1 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: Welcome to Money Making Conversations. It's the show that she 2 00:00:07,400 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: has the secrets of success experience firsthand by marketing and 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:13,119 Speaker 1: Brandon expert Rashan McDonald. I will know he's giving me 4 00:00:13,160 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 1: advice to many occasions. In the case you didn't notice, 5 00:00:15,880 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 1: I'm not broke, you know he'll be interviewing celebrity CEOs, 6 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 1: entrepreneurs and industry decision makers. It's what he likes to do, 7 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,159 Speaker 1: it's what he likes to share. Now it's time to 8 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: hear from my man, Rashan McDonald money Making Conversations. Here 9 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:32,640 Speaker 1: we go. You, thank you, Thank you everybody for joining 10 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: us today. Welcome to Money Making Conversation Masterclass. As he stated, 11 00:00:36,720 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: I'm your host, Rashaan McDonald. Our theme is there's no 12 00:00:39,880 --> 00:00:43,200 Speaker 1: perfect time to start following your dreams because people always 13 00:00:43,240 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 1: talk about their purpose or gift. If you have a gift, 14 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: always leave with your gift and don't let your friends, family, 15 00:00:49,360 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: or co workers stop you from planning or living your dreams. 16 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 1: My guests on the show today is a renown R 17 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 1: and B singer songwriter Kim. For all of his life, 18 00:00:58,480 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: Kim has always been driven by music and the emotions 19 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,800 Speaker 1: involved in bringing his music to life. He is now 20 00:01:03,840 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: the author of the memoir share My Life. In his 21 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 1: book Share My Life, Kim goes back to the very 22 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 1: beginning before his music startom to introduce us to his grandmother, 23 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 1: who worked as a share cropper in the South and 24 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:19,200 Speaker 1: had thirteen children. His mom always had a beer in 25 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: a hand, and he had a very intense relationship with 26 00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: his father. Confused and rejected, Kim eventually used drugs and 27 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: alcohol for relief. He has on the show to discuss 28 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:32,080 Speaker 1: this incredible journey, his independent music career, family, and his 29 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: book Share My Life. Please welcome to Money Making Conversations 30 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 1: master Class, Master Class, the one and only Kim. How 31 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: you doing, my brother? I'm good man. How are you 32 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: doing this book? Let's let's let's set the table here 33 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: because it's a great book. I read it from cover 34 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,880 Speaker 1: to cover and my wife he knows when I was 35 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: maybe just leave me alone and reading this is this 36 00:01:51,120 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 1: is this is this because you have me on the journey. 37 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:55,480 Speaker 1: But when I when I look at who Kim is 38 00:01:55,520 --> 00:02:00,640 Speaker 1: one platinum selling album, Kim album to two gold selling albums, Chemistry, Intimane, 39 00:02:01,120 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: three Grammy nomination, five number one hit singles. Why are 40 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: you writing this book share my life. Thank you for 41 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:13,120 Speaker 1: having me today, brother, I appreciate it. I wrote this 42 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 1: book because any healing and transformation that I have experienced 43 00:02:18,000 --> 00:02:22,240 Speaker 1: in my life, which has been a great deal experience, 44 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: because somebody shared their story with me along the way, 45 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:30,720 Speaker 1: and somebody was transparent with me. Someone was vulnerable with me. 46 00:02:30,840 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: Someone was willing to admit their faults to me, and 47 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 1: they're overcoming to me their triumph and the and the 48 00:02:39,080 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: tragedy of their lives. They shared those experiences with me 49 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 1: and it helped me to transform my life, and I'm 50 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: hoping that my book does the same for someone else. Well, 51 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,920 Speaker 1: you know, when you because we know one camp, you 52 00:02:49,919 --> 00:02:52,640 Speaker 1: know you do not have a long relationship through music 53 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: through Steve Harmer Morning Shore, a lot of events we 54 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: did together over the years, and when the inspiration behind 55 00:02:58,480 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: this book, I knew that version and I can remember 56 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 1: when I first met you. I believe it was in 57 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: Philadelphia at w das they launched Outdoor Festival and I 58 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: just saw this cool, little thinning guy come down there 59 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: with the jacket on, sit down, no socks on, sat 60 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: down that piano and just did his thing, a confident guy. 61 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: And when I read the book, Kim, that wasn't who 62 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: you were growing up. The confidence wasn't there, the style 63 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,959 Speaker 1: wasn't there, the grace wasn't there. Talk about that early 64 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:34,480 Speaker 1: years of Kim, Um. You know. In the book, I 65 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 1: talked about my struggles with depression. I talked about being 66 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: homeless for a minute. I talked about my struggles with 67 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:47,160 Speaker 1: alcohol and drug addiction. And people who follow me, you know, 68 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: just like you. You know, I've shared bit some pieces 69 00:03:49,200 --> 00:03:52,640 Speaker 1: of my story throughout the years. This is twenty years, 70 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:55,320 Speaker 1: twenty years being signed to the Motown label to spend 71 00:03:55,360 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: two decades since I had a real job, and those 72 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 1: periods of my life were again you know, they were 73 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: they were They were hard years. There was a lot 74 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: of darkness, Um, but I learned some things that that 75 00:04:10,440 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: that has helped me to uh to uh to sustain. 76 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:16,679 Speaker 1: On July twenty third, or nineteen ninety, I had my 77 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,200 Speaker 1: last drink, my last drug. And there's an adage I 78 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: loved that says, when the student is ready to teacher 79 00:04:22,200 --> 00:04:26,159 Speaker 1: appears and I, Uh, I came to a place where 80 00:04:26,200 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 1: I where I stopped trying to consider the idea that 81 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 1: I could solve my own problem with my with with 82 00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 1: with my present state of mind, right, you know, I 83 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: gave up on I gave up on, you know, my 84 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:43,120 Speaker 1: ideas on how to fix my life. And when I surrendered, 85 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 1: And that's what that was, was a surrender. When I surrendered, 86 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: you know, I ended up running into some some some 87 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: people and to some organizations that have that have helped 88 00:04:53,440 --> 00:04:57,840 Speaker 1: me build upon upon the theres So the foundation of 89 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 1: my career and my life today are built on the 90 00:05:00,200 --> 00:05:02,359 Speaker 1: shoulders of people who have come into my life and 91 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 1: shared their stories with me. You know, this is it's 92 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,040 Speaker 1: a really interesting book. I'm talking to Kim his book 93 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 1: Sharing My Life and memoir about his life, his struggles 94 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: as a youth, as a young man. We all had struggles. 95 00:05:12,480 --> 00:05:16,040 Speaker 1: I've had struggles and overcoming the odds, overcoming and the 96 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: overcoming yourself sometimes when you think about it, because a 97 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,200 Speaker 1: lot of things that you did, you are you created 98 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 1: the problem now when you look at yourself and you 99 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: this book, Kim, you know, I'll be honest with you. 100 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 1: Know we've talked, but just to hear and you talk 101 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:32,479 Speaker 1: this much, I didn't. I didn't know what they're expecting 102 00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: this interview because you're a very low key guy. You 103 00:05:35,520 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: talk about shying this in the book and now you're 104 00:05:38,800 --> 00:05:41,719 Speaker 1: doing this book tour, this book tour talking about yourself? 105 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:45,720 Speaker 1: Is this a Is this a therapy? And the says 106 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: having you talk about yourself, having you be able to 107 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: just just just communicate at this level. Um, now, a 108 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 1: lot of much of what has been written, uh in 109 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: the book. You know I've already I've already processed you 110 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:06,600 Speaker 1: know our process and uh um, you know it is 111 00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,360 Speaker 1: it is therapeutic in the sense that and the telling 112 00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 1: of and the telling of my story and an effort 113 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 1: to help other people. I'm also helping myself, right, That's 114 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:22,440 Speaker 1: how I'm bearing witness. I'm giving testimony which also which 115 00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 1: also feeds me and you and you said something very interesting, 116 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:27,720 Speaker 1: you know that that I want to that I want 117 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: to pick up on. You said, a lot of it 118 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:34,039 Speaker 1: is about overcoming overcoming of self, right, and all of 119 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 1: life it is about overcoming self. It's all about overcoming you. Right. 120 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:45,919 Speaker 1: All these all these gurus on Instagram and Facebook and 121 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: the creatures, and we're always talking about you can't let 122 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 1: them do this to you. And you know, don't pay 123 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,479 Speaker 1: attention to your haters and they this and they that, 124 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:57,719 Speaker 1: look my biggest problem has always been has been me, right, 125 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: I'm it ain't other people, you know what I mean? 126 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: And uh and you know you know that that that 127 00:07:03,279 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 1: success and and uh entrepreneurship and and and success in 128 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: life as an internal job and an external job. It's 129 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: what it's what we tell ourselves and how we navigate 130 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: our inner space that dictates what happens externally, you know. 131 00:07:17,040 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: So I share this, you know, in the book and 132 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 1: the hopes that I can. You know that I can 133 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: inspire and encourage somebody to uh, you know, to get 134 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: to get to get through to the other side of 135 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: whatever they may be dealing with in their lives, you know, 136 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 1: and you do it inspire. But because of the fact that, 137 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 1: let's let's put this way, Kim, you're doing things that 138 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 1: I never did, and you accomplish some things in the 139 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: book that I didn't, I don't know if I could 140 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: have overcome because of the fact that there's a support 141 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 1: system in place. There were two people who played very 142 00:07:45,520 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: important roles, and I want you to describe to them 143 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:50,280 Speaker 1: because they the name was Mom in the book and 144 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: mother in the book. Can you explain to everybody who 145 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: mother was and who Mom was in your book. Well, 146 00:07:56,840 --> 00:08:02,760 Speaker 1: mom is mom is uh is you know my mom is. 147 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: When I talk about mom, I'm talking about my mother, 148 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,559 Speaker 1: the woman who gave birth to me as seventeen years 149 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:13,160 Speaker 1: old and uh in Nashville, Tennessee. You know, she's pregnant 150 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: by a high school teacher that was at her school. Um, 151 00:08:17,720 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: you know, an encounter of shame. I was born, you know, 152 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: under the auspices or in the auspices of of of shame. 153 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 1: You know, her dad this is sixty seven, right, So 154 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: her dad was a preacher, was a pillar in the 155 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,280 Speaker 1: Pentecostal church. So I mean it was it was a scandal, 156 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Any right, And on top 157 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,599 Speaker 1: of that, they burned in Detroit down ninety seven. He 158 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:48,160 Speaker 1: is sore you coming in, you know, out of wed lock, 159 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: detrust on fire, welcome to the world kill and uh. 160 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,680 Speaker 1: And the woman I referred to his mother is my 161 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,679 Speaker 1: mom is my mom's mother. And that that was that 162 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,480 Speaker 1: was everybody in the family called her her mother, you know, 163 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: and other family is the vernacular would be big mama. 164 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 1: You know, she was big mama, and our family and 165 00:09:09,240 --> 00:09:17,080 Speaker 1: too strong strong wills, um, strong will powerful determined women, 166 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: you know, and uh, with all of their with all 167 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:23,160 Speaker 1: the tragedy and all of the triumph of their lives, 168 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:26,679 Speaker 1: you know, And uh, I talk about silence, you know, 169 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:30,319 Speaker 1: and how silence is the silence in our in our 170 00:09:30,360 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: family dynamic was was generational. You know. We didn't talk 171 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: about stuff. We didn't have the tools to to communicate. 172 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: We didn't have coping skills, you especially you know in 173 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: the African American community. I'm sure in other communities as well. 174 00:09:42,400 --> 00:09:45,560 Speaker 1: You know, there's the there's the uh. You know, this 175 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:48,360 Speaker 1: is grown folks business. You don't ask any questions. You 176 00:09:48,400 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 1: go over in the corner and you sit down. Um, 177 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 1: the dysfunction that is displayed in the household is not 178 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: it's not uh. You don't get debriefed on it. You know, 179 00:09:58,920 --> 00:10:04,840 Speaker 1: it just happened and you're left to fend for yourself emotionally, spiritually, 180 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:09,000 Speaker 1: and and psychologically. And uh. Um. There was a lot 181 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: of that growing up. And we've done a lot of 182 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:12,440 Speaker 1: good work to get to the other side of that, 183 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: you know, and I'm grateful for that, you know. But 184 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 1: but those are the seeds that that informed my my 185 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 1: my low self esteem, my childhood depression, my my ultimately 186 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:28,040 Speaker 1: my addiction, you know, being in out of jail and hospitalize, 187 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: you know, out in the streets, stealing, conniving, you know. Uh, 188 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 1: you know those were the seeds, you know, and uh 189 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:37,200 Speaker 1: and I talk about that and I'm great and I'm 190 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: and I'm cool, you know, I'm I'm not. I don't 191 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: I don't wish to shut the door on my past. 192 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:43,480 Speaker 1: It's a part of who I am, you know. It 193 00:10:43,520 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: makes me who I am today, informs the music, it 194 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: informs the art, and you know, and it's and it's 195 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 1: a witness, you know, it's it's a testimony to to 196 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: going through something, you know, and taking taking your limits. 197 00:11:00,080 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: I like the lemon life, you know, and making some 198 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,200 Speaker 1: delicious lemon there. Well, you know, you know interesting first 199 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: of all, and reading the book, it's a it's a 200 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 1: very honest book. And that is always when you start 201 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: writing these memoirs, you start evaluating yourself, and you start 202 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: because you're not just talking about yourself, You're talking about 203 00:11:18,600 --> 00:11:22,560 Speaker 1: other people who have who have journeyed with you now. 204 00:11:22,600 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 1: And and because you talk about so many different people, 205 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:28,720 Speaker 1: so many different people who had emotional, very very close 206 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:31,560 Speaker 1: emotional worlds, did you reach back at the individuals that 207 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:34,160 Speaker 1: you talked about in the book, I was that brokered 208 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 1: into in writing your memoir. Um, not all of them, 209 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: you know, having had a conversation with everyone. Uh that 210 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 1: is that is uh depicted in the book. Um. You 211 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:48,720 Speaker 1: know my mom was interviewed for the book, and early 212 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 1: on in the writing that's my father was interviewed for 213 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: the book. You know I did. I went on Rashaan, 214 00:11:55,559 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 1: I went way around the block to protect, to protect, 215 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:06,960 Speaker 1: I went way around the block, to not denegrate, to 216 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:13,200 Speaker 1: not dishonor to not bring shame on the other characters 217 00:12:13,200 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: of the book. And I noticed that, you know, because 218 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 1: you know, I've been fortunate to being in this role 219 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 1: of writing a memoir with a superstar talent like you 220 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,400 Speaker 1: and and being able to because once it goes out there, 221 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 1: you can't bring it back. And then all of a sudden, 222 00:12:26,360 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: certain people you try to write it as comfortable as possible, 223 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: but they still get offended by it because they feel 224 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: you didn't tell it the way they should have been 225 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: told or you should have asked me. So it becomes 226 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:40,079 Speaker 1: it becomes something you write honestly, and then when it 227 00:12:40,120 --> 00:12:42,600 Speaker 1: gets published, that's another journey that you have to deal 228 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:46,000 Speaker 1: with because the fact that your story has to be told. 229 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:48,480 Speaker 1: It will only be told one way through your through 230 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: the lens of Kim. And with that being said, it 231 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:54,600 Speaker 1: had to start somewhere, and it started in the house. 232 00:12:54,640 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: It started with your mom, started with your dad, started 233 00:12:56,880 --> 00:12:59,800 Speaker 1: with the mother, which is your grandmother. That okay, was 234 00:12:59,800 --> 00:13:04,240 Speaker 1: in portant before you move forward? Correct, Yeah, yeah, yeah, 235 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 1: I mean that that is I mean, that's that's the 236 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,840 Speaker 1: found that that's where it all starts, you know. And 237 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: um and I you know so so so backing up, 238 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: it's like, yes, you know, I'm seeing it. I'm I 239 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 1: told the truth as I see it, you know, and 240 00:13:18,120 --> 00:13:20,439 Speaker 1: I'm and there, and there is no way that I 241 00:13:20,480 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: would have told the truth or I would have There 242 00:13:23,360 --> 00:13:25,440 Speaker 1: was no way that I would have characterized that. No 243 00:13:25,480 --> 00:13:27,800 Speaker 1: matter what I had said, I would not characterize it. 244 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:33,440 Speaker 1: I would not have characterized it the way that another 245 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:36,040 Speaker 1: kid that someone else would have. You know, everybody, it's 246 00:13:36,040 --> 00:13:38,400 Speaker 1: going to be different. You know. I can make it 247 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:41,080 Speaker 1: as fussily as nice as possible, and there and you know, 248 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,439 Speaker 1: as people would still take issue with it. I I 249 00:13:44,080 --> 00:13:46,679 Speaker 1: I expect that and I anticipate that, and that that's 250 00:13:46,840 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 1: you know, I think that that's just part for the course. 251 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 1: Um um, But I but I did, you know, I 252 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: you know, I treated everybody you know respectfully. I told 253 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:58,360 Speaker 1: the truth, but I you know, I didn't. My intent 254 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 1: was not to uh was not the same or or 255 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: or or denigrate anyone. And you did and you and 256 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: you didn't. I want to be honest with you. You You 257 00:14:07,040 --> 00:14:09,559 Speaker 1: didn't because I know the level of honesty that these 258 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: books have to be and especially with two of the 259 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 1: uh the people you had to discuss were, you know, 260 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:18,160 Speaker 1: the mothers of your children. That was important that that 261 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: story was told as accurately and as sensitive as possible. 262 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:24,720 Speaker 1: But one of the part about growing up with because 263 00:14:24,720 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 1: you're you're your father, you know, he is an engineer, 264 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 1: graduated from an HBCU Tennessee State, and your mom eventually 265 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: got her degree at Wayne State. And when we come 266 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,760 Speaker 1: back from this break, I want to talk about chemistry 267 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 1: that man. When you when you started talking about that man, 268 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: that the book went to a whole different level because 269 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: it became an entrepreneurial book and it became it became 270 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,400 Speaker 1: a different That's the part of the book. That your 271 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:54,360 Speaker 1: book is incredibly intense, incredibly where written, incredibly eye opening. 272 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: But when you got to that entrepreneurs section. That was 273 00:14:57,600 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: a section that really told me, while you great today, 274 00:15:00,880 --> 00:15:03,680 Speaker 1: please don't go anywhere. We'll be right back with more 275 00:15:03,720 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: money making conversations. Masterclass. HBCUs represent Black excellence. 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I gotta 293 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: tell everybody, let don't know when I when I when 294 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 1: I get to my truck and go to my player, 295 00:16:20,640 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: the first four songs, I gotta just let everybody know 296 00:16:23,840 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: or chem songs that he is. And I say that 297 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 1: to be honest to everybody. When I bring them on 298 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 1: the show. Is that that when somebody has comes into 299 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:37,360 Speaker 1: your life musically, Because music plays are such a powerful 300 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: role in people's lives, a lot of people don't understand 301 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 1: the value of music. Kim. When you started putting together chemistry, 302 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: you became a perfectionist. That had to be right, it 303 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: had to be and you and you were driving people crazy. 304 00:16:51,160 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: Tell us about that journey as an independent music producers, 305 00:16:56,080 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: seller and artists. Yeah, I'm still driving people crazy. Well, 306 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:07,560 Speaker 1: I uh, I um, you know, and I just I 307 00:17:07,600 --> 00:17:10,920 Speaker 1: didn't set out, you know, entrepreneur. You know, I think 308 00:17:11,560 --> 00:17:18,200 Speaker 1: sometimes it gets uh, we complicated, you know, we complicated, 309 00:17:18,480 --> 00:17:21,159 Speaker 1: and you know there's lots to learn. And you know, 310 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 1: I watched Shark Tank and I hear people coming in there. Man, 311 00:17:24,320 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: they're breaking down their business and like breaking down their 312 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:30,040 Speaker 1: numbers and you know the cost of acquisition for one 313 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,560 Speaker 1: of their online I mean, they know all of that stuff, Dude, 314 00:17:32,560 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 1: I didn't know any of that. I didn't know any 315 00:17:33,840 --> 00:17:36,280 Speaker 1: of that stuff. All I knew was I needed. I 316 00:17:36,320 --> 00:17:38,600 Speaker 1: wanted to make I wanted to put a CD out 317 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 1: on my own, you know. And I learned. I just 318 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 1: kept doing the next What was the next? Right, what's 319 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 1: the most logical thing? The next right logical thing that 320 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:52,200 Speaker 1: you need to do? Do that right? Like I need 321 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: to do was record this, right, So go and find 322 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:56,719 Speaker 1: a studio, you know, to record. Well, the first thing 323 00:17:56,720 --> 00:17:58,400 Speaker 1: you need, you need some money, right, So I had, 324 00:17:58,600 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 1: you know, I kept my I had been uh in 325 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:06,080 Speaker 1: credit recovery for a few years and ended up getting 326 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:09,720 Speaker 1: an American Express card. Come on, gold card, Now, let's 327 00:18:09,720 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 1: go give you credit. It was a gold card. Now 328 00:18:12,600 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: it was a goal. It was a gold card. And 329 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 1: then uh and then attached to the gold card, well, 330 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:18,359 Speaker 1: it wasn't attached to the gold card. But then I 331 00:18:18,760 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: had the gold card for a couple of years, and 332 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 1: and then I ended up getting a business line of credit, 333 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 1: you know, seventeen thousand dollars from American Express. So they 334 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: didn't know what I was going to do with the money. 335 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 1: But what I did with the money was record, was 336 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: record the Chemistry album, you know, and and by you 337 00:18:36,400 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: bet on yourself, you bet on yourself. You have to 338 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:41,679 Speaker 1: if you can. If you're not gonna bet on it, 339 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,160 Speaker 1: then don't bring your proposal to my door. How much 340 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 1: you right, that's still right? How much money you got 341 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: it you'll stand is you know, are you willing to 342 00:18:52,280 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 1: put everything that you got, you know on the line. 343 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 1: And I was, yeah, I figured, look, this will either 344 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:00,159 Speaker 1: work or if it don't work, I'll just have the 345 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 1: largest credit card bill in America that I will spend 346 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,320 Speaker 1: the next thirty five years you know, paying off. But 347 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 1: if it works, you know, then then I'm onto something. 348 00:19:08,480 --> 00:19:10,560 Speaker 1: So I was, you know, I was just I just 349 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 1: kept doing the next right thing, you know, and uh, 350 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: recording the record, um, finding the place to produce the record, 351 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 1: you know, pivoting you know, when I wasn't at the 352 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 1: right studio because this dude didn't really you know, didn't 353 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,679 Speaker 1: provide me with what I needed. So I had to 354 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:28,680 Speaker 1: pivot to somebody else, you know, to help record the album. Uh. 355 00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:31,919 Speaker 1: My manager then was Toya Hankins, and you know, she 356 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,520 Speaker 1: was instrumental in the marketing. And yeah, yeah, we were 357 00:19:35,560 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: sending you know, I was sending people. I didn't know 358 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,840 Speaker 1: any you know, I dude, I didn't have any any 359 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:43,159 Speaker 1: I did have some books, you know, how to manage 360 00:19:43,200 --> 00:19:46,679 Speaker 1: your bands and this business of music. You know. I 361 00:19:46,720 --> 00:19:49,359 Speaker 1: knew how to copyright. So there was an education that 362 00:19:49,480 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 1: was taking the place. But it was taking place in 363 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,080 Speaker 1: real time. You know. I was learning as I was, 364 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,200 Speaker 1: as I was going, and what's the next right thing? 365 00:19:57,280 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 1: You know, So somebody's going to buy this CD. They're 366 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 1: gonna scan it, so you need to have a UPC code. 367 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: Now you can record it the studio and they'll put 368 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:06,440 Speaker 1: theirs on there. They'll do that for you. It's like, nah, 369 00:20:06,480 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 1: I want my own. So I went to the UPC 370 00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,359 Speaker 1: Code Council or whatever that is, got my own bark 371 00:20:11,359 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 1: code that they'll have today, you know, put it on back. 372 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 1: The records was selling them, you know, on consignment at 373 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 1: the mom and pop record stores in Detroit. I had 374 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: to make I had to use, you know, a word 375 00:20:22,359 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 1: program to to make consignment sheets so that I could 376 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:30,360 Speaker 1: keep track of, you know, my sales and how much 377 00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 1: people owed me. And I mean it was a It 378 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:37,960 Speaker 1: was definitely, it was it was, it was definitely definitely uh, 379 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:42,880 Speaker 1: you know, an entrepreneurial uh uh endeavor, you know, you know, Kim. 380 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:45,160 Speaker 1: The reason the reason why I ordered people to hear 381 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,439 Speaker 1: that because people want to see the end game. They 382 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:52,080 Speaker 1: want to hear the denominations their awards. Well, you were hustler, man, 383 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 1: you was, you was taking your album back in the 384 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,439 Speaker 1: day after what they were albums two different stores and 385 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,800 Speaker 1: could you sell this? So can you sell my CD? 386 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 1: And then you had to humble yourself to be a 387 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 1: salesman and convince people and talk people and talk yourself up. 388 00:21:06,320 --> 00:21:09,800 Speaker 1: And a lot of people today or they missed that step. 389 00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,480 Speaker 1: They think that I can get on social media, I 390 00:21:12,480 --> 00:21:13,879 Speaker 1: can get a bunch of followers and I can be 391 00:21:13,960 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 1: a star, but then there is some groundwork to that. Correct. Yeah, 392 00:21:18,880 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: there's there's definitely well, you know, I don't know, man, 393 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:25,119 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I see people on online, you know, 394 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: and the YouTube stars and Pagram you know, I mean 395 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: they you know, I motivation, you know, I don't know how. 396 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: I don't know how I would do it today. You know, Uh, 397 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:38,199 Speaker 1: you know their motivation is you know, they don't you know, 398 00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,240 Speaker 1: I don't I can't. I can't. I can't speak to that, 399 00:21:41,440 --> 00:21:46,679 Speaker 1: but I can't speak to um. Is is is the 400 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:51,880 Speaker 1: discipline and and and building something that lasts forever. But dude, 401 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: if you can stream and you don't have you don't 402 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,439 Speaker 1: have to do that, and you can stream a billion 403 00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 1: streams and become a millionaire and like sit at the 404 00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 1: house and never do the house and never do shows. 405 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: So the world, I can't do that, right right right? 406 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,120 Speaker 1: We gotta have Kim. I gotta see Kim. Okay, New 407 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 1: Year's Eve, vill of Time's Day, Okay, I gotta see him. 408 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:12,760 Speaker 1: But you know, so I uh, you know, but I 409 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:15,159 Speaker 1: you know, I had to. I had to. I had to. 410 00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: We had to work, you know, we had to work 411 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: and have to build a foundation that that has lasted 412 00:22:21,600 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 1: for two decades, you know, and you know, and i'm 413 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:29,720 Speaker 1: i'm I'm, I'm I'm. I couldn't be happier and more grateful, 414 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:31,960 Speaker 1: you know for the grind that it took to sit 415 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:34,800 Speaker 1: where I said today, And the grind is always about there. 416 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:39,119 Speaker 1: Known And then as you're going through is music really 417 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 1: the ultimate? What was that turning point? Because I read 418 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:44,840 Speaker 1: was your your ninth grade the music teacher was the 419 00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:48,200 Speaker 1: first person that really set you in front of a 420 00:22:48,359 --> 00:22:50,919 Speaker 1: piano or keyboard and you start playing around with that, 421 00:22:50,960 --> 00:22:53,640 Speaker 1: and then you started spending hours more than you spend 422 00:22:53,680 --> 00:22:55,880 Speaker 1: time in the book. You start spending time on a 423 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 1: at these keys. What when did when did that become 424 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,240 Speaker 1: like you know, your master or like this is what 425 00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: I love because that's when we all learned it. Like 426 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 1: whether it's dribbling in a basketball or standing on stage 427 00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: as a comedian or a singer. When did you realize 428 00:23:09,880 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 1: that this is a gift, this is my gift. I mean, 429 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,280 Speaker 1: I knew that I love I knew that I knew 430 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:19,480 Speaker 1: that I loved it before before our family left Nashville. 431 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 1: You know, I love the piano. When I was a toddler, 432 00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:24,800 Speaker 1: you know, I didn't either there was a check attached 433 00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 1: to it or or it was a you know, a 434 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 1: possible vocation until much later, you know, in in my 435 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:34,680 Speaker 1: life and you know, and actually and there's a you know, 436 00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,600 Speaker 1: and there's a paradox there too, because I didn't get 437 00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:38,359 Speaker 1: a deal when you know, when I got a deal 438 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: when I stopped when I when I you know, I 439 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:46,480 Speaker 1: realized that that um, I didn't have to you know, 440 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: I'd always been chasing a record deal since I was 441 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,959 Speaker 1: a teenager. You know, I came to a place in 442 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: my thirties I was like, you know what, maybe music 443 00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,359 Speaker 1: is not my thing. I thought that I I became 444 00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,119 Speaker 1: open to the idea I could be successful doing something else, 445 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:01,399 Speaker 1: you know, it doesn't have to be music, and I 446 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 1: let go of it. I didn't stop making music, but 447 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 1: I let go up the idea that this was the 448 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,560 Speaker 1: passion of it, or because of the doubt or the 449 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:14,280 Speaker 1: the rejection is that's why you let GORDI idea. It 450 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,239 Speaker 1: was none of that. This is this was elevated thinking. Right. 451 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: It wasn't that it was the rejection. It was like 452 00:24:19,400 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 1: I was just open to the you know, it's a 453 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 1: spiritual axiom. Right. I had this, I gotta have it. 454 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:27,200 Speaker 1: I gotta have it. I gotta have it, I gotta 455 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:28,639 Speaker 1: have it, I gotta have it. And it's like, no, 456 00:24:28,760 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: you know what, I don't have to have it. I 457 00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: can be successful doing something else. Let me go find 458 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,199 Speaker 1: out what that is. And it didn't mean that I 459 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:37,360 Speaker 1: was going to quit making music. It just meant that, 460 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 1: you know, it didn't I didn't, you know, like, dude, 461 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:42,479 Speaker 1: there's more to me than just than just doing this, 462 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:45,080 Speaker 1: let me go find out what those things are. Then 463 00:24:45,119 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: I and I went and looked at for those things 464 00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 1: and I failed miserably. However, it was it was the 465 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:55,720 Speaker 1: letting go, right, It was the letting go and being 466 00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 1: willing and all. I think. Business is one thing that 467 00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:04,040 Speaker 1: i've i've i've has really been crucial to me. And 468 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:08,040 Speaker 1: the slast you know, probably eighteen month period, is that 469 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:10,960 Speaker 1: businesses failed. Man, and people fail because they don't pivot. 470 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:13,879 Speaker 1: They don't pivot soon enough, you know, they wait and 471 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,159 Speaker 1: they hold on, you know. And I say this for 472 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,640 Speaker 1: the people who, you know, for the for for for 473 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:23,200 Speaker 1: the aspiring singer whose mother tell them that they sound 474 00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 1: good singing in the living room, and spend your whole 475 00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: life until you're sixty five years old trying to sing, 476 00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:30,280 Speaker 1: you know, when actually you make some pretty good cupcakes 477 00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:34,880 Speaker 1: and that's what you should be doing. Right. Oh, that's 478 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,639 Speaker 1: funny in your book, now you talk about trying to 479 00:25:37,680 --> 00:25:40,040 Speaker 1: be a comedian. Now you didn't talk about trying to 480 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 1: be That was a very good joke there, my brother, 481 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,680 Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, yeah, you know what I'm saying. Look, 482 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 1: I you know, so I feel you know, I've always 483 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,640 Speaker 1: known what it was, you know. But I'm always open 484 00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 1: to the idea that I don't have all the answers, right, 485 00:25:57,359 --> 00:25:59,480 Speaker 1: I'm always open to the idea that I don't have 486 00:25:59,560 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: all man just and even even today, dude, it's like, yeah, 487 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 1: I make records. I'm sitting down here, you know, I 488 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 1: just wrote this book. We got a live out and 489 00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 1: it just came out. I'm out on the road with 490 00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:10,840 Speaker 1: with Letacy and uh and music Soul Child, and still 491 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,400 Speaker 1: ask myself every day Lord and say hey, yo, then 492 00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: point point me in the right direction. I want nothing 493 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:18,560 Speaker 1: that don't belong to me, you know, which is anti entrepreneur. 494 00:26:18,560 --> 00:26:22,679 Speaker 1: You know that that whole self will you know? And 495 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:25,720 Speaker 1: police sofa up by your bootstraps. There's a place for that, 496 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:27,800 Speaker 1: you know. But it comes with limitation. So I just 497 00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:30,520 Speaker 1: I just I just remain I just remained open. But 498 00:26:30,640 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: there was a shot that you potentially selling Mary Kay though, 499 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:41,159 Speaker 1: aw right, I wasn't. I wasn't selling Mary Kay for 500 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 1: the car I was selling Mary Kay. I was like, right, 501 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:51,960 Speaker 1: I love it right right, Yeah. You know the emotional 502 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,080 Speaker 1: side of this, you know, when you talk about the relationship, 503 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,520 Speaker 1: you talk about you know, your your skin tone being 504 00:26:56,560 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 1: bullied and and but the relationships ties really to the music. 505 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: It ties to your therapist telling you that probably your 506 00:27:03,960 --> 00:27:07,880 Speaker 1: music is therapeutic to you. When you started getting these 507 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:13,000 Speaker 1: answers along the way, and you father too, incredibly amazing 508 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 1: children out of wedlock, can you start dealing with that, 509 00:27:16,119 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 1: the responsibility of fatherhood and your career and trying to 510 00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: maintain a responsibility and stand close to your children. When 511 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 1: did you start lining everything up, Kim that it made 512 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 1: sense to you that I'm doing it right, I have 513 00:27:33,480 --> 00:27:35,359 Speaker 1: you know, I don't know that it's I don't know that. 514 00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:37,960 Speaker 1: You know, I'm always in the process of lining it up. 515 00:27:38,280 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: You know, it's always I'm always in the process of 516 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: process of lining it lining my life up and peeling 517 00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 1: back the layers of the onion to my life. You know, 518 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,640 Speaker 1: I don't think it's not a place where you arrive 519 00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,359 Speaker 1: because I look back, you know, where I thought I 520 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 1: had it lined up pretty good, and like you know, 521 00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: I'm looking back, I'm like, dude, you are crazy right 522 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 1: back then, right like you know, with every you know, 523 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:05,679 Speaker 1: I'm not we are constantly evolving, constantly constantly learning. I'm 524 00:28:05,720 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 1: not the guy, I'm not the same guy was six 525 00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 1: months ago. You know what I'm saying, It's like constantly 526 00:28:10,960 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 1: you know, reevaluating, constantly, um, you know, uh as Stephen 527 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 1: Covey would say, you know, constantly sharpening and saw, you know, 528 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,240 Speaker 1: trying to get It's not it's not a question of 529 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:26,520 Speaker 1: of arriving. It's a question of continuing to to to 530 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,520 Speaker 1: make the best effort to do, to keep doing the 531 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,399 Speaker 1: next right thing, you know, and building upon that, you know. 532 00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,480 Speaker 1: And I'm I'm you know, I'm in a pretty in 533 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 1: a pretty good place, you know, right now. But I 534 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,760 Speaker 1: also know that there's that there's definitely more to learn 535 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,280 Speaker 1: and more to be discovered. Well, the amazing thing that 536 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,240 Speaker 1: I discovered with you and reading this book, because you know, 537 00:28:46,280 --> 00:28:48,840 Speaker 1: you only know a person one side of a person, 538 00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 1: just like a person doesn't know other side of me 539 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 1: until I tell them and reveal them like you were 540 00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,080 Speaker 1: like you were revealing in this book. But you know 541 00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 1: the fact that you made a conscious effort. You know, 542 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 1: my mom graduated from college Wayne State, your father graduated 543 00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:06,240 Speaker 1: from Tennessee State, and then you made the collecious decision 544 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,280 Speaker 1: to go back to school because you dropped out. Why 545 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,920 Speaker 1: was that important? I went? I went back to get 546 00:29:12,960 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 1: my high school diploma. Yeah, yeah, I didn't go to 547 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: you know, I was not you know, I was not 548 00:29:19,760 --> 00:29:22,600 Speaker 1: college material. And that's and that's okay. We're getting ingrained, 549 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:26,480 Speaker 1: and you know, we ingrained in our children at you know, college, college, college, 550 00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,320 Speaker 1: and everybody ain't gonna thrive in college, you know what 551 00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:31,560 Speaker 1: I'm saying. So um, but I went back to get 552 00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:34,080 Speaker 1: my high school diploma because it was always a point 553 00:29:34,080 --> 00:29:36,600 Speaker 1: of it was always a point of shame, you know 554 00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 1: for me. And I was trying. I was actually I 555 00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:43,560 Speaker 1: actually was trying to take the GEED. I was trying 556 00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: to take the GED to get my GED. But the 557 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,920 Speaker 1: test for the GEED was too hard. It was easier 558 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,160 Speaker 1: for me. I'm like, dude, I may as well go. 559 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,640 Speaker 1: I was like, I may as well go back to school. 560 00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 1: You know, I'm gonna tell you till I gotta stop. 561 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 1: You man. You know, this is a pretty intense book, man. 562 00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:11,000 Speaker 1: You know, Kim is a pretty intense shaman. And we've 563 00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:15,320 Speaker 1: been laughing, man, we've been um joking around. That's the 564 00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:19,520 Speaker 1: amazing side of this story and an amazing side of you. Man. 565 00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 1: You're a good brother, man. You are you are a winner. 566 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:28,560 Speaker 1: You are you are a comedian and that's the side 567 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: of y'all. I'm so happy I'm getting to hear and 568 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 1: see for the first time of my life because as 569 00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,040 Speaker 1: as as a person who watched you perform, I'm in awe. 570 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 1: And that's a shield because you know, when you like 571 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 1: you saying you Michael Jackson came out and prance and 572 00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:45,000 Speaker 1: you know all those songs you talk about that really 573 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 1: turn you in direction of who you are today. That's 574 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:51,280 Speaker 1: who you are to meet when I watch you on 575 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:54,080 Speaker 1: stage as an artist because of the fact that how 576 00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,520 Speaker 1: you affect me from a stand from a personal standpoint, 577 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: it's all good. It's all good because you motive. Your 578 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 1: your music is motivational. Your music is emotional, music is uplifting, 579 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:07,600 Speaker 1: all those things that that as an artist you want 580 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,640 Speaker 1: it to be. But to hear you, you know, at 581 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 1: this layer of view I've never seen before. It's really 582 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: refreshing in your thoughts. Is this is this Kim? Thank you? Yeah? 583 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: This is Kim, This is Kim. Yeah? Yeah, thank you man, 584 00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,400 Speaker 1: Thank you for that. You know, thank you, thank you, 585 00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. We ain't done yet. You don't 586 00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,800 Speaker 1: keep it going, but my brother, I want to. I 587 00:31:30,840 --> 00:31:32,240 Speaker 1: want you to keep it going. And I want to 588 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:33,880 Speaker 1: thank you for coming to my show, just taking the 589 00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,640 Speaker 1: time to just share my life, which is your life, 590 00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 1: because because you're part of so many people's lives. It's 591 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: the memoir written by David Ritz. The name of the 592 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 1: book is kim My Brother. Thank you for coming on 593 00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 1: Money Making Conversation master Class. Please don't go anywhere, We'll 594 00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 1: be right back with more Money Making Conversations Masterclass. You 595 00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:58,040 Speaker 1: are now tuned into the Money Making Conversations Minute of 596 00:31:58,040 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 1: Inspiration with Rashaan McDonald. Attorney Benjamin Crump. It's a nationally 597 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: recognized trial lawyer. He recently led to George Floyd's family 598 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 1: legal team. Attorney Benjamin Crump once told me that anyone 599 00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:12,640 Speaker 1: should sit in the courtroom doing a trial, and you 600 00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:16,040 Speaker 1: will clearly see there are two systems of justice. Just 601 00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: because they say it's legal, that doesn't mean it's right. 602 00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:23,120 Speaker 1: Everything Hitler did to the Jews in Germany was legal, 603 00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:26,360 Speaker 1: but that didn't make it right. Slavery was legal, but 604 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:28,840 Speaker 1: that didn't make it right. And they try to tell 605 00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 1: us where they did. The trade by Mark and Brianna 606 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:36,080 Speaker 1: Taylor and Eric Gardner and so many others was legal, 607 00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:40,280 Speaker 1: but I stand on my bullet poor every chance I 608 00:32:40,440 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 1: get to remind America, no matter what you say is legal, 609 00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 1: that doesn't make it right. If you want to hear 610 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,360 Speaker 1: this full interview with Attorney Benjamin Crump, visit Moneymaking Conversation 611 00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:55,480 Speaker 1: dot com. Welcome back to the Money Making Conversations Masterclass 612 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: hosted by Rishan McDonald. I guess today is doctor Corey Abert, 613 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:04,640 Speaker 1: chief medical Officer of Dealer University and an assistant professor 614 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 1: at LSU Health Services Center and Tulane University Medical Center 615 00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:12,520 Speaker 1: in New Orleans, Louisiana. Also an ear physician for over 616 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 1: twenty five years and one of the leading voices for 617 00:33:15,400 --> 00:33:18,840 Speaker 1: sickle sale care. Doctor Abear is also co hosting a 618 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 1: new show called Living Your Life, interviews incredible people who 619 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 1: refuse to let a life threatening illness hold them back 620 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: from success. He also talks to top medical, community and 621 00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: entertainment influences. The series Living Your Life brings attention to 622 00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:37,800 Speaker 1: families an individuals thriving despite sickle sale disease or sickle 623 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,160 Speaker 1: sale trade. Please welcome for the first time on my show, 624 00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:45,560 Speaker 1: Moneymaking Conversations Masterclass, Doctor Corey Abear. How are you doing, sir, 625 00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: I'm doing great, and you know, it's kind of funny. 626 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:53,520 Speaker 1: We've we've our paths across many times in the many 627 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 1: years that you have been out on the on the road. 628 00:33:57,160 --> 00:33:59,800 Speaker 1: I remember one time in South Africa we were doing 629 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:03,480 Speaker 1: as absolutely yes, it's good. Good to hear me and 630 00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: I'm glad. Well, you know when you when you go 631 00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 1: through New Orleans, especially as much as I've been New 632 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:10,759 Speaker 1: Orleans and plus South Africa, that it means that we're 633 00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 1: doing something right, because I know it. Far as your brand, 634 00:34:14,400 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 1: you're nationally known in the media Today's show Good Morning America. 635 00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:22,040 Speaker 1: Your face is very familiar when people turned on the two, 636 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:26,120 Speaker 1: which gives credibility about your brand when you talk, because 637 00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:29,480 Speaker 1: you are a brand doctor, A very correct well, you know, 638 00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:32,319 Speaker 1: I think it's a it's a word that people use 639 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,920 Speaker 1: very loosely now they want to get their brand. But 640 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:36,960 Speaker 1: I've been doing this for twenty five years. So I 641 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 1: hope that I put enough skin in the game and 642 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:41,719 Speaker 1: boots on the ground that I could say officially that 643 00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,000 Speaker 1: I do have a brand. But how did it all start? 644 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 1: You know, because you know you don't you know, I'm 645 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,000 Speaker 1: talking about the media portion of it all because you 646 00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:50,920 Speaker 1: went to college just like, we all went to college 647 00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:52,400 Speaker 1: when you get that degree, and then you went to 648 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 1: medical and then you start serving the community in the 649 00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:59,120 Speaker 1: degree format that you chose in college. But how did 650 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:03,440 Speaker 1: the media transition happened in your career? You know it was. 651 00:35:03,480 --> 00:35:05,839 Speaker 1: It's a funny thing. You never know how stuff's gonna happen. 652 00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:10,799 Speaker 1: So basically, I finished, finished medical school, finished residency. But 653 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,800 Speaker 1: during residency in New Orleans, we were the murder capital 654 00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,200 Speaker 1: of the world in nineteen ninety seven in New Orleans, 655 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,600 Speaker 1: and we are the murder capital of the world once again, 656 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 1: which makes me very sad. But we worked and I 657 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,480 Speaker 1: would be in the emergency room and seeing all these people, 658 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: black people, a poor people just coming to the ear 659 00:35:28,160 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: in the middle of the night for like stuff that 660 00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 1: like for ring worm or for like an ear infection 661 00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,439 Speaker 1: or something. I'm like, man, why why are you here 662 00:35:36,440 --> 00:35:37,799 Speaker 1: in the middle of the night. And they're like, well, 663 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,320 Speaker 1: we didn't know where else to go. So when somebody 664 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 1: that looks like me gives me some inkling that I 665 00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,520 Speaker 1: can help them by just giving them information, I feel 666 00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 1: I needed to do something about it. So I was 667 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 1: I was married at the time, and I went to 668 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:52,960 Speaker 1: my wife and said look, I want to start a 669 00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:57,040 Speaker 1: TV show called Urban Pediatrics and then move it to 670 00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 1: Urban Medicine. I want to do it, and I want 671 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: to tell people and empower people on their health because 672 00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:07,200 Speaker 1: people out here dying and you know, and in communcing 673 00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,560 Speaker 1: their lives little things. I said, so um. I went 674 00:36:10,600 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 1: to the public Access TV station in the New Orleans 675 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:15,759 Speaker 1: and they and they asked me. I told him what 676 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,080 Speaker 1: I wanted to do, and they said, yeah, you can 677 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:18,919 Speaker 1: do that. That'd be great for the low, low price 678 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,000 Speaker 1: of three hundred dollars a month. Now, let me tell 679 00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 1: you something that doesn't sound like a lot now, but 680 00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,120 Speaker 1: in nineteen ninety seven and you're making twenty five thousand 681 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:28,360 Speaker 1: dollars a year, that was a lot. Mom and my 682 00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,319 Speaker 1: wife said, you're not about to do that. I said, look, 683 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,400 Speaker 1: this is a sacrifice. We're gonna have to make it. 684 00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 1: So I started, and I started at two o'clock in 685 00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:38,160 Speaker 1: the morning at channel one hundred and ninety five, and 686 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:41,520 Speaker 1: two years later I was at six o'clock on Saturday 687 00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:44,359 Speaker 1: after Saturday evening afternoon on Channel eight, which was their 688 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,799 Speaker 1: number one spot. So I moved up. People wanted it 689 00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 1: and it was a great thing. Then right before Hurricane Katrina, 690 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 1: NBC came calling and said, we saw this show. Man, 691 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: it's really good. What we want you to put We 692 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,920 Speaker 1: want to put you on the network. I said, that's awesome, 693 00:36:57,960 --> 00:37:02,040 Speaker 1: and then Kurricane Katrina washed everything away. Now. The reason 694 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 1: why I'm gonna get to the point real quick he 695 00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,799 Speaker 1: is because this is like what you're talking about with 696 00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 1: the show. I had a defining moment, and people will 697 00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:11,399 Speaker 1: have defining moments in their lives and you gotta step 698 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,239 Speaker 1: up for them. And God will let you know when 699 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:17,640 Speaker 1: it is. After Hurricane Katrina, I lost my office was fine, 700 00:37:18,160 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 1: my house was fine, everything was fine. But I was 701 00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,680 Speaker 1: the only doctor practiced medicine for about three months and 702 00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:26,640 Speaker 1: it was these eighteen hour, twenty hour days. Was horrible. Man. 703 00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:30,640 Speaker 1: But one night, about two weeks after the hurricane, NBC 704 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,319 Speaker 1: called me said, can you come and talk about health 705 00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:36,919 Speaker 1: after Hurricane Katrina? Because people are spread throughout the United States? Man, 706 00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:38,920 Speaker 1: we need somebody to come on. Can you do it. 707 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:41,480 Speaker 1: I was laying in my bed, it was ten o'clock 708 00:37:41,480 --> 00:37:43,040 Speaker 1: at night. I was tired as hell, and I was like, 709 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,799 Speaker 1: you know what, this may be a defining moment for me. 710 00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: I gotta get up and I gotta do this, and 711 00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:50,799 Speaker 1: I went to the TV station that night and I 712 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:55,400 Speaker 1: was on TV for one thousand, two hundred and twenty 713 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,719 Speaker 1: seven consecutive nights after that, and that's when Doctor Oz came, 714 00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,880 Speaker 1: That's when Oprah came calling. That's when all the networks 715 00:38:02,880 --> 00:38:07,400 Speaker 1: came calling, because I was bringing entertainment but at the 716 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:10,280 Speaker 1: same time bringing that information in a way that nobody 717 00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:12,560 Speaker 1: was giving it at that time. So you know, that's 718 00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,480 Speaker 1: how it all happened. And then ever since then. You know, 719 00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,200 Speaker 1: once you become that voice where people trust you know you, 720 00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,920 Speaker 1: you move forward, and that's what happened. Now you just 721 00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 1: putting in an eighteen hour days and still doing TV simultaneously. 722 00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:27,239 Speaker 1: Oh yes, sir, yes sir, because after after that, after 723 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:29,959 Speaker 1: that hurricane, man, looking, I was lucky I wasn't working 724 00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 1: twenty four hours a day. You know what I'm saying 725 00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: to me, you know, And I bring that up, Doctor e. Bary, 726 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,520 Speaker 1: because we always talk about dreams, We always talk about commitment, 727 00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:40,959 Speaker 1: We always talk about effort because everybody wants the pipe, 728 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,160 Speaker 1: but do atybody want to make the pie? And that's 729 00:38:44,160 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 1: what we're talking about right here, is that you could 730 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,440 Speaker 1: have laid in bed and say, hey man, I'm tired, 731 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:53,600 Speaker 1: but somebody told you to get up, and it told you, 732 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:56,839 Speaker 1: and that's called effort. That's tall wanting to fulfill your 733 00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 1: dream through application. But then when they told brought you 734 00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,600 Speaker 1: back the next day, at what point did you in 735 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 1: your mind you go should I stop? Should I keep 736 00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 1: doing this? Stock day barrel? Well when did you did 737 00:39:08,960 --> 00:39:11,760 Speaker 1: you ever start questioning the process because they kept asking 738 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 1: you day after day to continue this whole run. Yeah. 739 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 1: Now it's funny you would mention the word process because 740 00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,640 Speaker 1: I was laying in my bed just the other night 741 00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 1: and I had another defining money. I'm telling you this 742 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 1: and it's been twenty some years later. This is what happened. 743 00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,920 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out why we can't do better 744 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:30,680 Speaker 1: as a people. I'm trying to figure out why we 745 00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:32,839 Speaker 1: can't get more black people in the medical school. And 746 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:36,799 Speaker 1: I realized something. You know, when we were coming up, right, 747 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 1: we had to process a lot of stuff, and we 748 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 1: actually had to go through a process. So when you 749 00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 1: will want to go to the movies when you were 750 00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:45,399 Speaker 1: growing up, you had to pick the movie, pick the 751 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,839 Speaker 1: movie theater, pick the time, pick the way you're gonna 752 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,040 Speaker 1: get the money, pick the friends you want to go with, 753 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,239 Speaker 1: pick how you gonna figure out how to get there, 754 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:53,759 Speaker 1: all this kind of stuff, and then you had to 755 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,560 Speaker 1: make sure you got it right because there were no 756 00:39:55,640 --> 00:39:57,920 Speaker 1: phones to contact people, so if your friends were out 757 00:39:57,960 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 1: there and you were later on, somebody else was like 758 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,640 Speaker 1: it was just a mass. So you had to figure 759 00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:05,600 Speaker 1: out the process. And that's how your brain developed. Remember, 760 00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:08,919 Speaker 1: our brains aren't really concrete until we're twenty five years old, 761 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,520 Speaker 1: so everything is your brain is still developing up until 762 00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 1: that time. If you remember, that's why you couldn't rent 763 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,359 Speaker 1: a car before you were twenty five years old. That's 764 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:18,719 Speaker 1: where that came from anyway. But what I realized is 765 00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 1: that these young people, when they want to see a movie, 766 00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:23,160 Speaker 1: what do they do? They press a button. When they 767 00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:24,959 Speaker 1: want some food, what do they do? Press a button? 768 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:26,840 Speaker 1: When they want to go somewhere, They press a button. 769 00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,560 Speaker 1: Everything comes to them. Everything is on the demand. So 770 00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,960 Speaker 1: that means that their brains as they were being as 771 00:40:32,000 --> 00:40:36,640 Speaker 1: their brains are being developed, then they don't understand the 772 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: same process that we had to go through to make 773 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 1: things happen. But the problem is that the process to 774 00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:48,480 Speaker 1: be successful is old school so the process to be 775 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:53,239 Speaker 1: successful hasn't gravitated so that they can understand how to 776 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,759 Speaker 1: actually go through the process. So there's a disconnect and 777 00:40:56,800 --> 00:41:01,960 Speaker 1: a divorce between the young brain and how to process 778 00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:05,200 Speaker 1: to get through things and the old way things go 779 00:41:05,520 --> 00:41:08,799 Speaker 1: to actually be successful. And until we tell the young 780 00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 1: people it ain't gonna change so you need to adapt 781 00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,319 Speaker 1: to the process. Or we come from the top and 782 00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:16,200 Speaker 1: say the process is gonna change, We're gonna have a 783 00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:20,480 Speaker 1: big disconnect and these old white establishments aren't about to 784 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,000 Speaker 1: change the process so young black people can get it, 785 00:41:24,239 --> 00:41:27,239 Speaker 1: So we have to educate. So my thing was, I 786 00:41:27,400 --> 00:41:31,239 Speaker 1: understood the process by which I was going to become successful, 787 00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:34,520 Speaker 1: and it meant showing up and going somewhere to make 788 00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:38,120 Speaker 1: that happen, not something coming to me to make that happen. 789 00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:39,879 Speaker 1: And that's what I did in that bed that night, 790 00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:43,160 Speaker 1: to get up and go somewhere and keep going to 791 00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,840 Speaker 1: meet it, not putting it, letting it to meet me 792 00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,480 Speaker 1: come awesome. I'm talking to doctor Corey A. Bear, chief 793 00:41:49,520 --> 00:41:53,080 Speaker 1: medical Officer of Dealer University and an assistant professor at 794 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:56,680 Speaker 1: LSU Health Services Center and Tulane University Medical Center in 795 00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 1: New Orleans, Louis handa our physician for over twenty five years. 796 00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 1: He's on the front line, but more importantly, he's one 797 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 1: of the leading voices for sickle cell care. Doctor Barrel, 798 00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,120 Speaker 1: you have a show coming out called Living Your Life's 799 00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 1: co hosted. You co hosted with care Spates. Why is 800 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,680 Speaker 1: this show important and why are you hosting it or 801 00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,759 Speaker 1: co hosted in it. The reason why it is because, 802 00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:23,400 Speaker 1: first of all, cares crazy and I love kids, so 803 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:27,800 Speaker 1: we have a ball. But really primarily what we found 804 00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,360 Speaker 1: is that sickle cell disease in America is a disease 805 00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 1: that people don't talk about because it affects mostly brown people. 806 00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,640 Speaker 1: That's be honest, right. The sickle cell was the first 807 00:42:38,680 --> 00:42:42,759 Speaker 1: disease ever genetically mapped in the entire world. But we've 808 00:42:42,760 --> 00:42:46,360 Speaker 1: only had three or four drugs since nineteen forty to 809 00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,560 Speaker 1: come out to try to help. And so what I 810 00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,239 Speaker 1: noticed that everybody in America has to be tested at 811 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:55,160 Speaker 1: birth for sickle cell disease trade and I started seeing 812 00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: that all the young women that were coming to me 813 00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,839 Speaker 1: and they had their baby and cile cell disease maybe pain, 814 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,600 Speaker 1: having all type of problems. These new war babes and 815 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,640 Speaker 1: women didn't have any idea that they had sickle cell trade, 816 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:10,280 Speaker 1: even though the test was done on the women at birth, 817 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,319 Speaker 1: so spiled a basile lady had a baby when she's 818 00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:16,239 Speaker 1: twenty years old that t was done. She didn't have 819 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:17,880 Speaker 1: any idea of the results. Because when I was in 820 00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:21,799 Speaker 1: medical school where it was taught that trade actually was 821 00:43:21,840 --> 00:43:24,799 Speaker 1: a silent and didn't cause any problems for you. It 822 00:43:24,920 --> 00:43:27,239 Speaker 1: just was if you, you know, had sickle cell trade, 823 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,600 Speaker 1: unity with some ciles, trade your baby to have sickle 824 00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,759 Speaker 1: cell disease. People weren't taught that. But what we find 825 00:43:32,840 --> 00:43:34,840 Speaker 1: is that, you know, the number one cause of death 826 00:43:34,840 --> 00:43:38,640 Speaker 1: and new black military recruits was sickle cell traite up 827 00:43:38,680 --> 00:43:41,600 Speaker 1: until about five years ago, and seventeen young black men 828 00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 1: have dropped dead in NCAA sports from sickle cell trade. 829 00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:48,319 Speaker 1: And if you go on a high altitude environment like 830 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,920 Speaker 1: an airplane that's unpressurized in the cabinet or a helicopter, 831 00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,839 Speaker 1: or go hiking or skiing, or work out too hard 832 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:57,560 Speaker 1: and have bone pain without getting enough hydration, you can 833 00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:01,520 Speaker 1: die from sickle cell trait. And there four million people 834 00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:04,600 Speaker 1: in America for sickle cell trade, black and white, and 835 00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:06,560 Speaker 1: so this is a health crisis. If you don't believe me, 836 00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:08,840 Speaker 1: go to the CDC website. As clear as day in 837 00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:12,200 Speaker 1: block capital letters, you can die from sickle cell trade. 838 00:44:12,520 --> 00:44:14,880 Speaker 1: But the problem is people in America don't even know 839 00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:16,680 Speaker 1: if they have sickle cell trade because they were taught 840 00:44:16,680 --> 00:44:19,400 Speaker 1: that it wasn't a big deal. But so that's why 841 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,080 Speaker 1: this is an emergency. And people are not getting care 842 00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,400 Speaker 1: when they have sickle cell disease. When they go to 843 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:27,439 Speaker 1: the er, they're not getting care. Care go to the ear. 844 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:29,640 Speaker 1: He had to wait eight hours in excruciating pain, and 845 00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,400 Speaker 1: people thinking he's a drug seeker because nobody knows how 846 00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:35,240 Speaker 1: to treat the one hundred thousand people that have the disease, 847 00:44:35,480 --> 00:44:37,640 Speaker 1: that alone the four million people that have the trade. 848 00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,880 Speaker 1: So we got to get out there. We got to 849 00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 1: explain this to people. We got to educate them, but 850 00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:45,640 Speaker 1: we got to entertain them because that's my brand entertainment. 851 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:48,000 Speaker 1: I make you laugh, I make you cry, but I 852 00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,160 Speaker 1: give you information and then with that information you can 853 00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:52,360 Speaker 1: do whatever you want with it. But my job is 854 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,759 Speaker 1: to give people information worldwide. Now that's what that's what 855 00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:58,080 Speaker 1: living your life is about. But you said something in 856 00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:02,600 Speaker 1: the middle of your conversation with me about drugger people 857 00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:07,680 Speaker 1: who feel drug secrets that people come in there, they're 858 00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 1: in pain, they're letting the nurse know, the doctor knows 859 00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:15,040 Speaker 1: that they're in pain, but they're being labeled as people 860 00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:18,279 Speaker 1: who are just there to get drugs. Explain that, Well, 861 00:45:18,360 --> 00:45:23,200 Speaker 1: how did that stought and why is that such a problem. Okay, 862 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 1: So basically what happens is when you have sickle cell disease, 863 00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:28,200 Speaker 1: you have a lot of pain. You have a lot 864 00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:31,399 Speaker 1: of issues when it comes to lung health, kidney health, 865 00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:35,560 Speaker 1: spleen health, your vision, everything can be affected by sickle 866 00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:38,160 Speaker 1: cell disease. And when you're like a two year old 867 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,359 Speaker 1: girl and you have some pain with a little pink 868 00:45:40,440 --> 00:45:42,840 Speaker 1: dress on going to the er, you know, asking for 869 00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:46,520 Speaker 1: some pain medicine, everybody thinks that's cute, right, that's cute, right, 870 00:45:46,719 --> 00:45:48,839 Speaker 1: even though little kids in pain. But when you are 871 00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,400 Speaker 1: a twenty five year old six foot tall, one and 872 00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:54,799 Speaker 1: eighty pound person to talk about you're in pain and 873 00:45:54,880 --> 00:45:58,160 Speaker 1: you need some morphine, they're like, wait a minute, this 874 00:45:58,200 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 1: ain't cute, dude. Well, this disease is supposed to be cure. 875 00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 1: So people think that sickle cell disease is cured because theoretically, 876 00:46:03,520 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 1: there is a cure that for the lolo price of 877 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 1: five million dollars in about five people have gotten it 878 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,959 Speaker 1: in the world since the beginning of time, So that's 879 00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:14,000 Speaker 1: not a viable option right now. So people have to 880 00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:16,160 Speaker 1: live with this disease and when they have pain, they 881 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,400 Speaker 1: have excruciating pain ten out of ten. But most doctors 882 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,680 Speaker 1: have never taken care of a sickle cell patient. They 883 00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:23,840 Speaker 1: don't even know what that looks like. So when you 884 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,840 Speaker 1: go into an er and you are an adult asking 885 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,040 Speaker 1: for morphine and they've never taken care of a patient 886 00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,279 Speaker 1: like this, they think you're a drug secret They label 887 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 1: you a drug seeker, and then you can't get the 888 00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:39,040 Speaker 1: medicine that you need. It's it's a very horrible, horrible process. 889 00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:42,240 Speaker 1: And then you know you're treated like a second class citizen. 890 00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:43,960 Speaker 1: It's just it's a horrible thing. So what we have 891 00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:45,879 Speaker 1: to do as a people is we have to get 892 00:46:45,920 --> 00:46:48,279 Speaker 1: our minds right and get some legislation so that we 893 00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:50,839 Speaker 1: can identify people with sickle cell trade. That's the first thing. 894 00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:55,160 Speaker 1: I know that. That's I know that for a fact 895 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:58,400 Speaker 1: because I saw it happen. And then it feels like 896 00:46:58,520 --> 00:47:01,400 Speaker 1: now today that's sickle cell all it's still on the 897 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,920 Speaker 1: back burner of America and the medical minds. Is that correct? 898 00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,480 Speaker 1: It is, And I think it's because, um, well, you know, 899 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:12,239 Speaker 1: things fall out of favor because you know, when when 900 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:14,920 Speaker 1: it's not important to a particular group of people that 901 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:18,040 Speaker 1: has the biggest voice, then it's not really addressed. So 902 00:47:18,080 --> 00:47:21,360 Speaker 1: I mean, sickle cell disease is in about one hundred 903 00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:24,160 Speaker 1: thousand people. About one hundred thousand people have that. Now 904 00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,279 Speaker 1: when you look at a country with uh, you know, 905 00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:29,120 Speaker 1: two hundred three hundred million people in it, Welcome to 906 00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,600 Speaker 1: money making conversations to show that she is the secret 907 00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:35,440 Speaker 1: success experience first can by marketing and branded expert Sean McDonald. 908 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 1: I will know he's given me advice. I'm not you know, 909 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:44,840 Speaker 1: he'll be interviewing celebrity CEOs and entrepreneurs and industry decision 910 00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,160 Speaker 1: making us what he likes to do, what he likes 911 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 1: that happen. Now it's time to hear from my man. 912 00:47:49,680 --> 00:47:54,879 Speaker 1: Symptom for money that's a number. So that's why I'm 913 00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:57,560 Speaker 1: putting this on my back so that we can have 914 00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:01,719 Speaker 1: that telethon against we can bring some more of the 915 00:48:01,920 --> 00:48:05,279 Speaker 1: awareness to this disease because it's disabling, and I'm gonna 916 00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:07,239 Speaker 1: give you one step further. I think it's criminal, and 917 00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,720 Speaker 1: that's right. I called it criminal. The fact that ninety 918 00:48:10,800 --> 00:48:13,120 Speaker 1: seven percent of young black women that have a baby 919 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,400 Speaker 1: with sickle cell disease, meaning that baby is going to 920 00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,600 Speaker 1: be sick, maybe probably die early, being pain, lots of life, 921 00:48:18,800 --> 00:48:21,319 Speaker 1: always in the hospital, ninety seven percent of these women 922 00:48:21,360 --> 00:48:25,160 Speaker 1: that have this baby had no idea that they had 923 00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:28,759 Speaker 1: sickle cell trade. But the test is already done on 924 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 1: those women at birth. So what I'm saying is for 925 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 1: us not to know that, and we're spending billions of 926 00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:36,839 Speaker 1: dollars on trying to find a cure, can we just 927 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,240 Speaker 1: spend hundreds of thousands of dollars on empowering the community 928 00:48:40,280 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: to know if you have trade. So maybe if you 929 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,400 Speaker 1: know you know you have trade, and you meet a 930 00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,759 Speaker 1: man or if you're a woman, I mean a man, 931 00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:49,960 Speaker 1: you meet a woman and you want to have a 932 00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:53,800 Speaker 1: baby with them, you should know if the possibility of 933 00:48:53,880 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 1: your child could have sickle cell disease. You might want 934 00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:57,440 Speaker 1: to go ahead and do it. You might not want 935 00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,000 Speaker 1: to go ahead and do it, But the point is 936 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,680 Speaker 1: you need to know because that that baby is going 937 00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:05,480 Speaker 1: to be a huge emotional change in your life. That 938 00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:07,959 Speaker 1: baby's going to be a huge financial change in your life. 939 00:49:07,960 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 1: That baby is going to have a lot of pain 940 00:49:10,160 --> 00:49:13,040 Speaker 1: and distress and it's life. So it's a big decision 941 00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,960 Speaker 1: to make. But you need to know the information. So 942 00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 1: I think that what we're trying to do here is 943 00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 1: we're going to try to get a national registry. So 944 00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,799 Speaker 1: all of you out there listening, if you were, if 945 00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:26,399 Speaker 1: you're in your forties, you're that test was done at birth, 946 00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:28,080 Speaker 1: If you're in the mid forties, to every all the 947 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,879 Speaker 1: way down to just born today, that test was done 948 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:33,400 Speaker 1: on you, and you can go find the results. And 949 00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,120 Speaker 1: if you can't find a result, you can go straight 950 00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:38,920 Speaker 1: to your doctor right now and get that test redrawn, okay, 951 00:49:39,000 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 1: and see if you have the trade. And I think 952 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,040 Speaker 1: it's very very important for you and your children to 953 00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,120 Speaker 1: know so they can make some informed decisions. Wow. Well, 954 00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,239 Speaker 1: the interesting thing about this whole conversation of hand with 955 00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,560 Speaker 1: doctor he Ar is that you know, I have the 956 00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:55,239 Speaker 1: sickle cell trade. My wife she had the sickle cell trade. 957 00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:58,560 Speaker 1: So you're absolutely correct. We had we had to make 958 00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:02,799 Speaker 1: a conscious decision about, you know, bringing a young child 959 00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:04,840 Speaker 1: into this world which you know our child does not 960 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:09,520 Speaker 1: have sickle cell disease, and so but that doesn't matter. 961 00:50:09,640 --> 00:50:12,279 Speaker 1: You know, when my wife was pregnant, you know she 962 00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:15,560 Speaker 1: was always fearful of that whole situation and that I 963 00:50:15,960 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 1: wasn't aware of to afterwards. You know, that's a lot 964 00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:21,560 Speaker 1: of stress that can be put on a couple, especially 965 00:50:21,600 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 1: the woman in the couple, in the relationship, because all 966 00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:26,800 Speaker 1: you wanted a healthy child. That's do you want that miracle? 967 00:50:26,840 --> 00:50:29,359 Speaker 1: You want the five fingers and on one hand, five toes, 968 00:50:29,440 --> 00:50:31,360 Speaker 1: on another you know ten ten. You know that's what 969 00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,719 Speaker 1: you want when you when you bring a child in 970 00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:36,120 Speaker 1: the world physically, and then you want when they slap 971 00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:37,960 Speaker 1: them on the behind. You wanted the scream. You want 972 00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:41,440 Speaker 1: to be alert. And when you have sickle cell a 973 00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,880 Speaker 1: disease that, like you said, when it comes into your life, 974 00:50:45,000 --> 00:50:48,640 Speaker 1: it's costly, it's time consuming. Your child may spend many 975 00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:51,200 Speaker 1: hours and many days and maybe even many weeks into 976 00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:54,440 Speaker 1: the hospital under care, and it can never live a life. 977 00:50:54,600 --> 00:50:57,560 Speaker 1: But we on this show live in your Life. The 978 00:50:57,600 --> 00:51:00,280 Speaker 1: whole approach on that show is about showing people who 979 00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,920 Speaker 1: have the trait, people who have sickle cell disease living 980 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:07,440 Speaker 1: successful lives. Correct, and it's correct. I mean, you know 981 00:51:07,480 --> 00:51:11,799 Speaker 1: there's some people that if you embrace your disease, if 982 00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,239 Speaker 1: you do what you're supposed to do, you should be 983 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:17,840 Speaker 1: able to live your life like like anybody else. But 984 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 1: what the problem is we of the one hundred thousand 985 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:24,600 Speaker 1: people that have this disease, we have lost meaning loss 986 00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,480 Speaker 1: to follow up, meaning they're just out there. We don't 987 00:51:27,480 --> 00:51:30,720 Speaker 1: know where they are. About seventy thousand of these people, 988 00:51:31,120 --> 00:51:33,320 Speaker 1: we don't know where they are because when you get older, 989 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:36,360 Speaker 1: you know, people don't if you are ashamed to have 990 00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:39,840 Speaker 1: this disease because it caused the problem in your work. 991 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 1: Meaning if I like say Kier right, Kier who is 992 00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 1: the close to the show, said Carey as an actor, right, 993 00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:47,520 Speaker 1: So if he wants to be if he wants to 994 00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:50,000 Speaker 1: be in a movie and he has to tell them 995 00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:51,600 Speaker 1: that he has sickle cell, he may not get the 996 00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:54,960 Speaker 1: part because because they're gonna say, if he gets a 997 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,920 Speaker 1: sickle cell crisis in the middle of filming, then they 998 00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:00,600 Speaker 1: got to shut it down. They can't he can't be 999 00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:02,120 Speaker 1: in the movie. So that means they're losing one hundred 1000 00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:04,719 Speaker 1: fifty two hundred thous dollars a day, they'd rather do 1001 00:52:04,800 --> 00:52:07,759 Speaker 1: somebody else, So that's discrimination. So and then they're out 1002 00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,960 Speaker 1: there suffering in silence. So we what we hope is 1003 00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:12,879 Speaker 1: that we with this show, we bring people out because 1004 00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:16,319 Speaker 1: there's treatments. There's treatments now newer treatments that can make 1005 00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 1: your life a lot better. But we got no we 1006 00:52:18,520 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 1: had to know where you are, you know what I'm saying. 1007 00:52:20,640 --> 00:52:23,319 Speaker 1: So that that But here's the thing. We're talking about 1008 00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,960 Speaker 1: just America right now. Sure, AE hundred thousand, but that 1009 00:52:27,200 --> 00:52:31,400 Speaker 1: number swells when you get outside of the United States. 1010 00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:37,080 Speaker 1: Talk about the global impact of how sickle cell affects 1011 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:40,680 Speaker 1: different countries and how different countries are dealing with that 1012 00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:45,000 Speaker 1: as well. Yes, absolutely there are more people with sickle 1013 00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:49,200 Speaker 1: cell disease in the world than in the United States 1014 00:52:49,239 --> 00:52:52,200 Speaker 1: by far, because we remember this was this was something 1015 00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:57,719 Speaker 1: that was done. Um you know, this was an evolution 1016 00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:00,359 Speaker 1: from the African continent. This was an evolution so that 1017 00:53:00,400 --> 00:53:04,799 Speaker 1: we can remember that people are dying of sickle cell 1018 00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:08,000 Speaker 1: or dying of malaria, and so if you developed sickle 1019 00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:12,120 Speaker 1: cell trade, then you were able to survive malaria. That's 1020 00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: where sickle cell trade camper was an evolution of survival Okay, 1021 00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:19,759 Speaker 1: So now what you gotta remember is the subsherent part 1022 00:53:19,760 --> 00:53:22,279 Speaker 1: of Africa that's that has that issue. But if you 1023 00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:26,960 Speaker 1: start going towards you know, Saudi Arabia, and you start 1024 00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:30,560 Speaker 1: going towards Iraq and Turkey, all these people migrated from 1025 00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:33,800 Speaker 1: the same place, so they have more sickle cell disease 1026 00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,600 Speaker 1: and trade over there. But the issue is they don't 1027 00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,919 Speaker 1: have universal screening. So they're just dying. They're just living 1028 00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:40,920 Speaker 1: a horrible life because they just don't even know that 1029 00:53:41,000 --> 00:53:44,040 Speaker 1: they have it. So that's why this is a global issue. 1030 00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:47,359 Speaker 1: And so I presented this concept at the south By 1031 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,239 Speaker 1: Southwest conference. That's where a bunch of nineteen year old 1032 00:53:50,239 --> 00:53:52,279 Speaker 1: billionaires with hoodies go and talk about how they can 1033 00:53:52,320 --> 00:53:54,680 Speaker 1: save the world, right, And these dudes, when I explain 1034 00:53:54,760 --> 00:53:56,879 Speaker 1: to them, well happen, they said, wait a minute, we 1035 00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:01,920 Speaker 1: have a worldwide problem, a worldwide problem, and we're not 1036 00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:03,880 Speaker 1: doing something about it because of the lack of that 1037 00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:08,920 Speaker 1: aggregation of the data that already exists. Think about that. 1038 00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:11,840 Speaker 1: That's criminal. It wouldn't be doing that in any other disease. 1039 00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,840 Speaker 1: Absolutely absolutely, And that's why I wanted to bring that 1040 00:54:14,920 --> 00:54:16,839 Speaker 1: up because a lot of people look at the sickle 1041 00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:20,360 Speaker 1: cell as just a black illness, a black disease, a 1042 00:54:20,480 --> 00:54:23,680 Speaker 1: black something that tied to our culture. But it's really 1043 00:54:23,680 --> 00:54:26,040 Speaker 1: a global theme where when when you get out of 1044 00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:28,759 Speaker 1: a hundred thousand you start going worldwide, we get into 1045 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:31,560 Speaker 1: the millions, not one hundred thousand, not to ten, not 1046 00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:34,440 Speaker 1: two or four people, We go into the millions of 1047 00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,680 Speaker 1: people who are impacted are affected by sickle cell traite, 1048 00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:41,480 Speaker 1: which in turn leads to sickle cell disease. If the 1049 00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,080 Speaker 1: person you are happing to have a childhood and you'll 1050 00:54:44,080 --> 00:54:48,000 Speaker 1: both have the trait, then you can eventually lead that 1051 00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:50,239 Speaker 1: to one out of four chances to your child can 1052 00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:52,959 Speaker 1: have sickle cell disease. As a person who has sickle 1053 00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:55,360 Speaker 1: cell traite? What things should I be looking out for 1054 00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,279 Speaker 1: to make sure that I'm living a healthy life or 1055 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:01,560 Speaker 1: a long life and not doing it things? Silly, doctor Bear. 1056 00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,200 Speaker 1: The first thing you need to do is you need 1057 00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:06,600 Speaker 1: to make sure that you get enough sleep and get 1058 00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,480 Speaker 1: enough water. Okay, those are the things that you just 1059 00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:10,879 Speaker 1: need to do just to be help there. I don't 1060 00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:12,200 Speaker 1: care if you have sickle cell trade or not. You 1061 00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,440 Speaker 1: just need to get enough sleep, get enough water, and 1062 00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:17,120 Speaker 1: decrease the amount of stress in your life. That's across 1063 00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:19,720 Speaker 1: the board, okay, but with somebody with sickle cell trade 1064 00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:21,839 Speaker 1: or disease, you need to make sure you eat well. 1065 00:55:22,280 --> 00:55:24,120 Speaker 1: You gotta get this processed food out of your life. 1066 00:55:24,160 --> 00:55:27,360 Speaker 1: You gotta eat more plants, you gotta eat more vegetables, 1067 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:31,040 Speaker 1: you gotta eat more things that are that are good 1068 00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,799 Speaker 1: for you and decrease some of this processed food. That's 1069 00:55:33,800 --> 00:55:36,799 Speaker 1: another thing. Also, you gotta listen to your body. Okay, 1070 00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:38,520 Speaker 1: if you have sickle cell traits. The reason why people 1071 00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,200 Speaker 1: sickle cell trade dies not because they just all of 1072 00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:43,640 Speaker 1: a sudden have this attack and fall out. That's not 1073 00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 1: what happens. They just don't know that they have sickle 1074 00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:48,799 Speaker 1: cell trades. Or when they're working out and they start 1075 00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,280 Speaker 1: feeling faint, they think that that's what's supposed to happen 1076 00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:53,920 Speaker 1: because that's just normal, and then they just keep pushing 1077 00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:57,399 Speaker 1: and pushing and pushing, and that's when they have the problem. Right. So, 1078 00:55:57,520 --> 00:55:59,200 Speaker 1: if you got to listen to your body, If you know, 1079 00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:01,880 Speaker 1: if you're going to a high altitude environment, if you 1080 00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:03,279 Speaker 1: know you're gonna be working out a lot and you 1081 00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,440 Speaker 1: haven't worked out before and you start having these issues, 1082 00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:10,640 Speaker 1: just stop. Just stop, hydrate and rest and then you'll 1083 00:56:10,680 --> 00:56:13,279 Speaker 1: be absolutely fine. I also tell people with sickle cell 1084 00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:15,440 Speaker 1: trait they probably should be taking some folate in their 1085 00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:17,839 Speaker 1: multi vitamin. They need to make sure that they have 1086 00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,440 Speaker 1: enough vitamins in the body because your body to make 1087 00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:26,160 Speaker 1: red blood cells needs vitamins and it needs folate folic acid, 1088 00:56:26,280 --> 00:56:29,439 Speaker 1: and that is in every multi vitamin. But I would 1089 00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:32,680 Speaker 1: say take a little bit more because it can't hurt you, okay, 1090 00:56:32,760 --> 00:56:34,440 Speaker 1: And I want you to do that. And also if 1091 00:56:34,440 --> 00:56:36,120 Speaker 1: you're out there in your sickle cell disease, I really 1092 00:56:36,160 --> 00:56:38,400 Speaker 1: want you to think about there's a lot of medicines 1093 00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,480 Speaker 1: out there. There's and I need you to kind of 1094 00:56:40,520 --> 00:56:42,640 Speaker 1: go and look at some of them because they're out there, 1095 00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:44,319 Speaker 1: and we need you to get your get your mind 1096 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:46,440 Speaker 1: right and then come out of the out of the hiding. 1097 00:56:46,560 --> 00:56:48,560 Speaker 1: We need to fix this situation. Well, you know that 1098 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,120 Speaker 1: it's all about the information, and well one thing on 1099 00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,239 Speaker 1: this show, I try to bring information because of the 1100 00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:55,719 Speaker 1: fact that this is show I always talking about entrepreneurship 1101 00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:57,839 Speaker 1: and how to succeed. But if your health isn't right, 1102 00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:01,640 Speaker 1: can't fulfill your dreams, and more important, you cannot mislead 1103 00:57:01,840 --> 00:57:04,240 Speaker 1: to yourself to believe that it's gonna be all good 1104 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:08,040 Speaker 1: because you're not ill, but certain things have to happen 1105 00:57:08,120 --> 00:57:10,600 Speaker 1: that makes you successful. How can we get in touch 1106 00:57:10,640 --> 00:57:13,600 Speaker 1: with you, doctor A Bear or you on social because 1107 00:57:13,640 --> 00:57:15,800 Speaker 1: I definitely want people to follow up because your cause 1108 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,280 Speaker 1: is to provide that information. Your cause is to make 1109 00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:22,320 Speaker 1: picture people live healthy lives. That's right. So, and I 1110 00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:24,640 Speaker 1: put this kind of information out daily. 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