WEBVTT - Kai & Evie - Eggplant Emoji

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<v Speaker 1>First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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<v Speaker 1>Attorneys online at Advocatesla dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Kai is on the phone today for our first day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by Evie.

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<v Speaker 3>We went on a date with and really liked.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a second we'll call her and see if

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<v Speaker 2>she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

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<v Speaker 2>him another date. But first, Kai, how long as the

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<v Speaker 2>bench as you were from Evie?

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, guys, it's been about two weeks since I've heard

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<v Speaker 4>from Evie.

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<v Speaker 5>We usually are very friendly and flirtatious to everyone that

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<v Speaker 5>goes our constant gym.

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<v Speaker 4>We'd be certain back and forth a little bit, but

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<v Speaker 4>then we decided that we go and grab a smoothie

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<v Speaker 4>after our workout. So we want to grab a smoothie

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<v Speaker 4>and that went really well. So then we decided we'd

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<v Speaker 4>go out and tractually able proper date. So we went

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<v Speaker 4>to this new tops place in town. We end up

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<v Speaker 4>chatting with each other.

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<v Speaker 6>And we got the paia and while we went on

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<v Speaker 6>the pie to come out, we decided to after we ordered, we.

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<v Speaker 5>Decided to sit on the same side of the booth

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<v Speaker 5>and we go through each other's phones and we were

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<v Speaker 5>talking about pictures and videos that we're talking about, especially

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<v Speaker 5>with our family, and then there was a kiss, which

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<v Speaker 5>was pretty awesome. So I think everything was going to

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<v Speaker 5>corner plan. But then I have an art doctor, and

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's because I heal the shrimp out of

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<v Speaker 5>the shrimp.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, wait wait wait wait wait, So let's talk about

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<v Speaker 3>the kiss.

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<v Speaker 6>Then.

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<v Speaker 3>Was that mutual?

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<v Speaker 7>Like, did you feel like she was given that energy back?

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<v Speaker 4>Definitely, I guess her to kiss it back.

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<v Speaker 3>So then where does the shrimp come in?

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<v Speaker 4>I was.

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<v Speaker 5>Mainly a few of the pressing content that I ate

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<v Speaker 5>my majority of the Yeah, shrimp from the pie, I

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<v Speaker 5>think that she made.

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<v Speaker 2>Why do you think that that's the thing that she

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<v Speaker 2>say something about it?

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<v Speaker 4>She would give me a look the entire time.

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<v Speaker 7>So is it that you ate all the shrimpers that

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<v Speaker 7>because you left the girl starving?

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<v Speaker 5>That's that's that's why I called you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, And you reach out to her and she's

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<v Speaker 2>said nothing, Well, what was.

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<v Speaker 3>Your last interaction? So what did you say to her?

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<v Speaker 7>So basically you sent her a text and said I

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<v Speaker 7>had a great time and then she responded saying thanks

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<v Speaker 7>for dinner. And it wasn't the energy that you were

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<v Speaker 7>looking for.

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<v Speaker 6>So I take after dinner, I said, a really great

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<v Speaker 6>time for the next day, and she just responded with,

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<v Speaker 6>you know, thank you for dinner with the period hand

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<v Speaker 6>alow energy you would count of response.

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<v Speaker 4>So I haven't done anything.

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<v Speaker 5>From her since then.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, have you seen her CrossFit?

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<v Speaker 5>Just packing?

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<v Speaker 6>Not really, not really, you know, long home competition just

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<v Speaker 6>you know how I would out that would be a favorite.

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<v Speaker 3>So you're getting curved, all right, Well we'll see why.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll plaus On come back in the call her and

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<v Speaker 2>see if to tell us why she's ghosting you, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get you another date, okay, all right, Plus I'll come

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<v Speaker 2>back and get your first DAFE follow up next right

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<v Speaker 2>in the middle of your first date follow up, and

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<v Speaker 2>if you're just joining us, that Kai is on the

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<v Speaker 2>phone and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Evie

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<v Speaker 2>that he really likes. He met her at CrossFit and

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<v Speaker 2>they went out on a date, and he thinks he's

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<v Speaker 2>not getting a call back because he ate all of

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<v Speaker 2>the shrimp and the piea that they ordered. And she

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<v Speaker 2>also needs her protein because you know, crossfits absolutely, so

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<v Speaker 2>we'll see if that's the reason. All right, Kai, Are

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<v Speaker 2>you ready to give her a call? Okay, man, here

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<v Speaker 2>we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Hello, Hi, I speak to ev.

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<v Speaker 2>Please listen. Hey Evie, how are you? My name is Jewbel.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi, Ev, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm Victoria. Okay, how are you? It's a radio show.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you ever listened to The Jewbel Show before? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Go on again?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, sweet? Are you familiar with what a first date

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<v Speaker 3>follow up is?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh? Yeah, okay, okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's the segment where if you ghost somebody, they

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<v Speaker 2>can email us to get you on the show and

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<v Speaker 2>ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email

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<v Speaker 2>about you from somebody. Have any idea who that would be?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I've only gone on one first date recently, so

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<v Speaker 1>I have this feeling I might know who it is.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, who is that?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it?

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<v Speaker 3>Kai? Yes? It is.

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<v Speaker 2>He told us about your date and he wants to

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<v Speaker 2>know why you're not calling him back or why you're

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<v Speaker 2>ghosting him? Would you mind telling us?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, so like we had a we were

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<v Speaker 1>having like a.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretty good night.

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<v Speaker 1>Tapas and then like we had this really good kiss, right,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we got up went to the bathroom, and

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<v Speaker 1>while he was there, his phone just kept getting messages

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<v Speaker 1>from him learning and it was like eggs plant emojis

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<v Speaker 1>and uh like peach emojis and emojis and at least

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<v Speaker 1>five just in the time that he was in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, I don't know, Louzy is, but it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like he's kind of got something going on already.

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<v Speaker 4>And I just felt so uncomfortable after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and then he just didn't mention them, like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, it felt like he just left his phone

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<v Speaker 1>out on the table like he would see looking to.

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<v Speaker 4>The film when he came back kind of thing.

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<v Speaker 3>He thought, the reason you're not calling him back is

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<v Speaker 3>because he ate all the shrimp out of the paia.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow. I mean yeah, he did do that and that

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<v Speaker 4>was dumb.

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<v Speaker 2>But like, okay, so it said he was getting texts

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<v Speaker 2>that seemed like from another girl.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean five.

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<v Speaker 4>A lot of egg plant emojis, A lot.

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<v Speaker 3>We should ask him about that, don't you think you?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, oh that's right, he's he's here.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, he is.

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<v Speaker 2>Guy's on the phone and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Ye, maybe.

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<v Speaker 4>This is kind of awkward, but I'm I'm a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit mortified, and I'm going to sure my friend, the

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<v Speaker 4>one that was sending all the emoji text messages Jim

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<v Speaker 4>my friends.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he's he was Basically he knew that I was

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<v Speaker 5>in ev for a while and he was trying to

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<v Speaker 5>be encouraging by sending those messages in order to let

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<v Speaker 5>me know exactly what I should do an atomically speaking of.

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<v Speaker 4>Earth and goes well on it dates.

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<v Speaker 5>But I uh, not that I don't appreciate his input,

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<v Speaker 5>but I kind of already knew how to do that anyways, But.

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<v Speaker 4>In his own way, he was trying to at least

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<v Speaker 4>at least be encouraging and and and and be friendly.

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<v Speaker 5>But I don't I don't think he knew that she

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<v Speaker 5>was going to see the messages from him.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, okay, I'm going to kill him the next time

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<v Speaker 4>I see him. But it was nothing sexual between me

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<v Speaker 4>and somebody else.

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<v Speaker 5>It was mainly sexual between me.

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<v Speaker 1>Me and my buddy, so is it wasn't another girl,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was your friend like convinced we were going

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<v Speaker 1>to hook up, Like is that why you went out

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<v Speaker 1>with me?

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<v Speaker 4>Because we were like sure we were going to hook up?

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't going out with you because I was students,

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to come. I was going out because I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to go out with you. That the whole walking

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<v Speaker 4>up thing is just bonus. You're the main You're.

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<v Speaker 5>The main goal here is to go now a good

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<v Speaker 5>time with you because I have coming to you.

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<v Speaker 4>A goal.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, like a guy like you at the gym

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<v Speaker 1>only has one agenda and friend, just like the or

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<v Speaker 1>Vic or whatever his name is, I knew you were

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<v Speaker 1>too good to be true when I went out, Like

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<v Speaker 1>if that's all you're interested in, Like, that's not what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here for.

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<v Speaker 4>That's not all I'm interested in.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, that's just my friends and dumb idiots, And

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<v Speaker 5>it's decided to send very very dumb text messages when

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<v Speaker 5>I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 4>At the table.

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<v Speaker 5>But I am not into you for that, that's just

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<v Speaker 5>a bonus.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm into you for everything that you are and everything

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<v Speaker 4>that you can be, and.

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<v Speaker 5>Especially all the conversation that we have them on the

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<v Speaker 5>last day, finistions.

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<v Speaker 4>Are going really well.

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<v Speaker 5>So yes, I can understand that you might be a

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<v Speaker 5>little upset and confused by the messages, but that's the

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<v Speaker 5>last thing on my mind and you're also your.

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<v Speaker 4>Your squad game is like insane that you can.

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<v Speaker 5>Squat so much, and I think it's really hot, So

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<v Speaker 5>it's it's also that's not a bonus, but your child

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<v Speaker 5>enjoy at it's some point in time after after an

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<v Speaker 5>apology dinner when you possibly see about, no potentially doing

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<v Speaker 5>something on those lines.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well an ice cream after two. And also you

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<v Speaker 4>get to eat all the shrimp tonight.

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<v Speaker 5>You get all the shrimp, and wherever we go, I

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<v Speaker 5>will make sure that they feed you at least eat extra.

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<v Speaker 4>Shrimp, just to make sure that I have to make

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<v Speaker 4>it for the last time.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, just like out there, would you like

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<v Speaker 2>to go on another date with Kaile? We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I totally believe you yet, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can buy me shrimp interes Yes, I will go

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date, but you are on probation.

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<v Speaker 3>It sounds like you said yes to shrimp. Okay, well, congratulations, Kyle,

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<v Speaker 3>you got another date.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is exactly and I appreciate all the help.

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<v Speaker 4>This was one exactly how I thought it would go.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 7>Just tell Victors okay, okay, yeah, I want to see

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<v Speaker 7>those texts, though.

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<v Speaker 4>I will definitely show them too. I'm gonna do a

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<v Speaker 4>little bit of editing so that way not as graphic

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<v Speaker 4>as I will make sure that you see them.

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<v Speaker 3>You Will's first day follow up