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Speaker 1: First date of follow up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 1: Attorneys online at Advocatesla dot com.

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Speaker 2: Kai is on the phone today for our first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Evie.

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Speaker 3: We went on a date with and really liked.

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Speaker 2: So in a second we'll call her and see if

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Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get

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Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Kai, how long as the

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Speaker 2: bench as you were from Evie?

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Speaker 4: Hi, guys, it's been about two weeks since I've heard

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Speaker 4: from Evie.

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Speaker 5: We usually are very friendly and flirtatious to everyone that

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Speaker 5: goes our constant gym.

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Speaker 4: We'd be certain back and forth a little bit, but

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Speaker 4: then we decided that we go and grab a smoothie

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Speaker 4: after our workout. So we want to grab a smoothie

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Speaker 4: and that went really well. So then we decided we'd

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Speaker 4: go out and tractually able proper date. So we went

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Speaker 4: to this new tops place in town. We end up

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Speaker 4: chatting with each other.

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Speaker 6: And we got the paia and while we went on

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Speaker 6: the pie to come out, we decided to after we ordered, we.

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Speaker 5: Decided to sit on the same side of the booth

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Speaker 5: and we go through each other's phones and we were

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Speaker 5: talking about pictures and videos that we're talking about, especially

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Speaker 5: with our family, and then there was a kiss, which

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Speaker 5: was pretty awesome. So I think everything was going to

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Speaker 5: corner plan. But then I have an art doctor, and

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Speaker 5: I think it's because I heal the shrimp out of

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Speaker 5: the shrimp.

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Speaker 3: Okay, wait wait wait wait wait, So let's talk about

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Speaker 3: the kiss.

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Speaker 6: Then.

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Speaker 3: Was that mutual?

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Speaker 7: Like, did you feel like she was given that energy back?

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Speaker 4: Definitely, I guess her to kiss it back.

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Speaker 3: So then where does the shrimp come in?

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Speaker 4: I was.

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Speaker 5: Mainly a few of the pressing content that I ate

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Speaker 5: my majority of the Yeah, shrimp from the pie, I

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Speaker 5: think that she made.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think that that's the thing that she

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Speaker 2: say something about it?

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Speaker 4: She would give me a look the entire time.

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Speaker 7: So is it that you ate all the shrimpers that

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Speaker 7: because you left the girl starving?

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Speaker 5: That's that's that's why I called you guys.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, And you reach out to her and she's

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Speaker 2: said nothing, Well, what was.

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Speaker 3: Your last interaction? So what did you say to her?

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Speaker 7: So basically you sent her a text and said I

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Speaker 7: had a great time and then she responded saying thanks

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Speaker 7: for dinner. And it wasn't the energy that you were

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Speaker 7: looking for.

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Speaker 6: So I take after dinner, I said, a really great

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Speaker 6: time for the next day, and she just responded with,

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Speaker 6: you know, thank you for dinner with the period hand

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Speaker 6: alow energy you would count of response.

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Speaker 4: So I haven't done anything.

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Speaker 5: From her since then.

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Speaker 3: Okay, have you seen her CrossFit?

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Speaker 5: Just packing?

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Speaker 6: Not really, not really, you know, long home competition just

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Speaker 6: you know how I would out that would be a favorite.

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Speaker 3: So you're getting curved, all right, Well we'll see why.

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Speaker 2: We'll plaus On come back in the call her and

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Speaker 2: see if to tell us why she's ghosting you, maybe

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Speaker 2: get you another date, okay, all right, Plus I'll come

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Speaker 2: back and get your first DAFE follow up next right

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Speaker 2: in the middle of your first date follow up, and

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, that Kai is on the

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Speaker 2: phone and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Evie

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Speaker 2: that he really likes. He met her at CrossFit and

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Speaker 2: they went out on a date, and he thinks he's

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Speaker 2: not getting a call back because he ate all of

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Speaker 2: the shrimp and the piea that they ordered. And she

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Speaker 2: also needs her protein because you know, crossfits absolutely, so

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Speaker 2: we'll see if that's the reason. All right, Kai, Are

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Speaker 2: you ready to give her a call? Okay, man, here

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Speaker 2: we go.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, I speak to ev.

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Speaker 2: Please listen. Hey Evie, how are you? My name is Jewbel.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubil Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Ev, I'm Nina also on the show. Hi, and

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Speaker 3: I'm Victoria. Okay, how are you? It's a radio show.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever listened to The Jewbel Show before? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Go on again?

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Speaker 3: Okay, sweet? Are you familiar with what a first date

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Speaker 3: follow up is?

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Speaker 4: Oh? Yeah, okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: Cool.

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Speaker 2: Well that's the segment where if you ghost somebody, they

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Speaker 2: can email us to get you on the show and

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Speaker 2: ask why you're ghosting them. And we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you from somebody. Have any idea who that would be?

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Speaker 1: Well, I've only gone on one first date recently, so

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Speaker 1: I have this feeling I might know who it is.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, who is that?

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Speaker 4: Is it?

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Speaker 3: Kai? Yes? It is.

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Speaker 2: He told us about your date and he wants to

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Speaker 2: know why you're not calling him back or why you're

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Speaker 2: ghosting him? Would you mind telling us?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, so like we had a we were

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Speaker 1: having like a.

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Speaker 4: Pretty good night.

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Speaker 1: Tapas and then like we had this really good kiss, right,

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Speaker 1: and then we got up went to the bathroom, and

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Speaker 1: while he was there, his phone just kept getting messages

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Speaker 1: from him learning and it was like eggs plant emojis

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Speaker 1: and uh like peach emojis and emojis and at least

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Speaker 1: five just in the time that he was in the bathroom.

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Speaker 1: So like, I don't know, Louzy is, but it sounds

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Speaker 1: like he's kind of got something going on already.

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Speaker 4: And I just felt so uncomfortable after that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and then he just didn't mention them, like I

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Speaker 1: don't know, it felt like he just left his phone

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Speaker 1: out on the table like he would see looking to.

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Speaker 4: The film when he came back kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: He thought, the reason you're not calling him back is

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Speaker 3: because he ate all the shrimp out of the paia.

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Speaker 4: Wow. I mean yeah, he did do that and that

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Speaker 4: was dumb.

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Speaker 2: But like, okay, so it said he was getting texts

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Speaker 2: that seemed like from another girl.

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Speaker 3: I mean five.

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Speaker 4: A lot of egg plant emojis, A lot.

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Speaker 3: We should ask him about that, don't you think you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh that's right, he's he's here.

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Speaker 4: Yes, he is.

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Speaker 2: Guy's on the phone and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 5: Ye, maybe.

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Speaker 4: This is kind of awkward, but I'm I'm a little

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Speaker 4: bit mortified, and I'm going to sure my friend, the

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Speaker 4: one that was sending all the emoji text messages Jim

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Speaker 4: my friends.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he's he was Basically he knew that I was

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Speaker 5: in ev for a while and he was trying to

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Speaker 5: be encouraging by sending those messages in order to let

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Speaker 5: me know exactly what I should do an atomically speaking of.

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Speaker 4: Earth and goes well on it dates.

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Speaker 5: But I uh, not that I don't appreciate his input,

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Speaker 5: but I kind of already knew how to do that anyways, But.

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Speaker 4: In his own way, he was trying to at least

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Speaker 4: at least be encouraging and and and and be friendly.

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Speaker 5: But I don't I don't think he knew that she

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Speaker 5: was going to see the messages from him.

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Speaker 4: Uh, okay, I'm going to kill him the next time

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Speaker 4: I see him. But it was nothing sexual between me

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Speaker 4: and somebody else.

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Speaker 5: It was mainly sexual between me.

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Speaker 1: Me and my buddy, so is it wasn't another girl,

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Speaker 1: but it was your friend like convinced we were going

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Speaker 1: to hook up, Like is that why you went out

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Speaker 1: with me?

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Speaker 4: Because we were like sure we were going to hook up?

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Speaker 4: I wasn't going out with you because I was students,

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Speaker 4: we're going to come. I was going out because I

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Speaker 4: wanted to go out with you. That the whole walking

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Speaker 4: up thing is just bonus. You're the main You're.

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Speaker 5: The main goal here is to go now a good

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Speaker 5: time with you because I have coming to you.

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Speaker 4: A goal.

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Speaker 1: Come on, like a guy like you at the gym

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Speaker 1: only has one agenda and friend, just like the or

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Speaker 1: Vic or whatever his name is, I knew you were

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Speaker 1: too good to be true when I went out, Like

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Speaker 1: if that's all you're interested in, Like, that's not what

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Speaker 1: I'm here for.

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Speaker 4: That's not all I'm interested in.

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Speaker 5: You know, that's just my friends and dumb idiots, And

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Speaker 5: it's decided to send very very dumb text messages when

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Speaker 5: I wasn't.

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Speaker 4: At the table.

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Speaker 5: But I am not into you for that, that's just

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Speaker 5: a bonus.

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Speaker 4: I'm into you for everything that you are and everything

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Speaker 4: that you can be, and.

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Speaker 5: Especially all the conversation that we have them on the

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Speaker 5: last day, finistions.

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Speaker 4: Are going really well.

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Speaker 5: So yes, I can understand that you might be a

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Speaker 5: little upset and confused by the messages, but that's the

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Speaker 5: last thing on my mind and you're also your.

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Speaker 4: Your squad game is like insane that you can.

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Speaker 5: Squat so much, and I think it's really hot, So

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Speaker 5: it's it's also that's not a bonus, but your child

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Speaker 5: enjoy at it's some point in time after after an

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Speaker 5: apology dinner when you possibly see about, no potentially doing

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Speaker 5: something on those lines.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well an ice cream after two. And also you

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Speaker 4: get to eat all the shrimp tonight.

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Speaker 5: You get all the shrimp, and wherever we go, I

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Speaker 5: will make sure that they feed you at least eat extra.

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Speaker 4: Shrimp, just to make sure that I have to make

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Speaker 4: it for the last time.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, just like out there, would you like

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Speaker 2: to go on another date with Kaile? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I totally believe you yet, but

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Speaker 1: you can buy me shrimp interes Yes, I will go

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Speaker 1: on a second date, but you are on probation.

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Speaker 3: It sounds like you said yes to shrimp. Okay, well, congratulations, Kyle,

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Speaker 3: you got another date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this is exactly and I appreciate all the help.

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Speaker 4: This was one exactly how I thought it would go.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 7: Just tell Victors okay, okay, yeah, I want to see

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Speaker 7: those texts, though.

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Speaker 4: I will definitely show them too. I'm gonna do a

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Speaker 4: little bit of editing so that way not as graphic

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Speaker 4: as I will make sure that you see them.

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Speaker 3: You Will's first day follow up