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Speaker 1: My boyfriend just proposed to me, but he said it

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Speaker 1: was a prank. Would I be the asshole if I

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Speaker 1: didn't spend my life with him?

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Speaker 2: You know, it's just a prank.

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Speaker 1: Bros.

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Speaker 2: They just keep upping the ante, upping the ante until they.

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Speaker 3: Think they make you think that, oh, I am going

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Speaker 3: to spend the rest of my life with you.

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Speaker 1: I want to get married to you, all love you forever.

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Speaker 1: But then it was just a prank, bro. Just take

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Speaker 1: it all away. Just take it all away from you,

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Speaker 1: like I think they have undying, everlasting love, and then

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Speaker 1: take that feeling and just stick it through a cheese grater.

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Speaker 3: Just grinding it, just just shreds. The question is where

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Speaker 3: does it end?

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Speaker 1: Where does it end? If not here, I think it

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Speaker 1: ends when they stop getting views. And they'll never stop

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Speaker 1: getting views because I will watch the shit out of those.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, sorry all you ladies out there.

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Speaker 1: Me twenty four female, Me have been dating my boyfriends.

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Speaker 2: Long time, long time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I think OP means I I, twenty four female,

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Speaker 1: have been dating my boyfriend Andrew twenty six mail for

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Speaker 1: five years now. We've had a healthy and stable relationship

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Speaker 1: up until today. Andrew has always been a little bit

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Speaker 1: of a rankster and would make jokes with me all

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Speaker 1: the time and I do it to him too, but

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Speaker 1: today he took it too far. Let's see. Let's see

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Speaker 1: what Andrew In the morning, he woke me up at

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Speaker 1: wanted to take me to the SPA. I was pretty

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Speaker 1: surprised because it wasn't a special day or anything, but

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Speaker 1: I was all for it. At the SPA, he told

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Speaker 1: after we'd done at the SPA, and that he was paying.

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Speaker 1: Of course I agreed, as we hadn't been out together

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Speaker 1: in a long time. This has some boyfriend's pulling out

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Speaker 1: all the steps pretty good so far. We then got

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Speaker 1: to the restaurant. We had a beauty full, romantic dinner

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Speaker 1: and just a nice time in general. We were talking

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Speaker 1: about a house we were planning to move into, and

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Speaker 1: chit chatted about other stuff too. So they're talking about

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Speaker 1: their futures at this fancy restaurant after having been to SPA.

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Speaker 1: Big stuff. Yeah. After around forty minutes, Andrew stood up

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Speaker 1: and got on his knees and took a box out

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Speaker 2: My heart stopped beating. I had never predicted this, we had.

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Speaker 1: Never talked about a proposal before, but I also thought

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Speaker 1: it was a great time now. He did a speech

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Speaker 1: about how he was the most beautiful girl in the

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Speaker 1: world and he wanted to live with me forever, and

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Speaker 1: he pot that shit. I'm just I'm you believe that.

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Speaker 1: I think he fucking loves you. He ended with, will

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Speaker 1: you marry me? Princess?

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Speaker 2: Ah, I'm just waiting.

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Speaker 1: For the ball to drop, of course, I said yes,

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Speaker 1: and we've been happily married for ten years. Nope, No, it.

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Speaker 2: Ain't how it goes, gentlemen, pranked you just got got.

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Speaker 1: Seconds later, second second, my excitement turned to horror. He

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Speaker 1: opened the small box which I expected to ring in,

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Speaker 1: and in it was a note saying you've been brak.

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Speaker 1: Andrew started laughing hysterically. Oh, probably a fucking idiot. I

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Speaker 1: can't believe you would think that you were the most

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Speaker 1: beautiful girl in the world. Have you seen Kate Upton?

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Speaker 1: Have you seen making focks bro? Have you seen Zindaia

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Speaker 1: for the fact, have you seen Tom Holland? Oh God, hotties? Wow,

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Speaker 1: here you thought, and here you're the most beautiful girl.

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Speaker 1: In the world. God damn fucking brutal, Absolutely brutal. This

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Speaker 1: is the meanest prank I have ever heard of.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, the only one that I heard that I saw

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Speaker 3: were like very religious, and he pretended to be using

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Speaker 3: you know the point where it's like, all right, it's

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Speaker 3: He literally kept it going like beyond that point to

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Speaker 3: the point where she was like, I'm leaving you for good.

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Speaker 3: I'm getting our two children right now, and I'm going

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Speaker 3: and then finally when she was almost out there, he he's.

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Speaker 1: Like, it's a break speed run divorce. Yeah, that's how

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Speaker 1: you do it.

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Speaker 2: That's the only one that I found that's like on this.

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Speaker 1: Level, My god, are you sure that's real? I think

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Speaker 1: it's a YouTuber.

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Speaker 3: It's definitely not on Comedy Central or probably not in

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Speaker 3: Comedy Central, they're both Muslim.

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Speaker 1: The girl's wearing a hud job. Anyway, bad prank, bad prank,

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Speaker 1: bad bad prank stir bad boy. He continued with, baby,

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Speaker 1: this was just a prank already at all to marry you.

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Speaker 2: Yet that's actually in the story.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was leaning in to hug me, but I

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Speaker 1: gave him the biggest slap ever, with tears streaming down

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Speaker 1: scumback Yeah, I mean, honestly only response. Damn. I'm now

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Speaker 1: and mostly angry. I thought this was going to be

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Speaker 1: one of the best days of my life. What should

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Speaker 1: I do? And there is an update? Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. What are your What are your thoughts?

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Speaker 1: Should you break up with him? What do you think?

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Speaker 3: She's like totally within her right this If they had

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Speaker 3: five years of and we always say, was there more

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Speaker 3: But you know, if this was the first thing in

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Speaker 3: five years, and they sit down and talk and like,

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Speaker 3: you know whatever, Like I could see coming out of it,

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Speaker 3: and maybe he just made like the biggest, dumbest, like

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Speaker 3: terrible thing to do. I think she's well within her

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Speaker 3: right to want to leave after this, especially in the moment.

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Speaker 1: I mean, my other question is like, why are you

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Speaker 1: is he filming this? I don't know because I don't

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Speaker 1: hear any cameras. I don't hear any YouTube thing. Imagine

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Speaker 1: this all right? The parallel ad read he goes to propose,

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Speaker 1: if you ever have a mental health crisis like this one.

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Speaker 3: You should really go and get better. Yeah, And then

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Speaker 3: he's like, I never really loved you. If someone says

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Speaker 3: and get some support for your mental health. Could you

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Speaker 3: imagine great video? It would get a lot of views.

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Speaker 3: It would get a lot of views, a lot of views.

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Speaker 1: But like, why are you doing a prank? Like this

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Speaker 1: if you're not filming it, like you're like, at least

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Speaker 1: get at least film it, at least get the ad

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Speaker 1: sense right, like like, why would you ruin your life

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Speaker 2: To get views? He wants the shit to giggles, all right?

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Speaker 1: So update, after I made that Reddit post, I fell

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Speaker 1: my now ex boyfriend. I told him that it was

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Speaker 1: over and that I didn't want to be together with

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Speaker 1: someone who, after five years, still isn't ready for marriage,

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Speaker 1: and made a big joke about it. He cried and

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Speaker 1: then turned angry and demanded me to stay and told

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Speaker 1: me I was an effing asshole for leaving him like

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Speaker 1: this after everything he has done for me. Babe, Do

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Speaker 1: you know how much time and energy I put into

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Speaker 1: that prank? Yeah? I paid for the spot, YEP, I

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Speaker 1: paid for the dinner, YEP, I paid for the little box. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: To put that note where it said this is a prank,

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Speaker 1: I've been planning this for like one to five years. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so in particular, Yeah, like wait to mean my work, bab.

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Speaker 1: This is my art, baby, Yeah, this is my art

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Speaker 1: I'm now a stand up comedian. He cussed me out

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Speaker 1: I don't really remember everything he said, which you know,

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Speaker 1: this is probably telling. In the end, we came to

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Speaker 1: just been scrolling the internet for apartments so I can

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Speaker 1: He's trying so bad to get with me, saying stuff

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Speaker 1: the whole day like can't we be just together again?

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Speaker 1: And this was just one small mistake I made, But

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Speaker 1: so effing petty and drop it. You know we were

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Speaker 1: happy together. You know you still want me. When he

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Speaker 1: I think he told his family about this whole situation,

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Speaker 2: Also, this ain't no simple joke. This is a highly.

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Speaker 1: Orchestrated fucking like mean spirited social experiment that's trying to

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Speaker 3: And what if, like, you know, can you not empathize

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Speaker 3: Like I would be disgusted with my child if they

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Speaker 1: A great prank. Bro eh, all right, not funny, horrific, horrific?

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Speaker 1: But would I click on the video? Like you're lying

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Speaker 3: It would start auto playing, and I wouldn't. I wouldn't

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Speaker 3: stop it. I wouldn't stop it. That's just being completely

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Speaker 3: brutally honest. So you're down a girlfriend, but you're up

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Speaker 3: some great viral content. All you need to do is

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Speaker 3: have another five year relationship that ends in a prank. Perfect,

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Speaker 1: It ended with her calling me a slut in hanging

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Speaker 1: up the call. After that, I've gotten several messages from

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Speaker 1: his other family members, such as the siblings, his dad,

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Speaker 1: and Eva's aunt. I've tried to just block them all,

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Speaker 1: but every now and then comes a new message. I

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Speaker 1: feel like more will happen, But the next update we'll

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Speaker 1: probably not be in less than a week or so,

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Speaker 1: as I'm going to try to sell off stuff I

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Speaker 1: don't need, find a new apartment and fix everything with

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Speaker 1: I just want to get out of here as quickly

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Speaker 1: as possible. And there is one final short updates. All right,

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Speaker 1: finish us off. We'll finish you off. After my last posts,

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Speaker 1: we had constant fights for days during the evenings, and

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Speaker 1: one day I decided that I had enough. My closest

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Speaker 2: What kind of friend would not support you after this?

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Speaker 1: A fellow prankster, a prank afficionado, you know Game, recognize

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Speaker 1: Game as a master of comedy. Wow, that is so

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Speaker 1: so tragic. Really want to quickly see there's got to

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Speaker 1: be fake proposal pranks. You're right? Five point five million views,

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Speaker 1: And is this is Kayla? We've been best friends for

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Speaker 3: You'll get a banger every week, a very big, successful

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Speaker 1: Proposals. Yo, that's actually a great idea.

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Speaker 3: Oh god, fake proposals. Great idea, gnarally genre of content

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Speaker 3: My husband isn't over his dead wife and I need

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Speaker 1: I've been hooking up with Abe Lincoln in the afterlife.

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Speaker 1: I don't care about you anymore.

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Speaker 2: He freed the slaves and my orgasm ave Lincoln.

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Speaker 3: There you go. You can do it all, apparently, and

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Speaker 3: So my husband, Daniel fake name for privacy, and I

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Speaker 3: Jane for Privacy, from his previous marriage, who I love

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Speaker 3: We met right before the pandemic, when he had been

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Speaker 3: The wedding ceremony was everything a girl could dream of,

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Speaker 2: Okay, what's the ish brah dish that ish bish.

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Speaker 3: I went up to meet him at the front desk

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Speaker 3: that sewing stuff. He was referring to his ex wife, Alissa.

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Speaker 3: Never speak her name. She is dead and she's dead

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Speaker 3: We don't talk about Alyssa much unless we're around Jane,

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Speaker 1: That we are married. Yeah, bro, she x kick her out.

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Speaker 2: She's off this planet now. She needs to be off.

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Speaker 1: Of your mind and brain. Never mention her name, just

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Speaker 3: Call her Voldie. Yeah, she's literally voldemorre get her out

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Speaker 3: of here. Stab those horcruxes. It wasn't until a week

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Speaker 3: I admitted I didn't know much about this, and he

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Speaker 1: Bro, stop talking about your dead wife all the time.

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Speaker 1: It left me very confused.

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Speaker 3: After talking to some more guys, I found out that

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Speaker 3: that Alyssa and I were the same person because Dan

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Speaker 1: Ten months are rookie numbers, though, come on, talk to

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Speaker 1: me when you got ten years. Okay, they got to

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Speaker 1: put some years on that scoreboard, that's right. How long

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Speaker 3: And they got together like three years ago, so probably

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Speaker 1: But the whole office. I mean, how do you talk

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's not your ex wife. You just call your

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Speaker 1: I think just dead wife. Saying dead wife every time

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Speaker 1: You're a live wife.

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Speaker 3: There we go, Yeah, living wife and my dead wife,

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Speaker 2: I like that my breather, my breather breath is important

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Speaker 1: saying dead dead wife, my late wife. That's what. Here

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Speaker 1: we go, you say my late wife. Yeah, he should

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Speaker 3: Why should she on time? She's tardy, She's tardy all

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Speaker 1: Yeah, late wife. There we go. Nice, nice work, Sam

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Speaker 1: explain to people that I'm not his second wife, but

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Speaker 1: he shouldn't have married me. If he can't commit to

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Speaker 3: Yeah, fucking get overhearded, she's been dead for at least

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Speaker 1: Yeah, goodness, gracious.

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Speaker 3: I spent the next night at my sister's house, ignoring

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Speaker 1: I am desperately trying to save. Is it worth saving? Okay,

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Speaker 1: at the end of the day, like she's not coming

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Speaker 1: about like him having feelings for someone and it ruined

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Speaker 3: Because she's literally dead. So that's one thing on your side, op, Yeah, definitely.

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Speaker 1: Second, I don't know, like it's like she died. It's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he wants to.

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Speaker 1: Think of her as his wife, like till death do

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Speaker 1: maybe or just one death.

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Speaker 3: I guess either one, because you can't can't stay married

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Speaker 1: because that doesn't mean X, and that is distinction.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that op definitely needs to be very

435
00:21:04,960 --> 00:21:08,240
Speaker 3: considerate because it is like his dead wife, that's a

436
00:21:08,359 --> 00:21:11,199
Speaker 3: really terrible thing to go through. And again, like he

437
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:13,600
Speaker 3: doesn't want to like he wants to respect, he wants

438
00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 3: to respect. Yes, yeah, and I do think it is

439
00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:18,280
Speaker 3: fair to sit down and be like, hey, I want

440
00:21:18,320 --> 00:21:20,879
Speaker 3: to make sure I'm respecting you in this situation that

441
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Speaker 3: you've been through that I haven't, But could we do

442
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,800
Speaker 3: something that like I also understand her side of like,

443
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 3: you know, having to explain like.

444
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,719
Speaker 1: Oh no, it's the thing that's difficult. Is it sounds

445
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:34,399
Speaker 1: like he talks about his dead wife more than OPI.

446
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:37,679
Speaker 1: I think this is a situation OPI's settling for a

447
00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:41,600
Speaker 1: live wife. Dead wife is way better. It is possible that, yeah,

448
00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:48,320
Speaker 1: he has varsity baseball, she's into sports, she's the mother

449
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 1: of your kid. If they were both alive and he

450
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,360
Speaker 1: had to run a train over one, I think he's

451
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: running a train over the day life.

452
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 3: Though, what is it the utilitarian whatever the fuck? My goodness,

453
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:04,280
Speaker 3: trolley problem, the Cholley problem. Yeah, this is tough. I

454
00:22:04,320 --> 00:22:06,080
Speaker 3: kind of need you guys' help on this one, because,

455
00:22:06,600 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 3: you know what, I'm kind of flip flopping to O

456
00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 3: P side.

457
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: It feels like the guy isn't quite open. He might

458
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 1: not have moved on yet. I don't think he's moved on.

459
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know if you can even ask

460
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:19,720
Speaker 1: him to move on necessarily. It's hard. But like the

461
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,920
Speaker 1: fact that he's talking about his dead wife more than

462
00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 1: you means either you're not living a really interesting life.

463
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 2: But now think about this. Think about this.

464
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 1: You marry someone and you're like, I never fell out

465
00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 1: of love with you, but I obviously want to continue

466
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:37,080
Speaker 1: and build a relationship that it can grow and with

467
00:22:37,119 --> 00:22:41,120
Speaker 1: the old with the old one like like I committed

468
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 1: to her for life, and I'm you know, like I

469
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Speaker 1: the love it never ends.

470
00:22:47,280 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 2: I guess if that person feels that way.

471
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,719
Speaker 3: But then also they're like, well, does that mean that

472
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:54,240
Speaker 3: I am just doomed to be alone for the rest

473
00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 3: of my life just because I am committed to her

474
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Speaker 3: and did And you know that's that's such a rock

475
00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 3: and a hard place to be like talk.

476
00:23:03,960 --> 00:23:06,679
Speaker 1: You know, well, that's what happens in Sleepless in Seattle, Right,

477
00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:08,600
Speaker 1: is his wife dies and he's like, yo, like, I'm

478
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 1: never gonna find someone as good as her, Right, And

479
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 1: then he goes in the radio program and then in

480
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Speaker 1: Sleepless in Seattle, I haven't awesome? Did he? Did he

481
00:23:16,040 --> 00:23:17,160
Speaker 1: find it? He went on the radio.

482
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Speaker 3: He went on the radio and was like, I love

483
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 3: my dead wife so much, and literally every woman in

484
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,960
Speaker 3: Seattle's like, god damn, that makes me.

485
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: Wet as fuck.

486
00:23:26,240 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 3: And then he was getting like hundreds of letters and

487
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 3: then one girl stalked him and then like, if you

488
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Speaker 3: found a girl on the radio, could that Does that

489
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Speaker 3: count as a ten on the radar?

490
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's literally a radar. Yeah, like radar going out.

491
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 1: And if he finds a ten, I forget what? What

492
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: the what?

493
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Speaker 3: The actresses? But she's cute? Yeah, I feel bad. I

494
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 3: don't know this is this is so tricky. Everyone kind

495
00:23:47,240 --> 00:23:50,640
Speaker 3: of loses is like, it kind of sucks for everyone

496
00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 3: a little bit. I think there's a little bit of

497
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Speaker 3: a holary on both sides, but they also both have

498
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Speaker 3: very valid you know.

499
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Speaker 1: I think a very okay thing to ask is can

500
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Speaker 1: you reference can you call her your late wife? I

501
00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,679
Speaker 1: think I think that's I think that is. And if

502
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 1: he says no, yes, then that's kind of whack ask ask.

503
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:11,800
Speaker 3: I think, yeah, if you think if he says no,

504
00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 3: then maybe there's some processing or something he has to

505
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 3: work through. Yeah, maybe, but he's definitely not over her. Yeah,

506
00:24:18,119 --> 00:24:19,240
Speaker 3: it's kind of looking like that.

507
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Speaker 1: But I don't know if you get like, do you

508
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 1: get over your dead wife? That's what I'm saying.

509
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Speaker 3: It's like, if you truly are committed to someone and

510
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,400
Speaker 3: you're like, the love isn't just gonna.

511
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Speaker 1: You're not gonna have commit it low and her with

512
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Speaker 1: the memory of her?

513
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 3: But am I also just going to spin the rest

514
00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,679
Speaker 3: of my life alone when they're not a person like

515
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 3: I am, a person who wants to seek and invest

516
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Speaker 3: in a relationship in my destiny be alone.

517
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Speaker 1: It's a good question. It's a good question.

518
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:45,960
Speaker 3: I don't know if if anyone has any story, thoughts, whatever,

519
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,760
Speaker 3: split on this one. Yeah, it's it's it's pretty tough.

520
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 3: Would love to hear what you think Opie should do?

521
00:24:51,600 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 1: Yeah? What should like?

522
00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 2: What should Opie ask of the husband?

523
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 1: Yes? And what do you think the husband should do

524
00:24:57,800 --> 00:25:00,320
Speaker 1: for OPI? And like, is anyone at fault here. We

525
00:25:00,320 --> 00:25:02,200
Speaker 1: would lift to know. We need your help on this one.

526
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 1: We need for real.

527
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:07,439
Speaker 2: But you know what you could do to help me

528
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:09,679
Speaker 2: resurrect story three?

529
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 1: Yes, hit it, hit it. My sister is kicking me

530
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 1: out of the house for leaving the door unlocked. So

531
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,400
Speaker 1: I told my brother on her am I the asshole.

532
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 2: You know I can't just you know, kick you out

533
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:22,600
Speaker 2: on the streets.

534
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:23,640
Speaker 1: I need to.

535
00:25:24,240 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 2: Put you in prison. That is the door that you

536
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: can't unlock.

537
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is true. You know what I mean?

538
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: It's true.

539
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:35,080
Speaker 3: Teach you the crime exactly, the ultimate crime. If you ask,

540
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:36,760
Speaker 3: I guess what what's sean?

541
00:25:37,040 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 1: Well? This was posted by user a bliss Dreamer on

542
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 1: our subreddit r slash okop show. Wow. That is so beautiful.

543
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:47,879
Speaker 3: If you want us to read your story, submit it

544
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Speaker 3: on our subwritt our slash okop show and make it

545
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Speaker 3: between five hundred and like eight hundred.

546
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Speaker 1: Words like nice tight. We like the well written ones, guys,

547
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Speaker 1: So get your quills out and let's dive into this.

548
00:25:57,680 --> 00:26:00,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So I twenty eight year old female. I'm

549
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:03,199
Speaker 1: staying with my sister twenty two year old and her

550
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,879
Speaker 1: fiance and two children. I had a bad breakup with

551
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: my AX, so I had to move out immediately do

552
00:26:08,640 --> 00:26:11,320
Speaker 1: the breakup depression and anxiety. I had to break down

553
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 1: and had to spend a week in a mental hospital

554
00:26:13,640 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: to get me back on my medication. Fucking rough. That

555
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,239
Speaker 1: is very rough, you know whatever. Whenever I hear this

556
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,360
Speaker 1: is bad, but whenever I hear someone in a mental hospital, yeah,

557
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,280
Speaker 1: I always think of one of my favorite movies. Guys.

558
00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 3: He really loves this movie. He's like, you watch this

559
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,199
Speaker 3: movie all the time. He's such a huge fan of it.

560
00:26:30,960 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 3: Great movie Batman.

561
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 1: Nope, right, a Saint Asylum. Like it's a rom com.

562
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:39,439
Speaker 1: It's a rom com. Uh, it's kind of a funny story.

563
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,160
Speaker 1: Have you seen it? So what's the story? He's in a.

564
00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 3: Mental health hospital, meets a girl also in a mental hospital.

565
00:26:45,440 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: They're crazy for each other. Yeah, like, beget it. But

566
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,399
Speaker 1: it's kind of a funny story, right, but fuck you guys.

567
00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 1: The hospital kept me till they knew I wasn't a

568
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: threat to myself anymore. While I was in there, she

569
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 1: told me how I wouldn't be a burden and she

570
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 1: wanted to help. I got out Monday and things have

571
00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 1: been okay. She asked if I could watch the girls

572
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,959
Speaker 1: for one or two hours an evening. I told her

573
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: I could watch them, but it would be at different

574
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,639
Speaker 1: times during the day because I will be starting a

575
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,200
Speaker 1: new job and won't have the same schedule every day.

576
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:15,879
Speaker 1: Her and her fiance go outside to smoke several times

577
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:18,160
Speaker 1: a day, and I watched my three month old niece

578
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: and my four year old niece with autism while they

579
00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: are outside.

580
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:23,400
Speaker 2: Making sure everything's good.

581
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,919
Speaker 1: Yeah. Earlier today, my sister started crying, saying how she

582
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: couldn't afford to have me here long and asked if

583
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:32,800
Speaker 1: I could stay with our brother and his girlfriend's family

584
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,640
Speaker 1: half the week every week. So this sister's like, hey,

585
00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: I can't support you, but it seems like op, he's

586
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: kind of doing them a favor by watching the kids. Yeah,

587
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: I told her I'll ask and reminded her I'll start

588
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,639
Speaker 1: paying rent once I get a paycheck. So op he's like, hey,

589
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm going to start paying rent. She's out some money

590
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: eating ready to pay rent. Okay. Later this evening, my

591
00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 1: brother picked me up to treat me to dinner to

592
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: see how I was doing. Before I left the house,

593
00:27:56,040 --> 00:27:58,639
Speaker 1: I yelled upstairs for someone to lock the door. I

594
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: thought my older niece was up stairs in her room,

595
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 1: and I know my younger niece was in her rocker downstairs,

596
00:28:04,200 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 1: so I left and closed the door behind myself. Okay,

597
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,639
Speaker 1: so ope asked the older niece to lock the door.

598
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 1: The older niece is four years old.

599
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 4: You know, maybe someone who can reach the door knob Opie, Ope,

600
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 4: we love you, okap.

601
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:33,840
Speaker 1: Fan, Yeah, of course, but just your four like they're

602
00:28:33,840 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 1: four and four months, like I thought. If one didn't,

603
00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:38,960
Speaker 1: the other one would.

604
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 3: It's a new boorn baby the other guy.

605
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 2: Okay, keep rolling, all right, let's see.

606
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: Maybe there's a redemption arc. Okay. My sister and her

607
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 1: fiance were both upstairs.

608
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 2: Okay, so they're not. She's not leaving them alone.

609
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 3: No, he actually would have been the first red flag,

610
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,200
Speaker 3: like why leave the house?

611
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 1: Period? So Opie did not leave the kids alone. Opie

612
00:29:03,680 --> 00:29:05,600
Speaker 1: did not expect a four year old to lock the

613
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: door behind her. Oh, okay, okay, because the parents are there.

614
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 1: My sister and fiance were both upstairs. It's not that

615
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,120
Speaker 1: big of a home, and I'm thinking they could hear me.

616
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,480
Speaker 1: So okay, everyone's in the home, like, including the mom

617
00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:20,040
Speaker 1: and the dad and the nieces and the baby. Opie's like, hey,

618
00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,360
Speaker 1: I'm leaving, can you lock the door, and thought that

619
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 1: someone heard her. When I returned, my sister is furious,

620
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: saying I left her kids alone with the door unlocked.

621
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: I told her that she and her fiance were both

622
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,520
Speaker 1: upstairs and I yelled for someone to lock the door.

623
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: She said she was in the shower, and she had

624
00:29:37,640 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: announced she was going to be in the shower prior

625
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: to stating that I am entering the shower. I am

626
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: taking a rial bath. I am disurubing.

627
00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 3: Please wash between my cheeks, jeeves, but the butt gun

628
00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:52,959
Speaker 3: up my butt and squirretts.

629
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: They have butt guns here instead of bedezed.

630
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 3: Spray me so loud that I cannot hear anybody screaming

631
00:29:59,320 --> 00:30:00,800
Speaker 3: at me to lock dolls.

632
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: I want the walk to penetrate deep within my anus,

633
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: so I moaned, So everyone knows that I am showering

634
00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: and doing a deep keen. There you go. So, yeah,

635
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: she did it. It could be my anxiety medication make

636
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 1: me drowsy. But I didn't hear her say that. I

637
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 1: told her my older niece was in a room when

638
00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: I left, and my sister claimed that she was downstairs

639
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: in her eyechair, which has seatbelts. I didn't see her,

640
00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,560
Speaker 1: and my niece is usually very loud, so I know

641
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,840
Speaker 1: she's in the room. My sister says she's offended if

642
00:30:28,880 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: I don't apologize. She says, I haven't watched the girls

643
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: like I said I would. I told her she never

644
00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: came to me and said she's ready for me to

645
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: watch them. It's Thursday. I just got out of the

646
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 1: hospital Monday. I'm thinking she was giving me a bit

647
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: of the break. I told her every time her and

648
00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 1: Friance go out for a smoke for ten minutes that

649
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: I was with the girls. That made her even more mad.

650
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,560
Speaker 1: She said she didn't need me to watch them when

651
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 1: she goes outside because she has baby monitors, but she

652
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: occasionally asked me to keep an eye on the girls

653
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: when she goes out. She tells me to start looking

654
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,560
Speaker 1: for a new place. So basically, what it seems like

655
00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: is the sister and the fiance a like, we don't

656
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: need you to be here to watch the kids. We're

657
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: just like we were just asking you to just like, hey,

658
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: like watch the kids while we're out. Now like an

659
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: intense watch.

660
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 3: It seems like there's a massive amount of miscommunication going

661
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 3: on here. Yeah, yeah, it feels like there's a lot

662
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:17,680
Speaker 3: going on.

663
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. Anyway, she goes out to smoke after the argument

664
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: and tells me she doesn't need me to watch the girls.

665
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 1: I text my brother to tell him what's going on.

666
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 3: Evidently he texted her going off on her, because she

667
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 3: came back inside accusing me of talking crap behind her back.

668
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: I told her what he says has nothing to do

669
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: with me, and she says it does. It's Thursday. She's

670
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: giving me till Saturday to move. That's pretty quick. I've

671
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: only been here since Monday. I think that she was

672
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 1: just giving her like. I don't think OPI was officially

673
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:46,120
Speaker 1: moved in or anymore. But if there's like squatters, some

674
00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: kind of squatters, right, I don't think a long it

675
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:50,800
Speaker 1: was long enough squatterfights. She said she tried to help me,

676
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: and I'm ungrateful. I had a feeling i'd be a burden,

677
00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 1: but I didn't know how fast she'd get mad and

678
00:31:55,800 --> 00:31:58,360
Speaker 1: kick me out. Perhaps I should have taken my anxiety pill,

679
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 1: knowing it makes me drowsy. Maybe I would have made

680
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: better decisions. What's done is done. So am I the asshole?

681
00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:06,800
Speaker 1: And there is an edit. I should add that when

682
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: she first offered for me to move in with her

683
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,640
Speaker 1: and the girls, her fiance moved out. When I got

684
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: out of the hospital, he was back and they decided

685
00:32:13,840 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 1: to work on things. I feel like she wanted me

686
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 1: to stay when she thought I'd be useful, but since

687
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 1: she had help again, she wanted it out. Also, I

688
00:32:21,400 --> 00:32:25,240
Speaker 1: don't have a key, so is op the a hole

689
00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 1: and it's the sister of the a hole for asking

690
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,360
Speaker 1: Ope to move out so quickly.

691
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think definitely let me know your thoughts in

692
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:37,440
Speaker 3: the comments below. But I feel like there's just like

693
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:42,880
Speaker 3: a massive amount of miscommunication, and you know, I'm a

694
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:47,000
Speaker 3: little stuck because it kind of is within the sisters, right, like, hey,

695
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,840
Speaker 3: you are staying here, you know, like definitely to a degree.

696
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: I think it's like, I mean, if you invite anyone

697
00:32:53,400 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 1: into your home, you can uninvite them anytime you want.

698
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: It's what I'm saying, right Like, you are extending a

699
00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: kindness by even having them exactly, So I kind of,

700
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 1: no matter what the reason, I feel like the sister

701
00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: can be like, hey, like I want my place back

702
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: to myself.

703
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 2: But what I don't like is the way that the

704
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: sister is doing it.

705
00:33:13,080 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like she's searching for like a reason

706
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: to kick her out, yeah, rather than just being upfront

707
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,320
Speaker 1: and being like, hey, my fiance is back, we don't

708
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,320
Speaker 1: really have room for you. We have the kids taken

709
00:33:24,360 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: care of, Like I can't have you in the house anymore,

710
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: Like yeah, something like that, being a little bit more honest,

711
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: because when the fiance was out it makes more sense

712
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: because sister needs help taking care of the kids. But

713
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 1: now it's like a full house again. It kind of

714
00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:37,040
Speaker 1: like is a little bit.

715
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel very bad for Op given her situations,

716
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 3: just coming in to the mental hospital trying to get

717
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 3: like it seems like shoulding to get her shit together,

718
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 3: trying to get a shit together, and like really really trying,

719
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 3: you know, putting forward that effort and is like has

720
00:33:49,920 --> 00:33:53,240
Speaker 3: every intention of like doing things right, but at the

721
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:54,920
Speaker 3: end of the day, it's kind of one of those

722
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 3: things where it's like you said, if you someone can

723
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 3: extend the kindness to have you stay.

724
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: But someone can take that kind of someone can take

725
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: it away, and if there's you know, no legal kind

726
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 1: of protection or whatever, then little sol it's kind of a.

727
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 2: Shitty, like shitty situation. That's what it is.

728
00:34:12,120 --> 00:34:13,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what would you do in this

729
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: situation if you were OP? And like, I mean, do

730
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:19,920
Speaker 1: you think OP did anything wrong? Put your answers below.

731
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 3: My transphobic mom is baiting me from driving just because

732
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,680
Speaker 3: my friend is trans. I won't stand for it. Am

733
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 3: I the a hole? No?

734
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: I mean, based on what I've heard so far, now

735
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 1: zero percent the ail transphobia has no place in this podcast.

736
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:40,000
Speaker 3: That's right, talk about it. That's just true. Let me

737
00:34:40,000 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 3: provide some context.

738
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 1: I nineteen female, have been talking about moving in with

739
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,919
Speaker 1: two of my friends from the last job I worked

740
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:47,800
Speaker 1: at for quite a long time. At the time we

741
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:49,839
Speaker 1: made these plans, we were all working at the same

742
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: place and it was going great up until I got

743
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,520
Speaker 1: let go for my many times of being away from

744
00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: my station too long aka taking bathroom breaks because they

745
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,080
Speaker 1: won't let us sit down. My back was killing me

746
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 1: and I couldn't take a breather within the sight of

747
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:06,240
Speaker 1: the managers because I'd get yelled at. Oh sounds like retail.

748
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:09,439
Speaker 1: Yeah that's tough. I mean, I only worked at Nike

749
00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 1: for a little but that's my only retail job.

750
00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 3: Oh oh yeah, But it's pretty fun. So yeah, it's

751
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 3: almost as tough as this job. I mean, like, look

752
00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 3: at yeah, I mean it's like, sit down, Yeah, it's tough.

753
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 1: It's tough. Feel bad for us. I never had an

754
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,840
Speaker 1: issue with that until they started firing people and many

755
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:29,359
Speaker 1: quit because of the work conditions, and so to make

756
00:35:29,440 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: up for the sparse staffing, they would give me double shifts,

757
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,279
Speaker 1: causing me to get burnt out very quickly. So to

758
00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: fill the gap, I've been doing door dash just so

759
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:41,319
Speaker 1: I'm at least not a complete loser. Oh okay, you

760
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: mean you're not a loser, I think because they ended

761
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 1: up getting fired. Yeah.

762
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:47,840
Speaker 2: Anyway, onto the meat and potatoes of the story.

763
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 3: Sometime after telling my mom fifty five female, what the

764
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 3: possible plans were for the move in, I went and

765
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 3: asked my friends if they were all right with me

766
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,120
Speaker 3: telling my mom the whole scoop, because they'd eventually meet

767
00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 3: face to face anyways, if we'd be helping each other

768
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 3: move get our stuff in all of that, Jazz, I

769
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 3: would never tell another person who's never met my friends

770
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,280
Speaker 3: that they're trans unless they were okay with me doing so.

771
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 1: So.

772
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:10,719
Speaker 3: Basically, it seems like she's asking permission to be like, hey,

773
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 3: can I tell my mom about you guys, but like

774
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:15,040
Speaker 3: specifically to the trans friend.

775
00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 1: Is it okay if.

776
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:21,279
Speaker 3: I like tell Op's mom, Mom, like his friend's trans.

777
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, hey, here's what I'm moving in with.

778
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,080
Speaker 1: Is that relevant information? I don't know if that's relevant.

779
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: Like if I was saying I was moving in with

780
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: someone who was gay, would be like, hey, mom, moving

781
00:36:29,840 --> 00:36:30,520
Speaker 1: my gay friend.

782
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 2: I think it's more important. Like do they have a job.

783
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it seems I don't care what parts they have.

784
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:40,800
Speaker 1: I want to know if they have a seven hundred

785
00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 1: or above.

786
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 3: They gave me permission, and so I broke the news

787
00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 3: to my mom. Now, mind you, my mother is very

788
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:50,560
Speaker 3: much Christian and conservative. I, however, am Christian but not conservative.

789
00:36:50,600 --> 00:36:52,680
Speaker 3: At first, she seemed kind of indifferent about it, so

790
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,400
Speaker 3: I figured, Okay, this might not be that tough of

791
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 3: a situation.

792
00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:56,800
Speaker 1: Wow.

793
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 3: Since then, our relationship has become extremely rocky, and we've

794
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 3: both been getting into arguments off and on for a

795
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 3: couple of months now. The hostility and bigotry have all

796
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 3: been thinly veiled under the guise of protecting me and

797
00:37:09,040 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 3: caring about mine and my friend's salvation.

798
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 1: Now as much.

799
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,560
Speaker 3: As it makes me sad to know that their view

800
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,920
Speaker 3: of God is based off of the impressions they've gotten

801
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 3: from their own Christian upbringings, because I wish I could

802
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:20,239
Speaker 3: help them see what.

803
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:21,280
Speaker 1: God really is about.

804
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 3: I'm very much against pushing my beliefs on those who

805
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 3: don't express interest in sharing them, trying to make sure

806
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 3: I'm understanding what OPS saying.

807
00:37:28,760 --> 00:37:31,719
Speaker 1: Opas saying. I'm sad that they feel that they have

808
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: to be biggest to live by the creed that the

809
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: chosen to live by, and like my understanding of God

810
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 1: is vastly different, but I don't want to press my

811
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: beliefs on somebody, right, right right. I wholeheartedly understand and

812
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: sympathize with those who have experienced religious trauma going up,

813
00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 1: and I wouldn't wish that on anyone, or want to

814
00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: make anyone relive it for that matter. However, this willingness

815
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 1: to love everyone, no matter what walk of life they

816
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,759
Speaker 1: come from is seen as blatant enabling to my mom,

817
00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: no matter how many times I tried to explain to

818
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 1: her that LGBTQ plus people aren't evil and they just

819
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:06,839
Speaker 1: want to live without being in constant fear. Oh, I'm

820
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:10,080
Speaker 1: a sexual myself, and she even has an issue with that.

821
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 3: None of it gets through. I've tried the put yourself

822
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:16,200
Speaker 3: in their shoes approach. I've tried explaining that Jesus literally

823
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 3: ate dinner in the presence of wayher's people. I quoted

824
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 3: he who is without sin cast the first stone. Nothing,

825
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 3: absolutely nothing. So now, because I'm still choosing to go

826
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 3: forward with my move and do everything I can to

827
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,280
Speaker 3: get back on my feet, I'm being threatened with having

828
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 3: my car taken away from.

829
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,680
Speaker 1: Really, dude, I don't know why you would tell your

830
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: super conservative mom that information.

831
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:39,160
Speaker 3: I do get one thing of like, oh, I want

832
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 3: my mom to like understand. I want to share my

833
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 3: values with her and you know the room, you know,

834
00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 3: But telling her like that this person is trands. I

835
00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 3: just don't know where it's necessary.

836
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, it doesn't seem necessary, which.

837
00:38:54,960 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 3: Of course would prevent me from doing my door dash

838
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 3: and making money while I try to land us more

839
00:38:59,080 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 3: solid job.

840
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: Really forgot about that? Oh shit, So that's like op's

841
00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 1: main income. Here's the thing.

842
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,320
Speaker 2: I pay for my car every single month.

843
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: And on time.

844
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 3: Wait, so how could they take it away? She can

845
00:39:09,560 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 3: do Your mom can do nothing. I think like legally

846
00:39:12,040 --> 00:39:14,919
Speaker 3: or you're eight nineteen. I think OPI said, you're good

847
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:18,240
Speaker 3: unless it's under their name. Not once have I asked

848
00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 3: my parents to help me with the car payments. I'm

849
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 3: doing my part to be responsible, pay my bills, get

850
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,799
Speaker 3: more money rolling in, YadA, YadA, YadA. And if you

851
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:28,520
Speaker 3: missed it, I'm legally in adults. I'm not an underage

852
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 3: girl who's in way too quick of a hurry to

853
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 3: grow up. I'm not being spontaneous. I quite literally plan

854
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 3: this months in advance. And on top of that, I've

855
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,120
Speaker 3: been talking about moving out in general since I was sixteen.

856
00:39:38,160 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 3: So it sounds like Opie straight up isn't just like, oh,

857
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:42,799
Speaker 3: like her parents bought it. It's in their name and

858
00:39:42,800 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 3: she's paying them back.

859
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,520
Speaker 2: It sounds like.

860
00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: Opie bought it. They didn't say that outright, but maybe

861
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: I meant a lot of first cars are bought by

862
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: parents and then the candibrases. Yeah, but interesting.

863
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 3: But I knew I didn't have anything close to the

864
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 3: required means at the time. My plan wasn't even to

865
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 3: specifically pick people who are part of the LGBTQ plus

866
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 3: community to move in with.

867
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 1: I hope think you should be like I need a

868
00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:11,960
Speaker 1: gay roommate. Yeah, yeah, that feels like a weird filter,

869
00:40:12,160 --> 00:40:14,160
Speaker 1: but maybe it's like you feel more comfortable, And I

870
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 1: guess I'll be saying that they're not doing that, So yeah,

871
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: interesting phrasing. That's just who my friends happen to be,

872
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,439
Speaker 1: and I honestly don't care. It neither breaks my leg

873
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,560
Speaker 1: nor picks my pockets. I have exactly zero qualms.

874
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 3: Now I'm caught in the crossroads between feeling like a

875
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 3: complete screw up slash problem child and trying to push

876
00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 3: forward because I know I deserve for good things to

877
00:40:33,760 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 3: happen to me. My mom keeps reeling me in and

878
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:38,399
Speaker 3: making me feel ridiculous, telling me that I'm acting out

879
00:40:38,440 --> 00:40:41,760
Speaker 3: of desperation and jumping at the closest opportunity I see,

880
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,239
Speaker 3: just because I didn't have many friends growing up, so

881
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 3: much screaming, crying, and claims the betrayal while I'm staying

882
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:50,680
Speaker 3: mostly stoic the whole time. Deep down inside, it hurts.

883
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 3: It hurts a no that I could be hurting my

884
00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 3: own mother. I'm having a fight with myself and my

885
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 3: mother at the same time, and I honestly did not

886
00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 3: know how much more I can take Please, someone tell

887
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 3: me I'm not crazy anyone?

888
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:04,760
Speaker 1: Wow? I mean, you're not crazy for living with this person?

889
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 3: Absolutely not. It sounds like your intention is to be

890
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 3: supportive of them.

891
00:41:09,120 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I think OPI's intention is all there, But

892
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: the way op went about it like just was just

893
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 1: not setting them up for success.

894
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 2: Again, like, why share it? Why share it in the

895
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 2: first place.

896
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: Also, if you know your mom is going to be

897
00:41:22,280 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: conservative and you know, super religious, like, you don't need

898
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:28,239
Speaker 1: to share every bit of information with your parents. Yeah,

899
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 1: one hundred percent, you don't.

900
00:41:29,320 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 5: Yah.

901
00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: I mean like you can, and like in some cases

902
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:34,840
Speaker 1: that's good, but in this case, it doesn't feel like

903
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 1: it's necessary or helpful, and it's only made your life

904
00:41:37,760 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 1: a little bit harder.

905
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,400
Speaker 2: And obviously the mom's an a hole a trillion percent.

906
00:41:41,560 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 1: What should OP do here? See if you can get

907
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: the car under your name? I think just move in?

908
00:41:45,800 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: Who cares? Yeah? Move in?

909
00:41:47,280 --> 00:41:49,080
Speaker 3: I wonder what the trans friend is doing in all

910
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 3: this if the mom is hopefully not done anything to them.

911
00:41:53,200 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 2: I would be curious for everyone down below.

912
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 3: I would love to hear your thoughts on the situation.

913
00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 3: What you would do if you've had any experiences with

914
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,319
Speaker 3: your parents, close, family, friends, whatever that didn't agree with

915
00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,239
Speaker 3: your viewpoint and you had to like, you know, stand

916
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 3: up for your friends or something like that.

917
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 1: Like how did you handle that?

918
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:11,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a tricky situation. It's very tricky situation.

919
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:13,160
Speaker 1: Let us know, and we'll talk to you too, and

920
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 1: let's get into this next story. Boo, my mother demands

921
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 1: I get her money from my book release, but I refuse.

922
00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:22,320
Speaker 1: Am I the asshole? What's about all.

923
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 3: These moms and dad is trying to trying to get

924
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:26,440
Speaker 3: in their children's pockets, and.

925
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:30,680
Speaker 1: Especially on his big book release day? Big book, I'm

926
00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:34,440
Speaker 1: a big boy, big book will be I wote a

927
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:38,200
Speaker 1: lot of woe. Well, like, give your parents your money.

928
00:42:38,239 --> 00:42:39,400
Speaker 1: I've flipped completely.

929
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:42,839
Speaker 3: Oh wow, yeah, fuck you, fuck your book money, give

930
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:43,720
Speaker 3: it all to your parents.

931
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: Damn, I'm angry. Why are you so angry? John? Because

932
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:49,879
Speaker 1: they want more words than I can. How many words

933
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:52,839
Speaker 1: can you write? Three? Three? I can't really read them.

934
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: That's true.

935
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 2: I can't write any books. What are the three words

936
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:55,919
Speaker 2: you can write?

937
00:42:56,040 --> 00:43:00,959
Speaker 1: Fuck you boy? You should practice words of non violent community. Yeah,

938
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 1: like die in a hole? Yeah. When you write a

939
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,960
Speaker 1: book about you being murdered, yeah, murder mystery except there's

940
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 1: no mystery. I killed you. I'm sorry for y'all, are

941
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: you guys? You know, sometimes we let the emotions get

942
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:14,800
Speaker 1: the best of us sometimes, so my parents have demanded

943
00:43:14,800 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 1: money from any income I've had most of my life.

944
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:19,200
Speaker 1: When I was twelve, I had a paper route that

945
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 1: I never saw a dollar from, and when I was older,

946
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 1: I constantly had to give slash loan money to them,

947
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 1: and even used an entire paycheck to help cover rent

948
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 1: more than once. I always assumed it was both, but

949
00:43:30,520 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 1: after my parents split up, my dad stopped asking for

950
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 1: money and my mom didn't, so it was obvious that

951
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,839
Speaker 1: she was the one always pushing for it. That's so lame,

952
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 1: like like you should teach your kid to make money

953
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: and like invest it in stuff, Like if you take

954
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: it away, then they never learned the value of money.

955
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 1: I just hate when parents do us. I hate it's

956
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:49,799
Speaker 1: so lame. I love my mom, don't get me wrong.

957
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: She did a lot for us right with raising me

958
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: and sibling. As much as it sucked to keep giving

959
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:56,279
Speaker 1: my own money, I felt that I had to pay

960
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: her back for everything she did. Misguided. I know, it's

961
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,839
Speaker 1: like you don't know that reality distortion field of your

962
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:04,879
Speaker 1: upbringing until you're out of it. Yeah, he probably thinks

963
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:07,279
Speaker 1: it's just normal, like, oh yeah, my parents asking for

964
00:44:07,320 --> 00:44:10,320
Speaker 1: all of my money. That's fine, but it's not normal. Actually,

965
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 1: maybe it was normal. You know what, I'm flip flopping,

966
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 1: spoiled brat. You should give parents all your money. Do

967
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:16,760
Speaker 1: you have a family restaurant? You work in the restaurant,

968
00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 1: you don't get paid. That's true. But after my parents

969
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: split up, she completely went off the deep end. She

970
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,839
Speaker 1: started doing heavy drugs and constantly going out to see men.

971
00:44:25,160 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: Oh dang, where's that pocket money going?

972
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 3: Hopefully to some birth control. I don't want a little

973
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 3: brother's fun.

974
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:36,640
Speaker 1: You do not like this. Whenever my parents have sex,

975
00:44:36,680 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 1: my dad always is like, Sam, you're gonna get a

976
00:44:38,920 --> 00:44:42,520
Speaker 1: little baby brother soon. Wow. You remember when we talked.

977
00:44:42,320 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 3: About things in families that seemed normal to you and

978
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:47,359
Speaker 3: aren't normal to anyone else.

979
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: Anyway. I try not to judge her, guys, don't judge me.

980
00:44:51,920 --> 00:44:53,879
Speaker 1: But it all came to a head when I brought

981
00:44:53,920 --> 00:44:56,920
Speaker 1: my sons over for a family Thanksgiving years ago, and

982
00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,840
Speaker 1: she literally spent the entire day in her room with

983
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:04,279
Speaker 1: two guys getting a tattoo that I never saw. Is

984
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,879
Speaker 1: that what they're calling it these days? All right, here's

985
00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: the situation. Two guys, tiny dicks, right, yeah, one girl. Yeah,

986
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 1: they're poking her with her tiny dicks. Yeah, a little

987
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: needle dicks. That's what they call getting a tattoo. And

988
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: they make like actual art out of it. It only

989
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: shows up in the black lit oh of course. Yeah. Now,

990
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: she has no stable income or home and claims to

991
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,600
Speaker 1: be going to rehab every few months and as a

992
00:45:26,600 --> 00:45:29,080
Speaker 1: new boyfriend, every time I hear an update from her,

993
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 1: she never makes an effort or time to see me

994
00:45:31,960 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: or my family, including my seven year old son that

995
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,880
Speaker 1: she has never met. Oh. So, I've almost done writing

996
00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 1: a book. It's nothing spectacular, but I'm proud of it

997
00:45:40,200 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 1: and some people might even like it. I've been posting

998
00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:45,280
Speaker 1: it on Facebook to my friends and family for people

999
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:47,440
Speaker 1: to help me review it and give their thoughts, a

1000
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 1: process that has taken a couple of years, and to

1001
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 1: no one's surprise, she has done nothing to help with

1002
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: I plan to publish soon, and so I get a

1003
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:57,279
Speaker 1: message from her out of the blue saying, with the

1004
00:45:57,360 --> 00:45:59,600
Speaker 1: money you get from your book, you can help me

1005
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,279
Speaker 1: make sure I have a great Christmas with me and

1006
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend's names kids. I've shrugged off similar messages from her

1007
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: in the past, but this one really set me off.

1008
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 1: All I said was no, any money I make goes

1009
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 1: to my family. Oh, and I wanted to say so

1010
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: much more. She's still in contact with my siblings, so

1011
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 1: I don't want to upset her and Cosmo drama. What

1012
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to say was I'm an amateur author doing

1013
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:26,919
Speaker 1: their first book. This won't make much, if anything at all,

1014
00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: and on the off chance I hit the proverbial lottery

1015
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 1: and people like it more than I'm expecting, I still

1016
00:46:32,520 --> 00:46:35,279
Speaker 1: won't give you a cent. My wife deserves help bring

1017
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:37,880
Speaker 1: in money for our family. My kids deserve a good education.

1018
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: And I have friends that say sup every couple of

1019
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: weeks and ask about my children more than you do,

1020
00:46:43,239 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 1: so I would give them money before you. So you

1021
00:46:46,040 --> 00:46:48,279
Speaker 1: f your boyfriend f his kids that you care about

1022
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: more than your own grandparents. I just wanted to get

1023
00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:55,000
Speaker 1: this off my chest and thank you, Op coming in hot.

1024
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:58,240
Speaker 1: Op is a wordsmith. What can I say that is true?

1025
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:00,920
Speaker 1: You know, write this book? Yeah, publish it right now.

1026
00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:03,680
Speaker 1: We'll read it and you'll probably get more hits on

1027
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: this than your book. There we go.

1028
00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 3: I do have to say, if the mom is optimizing

1029
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 3: to grift and just siphon as much money off of

1030
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 3: Opie as possible a first time self published book release.

1031
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: Maybe not the most effective. Roots low key like op

1032
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: probably got a ton of traction on this Reddit post.

1033
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 1: What if it's a marketing strategy thinking the exact same thing.

1034
00:47:26,320 --> 00:47:28,680
Speaker 1: That's kind of genius, Riley, pull up the link. What

1035
00:47:28,760 --> 00:47:31,520
Speaker 1: if someone asks, hey, what's the book? And he links

1036
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:32,280
Speaker 1: it in the comments?

1037
00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 3: That's what I would do if I had a self

1038
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 3: published book, I would write a ton of crazy Reddit

1039
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,799
Speaker 3: stories and then and then just mention a book but

1040
00:47:38,880 --> 00:47:39,879
Speaker 3: not say anything about it.

1041
00:47:40,000 --> 00:47:42,240
Speaker 1: Wow. And then I would respond saying, what's the book?

1042
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: That is genius? Wow, we're cooking yo, let it come out.

1043
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:50,839
Speaker 1: Let's let's give OPI a shout out. Yeah, let's do it.

1044
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 1: Arch Blade the legend of the defiler defiling What I think, dude,

1045
00:47:56,560 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: I think we've been hoodwinked. Hey you know what game

1046
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: wreaking nine game recognized game. You got us? You got us?

1047
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: Fucking all right, we're plugging arch arch Blade or double Tiler,

1048
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:09,719
Speaker 1: fuck you, fuck you.

1049
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 3: She fucking got us multiple people are asking about the book.

1050
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 1: I think it's a great way to out of it.

1051
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: It's genius. It's a genius absolutely fuck all right, yeah,

1052
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,759
Speaker 1: we got got game recognized game all right, but let's

1053
00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:23,680
Speaker 1: get into the game of this next story. Let's do it.

1054
00:48:24,600 --> 00:48:26,480
Speaker 3: Am I the a hole for not letting my son

1055
00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:29,560
Speaker 3: go to his bio dad's one year sober ceremony just

1056
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 3: so we can show off what a great daddy is?

1057
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 3: What does he deserve some kind of metal for sobriety?

1058
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: Wow?

1059
00:48:35,520 --> 00:48:38,799
Speaker 3: Never heard of that before? And as you shouldn't. Yeah,

1060
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:39,759
Speaker 3: that's that's true.

1061
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 1: That's a good thing. I shouldn't.

1062
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 2: This is one of those stories. I feel like it

1063
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 2: could go. You could go two ways.

1064
00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 1: I twenty three female, have a son three with a man,

1065
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 1: twenty three male. Just recently, his bio dad asked for

1066
00:48:49,960 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: him to be at his one year certificate ceremony. I

1067
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 1: expressed how uncomfortable I was going with him. And I've

1068
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:58,919
Speaker 1: asked multiple family members on their thoughts, and they said

1069
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,960
Speaker 1: that I'm being selfish for not allowing my son to go.

1070
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:05,239
Speaker 1: So the biodad is the twenty three year old, she

1071
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,680
Speaker 1: just has a kid with him, but is not with him.

1072
00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:08,600
Speaker 1: Right now yet.

1073
00:49:08,680 --> 00:49:11,640
Speaker 3: Okay, So the man she's with right now is not

1074
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:13,320
Speaker 3: the father of the kid.

1075
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 2: The kids, she's not with the kid's dad anymore.

1076
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:17,839
Speaker 1: No, I don't know if she's with anyone right now,

1077
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: she says a kid.

1078
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 3: Ah, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, okay yea yep, that

1079
00:49:21,880 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 3: makes sense.

1080
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:23,280
Speaker 1: So a little backstory.

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Speaker 3: I got pregnant with my son in twenty nineteen when

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Speaker 3: I was nineteen years old.

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Speaker 1: His biofather, that is early. That is early.

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Speaker 3: His biofather was a closeted alcoholic and hid it from

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Speaker 3: me until the time my son was born, and in

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Speaker 3: twenty twenty I eventually left him before my son was

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Speaker 3: born and I moved in with my parents.

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Speaker 1: Everything went downhill from there.

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Speaker 3: Since the start of COVID, my parents were really strict

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Speaker 3: with COVID rules regarding holding my son. My son's bio

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Speaker 3: dad did not like those rules, and that's when the

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Speaker 3: yelling and screaming at me would begin. In twenty twenty one,

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Speaker 3: I met someone else and moved out of my parents' house.

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Speaker 3: The original biodad and I have ended things a while ago,

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Speaker 3: and my current partner still helps me raise my son.

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Speaker 3: Everything a dad is supposed to do but my son's

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Speaker 3: biodad legally abandoned my son after starting to drink and

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Speaker 3: he started using substances.

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Speaker 1: Legally abandoned. I like that. Yeah, I guess do they

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Speaker 1: sign the paperwork just like, Hey, this is not my

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Speaker 1: kid and I'm literally abandoning you. I mean, so, have

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Speaker 1: you legally abandoned? Is that when you have to try

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Speaker 1: to pay child support? I'm guessing legally abandoning is basically

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Speaker 1: completely waiving your rights to the child kind of I

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Speaker 1: would you still have to pay child support? Probably? I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Yeah, it's probably like like if he came

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Speaker 1: back on you specifically agree on not doing that. I

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Speaker 1: think it's like, oh, I want to see him for

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Speaker 1: the weekends. No, you've waived your right as a doubt.

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Speaker 1: He as of last year, went to a program to

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Speaker 1: help him get his life together. But anytime I have

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Speaker 1: a conversation with him, he's only wanting to talk about

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Speaker 1: how much he misses being with me and how much

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Speaker 1: he regrets taking my love and kindness for granted. I've

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Speaker 1: tried to make ways for him to build a relationship

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Speaker 1: with my son without my son getting confused, as my

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Speaker 1: son does not understand that his Biode is his dad, but.

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Speaker 3: He calls someone else dad. I'm guessing her current partner. Hmmm,

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Speaker 3: that's confusing for the kid.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is right. He asked me to let my

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Speaker 1: son go to his ceremony to show off how great

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Speaker 1: of a dad he is when he knows nothing about

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Speaker 1: my son. So basically the bio dad is like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm a year sober. Let my son come so I

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Speaker 1: can have a relationship with him. But yeah, he waived

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Speaker 1: his rights as a parent. He legally abandoned. Legally abandoning.

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing that's waving the rights right. And I'm guessing

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Speaker 1: he's not paying child support. We don't know, we don't know.

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Speaker 3: He keeps telling me how great of a dad he'll

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Speaker 3: be and that he's worthy to be in my son's

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Speaker 3: life as a dad. His actions don't allie with his words,

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Speaker 3: and when I ask him how he's going to back

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Speaker 3: his words up to match his actions, he just says

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Speaker 3: the same thing of how he'll be a great dad.

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Speaker 1: I mean, a year sober is a step, definitely a

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Speaker 1: big step step. Yeah, there's definitely a lot other stuff

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Speaker 1: that needs to happen, but a year sober, like I

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Speaker 1: would look at that if I was the mother and

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Speaker 1: be like, hey, like, you know, there's some progress here.

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Speaker 2: It's totally a big step.

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Speaker 3: And I do think that a big step like that

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Speaker 3: definitely deserves some real, like, you know, a positive response.

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Speaker 1: It's a little token.

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Speaker 3: Probably The challenge here is I guess the trust has

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Speaker 3: been broken of like having him as like a father

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Speaker 3: figure since he legally abandoned so.

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Speaker 1: And I mean we know this much. Yeah, I'm sure

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Speaker 1: there's more under this, probably a nice word, more that

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Speaker 1: he's not doing good and good and bad that we

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Speaker 1: that we don't know.

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Speaker 3: I've recently told him that he can't just say he'll

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Speaker 3: be a great dad. He needs to show me and

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Speaker 3: not tell me. And when he doesn't get his way,

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Speaker 3: he stops contact for months at a time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, bro, you're not ready, get the fuck out of here.

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Speaker 1: Throw your coin in a fucking ditch.

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Speaker 3: So am I the a hole for not letting my

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Speaker 3: son go to his biodad's one year certificate update? I

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Speaker 3: realized that I need to add some context here. My

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Speaker 3: son's biodad will only contact me when he wants to

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Speaker 3: be praised for being a dad. Yes, he got sober,

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Speaker 3: but he chooses not to be a part of my

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Speaker 3: son's life. He only wants to see him when he

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Speaker 3: knows he gets praise out of it. I've been raising

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Speaker 3: my son without my son's biodad since the day that

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Speaker 3: my son was born. When he doesn't get his way,

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Speaker 3: he stops responding, he stops communicating. Last time I had

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Speaker 3: contacted him in regards to the ceremony, he had wanted

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Speaker 3: his mom to take my son, and I.

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Speaker 1: Was not comfortable with that.

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Speaker 3: My son does not know his grandma very well, and

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Speaker 3: we do try to get him to know her, just

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Speaker 3: our schedules don't always line up, as I work and

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Speaker 3: I go to school and she runs her own business.

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Speaker 3: And number two, he'll be around a lot of people

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Speaker 3: he doesn't know and would get overwhelmed. And when I

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Speaker 3: expressed how uncomfortable I was with that, he stopped communicating.

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Speaker 3: Only message I got from him was have a blessed day. Previously,

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Speaker 3: he hadn't texted me after my son's third birthday, which

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Speaker 3: was in April, and then he didn't text me until

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Speaker 3: before Father's Day with a message saying how since his

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Speaker 3: Father's Day? How is my kid doing. He's never asked

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Speaker 3: what my son is into what his likes are, his dislikes,

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Speaker 3: how school's going for him. My son is super smart,

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Speaker 3: and I love being able to brag about that. He

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Speaker 3: never takes any interest unless it's going to allow him

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Speaker 3: to get praise for not doing anything, just simply claiming

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Speaker 3: that he's a dad, and that's not what being a

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Speaker 3: dad should be. He hasn't changed just because he got sober.

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Speaker 3: He's the same inconsistent person that he was before he

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Speaker 3: got sober.

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Speaker 1: So am I the a hole? So basically the question

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Speaker 1: is is she the a hole for not allowing this

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Speaker 1: biological dad who legally gave up rights to the child

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Speaker 1: from entering into the child's life. Yes, And also on

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Speaker 1: top of that, he's like not really making an effort

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Speaker 1: besides wanting praise for certain things. Yeah, it seems like

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Speaker 1: he's like wanting to get back with op now and

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Speaker 1: he's kind of like, oh, hey, like let me try

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Speaker 1: to look good in her eyes by like, yeah, doing

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Speaker 1: things with He's not even really trying to make something

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Speaker 1: work with the sun exactly. It feels like performative. I

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Speaker 1: think that's exactly. I think, like, yes, the soberness is

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Speaker 1: a step towards the right direction. I think I think

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Speaker 1: there needs to be consistency. The fact that he's not

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Speaker 1: responding for months at a time, it's crazy red flag.

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Speaker 1: That's absolutely insane. But I want to know what everyone

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Speaker 1: else would do. Put your answers below.

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Speaker 1: We love when our community submit stories directly here absolutely sentiment.

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Speaker 1: We might just read it on the next one. My

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Speaker 1: brother ruined my wedding by proposing at it at him.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to ruin his wedding, am I the asshole? Look,

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Speaker 3: let's go tit for tat, tit for tat? You know,

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Speaker 3: tit for Oh? I was going to say tip for tit,

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Speaker 3: tit for tit. Yeah, that's what I was going to say.

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Speaker 3: That's actually a much better It's like literally the same thing, yeah, right,

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Speaker 3: like it not a tatt. I don't know what a

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Speaker 3: tatt is. I have no idea what a tat. I

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Speaker 3: know it's like one titty for one tattoo. Like I

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Speaker 3: give you a tattoo, I give you a titty, you

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Speaker 3: give me a tattoo. It has to be titty for

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Speaker 3: titty because that's a trick tattoo. That's just like our

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Speaker 3: temporary tattoos or forever. That's exactly right. I think, I

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Speaker 3: think we got to go for it. Here more all

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Speaker 3: of the story.

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Speaker 1: So, I thirty five male, have a younger brother, Todd

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Speaker 1: twenty nine male, who had a complicated birth and had

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Speaker 1: to stay a month in the ICU. And because of that,

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Speaker 1: my parents have always doated on him and almost denied

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Speaker 1: him nothing, even if it was to the detriment of

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Speaker 1: my sister Abby thirty two female, and I it's tough

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Speaker 1: just because he was a little weakling baby suddenly gets

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Speaker 1: everything for the rest of him. Like wow, My brother

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Speaker 1: drinks in on the attention and has on more than

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Speaker 1: one occasion, made himself the center of attention at either

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Speaker 1: my my sister's or a cousin's special event.

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Speaker 3: Come on, man, you got you gotta share. The shot

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00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:40,800
Speaker 3: man loves all the shine on him. He loves you,

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00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:44,120
Speaker 3: wants the spotlight. He's just soaking up that mighty natural

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Speaker 3: born celebrity. That's true, become kim Ka. I mean he

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00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 3: looked at all the attention he got from birth up

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Speaker 3: until now. I mean that was a lot of let's

1249
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Speaker 3: put into overdrive, floor the gas.

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Speaker 1: Because of this, Abby and I have a strained relationship

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Speaker 1: with Todd in our parents. Unfortunately, Todd met and fell

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Speaker 1: in love with Lucy twenty four female, who announced her

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Speaker 1: own pregnancy at the baby shower my.

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Speaker 3: Mom held for Abby. I also love how she said.

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Speaker 3: Unfortunately my brother fell in love. Unfortunately, my brother is happy.

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Speaker 3: I guess he found it out. Does he get whatever

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Speaker 3: he wants, but he gets happiness as well. Fuck you, Todd,

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Speaker 3: God damn. But like bro like announcing announcing your pregnant

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Speaker 3: a someone's baby shower.

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Speaker 1: So tacky, so tacky. On when I proposed to my wife,

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Speaker 1: Michelle thirty female, I just wanted to elope, but she

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Speaker 1: really wanted her family to be there, so I invited

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Speaker 1: my family out of obligation. While out, my best man,

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Speaker 1: Jim thirty five male, noticed a receipt from a jewelry

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Speaker 1: store slipped out of Todd's pocket. Jim confronted Todd about this,

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Speaker 1: which led to an argument. Jim told me everything and

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Speaker 1: I told Todd that he was no longer groomsman because

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Speaker 1: I knew he was going to propose at my wedding.

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Speaker 1: They just know how much of an asshole Todd is.

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Speaker 3: Imagining right now. They're like, does anyone have any objections?

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Speaker 3: And be like, yes, I object to not being married

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Speaker 3: to my love.

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Speaker 6: Darling on this stage pushes like op over, push his

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Speaker 6: wife over, like hey, I'm gonna let you finish, but

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Speaker 6: can I take this stage for a second.

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Speaker 3: And then he's like, you know what, let's do this

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Speaker 3: right now? Efficient, come on over here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want this wedding quick. I mean, all my

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Speaker 1: friends and family are here. Might as well get a

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Speaker 1: don I might as well do it right now, right

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Speaker 1: to for one special But let me go first? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: god Todd right to our parents, which led to a

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Speaker 1: blowout in my parents' eyes. Since Todd never admitted that

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Speaker 1: he was going to propose to Lucy at my wedding,

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Speaker 1: I was unfairly judging him. I refused and brought up

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Speaker 1: Todd's past behavior. My parents couldn't refute this and got

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Speaker 1: Todd to agree to not try anything at my wedding.

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Speaker 1: When is that ever? Stopt Todd? This wasn't enough to

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Speaker 1: convince me to let him be a groomsman, but I

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Speaker 1: warned him that if as a guest he tried anything,

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Speaker 1: I would make him regret. It will make you suffer.

1292
00:59:08,760 --> 00:59:12,960
Speaker 1: Fast forward to the wedding and surprise, surprise, Todd walked

1293
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 1: over to Lucy and proposed to her during Michelle's Father

1294
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:21,160
Speaker 1: Daughter Dance. No, and did it in a way so

1295
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:23,040
Speaker 1: that everyone would notice.

1296
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:27,560
Speaker 3: What the fuck You've got to be fucking kidding me, Todd?

1297
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 1: What an asshole.

1298
00:59:28,720 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 2: They're so clearly doing this on purpose.

1299
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 1: It's painful. Cue my revenge. Jim and I hired a

1300
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: woman to pretend to be Todd's side piece, who cornered

1301
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: Todd and Lucy and claimed that she was pregnant with

1302
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: his baby. Todd denied this, but when she called his phone,

1303
00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,680
Speaker 1: I gave her his number and messed with Todd's phone

1304
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: to incriminate him. It didn't look good. What so it

1305
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 1: seems like what happened is op was like, I know

1306
00:59:55,880 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: Todd's gonna propose. I'm going to hire an actor to

1307
00:59:58,840 --> 01:00:02,680
Speaker 1: come to the wedd fuck with Todd's phone, and if

1308
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:05,480
Speaker 1: he does propose, have the actor like activate like a

1309
01:00:05,520 --> 01:00:08,400
Speaker 1: sleeper cell agent. Fucking brilliant. Wow he really did did

1310
01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 1: go for Yeah, my god, that is level seven just

1311
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: like payback A thousand Schedule four payback. Yes, it's illegal

1312
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 1: in most countries and in most states. Mock five, baby

1313
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 1: fucking why man? Okay. Lucy threw the ring back at

1314
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:30,840
Speaker 1: Todd and left in tears. Oh my god, when Todd

1315
01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: saw the smile on my face, he knew that it

1316
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:35,560
Speaker 1: was me. And I didn't respond to a single call

1317
01:00:35,760 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 1: or text from him or my parents until after the honeymoon.

1318
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: Oh his life, striking, vacationing and bali with a coconut,

1319
01:00:44,160 --> 01:00:48,920
Speaker 1: live in life, live in lavish, breathing air. I know

1320
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 1: somehow I'm gonna get there and be so wonderful, baby

1321
01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:58,840
Speaker 1: be I know so how gonna get there, m be

1322
01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:06,280
Speaker 1: so wonder fool. It's all For'm telling you just how

1323
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: I feel. So wake money. It's your time to be.

1324
01:01:13,320 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 5: There's no chances, there's you take one and tennessee eya

1325
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:29,000
Speaker 5: leave the rest of me.

1326
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:35,360
Speaker 1: Leave it off to me, Just leave it to me.

1327
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 1: Lucy has thrown Todd's stuff out and has been denying

1328
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: access to their kid. Todd is furious and is demanding

1329
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: that I clear his name. I sent him a text

1330
01:01:47,240 --> 01:01:49,920
Speaker 1: that I had no idea what he was talking about,

1331
01:01:50,200 --> 01:01:52,800
Speaker 1: as well as a screenshot of a bill for the wedding,

1332
01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 1: and gave a vague message demanding reimbursement for half the

1333
01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:59,680
Speaker 1: wedding cost. Michelle knew the whole time what I was

1334
01:01:59,720 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 1: playing and gave me the green light after Todd ruined

1335
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:05,680
Speaker 1: her moment with her dad. So I felt pretty good.

1336
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 1: But now even Abby thinks I went too far? So

1337
01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 1: did Opie go too far? Is op the a hole?

1338
01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:16,680
Speaker 1: Put your answers below? But what do you think, John

1339
01:02:18,400 --> 01:02:21,000
Speaker 1: fucking next level revenge?

1340
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 3: I do think Opie went too far, Like you just

1341
01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:25,720
Speaker 3: can't stoop to their level.

1342
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:27,040
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, like to.

1343
01:02:27,040 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 3: That degree, it's crazy because of things like this can happen.

1344
01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:36,880
Speaker 3: It's so smart though it's dastard absolutely like this fucking

1345
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:38,760
Speaker 3: sleeper cell agent shit is.

1346
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:44,080
Speaker 1: I mean when Todd proposes like respect, you know what

1347
01:02:44,080 --> 01:02:44,479
Speaker 1: I mean?

1348
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:47,920
Speaker 3: But too much? It's kind of too much. I mean,

1349
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 3: they're both. I think they're about the asshole. I think

1350
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,200
Speaker 3: well because right Also, it's like the thing that the

1351
01:02:54,240 --> 01:02:58,320
Speaker 3: thing that sucks is to Lucy is caught in the crosshairs,

1352
01:02:58,360 --> 01:02:59,360
Speaker 3: like Lucy didn't do anything.

1353
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 2: No, Lucy announced her pregnancy.

1354
01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:05,920
Speaker 1: Fuck Lucy? Right, fuck Lucy too? Yep? Right? Exactly, well,

1355
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,880
Speaker 1: did Lucy announce it or did Todd just announce Lucy?

1356
01:03:10,000 --> 01:03:12,000
Speaker 1: From my men, I think it said like Lucy announced

1357
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,960
Speaker 1: it at the baby shower, right, okay? Okay, so they

1358
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 1: both suck, Yes, they both suck. Okay, so I think yes,

1359
01:03:19,720 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: they went too far. But I think what they should

1360
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,760
Speaker 1: have done is just said it was it was a

1361
01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: prank right after.

1362
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 3: Of course, And also, like, is there a slight tw

1363
01:03:29,400 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 3: I love the sleeper cell agent. Is there a slight

1364
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:35,760
Speaker 3: twist that doesn't like destroy everything?

1365
01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:36,600
Speaker 1: Is my question?

1366
01:03:36,680 --> 01:03:38,880
Speaker 2: I can't think of one right now, but like, is

1367
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:39,920
Speaker 2: there an angle?

1368
01:03:40,280 --> 01:03:44,360
Speaker 1: This is what I would do. Wedding videographer doubling as

1369
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:50,040
Speaker 1: a YouTube video videographer YouTube video videographer is filming the prank.

1370
01:03:50,520 --> 01:03:52,600
Speaker 1: They immediately after the prank is done and they get

1371
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:54,680
Speaker 1: the reaction, say it's a prank, But then they have

1372
01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 1: video evidence of Todd being an asshole forever release it passiving.

1373
01:04:00,280 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 3: That's true, they should, yeah, I guess if they so,

1374
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:06,120
Speaker 3: they didn't say it was a prank ever, No, okay, yeah,

1375
01:04:06,200 --> 01:04:08,440
Speaker 3: that was what Yeah, if they if they said that.

1376
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 1: If they said it was a prank, then absolved.

1377
01:04:10,520 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, for some reason, I was like thought that they

1378
01:04:12,800 --> 01:04:15,360
Speaker 3: had said that, but obviously not because Lucy's still so pissed.

1379
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:19,080
Speaker 3: So yeah, definitely say it's a prank immediately and then

1380
01:04:19,120 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 3: be like, and that's why you don't propose at my wedding.

1381
01:04:23,360 --> 01:04:28,040
Speaker 1: Yep, yeah, give it one arm arrested development lesson. That's right,

1382
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 1: that's a solution. Genius, genius genius.

1383
01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 3: Well what would you do? Do you think OP went too far?

1384
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 3: Let us know below. Let's get into the next story.

1385
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:39,880
Speaker 3: My brother proposed at my wedding, so I decided to

1386
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:40,640
Speaker 3: fire him.

1387
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? Well? Did you look at that?

1388
01:04:43,360 --> 01:04:49,640
Speaker 3: Another case, another scenario of siblings proposing at weddings where

1389
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:51,800
Speaker 3: they have no business doing that.

1390
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's true too. It's like, I guess OP

1391
01:04:54,840 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 1: is employing their sibling, so you have ultimate control. Bro.

1392
01:04:58,360 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 1: That's so bad, Like.

1393
01:04:59,480 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 3: Not only is at your family member, but they're they're

1394
01:05:02,440 --> 01:05:05,479
Speaker 3: controlling your livelihood and can just maybe maybe that's why

1395
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 3: the brother thinks he can get away with it, because.

1396
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,680
Speaker 1: Like, oh, I'm family, Like he can't touch me. He

1397
01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:14,200
Speaker 1: can't touch me, bro, But maybe you're gonna be touched.

1398
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 1: You're not gonna like it. Let's get into it, okay,

1399
01:05:19,400 --> 01:05:22,760
Speaker 1: hope nice. A bit of background.

1400
01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:24,959
Speaker 3: I own a publishing company and I hired my brother

1401
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 3: three years ago.

1402
01:05:26,200 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 1: He was jobless. He was a deadbeat loser, and so

1403
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:33,200
Speaker 1: I had to pull him up by his bootstrapps resurrected

1404
01:05:33,240 --> 01:05:36,760
Speaker 1: his life for the life he needed it. God, he's

1405
01:05:36,760 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: in the sewer, discarded human. But I just clean him

1406
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 1: up and just you know, like an oozing man.

1407
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:45,160
Speaker 3: I blessed him with everything he has, and he's an

1408
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:47,000
Speaker 3: internal debt to me. Yeah.

1409
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:53,040
Speaker 1: God shit his job, but at least he's out the streets. Yeah,

1410
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:53,680
Speaker 1: he sucks.

1411
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:58,560
Speaker 3: I hate my brother. Yeah, my brother sucks. He's off,

1412
01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 3: He's useless, garbage. I want to kill but I want

1413
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:02,440
Speaker 3: to employ him to have leverage over him so I

1414
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:03,960
Speaker 3: can do bad things to him.

1415
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:06,080
Speaker 1: I want to fire him so he kills himself. Yeah.

1416
01:06:06,160 --> 01:06:08,320
Speaker 1: Who damn, we went dark with that one.

1417
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:12,040
Speaker 3: I hired my brother three years ago and I offered

1418
01:06:12,080 --> 01:06:14,120
Speaker 3: for him to come and work for me. He was

1419
01:06:14,160 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 3: twenty two at the time and is now looking to

1420
01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:19,000
Speaker 3: become a master plumber and start his own business.

1421
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 1: Is your brother Mario? Or is he Johnny sins Hey,

1422
01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:29,600
Speaker 1: I heard he had some pipes that need cleaning. I'm

1423
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,480
Speaker 1: a pizza delivery slast plumber, and I got.

1424
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 3: An extra large sausage to fuck your toilets unclogged. Yeah,

1425
01:06:38,600 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 3: oh good gravy.

1426
01:06:39,680 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 1: Riley loves that, now, don't you? Producer Riley?

1427
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:45,840
Speaker 3: Now, at my wedding, in which he was the best man,

1428
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:49,720
Speaker 3: he decided that during his speech he would give us

1429
01:06:49,800 --> 01:06:54,560
Speaker 3: all a big surprise. So he decided to propose to

1430
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 3: his longtime girlfriend right there during the speech.

1431
01:06:58,520 --> 01:07:01,520
Speaker 1: During his speech at his own brother's wedding. Wait, the

1432
01:07:01,560 --> 01:07:04,240
Speaker 1: speech is supposed to be for the people getting married.

1433
01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:06,840
Speaker 1: Where do these people get the idea that this is

1434
01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: that this is good? I mean, like I understand it.

1435
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:11,600
Speaker 1: It's like, oh my god, I'm surrounded by so much

1436
01:07:11,640 --> 01:07:15,200
Speaker 1: love my family. But it's like read the room, Read

1437
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 1: the freaking room.

1438
01:07:16,280 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 3: That's a great time to like do like a like

1439
01:07:18,800 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 3: a heartwarming gift or something like, hey, we are getting married.

1440
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, for the people getting married, like.

1441
01:07:23,920 --> 01:07:26,400
Speaker 1: It's their day. Not take that away from them.

1442
01:07:26,320 --> 01:07:31,880
Speaker 3: Unless I completely steal all the attention, spotlight and just

1443
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 3: hijack your moment.

1444
01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 1: That's true, you could do that I can hijack that moment.

1445
01:07:36,240 --> 01:07:38,800
Speaker 1: I can hijack that moment, and I wouldn't be able

1446
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 1: to stop you.

1447
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:42,840
Speaker 3: I am proposing at Sam's wedding. Get ready read a

1448
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 3: story a while. It's gonna be a minute. Actually, Sam

1449
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:50,520
Speaker 3: might try to beat me to the punch. I don't know, man,

1450
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:53,080
Speaker 3: But then I'll all propose again. I'm going to try

1451
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 3: to be alone for a while.

1452
01:07:54,520 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 1: There we go.

1453
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:58,560
Speaker 3: Sam's gonna move to Vietnam and what's the movie where

1454
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:01,040
Speaker 3: the guys in Vietnam? But he for gets that the

1455
01:08:01,080 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 3: wars over the story of a guy.

1456
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:06,080
Speaker 1: You know, I'm talking about clips now Apocalypse. I'm going

1457
01:08:06,160 --> 01:08:09,160
Speaker 1: to be like the guy who dies in Vietnam from

1458
01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:11,880
Speaker 1: a land mine. With a land mine is my beating heart.

1459
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:13,360
Speaker 1: That's I got to explode.

1460
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:16,559
Speaker 3: We're back to the sad the sad section of Sam

1461
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:18,879
Speaker 3: Sam's Love Chronicles, Yep, Ladies and gentlemen.

1462
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:21,520
Speaker 1: Riley said, I have to be alone, he said.

1463
01:08:21,280 --> 01:08:27,400
Speaker 3: He Riley Riley's said that I have to just rip

1464
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 3: my heart out and throw it on the ground. Just

1465
01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:33,120
Speaker 3: turn off all your emotions, step on it, step on it.

1466
01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:35,680
Speaker 3: You can't have love, basically, yeah, love. The moral of

1467
01:08:35,760 --> 01:08:36,920
Speaker 3: the story just a big lover.

1468
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:40,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, just a big lover. I just love the love.

1469
01:08:40,360 --> 01:08:42,439
Speaker 1: Yep yep.

1470
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:47,080
Speaker 2: Riley wants Sam to be alone, destitute.

1471
01:08:46,439 --> 01:08:49,000
Speaker 1: Destitute, A prostitute.

1472
01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:52,559
Speaker 3: A prostitute for himself because he can't get with anybody man.

1473
01:08:52,600 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 1: A prostitute for one. That's that's that's no fun. I

1474
01:08:55,240 --> 01:08:58,559
Speaker 1: can only give head to himself, to myself. I have

1475
01:08:58,560 --> 01:08:59,599
Speaker 1: to take out a few ribs.

1476
01:09:00,680 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 3: New skill though, new skill towards unlocked, something to preoccupy

1477
01:09:04,160 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 3: your time.

1478
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:07,360
Speaker 1: That's true. While you're in it alone to do yoga

1479
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:07,800
Speaker 1: though too.

1480
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:11,400
Speaker 2: There you go, yoga, suck your own dick.

1481
01:09:12,080 --> 01:09:13,479
Speaker 1: At least I have something to work towards it.

1482
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:15,599
Speaker 3: At least you have a goal top it, so don't

1483
01:09:15,600 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 3: work for We came in a positive guys. Me and

1484
01:09:20,280 --> 01:09:23,759
Speaker 3: my girlfriend were appalled. We both feel like he stole

1485
01:09:23,840 --> 01:09:26,639
Speaker 3: the shine from our day. Everyone else in our family

1486
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:29,679
Speaker 3: was so excited and kept taking pictures with her looking

1487
01:09:29,720 --> 01:09:30,719
Speaker 3: at the ring, et cetera.

1488
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 1: Oh that is just twisting the nice speech. Are you

1489
01:09:35,400 --> 01:09:35,920
Speaker 1: kidding me?

1490
01:09:36,360 --> 01:09:36,599
Speaker 2: God?

1491
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:37,000
Speaker 1: Damn.

1492
01:09:37,240 --> 01:09:41,280
Speaker 3: I decided to fire him the very next day. Damn

1493
01:09:42,439 --> 01:09:48,240
Speaker 3: deserved interesting. He still doesn't understand why. He claims I'm

1494
01:09:48,280 --> 01:09:51,960
Speaker 3: being selfish and irrational, and our parents agree. They're saying

1495
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:55,559
Speaker 3: that business should be separate from our personal lives. But

1496
01:09:55,600 --> 01:09:58,000
Speaker 3: I just can't overlook what he did and how he

1497
01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:02,280
Speaker 3: ruined our day. Am I overthinking this? We do have

1498
01:10:02,439 --> 01:10:06,320
Speaker 3: a series of edits, But I have to ask everybody

1499
01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:12,040
Speaker 3: watching right now, please tell me is OP overreacting?

1500
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:14,519
Speaker 1: Sam? You know one thing I love about you? I

1501
01:10:14,560 --> 01:10:16,679
Speaker 1: have bodacious body. Yeah, you do have a bodacious bod

1502
01:10:16,880 --> 01:10:18,600
Speaker 1: that it has a lot of food. I'm trying to

1503
01:10:18,600 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 1: get thick.

1504
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 3: You're trying to get thick with three seeds. You want

1505
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Speaker 3: I see what the parents are saying when it's like

1532
01:11:38,640 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 3: keeping business. Yeah, and they love life stuff the personal

1533
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 3: life separate. However, like, is the brother even a good employee?

1534
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:51,679
Speaker 3: It sounds like he was hired only because he's family,

1535
01:11:52,080 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 3: not because he's actually good at a job.

1536
01:11:53,720 --> 01:11:57,280
Speaker 1: He was a jobless good punk exactly. So if you're

1537
01:11:57,320 --> 01:12:01,240
Speaker 1: like sewer. Rats. If you're trying to really just keep

1538
01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:05,360
Speaker 1: personal life and business separate, then let's keep them all

1539
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:08,480
Speaker 1: the way separate. You're not my brother, you're my employee,

1540
01:12:08,720 --> 01:12:10,679
Speaker 1: and you're not doing a good job, so you're fired.

1541
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 1: The timing is just very unfortunate times to tie it

1542
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,400
Speaker 1: to that, to that event. Here's my here's my question.

1543
01:12:19,000 --> 01:12:24,000
Speaker 3: If this was a purely like no family relation coworker

1544
01:12:24,240 --> 01:12:26,759
Speaker 3: who did this to like a coworker's.

1545
01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:28,760
Speaker 1: Well, probably it would probably be some kind of like

1546
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:32,160
Speaker 1: violation of some kind of labor law.

1547
01:12:32,520 --> 01:12:34,759
Speaker 2: Right, That's that's what I'm That's what I'm wondering.

1548
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 1: I I don't know.

1549
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:39,080
Speaker 3: Maybe I feel like, you know, a personal dispute led

1550
01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 3: to a firing, Like is that like legally speaking?

1551
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:45,639
Speaker 1: I don't know, Riley, what do you think? Probably illegal?

1552
01:12:46,400 --> 01:12:49,080
Speaker 1: Pull it up? Can I fire someone for ruining my

1553
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:52,559
Speaker 1: personal life? Yeah? Wait here a question? Can I fire

1554
01:12:52,720 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 1: an employe for fucking my wife? Now? That's personal, that's personal.

1555
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:59,960
Speaker 1: That's personal. Let's see. Let me look.

1556
01:13:00,320 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 3: But well, so like in a like if someone was

1557
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,400
Speaker 3: like assaulted something like that, right, like that makes sense.

1558
01:13:06,800 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 3: So if someone like if someone's like, like do not

1559
01:13:09,720 --> 01:13:12,120
Speaker 3: believe in like having people that cheat at my company

1560
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:15,960
Speaker 3: or fired. There are states where that person could sue

1561
01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 3: for that.

1562
01:13:16,600 --> 01:13:21,120
Speaker 1: So it seems like it's uh possible to sue his

1563
01:13:21,320 --> 01:13:24,920
Speaker 1: brother for firing him from proposing at his wedding.

1564
01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 3: Now, that would be an update, That would be That

1565
01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:29,200
Speaker 3: would be a fucking update.

1566
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:30,200
Speaker 1: Is that the update?

1567
01:13:30,360 --> 01:13:33,320
Speaker 2: I'm going to suck these noodles and then tell you.

1568
01:13:34,320 --> 01:13:36,880
Speaker 3: Oh my god, yeah, editor, zoom in on that ship.

1569
01:13:37,000 --> 01:13:39,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god, zoom in on that that is.

1570
01:13:40,080 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 1: I cannot tell you how satisfying that is. Right now, Okay,

1571
01:13:44,200 --> 01:13:47,559
Speaker 1: you're smacking those lips. Your is absolutely bang.

1572
01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:51,000
Speaker 3: And thank you for ordering Udan because you inspired me

1573
01:13:51,040 --> 01:13:52,679
Speaker 3: in the exact right direction.

1574
01:13:53,120 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 1: Here we go. Edit number one.

1575
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:57,240
Speaker 3: I should have mentioned this, but he will be getting severance.

1576
01:13:57,320 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 3: He is still my brother and I wouldn't let him

1577
01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:02,599
Speaker 3: lose his home over this. But as a small business,

1578
01:14:02,680 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 3: I can't imagine seeing him at work every day, not now,

1579
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:08,599
Speaker 3: at least. Edit number two. I reached out to him

1580
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 3: and we have a plan to speak in person later today.

1581
01:14:12,600 --> 01:14:15,600
Speaker 3: And edit number three final edit. I love all of

1582
01:14:15,600 --> 01:14:18,200
Speaker 3: the people saying you've just been looking for a reason

1583
01:14:18,240 --> 01:14:20,679
Speaker 3: to fire him and you're just jealous.

1584
01:14:20,880 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 1: He was my best man.

1585
01:14:22,400 --> 01:14:25,799
Speaker 3: I never felt upset about him opening his own business,

1586
01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:27,920
Speaker 3: and in fact, he has my complete.

1587
01:14:27,560 --> 01:14:30,400
Speaker 1: Blessing wall he opened up his own business.

1588
01:14:30,200 --> 01:14:31,720
Speaker 2: He now wants to.

1589
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:37,360
Speaker 3: Do create like a plumbing business right right now that

1590
01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 3: he's like had three years under Op's washful eye, this

1591
01:14:42,040 --> 01:14:44,280
Speaker 3: job is only supposed to get him on his feet again.

1592
01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:46,760
Speaker 3: I'm so happy he liked the field and wants to

1593
01:14:46,760 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 3: continue in it further. There was no malice before this incident. Well,

1594
01:14:50,280 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 3: it sounds like op firing him pushed him further into

1595
01:14:53,840 --> 01:14:55,000
Speaker 3: his own practice.

1596
01:14:55,080 --> 01:14:58,160
Speaker 2: Sounds like a blessing in disguise type situation.

1597
01:14:58,520 --> 01:15:00,479
Speaker 1: Seemed like it worked pretty well my qu though.

1598
01:15:00,520 --> 01:15:01,840
Speaker 3: Actually I wonder if they're I won't to how many

1599
01:15:01,880 --> 01:15:03,920
Speaker 3: lawyers watch the show, and I wonder if there's any

1600
01:15:04,000 --> 01:15:06,439
Speaker 3: any legal people in the legal field that could advise

1601
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:09,759
Speaker 3: us on this thing of if Opie's brother could sue excuse,

1602
01:15:10,280 --> 01:15:13,320
Speaker 3: I would love to hear from the lawyers, But lawyers

1603
01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:17,840
Speaker 3: or non lawyers tell us all anyone, let us know

1604
01:15:18,040 --> 01:15:20,320
Speaker 3: what would you do? And we're gonna get into this

1605
01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:20,800
Speaker 3: next story.

1606
01:15:21,360 --> 01:15:24,080
Speaker 1: My in laws are forcing my moms to pick who

1607
01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:26,880
Speaker 1: will be the real mom at the wedding am I

1608
01:15:26,960 --> 01:15:28,760
Speaker 1: the asshole for not liking that? Hell?

1609
01:15:28,880 --> 01:15:33,200
Speaker 3: No, we've got two moms. Rock that rock that you got.

1610
01:15:33,240 --> 01:15:36,160
Speaker 3: You got both moms sort of real mom. Double the mom,

1611
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:44,479
Speaker 3: double the don, double the dong, says producer Riley. Double

1612
01:15:44,680 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 3: the negative dong, negative don, double the dome, double the dome.

1613
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:51,120
Speaker 3: I don't know if they're given dome.

1614
01:15:51,160 --> 01:15:54,000
Speaker 1: I don't think they're giving do well to each other.

1615
01:15:54,080 --> 01:15:57,519
Speaker 1: Actually that's true. Yeah, they're getting a lot of dome

1616
01:15:57,560 --> 01:16:01,200
Speaker 1: to each other. A lot. Oh yeah. I twenty four female,

1617
01:16:01,280 --> 01:16:04,920
Speaker 1: have two moms. Flex they're parents of me and my

1618
01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:08,559
Speaker 1: four younger siblings. I'm equally close to both my moms,

1619
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:10,760
Speaker 1: and when I got engaged, I asked them both to

1620
01:16:10,840 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 1: walk me down the aisle. He also wanted to do

1621
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 1: a mom daughter dance with each of them. My fiance

1622
01:16:16,080 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 1: is on board and said he would ask to dance

1623
01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:20,519
Speaker 1: with his mom. But when we brought this up to

1624
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:23,000
Speaker 1: his parents, they protested, if we're meant to be doing

1625
01:16:23,080 --> 01:16:25,639
Speaker 1: these dances at the same time, it will look bad

1626
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:28,960
Speaker 1: if I dance twice while he only dances once. My

1627
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 1: fiance said he could always dance with his dad if

1628
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:34,759
Speaker 1: he was willing, and that was a firm. No, why

1629
01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:40,000
Speaker 1: does it matter why it's cute, John, because it will

1630
01:16:40,000 --> 01:16:44,559
Speaker 1: be uneven Free is a evil number. These people give

1631
01:16:44,560 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 1: me migrants sometimes. So then he said he could always

1632
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:49,639
Speaker 1: dance with a sister, but they said that would still

1633
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:52,360
Speaker 1: look very strange on the day. They said, I should

1634
01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 1: either do one dance and swap moms halfway through, or

1635
01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:58,000
Speaker 1: I should decide which of them is more like a

1636
01:16:58,120 --> 01:17:00,639
Speaker 1: dad to me and pick that mom to dance with.

1637
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:03,040
Speaker 1: Just just cut your mom.

1638
01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:05,599
Speaker 3: Cut the top half of one mom and the bottom

1639
01:17:05,600 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 3: half of the other, put it together, dance with that

1640
01:17:08,280 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 3: one of.

1641
01:17:08,560 --> 01:17:13,120
Speaker 1: Those saw things of the magicians saw your mom's in half,

1642
01:17:13,400 --> 01:17:15,479
Speaker 1: the legs of one mom and the top of your mom.

1643
01:17:15,600 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 1: So you mom number one's a mom with a better

1644
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:20,839
Speaker 1: ass goes in the bottom. Mom with the better boobies

1645
01:17:20,920 --> 01:17:22,920
Speaker 1: goes on the top. Wow, and then you have super mom.

1646
01:17:23,040 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 2: Gosh, dang it, that's that's the solution.

1647
01:17:25,000 --> 01:17:29,640
Speaker 1: They my good mind, the swap moms halfway through the

1648
01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:30,559
Speaker 1: dance idea.

1649
01:17:30,800 --> 01:17:33,080
Speaker 3: If it's like done in a fun way, but like

1650
01:17:33,160 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 3: it's just one dance, like.

1651
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:37,840
Speaker 1: I mean, it does it really doesn't matter about I

1652
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:38,799
Speaker 1: don't mind that idea.

1653
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:40,760
Speaker 3: It could it could be cool if it's like a

1654
01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:44,439
Speaker 3: fun like orchestration, like like a but like a switch up.

1655
01:17:44,320 --> 01:17:47,800
Speaker 1: In the song, but up hey, yeah exactly, and then

1656
01:17:47,880 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 1: she like spins one mom off and then the other

1657
01:17:49,880 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 1: mom comes back in. But like the vibe that they're

1658
01:17:52,160 --> 01:17:54,400
Speaker 1: giving it like it's just not you know, yeah, they've

1659
01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:58,960
Speaker 1: given some phobic vibe right now. My fiance said his

1660
01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:01,280
Speaker 1: parents were crazy and it was an insulting thing to

1661
01:18:01,360 --> 01:18:03,759
Speaker 1: imply one of my moms is the dad of the household.

1662
01:18:04,520 --> 01:18:06,920
Speaker 2: He pointed out, my siblings and I have no dad,

1663
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:07,799
Speaker 2: just moms.

1664
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:10,240
Speaker 3: I told them it would be sweet to see my

1665
01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:13,160
Speaker 3: future father in law dance with my fiance and that

1666
01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:16,240
Speaker 3: would make things even. Mother in law said, I was

1667
01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 3: being ridiculous and was not doing a very good job

1668
01:18:18,320 --> 01:18:18,920
Speaker 3: of making a.

1669
01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:21,720
Speaker 1: Good first impression as a daughter in law. You're not

1670
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:23,599
Speaker 1: making a good impression as a mother in law. True,

1671
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:26,559
Speaker 1: my fiance told his parents, and they were the unreasonable ones.

1672
01:18:26,560 --> 01:18:28,640
Speaker 1: And after that disagreement, he asked his sister for a

1673
01:18:28,760 --> 01:18:31,040
Speaker 1: dance at the wedding and she said yes. But his

1674
01:18:31,160 --> 01:18:34,000
Speaker 1: parents are still unhappy and still believe I am trying

1675
01:18:34,040 --> 01:18:36,719
Speaker 1: to show them up in some way, they claim. Yet again,

1676
01:18:37,040 --> 01:18:39,479
Speaker 1: that I could dance with both moms, but should not

1677
01:18:39,600 --> 01:18:41,720
Speaker 1: do it in a single song and not make such

1678
01:18:41,720 --> 01:18:44,880
Speaker 1: a big deal of swapping between them. They accused me

1679
01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:48,719
Speaker 1: of being unreasonable and unwilling to compromise. I feel bad

1680
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:51,160
Speaker 1: that so much drama has come from this. I also

1681
01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:53,439
Speaker 1: hate how my father in law couldn't just dance with

1682
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 1: his son and that would even things out, but he

1683
01:18:55,960 --> 01:18:59,679
Speaker 1: acts like it's some disgusting concept. It feels very much

1684
01:18:59,760 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 1: like homophobia is at play, and maybe not entirely because

1685
01:19:03,240 --> 01:19:05,679
Speaker 1: I have two moms, but because such a big deal

1686
01:19:06,040 --> 01:19:09,200
Speaker 1: was made out of the father son dance. But maybe

1687
01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:11,920
Speaker 1: I should be willing to compromise here to keep the peace.

1688
01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:17,920
Speaker 1: So am I the asshole? Wow? Wow?

1689
01:19:17,960 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 6: Wow?

1690
01:19:18,200 --> 01:19:18,439
Speaker 5: Wow?

1691
01:19:18,840 --> 01:19:22,040
Speaker 3: How can she be homophobic? Her daughter in law's moms

1692
01:19:22,120 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 3: are gay?

1693
01:19:24,680 --> 01:19:27,280
Speaker 1: I mean, but she's not the homophobic one. It's a

1694
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:28,080
Speaker 1: it's the.

1695
01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:31,240
Speaker 3: Mother in law mother. Oh yeah, her daughter in law's

1696
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:32,160
Speaker 3: moms are gay?

1697
01:19:32,479 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: True? My god?

1698
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:36,559
Speaker 3: Also this, I think we talked about this a few

1699
01:19:36,600 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 3: episodes ago, but there was the whole Island boys like

1700
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:41,080
Speaker 3: kissing each other thing?

1701
01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 1: Did they kiss each other? Did they blow each other?

1702
01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:46,080
Speaker 3: I think they? I think they went that far. I

1703
01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:50,639
Speaker 3: think they're at that level the actually but on the internet,

1704
01:19:50,760 --> 01:19:53,240
Speaker 3: on their only fans. I think I believe in fact

1705
01:19:53,320 --> 01:19:55,720
Speaker 3: check if I'm wrong. But Andrew Schultz had this really

1706
01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:59,960
Speaker 3: funny angle where he's like, America is so fucking crazy

1707
01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:04,120
Speaker 3: that they care more about they're more homophobic, and they

1708
01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:07,599
Speaker 3: care more about the two guys kissing than the fact

1709
01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:10,559
Speaker 3: that they're brothers. And that's like with the dad. Like

1710
01:20:10,600 --> 01:20:12,880
Speaker 3: literally they're like, oh no, the dad would be weird.

1711
01:20:12,920 --> 01:20:16,439
Speaker 3: It's like two guys dancing. It's the age old question. Though,

1712
01:20:16,760 --> 01:20:17,839
Speaker 3: if you have a twin.

1713
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:19,800
Speaker 1: I would not blow my twin, John.

1714
01:20:20,080 --> 01:20:22,160
Speaker 3: It's an age old question. I feel like for people

1715
01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:23,519
Speaker 3: without twins, you know.

1716
01:20:23,800 --> 01:20:26,320
Speaker 1: I see there's a picture of them kissing each other.

1717
01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:28,920
Speaker 2: I don't know if the BJ has been proven, but

1718
01:20:29,920 --> 01:20:30,719
Speaker 2: are they rich?

1719
01:20:33,040 --> 01:20:35,759
Speaker 3: I bet they've made a lot of money and spent

1720
01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 3: a lot of money. Geez, make a million spend too,

1721
01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:43,360
Speaker 3: Like that's the bottom I'm getting. We're just getting your

1722
01:20:43,680 --> 01:20:44,920
Speaker 3: disgusted grimases.

1723
01:20:45,240 --> 01:20:49,599
Speaker 1: Island Boys head video a controversial viral video posted by

1724
01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:52,559
Speaker 1: twin Brothers Island Boys and which it appears fly Soldier

1725
01:20:53,200 --> 01:20:57,360
Speaker 1: is receiving oral sex from Kodiak cred However, it was

1726
01:20:57,400 --> 01:21:00,240
Speaker 1: not actually his penis, but a popticle or a carrot.

1727
01:21:01,240 --> 01:21:04,280
Speaker 1: Apparently it was gay incest baits.

1728
01:21:05,160 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, gosh, darn, you really fool this.

1729
01:21:08,640 --> 01:21:11,080
Speaker 3: Stu Peter says, this is the work of Satan. They

1730
01:21:11,080 --> 01:21:13,080
Speaker 3: are possessed by demons.

1731
01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:19,640
Speaker 1: Wow. Fuck, So I don't think. Oh he is the

1732
01:21:19,680 --> 01:21:22,000
Speaker 1: a hole for wanting to dance with both her moms.

1733
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:25,400
Speaker 1: And also it's their wedding. They can do whatever they need. Oh,

1734
01:21:25,560 --> 01:21:28,439
Speaker 1: it's just pisses me off. So it pisses me off

1735
01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:31,799
Speaker 1: the fact that this kind of shit on the Internet exists. Yeah,

1736
01:21:32,280 --> 01:21:34,080
Speaker 1: which which one? Which one are you talking about?

1737
01:21:34,560 --> 01:21:34,680
Speaker 7: Bro?

1738
01:21:34,760 --> 01:21:37,840
Speaker 1: Why are they blowing each other? They're the a holes? Well,

1739
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:38,880
Speaker 1: they're just sucking on a carrot.

1740
01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:43,000
Speaker 3: They're getting they're getting vitamins, they're promoting they're just promoting nutrition.

1741
01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:47,799
Speaker 1: Late stage Internet, man, Late stage Internet. We're here, stage Internet.

1742
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:48,879
Speaker 1: We're here, baby.

1743
01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:52,600
Speaker 3: But let us know if you know, like, OHP's the

1744
01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:53,920
Speaker 3: a hole or someone, let.

1745
01:21:53,880 --> 01:21:57,800
Speaker 1: Me put you out your mystery. Now. My sister says

1746
01:21:57,800 --> 01:22:01,880
Speaker 1: she needs fifty thousand dollars my inheritance to take care

1747
01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:03,720
Speaker 1: of our mom. But the thing is she's not even

1748
01:22:03,800 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 1: close to kicking the bucket. So am I the asshole

1749
01:22:06,160 --> 01:22:08,920
Speaker 1: for saying nah? Yeah, why uh you.

1750
01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:10,960
Speaker 2: Try to get an advance on your inheritance?

1751
01:22:11,200 --> 01:22:13,599
Speaker 1: Yeah? And also why are you trying to like preemp

1752
01:22:13,720 --> 01:22:15,920
Speaker 1: taking care of your mom? Just let her die and

1753
01:22:15,920 --> 01:22:18,040
Speaker 1: then you get the inheritance early. You know, if we're

1754
01:22:18,040 --> 01:22:21,880
Speaker 1: talking about efficiency, talking about efficiency, end of life care

1755
01:22:22,000 --> 01:22:24,640
Speaker 1: is expensive. It's a little more efficient. Don on, Let

1756
01:22:24,680 --> 01:22:27,639
Speaker 1: you know, extend it longer than needs to pull the plug?

1757
01:22:28,040 --> 01:22:29,479
Speaker 1: Pull it, take it? You got it?

1758
01:22:29,520 --> 01:22:29,920
Speaker 8: All right?

1759
01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:30,400
Speaker 1: Got it?

1760
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:30,560
Speaker 3: What?

1761
01:22:31,520 --> 01:22:37,600
Speaker 1: I'm not proud of this? Right? That's it? My mom?

1762
01:22:38,080 --> 01:22:41,400
Speaker 1: Oh man, I won't pull the plug on you unless

1763
01:22:41,400 --> 01:22:45,639
Speaker 1: actually my mom said pull the plug actually, so actually, mom,

1764
01:22:45,640 --> 01:22:48,320
Speaker 1: I will pull out. My mom said that if she

1765
01:22:49,240 --> 01:22:52,599
Speaker 1: is a vegetable, please kill her fair enough. I feel

1766
01:22:52,640 --> 01:22:56,840
Speaker 1: the same way about killing my mom. Yes, John, am

1767
01:22:56,880 --> 01:22:59,479
Speaker 1: I the asshole for killing my co host mom? My

1768
01:22:59,640 --> 01:23:05,400
Speaker 1: sister sixty eight has always been an f up. Dozens

1769
01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 1: of dead end jobs, married, drug dealers, credit card debt,

1770
01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:12,400
Speaker 1: out of the ginang, filed for bankruptcy. Sounds like a

1771
01:23:12,439 --> 01:23:15,960
Speaker 1: great life, sounds like a resume? Real? Yeah. Ten years ago,

1772
01:23:16,160 --> 01:23:19,200
Speaker 1: she moved back to her hometown after thirty years of

1773
01:23:19,200 --> 01:23:22,080
Speaker 1: being a wall to care quote unquote from my mom,

1774
01:23:22,080 --> 01:23:25,120
Speaker 1: who was eighty five at the time. Mom was fully functional,

1775
01:23:25,160 --> 01:23:28,080
Speaker 1: handled her own finances, shot cooked, et cetera. So it

1776
01:23:28,080 --> 01:23:30,679
Speaker 1: sounds like Mom gonna handle herself. That's pretty good. Eighty five,

1777
01:23:30,720 --> 01:23:33,120
Speaker 1: Go Mama, Go Mama. That sounds like she can handle

1778
01:23:33,160 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 1: a lot more than just herself on this. Oh God,

1779
01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:37,559
Speaker 1: what those gums do? Okay? So Kay moved in and

1780
01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:41,479
Speaker 1: I found out later she doesn't pay for anything, no rent, utilities, cable,

1781
01:23:41,520 --> 01:23:44,519
Speaker 1: her cell phone, groceries, gas for her car. I asked

1782
01:23:44,520 --> 01:23:47,240
Speaker 1: Mom about this, who survives on Social Security and a

1783
01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:50,160
Speaker 1: few investments, and she got defensive and told me she

1784
01:23:50,640 --> 01:23:52,880
Speaker 1: wanted to do this for k So I shut up.

1785
01:23:53,000 --> 01:23:54,920
Speaker 1: You want to do this? You want to give all

1786
01:23:54,960 --> 01:23:59,920
Speaker 1: your money to a deadbea drug dealing, marrying, credit card debt,

1787
01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:05,080
Speaker 1: bankruptcy lady. It's your kid, dude. It's hard. It's hard.

1788
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:09,160
Speaker 1: The forest was invented for a reason. You drop your

1789
01:24:09,280 --> 01:24:12,320
Speaker 1: unwonted kids into the forest. Drop them into the forest.

1790
01:24:12,840 --> 01:24:16,400
Speaker 1: It's like nature's birth control. When birth control doesn't work. Wow.

1791
01:24:16,439 --> 01:24:22,519
Speaker 1: Fast forward ten years into the future. Future everything has chrome.

1792
01:24:23,160 --> 01:24:27,639
Speaker 1: It's a SpongeBob reference. That is Wow. I forgot. Yeah,

1793
01:24:27,760 --> 01:24:31,040
Speaker 1: look at you, I know, I know. There we go

1794
01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:34,000
Speaker 1: pretty proud of myself. We found out Mom asked Kay

1795
01:24:34,080 --> 01:24:37,760
Speaker 1: to handle the bill pay without anyone's knowledge. Starting about

1796
01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:40,599
Speaker 1: three years ago, Kay set it up all online. Mom

1797
01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:43,479
Speaker 1: wrote checks, never learned to use computer. The reason this

1798
01:24:43,520 --> 01:24:46,519
Speaker 1: came to light was my other sister, Beth, thought, with

1799
01:24:46,640 --> 01:24:49,200
Speaker 1: Mom in failing health, someone should be added to her

1800
01:24:49,240 --> 01:24:53,680
Speaker 1: bank account legally. Turns out, decades ago Mom added me

1801
01:24:54,080 --> 01:24:57,479
Speaker 1: as joint account holder. I had forgotten. Cue the music

1802
01:24:57,800 --> 01:25:01,400
Speaker 1: opened the floodgates. A there's a bunch of truth that's

1803
01:25:01,400 --> 01:25:03,360
Speaker 1: about to enter this family that is going to rip

1804
01:25:03,400 --> 01:25:05,799
Speaker 1: it apart. They're not ready. They're not ready a tsunami

1805
01:25:05,880 --> 01:25:09,240
Speaker 1: of truth. A tsunami more like a like a truth HIV.

1806
01:25:09,800 --> 01:25:13,880
Speaker 1: Like wow, it's it's been inserted inside of you, and

1807
01:25:14,080 --> 01:25:18,400
Speaker 1: it's replicating very fast, and before you know it, you'll

1808
01:25:18,600 --> 01:25:21,439
Speaker 1: go from broke Back Mountain to like, what's the what's

1809
01:25:21,479 --> 01:25:25,360
Speaker 1: the movie with the guy the Cowboys? To Dallas Buyer's,

1810
01:25:25,439 --> 01:25:29,559
Speaker 1: Oh boy, that's an image two honky cowboys to one

1811
01:25:29,840 --> 01:25:33,360
Speaker 1: thin straw of a man oh Man wear protection. I

1812
01:25:33,439 --> 01:25:36,720
Speaker 1: reviewed the account. Turns out Mom has been paying K

1813
01:25:37,160 --> 01:25:41,599
Speaker 1: five hundred dollars a month, totally over fifty thousand dollars

1814
01:25:41,720 --> 01:25:45,719
Speaker 1: in addition to covering all the expenses mortgage, utilities, et cetera,

1815
01:25:45,920 --> 01:25:50,639
Speaker 1: including K's car, insurance, medical expenses, haircuts, all personal stuff

1816
01:25:50,680 --> 01:25:53,800
Speaker 1: including maide service. Did I mention Kay's a slab didn't

1817
01:25:53,800 --> 01:25:57,400
Speaker 1: even clean her place? Wow? Come on cures that bills

1818
01:25:57,400 --> 01:26:00,880
Speaker 1: for her dog craft supplies, et cetera. Needless to say,

1819
01:26:00,960 --> 01:26:04,160
Speaker 1: I was floored. Not that that wasn't enough since Kay

1820
01:26:04,160 --> 01:26:07,040
Speaker 1: put everything online, but she has been going wild with

1821
01:26:07,160 --> 01:26:10,680
Speaker 1: Mom's credit cards about fourteen hundred dollars a month on

1822
01:26:10,920 --> 01:26:15,320
Speaker 1: fast food, liquor stores, Amazon, et cetera. Oh my god,

1823
01:26:15,560 --> 01:26:18,719
Speaker 1: Beth and I insisted Kay cancel all credit cards, provide

1824
01:26:18,800 --> 01:26:22,040
Speaker 1: us full access to the accounts, passwords, et cetera, including

1825
01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:25,840
Speaker 1: mom's stock account. Now here comes the real drama. Oh,

1826
01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:29,200
Speaker 1: it's a real drama. Yeah, all this drama wasn't enough.

1827
01:26:29,240 --> 01:26:32,200
Speaker 1: We're talking about the real drama. It ain't enough. Since

1828
01:26:32,240 --> 01:26:36,880
Speaker 1: twenty thirteen, there were forty dividend checks totaling thirty thousand dollars.

1829
01:26:37,080 --> 01:26:40,559
Speaker 1: Only two were deposited of the forty. Oh my god,

1830
01:26:40,680 --> 01:26:43,679
Speaker 1: I'll assume Mom was giving Kay the other checks since

1831
01:26:43,800 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 1: until twenty twenty. I'll assume Mom was giving Kay the

1832
01:26:47,040 --> 01:26:49,559
Speaker 1: other checks since until a twenty twenty Mom handled her

1833
01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:53,040
Speaker 1: own finances. When Beth asked Kay about these checks, Kay

1834
01:26:53,120 --> 01:26:56,400
Speaker 1: says Mom cashes them and keeps it in a drawer

1835
01:26:56,520 --> 01:26:59,439
Speaker 1: to buy gifts and things ridiculous. When I asked Kay

1836
01:26:59,439 --> 01:27:01,919
Speaker 1: about the five hundred dollars a month checks, her excuse

1837
01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:03,880
Speaker 1: was Mom helped me out when I was out of work.

1838
01:27:04,000 --> 01:27:06,559
Speaker 1: Kay got fired from the home Depot and started at

1839
01:27:06,560 --> 01:27:09,200
Speaker 1: Target two weeks later. Mind you, these checks were written

1840
01:27:09,240 --> 01:27:11,559
Speaker 1: for eight years. Why for the long post. But when

1841
01:27:11,600 --> 01:27:14,080
Speaker 1: all is said and done, when Mom dies, Ken Beth,

1842
01:27:14,120 --> 01:27:17,280
Speaker 1: who is power of attorney, exclude k from receiving a

1843
01:27:17,320 --> 01:27:20,280
Speaker 1: portion of the money market funds to compensate for all

1844
01:27:20,360 --> 01:27:23,160
Speaker 1: she's received over the years. Beth set this up after

1845
01:27:23,200 --> 01:27:26,639
Speaker 1: discovering what kdad. Beth has right of survivorship on it.

1846
01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:30,120
Speaker 1: Mom's will says, everything is split five ways to all

1847
01:27:30,160 --> 01:27:33,360
Speaker 1: of my siblings. Thanks for listening and advice.

1848
01:27:33,920 --> 01:27:37,360
Speaker 3: Wow, my god, this is one where you don't think

1849
01:27:37,360 --> 01:27:39,760
Speaker 3: it can get worse, but it does, but then it

1850
01:27:39,800 --> 01:27:40,439
Speaker 3: gets worse.

1851
01:27:40,800 --> 01:27:41,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1852
01:27:41,200 --> 01:27:45,040
Speaker 3: I guess the question is what should slash can OPI

1853
01:27:45,120 --> 01:27:46,000
Speaker 3: do here, right?

1854
01:27:46,160 --> 01:27:48,559
Speaker 1: Is it fair to take away the money, the fifty

1855
01:27:48,640 --> 01:27:51,120
Speaker 1: k that was spent by the sister? I think so? Yeah?

1856
01:27:51,120 --> 01:27:53,360
Speaker 1: All right, So basically it's like like, we're gonna do

1857
01:27:53,439 --> 01:27:54,920
Speaker 1: you spend fifty k. We're going to take it out

1858
01:27:54,920 --> 01:27:58,519
Speaker 1: of your future inheritance. Oh yeah, yep, yep, yep. Yeah,

1859
01:27:58,720 --> 01:28:00,000
Speaker 1: that makes that makes sense.

1860
01:28:00,040 --> 01:28:03,240
Speaker 2: Pretty agreed to spending. Yeah, fifty fifty grand?

1861
01:28:03,520 --> 01:28:07,240
Speaker 1: Like yeah, especially, it seems like although fifty grand over

1862
01:28:07,320 --> 01:28:10,400
Speaker 1: ten years isn't that much, it is definitely not crazy.

1863
01:28:10,400 --> 01:28:12,639
Speaker 1: In the grain scheme of things, I think they'll stealing shit.

1864
01:28:13,000 --> 01:28:15,519
Speaker 3: But yeah, the big thing is it's like stealing because

1865
01:28:15,560 --> 01:28:17,840
Speaker 3: like the mom didn't know. Oh, p obviously didn't know

1866
01:28:18,000 --> 01:28:20,720
Speaker 3: until now, right, the mom knew a little bit.

1867
01:28:20,760 --> 01:28:21,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe the.

1868
01:28:21,320 --> 01:28:23,280
Speaker 3: Mom knew a little bit but was kind of like

1869
01:28:23,439 --> 01:28:25,960
Speaker 3: just letting it happen and not like really putting her

1870
01:28:25,960 --> 01:28:26,479
Speaker 3: foot down.

1871
01:28:26,640 --> 01:28:28,960
Speaker 1: Is the mom in good enough health to ask the

1872
01:28:29,040 --> 01:28:31,719
Speaker 1: question to her? That's that's the other question, A good question,

1873
01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:33,400
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like if the mom is

1874
01:28:33,439 --> 01:28:35,479
Speaker 1: okay with it. Seems like the mom was okay with it.

1875
01:28:35,520 --> 01:28:36,880
Speaker 1: At the end of the day, it's her money too.

1876
01:28:37,160 --> 01:28:38,519
Speaker 1: That is a great point.

1877
01:28:38,560 --> 01:28:41,400
Speaker 3: Actually, you know, like it still is like maybe a

1878
01:28:41,400 --> 01:28:43,400
Speaker 3: little shitty, but the mom was okay with it and

1879
01:28:43,439 --> 01:28:44,760
Speaker 3: she was in good faculties.

1880
01:28:45,000 --> 01:28:45,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1881
01:28:45,720 --> 01:28:48,240
Speaker 3: If that is the case, then it's like it's an

1882
01:28:48,360 --> 01:28:51,080
Speaker 3: asshole move. But is it a one? Is it like

1883
01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:52,360
Speaker 3: a are you a legal asshole?

1884
01:28:52,400 --> 01:28:54,439
Speaker 1: Is it a yeah? Are you a are you a.

1885
01:28:54,439 --> 01:28:56,759
Speaker 2: Certified legal ass legal asshole?

1886
01:28:56,800 --> 01:28:58,439
Speaker 1: That's it. That's a new one. I don't know what

1887
01:28:58,439 --> 01:29:00,439
Speaker 1: would you do in this situation? Like it it seems

1888
01:29:00,479 --> 01:29:02,120
Speaker 1: like there was a little bit of foul play. It

1889
01:29:02,200 --> 01:29:06,720
Speaker 1: seems like Kay was pretty terrible in how she took

1890
01:29:06,720 --> 01:29:09,080
Speaker 1: advantage of the mom. Yeah, but it seems like also

1891
01:29:09,080 --> 01:29:12,400
Speaker 1: the mom was okay with it happening. So I don't

1892
01:29:12,400 --> 01:29:14,040
Speaker 1: know what would you do in this situation if you

1893
01:29:14,080 --> 01:29:17,160
Speaker 1: were op, let us know your answer below. Let's get

1894
01:29:17,200 --> 01:29:18,439
Speaker 1: into the next one. Let's do it.

1895
01:29:19,040 --> 01:29:22,200
Speaker 3: I inherited my rich grandpa's entire fortune, and my family

1896
01:29:22,360 --> 01:29:24,120
Speaker 3: just found out that they got nothing.

1897
01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:26,439
Speaker 1: I am not sharing. Am I the a hole? They

1898
01:29:26,479 --> 01:29:30,120
Speaker 1: don't deserve it and you deserve it at all? Yeah, Op, duck,

1899
01:29:30,200 --> 01:29:33,760
Speaker 1: that shit be like smog the dragon. Sit on all

1900
01:29:33,800 --> 01:29:36,479
Speaker 1: the gold, sit on it, you know, particularly your taint

1901
01:29:36,520 --> 01:29:39,479
Speaker 1: with a gold coin or like a little little gold dildo.

1902
01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:46,200
Speaker 1: Have it outside you, inside you, beside you, everywhere, everywhere,

1903
01:29:46,280 --> 01:29:48,280
Speaker 1: all your holes. Yeah, all your holes should be filled

1904
01:29:48,320 --> 01:29:51,280
Speaker 1: with gold. That's right. Wow, that was beautiful. You know

1905
01:29:51,720 --> 01:29:52,439
Speaker 1: that could be a song.

1906
01:29:53,000 --> 01:29:53,759
Speaker 3: All you.

1907
01:29:55,760 --> 01:30:09,439
Speaker 1: Filled with gold song? You can't be had into it

1908
01:30:10,560 --> 01:30:23,120
Speaker 1: And because ah, we know, always pay I will fill

1909
01:30:23,240 --> 01:30:28,959
Speaker 1: your let it all ready down.

1910
01:30:29,800 --> 01:30:33,280
Speaker 3: That's pretty good improvs song singing, by the way, that

1911
01:30:33,320 --> 01:30:35,519
Speaker 3: would be a fun activity. Let's get into it. My

1912
01:30:35,560 --> 01:30:38,960
Speaker 3: grandpa had stage four lumber cancer and was in hospice

1913
01:30:39,080 --> 01:30:42,920
Speaker 3: for the last few weeks of stay. What cancer it says,

1914
01:30:43,040 --> 01:30:50,400
Speaker 3: lumbar lumbar our support, I guess, I guess over laughing,

1915
01:30:50,439 --> 01:30:51,559
Speaker 3: I think that's what it is.

1916
01:30:51,600 --> 01:30:55,600
Speaker 1: But lumbar producer is that Legit literally.

1917
01:30:56,479 --> 01:31:01,400
Speaker 3: Consists of your Oh it's part of your back, right,

1918
01:31:01,520 --> 01:31:04,559
Speaker 3: So damn, I guess that's scienceer really did throw his

1919
01:31:04,640 --> 01:31:05,160
Speaker 3: back out.

1920
01:31:05,640 --> 01:31:07,320
Speaker 2: That's not not the way you want to go.

1921
01:31:07,479 --> 01:31:12,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, freaking busting that back. Can't pop that ass no more. No,

1922
01:31:12,720 --> 01:31:16,599
Speaker 1: damn rip tod booty rip to that booty breaking it down.

1923
01:31:17,040 --> 01:31:20,880
Speaker 1: My family was mostly not involved with hospice during this time. Anyways,

1924
01:31:20,960 --> 01:31:23,479
Speaker 1: we found out that grandpa had cancer two years ago.

1925
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:27,360
Speaker 1: My family started to act like lunatics, but not in

1926
01:31:27,400 --> 01:31:31,480
Speaker 1: the way of concerned family members, but like performative assholes,

1927
01:31:32,000 --> 01:31:33,040
Speaker 1: which we've seen on this show.

1928
01:31:33,160 --> 01:31:35,680
Speaker 3: We love performative assholes. Oh yeah, you're looking at two

1929
01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:45,920
Speaker 3: of them. That's RIGHTHO perform no stick stick beautiful editors.

1930
01:31:46,160 --> 01:31:49,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you do something with that far. Yeah.

1931
01:31:49,080 --> 01:31:51,920
Speaker 3: The only ones really caring were my cousins and I.

1932
01:31:52,240 --> 01:31:53,919
Speaker 3: You know that movie Knives Out.

1933
01:31:54,040 --> 01:31:54,559
Speaker 1: It's like that.

1934
01:31:55,000 --> 01:31:57,920
Speaker 3: Every conversation they brought up the will and asked him

1935
01:31:58,040 --> 01:32:01,759
Speaker 3: to give him their share as to avoid paying inheritance tax.

1936
01:32:02,200 --> 01:32:02,360
Speaker 1: Bro.

1937
01:32:02,960 --> 01:32:05,960
Speaker 3: Before my man is even gone, They're like, okay, just

1938
01:32:05,960 --> 01:32:07,200
Speaker 3: give me my inheritance right now.

1939
01:32:07,320 --> 01:32:10,160
Speaker 1: I know that lumbar is not gonna support you too

1940
01:32:10,240 --> 01:32:12,600
Speaker 1: much more so, uh, how about you hand over the

1941
01:32:12,640 --> 01:32:15,280
Speaker 1: cash now for tax reasons? Hey, you're you're you're just

1942
01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:18,080
Speaker 1: give to me die anyway, I don't want to pay

1943
01:32:18,120 --> 01:32:21,080
Speaker 1: the taxes, not being so selfish. Just give it to me, please,

1944
01:32:21,280 --> 01:32:24,960
Speaker 1: please come on. Then, when the cancer progressed, what are

1945
01:32:24,960 --> 01:32:30,960
Speaker 1: those chairs Ermin Ermin chairs, Erman Miller Ermin Miller chairs.

1946
01:32:31,080 --> 01:32:35,599
Speaker 1: One of those support wasn't there? Bro?

1947
01:32:36,320 --> 01:32:41,040
Speaker 3: His lumbar was just suffering. The lumbar was too low

1948
01:32:41,920 --> 01:32:45,960
Speaker 3: to support his lumbar. Wow, let's raise the lumbar up

1949
01:32:45,960 --> 01:32:48,080
Speaker 3: and protect our lower backs.

1950
01:32:48,160 --> 01:32:52,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, protect that back, don't you know? Leave all these

1951
01:32:52,320 --> 01:32:56,200
Speaker 1: girls talking about how they want him to blow their

1952
01:32:56,240 --> 01:33:00,120
Speaker 1: back out and then they get cancer. Wow, and then

1953
01:33:00,200 --> 01:33:03,519
Speaker 1: it all changes, and it all changes. Wow, I'm about

1954
01:33:03,560 --> 01:33:08,840
Speaker 1: your ladies. Keep your backs intact. Yeah, don't throw it back, Nope,

1955
01:33:09,160 --> 01:33:11,160
Speaker 1: keep it intact. That's right.

1956
01:33:11,880 --> 01:33:14,960
Speaker 3: Then when the cancer progressed, he said he didn't want

1957
01:33:15,000 --> 01:33:18,040
Speaker 3: any interventions and just wanted to live his last months

1958
01:33:18,040 --> 01:33:20,320
Speaker 3: in peace. Yeah, you didn't want all of your family

1959
01:33:20,720 --> 01:33:21,720
Speaker 3: harassing you to.

1960
01:33:21,760 --> 01:33:24,360
Speaker 1: Give them money? Yeah? Can you fuck off? My god?

1961
01:33:24,439 --> 01:33:26,439
Speaker 2: Can you imagine you're on your deathbed.

1962
01:33:26,600 --> 01:33:26,760
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1963
01:33:26,800 --> 01:33:28,080
Speaker 2: And it was like, just give me the money.

1964
01:33:28,120 --> 01:33:30,800
Speaker 3: And like your freaking nephew that you've never met, and

1965
01:33:30,880 --> 01:33:34,800
Speaker 3: he's like, hey, Grandpa, I really want that that new

1966
01:33:34,880 --> 01:33:35,599
Speaker 3: game boy.

1967
01:33:36,320 --> 01:33:42,320
Speaker 1: I'm so old. What do the kids play on these days?

1968
01:33:43,840 --> 01:33:48,240
Speaker 1: Pokemon Gold? These kids don't understand. What are kids playing

1969
01:33:48,320 --> 01:33:51,559
Speaker 1: these days? Riley Switch? I bought my sister a switch.

1970
01:33:51,880 --> 01:33:55,240
Speaker 1: So you're you're you're hippier with hi. Apparently I'm not

1971
01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:58,439
Speaker 1: gen Z so I'm an old man. But because there

1972
01:33:58,479 --> 01:34:01,200
Speaker 1: had not been any adjustments, so the family will. My

1973
01:34:01,320 --> 01:34:04,799
Speaker 1: family was pushing for a court order for further treatment.

1974
01:34:04,960 --> 01:34:08,000
Speaker 1: While that was happening, my aunt moved herself into the house.

1975
01:34:08,160 --> 01:34:10,439
Speaker 1: My cousin later told me it was so she could

1976
01:34:10,479 --> 01:34:14,240
Speaker 1: make claims on the inheritance after he was gone. Yike,

1977
01:34:14,600 --> 01:34:15,240
Speaker 1: my god.

1978
01:34:15,520 --> 01:34:17,800
Speaker 3: She is not a medical professional, but she made him

1979
01:34:17,800 --> 01:34:20,719
Speaker 3: go keto or paleo. He was too weak to fight

1980
01:34:20,720 --> 01:34:27,760
Speaker 3: her on that. Bro, come on right before he died?

1981
01:34:28,240 --> 01:34:31,040
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Ket gonna stop the cancer?

1982
01:34:31,200 --> 01:34:32,799
Speaker 2: Eat chocolate shake.

1983
01:34:32,720 --> 01:34:38,200
Speaker 1: Every day, as bro you want. God, man should only

1984
01:34:38,240 --> 01:34:40,960
Speaker 1: be eaten pussy at this stage in his life. You

1985
01:34:41,000 --> 01:34:43,320
Speaker 1: thought he was feeling you. That boy is a munch

1986
01:34:44,320 --> 01:34:46,000
Speaker 1: She got a snack and he eat it for lunch.

1987
01:34:46,400 --> 01:34:50,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's the wrap with his lumbar put

1988
01:34:50,200 --> 01:34:53,519
Speaker 1: his he put his back into it. Okay. So my

1989
01:34:53,560 --> 01:34:56,040
Speaker 1: cousins and I started to go over and take him out.

1990
01:34:56,080 --> 01:35:03,120
Speaker 1: But instead of taking him right now, take him out

1991
01:35:04,000 --> 01:35:07,759
Speaker 1: like you know, get some gelato, you know, like cute

1992
01:35:08,000 --> 01:35:12,440
Speaker 1: to feed ducks, Jelana bullets. God, yikes.

1993
01:35:14,040 --> 01:35:16,240
Speaker 2: But instead of taking him to the park, we would

1994
01:35:16,280 --> 01:35:16,800
Speaker 2: take him out.

1995
01:35:17,080 --> 01:35:21,360
Speaker 1: We took him to a big cliff. No, no, no, Grandpa,

1996
01:35:21,439 --> 01:35:24,120
Speaker 1: we're going to the park. Look over this ledge.

1997
01:35:24,439 --> 01:35:34,719
Speaker 8: God my badly I had herman Miller.

1998
01:35:35,439 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 1: This would never fords Lyn Cakes.

1999
01:35:41,520 --> 01:35:44,200
Speaker 3: But instead of taking him just to the park or

2000
01:35:44,200 --> 01:35:46,679
Speaker 3: something like that, we would take him out to see horses,

2001
01:35:46,800 --> 01:35:48,080
Speaker 3: the cinema pubs.

2002
01:35:49,040 --> 01:35:50,200
Speaker 1: That's actually really nice.

2003
01:35:50,400 --> 01:35:53,000
Speaker 3: Basically, he had a bucket list and we would sneak

2004
01:35:53,080 --> 01:35:53,920
Speaker 3: him out and do that.

2005
01:35:54,120 --> 01:35:54,759
Speaker 1: Sorry, sweet.

2006
01:35:55,200 --> 01:35:57,599
Speaker 2: We would also sneak in the foods that he wanted.

2007
01:35:57,640 --> 01:36:00,240
Speaker 3: And the night before he went into hospice care, we

2008
01:36:00,320 --> 01:36:03,120
Speaker 3: shared a few glasses of whiskey with him and a cigar.

2009
01:36:03,479 --> 01:36:08,120
Speaker 2: Nice cute old man activities, right.

2010
01:36:08,439 --> 01:36:12,280
Speaker 3: Just give me an old cigar before nos, honey, lumbar

2011
01:36:12,360 --> 01:36:14,720
Speaker 3: can always take one more, so make account.

2012
01:36:14,960 --> 01:36:16,799
Speaker 1: And then they got them all like a bunch of hookers.

2013
01:36:18,720 --> 01:36:22,120
Speaker 3: That night he told us that we would be the

2014
01:36:22,160 --> 01:36:24,679
Speaker 3: sole inheritors of his estates.

2015
01:36:24,960 --> 01:36:27,920
Speaker 1: Wow, I mean it makes sense right. They're actually treating

2016
01:36:27,960 --> 01:36:30,240
Speaker 1: him good, dude, low key. All you gotta do is

2017
01:36:30,320 --> 01:36:32,200
Speaker 1: treat them really well right before they die, and then

2018
01:36:32,240 --> 01:36:33,559
Speaker 1: you inherit everything. Yeah.

2019
01:36:33,600 --> 01:36:36,120
Speaker 2: Why would the alil strat why would.

2020
01:36:35,880 --> 01:36:37,840
Speaker 1: She put him on keto like that's only going to

2021
01:36:37,880 --> 01:36:41,639
Speaker 1: make him hate her. Yeah, exactly. With our oldest cousin

2022
01:36:42,040 --> 01:36:45,040
Speaker 1: being the executor of the estate, he asked us not

2023
01:36:45,120 --> 01:36:48,360
Speaker 1: to say anything. He just needed us to sign something

2024
01:36:48,479 --> 01:36:50,519
Speaker 1: he passed. A week after that, when our.

2025
01:36:50,439 --> 01:36:52,920
Speaker 3: Parents got wind of the situation that they were only

2026
01:36:52,960 --> 01:36:58,320
Speaker 3: being given five K each, all hell broke loose. Our

2027
01:36:58,360 --> 01:37:00,920
Speaker 3: parents are all really mad at us. They have kicked

2028
01:37:01,000 --> 01:37:03,680
Speaker 3: us out and they're saying they're gonna cut off contact

2029
01:37:03,680 --> 01:37:05,720
Speaker 3: with us if we don't do the right thing and

2030
01:37:05,760 --> 01:37:07,120
Speaker 3: give them what's theirs?

2031
01:37:07,360 --> 01:37:10,760
Speaker 1: What is theirs? Because legally it's just that five k.

2032
01:37:11,280 --> 01:37:13,960
Speaker 3: Are we the assholes for not telling them about anything

2033
01:37:14,120 --> 01:37:16,719
Speaker 3: and not giving them their share?

2034
01:37:17,400 --> 01:37:21,320
Speaker 1: Wow, this is juice. So literally, there's some juice in this.

2035
01:37:21,479 --> 01:37:24,920
Speaker 1: The grandkids basically they actually cared about the grandpa I think,

2036
01:37:24,920 --> 01:37:27,719
Speaker 1: and wanted to send him off to care about his money.

2037
01:37:27,840 --> 01:37:29,080
Speaker 1: Dude and his all of.

2038
01:37:29,040 --> 01:37:32,320
Speaker 3: His children were basically like, no, let's just let him

2039
01:37:32,360 --> 01:37:33,320
Speaker 3: die quick.

2040
01:37:34,520 --> 01:37:36,559
Speaker 1: Also, putting him on keto is just gonna make him

2041
01:37:36,560 --> 01:37:39,719
Speaker 1: live longer. Give him for burgers ice cream, Like actually

2042
01:37:39,800 --> 01:37:43,479
Speaker 1: that I'm double failing. He's gonna and he's gonna live longer,

2043
01:37:43,600 --> 01:37:45,600
Speaker 1: I know. Like like the kids did it right. They

2044
01:37:45,640 --> 01:37:47,880
Speaker 1: gave him everything he wanted and give him things that

2045
01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:53,720
Speaker 1: it will make him die. Whiskey hookers, the guitars, the trifecta. Yeah,

2046
01:37:53,760 --> 01:37:56,280
Speaker 1: they really, they really were speed running that ship.

2047
01:37:56,640 --> 01:37:59,360
Speaker 3: The crazy thing to me though, like this just shows you.

2048
01:37:59,479 --> 01:38:02,000
Speaker 3: I mean, the parents are giving dirtbags. They're saying they're

2049
01:38:02,000 --> 01:38:03,600
Speaker 3: going to cut off contact with their children if the

2050
01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:04,160
Speaker 3: don't get the money.

2051
01:38:04,200 --> 01:38:10,480
Speaker 1: Also, it is his money, and to respect his dying wish,

2052
01:38:11,080 --> 01:38:13,479
Speaker 1: I think is the right thing to do. It's his

2053
01:38:13,680 --> 01:38:18,120
Speaker 1: dying wish to give him them hit like his money.

2054
01:38:18,160 --> 01:38:20,160
Speaker 1: He didn't give it to everyone else for a reason.

2055
01:38:20,200 --> 01:38:24,080
Speaker 1: So yes, actually giving the money away would disrespect his

2056
01:38:24,160 --> 01:38:27,400
Speaker 1: dying wish. Like these people that.

2057
01:38:27,760 --> 01:38:31,800
Speaker 3: Could you imagine cutting off your own child because you

2058
01:38:32,240 --> 01:38:36,080
Speaker 3: they they got, you know, basically all of the inheritance. Yeah,

2059
01:38:36,120 --> 01:38:39,200
Speaker 3: if you imagine it's the man's dying wish. This is

2060
01:38:39,240 --> 01:38:42,280
Speaker 3: why we make wills, Yeah, because we want to know

2061
01:38:42,320 --> 01:38:43,400
Speaker 3: where this shit goes.

2062
01:38:43,640 --> 01:38:46,639
Speaker 1: Here's the question though, that op was asking. Is OPI

2063
01:38:46,720 --> 01:38:51,280
Speaker 1: the a hole for not communicating that before the grandpa

2064
01:38:51,320 --> 01:38:54,439
Speaker 1: passed away that they would get everything. Yeah, let us

2065
01:38:54,439 --> 01:38:56,240
Speaker 1: know what you think in the comments. But Sam way.

2066
01:38:57,240 --> 01:38:59,799
Speaker 3: I think no too right, because like in their business,

2067
01:39:00,080 --> 01:39:02,000
Speaker 3: I feel like it's even though it wasn't like the

2068
01:39:02,040 --> 01:39:03,400
Speaker 3: direct response to his wishes.

2069
01:39:03,400 --> 01:39:05,800
Speaker 1: He's just like get a week after, like a week,

2070
01:39:05,800 --> 01:39:09,680
Speaker 1: a couple of weeks before something literally one week was literally.

2071
01:39:09,360 --> 01:39:14,040
Speaker 3: One week and oh, I think the grandpa actually said explicitly,

2072
01:39:14,200 --> 01:39:16,519
Speaker 3: let me double check. He asked us not to say anything.

2073
01:39:16,760 --> 01:39:18,400
Speaker 3: So they were literally respecting his his.

2074
01:39:18,600 --> 01:39:21,479
Speaker 1: Literally the biggest not the a hole ever. But I

2075
01:39:21,520 --> 01:39:24,480
Speaker 1: want to know what y'all think. Put your answers in

2076
01:39:24,520 --> 01:39:25,799
Speaker 1: the area below.

2077
01:39:26,200 --> 01:39:29,639
Speaker 3: Speaking of things finishing out, Sam, you want to finish

2078
01:39:29,760 --> 01:39:30,519
Speaker 3: us with this last story?

2079
01:39:30,560 --> 01:39:33,439
Speaker 1: I would love to finish everyone. Let me out going

2080
01:39:33,479 --> 01:39:38,200
Speaker 1: to blow your back out? Listener, Hey baby, oh god,

2081
01:39:38,760 --> 01:39:41,879
Speaker 1: listen up, cut it right like that back of yours.

2082
01:39:41,960 --> 01:39:45,760
Speaker 1: Finish it. Let us let me die in peace, let

2083
01:39:45,760 --> 01:39:50,040
Speaker 1: me let the story end. Me insert something in to

2084
01:39:50,120 --> 01:39:52,000
Speaker 1: blow it out. And that's his next story.

2085
01:39:52,080 --> 01:39:55,519
Speaker 3: Oh dear, I'm cutting off my dysfunctional family and using

2086
01:39:55,560 --> 01:39:58,679
Speaker 3: the inheritance to start fresh. I'm not giving my family

2087
01:39:58,760 --> 01:40:01,639
Speaker 3: a cent, asshole. You know, it's kind of nice when

2088
01:40:01,680 --> 01:40:05,120
Speaker 3: you're leaving a dysfunctional family to get some money to function.

2089
01:40:05,360 --> 01:40:07,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, from that same family, I'm assuming.

2090
01:40:07,360 --> 01:40:12,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's pretty nice function money conjunction junction. What's your

2091
01:40:12,760 --> 01:40:16,439
Speaker 3: function function? It's to take the money and run. Yeah,

2092
01:40:16,720 --> 01:40:17,519
Speaker 3: that's my function.

2093
01:40:17,680 --> 01:40:22,080
Speaker 1: This story actually comes from our subreddit r slash okop

2094
01:40:22,280 --> 01:40:26,160
Speaker 1: show and it's posted by Panda Natural fifteen thirteen. Also,

2095
01:40:26,240 --> 01:40:28,559
Speaker 1: this is written very well, so I appreciate you Pandrin.

2096
01:40:28,600 --> 01:40:31,240
Speaker 1: Now we love great writers in our subreddit. I twenty

2097
01:40:31,240 --> 01:40:34,200
Speaker 1: three female, am the youngest in what can only be

2098
01:40:34,280 --> 01:40:38,120
Speaker 1: described as a disastrous family. Oh god, my mother is

2099
01:40:38,120 --> 01:40:43,880
Speaker 1: a severe alcoholic and has untreated bipolar disorder. Her explosive

2100
01:40:43,960 --> 01:40:47,960
Speaker 1: emotional episodes and phases of withdrawal have become a constant

2101
01:40:48,000 --> 01:40:50,640
Speaker 1: fixture of our lives. You know what I want to

2102
01:40:50,640 --> 01:40:56,640
Speaker 1: be fixtures of my life? Oh why do you bookshelves? Bookshelves? Yeah, chandeliers.

2103
01:40:56,840 --> 01:41:00,559
Speaker 1: That is the nice filhoholic moms. That is correct. My

2104
01:41:00,640 --> 01:41:03,640
Speaker 1: father is virtually absent, like to say, like come in

2105
01:41:03,680 --> 01:41:05,320
Speaker 1: on zoom meetings or something. What does that mean? He's

2106
01:41:05,320 --> 01:41:10,240
Speaker 1: a sim He's a sim o, virtually virgual. But when

2107
01:41:10,240 --> 01:41:13,120
Speaker 1: he does grace us with his presence, he brings along

2108
01:41:13,320 --> 01:41:16,479
Speaker 1: a shadow of his gambling debts and the company of

2109
01:41:16,680 --> 01:41:20,800
Speaker 1: questionable characters. Thanks Dad. My twin brothers twenty seven are

2110
01:41:20,880 --> 01:41:24,320
Speaker 1: their own brand of calamity. One is spiraling in a

2111
01:41:24,360 --> 01:41:27,960
Speaker 1: devastating meth addiction, while the other hasn't stepped outside in

2112
01:41:28,040 --> 01:41:33,760
Speaker 1: two years due to a crippling gaming addiction. Gaming addiction, Bro,

2113
01:41:33,800 --> 01:41:36,240
Speaker 1: they're all addicted to different stuff. Oh my god, Yeah,

2114
01:41:36,240 --> 01:41:38,479
Speaker 1: you're right. Ope, he is addicted to posting on Reddit.

2115
01:41:38,840 --> 01:41:42,000
Speaker 1: Ooh better than those things, admits this mayhem. I've been

2116
01:41:42,040 --> 01:41:45,840
Speaker 1: working two jobs while also studying psychology and university. Let's

2117
01:41:45,840 --> 01:41:49,840
Speaker 1: co op, get that money, bro. In spite of your

2118
01:41:49,880 --> 01:41:53,519
Speaker 1: whole family being awful, you're freaking, freaking rising to the engagement.

2119
01:41:53,560 --> 01:41:57,400
Speaker 1: You know what? OP is addicted to success? Yeah, or

2120
01:41:57,439 --> 01:42:00,280
Speaker 1: the thought of bills? OPI hmmm. I'm a few months

2121
01:42:00,280 --> 01:42:02,959
Speaker 1: from graduating and have the chance to escape this chaos.

2122
01:42:03,000 --> 01:42:06,759
Speaker 1: But here is the controversial part. My strange grandmother recently

2123
01:42:06,760 --> 01:42:10,480
Speaker 1: passed away and surprisingly left me with a sizeable inheritance,

2124
01:42:10,720 --> 01:42:13,080
Speaker 1: enough to give me a fresh start far away from

2125
01:42:13,120 --> 01:42:15,880
Speaker 1: my family and their issues. However, it also feels like

2126
01:42:15,880 --> 01:42:18,160
Speaker 1: a lifeline I could use to help my family, get

2127
01:42:18,200 --> 01:42:21,880
Speaker 1: them into therapy or rehab, slash, pay off my father's debts.

2128
01:42:22,160 --> 01:42:25,000
Speaker 1: Despite this, I am strongly leaning towards cutting ties with

2129
01:42:25,040 --> 01:42:28,040
Speaker 1: them completely, using this inheritance for my own fresh start

2130
01:42:28,360 --> 01:42:32,360
Speaker 1: therapy and continuing education. I love that the prospect of

2131
01:42:32,400 --> 01:42:35,680
Speaker 1: throwing myself back into the pit of my family's dysfunctionality

2132
01:42:35,880 --> 01:42:39,000
Speaker 1: terrifies me, and I fear it will consume me entirely

2133
01:42:39,040 --> 01:42:41,120
Speaker 1: if I don't distance myself. I mean, it sounds like

2134
01:42:41,360 --> 01:42:43,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know how big this inheritance is,

2135
01:42:43,960 --> 01:42:46,960
Speaker 1: but if any like millions of dollars, I don't know

2136
01:42:47,000 --> 01:42:51,639
Speaker 1: if any amount of money is going to solve what's

2137
01:42:51,680 --> 01:42:54,920
Speaker 1: going on with your family A hundred I think you

2138
01:42:54,920 --> 01:42:56,599
Speaker 1: need to get your your shit right.

2139
01:42:56,800 --> 01:42:59,439
Speaker 2: You'd probably burn through it and be either at the

2140
01:42:59,479 --> 01:43:00,519
Speaker 2: same place or worse.

2141
01:43:00,560 --> 01:43:03,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I would, Ope, I would. I would cut

2142
01:43:03,720 --> 01:43:06,960
Speaker 1: it in run one hundred percent. But the guilt is overwhelming.

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01:43:07,160 --> 01:43:10,120
Speaker 1: Am I the asshole for considering leaving my family behind

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01:43:10,240 --> 01:43:13,479
Speaker 1: given their struggles when I have the means to potentially

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01:43:13,479 --> 01:43:15,639
Speaker 1: help them. How can I ensure they get the assistance

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01:43:15,680 --> 01:43:19,120
Speaker 1: they need while also safeguarding my own mental well being.

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01:43:19,520 --> 01:43:24,439
Speaker 1: I appreciate any advice or similar experiences. Thank you, Reddit, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I want to know what all of you think. Put

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01:43:26,439 --> 01:43:30,280
Speaker 1: your answers below, But John, what are your thoughts on

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01:43:30,320 --> 01:43:31,120
Speaker 1: OP situations?

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01:43:31,240 --> 01:43:33,760
Speaker 3: Man, I'm very curious to hear everyone's thoughts because I

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01:43:33,800 --> 01:43:36,680
Speaker 3: think this is definitely a tricky one. It seems like

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01:43:36,960 --> 01:43:40,880
Speaker 3: this like thresholds of dysfunctionality where it's like it's just

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01:43:40,920 --> 01:43:44,120
Speaker 3: a lost cause and maybe op's helped in other ways,

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01:43:44,120 --> 01:43:47,320
Speaker 3: and uh, it just didn't pan out to anything. If

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01:43:47,360 --> 01:43:50,240
Speaker 3: there is something like I think there could be situations

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01:43:50,240 --> 01:43:53,360
Speaker 3: where some family members are like a family member could

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01:43:53,439 --> 01:43:57,120
Speaker 3: be just before that, and it's it's tempting to do it.

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01:43:57,240 --> 01:44:02,120
Speaker 3: But if we're seeing everything and understanding it as it is,

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01:44:02,520 --> 01:44:07,320
Speaker 3: it seems like the best thing to do is to

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01:44:08,400 --> 01:44:08,800
Speaker 3: move on.

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01:44:09,520 --> 01:44:11,559
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, I mean it's like it's the whole thing.

2163
01:44:11,600 --> 01:44:13,080
Speaker 1: If you know, you don't fill your own cup, you're

2164
01:44:13,080 --> 01:44:15,439
Speaker 1: not gonna be able to fill anyone else's. Yeah. I

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01:44:15,479 --> 01:44:18,519
Speaker 1: think OP needs to really take care of themselves first. Yeah,

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01:44:18,520 --> 01:44:20,960
Speaker 1: and then maybe later they can come back in and help.

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01:44:21,040 --> 01:44:25,160
Speaker 1: But I don't think spending all your money on fixing

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01:44:25,240 --> 01:44:27,519
Speaker 1: your family. One I don't know if it'll even help,

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01:44:27,560 --> 01:44:30,639
Speaker 1: And two, I think it is just going to suck

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01:44:30,960 --> 01:44:32,439
Speaker 1: your mental health in a way in a way that

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01:44:32,680 --> 01:44:35,040
Speaker 1: will prevent you from helping your family in the future.

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01:44:35,200 --> 01:44:37,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, because like one thing could do like let's say,

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01:44:38,200 --> 01:44:41,080
Speaker 3: let's say op had an extra like two hundred grand

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01:44:41,120 --> 01:44:43,920
Speaker 3: to split between them, right, like, hey, use this to

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01:44:43,960 --> 01:44:46,880
Speaker 3: work on Like I'm I'm not gonna get dragged into this,

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01:44:47,000 --> 01:44:49,240
Speaker 3: but I'll give you this to do with your problems

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01:44:49,320 --> 01:44:53,519
Speaker 3: that will probably only exacerbate whatever's going on, especially the

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01:44:53,600 --> 01:44:54,160
Speaker 3: meThe addiction.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so the gambling addiction got aniction make I'm a man,

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01:45:02,120 --> 01:45:05,040
Speaker 1: not a good idea, right, So yeah, I hope. I

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01:45:05,080 --> 01:45:07,080
Speaker 1: think you got to get your your your shit together.

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01:45:07,200 --> 01:45:09,400
Speaker 1: I think so. I think so keep doing you, keep

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01:45:09,400 --> 01:45:12,880
Speaker 1: building yourself up, pee, keep building yourself and also keep

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01:45:12,920 --> 01:45:16,240
Speaker 1: building a relationship with us by maybe subscribing. Have you

2185
01:45:16,280 --> 01:45:18,960
Speaker 1: thought about that? Have you thought about it before? You should? Yeah,

2186
01:45:19,200 --> 01:45:23,719
Speaker 1: consider subscribing and stop just like being such a tease.

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01:45:23,920 --> 01:45:26,280
Speaker 1: How about you put a ring on and yeah, or

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01:45:26,360 --> 01:45:30,800
Speaker 1: just thrust in with that little push. Stop.

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01:45:31,439 --> 01:45:34,240
Speaker 3: I refuse to return my boyfriend's five thousand dollars gift

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01:45:34,320 --> 01:45:35,800
Speaker 3: because he's an insecure simp.

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01:45:36,040 --> 01:45:37,879
Speaker 1: Hey deserves this, am I They whole.

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01:45:37,880 --> 01:45:41,120
Speaker 3: Simps deserve to be stolen from steal their girlfriends, steal.

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01:45:40,880 --> 01:45:42,639
Speaker 1: Their watches, their watches.

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01:45:42,760 --> 01:45:46,559
Speaker 2: Wow, what a specific threat it is.

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01:45:46,800 --> 01:45:49,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want them to know the time I'm

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01:45:49,640 --> 01:45:51,240
Speaker 1: coming or the time will pack again.

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01:45:51,400 --> 01:45:55,599
Speaker 3: Oh wow, I'll leave them without time, I guess so, well,

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01:45:56,040 --> 01:45:57,639
Speaker 3: wouldn't they want to know the time you're coming?

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01:45:58,120 --> 01:45:59,400
Speaker 1: No, I don't want them to know that. I wanted

2200
01:45:59,400 --> 01:46:02,600
Speaker 1: it to be surprised so they can father your child.

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01:46:02,920 --> 01:46:05,640
Speaker 1: I want them to father my child because because I

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01:46:05,640 --> 01:46:06,479
Speaker 1: don't want the responsible what.

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01:46:06,560 --> 01:46:11,120
Speaker 3: Time are you coming? Overtaking the simps and then making

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01:46:11,160 --> 01:46:11,760
Speaker 3: that true.

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01:46:11,800 --> 01:46:13,679
Speaker 1: Well, no, if they don't know what time I'm coming,

2206
01:46:13,760 --> 01:46:16,800
Speaker 1: then they don't know if it's their child.

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01:46:16,600 --> 01:46:19,240
Speaker 3: Or my child exactly. And then they have to raise

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01:46:19,240 --> 01:46:20,320
Speaker 3: your child because there's a SIMP.

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01:46:20,400 --> 01:46:26,679
Speaker 1: Right, sims raised my child unless baby Daddy Hunters comes

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01:46:26,720 --> 01:46:31,320
Speaker 1: and solves the case. That's right, comes all right, So

2211
01:46:32,160 --> 01:46:37,600
Speaker 1: Ione said on Someone commented the other day, can you

2212
01:46:37,640 --> 01:46:40,080
Speaker 1: really stop with the sex jokes? And I'm like, bro,

2213
01:46:40,479 --> 01:46:41,800
Speaker 1: what channel do you think you're off?

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01:46:43,520 --> 01:46:43,640
Speaker 7: Like?

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01:46:43,720 --> 01:46:45,960
Speaker 1: What world do you fucking think you're on? We actually

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01:46:46,080 --> 01:46:51,680
Speaker 1: want to call her call him out dot wow d

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01:46:51,800 --> 01:46:55,000
Speaker 1: A U G H T wow. I wish you'd start

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01:46:55,040 --> 01:46:57,680
Speaker 1: with the sex jokes all the time. This is a

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01:46:57,720 --> 01:47:04,120
Speaker 1: sexual podcast apparently. If you can't handle sex jokes, and

2220
01:47:04,240 --> 01:47:06,000
Speaker 1: I don't know why you're here, how do you handle

2221
01:47:06,840 --> 01:47:09,360
Speaker 1: telling people telling you to stop doing sex jokes? More

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01:47:09,439 --> 01:47:12,439
Speaker 1: sex joke, sex jokes and all the fuels by sex drive.

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01:47:12,560 --> 01:47:16,280
Speaker 3: That's true, tell those jokes. You're just rearing. I'm rearing,

2224
01:47:17,000 --> 01:47:21,559
Speaker 3: I'm mounting, I'm I'm in a heat like a dog

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01:47:21,600 --> 01:47:26,920
Speaker 3: in heat. Yeah, we'll read the story. So I female,

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01:47:26,960 --> 01:47:29,360
Speaker 3: twenty five, have a friend Logan, male twenty five, and

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01:47:29,360 --> 01:47:32,880
Speaker 3: we've been friends since we were seven or eight. Maybe

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01:47:33,040 --> 01:47:36,479
Speaker 3: this might be the biggest YouTuber on the planet. I

2229
01:47:36,479 --> 01:47:39,360
Speaker 3: have a boyfriend, Matt, who I've been dating for seven months.

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01:47:40,000 --> 01:47:42,160
Speaker 3: My birthday was last week and I had dinner and

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01:47:42,200 --> 01:47:44,240
Speaker 3: I had a dinner party for some friends before we

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01:47:44,280 --> 01:47:46,160
Speaker 3: all went out to a club. There were eight of us,

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01:47:46,160 --> 01:47:49,080
Speaker 3: including Logan and Matt. We had a little bit of

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01:47:49,120 --> 01:47:52,280
Speaker 3: a gift opening before dessert, and Logan gifted me an

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01:47:52,320 --> 01:47:54,719
Speaker 3: old copy of The Great.

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01:47:54,560 --> 01:47:58,840
Speaker 1: Gatsbie Great Great Great movie. Class I ever read the book,

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01:47:59,240 --> 01:48:00,719
Speaker 1: but I'm assuming it's a good book.

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01:48:00,760 --> 01:48:02,360
Speaker 3: I felt like I started reading the book and then

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01:48:02,400 --> 01:48:04,760
Speaker 3: I stopped because I was lazy, and I did.

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01:48:05,120 --> 01:48:08,679
Speaker 1: I just watched Leonardo DiCaprio instead. I mean, bro way

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01:48:08,680 --> 01:48:12,920
Speaker 1: better fucking swanky. He's like, oh god, you know, there's

2242
01:48:12,960 --> 01:48:16,200
Speaker 1: like fireworks going on. I noticed your twenty five. Let's

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01:48:16,200 --> 01:48:19,040
Speaker 1: have a chat. No, no, no, I noticed you were twenty five.

2244
01:48:19,120 --> 01:48:22,320
Speaker 1: Let's stop talking. Yeah, it's only twenty four and below

2245
01:48:22,320 --> 01:48:25,080
Speaker 1: for Leo. Oh that's how I find is the magic

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01:48:25,160 --> 01:48:27,479
Speaker 1: number where he's just like you.

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01:48:27,880 --> 01:48:31,719
Speaker 2: I forgot that twenty five is your is fully developed?

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01:48:33,800 --> 01:48:38,639
Speaker 3: God. The book has a special significance to us because

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01:48:38,640 --> 01:48:41,080
Speaker 3: for many years Logan and I lived in different countries.

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01:48:41,400 --> 01:48:43,400
Speaker 3: We kept in contact, but we didn't see each other

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01:48:43,400 --> 01:48:45,839
Speaker 3: in person for about four years.

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01:48:46,680 --> 01:48:49,960
Speaker 2: Wow, that is a long long distance relationship.

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01:48:50,400 --> 01:48:52,680
Speaker 1: We didn't see Wait, they didn't see each other for

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01:48:52,720 --> 01:48:56,760
Speaker 1: four years in person for four years, and they were dating. Yes,

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01:48:56,920 --> 01:48:59,320
Speaker 1: wait they were dating and no, no, they were friends.

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01:49:00,120 --> 01:49:01,719
Speaker 1: Yes I think they were friends. Out they were friends?

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01:49:01,760 --> 01:49:04,240
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, Okay.

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01:49:04,320 --> 01:49:06,680
Speaker 3: We finally got our parents to agree for me to

2259
01:49:06,720 --> 01:49:08,879
Speaker 3: fly to his country to visit in twenty thirteen.

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01:49:09,520 --> 01:49:10,960
Speaker 1: We were talking about what we were.

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01:49:10,880 --> 01:49:12,759
Speaker 3: Going to do on the visit, and I really wanted

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01:49:12,760 --> 01:49:15,240
Speaker 3: to go and see the Great Gatsby movie, which had

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01:49:15,280 --> 01:49:15,799
Speaker 3: just come.

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01:49:15,640 --> 01:49:18,320
Speaker 1: Out, and it's my favorite book. Okay.

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01:49:19,960 --> 01:49:22,639
Speaker 3: Logan had never even heard of it, and I said

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01:49:22,640 --> 01:49:24,360
Speaker 3: that he had to read it before we went to

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01:49:24,400 --> 01:49:25,040
Speaker 3: see the movie.

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01:49:25,520 --> 01:49:26,960
Speaker 2: Logan was never academic.

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01:49:27,240 --> 01:49:31,160
Speaker 1: Because he's never academic. That's one way to say that

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01:49:31,200 --> 01:49:33,280
Speaker 1: your your friend is an idiot.

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01:49:35,240 --> 01:49:38,160
Speaker 3: And to this day, it is the only fiction book

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01:49:38,280 --> 01:49:41,519
Speaker 3: he has ever read, all the way through, not counting

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01:49:41,680 --> 01:49:42,640
Speaker 3: children's books.

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01:49:43,360 --> 01:49:47,439
Speaker 1: Wow, well maybe it's the only fiction book. And he's

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01:49:47,439 --> 01:49:50,960
Speaker 1: read like a lot of historical I mean memoirs that

2276
01:49:51,200 --> 01:49:53,000
Speaker 1: that could be. He could just be like more guy,

2277
01:49:53,040 --> 01:49:55,200
Speaker 1: it's like, oh, like fiction, Like I want to read

2278
01:49:55,280 --> 01:49:57,680
Speaker 1: true stories. I'm like trying to read the biography of

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01:49:57,720 --> 01:50:00,479
Speaker 1: Dallason Mandela. Yeah, I about Alexander Hamilton. You know what

2280
01:50:00,520 --> 01:50:03,200
Speaker 1: I mean, the real freaking Meatavid, you know what I mean,

2281
01:50:03,360 --> 01:50:06,120
Speaker 1: real people. Stupid Logan.

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01:50:06,760 --> 01:50:08,439
Speaker 3: When I ever asked him to do me a favor,

2283
01:50:08,520 --> 01:50:12,000
Speaker 3: he always replies, I read The Great gats before you,

2284
01:50:12,040 --> 01:50:12,479
Speaker 3: so I.

2285
01:50:12,479 --> 01:50:14,320
Speaker 1: May as well. And it's a running joke.

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01:50:15,080 --> 01:50:18,280
Speaker 3: We always go big on birthdays, but this book means

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01:50:18,520 --> 01:50:21,320
Speaker 3: so much to me. The day after, Matt said he

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01:50:21,360 --> 01:50:25,920
Speaker 3: felt the book was an inappropriate gift because of how

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01:50:25,920 --> 01:50:26,760
Speaker 3: expensive it is.

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01:50:27,439 --> 01:50:29,920
Speaker 1: Wait wait, so the book it's like a first edition

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01:50:30,000 --> 01:50:33,080
Speaker 1: copy or way? I'm confused, yeah.

2292
01:50:33,000 --> 01:50:40,960
Speaker 3: Logan, Oh yeah, So her boyfriend Matt is saying that

2293
01:50:41,040 --> 01:50:42,600
Speaker 3: the gift is too expensive.

2294
01:50:43,400 --> 01:50:47,559
Speaker 1: Okay, wait wait, so Opie has a boyfriend, not Logan friend,

2295
01:50:48,479 --> 01:50:52,000
Speaker 1: Logan his friend. And then there's Opie's boyfriend, Matt, whose

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01:50:52,120 --> 01:50:57,000
Speaker 1: name is Matt. Yes, Logan gave op a gift and

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01:50:57,040 --> 01:50:59,800
Speaker 1: it was was it a first edition? Like? What was

2298
01:50:59,840 --> 01:51:00,920
Speaker 1: what was special by the book?

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01:51:00,960 --> 01:51:02,960
Speaker 2: I think I guess somewhere.

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01:51:03,080 --> 01:51:07,720
Speaker 3: I don't know if we get the most specific granular details,

2301
01:51:08,840 --> 01:51:10,799
Speaker 3: but I think it was worth five thousand.

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01:51:11,720 --> 01:51:13,559
Speaker 1: Tell me everyone asked me about book.

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01:51:14,200 --> 01:51:17,439
Speaker 7: It's a nineteen twenty five edition, well known to be

2304
01:51:17,680 --> 01:51:18,719
Speaker 7: fairly rare.

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01:51:18,880 --> 01:51:21,639
Speaker 1: The price is fare if you ever, everyone wants to know.

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01:51:22,120 --> 01:51:24,639
Speaker 7: The price of the range is somewhere in the middle.

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01:51:24,760 --> 01:51:27,760
Speaker 1: I'm not going to say the exact amount. Okay. So

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01:51:28,040 --> 01:51:32,200
Speaker 1: Opie's friend got a nineteen twenty five edition of The

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01:51:32,240 --> 01:51:38,400
Speaker 1: Great Gatsby, Op's favorite book, possibly worth around five grand, right?

2310
01:51:38,520 --> 01:51:39,599
Speaker 1: Is that true? Five grand?

2311
01:51:39,960 --> 01:51:44,960
Speaker 7: The first the rare first edition I sold for hundred grand,

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01:51:45,400 --> 01:51:46,840
Speaker 7: fifty grand, that's the first.

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01:51:46,600 --> 01:51:50,400
Speaker 3: Solder wha, no, yeah, that's not this one's but like

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01:51:50,640 --> 01:51:53,559
Speaker 3: that's I guess book that kind of makes sense.

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01:51:53,640 --> 01:51:55,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it's one of the most famous books.

2316
01:51:55,560 --> 01:51:56,880
Speaker 1: That is true. That is true.

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01:51:57,200 --> 01:51:58,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, who could prepare my that much for a

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01:51:59,000 --> 01:52:01,680
Speaker 3: book I've heard of the library.

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01:52:03,360 --> 01:52:06,800
Speaker 1: Point is, the thing is a little expensive, yes, and

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01:52:06,840 --> 01:52:09,240
Speaker 1: it's making the boyfriend feel like shit because he's like, oh,

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01:52:09,280 --> 01:52:12,280
Speaker 1: like I got her like a heart shaped netflix or

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01:52:12,320 --> 01:52:14,479
Speaker 1: a heart because I got her like a heart shaped

2323
01:52:14,520 --> 01:52:18,200
Speaker 1: necklace from Kay's jeweler. Wow, And here he is getting

2324
01:52:18,360 --> 01:52:21,760
Speaker 1: her like the perfect gift case jeweler try clayers. Yeah,

2325
01:52:22,840 --> 01:52:26,080
Speaker 1: little chain mark all over and neck. But dude, yeah,

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01:52:26,120 --> 01:52:29,360
Speaker 1: I mean, like I see the boyfriend's point of view.

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01:52:29,400 --> 01:52:32,040
Speaker 1: He's like, fuck, I gotta step up my game, babe.

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01:52:32,080 --> 01:52:34,120
Speaker 1: I can only get you things that are in Amazon

2329
01:52:34,200 --> 01:52:38,000
Speaker 1: twenty four hour delivery. Yeah, because that's all I'm thinking ahead. Yeah,

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01:52:38,120 --> 01:52:41,720
Speaker 1: I live in the moment, babe. Yeah. I think the

2331
01:52:41,760 --> 01:52:45,519
Speaker 1: boyfriend's being insecure for sure. Yeah, but I see why

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01:52:45,800 --> 01:52:47,639
Speaker 1: because this is like the perfect gift. That's true.

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01:52:48,439 --> 01:52:51,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's it's the cost, but it's also the sentimental,

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01:52:52,000 --> 01:52:55,240
Speaker 3: softful like it's off the charts, off the chart, off

2335
01:52:55,240 --> 01:52:58,519
Speaker 3: the charts. I tried to explain to him that it

2336
01:52:58,600 --> 01:53:01,439
Speaker 3: is just a sentimental gift and that the cost isn't

2337
01:53:01,439 --> 01:53:03,960
Speaker 3: the point, but Matt said he feels weird about another

2338
01:53:04,040 --> 01:53:08,280
Speaker 3: man gifting me something that costs more than his car.

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01:53:09,479 --> 01:53:13,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's what it probably costs like ten grand,

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01:53:13,160 --> 01:53:18,120
Speaker 1: fifteen grand, I have to twenty grand. Yeah, maybe ten grand, maybe.

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01:53:17,960 --> 01:53:20,680
Speaker 3: Has a shavy shady car five to fifteen five or

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01:53:20,680 --> 01:53:21,559
Speaker 3: twenty five to twenty.

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01:53:21,920 --> 01:53:23,320
Speaker 1: I mean it was like what, like I guess like

2344
01:53:23,360 --> 01:53:24,759
Speaker 1: a Prius is like twenty grand.

2345
01:53:24,960 --> 01:53:27,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I mean you could get like a old

2346
01:53:27,720 --> 01:53:32,080
Speaker 3: like Ford Crown Victoria for two brand, they're like twenty

2347
01:53:32,080 --> 01:53:32,800
Speaker 3: five to twenty six.

2348
01:53:33,280 --> 01:53:37,280
Speaker 1: Okay, I probably ten grand yeeah, but that that is.

2349
01:53:37,280 --> 01:53:43,200
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie a crazy amount of money to

2350
01:53:43,320 --> 01:53:47,599
Speaker 3: drop on a just a frind. Yeah, I mean that

2351
01:53:47,800 --> 01:53:51,400
Speaker 3: is in like pretty fucking insane.

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01:53:51,520 --> 01:53:53,479
Speaker 1: That's crazy. That's a lot of mine. I mean, how

2353
01:53:53,479 --> 01:53:56,040
Speaker 1: would you feel if like one of your friends got

2354
01:53:56,080 --> 01:53:58,240
Speaker 1: your girlfriend like a five thousand dollars gift?

2355
01:53:59,080 --> 01:54:02,200
Speaker 3: Be kind of strange. It depends can I enjoy it too?

2356
01:54:02,720 --> 01:54:06,599
Speaker 3: Then I'd be It's it's a book. Generation fuck a book.

2357
01:54:07,000 --> 01:54:10,720
Speaker 3: I need a jacuzzi. Yeah, then I'm like it's all good.

2358
01:54:10,880 --> 01:54:12,920
Speaker 1: Like what I like, what if it's like the equipped, Like,

2359
01:54:12,960 --> 01:54:15,240
Speaker 1: what if it's like jewelry or I mean that's that's

2360
01:54:15,640 --> 01:54:18,040
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not quite jeweler. Jewelry is more like

2361
01:54:18,600 --> 01:54:20,800
Speaker 1: in your face, like yeah, hitting on your girlfriend with

2362
01:54:20,840 --> 01:54:22,839
Speaker 1: this gift? Yeah, like a book.

2363
01:54:23,200 --> 01:54:25,640
Speaker 3: It also depends because, like we've talked about before, like oh,

2364
01:54:25,680 --> 01:54:27,600
Speaker 3: if a guy gets her drinks, then she's gonna like

2365
01:54:27,680 --> 01:54:29,360
Speaker 3: juice it to get all of a strings, you know

2366
01:54:29,400 --> 01:54:30,559
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like you don't give.

2367
01:54:30,400 --> 01:54:31,840
Speaker 1: A fuck about that kind of thing. So if it's

2368
01:54:31,880 --> 01:54:33,120
Speaker 1: like that, this is like, this is not like some

2369
01:54:33,240 --> 01:54:36,280
Speaker 1: random guy. This is like a like a close friend.

2370
01:54:36,120 --> 01:54:39,400
Speaker 3: Would definitely be like, yo, this is a little crazy,

2371
01:54:39,560 --> 01:54:41,840
Speaker 3: like but like it is a good friend.

2372
01:54:42,400 --> 01:54:44,520
Speaker 1: It is a good friend. But I got a Christian

2373
01:54:44,680 --> 01:54:47,160
Speaker 1: like a very expensive motorcycle helmet for his birthday?

2374
01:54:48,200 --> 01:54:51,640
Speaker 3: Was it ten thousand dollars? And he doesn't have a vagina.

2375
01:54:51,720 --> 01:54:54,640
Speaker 1: That's true, so hey, but he's got a hole that

2376
01:54:54,760 --> 01:54:59,160
Speaker 1: he does. Well, let's let's find out. There's bound to

2377
01:54:59,200 --> 01:54:59,520
Speaker 1: be more.

2378
01:55:00,280 --> 01:55:02,560
Speaker 3: This argument went on for a long time, and Matt

2379
01:55:02,560 --> 01:55:05,080
Speaker 3: said that he thinks that I should return the book

2380
01:55:05,480 --> 01:55:07,440
Speaker 3: and if it means so much to the both of

2381
01:55:07,520 --> 01:55:10,520
Speaker 3: us that Logan can keep it, I told him to

2382
01:55:10,640 --> 01:55:13,040
Speaker 3: grow up. We've been having this fight on and off

2383
01:55:13,080 --> 01:55:15,640
Speaker 3: for a week. Matt is saying that it's Logan straight.

2384
01:55:16,760 --> 01:55:20,240
Speaker 3: We don't know, we don't know. Matt saying that it's

2385
01:55:20,280 --> 01:55:23,400
Speaker 3: reasonable for him to be uncomfortable, but I think he's

2386
01:55:23,440 --> 01:55:24,920
Speaker 3: being a jealous child.

2387
01:55:25,240 --> 01:55:27,760
Speaker 1: It's not like Logan gave me a giant diamond necklace

2388
01:55:27,840 --> 01:55:30,400
Speaker 1: just to show off. Yeah, the diamond thatckus would be

2389
01:55:30,440 --> 01:55:31,160
Speaker 1: like way more.

2390
01:55:31,200 --> 01:55:35,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, way more direct. Yeah. He gave me something heartfelt

2391
01:55:35,480 --> 01:55:38,000
Speaker 3: that means the world to me, and I think that

2392
01:55:38,040 --> 01:55:40,560
Speaker 3: should be more important than the fact that Matt thinks

2393
01:55:40,600 --> 01:55:43,879
Speaker 3: it's outside of what he deems as an acceptable budget.

2394
01:55:44,520 --> 01:55:46,560
Speaker 3: My mother is saying, to give Matt the benefit of

2395
01:55:46,600 --> 01:55:48,760
Speaker 3: the doubt and maybe ask Logan to keep the book

2396
01:55:48,760 --> 01:55:51,080
Speaker 3: for now, and if one day Matt is more secure,

2397
01:55:51,720 --> 01:55:55,000
Speaker 3: I can take it back. That's funny, that's hilarious. My

2398
01:55:55,120 --> 01:55:58,680
Speaker 3: dad is saying that Matt's an idiot. My girlfriends are split.

2399
01:55:59,440 --> 01:56:06,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, was thern at it? Yes, I mean

2400
01:56:06,280 --> 01:56:12,280
Speaker 1: so far, Matt's definitely being insecure. Yep, right, it is

2401
01:56:12,320 --> 01:56:17,440
Speaker 1: a crazy gift to give, a crazy gift to give, like.

2402
01:56:20,080 --> 01:56:22,360
Speaker 3: You know, I mean maybe this guy's like crazy balling.

2403
01:56:22,440 --> 01:56:24,760
Speaker 3: But I feel like she would mention that if like, oh,

2404
01:56:24,800 --> 01:56:26,760
Speaker 3: he has like some crazy trust fund and he just

2405
01:56:26,800 --> 01:56:28,640
Speaker 3: like spends money like it's nothing.

2406
01:56:28,720 --> 01:56:30,720
Speaker 1: I feel like, op, you would mention that in her

2407
01:56:30,880 --> 01:56:34,440
Speaker 1: like in defense. Maybe it like what if like if

2408
01:56:34,440 --> 01:56:36,880
Speaker 1: he's crazy ball and then it's like whatever, right, then

2409
01:56:36,920 --> 01:56:39,320
Speaker 1: it's not Yeah yeah, if he's not, Like what if

2410
01:56:39,320 --> 01:56:40,800
Speaker 1: it's like he had to sell his car to give

2411
01:56:40,840 --> 01:56:41,080
Speaker 1: it her to.

2412
01:56:41,120 --> 01:56:45,600
Speaker 3: This book, that's like that's a lot of money. It

2413
01:56:45,680 --> 01:56:47,280
Speaker 3: costs more than her boyfriend's car.

2414
01:56:47,520 --> 01:56:50,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I don't think it's it's not

2415
01:56:51,120 --> 01:56:55,560
Speaker 1: like a it's definitely an insecurity thing. Yeah right, it's

2416
01:56:55,600 --> 01:56:59,000
Speaker 1: just like I'm just I'm just wondering, like what what

2417
01:56:59,000 --> 01:57:01,880
Speaker 1: what are what are the stude's intentions?

2418
01:57:02,160 --> 01:57:04,120
Speaker 2: That's the thing. And I think it's actually could be

2419
01:57:04,160 --> 01:57:04,880
Speaker 2: totally fine.

2420
01:57:05,000 --> 01:57:07,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could be totally fine, totally fine, and it's

2421
01:57:07,320 --> 01:57:09,240
Speaker 1: a it probably is totally fine.

2422
01:57:09,000 --> 01:57:14,120
Speaker 3: And it's amazing, like dope things your friend like that's amazing.

2423
01:57:14,240 --> 01:57:15,920
Speaker 2: It's just like I could see being a.

2424
01:57:15,840 --> 01:57:20,160
Speaker 1: Little insecure with like one of my girlfriend's straight friend,

2425
01:57:20,680 --> 01:57:22,080
Speaker 1: straight attractive friends.

2426
01:57:22,960 --> 01:57:27,800
Speaker 3: But but you drop it on a producer Riley.

2427
01:57:27,720 --> 01:57:32,160
Speaker 7: Oka is there is a love triangle the Great gas

2428
01:57:32,520 --> 01:57:36,600
Speaker 7: that has a lot of money, uh, and the girl

2429
01:57:36,720 --> 01:57:38,920
Speaker 7: is with the other guy, but she goes to the

2430
01:57:38,960 --> 01:57:43,160
Speaker 7: guy that has a lot of money.

2431
01:57:42,120 --> 01:57:45,400
Speaker 1: Later a second, he's trying to get with your girl.

2432
01:57:45,680 --> 01:57:48,280
Speaker 1: That is dude. I think you just cracked it. You

2433
01:57:48,680 --> 01:57:51,400
Speaker 1: cracked it. Wow, that was crazy, bro, that you just

2434
01:57:51,640 --> 01:57:55,440
Speaker 1: potted hard as fuck. Dude. That was dude. Yeah, right,

2435
01:57:55,440 --> 01:57:58,720
Speaker 1: You've got a great point. That was content. Okay, Now

2436
01:57:59,320 --> 01:58:02,040
Speaker 1: this is happening to me. I'm like, yo, what the fuck?

2437
01:58:02,640 --> 01:58:08,960
Speaker 1: What the fuck is going on? Michael? Yeah? Do you

2438
01:58:08,920 --> 01:58:10,480
Speaker 1: want to can I can I ask you a quick question?

2439
01:58:10,760 --> 01:58:14,919
Speaker 1: Do you want to come over here on record drop everything?

2440
01:58:15,720 --> 01:58:18,760
Speaker 1: Have you read The Great Gatsby? Okay? All right, career

2441
01:58:19,720 --> 01:58:25,520
Speaker 1: squat squat squat right here really quick? Okay, all right, Michael,

2442
01:58:25,520 --> 01:58:31,360
Speaker 1: you're in a relationship, yes, okay, So an old time friend,

2443
01:58:31,560 --> 01:58:34,600
Speaker 1: this is the hypothetical, an old time friend of your

2444
01:58:34,600 --> 01:58:39,160
Speaker 1: girlfriend right who recently, who might possibly be very wealthy,

2445
01:58:39,640 --> 01:58:44,200
Speaker 1: bought your girlfriend her favorite book, The Great Gatsby, Right,

2446
01:58:44,920 --> 01:58:47,640
Speaker 1: and not only bought the book but bought a nineteen

2447
01:58:47,720 --> 01:58:52,200
Speaker 1: twenty five original copy worth like more than your car,

2448
01:58:52,240 --> 01:58:56,080
Speaker 1: whatever car you have. How does that make you feel,

2449
01:58:56,280 --> 01:58:59,240
Speaker 1: especially within the context of what The Great Gatsby is about,

2450
01:58:59,760 --> 01:59:00,760
Speaker 1: that that man's in love.

2451
01:59:00,840 --> 01:59:03,680
Speaker 3: There ain't no question that man is in love deeply,

2452
01:59:03,840 --> 01:59:07,080
Speaker 3: and I would be extremely concerned, right, But I would

2453
01:59:07,080 --> 01:59:09,160
Speaker 3: also be very happy to own a nineteen twenty five

2454
01:59:09,240 --> 01:59:11,440
Speaker 3: copy of The Great gats So I'd be a little torn,

2455
01:59:11,480 --> 01:59:14,880
Speaker 3: you know, I'd be a little torn charges to the game, baby.

2456
01:59:14,800 --> 01:59:17,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude. And like Riley was saying, it's like like

2457
01:59:17,760 --> 01:59:21,040
Speaker 1: The Great Gatsby is about like like a I watched

2458
01:59:21,040 --> 01:59:23,520
Speaker 1: the movie like a while ago, but I think it's

2459
01:59:24,360 --> 01:59:28,680
Speaker 1: it's but it's like rich guy, poor guy girl, girls

2460
01:59:28,720 --> 01:59:31,920
Speaker 1: with poor guy rich guys wooing girl. I think it's

2461
01:59:31,920 --> 01:59:32,680
Speaker 1: a clear message.

2462
01:59:32,880 --> 01:59:34,280
Speaker 3: I think we all know what he's trying to say,

2463
01:59:34,320 --> 01:59:36,400
Speaker 3: all right, I think we all know. It's not very

2464
01:59:36,440 --> 01:59:40,800
Speaker 3: subtle really when you think about it. Yeah, Honestly, like Matt,

2465
01:59:41,440 --> 01:59:43,440
Speaker 3: Matt hasn't read the book. He doesn't know what it's about. Right,

2466
01:59:43,880 --> 01:59:46,560
Speaker 3: Oh good, that's the boyfriend of Op.

2467
01:59:47,000 --> 01:59:49,520
Speaker 1: Well that's that's a good place to start that I would.

2468
01:59:49,360 --> 01:59:54,680
Speaker 3: Say, Actually, that's a good point. We don't know for sure,

2469
01:59:55,160 --> 01:59:57,520
Speaker 3: said he felt the book was inappropriate. I have to

2470
01:59:57,560 --> 02:00:00,000
Speaker 3: imagine he's familiar with it because it's his girlfriend's face

2471
02:00:00,080 --> 02:00:01,040
Speaker 3: written book of all time.

2472
02:00:01,720 --> 02:00:03,680
Speaker 7: Logan read it, but he's not super back.

2473
02:00:04,040 --> 02:00:06,720
Speaker 1: But I'll like, she never mentioned it. Matt read it. Yeah.

2474
02:00:06,840 --> 02:00:10,760
Speaker 3: If Matt hasn't read it, he's toast. Yeah, yeah, rich,

2475
02:00:10,880 --> 02:00:14,680
Speaker 3: good taste. Yeah, well, Logan has only read this book.

2476
02:00:14,680 --> 02:00:17,680
Speaker 3: He hasn't read like any other book. I guess he

2477
02:00:17,800 --> 02:00:20,440
Speaker 3: used as like an instruction manual, right, super rich, Now, yeah,

2478
02:00:20,480 --> 02:00:22,000
Speaker 3: there you go. He was like, he was like how

2479
02:00:22,080 --> 02:00:24,680
Speaker 3: to book. It was a beacon from God, Like this

2480
02:00:24,760 --> 02:00:26,760
Speaker 3: is how I get out? Yeah, by a self help book.

2481
02:00:26,840 --> 02:00:31,920
Speaker 3: Hell no, great, Gatsby way way better. Wow, Okay, we're

2482
02:00:31,960 --> 02:00:35,040
Speaker 3: we flipped. This is yeah, we flipped. This is trying

2483
02:00:35,040 --> 02:00:35,760
Speaker 3: to steal your girl?

2484
02:00:35,800 --> 02:00:38,200
Speaker 1: Oh yeah? Uh is there there's an edit though? Yeah?

2485
02:00:38,280 --> 02:00:41,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's the juicy Yes, Michael, do you want

2486
02:00:41,160 --> 02:00:43,120
Speaker 1: to sit with us for the edit? Here we go,

2487
02:00:43,640 --> 02:00:46,800
Speaker 1: surprise guests. Yeah, surprise guest Michael from Idea Soup.

2488
02:00:46,960 --> 02:00:50,480
Speaker 3: Okay, so edit for everyone asking about the book, it's

2489
02:00:50,480 --> 02:00:53,320
Speaker 3: a nineteen twenty five edition, as Riley mentioned well known

2490
02:00:53,320 --> 02:00:55,120
Speaker 3: to be fairly rare. The price is very but it's

2491
02:00:55,200 --> 02:00:57,160
Speaker 3: very googleable if you really want to know. There's a

2492
02:00:57,240 --> 02:00:59,040
Speaker 3: range of prices and it's somewhere in the middle. I'm

2493
02:00:59,080 --> 02:01:02,000
Speaker 3: not going to say the exis act amount. And we

2494
02:01:02,080 --> 02:01:08,320
Speaker 3: have a much juicier update. First update, Matt and I

2495
02:01:08,360 --> 02:01:09,320
Speaker 3: have broken up.

2496
02:01:10,800 --> 02:01:15,080
Speaker 1: It's over it saw it coming. He never read The

2497
02:01:15,080 --> 02:01:18,960
Speaker 1: Great Guest. Yeah, her favorite book, favorite book. You never

2498
02:01:18,960 --> 02:01:19,840
Speaker 1: read her favorite book?

2499
02:01:19,840 --> 02:01:23,880
Speaker 3: And logan literally having read no books, ever reads it.

2500
02:01:25,040 --> 02:01:27,440
Speaker 3: Find an antiq book, start all unravels.

2501
02:01:27,760 --> 02:01:31,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god. That's what makes it worse is he's

2502
02:01:31,240 --> 02:01:33,520
Speaker 1: never read a book, so he really had to try

2503
02:01:33,560 --> 02:01:36,120
Speaker 1: to find this antique book. I have this friend that

2504
02:01:36,160 --> 02:01:39,560
Speaker 1: I've known for like years who lives in another country,

2505
02:01:39,600 --> 02:01:42,800
Speaker 1: and we had kind of like like a there was

2506
02:01:42,840 --> 02:01:45,880
Speaker 1: never any relationship, but we were both interested in each other.

2507
02:01:46,040 --> 02:01:48,720
Speaker 1: But she started dating my roommate when I was in

2508
02:01:48,720 --> 02:01:51,440
Speaker 1: that other country. But we kind of kept tabs on

2509
02:01:51,480 --> 02:01:55,960
Speaker 1: each other and she's pretty cool and she's Roger in

2510
02:01:55,960 --> 02:02:01,320
Speaker 1: a relationship. There you go, she's watching this, Yeah, she's not.

2511
02:02:02,240 --> 02:02:03,560
Speaker 1: I think the.

2512
02:02:03,520 --> 02:02:07,120
Speaker 3: Sam's Love Chronicles is getting very of his heating up quite.

2513
02:02:06,880 --> 02:02:09,560
Speaker 1: A lot to introduce them, and I'm very happy for them.

2514
02:02:09,720 --> 02:02:13,160
Speaker 3: It's like that, like Charlie Day scene, and it's always yeah, yeah,

2515
02:02:13,360 --> 02:02:15,600
Speaker 3: all the red dots and strings, like you're getting the

2516
02:02:15,600 --> 02:02:18,040
Speaker 3: big picture. That's exactly Honestly, we're just gonna have to

2517
02:02:18,040 --> 02:02:21,200
Speaker 3: create a spinoff show at this point, like it's just

2518
02:02:21,200 --> 02:02:25,600
Speaker 3: too much. So he didn't end up coming to my

2519
02:02:25,720 --> 02:02:28,680
Speaker 3: birthday trip, but we were kind of talking on and off,

2520
02:02:28,720 --> 02:02:32,080
Speaker 3: and he sent me a text that dropped the L bomb.

2521
02:02:33,120 --> 02:02:37,680
Speaker 1: What what's the lbomb that she's oh, oh oh love?

2522
02:02:38,480 --> 02:02:41,520
Speaker 1: I think so yeah, I thought lesbian too, Riley said

2523
02:02:41,600 --> 02:02:43,879
Speaker 1: lesbian votes lesbian? Who votes literature?

2524
02:02:45,840 --> 02:02:52,360
Speaker 2: Dun and I did not respond in kind.

2525
02:02:52,920 --> 02:02:55,960
Speaker 3: That was the last straw for him, So I feel

2526
02:02:55,960 --> 02:02:58,680
Speaker 3: like it was love, like I love you. She didn't respond.

2527
02:02:59,280 --> 02:03:03,320
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, But what's he gonna say? I'm you say

2528
02:03:03,360 --> 02:03:04,200
Speaker 3: you're lesbian girl?

2529
02:03:04,200 --> 02:03:06,600
Speaker 1: Me too. No, that's not what he's.

2530
02:03:06,520 --> 02:03:10,320
Speaker 3: Saying now that I think about it. That was the

2531
02:03:10,360 --> 02:03:13,440
Speaker 3: next hurdle that was coming. That just brought it forward.

2532
02:03:13,480 --> 02:03:16,280
Speaker 3: I guess he'll be picking up his things over the weekend.

2533
02:03:16,800 --> 02:03:19,760
Speaker 3: I would like us to stay friends. I still like him.

2534
02:03:20,040 --> 02:03:22,360
Speaker 1: Is this matt or is this is her current boyfriend.

2535
02:03:22,360 --> 02:03:26,200
Speaker 1: She's breaking up with Matt. Wait wait, so Matt said

2536
02:03:26,240 --> 02:03:28,640
Speaker 1: the L word that I love you. She didn't say

2537
02:03:28,640 --> 02:03:29,000
Speaker 1: it back.

2538
02:03:29,480 --> 02:03:33,000
Speaker 3: She just didn't respond, period. She didn't respond. And then

2539
02:03:33,040 --> 02:03:34,800
Speaker 3: he was like, what's the other guy's name again? I

2540
02:03:34,800 --> 02:03:36,800
Speaker 3: forget his logan? Logan Okay, logan Paul.

2541
02:03:36,920 --> 02:03:39,760
Speaker 1: So we haven't heard anything about logan yeah, okay, yeah

2542
02:03:40,520 --> 02:03:43,760
Speaker 1: yet yet we're we're building up. We're going through the

2543
02:03:43,760 --> 02:03:46,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend and please release the shirt. The friend and he

2544
02:03:46,680 --> 02:03:48,120
Speaker 1: came to get his things. I wonder if she was like,

2545
02:03:48,440 --> 02:03:51,160
Speaker 1: your shirts have always been so nice, like the great

2546
02:03:51,200 --> 02:03:52,480
Speaker 1: guys a.

2547
02:03:54,760 --> 02:03:57,160
Speaker 3: This is why we needed Michael on the podcast, your shirts.

2548
02:03:59,280 --> 02:04:01,320
Speaker 3: I would like his to stay friends. I still like

2549
02:04:01,400 --> 02:04:03,680
Speaker 3: him so much, but I know that's not really up

2550
02:04:03,760 --> 02:04:03,960
Speaker 3: to me.

2551
02:04:04,000 --> 02:04:10,280
Speaker 1: Now. Okay, so Matt old boyfriend toast in the friend zone,

2552
02:04:10,360 --> 02:04:13,000
Speaker 1: in the friend zones and once in the friend zone

2553
02:04:13,160 --> 02:04:18,400
Speaker 1: logan a fuck logan once, here's a chat logan once

2554
02:04:18,440 --> 02:04:22,080
Speaker 1: in the friend zone. Maybe something something a bruin.

2555
02:04:22,120 --> 02:04:25,080
Speaker 2: We could be cooking. It's coming. It's coming.

2556
02:04:25,680 --> 02:04:26,680
Speaker 1: Yeah. Literally.

2557
02:04:27,680 --> 02:04:29,480
Speaker 3: I told my mom about to break up, and she

2558
02:04:29,560 --> 02:04:32,120
Speaker 3: apologized for making me feel like I was wrong about

2559
02:04:32,200 --> 02:04:34,600
Speaker 3: keeping the book. She said that she was just so

2560
02:04:34,720 --> 02:04:37,960
Speaker 3: used to seeing me treat men as disposable, and because

2561
02:04:38,000 --> 02:04:39,040
Speaker 3: I'd been with Matt for.

2562
02:04:38,960 --> 02:04:45,520
Speaker 1: So long, I know when your mom says disposable.

2563
02:04:46,200 --> 02:04:51,120
Speaker 3: God, damn, he's just a tampon I soak into and

2564
02:04:51,160 --> 02:04:57,120
Speaker 3: throw away in.

2565
02:04:57,160 --> 02:05:01,840
Speaker 1: The Great Gatsby? Is that true? I'm wondering if.

2566
02:05:03,760 --> 02:05:07,760
Speaker 3: Good Catch Riley, Good Catch, Damn Riley is producing just

2567
02:05:07,920 --> 02:05:09,000
Speaker 3: on eleven today.

2568
02:05:09,560 --> 02:05:12,160
Speaker 1: This might be we we might be being bamboozles.

2569
02:05:12,200 --> 02:05:15,600
Speaker 3: But you know what, well, we'll keep We'll keep going.

2570
02:05:16,400 --> 02:05:19,000
Speaker 1: She thought. Because I'd been with Matt so long, she

2571
02:05:19,120 --> 02:05:23,440
Speaker 1: thought that he might not be disposable. And she turns

2572
02:05:23,560 --> 02:05:26,600
Speaker 1: out she was right, and she kicked him to the curb.

2573
02:05:27,520 --> 02:05:30,120
Speaker 3: And she got caught up in that. I think I

2574
02:05:30,160 --> 02:05:32,200
Speaker 3: was hearing that I wasn't even ready to say I

2575
02:05:32,240 --> 02:05:34,960
Speaker 3: love him. Was a shock to her, and she realized

2576
02:05:35,000 --> 02:05:37,160
Speaker 3: she'd been telling herself a story about him and me

2577
02:05:37,640 --> 02:05:39,360
Speaker 3: that wasn't really what was playing at all.

2578
02:05:39,360 --> 02:05:42,280
Speaker 1: They've been dating, Do we know that? Hmm, that's a

2579
02:05:42,320 --> 02:05:48,840
Speaker 1: great question. I don't think. I don't think we do. Okay,

2580
02:05:48,880 --> 02:05:49,760
Speaker 1: seven months?

2581
02:05:50,240 --> 02:05:53,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's probably due.

2582
02:05:53,160 --> 02:05:56,920
Speaker 1: You know what what is Ellward time?

2583
02:05:57,880 --> 02:05:59,720
Speaker 3: I mean, it depends, but I feel like seven months

2584
02:05:59,760 --> 02:06:03,160
Speaker 3: is a very reasonable time for that too, Yeah, occur

2585
02:06:03,520 --> 02:06:07,600
Speaker 3: two to nine months, that feels reason on an average, Yeah,

2586
02:06:07,680 --> 02:06:09,920
Speaker 3: post nine months, it's like, why are you spending so

2587
02:06:10,000 --> 02:06:12,200
Speaker 3: much time on this if you're not invested in two months?

2588
02:06:12,200 --> 02:06:14,600
Speaker 3: It's like you get all over your head, right, yeah,

2589
02:06:14,640 --> 02:06:15,960
Speaker 3: two to nine months, right.

2590
02:06:16,320 --> 02:06:19,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I think i've historically, I think I actually

2591
02:06:19,400 --> 02:06:22,080
Speaker 1: was with my one of my girlfriends. I think it

2592
02:06:22,120 --> 02:06:25,600
Speaker 1: was like six weeks, but it was reciprocated.

2593
02:06:25,720 --> 02:06:30,840
Speaker 3: So Sam is always ahead of the curve. Yeah, on too,

2594
02:06:31,680 --> 02:06:37,280
Speaker 3: me and Logan, no way, let's go. Obviously, a whole

2595
02:06:37,320 --> 02:06:40,400
Speaker 3: wealth of opinions and advice was shared about our friendship,

2596
02:06:40,440 --> 02:06:43,120
Speaker 3: and honestly, going through the comments on the post was

2597
02:06:43,160 --> 02:06:46,560
Speaker 3: the first time I ever had really thought deeply about

2598
02:06:46,560 --> 02:06:47,400
Speaker 3: our relationship.

2599
02:06:48,160 --> 02:06:51,600
Speaker 1: You ever thought deeply about the relationship. But like before then, I.

2600
02:06:51,640 --> 02:06:53,680
Speaker 3: Heard I heard that as that first line a whole wealth,

2601
02:06:53,720 --> 02:06:56,680
Speaker 3: which is exactly the same thing, the whole wealth.

2602
02:06:57,080 --> 02:06:58,320
Speaker 1: And a whole wealth as well.

2603
02:06:58,440 --> 02:06:58,760
Speaker 5: Damn.

2604
02:06:58,800 --> 02:07:02,200
Speaker 1: Michael came to play today, Michael and Riley just carrying

2605
02:07:02,200 --> 02:07:05,400
Speaker 1: the pot five grade. Gads but you got a hole?

2606
02:07:05,400 --> 02:07:07,680
Speaker 1: Well you really do? You really do?

2607
02:07:08,320 --> 02:07:12,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god, it brought up a lot of memories

2608
02:07:12,360 --> 02:07:15,440
Speaker 3: and feelings, and I did end up talking to Logan

2609
02:07:15,480 --> 02:07:18,680
Speaker 3: about it and telling him about the original post. I

2610
02:07:18,760 --> 02:07:21,160
Speaker 3: ended up making a note of some people's questions that

2611
02:07:21,200 --> 02:07:23,880
Speaker 3: they were asking him. I really wish I conclude all

2612
02:07:23,880 --> 02:07:26,640
Speaker 3: his answers here, because I think his responses were pretty funny.

2613
02:07:27,080 --> 02:07:29,000
Speaker 3: That said, he was just too busy staring at this

2614
02:07:29,080 --> 02:07:32,760
Speaker 3: green light across the water. It was really weird. Dude,

2615
02:07:32,800 --> 02:07:37,280
Speaker 3: your deep cuts are getting too deep. We're deep in it, baby,

2616
02:07:38,320 --> 02:07:40,120
Speaker 3: That said, with a word limit.

2617
02:07:40,600 --> 02:07:42,560
Speaker 2: I'll keep these answers short. Here we go.

2618
02:07:42,880 --> 02:07:45,000
Speaker 3: Logan did not buy the book as a way to

2619
02:07:45,040 --> 02:07:46,520
Speaker 3: express romantic interest.

2620
02:07:46,480 --> 02:07:48,880
Speaker 1: And the plot was not relevant to his choice to

2621
02:07:48,920 --> 02:07:53,040
Speaker 1: purchase it. Oh come on, bullshit, what do we think?

2622
02:07:53,080 --> 02:07:54,560
Speaker 1: What do we think? Bullhit? Michael?

2623
02:07:54,600 --> 02:07:56,560
Speaker 3: What do you think covered his tracks or just like

2624
02:07:56,600 --> 02:07:59,680
Speaker 3: a genuine Douf his golden Retriever energy vibes? It could

2625
02:07:59,720 --> 02:08:02,480
Speaker 3: go out well, I mean I lean towards covering his tracks.

2626
02:08:02,680 --> 02:08:05,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, covering Also like if there's a time to not

2627
02:08:05,800 --> 02:08:08,760
Speaker 1: like uncover your tracks, it is now like this is

2628
02:08:08,800 --> 02:08:11,920
Speaker 1: the golden opportunity, true, right, So maybe he is telling

2629
02:08:11,960 --> 02:08:15,360
Speaker 1: the truth. It's just such a ridiculous, like a ten

2630
02:08:15,440 --> 02:08:19,080
Speaker 1: thousand dollars gift with a person made a relationship with

2631
02:08:19,520 --> 02:08:22,840
Speaker 1: the context of the book being the same as the

2632
02:08:22,840 --> 02:08:25,520
Speaker 1: love triangle that exists in that friend group.

2633
02:08:25,560 --> 02:08:29,800
Speaker 3: Possibly, And we're guessing that he's not like some crazy

2634
02:08:29,840 --> 02:08:32,120
Speaker 3: wealthy guy ten k is like one hundred bucks.

2635
02:08:32,400 --> 02:08:34,480
Speaker 1: He seems pretty wealthy. There's no way you're buying a

2636
02:08:34,560 --> 02:08:38,120
Speaker 1: nineteen twenty five edition book of The Great Gatsby. You're

2637
02:08:38,160 --> 02:08:41,040
Speaker 1: like a sales rep for oraclor fair enough. Yeah, I

2638
02:08:41,040 --> 02:08:43,160
Speaker 1: feel like oracles make pretty good money.

2639
02:08:43,600 --> 02:08:45,880
Speaker 3: Not to keep a great gas yeah yeah, yeah, not

2640
02:08:45,920 --> 02:08:48,480
Speaker 3: in nineteen twenty five great gas like Turkish oil money.

2641
02:08:48,560 --> 02:08:50,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, there we go, There we go.

2642
02:08:51,680 --> 02:08:56,200
Speaker 2: Logan said that he has never wanted to date me, damn, and.

2643
02:08:56,520 --> 02:09:01,720
Speaker 3: Oh you're finally feelings are complicated.

2644
02:09:02,080 --> 02:09:03,800
Speaker 1: Wait wait, her feelings are complicated.

2645
02:09:04,440 --> 02:09:09,680
Speaker 3: The response to the questions to Logan were like basically,

2646
02:09:09,720 --> 02:09:12,400
Speaker 3: The top responses were he didn't buy the book as

2647
02:09:12,440 --> 02:09:15,600
Speaker 3: a romantic like gesture, he didn't, he doesn't want to

2648
02:09:15,680 --> 02:09:19,480
Speaker 3: date her, and that feelings are complicated on her end,

2649
02:09:19,560 --> 02:09:22,200
Speaker 3: or just I think in general, I think she's like

2650
02:09:22,880 --> 02:09:23,879
Speaker 3: summarize amrizing.

2651
02:09:24,040 --> 02:09:25,360
Speaker 1: Okay, so maybe.

2652
02:09:25,120 --> 02:09:28,720
Speaker 3: This guy just legitimately hasn't read it all, and he's like, oh, yeah,

2653
02:09:28,720 --> 02:09:30,760
Speaker 3: the Great Gatsby, this spoke me about like a magician

2654
02:09:30,880 --> 02:09:31,160
Speaker 3: or something.

2655
02:09:31,200 --> 02:09:31,960
Speaker 1: No, no, he didn't.

2656
02:09:32,000 --> 02:09:34,960
Speaker 3: Really the guy who thought it read it. Yeah, we

2657
02:09:35,080 --> 02:09:40,120
Speaker 3: know that for her. Her old boyfriend though, didn't read it. Yeah.

2658
02:09:40,440 --> 02:09:44,200
Speaker 3: So maybe he changed his mind. Maybe there's a new

2659
02:09:44,200 --> 02:09:46,240
Speaker 3: girl in his life and now he's covering his track.

2660
02:09:46,400 --> 02:09:49,680
Speaker 1: Maybe he wanted what he couldn't have and now that

2661
02:09:49,760 --> 02:09:53,600
Speaker 1: he has it. Maybe he wanted the Great Gatsby relationship

2662
02:09:53,600 --> 02:09:56,640
Speaker 1: where they were still together and he was fooling around

2663
02:09:56,680 --> 02:09:58,920
Speaker 1: on the side, turning that green light on as booty

2664
02:09:58,920 --> 02:09:59,680
Speaker 1: call one.

2665
02:10:00,920 --> 02:10:03,560
Speaker 3: Wanting what you can't have would be very guests esque,

2666
02:10:04,120 --> 02:10:07,280
Speaker 3: very big rich man, energy, big rich man.

2667
02:10:07,600 --> 02:10:14,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, fuck dude. So I feel like it's like everything

2668
02:10:14,640 --> 02:10:17,720
Speaker 1: just kind of is fucked. Like now, the relationship with

2669
02:10:18,800 --> 02:10:21,520
Speaker 1: I keep thinking Jason, but it's not Jason Logangan. The

2670
02:10:21,560 --> 02:10:25,760
Speaker 1: relationship with Logan is screwed. Yeah, not screwed, but screwed.

2671
02:10:25,920 --> 02:10:28,800
Speaker 1: It's weird, it's weird, it's been made weird. And now

2672
02:10:29,200 --> 02:10:33,120
Speaker 1: Matt is on the end literally gone, literally gone. So

2673
02:10:33,160 --> 02:10:35,200
Speaker 1: she has no one. Her mother doesn't respect her.

2674
02:10:35,320 --> 02:10:37,240
Speaker 3: No, I think that's who she needs to talk to.

2675
02:10:37,360 --> 02:10:39,200
Speaker 3: I think it's time I heard to negotiates some boundaries

2676
02:10:39,200 --> 02:10:41,520
Speaker 3: with her mother. I think that's the most concerning part

2677
02:10:41,520 --> 02:10:44,240
Speaker 3: of this story, all right, most easily fixed. What's her

2678
02:10:44,240 --> 02:10:49,880
Speaker 3: mom the asshole for saying you treat men as disposable?

2679
02:10:49,960 --> 02:10:53,840
Speaker 1: Wow? Damn, that's the real question. Yeah, that's a pretty

2680
02:10:53,840 --> 02:10:55,320
Speaker 1: crazy thing to say to your daughter.

2681
02:10:55,640 --> 02:10:57,760
Speaker 3: My vote is Logan changes mind. My vote is there's

2682
02:10:57,760 --> 02:11:00,480
Speaker 3: another woman. And Logan was like very keen, and then

2683
02:11:00,480 --> 02:11:02,320
Speaker 3: he deflected and changed his mind line. I like the

2684
02:11:02,600 --> 02:11:03,920
Speaker 3: he wanted what he can't have.

2685
02:11:04,120 --> 02:11:06,880
Speaker 1: That's what I'm leaning towards. But I think what I'm

2686
02:11:06,960 --> 02:11:09,160
Speaker 1: very curious about from like everyone and all of you

2687
02:11:09,200 --> 02:11:11,840
Speaker 1: guys right now, is like, how would you react if

2688
02:11:12,280 --> 02:11:18,240
Speaker 1: your significant other's friend of the opposite sex gave them

2689
02:11:18,320 --> 02:11:19,880
Speaker 1: a gift.

2690
02:11:19,760 --> 02:11:23,360
Speaker 3: Worth like ten grand with a gift of that price

2691
02:11:23,560 --> 02:11:25,919
Speaker 3: value and sentimental value.

2692
02:11:26,680 --> 02:11:27,960
Speaker 1: It would be weird. I think it would be weird.

2693
02:11:29,160 --> 02:11:31,080
Speaker 3: Do you think it depends on how wealthy the person is? Like,

2694
02:11:31,080 --> 02:11:33,480
Speaker 3: do you think it does, like percentage of their income matters?

2695
02:11:33,640 --> 02:11:34,120
Speaker 1: One hundred?

2696
02:11:34,440 --> 02:11:37,640
Speaker 3: Your girlfriend was friends with like a Saudi prince and

2697
02:11:37,680 --> 02:11:39,760
Speaker 3: like he gave her a car how would you feel

2698
02:11:39,760 --> 02:11:40,120
Speaker 3: about it?

2699
02:11:40,440 --> 02:11:43,240
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm driving that thing too, Like, let's go.

2700
02:11:43,960 --> 02:11:45,800
Speaker 1: It's a free drinks to the bar effect, right, It's

2701
02:11:45,800 --> 02:11:46,560
Speaker 1: like we're both drinking.

2702
02:11:46,640 --> 02:11:51,320
Speaker 3: That's exact drinking tonight, right, yeah, yeah, yeah. But if

2703
02:11:51,360 --> 02:11:54,000
Speaker 3: it's like yeah, if it's like you know, one of

2704
02:11:54,040 --> 02:11:56,920
Speaker 3: my frickin' boys from back home, and I'm like, dude,

2705
02:11:57,240 --> 02:12:01,000
Speaker 3: you do not have ten grand just like laying I'm

2706
02:12:01,000 --> 02:12:04,720
Speaker 3: trying to schmooze my shorty over here, like what's going on? Ye,

2707
02:12:04,800 --> 02:12:07,160
Speaker 3: it's four to one k for that literally.

2708
02:12:07,160 --> 02:12:10,960
Speaker 1: So what is the appropriate percentage of your monthly income

2709
02:12:11,320 --> 02:12:15,680
Speaker 1: to spend on gifts on your girlfriend or your friend's girlfriend.

2710
02:12:16,200 --> 02:12:18,920
Speaker 1: I feel like, let's say you make ten grand a month,

2711
02:12:19,200 --> 02:12:22,520
Speaker 1: what is the most expensive gift that you're like, okay,

2712
02:12:22,560 --> 02:12:26,280
Speaker 1: I'm going to give to your friend's girlfriend. One hundred

2713
02:12:26,280 --> 02:12:26,960
Speaker 1: I would say a hundred.

2714
02:12:27,040 --> 02:12:29,800
Speaker 3: I was going to say the same thing, one hundred,

2715
02:12:30,120 --> 02:12:33,720
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars, one hundred dollars. Yeah, one percent. That's

2716
02:12:33,760 --> 02:12:35,840
Speaker 3: one percent of ten thousand. Even if you make less

2717
02:12:35,840 --> 02:12:38,160
Speaker 3: than ten thousand, I feel like one hundred dollars is

2718
02:12:38,200 --> 02:12:40,720
Speaker 3: like that's like, oh wow, that was like, you know, one.

2719
02:12:40,640 --> 02:12:42,960
Speaker 1: Hundred dollars feels too low. I was gonna think it

2720
02:12:43,000 --> 02:12:44,760
Speaker 1: feels kind of hot. You can get to think of hot.

2721
02:12:44,760 --> 02:12:50,960
Speaker 3: One hundred dollars, yeah hearing, Yeah, yeah, a fit shoes, yeah,

2722
02:12:51,240 --> 02:12:52,000
Speaker 3: I guess not.

2723
02:12:53,160 --> 02:12:55,280
Speaker 1: Yes, the shoes could be shoes are a friendly gifting,

2724
02:12:55,360 --> 02:12:58,440
Speaker 1: yeah right, yeah, friendly gift. There you go. It's like Stiletto's.

2725
02:12:59,200 --> 02:13:01,520
Speaker 1: Oh different, exactly different.

2726
02:13:01,520 --> 02:13:06,480
Speaker 3: Man, it's all context, you got, you know, I think,

2727
02:13:06,840 --> 02:13:08,040
Speaker 3: like you said.

2728
02:13:07,400 --> 02:13:09,680
Speaker 2: Under under a hundred, under a thousand.

2729
02:13:10,280 --> 02:13:12,560
Speaker 1: Who no way, no way, you're cool.

2730
02:13:12,600 --> 02:13:16,240
Speaker 3: Someone giving a girlfri an eight hundred dollars presents a lot.

2731
02:13:17,280 --> 02:13:24,600
Speaker 3: Uh Racing bicycles yeah, yeah, like a bicycle. Yeah yeah,

2732
02:13:24,600 --> 02:13:26,560
Speaker 3: I would be I would be fine with someone giving

2733
02:13:26,560 --> 02:13:31,440
Speaker 3: my girlfriend a bicycle. Small guinea pig farm. Oh that's sick.

2734
02:13:31,480 --> 02:13:33,960
Speaker 3: That's I thought they were cheap. A guinea pig farm,

2735
02:13:34,840 --> 02:13:38,680
Speaker 3: you know, like a you have a conversion, I would say, yeah,

2736
02:13:38,720 --> 02:13:40,200
Speaker 3: I from your house in a guinea pig farm.

2737
02:13:40,440 --> 02:13:43,600
Speaker 1: Right, all right? How about an now pack of farm

2738
02:13:43,640 --> 02:13:45,680
Speaker 1: completely tax right off of all right.

2739
02:13:47,440 --> 02:13:50,400
Speaker 3: See, that's that's worth hundreds of thousands of dollars potentially,

2740
02:13:50,440 --> 02:13:51,920
Speaker 3: that's opportunity value.

2741
02:13:52,400 --> 02:13:57,600
Speaker 1: That is a gift. Yeah, instant relationship end right there?

2742
02:13:57,800 --> 02:13:59,800
Speaker 3: How, pa farm, you accept the l pack of farm

2743
02:14:00,120 --> 02:14:02,840
Speaker 3: tax breaks. But yeah, I feel like one hundred bucks

2744
02:14:02,880 --> 02:14:04,440
Speaker 3: is like just a general rule of something.

2745
02:14:04,680 --> 02:14:07,320
Speaker 1: One hundred dollars crazy, that's a crazy limit.

2746
02:14:07,400 --> 02:14:10,840
Speaker 3: Well, a thousand dollars, Like a thousand dollars, I'm like,

2747
02:14:10,880 --> 02:14:12,960
Speaker 3: that's not okay. If someone was to give my girlfriend

2748
02:14:12,960 --> 02:14:15,040
Speaker 3: a two hundred dollars gift, I would be like, eh,

2749
02:14:15,120 --> 02:14:17,160
Speaker 3: But a thousand dollars, I'd be like, okay, what are

2750
02:14:17,160 --> 02:14:19,040
Speaker 3: you doing? Once you get into the hundreds, it could

2751
02:14:19,080 --> 02:14:22,440
Speaker 3: get into strange territory, all right, So it could be fine.

2752
02:14:22,440 --> 02:14:26,000
Speaker 2: I think more than ten percent of your monthly income

2753
02:14:26,080 --> 02:14:26,480
Speaker 2: is a no go.

2754
02:14:26,840 --> 02:14:29,080
Speaker 1: What's the most expensive gift you ever gotten a platonic friend?

2755
02:14:30,480 --> 02:14:31,400
Speaker 1: Platonic friend?

2756
02:14:31,520 --> 02:14:35,400
Speaker 3: Technically, you did buy plane tickets for someone that you.

2757
02:14:35,400 --> 02:14:37,920
Speaker 1: Were like, that was a romantic interest. We hooked up.

2758
02:14:38,080 --> 02:14:38,520
Speaker 1: That's true.

2759
02:14:38,520 --> 02:14:42,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, a friend, my friend's girlfriend, but

2760
02:14:42,720 --> 02:14:44,160
Speaker 3: they were both coming out to see me.

2761
02:14:44,480 --> 02:14:48,040
Speaker 1: You just bought it for her. He was working, she

2762
02:14:48,080 --> 02:14:50,200
Speaker 1: could and so I paid for her plane ticket. That

2763
02:14:50,240 --> 02:14:52,800
Speaker 1: was cool. That was nice. I feel like that wasn't weird? Yeah,

2764
02:14:53,120 --> 02:14:55,480
Speaker 1: that was weird. I mean this is not a gift,

2765
02:14:55,480 --> 02:15:00,240
Speaker 1: but like I donated to for Nima's cat, that's true. Yeah,

2766
02:15:00,280 --> 02:15:02,360
Speaker 1: that was that was that was over a hundred bucks. Actually, yeah,

2767
02:15:02,360 --> 02:15:03,840
Speaker 1: you're one hundred percent moved.

2768
02:15:04,120 --> 02:15:07,200
Speaker 3: Any donations always a mention move. Yeah, that was a great,

2769
02:15:07,680 --> 02:15:10,480
Speaker 3: great gift. Actually, I was doing like some like fundraising event.

2770
02:15:10,520 --> 02:15:12,839
Speaker 3: I was like climbing the Toss Mountain Europe for charity,

2771
02:15:13,080 --> 02:15:15,280
Speaker 3: and my ex girlfriend from when I was fifteen, who

2772
02:15:15,280 --> 02:15:18,440
Speaker 3: I haven't spoken to in like ten years, she donated

2773
02:15:18,520 --> 02:15:21,880
Speaker 3: one hundred dollars, one of the biggest donations.

2774
02:15:21,640 --> 02:15:23,680
Speaker 1: And I was so moved. I was so moved. Yeah,

2775
02:15:23,720 --> 02:15:25,960
Speaker 1: I thought it was so meaningful. She's married now, happily married,

2776
02:15:26,160 --> 02:15:28,440
Speaker 1: Like it's all good. I mean, how happily can she

2777
02:15:28,520 --> 02:15:31,520
Speaker 1: be if she's donated one hundred dollars. Yeah, that's right

2778
02:15:31,560 --> 02:15:34,920
Speaker 1: on the limit. That's right on the limit limit. Actually,

2779
02:15:35,080 --> 02:15:37,000
Speaker 1: now that it's very I was very moved. Actually that

2780
02:15:37,040 --> 02:15:39,320
Speaker 1: was very general. Yeah, a lot of increase if it's

2781
02:15:39,320 --> 02:15:40,240
Speaker 1: for charity, I think.

2782
02:15:40,280 --> 02:15:42,880
Speaker 3: So, Yeah, changed the rules because for sure a lot

2783
02:15:42,880 --> 02:15:45,960
Speaker 3: of male friends like yourself doing and ultimately, this is

2784
02:15:46,080 --> 02:15:48,480
Speaker 3: Naima's cat, the cat that she's raised, so technically it

2785
02:15:48,600 --> 02:15:51,560
Speaker 3: is a gift from my male friends, your.

2786
02:15:51,480 --> 02:15:57,920
Speaker 1: Male trying to rise up your girl exactly. The glass

2787
02:15:58,000 --> 02:16:04,120
Speaker 1: is broken. I finally see now. Oh man, dude, this

2788
02:16:04,200 --> 02:16:06,800
Speaker 1: is so complex because we've broken our role God over

2789
02:16:06,840 --> 02:16:07,560
Speaker 1: one hundred bucks.

2790
02:16:07,600 --> 02:16:09,200
Speaker 2: That's true, I think. But it's charity.

2791
02:16:10,000 --> 02:16:12,760
Speaker 1: So charity is an exemptive. It's a If it's a

2792
02:16:13,240 --> 02:16:19,200
Speaker 1: uh for a personal recreational gift, Okay, then that's a

2793
02:16:19,240 --> 02:16:23,560
Speaker 1: little different. Yeah, so fifty dollars did personal recreational gift?

2794
02:16:23,960 --> 02:16:27,920
Speaker 1: Any dollar? Dildo? It's all don't you bound on the dildo?

2795
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Speaker 7: That?

2796
02:16:28,600 --> 02:16:30,800
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Speaker 1: in the r.

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2801
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02:16:41,959 --> 02:16:44,720
Speaker 3: This story to Tachy Magic. But dare you doubt Michaels

2803
02:16:45,240 --> 02:16:47,279
Speaker 3: on any sort of information I've.

2804
02:16:47,160 --> 02:16:48,959
Speaker 1: Heard, I've heard, I've heard, I've heard.

2805
02:16:49,520 --> 02:16:53,560
Speaker 3: I'm familiar with the history of it. If you have

2806
02:16:53,600 --> 02:16:57,320
Speaker 3: something you want to tell us, that's doin Matrix launched

2807
02:16:57,360 --> 02:17:00,000
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2808
02:17:00,040 --> 02:17:01,240
Speaker 3: And I thought she was, yeah, you know, it's a touch.

2809
02:17:01,280 --> 02:17:03,600
Speaker 3: It's like a Japanese Electronics company, and it was like

2810
02:17:03,879 --> 02:17:06,440
Speaker 3: just immediately a best seller. All women were buying it

2811
02:17:06,440 --> 02:17:08,840
Speaker 3: and they're like, oh, everyone wants massages. This is so interesting.

2812
02:17:09,480 --> 02:17:12,480
Speaker 1: And now with the little like white boy like this,

2813
02:17:13,200 --> 02:17:21,840
Speaker 1: it looks like that, right, could you do that demonstration

2814
02:17:21,920 --> 02:17:24,720
Speaker 1: for me more time? Really get it? Okay, anyway, let's

2815
02:17:24,720 --> 02:17:25,440
Speaker 1: get to the next story.

2816
02:17:25,520 --> 02:17:27,480
Speaker 2: Let's do Thanks Michael.

2817
02:17:27,680 --> 02:17:33,440
Speaker 1: Here's y'all. My lying boyfriend is prioritizing his ex over me,

2818
02:17:33,720 --> 02:17:35,960
Speaker 1: so I told him he has to choose am I

2819
02:17:36,080 --> 02:17:41,240
Speaker 1: the asshole. You know, priorities are important. Ultimatums are important.

2820
02:17:41,600 --> 02:17:45,040
Speaker 1: That's true. Everyone, your relationship is going well if you're

2821
02:17:45,040 --> 02:17:46,440
Speaker 1: doing an ultimatum, We've seen.

2822
02:17:46,360 --> 02:17:50,280
Speaker 3: It a thousand times millions only ends. Well, do this

2823
02:17:50,320 --> 02:17:51,040
Speaker 3: thing or it's over.

2824
02:17:51,360 --> 02:17:53,560
Speaker 1: Let's get into the story. Let's do it. Also, this

2825
02:17:53,680 --> 02:17:58,240
Speaker 1: is a submission from our subredditt Our slash Okop show Boom.

2826
02:17:58,320 --> 02:17:59,720
Speaker 1: So if you want to sit at your own stories

2827
02:18:00,160 --> 02:18:04,720
Speaker 1: there and this story comes from user Otherwise sentence three

2828
02:18:04,720 --> 02:18:07,400
Speaker 1: point forty shout out to you. So last night, I

2829
02:18:07,480 --> 02:18:10,400
Speaker 1: twenty seven female found out my boyfriend thirty male is

2830
02:18:10,480 --> 02:18:13,840
Speaker 1: still talking with his ex girlfriend, well kind of talking

2831
02:18:14,520 --> 02:18:18,360
Speaker 1: booty picks. Oh, just from him though. Yeah, we had

2832
02:18:18,400 --> 02:18:20,760
Speaker 1: a few drinks and we're watching a movie. When I

2833
02:18:20,800 --> 02:18:23,680
Speaker 1: noticed he got a text message. Nothing unusual until I

2834
02:18:23,720 --> 02:18:26,280
Speaker 1: saw that when he clicked on this message that it

2835
02:18:26,360 --> 02:18:28,279
Speaker 1: opened up with a picture of a woman.

2836
02:18:28,760 --> 02:18:30,279
Speaker 2: Oh, his ex.

2837
02:18:30,959 --> 02:18:33,879
Speaker 1: I immediately asked him what was that and why, Sash, how

2838
02:18:34,200 --> 02:18:37,640
Speaker 1: is you receiving any communication from her? A little background.

2839
02:18:37,920 --> 02:18:39,879
Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I met eight months ago and we

2840
02:18:39,920 --> 02:18:42,000
Speaker 1: clicked in a way neither of us expected so much

2841
02:18:42,040 --> 02:18:44,600
Speaker 1: showed that. When his job moved across the country last month,

2842
02:18:45,080 --> 02:18:48,080
Speaker 1: I decided to go with him. I love him completely

2843
02:18:48,360 --> 02:18:51,880
Speaker 1: and I feel deep down that he's the one. Wow.

2844
02:18:52,680 --> 02:18:55,400
Speaker 1: I left my hometown of twenty seven years to be

2845
02:18:55,480 --> 02:18:58,760
Speaker 1: with him. Yes, I understood it was not that long

2846
02:18:58,800 --> 02:19:01,960
Speaker 1: of a relationship, and my friend's slash family did have

2847
02:19:02,000 --> 02:19:05,000
Speaker 1: their doubts about him, but supported my choice and offered

2848
02:19:05,000 --> 02:19:07,440
Speaker 1: their hand in case anything happened that I would need

2849
02:19:07,440 --> 02:19:10,560
Speaker 1: to get back home. Now, we have had conversations about

2850
02:19:10,600 --> 02:19:12,840
Speaker 1: our exes, and he did tell me about his prior

2851
02:19:12,879 --> 02:19:16,560
Speaker 1: relationship with Britney thirty four female. I will name her

2852
02:19:16,800 --> 02:19:21,520
Speaker 1: because screw her. Damn girl. My boyfriend came from another

2853
02:19:21,520 --> 02:19:23,840
Speaker 1: country about ten years ago. And he dated Brittany for

2854
02:19:23,879 --> 02:19:26,840
Speaker 1: about seven years on and off. She was unemployed and

2855
02:19:26,920 --> 02:19:29,080
Speaker 1: had too many kids she could even take care of,

2856
02:19:29,400 --> 02:19:32,320
Speaker 1: so she stayed home while my boyfriend paid her in

2857
02:19:32,400 --> 02:19:35,880
Speaker 1: her children's bills. Oh God, obviously, how OPI is writing

2858
02:19:35,879 --> 02:19:41,199
Speaker 1: about her? She loves Brittany. Yep, loves Brittany. He doesn't

2859
02:19:41,280 --> 02:19:43,000
Speaker 1: like to talk about it, but from what I gathered,

2860
02:19:43,200 --> 02:19:46,920
Speaker 1: she used her children to emotionally manipulate him into doing

2861
02:19:47,040 --> 02:19:49,880
Speaker 1: everything for her. He's the kind of guy that's aiming

2862
02:19:49,879 --> 02:19:51,720
Speaker 1: to settle down and have a family of his own,

2863
02:19:51,879 --> 02:19:54,160
Speaker 1: So I get why and how it dragged on for

2864
02:19:54,200 --> 02:19:58,400
Speaker 1: seven years. I never really held that against him. I

2865
02:19:58,400 --> 02:20:01,039
Speaker 1: had an emotionally abusive X two, but that was well

2866
02:20:01,080 --> 02:20:04,080
Speaker 1: over two years ago. I've had time to process, and

2867
02:20:04,120 --> 02:20:08,800
Speaker 1: I have zero contact with that person. Near the beginning

2868
02:20:08,840 --> 02:20:11,320
Speaker 1: of a relationship, he mentioned how his ex still asked

2869
02:20:11,360 --> 02:20:14,920
Speaker 1: him for money occasionally and was even trying to contact

2870
02:20:15,000 --> 02:20:20,440
Speaker 1: him through his job. Red flag, Girly, red flag, stop

2871
02:20:20,480 --> 02:20:24,200
Speaker 1: the communication. She still claims because my boyfriend used to

2872
02:20:24,200 --> 02:20:27,119
Speaker 1: provide for them, he should give her money whenever they

2873
02:20:27,160 --> 02:20:29,560
Speaker 1: need money. Now, you helped me in the past, so

2874
02:20:29,600 --> 02:20:30,880
Speaker 1: that means you have to help me forever.

2875
02:20:31,440 --> 02:20:34,200
Speaker 2: The logic these people create to justify their demands.

2876
02:20:34,240 --> 02:20:37,440
Speaker 1: I know, fucking be nice to someone once and then yeah,

2877
02:20:37,480 --> 02:20:41,000
Speaker 1: how they expect money in for infinity.

2878
02:20:41,080 --> 02:20:43,680
Speaker 2: You owe me all your money, money because you helped me.

2879
02:20:43,959 --> 02:20:49,720
Speaker 1: Give you a dollar, Now give me a million, basically please, basically, yeah,

2880
02:20:49,720 --> 02:20:51,640
Speaker 1: you already did it. Why stop at a million? Yeah,

2881
02:20:51,720 --> 02:20:53,560
Speaker 1: let's run it to a billion, run it to a billion,

2882
02:20:53,600 --> 02:20:56,320
Speaker 1: let's keep going. Honestly, that's how employment should work. You know,

2883
02:20:56,360 --> 02:20:58,359
Speaker 1: you get a job. Hey, you already gave me ten dollars,

2884
02:20:59,080 --> 02:21:01,480
Speaker 1: you should keep supporting me. Give me a thousand. Yeah, yeah,

2885
02:21:01,920 --> 02:21:07,039
Speaker 1: everyone is employed for forever eternity. He works for his uncle,

2886
02:21:07,080 --> 02:21:09,720
Speaker 1: and his uncle is aware of their situation, so obviously

2887
02:21:09,800 --> 02:21:13,160
Speaker 1: he's hung up every time. At that time, I asked

2888
02:21:13,160 --> 02:21:15,920
Speaker 1: if my boyfriend had any other contact with her, and

2889
02:21:16,000 --> 02:21:19,039
Speaker 1: he said he had blocked her anytime she tried to. Okay,

2890
02:21:19,320 --> 02:21:21,480
Speaker 1: I think just as an act of trust. If I'm

2891
02:21:21,480 --> 02:21:23,360
Speaker 1: not talking to my ex, he doesn't talk to his.

2892
02:21:24,040 --> 02:21:26,120
Speaker 1: And we agreed and we left it at that. So

2893
02:21:26,160 --> 02:21:29,840
Speaker 1: they're both not talking to their exes. Apparently. Fast forward

2894
02:21:29,920 --> 02:21:33,080
Speaker 1: to last night and I kind of blew up. He

2895
02:21:33,160 --> 02:21:35,480
Speaker 1: immediately held his phone up to show me he's blocking

2896
02:21:35,520 --> 02:21:39,000
Speaker 1: the number, but in actuality, the number was already saved

2897
02:21:39,080 --> 02:21:44,240
Speaker 1: under a contact with a different name, Patrick from work.

2898
02:21:45,000 --> 02:21:51,560
Speaker 1: Ye yo, that's pretty bad for a fact, he is

2899
02:21:51,600 --> 02:21:54,760
Speaker 1: taking calls and text from this conduct before, and I

2900
02:21:54,840 --> 02:21:57,360
Speaker 1: haven't met a lot of his coworkers either, so how

2901
02:21:57,400 --> 02:22:00,240
Speaker 1: would I know Patrick wasn't actually Patrick. He had a

2902
02:22:00,320 --> 02:22:02,680
Speaker 1: huge fight and I wanted to leave our apartment so bad.

2903
02:22:02,920 --> 02:22:05,320
Speaker 1: He begged me to stay and held my purse away

2904
02:22:05,320 --> 02:22:08,440
Speaker 1: from me and kept asking if we could just talk.

2905
02:22:09,200 --> 02:22:11,640
Speaker 1: I was extremely upset, and I said, we don't have

2906
02:22:11,680 --> 02:22:15,640
Speaker 1: anything to talk about. Nothing, nothing. I feel like our

2907
02:22:15,680 --> 02:22:17,119
Speaker 1: whole relationship is a sham.

2908
02:22:17,480 --> 02:22:22,320
Speaker 3: Girly if she if he's creating contact that says Patrick

2909
02:22:22,360 --> 02:22:24,640
Speaker 3: from work and it's his ex, fucking run.

2910
02:22:24,840 --> 02:22:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not it. That's not it. He finally drunkenly

2911
02:22:28,040 --> 02:22:31,039
Speaker 1: admitted he's only talking to Brittany to stay in touch

2912
02:22:31,080 --> 02:22:35,880
Speaker 1: with her kids. Wow, thank you so much for your honesty.

2913
02:22:36,160 --> 02:22:41,320
Speaker 1: First of all, Still weird, Yeah, still bad. Still he's

2914
02:22:41,360 --> 02:22:44,720
Speaker 1: still lying to you, yep, But like I feel like

2915
02:22:44,760 --> 02:22:47,440
Speaker 1: there's no way he's not still hooking up with her.

2916
02:22:47,600 --> 02:22:48,560
Speaker 2: What was that picture?

2917
02:22:48,600 --> 02:22:50,480
Speaker 1: She's done? Too. We never got the full lease thing.

2918
02:22:50,520 --> 02:22:52,560
Speaker 1: It's just like a picture of the contact number, like

2919
02:22:52,600 --> 02:22:55,400
Speaker 1: you know how like the contact Wow, the pictures, right.

2920
02:22:55,480 --> 02:22:58,960
Speaker 1: I think he helped raise the youngest too. I don't

2921
02:22:59,000 --> 02:23:01,360
Speaker 1: remember if she had four or five kids, and they

2922
02:23:01,400 --> 02:23:04,360
Speaker 1: call him dad. Shade is a little bit for me, right,

2923
02:23:04,520 --> 02:23:07,400
Speaker 1: But still you lied. Yeah, it's still a red flag,

2924
02:23:07,520 --> 02:23:11,400
Speaker 1: like regardless major red flag or op totally, although I

2925
02:23:11,400 --> 02:23:13,879
Speaker 1: feel like he's less of a dick bag now a

2926
02:23:13,920 --> 02:23:14,360
Speaker 1: little bit.

2927
02:23:14,480 --> 02:23:16,640
Speaker 2: I honestly, I could see a big combination of both.

2928
02:23:16,760 --> 02:23:19,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. I asked him if he still felt obligated to

2929
02:23:19,040 --> 02:23:21,520
Speaker 1: these kids, and he couldn't really answer me, so I

2930
02:23:21,560 --> 02:23:26,240
Speaker 1: told him to pick between me or the kids. There's

2931
02:23:26,240 --> 02:23:27,520
Speaker 1: a little bit more of what do you feel about

2932
02:23:27,560 --> 02:23:28,320
Speaker 1: that ultimatum?

2933
02:23:28,360 --> 02:23:31,640
Speaker 3: Oh man, Oh this is so hard because think about

2934
02:23:31,680 --> 02:23:35,320
Speaker 3: what if he literally legally adopted them. Not not in

2935
02:23:35,400 --> 02:23:37,879
Speaker 3: this not in this scenario, but let's say in a

2936
02:23:37,959 --> 02:23:41,160
Speaker 3: very similar scenario, someone does that they're watching their their

2937
02:23:41,680 --> 02:23:45,040
Speaker 3: uh you know, significant others kids, and they legally adopt them.

2938
02:23:45,280 --> 02:23:47,600
Speaker 2: I mean literally legally that is your child.

2939
02:23:48,320 --> 02:23:51,240
Speaker 3: So it seems like this wasn't all the way to

2940
02:23:51,320 --> 02:23:55,000
Speaker 3: that point, but it kind of is in the neighborhood.

2941
02:23:55,959 --> 02:23:58,160
Speaker 1: The thing that's a red flag is not that any

2942
02:23:58,200 --> 02:24:01,720
Speaker 1: of this happened. He lied about it one hundred percent

2943
02:24:03,120 --> 02:24:07,320
Speaker 1: as well, is pretty abysmal. A thousand percent, he said me.

2944
02:24:07,959 --> 02:24:11,000
Speaker 1: But both of us have alcohol in our systems, So

2945
02:24:11,160 --> 02:24:13,520
Speaker 1: I don't know if I should accept that. I haven't

2946
02:24:13,520 --> 02:24:15,800
Speaker 1: had any relationships more than a year or two long,

2947
02:24:15,879 --> 02:24:18,840
Speaker 1: so I can't say I know how it feels to

2948
02:24:19,080 --> 02:24:23,880
Speaker 1: separate from seven years seven years and multiple children. I

2949
02:24:23,920 --> 02:24:26,640
Speaker 1: know they don't have to be biological children to feel

2950
02:24:26,720 --> 02:24:29,240
Speaker 1: like his real to feel like his real children. So

2951
02:24:29,280 --> 02:24:32,400
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be rational about this. Personally, my step

2952
02:24:32,440 --> 02:24:35,240
Speaker 1: mom raised me. We had a terrible relationship while I

2953
02:24:35,280 --> 02:24:37,960
Speaker 1: was growing up. She made it painfully clear that I

2954
02:24:38,040 --> 02:24:40,520
Speaker 1: was not her biological kid, and it messed me up

2955
02:24:40,560 --> 02:24:43,040
Speaker 1: for a really long time. You can call me city

2956
02:24:43,040 --> 02:24:46,039
Speaker 1: if you want, But I intentionally stirred away from partners

2957
02:24:46,080 --> 02:24:48,279
Speaker 1: with children. I don't want to be in that step

2958
02:24:48,280 --> 02:24:51,600
Speaker 1: parent child relationship ever again. He just left for work

2959
02:24:51,640 --> 02:24:54,640
Speaker 1: and I'm sitting here upset. I feel used and betrayed.

2960
02:24:54,959 --> 02:24:56,960
Speaker 1: I want to run back to my friends and family.

2961
02:24:57,160 --> 02:25:00,360
Speaker 1: So am I the asshole for telling him? It's me?

2962
02:25:01,280 --> 02:25:04,160
Speaker 1: Or them. I want to know what all of you think.

2963
02:25:04,240 --> 02:25:06,680
Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments right now. Is op

2964
02:25:06,800 --> 02:25:09,120
Speaker 1: the asshole for giving this ultimatum? Would you give an

2965
02:25:09,160 --> 02:25:11,280
Speaker 1: ultimatum in this scenario? But John, what do you think?

2966
02:25:12,120 --> 02:25:16,000
Speaker 3: I think a big thing is her essentially sounds like

2967
02:25:16,000 --> 02:25:18,800
Speaker 3: her boundary of like I did not want to marry

2968
02:25:18,840 --> 02:25:22,520
Speaker 3: someone with children, which, like, I think it's fine if

2969
02:25:22,520 --> 02:25:25,160
Speaker 3: that's not boundary, if that's you, if that's your preference

2970
02:25:25,160 --> 02:25:26,600
Speaker 3: on how you want to do things, I see no

2971
02:25:26,640 --> 02:25:30,240
Speaker 3: harm in that. And especially if he knew that going in,

2972
02:25:30,360 --> 02:25:33,720
Speaker 3: then then it makes it way more reasonable for her

2973
02:25:33,760 --> 02:25:34,840
Speaker 3: to be like, listen.

2974
02:25:34,560 --> 02:25:36,640
Speaker 1: Hey, this was at the relationship contract. This was not

2975
02:25:36,879 --> 02:25:38,360
Speaker 1: what I thought I was getting into.

2976
02:25:38,360 --> 02:25:39,879
Speaker 3: You know, I thought you had left all of that

2977
02:25:39,959 --> 02:25:41,920
Speaker 3: behind and we were starting fresh, and then you know

2978
02:25:42,280 --> 02:25:44,640
Speaker 3: the kind of underlying assumption we could have our own.

2979
02:25:44,480 --> 02:25:48,600
Speaker 1: Biological child together. I mean, the big thing is he lied, yes,

2980
02:25:48,680 --> 02:25:52,039
Speaker 1: and like like Patrick from work on his ex's contact

2981
02:25:52,280 --> 02:25:54,600
Speaker 1: is so bad.

2982
02:25:53,840 --> 02:25:56,200
Speaker 3: Really really really bad, and he kept lying about it.

2983
02:25:57,360 --> 02:26:00,640
Speaker 3: And I also just have a suspicion that it's both.

2984
02:26:00,680 --> 02:26:03,960
Speaker 3: It's it's I'm maybe he does really care about the kids.

2985
02:26:04,000 --> 02:26:08,800
Speaker 3: I think that's totally possible, but also like, it's sketch, dude,

2986
02:26:08,840 --> 02:26:11,760
Speaker 3: it's sketch. But I would love to know what all

2987
02:26:11,760 --> 02:26:15,000
Speaker 3: of you think. Put your answer is below, yep, and

2988
02:26:15,000 --> 02:26:17,400
Speaker 3: submit your stories over on subreddit if you want us

2989
02:26:17,400 --> 02:26:18,000
Speaker 3: to read them.

2990
02:26:18,200 --> 02:26:21,480
Speaker 1: Do it. I called my baby daddy a spineless creep

2991
02:26:21,520 --> 02:26:23,200
Speaker 1: for what he did to our daughter.

2992
02:26:23,360 --> 02:26:27,800
Speaker 3: Am I the asshole? I mean that's the question. Why

2993
02:26:27,840 --> 02:26:28,800
Speaker 3: is he a spineless creep?

2994
02:26:29,040 --> 02:26:35,160
Speaker 1: And John, the poster of this is our asshole. This

2995
02:26:35,200 --> 02:26:39,320
Speaker 1: is from our slash okayop show and was posted by

2996
02:26:39,480 --> 02:26:42,160
Speaker 1: user throwaway feel Bad twenty and so if you want

2997
02:26:42,160 --> 02:26:44,760
Speaker 1: your story read, please post it in our subredttit our

2998
02:26:44,840 --> 02:26:47,480
Speaker 1: slash okop show, make between five hundred and eight hundred

2999
02:26:47,480 --> 02:26:48,840
Speaker 1: words and read the shit out of it.

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02:26:48,959 --> 02:26:51,200
Speaker 3: Yes, let's get into this thing. A little bit of

3001
02:26:51,240 --> 02:26:54,680
Speaker 3: context for you all. I ended up falling pregnant with

3002
02:26:54,720 --> 02:26:56,840
Speaker 3: my ten year old daughter during a drunken hookup with

3003
02:26:56,879 --> 02:26:58,240
Speaker 3: a friend in my mid twenties.

3004
02:26:58,440 --> 02:27:01,400
Speaker 1: Nice. Not the most glamorous, flattering truth, but it is

3005
02:27:01,440 --> 02:27:03,400
Speaker 1: the truth all the same. When we found out, we

3006
02:27:03,480 --> 02:27:06,240
Speaker 1: decided to keep the child and co parent while remaining friends.

3007
02:27:06,320 --> 02:27:08,040
Speaker 1: We were never a couple, and we didn't want to

3008
02:27:08,080 --> 02:27:08,840
Speaker 1: be one either.

3009
02:27:09,480 --> 02:27:10,840
Speaker 2: Hot pies of ass, hotpies of meat.

3010
02:27:10,920 --> 02:27:14,320
Speaker 1: Yep, it happens, hot steamy sex, and you know that's

3011
02:27:14,440 --> 02:27:16,360
Speaker 1: what it was always supposed to be. But you know,

3012
02:27:16,920 --> 02:27:20,240
Speaker 1: alas when you when you dump and go, you might

3013
02:27:20,280 --> 02:27:24,080
Speaker 1: get a babo. That's right. So four years ago he

3014
02:27:24,120 --> 02:27:26,760
Speaker 1: began to date his long term girlfriend and they moved

3015
02:27:26,800 --> 02:27:30,400
Speaker 1: in together. Last year she fell pregnant. Wasn't everyone falling pregnance?

3016
02:27:31,040 --> 02:27:35,360
Speaker 1: Oh oh no. And I've been supportive to them both

3017
02:27:35,440 --> 02:27:37,879
Speaker 1: as much as I could beat without crossing any lines.

3018
02:27:37,920 --> 02:27:40,440
Speaker 1: I've encouraged my daughter to help out whenever she's staying

3019
02:27:40,480 --> 02:27:42,720
Speaker 1: with them during the pregnancy, and to behave I've also

3020
02:27:42,840 --> 02:27:45,000
Speaker 1: made it clear that I want the children to have

3021
02:27:45,040 --> 02:27:48,200
Speaker 1: a close relationship despite having different mothers. I've even said

3022
02:27:48,200 --> 02:27:50,560
Speaker 1: that if they were comfortable with it on nights I

3023
02:27:50,640 --> 02:27:53,280
Speaker 1: have my daughter, if they ever want time alone, I'll

3024
02:27:53,280 --> 02:27:55,240
Speaker 1: babysit once they have the baby, so my daughter can

3025
02:27:55,280 --> 02:27:57,560
Speaker 1: spend time with their siblings. So she's offering a babysit

3026
02:27:57,640 --> 02:28:00,160
Speaker 1: like pretty stand up, pretty solid. All in all, I

3027
02:28:00,200 --> 02:28:04,080
Speaker 1: thought everything was going great, besides the whole like cooking

3028
02:28:04,200 --> 02:28:06,360
Speaker 1: up with uh, everyone falling?

3029
02:28:06,840 --> 02:28:12,000
Speaker 3: Everyone pregnant baby. It's super complicated. Besides that, everything's going great.

3030
02:28:12,080 --> 02:28:14,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was excited for my daughter to have

3031
02:28:14,879 --> 02:28:17,360
Speaker 1: a sibling, as she's always wanted one. But I had

3032
02:28:17,400 --> 02:28:20,720
Speaker 1: no interest in having another child because this one sucked.

3033
02:28:21,280 --> 02:28:24,280
Speaker 1: She kidding, but no interest in having another child. Three

3034
02:28:24,320 --> 02:28:26,879
Speaker 1: days ago, my friend and his girlfriend had a daughter.

3035
02:28:27,000 --> 02:28:29,359
Speaker 1: They asked me to bring my daughter to the hospital

3036
02:28:29,440 --> 02:28:33,440
Speaker 1: to meet her little sister yesterday alongside others of the family.

3037
02:28:33,480 --> 02:28:36,879
Speaker 1: It would be so cute, all the family get together. Yeah,

3038
02:28:36,920 --> 02:28:40,039
Speaker 1: what could go wrong? Nothing? Nothing, No, this is it's

3039
02:28:40,040 --> 02:28:43,160
Speaker 1: gonna go wrong. So I did exactly that. But when

3040
02:28:43,200 --> 02:28:47,879
Speaker 1: they introduced us to the baby, I was shocked. Why

3041
02:28:48,000 --> 02:28:51,400
Speaker 1: was she shocked? John? You ready tell me they used

3042
02:28:51,520 --> 02:28:56,360
Speaker 1: my daughter's name? Uh? Oh, Like if the daughter's name

3043
02:28:56,400 --> 02:28:58,400
Speaker 1: was Cheryl, this new baby's name is Cheryl.

3044
02:28:58,440 --> 02:29:01,480
Speaker 3: You've heard of two women wearing the same dress to

3045
02:29:01,560 --> 02:29:04,800
Speaker 3: an event. One of us has gotta change chaos, one

3046
02:29:04,840 --> 02:29:06,240
Speaker 3: of us has to change our identity.

3047
02:29:06,840 --> 02:29:09,040
Speaker 1: There can't be two. That's kind of that's kind of

3048
02:29:09,040 --> 02:29:12,000
Speaker 1: a fucked up move. Could you imagine o Kop with

3049
02:29:12,120 --> 02:29:13,800
Speaker 1: Sam and Sam? Fuck?

3050
02:29:13,959 --> 02:29:16,720
Speaker 3: No, that would be terrible, It would be awful. Yeah,

3051
02:29:16,760 --> 02:29:20,080
Speaker 3: I wouldn't know what to do with myself exactly, get it,

3052
02:29:20,120 --> 02:29:22,360
Speaker 3: because it would be to Sam's and I would know

3053
02:29:22,400 --> 02:29:23,640
Speaker 3: what to do with myself.

3054
02:29:24,920 --> 02:29:29,120
Speaker 1: Nice anyway, that was terrible. Uh. She didn't seem to

3055
02:29:29,120 --> 02:29:31,480
Speaker 1: have any issue with this when she introduced the baby

3056
02:29:31,560 --> 02:29:36,200
Speaker 1: bold as brass, so she as being the longtime girlfriend right.

3057
02:29:36,600 --> 02:29:40,000
Speaker 1: My friend seemed uncomfortable and wouldn't look at me directly.

3058
02:29:40,080 --> 02:29:42,800
Speaker 1: I asked them what they were playing at, which sounds

3059
02:29:42,840 --> 02:29:46,200
Speaker 1: so English. What's how you playing at? Buy? What that

3060
02:29:46,360 --> 02:29:48,920
Speaker 1: doing something? I think it's like something that snape says,

3061
02:29:49,280 --> 02:29:51,600
Speaker 1: what are you playing at? What are you playing at?

3062
02:29:51,720 --> 02:29:54,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about? Riley. You've never watched

3063
02:29:54,760 --> 02:29:55,400
Speaker 1: Harry Potter.

3064
02:29:55,879 --> 02:29:57,879
Speaker 7: One and my friends are playing on doing.

3065
02:29:58,520 --> 02:30:06,640
Speaker 1: You've never watched Harry. Nathan, you've never watched Harry Potter.

3066
02:30:07,200 --> 02:30:08,600
Speaker 1: What is this generation coming to?

3067
02:30:08,840 --> 02:30:11,880
Speaker 3: I don't know, dude, Well, me as an old decrepit,

3068
02:30:12,120 --> 02:30:13,280
Speaker 3: just piece of dust.

3069
02:30:13,959 --> 02:30:17,520
Speaker 1: You know you are, Nathan. At which point my friend's

3070
02:30:17,520 --> 02:30:20,120
Speaker 1: father said he'd take my daughter down to the cafeteria

3071
02:30:20,240 --> 02:30:22,240
Speaker 1: to get something to eat and left with her. My

3072
02:30:22,320 --> 02:30:24,640
Speaker 1: friend told me to calm down and not overreact, while

3073
02:30:24,640 --> 02:30:26,840
Speaker 1: his girlfriend told me she didn't see the issue, and

3074
02:30:26,879 --> 02:30:28,959
Speaker 1: it was a pretty name. You should be grateful that

3075
02:30:29,000 --> 02:30:31,760
Speaker 1: I'm naming it after your daughter. That's funny. I asked

3076
02:30:31,800 --> 02:30:34,600
Speaker 1: them if they'd name the baby for my daughter, trying

3077
02:30:34,600 --> 02:30:37,320
Speaker 1: to understand the logic here, but his girlfriend just said, no,

3078
02:30:37,400 --> 02:30:39,280
Speaker 1: she's a pretty name. I liked, It's just cool, and

3079
02:30:39,320 --> 02:30:41,200
Speaker 1: then asked if they planned to use a nickname or

3080
02:30:41,200 --> 02:30:43,560
Speaker 1: middle name when addressing her on a daily basis, and

3081
02:30:43,600 --> 02:30:45,480
Speaker 1: her response was, what's she gon need for that? No,

3082
02:30:45,840 --> 02:30:48,840
Speaker 1: it's like that story Red where the name that they

3083
02:30:48,840 --> 02:30:51,240
Speaker 1: did twin names and it was Sean and Sean but

3084
02:30:51,360 --> 02:30:55,039
Speaker 1: spelled differently. But at least these are spelled differently that one.

3085
02:30:55,080 --> 02:30:56,879
Speaker 1: I think it was the last name was Sean too

3086
02:30:56,959 --> 02:31:02,440
Speaker 1: or something like that. Shaw. That was crazy. I told them

3087
02:31:02,440 --> 02:31:05,160
Speaker 1: they were being ridiculous and they couldn't do this, do

3088
02:31:05,280 --> 02:31:07,480
Speaker 1: this to me. I then told his girlfriend that I

3089
02:31:07,480 --> 02:31:09,879
Speaker 1: found this frankly creepy and told my friend that he

3090
02:31:10,000 --> 02:31:12,240
Speaker 1: was spineless and if he was happy to go along

3091
02:31:12,280 --> 02:31:14,920
Speaker 1: with this, then he was a total cockback. Didn't say that,

3092
02:31:15,000 --> 02:31:17,039
Speaker 1: but as I said that, yeah, he tried to claim

3093
02:31:17,080 --> 02:31:19,959
Speaker 1: our daughter could use a nickname or something. What Yeah, yeah,

3094
02:31:20,000 --> 02:31:21,279
Speaker 1: your daughter, our daughter.

3095
02:31:21,000 --> 02:31:22,959
Speaker 2: Can change her name. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

3096
02:31:22,959 --> 02:31:25,400
Speaker 1: But I shut that down immediately, asking why it was

3097
02:31:25,440 --> 02:31:27,760
Speaker 1: more reasonable for a girl who has used that name

3098
02:31:27,800 --> 02:31:31,480
Speaker 1: for a decade to shame her name compared to a

3099
02:31:31,520 --> 02:31:34,560
Speaker 1: baby who has no concept of what a fucking name is.

3100
02:31:34,800 --> 02:31:36,720
Speaker 1: His girlfriend told me I was being a bitch talking

3101
02:31:36,720 --> 02:31:38,880
Speaker 1: to her like that after she just gave birth, and

3102
02:31:38,959 --> 02:31:41,640
Speaker 1: asked the nurses to remove me, saying I was being disruptive.

3103
02:31:41,760 --> 02:31:43,480
Speaker 1: Maybe my temper is running a little too hot though,

3104
02:31:43,520 --> 02:31:45,360
Speaker 1: and I was too harsh on her when she just

3105
02:31:45,400 --> 02:31:47,800
Speaker 1: gave birth. But it's so fucking weird it. I like

3106
02:31:47,840 --> 02:31:49,640
Speaker 1: to also state I know that what they want to

3107
02:31:49,760 --> 02:31:52,039
Speaker 1: name their child is their choice, and they could have

3108
02:31:52,080 --> 02:31:54,240
Speaker 1: called her dinosaur for all I care, but this is

3109
02:31:54,280 --> 02:31:56,600
Speaker 1: just the one name that should be off limits or adjusted.

3110
02:31:56,720 --> 02:31:59,000
Speaker 1: They even have the same surname, as they have the

3111
02:31:59,040 --> 02:32:02,320
Speaker 1: same father about it feels malicious and deliberate, as if

3112
02:32:02,320 --> 02:32:04,520
Speaker 1: she's trying to replace my daughter, and for both of

3113
02:32:04,520 --> 02:32:06,560
Speaker 1: them to spring it on us like that at the

3114
02:32:06,560 --> 02:32:12,360
Speaker 1: first meeting was weird. That is hilarious. So to everyone

3115
02:32:12,480 --> 02:32:15,800
Speaker 1: listening and watching, what do you think? Is this a

3116
02:32:15,840 --> 02:32:19,320
Speaker 1: weird thing to do? Is this completely normal? John? What

3117
02:32:19,360 --> 02:32:19,920
Speaker 1: are your thoughts.

3118
02:32:20,000 --> 02:32:22,760
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm just imagining right now, there's a Samuel

3119
02:32:22,800 --> 02:32:25,400
Speaker 3: Donner and then ten years later there's another Samuel.

3120
02:32:25,080 --> 02:32:27,040
Speaker 1: Doner and like, hey, can you change your name to

3121
02:32:27,160 --> 02:32:31,760
Speaker 1: like Gerald? Yea change Sam? Can you change like this?

3122
02:32:31,920 --> 02:32:33,840
Speaker 1: Do we have new Sam over here? Yeah?

3123
02:32:34,080 --> 02:32:34,680
Speaker 2: And we don't want to.

3124
02:32:34,600 --> 02:32:36,440
Speaker 1: Just call you old Sam because that would be too rude.

3125
02:32:37,000 --> 02:32:42,800
Speaker 1: Change it to like flob Yeah? Can you flop? Hey?

3126
02:32:43,040 --> 02:32:44,800
Speaker 1: Can we just call you like like flesh back?

3127
02:32:45,000 --> 02:32:47,040
Speaker 2: Maybe do something fun like fleshy?

3128
02:32:47,240 --> 02:32:50,080
Speaker 1: You know, I just call you like Yesterday's old news.

3129
02:32:50,440 --> 02:32:52,640
Speaker 1: We call you old news. Yeah. Can we call you

3130
02:32:52,680 --> 02:32:54,720
Speaker 1: a boomer? Let's call you boomer.

3131
02:32:54,840 --> 02:32:57,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what Nathan and Riley want to call me.

3132
02:32:57,400 --> 02:32:58,959
Speaker 3: That's actually what they called me. I don't want to

3133
02:32:58,959 --> 02:33:03,119
Speaker 3: call you back, but to my face, that's just straight

3134
02:33:03,160 --> 02:33:03,640
Speaker 3: to the dome.

3135
02:33:03,840 --> 02:33:05,560
Speaker 1: I don't know, but like, what do you what do

3136
02:33:05,600 --> 02:33:08,200
Speaker 1: you think a whole move? Yeah, it's not cool. I

3137
02:33:08,200 --> 02:33:10,760
Speaker 1: don't think it's cool. I don't think it's cool. I mean, like, yes,

3138
02:33:10,800 --> 02:33:13,240
Speaker 1: you can name your kid whatever you want, unless it's

3139
02:33:13,280 --> 02:33:16,440
Speaker 1: like you have an like you wouldn't. You wouldn't name

3140
02:33:17,080 --> 02:33:19,920
Speaker 1: two kids the same thing. It's like your kids the

3141
02:33:19,920 --> 02:33:22,320
Speaker 1: same thing, and like this is literally the like the

3142
02:33:22,360 --> 02:33:25,960
Speaker 1: father of both kids, Like you wouldn't as a father,

3143
02:33:26,000 --> 02:33:27,720
Speaker 1: you wouldn't name both of your kids the same thing.

3144
02:33:28,560 --> 02:33:30,560
Speaker 1: That would be the dumbest thing ever. But I want

3145
02:33:30,560 --> 02:33:32,760
Speaker 1: to know what everyone else thinks. But your answers below.

3146
02:33:33,720 --> 02:33:36,520
Speaker 1: But uh, maybe she get into this next story, do it?

3147
02:33:36,680 --> 02:33:39,240
Speaker 3: I made another woman pretend to be my girlfriend in

3148
02:33:39,280 --> 02:33:40,880
Speaker 3: front of my actual girlfriend.

3149
02:33:40,920 --> 02:33:43,680
Speaker 1: But I can explain. Am I the a hole? Babe?

3150
02:33:44,200 --> 02:33:47,240
Speaker 1: This sad chick means nothing to me? Not at all nothing.

3151
02:33:47,440 --> 02:33:49,240
Speaker 1: You know, she might be better looking than you.

3152
02:33:49,440 --> 02:33:52,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, she might be just better than you for sure,

3153
02:33:52,959 --> 02:33:56,080
Speaker 3: But don't take offense to that, not at all. Just uh, like,

3154
02:33:56,160 --> 02:34:00,400
Speaker 3: don't gaslight me, just don't gaslight me, Like, let me live?

3155
02:34:00,520 --> 02:34:02,280
Speaker 3: Do you want me to live a lie? Do you

3156
02:34:02,280 --> 02:34:04,920
Speaker 3: want me to be happy? Then let me date all

3157
02:34:04,959 --> 02:34:07,640
Speaker 3: of these women that last girlfriend.

3158
02:34:07,800 --> 02:34:10,680
Speaker 1: As an excuse for if you're caught cheating. Yeah, it's

3159
02:34:10,720 --> 02:34:12,680
Speaker 1: just so why don't you want me to be happy?

3160
02:34:12,840 --> 02:34:15,160
Speaker 1: But yeah, come on, come on, let me be happy

3161
02:34:15,240 --> 02:34:17,760
Speaker 1: for real. Just let me do it. I'm acting. I'm

3162
02:34:17,800 --> 02:34:20,199
Speaker 1: a method actor, method actor. Oh god.

3163
02:34:20,560 --> 02:34:22,959
Speaker 2: I also love how my my girlfriend was walking by.

3164
02:34:23,200 --> 02:34:26,199
Speaker 1: I was like huh.

3165
02:34:26,240 --> 02:34:29,520
Speaker 3: So, I male, twenty five was out with my girlfriend

3166
02:34:29,600 --> 02:34:32,119
Speaker 3: twenty five female and some other friends. We were drinking,

3167
02:34:32,240 --> 02:34:34,880
Speaker 3: having a good time. I smoke, I'm trying to quit,

3168
02:34:34,920 --> 02:34:37,120
Speaker 3: but we went outside alone for a smoke.

3169
02:34:37,160 --> 02:34:38,720
Speaker 2: I was standing in front of the bar, kind of

3170
02:34:38,720 --> 02:34:39,600
Speaker 2: a short walk away.

3171
02:34:39,720 --> 02:34:41,440
Speaker 3: I don't like standing right in front of the door

3172
02:34:41,480 --> 02:34:43,680
Speaker 3: because the smoke gets into the bar or establishment.

3173
02:34:43,680 --> 02:34:47,480
Speaker 2: Oh, he's trying to be a nice guy. Then this frantic.

3174
02:34:47,120 --> 02:34:50,040
Speaker 1: Looking woman was walking at a normal pace, and then

3175
02:34:50,080 --> 02:34:51,760
Speaker 1: there was a guy a couple of feet behind her.

3176
02:34:51,840 --> 02:34:53,920
Speaker 1: She walked to like a stalker, like a creep. Just

3177
02:34:53,920 --> 02:34:56,320
Speaker 1: some creep. It just some kind of weird, weird creep,

3178
02:34:56,440 --> 02:35:00,360
Speaker 1: just like kind of bugged out looking lady. Right a man.

3179
02:35:00,440 --> 02:35:02,120
Speaker 1: It was a man following. There was a There was

3180
02:35:02,280 --> 02:35:05,080
Speaker 1: a frantic woman and a man. Frantic woman and a

3181
02:35:05,120 --> 02:35:07,400
Speaker 1: man and a man following the frantic following. The frantic woman.

3182
02:35:07,480 --> 02:35:10,959
Speaker 2: Yes, she walks up to me and says, hey, baby,

3183
02:35:12,360 --> 02:35:13,199
Speaker 2: can I do it?

3184
02:35:14,040 --> 02:35:15,760
Speaker 1: You know we'll want to listen to that voice.

3185
02:35:15,879 --> 02:35:21,800
Speaker 3: Ah, you're right, Okay, Hey baby, I'm glad you were

3186
02:35:21,840 --> 02:35:24,720
Speaker 3: waiting where you said you'd be. I was confused at first,

3187
02:35:24,760 --> 02:35:28,000
Speaker 3: but I quickly understood the situation. This guy was weird

3188
02:35:28,080 --> 02:35:30,400
Speaker 3: and on the way up he was muttering weird things

3189
02:35:30,480 --> 02:35:33,200
Speaker 3: like just give me your number, and you're so pretty

3190
02:35:33,480 --> 02:35:35,440
Speaker 3: and I just want to talk to you.

3191
02:35:35,520 --> 02:35:39,360
Speaker 1: So basically, what's happening is this girl is being chased

3192
02:35:39,400 --> 02:35:42,000
Speaker 1: by a creep and she's using ope as like the

3193
02:35:42,040 --> 02:35:45,520
Speaker 1: boyfriend barrier, and it's just like, hey, like, this is

3194
02:35:45,560 --> 02:35:49,480
Speaker 1: my boyfriend. I did not get that until you explained

3195
02:35:49,600 --> 02:35:51,600
Speaker 1: to that. Now, do you feel like ale for making

3196
02:35:52,400 --> 02:35:52,880
Speaker 1: I agree?

3197
02:35:53,320 --> 02:35:55,360
Speaker 3: It's like I was literally like, oh, yeah, it's just

3198
02:35:55,400 --> 02:36:01,080
Speaker 3: some insane ladies wandering the streets. Oh my god, sorry,

3199
02:36:01,320 --> 02:36:04,400
Speaker 3: random lady. When I told someone else's story, I asked

3200
02:36:04,440 --> 02:36:06,640
Speaker 3: why I didn't react when I saw her walking and

3201
02:36:06,680 --> 02:36:09,360
Speaker 3: heard that, And the answer is that all happened very fast,

3202
02:36:09,520 --> 02:36:09,959
Speaker 3: and I.

3203
02:36:09,879 --> 02:36:12,840
Speaker 1: Had been I don't necessarily know what's going on. Yeah, totally,

3204
02:36:13,200 --> 02:36:15,200
Speaker 1: I didn't know what was going on. I was reading it.

3205
02:36:15,240 --> 02:36:17,800
Speaker 3: Once I put it together, I said, oh, hey, honey,

3206
02:36:17,920 --> 02:36:19,760
Speaker 3: I've been waiting for you, and she put her arm

3207
02:36:19,760 --> 02:36:21,600
Speaker 3: around me, and it took longer than I would have

3208
02:36:21,720 --> 02:36:24,240
Speaker 3: liked for the guy to leave. I was being gentle, saying,

3209
02:36:24,360 --> 02:36:26,800
Speaker 3: all right, see you later, buddy, and we've got to

3210
02:36:26,840 --> 02:36:27,400
Speaker 3: get back home.

3211
02:36:27,520 --> 02:36:29,680
Speaker 1: And we started making out and then we fucked. It

3212
02:36:29,800 --> 02:36:32,160
Speaker 1: was so weird, so like it's just kind of happened,

3213
02:36:32,160 --> 02:36:34,160
Speaker 1: and my girlfriend just got mad about it, and it

3214
02:36:34,200 --> 02:36:36,880
Speaker 1: was like, Babe, there was a woman in crisis.

3215
02:36:36,920 --> 02:36:40,040
Speaker 2: Come on, I had the help she needed the bone

3216
02:36:40,600 --> 02:36:41,199
Speaker 2: bow wow.

3217
02:36:42,120 --> 02:36:44,520
Speaker 3: Eventually the guy left, but not because she wanted him

3218
02:36:44,520 --> 02:36:46,400
Speaker 3: to leave, because I kept insisting.

3219
02:36:46,480 --> 02:36:48,359
Speaker 1: Wait, she didn't want the guy to leave.

3220
02:36:48,240 --> 02:36:51,000
Speaker 3: Though, not because the girl wanted him to leave, but

3221
02:36:51,040 --> 02:36:54,039
Speaker 3: because the dude, oh pee as a dude was like

3222
02:36:54,640 --> 02:36:57,119
Speaker 3: basically like she couldn't get him away on her own.

3223
02:36:57,520 --> 02:37:00,360
Speaker 3: Ohp had to be like yo, like all right later,

3224
02:37:00,440 --> 02:37:04,840
Speaker 3: like goodbye, goodbye, get out of here. Nothing happened at all,

3225
02:37:04,959 --> 02:37:07,160
Speaker 3: nothing like that. My girlfriend had been watching this from

3226
02:37:07,160 --> 02:37:09,320
Speaker 3: the window and must have only caught the part at

3227
02:37:09,320 --> 02:37:10,320
Speaker 3: the end of it.

3228
02:37:10,280 --> 02:37:11,760
Speaker 1: When I saw the other girl with.

3229
02:37:11,680 --> 02:37:14,320
Speaker 3: My arm around her. My girlfriend is not the type

3230
02:37:14,320 --> 02:37:16,880
Speaker 3: to cause a public scene. She'll wait until private time

3231
02:37:16,920 --> 02:37:19,240
Speaker 3: to air out her grievances. This girl had no money

3232
02:37:19,280 --> 02:37:21,640
Speaker 3: for an uber and was planning on walking home, but

3233
02:37:21,760 --> 02:37:24,680
Speaker 3: felt too nervous. And this poor girl, it was a

3234
02:37:24,720 --> 02:37:27,160
Speaker 3: terrible night, so I arranged for an uber to pick

3235
02:37:27,160 --> 02:37:29,640
Speaker 3: her up and waited outside with her until the car came.

3236
02:37:29,680 --> 02:37:32,800
Speaker 1: All right, like just jokes aside, OP is like, really,

3237
02:37:33,240 --> 02:37:36,560
Speaker 1: stand up guy, move he's doing being I mean, And

3238
02:37:36,600 --> 02:37:39,119
Speaker 1: this is like a I've heard of this like tactic

3239
02:37:39,160 --> 02:37:42,080
Speaker 1: from girls, like just like if there's a creepy guy,

3240
02:37:42,400 --> 02:37:44,400
Speaker 1: go up to another guy and just like pretend that

3241
02:37:44,400 --> 02:37:46,800
Speaker 1: you're together or something so you can get this creep

3242
02:37:46,840 --> 02:37:49,720
Speaker 1: away from you one hundred percent. It's it was this

3243
02:37:49,760 --> 02:37:52,240
Speaker 1: alid tactic and like, good on, Op for catching on

3244
02:37:52,879 --> 02:37:56,320
Speaker 1: and going with it. I one time had four women.

3245
02:37:56,360 --> 02:37:58,959
Speaker 1: It was me and four women on my birthday and

3246
02:37:58,959 --> 02:38:03,560
Speaker 1: we were at this like dodgy bar whoa not like that,

3247
02:38:03,959 --> 02:38:09,080
Speaker 1: not like that? Me and foemle friends who I had no.

3248
02:38:09,520 --> 02:38:14,400
Speaker 3: Relationship with birthday six No, but it was me and

3249
02:38:14,440 --> 02:38:17,800
Speaker 3: four female friends and uh like we were we were

3250
02:38:17,840 --> 02:38:22,280
Speaker 3: in a bar in like place historic place but uh

3251
02:38:22,920 --> 02:38:25,959
Speaker 3: uh you know a little little rough around the edges,

3252
02:38:26,040 --> 02:38:29,320
Speaker 3: and these dudes were just like trying to get with

3253
02:38:29,440 --> 02:38:33,480
Speaker 3: all four of the zoom Like these were fine big dudes,

3254
02:38:33,600 --> 02:38:36,160
Speaker 3: like freaking big boys.

3255
02:38:36,840 --> 02:38:39,000
Speaker 1: I was like, twin chirled me like fuck.

3256
02:38:39,600 --> 02:38:42,879
Speaker 3: So I was like, oh they're with me, So they

3257
02:38:42,920 --> 02:38:45,080
Speaker 3: all got boy friends and.

3258
02:38:44,560 --> 02:38:47,920
Speaker 2: And they're all me, all of them are my girlfriend.

3259
02:38:48,240 --> 02:38:48,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was bad.

3260
02:38:49,000 --> 02:38:51,920
Speaker 3: They kept like trying to trying to do it and

3261
02:38:51,959 --> 02:38:55,040
Speaker 3: it was, uh, it was not fun. But eventually we

3262
02:38:55,760 --> 02:38:57,400
Speaker 3: got out of there because it was it went back

3263
02:38:57,400 --> 02:39:00,000
Speaker 3: to your place. The heat was technically we went back

3264
02:39:00,080 --> 02:39:05,600
Speaker 3: to the Airbnb. Yes, but uh, Riley, Yeah, John took four.

3265
02:39:05,520 --> 02:39:08,120
Speaker 1: There many men in the bar. There's many men that

3266
02:39:08,360 --> 02:39:10,519
Speaker 1: to the airbnb. Many men at the Airbnb.

3267
02:39:10,600 --> 02:39:14,600
Speaker 3: Who were the many of which the actual boyfriends that

3268
02:39:14,680 --> 02:39:15,200
Speaker 3: I mentioned.

3269
02:39:15,200 --> 02:39:17,160
Speaker 1: I can't believe you took all four of them to

3270
02:39:17,200 --> 02:39:20,960
Speaker 1: the bar without their boyfriends. There is on this guy. Hell,

3271
02:39:22,120 --> 02:39:24,440
Speaker 1: I can't wait here, guys, I can't wait today. I

3272
02:39:24,480 --> 02:39:25,199
Speaker 1: can't wain today.

3273
02:39:26,200 --> 02:39:28,960
Speaker 3: Uh, jumping ahead, this is the story, not me, so

3274
02:39:29,560 --> 02:39:32,160
Speaker 3: jumping ahead to when I was at home with my girlfriend.

3275
02:39:32,400 --> 02:39:35,160
Speaker 3: She asked me what was all that about and wanted

3276
02:39:35,240 --> 02:39:37,920
Speaker 3: to know why her arm was around me and why

3277
02:39:37,959 --> 02:39:41,120
Speaker 3: I stayed after the creep left. She put together that

3278
02:39:41,160 --> 02:39:43,400
Speaker 3: the guy was being weird, but she said I shouldn't

3279
02:39:43,400 --> 02:39:44,959
Speaker 3: have let her put her arm around me.

3280
02:39:45,280 --> 02:39:48,800
Speaker 1: Probably, I mean, they're freaking role playing for safety. Yeah,

3281
02:39:49,360 --> 02:39:51,360
Speaker 1: it's a terrible way of putting it up, like that

3282
02:39:51,360 --> 02:39:52,359
Speaker 1: that happening.

3283
02:39:52,640 --> 02:39:55,640
Speaker 3: Come on, dude, even after the guy left, she removed it.

3284
02:39:55,760 --> 02:39:58,360
Speaker 3: None of my explanations were working, so I just turned

3285
02:39:58,400 --> 02:40:00,800
Speaker 3: her and said, what would you have wanted me to do?

3286
02:40:01,080 --> 02:40:01,280
Speaker 1: Right?

3287
02:40:01,720 --> 02:40:04,840
Speaker 3: A fair question, and if you were here, what would

3288
02:40:04,879 --> 02:40:07,400
Speaker 3: you have wanted the guy to do? She just couldn't

3289
02:40:07,400 --> 02:40:09,920
Speaker 3: answer and said to stop flipping it.

3290
02:40:10,320 --> 02:40:14,000
Speaker 1: Come on, come on, dude, and like, no good degoes unpunished.

3291
02:40:14,000 --> 02:40:18,080
Speaker 1: Man was literally preventing this girl from like possibly getting

3292
02:40:18,080 --> 02:40:22,800
Speaker 1: assaulted by some fucking creepeah, and like, where's women supporting women?

3293
02:40:22,920 --> 02:40:26,840
Speaker 1: Come on? Like, what is this girlfriend doing? She's he's

3294
02:40:26,879 --> 02:40:30,840
Speaker 1: literally the most shivalrous dude for doing this, and she's

3295
02:40:30,879 --> 02:40:33,240
Speaker 1: attacking him for she's keeping her hands at any at

3296
02:40:33,280 --> 02:40:36,880
Speaker 1: any costs, don't touch any girls, yeah, even to save

3297
02:40:36,920 --> 02:40:40,520
Speaker 1: her life. It's bad, dude. If you have to give

3298
02:40:40,520 --> 02:40:45,560
Speaker 1: mouth to mouth, don't no, let them life into her lungs.

3299
02:40:46,000 --> 02:40:50,400
Speaker 3: There was a ninety day fiance person who had to literally,

3300
02:40:50,480 --> 02:40:53,240
Speaker 3: not exaggerating, be on FaceTime for twenty four hours a

3301
02:40:53,320 --> 02:40:56,240
Speaker 3: day with him to make sure he wasn't doing anything

3302
02:40:56,360 --> 02:40:57,440
Speaker 3: an affairs for talking with.

3303
02:40:57,400 --> 02:41:00,400
Speaker 1: Women twenty four hours a day. He couldn't live with

3304
02:41:00,400 --> 02:41:03,400
Speaker 1: his mom and sister because guess what incest mom and

3305
02:41:03,440 --> 02:41:08,160
Speaker 1: sister are women. That's true. I can't in Alabama. That's crazy.

3306
02:41:08,400 --> 02:41:10,800
Speaker 3: She be on the plane if he's helping or like,

3307
02:41:10,840 --> 02:41:12,800
Speaker 3: so he's like, oh you could sit here please?

3308
02:41:12,920 --> 02:41:16,320
Speaker 1: No, it's wrong. Really, that's crazy. There's a standard that

3309
02:41:16,440 --> 02:41:18,720
Speaker 1: is a standard for it. But also, I mean I

3310
02:41:18,959 --> 02:41:21,640
Speaker 1: feel like the girlfriends being a little bit unreasonable, being

3311
02:41:21,640 --> 02:41:23,440
Speaker 1: a bitter. But what do you think? I mean, like

3312
02:41:24,160 --> 02:41:28,160
Speaker 1: this seems this seems like a very obvious op is

3313
02:41:28,280 --> 02:41:31,520
Speaker 1: not the a hole? Yes, but maybe there's something we're

3314
02:41:31,520 --> 02:41:34,800
Speaker 1: missing here. Maybe let us just on the comments and

3315
02:41:34,920 --> 02:41:38,039
Speaker 1: let's get to the last story. But I found something

3316
02:41:38,160 --> 02:41:40,600
Speaker 1: dead in my apartment, but my landlord doesn't want to

3317
02:41:40,640 --> 02:41:43,600
Speaker 1: do anything. So I have a plan for revenge. Am

3318
02:41:43,680 --> 02:41:47,280
Speaker 1: I the asshole? I love revenge plans against landlord's personal

3319
02:41:47,280 --> 02:41:50,840
Speaker 1: revenge plans, and I love a good murder mystery. That's true.

3320
02:41:50,879 --> 02:41:55,600
Speaker 1: True dude, start a true crime podcast. Monetize that show absolutely.

3321
02:41:55,640 --> 02:41:58,960
Speaker 1: And also this story comes from a YouTube comment from

3322
02:41:59,000 --> 02:42:02,480
Speaker 1: commentary Nikki Davis. So, Nikki Davis, thank you for commenting

3323
02:42:02,520 --> 02:42:05,600
Speaker 1: your story. Yes, if you want to comment your own story,

3324
02:42:05,640 --> 02:42:08,959
Speaker 1: want us to read it? Put story time before your comments.

3325
02:42:08,959 --> 02:42:12,199
Speaker 3: That's right, we love those fat, juicy like five hundred

3326
02:42:12,200 --> 02:42:15,279
Speaker 3: and eight hundred word stories well written thrown in there.

3327
02:42:15,440 --> 02:42:19,080
Speaker 1: So my former landlord did not provide any heat source sick,

3328
02:42:19,240 --> 02:42:22,039
Speaker 1: no heat. During one of the coldest winters this state

3329
02:42:22,080 --> 02:42:25,120
Speaker 1: has ever faced, I was able to see my breath

3330
02:42:25,160 --> 02:42:27,320
Speaker 1: in the trailer, and at times it was colder in

3331
02:42:27,360 --> 02:42:29,760
Speaker 1: the trailer than it was outside. When I tore the trailer,

3332
02:42:29,840 --> 02:42:32,440
Speaker 1: I requested a new used fridge, as the current fridge

3333
02:42:32,480 --> 02:42:34,920
Speaker 1: was caked with mold and still had stuff from the

3334
02:42:35,000 --> 02:42:37,280
Speaker 1: last ten its in it. I was told he had

3335
02:42:37,360 --> 02:42:39,560
Speaker 1: already done that, and he might have gotten away with

3336
02:42:39,640 --> 02:42:42,480
Speaker 1: it if there still wasn't mold and a bottle of

3337
02:42:42,560 --> 02:42:45,640
Speaker 1: water in the fridge. So like man's like I replaced

3338
02:42:45,640 --> 02:42:47,760
Speaker 1: the fridge. It's like, uh, no, you didn't. There's mold

3339
02:42:47,760 --> 02:42:50,720
Speaker 1: in here and a bottle of water from nineteen seventy two.

3340
02:42:50,920 --> 02:42:55,200
Speaker 1: I bottom moldy fridge. The oven kept catching on fire

3341
02:42:55,800 --> 02:42:58,760
Speaker 1: no matter what I tried, and the stove had one

3342
02:42:58,840 --> 02:43:02,440
Speaker 1: working burner that all who caught a fire unused. No,

3343
02:43:03,240 --> 02:43:06,119
Speaker 1: this is a shit living situation. Unfortunately, I did not

3344
02:43:06,120 --> 02:43:08,600
Speaker 1: notice a hole in the wall and the kitchen cabinets

3345
02:43:08,680 --> 02:43:11,240
Speaker 1: before or even after when I moved in, and it

3346
02:43:11,320 --> 02:43:14,000
Speaker 1: only got bigger. I took many attempts to repair it,

3347
02:43:14,040 --> 02:43:16,400
Speaker 1: and he would take several days or weeks, claiming he

3348
02:43:16,520 --> 02:43:19,080
Speaker 1: was short staff to repair anything. And then I found

3349
02:43:19,120 --> 02:43:22,560
Speaker 1: it the corpse of a mouse still stuck to the

3350
02:43:22,600 --> 02:43:25,160
Speaker 1: trap that whoever laid it down. When I tried to

3351
02:43:25,240 --> 02:43:28,720
Speaker 1: plug in a lone second space heater, the power in

3352
02:43:28,800 --> 02:43:30,720
Speaker 1: most of the trailer went out and it didn't get

3353
02:43:30,760 --> 02:43:34,080
Speaker 1: fixed before moving out. Holes formed in the floor of

3354
02:43:34,120 --> 02:43:37,320
Speaker 1: the smaller room with only the carpet covering it before

3355
02:43:37,360 --> 02:43:39,840
Speaker 1: I moved in. My move in was delayed due to

3356
02:43:39,879 --> 02:43:43,080
Speaker 1: a needed inspection of power connections, as this was his

3357
02:43:43,240 --> 02:43:45,800
Speaker 1: job to get done. It took exactly half the month

3358
02:43:45,879 --> 02:43:47,800
Speaker 1: for him to get it done, and he only knocked

3359
02:43:47,840 --> 02:43:51,840
Speaker 1: off one hundred dollars at that month rent instead of half. Wow,

3360
02:43:51,920 --> 02:43:55,240
Speaker 1: how much are you paying for this shit holop? It's

3361
02:43:55,240 --> 02:43:57,560
Speaker 1: only worth one hundred dollars. Yeah, last thing is worth

3362
02:43:57,640 --> 02:44:00,360
Speaker 1: less than one hundred dollars. You should be paid if

3363
02:44:00,400 --> 02:44:02,480
Speaker 1: you live in this thing. I should be a fear

3364
02:44:02,600 --> 02:44:07,680
Speaker 1: factor episode. Yes, my front door would open even when locked,

3365
02:44:07,680 --> 02:44:09,960
Speaker 1: and neither doors fit the frames so you can see

3366
02:44:10,040 --> 02:44:12,920
Speaker 1: light coming through upon moving there. There was also a

3367
02:44:13,000 --> 02:44:16,280
Speaker 1: rickety bookshelf that, oh my god, that had a completely

3368
02:44:16,320 --> 02:44:19,720
Speaker 1: squeezed tube of lube and a medicine bottle with a

3369
02:44:19,760 --> 02:44:23,280
Speaker 1: suspicious blue liquid. The bath water ran brownish for a

3370
02:44:23,320 --> 02:44:26,880
Speaker 1: few months before just being opaque. The septic tank reached

3371
02:44:26,879 --> 02:44:29,360
Speaker 1: the max's capacity in just a few months and was

3372
02:44:29,480 --> 02:44:33,480
Speaker 1: never cleaned out. I had to do my business, no okay,

3373
02:44:34,440 --> 02:44:37,360
Speaker 1: Nikki Davis. I had to do my business in the

3374
02:44:37,400 --> 02:44:41,200
Speaker 1: bathtub for the remainder of my tendency. Flies were also

3375
02:44:41,360 --> 02:44:44,320
Speaker 1: a major problem, as well as ants. As I was

3376
02:44:44,360 --> 02:44:46,960
Speaker 1: trying to clean the place and move the remainder of

3377
02:44:47,000 --> 02:44:49,840
Speaker 1: my stuff, this man had the audacity to come by

3378
02:44:49,879 --> 02:44:52,320
Speaker 1: and tell me how disappointed he was that I made

3379
02:44:52,400 --> 02:44:55,039
Speaker 1: the place a mess hard to really clean. With all

3380
02:44:55,040 --> 02:44:58,720
Speaker 1: the problems above, on top of having stress and major depression,

3381
02:44:58,800 --> 02:45:00,280
Speaker 1: as well as three and a half months it's in,

3382
02:45:00,480 --> 02:45:02,440
Speaker 1: I had an accident and ended up with a one

3383
02:45:02,480 --> 02:45:06,000
Speaker 1: point six inch blade in my hand and was unable

3384
02:45:06,080 --> 02:45:11,600
Speaker 1: to do hardly anything with that hand. Nicki, Nicki Davis, Nicky,

3385
02:45:12,120 --> 02:45:16,600
Speaker 1: please live somewhere else, Oh, nicky girl had to shit

3386
02:45:16,680 --> 02:45:20,120
Speaker 1: in a bathtub bro boy. Oh he had to shit

3387
02:45:20,160 --> 02:45:26,040
Speaker 1: in a bathtub? Wow? Oh shit outside ins out of

3388
02:45:26,080 --> 02:45:28,880
Speaker 1: the bathtub. Yeah, I don't know about that choice. Well

3389
02:45:28,879 --> 02:45:30,879
Speaker 1: I guess it's yeah, I guess you got to dig

3390
02:45:30,920 --> 02:45:33,039
Speaker 1: so many holes. It comes to a point where are

3391
02:45:33,040 --> 02:45:36,160
Speaker 1: you washing the shit down the tub? Honestly, I don't

3392
02:45:36,320 --> 02:45:40,400
Speaker 1: can't smell good, op, Nicky. Maybe you get an update. Yeah,

3393
02:45:41,200 --> 02:45:45,160
Speaker 1: what is your new living situation? Please tell me it's good? Please?

3394
02:45:45,280 --> 02:45:48,560
Speaker 1: Oh my goodness. I feel so bad for you. I know,

3395
02:45:49,000 --> 02:45:52,440
Speaker 1: I know, but man, I mean, have I had any

3396
02:45:52,520 --> 02:45:54,720
Speaker 1: bad living situations like the I mean you've had some

3397
02:45:54,720 --> 02:45:59,240
Speaker 1: pretty crazy ones. Yeah, well, like nothing that crazy. He

3398
02:45:59,600 --> 02:46:01,680
Speaker 1: hasn't He hasn't had to shit in a bath up.

3399
02:46:01,760 --> 02:46:06,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I shared a garage with someone before I've what

3400
02:46:06,320 --> 02:46:08,520
Speaker 3: else you lived in the garage? I lived in the

3401
02:46:08,520 --> 02:46:11,240
Speaker 3: garage with another person. It was the two people in

3402
02:46:11,280 --> 02:46:12,800
Speaker 3: the garage.

3403
02:46:13,120 --> 02:46:15,200
Speaker 1: I have you lived in some.

3404
02:46:15,280 --> 02:46:17,480
Speaker 2: Like a house like fifteen people or thirty people?

3405
02:46:17,520 --> 02:46:21,320
Speaker 1: Of the house of thirty people? What else?

3406
02:46:23,040 --> 02:46:24,959
Speaker 3: I lived in kind of like a day bed, like

3407
02:46:25,120 --> 02:46:28,240
Speaker 3: like basically like a like a imagine like a big

3408
02:46:28,280 --> 02:46:30,680
Speaker 3: foyer kind of like walk through lived in that so

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Speaker 3: they're like no.

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Speaker 2: Doors like a cot.

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Speaker 3: It was like a daybed, but the room itself like

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Speaker 3: it was like all open, so like no, and the

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Speaker 3: garage door was literally like right at the foot of

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Speaker 3: the bed.

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Speaker 1: The fuck. So yeah, it was. It was imagining what

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Speaker 1: I'm imagining. This is not probably what it is, but

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Speaker 1: I'm imagining, like you know, like World War two where

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02:46:50,560 --> 02:46:53,320
Speaker 1: they just had like stacks and stacks of cots where

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Speaker 1: they were like getting medical attention. Yeah, that's what I'm imagining.

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Speaker 1: Not quite at the same level of crying, Yeah, same level.

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Speaker 3: Of screaming of yeah, yeah it was bad. It wasn't

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Speaker 3: that bad, but it was, you know, less than ideal.

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Speaker 3: So yeah, it's a fun, fun living situation. That's how

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Speaker 3: you just got that as fun.

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Speaker 1: So well, I want to know about your quote unquote

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Speaker 1: fun living situation. Put those in the comments below, and

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Speaker 1: Nikki Davis, hope you're doing better, please love you an

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02:47:16,959 --> 02:47:19,240
Speaker 1: update in the comments. Put story time at the beginning

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Speaker 1: so we know that it's story time. That's again five

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Speaker 1: hundred words to anyone who wants to submit a story,

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Speaker 1: or you could submit the story to our slash Okop

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Speaker 1: show on our subrededit.

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Speaker 2: We love you, See you on the next one zone,