1 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know. Y'all back 2 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: a suit on the back down, giving them move like 3 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: the milking buck bus things in the cubbles. Y'all good it, sEH. 4 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:38,520 Speaker 1: Listen to movie together for stun Please, Moby, I don't 5 00:00:38,720 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: join join me in doing me. Honey, you gotta turn you, 6 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: you gotta turn the turnour got to turn out, turn 7 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 1: the water the water go. Come come on your back 8 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: at h huh, I sure will. Good morning, everybody. Are 9 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: you listening to the voice? Come on dig me now, 10 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay, 11 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 1: I got something for you today. I'm gonna have a 12 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: conversation this morning about my understanding of grace now that 13 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: I've gotten older and I've come in to a better 14 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: understanding of a lot of things I didn't know about 15 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: when I was younger. This is just my interpretation of grace. 16 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:41,760 Speaker 1: Now once again, y'all listen to me. I ain't nobody's pastor, 17 00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 1: I ain't nobody's minister. So you know, I'm pretty sure 18 00:02:44,600 --> 00:02:47,399 Speaker 1: you can go to church and get a far more 19 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 1: extensive definition of one I'm giving you. I'm just talking 20 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 1: to people, you know, Grace is this thing that that 21 00:02:54,919 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 1: God provides for us. And grace it's just things that 22 00:03:02,720 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 1: you get that's really undeserving, you know. I mean, I 23 00:03:06,760 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 1: look at my life as it is today. You know. Look, 24 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,119 Speaker 1: I work hard and I have faith in God that 25 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,519 Speaker 1: I do so things are going to happen in my life. 26 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,640 Speaker 1: But the way my life is now, I don't. I don't. 27 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: I don't deserve all of this. I don't don't. I 28 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:24,200 Speaker 1: don't look at it that way. I have been the 29 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 1: beneficiary of God's grace. I have aligned myself in a 30 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 1: position to accept whatever grace God has for me, and 31 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: it will be far abundant and exceedingly in anything you 32 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: could think of. His grace supersedes anything you could possibly imagine. 33 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 1: You know, the goals that I set and the aspirations 34 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 1: that I shoot for, and the things that I have 35 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 1: on my dream board. I have the faith that God 36 00:03:53,200 --> 00:03:55,600 Speaker 1: will give it to me. But what He does with grace, 37 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: he gives you far more than that. He gives you 38 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: what He has for you, not what you can see. 39 00:04:02,080 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: You can't see all He has for you. It's impossible. 40 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: Who are you? How can you possibly imagine what he 41 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: can imagine? How can you possibly think how he can think? How? 42 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:14,280 Speaker 1: How can you possibly do what he can do? How 43 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: can it be that isn't a single mind living or 44 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: a collection of minds that could have thought of earth? 45 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: What in your wildest imagination could have made you think 46 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:31,520 Speaker 1: of Earth? The stars, the heavens, the oceans, the galaxy, 47 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 1: the constellations. What in your mind? What in any man's mind. 48 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: We can point at it and analyze it, but we 49 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: show it couldn't have thought of it. So come on now, 50 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:48,040 Speaker 1: I'm talking about lining yourself up with God's grace, which 51 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: he will give to you if you if you want 52 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,239 Speaker 1: some of it now. But now, his thing about grace, 53 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:55,320 Speaker 1: it can't be bought. If it could, if it could 54 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: be bought, I'm telling you I would pour all the 55 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:04,159 Speaker 1: money I have and dump it into grace, because, after 56 00:05:04,240 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 1: discovering what it is, it's this goodness that God shines 57 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 1: on you simply as a reward of some type for 58 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: his love for you and for you attempting for you 59 00:05:18,640 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: attempting to do right, not because you get it right. 60 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 1: Because if He judged us purely on how we are 61 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: the right and wrong of it, we would all be doomed, 62 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: all of us, Every last one of us would be 63 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: doomed because we all fall short, we all make mistakes, 64 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 1: we all sin, we all get it wrong from time 65 00:05:41,480 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: to time. Nobody's perfect. Man. Now I understand what my 66 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 1: mother was saying about cleaning the house. All I want 67 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 1: is a little more grace. All I need is a 68 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: little more grace when the last time you ask God 69 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 1: for some grace. Now I'm not talking to you like 70 00:05:57,279 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: I know everything. If you just benefit from His grace, 71 00:06:01,600 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 1: which you already have, but if you're not aware of it, 72 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 1: you don't know what's going on. Become aware of grace, 73 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: Get aware of the fact that God does things for 74 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: you simply because He loves you. He does things for 75 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 1: you that you don't even deserve. Somehow, you just wonder 76 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: how you just got over when you didn't even do 77 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: the things to get over. Sometimes you don't even know 78 00:06:25,480 --> 00:06:27,840 Speaker 1: how you got that job you got when you ain't 79 00:06:27,880 --> 00:06:30,200 Speaker 1: even really do the things to get to job. How 80 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,159 Speaker 1: you end up where you are all education you thought 81 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: you went and got and had, how you end up 82 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: where you are today in a much better position than 83 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:42,960 Speaker 1: your education could have ever gotten you. That's grace. How 84 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: I get every place I am today. I didn't plan this. Man, 85 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 1: If I could have planned my life the way it is, 86 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: don't you know how to have done it when I 87 00:06:49,880 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 1: was living in that car? If I knew how to 88 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 1: do it. No, I benefited from his grace. I'm just 89 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 1: a beneficiary of his grace, of his goodness and his mercy. 90 00:07:02,480 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 1: God's goodness is better than your goodness. God's goodness is 91 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:09,479 Speaker 1: better than your mother's goodness. It's better than your wife's 92 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:13,679 Speaker 1: or your husband or your booze goodness. God's goodness is different. 93 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: His goodness Man covers some stuff you can't even imagine. 94 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: So why are you trying to put your life together 95 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: when the last time you asked him for just a 96 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:28,960 Speaker 1: little bit of grace. When have you thought of your 97 00:07:29,000 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 1: life in terms of the grace that it has already 98 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: benefited from? Have you ever done that? Man? Just thought 99 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 1: about you know? You hear songs like my soul looked 100 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:41,920 Speaker 1: back and wonder how I got over. That's grace. That's 101 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:43,760 Speaker 1: all I can call it. Now. Like I said, you 102 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 1: can go to church or somewherever you want to, and 103 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: ministers that the wind at school to teach this thing 104 00:07:49,120 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 1: way better than me. I'm just giving you from a 105 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: layman standpoint, Man, have you thought about his grace? Would 106 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: you not bewailed to be a beneficiary of his grace? 107 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:02,080 Speaker 1: Would it not? Certain? Now check this out. The better 108 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: you try to do, the more grace he'll give to you. 109 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 1: And that grace can't be bought. Like I said, it's free. 110 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: You can't purchase grace. But the better you try to 111 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: become the more the more grace he gets to put 112 00:08:15,680 --> 00:08:20,400 Speaker 1: your way. So man, just try why don't you just 113 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: try to do better? Look, man, quick tip. Mind, I'm 114 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:25,960 Speaker 1: gonna start next week. I'm gonna start at the new year. 115 00:08:26,040 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: Now you now, you do that every year, you know 116 00:08:28,320 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: the ems at the new year. I'm eat better at 117 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: the new year. I'm gonna I'm gonna gonna get in 118 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: here and the new year. If you're gonna do it, 119 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: you're gonna do it now. Man, You're gonna do not 120 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 1: stop trying to do something, do it, stop talking about it, 121 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,640 Speaker 1: do it now. The best way to benefit from his 122 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: grace is starting action now in old w now right 123 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 1: now today. What you're waiting on. All you're doing is 124 00:08:55,960 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 1: delaying his opportunity to bless you. You know, man, you know, 125 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,640 Speaker 1: do you know how many times we do that, we 126 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:06,560 Speaker 1: delay his opportunity to bless us by not starting now. 127 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,000 Speaker 1: If you're gonna get healthy, why don't you start now? 128 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,400 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna trip a little bit called the holidays coming. 129 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:15,040 Speaker 1: But you ain't got to eat bad all the time. 130 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: You could start eating correct today you could, you could, 131 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: and then guess what that could be? Some grace on 132 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: the end of that. I'm just giving you a little 133 00:09:23,880 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: cheap analogy. But do you feel what I'm saying to you? 134 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: Start thinking in terms of grace? What He has done 135 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: for you and provided for you that you ain't even 136 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:35,560 Speaker 1: see coming. That you know, you keep calling them blessings 137 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:36,880 Speaker 1: And I got that a lot of it, and now 138 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:39,120 Speaker 1: it's all it is. But man, have you thought about 139 00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: the stuff that didn't happen to you? You can't account 140 00:09:41,320 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: for I. For me, that's been grace and I'm beneficiary 141 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: of it. And that's available to everybody that won't sull 142 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: Next time you're talking to him, just check in with grace. 143 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:59,160 Speaker 1: See what that is. That's that's better than money. You're listening. 144 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:07,559 Speaker 1: May have your attention, please, May I have your undivided attention? Please? 145 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:19,479 Speaker 1: Now the long awaited return is hill. He back, he rested, 146 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:30,280 Speaker 1: he back back in mow Black, I got some rest. 147 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: I found new level of hignorance. Oh, I'm I'm fronted. 148 00:10:37,640 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: I'm overjoyed. What is this? What is this that I 149 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: feel inside? Hey? That keeps said in my soul to 150 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: fire you? Hey, Steve, be back on the Steve Harvey 151 00:11:02,360 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: Morning Show. Before I get started, I want to thank 152 00:11:05,280 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: my incredible Crewe for holding it down ladies, and the 153 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:13,880 Speaker 1: shutting Strawberry Calin for real, Junior Nephew, Dermit and my 154 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:21,280 Speaker 1: main man Jamon and Brown. Welcome back, Stave for damnself, 155 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 1: yourself for your damn jack. Welcome back to Steve. You 156 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: were missed, my Duve, but we were checking you out 157 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: on the Graham Baby living your best life. I love 158 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:44,959 Speaker 1: to tell y'all that I missed. Y'all, you're gonna be ing. 159 00:11:46,559 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: You ain't got to lie, no, but let's just hold 160 00:11:50,480 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: that for a later dinner. Well, how was it, Steve Man? 161 00:11:58,559 --> 00:12:00,360 Speaker 1: I can't even I don't even know where to talk 162 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: so much, it's so much. First of all, I'm gonna 163 00:12:03,280 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: talk about Africa tomorrow. I can't talk about Africa to 164 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: day because I don't want to I don't want to 165 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 1: come back with that story first day back, so let's 166 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,440 Speaker 1: just talk about all the joy your stuff, even though 167 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:18,080 Speaker 1: Africa means more to me now than it's ever meant 168 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:20,800 Speaker 1: to me. But we'll get into that. But let's just 169 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:25,080 Speaker 1: talk about it because I was so overjoyed but overwhelmed 170 00:12:25,120 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: in Africa. I don't want to get into the overwhelmedness 171 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: to day, so let's just talk about the other part. 172 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: Ask me anything, Okay, Okay, I got I got the 173 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: questions year How hard was you balling? Yeah, that's it. 174 00:12:40,600 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: Let's go show us how to do it. Ask this question, 175 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: how hard can the ball get? The level was made 176 00:12:54,800 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: out of concrete? You batn ask Brod. I thought I 177 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: was far of got it. You're missing it. Tell your 178 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: tea for whow. I'm just glad you're raising. I always 179 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: love you. Back up front vacation because yeah, yeah, he's 180 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: on another end. So listen. I don't know what y'all 181 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: got playing for the show, but this is what we're 182 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: gonna do. Come back. Y'all can ask me questions about 183 00:13:24,480 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 1: what I happened, what I did, anything, but be specific 184 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: so I can answer questions, all right, questions all morning? Steve. 185 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: This is called Stevens Back money. All right, you heard 186 00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,880 Speaker 1: it from the man yourself. We will be back with 187 00:13:37,960 --> 00:13:41,559 Speaker 1: Steven's back Monday at thirty two after the hour right 188 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:46,840 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steven Show. All right, it's Monday. 189 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:53,080 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey is back. Halleluh. Yeah, Steve Harvey is back 190 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:57,080 Speaker 1: on them all and in show. Hu with so much 191 00:13:57,120 --> 00:14:03,959 Speaker 1: to tell, all the places he I got somewhere he 192 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 1: didn't told it scene, lots of twirls. Steve Harvard and 193 00:14:09,400 --> 00:14:15,959 Speaker 1: messed around on the other side of the world. All right, Tommy, 194 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: you have a question. Yeah, that was great. Let's get 195 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 1: to it, all right, big dog, What did you do? 196 00:14:23,320 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: That's so baller that I wish I could do everything 197 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: the whole trip? Okay, all right, okay, okay, okay, all right, 198 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,840 Speaker 1: let me start it for you. We landed for the 199 00:14:40,880 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: first time in Venice. I've never gone to me. So 200 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:47,680 Speaker 1: when you leave the airport, they pick you up in 201 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: a boat. So you board the boat and now you 202 00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:54,640 Speaker 1: head across the bay or whatever it is. I did 203 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: not know this, I promise you I didn't and I'm 204 00:14:57,000 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 1: not making it up. I did not know that that 205 00:14:59,800 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: are no streets in Venice, I didn't know that there 206 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:11,160 Speaker 1: are no streets for car traffic. Gondola it's you water 207 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: taxis and gondolas gondolas, so that's how you get around. 208 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:22,280 Speaker 1: So what I'm trying to tell you is, if you 209 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: gotta take a boat to get somewhere, you need to 210 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:30,720 Speaker 1: know where Craig House had. You need to know exactly 211 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,640 Speaker 1: where Craig House hat. Don't go over there looking to 212 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:38,840 Speaker 1: for rivera dirty's house and you ain't shown because if 213 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: it's on the other side, Partner, you can't like cut 214 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:44,360 Speaker 1: through the alley or turn down this corner and double 215 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 1: back down. You in a boat, a skinny boat, you 216 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: can't make you terms. So that was for starters man. 217 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 1: That was Venice. And my wife's dream was to ride 218 00:15:56,840 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: on a gondola, so her dream did it the first 219 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:05,720 Speaker 1: we got there, So that was pretty amazing. Did the 220 00:16:05,800 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: people know you in Venice? It? Yeah? Yeah, what happened Steve. 221 00:16:13,400 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 1: But it started with some black people from New York. 222 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:23,840 Speaker 1: That's how I started. I was doing fine where from 223 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:27,000 Speaker 1: I was trying to lead black people from New York 224 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: saw and it started with no, it ain't, no, it ain't. 225 00:16:35,800 --> 00:16:43,720 Speaker 1: I then I heard oh hey, that's the one. All 226 00:16:43,760 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: I heard was oh hey, no, and that was it. 227 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:55,240 Speaker 1: You turn around, Yes, the blanket and blanket. I've been blake, blake. 228 00:16:56,240 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 1: I'll say, what's up, bro. I told y'all that was it. 229 00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: And then some other people started noticing, and then it 230 00:17:05,320 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 1: was only cracking. Man. It was wow, regular, regular day, 231 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: first day. How many seagulls did you smoke on this trip? Here? Oh, 232 00:17:15,960 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: let me see? Oh a lot? He was balling, he 233 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:26,280 Speaker 1: was ba Yeah, did you go over your limit for 234 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:29,679 Speaker 1: the year? Yeah? Yeah, I might have to go to 235 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:37,320 Speaker 1: the docket to get checked gold leaves, y go ahead. 236 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 1: I might have to just go to Cuba and make 237 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 1: sure everybody is rested from But it was like amazing, man, 238 00:17:51,119 --> 00:17:54,000 Speaker 1: and Venice was amazing. Then we loft Venice and we 239 00:17:54,040 --> 00:18:00,560 Speaker 1: went to hu Poola, Croatia, and Croatia I've never been 240 00:18:01,359 --> 00:18:03,479 Speaker 1: and we wanted to try something new, and so we 241 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 1: did that. And so we're going down the coastline of Croatia, man, 242 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:11,040 Speaker 1: and it's like breathtakingly beautiful. I've never seen a land 243 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:14,000 Speaker 1: a shoreline like that in my life. Man. It was 244 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:17,200 Speaker 1: just God was all over the place. And then we 245 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 1: stopped in the port where they filmed Game a Throne. Yeah, yeah, 246 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: hey saw the castle who had the dragon burnt down 247 00:18:31,400 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 1: at the end where the queen was standing in the tower. 248 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:38,639 Speaker 1: Hey man, Margie went up there and took pictures on 249 00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 1: all go to Margie's instagram. Well she had it on 250 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:42,879 Speaker 1: her story. I don't even know how to work there, 251 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,640 Speaker 1: but she took all the pictures. She was on top 252 00:18:45,680 --> 00:18:49,879 Speaker 1: of the wall. You could see the entire city, the 253 00:18:50,080 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: castle how they shot it. Uh you know, you could see, uh, 254 00:18:56,359 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 1: you just saw the hallways, the walkways to look and 255 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:04,120 Speaker 1: the stone in that city is the original stone that's 256 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:09,480 Speaker 1: always been there. I'm talking about now, you know Game 257 00:19:09,520 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 1: of Thrones, even though it's fictional, you know what I mean. 258 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,439 Speaker 1: Those the city that is shot in has the original 259 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,560 Speaker 1: stone in it when it was first laid. The most 260 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 1: beautiful stone you've ever seen on the sidewalk. Wow, it was. 261 00:19:24,640 --> 00:19:26,440 Speaker 1: And then you could go up the steps where they 262 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,560 Speaker 1: shot scenes of game and throw you could see it. 263 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:30,720 Speaker 1: And uh, you know, I bought me some Game of 264 00:19:30,800 --> 00:19:33,399 Speaker 1: Throne shirts and you know, a couple and then I 265 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: bought me some Game of Throne wine. So I was 266 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,600 Speaker 1: drinking my red wine on the boat out of Game 267 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 1: of Throne. Mood. That's how hard I was balling. I 268 00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:51,680 Speaker 1: was drinking my wine out out of Game of Throne goblets. Yeah, man, 269 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 1: go back, how Father back up? Captain Father away with you? Man, 270 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:18,399 Speaker 1: that's crazy. Okay, so that was crazy man. Croatia. After Croatia, 271 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:21,440 Speaker 1: I went for the first time to a place called Montenegro. 272 00:20:23,280 --> 00:20:26,879 Speaker 1: Montenegro got a brand newport that is owned and bought 273 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 1: by Dubai. Okay, I'm learning, No, what do listen to? 274 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:43,200 Speaker 1: You gotta be hold that story, Steve. We have more 275 00:20:43,480 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 1: from Steve's incredible vacation, uh coming up right after this. Also, 276 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:52,960 Speaker 1: Reverend Motown is back. Didn't know that Reverend Motown is 277 00:20:52,960 --> 00:20:57,160 Speaker 1: back in Deacon def jam church complaints and we'll talk 278 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 1: about all that coming up right after this, you're list 279 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,480 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, Steve is 280 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 1: going to tell us about his Montenegro stop on his 281 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 1: European excursion vacation this year. Bawling, he fell, and then 282 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: he got up and balled some more. All right, but 283 00:21:21,200 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 1: right now it is Monday, and of course it is 284 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,440 Speaker 1: time for church complaints. And guess who's back. Not only 285 00:21:27,600 --> 00:21:30,760 Speaker 1: is Deacon def Jam in the building. But Reverend Motown 286 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: has been out, but he's back today, the same day 287 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:41,879 Speaker 1: as Steve amazing right. I can't with you church complaints. 288 00:21:41,960 --> 00:22:02,000 Speaker 1: What's up? He passed here? Deacon here four emma, oh, 289 00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:08,159 Speaker 1: we want to first of all, thanks Sister Sherlette or 290 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 1: Sister Carlin, oh junior, Deacon junior, Oh, oh, Real Madden, 291 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:22,760 Speaker 1: or of course or you or d for holding down 292 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:26,400 Speaker 1: the J P j J while I was awake. Man, 293 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: it's been a different now, I beg your pardon. It 294 00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,439 Speaker 1: has been a difficult situation, and I get to it 295 00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:36,200 Speaker 1: when we get to the complaints, but it has been 296 00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,040 Speaker 1: very different. Well, here we are, and let us begin 297 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:44,040 Speaker 1: with church complaints. And no that's not deacon photo complaints start. 298 00:22:45,400 --> 00:22:49,800 Speaker 1: Ain't in the mood for it. You just got back 299 00:22:50,359 --> 00:22:54,000 Speaker 1: first day. First of all, I will say, well I 300 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,520 Speaker 1: come back past. I will say that, but let me 301 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 1: go ahead and be completely that's with you. There are 302 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 1: rumors that we didn't know what was going on. We 303 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:05,280 Speaker 1: didn't know if you was inconcerrated. From my understanding, their 304 00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 1: hearing that you was preaching at various churches around the world, 305 00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:13,320 Speaker 1: and the members are been upset about your absence. Now 306 00:23:13,800 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: from from what we understand, you hadn't been the Kanye's 307 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:21,080 Speaker 1: church and then spoke there is this truth whoa first 308 00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: of all, don't welcome me back and did not really 309 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 1: mean the welcome she a welcome back follows with oh, 310 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 1: how I missed you? Maybe a selection from Harold Melvin 311 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:43,360 Speaker 1: and the Blue Note Quartet things of that. Oh did 312 00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 1: he break up Misshoe? But you, on the other hand, 313 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:59,679 Speaker 1: questioning that I was preaching around the world. That's what 314 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: we Croatia needs saving. Two, I understand the larger donations 315 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:10,480 Speaker 1: than us overheard, what did you bring money back for 316 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:22,600 Speaker 1: the churchs Hello, m the expenses of world travel is great? 317 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:30,200 Speaker 1: What type of expenses are we talking about that? You 318 00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:37,560 Speaker 1: go you pretty pasta shrimps and muscle and even thinks 319 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,840 Speaker 1: that that we don't normally eat, testing testing out things 320 00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: egg plant, parmesan, chicken, parmaguidill that okay, money there was 321 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:56,359 Speaker 1: no money bought back, but the donation did help to 322 00:24:56,520 --> 00:25:02,960 Speaker 1: make a greater trip. I see, okay, didn't bring money 323 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 1: back for the church. Listen. I have been here struggling 324 00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:09,840 Speaker 1: it with this characters, and I have done everything I 325 00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 1: can to try to keep this church afloat um as 326 00:25:13,680 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 1: it right now. Just to let you know what I 327 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 1: have done. The less side of the sanctuary is the 328 00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 1: only spot that has air conditions. They wanted they on 329 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: ac they have to get there early. That's what I 330 00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,000 Speaker 1: have done. I have been cutting back here at this 331 00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: congregation because you have been gone, well you struggling call 332 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 1: you ain't meat but to amen, okay, no, no, no, 333 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:44,280 Speaker 1: no kind of man. Wait it the way trying to 334 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:49,040 Speaker 1: figure yeah, yeah you heard it. But it was like 335 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,880 Speaker 1: a question. You you can't say you can't here. Amen. 336 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 1: Let somebody say amen, Amen, Amen, amen, amen, no, no, 337 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:04,520 Speaker 1: this is a amen type of moment. You're cutting back 338 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: because you don't know how to ask. Scripture says you 339 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:13,040 Speaker 1: have not caught your ass. No, you started running out 340 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:16,240 Speaker 1: of money, you started cutting off air conditions. Ain't nobody 341 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,320 Speaker 1: asked you to cut off the air condition but you 342 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:21,200 Speaker 1: didn't ask to keep the air conditional on that. You're 343 00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: saying man amen, man, no, not a man, no, no, 344 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:31,880 Speaker 1: not a amen, trying you're putting the negative on top 345 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 1: of polgi. Amen is an agreement term. You can't say 346 00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:41,000 Speaker 1: a man, but I'm not agreeing. That's a double constellation. 347 00:26:44,640 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 1: That's a double constellation a constellations in each other, so 348 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 1: you needn't know your ea. Oh my goodness, that's the 349 00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 1: I want to let you know right now that the 350 00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 1: congregation has uh, there's a situation going on right now. 351 00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:09,800 Speaker 1: There are now there's now a pastorial election because we 352 00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,600 Speaker 1: didn't know if he was coming back. Right now, there's 353 00:27:12,720 --> 00:27:19,159 Speaker 1: twenty three people up for this position. And yeah, you 354 00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 1: might want to start a campaigning as soon as pop is. 355 00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,600 Speaker 1: That's something you would like to say to the congregation 356 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:29,119 Speaker 1: to keep you at this job. Of course. Of course, 357 00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 1: I don't know that you're not voting me out because 358 00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:37,440 Speaker 1: I'm not stepping up. Yeah, your vote is for no 359 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:41,640 Speaker 1: reason because I'm back. I ain't going nowhere. I take 360 00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:46,720 Speaker 1: them other twenty democratical congregational candidates and pack them up 361 00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:49,600 Speaker 1: all in the Democratic side of your crack. If you won't, 362 00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:56,560 Speaker 1: it's nothing of Shatoya wanted to move for this. I'll 363 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: come back now all sudden, y'all trying to Donald Trump 364 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 1: me that ain't ain't no impeachment playing going on up 365 00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,240 Speaker 1: in here to jack Pot join the drue. I started 366 00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:09,119 Speaker 1: this trade. Not true. I'm not run out of my 367 00:28:09,280 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 1: church by no fool here like like you saw where 368 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:18,000 Speaker 1: you're gonna find yourself playing off from the trade. That's 369 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:20,240 Speaker 1: what you do. Well, who the candidates you got? Look 370 00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:24,880 Speaker 1: at you got an old Bishop Biden eating had already 371 00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:30,240 Speaker 1: been in under the under Cardinal Obama got. Then you 372 00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:37,000 Speaker 1: got the other candidate, Deaconcenders don't make a full turn got. 373 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: Then you got first Lady Elizabeth Warren over Hill May 374 00:28:43,640 --> 00:28:47,240 Speaker 1: she gonna had to do something. Now she's gonna be 375 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:51,240 Speaker 1: taking pictures. All well, at the top of the hour, 376 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:57,800 Speaker 1: Entertainment and national news right after this, you're listening, Steven. 377 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:04,640 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, first day back, fresh off vacations. Uh, 378 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:07,280 Speaker 1: you know you've told us where you started. You started 379 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:10,560 Speaker 1: in Venice, then you went on up to Croatia. Then 380 00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:14,600 Speaker 1: you were telling us about Montenegro. Now tell us about 381 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:19,000 Speaker 1: Montena Venice and I went down the coast of Croatia. Okay, 382 00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:24,360 Speaker 1: down next. If you look on my instagram, in Croatia, 383 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,160 Speaker 1: I stopped at a muscle farm and an orchard farm, 384 00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:32,920 Speaker 1: and about muscles and orchards and washed them myself and 385 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,960 Speaker 1: talk trash. So after that went to the first time 386 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,280 Speaker 1: ever to this place called Montenegro. And um, you gotta 387 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:44,239 Speaker 1: be careful as a black person cast you know they 388 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:47,480 Speaker 1: being at black and you know you be you don't 389 00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:53,320 Speaker 1: be paying one a little tight. They be saying that 390 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:56,320 Speaker 1: real fast and you'd be walking. It's in the nego 391 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:02,760 Speaker 1: that go another negro? What you go another Negro, but 392 00:30:02,920 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 1: didn't be saying welcome to Monte Nigo and then you know, 393 00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 1: so you have to be careful. But anyway, Uh, Dubai 394 00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 1: owns this port. It's two ports in Montenegro. It's where 395 00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:16,760 Speaker 1: the cruise ships docked. And then there's some more upscale 396 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: port on the other side of the bay. So you 397 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:25,880 Speaker 1: go around the corner. It's more some great food over there. 398 00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 1: Lots of shops, lots of souvenir shops. Uh they had, 399 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: but they had a Louis Verton bags on potato chip racks. 400 00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 1: Huh were they real? They had real ever time bags 401 00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:45,840 Speaker 1: on potato chip racks. You know how you clip potato 402 00:30:45,920 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 1: chips on you just scratch. You can shop for a 403 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:51,920 Speaker 1: Louis Vertime bag like that, and it was seventy five 404 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:56,080 Speaker 1: percent off what we didn't have ever I've seen Louis 405 00:30:56,160 --> 00:31:04,440 Speaker 1: Vaton on sale. Dog Dog, that wasn't real the case 406 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,360 Speaker 1: to them though, Dog I could have flipped them when 407 00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: you got back. Then they had a ap watch, a 408 00:31:15,000 --> 00:31:20,080 Speaker 1: Rolex and and a huge blow in the window, all 409 00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: of them in the same box. But then they had 410 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: a fake Gucci and New York Yankee had combined. I said, what, 411 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 1: So we go around the corner to this other port 412 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 1: and Dubai owns it and it is completely different. It's 413 00:31:38,680 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 1: one of my favorite places now. It was stunningly clean, 414 00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: very very nice to see. The views were exquisite, and 415 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 1: the places was just real, real, real nice. And it's 416 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,560 Speaker 1: not even completely built up yet, but it's gonna be 417 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,120 Speaker 1: one of the hot spots people are gonna go to 418 00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:05,480 Speaker 1: Montenegro and so uh, it was just it was a really, 419 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 1: really wonderful place to go. All the Croatia food was good. Yeah, 420 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:17,160 Speaker 1: that's wonderful food. What you eat seafood, I mean, look 421 00:32:17,240 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 1: you the water, seafood is gonna be fresh. And it 422 00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 1: was just it was just an incredible, incredible trip. And 423 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 1: so that was that was that for Croatia. And after 424 00:32:30,640 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 1: that it just became more. I mean, how you want 425 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:43,280 Speaker 1: to do it? I got more of you need more? 426 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 1: I just we need to stop here so everybody could 427 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:50,080 Speaker 1: catch their breath did go here? Yeah right, all right, 428 00:32:50,160 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 1: Steve so introduced miss Anne. Please, ladies and gentlemen, here 429 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:59,240 Speaker 1: she is the one and only miss Anne Trip. Thank you, Steve, 430 00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: Welcome back. This is an trip with the News. In Portland, Oregon, yesterday, 431 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: a few hundred Races showed up for their threatened rally. However, 432 00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:09,280 Speaker 1: they were met by a much larger group of anti fascists, 433 00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,719 Speaker 1: so they only stayed about thirty minutes before they were 434 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 1: safely escorted away by local police and then happily marched 435 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:18,120 Speaker 1: and enchanted away across a bridge that had been closed 436 00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,960 Speaker 1: off to the city's residence. Portland Mayor Ted Wheeler says 437 00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: he understands why his city's targeted by white supremacists. Portland, 438 00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:27,560 Speaker 1: being a very progressive community, is always going to be 439 00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,560 Speaker 1: at or near ground zero when it comes to this battle. 440 00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 1: That's just the reality. Thirteen people were arrested. Now. The 441 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:36,920 Speaker 1: Proud Boys have since issued a news release promising to 442 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 1: continue coming to Portland if the mayor there does not 443 00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:42,360 Speaker 1: quote remove that's the word they are using the anti 444 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: racist and anti fascist group Antifa from the city. By 445 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 1: the way, the Proud Boys have been labeled a hate 446 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,240 Speaker 1: group by the Southern Poverty Law Center, and the Portland 447 00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: Police Bureau has been criticized recently for siding with and 448 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:59,120 Speaker 1: sometimes maintaining friendly relationships with some far right extremists. The 449 00:33:59,200 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: Islamic State claiming responsibility for a horrible bombing a bombing 450 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:05,680 Speaker 1: of a wedding and cobble on Saturday held by the 451 00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:09,040 Speaker 1: Minardi Shia ethnic group. They killed at least sixty three people, 452 00:34:09,360 --> 00:34:11,800 Speaker 1: fourteen in one family, and they left one hundred and 453 00:34:11,840 --> 00:34:15,680 Speaker 1: eighty two others injured. Actor Peter Fonda has died. His 454 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,879 Speaker 1: family says that the Oscar nominated actor and writer died 455 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,360 Speaker 1: as a result of lung cancer. Peter Fonda was, of 456 00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 1: course the son of actor Henry Fonda, the brother of 457 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:26,840 Speaker 1: Jane Fonda. One of his memorable roles was that of 458 00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:29,359 Speaker 1: the surfer dude Surfer Dude in the movie Escaped from 459 00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:32,279 Speaker 1: La That was Peter Fandi done much much more work 460 00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: than that, but probably that's the one that people remember 461 00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:40,919 Speaker 1: most recently. Peter Fonda was seventy nine years old. Patrick 462 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,879 Speaker 1: Pizzella a lobbyist and government official who has reportedly spent 463 00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:47,960 Speaker 1: years fighting against workplace regulations and organized labor, especially the 464 00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 1: federal minimum wage. He's now the Trump administration's acting labor Secretary. 465 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:54,839 Speaker 1: In other words, Pisella now is supposed to protect workers' rights. 466 00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:56,799 Speaker 1: According to The New York Times, many in the White 467 00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:59,760 Speaker 1: House have been pushing hard to undermine the union's ability 468 00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:03,320 Speaker 1: to bark in collectively and raise dues and exert political power. 469 00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:07,320 Speaker 1: At the weekend box office was Universal's new movie Good Boys, 470 00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,840 Speaker 1: which has become the first original R rated comedy in 471 00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:13,080 Speaker 1: three years to top the box office charts. It's also 472 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:16,160 Speaker 1: only the second original film of any kind to open 473 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,160 Speaker 1: at number one this year. Good Boys, by the way, 474 00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,479 Speaker 1: brought in twenty one million dollars. Finally, with this past 475 00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:24,560 Speaker 1: weekend be the fiftieth anniversary of the famous Woodstock concert 476 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,240 Speaker 1: and upstate New York, the Steve Harvey Morning Show remembers 477 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,000 Speaker 1: that this is also the fiftieth anniversary of the Harlem 478 00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:34,080 Speaker 1: Cultural Festival where Sly and Family, Stone, Nina Simone, Stevie 479 00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:37,040 Speaker 1: Wonder among the stars who put on the show nicknamed Blackwoodstock. 480 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:39,520 Speaker 1: Some others who performed that day in Harlem the late 481 00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,480 Speaker 1: Great Maheya Jackson, BB King, Gladys Knight and the Pips, 482 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: and the Fifth Dimension. Now back to the Steve Harvey 483 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:52,759 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to the String Show, all right, Steve, 484 00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 1: So you've been on vacation. I don't know how much 485 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:57,080 Speaker 1: news you got a chance to watch, but this is 486 00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: a story that's been trending on social media. As we 487 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 1: all know, jay Z and Rock Nation have teamed up 488 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:06,880 Speaker 1: with the NFL for music, entertainment and social justice initiatives. However, 489 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 1: jay Z has received a lot of I mean a lot, Steve, 490 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:13,360 Speaker 1: a lot of backlash for his partnership with the NFL. 491 00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:16,080 Speaker 1: It was also reported on Saturday that jay Z will 492 00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:20,160 Speaker 1: have a significant ownership interest in an NFL team, But 493 00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 1: some are saying that jay Z turned his back on 494 00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,959 Speaker 1: Colin Kaepernick. That's where this whole thing is about. Really. 495 00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 1: Here's a sound bite of jay Z and Roger Goodell 496 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: talking about the deal. Take a listen. I think we 497 00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:35,640 Speaker 1: passed reeling. I think everyone knows what the issue is 498 00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,160 Speaker 1: and we're done with that. You know why we're knowing? 499 00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 1: You know the issue? Yeah, you know the issue. Yes, 500 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,399 Speaker 1: we all know the issue. Now what we're moving on next? 501 00:36:47,440 --> 00:36:50,080 Speaker 1: And I'm not again, so to be clear, I'm not 502 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 1: minimizing that part of it, because that has to happen. 503 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:57,040 Speaker 1: That's a necessary part of the process. Everyone's saying, how 504 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,000 Speaker 1: are you going forward? And Kat doesn't have a job. 505 00:36:59,080 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: This wasn't about him having a job. Point, we listened 506 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,919 Speaker 1: to our place, we understood what our players we're saying, 507 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,200 Speaker 1: and we created a platform in which to help drive 508 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:14,280 Speaker 1: change in communities. Let me say this with no disrespect 509 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:20,160 Speaker 1: intended to anybody's viewpoint, because in this world we live in, 510 00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:24,719 Speaker 1: irregardless as of how you feel about it, people are 511 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:30,359 Speaker 1: going to express their viewpoints, whether they agree, disagree our 512 00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:34,719 Speaker 1: understanding of the situation or well versed on facts. We've 513 00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,000 Speaker 1: gotten into a point in our world where the only 514 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:41,719 Speaker 1: thing that counts is eyeballs on your site, clicks, and 515 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:44,719 Speaker 1: so people do anything to make that happen. Here's my 516 00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,880 Speaker 1: take on the jay Z situation. I think that people 517 00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 1: have to look at this from a broader sense. Jay 518 00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,080 Speaker 1: Z has gotten himself to a level where he can 519 00:37:54,680 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 1: bring about change in ways that can aid in protest 520 00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,800 Speaker 1: because sometimes after the protest is over, which it is 521 00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,799 Speaker 1: over in the NFL, you have to now find an 522 00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:11,839 Speaker 1: alternative way, and sitting at the table is one way 523 00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:14,840 Speaker 1: to do it. And I think him taking this position 524 00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:17,240 Speaker 1: I think we all have to kind of look at it. Okay, 525 00:38:17,280 --> 00:38:21,080 Speaker 1: so now we got somebody who is of us sitting 526 00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:24,120 Speaker 1: at the table. I don't see it there's anything against 527 00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:27,759 Speaker 1: Colin Kaepernick, because, first of all, let's look at all 528 00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 1: of the NFL players, because we understand what it was about. 529 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,720 Speaker 1: But the president and the system turned the narrative around 530 00:38:35,800 --> 00:38:38,279 Speaker 1: to make it against the flag and the military, when 531 00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: that's not what the protest was about at all. Here's 532 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,680 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If jay Z comes out and he's 533 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:50,480 Speaker 1: signing a deal to handle music, entertainment and social injustices, see, 534 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:54,080 Speaker 1: there's ways to do it because entertainment bridges gaps. So 535 00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: now you have a face that has always been for 536 00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,520 Speaker 1: us at the table to talk about the type of entertainment, 537 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,160 Speaker 1: the type of music, and to always really really raise 538 00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 1: the issues of social injustice. All right, Steve hold that thought. 539 00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,640 Speaker 1: I hate to interrupt you because this is good, but 540 00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,040 Speaker 1: we'll talk about this more at thirty four after I 541 00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,120 Speaker 1: will take a short break and be right back right 542 00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:20,880 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, Steve. You were saying 543 00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:24,640 Speaker 1: about the jay Z NFL merger. What were you saying 544 00:39:24,640 --> 00:39:27,320 Speaker 1: about that? So so, but let me just say this 545 00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: to everybody, especially for us. We are oftentimes very quick 546 00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 1: to forget a person's track record. And you know what 547 00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 1: I heard Bishop Jake say the other day on video 548 00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,600 Speaker 1: while I was on vacation. He was doing this conference 549 00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:56,520 Speaker 1: Z called intentionality. It was called intentionality. He said. People 550 00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:03,560 Speaker 1: judge you by your actions. God judges you by your intent. 551 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:09,080 Speaker 1: And oftentimes we do things in a well meaning way, 552 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,360 Speaker 1: but the way we did it, people take it and 553 00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 1: it's open to subjective opinion and they ridicule the way 554 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 1: when the intent can be totally clean and pure. I 555 00:40:21,239 --> 00:40:28,080 Speaker 1: just want to run many times and so on behalf 556 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,080 Speaker 1: of jay Z. I think of all the many things 557 00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:35,560 Speaker 1: he's done that's been so socially relevant, so important. How 558 00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:38,920 Speaker 1: he spoke off for so many inconcerated young men, how 559 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: he got fathers out on bail for Fathers Day. I 560 00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:45,000 Speaker 1: look at all of the whales and water he didn't 561 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,279 Speaker 1: put over in Africa. I look at all of the 562 00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 1: situation how he helped these young rappers out of attack 563 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:53,399 Speaker 1: situations to get their money right and straighten their life out. 564 00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:57,000 Speaker 1: I look at all the philanthropic money that him and 565 00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,359 Speaker 1: his wife have poured into the black community. See all 566 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,959 Speaker 1: of that right there, can't get swept under the rum. 567 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:08,160 Speaker 1: And sometimes we oftentimes we forget a person's track racket 568 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:12,120 Speaker 1: and we take what Bishop Jakes was talking about intentionality, 569 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,080 Speaker 1: how man judges you by your actions, but God judges 570 00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:19,840 Speaker 1: you by your intent. And so as jay Z moves forward, 571 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,280 Speaker 1: I think we have to be conscious that way because 572 00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:24,799 Speaker 1: his heart is good. Man. I've talked with this cat 573 00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 1: many times. Just dude is solid. He's always been solid, 574 00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 1: and so I think we have to understand and let 575 00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,880 Speaker 1: him get in and make some changes, you know, instead 576 00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 1: of just we're so fast to just knock somebody down 577 00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,719 Speaker 1: when they try to do something. Man, First of all, 578 00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:47,800 Speaker 1: ain't no black person had no relationship with the NFA 579 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:54,279 Speaker 1: that I recallpecially from the hip hop community. Are you 580 00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:58,480 Speaker 1: kidding me? From the hip hop community? Man, they ain't 581 00:41:58,560 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 1: let her r and be saying in that. Yeah, this 582 00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,759 Speaker 1: brother then wield his position and power with rock Nation 583 00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 1: and signed enough stars where they now know he got weight. 584 00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 1: So now he can get in there and he can 585 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:11,719 Speaker 1: make a change. And I think that's what we had 586 00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:17,800 Speaker 1: to be aware of. That's just thinking about, yeah, moving forward. 587 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,120 Speaker 1: What Colin Kaepernick did was good in that time, in 588 00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:23,719 Speaker 1: that time period. Now here's jay Z to move us 589 00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:28,680 Speaker 1: forward to move is gonna be a black NFL owners 590 00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:35,239 Speaker 1: Hope it sounds good. That'll be down by time. That's 591 00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:38,040 Speaker 1: what it sound like. Time Ya and y'all want to 592 00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:39,960 Speaker 1: know how strong of a circle that is. We had 593 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,840 Speaker 1: a black president of the United States, where we had 594 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:46,920 Speaker 1: a black football team owner. Yeah, you don't think that's 595 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 1: a tough circle to crack, folks, Please understand. Please understand. 596 00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:55,680 Speaker 1: They kept Rush Limbaugh from getting the team, and that 597 00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:59,319 Speaker 1: boy got all kinds of money. I can go down 598 00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,120 Speaker 1: the list. Yeah, it was a tough circle to get in, man, 599 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 1: But somebody got to have a machete in their hand, man. 600 00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:08,880 Speaker 1: And I'm glad jay Z got a machete in his 601 00:43:08,960 --> 00:43:11,040 Speaker 1: hand on this one because he can pave the way 602 00:43:11,120 --> 00:43:15,680 Speaker 1: for other owners, for other African American voices and people 603 00:43:15,719 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 1: of color Latino voices to get in there and speak up. Yeah, 604 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,239 Speaker 1: that's a positive way to look at it. You're right, 605 00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:27,799 Speaker 1: Welcome back, Steve Harvey. Steve. I'm just trying to talk 606 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:34,080 Speaker 1: about my all right, Steve, more stories from Steve. Steve 607 00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,400 Speaker 1: is back, ladies and gentlemen. He's taking us on a 608 00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,239 Speaker 1: journey of his vacation and his ball off vacation. We'll 609 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:42,759 Speaker 1: have more when we come back right after this. You're 610 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,479 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right, coming 611 00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:48,480 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour, right about four 612 00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:51,200 Speaker 1: minutes after, it's my strawberry letter for today and Steve 613 00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 1: is back. The subject is my husband's friend can't stay here. 614 00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,480 Speaker 1: But right now, nephew in the building with today's prank 615 00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:02,719 Speaker 1: phone call what you got for us? Truck try? What's 616 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:13,160 Speaker 1: that to truck driver? Yes? Here it is truck driving 617 00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:17,960 Speaker 1: running can Man, they didn't blew out the whole electrical 618 00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 1: system in the old Hello. Hello, I'm trying. I'm trying. 619 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:25,760 Speaker 1: I'm trying to find Candy. Who is this? It's scanning man? Okay? 620 00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:27,680 Speaker 1: You you are you the guy with the told truck? 621 00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:31,480 Speaker 1: You're you're the told truck driver? And ask me trucking. Okay, Hey, man, 622 00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:35,000 Speaker 1: you just started my girl's car three days ago and 623 00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 1: blew the old electrical system out. Man, I did hold on, 624 00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,359 Speaker 1: hold on, let me get back to my truck, you said, 625 00:44:41,400 --> 00:44:44,200 Speaker 1: I did what man? You do jump people's vehicles when 626 00:44:44,239 --> 00:44:46,839 Speaker 1: they when they got to stall vehicle, don't you that's 627 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,120 Speaker 1: what I do. I jumped vehicles? Yes, okay, so you 628 00:44:50,440 --> 00:44:54,040 Speaker 1: actually did my girl's car about three days ago. Man, 629 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:56,680 Speaker 1: you just started her car. But now when you you 630 00:44:56,800 --> 00:44:59,479 Speaker 1: over jumped it, it's what you did, okay. You didn't 631 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,759 Speaker 1: blow out the the whole electrical system in the whole 632 00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:05,120 Speaker 1: car to dad board. Everything is just completely out. And 633 00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:07,399 Speaker 1: they tell about this's gonna be by fifteen hundred dollars 634 00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:09,839 Speaker 1: to get this thing. I'm sorry, now, what was this thing? 635 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 1: My name Kenneth Man, But you murder of ceiler? Man? 636 00:45:13,120 --> 00:45:16,719 Speaker 1: You jump thoughted, you over jumped hard car. Well just wait, 637 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 1: wait a minute, cannady. There's no such thing as over 638 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,480 Speaker 1: jumping a car. You can't over jump a car, man. Man, 639 00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,080 Speaker 1: let me tell you a car now. I whoever told 640 00:45:24,120 --> 00:45:26,520 Speaker 1: you that? That's just now, that's just hey. Let me 641 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 1: tell you something. Man, You overjump my girl's car, okay, 642 00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:32,560 Speaker 1: and you blew out can't jump a car? What do 643 00:45:32,640 --> 00:45:34,880 Speaker 1: you mean you can? That's what you did. Man. You 644 00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:38,200 Speaker 1: didn't blew out the entire electrical system, the entire dad's board. 645 00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,960 Speaker 1: It's completely dead. The people at the dealership saying it's 646 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 1: gonna take fifteen hundred dollars to get this thing backed 647 00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,640 Speaker 1: up and run it. Well, you may want to take 648 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,359 Speaker 1: a coming there, so they're trying to rip you off. 649 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:50,520 Speaker 1: There's no such there ain't no such thing is overjumping 650 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 1: a car and blow And if she drove off that day, 651 00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:58,479 Speaker 1: then she should be fine. I've jumped plenty of cars. 652 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 1: I jumped car is all day long. People always need 653 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:06,319 Speaker 1: to jump I never was I've never overjumped it. Look, 654 00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:09,680 Speaker 1: you overjumped this car, okay, and that's the reason why 655 00:46:09,719 --> 00:46:12,879 Speaker 1: it's completely shut down. All the fuses have blown out, 656 00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:16,759 Speaker 1: everything is completely dead. You overjumped the car. And now 657 00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,359 Speaker 1: it's the fifteen hundred dollars. And the reason why I'm 658 00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:23,520 Speaker 1: calling you is you should be the person paying for this. No, no, 659 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,399 Speaker 1: hell no, no, now that's sure ain't gonna happen. I'm 660 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 1: not gonna pay for something I didn't do. You did it? 661 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:32,400 Speaker 1: You do the one overjumped it? Man, You overjumped the car. 662 00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,160 Speaker 1: I don't over jumped cars. Now that and now wait 663 00:46:35,200 --> 00:46:37,759 Speaker 1: a minute, now, wait just one man. Now, I'm not 664 00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:42,280 Speaker 1: gonna argue with you that jump cars all the time, 665 00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,920 Speaker 1: and you mean to tell me I overjumped your You 666 00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:50,319 Speaker 1: you're a you know what you're gonna get you. Well, 667 00:46:50,480 --> 00:46:53,279 Speaker 1: if I don't get this fifteen hundred dollars, I'm sorry 668 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:56,480 Speaker 1: you said what You're gonna get your swoop If I 669 00:46:56,520 --> 00:46:58,560 Speaker 1: don't get this fifteen hundred dollars to take care of 670 00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,320 Speaker 1: this whole car and the whole electrical system. Well, I 671 00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: tell you what. I'm over here on Martin Luther King 672 00:47:03,640 --> 00:47:06,560 Speaker 1: right now. Then you're talking about whooping somebody, you bring 673 00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,680 Speaker 1: it tone over here Now, I don't overd jumping cars. 674 00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:12,000 Speaker 1: And I'm gonna hold you know money is you only 675 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,680 Speaker 1: fifteen hundred dollars? You cut your son of the you 676 00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,759 Speaker 1: on me hold you? So, let me tell you something. 677 00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,439 Speaker 1: You'll be in for a long day. I will take 678 00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:23,839 Speaker 1: this toe truck and ramman straight up your and I'm 679 00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,160 Speaker 1: not playing with you now, I don't. I well, don't 680 00:47:27,239 --> 00:47:29,920 Speaker 1: doctor people like this, and I should have held don't 681 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:32,960 Speaker 1: appreciate it when someone talks to me like that, whooping. 682 00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:35,919 Speaker 1: You gotta let it. I don't know what You're gonna 683 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:39,279 Speaker 1: mess around and get your little cold truck told off something. 684 00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 1: That's what's gonna do? What? And you're gonna get you 685 00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,120 Speaker 1: whoop in the mix to all of this. Man, let 686 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 1: me tell you something I need this fifteen hundred dollars 687 00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:50,360 Speaker 1: today off formorrow so I can get my girl Costecuse 688 00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:53,600 Speaker 1: I don't owe you whether that I jumped this car 689 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,200 Speaker 1: off and because that's exactly where I'll meet yad you 690 00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:58,400 Speaker 1: you jump my girl call off at her job. She 691 00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:01,359 Speaker 1: was downtown at her job. What street? Because I'm down 692 00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: there a lot, I don't know what street there, but 693 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,759 Speaker 1: she see word downtown. See that's your tob them. You're 694 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 1: such a dumb she don't even know what street its 695 00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,560 Speaker 1: tone And you know I don't owe you fifteen hundred dollars. 696 00:48:12,680 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 1: You are crazy and let me I'm fifteen hundred. I'm 697 00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:18,640 Speaker 1: gonna get this fifteen hundred out you. Now you're gonna 698 00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:20,360 Speaker 1: make a decision on which one you want to do. 699 00:48:20,719 --> 00:48:23,880 Speaker 1: If you're gonna bring me the fifteen hundreds today or tomorrow, 700 00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:28,080 Speaker 1: how you'll whoop? You got your five o'clock tomorrow, son, 701 00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:31,160 Speaker 1: you ain't gotta wait on tomorrow. I made my decision 702 00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,080 Speaker 1: right now. I ain't gonna happen. I ain't ever gonna happen. 703 00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:36,920 Speaker 1: I don't owe you, And if you can get it 704 00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 1: out of my son, you can have it. But I 705 00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:41,439 Speaker 1: met you this what you bet it back of lunch. 706 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:44,040 Speaker 1: It's gonna be a lone mine for you, buddy. I 707 00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,480 Speaker 1: don't care how long it's gonna be. You're gonna get 708 00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:50,040 Speaker 1: a fifteen hundred dollars whopan, that's what you're gonna get, 709 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,359 Speaker 1: Candy or candy Man. You're gonna play. You're gonna play 710 00:48:53,400 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 1: the fifteen hundred dollars. You call me what you want 711 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:57,200 Speaker 1: to call me, son, but I tell you that after 712 00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 1: you you'll call me something else. You country. Listen, Son, 713 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:03,719 Speaker 1: I've got to go. I got work to do. I've 714 00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:06,880 Speaker 1: got somebody outside rate waiting on me right now to 715 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,200 Speaker 1: hook up the car. I ain't got time to be 716 00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:11,680 Speaker 1: arguing with you, son, all right now, if you really 717 00:49:11,760 --> 00:49:14,279 Speaker 1: want to find me, you really want to find candy Man, 718 00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:17,080 Speaker 1: everybody out there knows how to find me, understand me. 719 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 1: So if you really want that fifteen hundred dollars, Son, 720 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:21,600 Speaker 1: you come and get it. But I ain't got time 721 00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,920 Speaker 1: to be sitting here arguing with you all today. I 722 00:49:24,040 --> 00:49:25,840 Speaker 1: got work to do. I gotta get back out of 723 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,040 Speaker 1: this truck. I got one more thing I need to 724 00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 1: tell you, and I want you to put this in 725 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,200 Speaker 1: your mind. Good and strong? Are you living I'm listening 726 00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:35,120 Speaker 1: to your son long with you ain't gonna say about 727 00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:37,680 Speaker 1: me giving you fifteen hundred dollars. I'll tell you what 728 00:49:37,840 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 1: I want to tell you this. This is Nephew tom 729 00:49:41,200 --> 00:49:43,719 Speaker 1: Me from the Steve Harby Morning to show you just 730 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:49,360 Speaker 1: got franked by another record driver named you know what, 731 00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:56,320 Speaker 1: that senile. That's so you know what, you're listening to 732 00:49:56,400 --> 00:50:01,800 Speaker 1: this because I owe you a fifteen hundred dollars. That's that, nephew. 733 00:50:01,920 --> 00:50:05,440 Speaker 1: Case you forgot, case you forgot that. That's still what 734 00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,200 Speaker 1: I do. Now. I ain't been there, you know, out 735 00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:12,120 Speaker 1: of gas guarding you. I've been gone for a while, 736 00:50:12,960 --> 00:50:16,839 Speaker 1: you know, tummy, even though I've been gone for a while. Yeah, 737 00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:26,400 Speaker 1: you know, oh oh they ain't. Stupidity, Yeah, stupidity is 738 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:32,800 Speaker 1: always as shocking as it is. Thank you used to that, 739 00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:36,480 Speaker 1: you know, you know, like like I ain't got a 740 00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,680 Speaker 1: shot of stupidity in a long time. And I just 741 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,320 Speaker 1: want you to know something, man, as a person that 742 00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:48,640 Speaker 1: provides it in large doses, it's still that shocking stupid 743 00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,399 Speaker 1: you really are. Maybe they don't have that. And month 744 00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 1: month when you're winning the money, money, money, they ain't 745 00:50:55,000 --> 00:50:56,680 Speaker 1: got none of the heck, rul We ain't got that 746 00:50:56,760 --> 00:51:00,759 Speaker 1: there butte while you were gone, though, it was that 747 00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:06,880 Speaker 1: perhaps its highest level ever because he ain't had nobody 748 00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:12,439 Speaker 1: rain anyware between him Jay at all and Junior boy. 749 00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:17,759 Speaker 1: Oh my goodness, did he clown? I talked? I talked, 750 00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:20,640 Speaker 1: Junior something, tell me if I'm telling the truth. Ain't 751 00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 1: it the right way to do the wrong thing? Ain't 752 00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:30,480 Speaker 1: it up? What exact? Isn't it a right way to 753 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,920 Speaker 1: do the wrong thing? You don't want to do the 754 00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:38,200 Speaker 1: wrong thing wrong, You want to do the wrong thing right. Wow. Ye, 755 00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:43,319 Speaker 1: you know this is gonna surprise y'all. See. But he's 756 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:50,040 Speaker 1: absolutely right. I told y'all. I told y'allus, you know, 757 00:51:50,280 --> 00:51:56,120 Speaker 1: as a man, Yeah, just as a man. I must 758 00:51:56,239 --> 00:52:01,040 Speaker 1: admit I've had shuffle conversations with many people about the 759 00:52:01,239 --> 00:52:08,279 Speaker 1: right way to Yes. Yes, and I'm so ashamed. And 760 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:12,239 Speaker 1: I asked my father God for forgiveness all the time 761 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:17,400 Speaker 1: when I look back on my checkered pain, all the 762 00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:20,720 Speaker 1: things he's bought me. Well, yeah, come on, my soul 763 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:28,120 Speaker 1: screams out, hallelujah. Yes, ain't God for saving me? Yeah? Amen? 764 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:36,560 Speaker 1: But I thought I was was lost, but now I'm fine. Yes, 765 00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:49,080 Speaker 1: I was blind. But nah, see yes, sometimes being blind 766 00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:55,840 Speaker 1: ain't that bad at all. All right, Well, thank you guys, 767 00:52:56,400 --> 00:53:00,000 Speaker 1: thank you for that sermon. Up next Strawberry Letters, subject 768 00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,719 Speaker 1: my husband's friend can't stay here. We'll get into it 769 00:53:02,880 --> 00:53:06,799 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 770 00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,320 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen. If you 771 00:53:10,440 --> 00:53:14,319 Speaker 1: need advice and relationships, work, sex, parenting, dating, and more. 772 00:53:14,680 --> 00:53:18,160 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and 773 00:53:18,280 --> 00:53:22,440 Speaker 1: klick submit Strawberry Letter. Steve is back, Tommy Less, Go 774 00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:26,000 Speaker 1: buggle up and hold on tight. We got it for 775 00:53:26,200 --> 00:53:29,960 Speaker 1: you here. It is the Strawberry Letter subject my husband's 776 00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:33,880 Speaker 1: friend cannot stay here. Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a 777 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:37,239 Speaker 1: very happily married woman in my early fifties and I 778 00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:41,399 Speaker 1: have an issue with my husband's longtime friend and fraternity brother. 779 00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,400 Speaker 1: My husband's friend lives in another state for work, but 780 00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,640 Speaker 1: he loves to come visit all his buddies in the 781 00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:49,320 Speaker 1: city that my husband and I live in. When he 782 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,600 Speaker 1: comes to town, he would take turns staying at different 783 00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,560 Speaker 1: friends houses. His first visit to our new home was 784 00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:59,000 Speaker 1: earlier this year, and he stayed the entire weekend, and 785 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:03,480 Speaker 1: that was okay as a one time deal. Since then, 786 00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:06,160 Speaker 1: he started alerting my husband that he would be in 787 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:10,359 Speaker 1: town and would need a place to crash. We're all 788 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:12,680 Speaker 1: a tight knit group of friends, and I know he 789 00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:15,239 Speaker 1: wore out as welcome at another couple's home, so he 790 00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 1: set his sights on our house. I told my husband 791 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:21,320 Speaker 1: that I am totally against him thinking our home is 792 00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:24,080 Speaker 1: his week end getaway. This put me and my husband 793 00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,640 Speaker 1: at extreme odds, and my husband told me that he 794 00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:30,120 Speaker 1: feels like it's not his home because I make the rules. 795 00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:33,879 Speaker 1: My husband claims he's making up excuses whenever his friend 796 00:54:33,960 --> 00:54:36,800 Speaker 1: mentions he's coming to town. I think that my husband 797 00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:41,040 Speaker 1: is being absolutely ridiculous. We're adults in a nice new home, 798 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,719 Speaker 1: not a frat house. His friend can easily afford a 799 00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:47,400 Speaker 1: hotel room every month, but he is too cheap to 800 00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:50,760 Speaker 1: pay for it. He'd rather stay with his fraternity brothers 801 00:54:50,800 --> 00:54:53,480 Speaker 1: than save his money. I don't mind if he comes 802 00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:56,080 Speaker 1: by the house to visit while he's in town, but 803 00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:58,879 Speaker 1: I do not want his company at my house every 804 00:54:58,960 --> 00:55:02,239 Speaker 1: other weekend. I love my husband and I don't want 805 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:04,879 Speaker 1: to continue to fight over this, but I am very 806 00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:11,719 Speaker 1: firm on my beliefs. Am I being selfish? Please advise? No, no, no, 807 00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:14,919 Speaker 1: you're not being selfish, not at all. And that's coming 808 00:55:14,960 --> 00:55:17,920 Speaker 1: from a person who absolutely loves company. You guys know 809 00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,000 Speaker 1: how much I love company. But no, you're not being selfish. 810 00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:24,920 Speaker 1: Nothing you have said is wrong. No, your husband, your 811 00:55:25,000 --> 00:55:27,839 Speaker 1: house is not a weekend get away. And yes, your 812 00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:31,759 Speaker 1: husband is being ridiculous. Your nice new home is in 813 00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:35,920 Speaker 1: a frat house. That's crazy. I mean, what do your 814 00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:39,000 Speaker 1: husband and his frat brother not understand about this? I 815 00:55:39,080 --> 00:55:42,000 Speaker 1: don't get it. If frat can afford a hotel room, 816 00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,239 Speaker 1: then frat should get a hotel room. If he can't 817 00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,919 Speaker 1: afford that, then he needs to stay at home. He's 818 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 1: already worn out his welcome with another couple that's in 819 00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:52,560 Speaker 1: this tight knit group with you guys. As far as 820 00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:55,200 Speaker 1: you and your husband and all this fighting and everything, 821 00:55:55,280 --> 00:55:58,239 Speaker 1: your husband husband should be happy that you're being very 822 00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:02,200 Speaker 1: hospitable to his frat. You're welcoming him into your home. 823 00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:05,040 Speaker 1: You just don't want him to stay there and make 824 00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:07,480 Speaker 1: your home the weekend get away. I don't understand what 825 00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,840 Speaker 1: the problem is. Your husband needs to grow up. He 826 00:56:10,000 --> 00:56:12,480 Speaker 1: is now no longer in the fraternity. You guys are 827 00:56:12,520 --> 00:56:18,160 Speaker 1: in your early fifties. Come on, Steve, Lord, Lord, Lord, 828 00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:23,040 Speaker 1: welcome back. Ain't this one to come back? Yeah? Well 829 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:27,400 Speaker 1: on behalf of Tommy and myself. We show hoping this 830 00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:30,360 Speaker 1: ain't a Q capital, but it damn shows sound like 831 00:56:30,719 --> 00:56:40,880 Speaker 1: somebody I know, Lord cheese, Father, God, Please don't let 832 00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:46,080 Speaker 1: this be a que I didn't say it on behalf 833 00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:49,399 Speaker 1: of Tommy. Lord, don't let it be a new leave, 834 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,920 Speaker 1: but this show sound like one of them to me. 835 00:56:56,920 --> 00:57:01,200 Speaker 1: Let me dig into this letter. One of my friend 836 00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:08,759 Speaker 1: brothers is listening. Will tag your answers in. Oh, I'm 837 00:57:08,760 --> 00:57:12,480 Speaker 1: a happily married woman in my early fifties and I 838 00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:16,440 Speaker 1: got an issue with my husband's longtime friend and fraternity brothers. 839 00:57:17,520 --> 00:57:23,040 Speaker 1: See all of the fracts that end in side Cappa, Alpha, 840 00:57:23,200 --> 00:57:28,960 Speaker 1: Si and omega. Side fire that rhymes with si and 841 00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:34,440 Speaker 1: fi also rhymes with to the Day I Die, Ka, 842 00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,400 Speaker 1: side to the day I dow Mega, side fire to 843 00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:45,040 Speaker 1: the day I die. So now we fifty, we become 844 00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:51,000 Speaker 1: the town. Yes, he takes turns, staying at different friends houses. 845 00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:54,240 Speaker 1: First visit I knew home was earlier this year. He 846 00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:57,400 Speaker 1: stayed the entire weekend and that was okay, but it 847 00:57:57,480 --> 00:58:00,400 Speaker 1: was a one time deal. Well, since then, he started 848 00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:02,560 Speaker 1: telling his husband that he gonna be in town and 849 00:58:02,680 --> 00:58:06,200 Speaker 1: he needed a place to crash. Now, you say, we 850 00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:10,640 Speaker 1: all a tight nick group of friends, but he didn't 851 00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:12,800 Speaker 1: wore out his welcome out the other couple's house. See, 852 00:58:12,840 --> 00:58:16,920 Speaker 1: they're tired of his ass. Ye see, they're sick and 853 00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:21,880 Speaker 1: tired of his ass because it's different now. So now 854 00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:23,960 Speaker 1: he just said his house. I'm gonna get into why 855 00:58:24,000 --> 00:58:26,000 Speaker 1: it's different than a minute. I got some funny stuff 856 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:29,240 Speaker 1: about this gill. But let me tell you. See, now 857 00:58:29,360 --> 00:58:31,480 Speaker 1: he'd have said his house on set his sights on 858 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,640 Speaker 1: your house. The problem she having is she just said 859 00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:40,080 Speaker 1: our new home. They had just moved in and they've 860 00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:43,920 Speaker 1: been working, saving their money like good folks, got themselves 861 00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:46,760 Speaker 1: together and got themselfs a new house. That hit his ass. 862 00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:52,040 Speaker 1: Comes now he want to call him and he want 863 00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:53,960 Speaker 1: to stay over there, and he'd got ran out to 864 00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:57,440 Speaker 1: other people's house. Now, now I told my husband, I'm 865 00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,600 Speaker 1: totally gives him thinking our home is a weekend and 866 00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:02,160 Speaker 1: get away. Now you and your husband's at the odds. 867 00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:03,880 Speaker 1: And he told me that he feels like it's not 868 00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:07,160 Speaker 1: his home because I make the rules. What dog it ain't. 869 00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:10,040 Speaker 1: It's her house too, though, and if she make a 870 00:59:10,120 --> 00:59:12,400 Speaker 1: rule in the house, we can't break the rule. My 871 00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:16,000 Speaker 1: husband claims he's been making excuses whenever his friends mentioned 872 00:59:16,080 --> 00:59:20,560 Speaker 1: he's coming to town, as you should. I think my 873 00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:25,080 Speaker 1: husband being ridiculous. Damn it he is that here's apart. 874 00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:31,400 Speaker 1: We're adults in a nice new home. Correction, y'all ain't adults, 875 00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:36,600 Speaker 1: y'all fifty huh, that's different You adults When you thirty 876 00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:40,560 Speaker 1: hold on, Steve, hold on, and you fifty, you fifty, 877 00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:45,840 Speaker 1: stop saying you an adult holds. Damn you're dead. Well. 878 00:59:45,880 --> 00:59:51,120 Speaker 1: That party two coming up at twenty three after the hours. 879 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:58,680 Speaker 1: Subjects of today's Strawberry Letter. My husband's friend can't stay here. 880 00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:01,720 Speaker 1: We'll get back into it right after this. You're listening 881 01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:05,880 Speaker 1: to this Stave Harvey Morning Show. Three things people think 882 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,520 Speaker 1: about life insurance. You don't need it? Where do I 883 01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:11,120 Speaker 1: get it? How much is it? If something happened? 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That's one eight 893 01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:45,320 Speaker 1: hundred two five one fifty four hundred. Good covered today. 894 01:00:46,200 --> 01:00:49,280 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject My 895 01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:52,960 Speaker 1: husband's friend can't stay here. Here's this fifty year old 896 01:00:53,080 --> 01:00:55,959 Speaker 1: couple that bought theyself a nice new house. Then dude 897 01:00:56,040 --> 01:00:59,360 Speaker 1: got a frat brother that don't like spending his money, 898 01:00:59,400 --> 01:01:01,920 Speaker 1: so he stayed and everybody's house, all the frat brothers 899 01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:03,920 Speaker 1: when he comes to town. Now there's one couple and 900 01:01:04,040 --> 01:01:06,000 Speaker 1: got sick of his ass and told him he ain't 901 01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 1: coming over there no more. So now he just set 902 01:01:08,080 --> 01:01:10,600 Speaker 1: his sights on y'all house. Now, the problem is this 903 01:01:10,720 --> 01:01:12,600 Speaker 1: couple and just bought the house because it got a 904 01:01:12,680 --> 01:01:14,880 Speaker 1: new house. So now that she's just setting up her 905 01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:18,520 Speaker 1: now and now hear his ass car frat bro. But 906 01:01:18,800 --> 01:01:23,520 Speaker 1: this is different though. She says that the husband is 907 01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:25,960 Speaker 1: upset and said that he feels like it's not his 908 01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,920 Speaker 1: home because I make the rules. But dog, it is 909 01:01:30,040 --> 01:01:32,680 Speaker 1: her house. She get to make the rules, just like 910 01:01:32,840 --> 01:01:36,120 Speaker 1: you get to make some rules. But if y'all's rules conflict, 911 01:01:36,320 --> 01:01:39,760 Speaker 1: the person to make the rule win. That's just how 912 01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:45,160 Speaker 1: I go. Man, Marjorie say, I can't eat in the bed. 913 01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:48,440 Speaker 1: Now it's my house. I make all the payments around him. 914 01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,320 Speaker 1: But her rule is you can't eat in the bed. 915 01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:54,880 Speaker 1: So guess what. I can't bring no food in there. 916 01:01:55,320 --> 01:02:00,400 Speaker 1: I bring it in there. If I want to whole 917 01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:03,640 Speaker 1: whole lot, won't be happy, don't bring it in there. 918 01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:06,880 Speaker 1: I bring it in there. If I won't do Yeah, 919 01:02:07,120 --> 01:02:12,800 Speaker 1: that's what you tell us. Yeah yeah, yeah, Not only 920 01:02:12,880 --> 01:02:15,800 Speaker 1: will you not be eating in the bed, you're gonna 921 01:02:15,800 --> 01:02:22,040 Speaker 1: be doing damn thing else. Yeah. Okay, So my husband 922 01:02:22,080 --> 01:02:24,600 Speaker 1: claims he's been making up excuse when it friends mentioned 923 01:02:24,640 --> 01:02:27,720 Speaker 1: that he's coming. I think my husband is being ridiculous, 924 01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:33,800 Speaker 1: and he yah, because we're adults in a nice new home, 925 01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:36,680 Speaker 1: not a flat house. His friend can easily afford the 926 01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,200 Speaker 1: hotel room every moment, but he too cheap to pay 927 01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:42,120 Speaker 1: for it. He rather stayed his flat brothers and say 928 01:02:42,200 --> 01:02:43,800 Speaker 1: the money. Now. I don't mind if he comes to 929 01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:45,680 Speaker 1: the house to visit when he in town, but I 930 01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:47,840 Speaker 1: don't want to come to my house every other weekend. 931 01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,960 Speaker 1: And you are absolutely correct, lady. I love my husband. 932 01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:53,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to continue to fight over this, but 933 01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:56,960 Speaker 1: I'm very firm on my beliefs Am I being selfish? No, 934 01:02:57,120 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 1: you're not your husband is now. I'm in a frat 935 01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,680 Speaker 1: that we swear by or make us out fire to 936 01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:06,840 Speaker 1: the day out that. But you can't stay at my house. 937 01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:13,200 Speaker 1: Come on, can't no frat brother come and stay at 938 01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:20,080 Speaker 1: my house. Don't ask me feel how you want to 939 01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:26,120 Speaker 1: fee ah team dog team Dog team. Not at my house. 940 01:03:26,240 --> 01:03:32,400 Speaker 1: We not do. I'm sixty two, you're an adult. See 941 01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:37,479 Speaker 1: I'm not in the dunk. I'm sixty two. I'm well 942 01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:42,920 Speaker 1: pass a doghood. See you got you got young adults, 943 01:03:43,560 --> 01:03:48,960 Speaker 1: You got young adults. Yeah, you got grown ass people. Yes, 944 01:03:49,240 --> 01:03:54,160 Speaker 1: you got senior citizens and you got old ass people. 945 01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:58,040 Speaker 1: That's how you break it down. Sick. I'm fighting it, 946 01:03:58,120 --> 01:04:05,200 Speaker 1: but I'm damn near one of them. Last. I'm damn 947 01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:10,360 Speaker 1: they're grown ass people, senior citizens, old people. So now 948 01:04:10,880 --> 01:04:13,680 Speaker 1: let's just be real. You can't stay in my house. 949 01:04:14,000 --> 01:04:15,640 Speaker 1: And you want to know why you can't stay in 950 01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:21,720 Speaker 1: my house because old people different than young guests. Old 951 01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:25,959 Speaker 1: guests is different from young guests. Do you see young people? 952 01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:29,360 Speaker 1: They go out at night. You gotta give him a 953 01:04:29,440 --> 01:04:31,600 Speaker 1: key to get back in. Somebody gotta be up. They're 954 01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:35,160 Speaker 1: gonna rain the doughben. They wear your asks when they 955 01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,760 Speaker 1: come to the house. Don't know who is that downstairs? Baby, 956 01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:42,840 Speaker 1: that's Pooky back. He got to get in. It's three o'clock. 957 01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:52,080 Speaker 1: Old people stay there. Old people. Old people watch TV 958 01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 1: with you. Old people want to change your channel. Old 959 01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:03,400 Speaker 1: people need pajamas. The side my feet cold. You got 960 01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:07,240 Speaker 1: sized girl. You got an extra T shirt out down? 961 01:05:07,920 --> 01:05:13,240 Speaker 1: You got a fresh shirt out can well? Now you 962 01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:18,720 Speaker 1: gotta luxury. Young people eat a lot of food. Yeah, 963 01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:22,720 Speaker 1: young people just be in there. Eat eat anything. You 964 01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:25,720 Speaker 1: want to get pizza all that. Old people different. Old 965 01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:31,120 Speaker 1: people got dietary restriction. Clean stuff out to frigeration. They 966 01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:35,840 Speaker 1: allergic to nuts. Can't serve no dairy. God ain't got 967 01:05:35,960 --> 01:05:41,120 Speaker 1: gas because they laptose intolerant your ass. You got dairy 968 01:05:41,200 --> 01:05:43,880 Speaker 1: and everything. They don't to whip potatoes. No, get in there. 969 01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:47,240 Speaker 1: Were you put cream in there? Now he just in there? 970 01:05:47,400 --> 01:05:51,600 Speaker 1: Fine all I eat a laxative. Now he needs some 971 01:05:52,120 --> 01:05:54,600 Speaker 1: monium a D to stop to die real. You just 972 01:05:54,840 --> 01:06:03,120 Speaker 1: all too much old people, Oh, young people come to 973 01:06:03,240 --> 01:06:05,960 Speaker 1: your house down here? What temperature is? Old people want 974 01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:08,640 Speaker 1: to be over that message with the thermometer too walls 975 01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:12,400 Speaker 1: in the hill. It's too cold in here? What temper 976 01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:15,960 Speaker 1: y'all keep it at Old people ask questions, what y'all 977 01:06:16,080 --> 01:06:23,960 Speaker 1: light beal? Stupid tonitician y'all? You y'all ain't got no 978 01:06:24,080 --> 01:06:27,600 Speaker 1: double plot. I keep breaking through this single plot. Ain't 979 01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:43,280 Speaker 1: ain't you in the hotel the same Steve Email email 980 01:06:43,400 --> 01:06:50,520 Speaker 1: us your thoughts cut to Steve Harvey FM, or check 981 01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:53,200 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter on the podcast on demand. Okay, 982 01:06:53,280 --> 01:06:55,760 Speaker 1: coming up at forty six after the hour, Steve's back 983 01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:59,800 Speaker 1: in case you haven't noticed, you're listening Steve Harvey morning. 984 01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:02,600 Speaker 1: A right, Steve, you're back. You had a few more 985 01:07:03,040 --> 01:07:06,520 Speaker 1: thoughts on today's Strawberry Letters, talking about the Strawberry Letter 986 01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:09,280 Speaker 1: and the different this old frat bro keep coming over 987 01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:11,360 Speaker 1: his house and the lady don't want it. You don't 988 01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:13,400 Speaker 1: want old people at your house, like I was telling 989 01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:17,880 Speaker 1: you phone, old people different, Like Tom said something on 990 01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:22,800 Speaker 1: the commercial break. Old people get up really yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah? 991 01:07:30,240 --> 01:07:35,720 Speaker 1: What are you doing? Yo? Room tea? Y'all got sweeten low, 992 01:07:36,640 --> 01:07:40,920 Speaker 1: sweet low. Don't tell nobody you sweeten load anymore. That's 993 01:07:40,960 --> 01:07:45,280 Speaker 1: all I using sweeten low, sweet and low. Ain't you 994 01:07:45,440 --> 01:07:48,000 Speaker 1: hit about to cancel with no rat? Dog? I ain't 995 01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:55,840 Speaker 1: no rat. I'm a dog. Bro bro Brook, quick quick, 996 01:07:55,920 --> 01:08:04,800 Speaker 1: barking head. Yeah. Grandkids is upstairs and they scared. You 997 01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,920 Speaker 1: come home. He's an old lass sitting up there. He 998 01:08:08,080 --> 01:08:10,200 Speaker 1: don't know how to work the thermit stack that he 999 01:08:10,320 --> 01:08:12,640 Speaker 1: got it hot his head in the house. You come 1000 01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:14,720 Speaker 1: in the house. He's sitting there there watching TV. He 1001 01:08:14,760 --> 01:08:25,000 Speaker 1: ain't got no shirts you got and he's sitting up 1002 01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:29,320 Speaker 1: in there with no shut your wife, come out to kitchen. 1003 01:08:30,280 --> 01:08:33,280 Speaker 1: Is he in hot? Man? I don't know what happened 1004 01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:42,120 Speaker 1: that thermitstack. He's scaring the grandkids. Dog you quit ball, 1005 01:08:44,160 --> 01:08:50,280 Speaker 1: make it stun, make it stuck man. Yeah, you all here, Tommy, Tommy, 1006 01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:52,120 Speaker 1: boys all up in the ain't man, You ain't got 1007 01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:56,920 Speaker 1: no kings around here where we can do. That's when 1008 01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:02,080 Speaker 1: I break something in my house and body. When they 1009 01:09:02,120 --> 01:09:06,559 Speaker 1: throw the can they drop it. Yeah, I've got kids. Man, 1010 01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:12,479 Speaker 1: come on, no, wow, I love you, but don't come 1011 01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:18,280 Speaker 1: in here. I love it. I'm not with that everything 1012 01:09:18,360 --> 01:09:25,559 Speaker 1: he got to love. Yeah, kid, you got some sweet loaf. 1013 01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:36,439 Speaker 1: You ain't on the standing dog the dog. But is 1014 01:09:36,479 --> 01:09:40,599 Speaker 1: this every time every time he addresses you stick it's 1015 01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:46,760 Speaker 1: the bark dog. It could be it could be too much. 1016 01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:54,400 Speaker 1: Just in my house, it's Steve me do it will 1017 01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:57,120 Speaker 1: set out a hot like a man hot. No more, 1018 01:09:57,960 --> 01:10:02,760 Speaker 1: Oh my god, don't t that sweeten load would never 1019 01:10:02,960 --> 01:10:08,559 Speaker 1: get on my nerves. Got man, I've been through all 1020 01:10:08,600 --> 01:10:11,920 Speaker 1: the cabines. Y'all got none them all right, Steve, got 1021 01:10:12,360 --> 01:10:14,800 Speaker 1: you sweeten load. We gotta get out of here more 1022 01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:17,240 Speaker 1: in your vacation when we come back right after this. 1023 01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:24,120 Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right, Steve. So let's get 1024 01:10:24,160 --> 01:10:27,080 Speaker 1: back into this vacation. Now, this journey we're going on 1025 01:10:27,200 --> 01:10:30,040 Speaker 1: your living your best life vacation. We've gone to Venice, 1026 01:10:30,120 --> 01:10:33,719 Speaker 1: down to Croatia, Montenegro. Yeah. I wasn't going to discuss 1027 01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:36,960 Speaker 1: my vacation, but I decided, like I said at the 1028 01:10:37,040 --> 01:10:39,680 Speaker 1: top of my vacation, that I wanted to share just 1029 01:10:39,920 --> 01:10:43,040 Speaker 1: some things with people on my Instagram and Facebook and Twitter, 1030 01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:47,200 Speaker 1: just to expose people who want to see other parts 1031 01:10:47,240 --> 01:10:51,040 Speaker 1: of the world. It's just people who aspired to travel 1032 01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:54,880 Speaker 1: to some places outside of America sometimes just to see. 1033 01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:59,479 Speaker 1: And I decided not to let Hayda stop me because 1034 01:10:59,720 --> 01:11:02,439 Speaker 1: they got the wrong viewpoint on it. I'm not showing off. 1035 01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:06,120 Speaker 1: It's just the life that God then gave me. But 1036 01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:09,200 Speaker 1: it also is the life that God can provide for 1037 01:11:09,320 --> 01:11:16,800 Speaker 1: anybody who has a difference. Have to go to Montenegro. 1038 01:11:17,520 --> 01:11:21,240 Speaker 1: You can go see Colorado Springs, you can go see 1039 01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:24,920 Speaker 1: the Smoky Mountains. You can go see the Grand Canyon, 1040 01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,479 Speaker 1: you can go see Niagara Falls. You don't have to 1041 01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:31,040 Speaker 1: come this far you to see how wonderful God is. 1042 01:11:31,600 --> 01:11:33,840 Speaker 1: God is everywhere. It's a beautiful place you haven't seen. 1043 01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:36,680 Speaker 1: So I'm just trying to expire and inspire people with 1044 01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:39,640 Speaker 1: some of my posts. I mentioned God quite often in 1045 01:11:39,840 --> 01:11:48,000 Speaker 1: a lot of my posts. Post yeah stop After Montenegro 1046 01:11:48,280 --> 01:11:54,240 Speaker 1: was Greece. The beautiful thing about Greece. We were on 1047 01:11:54,320 --> 01:11:56,519 Speaker 1: the western coast of Greece. He was a beautiful thing 1048 01:11:56,560 --> 01:11:59,799 Speaker 1: about it. A friend of mine who is not famous, 1049 01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:05,200 Speaker 1: who you all don't know, was on a yacht with 1050 01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:09,120 Speaker 1: his family and he was texting and he said, man, 1051 01:12:09,200 --> 01:12:10,920 Speaker 1: I know you said you were gonna be out here. 1052 01:12:11,000 --> 01:12:14,240 Speaker 1: Where are you And at the time I was still 1053 01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:17,479 Speaker 1: in Croatia. He told me where it was, and but 1054 01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:20,439 Speaker 1: it was too far away, and I said, man, don't 1055 01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:21,880 Speaker 1: look like we're gonna be able to see each other 1056 01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:25,360 Speaker 1: because we're too far away. On water is not as 1057 01:12:25,439 --> 01:12:29,640 Speaker 1: simple as driving, because you got to think of a 1058 01:12:29,760 --> 01:12:36,160 Speaker 1: boat going fifteen to seventeen knots, which is a round 1059 01:12:36,280 --> 01:12:40,880 Speaker 1: about the same in terms of miles per hour. Look 1060 01:12:40,960 --> 01:12:43,040 Speaker 1: that up for me. So if you're you're on a 1061 01:12:43,080 --> 01:12:47,400 Speaker 1: boat going fifteen knots, let's say the average speed is 1062 01:12:47,439 --> 01:12:52,360 Speaker 1: fifteen knots on a big boat. You got you know, 1063 01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:55,439 Speaker 1: in terms of miles per hour, that's a little bit different. 1064 01:12:55,840 --> 01:12:59,880 Speaker 1: So we decided we were too far away, and then 1065 01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:04,800 Speaker 1: he ran into some bad weather where he was excuse me, Steve, 1066 01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:09,439 Speaker 1: this is fifteen knatzas seventeen miles part. Yeah, yeah, that's it, 1067 01:13:09,960 --> 01:13:13,439 Speaker 1: that's what he said, exactly right, Okay, so fifth, so 1068 01:13:13,960 --> 01:13:16,840 Speaker 1: we just looked it up. Fifteen knatzas about seventeen miles 1069 01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:20,559 Speaker 1: per hour. So traveling on water is very slow compared 1070 01:13:20,640 --> 01:13:23,000 Speaker 1: to land. You know, if you were driving a car 1071 01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:25,639 Speaker 1: seventeen miles per hour, you would be sick. You'd never 1072 01:13:25,720 --> 01:13:32,880 Speaker 1: get any faster. Yeah, yeah, in a boat. That is 1073 01:13:34,680 --> 01:13:38,320 Speaker 1: between traveling on boat and on water. It's a straight line. 1074 01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:41,240 Speaker 1: You ain't got to go around no curves, and ain't 1075 01:13:41,280 --> 01:13:44,280 Speaker 1: no lights, and there is no traffic jam, so it's 1076 01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:46,400 Speaker 1: just a steady ride. So we couldn't see each other. 1077 01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:48,479 Speaker 1: Then he ran up into some bad weather and a 1078 01:13:48,640 --> 01:13:51,120 Speaker 1: captain took his family out of the weather and guided 1079 01:13:51,160 --> 01:13:55,280 Speaker 1: him around it, and so we ended up meeting up 1080 01:13:56,400 --> 01:13:59,879 Speaker 1: after I left Montenegro on the western coast of Africa, 1081 01:14:00,720 --> 01:14:03,960 Speaker 1: and a little to my surprise, we pull into port 1082 01:14:04,080 --> 01:14:07,200 Speaker 1: at the exact same time. I'm thinking as him and 1083 01:14:07,320 --> 01:14:11,000 Speaker 1: his family on board, we laughing, talking, waving at each other. 1084 01:14:11,479 --> 01:14:15,880 Speaker 1: They pull up, He's got a wonderful boat. We boath 1085 01:14:15,920 --> 01:14:19,080 Speaker 1: sitting there realizing and up on deck, I realized it's 1086 01:14:19,160 --> 01:14:23,880 Speaker 1: not his son, but it's my boy, Jerome Bettis, whoa 1087 01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:29,040 Speaker 1: Pittsburgh Stealers. He was a guest on this other guy's boat. 1088 01:14:30,080 --> 01:14:36,800 Speaker 1: And man, better say what's up? Man? Hell no? And 1089 01:14:37,000 --> 01:14:40,519 Speaker 1: man it was crazy. So the wives got together. We 1090 01:14:40,680 --> 01:14:44,679 Speaker 1: got together. Man, we had dinner on the boats and Greece. 1091 01:14:45,040 --> 01:14:47,679 Speaker 1: We had a wonderful time. Then we went together to Abate. 1092 01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:50,560 Speaker 1: They did some water sports and stuff. They did not me, 1093 01:14:51,120 --> 01:14:54,360 Speaker 1: they did, all right, I put my foot in on 1094 01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:58,600 Speaker 1: the back of that. All right. Coming up, more stories 1095 01:14:59,120 --> 01:15:02,360 Speaker 1: from Steve's incredible vacation trip and more of the Steve 1096 01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:04,680 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. 1097 01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:12,000 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to show Well Junior a 1098 01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:15,080 Speaker 1: little bit more on helmet gate, the Raiders wide receiver 1099 01:15:15,160 --> 01:15:19,280 Speaker 1: Antonio Brown helmet and gate gets weirder. What's happening? Yeah, 1100 01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:23,800 Speaker 1: you ain't heard about this? Oh man, Oh my god, 1101 01:15:23,840 --> 01:15:28,920 Speaker 1: Antonio Brown, I can't keep talking about this. What helmet 1102 01:15:29,000 --> 01:15:33,040 Speaker 1: do you want? Making twenty something million dollars year? What 1103 01:15:33,360 --> 01:15:36,560 Speaker 1: mold do you want? Okay? So Antonio Brown seven for 1104 01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:39,519 Speaker 1: the Oakland Raiders. He filed agreements to where his old 1105 01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:42,240 Speaker 1: helmet that was denied by the NFL earlier last week. 1106 01:15:42,479 --> 01:15:46,240 Speaker 1: Then Antonio found an updated version of the helmet, and 1107 01:15:46,360 --> 01:15:49,080 Speaker 1: he thought he was good, but now he would not 1108 01:15:49,200 --> 01:15:52,240 Speaker 1: be permitted to wear that helmet after it failed the 1109 01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:56,120 Speaker 1: NFL's safety testing. So what damn helmet do you want? 1110 01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:02,759 Speaker 1: Pick one? They'll make it. Start going on, get anything, 1111 01:16:03,200 --> 01:16:06,640 Speaker 1: get something on your head, a tail, A can't go, 1112 01:16:07,040 --> 01:16:10,040 Speaker 1: get something and get your ass out here and catch 1113 01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:13,000 Speaker 1: this ball. We're sick of time to talking about this 1114 01:16:13,160 --> 01:16:16,800 Speaker 1: damn helmet. And don't even matter what hat you wear. Hey, 1115 01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:19,040 Speaker 1: I'm Steve. Got plenty of halts here. Let you go, 1116 01:16:19,800 --> 01:16:22,840 Speaker 1: but get your ass on. Defend. You make too much 1117 01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,840 Speaker 1: money to be compared about the hat. What do you want? 1118 01:16:27,680 --> 01:16:34,960 Speaker 1: You get your marching band hat? Put put that out there, Steve, 1119 01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:37,679 Speaker 1: don't let him get He goes about the second talking 1120 01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:41,720 Speaker 1: about his hat. Juli twenty million. I don't give a 1121 01:16:41,800 --> 01:16:46,599 Speaker 1: damn it. They give me a stock and cat. So wait, 1122 01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:53,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Stevens back, everybody coming up right 1123 01:16:53,120 --> 01:16:58,639 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, Steve, first day 1124 01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:02,840 Speaker 1: back fresh off vacation. Uh, you know you've told us 1125 01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:05,400 Speaker 1: where you started. You started in Venice, then you went 1126 01:17:05,479 --> 01:17:09,680 Speaker 1: on up to Croatia. Then you were telling us about Montenegro. 1127 01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:13,840 Speaker 1: Now tell us about Montena. Venice and I went down 1128 01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:18,960 Speaker 1: the coast of Croatia. Okay down next you look on 1129 01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:23,120 Speaker 1: my Instagram. In Croatia, I stopped at a muscle farm 1130 01:17:23,280 --> 01:17:28,040 Speaker 1: and an yster farm and muscle and orschards and washed 1131 01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:33,400 Speaker 1: them myself and talk trash. So after that went to 1132 01:17:33,520 --> 01:17:37,599 Speaker 1: the first time ever to this place called Montenegro, and um, 1133 01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:41,200 Speaker 1: you gotta be careful as a black person, cause you 1134 01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:44,200 Speaker 1: know they're being at that black and you know you'll 1135 01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:50,240 Speaker 1: be you're gonna be paying one a little tight. They'd 1136 01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:52,320 Speaker 1: be saying that real fast, and you'd be walking in 1137 01:17:52,880 --> 01:18:00,479 Speaker 1: its nego that go another Negro, another Negro, but then 1138 01:18:00,600 --> 01:18:03,680 Speaker 1: then be saying welcome to Monte Nigo. And then you know, 1139 01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:07,240 Speaker 1: so you have to be careful. But anyway, Uh, Dubai 1140 01:18:07,439 --> 01:18:10,639 Speaker 1: owns this port. It's two ports in Montenegro. It's where 1141 01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:14,280 Speaker 1: the cruise ships dock. And then it's some more upscale 1142 01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:19,040 Speaker 1: port on the other side of the bay. So you 1143 01:18:19,120 --> 01:18:23,519 Speaker 1: go around the corner. It's more some great food over there. 1144 01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:28,000 Speaker 1: Lots of shops, lots of souvenir shops. Uh they had, 1145 01:18:29,439 --> 01:18:33,400 Speaker 1: but they had a Louis vertime bags on potato chip racks. 1146 01:18:34,439 --> 01:18:40,120 Speaker 1: Huh were they They had realiver time bags on potato 1147 01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:44,040 Speaker 1: chip racks. You know how you clip potato chips on, 1148 01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:46,559 Speaker 1: you just scratch off. You can shop for a Louis 1149 01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:50,240 Speaker 1: vertime bag like that, and it was seventy five percent 1150 01:18:50,320 --> 01:18:59,760 Speaker 1: off what we didn't have seen Louis Vaton on sale. Dog, Dog, 1151 01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:04,160 Speaker 1: then wasn't real a case of them though, Dog, you 1152 01:19:04,240 --> 01:19:10,680 Speaker 1: could have flipped them when you got back. Then they 1153 01:19:10,760 --> 01:19:16,680 Speaker 1: had a ap watch, a Rolex and and a huge 1154 01:19:16,720 --> 01:19:19,400 Speaker 1: blow in the window, all of them in the same box. 1155 01:19:20,000 --> 01:19:22,479 Speaker 1: But then they had a fake Gucci and New York 1156 01:19:22,600 --> 01:19:31,280 Speaker 1: Yankee had combined. I said, what, So we go around 1157 01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:34,880 Speaker 1: the corner to this other port and Dubai owns it 1158 01:19:35,040 --> 01:19:37,799 Speaker 1: and it is completely different. It's one of my favorite 1159 01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:44,320 Speaker 1: places now. It was stunningly clean, very very nice to see. 1160 01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:50,320 Speaker 1: The views were exquisite, and the places was just real, real, 1161 01:19:50,560 --> 01:19:53,519 Speaker 1: real nice. And it's not even completely built up yet, 1162 01:19:53,720 --> 01:19:56,760 Speaker 1: but it's gonna be one of the hot spots. All right, 1163 01:19:57,160 --> 01:19:59,800 Speaker 1: coming up, our last break of the day, and then 1164 01:20:00,200 --> 01:20:04,680 Speaker 1: get some closing remarks from Steve Harvey, back from vacation 1165 01:20:05,040 --> 01:20:08,880 Speaker 1: live and living his best life, coming up at forty 1166 01:20:08,960 --> 01:20:11,759 Speaker 1: nine minutes after the hour, right after this. You're listening, 1167 01:20:14,479 --> 01:20:16,640 Speaker 1: all right, Steve. Here we are our last break of 1168 01:20:16,800 --> 01:20:19,120 Speaker 1: the day, your first day back at work. How you 1169 01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:21,639 Speaker 1: feel it's good to have you back? You sound good? 1170 01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:25,120 Speaker 1: It's really really good to be back. You know. It 1171 01:20:25,240 --> 01:20:31,400 Speaker 1: was amazing this vacation because for the first time in 1172 01:20:31,600 --> 01:20:36,679 Speaker 1: my life, I've started a journal. Was started my journal 1173 01:20:37,200 --> 01:20:40,360 Speaker 1: on the first day that I was out on my 1174 01:20:40,520 --> 01:20:45,080 Speaker 1: vacation on the boat, because it's always been a spiritual 1175 01:20:45,160 --> 01:20:50,120 Speaker 1: experience for me to take my yearly trip on the boat, 1176 01:20:50,240 --> 01:20:54,080 Speaker 1: because I worked so many hours a day and so 1177 01:20:54,240 --> 01:20:57,479 Speaker 1: many different things that I do that when I'm out 1178 01:20:57,520 --> 01:21:00,880 Speaker 1: on the boat, it's a spiritual thing for me. And 1179 01:21:01,479 --> 01:21:04,639 Speaker 1: the reason it's so spiritual is because I discovered something 1180 01:21:05,439 --> 01:21:08,240 Speaker 1: I was sitting on back deck one day, and when 1181 01:21:08,280 --> 01:21:12,320 Speaker 1: you look out on the ocean, there are long stretches 1182 01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:16,680 Speaker 1: of time where you don't even see another boat or 1183 01:21:17,400 --> 01:21:20,679 Speaker 1: and you see no one. So when you don't see 1184 01:21:21,000 --> 01:21:24,320 Speaker 1: people and all you can see is water as far 1185 01:21:24,439 --> 01:21:27,400 Speaker 1: as your eye can see, and sky and clouds and 1186 01:21:27,640 --> 01:21:32,800 Speaker 1: sunlight or cloud cover or rain or rainbows, the only 1187 01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:36,519 Speaker 1: thing out there is God, and so you become very 1188 01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:41,240 Speaker 1: connected to God because the reason there's no devil out 1189 01:21:41,280 --> 01:21:43,360 Speaker 1: there is because there's no people out there that the 1190 01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:47,519 Speaker 1: devil can affect. So it's a very spiritual thing to 1191 01:21:47,640 --> 01:21:50,719 Speaker 1: be out there, and that's why I take this vacation 1192 01:21:50,840 --> 01:21:53,960 Speaker 1: every year. It's a cleansing time for me. It's a 1193 01:21:54,120 --> 01:21:57,720 Speaker 1: replenishing time, it's a repairing time, it's a healing time. 1194 01:21:57,800 --> 01:22:01,600 Speaker 1: But this time was different from all the times. This 1195 01:22:01,880 --> 01:22:06,880 Speaker 1: time I was changed and God changed me. And I'm 1196 01:22:06,960 --> 01:22:12,400 Speaker 1: not afraid to say it. He changed me because he 1197 01:22:12,680 --> 01:22:19,519 Speaker 1: changed my motivation for being successful. You know, there's a 1198 01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:26,040 Speaker 1: scripture and I'm gonna try to remember it. I think 1199 01:22:26,120 --> 01:22:31,200 Speaker 1: it's James four and three. I think it's James four 1200 01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:36,200 Speaker 1: and three. And in this scripture it says something to 1201 01:22:36,320 --> 01:22:38,880 Speaker 1: the effect and I hope I got it right. If not, 1202 01:22:39,040 --> 01:22:41,640 Speaker 1: don't hold it against me. But it says to the 1203 01:22:41,800 --> 01:22:48,559 Speaker 1: fact you ask and you receive, not because you ask 1204 01:22:48,840 --> 01:22:52,080 Speaker 1: a miss. And so of course I had to look 1205 01:22:52,160 --> 01:22:54,560 Speaker 1: up the word or miss because I don't know what 1206 01:22:54,680 --> 01:22:58,000 Speaker 1: it means. And what I found out it meant was 1207 01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:01,560 Speaker 1: when you ask God for something and you keep not 1208 01:23:01,760 --> 01:23:04,920 Speaker 1: receiving it, it's because you ask or miss means you 1209 01:23:05,160 --> 01:23:09,360 Speaker 1: asking it with the wrong motivation. And so what it 1210 01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:12,519 Speaker 1: calls me to do was, and I'm saying this to 1211 01:23:12,600 --> 01:23:14,800 Speaker 1: everybody as a lesson, you might want to consider this. 1212 01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:18,840 Speaker 1: What it caused me to do is everything I was 1213 01:23:18,960 --> 01:23:21,840 Speaker 1: asking God for I wanted to write down the reason 1214 01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:25,360 Speaker 1: why I wanted to acquire it so bad. Now I 1215 01:23:25,479 --> 01:23:28,320 Speaker 1: had some good reasons in there, you know, Like you know, 1216 01:23:28,320 --> 01:23:30,360 Speaker 1: I want to change some people's lives. I want to 1217 01:23:30,360 --> 01:23:33,439 Speaker 1: send more kids' college. I want to you know, change 1218 01:23:33,520 --> 01:23:36,639 Speaker 1: some boys lives. I want to expand my mirror and camp. 1219 01:23:37,040 --> 01:23:40,200 Speaker 1: I want to you know, be more philanthropic. I want 1220 01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:43,559 Speaker 1: to change the way some people drink water they live 1221 01:23:43,640 --> 01:23:45,800 Speaker 1: in Africa. I had a lot of that in there, 1222 01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:49,880 Speaker 1: but sprinkled in there being honest. I also had stuff 1223 01:23:49,920 --> 01:23:54,680 Speaker 1: in there, like I want to prove them wrong. I 1224 01:23:54,800 --> 01:23:58,519 Speaker 1: want to flex on it. I want to show them 1225 01:23:59,080 --> 01:24:04,920 Speaker 1: what God and do. I want to prove all of 1226 01:24:05,040 --> 01:24:07,960 Speaker 1: what they're saying about me to be wrong. I want 1227 01:24:08,000 --> 01:24:11,599 Speaker 1: to shut the haters up. And when I was honest 1228 01:24:11,720 --> 01:24:13,920 Speaker 1: and I wrote this down just being honest, this is 1229 01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:16,400 Speaker 1: just me and God talking. Now. I didn't even know 1230 01:24:16,439 --> 01:24:18,160 Speaker 1: I was gonna share this with y'all, but I'm doing 1231 01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,640 Speaker 1: it because I want you to understand the change that 1232 01:24:20,760 --> 01:24:23,800 Speaker 1: I had. Because sometimes you ask and you receive, not 1233 01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:27,920 Speaker 1: because you ask a miss. Sometimes your motivation for wanting 1234 01:24:27,960 --> 01:24:30,679 Speaker 1: it is wrong. And I had to learn by reading 1235 01:24:30,720 --> 01:24:33,240 Speaker 1: the scripture on the boat that what I was asking for, 1236 01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:35,040 Speaker 1: even though I had a lot of good stuff in there, 1237 01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:37,559 Speaker 1: if I was honest about it, some of the stuff 1238 01:24:37,680 --> 01:24:39,680 Speaker 1: was wrong. And the reason he don't give it to 1239 01:24:39,800 --> 01:24:43,160 Speaker 1: you is because of lustful things. And lust don't mean 1240 01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:47,080 Speaker 1: just flesh. Sometimes lust is just things you want. You 1241 01:24:47,160 --> 01:24:49,200 Speaker 1: want to flex on them. I want to prove and wrong. 1242 01:24:49,320 --> 01:24:51,600 Speaker 1: I want to shut them up. That ain't not That 1243 01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:55,400 Speaker 1: should not be your motivation. See you think it's motivation, 1244 01:24:55,680 --> 01:24:59,639 Speaker 1: But you can't get a positive result with a negative 1245 01:25:00,080 --> 01:25:03,679 Speaker 1: put so negatively, I want to shut people up or negative. 1246 01:25:03,760 --> 01:25:06,160 Speaker 1: I want to prove them wrong or negative. I want 1247 01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:08,799 Speaker 1: a flex on them, but I want a positive outcome. 1248 01:25:09,160 --> 01:25:12,879 Speaker 1: So I was delaying my blessings by doing that. Sometimes 1249 01:25:13,240 --> 01:25:17,160 Speaker 1: as blessed as I am, I still was delaying some blessings. 1250 01:25:17,600 --> 01:25:20,439 Speaker 1: So I wrote a new list, and I took all 1251 01:25:20,720 --> 01:25:25,000 Speaker 1: of the lustful, fleshly stuff out, like flexing, proven wrong, 1252 01:25:25,400 --> 01:25:28,920 Speaker 1: shut them haters up. I'll show them. Now you think 1253 01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:31,400 Speaker 1: I ain't this, You ain't thinking that? Now what y'all think? 1254 01:25:31,560 --> 01:25:35,320 Speaker 1: I took all that out and it cleaned up my motivation, 1255 01:25:36,040 --> 01:25:40,240 Speaker 1: And now my motivation purely became. What I'm supposed to 1256 01:25:40,360 --> 01:25:47,200 Speaker 1: do is enlighten, to share, to encourage, to motivate other people. 1257 01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:52,519 Speaker 1: The other stuff I shouldn't even that ain't even in 1258 01:25:52,640 --> 01:25:55,760 Speaker 1: my mix. I don't I don't care. I don't care 1259 01:25:55,960 --> 01:26:00,240 Speaker 1: what you say, what and how you feel and whether 1260 01:26:00,280 --> 01:26:03,200 Speaker 1: you see if I was right or not. I changed 1261 01:26:03,280 --> 01:26:08,520 Speaker 1: my motivation. When you change your motivation, it changes the results. 1262 01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:11,400 Speaker 1: God will open up the windows of heaven like they 1263 01:26:11,479 --> 01:26:13,760 Speaker 1: saying part of blessing that you won't have room enough 1264 01:26:13,840 --> 01:26:17,200 Speaker 1: to receive. And that's exactly what it started happening immediately 1265 01:26:17,280 --> 01:26:20,280 Speaker 1: because God is right now. God. It don't take God 1266 01:26:20,400 --> 01:26:23,080 Speaker 1: all day to bless you. When God waved, his finger 1267 01:26:23,280 --> 01:26:25,439 Speaker 1: is waved, and ain't nothing nobody can do about it. 1268 01:26:25,600 --> 01:26:27,360 Speaker 1: And I just wanted to share that peace with you 1269 01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:29,600 Speaker 1: in case you kind of been like me and that 1270 01:26:29,720 --> 01:26:32,040 Speaker 1: might have been blocking some of your blessings. You feel me. 1271 01:26:32,400 --> 01:26:36,200 Speaker 1: That's my clothing remarks today, And I got plenty more 1272 01:26:36,280 --> 01:26:43,439 Speaker 1: where that comfort. Man, it's on the floe. You better 1273 01:26:43,560 --> 01:27:03,280 Speaker 1: get better, boy. Hey y'all have a great weekend for all. 1274 01:27:03,360 --> 01:27:07,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey contests no purchase necessary, void where prohibited participants 1275 01:27:07,120 --> 01:27:10,000 Speaker 1: must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1276 01:27:10,120 --> 01:27:14,400 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM 1277 01:27:14,520 --> 01:27:18,040 Speaker 1: dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.