?

579
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Speaker 2: Yeah, because last was four point six?

580
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Speaker 15: Predict Are you a seismatologist by any chance or you

581
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Speaker 15: had you know anybody that is?

582
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Speaker 2: No, I'm I'm a quake atologist.

583
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Speaker 21: After so far, so good?

584
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Speaker 13: Yeah, anything just anything I couldn't I can get right

585
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Speaker 13: with it.

586
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,240
Speaker 8: In houses, houses you know a lot about how Yeah,

587
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 8: I grew up in the housing projects.

588
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Speaker 15: I'm meant seismologists, seismatologists.

589
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Speaker 2: That's why I said, you said, because I knew you

590
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 2: didn't know what you.

591
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Speaker 16: Go ahead tell me you know you know anything about

592
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 16: design and airplanes are absolutely?

593
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:41,480
Speaker 15: Absolutely, you mean like the engines and stuff are inside,

594
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 15: which that core Well let's go be Yeah.

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00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

596
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Speaker 8: Rose Royce is number one engine manufacturer of jet planes

597
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:52,200
Speaker 8: in the world right.

598
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Speaker 11: Now, now that I believe that's from you, that I believe.

599
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Speaker 8: Rose Ross is number one jet manufactured engine parts and

600
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 8: oldest in the world today. And so whatever I'm picking

601
00:32:04,360 --> 00:32:06,040
Speaker 8: out a plane always goes rows right.

602
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Speaker 15: Okay, what's the best feat to get up with altitude?

603
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Speaker 8: Well, you want to fly at least thirty three thousands,

604
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 8: But if you in the whole war substantial plane you

605
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,840
Speaker 8: can get up to forty nine thousand, which then at

606
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Speaker 8: that point you can see the curvature of the Earth.

607
00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I cannot argue this.

608
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Speaker 1: I guess you're up there in heaven on my.

609
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Speaker 8: Afe forty nine thousand feet and a G five. You

610
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 8: can see the curvature of the Earth ahead.

611
00:32:34,200 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: Wow, the planet.

612
00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 2: So you can see that the world is round.

613
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Speaker 1: Wow.

614
00:32:40,200 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 2: No, and that's a fact, it really is.

615
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Speaker 15: I can't argue with you because I have no idea

616
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Speaker 15: A thousand altitude.

617
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, thirty will need anything.

618
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Speaker 3: What do you think about these people speaking of that

619
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Speaker 3: thing you're talking about the world and the earth and planet?

620
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Speaker 3: What do you think about these people that are now

621
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Speaker 3: saying that Earth is flat? They're coming out saying that.

622
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Speaker 8: Oh they saying that because they ain't never been up

623
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Speaker 8: for nine thousand. I see all they've been on the delta.

624
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:11,959
Speaker 8: Don't do for nine thou you got to get on

625
00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 8: something else here. What I'm talking about most people talking

626
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Speaker 8: about the world is flat because just sheer ignorance.

627
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Speaker 2: Yeah, if the world is flat, how come China over there?

628
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Speaker 1: We gotta be able to see chinaf it with flat

629
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Speaker 1: I like.

630
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Speaker 2: Or you can drive over there to it.

631
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Speaker 1: Yeah, right, what do you see?

632
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Speaker 8: If the world was flat, you wouldn't have to worry

633
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Speaker 8: about it wouldn't have to be no time zone change

634
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Speaker 8: because it's gonna get half the world would be light.

635
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Speaker 1: At the same time, dropping knowledge.

636
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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

637
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Speaker 8: I think because it's tilted in his own sphere and

638
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,160
Speaker 8: it rotates, you don't never get that quarter of the

639
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Speaker 8: world is always different.

640
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Speaker 2: From the other three four.

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Speaker 11: But I do like daylight savings time though.

642
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Speaker 2: And keep it. Well, they're not gonna do that anymore.

643
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Speaker 8: They're gonna cut that out because farm ain't what it

644
00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 8: used to be in the United States and America. They

645
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,160
Speaker 8: don't do daylight saving nowhere else but over here.

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Speaker 3: Let's review. So you know about bridges and everything about them?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, times out?

648
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:16,360
Speaker 8: Yeah, and I just get with anybody real quick anything

649
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 8: come health.

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Speaker 2: Global warming, global warming, it's happening. I don't even damn

651
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Speaker 2: what is happening.

652
00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,959
Speaker 8: And it ain't got nothing to do with the cold

653
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 8: weather like his stupid ass things. Nothing at all. Global

654
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,720
Speaker 8: warming is real. It's melting the glaciers at an uncommonly

655
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Speaker 8: rapid paced, thus producing more weather. Change is globally, because

656
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Speaker 8: the moisture is not conversation is forming in a cloud

657
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Speaker 8: formation and giving us the radic weather in places that

658
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Speaker 8: we would normally have it. Thus, global warming is real,

659
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Speaker 8: and the glaciers are decreasing at point seven inches per

660
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Speaker 8: seven inches every six months.

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Speaker 15: You're listening Morning show, it is time to out? Or

662
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:03,279
Speaker 15: would you rather let's play around, let's get into it.

663
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 15: Would you rather sing everything you speak? Or would you

664
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Speaker 15: rather dance every time you walk?

665
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Speaker 2: Saying everything else?

666
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Speaker 1: We know that's what you want.

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Speaker 9: I'm not sure to be that happy as black.

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Speaker 22: Person dance and every time you walk, so sing something.

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Speaker 9: Steve, ask me a question.

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Speaker 15: Tell, okay, what time is our meeting today? Our conference

671
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Speaker 15: call meeting.

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Speaker 2: The time of the meeting will be.

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Speaker 8: Somewhere about a quarter to three.

674
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Speaker 2: I want you call the Tommy.

675
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Speaker 8: I won't Junior counn Mississippi Monica. I want everybody boom zoom,

676
00:35:54,600 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 8: get plenty of route, see you a phone call three

677
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 8: hours after noon.

678
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 11: He sings everything. I just be loan.

679
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, all right. So here's another one.

680
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,839
Speaker 15: Would you rather have Christmas twice a year or would

681
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 15: you rather have your birthday twice a year?

682
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:24,759
Speaker 2: Christ Birthday Christmas?

683
00:36:24,880 --> 00:36:26,320
Speaker 1: You rather have your birthday twice?

684
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:32,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? Hell yeah? Why not Christmas? I thought you made money.

685
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:33,280
Speaker 2: I got to spill on Marthy.

686
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:37,240
Speaker 5: Christmas already got.

687
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 8: Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, damn anniversary, her birthday?

688
00:36:40,960 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 2: Hell no, We've gona do Christmas twice.

689
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 23: Yeah, okay, perspective okay, coins yeah, okay.

690
00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 7: All right?

691
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 15: Would you rather be the commissioner of the NFL or

692
00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 15: be the general manager of your favorite NFL team? Would

693
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 15: you rather be the commissioner of the NFL? Would you

694
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 15: rather be the general manager of your favorite NFL sports team?

695
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 2: Which one general manager ain't doing nothing?

696
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 8: I need to be out front and be the commission

697
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 8: and the check wave. Bet I'll tell you right now,

698
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 8: DeShawn Watson would be playing for the Browns.

699
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: Right now, he would be.

700
00:37:22,640 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 2: What playing for the Browns?

701
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:24,920
Speaker 7: Right?

702
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: No criminal charges? We have none to do here.

703
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:35,920
Speaker 11: Either, So the commissioner could he's out front? Okay?

704
00:37:35,960 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: Absolutely?

705
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 12: What about your junior for the commission He wouldn't be

706
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:41,759
Speaker 12: in Cleveland if I was the commissioner.

707
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:49,200
Speaker 8: Okay, well, good thing, you're the last, ain't the commissioner?

708
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 4: All right?

709
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:53,440
Speaker 1: Thank you guys.

710
00:37:53,560 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 15: That is today's roundup. Would you rather you're listening.

711
00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 10: Morning show.

712
00:38:00,120 --> 00:38:00,359
Speaker 4: Steve.

713
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Speaker 15: Here's the question from Steve Harvey FM. All right, it says,

714
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:08,120
Speaker 15: have you ever thought the wrong thing at the wrong moment? Now?

715
00:38:08,160 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 15: This email is from d He says, Hey, guys, a

716
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:16,920
Speaker 15: comedy booker who I deal with has a new secretary.

717
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,440
Speaker 15: The new secretary doesn't love me as much as the

718
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 15: old secretary. Subsequently, I get less booked less often. The

719
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,919
Speaker 15: new secretary's brother just died, and I thought, sure would

720
00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:30,319
Speaker 15: be nice if the old secretary would come back for

721
00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:32,239
Speaker 15: a few weeks and I will get some bookings.

722
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 11: Now I feel bad.

723
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Speaker 1: Savor Tommy, When was the last time you thought the

724
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:38,840
Speaker 1: wrong thing at the wrong moment?

725
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,760
Speaker 8: When was the last time you ever thought something wrong

726
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 8: at the wrong moment?

727
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: Too many times?

728
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 8: I'm trying to clean it up, but go yeah, okay,

729
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 8: Well let me ask you all this here. You ever

730
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 8: been in church pray yes m hm at offering and

731
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 8: then she walked by doing offering, and you pray the

732
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 8: guys she walked by yes, even after she had dropped

733
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 8: her money in you still locked yes all the way,

734
00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 8: and you lose your place in the prayer man who

735
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:37,879
Speaker 8: are in heaven high in the world, in your name?

736
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Speaker 2: Did you make this right?

737
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 7: Here?

738
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:40,480
Speaker 8: Bo?

739
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 2: Look at all that kingdom, Paul, look at.

740
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:49,880
Speaker 8: Him, Man, your will be done all over this earth,

741
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 8: all up and down.

742
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 2: You know you ever done that?

743
00:39:54,320 --> 00:39:56,399
Speaker 1: It was just as good up.

744
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Speaker 2: It was my.

745
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Speaker 12: Relative in the casket, and she was in there supposed

746
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:02,760
Speaker 12: to save for the family.

747
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: I forgot who the hell was laying.

748
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:05,920
Speaker 2: Up there.

749
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:11,200
Speaker 5: At the funeral at telling that almost.

750
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Speaker 23: Says her first day.

751
00:40:11,680 --> 00:40:13,840
Speaker 5: Once Charon had walked up there, I.

752
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 7: Forgot who the hell we was here fu the law.

753
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 23: That dress was tight, praise him.

754
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 5: I need to give a damn who it was.

755
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: But she was there, my lord, all right.

756
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:33,240
Speaker 16: I had never seen somebody fall, super fine woman fall

757
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Speaker 16: in dress blow way up over her.

758
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Speaker 9: Hey something.

759
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,480
Speaker 2: I just sat there and thought about the wrong thing, yeah.

760
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: At the wrong yeah time, and is everything and.

761
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:47,760
Speaker 2: Thought about really getting wrong thing at the wrong time

762
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Speaker 2: it was.

763
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Speaker 8: Have you ever been praying and asked God to give

764
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Speaker 8: somebody a.

765
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 2: Stroke right there?

766
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 1: And see so you go up there and kissl.

767
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.

768
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Speaker 9: Stroke.

769
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:06,879
Speaker 8: I asked him to actually shut down somebody whole left side.

770
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Speaker 5: You want you want to.

771
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 1: Do the mountain out?

772
00:41:12,200 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 2: Hey, let me tell you something. Hey, this is true.

773
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Speaker 8: I left a basketball game after high school one time,

774
00:41:19,920 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 8: and the guy robbed me coming out of Bennes's corner.

775
00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:25,560
Speaker 8: That was the first time I asked the Lord. I

776
00:41:25,640 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 8: asked God to strike somebody, did it?

777
00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:29,799
Speaker 7: Yeah?

778
00:41:32,800 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 2: I had nine dollars, so they took nine dollars change.

779
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 8: I thought that would be a good time to ask

780
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Speaker 8: the Lord to do something for me, just as of

781
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 8: course he did, and he.

782
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 2: Ran off with the nine.

783
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:49,320
Speaker 4: Again.

784
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Speaker 11: I'm so glad you're a changed man. Glad I'm saying, have.

785
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Speaker 2: You ever thought the wrong thing?

786
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: The wrong turns the question?

787
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 7: Yeah?

788
00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:02,919
Speaker 2: Question?

789
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 1: Yeah?

790
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, what same thing? I didn't been?

791
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Speaker 16: I didn't been naked and ran out into the living

792
00:42:11,880 --> 00:42:13,720
Speaker 16: room and didn't know nobody was in there and asked,

793
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 16: could they just.

794
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:18,399
Speaker 2: Be blind right now? Please just be could not see

795
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 2: all this? I had a six crisis.

796
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 9: Ask the nurse that came in the room.

797
00:42:24,640 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 23: I asked, the Lord, could you please please let her stayuse.

798
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 4: My gown.

799
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:33,879
Speaker 5: Too much?

800
00:42:34,239 --> 00:42:34,520
Speaker 7: Yeah?

801
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:39,279
Speaker 1: My gown? I asked? Did she have to case?

802
00:42:39,280 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 10: You work here at night?

803
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:41,680
Speaker 2: I thought that wrong time?

804
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:43,880
Speaker 1: I've actually unplugged myself.

805
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:47,479
Speaker 5: All right, well, all right.

806
00:42:47,440 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 15: Coming up next, nephew, tell me more ignorance with today's

807
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 15: prank phone call.

808
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Speaker 11: That's right after this.

809
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Speaker 15: You're listening Hard Morning Show coming up at the top

810
00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,959
Speaker 15: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my strong,

811
00:43:00,120 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 15: very letter for today. The subject is my children are inconvenient.

812
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 11: Okay, that is the subject. Everybody on the show. Its

813
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 11: kids from the.

814
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,560
Speaker 2: Listen, we are tuning in.

815
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 15: All right, we'll get into it. And just a bit

816
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 15: right now, the nephew is here. You hear him with

817
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 15: today's prank phone call. What you got for its nap?

818
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 2: All right? Now, this is a serious prank. Okay, everybody,

819
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 2: this is not funny. Serious prank is This one right here?

820
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 2: Is serious?

821
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 9: Can you breastfeed my baby? Okay?

822
00:43:37,200 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 2: That's serious stuff right there.

823
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 9: All right.

824
00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 16: When a man needs help and he's reaching out, you know,

825
00:43:45,360 --> 00:43:47,520
Speaker 16: come on now, reach back.

826
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 1: I'm really scared.

827
00:43:51,320 --> 00:43:53,879
Speaker 2: Can you breastfeed my baby? Let's go get out.

828
00:43:56,040 --> 00:44:02,920
Speaker 19: Hello hello, ma uh yeah, hey hey man, uh heymen

829
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 19: this this this this uh and uh uh this who

830
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:12,800
Speaker 19: this man? Uh yeah it gave me your phone number.

831
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 19: I know you don't numb me, but gave me your number.

832
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:18,719
Speaker 18: Who he's talking about on the south side?

833
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 19: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

834
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 7: From the south side. He uh he gave me your number. Man,

835
00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:27,120
Speaker 7: I'm going through some things. I thought you might be

836
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 7: to help me out.

837
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 19: Man, because uh, well, see to my girl.

838
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:35,520
Speaker 7: And I don't know, man, I think just in left,

839
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 7: you know, and uh here left me here with the kids,

840
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:44,879
Speaker 7: you know, and I trying to I don't think coming back.

841
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:48,759
Speaker 18: My man, My man, I feel for you.

842
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 19: But but why why why are you.

843
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:51,400
Speaker 18: Telling me this?

844
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Speaker 2: See?

845
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Speaker 7: Uh see, man, I haven't got these kids by myself.

846
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,439
Speaker 7: You know. My little boy he three, but my little

847
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 7: girl man, she just she's just two months old. Man,

848
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 7: you know.

849
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Speaker 19: And I'm the.

850
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,080
Speaker 7: Reason why I got your number because I think you

851
00:45:10,160 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 7: might get to help me because.

852
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,239
Speaker 19: I I'm just going through this.

853
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:16,359
Speaker 7: It's just it's just hard right now.

854
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 18: Brother, dog, how many help you? Dog? I got kids

855
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 18: of my own. Dog? How man help you?

856
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:24,160
Speaker 7: Well?

857
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:27,799
Speaker 19: See that that's what I'm saying. Now, ain't you ain't

858
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 19: you married to to me?

859
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:31,759
Speaker 7: Yeah?

860
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:32,680
Speaker 6: My wife?

861
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 17: How you know?

862
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:34,439
Speaker 7: My wife?

863
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 18: Dog, she knows what I'm saying.

864
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Speaker 19: I mean I kind of know y'all through see y'all

865
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 19: before through him and uh but sit here the deal man.

866
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Speaker 19: Like like I said, I got my kids, man, my

867
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Speaker 19: my my little boy three, but my little girl ain't

868
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Speaker 19: but two months.

869
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Speaker 7: Man.

870
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Speaker 19: How many kids y'all got?

871
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,640
Speaker 18: Man? We got three kids, Man, I got a ten

872
00:45:56,719 --> 00:45:58,879
Speaker 18: year old, eight yo old and a six month old.

873
00:45:59,040 --> 00:46:00,880
Speaker 18: I'm trying to out. I really don't know what you

874
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 18: asking asking me.

875
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Speaker 7: Man.

876
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 18: I got my own family. I gotta take care of

877
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 18: you asking me for help? I mean, what is it

878
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 18: you need? Man?

879
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 7: And what I'm trying to do with this year.

880
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,400
Speaker 18: I'm trying to get my little my little girl taking

881
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 18: care of man.

882
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 7: Like IM said, then ran off man and done left.

883
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 7: But I don't think.

884
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Speaker 19: I don't think coming back.

885
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 7: I don't think she's coming back. But I need some help.

886
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 7: I need some help from from from your wife.

887
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 18: I need her to come by the house today.

888
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:44,600
Speaker 7: Can she do you think?

889
00:46:44,680 --> 00:46:48,760
Speaker 18: What do you need come at your house for? Because

890
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:53,959
Speaker 18: the baby, the baby, the baby needs some milk. Man.

891
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 18: We got a couple of cans, and we got a

892
00:46:55,640 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 18: couple of cans and so farmul or something in here

893
00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,279
Speaker 18: we can drop off to you. Man, But ain't coming

894
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 18: to your house. Dog, I you moretan happy to have

895
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,399
Speaker 18: these You have these cans, but I can't be having

896
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 18: my wife at your house. Dog got all kids.

897
00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:14,040
Speaker 7: I understand that, But the baby needs to milk. That's

898
00:47:14,040 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 7: what I need. I need to come.

899
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Speaker 18: By and see the baby.

900
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Speaker 17: Dog.

901
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 18: I just told you to come by drop off a

902
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:23,839
Speaker 18: couple of cans and milks. But I mean, I don't

903
00:47:23,840 --> 00:47:25,520
Speaker 18: even know you like that, player. I ain't about to

904
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 18: just have my wife come into your damn houses. I

905
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 18: don't know you, but.

906
00:47:30,080 --> 00:47:32,720
Speaker 7: I need her to come by and see the baby.

907
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 18: Man, dog, what a hell you can't see your baby?

908
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,680
Speaker 6: Well, come by.

909
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:42,800
Speaker 7: The baby.

910
00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 17: What you want to?

911
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:46,520
Speaker 18: Want to come out of your house and do what

912
00:47:47,400 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 18: I want.

913
00:47:49,600 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 7: The baby?

914
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 18: I told you you lost your mind. I don't know

915
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 18: you to be talking about my wife come to your house.

916
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 18: Breasting your day baby? Had effect?

917
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:01,920
Speaker 7: You?

918
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,399
Speaker 18: Get my number? Who the hell is anyway? I don't

919
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:06,520
Speaker 18: stop thinking about I don't know no right say?

920
00:48:06,560 --> 00:48:06,799
Speaker 7: Dog?

921
00:48:07,000 --> 00:48:10,560
Speaker 18: Don't call me with this dog? Is you talking about

922
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 18: breasting your baby?

923
00:48:12,239 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 7: Why would you do this now? Why would you? Why

924
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 7: would you that the baby? Why would you come between

925
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 7: the baby yourself?

926
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 19: Why are you doing that?

927
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 13: Dog?

928
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 18: I'll tell you what, dog, Bring your baby over here,

929
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 18: you and the baby, come over here. Bring your baby

930
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 18: baby over here. And when and when you get here,

931
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 18: as soon as you pull out it, I'm gonna knock

932
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:34,920
Speaker 18: your teeth down your throat. Now, come on over, we're

933
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,319
Speaker 18: gonna be here. You're gonna be all day.

934
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 19: Don't don't do don't let you go and stop come

935
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 19: between the baby's help.

936
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:45,640
Speaker 18: I'm just trying to god, how you're gonna call me

937
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:49,360
Speaker 18: talking about my wife breast steed your baby. I'll sip

938
00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 18: you know what? Hold on? Hold on?

939
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 17: Hold on?

940
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:54,520
Speaker 18: Hold on what?

941
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:56,919
Speaker 6: Hold on?

942
00:48:57,239 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 20: Hold on?

943
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 19: What's up?

944
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 15: Baby?

945
00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 18: You know and her husband? You don't know them. My

946
00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:12,720
Speaker 18: wife don't know you, and I don't know you. Eating change?

947
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 7: Do you know a name?

948
00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:18,760
Speaker 18: Supposedly he live on the south Side, He know us,

949
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:24,280
Speaker 18: you don't know him eating? Hold on? I don't know you.

950
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 18: I don't know.

951
00:49:27,080 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 10: What this is.

952
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 6: On another line, talking about his wife left him with

953
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 6: these two kids. He wants you to come to his

954
00:49:36,680 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 6: crib if breastfeed his baby.

955
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 18: Baby baby, don trip I got this. I'm gonna hollh

956
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 18: let you in a minute, don't we don't dog, We

957
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:54,480
Speaker 18: don't know who did you calling me? Fudress?

958
00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,120
Speaker 7: More things I want to say to you.

959
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:01,040
Speaker 18: Better be saying your address, That's what you better be saying.

960
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 7: Less times from the morning show.

961
00:50:06,760 --> 00:50:12,280
Speaker 19: You just got.

962
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:15,600
Speaker 18: My ain't this up hit this bottom.

963
00:50:16,440 --> 00:50:19,040
Speaker 19: Uh you know, man?

964
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:25,399
Speaker 18: Come on dog then? Uh Tommy, dog dog, you about

965
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 18: to get your whipped Tommy whoever somebody's getting there.

966
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 7: Whipped me a you gotta tell me what ill the

967
00:50:42,200 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 7: baddest radio show in the lanth Steve Harvey Morning Show?

968
00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:46,440
Speaker 7: You did?

969
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 18: He? Uh?

970
00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 7: Man, y'all got me?

971
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 21: You know what?

972
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 9: All the man won't it with some breast milk?

973
00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:00,720
Speaker 2: You see what I'm saying for a baby?

974
00:51:00,840 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, a baby audacity?

975
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:09,160
Speaker 1: But where's the village?

976
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 11: I have.

977
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 16: No word All this breast milk in the village I

978
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:15,439
Speaker 16: can't remember.

979
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 3: Says the person that does not make breast milk at all?

980
00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,320
Speaker 4: You right now.

981
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:30,439
Speaker 2: Press village and I can't get no help.

982
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:31,080
Speaker 4: Stupid.

983
00:51:31,760 --> 00:51:34,720
Speaker 16: The nephew is coming to what as Father's Day weekend.

984
00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:36,440
Speaker 16: Y'all do not want to miss it. It is the

985
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:39,879
Speaker 16: Nephew Tommy's house party, comedy jam. Matter of fact, all

986
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:43,080
Speaker 16: my frat brothers in Dallas, Texas, y'all come out and

987
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:43,680
Speaker 16: hang out with you.

988
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 7: Boy.

989
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 16: Let's just have a straight up Kappa Alpha PSI night

990
00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 16: for Father's Day weekend. That would be June fifteenth, Saturday

991
00:51:50,760 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 16: Night at the Majestic Kickers on sale right now I

992
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 16: got Tony Robbers, I got Dominique, and I got straight

993
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 16: ignorance of nephew Tommy. All night long, we're gonna have

994
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 16: some fun. It's a party with some comedy all wrapped

995
00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:03,320
Speaker 16: up in the one. You don't want to miss that

996
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,000
Speaker 16: you don't want I think stupid to another level.

997
00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:07,879
Speaker 2: I really do you do?

998
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:09,279
Speaker 11: I bleed it, Yes you do.

999
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:10,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, we beleeve it all right.

1000
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,799
Speaker 15: Coming up next Strawberry Letter. My children are inconvenient is

1001
00:52:14,800 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 15: the subject. We'll get into that right after this.

1002
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 10: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

1003
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:24,319
Speaker 15: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

1004
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:28,239
Speaker 15: advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more. Please

1005
00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:31,600
Speaker 15: submit to your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com

1006
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 15: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your

1007
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 15: letter live on the air, just like we're going to

1008
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:38,840
Speaker 15: read this one right here, right now.

1009
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 1: You never know.

1010
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 2: It could be yours could be could be. Buckle up

1011
00:52:42,719 --> 00:52:44,160
Speaker 2: and hold on tight you We got it for you.

1012
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:44,440
Speaker 4: Here.

1013
00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:45,919
Speaker 2: It is the Strawberry Letter.

1014
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:46,880
Speaker 1: Thanking nephew.

1015
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:52,720
Speaker 15: My children are inconvenient is the subject. Dear Stephen Shirley,

1016
00:52:53,000 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 15: I'm fifty one years old. I'm a married woman, and

1017
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 15: I've been with my husband for seven years. We met

1018
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:02,440
Speaker 15: at a concert while picking up our daughters, who were

1019
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:05,920
Speaker 15: both sixteen at the time. He and I started talking

1020
00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 15: about how we shouldn't have let our daughters go u chaperone.

1021
00:53:09,640 --> 00:53:12,000
Speaker 15: My daughter and her friends came out first, and he

1022
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:15,840
Speaker 15: got my number before I walked away. We instantly clicked,

1023
00:53:16,320 --> 00:53:19,560
Speaker 15: and he proposed a year. A year after a year

1024
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:22,480
Speaker 15: of dating, our daughters didn't know each other, so they

1025
00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:26,320
Speaker 15: demanded separate bedrooms as we struggled to blend our families

1026
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 15: after marriage. Right now, we live with two twenty three

1027
00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 15: year old women, and he has a son that is nineteen,

1028
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 15: and he comes and goes as he pleases. When he

1029
00:53:35,800 --> 00:53:38,280
Speaker 15: breaks up with this girl, he's back on our couch

1030
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:41,200
Speaker 15: for a few weeks. All of our bedrooms, all of

1031
00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:45,080
Speaker 15: our closets, and two storage rooms have been taken over

1032
00:53:45,239 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 15: by grown children. My husband and I are a decent couple,

1033
00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:52,920
Speaker 15: and my man works hard, and so do I. We

1034
00:53:52,960 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 15: brought our children up in the church and we made

1035
00:53:55,040 --> 00:53:58,520
Speaker 15: sure they went to college. All three of them dropped out.

1036
00:53:58,920 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 15: Our girls smoke, and I'm sure our son does too,

1037
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:05,760
Speaker 15: but he's just better at hiding it. The girls smoke

1038
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 15: in our backyard, and the neighbors used to complain, but

1039
00:54:08,960 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 15: now they just accept it like we do. I talk

1040
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 15: to my husband about us selling our house and downsizing

1041
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:18,440
Speaker 15: to a condo so these freeloaders won't have any space.

1042
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 15: But he's got a soft spot for these grown, lazy women.

1043
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:24,640
Speaker 15: I want to redo our kitchen and den, but I

1044
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:27,719
Speaker 15: refuse to make our home nicer until the freeloaders leave.

1045
00:54:28,280 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 15: I don't feel bad for them because they're a major

1046
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 15: inconvenience At this point, they have no way to take

1047
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 15: care of themselves if we put them out. What can

1048
00:54:37,520 --> 00:54:41,840
Speaker 15: we do to get these grown ups out of here? Wow,

1049
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 15: this is a really sad letter. Smoking weed in the

1050
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:51,280
Speaker 15: backyard not working. This has got to stop right now. Okay,

1051
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 15: and downsizing to a nice condo sounds really nice.

1052
00:54:55,360 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 1: And I got to ask whereas their mother. She probably doesn't.

1053
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,720
Speaker 15: Let them take advance of her space like you guys,

1054
00:55:02,040 --> 00:55:04,200
Speaker 15: You and your husband have to present some sort of

1055
00:55:04,360 --> 00:55:06,560
Speaker 15: united front. I know you said your husband has a

1056
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 15: soft spot, but you all got to get this together

1057
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 15: so you can talk to these entitle, spoiled kids. You

1058
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,160
Speaker 15: got to let them know things are about to change

1059
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,120
Speaker 15: the free rides over. You got to set a deadline

1060
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:20,319
Speaker 15: for them to get it together and get out. They

1061
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 15: need jobs, they need apartments so they can get out

1062
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,759
Speaker 15: as soon as possible. They should start looking now, You

1063
00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 15: as parents are enabling them. That's what you're doing. These

1064
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 15: kids have no incentive to get out. They have free meals,

1065
00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:38,279
Speaker 15: free room and board. They can smoke weed whenever they

1066
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,839
Speaker 15: want to. You guys don't say anything. I mean, what's

1067
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 15: their incentive to lead? I mean, the sun does have

1068
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:47,479
Speaker 15: a place to live, so you definitely shouldn't be letting

1069
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 15: him come and go as he pleases.

1070
00:55:51,040 --> 00:55:52,160
Speaker 1: I know you love your kids.

1071
00:55:52,160 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 15: We all love our kids, but there does come a

1072
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 15: time when we have to let go so they can

1073
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,520
Speaker 15: spread their wings and get started on their own path,

1074
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:02,279
Speaker 15: on their own journey. They'll figure it out. They will

1075
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 15: figure it out as we all did, and they'll thank

1076
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:08,439
Speaker 15: you later. All right, But you got to tell them

1077
00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 15: to get out now. Step that deadline and stick to it.

1078
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:15,200
Speaker 15: You and your husband together as a couple, Steve.

1079
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,480
Speaker 8: All of us on this show that have adult children

1080
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 8: know what this letter is about. MM and we're sick

1081
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:23,720
Speaker 8: of this type of letter.

1082
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:29,800
Speaker 24: Yeah, we feel for you. We understand you. We empathize

1083
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:33,840
Speaker 24: with you. But at the same time, I've had to

1084
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 24: do some things. Now let me tell you something. It

1085
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,160
Speaker 24: ain't all these because I'm all through this letter. I

1086
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 24: had blended family. All this here, so you know, here

1087
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 24: we go. Y'all met at a rap concert. Both y'all

1088
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,719
Speaker 24: sixteen year old daughters was at the concert. Y'all met

1089
00:56:46,760 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 24: waiting on them to come outside. Your daughters came out

1090
00:56:49,239 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 24: first with her friends. You all clicked. He asked for

1091
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 24: your number before you walked away. A year later, you

1092
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:56,360
Speaker 24: all were married.

1093
00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:00,480
Speaker 8: Your daughters, who are both sixteen, didn't really know each other,

1094
00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:04,200
Speaker 8: so they demanded separate bedrooms. As we struggle to blend

1095
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:05,800
Speaker 8: our families after marriage.

1096
00:57:05,800 --> 00:57:07,640
Speaker 2: Blending the family's not easy.

1097
00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:11,919
Speaker 8: Especially the older they get, the more opinionated they are,

1098
00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:14,880
Speaker 8: and they have personalities, and they not necessarily would have

1099
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:19,400
Speaker 8: been friends. They just became family. The thing with family

1100
00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 8: is you don't get to pick your family. You do

1101
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 8: get to pick your friends. So when you throw them

1102
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:27,520
Speaker 8: into this situation, it is going to be some difficulties.

1103
00:57:28,240 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 8: Right now, after seven years, you live with two twenty

1104
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 8: three year old women, and yeah, as a son is nineteen,

1105
00:57:36,120 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 8: come and go as he pleases, he break up with

1106
00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 8: his girlfriend.

1107
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 2: He's back on our couch for a few weeks.

1108
00:57:41,200 --> 00:57:43,880
Speaker 8: All of our bedrooms, all of our clauses two stories

1109
00:57:43,920 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 8: rooms have been taking up our grown children. My husband

1110
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 8: and I have a decent couple, and my man works hard,

1111
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 8: and so do I. It's just so much going wrong

1112
00:57:52,760 --> 00:57:55,040
Speaker 8: in this letter. First of all, they've been at y'all's

1113
00:57:55,080 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 8: house way too long. Now I'm off of you a

1114
00:57:58,080 --> 00:57:59,800
Speaker 8: solution when we come back. But let me say this.

1115
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:04,000
Speaker 8: We brought our children up into church. Okay, so much

1116
00:58:04,000 --> 00:58:08,200
Speaker 8: for that, So much for that. I don't even know

1117
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 8: why you put that in there. I don't know, I

1118
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:11,080
Speaker 8: don't know. I don't know if that was.

1119
00:58:11,040 --> 00:58:12,320
Speaker 2: Supposed to change something.

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Speaker 8: Because you bought them up in the church, you can

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Speaker 8: bring them up in the church, and you can bring

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Speaker 8: them up in the club when they ain't doing what

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Speaker 8: they supposed to do. They ain't doing what they're supposed

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Speaker 8: to do. And we made sure they went to college.

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Speaker 8: All three of them dropped out. Okay, so now you're

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Speaker 8: making adult decisions on your own, then it is time

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Speaker 8: for adult consequences when I come back to me. This

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Speaker 8: whole letter is about consequences. And you have to allow

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Speaker 8: and I've learned this as a parent. You have to

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Speaker 8: allow for the consequences to occur. It's the only way

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Speaker 8: they gonna learn. And it's not consequences that you inflict,

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Speaker 8: it's consequences that happened from their decisions.

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Speaker 2: Go over this when I come back.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve.

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Speaker 15: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 15: twenty three minutes after the hour subject my children are inconvenient.

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Speaker 15: We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 10: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 15: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 15: My children are inconvenient?

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00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:25,560
Speaker 2: Well, well, well, well ain't they all?

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00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:32,040
Speaker 8: Sometimes your children get on your last damn Nerve.

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00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 2: Oh, they don't think they do, but they do.

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Speaker 8: And guess what the good news is they children gonna

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00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:46,160
Speaker 8: get on they damn nerves too. So that's how I've been.

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00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:49,000
Speaker 8: I'll be looking at my son with kids nine, he'd

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00:59:49,000 --> 00:59:50,919
Speaker 8: be talking to me. I don't even be listening at

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Speaker 8: the time. What, oh be listening whatever? Whatever?

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Speaker 2: You was that same damn problem I tried to tell you.

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Speaker 8: So now we got these couple that gotten married. They

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Speaker 8: have two daughters at sixteen, they blended a family. They're

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Speaker 8: having difficulties. The daughters demanded each separate bedrooms. They struggle

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Speaker 8: with their marriage. You got a nineteen year old boy

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Speaker 8: that comes and go when he pleads. If he break

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Speaker 8: up with his girlfriend, he back on their couch for

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01:00:19,160 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 8: a few weeks. All the bedrooms and closets and storages

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Speaker 8: taken up by grown children. And you all are decent couple.

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Speaker 8: You and your husband. Y'all raised your kids in church,

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01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:33,560
Speaker 8: which they're whatever. Anyway, we made sure they went to college.

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Speaker 8: Now all three of the kids have decided to drop

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Speaker 8: out of college.

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Speaker 2: This is where your consequences have to be. Give.

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Speaker 8: The one thing I've taught my children is this, the

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Speaker 8: older you get, the more die of the consequences. See,

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Speaker 8: you can make the mistakes at a child, and me

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01:00:50,240 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 8: and your parents will help you. But the older you get,

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Speaker 8: my man, the more die of the consequences. And I'm

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01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 8: not gonna stop the consequences from happening to you. So

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Speaker 8: once they decided to drop out of college, then guess

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Speaker 8: what they needed to develop then was a plan of action.

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Speaker 8: Since you don't want to go to college, but they

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Speaker 8: ain't have one, and you all didn't allow them to

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Speaker 8: have one because you all let them come back to

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Speaker 8: the whole. Now all three of them are dropped out,

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Speaker 8: and now they smoking weed. And you're sure your son

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Speaker 8: does too, He just better at hiding it. The girls

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Speaker 8: smoke weed in y'all's backyard, and the neighbors used to complain,

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Speaker 8: but now they just accept it like we do.

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Speaker 2: Really seemed to me like you need some rules at

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Speaker 2: your house.

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Speaker 8: See, you can stay here, but these are the rules

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Speaker 8: at our house. You can't smoke weed in the backyard.

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Speaker 8: It's no longer acceptable. And if you smoke weed in

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Speaker 8: the backyard, we're gonna put you out. But they ain't

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01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,439
Speaker 8: got no consequences, so they do what they want to do. Now,

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Speaker 8: you say you've talked to your husband about selling your

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Speaker 8: house and downsizing so you can get rid of these

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01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:59,760
Speaker 8: freeloaders because they won't have any space. But he got

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Speaker 8: a spot for these grown lazy women. I'm assuming that

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Speaker 8: you don't. That's why you wrote the letter. You want

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Speaker 8: to redo your kitchen and den, but you don't want

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Speaker 8: to make them place nicer until the freeloaders leave. I

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Speaker 8: don't feel bad for them because they have a major inconvenience.

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Speaker 8: At this point, they have no way to take care

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Speaker 8: of themselves. This is where you and I have a problem.

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Speaker 8: They have no way to take care of themselves. Well,

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Speaker 8: that's not true. They do have a way once they

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Speaker 8: have to find a way. I'm gonna repeat that. They

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Speaker 8: do have a way once they have to find a way.

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Speaker 8: But as Shirley said, you've enabled them, so now they

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Speaker 8: ain't got to find a way.

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Speaker 2: We're in the backyard smoking weed.

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Speaker 8: We got a roof over our head, we got some

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01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 8: neat and we can get around.

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Speaker 2: So what do we need to do anything for if

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Speaker 2: we put them out?

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Speaker 8: What can they they I'm sorry, we have no way

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01:03:01,400 --> 01:03:02,880
Speaker 8: to take They have no way to get care of

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01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:05,360
Speaker 8: themselves if we put them out. What can we do

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Speaker 8: to get these grown ups out of here? First of all,

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Speaker 8: you need to set a deadline. That's for starters. You

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Speaker 8: all have six months to find a job. Whoever doesn't

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01:03:17,760 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 8: have a job will be staying with the one that

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01:03:21,000 --> 01:03:25,040
Speaker 8: does have a job. But everybody got six months to

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Speaker 8: find a job. Secondly, you and your husband stop cooking

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Speaker 8: at home and y'all go out to dinner.

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Speaker 2: I don't care if it's to go up to Popeyes.

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Speaker 8: I don't give a damn if it's to go get

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Speaker 8: salad that Windy's a bar salad bar.

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Speaker 2: I don't give a damn. If it's go to Gym

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Speaker 2: and Nicks, I don't care what it is.

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Speaker 8: Y'all need to stop cooking, starve they ass out.

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Speaker 2: See, stop making conveniences. Yeah, so stop cooking, go out

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Speaker 2: to dinner.

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Speaker 8: Set a deadline, and then they have to realize consequences

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01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 8: you have. I have to allow life to hand them

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Speaker 8: what they putting in. See, you get out of life

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01:04:06,920 --> 01:04:10,000
Speaker 8: what you put in. So if you don't allow your

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Speaker 8: kids to suffer consequences, Daddy, can I borrow some money?

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Speaker 2: What you need?

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Speaker 8: And then they tell me, I'm under no obligation to

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Speaker 8: give you the money. It depends on what's happening in

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Speaker 8: your life. And I'm telling you right now, for the

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Speaker 8: most part, I forced them to figure it out. I

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Speaker 8: forced them to figure it out. And you know what,

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01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:39,480
Speaker 8: they go do They go and figure it out because

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01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:43,720
Speaker 8: you know what we all did. We all struggle to

1238
01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 8: give our kids a better life than the one we

1239
01:04:46,480 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 8: had and in that process, you all, we created a

1240
01:04:50,200 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 8: safety net for them that we didn't have. And so now,

1241
01:04:54,720 --> 01:04:57,480
Speaker 8: guess what they do. They keep diving and laying in

1242
01:04:57,520 --> 01:05:03,400
Speaker 8: the damn net. And that's all they do because they

1243
01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:06,040
Speaker 8: think they're smart and they take advantage of the safety net.

1244
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:12,080
Speaker 8: You have to remove the net. True, I'm sorry. It's

1245
01:05:12,120 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 8: the only way to make it happen.

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01:05:13,600 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 2: Yep. And let them figure it out. That's the only

1247
01:05:16,760 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 2: way to do it. Deadline. You gotta get your ass out.

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01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 11: That's right, Steve.

1249
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 15: Post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey

1250
01:05:25,080 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 15: FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter

1251
01:05:27,880 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 15: podcast on demand.

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01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,160
Speaker 10: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:36,920
Speaker 15: Okay, here's the question, what about the current world? What

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01:05:37,120 --> 01:05:40,880
Speaker 15: about the current world would be most surprising to your

1255
01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:44,400
Speaker 15: younger self? All right, Steve, So do you think the

1256
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:47,479
Speaker 15: most surprising thing about the current world your younger self

1257
01:05:47,560 --> 01:05:50,680
Speaker 15: would be upset and shocked about is how people can

1258
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:55,160
Speaker 15: actually make a living as influencers, you know, influencers taking

1259
01:05:55,200 --> 01:05:58,280
Speaker 15: pictures of themselves posting them on the internet on social media.

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01:05:58,920 --> 01:06:00,920
Speaker 2: Oh what I been shocked at that?

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01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:02,280
Speaker 7: Just that? Oh?

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01:06:02,320 --> 01:06:04,520
Speaker 8: Hell yeah, because all I knew was hard work. I

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01:06:04,640 --> 01:06:06,919
Speaker 8: just I just saw my daddy hard work. I ain't

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01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 8: never knew, no, if when influenced who there were no

1265
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 8: cell phones? Who how you gonna influence them? And ain't

1266
01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 8: but three TV stations?

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01:06:19,360 --> 01:06:19,840
Speaker 11: So now.

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Speaker 8: What are you fitting to do? I would be stunned.

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01:06:25,120 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 8: I'm stunned anyway. I mean, like I'm to be honest

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01:06:28,600 --> 01:06:32,120
Speaker 8: with you as my current self, I'm still amazed at

1271
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:34,600
Speaker 8: the fact and I'm really opening my eyes to the

1272
01:06:34,640 --> 01:06:38,320
Speaker 8: fact that these young people have another way of earning

1273
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Speaker 8: a living and it's not the route we took.

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Speaker 2: And it's been a struggle for me admitting to that.

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Speaker 15: So okay, So that's that's another part too, the part

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Speaker 15: two of this question, what would your younger self find shocking?

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Speaker 11: What else would you find shocking?

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01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 2: Cell phone? Cell phone?

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Speaker 10: Cell phones?

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Speaker 2: Cell phones, it's unthinkable. That was one of the greatest

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01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:06,680
Speaker 2: inventions party just right up there, my unthinkabout that.

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01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 8: And a computer that you can type in information and

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01:07:10,040 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 8: it talk talk back to.

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Speaker 2: You Siri.

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01:07:14,840 --> 01:07:19,080
Speaker 1: In your phone, Siri Alexa dog dog.

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01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 2: We had to call phone one one, right, Yeah, we.

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01:07:23,680 --> 01:07:26,080
Speaker 15: Had to call for one one to a live operator

1288
01:07:26,200 --> 01:07:29,440
Speaker 15: and she didn't know how to time right.

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Speaker 3: Oh, you had to have all the information and she

1290
01:07:31,800 --> 01:07:34,000
Speaker 3: would say, I don't see that, I need more information.

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Speaker 14: Dog, Hold up, hold up a phone book, Hello you two.

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Speaker 8: Bro, Because if you was looking for John Smith and

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Speaker 8: opened the phone.

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Speaker 2: Book, dog, give me a picture.

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Speaker 8: Which Smith is a lot of down that line, just

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Speaker 8: trying to call and hope that little girl.

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Speaker 2: Answer the phone.

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Speaker 5: What little girl?

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01:08:00,920 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 1: Uh huh?

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Speaker 8: John Smith for daddy name. I got to go down

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Speaker 8: leeve Smith. I don't have her phone number.

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Speaker 2: I got a call and ship.

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01:08:08,280 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 1: Are you liked when you were young?

1304
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 2: Cuss out? Hung up on it?

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01:08:12,760 --> 01:08:15,080
Speaker 8: I wish you that would bring you little black ass

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01:08:15,120 --> 01:08:16,519
Speaker 8: by here, Come on by here.

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Speaker 2: She don't live here, but come by you.

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01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 11: What about landlines with that real long extension cord?

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01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 8: Go on out, my man, My daddy bought her fifty

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01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 8: foot that he could talk on the porch. We thought

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01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 8: that was the coolest thing in the world, that porch talking.

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01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 8: But you tried to take that phone out on the

1313
01:08:35,479 --> 01:08:37,599
Speaker 8: porch and talk. But look the hell you going with

1314
01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:39,880
Speaker 8: that phone. You ain't brought no cord in here.

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 15: Coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 15: have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve.

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Speaker 10: Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 15: Time Now for Jay Anthony Brown's comedy Roulette and take

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Speaker 15: it away, Jane set it up for us.

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Speaker 9: Please so simple, It is just so simple.

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Speaker 13: You take three subjects, any three subjects you want, put

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01:09:03,040 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 13: them on a wheel where it stop. We will make

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01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 13: it funny. Damn it right.

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Speaker 15: Here are today's category said that before things Millennials will

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Speaker 15: say to let you know they're having a bad day.

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Speaker 1: Okay, my file.

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Speaker 15: Ways you say to the family your date is not

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Speaker 15: that attractive?

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Speaker 1: Or the last one TV shows.

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Speaker 15: You don't like to admit that you watch all right?

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Speaker 1: Oh it stopped on.

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Speaker 15: Ways you say to the family, your date is not

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Speaker 15: that attractive.

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Speaker 13: Oh no, here we go, timedy roulette. Ways to let

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Speaker 13: your family know your date is not that attractive. Don't

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01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:03,719
Speaker 13: try to look into that wondering eye because it won't

1339
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:08,280
Speaker 13: be looking at you. Okay, don't throw yourself out trying

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Speaker 13: to look at it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: Things you say to the family to let you know

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Speaker 12: that your date is not attractive.

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Speaker 23: You know what, I really think it's great we have

1345
01:10:14,840 --> 01:10:15,760
Speaker 23: matching hairlines.

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Speaker 1: I really do think.

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Speaker 16: Ways to say your date that isn't really that attract

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01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:26,400
Speaker 16: You know what, she looked like her daddy, but she

1349
01:10:26,479 --> 01:10:28,000
Speaker 16: got a good spirit you know what I'm saying.

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01:10:29,160 --> 01:10:39,800
Speaker 8: Spirit Ways to say to your family your day ain't

1351
01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 8: that attractive? Okay. Listen, we met at church. Yes, that's it,

1352
01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 8: we met at church.

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01:10:56,280 --> 01:10:59,240
Speaker 13: Ways to let your family know that your date is

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01:10:59,400 --> 01:11:02,920
Speaker 13: not not that attractive. Okay, he's gonna have to take

1355
01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:05,200
Speaker 13: his jacket up because his hump sweats.

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Speaker 9: Okay, so when he get in the house.

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01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 12: Ways to say to the family that your date is unattractive.

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01:11:14,160 --> 01:11:16,719
Speaker 12: I mean, come on, Brandma, you don't use all your TV.

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01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:26,160
Speaker 2: Ways to say to your date that isn't that attractive.

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Speaker 9: Hey, look, I used to say the real family.

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01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:30,720
Speaker 16: Ways to say to your family, I'm sorry that your

1362
01:11:30,760 --> 01:11:32,280
Speaker 16: date is really not the attracted.

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01:11:32,360 --> 01:11:33,920
Speaker 2: Listen from the neck down?

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01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:39,200
Speaker 9: She cold? Neck down though she cold.

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01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 2: I'm just telling you that you're wrong for that.

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Speaker 8: Way is to say to your family your date ain't

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01:11:49,240 --> 01:12:01,000
Speaker 8: that attractive. Listen, it was a car accident. See what

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01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:01,599
Speaker 8: you're talking about?

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01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 2: When she get him, Just listen, it's a car accident.

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Speaker 13: Ain't coming to relate. Wait to let your family know

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01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 13: your date is not that attractive. He has a neck, Okay,

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01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:16,160
Speaker 13: he has a neck.

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01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:20,880
Speaker 5: Wait her neck behind.

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Speaker 23: Waste to tell your family your date is not that attractive.

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01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 1: Listen, when she come in here, I'm gonna need all

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01:12:26,840 --> 01:12:30,799
Speaker 1: these lights off. Okay, she likes.

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01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 2: Talking in the dogs.

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01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 1: She don't like lights.

1379
01:12:32,479 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 2: Okay, waste to say of your family. Your date just

1380
01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:41,839
Speaker 2: isn't that attractive. Listen, listen. The lord works in mysterious ways.

1381
01:12:41,880 --> 01:12:45,479
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. He just works in mysterious ways.

1382
01:12:45,560 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 2: That's all I can say. But y'all get ready to.

1383
01:12:50,920 --> 01:12:55,559
Speaker 8: Waste safety your family with your date's not that intact.

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01:12:56,080 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 2: All right? When she gets here, bet not nobody say nothing.

1385
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:07,360
Speaker 1: That's it. I'm gonna tell you if we should.

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01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 2: Come in here that not nobody say a damn pant.

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01:13:12,680 --> 01:13:14,799
Speaker 9: That's pretty damn.

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01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:17,040
Speaker 2: And I mean.

1389
01:13:17,040 --> 01:13:22,759
Speaker 8: Nothing, heavy breathing, nothing.

1390
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:26,080
Speaker 1: All right, that's comedy roulette.

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01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:29,880
Speaker 15: J Anthony's j Anthony Brown's comedy Roulette. We'll have more

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01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:31,880
Speaker 15: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty

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01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:33,000
Speaker 15: minutes after the hour.

1394
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Speaker 11: Right after this.

1395
01:13:35,479 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 10: You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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01:13:40,240 --> 01:13:40,559
Speaker 17: All right.

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Speaker 11: So here's a question.

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Speaker 1: Is Generation Z over social media?

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Speaker 15: Really? Well?

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01:13:46,400 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 1: It could be because it's heart huh.

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01:13:48,720 --> 01:13:50,519
Speaker 15: It could be because as hard as it is to

1402
01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:54,960
Speaker 15: believe the generation raised on social media, Generation Z may

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01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:58,160
Speaker 15: be growing tired of it by now. Last year, the

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01:13:58,280 --> 01:14:01,599
Speaker 15: University of Chicago published a report that found that fifty

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01:14:01,680 --> 01:14:05,200
Speaker 15: seven percent of college students who are active users of

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01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:09,840
Speaker 15: Instagram would quote prefer to live in a world without

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01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:14,360
Speaker 15: the platform. Researchers ask the students how much they would

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01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:16,719
Speaker 15: have to be paid to get rid of their social media,

1409
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:22,439
Speaker 15: and the average answer about fifty dollars. Some fifty dollars

1410
01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:26,439
Speaker 15: would make them make their social media go away. So

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01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:29,760
Speaker 15: do you guys agree that life would be better without

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01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 15: social media?

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01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:39,680
Speaker 2: I do? It might be I like it, Mike, Oh no,

1414
01:14:39,840 --> 01:14:43,559
Speaker 2: da oh, I like it. No, wait.

1415
01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 15: Right now, because we didn't have it growing up, and

1416
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:48,719
Speaker 15: we were fine.

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01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:49,960
Speaker 9: We weren't just fine.

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01:14:50,200 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 11: Yeah, we turned out fine.

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01:14:51,400 --> 01:14:54,080
Speaker 2: Well, I'm liking for what. I don't need it.

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01:14:54,160 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 8: I don't need it to be successful, and I show

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01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:59,439
Speaker 8: don't need it to find out the lies.

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01:14:59,560 --> 01:15:05,040
Speaker 9: That's how.

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01:15:04,439 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 2: Me and my wife brother David Steve. Are we still together?

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01:15:07,080 --> 01:15:11,360
Speaker 8: I say, yeah, baby, papass was taking pictures of me,

1425
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:14,360
Speaker 8: so I just wanted to came back over there. Yeah,

1426
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:16,200
Speaker 8: everything fine, I didn't hear anything.

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01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:19,400
Speaker 15: All right, coming up in thirty three minutes after the hour,

1428
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 15: we'll play around it. Would you rather right after this

1429
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:27,600
Speaker 15: you're listening hard morning show. It is time now for

1430
01:15:27,840 --> 01:15:30,640
Speaker 15: would you rather let's play around, let's get into it.

1431
01:15:30,640 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 15: Would you rather sing everything you speak? Or would you

1432
01:15:35,360 --> 01:15:38,040
Speaker 15: rather dance every time you walk?

1433
01:15:39,520 --> 01:15:41,160
Speaker 2: I'm saying everything else.

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01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:42,960
Speaker 1: Hey, we know that's what you.

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01:15:43,360 --> 01:15:45,680
Speaker 9: I'm nothing to be that happy ass black.

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01:15:45,439 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 22: Person dancing every time you walk, doing a little jig.

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01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:52,240
Speaker 11: So sing something?

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01:15:52,320 --> 01:15:54,679
Speaker 1: See you ask me a question?

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01:15:55,520 --> 01:15:58,919
Speaker 15: Tell okay, what time is our meeting today? Our conference

1440
01:15:58,960 --> 01:16:00,920
Speaker 15: call am of the.

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01:16:01,080 --> 01:16:06,679
Speaker 2: Meeting will be somewhere about a quarter to three.

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01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 8: I want you call the Tommy, I want Junior corn

1443
01:16:14,400 --> 01:16:27,120
Speaker 8: Mississippi Mona. I want everybody zoom, get pretty rude. See

1444
01:16:28,160 --> 01:16:33,680
Speaker 8: the phone call three hours afternoon?

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01:16:36,080 --> 01:16:41,720
Speaker 11: He sings everything just his house will be long. Yes, yes,

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01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:43,200
Speaker 11: all right.

1447
01:16:43,320 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 15: So here's another one. Would you rather have Christmas twice

1448
01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:50,120
Speaker 15: a year? Or would you rather have your birthday twice

1449
01:16:50,160 --> 01:16:50,519
Speaker 15: a year?

1450
01:16:51,800 --> 01:16:52,320
Speaker 2: Birthday?

1451
01:16:53,520 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 1: You rather have a birthday?

1452
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, hell yeah?

1453
01:16:57,479 --> 01:16:57,760
Speaker 4: Why not?

1454
01:16:57,840 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 9: Christmas?

1455
01:16:58,240 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 2: I got you money, I got to spend on marching.

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01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:09,360
Speaker 8: Already, got Galentown Day, mother Day, damn anniversary, her birthday?

1457
01:17:09,439 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 2: Huh hell no, we can do Christmas.

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01:17:11,240 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 23: Choice, okay, perspective I got you, okay, coins yeah, okay,

1459
01:17:22,040 --> 01:17:22,360
Speaker 23: all right?

1460
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:26,559
Speaker 15: Would you rather be the commissioner of the NFL or

1461
01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:29,920
Speaker 15: be the general manager of your favorite NFL team?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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01:17:31,680 --> 01:17:34,519
Speaker 15: Would you rather be the commissioner of the NFL? Or

1464
01:17:34,520 --> 01:17:36,759
Speaker 15: would you rather be the general manager of your favorite

1465
01:17:36,840 --> 01:17:39,080
Speaker 15: NFL sports team?

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01:17:40,000 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 2: Ain't doing nothing? I need to be out front and

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01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:42,600
Speaker 2: be the commissioner.

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01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:45,720
Speaker 8: Yeah, commission and the check wave that I'll tell you

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01:17:45,800 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 8: right now, DeShawn Watson would be playing for the Browns

1470
01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:51,040
Speaker 8: right now.

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Speaker 1: He would be what.

1472
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:57,360
Speaker 2: Playing for the Browns? No criminal charges?

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01:17:57,560 --> 01:18:05,120
Speaker 15: We have none, So the commissioner could be out Brian.

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01:18:05,240 --> 01:18:10,480
Speaker 12: Okay, what about you, commission he wouldn't be in Cleveland

1475
01:18:10,520 --> 01:18:11,600
Speaker 12: if I was the commissioner.

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01:18:11,720 --> 01:18:19,040
Speaker 2: Okay, well, good thing, you're the last. Ain't a commissioner?

1477
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Speaker 4: All right?

1478
01:18:22,640 --> 01:18:24,880
Speaker 1: Thank you guys. That is today's roundup.

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01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:27,080
Speaker 15: Would you rather coming up at forty nine minutes after

1480
01:18:27,120 --> 01:18:29,200
Speaker 15: the hour, the last break of the day and Steve

1481
01:18:29,240 --> 01:18:35,040
Speaker 15: Harvey's closing remarks right after this you're listening morning show?

1482
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:37,439
Speaker 15: All right? Here we are, guys, last break of the

1483
01:18:37,520 --> 01:18:39,040
Speaker 15: day on this Monday.

1484
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:43,280
Speaker 8: Hey, I got I got something I want to share

1485
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:48,920
Speaker 8: with you all today. Okay, you know today when I

1486
01:18:48,960 --> 01:18:55,400
Speaker 8: woke up this morning. I didn't do my usual meditation

1487
01:18:55,680 --> 01:18:59,920
Speaker 8: every morning, and I missed about three days in a row.

1488
01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:03,439
Speaker 8: My early morning meditation. I always get up. It's something

1489
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 8: I've been doing for a little while now. I started

1490
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:10,639
Speaker 8: it last summer, and I very rarely miss a day.

1491
01:19:10,920 --> 01:19:15,080
Speaker 8: I've been very very happy about that. The benefit of

1492
01:19:15,120 --> 01:19:20,520
Speaker 8: it is it gives me a moment alone before the

1493
01:19:20,560 --> 01:19:24,360
Speaker 8: hectic part of the day begins, and before the phone

1494
01:19:24,400 --> 01:19:26,479
Speaker 8: starts ringing, and before I you know, I used to

1495
01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:29,080
Speaker 8: wake up and look at my emails and my text

1496
01:19:29,120 --> 01:19:33,439
Speaker 8: and get started, and I stopped doing that. And it's

1497
01:19:33,640 --> 01:19:37,240
Speaker 8: been a big refresher for me in my life because

1498
01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:39,479
Speaker 8: I just felt like I was starting my day wrong.

1499
01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 8: I needed to have some spirituality bought into my life

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01:19:44,920 --> 01:19:48,120
Speaker 8: first thing in the morning, and I found that. Ever

1501
01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:51,799
Speaker 8: since the summer, that's been a very very important aspect.

1502
01:19:51,960 --> 01:19:55,280
Speaker 8: It's been very calming for me. It has been very

1503
01:19:57,479 --> 01:20:01,200
Speaker 8: very invigorating. It has helped me change where a lot

1504
01:20:01,200 --> 01:20:04,680
Speaker 8: of my days start. But that alone time that I

1505
01:20:04,760 --> 01:20:09,479
Speaker 8: spend having my spiritual moment with my creator is the

1506
01:20:09,520 --> 01:20:12,679
Speaker 8: way I've chosen to do it. I want to tell

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01:20:12,760 --> 01:20:16,000
Speaker 8: you all something. If you haven't tried that. Give it

1508
01:20:16,040 --> 01:20:20,919
Speaker 8: a try. It's something about the early morning hours before

1509
01:20:20,960 --> 01:20:25,160
Speaker 8: you start hearing trafficing, before you turn the TV on

1510
01:20:25,360 --> 01:20:30,320
Speaker 8: or answer emails or texts. It's something about the quiet

1511
01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:34,439
Speaker 8: of early morning, before the house starts moving around and

1512
01:20:34,560 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 8: plates clanging and stuff like that, and door shutting.

1513
01:20:39,240 --> 01:20:42,400
Speaker 2: It's an amazing time to get.

1514
01:20:42,240 --> 01:20:47,920
Speaker 8: In touch with your spirituality. And I suggest just give

1515
01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:52,680
Speaker 8: it a try. You know, it may not be for you.

1516
01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:57,559
Speaker 2: It may not. I don't know you, but it happens

1517
01:20:57,600 --> 01:20:57,960
Speaker 2: a lot.

1518
01:20:58,080 --> 01:21:01,600
Speaker 8: I was reading a scripture once doing this thing, and

1519
01:21:02,240 --> 01:21:05,080
Speaker 8: it was saying that I'm paraphrasing it because it show

1520
01:21:05,120 --> 01:21:08,120
Speaker 8: ain't what it said exactly, but I will come with

1521
01:21:08,200 --> 01:21:12,920
Speaker 8: you in the early mornings and hear your cry. And

1522
01:21:13,000 --> 01:21:18,439
Speaker 8: so it has been very beneficial to me. And this morning,

1523
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:25,439
Speaker 8: in particular, after spending about three days not doing it, today,

1524
01:21:25,600 --> 01:21:28,960
Speaker 8: I sat down and all I did in my journal,

1525
01:21:31,040 --> 01:21:33,880
Speaker 8: because I have a Bible, I have a daily devotional,

1526
01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:36,639
Speaker 8: I have a journal. All I did in my journal

1527
01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:43,479
Speaker 8: this morning was I began to write out everything.

1528
01:21:43,120 --> 01:21:47,479
Speaker 2: I could think of that I wanted to thank him for.

1529
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 8: I just put a list of things I was grateful for,

1530
01:21:55,000 --> 01:21:57,280
Speaker 8: and the next thing, I know, I had filled.

1531
01:21:57,040 --> 01:22:02,559
Speaker 2: Up two pages, I mean two complete pages in my journal.

1532
01:22:03,320 --> 01:22:05,639
Speaker 8: You know, now it's not a piece of notebook paper,

1533
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:10,479
Speaker 8: you know they're going to three ring binder, but it's

1534
01:22:10,520 --> 01:22:12,160
Speaker 8: a substantial piece of paper.

1535
01:22:13,680 --> 01:22:14,719
Speaker 2: And I filled it.

1536
01:22:14,680 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 8: Up because I was just I couldn't stop writing, and

1537
01:22:19,040 --> 01:22:24,120
Speaker 8: I was writing everything. I think him for safe passage

1538
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:28,040
Speaker 8: and the airways. I thanked him for my children's health.

1539
01:22:28,120 --> 01:22:32,200
Speaker 8: I thanked him for guidance. I started thinking him for

1540
01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:36,839
Speaker 8: everything that he's done for me that I pray about,

1541
01:22:37,439 --> 01:22:39,680
Speaker 8: and the things that he's done for me that I

1542
01:22:39,760 --> 01:22:40,679
Speaker 8: don't pray about.

1543
01:22:40,720 --> 01:22:43,760
Speaker 2: I thank him for my breath. I thanked him for

1544
01:22:43,840 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 2: my measure of health.

1545
01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:48,800
Speaker 8: I thanked him for being able to have a lifestyle

1546
01:22:48,920 --> 01:22:50,040
Speaker 8: beyond my dreams.

1547
01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:51,240
Speaker 2: I was thinking him for.

1548
01:22:53,520 --> 01:22:57,960
Speaker 8: The ability to dress myself. I was thanking him for

1549
01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:03,200
Speaker 8: going to the super Bowl, for having a successful NFL honors,

1550
01:23:04,320 --> 01:23:08,080
Speaker 8: for meeting people, for taking on the mantra that I

1551
01:23:08,080 --> 01:23:11,680
Speaker 8: didn't want to complain. So I've cut back on that.

1552
01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:15,280
Speaker 8: I haven't stopped completely. You know, I'm catching myself every

1553
01:23:15,280 --> 01:23:18,120
Speaker 8: now and then, but I've been so far. I've cut

1554
01:23:18,240 --> 01:23:21,640
Speaker 8: down on complaining drastically and I'm thank him for that

1555
01:23:21,760 --> 01:23:25,479
Speaker 8: because instead of complaining, whenever I feel like I want

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Speaker 8: to complain about something, I find a way to be grateful.

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Speaker 8: I find something to be grateful for. So I've I've

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Speaker 8: replaced complaining with gratitude.

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Speaker 9: Wow.

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Speaker 8: Wow, what a game changer, What an amazing mental state

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Speaker 8: that puts you in if you could exchange complaining for gratitude.

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Speaker 8: Gratitude is a very very underrated principle of success. Not

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Speaker 8: many people talk about it. But the more grateful you are,

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Speaker 8: the more things grate God will give you to be

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Speaker 8: grateful for. The more grateful you are, the more thing

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Speaker 8: God God will give to you to be grateful for.

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Speaker 8: That's a fact. That's a fact. And so I'm suggesting

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Speaker 8: to everybody get up a little bit earlier and spend

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Speaker 8: twenty minutes, fifteen minutes, let's start there.

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Speaker 2: The more you could do, the better.

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Speaker 8: But if you could start with ten quiet minutes with

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Speaker 8: just you and you and God, and I don't care

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Speaker 8: what faith you're in, just you and God. Just spend

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Speaker 8: some time talking with him, thanking him, telling him what

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Speaker 8: you want, telling him what you need, asking for the

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Speaker 8: help that you want. But tell him you love him

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Speaker 8: and tell him and tell him you're trying to get

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Speaker 8: it right and you need some helping, and tell him

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Speaker 8: what you want and thank you. It's an amazing way

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Speaker 8: to start your day. Just give it a thought. Shop

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Speaker 8: that's all. Those are my closes, room loss.

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Speaker 2: Have a nice days. Talk to guy who's going to be real.

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