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Speaker 2: Kai is on the phone today for our first day
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Evie.
Speaker 3: We went on a date with and really liked.
Speaker 2: So in a second we'll call her and see if
Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Kai, how long as the
Speaker 2: bench as you were from Evie?
Speaker 4: Hi, guys, it's been about two weeks since I've heard
Speaker 4: from Evie.
Speaker 5: We usually are very friendly and flirtatious to everyone that
Speaker 5: goes our constant gym.
Speaker 4: We'd be certain back and forth a little bit, but
Speaker 4: then we decided that we go and grab a smoothie
Speaker 4: after our workout. So we want to grab a smoothie
Speaker 4: and that went really well. So then we decided we'd
Speaker 4: go out and tractually able proper date. So we went
Speaker 4: to this new tops place in town. We end up
Speaker 4: chatting with each other.
Speaker 6: And we got the paia and while we went on
Speaker 6: the pie to come out, we decided to after we ordered, we.
Speaker 5: Decided to sit on the same side of the booth
Speaker 5: and we go through each other's phones and we were
Speaker 5: talking about pictures and videos that we're talking about, especially
Speaker 5: with our family, and then there was a kiss, which
Speaker 5: was pretty awesome. So I think everything was going to
Speaker 5: corner plan. But then I have an art doctor, and
Speaker 5: I think it's because I heal the shrimp out of
Speaker 5: the shrimp.
Speaker 3: Okay, wait wait wait wait wait, So let's talk about
Speaker 3: the kiss.
Speaker 6: Then.
Speaker 3: Was that mutual?
Speaker 7: Like, did you feel like she was given that energy back?
Speaker 4: Definitely, I guess her to kiss it back.
Speaker 3: So then where does the shrimp come in?
Speaker 4: I was.
Speaker 5: Mainly a few of the pressing content that I ate
Speaker 5: my majority of the Yeah, shrimp from the pie, I
Speaker 5: think that she made.
Speaker 2: Why do you think that that's the thing that she
Speaker 2: say something about it?
Speaker 4: She would give me a look the entire time.
Speaker 7: So is it that you ate all the shrimpers that
Speaker 7: because you left the girl starving?
Speaker 5: That's that's that's why I called you guys.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, And you reach out to her and she's
Speaker 2: said nothing, Well, what was.
Speaker 3: Your last interaction? So what did you say to her?
Speaker 7: So basically you sent her a text and said I
Speaker 7: had a great time and then she responded saying thanks
Speaker 7: for dinner. And it wasn't the energy that you were
Speaker 7: looking for.
Speaker 6: So I take after dinner, I said, a really great
Speaker 6: time for the next day, and she just responded with,
Speaker 6: you know, thank you for dinner with the period hand
Speaker 6: alow energy you would count of response.
Speaker 4: So I haven't done anything.
Speaker 5: From her since then.
Speaker 3: Okay, have you seen her CrossFit?
Speaker 5: Just packing?
Speaker 6: Not really, not really, you know, long home competition just
Speaker 6: you know how I would out that would be a favorite.
Speaker 3: So you're getting curved, all right, Well we'll see why.
Speaker 2: We'll plaus On come back in the call her and
Speaker 2: see if to tell us why she's ghosting you, maybe
Speaker 2: get you another date, okay, all right, Plus I'll come
Speaker 2: back and get your first DAFE follow up next right
Speaker 2: in the middle of your first date follow up, and
Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, that Kai is on the
Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Evie
Speaker 2: that he really likes. He met her at CrossFit and
Speaker 2: they went out on a date, and he thinks he's
Speaker 2: not getting a call back because he ate all of
Speaker 2: the shrimp and the piea that they ordered. And she
Speaker 2: also needs her protein because you know, crossfits absolutely, so
Speaker 2: we'll see if that's the reason. All right, Kai, Are
Speaker 2: you ready to give her a call? Okay, man, here
Speaker 2: we go.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, I speak to ev.
Speaker 2: Please listen. Hey Evie, how are you? My name is Jewbel.
Speaker 2: I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.
Speaker 3: Hi, Ev, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and
Speaker 3: I'm Victoria. Okay, how are you? It's a radio show.
Speaker 3: Have you ever listened to The Jewbel Show before? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Go on again?
Speaker 3: Okay, sweet? Are you familiar with what a first date
Speaker 3: follow up is?
Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 3: Cool.
Speaker 2: Well that's the segment where if you ghost somebody, they
Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the show and
Speaker 2: ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email
Speaker 2: about you from somebody. Have any idea who that would be?
Speaker 1: Well, I've only gone on one first date recently, so
Speaker 1: I have this feeling I might know who it is.
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, who is that?
Speaker 4: Is it?
Speaker 3: Kai? Yes? It is.
Speaker 2: He told us about your date and he wants to
Speaker 2: know why you're not calling him back or why you're
Speaker 2: ghosting him? Would you mind telling us?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, so like we had a we were
Speaker 1: having like a.
Speaker 4: Pretty good night.
Speaker 1: Tapas and then like we had this really good kiss, right,
Speaker 1: and then we got up went to the bathroom, and
Speaker 1: while he was there, his phone just kept getting messages
Speaker 1: from him learning and it was like eggs plant emojis
Speaker 1: and uh like peach emojis and emojis and at least
Speaker 1: five just in the time that he was in the bathroom.
Speaker 1: So like, I don't know, Louzy is, but it sounds
Speaker 1: like he's kind of got something going on already.
Speaker 4: And I just felt so uncomfortable after that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then he just didn't mention them, like I
Speaker 1: don't know, it felt like he just left his phone
Speaker 1: out on the table like he would see looking to.
Speaker 4: The film when he came back kind of thing.
Speaker 3: He thought, the reason you're not calling him back is
Speaker 3: because he ate all the shrimp out of the paia.
Speaker 4: Wow. I mean yeah, he did do that and that
Speaker 4: was dumb.
Speaker 2: But like, okay, so it said he was getting texts
Speaker 2: that seemed like from another girl.
Speaker 3: I mean five.
Speaker 4: A lot of egg plant emojis, A lot.
Speaker 3: We should ask him about that, don't you think you?
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that's right, he's he's here.
Speaker 4: Yes, he is.
Speaker 2: Guy's on the phone and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 5: Ye, maybe.
Speaker 4: This is kind of awkward, but I'm I'm a little
Speaker 4: bit mortified, and I'm going to sure my friend, the
Speaker 4: one that was sending all the emoji text messages Jim
Speaker 4: my friends.
Speaker 5: Yeah, he's he was Basically he knew that I was
Speaker 5: in ev for a while and he was trying to
Speaker 5: be encouraging by sending those messages in order to let
Speaker 5: me know exactly what I should do an atomically speaking of.
Speaker 4: Earth and goes well on it dates.
Speaker 5: But I uh, not that I don't appreciate his input,
Speaker 5: but I kind of already knew how to do that anyways, But.
Speaker 4: In his own way, he was trying to at least
Speaker 4: at least be encouraging and and and and be friendly.
Speaker 5: But I don't I don't think he knew that she
Speaker 5: was going to see the messages from him.
Speaker 4: Uh, okay, I'm going to kill him the next time
Speaker 4: I see him. But it was nothing sexual between me
Speaker 4: and somebody else.
Speaker 5: It was mainly sexual between me.
Speaker 1: Me and my buddy, so is it wasn't another girl,
Speaker 1: but it was your friend like convinced we were going
Speaker 1: to hook up, Like is that why you went out
Speaker 1: with me?
Speaker 4: Because we were like sure we were going to hook up?
Speaker 4: I wasn't going out with you because I was students,
Speaker 4: we're going to come. I was going out because I
Speaker 4: wanted to go out with you. That the whole walking
Speaker 4: up thing is just bonus. You're the main You're.
Speaker 5: The main goal here is to go now a good
Speaker 5: time with you because I have coming to you.
Speaker 4: A goal.
Speaker 1: Come on, like a guy like you at the gym
Speaker 1: only has one agenda and friend, just like the or
Speaker 1: Vic or whatever his name is, I knew you were
Speaker 1: too good to be true when I went out, Like
Speaker 1: if that's all you're interested in, Like, that's not what
Speaker 1: I'm here for.
Speaker 4: That's not all I'm interested in.
Speaker 5: You know, that's just my friends and dumb idiots, And
Speaker 5: it's decided to send very very dumb text messages when
Speaker 5: I wasn't.
Speaker 4: At the table.
Speaker 5: But I am not into you for that, that's just
Speaker 5: a bonus.
Speaker 4: I'm into you for everything that you are and everything
Speaker 4: that you can be, and.
Speaker 5: Especially all the conversation that we have them on the
Speaker 5: last day, finistions.
Speaker 4: Are going really well.
Speaker 5: So yes, I can understand that you might be a
Speaker 5: little upset and confused by the messages, but that's the
Speaker 5: last thing on my mind and you're also your.
Speaker 4: Your squad game is like insane that you can.
Speaker 5: Squat so much, and I think it's really hot, So
Speaker 5: it's it's also that's not a bonus, but your child
Speaker 5: enjoy at it's some point in time after after an
Speaker 5: apology dinner when you possibly see about, no potentially doing
Speaker 5: something on those lines.
Speaker 4: Okay, well an ice cream after two. And also you
Speaker 4: get to eat all the shrimp tonight.
Speaker 5: You get all the shrimp, and wherever we go, I
Speaker 5: will make sure that they feed you at least eat extra.
Speaker 4: Shrimp, just to make sure that I have to make
Speaker 4: it for the last time.
Speaker 2: I don't know, just like out there, would you like
Speaker 2: to go on another date with Kaile? We'll pay for it.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I totally believe you yet, but
Speaker 1: you can buy me shrimp interes Yes, I will go
Speaker 1: on a second date, but you are on probation.
Speaker 3: It sounds like you said yes to shrimp. Okay, well, congratulations, Kyle,
Speaker 3: you got another date.
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is exactly and I appreciate all the help.
Speaker 4: This was one exactly how I thought it would go.
Speaker 4: Thank you so much.
Speaker 7: Just tell Victors okay, okay, yeah, I want to see
Speaker 7: those texts, though.
Speaker 4: I will definitely show them too. I'm gonna do a
Speaker 4: little bit of editing so that way not as graphic
Speaker 4: as I will make sure that you see them.
Speaker 3: You Will's first day follow up