Speaker 1: Welcome to the women able in our podcast. You guys,
Speaker 1: the girl boy, it's your girl, y'all, Girl, Pretty bills up, Yo,
Speaker 1: We're back your girl Justina be with Pretty D and
Speaker 1: d somebody what's the boy? Gebody get your show, ladies
Speaker 1: and Na Tonight we're gonna have the women a while.
Speaker 1: And I'm cats all the cars. What's up? You guys,
Speaker 1: it's your girl be some moth, Pretty TV and my
Speaker 1: baby just in the Valentine. We are here. I'm so
Speaker 1: excited for this episode. All three girls are busy at
Speaker 1: what's up? Ladies? What do you guys? It's sugarl Pretty TV,
Speaker 1: you guys. And I ain't on the table today, y'all,
Speaker 1: so you know I'm late. I'm just here girl. What's
Speaker 1: that Justina? What's that? Baby? It's your girl j V.
Speaker 1: And I'm so glad to be back here with my
Speaker 1: girls because it is the women a While in our podcast.
Speaker 1: We do run this. We don't have no boys in
Speaker 1: the building, you know what I mean from more perspective,
Speaker 1: and you know they say ladies run the world, and
Speaker 1: speaking or running um, you know, I mean. I've just
Speaker 1: gotten a little cardio, so I'm feeling good. My ticker
Speaker 1: is ticking. Yeah, I'm feeling good man. I'm proud of you. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: Sports Illustrated. They needed Sports Illustrated edition the women a
Speaker 1: while and now just like flesh get a good do.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, we should make that house shoot our
Speaker 1: own magazine cover magazines. Yes, they gotta get me my
Speaker 1: ass from the right angle. No, I can't see it
Speaker 1: from there. I watched my chee and I ripped off
Speaker 1: my skin because I have a little god. Oh do
Speaker 1: you guys want my chin and my lip? Hell? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can have a leave. Women still shave. That's mind block. Okay,
Speaker 1: like we get like that's self. I still shave if
Speaker 1: I can't get to the wax people, So I do
Speaker 1: like a little sad of you. Yeah yeah, because I'm
Speaker 1: a type of girl. I would walk on a photo
Speaker 1: shoot and I would be very hairy and how do
Speaker 1: you do that? Sickening? Sickening? My issue with the wax
Speaker 1: stop it like the thing with the wax though, because
Speaker 1: I tried it a couple of times. First of all,
Speaker 1: I think the woman that I just got was brutal,
Speaker 1: Like it hurts so bad. I don't think it was
Speaker 1: supposed to hurt it wasn't supposed to hurt as bad
Speaker 1: as it did. I think she was just like, no,
Speaker 1: you gotta go to like a European wax in er,
Speaker 1: a place where they use hard way do they use
Speaker 1: strips like the strip they put the strip on. I
Speaker 1: have no idea what she put hard, but it hurts
Speaker 1: so so after that I was like, I just shave.
Speaker 1: I don't mind shaving because then when you get it wack,
Speaker 1: No you do, you're gonna mind. No, You're gonna mind
Speaker 1: shaving after you get a good way. But then what
Speaker 1: do you do? So what do you do? You get
Speaker 1: wax on a Monday, right, you gotta shoot on a Thursday.
Speaker 1: You got a little stubble, you have to shave. You're
Speaker 1: not gonna have stubble. You're not gonna have stuffle. It's
Speaker 1: waxing out of the root the last for a month.
Speaker 1: I do like the sugar wax like then. I also
Speaker 1: do like the wax like they put you and they
Speaker 1: just like taking it off. And I sometimes used the
Speaker 1: strips me. On the other hand, I don't like all
Speaker 1: that painty painty because when they get to them lips,
Speaker 1: I'm thinking they turn that shirt off literally save a
Speaker 1: little hair striped like a little I don't even a
Speaker 1: little strip on my lip. I wish I could show
Speaker 1: you my poop from right now. I promise it looks
Speaker 1: like let's this would have a lot of views right
Speaker 1: it's but right now it's bad. Um, I don't know it.
Speaker 1: I prefer the shade because I feel like you could
Speaker 1: just keep it clean, do it quickly. But I don't know.
Speaker 1: Maybe I just had a really bad experience waxing. You know,
Speaker 1: my nigga, I'm not taking like I used to do this.
Speaker 1: I took the shaver and I will look between my
Speaker 1: legs and then I would have to open my and
Speaker 1: I would keep doing all that. That's too much work.
Speaker 1: So I was like, yo, lady, I'm gonna toot my
Speaker 1: legs up. You'll worried about all this pain for wax
Speaker 1: and sugaring, and I know both of y'all done ain't
Speaker 1: no before You'll ain't worried about the pain with that. Well,
Speaker 1: you're gonna really say, how the hell you know? I
Speaker 1: didn't like because so confused because I know you, and
Speaker 1: I know that ass, and I know that he and
Speaker 1: I know a lot of things have been up it
Speaker 1: now from big, like and I even imagine being a
Speaker 1: having sex with some I can't. I can't either, I
Speaker 1: can imagine. I hate that. I hate trying to imagine
Speaker 1: being like just making all types of face start start
Speaker 1: looking at me. But look, it's a it's a whole
Speaker 1: little it's a whole different beasting when you're trying to
Speaker 1: get between No, that's what I am too, as goofy
Speaker 1: as we are we're in the bedroom, it's like give
Speaker 1: you give yourself. This is audition at this point, but
Speaker 1: it's like, why do not all that ship pick up?
Speaker 1: Giving my all? Baby? It's like pick up kid, I like,
Speaker 1: y'all gonna see seriously, like it's that so I mean
Speaker 1: first time. That's I think that's literally what we're gonna
Speaker 1: get into right now. It's the first time. Okay, first time.
Speaker 1: You ain't all though seventh grade, Justina. Yeah, we got
Speaker 1: some homes on this show. I'm the least hoe. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think Na and Justine our neck and neck with
Speaker 1: the whole story. We've been getting a lot of these.
Speaker 1: When be someone used to tell me about her stories
Speaker 1: about like kissing and like her first time for this,
Speaker 1: I'm like, are you don't do that? In nineteen, but
Speaker 1: you have to do that. In the seventh grade. Seventh grade,
Speaker 1: I was fast, sevenst and spread. I was fast. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was doing some things that them kids right, the
Speaker 1: kids right now in this generation probably whatever, But back
Speaker 1: then that was that that was not loud. I shouldn't
Speaker 1: have been doing. I was very curious, curious, George. I
Speaker 1: wanted to know he was alazer. Baby, you know what? Okay,
Speaker 1: first time you gave here? Oh, I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think that's like maybe n T great. I don't remember
Speaker 1: the first day if I stuck, that's crazy. First thick you, honey.
Speaker 1: I just hope my mama ain't listening to this podcast, y'all.
Speaker 1: We'll be right back, y'all with more. Could be funny
Speaker 1: to get in to our first time and I know
Speaker 1: y'all want here my time. Welcome back to the women
Speaker 1: and while now podcast we get back to the nitty
Speaker 1: the gritty the first time this show' gonna be about
Speaker 1: mavn first your house on the house and this is
Speaker 1: a solo. Used to do that to me all the
Speaker 1: time when I was wrapping us, to be like like
Speaker 1: let me do it, like I'm killing Oh my god. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we got back honey, and I want to y'all know
Speaker 1: everybody don't know all our tease, but that's seventh grade.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you about my first dad. Well, okay,
Speaker 1: we don't even know about the first time he has
Speaker 1: six I let's talking about okay, our first kids. Ye's
Speaker 1: easy into it. Yeah, okay, let's ease into it. Oh.
Speaker 1: I remember the first time I got my titty sucked.
Speaker 1: It was at a church convention. Was it was it?
Speaker 1: It was it like like a pure or something be
Speaker 1: like in the church or hell no, we was at
Speaker 1: a convention and it was an usher's convention. So it
Speaker 1: was a convention. I don't know what city was in,
Speaker 1: but was so man j he went that titty out.
Speaker 1: I was like, fitteen, I ain't had sex yet. We
Speaker 1: didn't do anything. He just sucked my nipple. What do
Speaker 1: you do? It? Just took it out, held in like,
Speaker 1: and then put the shirt back my suck. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I don't know when it was my
Speaker 1: first time. I think I just did a whole chevyh once.
Speaker 1: It was a care package. My first kiss. Your first
Speaker 1: kiss was not when you first washed. Oh my first kiss,
Speaker 1: I don't remember that you don't remember your first kids,
Speaker 1: do you, Yeah, my first kids. I remember. Um, we
Speaker 1: were outside. I was like either eleven or twelve, and
Speaker 1: it was it was cold because you know, Jersey's like
Speaker 1: always fucking cold. We only have like two two months
Speaker 1: of nice weather, so it was cold. We had the
Speaker 1: jackets on and we were just like, all right, let's kiss.
Speaker 1: So we like did it. We stuck our tongues out
Speaker 1: and we was just like, you know, just moving our
Speaker 1: tongues around. We really didn't know how to do it,
Speaker 1: but um, you know it was kind of like a
Speaker 1: little gross, but like you still hype because you're like,
Speaker 1: I have my first kiss and like I ran, I
Speaker 1: told like my big cousins and stuff and it was cute.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I remember it was outside. It was cold,
Speaker 1: and it was like nasty, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because it just felt like two worms, like wrestling, you know,
Speaker 1: like I really know how to do it. Like as
Speaker 1: you get older, it's like I don't know about about
Speaker 1: you guys, but like the way I like the kiss
Speaker 1: is more now like it was in show up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's like open mouth kissing. It's not like you like
Speaker 1: you Yeah, we just wanted to say we made out
Speaker 1: with the tongue, you know, and that was but it
Speaker 1: was cute. You know what about your first remember how
Speaker 1: was it? Oh? Lord? I remember I was playing how
Speaker 1: didn't go get it? But I see I was the
Speaker 1: good kid. I never did nothing. I was like so
Speaker 1: scared to get in trouble, scared of kids like guys
Speaker 1: watching parents gonna find out. I did not want to
Speaker 1: shake the room. So he found me, bitch, and I
Speaker 1: was like, don't like, don't touch me, like you know
Speaker 1: your and he just kissed me in this closet and
Speaker 1: I was so scared. Well, nowadays he bring you in
Speaker 1: trouble for that. He kind of took that kiss. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think I don't know my first kiss. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know where I was at. I just know
Speaker 1: I when I was like me like, I'm a very
Speaker 1: affectionate person. I was touching everything everyone. So it was
Speaker 1: just like any guy I've seen, Oh, like you're my boyfriend,
Speaker 1: Like you're cute, right, So it's like it was one
Speaker 1: of those moments like run around in Miami like just
Speaker 1: everybody knible girl, Oh you cute? Les? Yeah, how to
Speaker 1: go giddy? Like you come over with my grandma house,
Speaker 1: like we're gonna do something, you know. It was the
Speaker 1: more those moments, and we were just young. We just
Speaker 1: want to know what was going on. So I don't
Speaker 1: remember that. I remember when I did it. Let's get today.
Speaker 1: Were you guys, were you guys like boys crazy, like
Speaker 1: just like so into boys and like not, no, not
Speaker 1: at all. You probably weren't. I was like very crazy
Speaker 1: because no, no, I was. I was boy crazy because
Speaker 1: like my thing is, I was so curious as a kid,
Speaker 1: like I would like, if I'm seeing a marian I'm like,
Speaker 1: I know somebody in the hood of Miami got a
Speaker 1: Mario looking like like I'm gonna find videos and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I can find somebody that look just like that. So
Speaker 1: when I when I did kind of find something like similar,
Speaker 1: then I used to love like being around older guys,
Speaker 1: so I said, cute, but you my daddy age at
Speaker 1: this point, you know, so it was it was like
Speaker 1: calm down, you know, but literally I was very much
Speaker 1: like curious George. And see everybody thinks my dad, my
Speaker 1: dad didn't like that. He'd like you in too many
Speaker 1: people faces, right, So what about your guys, like first date, Like,
Speaker 1: do you remember like the first date, and you know
Speaker 1: it's crazy. I remember my first hell date. But I
Speaker 1: will say, did anybody teach you on how to date? Like, nobody,
Speaker 1: not a woman in my family, not a father, and
Speaker 1: my family set me down and told me how to date,
Speaker 1: how to go on a date, how to be a lady,
Speaker 1: cross your legs, let him put out your chair, let
Speaker 1: him open your door. Now that is whack to me,
Speaker 1: that's whack. That's when I have kids, They're gonna know
Speaker 1: how to be a lady on the first date, and
Speaker 1: the gentleman is going to know how to treat a
Speaker 1: woman on the first date. I'm lying. My grandmother taught
Speaker 1: me and my mom she was more so telling me,
Speaker 1: like how to eat when you go out with people
Speaker 1: if it's a date, like how to eat. A man
Speaker 1: should open the door. I said this on my mom's
Speaker 1: Live last night. She's always telling me, before you leave
Speaker 1: the house, have a hundred dollars with you are twenty dollars.
Speaker 1: Say if a man don't want to pay any act
Speaker 1: like they don't got a money on you, you, as
Speaker 1: a woman should come and say I got it. See
Speaker 1: that's good, and that's good. Yeah. She used to teach
Speaker 1: me that. So I came from my mom, did teach
Speaker 1: me and my grandmother? Did you choose how you want
Speaker 1: to you choose how you want to move after you
Speaker 1: get taught, like you know about your parents, but my
Speaker 1: mom and my grandma, dad, my grandma especially, Yeah, she said,
Speaker 1: that's good. Yeah, I'm with you. The first hill date, y'all.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you my first hun date. His name
Speaker 1: was Trey. He drove old school Cadillac. It was on rims,
Speaker 1: you know, from Dallas, Texas, so like Houston, Dallas, just
Speaker 1: like swinging on phofols, tipping on pho phones back in
Speaker 1: the day. It was all that Paul Wall, Chamellionaire rams, candy, paint,
Speaker 1: wood grain. I didn't even get in the damn car.
Speaker 1: The fucking wheels were so high on this motherfucker. I
Speaker 1: remember that. I don't remember this ship. This man had
Speaker 1: a patch on his eye because let me tell you, hey,
Speaker 1: you got my number. Were driving on the highway in Dallas, Texas.
Speaker 1: He was over there. I was over here, left to
Speaker 1: the right, and I yelled at my number to him
Speaker 1: to one though, so I didn't really see him see him,
Speaker 1: you know. So he text me, I'm gonna come pick
Speaker 1: you up. Were gonna got to eat. It was the
Speaker 1: worst day. First we stopped at the trap house before
Speaker 1: we even went to go eat and take care of
Speaker 1: business gas to get the money for They felt so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: I was like, if we get pulled over. We did
Speaker 1: get pulled over, by the way it got pulled over.
Speaker 1: He putting all this stuff in the He moved the
Speaker 1: what's the events where the air come out. He moved
Speaker 1: the event and started putting stuff in there. I was like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm with a fucking felon, Like, I was so scared.
Speaker 1: I was looking at him like I am not the
Speaker 1: down ass bitch, and you're obviously not the nigga that's
Speaker 1: gonna be with a boogie bitch, So you need to
Speaker 1: take me home. We didn't even eat. No, we made
Speaker 1: so many stops and got pulled over. I was like,
Speaker 1: we should just like take me back to the crib.
Speaker 1: We we both knew I ain't for you when you
Speaker 1: ain't for me, and it we never talked again. It
Speaker 1: was horrible. When he got the number, you probably only
Speaker 1: saw the side you only was used on the non
Speaker 1: ipatch side. Oh, on the other side, he had a
Speaker 1: patch which don't matter. If you're a good person, don't
Speaker 1: put me on a high speed chase on the first date.
Speaker 1: If you gotta patch, you gotta have a good heart,
Speaker 1: because you can't have a patch in and be he
Speaker 1: haven't to be I think for me, Um, I didn't.
Speaker 1: I never experienced a real date until now, Like I've
Speaker 1: never been in like in a real relationship relationships. On me,
Speaker 1: dates you be on like a date. I've never been
Speaker 1: on a date. You. I've never been on a date.
Speaker 1: I haven't been, like my real dates are now and
Speaker 1: it's been the person. It's only been with people that like, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I've been on one date with a Russian guy and
Speaker 1: he took me to my first rehanda concert. But I'm
Speaker 1: like whatever, But like I didn't feel it, Like it
Speaker 1: was like we're just going out and we worked out
Speaker 1: at a gym, so like we're gonna go to the
Speaker 1: gym and we're gonna get ready at that. But that
Speaker 1: was still a date because he liked you, you just
Speaker 1: didn't like I don't think he liked me. Um, So
Speaker 1: you know, but I think my dates start now, like
Speaker 1: I'm going on dates now, period. So yeah, yeah, I
Speaker 1: never had one I remember. I remember I probably didn't
Speaker 1: like high school, but I don't know I was doing
Speaker 1: too much, like trying to have sex instead of going
Speaker 1: on days. I'm gonna cutter right, like you just trying
Speaker 1: to skip it, like just turn on a movie and
Speaker 1: do it to me. You're trying to get to the
Speaker 1: bus I'm trying of the thing I'm nervous about. Oh sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm just about to say one thing I'm nervous about
Speaker 1: with my b a Bay because we're about going on
Speaker 1: first day is He made it very clear that what
Speaker 1: if it's pet Peeves is smacking and yeah, like I don't.
Speaker 1: I don't smack though, Like I don't eat like a
Speaker 1: fucking mama. But I am definitely like when the food
Speaker 1: I'm watching the food come like I'm the person that's
Speaker 1: like sauce dip. Yeah, I need all the sauce stuff
Speaker 1: food of foodie. So I'm just like, I ain't nobody
Speaker 1: trying to eat cute, right, So I'm never you gotta
Speaker 1: try a little bit to eat with your mouth clothes,
Speaker 1: But I really can't. I am a smacker, and you
Speaker 1: know with these little ass novels I got, I can't
Speaker 1: read you good like you want me to dire? Do
Speaker 1: you want me to eat it? And eve? But um, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I always dated like troublemakers and like I always dated
Speaker 1: you know guys and you felt safe, like you were
Speaker 1: comfortable with that, you weren't scared. Yeah no, I mean
Speaker 1: I you know, I was on kind of the same
Speaker 1: wavelength as them. But I never dated guys that were
Speaker 1: like really like nice and stuff like that. I wasn't
Speaker 1: really into that. And when I would kind of talk
Speaker 1: to a nice guy, like, I didn't like them as
Speaker 1: much as the asshole guy. So I was never really
Speaker 1: a data type. I was always working like mad hours
Speaker 1: a week, you know, wait just saying bartending, working in
Speaker 1: the strip clubs bartending. So it's like most of the
Speaker 1: guys I dated, it was like we would hang out
Speaker 1: like at the crib, but we weren't really going on dates.
Speaker 1: And then one guy I was with for a minute,
Speaker 1: he owned a bar, so I was, you know, running
Speaker 1: the bar. So it was like no dating. It was
Speaker 1: just like but kind of like the said you had
Speaker 1: just kicking it at the crib. It was really no
Speaker 1: like dates like that. And that really didn't bother me
Speaker 1: because because I was always on my ground and trying
Speaker 1: to make ship happen and get to where we all
Speaker 1: are now. So it was never on my mind like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to go in a night you were younger, Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was never like I want to go on
Speaker 1: a nice day. I was like, I want to progress
Speaker 1: and what I'm trying to do. So that's kind of
Speaker 1: where I was at with it. And I was always
Speaker 1: the type that if the guy couldn't see my vision
Speaker 1: or wasn't down for what I was trying to do,
Speaker 1: then he just didn't work next exactly, he didn't even
Speaker 1: work in my schedule. But I just sent on the
Speaker 1: top of the dates. B I just wanna be a
Speaker 1: little nosy like you n V a bit like where
Speaker 1: is there a reservation? Like? Where is it? Is it rude?
Speaker 1: Is it red? Lobster? Like? Where we going? So he's coming,
Speaker 1: He's definitely getting a hotel. Um, he's coming, But are
Speaker 1: you No, I'm not. I'm on my period. Man, I'm
Speaker 1: not having said him. We already talked about sexual intercourse
Speaker 1: and we're not having sex yet, got it? Okay? He
Speaker 1: actually brought it up. He said he wasn't. He didn't
Speaker 1: want to, you know, step that line. He's like, I've
Speaker 1: had sex too soon in the past and it ruined
Speaker 1: the relationship and I want something real. Girl. He heard
Speaker 1: the podcast. He knew he wasn't getting puss. Let me
Speaker 1: let me sound like a gentleman girl here do not
Speaker 1: listening about but um yeah, so we decided to take
Speaker 1: it slow. He is getting a hotel, you know, which
Speaker 1: I like, you don't Nigga's be coming to town, like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm staying with you? Hook Like no, like, be a man,
Speaker 1: come in, get you a room and I must stay
Speaker 1: at the room. I'm gonna say at the room, which
Speaker 1: so I'm about gona stay with him, and um yeah,
Speaker 1: we'll just see what happens. I told him to plan,
Speaker 1: he said, you know, he got a driver for the
Speaker 1: weekend and he's planning everything. I like, when a man leaves.
Speaker 1: You want to court me, you want to date me,
Speaker 1: don't ask me. What is there to do in Atlanta?
Speaker 1: Google figured out, like, I know, you know niggas in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: You know people in Atlanta. Make some calls, make some reservations,
Speaker 1: and just tell me when to be ready. I'm not
Speaker 1: about to court you, like, so you know, and he's
Speaker 1: been doing that. So he actually just landed a little
Speaker 1: bit ago. So he'll be pens at his hotel and
Speaker 1: I'm going to meet him there. So how are we
Speaker 1: moving with the um with appeared on a double up
Speaker 1: war like are you heavy? Me? I'm not having sex
Speaker 1: with him, so we don't have to talking about that.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about when you're in that bed land and
Speaker 1: then you know, you know, baby, I don't just wake
Speaker 1: up in a puddle of bud. Girl, I'm heavy. I
Speaker 1: gotta I gotta double up and put the baby. Lena,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's so what you're doing. That's just
Speaker 1: too much. Are you guys eating in like at the hotel?
Speaker 1: We're gonna go out to eat. He actually had a
Speaker 1: chef that he was flying in. He was gonna cook
Speaker 1: for me at my house. I had no idea, but
Speaker 1: um the chef canceled. He lives out of town. So
Speaker 1: he was asking, He's like, do you know what chef
Speaker 1: in Atlanta? I was like, I know a few. You know,
Speaker 1: if you want to stay in, we're gonna have a
Speaker 1: dinner here or we could go out whatever, So we'll
Speaker 1: probably go like out to eat. I told him about
Speaker 1: this hook lounge that I like, Um Road low key.
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to beat in the mix. Like if
Speaker 1: I get drunk or something and want to make out
Speaker 1: with him, I don't want people being like, there's be
Speaker 1: someone in the corner. Maybe I would have random to
Speaker 1: good No, yea, so you know, keep it cute about that.
Speaker 1: What are you wearing? So this is my first date
Speaker 1: since my breakup, y'all, let's go. Okay, So when did
Speaker 1: y'all lose oppriginity? You go seventh grade? I think the
Speaker 1: v for me was eighth and then I know be
Speaker 1: Simone said she and she just lost her ship like
Speaker 1: two years ago. Yes, when I was nineteen nine. No,
Speaker 1: I was my seventh grade. Just yeah, that's ridiculous. What
Speaker 1: y'all doing? Serious? Like all the home girls say they
Speaker 1: did it and oh my god, it hurts so bad.
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, the real you justus. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you just wanted to feel it. Um. I think like
Speaker 1: back then we didn't really know what the heck we
Speaker 1: were doing. But like you said, it's like you're wanna
Speaker 1: do it, You wanna try it out, you with a
Speaker 1: boy you like, and you you get it done. I
Speaker 1: respect how be Simone did it because probably by the
Speaker 1: time she did it at nineteen, probably dated the guy
Speaker 1: for a little bit, still didn't know know, so it
Speaker 1: was a hook up. I met the nigga, he tricked me.
Speaker 1: I had sex with him, fell in love with him.
Speaker 1: I was buying him shoes and he had a whole
Speaker 1: another girlfriend. Did you really like the guy who took
Speaker 1: your Virginia v or was it just like one and done.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I wrote about him in
Speaker 1: my diet. That's how. That's how he was on right.
Speaker 1: He literally was just so handsome to me. He was
Speaker 1: chocolate football player, just so freaking cute, and just he
Speaker 1: ran track because like like I said, Miami boys, they
Speaker 1: are definitely too advanced, and it's just like they and
Speaker 1: you know how the league you got the big league,
Speaker 1: you just you're paying football for the parts, you know.
Speaker 1: So it was a moment until you get like you
Speaker 1: got to college and then you get you know, drafted,
Speaker 1: and like it was one of those moments. And I
Speaker 1: loved him so much and I still um. We still
Speaker 1: talked like me to get here, and they're just like
Speaker 1: checking in. He got yes, he got a baby, was playing,
Speaker 1: he was playing football, like you know, so he's doing
Speaker 1: his thing. But I was so obsessed with him and
Speaker 1: I moved in South Carolina. He only got like the
Speaker 1: six seventh and eighth grade. For me, Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: on pretty much the same path as you beat my guy. Um,
Speaker 1: Like I said, were doing all that seventh and eight
Speaker 1: between you know this and then the v car So
Speaker 1: it wasn't it was in those years. And it's funny
Speaker 1: when you're that young and you really like someone, you're
Speaker 1: just like you just think you're so in love, and
Speaker 1: I guess at the time you know you are. But um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's that's the pearist form of love, that
Speaker 1: you're not dating people for money and staff. I like
Speaker 1: you exactly like I like you just like you. So
Speaker 1: I got a question for you guys about first When
Speaker 1: was your first heartbreak? Oh my god, I just talked
Speaker 1: about I did this story time on my close friends
Speaker 1: literally two days ago. I did my whole time. That
Speaker 1: was my whole any time, my first time. I got
Speaker 1: cheated on my first heartbreak. It was so sad. Let
Speaker 1: me tell y'all. I ain't gonna take out the details
Speaker 1: because it ain't fair to my close friends that have
Speaker 1: that have subscribed. But it boils down to be doing
Speaker 1: this girl's hair, and she was like, yeah, like, are
Speaker 1: you still talking to someone? So I'm like, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: my boyfriend. Like what do you mean am I talking
Speaker 1: to him? We're not talking. We've been together for a
Speaker 1: year and a half. She's like, wow, that's so crazy,
Speaker 1: Like when you were knocking at his door and he
Speaker 1: didn't open the door and you finally came in, Like,
Speaker 1: I had to hide in the bathroom until you left.
Speaker 1: Because she's like, she got booked in the point with me,
Speaker 1: got her hair done, and this at the end of
Speaker 1: her hair and point she was. She was smart. She
Speaker 1: told you at the end because you might have snipped
Speaker 1: a little bit too much. I was like, oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: She was like, yeah, that was pretty, that was pretty
Speaker 1: cheating was cheating on you with me? I would have
Speaker 1: slapped the ship out of here. I don't it looks
Speaker 1: at the podcast right now, Cynthia Cassandra. I would have Cynthia,
Speaker 1: I would have knocked you out, sweets. I would have
Speaker 1: looked you said, what, yeah, it was crazy break. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's that's crazy that the girl came what was yours?
Speaker 1: My heartbreak? M gonna be very honest. Um. I would
Speaker 1: have to say seven eighth grade, like when I'm o,
Speaker 1: my god, no, it was her first kiss, she lost
Speaker 1: her had her first yeah right, yeah, it was literally
Speaker 1: that moment. It was like yeah, because I just think
Speaker 1: he was flailed with me. He was cheating on me,
Speaker 1: and he was dating somebody in high school. What was crazy?
Speaker 1: And then he was eight eighth grade. You're still trying
Speaker 1: to you talking talking to these these girls and my things.
Speaker 1: I filled the fourth grade. I've bol have been in
Speaker 1: eighth grade when it when everybody was where it was
Speaker 1: seventh grade, which I was in eighth grade, but I
Speaker 1: had filled the fourth grade. So it was given very
Speaker 1: much like okay, like I'm holding it was giving very money.
Speaker 1: I'm your same age right at this point. So if
Speaker 1: you want somebody on the beach, it's me because I
Speaker 1: mean fourth grade, y'all. Yeah, V and everything. Within forty
Speaker 1: eight hours, like you said, be the kids to break
Speaker 1: up the sack. The butt says, oh forty eight hours.
Speaker 1: Got knocked it on quick. I know your diary was
Speaker 1: on fire that week, so it was kind of break
Speaker 1: cold turkey, bitch now like oh yeah, I cold turkey.
Speaker 1: It ain't no oh uniqu closure my closure is the
Speaker 1: truth next? Like, that's enough, that's what the funk I'm
Speaker 1: talking about. That is sucking be simone. Sucking edges is
Speaker 1: slicking slate. And we out of here. This in the condo.
Speaker 1: She's a psychopath. Yeah, all right, let's get to this. Okay,
Speaker 1: we've been doing too much juicy, Like, come on, let's
Speaker 1: get into it asking this question. I'm ready, I'm ready
Speaker 1: for this. I'm ready for the shebang. The shebank was
Speaker 1: you ain't listen. You don't get crazier than that. You
Speaker 1: don't get no more shebank either that. But but we
Speaker 1: didn't let me ask you all this. Wow, what do
Speaker 1: you guys think? Like like about the heartbreak? Like, I
Speaker 1: remember my heartbreak. It was my first heartbreak. Was with
Speaker 1: the same value he took my Virginia. We alreadygether for
Speaker 1: a few years whatever, then when we broke up. That
Speaker 1: was my first heartbreak. Like do you feel like your
Speaker 1: heartbreak got worse as you grew up and matured and
Speaker 1: you would have heartbreak or do you feel like that
Speaker 1: first one just hit different? No, I feel like it
Speaker 1: got worse because the older you get, the more serious
Speaker 1: you are, Like, the more serious you are, not worse
Speaker 1: I guess, yeah, I guess worse, worse because you think
Speaker 1: you're gonna be with this person forever. Like the older
Speaker 1: you get like I hadn't been through this, i'd've been
Speaker 1: through that. I'd have been through this. Okay, this is
Speaker 1: the one, right, Okay, this is the one. It's like
Speaker 1: God damn. But it also allows you to know what
Speaker 1: I've been through so much heartbreak this I'm gonna make
Speaker 1: it through this one too, Like I've had my heart
Speaker 1: broken before, so it's it heals every time. Right, Well,
Speaker 1: go ahead, Yeah, I think I hear. I feel like
Speaker 1: you want to give us the details of the anal,
Speaker 1: So let's get down and dirty. I mean with the
Speaker 1: I'm gonna just definitely talk about the heartbreak moment because
Speaker 1: I feel like to like the heartbreak would be a
Speaker 1: moment like okay, like you over it and then you're
Speaker 1: done with it, but it still gives a woman like
Speaker 1: you know what the next person that come around me, like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be like sad, but if it'd be
Speaker 1: so that connection that I'm sad again, you know, like
Speaker 1: now I didn't give you too much. Now I'm heartbroken
Speaker 1: in the game, and I know this is popular love,
Speaker 1: and I know this is this. Now I'm sad because
Speaker 1: I didn't told myself I ain't gonna do this. But
Speaker 1: then you're such a good person. Now you're getting on
Speaker 1: my nerves. So it's just it is what it is.
Speaker 1: But boom, ain't no, let's get to it, you know.
Speaker 1: And we already talked about ain't no wena. We didn't
Speaker 1: need it. We didn't talk about so okay, what do
Speaker 1: you want to say about? Right? And are you and
Speaker 1: are you still into it? Or have you had your film?
Speaker 1: No pun intendant like, have you had your Filipino or
Speaker 1: are you still I may be very youngest and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna keep with that stack. Seventh grade tried it right,
Speaker 1: and I didn't know what was going on because I
Speaker 1: think seventh grade like everybody got their little hormone's happening,
Speaker 1: like you know, eighth grade they're like, O hey, I
Speaker 1: stopped this down there, I feel like something good. She
Speaker 1: So it was more like trying to figure it out
Speaker 1: with the guys. So we just really tried it. We
Speaker 1: tried it in the stepth grade and you know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. It was so weird because we went to
Speaker 1: the mama bed then we went to his bump bed.
Speaker 1: It was like the bump, the bump bet and the
Speaker 1: mom I love yeah, like my band turns, I love
Speaker 1: one bad. Yeah. Yeah, bummers are cute. But I think
Speaker 1: but I think, Um, he had a bumpet, so it
Speaker 1: was like him, he had a bump it. And then
Speaker 1: we did it by the the you know, the lower
Speaker 1: bent bed. We did it there. Then it was like, okay,
Speaker 1: let's get like, let's see how grown he is. So
Speaker 1: we went to the MoMA bed, so like, oh, we've grown.
Speaker 1: How could we in a big king bed? And then
Speaker 1: we did that and it was like it was like
Speaker 1: just keep going, to keep going. And that's when the
Speaker 1: first time I hadn't know and then I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: let's do it again. Eighth grade happened. Then of course
Speaker 1: I did it like down the line, like so just
Speaker 1: try and get just different things. I liked experiensively, I
Speaker 1: don't like the same thing. So if we could do
Speaker 1: it on the island, if we could do it on
Speaker 1: the cows, if you could do it in the back seat,
Speaker 1: we could do it on my part the record, I've
Speaker 1: never done antal just be done? What about what about
Speaker 1: just a finger be just a little. Have I had
Speaker 1: a finger in my as I think I had a
Speaker 1: finger in a tongue back there, but not a dick, bitch,
Speaker 1: God damn. Imagine imagine I'm not about to pay this.
Speaker 1: Imagine that your your I was gonna take your b spot.
Speaker 1: I tell y'all everything. If I had an'tal, y'all would yo.
Speaker 1: But imagine that your g spot is anal and you
Speaker 1: just haven't had an orgasm because you never know. I
Speaker 1: would never have an orgasm, so you would never have
Speaker 1: an orgasm. It's on her chair, sticking a bottle of
Speaker 1: her ass. Yeah, that's why I'm about to put this
Speaker 1: on my close friends which to do it. She does
Speaker 1: have to be bottle about anal. This bitch want to do?
Speaker 1: Ain't no so bad? She's being a stop get off. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. You can't see this, fool. This is
Speaker 1: what happened. Stick it up. You gotta you gotta wet
Speaker 1: that spot thought that spot. Gotta get a wet your
Speaker 1: You gotta with the spot a little bit because you
Speaker 1: just can't. How did you know that? In seventh grade? Baby,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I wasn't introduced to it. He's
Speaker 1: all you gotta do is just wet the little spot up,
Speaker 1: you know a lot, make sure it's wet. Did you cry?
Speaker 1: Didn't hurt? No? Like I was walking on like this
Speaker 1: the thing it was like ya what I was like
Speaker 1: like a penguin literally so you So, I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: so Venus and Ado Justinus and ain't. No, I have
Speaker 1: not done an I'll never try to be maybe with
Speaker 1: my husband. Yeah, I mean to be honest with you,
Speaker 1: I don't. It's just not like my thing, like like
Speaker 1: I don't I don't enjoy it. I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: really enjoy it, and I don't do it like as
Speaker 1: often as I'm not like I want to do it.
Speaker 1: I want to do in the island. I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: it in the basement. Like Vena wants to keep putting
Speaker 1: in the butt. That's not my like m I look
Speaker 1: slipping there every now and again. But I much rather
Speaker 1: just you know, get it in the pus puss. Let
Speaker 1: me be very honest, like it's not every time I'm
Speaker 1: having put it in my as my pussy go right
Speaker 1: starting the asp like right, so like it's just like
Speaker 1: all right, if I want to be like my thing, is.
Speaker 1: I want to know, stuff it in my button. You
Speaker 1: put it, you put it in, and niggas be like,
Speaker 1: niggas be like, I've never done this before. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: seven niggas did not say that. Um, they're lying, I've
Speaker 1: never done this before. And then when niggas, when my
Speaker 1: thing is understand, you just gotta try everything. Put it
Speaker 1: in your butt, put it in your pump, poom, slap
Speaker 1: it around your titties, whatever I don't have. First of all,
Speaker 1: don't ever put it in your butt. Then your vagina,
Speaker 1: that's a factor. That's b B, that's that's instant east. Yes,
Speaker 1: back to your vaginosis. Yeah, pussy to ask, it's just
Speaker 1: like wiping. It's like wiping. Gotta go from the pussy.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, I don't do that one. I
Speaker 1: don't do that one. But let me tell you something
Speaker 1: he took when he took his penis out of your
Speaker 1: as with shipped on them. I mean it's happened. Listen.
Speaker 1: If you don't, if you don't prepare so that they're
Speaker 1: down there, Yeah, you gotta do an animal. You gotta
Speaker 1: do an animal to clean out the system because it's
Speaker 1: like it's like stick in your hand um in in
Speaker 1: like a fish shank. If the fish shank is dirty,
Speaker 1: gonna come out with some crund on your arm. So
Speaker 1: it's like if you if you sist the main clean
Speaker 1: and the pipe goes up, you know, the pipe goes
Speaker 1: up there, it's gonna come out being a little Definitely.
Speaker 1: I can't imagine. I can't imagine. I can't imagine. I
Speaker 1: can't imagine. I can't imagine. What about being on your
Speaker 1: period does your man but not like full blood like
Speaker 1: first day I've done it, like where you're spotting a
Speaker 1: little bit there or a little you know, brown here
Speaker 1: and there, but not like a whole a little day one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: some guys don't like to do it. Some guys don't
Speaker 1: like to run the red lights. My nigga. Niggas don't
Speaker 1: care as long as they feel what they gotta feel.
Speaker 1: If the lights is off, that's probably the best sex.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's more, you know, it's more moisture. I mean,
Speaker 1: could be a little nasty. But as you have a comment,
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Let me say, adn't did
Speaker 1: it when it first started that guy had to take it.
Speaker 1: I'd be profund. I was cramping, I was like, yoah,
Speaker 1: let's get it buddy married. Then days two days after
Speaker 1: it calmed down, we went at it again. Whatever long
Speaker 1: as you're doing in the show, you could. I remember
Speaker 1: I had sex with my ex and we was in
Speaker 1: the hotel room and I was them sheaths was done.
Speaker 1: The first four day was them sheets was done. I
Speaker 1: was like, yo, what they gonna is? My credit caught
Speaker 1: on file and we're good to go. Okay, y'all, But
Speaker 1: before we get through all this, this is just nasty.
Speaker 1: We're gonna go to break. We'll have more with the
Speaker 1: Women a While now podcast. We come back after these messages.
Speaker 1: All right, you guys, we are back with the Women
Speaker 1: a While in our podcast. It should get a beast
Speaker 1: the mom My Baby Pretty TV. Just seeing a Valentine
Speaker 1: this podcast was it went from zero to a hunted
Speaker 1: real quick, like real quick. Do y'all have any advice
Speaker 1: to give to these young girls, these young people, anybody
Speaker 1: that's not experienced, Like, what is a good tip for
Speaker 1: somebody that's not experienced. I have a good tip. Don't
Speaker 1: do butt sex because it could be a shitty situation
Speaker 1: and that's intending. Take take your time, don't be like
Speaker 1: me and vis a little fast as like, take your time, um,
Speaker 1: be careful, educate yourself. Definitely for the young girls listening
Speaker 1: and young guys listening, where protection because one dirty dick
Speaker 1: or one dirty poom boom could change your life. So
Speaker 1: we're protection and just be safe and don't follow me
Speaker 1: and these lead I please, don't let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: Wrap it up. That's the biggest thing I can tell
Speaker 1: y'all to wrap it up and have safe sex. This
Speaker 1: is we got to be disciplined in those areas as
Speaker 1: you guys, And like I said, wrap it up. And
Speaker 1: like Justina said, don't be like me hot now okay,
Speaker 1: because I know some friends I was doing what I
Speaker 1: was doing, ain't pregnant? All right, all right back here now.
Speaker 1: I love y'all so much. No, seriously, we're not trying
Speaker 1: to promote anything. Just definitely wait, be like be someone
Speaker 1: and and lose you and if that's what it is,
Speaker 1: and that's what yeh, don't be don't be in such
Speaker 1: a rush to grow up. Take your time and just
Speaker 1: be safe about it. And you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: Just just because when your friends are jumping off the building,
Speaker 1: don't mean you need to do it too, all right,
Speaker 1: so we know this episode was a little nasty. We
Speaker 1: got down and dirty, but um we got to the realm.
Speaker 1: This was just it was all about our first We
Speaker 1: love y'all and yeah, yo signing now I remember to
Speaker 1: wrap it up, don't